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From the Editor We live in a selfie world – some would say it’s a selfish one. Long gone are the days where photos where only taken occasionally, and you had no way of knowing what you would look like until you had the paper copies in hand. Today, we document anything and everything, and we have completely changed the way we see and define ourselves - some may even argue that the constant stream of selfies has made us more selfish and self-conscious. But I also think there is an element of self-celebration and even self-love to be cherished here. I mean, just think about how well you know your angles, so you’re not devastated about the way you look, like those times when you got the photos back from the pharmacy, and you thought you looked awful. At least today, you can always do a retake. In this issue I give you a few of my favorite things (all to look your best for that selfie), I talk to celebrity makeup artist Nat Brown about makeup for men, and Chris Azzopardi talked to Imagine Dragon’s Dan Reynolds about the LGBTQ festival LoveLoud’s third year.
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The Peach Cover Model At the beginning of May, Peach facilitated a massive photo shoot where the talented LaRue Caillet shot almost 20 local guys for the cover of Peach – because why not use the incredible resources of hot Atlantan guys for the most pickedup and consistent weekly guide to gay Atlanta? José Vilchez was Peach of the Week in January 2019, and his handsome smile and incredible body immediately made him a candidate for the cover model shoot. José has been in Atlanta since 2015 where he currently works at the airport. He enjoys listening to music, going out with friends on weekends to dinners, movies, and dancing. He also loves traveling with his husband and explore new cultures and meet new friends. As you can tell, José is dedicated to keeping himself in peak physical condition, and besides eating right, he goes to the gym 5-6 days a week – something that speaks to his life motto of everything is possible with effort, commitment, and with God as your greatest support. Catch more of LaRue’s amazing photography on Instagram @laruec_photography, and follow José Vilchez @jhosep7788.
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FILMING WITH AN LGBTQ FOCUS By Mikkel Hyldebrandt
Keith Bailey works in the film and television industry as an SFX artist, still photographer and screenwriter. Together with his business partner Eli Logue, who is also a local actress and stunt performer, they started Fairylight Studios Inc. which is the first LGBTQ- owned and operated film production company in the USA that produces both scripted and unscripted television series and films. Peach caught up with Keith to talk about the importance of having an LGBTQ voice in the current entertainment landscape. Why is it important to have an LGBTQ-owned and -focused production company? Having an LGBT owned production company is crucial because even though Hollywood and the film industry have a reputation for being liberal, they really aren’t when it comes to hiring and protecting LGBT employees. Most open members of our community can’t get work. Some have even received death threats for coming out in the industry. You have to be pretty famous already to come out as LGBT and not have it impact your career. Of the many projects Fairylight Studios are working on, several have already been greenlit for production or a pilot – what are they? Currently, we have three reality-based programs greenlighted for production. Queer Across America, which explores LGBT life across the country and has visited Atlanta once before. Beautiful N Bizarre is a review of the world’s most beautiful and most unusual Bed and Breakfasts; and finally, Out There which is an LGBT paranormal investigation program. We also have a scripted Vampire Series that is in pre-production. Which one project are you particularly excited about? All my projects excite me, or I wouldn’t be doing them. If I have to pick a favorite, it would be Queer Across America because we get to educate people about the LGBT community and show that there is more to us than sex, parties, and bars. 12 | 07.03.19
Georgia’s thriving movie and TV industry is being challenged with continued legislative attacks on the LGBTQ community and an extremely restrictive abortion law possibly being signed into law. How does this affect the movie industry now and in the future? Georgia’s bigotry laws and anti-abortion laws make filming here more difficult. There is a wave of actors and actresses actively boycotting productions in the state, as well as a growing number of highly skilled crew members. No amount of tax incentives is going to counteract not being able to get top names or skilled crews. Film will leave the state if it continues on this path, and as North Carolina found out, the film industry dollars and the jobs they provide have a huge impact on the state economy. Do you have any upcoming shows/projects you can share with us? Yes, we have some more things slated for production over the next few years. On the reality TV front, we have The Royal Treatment, which is a whole new kind of drag competition. Geeks on the Go which travels to the world’s largest Science Fiction, Fantasy, and Fandom conventions, and Model Americans that give men and women who work in life-saving or life-changing jobs the chance to launch a modeling career. In scripted work we have the before mentioned Vampire Series, an LGBT version of Cheers called Bar Flies, and we are in talks to possibly produce a Sense 8 spinoff. When and where can we see a Fairylight Studios production? It will be late in 2020 before the first of our shows can be seen. Most of them will be available on Prime Video. I’m pretty proud of the fact that we are one of the few companies that have been given that opportunity. Anything you’d like to add? In October Queer Across America will be in Atlanta filming for Pride. So, if you see us running around town, be sure to say hello. Who knows you might just wind up getting your 15 minutes of fame.
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MY FAVORITE THINGS
Ready for my close-up By Mikkel Hyldebrandt
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We live in a selfie world where any given moment can become a post on social media. These are a few my favorite things that each in their own way gives me a little boost of confidence – and get me ready for a selfie too ;-)
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I’m not really concerned about aging, but rather about looking ‘refreshed,’ so the new Aquagold micro-infusion facial treatment is perfect: 24-carat gold needles deliver product relatively painless into the dermis of the skin. I went for botox, which diminishes pores and evens skin tone on the dermis level (not muscle). No recovery time except for skin redness, and the result looks and feels great. Aquagold Micro-Infusion Facial, $450-550, beflawlessatlanta.com
A fragrance can set a mood and make you feel like a million bucks. I’ve been obsessed with Byredo’s Bal d’Afrique since I went to Denmark and the bath products at the hotel were scented with this. Byredo Bal d’Afrique Eau de Parfum, $260, byredo.com
I am hooked on the night cream from Geologie - a personalized, subscription-based, and nofuss skincare regimen. You put together your routine from full regimen to individual products, set up a plan, and have products delivered. So easy, and your skin will love it. Geologie Repairing Night Cream (pricing per regimen), geologie.com
This works as a moisturizing primer, goes on invisible and gives you a nice even skin tone with a new glow – just as the tube says! Charlotte Tilbury Unisex Healthy Glow, $40, charlottetilbury.com
I’ve used this on photo shoots on any skin tone and type, and it really does give you a perfect airbrushed look – ready for that hi-def selfie! Youngblood Hi-Definition Hydrating Mineral Perfecting Powder, $40, ybskin.com
No, I won’t be that bitch at the bar with a selfie halo light on my phone – but I’d love to see if it actually works! E.l.f Glow On the Go Selfie Light, $12, elfcosmetics.com
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Through laughter, tears and every emotion in-between, Summer Shorts explores the colorfully rich spectrum of the queer experience. Through a series of short plays and monologues, and performed as part of Out Front Theatre Company’s Young Professional Performers Series, Summer Shorts promises to enliven, enlighten and entertain in the summertime heat!
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MAKING UP THE MAN By Mikkel Hyldebrandt
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Let’s talk makeup for men. Not like what you would see on RuPaul’s Drag Race, but rather the skin-perfecting, feature-enhancing kind that women embrace daily. Peach asked celebrity makeup artist Nat Brown on how to enhance your look without being obvious (which is what all good makeup is about). Tell us what the bare minimum is for having good-looking skin? I personally have very problematic skin. So, I started by drinking lots of water and reducing my sugar intake. I also have discovered this great skincare from Dr. Dennis Gross based out of New York. I wash every morning with the Alpha Beta pore perfecting cleansing gel, followed by the Alpha Beta Universal Daily Peel, and finish off with the Alpha Beta exfoliating moisturizer. Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta Pore Perfecting Cleansing Gel, $38 Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta Universal Daily Peel, $88 Dr. Dennis Gross Alpha Beta Exfoliating Moisturizer, $68 What are the skin concerns men have that could be eliminated with a bit of makeup? The most common skin concerns that makeup can address is uneven skin tone and dark circles. Can you take us through three steps to makeup for men? The three most essential steps for men would be: 1. Make sure that you moisturize your skin. 2. Start with a great concealer to cover any blemishes or dark circles under your eyes. 3. Have a pressed powder to reduce shine, and it also can make your face appear smoother. What should men be aware of when it comes to makeup? Don’t be scared of it. That there are a lot more men than they know that wear makeup to address issues they may have. What are the three products that men should get for a good (and invisible) makeup? My three current favorite products when grooming men are: Dr. Dennis Gross Hyaluronic Marine Dew It Right Eye Gel ($48) - it will help reduce puffiness, fine lines, and dark circles. Nars Radiant Creamy Concealer ($30) - it’s super easy to use and looks extremely natural, and there are so many shades you can find your exact match. Mario Badescu Facial Spray with rose and aloe ($7) - Not only does it smell amazing but, it will help you throughout the day to give your you, your skin, and your makeup a pick-me-up. 16 | 07.03.19
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By Chris Azzopardi Photos courtesy of LoveLoud Festival Imagine Dragons frontman Dan Reynolds’ devotion to LGBTQ issues – chief among them: mitigating queer-youth suicide rates – has only escalated in the years since he founded the first LoveLoud Festival Powered by AT&T in 2017. Look no further than the Billboard Music Awards in May, when Reynolds chose to use his brief onstage moment while accepting the top rock prize with his band to bring public awareness to the troubling prevalence of conversion therapy. On June 29 at USANA Amphitheatre in Salt Lake City, the 31-year-old musician will once again put his global rock-star clout to good use, returning to the stage for the third annual LoveLoud Festival with event co-organizer Tegan Quin, one half of openly lesbian indie-pop twin duo Tegan and Sara. Last year, Reynolds raised over $1 million for LGBTQ charities, including The Trevor Project, GLAAD, HRC, the Tegan and Sara Foundation, Encircle and GLAAD, among others. This year’s one-day event includes a headlining performance from Kesha, who will perform alongside Reynolds, Tegan and Sara, Daya, Grouplove, K. Flay, Laura Jane Grace, and more. During a recent call, Quin and Reynolds spoke about the festival’s evolution (more LGBTQ artists … and rainbow buses?!), how Reynolds has set a new bar for straight white men, and hoping to get Beyoncé on the bill. Tegan, what does it mean to you that a straight white man, particularly now when the straight white man is not the most popular person in the room, is standing up for us? Tegan Quin: (Laughs) Honestly, it’s why I’m involved with LoveLoud, because the first conversation I had with Dan, I was just like, “Oh, this is the bar, this is not just where straight, white, cis men should be but where all of our allies should be.” And at this point, it’s fair that we should just all care. Here’s the thing: there’s really, really easy ways to show up and care as an ally. We did it before we started a foundation. We just donate a dollar from every ticket sold to something that matters to us. 18 | 07.03.19
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I think that Dan is an incredible ally and he’s the new bar, and when he gets up every single time it bewilders and moves me and I’m just like, I can’t believe this! Every time he performs on television in a Tegan and Sara Foundation shirt (laughs) I have a giggle because most people don’t know what the shirts says, but Dan is on national television broadcasting a mission about supporting LGBTQ women and girls and fighting for economic justice and health and representation for an incredibly marginalized group of people in society. I think that it’s absolutely wonderful, because for the people who know what he’s doing it says to them, “I care.” And we should care. And I’m so moved that he cares. I hate that in 2019 I even have to ask a question like this, but Dan, being a straight white male ally, do you think you’re able to reach people that an out lesbian female artist such as Tegan may not? Dan Reynolds: Yeah, I think it would be ridiculous to not recognize the privilege that I’ve been given as exactly that: a straight white man. Our LGBTQ artists are just starting to come up on the scene and they’ve been there for a long time. In fact, they probably are more of a backbone in the arts community than a straight white man, but a straight white man is given a stronger voice because of privilege and that’s it. Further marginalized are LGBTQ women, especially those of color. So we have a long way to go, absolutely. But sadly, it is going to take those who are privileged to speak up because some people are only going to be hearing them, and that’s the sad truth and it sucks. But the only way to change it is for all hands to be on deck. Having done this now for three years, do you find you’re reaching the people that you have intended to reach? Reynolds: Yeah, I think we’ve reached a small margin of the people we want to reach but, certainly, we’re starting to get there. A big part of this year and last year was AT&T live streams the whole concert, so people really, all across the globe, can watch. Because this is way more prevalent than just Utah. Really, there are hundreds of cities that need LoveLoud desperately. We started in Utah because the number one reason for death among teenagers there is suicide and LGBTQ 20 | 07.03.19
youth are seven times more likely to take their life when they’re not accepted in the home or their community, but that statistic is really prevalent all over the place and Utah just happened to be a place that I grew up in, and I understood the community to some regard, especially the religious community that exists there. So, this has been kind of a learning process for the last three years and we absolutely want to grow and expand and move to other places and raise more money and put on these celebratory events in as many places as we can. Anybody can watch the livestream. Is there anyone specifically that you think should tune in? Quin: What was cool about when I got involved with LoveLoud was to hear Dan and the whole team who’ve been involved since the beginning talk about their dreams for what LoveLoud will become, and obviously AT&T is allowing them to live that dream. I think the people who need to watch the stream are the same people who need to come to the show, which is just all of the community that surrounds LGBTQ people, whether you are completely understanding, or OK with it or not, it’s a great place to start that conversation. To see the power and to see the positivity, I hope a lot of young people watch the stream and feel good about themselves and see themselves represented. I know for myself, personally as a young queer person, I did not see myself represented. In the ’90s the closest representation I had were the few women who were out, like k.d. lang and Melissa Etheridge, who were amazing, but they were decades older than me. Representation is important, and Dan and LoveLoud and all of us on the board are trying really hard to find representation of everyone so LGBTQ people see themselves and feel good. What are some next steps the music industry can take in combating homophobia in the industry? Reynolds: I think affording more opportunities for LGBTQ artists. One of the rad things that Tegan was just telling me she’s doing right now: They’re finishing their record and it’s all produced and engineered by women, which is super rare. And it’s not for lack of women trying; it’s not for lack
of women producers. It’s just because people don’t afford them the same opportunities. And especially for LGBTQ songwriters, they’ve been around for a long time but just finally are they being recognized. One of my dear friends is Justin Tranter, who now is being recognized as an incredible songwriter and yet way before he was songwriting for his own band, Semi Precious Weapons, he just wasn’t afforded the same popularity because he was asked to be less queer by so many people time after time. I can just say that absolutely affording more opportunities for our LGBTQ community would be a great start.
lot of that following is families, which is exactly who we wanted to affect. We wanted this dinnertable conversation to destigmatize. So long story short: It started with the band, it launched off the shoulders of the band, and now we’re moving it toward where it should be, which is primarily focused on LGBTQ artists, affording them more opportunities, affording them a stage in front of tens of thousands of people. Between our lineup, between our speakers, it’s a very LGBTQfocused lineup and I think on top of that it’s all hands on deck, so we also have some really great mainstream artists who are allies.
Tegan, do you feel like we have to stifle our queerness… you, not we... ha, I’m not in the music industry. But do you feel you or other LGBTQ artists have to stifle their sexuality to get a leg up in the music business? Quin: No, actually, I think you should say “we.” I think as queer people, of course we have to stifle who we are no matter where we work. My experience is not singular; it’s not mine, it’s ours. We all feel it. I know tons of women in the music business who are not out at work, which is wild to me. But the music business is like every business: men are at the top. And generally, it’s straight men, and if they’re gay men that doesn’t necessarily fare any better for us as women (laughs). Yeah, I think we do have to stifle a part of who we are, our personhood, and I think Dan’s right (about) providing more opportunities for LGBTQ women. Clearly, obviously, all LGBTQ people need that space but for women specifically in the industry that would be incredible. But it’s a double-edged sword. You don’t just want to be known as a queer producer or a queer songwriter. And so we all face this sort of question of, “How much do we make that a part of who we are?”
What’s the future of LoveLoud? Reynolds: That it’s everywhere. I want it to be such a household name that it becomes boring so that this becomes destigmatized so people can stop talking about it as an issue. That’s the main goal at the end of the day: for this to be destigmatized so that LGBTQ kids can just be kids and that’s it. I think that’s the goal, and to do that we take it into every city and every home. I want everyone talking about this, I want conservative-religious parents to sit down and have to talk about this with their kids because the kids say, “I want to go to this concert,” and they say, “What is it? What does that mean?” and have the conversation and that starts the destigmatization process.
More LGBTQ artists are on this year’s bill than during the festival’s first and second year. Can you talk about how queer inclusion in the festival has changed, why that has changed and if there was any pressure to be more LGBTQinclusive? Reynolds: The answer is: yes, yes and yes (laughs). As far as the artists and speakers: this has been a learning project for me. I knew in the beginning that my heart was in this and it was in it because it affected people around me. It was my friends growing up who were Mormon and queer and watching the struggles that they had with that and the acceptance they weren’t receiving at home, and then meeting my wife who’s a fierce activist (who was) living with her two best friends who are LGBTQ and all of them dressing up in wedding dresses and wanting to go handcuff themselves to the Federal Building during Prop 8. So I married a woman who also ignited what was already there for me and who is also the roaring fire behind LoveLoud. So every straight white man needs to marry your wife. Reynolds: Yes. But hell no. I got there first! (Laughs) My long answer is that I came into this as, you’re right, a privileged straight white man saying, “Hey, let me help,” and the only thing I knew to help with was my band, Imagine Dragons; it has a big platform and a big following and a
If you could pick a dream artist or speaker to appear at the festival, who would it be? Quin: For me, personally, I feel like I walk a fine line because I think it would be cool if Madonna came, if Pink did it; I think it could be an amazing thing if Katy Perry came and did it. I think having women like that who have been incredible allies to the community would be so powerful. Beyoncé and Jay-Z, when they got their GLAAD award, I was like, “They should come to LoveLoud!” They would be amazing. But I think Dan just pointed out something really important, which is that often when LGBTQ events happen our allies get the stage and it’s often the LGBTQ artists who don’t get asked to play. And so, I don’t know. There’s a fucking amazing crop of young LGBTQ people: I’d love to have King Princess, I’d love to have Shura, I’d love to have Janelle Monae. Reynolds: I’d love to have Frank Ocean. I’m just putting these names out just to get the offer out there. I’d love to have Lizzo. There’s a lot of artists, both queer and not. And like I said, I think it’s all hands on deck. We need everyone, because this is a global issue. Quin: Every year we’re just gonna keep adding to the list, and Dan’s quite ambitious about what he wants to do and I’m along for the ride. Reynolds: And rainbow tour buses rolling across the U.S.! Quin: Rainbow tour buses! I’m into it. --
As editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBTQ wire service, Chris Azzopardi has interviewed a multitude of superstars, including Cher, Meryl Streep, Mariah Carey and Beyoncé. His work has also appeared in GQ, Vanity Fair and Billboard. Reach him via Twitter @ chrisazzopardi. peachATL.com | 21
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The Human Rights Campaign invites you to our fourth annual tennis social, Serving for Equality! Players of all skill levels are encouraged to participate in this fun doubles event. Don’t have a doubles partner? We will pair you up with other players and you can make some new friends along the way. Not a tennis player? That’s okay! Join us as a spectator. Players and spectators will enjoy food, cocktails, music, a photo booth, a silent auction and more!
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WORLD UNITED RUN & FOR EQUITY INCLUSIVENESS 5K We are pleased to announce the first annual World United Run for Equity & Inclusiveness 5K. Our Atlanta 5K is just one in a series of World United Events around the World focusing on equity and inclusiveness and encouraging the graceful acceptance of diversity. Events are in the planning now in Bengaluru, India and Fort Walton Beach, Florida. A concept of Oneness & Equity in our City and in the World is encouraged. Companies with Diversity and Inclusiveness Departments or Divisions are asked to register as a Team. Teams with the largest number of participants will receive special awards. We welcome all to join us in this run/ walk held in the spirit of equity and inclusiveness. Let’s join together and graciously respect diversity and others who are different than ourselves. Sign up now at www.active.com and participate in the World United Run for Equity & Inclusiveness, promoting equity and inclusiveness for all.
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Distance: 5K Date: August 10, 2019, 8:00 a.m. Location: Atlanta, GA - Piedmont Park
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Born and raised in South Georgia, Dallas escaped to Oregon for 13 years before returning to Atlanta. He enjoys being back in the South surrounded by charm and so much positive queer energy. He is also building a successful massage practice where he focuses his energy on creating a safe space for gays and queers to seek out healing. You’ll often find him in and around Grant Park with his four-legged bestie, Hazel. Other things he loves about Atlanta is anything Deep South does, the general politeness, the lushness of the city, and its diversity.
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Should Bathroom Selfies Spell Doom for a Date? By Kevin Assam Photo: Ludomil
Nude photoshoots. Selfish eaters. And approaching widowed scruff daddies! Both selfies and selfishness feature prominently in this latest absurd relationship column. Should bathroom mirror profile selfies instantly spell death for prospective dates? The horror of that reflected flash! There’s something unseemly about spotting a toilet in the corner of the first photo you see of a potential partner. Now, if you’re going straight for a hookup, it shouldn’t matter as much. Unless their bathroom appears in such a disarray — spilled bottles of Rogaine, a clutter of toothbrushes that spell too many flings or roommates, unscrewed tubes of toothpaste — that you won’t even want to shower there. Far less for romping in their likely stained and unmade bed. My boyfriend wants to eat the caramelized top off my crème brûlée. He should order his own or just buy a dick shaped lollipop on the way home! Am I right or am I right? You’re right! As long as you’re aware that a strong argument can be made that a dick shaped lollipop is pretty much just an actual dick. Consider this. I would much rather try sharing than keto as a way to keep my love handles from graduating into love parachutes. How long should I wait before approaching a recently widowed scruff daddy about a potential date? I plan on being respectful but direct in that I’ve always admired his doughy body and piercing soul from afar. Eek! Let’s go with six months? I have no idea. That’s an incredibly subjective timeline tied to one’s emotional, physical, and even financial state. I will say that you should not feel unscrupulous for approaching him. Death happens. People grieve. People do not always want to come home to an empty house filled with reminders of someone we can no longer embrace. If you truly feel this passionate — not merely the growing itch of a years long waited fling — then I cannot fault you for possibly approaching him even sooner. If he reacts adversely though, you have to gently apologize and back off for some time before bringing this up again. My lezzie friend has invited me to attend the local lesbian Sunday meetup that involves hot dogs, potlucks, real estate discussions, and watching sports. I would likely be the only male. Is it ok to attend? I hear a lot of chatter about there being far more men only events than women only ones. Whether they are simple get togethers or headliner parties at major locations. But time and time again, I observed that “allinclusive” events tend to be more enjoyable. It seems like this local Hot Dog Church has discovered the same. 32 | 07.03.19
You have to assume your lesbian did her homework and checked with the group first to avoid unnecessary drama. Still, you should tag along and go make some new friends. This is on her if any angry glares occur. Tap into their network if you’re single and inquire about any prospects. Never underestimate the connections of lesbians. Far reaching. There’s a bear daddy I’ve just connected with on Scruff who is bombarding my phone with messages asking “Are you available?” and “Can we meet up?” before I can even get my morning coffee in. Jeez! I’m talking five or seven consecutive messages in the span of two minutes! He’s attractive but this is psycho behavior. Is it rude to ignore? Nope. You’re never available again. As far as he needs to know, you died yesterday. As a sober individual I feel increasingly compelled to carry an alcohol substitute when I’m out at a bar or event — cranberry juice with soda that looks like a cranberry vodka or fruit punch that looks like, well, fruit punch. You know, to help blend in. Should I just ditch the fake booze and open myself up to people asking why I’m not drinking? Fake drinks can help. However, if someone asks what you’re drinking you still have to decide if you’re going to say what it really is or lie. If you lie, then they will have the impression that you drink alcohol and will innocently foist shots upon you. People respect people who are sober. The steps to sobriety are not easy. Try ditching the pseudo-liquer next time. It’ll free up both hands to give someone the finger if they take issue with you not drinking. I was gifted a certificate for a nude photoshoot while at a bar after I told a bunch of fan clackers to shut it. I have never done a shoot like this. Should I inquire about an exchange or just dive right in? A tasteful nude photoshoot with or without props is going to be an invaluable treasure to hold on to ten years down the line when all those packs of smokes have weathered your body like the Key West summer sun. Obviously for safety reasons you should research the studio and photographer to ensure this was not printed overnight by an overzealous voyeur. Otherwise, have fun! The photographer will not be judging you — at least out loud. Their job will be to shower you with praise as you move from one scantily position to the next.
Selfie Awareness Have you ever stopped to relish in the beauty of a perfect selfie? Or stopped a complete stranger in the streets so they can help you take a selfie of your own, only to be disappointed by their complete disregard of who you think you are? I mean, you’re YOU, right? You’re not just some other person walking! As summer heat rises, many go running to the beach; a perfect selfie hotspot for anyone looking to getting their main income through social media crowdfunding. But taking that perfect, if not misleading, image is no easy task. I have met many people who have mastered the art of using thirst trap imagery (TTI) to get a sugar da- I mean followers who fund their daily lives, and their techniques are quite interesting.
One online friend, profile tag @ShitsyBitsySpider gained mass following status for posting her unique images. She chose to go the route of using a topic (or niche topic in her case) to get like-minded people to follow her in hopes that an image would go viral. The topic of her account was taking pictures of spiders pooping. When Instagram changed their policies on nudity standards, her account was taken down. The nudity being of course her body that the spiders pooped on. She took the most interesting selfies, and found that by having a niche to fit them into, online fame was inevitable. A social media rival of mine, who is secretly my real-life kink partner, uses his good physique to get followers. If you were to go to @Thirsting4Christ, you would see a library of images so homoerotic they’d make the Pope blush! He found that people who visit social media the most love two things above all else: to be inspired by some quote or someone’s success story, and of course porn. By combining the two, he’s made a large enough following that he now gets lucrative sponsorships to promote Noah’s Arc After Dark, a continuing series of adult films based on the stories from the Bible. He’s also become a lead in Christian conversions by having his ass cheeks visible behind famous religious quotes. Speaking of ass cheeks, a dear friend of mine, and insatiable power bottom @BootyMeetsWorld has amassed over a million followers through the use of Assies, or selfies for your butt. If you happen to realize you have a gift from god below the belt, the best thing you can do it show it off to the world so that flocks of people hit that “like” button vigorously. He has not paid for his underwear in over four years, and he wears the top brands. The beauty of Assies is that you can be anonymous if you have a regular job outside of social media! And you can branch off into other venues. My friend made a YouTube channel called Feeding the Asses and focuses on making large amounts of food when throwing a party. The art of selfies has come a long way since we first picked up a digital camera and stood facing away from the bathroom mirror to get the perfect photo for our online hookup. Now we can use selfies to get fulltime jobs, and become Influencers™. People mostly use them for good, or at least to show the world they are living their best life. In my case, I use my Instagram to post temporary stories of funny things so people think I’m approachable with a good sense of humor… I’m not. If you’re new to selfies, or just need to find a way to get more followers, I hope these examples serve you in some way.
Yours in following @ItsMitziP on Instagram,
Mitzi Pennington is the self-proclaimed sex symbol and advice-giving-guru alter ego of Mirza Muftic. She came from humble roots of middle America and married into money shortly after dropping out of college. Her late husband’s fortune allows her to travel the world and have a sense of enlightenment one normally gets from actually working for their money. Mirza has had none of those experiences in his life. On occasion, Mirza will perform as Mitzi around Atlanta. His other interests/day job include film editing, retouching, and stop-motion animation.
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TEN TRICKS FOR A PERFECT SELFIE
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Avoid shadows Don’t always use the flash
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Him: Why do you have a jock strap?
6 shows canceled in 6 months. That’s impressive!
Me: For sports
Him: What sports do you play?
Me: I’m very active! My dad bod is so on point these days that I’m surprised I didn’t get gifts for Father’s Day!
Him: What’s your sport called then?
Me: Gay sex
Dad Joke Alert Shout out to people wondering what the opposite of in is.
Not everyone will think I am good-looking, and that’s okay. They’re wrong though …
Asking for a friend How many more bingo nights does Atlanta need?
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IDK who needs to hear this right now, but if you’re going through a rough time LEAVE YOUR HAIR ALONE!
I hate when people tell me to stay strong. That’s a lot! Bitch, I can hardly stay awake!
SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 22 - DEC. 21) Building towards the future of a relationship takes more than looking at the big picture. Focus on the grand scheme of things today, but pay attention to the little details, as they are just as important. Achieving this balance should put you on the road to unlimited devotion.
CAPRICORN (DEC. 22 - JAN. 19) You may feel detached from your friends today, and you’ll wonder why they never call. But communication goes both ways, and perhaps you’re the one who isn’t good at staying in touch. Pick up the phone and call some of them today. They’ll be glad to hear from you after all this time.
CANCER (JUN. 21 - JUL. 22)
AQUARIUS (JAN. 20 - FEB. 18)
A profound session of illicit intimacy has you wanting more today, but you probably won’t get it. Such are the pitfalls of getting involved with someone who’s already involved. This will really drag you down today. It’s easy to advise you to get over it, but we all know how hard that can be.
An urge to feel socially useful will have you pitching in where you can today. Whether at an AIDS hospice or a homeless shelter, your selflessness will be welcome and much needed. The looks of sincere gratitude and thanks are all the reward you’ll need.
LEO (JUL. 23 - AUG. 22)
PISCES (FEB. 19 - MAR. 20)
Take a deeper look at some of your relationships today. You may be carrying a lot of excess baggage that’s weighing you down. Relinquish unneeded ties to the past, and jettison anyone who’s not adding anything positive to your life. You’ll be surprised at how much you throw away.
Don’t let others use you as a doormat today. Stand up for yourself and show them you’re stronger than they think. They may gain newfound respect for you, and you’ll never have to worry about having sand kicked in your face again.
VIRGO (AUG. 23 - SEP. 22)
ARIES (MAR. 21 - APR. 19)
The call of the wild may have you feeling restless today. So heed it! Head into the great outdoors -perhaps a long hike, playful swim or leisurely bike ride are in order? Pick something fun and frisky you can enjoy with a very special friend.
You’ll bustle about like a drag queen in a wig store, and then throw a hissy fit when no one pays waits on you in a timely manner. Keep a check on your aggressions today. Losing your temper won’t get you the things you want any faster, or have people paying attention to you.
LIBRA (SEP. 23 - OCT. 22)
TAURUS (APR. 20 - MAY 20)
Make yourself available to gentlemen suitors today. Accept all invitations to dinner, coffee, the movies or whatever public activities they suggest. But turn down offers to take things further. You’re a respectable gentleman after all, and you don’t jump into the sack with just any Tom, Dick or Harry.
You may hate it when your friends become successful, but it’s better to be happy for them than to resent them. Don’t let jealous feelings towards others derail your relationships today. Perhaps your envy is a manifestation of anger towards yourself for not doing as well as them.
SCORPIO (OCT. 23 - NOV. 21)
GEMINI (MAY 21 - JUN. 20)
Men will be mysteriously drawn to you today. They will stare at you and look you up and down in knowing ways. You’ll be flattered by all of this attention at first, until you realize that your fly is unzipped. How embarrassing is that?
Stop thinking only of yourself today and start doing things for others. There are hundreds of men in your own community who could use a helping hand, or just someone friendly who’ll have compassion for their plight. It doesn’t take much to help, just a little time and basic human understanding.
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By Mikkel Hyldebrandt Trouble in the love department? With sex? Or just people in general? Send us your queries, questions, and problems, and you’ll get answers served straight up and with a little ice.
have been together with my husband for quite am in the fortunate situation that I work from Ihave a while now, we have a toddler together, and we Ihome, and I love it, but there’s one catch: I jerk a pretty set and nice family life. Although our off a lot during the day. That probably sounds sex life is far from at its peak, we are open about our sexual desires and wishes. A couple of years ago, we also started opening up the relationship, and even though it has given us some renewed spark in the sex department, it has also led me to question our relationship somewhat. I find myself thinking about living by myself, being more sexually free, and just being less committed. I also tend to seek the connection with other guys rather than the mere physical aspects of it, so it’s like I’m searching for someone or something else. Am I using our open relationship to remove myself from the situation? Does this mean we should consider separation or maybe even divorce? Sincerely Relation-Quit
Dear Relation-Quit Looking around in your friends’ circle, are people generally monogamous in their relationship? Or do they have less traditional and more open ways of dealing with sexual desires and wishes? Especially in the gay community, it seems like the move is definitely towards the latter – and your relationship speaks to the same! You are fantasizing about less commitment and basically a single lifestyle, and that is just not possible in your situation since you are parenting a child together – that’s the epitome of commitment right there! That’s not to say that you can’t leave or even divorce your husband if you indeed do not love him anymore, but you have to be damn sure that that’s the case before you break up a happy home. Maybe what you are seeking is a little more adventure and spontaneity that do tend to get lost when raising a toddler, and since you have already opened up the relationship, there’s plenty of opportunities there! What you need to determine is if you are indeed trying to get out and are using the open relationship to find the next best thing, or if you’re just seeking a little extra spark. You have plenty of wiggle room to get precisely what you need with the latter.
great to a lot of guys, but the problem is that when my boyfriend comes over, I am not in the mood for sex, because I already got off multiple times during the day. I have really tried limiting it, but it is so easy to watch porn online and get off. I have also tried just edging, but at some point, I ejaculate by accident, and after edging for hours and hours, I really don’t feel like having sex. My boyfriend has been okay with it so far, but he is definitely starting to complain that we only have sex occasionally on weekends. How can I get better at not getting off all the time? Sincerely Day Jerker Dear Day Jerker You get off multiple times a day, and you just can’t hold it when you’re edging? It sounds to me you have absolutely no impulse control, and if you can’t refrain from getting off, so you can have sex with your boyfriend occasionally, maybe you shouldn’t be in a sexual relationship at all! But seriously, your problem is almost adolescent, and you need to be an adult about it and try – and really try! – to focus on your work without watching porn and jerking off. Maybe you have forgotten how nice it is to have sex with an actual person, so your current default is the instant gratification of masturbation. Talk to your boyfriend about it, explain that you want to break this cycle, so the two of you can have better (and more!) sex together. Maybe he can stop by in a lunch break before you rub one out, or you can even have phone sex together. Just don’t keep on undermining your sex life by doing this singlehandedly (see what I did there?).
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