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FOCUS ON FAMILY FEELINGS

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OURS 03

OURS 03

1. EVERYONE HAS NEEDS self -actualization needs esteem needs belongingness and love needs

1.1

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Personality status quo

My father wants simple and stable life. He does nothing at home, and he is often despised. He wants to be happier.

1.2 Needs at home

He likes the space with water and prefers the light to be bright. Joke

Everyone has their needs at home self -actualization needs esteem needs safety needs entertainment needs physiological needs physiological needs belongingness and love needs

What are the needs and personalities of my family?

I have known about their characteristics for 21 years, but I want to know more about their feelings.

I did some interviews about each of these five needs, and also showed them a lot of pictures, so that they could choose the pictures they like and give reasons.

The picture on the right is a collage I made from their favorite pictures.

Straight, low EQ Childish wants sunshine

Greed for pleasure

Mother has a desire to control. She thinks what she has at home is not equal to what she has paid for her family. She tries to have some hobby activities to divert her anger.

She is very enthusiastic.

HotHeaded Work talent Television Sleep well

Quick Learner friendly Art Lover

I'm sensitive, but I'm good at disguise.

I want a rebellious private space for me to let go of my disguise. I have a firm personal pursuit, which is my happiest thing.

I like colorful things.

Fiction Exercise Shopping Aromatherapy Neat

Creativity Designer Extraordinaire Love drinks Dress up Harmonious Computer talent Privacy Desire to perform Play game Television Listen to music Lively indoor environment Neat

Dad will get the respect and recognition of his family from his favorite photography. We all like to see him positive and full of energy.

3.THE DYNAMIC OF THE FAMILY HAS CHANGED

When I was a weak child, my parents took care of me, so they let more space for me. Now, I'm a responsible adult. I want to think about my parents as much as possible, so I want to make concessions in space.

n the past, when we put our needs on our families, we were always easily disappointed and dissatisfied. If we put our needs on ourselves and focus on self-realization, then everyone will be happy.

Mom can divert her attention by focusing on her favorite singing, and please herself to release her dissatisfaction.

Dad doesn't need much personal space because he often works outside and doesn't spend much time at home. But he needs more space to store things to give him a sense of belonging.

My mother used to worry about managing the family, but she sacrificed a lot of her own space. Mom stays the longest at home and needs the most personal space.

In the future, I am often away from home and don't need too much personal space. My room is open to them.

The current spatial distribution of family use

I want more space at home for me to focus on myself.

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