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SMU student (now alumna) Astrud Villareal helps with a construction project at the Urukundo Home for Children during a Embrey Human Rights Program trip to Rwanda.

Photo by Sherry Aikman.

A group of 20 SMU students, faculty and staff will be in Rwanda Aug. 3–13 to witness the deep emotional, physical and environmental scars of genocide while contributing to the African country’s recovery efforts.

After Rwanda’s 1994 civil war, in which as many as a million people were killed in 100 days, “history lives on,” says Rick Halperin, director of SMU’s Embrey Human Rights Program, the trip’s sponsor.

“The ethnic tensions that led to mass slaughter 18 years ago still reside below the surface. And while there’s no imminent danger of such ethnic violence reoccurring, Rwandan society is clearly struggling to heal.”

To contribute to the healing process, trip participants will give the Urukundo

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Women of a New Tribe is an exhibition created by North Carolina photographer Jerry Taliaferro, designed to honor the physical and spiritual beauty of the Black American woman, emphasizing her soulfulness – her spirit of hope, compassion, love and nobility.

Taliaferro presents his subjects in the dramatic, high-glamour style reminiscent of Hollywood photography from the 1930s and 1940s.

The photographs, which now consist of more than 200 images, explore different themes such as tribal beauty, portraiture and family relationships.

Mr. Taliaferro explains that the exhibition title was inspired by hearing author Toni Morrison refer to African Americans as “new world Africans” in an interview on National Public Radio.

This resonated with him as he believes that “African Americans are a new people born of the American experience.”

As Women of a New Tribe travels throughout the United States, each community hosting the exhibition is offered the option to have local women photographed and to have their portraits included in the core exhibition. As such, the Miami-Dade County Aviation Department community nominated women from the Department to participate in the project, and as a result, contribute to the growth and diversity of the exhibition.

Seventeen women were nominated by their peers, colleagues and/or supervisors and selected for inclusion based on a strong record of service to the Aviation Department, as well as community service and volunteerism.

Every one of these women fulfills a unique and vital role in the Department and within her community. Through this exhibition, the women are honored and recognized for their contributions to the workplace and their charitable service to the South Florida community.

Home for Children 200 pounds of school supplies donated by the SMU community, 250 pounds of books for children and young adults given by Half Price Books, and $2,000 worth of medical supplies provided in part by Project C.U.R.E., a Denver-based service group for which SMU student Hayley Wagner is a summer intern.

The SMU group also will visit genocide sites and meet with survivors.

For more details about trips sponsored by the Embrey Human Rights Program in SMU’s Dedman College of Humanities & Sciences, visit smu.edu/ humanrights or call 214-768-8347.

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I MESSENGER Cheryl Smith, Publisher Established 2011 IMESSENGER is a tribute to Le Messager, founded by Cameroonian journalist Pius Njawe and The Messenger, an independent magazine, founded by labor activist A . Philip Randolph and economist Chandler Owen.

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I received the note below in my inbox. It wasn’t the first note appealing to me for assistance. When I can I do.

When I can’t, I still share the information in hopes that someone will be able to assist. Here is the plea: I have a cry out to the community for help. I got a ca" #om a local minister, who put this lady in touch with me, let me know if you can help.

Story-here name is Judy Palmer, mother of 5 sma" kids, living on government assistance. She is in desperate need of the fo"owing:

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Hopefully someone will be able to reach out! Over the years I have seen some good and bad times. I have had folks assist me when I didn’t realize I was in need and thankfully I have been in a position to reciprocate.

There was a time when I gave not he street corners as I waited at stop signs.

Too often I gave to people who had more dollars on them than I did. And sadly some might have been scam artists.

Friends would admonish me, saying that I was helping that person finance their drug or alcohol habits. I was asked time and time again if I really thought the person was going to go purchase a two-piece or a six-pack.

Actually after the money departed my hands, it was no longer my issue. I had other things to worry about, instead of chasing a dollar that I had put in the hands of someone I felt needed it more than I. So, whatever happened next, well, it is what it is and not for me to ponder, or worry about.

Now Travis is reaching out and I hope that someone will answer the call. We must protect our children and we must make sure that Ms. Palmer has support so that she won’t give up.

Have you ever felt overwhelmed, as though the pressure was about to make you burst?

Well, I have a friend, actually a few, who have been the light at the end of a tunnel for so many other folks.

Those friends have stepped up and made a big difference by helping people to get over the “hump.” Now that “hump” is a monster. Some people don’t get over it. For others, just a little help and they can make it over.

Maybe you can be the light at the end of the tunnel. Maybe, just maybe you can help Ms. Palmer and her five children.

Who knows, one day, it may be your day.

In the meantime, and the between time, do something for someone else. Spread the love!

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PCC Introduces Clergy Leadership and Executive Coaching Sessions A New Tool for Enhancing Ministry

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It Has Begun! Legendary multi-platinum country artist Collin Raye tells everyone everywhere he goes, “Imaj is country’s next big star!” What makes Imaj such an amazing anomaly is that her mission has always been simply, “Peace & Love” — a movement that has been advocated since The Beatles, Johnny Cash, Janis Joplin and Michael Jackson…then along came Imaj to continue the Peace Movement.

What makes this so great is that Team Imaj has begun to expand her mission to not only spread world peace but to spread the awareness of Imaj and make the world a better place. You’ve heard the Breaking News: “IMAJ: Self-Titled Debut Album Set To Release This Summer/Fall!” We can’t wait for the release! And now…we’re joining hands nationwide. Join us at “Team Imaj” her official street team!

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TV One: One Vote Matters’ Coverage includes both party conventions and Election Night 2012 SILVER SPRING, MD, ― NBC News, a leading source of global news and information, and TV One, which entertains, informs and inspires Black adult viewers, are partnering to provide coverage of the 2012 presidential election with a unique perspective to best serve the needs of Black viewers.

This special coverage will include the final night of both the Republication National Convention and the Democratic National Convention, as well as the night of the presidential election.

All three nights of coverage will be branded under the TV One: One Vote Matters banner.

This agreement marks the first joint effort between the two organizations, as well as TV One’s premiere offering of national convention coverage.

The joint announcement was made

by TV One President and CEO Wonya Lucas and NBC News President Steve Capus.

As part of the partnership, TV One will air a four-hour broadcast on the final evening of the Republican

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(8:00pm-12:00am / ET, Thursday, August 30th) and Democratic (8:00pm-12:00am / ET, Thursday, September 6th) conventions featuring TV One correspondent and veteran political reporters from NBC News and theGrio (www.TheGrio.com), NBC News’ video-centric news site devoted to stories and perspectives that appeal to the Black community.

NBC News’ Craig Melvin will anchor all three evenings of coverage from NBC’s Washington, DC studios and

TV One’s Washington Watch host Roland Martin will round out coverage with contributing segments and analysis.

Said Ms. Lucas, “By partnering with NBC News, TV One is keeping to its mission of continuing to raise the bar for the network by providing our viewers with programming that is informative and has a direct impact on their lives as well as those of their families.”

“This collaboration with TV One enables us to directly serve the Black community during this important election season— extending the reach of our journalism while tapping into TV One’s loyal viewership,” said Mr. Capus.

TV One’s convention coverage will include appearances by noted panelists speaking on the key issues, “Best of” moments, LIVE airings of candidate speeches, along with follow-up analysis of how the candidates fared.

TV One’s 2012 presidential election coverage will conclude with LIVE coverage on election night Tuesday, November 6 which begins at 7:00pm / ET and will include the victory speech of

the newly-elected President of the United States of America.

Kim Bondy is executive producer and Kerri Forrest is senior producer for TV One’s election and convention coverage.

NABJ selects Boston for 2014 Convention City National Convention Visits New England Region for the First Time

WASHINGTON --The National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ) has announced the selection of Boston as the host city for its 2014 Convention and Career Fair, July 30- Aug. 3, 2014.

"NABJ is excited about going to Boston in 2014 for our 39th annual convention. It is a fabulous city with the right mixture of a prime location, hotel price, convention space and leisure activities to make a great convention for our members," said Gregory Lee Jr., NABJ President. "NABJ has never held a convention in Boston. We look forward to this convention and partnering with a city that celebrates culture and tradition."

In recent years, Boston has played host to other minority and journalism conventions, such as The National Urban League, Blacks in Government, the Online News Association, and the Asian American Journalists Association.

"We couldn't be more excited to welcome the National Association of Black Journalists and their attendees to the City of Boston," said James E. Rooney, executive director of the Massachusetts Convention Center Authority. "What better location to host NABJ than Boston, a city rich in journalism history and home to America's very first newspaper (The Boston News-Letter). 2014 can't come soon enough."

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the spirited and funky neighborhood squares of Cambridge-all within easy distance from one another.

Boston is a city steeped in African American history. Attendees will have the opportunity to visit such sites as the Black History Trail, which traces the events central to the African American population that lived there in the 19th century, and the African Meeting House, the oldest black church edifice still standing in the United States and also where Frederick Douglass delivered a

NABJ President Gregory Lee, Jr.

The city of Boston is home to more than 600,000 residents, prominent institutions of higher education, some of the world's best hospitals and numerous cultural and professional sports organizations and facilities, from the historic Faneuil Hall and Copley Square to the Garden and beloved Fenway Park.

Boston is also home to great seafood, designer boutiques, eclectic galleries, and prestigious department stores.

Each of the city's neighborhoods has a remarkably different style and tone.

From the Back Bay's cosmopolitan streets and ornate Victorian townhouses to the aromas spilling into the 17thcentury streets of Boston's North End to

"The annual convention is always a great opportunity to connect with journalists across the country. We will work hard to ensure that NABJ has a enjoyable time when they visit Boston."

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hosts to the national convention. This is a great vote of confidence in our chapter and our city," said Gary Washburn, Chapter President and National NBA Writer for The Boston Globe. "The annual convention is always a great opportunity to connect with journalists across the country. We will work hard to ensure that NABJ has a enjoyable time when they visit Boston."

The largest annual gathering of journalists of color in the nation, the 2014 convention in Boston anticipates upwards of 3,000 journalists to be in attendance.

The convention annually attracts newsmakers such as Presidents Barack Obama, George W. Bush and Bill Clinton; Vice President Joe Biden; Secretaries of State Hillary Clinton, Colin Powell and Condoleezza Rice; and Sen. John Kerry.

NABJ will hold its 2013 convention in Orlando, Fla., and its 2015 Convention in Minneapolis.

seminal anti-slavery speech in 1860.

The city has also served as home to Governor Deval Patrick, Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., as well as noted activist and scholars Malcolm X, W.E.B. DuBois, Min. Louis Farrakhan, Henry Louis Gates and others.

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Leadership Principle By Aaron Hopkins

As I began to reflect on this vast subject of leadership and how it is shown, I had to pause a moment and look at my own principles of leadership to ensure I’m not being hypocritical.

With that being said, I must give credit to Mrs. Shellye Jackson Lyons of The Lyons Group, LLC for asking me what leadership is and what it means. Mrs. Lyons is a Dallas metro area entrepreneur and business owner who provides business solutions -including marketing, media and advertising. Thank you again for your question, Mrs. Lyons!

I look at how my leadership in my home is unsuccessful at times and what the perspectives of my wife and children are when I fail. This exercise, to me, is a fundamental part of character building.

As a man I think in a way that sometimes is in direct conflict with my wife’s way of thinking, but the intentions are never meant to clash. I realized recently that to communicate with someone who is looking at you to be a leader is challenged by strong emotions that often cloud rational thinking.

Traditional values also come into play when it seems everyone can define what a leader should be but so few step up to assume a leadership position. So when I offend my wife by making a decision that she disagrees with it tends to make me less willing to be traditional in my leadership because I see a pattern of households falling victim to a dream concept. You know the “American Dream” a house with a white picket fence, a dog and perfect little children."

Well, here is the real deal. I know what my wife wants from me and what I want for her so as a man, and as her husband, I make decisions on how to get to the desired destination with the skills and knowledge that I have. The problem is that somebody forgot to remind us that this was a dream! One the biggest obstacles in reaching some of our goals in marriage is financing a dream on an unreal income!

I have come to understand that my leadership is short-circuited by a system that sucks the lifeblood out of me and leaves little to no substance for me to give my family a chance to depend on me as a leader.

However, I know I am not alone in this situation. I can see now more than ever that the family is under attack!

Money and the lack of it, is what is keeping good families at odds with one another. So this requires a type of leadership that is righteous at the core and uncompromising to the normal way of this capitalistic world.

Wives do realize that they are renting their husbands out to a system that cannot and will not allow them to be men and great providers. To provide for ourselves we must be able to do for self and stop being comfortable making everybody else rich as we drown in poverty. So leadership must come in the form of a man relying on God to restore his proper leadership role in the home and in society.

A man’s way of providing for his family used to mean making a good reputation of his family’s name so that he could obtain the necessities of life, without becoming financially bankrupt. The rich people of the world exploit the leadership of good men and women to keep themselves in positions of privilege and authority. So it is time to change leadership right? And I don’t mean the President of the United States!

Part three of the “leadership principle” next week!

Till then keep working on the leader within!

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Worrying about my Black boy’s future in America My husband and I fuss and fret over our black boy.

Like other parents, we worry about a lot. We want him to use his smarts for good. Do we coddle Allison Brown him too much? We want him to be tough and kind, but assertive and gentle, and not mean. His boundaries of independent exploration are radiating outward, concentric circles growing farther and farther from us. We wring our hands and pretend to look away in acknowledgment that he's ready to claim his freedom, even as we cast furtive glances his way. We're beginners in the worry department. He's only 9 years old.

Our angst certainly isn't unique among parents of black boys. What's unique for us and for other such parents is that when we peek inside the matrix, we panic. Agents out there are bearing down on our son bloodthirsty for his dignity, his humanity as if he were the one. We feel outnumbered, but we hunker down for battle.

This is not a paranoid conspiracy rant.

Recent data from the Office for Civil Rights in the U.S. Department of Education reveals that black boys are the most likely group of students to be suspended or expelled from school. Black men and boys are more likely than any demographic group to be targeted - hunted, really - and arrested by police.

Meanwhile, the number of black males taking advanced courses in elementary, middle and high schools and entering college remains disproportionately low. Suicide among black boys is increasing. Media imagery and indifference have locked black boys in their sights.

Prisons have become corporate behemoths with insatiable appetites for black and brown boys and men.

My husband and I rightfully agonize about our boy. We agonize alongside many who are working to help, including the federal government. I know firsthand the work that the federal government has done and is doing to improve circumstances for black boys. This includes internal memos and meetings, interagency planning sessions, public conferences, community meetings and listening sessions, and now a White House initiative.

I also know that the federal government is accountable to numerous constituencies that sometimes have conflicting needs. Federal government

workers must walk a fine line among varying public interests, which occasionally has meant unintended consequences for black boys.

For instance, in 1994, the federal priority of "zero tolerance" for anyone bringing a weapon to school was signed into law as the Gun-Free Schools Act. That priority reached fever pitch after the Columbine school massacre in 1999 and subsequent copycat slayings and attempts to kill.

Federal requirements were overshadowed by local authorities and school administrators who stretched the parameters of "zero tolerance" in schools beyond logical measure to include, for instance, spoons as weapons and Tylenol as an illegal drug, and to suspend and expel students as a result.

"Zero tolerance" has entered the realm of the ridiculous. Many schools have removed teacher and administrator discretion and meted out harsh punishment for school uniform violations, schoolyard fights without injury and various undefined and indefinable categories of offense such as "defiance" and "disrespect."

Students are suspended, expelled and even arrested for such conduct without investigation or inquiry. There is no evidence to support use of exclusionary discipline practices as tools for prevention, and they have no educational benefit. The brunt of this insanity has fallen on black boys.

Recent federal priorities have targeted harassment and bullying in school to protect lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender students from peer-on-peer discrimination dismissed by, and in many cases encouraged by, school administration.

Again, understandable.

The goal is praiseworthy - to protect, finally, a population of students and segment of society that has long been a whipping post for every political party, ignored in political discussions except to condemn. While my husband and I have ardently supported federal protections for LGBT students, practically speaking, we continue to lose sleep over our black boy.

Another peek inside the matrix tells me that the fever pitch around this latest federal agenda item will mean a significant cost to black boys when new categories of offense are created, new ways to characterize them as criminals unworthy of participating in mainstream education or society.

It's one thing for educators to guide student conduct and educate students about

how to care for and respect one another, which is a primary focus of the federal move against harassment and bullying. It's quite another to change mindsets of adults who run the system, too many of whom believe and speak negatively about black boys and what they cannot accomplish or should not do.

To speak and think affirmatively, to affirm behavior and black boys as people, is to relish the silly jokes they tell within their context, to compliment them on their haircuts or groomed and styled dreadlocks and cornrows, to adopt lingo they create and add it to classroom repertoire, and to invite their fathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers, cousins to participate in the educational experience.

To support black boys is to celebrate their physical playfulness and the unique ways in which they may support and affirm one another. As with any other children, we must teach black boys through instruction and by example how to read and write, and how to conduct themselves without erasing their identity and attempting to substitute another. We must hone their instincts, whims and knowledge base so they can be empowered to exhibit all the good in themselves. We must be willing to show them our human frailties so they know how to get up and carry on after falling down.

Yes, these things can benefit all children, but many children receive them by default.

Black boys do not.

To love black boys is to refuse to be an agent of forces clamoring for their souls and instead to be their Morpheus, their god of dreams, to help them believe in their power to save all of us and to train them to step into their greatness. Those agents in the matrix are real. If everyone combines forces and uses common sense, we can declare victory for black boys and eventually all of us. But without a change in mindset, federal initiatives, no matter their good intentions or the incredible talents that give them life, will continue to leave black boys by the wayside as collateral damage.

My husband and I will continue to fret, knowing the formidable challenges our son faces. We hope that if he has a son, that boy can be just a boy.

Allison Brown is a former trial attorney for the U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Rights Division, Educational Opportunities Section. She is president of Allison Brown Consulting, which works with educators, students, families and other key stakeholders to improve the quality of education, especially for black boys. America's Wire is an independent, nonprofit news service run by the Maynard Institute for Journalism Education and funded by a grant from the W.K. Kellogg Foundation.

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Help! My Target gift card has gone missing.

The Target gift card Robert Brown ordered for his grandson is missing in action, and the store isn't saying when it will send the scrip. Can anyone help him find it?

QUESTION: I have a problem with Target that I’m hoping you can help me with. I have been waiting for an electronic gift card to be sent to my grandson for the last three weeks. I’ve made two phone calls and sent an email to Target, but they will not tell me when the card will arrive. I think there’s a serious problem.

Can you give me a name and phone number of a senior executive in customer service at Target? Or better yet, could you help me get that gift card?

Thank you. -Robert Brown Grand Haven, Mi. ANSWER: You ordered a Target e-GiftCard for your grandson, which is a basic gift card minus the plastic. You can find the terms and conditions of the card on Target’s site, which are pretty interesting, even if you’re just an average customer. Among the zingers: Regardless of the stated cash value of the card, it has a cash value is 1/10 of one cent.

I’d love to see someone try to redeem that!

I mention the terms because nowhere in them does Target guarantee it will sent a purchased e-GiftCard to a customer within a set amount of time. It could just pocket your money and send your grandson the certificate when he graduates from high school. Not that it would, but it could.

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Calling Target was a good first step, and following up with an email was even better. You need a paper trail because you may have to prove that you’ve done your best to fix a problem later on. The correspondence will prove it. Only Target records your phone calls -for “quality assurance” purposes, I’m sure.

Target’s advertising promises its e-GiftCard’s are a “faster” way of purchasing store credit, but not for you or your grandson. It’s unclear what caused the delay. It might have been a glitch in Target’s system or it’s possible that you gave the company an incorrect email address. Target wouldn’t say.

If emails sent through the Target website aren’t doing the trick, you might want to appeal this to an executive. I’d send a quick email to Kathryn Tesija, Target’s executive vice president of merchandising. I’m sure she’d be more than happy to help you. Her email address is Kathee.Tesija@target.com.

I contacted Target on your behalf and it issued a new gift card six hours later.

Consumer advocate Christopher Elliott answer your questions every week on this site and on his consumer advocacy blog. Email him with your questions at chris@elliott.org or like his Facebook page or follow him on Twitter.

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“We will have to repent in this generation not merely for the vitriolic words and actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence of the good people.” . Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? POLICE have not apprehended Pookie the serial rapist.

Aren’t you concerned? Do you care?

We know he has attacked members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and there is a $5,000 reward offered by Crime Stoppers.

If you have ANY information, PLEASE call Crime Stoppers

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My friends and I Unfortunately that is not crowded into the movie the case. Still we can theater on Main Street in celebrate what was in 1976.

East Orange, NJ, to watch A nice, feel good movie SPARKLE. that is as much fun to watch Since that time in 1976, it today as it was then. has been one of my favorite Interestingly, when the movies and I have a special soundtrack came out, many connection today because in my age group were not Malik Farrakhan, aka Tony thrilled at the idea that the King-- who played Satin Queen of Soul was the voice Struthers in the movie, is a of SPARKLE. Sure we loved long time friend. A member Aretha but we weren’t of Public Enemy, Malik is a identifying her as one of dynamic brother with a Malik Farrakhan, aka Tony King, aka Satin those three young ladies we heart of gold. Then too Struthers saw on the movie screen. there’s another special On a side note, the first time person in my heart--country western singing my niece saw the movie, about 16 years ago, I sensation IMAJ, whose dad is Philip Michael told her to look closely and she would see Thomas, who played the role of Stix. someone she knew. Finally I had to tell her I can remember getting with friends and that the Uncle Malik she knew, who had although we didn’t have a clue about what it babysat her, was Satin. took to give him something he could feel, we She became angry and said she didn’t had a good time imitating the sisters. like him anymore. I had to explain to Alayna So, when word began circulating, I was that he was just playing a role and that he excited at the prospect of seeing some of the wasn’t that woman-beating drug dealer she original cast in cameo roles. I also received saw on the screen! Malik got a big laugh word that some of the original cast members when I told him. He’s such a good guy. felt the same way.

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About SPARKLE 1976 A girl group experiences turmoil after one of their members turns to drugs and another achieves their desired fame all by herself. Three sisters (Sister and the Sisters) from Harlem become singers. Sister (Lonette McKee) becomes involved with drugs, while Sparkle (Irene Cara) ends up being the one who gets famous.

This film tells of how drugs ruin Sister's relationships and eventually end her life. It is also about the relationship between Sparkle and Stix (Philip Michael Thomas).

Director: Sam O'Steen Writers: Joel Schumacher, Howard Rosenman Philip Michael Thomas as Stix Irene Cara as Sparkle Williams Lonette McKee as Sister Williams Dwan Smith as Delores Williams Mary Alice as Effie Williams Dorian Harewood as Levi Brown Tony King as Satin Struthers Beatrice Winde as Mrs Waters Paul Lambert as Max Gerber Joyce Easton as Lee DeWayne Jessie as Ham Norma Miller as Doreen Gerber Talya Ferro as Miss Taylor Bob Delegall as Mr Daniels Armelia McQueen as Ann Don Bexley as Bubbles PAGE 12

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Choosing the right person!

Super Hollywood casting director Tracy "Twinkie" Byrd says that I am in for a pleasant treat when I see the remake of SPARKLE, featuring Jordin Sparks, the late Whitney Houston, Mike Epps, Derek Luke and a host of other recognizable names that are expected to garner huge numbers at the box office on August 17, actually a short 11 days after the birthday of Ms. Houston, who died earlier this year.

Ms. Houston’s appearances in The Bodyguard, The Preacher’s Wife and Waiting to Exhale translated into very Tracy "Twinkie" Byrd impressive numbers and the Jersey Girl was sure to be at all the junkets and press events for SPARKLE 2012.

I told Ms. Byrd that I would keep an open mind. Even though I can watch SPARKLE 1976 time and time again, I will wait and see what SPARKLE 2012 has to offer.

One character I was having a hard time visualizing was Mike Epps, in the role of Satin Struthers. One of the funniest guys on the circuit, I really took notice of Mike Epps in last year’s blockbuster, Jumping the Broom. I had never envisioned him as a sex symbol but according to Ms. Byrd, who was responsible for

casting several of the characters for SPARKLE 2012, Mr. Epps is on point and an exciting component of the movie.

“Just wait until you see it,” she said, as she talked about Ms. Houston’s stellar performance. “You are going to love it!”

Notorious, Stomp The Yard, Scandal, Avatar, and Jumping the Broom are some of the projects Ms. Byrd has worked on and she says it was especially exciting working on SPARKLE 2012.

Ms. Byrd said it was a pleasure working with the cast of SPARKLE 2012.

It was also an emotional time following the death of Ms. Houston, who plays the mother role in the movie.

SPARKLE 2012 has a strong buzz right now and industry insiders say they expect it to do well at the box office.

I’m excited about the project and looking forward to seeing the performances and seeing Ms. Houston’s last acting performance.

Ms. Byrd has a proven track record and a group of talented professionals were assembled, so “let’s roll em!”

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About SPARKLE 2012 Musical prodigy, Sparkle (Jordin Sparks) struggles to become a star while overcoming issues that are tearing her family apart. From an affluent Detroit area and daughter to a single mother (Whitney Houston), she tries to balance a new romance with music manager, Stix (Derek Luke) while dealing with the unexpected challenges her new life will bring as she and her two sisters (Carmen Ejogo and Tika Sumpter) strive to become a dynamic singing group during the Motown-era.

Directed by Salim Akil Screenplay by Mara Brock Akil Story by Joel Schumacher and Howard Rosenman Produced by Debra Martin Chase T.D. Jakes Salim Akil Mara Brock Akil Jordin Sparks as Sparkle Williams Whitney Houston as Emma Williams Derek Luke as Stix Carmen Ejogo as Sister Williams Tika Sumpter as Delores Williams Mike Epps as Satin Struthers Omari Hardwick as Levi Brown Brely Evans as Tune Ann Tamela Mann as Sarah Waters André DeJuan as Noah Terrell Michael Beach as Reverend Bryce Cee Lo Green as Black, the girls' opening act Curtis Armstrong as Larry PAGE 13

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Brittany Perry-Russell as Sparkle's Back-up Singer Sabrina Dungan as Record Store Patron Linda Boston as Sister Clora Tiffani Elise Edwards as Comedy Club Patron Sidi Henderson as Mr. Bell Mark Rademacher as Legend Manager Ron Heisler as County Coroner Steve Gast as Officer McKenzie Ralph H. Meyer as Coney Island Cook Stephanie Schaberg as Columbia Records Employee Debra Port as the Receptionist With An Attitude Erika Hoveland as Larry Robinson's Secretary Michael B. Clark as Officer Rapp Lynn Anderson as a Columbia Records Executive James Feaheny as a Columbia Records Executive Pam German as the Neighbor Gary Lee Simpson as the Lawyer DaJuan Rippy as the Driver Kristyn Shelley as a Bar patron Mozi Zhuli as a Columbia Employee Mikal as a Bar Patron Dalibor Stolevski as the TV Host Brandon L. Williams as the Military Officer at Church Mark Allan White as Taxi Driver 3 Arnold Agee as a Bar Patron Robert Forte Shannon III as Lee jr.

David Glahn as a Police Officer Krishawn Peace as a Feature Church Girl Julie Ariane Russell as a Comedy Club Patron

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IN MEMORIAM Saundra Smokes 1954-2012

Saundra Smokes was the the first person of color in the history of the Syracuse Newspapers to sit on the Herald-Journal's editorial board in 1985.

Ms. Smokes, 57, passed away at Crouse Hospital in Syracuse. The Syracuse Post Standard reports Smokes had battled diabetes for several years.

She collapsed in her Eastwood home Monday and was rushed to the hospital.

She died of cardiac arrest.

The Post Standard reports the service will be at 1 p.m. Saturday at Abundant Life Christian Center, 7000 All Nations Blvd., East Syracuse.

Post Standard columnist Sean Kirst wrote a touching tribute to his, "friend, teacher and inspiration. You can read Kirst's memorial here.

Ms. Smokes was named to the Syracuse Press Club Wall of Distinction. Her awards include the 1998 Urban League Harriet Tubman Award, the Ann Felton Memorial Award and Community Service Award from the Syracuse Chapter of the NAACP, Citizen of the Year from Omega Psi Phi fraternity at Syracuse University and many more. This past May, she began writing a guest column for The PostStandard, and in June started a weekly radio show on Power AM 620, “Saundra Smokes Speaks on Venus.” She last hosted the show the Saturday before her death.

Ms. Smokes was inducted onto the S y r a c u s e P r e s s C l u b ' s Wa l l o f Distinction, a permanent exhibit at the Civic Center.

Earlier this summer, Smokes started a radio program on WHEN Power 620 AM to feature women's views on politics, culture, business, race, religion, and relationships.

As word of her death traveled in Central New York, Congresswoman Ann Marie Buerkle (R) Onondaga, issued the following statement: “I am saddened to learn of the passing of Saundra Smokes. While I did not know her personally, I had the opportunity to be on Ms. Smokes’ radio show and often read her work.

Regardless of the topic, her work was thought provoking and interesting. She had a passion for her community that was evident in her writing and had a positive impact on so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with Ms. Smokes’ family and loved ones at this difficult time. She will be missed.”

George Harris

11am. Sometimes lunch would last until nearly dinner time. But no matter how late he stayed out George would always show up at 5am, ready to go.

He was unflappable on the air and was known as the best breaking news reporter in the Bay Area. When George was on the story, you didn't have to worry.

George had a number of health problems through the years. He was once hit by a car while walking home. I visited him often while he was in the hospital. He recovered. He had other problems that attacked his body but he never lost his spirit... or that voice. I will always remember that voice.

We talked before he retired and he said he wanted to keep working but he physically just couldn't do it anymore.

My heart goes out to Camille, Adrian and Isaiah. Your dad was the best!”

Aside from his radio career, Harris had also done stints in television news, at KING-TV in Seattle, and, for a time, at KRON 4.

Carl Davis

Longtime former KCBS Radio reporter George Harris, who spent 24 years at the station as a reporter and anchor until his retirement for health reasons in 201. Blogger Rich Lieberman posts that Mr. Harris, who lived in Hayward, died of kidney failure. He was 61. KCBS reporter and NABJ Vice President Bob Butler, who worked with Mr. Harris for many years, posted this tribute on his Facebook page: “I was the morning editor for several years when George was the morning reporter.

George and I would sometimes get together for "lunch" after getting off at

Carl Davis was the architect of what became known as “The Chicago Sound.”

The iconic music producer died Thursday morning at his home in Summerville, S.C. He was 77 years old.

Mr. Davis had been suffering from lung disease.

Mr. Davis started his career as one of the first African-American A&R Directors and produced numerous hit songs for the Columbia Records subsidiary Okeh Records. His first multimillion song was Gene Chandler’s 1962 smash “Duke of Earl.” His follow up production efforts inlcuded Jackie Wilson’s 1967 hit “(“Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher and Higher,” Major Lance’s “Monkey Time,” recorded in 1963 and the Chi-Lites 1972 ballad “Oh Girl.” Several years ago Mr. Davis was included in the History Makers, the nonprofit Chicago archive.

Mr. Davis and his wife Dedra Davis relocared from Chicago to South Carolina in 2009.

Funeral services are pending.

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Marvin Frederick Hamlisch June 2, 1944 - August 6, 2012

Marvin Hamlisch’s life in music is notable for its great versatility as well as substance.

As composer, Hamlisch has won virtually every major award that exists: three Oscars, four Grammys, four Emmys, a Tony and three Golden Globe awards.

For Broadway he has written the music for his groundbreaking show, A Chorus Line, which received the Pulitzer Prize as well as They’re Playing Our Song, The Goodbye Girl and Sweet Smell of Success.

He is the composer of more than forty motion picture scores including his Oscar-winning score and song for The Way We Were and his adaptation of Scott Joplin’s music for The Sting, for which he received a third Oscar.

His prolific output of scores for films include original compositions and/ or musical adaptations for Sophie’s Choice, Ordinary People, The Swimmer, Three Men and a Baby, Ice Castles, Take the Money and Run, Bananas, Save the Tiger, and his latest effort The Informant!, starring Matt Damon and directed by Steven Soderbergh.

Mr. Hamlisch was Musical Director and arranger of Barbra Streisand’s 1994 concert tour of the U.S. and England as well as of the television special, Barbra Streisand: The Concert (for which he received two of his Emmys)..

Hamlisch is a graduate of the Juilliard School of Music and Queens College (where he earned a Bachelor of Arts degree).

He believed in the power of music to bring people together.

RIP

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A Healthy You Dallas County Judge Clay Jenkins declares State of Emergency Judge Clay Jenkins has declared a Public Health Emergency in Dallas County due to the West Nile Virus epidemic. In his capacity as the Director of Homeland Security and Emergency Management (OHSEM), Judge Jenkins instructed the department to file a Local Disaster Declaration with the state. A resource request will be made to other regional jurisdictions to provide assistance in the county’s efforts to stem the spread of the virus.

Judge Jenkins said, “This declaration will expand our avenues for assistance in our ongoing battle with West Nile Virus. We are in constant communication with Zachary Thompson our state and regional DCHHS Director partners. We will continue to make data and research driven decisions in seeking to supplement the outstanding work of Dallas County’s director of Health and Human Services (DCHHS) Zachary Thompson.

“The work of Commissioner David Lakey and the Texas Department of State Health Services (DSHS) has been exceptional. While we are busy doing everything we can to keep residents well informed and as protected as possible, we need your help.”

The public is urged to do its part against the virus by following the 4-D’s: FIGHT THE BITES DEET – use insect repellents that contain DEET, or any other EPA approved insect repellent

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Mary Sue Cole, R.D., L.D.

County Extension Agent-Family and Consumer Sciences

Hunt County 903-455-9885 m-cole@tamu.edu

Q. Everyday I see new commercials on TV and advertisements for a new and “different” way to lose weight. In fact, I have tried a few of them myself. Is there a secret to weight loss, and keeping the weight off?

A. Billions of dollars are made every year because people hope that the latest fad or craze is the secret that they just haven’t tried yet! There is no secret to losing weight, but there is a principle.

The principle is to eat less calories than you use. For every 3500 calories you consume that you don’t need, your body will store a pound of fat.

How much you weigh has to do with how much energy, or calories you consume. It has little or nothing to do with how nourished you are.

Any time that you make a change in what you have been eating, i.e., eating less calories, you are going to lose weight.

The method doesn’t really matter. It may be a low carbohydrate

diet, a high fiber diet, a gluten free diet, the cabbage diet, the grapefruit diet, or any one of the thousands of “diets” that have been promoted over the years.

The key is sticking to whatever plan you have put yourself on. Fortunately, most people cannot comply with drastic dietary patterns that would be harmful to your body if you stayed on them very long.

Additionally some of these “miracle” plans are so boring that you simply don’t want to eat anything!

Research bears that out: a smaller variety of food will help you eat smaller portions.

There are healthy principles of weight loss and you don’t have to buy the latest book or order the latest TV plan. 1) make small dietary changes that you are willing to keep over a period of time; 2) eat smaller portions; 3) eat healthy snacks; 4)prepare food with less oil or fat; 5) eat “mindfully”, meaning don’t multitask when you are eating your meals; 6) increase physical activity by doing something you like to do, and are physically able to stay with.

This plan will “let” you eat the foods you like to eat, individualize your meal plan, and over a reasonable period of time will pay off dividends in pounds lost.

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Indeed, any food can be contaminated with bacteria and, thereby, become a source of bacterial contamination.

However, if you keep it free from bacteria, an onion is not considered a potentially hazardous food.

Q. I love to prepare baked fish; however, my husband only likes it fried.

How can I encourage him to try it baked?

A. Here is a quick and easy recipe that we had a few days ago. My husband also prefers fried fish; however, he loved this recipe.

I think it’s because of the extra flavor!

We used maui-maui; however, this will work with catfish, tilapia, or any other mild, white fish.

FIESTA FISH 4 fillets mild white fish ½ package dry Fiesta Ranch dressing mix 1 cup nonfat sour cream 1/3 cup mayonnaise crushed tortilla chips

Q. How long can you keep a sliced or chopped onion in the refrigerator?

Combine dry dressing mix with the sour cream and mayonnaise. Coat the fillets with the mixture and lay in a single layer in a casserole dish.

A. If the onion is not contaminated by handling in the kitchen, you can reasonably expect to last about a week.

After that, it will deteriorate quickly.

There have been urban legends on the internet claiming that sliced onions are a source of food poisoning.

Sprinkle the crushed tortilla chips on the top of the fillets. Bake in a 375 degree F. oven until the fish flakes and the chips brown a little.

Serve immediately.

DRESS – Wear long, loose and light-colored clothing outside during dusk and dawn hours.

DRAIN – Remove all areas of standing water. Change water in wading pools, pet dishes and birdbaths several times a week.

DUSK/DAWN – Protect yourself during dusk and dawn hours For additional information on the West Nile Virus and the current Newsletter from DCHHS go to: http:// www.dallascounty.org/department/hhs/ home.html

Don’t wait until a designated month to go to the doctor-Cancer, hypertension, blood clots, kidney disease and other ills are not paying attention to a calendar and neither should you!

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Dallas artist Toya Nash to perform at House of Blues

Dallas native Toya Nash is coming home for the release of her debut EP, Him... and a very special performance at the House of Blues Dallas. Mixed by Nick James Productions, Him… is a contemporary mix of soul fused with blues that showcases Toya’s unique sound which has been described as “soulful, gritty, earthshattering, sassy, and rich.”

Toya just released the first music video from the EP, Today and is currently performing at various venues throughout the US. Imagine a little bit of Aretha Franklin, with a touch of Billie Holliday, and a dash of Nina Simone and Sharon Jones – that’s what you’ll get on Toya Nash’s debut EP, Him…. In four original songs, the Dallas soul songstress breathes new life into old school blues, soul and rock & roll, and lends credence to the notion of "neo" soul.

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This irresistible siren can belt, bring you to your knees, or knock you out of the park, all within the first sixty seconds of a song. Her vibrant melancholy vocals are truly a unique reinvention of classic soul.

Join her at the House of Blues in Foundation Room with guests, pop artist Brooklyn Jai and Dallas’ own DJ Jay Clipp, for a night of guaranteed satisfaction, sure to please!

WHEN: Friday, August 17th, 8pm. Cover $10

WHERE: House of Blues Dallas - Foundation Room

The National Association For The Advancement of Colored People

Garland Branch Presents

22th Annual

Freedom Fund Silent Auction and

Brunch Saturday, September 15, 2012 Silent Auction 9:00 a.m. Brunch 10:00 a.m.

Doubletree Hotel 1981 North Central Expressway Richardson, Texas 75080

Keynote Speaker: Tammy Mutasa NBC 5 DFW Reporter Brunch Table: $400.00 – Individual Ticket: $40.00 For More Information Please Call the NAACP Garland Branch at (972) 381-5044, Box #5

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EDUCATION NOTES Conrad Interns, AT&T, Bradie James Foundation hosts "The Safety Zone" Community Fair The 2012 Class of the Dr. Emmett J. Conrad Leadership Program will team with AT&T and (alum) Trina Terrell from the Bradie James Foundation to present a Safety Awareness Fair on Saturday, August 11, 2012, appropriately named "The Safety Zone Project." The fair will be held at the Mark Cuban Heroes Basketball Center at 1800 Bonnie View Sen. Royce West Road, Dallas, Texas 75216 from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. The event is open to the public. There will be carnival games, bounce houses, free food and much more.

The community service project is a component of the Dr. Emmett J. Conrad Leadership Program established by Texas State Senator Royce West.

Since 1993, the program has provided more than 1,200 students from Texas Senatorial District 23 with the opportunity to secure paid internships within their respective fields of study.

The goal of the fair is to provide tools and create awareness about the dangers of texting and driving, relationship abuse, drinking and driving, abduction of children, staying safe on a college Bradie James campus, and other safety issues related to children, teenagers, college students and adults. There will be safety demonstrations and related organizations will be on hand to provide information as well as answer questions.

According to Senator West, The Dr. Emmett J. Conrad Leadership Program is a continuation of Dr. Conrad’s commitment to education and embodies Senator West’s belief that all students no matter what creed, color, sex, age, religion, economic status, etc., Dr. Emmett J. Conrad are afforded every opportunity to succeed.

In addition, the Conrad program has been expanded to include various leadership building components, mentoring opportunities, self-improvement seminars and community service projects.

AUGUST 10, 2012

Rep. Johnson hosts 6th annual Youth Summit and Diversity Dialogue

Congresswoman Johnson with participants during the Summit

Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson recently held her daylong 6th Annual Youth Summit & Diversity Dialogue at Southern Methodist University.

The summit provided a forum for students to explore diversity and cultural awareness programs and to participate in interactive breakout sessions.

Students between the ages of 13-17 from the Dallas Fort-Worth area were selected to participate in the summit.

“This year’s theme is Putting Our Signature on the Future. This summit is designed to foster diversity and stimulate dialogue on issues that will affect you, your classmates, and your communities.

Everyone here in this room today has the potential to make real and positive

change in their communities,” said Congresswoman Johnson. “As you become young adults, we will look to you to provide leadership, and to find solutions to the growing problems facing our world today.”

The day began with an opening ceremony where students heard from Dr. Gerald Turner, President of Southern Methodist University; Catherine Monson, CEO of FASTSIGNS; and Sarosha Hansraj, Founder of Children Care for Children; Bonnie King, Regional Environmental Education Coordinator of Environmental Protection Agency, in addition to remarks from Congresswoman Johnson.

Catherine Monson, CEO of FASTSIGNS, INC., who was featured on the CBS TV Series Undercover Boss,

provided valuable professional leadership insights to include her very own “7 Steps to Success.”

At the conclusion of the summit, students incorporated Ms. Monson’s steps into the closing ceremony program.

Congresswoman Johnson and the panelists concluded the summit by encouraging the group to continue serving as young leaders in their communities and to engage in dialogue to foster an understanding of cultural differences on how best to promote a climate for social change.

To culminate this experience, students from the summit will participate in a service project at the Texas Discovery Gardens at the end of August.

NBCC responds to report by US Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor & Pensions (HELP Committee) on For-Profit College WASHINGTON-In response to a report released by the US Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor & Pensions (HELP Committee) on proprietary colleges, Harry Harry C. Alford Alford, president NBCC President of the National Black Chamber of Commerce (NBCC) issued the following statement: "We are disappointed by reports that once again, Senator Tom Harkin (DIA) has unfairly targeted private sector education in a biased report that has the potential to negatively affect the prospects and opportunities for higher

education and job training for thousands of low-income and minority students.

In many underserved communities, access to education is a lifeline. The National Black Chamber of Commerce believes that actions against industries offering educational options to our nation's African American and minority students are partial and detrimental to e d u c a t i o n a l a d v a n c e me n t in o u r communities.

Senator Harkin, who we do not believe speaks for the entire committee, may be misjudging how critical proprietary colleges are to serving minority students. Nearly half of students attending proprietary schools are minorities. They choose these colleges for their flexibility, career focus and success with nontraditional students.

Given that just over eight percent of

Senator Harkin's constituents are considered minorities, perhaps he is a bit out of touch.

The National Black Chamber of Commerce remains committed to ensuring that African American and other minority students are afforded the opportunity to choose the education institution that best suits their needs."

The National Black Chamber of Commerce is dedicated to economically empowering and sustaining African American communities through entrepreneurship and capitalistic activity within the United States and via interaction with the Black Diaspora.

For more information, call NBCC at (202) 466-6888 or visit www.uneducatedpolicy.com.

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In our library Reviewed by Cheryl Smith

10 ways to go From Girlfriend to Wife

By Steven James Dixon Special to I MESSENGER Be a Woman All Day, Everywhere Take pride and dignity in your womanhood. Have self respect. I tell women every day that if you don’t respect yourself, then no one in the relationship respects you.

You make everyone else respect you, why do you let a man disrespect you? A man shouldn’t even have a choice in whether or not he is going to respect you.

Be Independent Not just financially, but be an independent thinker overall. Take the time to learn you and what works best for you instead of taking someone else’s advice and forcing yourself into a box.

Your core person should not change simply because you are in a relationship.

Be independent of your man and have your own life, goals and ambitions.

Stay On Your Tippy Toes Don’t get comfortable and lazy on your man. Don’t just think that he is going to marry you because you have been together for a few years. Get fine-ER, get smart-ER, be bett-ER. A man wants to see growth in you and wants to be excited about who you will be in the future.

Turn His House Into a Home As a single brother, my crib had the bare necessities.

A woman came by one day and slowly started to upgrade my stuff in a very subtle but profound way because no woman had ever done it before.

First it was a couple nice decorative candles; then she replaced my picture frames and artwork. She helped me paint a couple of rooms in my house. I was like “She knows what she doing, I am going to marry her.”

Be a Godly Woman There is just something sexy to me about a Godly woman. You want a Godly man, don’t you?

The Bible is a relationship handbook. Read it. Follow it. Live by it.

When your man is weak, you need to be able to refer to dat word. When the Devil attacks, he needs to know that you know God. Watch His Momma, Do What She Do You don’t have to be his Momma, but you should try to be in her likeness.

book “Men Don’t Heal, We Ho” the author had this to say” “Twice a year you have got to do something to BLOW HIS MIND! When he pulls up you snatch him out of the car.

Toss him in the shower. Wash him from head to toe. Lick him from head to toe.

Violently shove his head in your crotch.

Break something. Hurt him. Scratch him.

Wild animal. He has to remember this night!

The next morning, he has got to turn over like, “We forgot to eat dinner last night, I am starving. What got into to you last night? Were you on ecstasy or something? Listen, I can’t do all that anymore, you hurt my back.”

Here is an example: during the holidays when you were at your man’s family home, if his grandma, momma and auntie were all in the kitchen and you were in the den watching the game with him, y’all probably had the best time ever, right? But guess what, he’s probably going to break up with you.

You should be in that kitchen with his female relatives or else go and find yourself a man whose mother can’t cook.

Show YOUR Woman There are certain things about you that make you woman. There are certain things about you that make you the best woman for him. It is your responsibility to show him your strongest qualities as a woman. If you know how to take care of a man, then you need to show him that.

If you are a great cook – “Show & Prove”. If you have a huge heart that is full of love then he needs to be caught up in your rapture. He better know what makes you unique as a woman.

Be His Biggest Fan Women need love. Men need their egos stroked. We need your support, your encouragement, and we need to know that you believe in us. Tell him that he is a good man, that you are lucky to have him, that he is special and that he is a better man than you had initially thought. If you can’t make your man feel like a man, you won’t have the job for long.

Nurture Him The art of nurturing a man has been lost.

Talk sweet to your man and whisper sweet nothings in his ear. Hug him, hold him, squeeze him too. Being a Black man is hard but with the nurturing of a

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LISTEN! Be the Freakiest Person He Knows Too many men are cheating. If your man cheats make sure that you are not the reason why by HANDLING YOUR BIZNESS IN THE BEDROOM! A man has to know and believe that there is not a woman out there that is going to try harder to please him than you. In the

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September 2

FWBC Sports & Rec. presents SWING CLASSES at the Wild Wild West!

When: Every Tuesday & Thursday Evening Time: 7:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Location: FWBC Banquet Area Cost: FREE * No experience necessary * Adults of all ages and skill levels are welcome * For more information, contact sports@friendshipwest.org or (214) 861-0457.

TUNE IN TO THE DOCK POWER HOUR Every Wednesday, 6-8pm www.dfwiradio.com call in # 214.317.4855 Lively, informative and power-packed weekly radio show dedicated to delivering relevant, interesting, edu-taining information to our listeners

Join Keith Manning for the DFW Comics Charity Softball event will take place Sunday, September 2nd 2012 at 1pm at Glencoe Park-Field #2- 5300 Martel Dr- Dallas, TX 75206.

Bring your entire family for an afternoon of fun! Free Hotdogs and Drinks…1st come- 1st served.

Wounded Heart Campaign Taking a STAND against sexual violence Presents 2nd annual Dancing for Charity For more info, www.ariseintl.org August 18 Dallas Poetry Slam in partnership with TeCo Theatrical Productions presents "Brave Young Voices" (A Youth Talent Showcase) featuring Dallas Poetry Slam Team, Will Richey & Alexandro Perez Inspiring kids to use their voices to be creative and to be heard 7:30 p.m.

Tickets are $10 in advance, $15 at the door

Student Recruitment Reception September 6 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm Center for Community Cooperation 2900 Live Oak Dallas, TX 75204 September 14 Covenant Keepers - Marriage Community MARRIAGE CONFERENCE 2012 Theme: ONEness Under Construction Date: Friday, September 14, 2012 Sunday, September 16, 2012 Time:Friday: 3:00 pm check-in | Sunday: 10:00 am check-out Marriott Dallas - Solana 5 Village Circle, Westlake, TX, 76262 (817) 430-5000 Guest Speakers: Dr. Johnny C. Parker, Jr. and Mrs. Lezlyn Parker

August 22

The National Association For The Advancement of Colored People

UNCF 2012 Corporate Appreciation Reception Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm Where: African American Museum - Fair Park 3536 Grand Ave, Dallas, TX 75210

Garland Branch Presents

22th Annual

Freedom Fund Silent Auction

August 25 August 11 Next Chapter Meeting: Saturday, August 11 at 10:00 am Center for Community Cooperation 2900 Live Oak Dallas, TX 75204 August 15 August Board/Membership Meeting!

6:30 p.m.

Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce Boardroom Your chance to meet and greet members and leadership of the Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce and find out what's going on in the DBCC community!

August 17 6th Annual “Do the Write Thing” Writing Workshop When: Friday, August 17, 2012 from 1:00 pm – 5:00 pm; Saturday, August 18, 2012 from 9:00 am – 1:00 pm Where: Tarrant County College – Northeast Campus, 828 W. Harwood in Hurst, Texas Cost: $50.00; includes meals and workshop materials; Onsite registration is $75.00; $25.00 for students Published and aspiring published authors are invited to attend. This year's featured speakers include award winner Ann Weisgarber, national spoken word artist Michael Guinn, fantasy fiction author Urania Fung and author/ conference founder Shewanda Riley.

There will also be manuscript critique sessions for attendees. Visit www.thewritethingworkshop.com or call 972-533-3543 for more details.

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Michael Ward, an extraordinary jazz violinist will headline the entertainment for the Urban League of Greater Dallas 45th Anniversary Gala. Old School crooners, VINJAC, will also perform. The event will be held on Saturday, August 25, 2012 at the Hilton Anatole Hotel, 2201 Stemmons Freeway at 7:00 p.m.

For ticket information call (214) 915-4600.

August 31 Dallas NPHC Mega Greek Fest August 31- September 2, 2012.

Friday, August 31 activity is a 3 hour boat ride on the Star of Texas Party Yacht in Lewisville; tickets are $15. Ticket includes music and light hors d'oeuvres, BYOB. Saturday, Aug 1 is annual picnic at Turner Park from 1:00 p.m. until 6 p.m. Free food, music and games. Worship on Sunday, Sept 2 at Antioch Fellowship Baptist Church at 10:00 a.m.

Volunteers are needed. T-Shirts are also being sold to the Mega Greek Fest. To purchase t-shirts, please visit the following website http:// www.nphcdallas.org/mega-greek-fest-t-shirts.html.

Saturday, September 15, 2012 Silent Auction 9:00 a.m. Brunch 10:00 a.m.

Doubletree Hotel 1981 North Central Expressway Richardson, Texas 75080

Keynote Speaker: Tammy Mutasa NBC 5 DFW Reporter Brunch Table: $400.00 – Individual Ticket: $40.00 For More Information Please Call the NAACP Garland Branch at (972) 381-5044, Box #5

September 15 Theme: “The NAACP Garland Branch: Creating Legends and Leaders” Time: Silent Auction 9:00 a.m. (PayPal, cash or check contributions only for auction items) Brunch 10:00 a.m.

Place: Doubletree Hotel 1981 North Central Expressway Richardson, TX 75080 Keynote Speaker: Tammy Mutasa- NBC 5 MC: Marquis Hankins- Garland Branch NAACP September 21-23! The 2012 Art Uprising in West Village benefitting Easl is a two-day free arts festival featuring local artists, bands, food, and other entertainment.

September 22

The Hamilton Park School will celebrate its 57th schoolwide reunion from Friday, August 17- Sunday, August 19.

Ticket price is $60 after August 1. For more information, visit our website: www.hpschoolwidereunion.org.

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Dallas Convention Center Ballroom A The chamber banquet draws approximately 1,000 attendees annually and this year will feature the special presentation of the Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce / Thomas L. Houston Community Service Award to honor an individual who has made significant contributions as a volunteer to the civic enhancements of the African American community in the greater Dallas area.

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