Sex Tips: How to Finger a Woman A man’s arsenal of sex tips ought to include a healthy stock of foreplay knowledge. While most men know that kissing and caressing are important here, some get cold feet when it comes to using their hands in and around a woman’s vagina. Likely, the reason for this is a lack of confidence concerning their ability to properly stimulate her. Since confidence is an important factor in sexual health and performance ability, men would be wise to educate themselves in this area, particularly on the topic of fingering. 1. Keep the nails trimmed and cleaned. Dirty, ragged finger nails do not a pleasant fingering experience make. A man needs to make sure his nails are smooth, short and clean underneath before putting them near a lover’s most sensitive parts. 2. Make sure she’s lubed up. This may come from natural lubrication following kissing, caressing and clitoral stimulation; it may also be product-assisted. A man may think that, since fingers are thin compared to the penis, lubrication is not as crucial when fingering. Think again. 3. Consider what kind of penetration she likes. Does she like it fast and hard? If so, a man will likely get the best reaction by mimicking this rhythm and depth with his fingers. He can do so by kneeling in front of her spread legs, a position that allows him to use the full length of his middle finger (and perhaps his index or ring finger as well). If she likes it slow but deep, follow suit. If she likes shallower thrusts, focus on the G-spot. 4. Find the G-spot. Regardless of how a woman likes penetration during intercourse, she probably will get a big thrill from G-spot stimulation. A man can best access this by kneeling in front of her spread legs and placing a finger or two inside her with the palm facing up; then, arch the finger(s) in a “come here” motion. Start slow, and vary the rhythm according to her reaction. Tip: Pretend that the fingers are trying to touch her belly button from the inside in order to get the right angle.
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