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RESTORING, RENEWING: Hundreds assembled at 22nd and Ellsworth streets Nov. 2 for the unveiling of the restoration of Keith Haring’s “We the Youth” mural, spearheaded by the Philadelphia Mural Arts Program. Haring, a native of Reading who grew up in Kutztown, was an openly gay pop artist who focused much of his work on the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Haring died in 1990, and his “We the Youth” work is his only collaborative effort still intact at its original site. For more coverage of the restoration, see p. 15. Photo: Scott A. Drake

Veto saves partner-benefits proposal By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com Lehigh County is on the cusp of joining the handful of Pennsylvania municipalities that offer same-sex spouses of government employees benefits equal to those of heterosexual married couples. The latest turn in the debate came last week when Lehigh County Executive Matt Croslis overturned an earlier action by Republican county commissioners that stripped the benefits proposal from Croslis’ county budget. It would take a vote by six of the nine commissioners to override Croslis’ veto, which does not appear likely, as the original benefits proposal was rejected by a 5-4 vote. The board will meet again Nov. 13. �� Croslis first proposed the benefits plan earlier this fall. It was included in the 2014 budget as a $219,000 line item, although Croslis told PGN he expects the actual cost

for the program to be much lower. The measure would mandate that the county provide the same benefits to married same-sex partners of county employees that it currently provides to married opposite-sex partners. Lehigh County has approximately 2,000 employees. Along with vetoing the amendment stripping the benefits proposal, Croslis also vetoed three other amendments, which would have cut staff from the county court and technology department and funding for a regional crime center. Currently, Philadelphia, Allentown, Easton, Pittsburgh, Harrisburg and State College offer benefits to same-sex partners of employees, although those programs extend to non-married same-sex domestic partners; the proposed Lehigh County measure would be limited to same-sex couples married in jurisdictions that sanction samesex marriage. ■

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This week, the U.S. Senate took the country one step closer to ending LGBT workplace discrimination. On Nov. 4, the Senate voted for cloture for the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, legislation that would protect Americans from discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in public and private workplaces. Debate on the bill began the following day, and a full Senate vote is expected by today. Currently, it is legal in 33 states for a worker to be fired based on his or her gender identity and legal in 29 states for someone to be fired for sexual orientation. Pennsylvania does not offer LGBT workplace protections. The bill, which was co-sponsored by Sen. Bob Casey of Pennsylvania, passed the cloture vote with support from all Senate Democrats and seven Republican supporters — including Pennsylvania’s Sen. Pat Toomey. The final vote was 61-30. Supporters needed 60 votes to achieve cloture and effectively block a potential filibuster. On Wednesday, Toomey introduced an amendment to strengthen and expand the bill’s already-existing religious exemption. Toomey, who opposes marriage equality, was pressed by local LGBT advocates through in-person visits, phone calls and electronic communications in the past few weeks. In an open letter to Toomey last week, out state Rep. Brian Sims (D-182nd Dist.) asked for his support, stating that the bill “does not create special rights, but simply includes hardworking LGBT people among the categories of Americans which the government is already protecting from employment discrimination.” In a statement Monday night, Sims applauded Casey and Toomey for their support. “I have long believed that civil rights cannot be a one-party issue. Sen. Casey has supported LGBT civil rights from nondiscrimination to marriage equality, and I am PAGE 25 proud to see him continue

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Tuesday’s election saw a number of LGBT firsts — including the first out mayor in Pennsylvania. Ron Strouse of Doylestown defeated Republican opponent Bruce Rutherford to become the Keystone State’s first openly LGBT mayor. Strouse, 65, is a native of the Doylestown area and has lived in the borough for more than a decade. He is a chef and manages two local restaurants and also chairs the Doylestown Human Relations Commission. “Electing LGBT candidates is incredibly important,” said Equality Pennsylvania president Adrian Shanker. “It means we have a seat at the table and that when local issues related to LGBT equality come up, we know NEWLY ELECTED DOYLESTOWN we have an advocate. MAYOR RON Ron Strouse will be STROUSE an excellent mayor for Doylestown and it was an important win for the LGBT community for Doylestown to elect their first openly gay mayor.” In New Jersey, Republican Don Guardian unseated longtime incumbent Lorenzo Langford to take the helm of Atlantic City. Guardian is the city’s first openly LGBT mayor. Other LGBT mayoral candidates weren’t successful, with losses for New Hope’s Donna Deely, Lansdale’s Doug DiPasquale and Hatboro’s Bill Godshall. Out Harrisburg City Controller Dan Miller ran on the Republican ticket after losing to Democratic challenger Eric Papenfuse in the primary, but Papenfuse defeated Miller this week. In Loyalsock Township PAGE 25

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Gay man accused of assaulting prosecutor By Timothy Cwiek timothy@epgn.com Kamile Ladson, a member of the LGBT community who is accused of assaulting a local prosecutor, is scheduled to go on trial next week. Ladson, 31, allegedly assaulted Assistant District Attorney Andrei Govorov during an altercation on the Broad Street Subway last winter. He’s charged with simple assault, aggravated assault, recklessly endangering another person and ethnic intimidation, according to court records. On March 7, Ladson was on his way home after shopping in Center City when the incident with Govorov took place, said his attorney, William D. Hobson. A group of teenagers were hurling anti-LGBT slurs at Ladson when Govorov boarded the subway at City Hall, Hobson said. “Kamile is open and proud about his gayness,” Hobson said. “He doesn’t hide it in any way. Unfortunately, that made him a target on the subway.” According to Hobson, as Govorov boarded the rail car, he allegedly told Ladson to “shut your fucking mouth.” The attorney said dropping the f-bomb only inflamed matters. “I don’t know why Mr. Govorov thought uttering an obscenity would ��

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calm the situation,” Hobson said. “My client was trying to tell his tormentors that their anti-LGBT tirade was unacceptable. And Mr. Govorov tells him to shut his fucking mouth. How would you feel?” Hobson added: “When you enter any civil disturbance, you have to exercise due caution.” He also said Ladson didn’t realize Govorov was a prosecutor. Govorov had no comment for this story. When Govorov was departing the rail car at the Fairmount station, a scuffle with Ladson ensued, Hobson said. According to published accounts, Govorov suffered a mild concussion and a scraped leg and his suit was ruined. Hobson said he hasn’t seen evidence that Govorov suffered a concussion of any type. “I see no evidence of a concussion in the medical records I’ve received.” Hobson suggested that any wounds Govorov suffered during the incident “appear to be superficial.” The attorney said his client was “overcharged” due to Govorov’s status as a prosecutor, and he faces a lengthy prison term if convicted on all charges. Hobson also expressed concern about the investigation conducted by police. “Key witnesses at the scene weren’t

interviewed by police,” he said. “After Mr. Govorov identified himself as an assistant district attorney, he was treated with kid gloves and my client was deemed automatically guilty.” He said Ladson spent about three weeks in jail prior to being released on bail. He said Ladson has no history of violent behavior and doesn’t pose a threat to society. To avoid a conflict, the state Attorney General’s Office is prosecuting the case rather than the local D.A.’s office, Hobson said. Efforts to resolve the matter through a plea deal have been unsuccessful, he added. Hobson wanted his client admitted into a probationary program. But authorities declined to accept the proposal, he said. “My client isn’t a danger to society,” Hobson concluded. “Admitting him into the [probationary] program would be the reasonable, fair and right thing to do.” He said a fundraiser to help defray Ladson’s legal expenses is set for 9 p.m. Nov. 8 at Ms. Tootsie’s Lounge, 1312 S. Broad St. Jury selection will begin 9 a.m. Nov. 14 in Courtroom 805 of the Criminal Justice Center. Common Pleas Judge Michael E. Erdos is scheduled to preside. ■

MontCo case not back in court until 2014 By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com An updated schedule has been released in the state’s suit against a Montgomery County official who denied the state’s ban on same-sex marriage. MontCo Register of Wills D. Bruce Hanes and his team will likely not be back in court until after the New Year. The state Supreme Court this week asked the county to file its next legal brief by Dec. 2, The state will then be given its own time period to draft and submit its own brief before a hearing is scheduled. The state Department of Health sued Hanes this past summer after he began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Commonwealth Court Judge Dan Pellegrini ordered Hanes to stop in September, although he did not rule on the constitutionality of the state’s ban on same-sex marriage. Hanes appealed the judge’s order, specifically arguing that the judge should have weighed in on his contention that he could not follow the state ban because it is unconstitutional. Pellegrini also did not rule on the validity of the 174 licenses that were issued and filed. Twenty-one of those couples went on to sue the state for recognition of their marriages in a case that remains pending before Commonwealth Court. ■

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‘Unique’ headliner to take the stage at The Attic gala By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com The Attic Youth Center will celebrate its 20th anniversary with a gleeful guest. Alex Newell, 21, is best known for his role as transgender character Unique/Wade on Fox’s hit television show “Glee.” On Nov. 20, Newell will appear as the headliner for The Attic’s 20th Anniversary Gala. Newell, who will receive the OK2BU Role Model award at the gala, was born and raised in Lynn, Mass. He first appeared on “The Glee Project” as a contestant eager to win a spot on the show’s official cast. Newell was a runner-up in the contest and landed himself a role as one of the first transgender teenage characters on American television. Newell, who was a member of his high school’s choir, improv club and costume club, realized he wanted to pursue a career in performing arts when he was a child. “I remember when my mom’s cousin asked me when I was 3 years old what I wanted to be when I grew up and I said, ‘A superstar,’” he told PGN. “I guess it was just something in me. I always wanted to be a superstar.” Newell said heading from “The Glee Project” to “Glee” was an intimidating but remarkable experience. “It was a hard transition because I had just come off a reality show where I was popular and known on the show, and then com-

ing into this already-established television show where everyone is their own star, it was like coming into someone’s household and trying to fit in,” he said. “But they were all welcoming and excited to meet us.” Newell debuted as Wade, a student at another local high school, in the third season of the show, and his initial two-episode run focused on the character’s struggle to present as a female, Unique, to her fellow glee-club members. Newell returned as a recurring cast member for the fourth season, when Unique transfers to McKinley High, and he was brought back as a member of the main cast for the current season. Unique has no issues with staying true to herself, Newell said, which is what makes her so relevant to today’s youth. “What makes her so relatable is her heart. She says what she means and means what she says. No matter what, she is always true to herself,” he said. “One of my favorite quotes that I said last season was for the Thanksgiving episode where Unique said she would not allow her parents to change her. It is a testament that you have to be true to yourself, you have to hold on to that no matter what.” Newell said he has heard negative comments about his character but added that such remarks are another way to educate people on intolerance. “People are going to be negative if they don’t understand something,” he said. “You

can’t expect people to understand it. There will be people that do not identify with Unique, but it is about educating people.” Newell, who said his own coming-out experience was smooth, encouraged LGBT people of all ages to stay true to their own characters. “I think it is one of those things that not just youth need to understand, but everybody. When you are older, it is harder to come out and be yourself,” he said. “You’ve tried but it has always been trial and error. If you are not yourself, when it comes time to come out, it will be too hard because it is all you’ve known — to be someone you are not.” Unique’s role continues to proclaim that message. Newell said it has been daunting, but rewarding, to take on such a groundbreaking character. “It is a challenge because you have to keep your place and bring something new to the table all the time because you have people looking up to the work you love doing,” he said. “You are spreading that message on a larger scale and someone in high school, college and even elementary school can be educated on those issues.” Newell’s most recent challenge was filming the episode, “The Quarterback,” which focused on the death of “Glee” actor Cory Montieth, who succumbed to a drug overdose this past summer. PAGE 21 Newell said Montieth

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Gay pair walks cross-country to fight bullying By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com In 2010, Rutgers University student Tyler Clementi took his own life on the George Washington Bridge after being outed and cyberbullied by his roommate. And this weekend, Clementi’s family will return to that spot to join with two men who have spent the last month bringing awareness to LGBT bullying across the country. Ronnie Kroell, 30, and Elliot London, 32, who live in Los Angeles, started Friend Movement, a nonprofit organization dedicated to showing anti-bullying messages through art and media. In honor of National Bullying Prevention Month, the Illinois natives began a 921-mile walk to bring awareness to the causes and effects of bullying. Starting on Oct. 5, they set out for Chicago through Indiana, Ohio and Pennsylvania, stopping in Philadelphia Tuesday. The walk will wrap up Nov. 10 in New York City, with Kroell and London crossing the bridge from New Jersey with Clementi’s mom

and brother. Although the two cite Clementi’s story as the main inspiration for their journey, they also have stories of their own about being bullied. Kroell said he was often called “faggot” in middle school and said he was traumatized by the bullying that went on in his classrooms. “School didn’t feel safe at times because I was always hiding behind corners to see if the bully was going to be there to beat me up or not,” he said. “They used to play Monkey in the Middle with my shoe and do some pretty nasty things. One day when I was walking home from school, three guys ganged up on me and pulled my pants down and just ridiculed me in front of everyone.” London had a similar experience and said he often endured antigay slurs, even though he did not understand what the words meant. “My worst experience was the school bus. There was the kid that always made fun of me and one day he spit on me. That’s when I shut down,” he said.

MOVING INTO PHILLY: Elliot London (left) and Ronnie Kroell walk down South Street Tuesday after tying one of their purple ribbons to a lamppost at Fourth and South streets. The pair launched Friend Movement in response to the spate of LGBT youth suicides and have spent the last several weeks walking cross-country to raise awareness about bullying. Their journey will culminate in a walk across the George Washington Bridge Sunday with the family of Tyler Clementi, a gay Rutgers University student who took his own life at that spot in 2010. Photo: Scott A. Drake

Although London jokes that he started the walk to lose weight, he said the main reason was to show that bullying is an ongoing issue that should not be ignored. “We believe that bullying is not just a media fad, that is it something real and tangible. We wanted to bring attention to the month of October with something special, so we decided to be adventurous and decided to walk across the country,” he said. Instead of a straight-through trip, London said the pair added an extra 100 miles to visit places like Pittsburgh and State College and took part in a number of speaking engagements. They placed a purple ribbon every mile they walked — to represent the life of a young person lost to suicide from bullying. While in Philadelphia, the two placed a purple ribbon at the Liberty Bell and also visited the National Constitution Center. The pair has been averaging 2030 miles a day. On Tuesday, they walked into town from King of Prussia and headed to Trenton in the afternoon. PAGE 27 London said

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Ally hits the Philly pavement for LGBT rights in Chile By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com Running a marathon is a momentous occasion for any athlete, and one local runner is making sure her first marathon is especially — and internationally — meaningful. Marisa Wiland will be among the thousands of runners taking part in the Philadelphia Marathon Nov. 17, but in addition to challenging herself, her participation will challenge others to raise funds, and awareness, for LGBT-rights issues in South America. Wiland, 22, is a native of New York who recently graduated from Georgetown University. She relocated to Philadelphia earlier this year for a consulting job in Springfield. Wiland and her boyfriend, Stratton Poland, who lives in Houston, have dedicated their marathon participation to Fundación Iguales, a nonprofit based in Chile that works to combat LGBT discrimination. Wiland and her family moved to Chile when she was 2, as her parents sought to give her and her sister the experience of living abroad. She left the country when she went to college. “Chile is a fairly liberal country, but in many ways it’s still very backwards and set in its ways,” Wiland said. “I grew up in an American household; my mom was born in Peru but she was raised in New Jersey and lived in New York City most of her life, and my dad’s from Queens. I came back to the States every year for a month or two, and the environment I grew up in was very different from the environment around me. The things my parents taught me differed a lot from what my friends were taught in their homes.” The LGBT-rights movement in the country, however, took on new momen-

tum last year after the brutal murder of Daniel Zuamudio, an openly gay 24-yearold Chilean. “It stirred Chilean society and it really was because of this horrific murder that Chile began to take gay rights seriously for the first time,” Wiland said, noting

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that the country has a presidential election coming up the same day as the marathon. “Now is a key moment in Chilean society that there is a real possibility for sweeping gay-rights legislation to take place. That’s why I’m trying to raise awareness about this; I want to bring this to the forefront of people’s minds.” Fundación Iguales was founded two years ago. Agency president Luis Larrain said the organization has been able to make

impressive strides for LGBT rights in that time. “Our foundation has been able to transform the public discussion on LGBT issues from a niche one to a mainstream one,” Larrain said. “Every single presidential or parliamentary candidate is obliged now to openly disclose their position on our demands, such as equal marriage. We were directly involved in the passing of the anti-discrimination law last year. We have also participated in the Senate in the discussion on civil unions, by proposing new wordings and improvements to the bill, which have been embraced by some senators.” In addition to legislative reforms, the organization has worked to eliminate stigma through LGBT trainings for public officials, students and teachers, and has organized large-scale parades and media campaigns to promote LGBT visibility and acceptance. In addition to Zuamudio’s murder, another young gay man, Wladimir Sepúlveda, was beaten last month and is now in a coma, Larrain said, noting that transgender people especially face violence on the streets. “There’s just so many things to be changed but too little help,” he said. That’s where supporters like Wiland and Poland come in. Wiland began running in high school,

joining the high-school track team and starting with 3k races. She eventually moved on to 10ks and half-marathons. She and Poland, a fellow Georgetown grad, began dating about a year ago and have run a number of races together, although the Philadelphia Marathon marks their first full 26.2-mile race. “I did half-marathons in Chile and here in the States, but I thought it’s time to move on to the next level,” Wiland said. “So I thought, why not make it really count by doing a good deed?” The pair is aiming to raise about $5,000 for Fundación through supporters, and is using the lead-up to the race to spread the word about the organization’s work and the overall LGBT-rights movement in Chile. Wiland and Poland will wear shirts the day of the race describing what, and who, they’re running for. While the fundraising is appreciated, Larrain said the project has the potential to accomplish much more. “I think it’s all about visibility and awareness,” he said. “We hope that many people will be touched by the fact that two straight people are willing to make such a big effort in pursuit of an urgent need such as the improvement of life conditions of LGBT people in Chile.” For more information or to donate, visit www.iguales.cl/una-corrida-por-la-libertad-y-el-amor-de-todos-y-todas/. ■

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Report: Local policy work key in LGBT victories By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com The Equality Federation recently released a study that cites the importance of locallevel policy change on largerscale LGBT progress, using one local LGBT organization as an example. “Building Momentum for Change: How Local and Incremental Policy Campaigns Contribute to Statewide Victories,” funded by The Gill Foundation, included interviews with a number of LGBT-equality organizations, including Equality Pennsylvania. The report found that, in addition to securing protections for LGBT people, local policies and campaigns helped provide opportunities to engage in productive public education, establish facts that facilitate creating a case for more legislation, create political momentum for LGBT issues and build the capacity and skills of LGBT organizations. Equality PA executive director Ted Martin said the study has

the ability to encourage others to get active in their local governments. “It shows how things can be done. It shows people that there is a lot of opportunity and that there are people that are local who will help,” Martin said. The report looked at an array of policies, including nondiscrimination legislation and antibullying measures. In the past few years, Equality PA has assisted dozens of municipalities in adopting their own LGBT nondiscrimination measures, as a statewide nondiscrimination bill remains stalled in the legislature. In the report, Martin said that such local policy victories could help create energy for statewide policies. “At a time when our legislature is pretty tough, the local work has provided us with a chance to create and demonstrate momentum,” he said. Pennsylvania currently has 33 municipal ordinances protecting the LGBT community from discrimination.

“Thirty-three ordinances are covered and the world has not come to an end,” Martin said. “It is really something that encourages people to move forward. It shows it’s not a bad thing.”

ing. If legislators can honestly say they don’t understand LGBT issues because they’ve never been exposed to an LGBT individual, there is an element of truth to that,” he said.

“At a time when our legislature is pretty tough, the local work has provided us with a chance to create and demonstrate momentum. Thirty-three ordinances are covered and the world has not come to an end. It is really something that encourages people to move forward.” — Ted Martin, Equality Pennsylvania Having open conversations about discrimination and other issues with local lawmakers is essential to enhancing public understanding of both the LGBT community and the issues it faces, Martin said. “Things happen because people have a different understand-

The report noted that, while not all local-level lawmakers back pro-LGBT causes, bringing up such measures creates a voting record that lawmakers with an eye on state-level positions must keep in mind. Martin added that mobilizing local communities for LGBT

policies can also motivate proLGBT candidates to pursue public office to keep the ball rolling. “One ‘unintended consequence’ of our local ordinance work that I love, but perhaps many legislators don’t love as much, is that this has helped develop a field team of potential legislators out there, people who think, ‘Maybe I should step up and run,’ and that makes current legislators nervous. It has definitely caused people to want to ‘fly up’ to the legislature.” Martin said he hopes the study communicates that local policy work has the potential to lay the foundation for LGBT progress in Pennsylvania and other states. “It shows people out there that they can do this — that the average person can help start and have success with passing legislation and changing laws. Working with us and together can help things get accomplished.” For more information on the report, visit http://equalityfederation.org/sites/default/files/ Building_Momentum_for_ Change_Final.pdf. ■

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Talking and walking This week, PGN’s offices were visited by two California men who are walking cross-country to raise awareness about bullying. The logistics of their journey are themselves inspiring — they walked into Philly from King of Prussia and then set off, on foot, for Trenton, treks that some of us won’t even make via car. But it’s the mission taking them to the pavement each day that is even more impressive. The pair is looking to keep the conversation about bullying alive, from speaking engagements at colleges to casual interactions with passersby as they tie purple ribbons in spots across the country, symbolizing the lives lost due to bullying. Bullying, particularly for LGBT youth, came to the forefront of the national consciousness several years ago, especially after the death of Rutgers University student Tyler Clementi. But the national spotlight on the issue seems to be waning, making the Friend Movement Walk essential. And LGBT issues of all stripes should be considered in the same vein. Community passion about a particular topic sometimes ebbs and flows, peaking with timely events and occasions, and dissipating when other issues of the day seem to take precedence. But keeping the discussion alive, on a grassroots level, will be key to solidifying a foundation from which they can grow. When there was a spate of antigay violence in New York City, which impacted, among others, a former Philadelphia resident, we saw rallies and calls for legislation and revamped law-enforcement policies. When the Employment NonDiscrimination Act came up for a vote earlier this week, we saw petitions crop up on social media urging LGBT workplace protections. When Proposition 8 was passed in California, we saw protests around the nation calling for equal treatment of same-sex couples. Many LGBTs and allies, and groups that serve the community, continue these discussions throughout the year, but those efforts need ongoing and committed grassroots support. We need to be talking about antigay violence, workplace discrimination and relationship recognition — as well as youth bullying and the myriad other issues marginalizing the LGBT community — at every opportunity possible. Just as the Friend Movement Walk participants are taking the chance to speak with every curious bystander about the issue of youth bullying, keeping the other pertinent issues alive, and moving forward, depends upon the continuous investment of supporters. There isn’t an easy fix to any ill plaguing our community or any other minority population, but making sure we ourselves stay passionate and engaged about the issues can help generate passion and engagement from new allies. And the more voices we have in our corner, and the more feet we have hitting the pavement for us, the closer we can come to equality. ■

It’s a dark day for gay and bi-curious men. Well, at least for all the gay and bi-curious men who were hoping to do the gay sex with the American Family Association’s Bryan Fischer. For years there have been rumors. Is he or isn’t he? Could this man who calls homosexuality a “disease” and “a sickness” secretly want to hump a hunk of a man? Could this man who rails against homosexuality, saying that he is “grossed out by what homosexuals do,” be just another right-wing closet case? After all, Fischer would be in storied company: Larry Craig, Ted Haggard, George Rekers, Jim West, Mark Foley. I could go on. Until now, nobody knew for sure. Until now, nobody had been brave enough to ask Fischer directly. But that all changed when a gay named Wes called up Fischer’s AFA radio program to have words with the man who, quite frankly, seems obsessed with homosexuality and consumed with vitriol for gays. “I do not believe people are born homosexual,” Fischer told his caller. “I believe it’s a matter of sexual behavior and conduct, which is always a matter of choice.” This is no revelation. Fischer has long claimed that people aren’t born gay, but there are people who have gay sex because they eeny-meenyminy-moed it or something. But worry not. He has scorn for single people, too. “We have single people in our churches,” he tells Wes, “and our message to them is, ‘Look, to have sex outside of marriage — I don’t care whether it’s gay sex or straight sex — to have sex outside of marriage is a sin in the eyes of God and we believe that you can remain abstinent, you can remain chaste, that you have a choice over what you do with your sexual impulses. You don’t have to give in to every sexual impulse that you feel.” You hear that, pervs? Fischer is equal opportunity sex-negative. If you’re not married, you shouldn’t be doing “it,”

whether you’re doing gay “it” or straight “it.” Ha ha, just kidding. Fischer definitely cares whether you’re doing gay sex or straight sex. Because he doesn’t think same-sex couples should be allowed to get married. Which means he doesn’t think gays and lesbians should ever have sex. Unless, of course, they’re having sex with a straight person they tricked into marrying them. Wes then goes in for the kill. “I have something I would like to ask you,” he says. “Could you have sex with a man?” This question catches Fischer off guard. “Would I?” he asks. Wes corrects him: “Could you?” “No,” Fischer replies, surprised laughter in his voice. When Wes reminds Fischer he claims gay sex is a choice, something people could choose to do or not do, rather than an orientation, Fischer responds, “Sure it is, I’m just saying it’s emotionally, morally, mentally impossible for me ... [T]here is nothing in me that would let me do that.” Alas. Sorry, guys. Wes then points out that he feels the same way about women that Fischer feels about men. Thankfully Fischer can mansplain that. “Well that’s fine,” Fischer says. “Wes, my point is that if an individual does not have a legitimate way to satisfy their sexual impulses, then the path that God has designed for them is the path of abstinence, chastity and celibacy.” How convenient that what God wants so perfectly aligns with what Fischer hates. So keep it in your pants, homos, and thank God for your sexless lives. What a gift. ■

“Wes, my point is that if an individual does not have a legitimate way to satisfy their sexual impulses, then the path that God has designed for them is the path of abstinence, chastity and celibacy.”

D’Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay since 2003. She’s a freelance writer and poet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the creeps of the world, she reviews rock ’n’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister.

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Channeling Stalin I don’t know if you’ve heard, but life is getting pretty damn scary for gays and lesbians in Russia. Russian President Vladimir Putin has pushed through a strict new law, allegedly merely to ban so-called “gay propaganda,” but the terms are so broad that it essentially criminalizes homosexuality. Yes, if you hold hands on the streets of Moscow, you will be arrested and imprisoned. Or worse. Putin’s actions and attitude have given license and tacit approval to expressions of violent homophobia throughout Russia. Arrests and bloody beatings of gay people have proliferated at an appalling rate, with no end to the escalation in sight. Prominent American gay activist/writer/actor Harvey Fierstein has been one of the few voices in this country trying to raise a klaxon about the growing crisis for gays over there. He’s been equating Putin’s actions today to the rise of Nazism in Germany, and indeed there are a lot of historical parallels. However, I believe it would be irresponsible to invoke the “H” word in regards to gays in Russia — at this point, anyway. While gays are indeed being harassed and beaten and imprisoned, there is as yet no sign of the systematic and organized extermination of gays that was visited on the Jews in the time of Nazi Germany. Now, it is true that Putin is following several Hitlerian precedents, including assuming (rightly, so far) that he can do what he pleases in terms of violating human rights within his borders and the world will do nothing substantive in response except stand back and tut-tut uselessly. International outrage has been tepid where it’s been displayed at all. Even the response from the international gay community has been lackluster, at best. The feeble attempt in America to start a boycott of Stoli vodka in gay bars is an insult to the gravity of the crisis. (Stoli isn’t even a Russian company, but even if it were, Putin would be laughing at the silliness of it all.) Fierstein’s point is, of course, that the Western powers stood idly by while the Nazis initiated the Jewish Holocaust. While Fierstein certainly makes a valid point, I don’t think Putin is deliberately following the Hitlerian path — he’s not that smart or organized. If anything, his actions so far can be characterized as malicious thuggery. It’s more a case of

channeling Stalin, who, while he was by no means stupid, was more a brutal, genocidal thug than anything else. Stalin’s oppression was not based on any ideology; it was the motivation of a bully given power. That is how Putin should be characterized. But the most distressing thing about this whole issue goes beyond the growing cruelty and sanctioned brutality against gays in Russia — gays have been facing this in Africa and Asia and America (remember Matthew Shepard?) — for years now. For me, the issue is the continuing lack of official outrage and indignation from so-called enlightened Western governments. We have allowed ourselves to be consoled by the spread of marriage equality in Europe and the United States, believing that this was an indication of support for our rights as human beings. But as response to this crisis in Russia, and elsewhere, shows, support for gays may be widespread, but it is also appallingly shallow. They are our friends when it is politically expedient for them to be, and when it brings little cost. I understand how frustrating it is, knowing how little we as a community can actually do to change what’s happening over there — but it’s just sad to see that what little can be done is not being done. The international gay community should be holding constant demonstrations outside every Russian embassy in every Western country that gives lip service to human rights, as well as at the United Nations. And Western governments need to put their money where their mouths are, so to speak, and start organizing an international underground railroad to help any gay person who wants to escape Russia do so. But are we and our Russian brethren getting even lukewarm diplomatic tut-tuts of support? I haven’t seen it. So, yes, I deplore Putin’s descent into Stalinesque brutality. But it’s also a harsh wake-up call for gay activists around the world, to remind us of how fragile our positions continue to be. And how little it would take to channel Stalin elsewhere. ■ Gary L. Day is an office manager and freelance writer who lives in Center City. He was associate editor of PGN from 1983-95.

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What type of federal antibias protections do you think exist for LGBTs in the workplace? “It would surprise me if there are any federal protections for gay people in this country. I’ve heard a lot of bad stories Oskar Juul Darket about gay child-care worker people being Copenhagen, discriminated Denmark against in America. I’ve also heard about the gay bashings. Antigay violence in my country is very rare. I haven’t researched the subject. But my gut tells me there are no [federal] protections.”

“Well, I know there’s a law against sexually harassing members of the LGBT community at work. That’s Molly Hughes spelled production designer out in my Society Hill employment contract. But I’ve never seen any hiring and firing protections for LGBTs. So I’m assuming there is no [federal] law against that, which is unfortunate. Not hiring someone because of their sexual preference is bizarre.”

“There has to be a federal gay-rights law. Just like there’s a federal law against racial discrimination. This is the 21st Neal Moore century. salesperson Common Cherry Hill, N.J. sense tells me there’s a [federal] gayrights law on the books. In this country, you’re not allowed to fire someone because they’re gay, just like you can’t fire someone because they’re black.”

“I’m not sure. My guess is there aren’t any. But there definitely should be. People should be able to Catherine go to work Signorello in a safe homemaker environment. Society Hill They shouldn’t have to worry about someone else’s prejudices concerning their private life.”

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Discrimination Act going to the Senate floor for debate and thank him for his decision, and hope he continues to support workplace equality for all Americans by voting yes on ENDA. His decision and that of other senators on Monday show support for ENDA high among Republicans and Democrats alike, because it hits us all at our shared American values. I grew up in Northeast Philadelphia, the third of four children to Italian parents. I was raised Catholic, attended Catholic elementary school, Catholic high school and even earned my bachelor of science degree from a Catholic univerPAGE 27

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Jersey man indicted for male prostitution ring By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com A Ventnor, N.J., man was indicted last week by a state grand jury on charges that he operated an all-male prostitution ring out of his apartment. Marc Branch, 40, was indicted Oct. 31 on charges of human trafficking, aggravated sexual assault, engaging in prostitution with a minor, promoting prostitution, endangering the welfare of a child and related charges. Prosecutors say Branch allegedly lured males, ranging from their teens to late 20s, to his apartment and provided them, including at least one minor, narcotics, including cocaine, heroin and alcohol. He then prostituted the males to other male clients, who prosecutors say paid up to $200 for each sexual act. Branch allegedly posted naked photos of the males on Craigslist, Facebook and Twitter to set up the encounters. The Division of Criminal Justice Human Trafficking Unit and the FBI Human Trafficking Task Force in Atlantic City led the investigation. Also indicted was Francis H. Forvour, a Maple Shade resident, who was charged

with aggravated sexual assault. Forvour, 47, allegedly performed a sex act on a 16-yearold male, who was unconscious at the time, in 2011 or 2012. He has also been charged with sexual assault on a minor and endangering the welfare of a child. New Jersey Acting Attorney General John Hoffman said in a statement that Branch ensnared “troubled young men” in a life of prostitution. “The level of his depravity is illustrated by the incident in which he allegedly rendered an underage boy unconscious using narcotics so Forvour could sexually assault him, all to turn a quick profit,” he said. “This type of callous sexual exploitation of the very vulnerable fits a classic pattern of human trafficking.” Also charged in the case was Shaun P. Hussey, 29, who allegedly conspired with Branch and Forvour to hide evidence and interfere with witnesses. He is charged with third-degree conspiracy. Branch was originally arrested last year in this case and is currently serving a state prison sentence for drug possession. Forvour was arrested in December and is being held at the Burlington County jail on $100,000 bail. ■

NJ club opens with new name, look By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com LGBTs and allies will have a new place to call their own in South Jersey later this month. Club Revolution will open its doors Nov. 16 in Hammonton, N.J. The club is owned by Kristen Distler and Filomena Boccella, who owned the former Club In Or Out that previously occupied the space since 2009. The owners closed down Club In Or Out about six months ago and leased the venue to another establishment while they made some renovations — but are now ready to reopen their doors. “We gave the establishment a facelift,” Boccella said. “We did a lot of remodeling and expanding to give a fresh, bold new start to the club and the business.” The physical changes include a new lounge area, and the club will also now offer a food menu. The name is meant to reflect the new vibe of the venue, Boccella said. “We wanted something bold and catchy and we came up with Revolution,” she said. “Everyone we mentioned it to loved the name. People are really excited about the

opening and we’ve gotten a lot of positive feedback.” Boccella said she and Distler are also looking to bring in new entertainment, shows and events. They are teaming with Prismatic Events and Promotions, based in Galloway Township, and will also be working with Denise Cohen of Groove Philly, the former manager of Sisters. Boccella said Club In Or Out drew in a diverse crowd, and she expects the same of Club Revolution. “It was always a very mixed crowd, and that’s what we want,” she said. “We’d never exclude anyone; we love the boys and we love the girls and we want everyone to feel welcome.” The club is about 30 miles outside of Philadelphia in an area that Boccella said is quickly becoming popular with the LGBT community. “Hammonton is the hub of South Jersey and it’s a very diverse and up-and-coming town,” she said. “It’s a friendly environment that I think people will really love.” The grand-opening party will start at 7 p.m. Nov. 16 at 19 N. Egg Harbor Road. For more information, visit www.clubrevolution1.com or search Facebook for Club Revolution. ■

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Wedding Paul Rose and Vince Cardinal By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com Days after the New Jersey Supreme Court ruled that same-sex couples could get married, two Philadelphia natives tied the knot in the Garden State. Paul Rose, 65, and Vince Cardinal, 71, married Oct. 29 in Gloucester Township in a ceremony officiated by Mayor David Meyer. The wedding was the first samesex marriage Meyer presided over and the first in the Gloucester Township Municipal Building. The pair have been together for 42 years. They met in March 1971 at the old Allegro Bar on Spruce Street. The two, who live in Sicklerville, N.J., said they were smitten with each other from the start. “I remember I thought he was the handsomest man I had ever seen,” Rose said. “And I still think that.” Cardinal added, “He was really cute and just had killer looks and he still does.” The pair soon learned they had a lot in common in addition to their initial attraction: Rose worked as a high-school counselor for the School District of Philadelphia, where Cardinal was a high-school English teacher. Rose worked at Furness and William Penn high schools for 30 years, retiring in 2002, while Cardinal retired from Ben Franklin High School in 1996. They said they had long considered themselves engaged, although there was no official proposal. “We were engaged for 42 years. We considered ourselves to be together since March 9 and have always considered that our anniversary,” Rose said. “We always wanted to get married. We just wanted a piece of paper that says the way we always felt.” The pair applied for a domestic-partnership status in New Jersey when it was first implemented in 2004, but did not apply for a civil union when they became available in 2007. “We wouldn’t do a civil union because it was like a second-class citizenship. We wanted to be married here in the state we lived in and were willing to wait for the New Jersey court’s decision,” Cardinal said. A New Jersey Superior Court judge in September ruled that the civil-union system was unconstitutional and mandated marriage equality. Gov. Chris Christie appealed and requested a stay, but the New Jersey Supreme Court denied both requests. Same-sex marriage became legal Oct. 21. Rose said the ruling was a long time in coming. “We didn’t think it would happen in our lifetime. It never crossed our minds all those years ago. We always considered

ourselves married, but never thought it would happen legally and publicly,” Rose said. After the court ruled, Rose immediately emailed Gloucester Township Mayor David Mayer asking him to officiate their wedding. The mayor responded within 30 minutes and said he would be “delighted” to conduct the ceremony. “After we were done filling out paperwork, Mayer turned to us and said, ‘OK, let’s go make history in this office,’” Rose

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said. “The mayor is a wonderful guy.” Rose noted that the emotion of having their decades-long relationship finally recognized by their state was overwhelming. “When they got to the vows, I hardly got through them because I was in tears. It was such an amazing thing to have happened at our age,” he said. “Marriage is something that is important in many ways and something people take for granted. I have nieces and nephews and it was never a second thought for them. People who are straight consider it a part of their lives. I don’t know if they can understand how important it is for us at our age and our years together to have this opportunity.” The pair were married with close friends as witnesses. Even after their 42 years together, Cardinal said taking their relationship to this next level has changed them as a couple. “You feel different somehow after the ceremony,” Cardinal said. “Now when I go to the doctor’s, I can check off that I am married.” “It did feel different even after the initial celebration and joy of the ceremony,” Rose added. “It is a feeling I cannot describe.” ■

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ate your concern, then it may be a good idea to check in again. Determine whether they are staying on top of their household finances. Are bills getting paid on time? Are investments being monitored? Also, ask about their use of banking technologies, such as automatic teller machines, direct deposit and automatic bill paying. For instance, the vast majority of Social Security recipients now use direct deposit for their benefits checks. Conveniences such as this can simplify money management for older individuals and provide a sense of security and control over day-to-day financial affairs.

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Estate planning Estate planning is the key to making sure that everything you have worked for in life is passed on according to your wishes. An estate plan can be as simple as maintaining an up-todate will, or it can be expanded to include other planning mechanisms such as trusts for passing assets to children and managing taxes. Estate plans may also include other legal arrangements, such as a power of attorney and health-care proxy. A power of attorney is a legal document that designates an individual to make financial or legal decisions on behalf of another individual. A health-care proxy is a legal document in which an individual designates another person to make healthcare decisions if he or she is rendered incapable of making their wishes known. The healthcare proxy has, in essence, the same rights to request or refuse treatment that the individual would have if capable of making and communicating decisions. Together, these documents can be very important should a parent become ill or incapacitated.

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programs and discover meaningful ways to continue contributing to society. AARP (www.aarp.org) A nonprofit organization focused on enhancing the quality of life for Americans over the age of 50. The AARP offers a multitude of products and services to address health care, travel and leisure and financial issues. Administration on Aging (www.aoa.gov) An advocate agency of the federal government, the AOA offers a variety of print and online materials for elders, their families and professionals regarding housing, medical, caregiving and services for seniors. ElderWeb (www.elderweb.com) A rich collection of online resources for the elderly and their caregivers on financial matters, health care, living arrangements and social, mental and legal issues. *2013 Genworth Financial Cost of Care Survey This article is not intended to provide specific investment or tax advice for any individual. Consult your financial advisor, your tax advisor or Jeremy if you have any questions. ALERT: With all of the exciting recent news coming from Washington, D.C., about samesex marriage recognition for certain federalbenefits programs, I’m sure many of you have questions. Please feel free to contact me if I can offer any guidance on how these latest developments may impact you and your partner. And please look for upcoming OutMoney columns, which will address some of these issues as they continue to develop. Jeremy R. Gussick is a financial advisor with LPL Financial, the nation’s largest independent broker-dealer.* Jeremy specializes in the financial planning needs of the LGBT community and was recently named a 2013 FIVE STAR Wealth Manager by Philadelphia Magazine.** He is active with several LGBT organizations in the Philadelphia region, including the Delaware Valley Legacy Fund, the Greater Philadelphia Professional Network and the Independence Business Alliance. OutMoney appears monthly. If you have a question for Jeremy, contact him via email at jeremy.gussick@lpl.com. LPL Financial, a Registered Investment Advisor. Member FINRA/SIPC. *As reported by Financial Planning magazine, 1996-2013, based on total revenues. **2012-2013 Five Star Wealth Manager Award based on 10 objective criteria associated with providing quality services to clients such as credentials, experience, and assets under management among other factors. Prior to 2012, award was based on client satisfaction. Respondents evaluated criteria such as customer service, expertise, value for fee charge and overall satisfaction. The overall score is based on an average of all respondents and may not be representative of any one client’s experience. ■

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News Briefing Milano’s killer appeals to Third Circuit Attorneys for Frank R. Chester, who participated in the grisly slashing death of gay artist Anthony Milano in 1987, continued to seek his freedom by filing an appeal with the Third Circuit Court of Appeals. The appeal was filed Oct. 23. In 1988, a Bucks County jury found Chester and Richard R. Laird guilty of first-degree murder and sentenced them to death. But in 2011, U.S. District Judge C. Darnell Jones 2d vacated Chester’s firstdegree murder conviction, citing faulty jury instructions. Chester also wanted Jones to vacate his lesser convictions — including seconddegree murder and kidnapping — so that he can be released from prison. On Oct. 8, Jones denied Chester’s request, which is the ruling Chester’s attorneys appealed to the Third Circuit Court of Appeals. Chester, 45, is temporarily incarcerated at the Federal Detention Center in Philadelphia. In 2006, prosecutors retried Laird for first-degree murder, and a Bucks County jury re-sentenced him to death. Laird, 50, remains on death row at the state prison in Franklin Township.

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Last summer, her estranged in-laws, Joan and David Farley, who also wanted the money, dropped their appeal in the case. In August, Cozen O’Connor, the employer of Tobits’ deceased wife Sarah Ellyn Farley, deposited the disputed funds totaling $43,833.35 in a court registry. The following month, U.S. District Judge C. Darnell Jones 2d formally closed the case, after ruling in favor of Tobits. But the funds haven’t been disbursed to Tobits. This week, a court-registry spokesperson, who asked to be anonymous, said the funds would be disbursed to Tobits within the next few weeks. Christopher F. Stoll, an attorney for Tobits, said getting the money to her is “the final administrative detail that needs to be completed.” He said Tobits is holding up well, under the circumstances. “She is just happy to have the lawsuit over with and to know the court ruled that the employer needs to respect her marriage,” Stoll said. Tobits and Farley lived in Illinois and were married in Canada in 2006. Farley worked at Cozen O’Connor as an attorney before her death in 2010. Farley’s parents argued that they were entitled to their daughter’s death benefits, since the couple’s marriage wasn’t recognized in Illinois or Pennsylvania. But Jones sided with Tobits, stating there could be “no doubt” that Tobits is Farley’s

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William Way hosts adoption event The LGBTQ Wellness Resource Awareness Center, an online resource bank, will partner with the William Way LGBT Community Center to celebrate National Adoption Month. LWRAC and William Way will host an adoption and foster awareness event from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Nov. 16 at 1315 Spruce St. The event will bring Statewide Adoption and Permanency Network-affiliated agencies to talk with potential parents about the adoption and foster process. The event is free to the public. For more information, visit www.lwrac. org.

Theater co. stages fundraiser The gay-owned Center City Theatre Works will present “Thunder Showers & Summer Clearance,” a 1970s disco dance fundraiser, from 7:30-11:30 p.m. Nov. 16 at Old Pine Community Center, 401

Lombard St. The event will raise funds for the company’s spring production, “They’re Playing Our Song,” which will play at the Skybox at the Adrienne from April 9-26. Tickets are $21 in advance and $25 at the door, and the event will include a costume contest, raffle and auction, 1970s-themed signature cocktails, food and dancing. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.centercitytheatreworks. org.

Focus on family Family Service Association of Northeastern Pennsylvania and the Northeastern Pennsylvania Rainbow Alliance will join for a conference in honor of National Family Week. “LGBTQA United Together: Individuals, Families, Communities” will be held from 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Nov. 15 at the Genetti Hotel & Conference Center in Wilkes-Barre. The conference will feature workshops on topics such as the coming-out process, safe schools, workplace discrimination, LGBT hate crimes and local LGBT advocacy efforts. Resource tables will also be available at the conference. General registration is $15 and student registration is $10. For more information, visit www. gaynepa.com/educational_conference. ■ — Angela Thomas

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was a pleasure to work with. “He was amazing. He was an absolute gem. My very first big scene was with him on the last season and he was a great person to work with,” he said. “There was just something about him. He had a presence where you wanted to work with him and have a conversation with him. It was an honor to work with him.” Newell said the emotions shown dur-

ing the episode were all genuine, noting there was barely any need for acting. He said seeing his fellow cast members break down during shooting was one of the hardest things he has had to witness. “I loved Cory as much as the next person. People who worked with him over the years were devastated and extremely upset,” he said. “The people that loved him were more upset out of anyone and seeing them cry and dealing with that was hard. I hate seeing people I love deal with this pain.” After the Monteith tribute episode, “Glee” returned Nov. 7, and although he was not at liberty to give all the details, Newell said fans can expect many good things for Unique’s storyline. As for Newell’s own future plans, he just last week was signed to a record deal and plans to continue acting and ultimately perform on Broadway. Newell said he is excited and honored to headline The Attic’s 20th Anniversary Gala and said the center is a great resource for LGBT and ally youth. “It is a place of comfort when you’re lost and don’t know where else to turn to. Places like The Attic are good for people who think they have nothing else left in the world. They teach you otherwise.” For more information on The Attic Youth Center, visit www.atticyouthcenter.org. ■

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Media Trail N.D. Guard issuing IDs for same-sex couples The Grand Forks Herald reports the North Dakota National Guard says it will issue military identification for same-sex couples. Guard spokeswoman Billie Jo Lorius said the move was made because North Dakota gets federal funding for Guard units. Some Guard units in states that do not recognize gay marriage were singled out by Defense Secretary Chuck Hagel in a speech before the Anti-Defamation League.

The Defense Department began issuing identity cards to the spouses in same-sex marriages following a Supreme Court ruling this year that cleared the way for them to receive the same work-related benefits given to heterosexual couples.

Trans student prompts Colo. complaint The Pueblo Chieftain reports three Colorado high-school girls are alleging harassment because a transgender student is using the girls’ bathroom. The California-based Pacific Justice Institute, a firm specializing in parental rights, is representing the girls from two Florence families. Attorney Matthew McReynolds says allowing a “biologically teenage boy” in a girls’ bathroom “is inherently harassing.” McReynolds sent a letter Oct. 10 to Superintendent Rhonda Vendetti and

Florence High School Principal Brian Schipper. Vendetti said school officials are working with the group to reach a fair and equitable resolution. The school asked Florence police to investigate the harassment allegations, but authorities said they’ve closed the case because the girls would not cooperate.

First male same-sex wedding at West Point USA Today reports two West Point graduates were married Nov. 2 in the military academy’s first wedding between two men. Larry Choate III, class of 2009, married Daniel Lennox, class of 2007, before some 20 guests. Choate, 27, taught Sunday School at the U.S. Military Academy’s Cadet Chapel and said he always thought of it as the place he would get married if he could.

West Point hosted two same-sex weddings of women in late 2012, more than a year after New York legalized gay marriage. But the Nov. 2 wedding was the first time two men wed at West Point. “It’s maybe one more barrier that’s pushed over a little bit, or maybe one more glass ceiling that’s shattered that makes it easier for the next couple,” Choate said Nov. 1. Choate and Lennox wore tuxedos for the ceremony. Some of their guests were in uniform. The 28-year-old Lennox is getting his master’s degree in business administration at Harvard University. Choate is applying to Harvard’s John F. Kennedy School of Government. The pair did not know each other as cadets but met later through a friend. Chaplain Cynthia Lindenmeyer officiated at the ceremony. ■ — compiled by Larry Nichols

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change “makes it clear that, if a gender is not entered in the birth entry, it is not absolutely certain.”

International Germany to introduce a third option for gender Starting Nov. 1, birth certificates in Germany have the option “blank,” as well as “male” or “female.” Germany is the first country in Europe to do so. Parents who use the “blank” option will allow for their offspring, such as those born with characteristics of both genders, to decide their gender identity in later life, or to opt out of the gender binary all together. Dr. Philipp Spauschus, spokesman for the Federal Ministry of the Interior, said the

Barilla to make ‘inclusive’ ads Barilla, the Italian pasta company that came under fire after its chairman said he would “never feature an ad with a gay family,” now plans to do just that. Barilla Chairman Guido Barilla, 55, came under fire in September after he said, “I would never make a spot with a homosexual family. Not out of a lack of respect but because I don’t see it like they do. [My idea of] family is a classic family where the woman has a fundamental role.” Many organizations called for a boycott of the 130-year-old brand. The chairman has since held at least eight meetings with LGBT organizations in the United States and Italy.

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“Italy is a very insular country, and in cities like Parma it’s even more so,” Luca Virginio said on behalf of Barilla. “We are already working on a new advertising concept that will be much more open and much more inclusive.” The company plans to introduce a gay American activist to its board.

Attack on LGBT meeting in Russia Antigay attackers invaded a private meeting in St. Petersburg, Russia, Nov. 3. The incident took place at the offices of LaSky, an HIV and STD information and treatment clinic that serves LGBT people. Two masked men entered the center claiming to be looking for a friend, and then one opened fire while the other brandished a baseball bat, injuring two of the LGBT and ally youth who were at the Rainbow Coffee Party, according to LaSky.

One man was transported to the hospital with “a bullet stuck in his eye” and doctors did not expect to be able to save the eye. The second victim was a young woman, who was injured by the baseball bat. “Today’s attack is a result of escalation of homophobic climate in the city,” said Valery Sozaev, LaSky’s project manager. “Those who foster the feelings of hatred on the ground of sexual orientation or gender identity including politicians and religious leaders must be accounted for it.” About 30 people were at the meeting. Police came to the LaSky office to investigate the assault but left immediately, saying they saw no evidence of a crime. Just one day before the attack at LaSky, activists took to the streets of St. Petersburg for the ninth annual March Against Hatred, an officially sanctioned rally that called for an end to discrimination, intolerance and xenophobia in Russia. ■ — compiled by Larry Nichols

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to demonstrate that support tonight,” Sims said. “I am especially proud of Sen. Toomey who tonight confirmed to Americans across the nation that civil rights is not an issue of right and left, but an issue of right and wrong. Sen. Toomey’s vote in support of ENDA shows that a conservative ideology and support for LGBT equality are not mutually exclusive.” Equality Pennsylvania executive director Ted Martin said he believed the grassroots work of LGBT and ally advocates helped persuade Toomey. “After hearing from over 4,000 individual Pennsylvanians, more than 300 small-business owners and faith leaders from around the commonwealth, Sen. Toomey stood on the right side of history and against workplace discrimination,” Martin said. ENDA has been introduced repeatedly in Congress since 1994. Sen. Jeff Merkley (DELECTION from page 1

in Lycoming County, Supervisor candidate Jenn Black lost to Republican Paul Nyman. Shanker said it was important to support candidates like Black who are from areas where LGBT issues are not as visible. “We supported her because she was running a good race and it is important that LGBT candidates are supported outside of traditional areas where we know we can win,” he said. As expected, Democrats swept the

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Ore.) introduced the latest Senate version in April, and it was referred to the Committee on Health, Education, Labor and Pensions. The committee approved ENDA in July in a 15-7 vote. Prior to this week’s vote, ENDA hadn’t seen any major movement since a 2007 successful Senate vote; the House version that year did not come up for a vote. Under ENDA, it would be unlawful “to fail or refuse to hire or to discharge any individual, or otherwise discriminate against an individual with respect to the compensation, terms, conditions, or privileges of employment of the individual, because of such individual’s actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity.” ENDA would not apply to small businesses with 15 or fewer employees, and religious organizations would be exempt. The House bill was introduced by Rep. Jared Polis (D-Colo.) and referred to

the House Subcommittee on Workforce Protections. It is cosponsored by Pennsylvania Reps. Robert A. Brady (DFirst Dist.), Matt Cartwright (D-17th Dist.), Charles Dent (D-15th Dist.), Michael Doyle (D-14th Dist.), Chaka Fattah (DSecond Dist.) and Allyson Schwartz (D13th Dist.). The bill is expected to have an uphill battle in the Republican-controlled House, and Speaker John Boehner this week reiterated his opposition. In a debate on the Senate floor before the cloture vote, Sen. Tom Harkin (D-Iowa) likened ENDA to the 1990 Americans with Disabilities Act, which he spearheaded. Harkin added that the majority of Americans believe ENDA is already in place. “Eight of 10 Americans already think it is the law, so let’s make those eight out of 10 Americans who think it is a law, now really

know it is the law,” he said. “No one should be denied a job or opportunity to work because they are LGBT. Let’s make this is a bright day for America.” President Obama urged both the Senate and House to move forward with ENDA this week and, after the cloture vote, a spokesperson for the president said he “welcomes the Senate’s bipartisan first step towards final passage of [ENDA]. He has long supported an inclusive ENDA, which would establish lasting and comprehensive federal protections against employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. He thanks the lawmakers from both sides of the aisle who have stood up for America’s core values of fairness and equality, and looks forward to the Senate’s consideration of ENDA. He also encourages lawmakers to ensure that the legislation remains true to its goals as it is considered.” ■

municipal races in Philadelphia. Alan Butkovitz and Seth Williams were reelected as City Controller and District Attorney. Seven Democrats were elected to the Court of Common Pleas: Anne Marie Coyle, Timika Lane, Joe Fernandes, Daniel McCaffery, Sierra Thomas Street, J. Scott O’Keefe and Giovanni Campbell. Shanker said Campbell’s victory was a positive for the LGBT community. “It is good news for the LGBT community,” he said. “We need to search for

more fair-minded individuals because we see LGBT issues going to the courts more and more.” At the state level, Democratic candidate for Superior Court Jack McVay fell to Republican Vic Stabile, who won with 51 percent of the vote. Across the river, New Jersey re-elected Republican Gov. Chris Christie, with Democratic challenger Barbara Buono trailing far behind. In her concession speech, Buono blamed a lack support from Democratic

leaders for her loss. “The Democratic political bosses, some elected, and some not, made a deal with this governor, despite him representing everything they are supposed to be against,” she said. Shanker said the mixed bag of wins and losses were a lesson that the LGBT community is an important voting bloc. “[Candidates] understand that the LGBT community votes, that we as a community help them get there and push them on issues they need to work on.” ■

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they have been fortunate to have had good weather conditions throughout the past month. They try to take side streets whenever possible, which has allowed them to come into contact with a wealth of diverse passersby. “We had a family waiting at a bus stop and they asked, ‘What are the purple ribbons for?’ and we told them and they thanked us and gave us a big hug and thanked us for protecting their kids,” Kroell said. “It was really cool and they tied ribbons with us.” It has been the stories they’ve heard on the road that Kroell said have had the most impact on him and London. “Our lives will never be the same after this trip. Between the people we’ve met, the stories they’ve shared with us, the tragedies they’ve lived through, there is still hope in the community,” he said. “They are just trying to figure out what that looks like and for us, that is just taking a different approach. The opposite of bullying is friendship, so let’s focus on how to be better friends with each other to solve the problem.” LETTER from page 11

sity. I was blessed to have good parents who taught me right from wrong. They told me to work hard, treat others how I would want to be treated, to find my place in this world and to make a difference. My Catholic education taught me those same principles so, needless to say, I was well prepared for the world when I went off on my own. I worked for 35 years in the banking industry and I found the place within the bank where I could make the biggest difference, working with small businesses. I loved my job because each and every day I had the opportunity to work with, help, support or just talk to a small business owner. I believe small business is the backbone to our economy, as well as our country. I was successful in my career because I followed the advice I received from my parents and my teachers. I am not just an advocate but I am passionate about small business. I made a difference until I lost my job. I now work at two Catholic churches as their business manager and once again I feel I am making a difference. Both priests I work for know me and who I am, and they are supportive and allow me to do my job without feeling threatened. When people go to work and live with the threat of discrimination and losing their job just because they are gay, lesbian,

There has also been ample opportunity for education. London said he was surprised to find out how many adults still think bullying is only physical. “They don’t understand the concept now that it can be totally behind the screens, so it’s important for us to create this dialogue and see how people are being bullied and how we can help them,” he said. The ultimate lesson the pair is taking away from the journey, Kroell said, is that people need to embrace themselves. “I think what we can learn is that if we all can be better friends to ourselves, if you can look into the mirror and say, ‘I love you,’ you walk through the world a little differently,” he said. “Everyone should be celebrated and in this country we were founded on individuality and diversity. We need to embrace it and celebrate it.” Kroell and London will meet at the George Washington Bridge at 10 a.m. Nov. 10. The pair is hoping for a crowd of over 100 to walk over the bridge with them at noon. For more information, visit www.friendmovement.org. ■ bisexual or transgender, they can’t possibly feel good. They can and usually do perform at a high level but can’t enjoy what it is they are doing. Not only do they suffer, but the company they work for suffers, as do the customers and the community. And that will have a negative impact on society. The Employment Nondiscrimination Act is morally right. My parents would agree, my family agrees, my friends agree and the people of my faith community agree. It’s time all of us here in this country are treated fairly. It’s time all of us can feel safe going to work without fear of losing our jobs. It’s time to let these gifted people perform at the highest level and make a difference. It’s time. It makes me sad that we are still not considered equal and it makes me even sadder that in my own state, the state where our country got started, where the words “Freedom for All” can still be heard when you walk by Independence Hall, discrimination in the workplace is allowed. So, I strongly urge Sen. Patrick Toomey to support the Employment Nondiscrimination Act in its current form. I ask him to do it not only for the moral reasons but the economic ones too. And I ask him to do it because that is what makes this country so great. ■

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Community LGBT Event Outfest www.phillypride.org

Philly Pride Presents’ OutFest is the largest National Coming Out Day event in the world. The idea for NCOD celebrations grew from the second March on Washington D.C., for gay and lesbian equality on Oct. 11, 1987, and took hold in the LGBT community, spawning celebrations in numerous cities around the country. Philadelphia was one of the first cities to organize around NCOD on a large scale by creating a block party in 1990 to showcase the many facets of our community, which quickly grew into OutFest. Held the Sunday prior to Columbus Day every October, OutFest attracts tens of thousands of people. With the feel of an oldfashioned block party, OutFest involves an array of local bars, restaurants, businesses and community nonprofits; showcases local talent; and offers a day of free and fun networking, entertainment and celebration. LGBT Fundraiser TOY www.dvlf.org The Delaware Valley Legacy Fund is celebrating 20 years of meeting the emerging needs of the LGBT community. The organization was created in 1993 to benefit the Philadelphia region’s LGBT community by raising money for a permanent endowment. DVLF

fosters positive change every year through advocacy, grantmaking, scholarships, programming and education. Now in its seventh year, TOY is DVLF’s annual holiday fundraising event and raises money for DVLF’s mission while collecting toys for children in need. TOY is the premiere party of the season, and this year’s event will be held Dec. 7 at Reading Terminal Market, where guests will enjoy a memorable evening of friends, music, food and fun while helping to support DVLF and make a difference in the lives of some special children. LGBT Nonprofit William Way LGBT Community Center 1315 Spruce St. 215-732-2220 www.waygay.org T h e Wi l l i a m Wa y L G B T Community Center is the hub of activity for the Delaware Valley’s LGBT population. Every year, more than 60,000 LGBT friends and allies seek out the center to connect with other people, build community and access support services and programs that meet their most pressing needs. The center is open 365 days a year. During the holidays when everywhere else is closed, and when our senior friends without families or who have been abandoned by their families feel most alone, most isolated, most at risk for depression, the center is open. The center is welcoming. The center is home. Everyone at the center — staff, board and volunteers — is pro-

foundly committed to addressing the unique needs of the community. And the community looks to the center for life-saving and life-affirming social, emotional and educational support, as well as arts and cultural programming that is accessible to everyone. LGBT Sports Organization City of Brotherly Love Softball League www.cblsl.org The City of Brotherly Love Softball League is a slow-pitch club that just celebrated its 30th season. CBLSL has come a long way from one field and five teams 30 years ago to six fields, approximately 700 members and more than 35 teams in its women’s and open co-ed divisions. CBLSL seeks to support the overall community, having donated this year to William Way, The Attic and One Fund Boston, while providing social alternatives to its members. The league has been tearing down stereotypes while providing a safe, comfortable environment for all. It welcomes players of all skill levels. Most CBLSL members have developed bonds that will last a lifetime; players are not only teammates but family, and find camaraderie both on and off the field. CBLSL has established its name in Philadelphia and abroad, as many teams travel to — and have come out on top in — national tournaments. CBLSL maintains its humble roots and close-knit family feel while continuing to expand its dimensions.

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Activist Dan Mangini Dan Mangini brings a unique sensitivity, respect and concern for the men and trans women he serves as an HIV counselor and tester for the University of Pennsylvania’s Men’s Testing Initiative. Mangini brings to this position a wealth of personal experience and knowledge about HIV prevention, the importance of knowing your status and making healthy choices. He will openly share his story, not to take center stage, but to normalize the clients’ feelings, explaining they are not alone. Mangini shines as a mentor to the young men and women negotiating the world of love, romance and HIV. He is consistently advocating to revise the cumbersome processes to become more userfriendly, especially for teens and young adults. Advocacy is Mangini’s middle name, both at work and in his personal life. He is honored and humbled to receive this award once again, and thanks all who voted for him. Bartender Kenny K. at Tabu 200 S. 12th St. 215-964-9675 www.tabuphilly.com It’s a hat trick for Kenny K., who picked up his third consecutive Best of Gay Philly award in the bartending category. Kenny has been part of the Tabu team since “day one,” he said, when the establishment opened its doors in March 2010.

Kenny, a native of New Jersey who lives in Queen Village, brought to Tabu a wealth of experience in the restaurant/bar industry, specifically a dedication to establishing individual relationships with his guests. “I love my guests,” he said. “I chat with my guests and want to make them feel like they’re at home. If a customer is sitting there next to a customer they don’t know, I make sure they get to know each other. That’s what keeps the bar crowded and keeps people having fun.” Kenny sends about 500 texts a week to let patrons personally know when they can stop in to find him behind the bar — 11 a.m.-4 p.m. every day except Wednesday and Saturday, as well as 4-9 p.m. Fridays for happy hour. And when they do come in, he said, he always tries to be friendly and outgoing, keeping the conversation flowing and even making up witty nicknames for patrons. “I have a great rapport with our guests,” he said. Kenny expressed gratitude for the readers and patrons who backed him for the award. “Thank you for three years in a row,” he said. “I couldn’t have done it without them and their love and continued support.” Hair Stylist Kay Shrader @ Salon K 1216 Locust St. 215-545-1880 www.salonkphiladelphia.com Kay Shrader has been a stylist for 24 years. She fulfilled her dream four years ago when she opened

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her own space, Salon K, in in the Gayborhood. Early on, she made a commitment to provide superior salon services. The LGBT community has welcomed her with open arms, and she has been just as supportive. Her commitment to the community has included home visits to people suffering from AIDS when they were too ill to leave. Shrader and her staff at Salon K, including Brent Chelkonas and Tiffany Rappe, have also attended events to support many LGBT charities including Delaware Valley Legacy Fund, Human Rights Campaign, William Way LGBT Community Center, Action AIDS and Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus. “We at Salon K will continue to perfect our craft and look forward to a long and happy relationship in Midtown Village,” she said. “Thanks to all for voting for me.” Personal Trainer Charlie Biggs Charlie Biggs is a top fitness and nutrition expert. From the City of Brotherly Love, he set out on a journey to deliver client results, practice innovative nutrition and training and spread the word of fitness and wellness. Biggs began studying kinesiology and exercise science at West Chester University and went on to work as a manager at supplement and nutrition store The Vitamin Shoppe. He broke into the training scene eight years ago and works with clients of all ages, sizes, shapes and goals with his brand, biggsBUILT. His background with CrossFIT and his studies in nutrition, functional training and bodybuilding have allowed him to find his own methods that work.

Politician Brian Sims www.pahouse.com/sims State Rep. Brian Sims represents the 182nd Legislative District. He is dedicated to making Philadelphia safer, strengthening and protecting public education, preserving services for seniors and other vulnerable Pennsylvanians, making affordable health care more available, expanding civil rights and preserving the environment while investing in alternative energy, creating jobs and cleaning up Harrisburg. In 2000, Sims came out to his football team after helping to lead it to the Division II national championship game as its captain. He remains the only former NCAA football captain to have ever come out, and is one of the most notable collegiate athletes to do so in any sport. As a state legislator, he said he is honored to represent the neighborhoods of Pennsylvania’s 182nd District: Rittenhouse, Fitler and Logan Squares, the Gayborhood, and parts of Washington Square West, Bella Vista, Graduate Hospital and Grays Ferry.

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LGBT Party Stimulus www.stimulusphilly.com In 2009, Stimulus founders Morgan Levine and Amber Hikes were disappointed by queer women’s nightlife options in Philly and decided to create their own events. That May, Stimulus Philly hosted its first party at Stir Lounge and welcomed 150 diverse attendees. Almost five years and many venues later, Stimulus parties are bigger than ever, averaging

more than 500 attendees at each monthly event. The Stimulus ladies attribute the success to the welcoming atmosphere, exciting themes and refreshing diversity at each event. Hundreds of LGBTQ people of different races, gender presentations and backgrounds come together each month for one purpose: to have an amazing time. Levine and Hikes said they thank the Stimulus staff, Stimulus family and PGN for this recognition. Join them at the Black & White Party, 10 p.m.-3:30 a.m. Nov. 22 at Voyeur Nightclub. Wine Bar Tria 1137 Spruce St. 215-629-9200 www.triacafe.com Tria’s staff works hard to make the venue the neighborhood’s destination to relax, hang out and enjoy world-class wine, cheese and beer. Tria serves wines, cheeses and beers crafted by passionate people and seeks out the best products, both locally and from around the world. Ever-changing fermentation menus are complemented by café fare served from opening to late night. Tria, above all, is a place to chill and connect with others. There are no distractions — no televisions, no karaoke, no live music, no games and no gimmicks. It’s an ancient, non-trendy — people enjoying conversationsover wine and beer. Dance Floor Woody’s 202 S. 13th St. 215-545-1893 www.woodysbar.com Woody’s was established in the 1980s as one of just a few gay

bars in Philadelphia. Since then, Woody’s has grown to become gay Philadelphia’s landmark bar. It boasts a huge main pub bar that spills out onto 13th Street and a very popular dance area on the second floor. Its most recent makeover/additions gave us the Suite, a glamorous salon-style dance floor, and Rosewood, a sexy cocktail bar and lounge that connects Woody’s to busy Walnut Street. Woody’s hosts theme nights and specials throughout the week and its dance floor is always packed with a diverse crowd of LGBTs and allies. Casino Resorts Atlantic City 1133 Boardwalk, Atlantic City, N.J. 800-334-6378 www.resortsac.com Resorts Casino Hotel was the world’s first casino to offer a fulltime LGBT nightclub dedicated to bringing the community a fun, one-of-a-kind venue. Located on the beach and boardwalk, Resorts features non-stop action on the casino floor and in Pro Bar, A.C.’s only LGBT nightclub. Featuring the Zagat Award-winning Italian gourmet restaurant Capriccio, and mouth-watering steaks at Gallagher’s Steakhouse, Resorts has a seat at our table for the most discerning taste buds. Resorts recently opened Jimmy Buffett’s Margaritaville entertainment complex, featuring the city’s first and only year-round beach bar and restaurant. Nightly live entertainment in the lounges, a piano bar and highquality shows keep the energy high and the laughs coming seven days a week at Resorts.

Theme Night The Nitty Gritty 255 S. Camac St. 215-545-8731 www.facebook.com/ NittyGrittyTwistParty The Nitty Gritty is Philadelphia’s only authentic monthly record hop. L o c a l d i s c j o c key D av i d Amodei, aka DJ Scopitone, spins a frantic mix of raw monophonic rock ’n’ roll, pop sounds, Motown favorites and forgotten garage records from the 1950s and ’60s. Two turntables and an endless stack of old 45s are resurrected each month for a rowdy roomful of vintage-clad twisters and sophisticated swingers at the Venture Inn. Dance contests spotlight some of the favorite novelty dances: the Fly, Mashed Potatoes, the Pony and the Roach, just to name a few. And every two minutes a new dusty groove cuts in. No computers, no cover and no judgment just a wild old rock-’n’ roll dancin’ party. In the words of songstress Shirley Ellis, “That’s what the real Nitty Gritty is!” Information about upcoming dance parties can be found at www.facebook.com/ NittyGrittyTwistParty. Overall Bar Tabu 200 S 12th St. 215-964-9675 www.tabuphilly.com Tabu has proven that you can be all things to all people on the bar scene. In addition to winning in the Overall Bar category, Tabu also was named best of the best for Neighborhood Bar, Sports Bar, Performance PAGE 32

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Space (Drag/Cabaret/Piano), Bar Food, Place to Grab a Beer and Happy Hour. That’s a staggering seven (!) awards this year. The staff’s approach has obviously made the bar a favorite among the gay community and straight allies. When Tabu first opened in 2010, its chalkboard wall was emblazoned with the words, “Whoever you are, you belong here.” The reason was simple: The owners knew what it was like to be the lone gay person in a straight bar and how awkward that can sometimes feel. They wanted to create a place where anyone — gay, straight, black, white, man, woman, trans, etc. — could feel right at home. And they have delivered. Tabu’s drink menu runs the gamut, with 12 draft beers and a sea of happy-hour specials, while its food menu features everything from wings to burgers to fried pickles to nosh on during a game. No matter what the sporting season, Tabu likes putting the sound of the game on so everyone can hear the announcer and get excited at every homerun, goal or touchdown. The basement level

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is also very popular with out-oftowners who want to watch their teams without facing the wrath of our passionate Philly fans. Patrons can also head upstairs to check out a bar with its own unique vibe and catch a show in the performance space which has hosted everything from comedy shows to music and drag performances. Apart from offering a diverse lineup of food, drinks and entertainment, the bar also boasts a deep commitment to the LGBT

community. In its three years in operation, Tabu has hosted hundreds of fundraisers for LGBT and allied nonprofits, exemplifying its reputation as a true community venue.

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Overall Restaurant (tie) Dinner Venture Inn 255 S. Camac St. 215-545-8731 www.viphilly.com Venture Inn’s owner is proud

and humbled to have tied in the Best Overall Restaurant category. Since 1973, Venture Inn has brought cuisine and cocktails with a fabulous happy hour and a, now, new bar menu. Some of the specialties are filet mignon, chicken livermore, classic soups, salads and tradition fare. The restaurant also offers a Sunday brunch featuring French toast and eggs Benedict, mimosas and more. Once a month, “The Venture Inn Drag Brunch” is

offered. Bob Berkowitz has owned Venture Inn since 2007 and has made many updates to the restaurant, bar and menu. Since there are many wonderful restaurants in the Gayborhood, to stand out with this honor is a real achievement for the staff at Venture Inn, as they take great pride in bringing the best American cuisine that they can to their customers said Berkowitz Venture Inn thanks all of their customers for voting.

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Overall Restaurant (tie) Non-LGBT Hangout Date Restaurant Valanni 1229 Spruce St. 215-790-9494 www.valanni.com Nabbing three awards this year, Valanni is a Center City favorite, offering distinctive Mediterranean and Latin tapas and alluring cocktails in a sensual, hip and inviting setting. The dinner menu offers something to satisfy every palate, from vegetarian to seafood to classic filet. Accompaniments and starters include artisan cheeses, flatbreads and a delectable lobster and crab mac and cheese. The brunch menu also impresses with build-your-own mimosas and brunch staples from sweet to savory, as well as the famed Valanni Hangover dish. The relaxed ambiance at Valanni is perfectly suited for that first night out with your special someone, a late-night catch-up with friends or a leisurely Sunday brunch. Ethnic Food Mixto 1141 Pine St. 215-592-0363 www.mixtorestaurante.com For the last 12 years, Mixto has been bringing Cuban, Latin-American and Caribbean cuisine to the city’s historic Antique Row. Its South Beach Miami ambiance is always popular with patrons, who flock to the sidewalk seating during the spring and summer. Place to Indulge One’s Sweet Tooth More Than Just Ice Cream 1119 Locust St. 215-574-0586 morethanjusticecream.com More Than Just Ice Cream is an iconic

restaurant/ice-cream bar in the heart of the Gayborhood. More Than Just has been open since 1975, and current owners Dalton and Rachelle just celebrated their five-year anniversary. More Than Just specializes in comfort food, especially home style desserts and, of course, ice cream. All desserts are made from scratch, with the most popular being mile high apple pie, deep dish pumpkin pie and red velvet cupcakes, which won twice at the Gayborhood Games. Coffee Shop Café Twelve 212 S. 12th St. 215-893-5680 www.facebook.com/cafetwelve Café Twelve is a locally based café and espresso bar serving varieties of organic and fair-traded coffee, chai and teas. It also provides great handmade, customized breakfast and lunch sandwiches on artisan breads, as well as house-baked cookies, scones and muffins. Café Twelve has earned a reputation as a premier Italian-style coffee bar that makes customers happy by providing a relaxed atmosphere with plenty of comfy couches, friendly staff and free wi-fi. In a nutshell, Café Twelve is a neighborhood café that invites diverse people from the area to meet, study or just relax sipping coffee and enjoying the calm music in the background — all at a fair price. Breakfast/Brunch Drag Yourself to Brunch at Fire & Ice 312 Market St. 267-273-1003 www.fireandicephilly.com “Drag Yourself to Brunch,” the brainchild of Rex Rogosch, with the help of Fire & Ice Restaurant, Bar and Lounge in Old City, has been drawing a crowd for

both top-notch food and entertainment. The concept is to provide great food and even better entertainment. With nearly 10,000 square feet of floor space available, the performances are larger than life. Live singing, stage-worthy props and bar-hopping dance moves have graced the floor at “Drag Yourself to Brunch” every third Sunday of the month. Four-star chef Christopher Nguyen serves up mouthwatering food while diners are dazzled — by the talents — and sometimes rhinestones of the all-star cast of Mercedes Monroe Casidine, Cleo Phatra and Anna Rexia.

hard every day to ensure a lunch, dinner and brunch experience worth returning to. Jeb Rehman and Zach Zebrowski are at the ready to welcome all for lunch and serve up the “home” experience that is Knock. Executive Chef Kyle Johnston is everaccommodating in the kitchen and always satisfies special orders. Crisp salads, hot soups, hearty sandwiches, a smile and a warm welcome are always on the menu for lunch at Knock. And if you think the lunch is something, wait until you try dinner and Sunday brunch!

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performing the art of drag king/male illusion in 2008 in the Carolinas, and brought that talent to the Philadelphia area in 2011. Since then, Luvermore has broken the barriers to be the first drag king to perform at such venues as Picasso’s, Beagle Tavern, Venture Inn and New Hope. Luvermore performs classic drag and celebrity impersonations, such as Tim McGraw, Larry the Cable Guy, Garth Brooks, Sir Elton John and Neil Diamond. He has also been advocating to garner the attention of several national MI systems to the drag-king talent abounding in the Philly area. This past year, Luvermore has focused on several benefits and was a judge and performer at the 2013 East Coast All-American Goddess System pageant. “I am honored and touched to have been voted your Best of Gay Philly Drag King again this year,” Luvermore said. “The support of the community is overwhelming, and the community has welcomed me with open arms.”

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Drag Queen The Goddess Isis www.facebook.com/isis.dshey

Local DJ DJ NiiLO www.facebook.com/DJNiiLO

The Goddess Isis is a 20-year veteran of the drag scene. After an extensive career hosting shows in Tennessee, Georgia, Alabama and Kentucky, this country queen brought her Southern charm to Philadelphia. After only three years in Philly, she has been featured in most major newspapers and magazines in the city, including PGN, Philadelphia Magazine and G Philly. The Goddess Isis, who won Miss Philadelphia Gay Pride 2012, is an original cast member and recurring guest at the Dollhouse Revue at Voyeur Nightclub, which is presented by Mimi Imfurst of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” fame. Isis also hosts the secondbiggest drag show in Philadelphia, Sinful Sundays at Tabu. She is also an ordained minister and working on her first major recording project, featuring her first single, “Face*Hair*Body*Work.”

Boricua-born, Florida-raised and now calling Philly home, DJ NiiLO’s live sets are a magnetic versatile mixture of world rhythms, Latin, hip hop, house, reggae and Top 40. Those hips will be moving! She mixes movements, communities and people together like records. As an activist, she works deeply with her community, working full-time at GALAEI as a counselor for LGBT youth and, as a lover of words, she’s quite the poet by craft. This has lead to her unique craft of beatmaking and mixing of sounds with poetry in the spoken word. Her range doesn’t stop there! Aside from catching her all over the city, she’s also the resident DJ of Liberty City Kings Drag and Burlesque and Maha Yoga Studios and is the DJ and host of her own Latin radio show called “Conexiones Sabados” at phillyhottradio.com. Mi gente, this woman puts in work!

Maybe it’s that hometown-boy appeal? Maybe it’s because Philly loves an underdog? Or maybe it’s because he makes awesome music? Whatever the reason, Philadelphians continue to love them some Tony Enos, as they again voted him Best Musician in PGN’s Best Of Gay Philly! Hailed as “the most exciting performer to come out of Philadelphia since Patti LaBelle” by gbmnews.com, and dubbed “the King of Queens” by Amsterdam News NYC, the 29-year-old powerhouse entertainer (whose new remix album “Twisted” is available on iTunes Nov. 12) has sold records around the world while maintaining a tangible community appeal. “I’m the love artist. That’s my job, to encourage love wherever I go,” Enos said. “My fans know I love them with all my heart.” And Enos knows we love him right back!

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What started as a couple of queers in a basement who wanted to play with gender has, in seven years, turned into Philly’s only multi-award winning queer drag and burlesque performance troupe. Liberty City Kings, aka LiCK, has an incredibly diverse cast of 15 seasoned performers, and each standing-room-only show includes not only drag kings and burlesque beauties, but also drag queens, boylesque and genderfuck royalty at their performance home Tabu! At each show, they partner with a local organization to fundraise. For 2013, LiCK doubled the number of regular performances by going monthly, and for the new year they are adding again to their schedule with one of the city’s only monthly burlesque brunches, “Glitter ’n’ Grits” every fourth Sunday at Tabu. Make sure you “LiCK” them on Facebook to keep up to date will all their antics. They might just LiCK you back! . ■

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DVLF Texas Hold’em tourney Calling all card sharks! Show off your bluffing skills from 4-9 p.m. Nov. 9 at Stir Lounge, 1705 Chancellor St., at a Texas Hold’em poker tournament benefiting the Delaware Valley Legacy Fund. Buy-in is only $25, with re-buys and add-ons available. There will be specials including $1 PBRs and discounts across the entire drink menu, plus raffles, food, prizes and your fabulous hostess, Contessa. For more information, see www.dvlf.org.

upright positions! At 8 p.m. Nov. 14, the incomparable Pam Ann is coming in for a landing at The Trocadero, 1003 Arch St. She’s opened for Cher and Elton John, and Madonna thinks she’s “cruelly funny.” She’s more fun than a TSA cavity search on your way back from Cabo! Tickets for this 21-plus event are $25-$45 and will be available at the door, or get them online now at www.thetroc.com.

Philly Social League Kickoff Do you miss Sisters? Then get on board with the new Philly Social League! The inaugural event will be held 9:45 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Nov. 16, starting at Fifth and Market streets. Hop on a guided bus tour of Philly landmarks, complete with mimosas on the bus and a group photo on the Art Museum steps. Then get ready for a three-hour private party at Buffalo Billiards with lunch, drinks, games, sports on Jim Kiley- the TVs, and a one-hour open bar starting at 12:30. Zufelt Tickets are $65 and are available online at www. phillysocialleague.eventbrite.com.

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Philadelphia Leather Pride Night Let your leather pride shine from 7 p.m.-midnight Nov. 9 at Voyeur Nightclub, 1221 St. James St. Doors open at 6 for the fifth anniversary of this event, which will include a silent auction, a live auction, entertainment by the Liberty City Kings and Rodney Burger, emcee JR Ramos from Bucks MC, and a host of surprises. Don’t miss the exciting Wheel of Kink and the new “Taste of the Aviary” on the second floor. (Hint: It ain’t gonna be no wine tasting up there, that’s for sure!) This year’s beneficiaries include By the Grace of George, Leather Leadership Conference, Leather Archives and Museum, and William Way LGBT Community Center. Tickets are $20 in advance or $25 at the door. See www.plpn.org for more information. Pam Ann at the Troc Fasten your seatbelts and make sure your tray tables are secured in their

Attic Youth Center 20th-Anniversary Gala Enjoy an elegant evening of entertainment, dancing and celebrating the youth in our community from 6-9 p.m. Nov. 16 at the Crystal Tea Room, 1300 Market St. For two decades, The Attic Youth Center has been a refuge and resource for a huge number of LGBTQ youth who’ve needed a little guidance or assistance along their way to adulthood. Honor everything the center has accomplished while helping it set the stage for the next 20 years and beyond, with special guest Alex Newell from “Glee” and many surprises. For tickets and more information, see www.atticyouthcenter.org. ■ Questions, comments, requests? Contact Jim at barcrawlr@gmail.com or follow him on Facebook for links to back articles and totally bitchin’ music videos!

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Mark Beyerle: Promoting tourism, philanthropy in Philly and beyond Toys! I think we all love them, no matter what age we are. For the young ones, toys are hard to escape, with stores promoting the “must-have” items before the Halloween decorations have even been put away. So imagine how tough it must be for a kid whose family can’t afford much. That’s where you and the LGBT community come in, with the annual Delaware Valley Legacy Fund TOY event. It’s a fundraiser for the organization but it’s also a toy drive for the kids at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. In addition to the music and merriment, this year some of the region’s most talented designers have been asked to design and create a special holiday ornament that showcases their unique talents and perspectives. Yours truly has been asked to participate and TOY attendees will have the opportunity to bid on the ornaments as part of the event’s silent auction. One of the event organizers, Mark Beyerle from SpecialtyUSA, took a little time from his busy schedule to talk to me about TOY, his company and the philosophy of giving.

PGN: And what did the folks do? MB: My father was a self-made businessman. He ran a very successful auto-parts business long before the big stores like Napa and Advance Auto took over. The days when Bob’s hardware was actually run by Bob. His was Bill’s Auto Supply. My mother sold real estate when we were growing up because it afforded her the ability to be flexible with her hours.

PGN: Thanks for meeting with me. MB: Of course! I have a little time before I’m off to emcee a scrapple fest. There’s always something that has to be done.

PGN: Which school and what study? MB: Widener University and business with a concentration in hotel management. I always knew that I wasn’t going to be a manufacturer or produce widgets; I knew that I would be in the service business. Right after college, I went to Atlantic City and joined the hospitality industry. I spent five years at Harrah’s. As other casinos were opening and people were leaving for the new fancy casinos, I stayed at Harrah’s and worked my way up until I was in charge of 11 departments with a $4-million budget.

PGN: So let’s jump right in. Tell me a little about yourself. MB: I was born a small child ... Ha. No, what do you want to know? PGN: Well, you are Mr. Philadelphia with your tours and events. Are you actually from here? MB: I was born and raised in Delran, N.J., but we spent a considerable amount of time in our summer home in Surf City on Long Beach Island. The essence of my growing up was there. My folks live there full-time now. PGN: So you’re a beach boy! MB: Yup, blond hair, green eyes and all. PGN: What was your favorite Beach Boy song? MB: Oh jeez, I’m not that old. I don’t know. PGN: [Laughs.] OK then, your favorite beach activity? MB: Reading. Sitting on the beach with a good book and letting the hours tick by. PGN: What was your favorite book as a kid? MB: Probably something from the Hardy Boys series. We had a book mobile that came to our neighborhood once a month. It was important to my folks that we read, so when that book mobile came, my brother and I had to march over there and check out two or three books.

PGN: What’s a fun memory with your brother? MB: Playing at the beach. We were in the water so much we would turn into prunes. We’d spend the day on rafts riding the waves. PGN: What sort of things were you involved in at school? MB: Well, in college I was the editor of the yearbook for three years. I was involved in student government and social affairs, which was putting on events! And I worked, so I kept pretty busy.

PGN: And how old were you? MB: Twenty-four. They were good times. That led to my job in Philadelphia with the Convention and Visitors Bureau. I stayed there for 17 years. I was the director of our city’s visitors center, so I welcomed millions of visitors throughout my career and made sure they knew where to go and what to do so that they would stay longer and spend more in our city. Then I moved to the sales side and traveled the country promoting Philadelphia. PGN: What was a surprise favorite spot? I think mine was Saugatuck, Mich. MB: Usually my favorite places were determined by the people I dealt with. I still have friends all over, but a serendipitous moment was when I had to stay overnight in Rochester and went to the Lilac Festival. It was beautiful. PGN: My ex was from Rochester and always raved about it. MB: Yeah, the best times were when we had great hosts for the conventions. I had the pleasure of being in Disney World at

night with the entire park opened for just us. You could go on any ride without a wait as many times as you wanted. And I’m a ride junkie so it was great! PGN: Nice perk! MB: Yeah, I traveled six days a week, six months a year, so it was kind of grueling — wash and pack, wash and pack — but yeah, there were some nice perks in between. And it felt good to know that my job was helping Philadelphia’s economy. I was responsible for booking $6-millionworth of hotel rooms each year. That created work for housekeepers and bellmen and desk people. PGN: Not to mention the local restaurants, gift shops, tour guides, museums, etc. MB: Yes, the ripple effect of tourism is amazing. And I’m still in the business today. I opened a tour company called SpecialtyUSA and we started out doing private specialty tours, murals of Philly, the Amish Country, etc. We started getting

MB: They were from a ’60s party we just did. We had lava lamps, costumes and a Beatles tribute band! It was fun. PGN: What party was the most fun? MB: That’s hard because for us they’re all work. It’s 15-plus hours on your feet. I just did the Miss America Parade in Atlantic City and we were up 31 hours making sure everything went right. I like the annual events, where each year you have a unique challenge to make it fun and interesting. One of my favorites is the annual Valentine event for the Reading Terminal Market. We’ve about to do a party on Boathouse Row; we do the hospitality party at Eastern State Penitentiary; which is really cool. We get to help with themes like when they first decided to open seven days a week — we threw a ’70s party with seven food stations and the signature drink was a 7&7. The next year, when they decided to open in the evening, we did a “Boogie Nights” theme. It’s fun, I love what I do. Despite the long hours, I’m in the happiness business. I’m not selling caskets or giving people bad news — I throw parties and make people happy. I get excited on Sunday nights knowing that I get to go to work the next day. PGN: So in all your free time, what do you like to do? MB: Nothing brings me more pleasure than to spend time with family and friends. Just having dinner and a bottle of wine one on one, or with a small group. I enjoy reading too, but I don’t spend enough time to call it a hobby.

PGN: What would we find on your bedstand? MB: Most likely a biography. I find people absolutely fascinating. I read Gladys Knight’s biography, “Between the Lines of Pain and Glory,” which was a line from one of her songs. She didn’t have it easy and Photo: Suzi Nash groups asking us to arrange lunch on a it was a fascinating book. Spirit of Philadelphia cruise or tickets to There were casinos where the Phillies game. Those aren’t tours so we she performed and then wasn’t allowed to changed our name to SpecialtyUSA Tours stay in. It was how I felt about seeing the and Events. Next thing you know, our movie “The Butler.” Moving. phone started to ring with people calling us to produce events. So we started in the PGN: What were some of the best and production business and now most people worst celebrity encounters? know us for parties and events like TOY. MB: I had the honor of being selected to be on the nonpartisan host commitPGN: [The office is full of props and bar tee for the city for the 2000 Republican materials.] What are the lava lamps for? Convention. I was PAGE 47

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City Tap House upgrades itself with new chef By Larry Nichols larry@epgn.com The last time we visited City Tap House, 3925 Walnut St., the spacious and classy University City pub and eatery impressed us more with its vegetarian fare than anything else. On a recent return visit, we found the restaurant has a new executive chef, Chad Vetter, and has stepped up its carnivore game. Judging from the steady stream of patrons around the bar, City Tap House isn’t hurting for people to put a dent in its impressive beer and drink menu. Closer to the kitchen, the restaurant still has a menu overflowing with regional American favorites, and the vegetarian fare is still surprisingly top- notch. The mezze plate ($12), a hefty dish of red-pepper hummus, cured olives, feta, tabbouleh, zucchini, cucumbers and baked flatbread, was fresh, bright and flavorful. The meat-centric dishes we sampled were amazing. The Jersey sweet corn and crab hush puppies ($12) were pure love on a plate. The corn stayed juicy and crunchy amid the savory pieces of crab and the fluffiness of the fried batter. If we had tried nothing else, we would have been completely satisfied.

The Tap Burger ($13) was excellent: a perfectly cooked slab of meat with cheddar, onions and a beer gastrique. Most pubs go for overkill on their burgers, cramming in too many toppings, but City Tap House keeps it simple and sumptuous. The chicken & waffles ($19) threw in a pleasant curve. Both the chicken and the waffles were nicely done, but the sweetness that tied the dish together didn’t come from the coffee stout syrup, but rather from a very-necessary sweet redpepper jam. The element elevated the dish to something that should not be passed up. The dessert menu at City Tap House is a special kind of crazy. We were temped to try the sweet corn gelato ($5) only because it sounded too wild not to be good. But we ended up going with the green apple and bourbon sorbet ($5) because ... you know ... booze. And wow, was it ever good, with a smooth sweetness and a palpable alcoholic kick that hit the tongue like the collision between a frozen Jolly Rancher and a whiskey sour. City Tap House has only gotten better since the last time we paid a visit. And with autumn upon us, we can’t think of a better place for an evening happy hour to turn into a great feast. ■

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Q Puzzle The stork flies over the rainbow Across

1. It comes before sex and marriage 5. Techie workplaces, often 9. Zipper problem 13. Rainbow, to some 14. Buck heroine 15. Hair of a stallion 16. Sunday service 17. Caesar’s last question 18. Coffee containers 19. Stalling sounds 20. Start of a Judy Garland quote 22. Ranch house 24. Dossier about Uranus? 25. Wolf’s warning 26. _Chicago_ director Marshall 28. It may be kissed 29. Novel conclusion 30. Don, as a nightie 33. More of the

quote 38. Bartenders’ servings 39. Two queens, e.g. 40. Pierce’s rank on “M*A*S*H” 43. Giant Mel 44. He gives gifts in stockings 45. Veronica of “Sotto, Sotto” 47. Fuel used in heating 49. End of the quote 52. Texas sch. 53. Seasoning for Rick Rodgers 54. Star of “There’s Something About Mary” 55. Begin to wake up 56. Arab head 57. Harold’s problem in “The Boys in the Band” 58. Fine-tune 59. Grace, or will to be diplomatic 60. Uses the mouth casually 61. They may be split

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assigned to George and Barbara Bush. They were lovely and gracious. I’ve worked with Pavarotti. The biggest diva was Aretha Franklin. Among other things, she didn’t want to do a sound check. It was like, “But you have to, you’re doing a concert and your voice is very unique.” PGN: Any pets? MB: Yes, my dog just passed away seven weeks ago, and I have a cat named Bobby. PGN: Do you do a lot of nonprofit work? MB: Yes, I love getting involved in the community. You asked what I do in my spare time and that’s really it. I love giving back. At the company level, we do as well. Each employee is given 100 hours of pro-bono time to give to the community and everyone is expected to support them. It’s about $50,000 of pro-bono time each year that we give back to the community on top of what we each personally do. I just want to help, whether I’m sitting on a committee at William Way or on the board of DVLF or helping Mazzoni with Elixir. And, of course, we’re all excited about TOY! PGN: Tell me a little about TOY. MB: It’s the Delaware Valley Legacy Fund’s annual holiday fundraising event. In addition to raising money, we also collect toys for the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. It’s happening Dec. 7 at the Reading Terminal Market and there will be music and food and great fun for a good cause. It’s so important to raise money to keep DVLF alive and moving

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1. “Of Human Bondage” author Maugham 2. Plant cultivated for food or flowers 3. Sailor’s dinner companion 4. Tennessee Williams twosome 5. “My Fair Lady” composer 6. Place for vows 7. Bean and Burke waved theirs around 8. Give the cold shoulder 9. Shirtless guy in hot pants 10. Realm of C.S. Lewis 11. Records of anal historians? 12. Beaux ___ (noble deeds) 20. Not in the pink 21. U-shaped river bend 23. Communion offering at Metropolitan Community Church 26. Diplomacy breakdown

27. Makes a selection 30. A gentleman might pull one out for his date 31. Hit high, like Billie Jean’s balls 32. Mt. Everest locale 34. One who handles your horse 35. “The Weary Blues” poet Hughes 36. Milk fortifier 37. Evidence of rubber usage 40. Many are out of it 41. ColÛn locale 42. Like Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet” 44. Was in session 46. Not potent 47. Sound of metal on metal 48. Comes out slowly 50. Aussie greeting 51. Flaky mineral 55. Brown’s “Murder, ___ Meowed” PAGE 49

forward to build LGBT philanthropy in our community. To raise the money to achieve the mission — which is to raise money! To build a community fund for people and organizations that we don’t even know of yet. We are planning for people 70, 80, 100 years from now. We can’t count on the government, we can’t count on companies; this way, we can do it for ourselves and fund what matters to our community. If someone had only done this 100 years ago, we would be sitting here with a pool of money to give to the important charities and service organizations in our community. They’d have the money to actually do their work instead of spending all their time trying to raise money to stay afloat! Sorry, it gets me all riled up when I think about how underfunded our charities are. It makes me mad how apathetic some in our community are. They go around all day with their head in the clouds not even thinking of giving back. PGN: Where do you get your altruism? MB: Definitely my family. We were middle-class and were always taught that we were very blessed. My parents are very philanthropic; they really put their money where their mouths are [laughs] or maybe it’s the other way around. Anyone can write a check — and that’s very important — but they give sweat equity as well. I saw that growing up. In fact, they’re both retired now and busier than ever volunteering for different charities. They inspired both my brother and me to leave the world a better place than it was given to us. PGN: An item from your bucket list? MB: Ha. I so want to go zip-lining. I’m a

thrillseeker, adventure-y kind of guy. I’m a roller-coaster junkie. I’ve gone on a hotair balloon and I’ve bungee-jumped. I’m a member of the broken-bone club from skiing. I love anything having to do with the water — boating, water-skiing, you name it. I definitely like being adventurous. PGN: Who knew you were such an outdoorsman? MB: And yet I’m a city guy! I’ve been very blessed in that I’ve been to 22 countries and 45 states. I’ve had amazing experiences in Russia, South America and all over the world. I like going to the city where I can learn about the culture, learn about the people, not just sit my butt on the beach. As much as I like to do that, I can do that here. PGN: Craziest travel adventure? MB: Going to the Ukraine. The plane was, shall we say, old. Not all the seats wanted to stay upright, so you had to keep trying to find a new seat that wouldn’t fall backwards. When I finally found one, I had to tie the seatbelt because it wouldn’t clasp! When we landed we blew out a tire. PGN: Yikes! Any hidden talents? MB: I’m a pretty good cook. Single and a good cook, make that the headline! PGN: Who inspires you? MB: Someone like Princess Diana. She didn’t have to lead a life of service but she took advantage of her privilege and used it to do good and help others. But my biggest inspiration is my father. PGN: What’s a historical event you wished

you could have witnessed? MB: Actually I did witness a pretty important one. I was in Germany three days after reunification, when the wall had come down. It was pretty amazing — to see the newfound wealth from the East Germans who all of a sudden found their money was worth so much more than before. In an instant, they became wealthier than they imagined and they were literally dancing in the street. If I had to go back in time, it would be for something joyous. Perhaps landing on the moon for the first time, that would be amazing to witness first-hand. PGN: Any notable relatives? MB: No, I think we had someone who fought in the Civil War, but I don’t consider fighting notable. I’m pretty opposed to it. PGN: What is Beyerle? MB: German. Anything with an “le” on the end means “little” or “son of” so it’s “little Beyer.” PGN: Favorite piece of clothing? MB: When I travel I like to bring back a piece of clothing, a tie or shirt. My favorite is a blue-and-white summer shirt I brought back from Colombia. PGN: Describe a word that begins with the first letter of your name that sums you up? MB: Meticulous. ■ For more information or to purchase tickets for TOY, visit www.dlvf.org. To suggest a community member for Family Portrait, email portraits05@aol.com.

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OUT & ABOUT The week ahead Fri. 11/08 Loft23 presents The Game Loft The William Way LGBT Community Center hosts a game space geared toward gamers, ages 21-29, and is an opportunity to meet new people, play games and socialize outside the bar/club scene, 6-8 p.m., 1315 Spruce St.; 215732-2220. Paramore The rock band performs 7 p.m. at Susquehanna Bank Center, 1 Harbour Blvd., Camden, N.J.; 856-365-1300. B-52s The rock band performs 8 p.m. at Keswick Theatre,

291 N. Keswick Ave.; 215-5727650. Wanda Sykes The out comedian performs 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000.

Sat. 11/09 The Neverending Story The fantasy film is screened 2 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223. Roy Ziegler The author of “Twilight Separation” hosts a reading at 5:30 p.m. Nov. 11 at

Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; 215923-2960. Dir En Grey The Japanese hardrock band performs 6 p.m. at TLA, 334 South St.; 215-9221011. Toad the Wet Sprocket The rock band performs 8 p.m. at Keswick Theatre, 291 N. Keswick Ave.; 215-572-7650. My Bloody Valentine The alt-rock band performs 8:30 p.m. at The Electric Factory, 421 N. Seventh St.; 800745-3000. Wanda Sykes The out comedian performs 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000.

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Jermaine Dupreee The hit producer and DJ performs 10 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Mur Mur Nightclub, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000.

GET FOCUSED: Pop superstar Justin Timberlake rolls on with his 20/20 Experience Tour, performing 8 p.m. Nov. 10 at Wells Fargo Center, 3601 S. Broad St. For more information or tickets, call 215389-9543.

Sun. 11/10 M The classic 1931 thriller is screened 2 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223. K Renato Lings The author of “Lost in Translation: Homosexuality and the Bible” hosts a reading 5:30 p.m. Nov. 11 at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; 215-923-2960. Bobby McFerrin The vocal artist performs 7:30

p.m. at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 240 S. Broad St.; 215790-5847. Elvis Costello The rock singer performs 8 p.m. at Merriam Theatre, 250 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5800. Justin Timberlake The pop singer performs 8 p.m. at Wells Fargo Center, 3601 S. Broad St.; 215-389-9543.

Mon. 11/11 Mattilda Sycamore Bernstein The author of “The End of San Francisco” hosts a reading 5:30 p.m. Nov. 11 at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; 215-923-2960. Free Quizzo and Board Game Night Roll the dice, 7 p.m. at World Cafe Live at the Queen, 500 N. Market St., Wilmington, Del.; 302-994-1400.

Lipstick Mondays A weekly drag show featuring a changing roster of queens takes the stage 9 p.m. at The Raven, 385 W. Bridge St., New Hope; 215-8622081.

Tue. 11/12 Stone Roses: Made of Stone The film about the rock band is screened 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-922-6888.

Wed. 11/13 4W5 Blues Jam Local musicians get down, 7 p.m. at World Cafe Live at the Queen, 500 N. Market St., Wilmington, Del.; 302-994-1400.

Fred Armisen The comedian seen on “Saturday Night Live” performs 8:30 p.m. at The Electric Factory, 421 N. Seventh St.; 800745-3000. The Burlesque Show The new event kicks off 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-3171000. The Cutie Pie Comedy Club Out comedians Julia Scotti, Alejandro Morales and other

regional comedians perform 9 p.m. at Venture Inn, 255 S. Camac St., 215-5458731. Bob and Barbara’s Drag Show The outrageousness begins 11 p.m. at Bob and Barbara’s, 1509 South St.; 215545-4511.

Fri. 11/15 Dixie Dynamite The 1976 comedy-action film is screened 9:45 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223.

Thu. 11/14 Pam Ann The comedian performs 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215922-6888.

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THURSDAY NIGHT LIVE: “SNL” alum Fred Armisen comes to town for a performance 8:30 p.m. Nov. 14 at The Electric Factory, 421 N. Seventh St. For more information or tickets, call 800-745-3000.

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Opening From Vienna to the New World The Philadelphia Orchestra performs with Austrian conductor Manfred Honeck, Nov. 14-16 at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 240 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847.

Continuing All Dressed Up: Fashions for Children and Their Families Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition of clothing from the late-18th through mid-20th centuries, comparing and contrasting adults’ apparel with children’s smaller styles, through Dec. 1, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-763-8100. Candy Coated Wonderland Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition by Philadelphia-based multimedia artist Candy Coated (formerly Candy Depew) reinterpreting children’s fancy dress costumes from the museum’s collection, through Nov. 17, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-763-8100. The Enchanted World of German Romantic Prints Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition of prints created by Austrian,

Léger: Modern Art and the Metropolis Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition of 160 works and a multimedia exhibition of important paintings by the French painter Fernand Léger, through Jan. 5, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100. Pride & Prejudice Bristol Riverside Theatre presents the classic Jane Austen story through Nov. 24, 120 Radcliffe St., Bristol; 215-785-0100. The Sexuality Spectrum The Philadelphia Museum of Jewish Art and Congregation Beth Ahavah at Rodeph Shalom host an exhibit examining LGBT prejudice, through Nov. 18, 615 N. Broad St.; 215-6276747. The Surrealists: Works from the Collection Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition of the museum’s unique collection of great masterpieces and lesser-known works of the movement, through March 2, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215763-8100.

FAR EAST FURY: Japanese hard-rock band Dir En Grey celebrates the release of its new EP “The Unraveling” with a brief U.S. tour that makes a stop in Philly, 6 p.m. Nov. 9 at TLA, 334 South St. For more information or tickets, call 215-9221011.

German and Swiss artists, through Dec. 15, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100. From Philadelphia to Monaco: Grace Kelly James A. Michener Art Museum hosts an exhibition tracing the unique path Grace Kelly took from Philadelphia to Monaco, through Jan. 26, 138 S. Pine St., Doylestown; 215-340-9800. Grace Kelly: Beyond the Icon James A. Michener Art Museum hosts an exhibition of the film and fashion icon’s style, through Nov. 21, 138 S. Pine St.; Doylestown; 215-340-9800.

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Closing A Clockwork Orange The Luna Theater presents the classic futuristic drama through Nov. 9, 620 S. Eighth St.; 215-704-0033. Cock The story of the messy aftermath when John has an affair with a woman on a break from his boyfriend, through Nov. 10 at Theatre Exile’s Studio X, 1340 S. 13th St.; 215-218-4022. The Convert Wilma Theater presents the story of a young girl who escapes a forced marriage arrangement and discovers Christianity under the guidance of an African teacher, through Nov. 10, 265 S. Broad St.; 215546-7824. Kun-Yang Lin/Dancers The dance company celebrates the fifth anniversary of relocating to Philadelphia, through Nov. 9 at Painted Bride Arts Center, 230 Vine St.; 215-925-9914. Once The Tony Award-winning story of a Dublin street musician who’s about to give up on his dream when a beautiful young woman takes a sudden interest in his haunting love song, through Nov. 10 at Kimmel’s Academy of Music, 240 S. Broad St.; 215790-5847. ■

PUMP IT UP AGAIN!: Acclaimed rock singer Elvis Costello comes to town to perform an intimate concert 8 p.m. Nov. 10 at Merriam Theatre, 250 S. Broad St. For more information or tickets, call 215-790-5800.

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Beautiful Private 61.466 acres On private road located 3 miles from Beltzville State Park and 10 minutes from Exit #74 (Mahoning Valley - Northeast Extension) of the PA Turnpike. Address is conveniently located 82 miles from Philadelphia and 100 miles from New York City making for an easy commute in either direction. The home is situated on 2.5 cleared acres and consists of master bedroom with private bath, 2 guest bedrooms with shared bath, living foam with gas ﬁreplace, dining room, kitchen with breakfast bar and laundry area off kitchen. Owner added front, covered deck/porch, back deck and enclosed sunroom that doubles as breakfast nook/living/TV room and 1.5 car detached garage with electric. Property appraised in 2010 at $1,090,000 with 50 of the 60+ acres considered developable. Property can also be used for private hunting with deer, wild turkey and sometimes an occasional bear. Lots of options with this property. Borders gay campground. Being offered at $850,000

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VENTNOR, NJ House for sale in Ventnor NJ. 2 story 5 bedroom house, needs some repairs. Priced right. Call 215 468 9166. ________________________________________38-01 Waterfront Lots-Virginia’s Eastern Shore. Was $325k, Now From $55,000 -Community Pool/Center, Large Lots, Bay & Ocean Access, Great Fishing & Kayaking. Spec Home www.oldemillpointe.com 757-824-0808. ________________________________________37-45 On Twin Ponds w/ 34 Acres- $39,995 Beautiful Woods w/ Large Wildlife Ponds Full of Ducks, Geese & Deer. Minutes to Syracuse, Salmon River, Oneida Lake. Call 1-800-229-7843. Financing Available. Or visit www. landandcamps.com ________________________________________37-45

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Real Estate Rent BEAUTIFUL GAYBORHOOD CONDO Spacious one-bedroom 3rd ﬂoor condo in pre-war high rise building on 13th St. with treetop bay window view over Spruce St. Just steps from the cities best restaurants and bars, and blocks to the Kimmel Center, the Forrest, Wilma and Merriam Theatres, Walnut Street shopping and subways. Original parquet hardwood ﬂoors, recently renovated bath and kitchen with stainless appliances. Secure building with 24 hour door concierge. Laundry facilities on site. $1,675 per month for 6 month or 1 year lease. Contact owner: bluhmr@gmail.com ________________________________________37-45 RITTENHOUSE SQUARE AREA One-Bedroom $1395++ 1st Month Free (215)546-1424. _____________________________________________37-46

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New Hope/ Upper Makefield Vicinity Circa 1791, Character! Exposed beams, Pine Floors, Fireplaces, Beautiful baths. 7 Park Like Acres, surrounded by preserved land, Separate Cottage & Studio, Wonderful barn, Pool. Minutes to I-95 & Phila. $1,250,000. Kurfiss Sotheby’s International Realty 215-794-3227 Call Dan Leuzzi 215-794-1308 & Peggy McBride Dean 215-262-9396

ive your life at 1500 Locust Apartments and take advantage of our prime location in the heart of Philadelphia. Enjoy breathtaking views of the city’s skyline and easy access to shops, restaurants and theaters. Inside you’ll find upgraded apartment homes complete with stainless steel appliances, wood floors, and ample closet space. We are proud to offer a fast-paced, energetic lifestyle combined with the warm comforts of home. We encourage you to take some time to explore our community and we hope you find it ideal as your new home! Our professional leasing associates are eager to assist you. Call us today at 215.893.0800 or email 1500locust@ bozzuto.com. Our office is open 7 days a week!

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John C. Anderson Apartments Maintenance Superintendent We currently have an exciting opportunity available for an experienced Maintenance Superintendent to join the Pennrose team at our John C. Anderson site located in downtown Philadelphia. The Maintenance Superintendent of this 56 unit, LGBT Friendly senior community will be responsible for overseeing all maintenance activities at the site including: working on- call, providing exceptional customer service, troubleshooting, appliance repair, HVAC, plumbing, electrical, grounds keeping, general building maintenance and carpentry.

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Legal Notices Court of Common Pleas for the County of Philadelphia, October Term, 2013, NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that on October 11, 2013, the petition of Victoria Rose Fuller was filed, praying for a decree to change his name to Victor Alexander Fuller. The Court has fixed November 22, 2013 at 9:30 a.m., in Room No. 691, in Philadelphia City Hall for hearing. All persons interested may appear and show cause if they have, why the prayer of the said petitioner should not be granted. ________________________________________37-45 Court of Common Pleas for the County of Philadelphia, September Term, 2013, NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that on October 21, 2013, the petition of Ann Elizabeth Sheble was filed, praying for a decree to change his name to Finn Jackson Sheble. The Court has fixed November 19, 2013 at 1:00PM, in Room No. 691, in Philadelphia City Hall for hearing. All persons interested may appear and show cause if they have, why the prayer of the said petitioner should not be granted. ________________________________________37-45

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Religion/Spirituality Arch Street United Methodist Church Services 8:30 and 11 a.m. at 55 N. Broad St., youth/adult Sunday school at 9:30 a.m.; 5:30 p.m. prayer service; 215-568-6250. Bethlehem-Judah Ministries Open and affirming congregation holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 5091 N. Dupont Hwy., Suite D, Dover, Del.; 302-734-9350. BuxMont Unitarian Universalist Church Services 10:15 a.m. at 2040 Street Road, Warrington; 215-3430406. Calvary United Methodist Church Reconciling, welcoming and affirming church holds services 11 a.m. Sundays at 801 S. 48th St.; 215-724-1702. Central Baptist Church Welcoming and affirming church holds services at 10:45 a.m. Sundays, summer services 9:30 a.m, at 106 W. Lancaster Ave., Wayne; 610-688-0664. Chestnut Hill United Methodist Church Services 11 a.m. and Spirit at Play, an arts-based Sunday school for children, 9:30 a.m. at 8812 Germantown Ave.; 215-242-9321. Church of the Crucifixion Inclusive Episcopal community holds services 10 a.m. Sundays and 6 p.m. Fridays at 620 S. Eighth St.; 215-922-1128. Church of the Holy Trinity Inclusive church holds services 8:30 and 11 a.m. Sundays at 1904 Walnut St.; 215-567-1267. Dignity Jersey Shore An organization for sexual-minority Catholics meets the first Saturday of the month in Asbury Park. For time and location, call 732-502-0305. Dignity Metro NJ An organization for sexual-minority Catholics meets 4 p.m. the first and third Sundays of the month at St. George’s Episcopal Church, 550 Ridgewood Road, Maplewood; 973-509-0118. Dignity Philadelphia Holds Mass 7 p.m. Sundays at 330 S. 13th St.; 215-546-2093; dignityphila@aol.com. Drexel Hill Baptist Church Nonjudgmental Christian congregation affiliated with American Baptist Churches of the USA holds services 11 a.m. Sundays at 4400 State Road, Drexel Hill; 610-259-2356; www.dhbaptist.com. Emanuel Lutheran Church Reconciling in Christ congregation meets at 10:30 a.m. Sundays, summer services 9:30 a.m., New and Kirkpatrick streets, New Brunswick, N.J.; 732-545-2673; www.emmanuelnb.org. Evangelicals Concerned Lesbian and gay Christian counseling; 215-860-7445. First Baptist Church Welcoming and affirming church holds prayer services 10:30 a.m. Sundays and community worship 11:30 a.m. at 123 S. 17th St.; 215-563-3853. First Presbyterian Church of Lansdowne Welcoming church holds services at 10 a.m. Sundays at 140 N. Lansdowne Ave.; 610-622-0800; www.lansdownepresbyterianchurch.com.

Jersey; mccctl.com; 732-823-2193. Metropolitan Community Church of Philadelphia Holds services 1 p.m. Sundays at the University Lutheran Church of the Incarnation, 3637 Chestnut St.; 215-294-2020; www. mccphiladelphia.com. Old First Reformed Church Open and affirming United Church worships at 11 a.m., summer services at 10 a.m, at 151 N. Fourth St.; 215-922-4566; www. oldfirstucc.org. Penns Park United Methodist Church Welcoming and affirming church holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 2394 Second Street Pike, Penns Park; 215-598-7601. Philadelphia Episcopal Cathedral Progressive and affirming congregation holds services 10 a.m. Sundays with Holy Eucharist at 3723 Chestnut St.; 215-386-0234; www.philadelphiacathedral.org. Rainbow Buddhist Meditation Group Meets 5 p.m. Sundays at the William Way Center. Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) Central Philadelphia Monthly Meeting worships 11 a.m., summer services 10 a.m, Sundays at 1515 Cherry St.; 215-241-7000; cpmm@afsc.org. Resurrection Lutheran Church Holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 620 Welsh Road, Horsham; 215-646-2597. Silverside Church Holds services 10 a.m. Sundays followed by a group discussion at 2800 Silverside Road, Wilmington, Del.; 302-478-5921; silversidechurch.org. St. Asaph’s Church Inclusive and progressive Episcopal church holds services 8 and 10 a.m. Sundays, summer services 9:15 a.m., at 27 Conshohocken State Road, Bala Cynwyd; 610-664-0966; www.saintasaphs.org. St. John’s Lutheran Church (ELCA) Reconciling in Christ congregation holds services 10:30 a.m. Sundays at 24 N. Ridge Ave., Ambler; 215-646-2451; www. stjohnsambler.org. St. Luke and The Epiphany Church Open and welcoming church holds fall liturgy 9 and 11 a.m. Sundays, summer sevices 10 a.m., at 330 S. 13th St.; 215-7321918; stlukeandtheepiphany.org. St. Mary of Grace Parish Inclusive church in the Catholic tradition celebrates Mass 6 p.m. Sundays in the Unitarian Universalist Church of Delaware County, 145 W. Rose Tree Road, Media; 610-566-1393; www. inclusivecatholics.org. St. Mary’s Church Diverse and inclusive Episcopal church celebrates the Eucharist 11 a.m. Sundays at 3916 Locust Walk; 215-386-3916; www. stmarysatpenn.org. St. Paul Episcopal Church Welcoming and inclusive church holds services 9:30 a.m. Sundays and 7 p.m. Tuesdays at 89 Pinewood Drive, Levittown; 215-6881796; www.stpaullevittown.org. Tabernacle United Church Open and affirming congregation holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 3700 Chestnut St.; 215-386-4100; tabunited.org.

First Unitarian Church of Philadelphia A liberal, welcoming and diverse congregation that afﬁrms the dignity of all. Sunday services at 10 a.m., 2125 Chestnut St.; 215563-3980; www.ﬁrstuu-philly.org.

Trinity Memorial Episcopal Church Sunday worship with nursery care, 10:30 a.m; Fourth Thursday of the month contemporary worship with Communion at 7 p.m.; 2212 Spruce St.; 215-732-2515; trinityphiladelphia.org.

The First United Methodist Church of Germantown A sexual-minority-afﬁrming congregation holds services at 10 a.m., summer services 11 a.m., Sundays at 6001 Germantown Ave.; lunch follows; 215-438-3077. www.fumcog.org.

Unitarian Universalist Church of Delaware County Welcoming congregation holds services 9:15 and 11:15 a.m. Sundays, summer services 10:30 a.m., at 145 W. Rose Tree Road, Media. Interweave, a group for LGBT parishioners and allies, meets noon the ﬁrst Sunday of the month; 610-566-4853; www. uucdc.org.

Grace Epiphany Church A welcoming and diverse Episcopal congregation in Mt. Airy with services 9:30 a.m. Sundays at 224 E. Gowen Ave.; 215-248-2950. www.grace-epi.org. Holy Communion Lutheran Church ELCA Reconciling in Christ congregation worships Sundays at 9 a.m. at 2111 Sansom St. and 11 a.m. at 2110 Chestnut St. in the main sancturary; 215-567-3668; www.lc-hc.org. Imago Dei Metropolitan Community Church Sexual-minority congregation worships at 10:30 a.m. Sundays at 1223 Middletown Road (Route 352), Glen Mills; 610-358-1716; www.ImagoDeiMCC.org.

Unitarian Society of Germantown Welcoming congregation holds services 10:30 a.m. Sundays at 6511 Lincoln Drive; 215-844-1157; www.usguu.org. Unitarian Universalist Church of Cherry Hill Holds services 10:15 a.m. Interweave, a group of LGBT Unitarians and their allies, also meets at 401 N. Kings Highway, Cherry Hill, N.J.; 856-667-3618; uucch.org. Unitarian Universalist Church of the Restoration Welcoming congregation holds services 11 a.m. Sundays at 6900 Stenton Ave.; 215-247-2561; www.uurestoration.us.

Living Water United Church of Christ An open and afﬁrming congregation that meets for worship 11 a.m. on Sundays; 6250 Loretto Ave.; 267-388-6081; www.lwucc. org.

Unitarian Universalist Congregation, South Jersey Shore Holds services 10 a.m. Sundays in Galloway Township; 609-9659400; www.uucsjs.org.

Kol Tzedek Reconstructionist synagogue committed to creating a diverse and inclusive community meets at Calvary Center, 801 S. 48th St.; 215-764-6364; www.kol-tzedek.org.

Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Pottstown Holds services 10:30 a.m. at 1565 S. Keim St.; 610-327-2662. www.uupottstown.org.

Mainline Unitarian Church Holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 816 S. Valley Forge Road, Devon; 610-688-8332; www.mluc.org. Maple Shade Congregational Church of the United Church of Christ Afﬁrming congregation open to all sexual orientations and gender identities holds services 10 a.m. Sundays at 45 N. Forklanding Road, Maple Shade, N.J.; 856-779-7739; mapleshadeucc.org. Metropolitan Community Church of Christ the Liberator Holds services 10:45 a.m. Sundays at the Pride Center of New

United Christian Church Open, afﬁrming and welcoming congregation holds services 10:15 a.m. Sundays, summer services 9:15 a.m., at 8525 New Falls Road, Levittown; 215-946-6800. Unity Fellowship Church of Philadelphia Diverse, afﬁrming LGBT congregation holds services 2 p.m. Sundays at 55 N. Broad St.; 215-240-6106. University Lutheran Church of the Incarnation Welcoming congregation holds services 10:30 a.m. Sundays at 3637 Chestnut St. preceded by “Adult Forum: Sundays” at 9:30; 215-387-2885; www.uniphila.org.

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Community Bulletin Board Community centers

■ The Attic Youth Center 255 S. 16th St.; 215-545-4331; atticyouthcenter.org. For LGBT and questioning youth and their friends and allies. Groups meet and activities are held 4-7 p.m. Monday-Tuesday and 48:30 p.m. Wednesday-Friday. Case management, HIV testing and smoking cessation are available MondayFriday. See the Youth section for more events.

■ Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Center at the University of Pennsylvania 3907 Spruce St., 215-898-5044; center@dolphin. upenn.edu. Regular hours: 10 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday through Thursday; 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday; noon-6 p.m. Saturday; noon-8 p.m. Sunday. Summer hours: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Friday.

■ ActionAIDS: 215-981-0088 ■ AIDS Law Project of Pennsylvania: 215-587-9377 ■ AIDS Law Project of Southern New Jersey: 856-933-9500 ext. 221 ■ AIDS Library: 215-985-4851 ■ ACLU of Pennsylvania: 215592-1513 ■ AIDS Treatment Fact line: 800662-6080 ■ Barbara Gittings Gay and Lesbian Collection at the Independence Branch of the Philadelphia Free Library: 215-685-1633 ■ The COLOURS Organization, Inc.: 215-496-0330 ■ District Attorney LGBT Liaison: Helen “Nellie” Fitzpatrick, 215-6869980, helen.fitzpatrick@phila.gov

■ Rainbow Room — Bucks County’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Allies Youth Center 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays: Salem UCC Education Building, 181 E. Court St., Doylestown; 215-957-7981 ext. 9065 rainbowroom@ppbucks.org.

■ William Way Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center 1315 Spruce St.; 215-732-2220; www.waygay.org. Hours: 9 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday-Friday, 11 a.m.-7 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays. Peer counseling: 6-9 p.m. Monday through Friday Library hours: noon-9 p.m. Monday-Thursday; noon-3 p.m. and 6-9 p.m. Friday; noon-6 p.m. Saturday. Volunteers: New Orientation: First Wednesday of the month at 7:30 p.m.

Key numbers

of Lesbians and Gays (Philadelphia): 215-572-1833

■ Equality Pennsylvania: 215731-1447; www.equalitypa.org

■ Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations: 215-686-4670

■ Equality Forum: 215-732-3378

■ Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force: 1-877-pride-2000

■ GALAEI: A Queer Latin@ Social Justice Organization: 215-8511822 ■ LGBT Elder Initiative: 267-5463448; info@LGBTEI.org ■ LGBT Peer Counseling Services: 215-732-TALK ■ Mayor’s Director of LGBT Affairs: Gloria Casarez, 215-6862194; Gloria.Casarez@phila.gov; ■ Mazzoni Center: 215-563-0652; Legal Services: 215-563-0657, 866-LGBT-LAW; Family & Community Medicine: 215-563-0658 ■ Parents, Families and Friends

■ Police Department liaison — Deputy Commissioner Kevin Bethel: 215-686-3318 ■ Philadelphia Police Liaison Committee: 215-760-3686 (Rick Lombardo); ppd.lgbt@gmail.com ■ Philly Pride Presents: 215875-9288 ■ SPARC — Statewide Pennsylvania Rights Coalition: 717-9209537 ■ Transgender Health Action Coalition: 215-732-1207 (staffed 3-6 p.m. Wednesdays and 6-9 p.m. Mondays, Thursdays and Saturdays)

Health

Anonymous, free, conﬁdential HIV testing Spanish/English counselors offer testing 8:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Monday-Thursday at Congreso de Latinos Unidos, 216 W. Somerset St.; 215763-8870. ActionAIDS Provides a range of programs for people affected by HIV/AIDS, including case management, prevention, testing and education services at 1216 Arch St.; 215-981-0088; www.actionaids.org. GALAEI: A Queer Latin@ Social Justice Organization Free, anonymous HIV testing from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday at 1207 Chestnut St., fifth floor; noon-6 p.m. Tuesdays at the Washington West Project, 1201 Locust St.; 215-851-1822 or 866-222-3871; www.galaei. org. Spanish/English HIV treatment Free HIV/AIDS diagnosis and treatment for Philadelphia residents are available from 9 a.m.-noon Mondays (walk-in) and 5-8 p.m. Thursdays (by appointment) at Health Center No. 2, 1720 S. Broad St.; 215685-1821.

■ Gay and Lesbian Lawyers of Philadelphia Board meetings at 6:30 p.m. the first Wednesday of the month at 100 S. Broad St., Suite 1810; free referral service at 215-6279090; www.galloplaw.org. ■ Greater Philadelphia Professional Network Networking group for area business professionals, selfemployed and business owners meets monthly in a different location throughout the city; www. gppn.org; 215-922-3377.

HIV health insurance help Access to free medications and confidential HIV testing 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Tuesdays at 13 S. MacDade Blvd., Suite 108, Collingdale; Medical Office Building, 722 Church Lane, Yeadon; and 630 S. 60th St.; 610-586-9077. Mazzoni Center LGBTQ counseling and behavioral health services, HIV/ AIDS care and services, case management and support groups; 21 S. 12th St., eighth floor; 215-563-0652; www. mazzonicenter.org. Mazzoni Center Family & Community Medicine Comprehensive primary health care, preventive health services, gynecology, sexual-health services and chronic-disease management, including comprehensive HIV care, as well as youth drop-in (ages 14-24) 5-7p.m. Wednesdays; 809 Locust St.; 215-563-0658. Washington West Project of Mazzoni Center Free, anonymous HIV testing. Walk-ins welcome 9 a.m.-9 pm. Monday-Friday, 1-5p.m. Saturday; 1201 Locust St.; 215-985-9206.

Professional groups ■ Independence Business Alliance Greater Philadelphia’s LGBT Chamber of Commerce, providing networking, business development, marketing, educational and advocacy opportunities for LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses and professionals; www. IndependenceBusinessAlliance. com; 215-557-0190; 1717 Arch St., Suite 3370. ■ National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association Philadelphia chapter of NLGJA,

open to professionals and students, meets for social and networking events; www.nlgja. org/philly; philly@nlgja.org. ■ Philadelphia Gay Tourism Caucus Regional organization dedicated to promoting LGBT tourism to the Greater Philadelphia region, meetings every other month on the fourth Thursday (January, March, May, July, September and the third Thursday in November), open to the public; P.O. Box 58143, Philadelphia, PA 19102; www.philadelphiagaytourism. com; 215-840-2039.

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