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Giovanni’s Room to close May 17

City settles trans case for $382K

By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com

By Timothy Cwiek timothy@epgn.com City officials have agreed to pay $382,500 to settle the federal antibias lawsuit filed by transgender city worker Bobbie E. Burnett. The settlement was reached April 29, after the involvement of U.S. Magistrate Judge David R. Strawbridge. The city is expected to pay the money by July 31, according to court records. Burnett, a city library assistant, filed suit in 2009, claiming pervasive anti-LGBT workplace bias. She contended the city began mistreating her in 2002, shortly after she transitioned to the opposite gender. Coworkers allegedly hurled slurs at her, including “freak,” “monster,” “devil,” “nigger” and “man in women’s clothing.” Her managers allegedly limited Burnett’s ability to interact with the public, prevented her from using gender-appropriate restrooms and cited her for frivolous workplace infractions. “I’m very grateful that it’s over,” Burnett said. “The settlement is substantial, and I feel a sense of personal vindication.” She’ll continue working as a library assistant for the city, she added. In agreeing to the settlement, the city acknowledges no wrongdoing in the matter. Burnett, 58, said she wants to put the litigation behind her. “It’s been a long journey, and the city threw mud at me throughout the entire process,” Burnett said. “They trashed my good name, and I hope this settlement will at least stop that part of it.” She expressed appreciation for her attorneys, John W. Beavers and Kristine W. Holt. Burnett said a significant portion of the settlePAGE 23

TRIUMPHANT RETURN: Mayor Michael Nutter welcomed Edie Windsor back to Philadelphia and to her alma mater, Temple University, April 26. Windsor was the guest of honor at a Temple Homecoming celebration, where she spoke to a packed audience about her fight to dismantle the nation’s ban on same-sex marriage. Windsor, a Philadelphia native, sued the federal government after being forced to pay inheritance taxes on her late wife’s estate, resulting in last summer’s U.S. Supreme Court ruling that invalidated a key portion of the Defense of Marriage Act. Guests were treated to a screening of documentary “Edie & Thea: A Very Long Engagement” and an interview session with Windsor, led by local attorney and fellow Temple alum Angela Giampolo. In his remarks, Nutter compared Windsor to a modern-day Rosa Parks. Photo: Patrick Hagerty

A longtime staple in the Philadelphia LGBT community is closing its doors. The country’s oldest LGBT bookstore, Giovanni’s Room, will close May 17. Ed Hermance, who has owned the store for 38 years, announced his plans for retirement in the fall and planned to sell both the business and the two buildings it encompasses. He announced a potential sale agreement several weeks ago, but said the buyer could not come up with enough money to finalize it. Hermance said he made the difficult decision to close the store several days ago. Since the beginning of the year, Hermance said he had lost between $10,000-$15,000 in keeping the store open. He blamed retailers such as Amazon for the tough environment for independent bookstores. “The government is allowing Amazon to tighten their fingers around the throats of the publishers and drive their retail competitors out of the business by clearly monopolistic methods,” he said.

It won’t survive if it isn’t different,” he said. The store, at the corner of 12th and Pine, has an inventory of more than 48,000 books and also offers 5-million books online and 3.5 million eBooks. Hermance had been hoping to sell the business for $100,000 and the buildings for up to $750,000. He said he still intends to give proceeds made from the rental or sale of the buildings to Delaware Valley Legacy Fund upon his death. The bookstore moved twice before inhabiting its current Gayborhood location, originally on South Street, before moving to the 1400 block of Spruce Street. Giovanni’s Room had events scheduled after May 17 and Hermance said he will try his ED HERMANCE DISCUSSES THE hardest to find another venue STORE CLOSING AT A PRESS EVENT for those events. The store APRIL 29 Photo: Scott A. Drake has four employees, including Hermance said there is a possiHermance. The one full-time bility that Giovanni’s Room could employee, who has been with the be resurrected in some form, but bookstore for 35 years, will be elithat ideas would have to change in gible to collect unemployment. order for it to be successful. News of the impending clos“Whatever it is that they do, it ing spread quickly this week, and will have to be something differ- elicited disappointment from all ent than what we are doing now. corners of the PAGE 23

Arguments moved up in Philadelphia couple’s marriage case By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com A judge agreed late last month to move up oral arguments in one of several pending challenges to Pennsylvania’s ban on marriage equality. U.S. District Court Judge Mary McLaughlin moved arguments in Palladino v. Corbett to May 15. The hearing had been slated for May 28, but attorneys for Gov. Tom Corbett requested in an April 17 telephone conference that the proceeding be moved up. Plaintiff attorney Tiffany Palmer said a scheduling conflict on the part of the state prompted the request. The hearing will take place 9:30 a.m. in Courtroom 13-A of the federal courthouse, 601 Market St. It is open to the public.

The case was filed in September by Philadelphia residents Cara Palladino and Isabelle Barker, who are seeking to have the state recognize their legal Massachusetts marriage. The couple filed a motion for summary judgment in January, asking the court to immediately overturn Pennsylvania’s ban on same-sex marriage. The plaintiffs are specifically contending that the stipulation that Pennsylvania deny benefits to couples who are legally married in other jurisdictions is unconstitutional. The state, meanwhile, requested the case be dismissed in November. McLaughlin is set to consider arguments for summary judgment and dismissal at the May 15 proceeding. Last month, she accepted an amicus curiae brief from state Treasurer Rob McCord, who

argued that the state ban forces his department to discriminate against same-sex couples. Also this week, both parties returned to court in a case filed in Northampton County by a woman who was charged inheritance tax on the estate of her late wife. The state Department of Revenue has asked for the case to be dismissed, which attorneys for the plaintiff argued against Tuesday before Northampton County Court of Common Pleas Judge Craig Dally. Dally will rule on whether the case will proceed next month. A decision is expected as soon as this month in another federal challenge to Pennsylvania’s law. In that case, filed by the American Civil Liberties Union on behalf of a group of same-sex couples, the judge agreed last month to rule on the briefs rather than take the case to trial. ■

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Longtime adult cinema, bookstore evicted

News Briefing Pols file amicus brief Eight current and former state lawmakers who oppose same-sex marriage have filed an amicus brief in a lawsuit that seeks to establish marriage equality in Pennsylvania. On April 29, U.S. District Judge John E. Jones 3d granted permission for the men to file a 13-page brief in Whitewood v. Wolf. Their brief contends that allowing samesex marriages could increase unplanned pregnancies and the state’s welfare rolls. “When unplanned children arrive outside of marriage, typically a single parent raises that child with the aid of the state,” the lawmakers argued. The current lawmakers are Reps. Matthew E. Baker (R-68th Dist.), Paul I. Clymer (R145th Dist.) and Rep. Jerry A. Stern (R-80th Dist.), and the former lawmakers are Jerry Birmelin, Allan Egolf, Dennis E. Leh, Samuel E. Rohrer and Thomas F. Yewcic. All voted for the state’s Defense of Marriage Act in 1996. A ruling in Whitewood is expected within the next several weeks.

After more than 40 years, the Sansom Cinema and Tom Cat Bookstore have been evicted from their Center City location. Craig Grossman, senior managing director for Goldman Properties Co., said non-payment of rent prompted the eviction from 120 S. 13th St. The decision is final, Grossman said. The establishments have provided adultoriented entertainment to the LGBT community at that location since 1971. The cinema operated on the street level and the bookstore and video arcade on the lower level. A representative of the cinema and bookstore couldn’t be reached for comment.

Scheduling order issued in Shephard case The state Superior Court recently issued a scheduling order in the appeal of William F. Smithson, a gay man accused of strangling coworker Jason Shephard in 2006. In 2008, Smithson was convicted of firstdegree murder. However, his advocates say there’s no direct evidence linking him to Shephard’s murder. They say Smithson’s conviction was due largely to homophobia and that police failed to investigate F. Bruce Covington — who was also inside Smithson’s home when Shephard

died. Covington was convicted of drug-related charges stemming from the incident, but prosecutors say he wasn’t the killer. In a prior interview, Smithson said he was heavily drugged by Covington and passed out while Shephard was still alive. Smithson is requesting a new trial, claiming his trial attorney failed to represent him effectively. But in January, Delaware County Common Pleas Judge Barry C. Dozor denied Smithson’s request, holding that the defendant’s trial attorney adequately represented him. Smithson is appealing Dozor’s ruilng in state Superior Court. The court issued a scheduling order, giving Smithson’s attorney, Henry D. Forrest, until May 12 to file an appellate brief. Prosecutor William D. Toal 3d has 30 days after that brief is filed to file an appellee brief. Then, Forrest has an opportunity to file a reply brief. Then the court has the option of hearing oral arguments or issuing a ruling based solely on the briefs. — Timothy Cwiek

ActionAIDS to benefit from fashion show

featuring lingerie created by designer Britta Uschkamp, with 15 percent of proceeds to go to the HIV/AIDS service organization. The show will be held at 6 p.m May 7 at 1204 Chestnut St. The event is sponsored by Fun Factory and will include cocktails, a raffle and treats from Picture Perfect Catering and music from Deep C. For more information, visit www.thevelvetlily.com. ■

Church fundraises for The Attic The Evangelical Lutheran Church of the Atonement will host a gay Bingo event to benefit The Attic Youth Center 5:30 p.m. May 3 at 1542 E. Montgomery Ave. The event will be hosted by Pearl E. Gates and Syboll and will feature drag performances, prizes, a 50/50 raffle and food available for purchase. Admission is $5 and will include two Bingo cards. Additional cards will be available for purchase. For more information, visit https://www. facebook.com/events/731471806905350. ■ — Angela Thomas

ActionAIDS will be the beneficiary of a local trunk show. The Velvet Lily will host a trunk show

locations in Philadelphia PHILADELPHIA — AROUND THE GAYBORHOOD

12th Street Gym, 204 S. 12th St. • 13th Street Gourmet Pizza, 209 S. 13th St. • AACO, 1101 Market St., 9th floor • Action AIDS, 1216 Arch St. • Apt. & Townhouse Rentals, 304 S. 12th St. • ASIAC, 1711 S. Broad St. • The Bike Stop, 206 S. Quince St. • Bioscript Pharmacy, 1227 Locust St. • Cafe Twelve, 212 S. 12th St. • Charlie Salon, 203 S. 12th St. • City Hall NE Entrance • Club Body Center, 1220 Chancellor St. • Com-Har Living Room, 101 S. Broad St., 14th floor • Criminal Justice Center, 1301 Filbert St. • Cut Salon, 204 S. 13th St. • Danny’s Bookstore 133 S. 13th St. • Dignity/St. Lukes, 330 S. 13th St. • Dirty Frank’s Bar, 13th & Pine sts. • The Foodery, 10th & Pine sts. • Fusion Gym, 105 S. 12th St., 2nd floor • Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St. • I Goldberg, 1300 Chestnut St. • ICandy, 254 S. 12th St. • Independent Hotel, 13th & Locust sts. • John C. Anderson Apts., 249 S. 13th St. • Mazzoni Clinic, 809 Locust St. • Midtown II, 122 S. 11th St. • More Than Just Ice Cream, 1119 Locust St. • Pa. AIDS Law Project, 1211 Chestnut St., 12th floor • Paolo Pizzeria, 1336 Pine St. • Parker Hotel Lobby, 261 S. 13th St. • Phila. FIGHT/Aids Library, 1233 Locust St., 5th floor • Phila. Family Planning Commission, 260 S. Broad St., 10th floor • Planned Parenthood, 1144 Locust St. • Sansom Cinema, 120 S. 13th St., basement • Santa Fe Burrito, 212 S. 11th St. • Scorpio Books, 202 S. Juniper St. • Sisters, 1320 Chancellor St. • Spruce Street Video, 252 S. 12th St. • Packard Apartments, 317 N. Broad St. • Safeguards lobby, 1211 Chestnut St. #610 • Salon K, 1216 Locust St. • Sante Fe Burrito, 212 S. 11th St. • Tabu, 200 S. 12th St. • Tavern on Camac, 243 S. Camac St. • Toast, 12th & Spruce sts. • Triangle Medicine, 253 S. 10th St., 1st floor • U Bar, 1220 Locust St. • Valanni, 1229 Spruce St. • Venture Inn, 255 S. Camac St. • Westbury, 261 S. 13th St. • William Way LGBT Community Center, 1325 Spruce St.

PHILADELPHIA — C.C. EAST OF BROAD

Bean Café, 615 South St. • Best Western Independence Park Hotel lobby, 215 Chestnut St. • Cedrone’s Flowers, 800 Lombard St. • Chocolate Works Condo lobby, 321 N. Third St. • Copabanana, 342 South St. • Dane Décor, 315 Arch St. • Famous 4th St. Deli, Fourth & Bainbridge sts. • Hopkinson House, 604 S. Washington Sq. • Hyatt Regency Hotel lobby, 201 S. Columbus Blvd. • Independence Place Condos, 241 S. Sixth St., lobby in both towers • Independence Visitors Center, Sixth & Market sts. • Old City Ironworks Gym, 141 N. Second St. • Nationality Service Center, 1216 Arch St. • Packard Apts., 317 N. Broad St. • PGN ofﬁces, 505 S. Fourth St. • Philadelphia Java Co., 518 S. Fourth St. • Reading Terminal Market, 12th & Filbert sts. • Strands Salon, 25 N. Third St. •

PHILADELPHIA — C.C. WEST OF BROAD

Adonis Cinema, 2026 Sansom St. • Art Institute, 2300 Market St. • The Attic Youth Center, 255 S. 16th St. • Bob & Barbara’s, 1509 South St. • Book Bin, 22nd & Market sts. • Dan Tobey R/E, 1401 Walnut St., 8th floor • Dr. Wakefield’s Office, 255 S. 17th St., Suite 2306 • Drexel Partnership, 1427 Vine St., 3rd floor • Latimer Deli, 255 S. 15th St. • L-2 Restaurant, 22nd & South sts. • MANNA, 12 S. 23rd St. • Marine Club Condos lobby, Broad St. & Washington Ave. • Metropolitan, 115 N. 15th St. • Safeguards Lobby, 1700 Market St., 18th floor • Sansom St. Gym, 2020 Sansom St. • South Square Market, 2221 South St. • Titan Room, 22nd & Market sts. • Touraine Building lobby, 1520 Spruce St. • U Do It Laundry, 15th & Spruce sts. • Wyndham Franklin Plaza Hotel, 17th & Race sts. •

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“Our Journeys” is a new LGBT Elder Initiative offering LGBT older adults the opportunity to share their experiences of coming out and how it has affected their life stories.

TRUCKING OUT FOR LUNCH: The Gayborhood was bustling with lunchtime diners April 24, who turned out to support the 24th annual Dining Out for Life. The ActionAIDS-organized event saw the return of last year’s inaugural lunch trucks, which moved from South Philly to 13th and Locust — and which generated double the fundraising of last year. ActionAIDS executive director Kevin Burns said final fundraising numbers are not yet ready but “restaurants were hopping and initial contributions are up over last year,” adding special thanks to the participating food-truck owners, especially Verna Swerdlow. Supporters can still get a 20-Percent-Off Tuesday Card: By making a $25 donation at ActionAIDS.org, diners will get 20 percent off their bill Tuesday nights at more than 25 participating restaurants. Photo: Scott A. Drake

This week in PGN

Our final best-sellers list from Giovanni’s Room and a reminder that our Summer Reading Issue comes out May 23.

6 — Dyke March marks its 15th year 7 — Spruce Foundation looks into The Attic

25-32 — Older Americans Month — special section 37 — Arts & Culture cover story: Judy Tenuta talks trash and some politics 40 — Peek-a-Boo Review turns sweet 16 “I wish this was not happening. I don’t know where I would be today if it were not for the helpful books I bought there as a teenager struggling with who I was, the bullying I endured as well as the Baptist Church and school persecuting me for who I am.” ~ Pastor Janette Costanzo, on hearing that Giovanni’s Room is closing after 40 years, page 11

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Gay-themed Temple U. show wins Emmy By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com Last week, a group of local students became Emmy Award-winning filmmakers. “One of the Guys,” a web-based television show created by Temple University students, was named Best Series at the 2014 Academy of Television Arts and Sciences Foundation’s College Television Awards, presented April 23 in Los Angeles. The show is about three gay friends and their straight roommate. It was created last year by Michael Busca, now a senior English and communications major. “One of the Guys” follows Madison (Stephen Fala), Alex (Matt McWilliams) and Jonathan (Aaron Palmer) as they interact with their straight roommate, Ethan (Jeff Familetti) and discover their similarities and differences. Busca, along with producers Jen Parmer and Jaime Sweet, attended last week’s ceremony. Each received their own trophy. Busca, on his first trip away from the East Coast, said the

moment the show’s name was announced as the winner was nearly indescribable. “We are blessed and so lucky and it’s unbelievable,” Busca said. “It feels like things like this don’t happen to real people, so we were living the dream out there. It is validating and goes to show that what we have to say mattered and all the hard work we put in was being listened to. It is really cool to know that what we are doing means something.” The series category was the first to be announced. Busca said he realized they had won when the presenter told an inside joke about the show. “On our webpage, we make a joke that we filmed the first two episodes on the $200-300 of beer money I received on my 21st birthday,” he said. “They told that tidbit when they were describing all the shows. When they announced the winner, the presenter said, ‘Looks like there will be a lot of beer tonight.’ They said our show name, played our trailer and it was this wave of emotions.” Busca said he had a speech prepared but due to nerves, his mind

JAIME SWEET (FROM LEFT), MICHAEL BUSCA AND JEN PARMER AT LAST WEEK’S COLLEGE TELEVISION AWARDS IN CALIFORNIA

went blank. But his impromptu speech went better than planned. “I just spoke my mind,” he said. “Thankfully, I thanked everyone I was supposed to.” Busca will graduate this month and is diving headfirst into his last two weeks of classes — as well as prepping for the Broad Street Run and myriad student activities. He is also a finalist in the

Emmy’s TV directing internship program and has job offers in New York, Los Angeles and New Orleans. “I wanted to give myself one last summer in Philadelphia. By Labor Day, I will hopefully be making movies,” he said. Busca said he is still formulating plans for the show’s continuation after his graduation. He said he created “One of the

Guys” to encourage more LGBT representation in media. “Growing up, I didn’t have gay role models, everyone was straight,” he said. “To be able to sit on my mom’s bed and watch ‘Will & Grace’ and laugh meant that even if I wasn’t living in a world that I knew other gay people, there is hope. There is a story out there and it may not be in your backyard but it’s out there somewhere.” Being recognized by a mainstream organization like the Academy of Television Arts and Sciences Foundation validates his goals, Busca said. “You throw something on the web and everyone anywhere can watch it at any time,” he said. “That is why it means so much, because it wasn’t an award but a step forward for LGBT content and the community in general. We can’t get married in Pennsylvania and we can get fired for being LGBT but we had an LGBT web series from Pennsylvania win the Emmy. And that is a powerful thing.” For more information on “One of the Guys,” visit www.oneoftheguysTV.com. ■

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By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com A Philadelphia LGBT tradition is gearing up for its 15th anniversary of marching, advocating and being heard. The annual Philadelphia Dyke March was started in 1998 by Daniel Laurison, then a student at Swarthmore College. Early march organizer Gloria Casarez recalled that the flier for the first event was inclusive, which caught her eye. “It said, ‘Hey you, do you want to have a march for us?’ and it had a laundry list of identities that were printed on the flier, which is still used on the Dyke March Tshirts until this day,” she said. Casarez, who was working as executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Latino AIDS Education Initiative at the time, said the group began to meet in February for the march, which was to be held in June. Early meetings were held at The Attic Youth Center and William Way LGBT Community Center. “We got a great mix of people,” Casarez said. “Our youngest organizers were 14 years old and the oldest that year was 55 years old. It was very diverse and there were just 20 of us at the first meeting and half were people of color.” Casarez added that Philadelphia’s march was among the first to be trans-inclusive. “At that time, there were a handful of other cities that had the marches and most, if not all of them, were explicitly for women and pretty much trans-exclusive but when we started, we wanted to be inclusive and we took heat for that,” she said. Casarez, 26 at the time, didn’t know anyone at the first meeting but said all the original organizers are still friends today. It was at the first Dyke March meeting where Casarez met Maura Kelly. Kelly joined the Dyke March at the very beginning and stayed involved for the first three years. Kelly said she was looking for a way to connect with people. “I didn’t have a history of social action at the time,” she said. “A friend told me about it and I decided to get involved.” Kelly’s apartment quickly became the venue for some of the meetings. The first march started at Filter Square and ended at Fifth and Market streets. Casarez recalled the only issue being the march permits, which she said were originally denied because the city felt the LGBT community had enough “Pride” events. “Our event is not a parade, it is a protest,” she said, noting the rest of the debut event went seamlessly. “We didn’t know what we would encounter but nothing negative happened. We had a couple police officers escort us throughout our route. We had a great crowd; it was a celebration. The greatest challenge that day was crossing Broad Street but we had Faeries block traffic.”

Kelly remembers people opening their windows and cheering the marchers on. The march now starts at Kahn Park and participants march throughout the Gayborhood and down Broad Street. The Dyke March will celebrate its 15year history with a new retrospective exhibit, opening 6 p.m. May 8 at William Way LGBT Community Center, 1315 Spruce St. The exhibit will feature early Tshirt designs, fliers, noisemakers, photos, videos, planning notes, budget sheets, press releases and PGN articles. Many materials featured in the exhibit were collected by past and present organizers. Current organizers will be on hand selling T-shirts and recruiting more members. Current organizer Samantha Giusti got involved in the Dyke March six years ago after moving to Philadelphia for graduate school and wanting to get more involved with the community. Giusti said there are about 20 organizers involved this year, noting it’s important to keep relationships open with past organizers. “We still have a lot of the early organizers in the city and so we keep in contact with those early organizers and build good relationships with them,” she said. Casarez still attends the Dyke March every year and said the annual event just gets better. “There is a great group of people who organize it and make it a true celebration,” she said. “It is less of a protest than it was back then but the visibility component is still very important.” Another element that has changed over the years is the growing acceptance of the term the march is named after. “[‘Dyke’] was and still is cringe-worthy for some now,” Casarez said. “It was a political term and term of personal identity and it is about reclaiming the word that has been used to hurt us.” Giusti agreed, adding that the use of the term reflects the event’s overall mission. “It is a part of a national grassroots movement of people who are creating a space for women in response to male- and corporate-dominated Pride events,” she said. “We view it in today’s world as a flexible word because we are not policing people. People can self-identify as dyke and whatever it means to them. Dyke is an umbrella term.” The march has changed in its 15 years, but Giusti said it stays true to its ideals. “Dyke March 15 years later still looks similar with the same core values and morals and what we are protesting is the same,” she said. “It continues to be a living and breathing group and a reflection of where the dyke community is, and I just hope it continues to grow and be a reflection of creativity on who we are and who we love.” The Dyke March will take place from 3-6 p.m. June 7 starting at Kahn Park. ■

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Gay Eagle Scout spearheads petition drive By Timothy Cwiek timothy@epgn.com Pascal D. Tessier, an openly gay Eagle Scout, is looking forward to his 18th birthday on Aug. 5. He’s planning for his future as a college student in Ohio, majoring in psychology. But he’s also worried that his role in Scouting may come to an end when he turns 18, because the organization doesn’t allow openly LGBT adult participants. Tessier said his experience with Scouting has been extremely positive. “I love Scouting, I love the experience, I love what they taught me. I would not be the person I am today without Scouting,” he said. But Tessier, who lives in Maryland, is also aware that not everyone in Scouting holds a favorable view of LGBTs. “I like what they stand for. But there are small aspects of their policies that don’t coincide with the values they stand for.” He became particularly concerned in April, when an openly gay Scoutmaster in Seattle was ejected from Scouting. Then the BSA severed ties with a Methodist church that sponsored the Scoutmaster’s troop and pack. “That was the last straw,” Tessier said. So he posted a petition on change.org asking that Amazon.com disqualify the BSA from its charitable-donations program. Amazon.com is the world’s largest online retailer, with headquarters in Seattle. Its charitable program, known as

“AmazonSmile,” donates .5 percent of a purchase to a charity of the customer’s choice. But AmazonSmile’s guidelines state that participating charities cannot discriminate on the basis of race, sex, religion, nationality, disability, sexual orientation or age. Tessier wants the national BSA organization and its local councils removed from the program until LGBT adults are accepted in Scouting. As of presstime Wednesday, more than 75,000 people had signed Tessier’s petition. “This [petition] isn’t about me,” Tessier said. “It’s about other LGBT members of Scouting who aren’t in a position to speak out.” He also said he’s not calling for a boycott of Amazon, and that his family makes frequent purchases from the company. “Amazon is known to be a friend to the LGBT movement. However, they are supporting the Boy Scouts, who discriminate against LGBT folks. So there’s a disconnect.” A spokesperson for Amazon didn’t return calls and emails seeking a comment. Tessier said he’s optimistic that Amazon will respond favorably to his petition. “After people have pointed out to them there is a disconnect in the values they represent and their policies, I believe they’ll make a change,” he said. Tessier also expressed hope that the petition will encourage the national BSA to accept LGBT adults in PAGE 23

Youth gala to benefit The Attic By Angela Thomas angela@epgn.com A local youth-focused philanthropy organization will celebrate LGBT young people at its annual gala next month. The Spruce Foundation was founded to encourage young professionals to get involved with local nonprofit organizations. Each year, Spruce Foundation partners with four nonprofits — in education, health, the arts and the LGBT community, the latter of which this year is The Attic Youth Center. The Attic and the three other partners will each receive a $5,000 grant. The foundation’s co-president, Rudy Flesher, said the organization was motivated to select The Attic in part because of its need for funds to help with its mental health-counseling program. “The Attic has such a compelling story and the services they are providing make a difference,” he said. Flesher served as program officer for LGBTQ youth at the foundation last year before becoming co-president. “There was a realization that there is

a huge need for funding for LGBT youth organizations and that is only being met by individual donors,” he said. Flesher said this year’s gala, on June 7, will be the largest yet, and at a new venue, Union Transfer, 1026 Spring Garden St. The venue can hold 600 people, as opposed to last year’s, which held 150. “The Union Transfer has been bringing interesting new artists and there will be a live-music portion of our gala, so that will blend perfectly,” he said. “There have been a significant number of young professionals seeking to go to a purposeful event. Our gala has tripled in size because of that.” Flesher said the gala is a way for young people to get more involved and network. “We are raising money to further our mission, which is primarily supporting youth nonprofits and cultivating the next generation of philanthropists,” he said. “The gala is a chance to meet like-minded people who are passionate about their communities. You don’t have to wait until you are older to make an impact.” Tickets are $75-$125. For more info, visit www.http://sprucefoundation.org. ■

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Obituary Janice Weatherford: chemical salesperson and activist, 63 By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com Janice Weatherford, a former Philadelphiaarea LGBT activist, died last month of cancer. She was 63. Weatherford was a native of Alabama who moved to the Philly area in 1992. She spent nearly 25 years working in global chemical sales at BASF Corporation, retiring last month. Weatherford and wife Barbara Odell lived in Chester County for more than two decades and moved to Santa Fe in 2012. Weatherford earned a bachelor’s degree from Birmingham Southern College and went on to become the first woman hired into the industrial-chemical sales field at Diamond Shamrock Chemical Co. Odell said Weatherford’s people sense made her a natural in the sales industry. “The great thing about Jan — and I was always amazed by this — she would run into people she hadn’t seen for two years and she’d say, ‘How’s your son doing in college?’ She’d remember what school he went to, what he was studying, the fact he’d gone to Italy, and the other person’s eyes would just get wide,” Odell said. “That’s why she was so good at what she did. She’d have half-a-dozen customers for her accounts and she just remembered every single thing about their lives.” Odell and Weatherford met in 1993 when Weatherford visited Provincetown, where Odell was working. “She walked into the store where I was working by herself and just took a liking to me and we got talking. I told her I had a puppy and she said maybe she could come walk the dog with me and then it turned into maybe we could go out to dinner,” Odell said. “She told me a lot of things at dinner about her life and, at the end, she said, ‘I’ve never told anyone these things and I just met you. There must be something here.’” Weatherford began taking a flight up to Boston each weekend and driving to PTown, spending the weekend with Odell and then leaving Monday mornings, often straight for business trips to places like Chicago and Texas. Eventually, the traveling became challenging. “After a month, she just said, ‘I’m exhausted, I can’t do this. You’re just going to have to move in with me,’” Odell said. “We met the last week of September and in the first week of November, we borrow a friend’s truck, packed it up and I moved down, sight-unseen, to Southern Chester County.” During their time in the area, the couple was involved in a number of LGBT-focused initiatives.

Odell worked as a grant writer at the Center for Lesbian and Gay Civil Rights — the predecessor to Equality Pennsylvania — and Weatherford sat on its board. Weatherford was also a member of the board of governors of the Human Rights Campaign and co-chaired one of its Philadelphia dinners. She was a strong supporter of early Liberty City Democratic Club get-out-thevote efforts and was among the activists lobbying for the city’s domestic-partner legislation in 1998. Odell said she and Weatherford were in Council chambers as the legislation was debated. “It was very contentious in the chambers. The other side had bussed people in and there was a guy on the other side of the aisle from us who almost decked Jan. She had her picket signs and she refused to be quiet and he started in on her. It was a different time,” she said. Weatherford also led the charge for, and ultimately secured, domestic-partner benefits at her workplace. Odell said Weatherford made it a point to be both out and proud. “She made it her mission that every time she got on a plane or wherever she went, she would introduce herself as being a lesbian. She wanted to educate every person she met,” Odell said. “Going back 20 years ago, people didn’t talk as openly about that as they do now. But she wanted to tell everybody and educate the world, one person, at a time, that she was a lesbian and she was just like them.” The couple decided to have a house built in New Mexico several years ago, and Weatherford committed to building it as a wholly sustainable, 100-percent solar property. The pair married in New Mexico last summer; they had originally wed in Massachusetts in 2005. Weatherford had been dealing with psoriatic arthritis and last year was diagnosed with stage-three ovarian cancer; she was treated but the cancer returned in February. She was treated via in-home hospice so she could be surrounded by her dogs, whom she called her children. Odell said Weatherford was a passionate, and compassionate, person. “She was very sincere about everything she did. She was a perfectionist sometimes to the point that it was nauseating, but that’s just how she wanted things; everything had to be done right. And she was very good at keeping up relationships; she had friends literally from childhood. She did everything to the best she could.” Besides Odell, Weatherford is survived by her father, Foss James Weatherford Jr.; brother-in-law, George Odell; and a number of other relatives, cousins and friends. Weatherford was cremated and a memorial gathering is being planned in Santa Fe. Donations can be made in her memory to PMS Hospice Center of Santa Fe. ■

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D’Anne Witkowski

Earl Bullard

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End of an era Giovanni’s Room announced this week that it would shut its doors for good later this month. The LGBT bookstore, which was the oldest of its kind in the nation, provided four decades of information, education and community. Like with the shuttering of other LGBT institutions before it, the community is now left to wonder how the hole can be filled, and what can be done to preserve some vestige of the Giovanni’s Room legacy. The store was offering LGBT resources in a time when they were most needed — when community members were routinely being arrested, harassed or attacked for their sexual orientation or gender identity. By all accounts, Giovanni’s Room offered a safe space for LGBT people to see reflections of themselves on the shelves, and to find solace and a sense of community with other like-minded folks. In its earliest years, the store offered much more than just titles: It became a gathering spot where LGBT people could feel validated and valued and where they could explore their interests and ideas in an environment that not only didn’t judge them, but actually affirmed them. Throughout its 40-year history, Giovanni’s Room became different things to different people, and to different generations. As LGBT acceptance blossomed in the past decade, the rainbow-encased store at the corner of 12th and Pine streets was no longer an anomaly, but rather one of a sea of spaces fostering LGBT affirmation in Center City. But, the building welcoming of LGBT people into mainstream communities could be one of several death knells (apart from the burgeoning empires like Amazon) that contributed to Giovanni’s Room decline; as LGBT people are finding themselves reflected more widely, and positively, across all spectrums of mainstream media and in all sectors of society, are industries like LGBT publishing losing relevance? With all evolutions, being able to both survive and thrive in a continuously changing field requires a careful balance of simultaneously looking backward and forward — remaining committed to original principles while embracing innovations to attract new audiences. The principles upon which Giovanni’s Room was founded are hopefully too strong for the store’s legacy to completely fade. While the store, in its current incarnation, will no longer exist, here’s hoping that its 40 years of fostering community built a strong-enough foundation that its supporters will refuse to let it completely fade. But for now, hats off to longtime owner Ed Hermance and the number of other early pioneers who gave our community four decades of Giovanni’s Room. Your perseverance, courage and ingenuity touched, shaped and very well may have saved countless lives. Thank you, Giovanni’s Room. ■

Here’s a hypothetical situation for you: Let’s say you’ve been the mayor for less than a year of a little town in South Carolina called Latta. We’re talking 1,400 people, so everybody is probably in everybody’s business. Now let’s say that your town’s police chief is an out lesbian. She’s been working for the police department for, oh, just a short time, say 20 years or so, and has a pretty stellar record of service. But you don’t like lesbians and you certainly don’t like her because she’s all, “You’re not allowed to give your friend with a suspended license the keys to a city vehicle” or some such femi-Nazi stuff. What’s a guy like you to do? Well, if you’re Latta Mayor Earl Bullard, you fire her. And you say it’s not because she’s a lesbian, it’s because all of a sudden, after 20 years with no official reprimands for misconduct, she just all of a sudden starts to be bad at her job and so you have to give her seven reprimands so that she knows who’s boss. Sounds legit. And since Bullard is the mayor of a tiny town in South Carolina, the whole town rallied around him and sang, “Ding dong the dyke is dead!” while skipping through the town square, right? Nope. It turns out that plenty of people in Latta liked their police chief very much and they are none too happy about Crystal Moore’s firing. And major bummer for Chief Moore: She has no legal recourse if she was fired for being gay. That’s a totally legal thing. There’s no federal law and there’s no state law in South Carolina (or in 28 other states) that protects gays and lesbians from employment discrimination. A little phone conversation that a councilmember recorded with Bullard sheds some light on why he might have found Chief Moore unfit for duty. “I would much rather have, and I will say this to anybody’s face, somebody who

drank and drank too much taking care of my child than I had somebody whose lifestyle is questionable around children,” Bullard said, according to transcripts of the call. I think it’s worth noting that in Bullard’s worldview, being a drunk is not a “lifestyle” that is “questionable around children.” And just what could he mean by “lifestyle”? “I’m not going to let two women stand up there and hold hands and let my child be aware of it,” he continued. “And I’m not going to see them do it with two men neither.” OK. His syntax makes his meaning a little unclear. But it appears that Bullard doesn’t want his kids to be aware that women hold hands and that women apparently have to ask him to “let them” hold hands to begin with. Bullard also doesn’t want to see those women “do it” with men. Huh. I don’t think he understands how this whole lesbian thing works. “Now, all these people showering down and saying, ‘Oh it’s a different lifestyle they can have it,’” Bullard continued, “OK, fine and dandy, but I don’t have to look at it and I don’t want my child around it.” You hear that? If you’re a homo, you can “have” your “lifestyle” so long as you remain invisible to Bullard and his child. Speaks volumes for why he fired the most visible lesbian in Latta, doesn’t it? Also, when Bullard refers to “all these people showering down,” it is not clear whom he is speaking of, but it is quite possible that it’s raining men in Latta. Hallelujah. Maybe they can make a good one their mayor. ■

“I would much rather have, and I will say this to anybody’s face, somebody who drank and drank too much taking care of my child than I had somebody whose lifestyle is questionable around children,” Latta Mayor Earl Bullard said, according to transcripts of the call.

D’Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay since 2003. She’s a freelance writer and poet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the creeps of the world, she reviews rock ’n’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister.

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Street Talk Do you agree with Cameron Diaz that all women have been attracted to other women? “Yes. Most women are concerned about their own beauty, so they recognize beauty in other women. It doesn’t Dawn Evans mean that musician every woman Northwest Philadelphia is a lesbian. But the attraction [to another woman] touches every woman, at different levels.”

“Yes, even if you don’t acknowledge it in the moment, or if you deny having those feelings. I believe it Courtney Kirbis happens to carpenter every woman Buffalo, N.Y. at some point in her life. All women have those feelings. I think part of the reason is that women are socialized to be tender to each other.”

“I think it’s definitely a possibility. I’m willing to say that most women probably have been attracted to another Emma Podietz woman. I bike repairperson don’t know West Philadelphia for sure about all women. I’m not ready to make that type of generalization.”

“Yes. In my experience, I think it’s extremely more common than uncommon. I think it’s because Betty Rodriguez the female teacher body is so Chicago much more beautiful than the male body. It’s soft, curvy and feminine.”

Letters and Feedback In response to “Giovanni’s Room to close next month,” April 27: What a sad loss for Philadelphia and for all of us. I will never forget the first time I had the courage to walk into Giovanni’s Room, to buy a copy of Julia Serano’s “Whipping Girl.” My only regret is that I didn’t have the courage to do it when I first moved to Philadelphia in the early 1990s, instead of waiting until almost 20 years later. Giovanni’s Room will always live on in my memories as an important milestone in my coming out. Thank you for everything you’ve done for all of us! — gcvsa

I wish this was not happening. I don’t know where I would be today if it were not for the helpful books I bought there as a teenager struggling with who I was, the bullying I endured, as well as the Baptist Church and school persecuting me for who I am. The books and employees were so helpful. It is sad to see this wonderful store close its doors. Thank you, Giovanni’s Room. — Pastor Janette Costanzo This is such a shame, although it’s understandable. I really hope someone finds a way to keep it open and profitable while retaining the name and history. How

about as a café/gift shop that has a collection of books? There are no late-night entertainment alternatives to bars anymore. I remember in the ’90s a lot of independent coffee shops (in D.C., anyway) stayed open after the bars closed and had stand-up comedy, bands and poetry readings. It could offer all that and happen to have a collection of gay literature. — philatonian The end of an era, and Ed Hermance persevered when all the independent bookstores became targets for the chains and online retailers. I met James Baldwin once on South Street and

he knew the original location (by then a restaurant) of Giovanni’s. He knew the importance of a visible gay bookstore to the community. All of the community events that Giovanni’s Room has hosted and its writer’s speaker series will be sorely missed. But for now we must all give a big thank you to Ed and the staff at Giovanni’s Room as an enduring symbol of gay community, culture and pride. — LewJWhittington I was introduced to Giovanni’s Room by friends when I first moved to Philadelphia 25 years ago. Coming from rural Illinois, I had no idea such places existed.

In turn, I introduced new friends to the bookstore over the years. The joy of buying in the store was being able to peruse the shelves and read passages before purchasing, which led to discovering new authors and genres. The true fabulousness lay in the staff and the people who came in browsing, who each offered suggestions, and in feeling safe, centered and connected with the thousands who had preceeded us. My love of reading was heightened immensely by Giovanni’s Room and I will sorely miss my oasis of comfort. Bless you, Ed and Skip for being a part of our lives. — scottd

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Making the most of the B word Budget. It’s a word that often connotes limits. But, for wedding planning, a budget should be seen as a valuable, rather than restrictive, tool. Couples planning to celebrate their unions among family and friends will need to think about cost at almost every turn. But considering it on a broad scale, at the beginning of the process, can help couples focus on the meaning, rather than the money, of a wedding. Creating a wedding budget involves first assessing both partners’ financial situations and determining how much can be saved each day — by everything from squirreling away bits of each paycheck to foregoing Starbucks in favor of homemade coffee — until the event. Once the scale of the wedding is determined, marrying that with the figure you can spend is a careful dance, relying on creativity and research. First, figure out what you want to spend the most on. Most couples spend the most on their venue, followed by photographers and then florists — but the order of importance is unique to each couple’s interests. Do you want a large, upscale venue? Or would you rather have a simple setting and top-notch photography? Once your priorities are situated, you can begin fitting together each aspect of the wedding like

puzzle pieces into your budget. Getting the right price for each of your wedding needs requires doing your homework. Scour websites like TheKnot.com (and its LGBT pages), RainbowWeddingNetwork.com or EquallyWed.com to compile full lists of potential vendors, many of whom may offer price points on their websites. Once you begin meeting with businesses, as my fiancé and I found, many vendors may start off by asking how much you want to spend on their particular service; keep in mind the adage that the first to name a figure may lose. We found it best to keep our spending goals a bit vague until we got closer to booking. And when it comes to that step, don’t be afraid to negotiate. These vendors want your business, just as much as you want their expertise, so don’t be afraid to make sure you get what you want for all you want to spend. To cut costs, ask vendors if they can make slight modifications to their standard packages — cut out an appetizer stand at your reception, reduce your open bar from four hours to three-and-a-half or ask for more digital, and fewer print, photos from your photographer. And make sure to document all of your quotes so you can ask vendors to price match.

Another cost-saving method is to think outside the traditional wedding box — which is easier to do for same-sex weddings, which often deviate from the common church-wedding format. Instead of paying a small fortune for fresh flowers, why not make your own out of materials like origami or tissue paper? There are heaps of online how-to guides that walk even the most artistically challenged person through crafting a sea of different paper flowers that look just as, and in some cases even more, beautiful than the real thing. While you lose out on the fragrance of real stems, going DIY puts a more personal touch on the event — and can make for some humorous memories as you and your betrothed exercise your artfulness. Also easy to DIY are ceremony and reception decorations. For traditional weddings, flower-focused centerpieces can run hundreds of dollars each. Candle-centered pieces, picture collages or other items fitting with a theme (pumpkin arrangements in the fall or weathered books for a vintage look) all are alternatives to the pricey, and sometimes overdone, floral centerpieces — and can often be pieced together by the couple. For an added cost-cutting bonus, try to tie together several decorative elements into one: My fiancé and I found a

way to use our placecards as part of our favors — cutting cost and finding a multifaceted function for as much as we can. Another big cost is often stationery, like save-the-dates and invitations. While it’s not a viable option for everyone, some couples are trending toward evites as opposed to snail-mail cards. The pro is the low (or no) cost, but not all guests may be Internet-savvy, and others may prefer to keep a paper reminder on their fridge. Another option is a paper invite with an online RSVP (done easily through sites like TheKnot.com, where couples can set up their own free and customized wedding page, to which guests can RSVP). Perhaps one of the biggest cost-saving tools is relying on your own network. Family or friends (or friends of friends of friends) may be looking to give their DJ, floral or photography company a leg up in the wedding industry and may be willing to knock their prices down to do so. Just as friendraising is often as important as fundraising in the nonprofit world, reach out to people you know (and those who know people) to enlist their help. Working with people you know can come with its own obstacles, but looking for wedding expertise among your own circle of contacts is another way to maximize your budget. ■

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Brief summary of full Prescribing Information. For more information, please see the full Prescribing Information, including Patient Information. What is STRIBILD? • STRIBILD is a prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before. STRIBILD is a complete regimen and should not be used with other HIV-1 medicines. • STRIBILD does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. You must stay on continuous HIV-1 therapy to control HIV-1 infection and decrease HIV-related illnesses. • Ask your healthcare provider about how to prevent passing HIV-1 to others. Do not share or reuse needles, injection equipment, or personal items that can have blood or body fluids on them. Do not have sex without protection. Always practice safer sex by using a latex or polyurethane condom to lower the chance of sexual contact with semen, vaginal secretions, or blood. What is the most important information I should know about STRIBILD? STRIBILD can cause serious side effects, including: 1. Build-up of lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis). Lactic acidosis can happen in some people who take STRIBILD or similar (nucleoside analogs) medicines. Lactic acidosis is a serious medical emergency that can lead to death. Lactic acidosis can be hard to identify early, because the symptoms could seem like symptoms of other health problems. Call your healthcare provider right away if you get any of the following symptoms which could be signs of lactic acidosis: • feel very weak or tired • have unusual (not normal) muscle pain • have trouble breathing • have stomach pain with nausea or vomiting • feel cold, especially in your arms and legs • feel dizzy or lightheaded • have a fast or irregular heartbeat 2. Severe liver problems. Severe liver problems can happen in people who take STRIBILD. In some cases, these liver problems can lead to death. Your liver may become large (hepatomegaly) and you may develop fat in your liver (steatosis). Call your healthcare provider right away if you get any of the following symptoms of liver problems: • your skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow (jaundice) • dark “tea-colored” urine • light-colored bowel movements (stools) • loss of appetite for several days or longer • nausea • stomach pain You may be more likely to get lactic acidosis or severe liver problems if you are female, very overweight (obese), or have been taking STRIBILD for a long time. 3. Worsening of Hepatitis B infection. If you have hepatitis B virus (HBV) infection and take STRIBILD, your HBV may get worse (flare-up) if you stop taking STRIBILD. A “flare-up” is when your HBV infection suddenly returns in a worse way than before.

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• Do not run out of STRIBILD. Refill your prescription or talk to your healthcare provider before your STRIBILD is all gone • Do not stop taking STRIBILD without first talking to your healthcare provider • If you stop taking STRIBILD, your healthcare provider will need to check your health often and do blood tests regularly for several months to check your HBV infection. Tell your healthcare provider about any new or unusual symptoms you may have after you stop taking STRIBILD Who should not take STRIBILD? Do not take STRIBILD if you also take a medicine that contains: • adefovir (Hepsera®) • alfuzosin hydrochloride (Uroxatral®) • cisapride (Propulsid®, Propulsid Quicksolv®) • ergot-containing medicines, including: dihydroergotamine mesylate (D.H.E. 45®, Migranal®), ergotamine tartrate (Cafergot®, Migergot®, Ergostat®, Medihaler Ergotamine®, Wigraine®, Wigrettes®), and methylergonovine maleate (Ergotrate®, Methergine®) • lovastatin (Advicor®, Altoprev®, Mevacor®) • oral midazolam • pimozide (Orap®) • rifampin (Rifadin®, Rifamate®, Rifater®, Rimactane®) • sildenafil (Revatio®), when used for treating lung problems • simvastatin (Simcor®, Vytorin®, Zocor®) • triazolam (Halcion®) • the herb St. John’s wort Do not take STRIBILD if you also take any other HIV-1 medicines, including: • Other medicines that contain tenofovir (Atripla®, Complera®, Viread®, Truvada®) • Other medicines that contain emtricitabine, lamivudine, or ritonavir (Atripla®, Combivir®, Complera®, Emtriva®, Epivir® or Epivir-HBV®, Epzicom®, Kaletra®, Norvir®, Trizivir®, Truvada®) STRIBILD is not for use in people who are less than 18 years old. What are the possible side effects of STRIBILD? STRIBILD may cause the following serious side effects: • See “What is the most important information I should know about STRIBILD?” • New or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys before you start and while you are taking STRIBILD. Your healthcare provider may tell you to stop taking STRIBILD if you develop new or worse kidney problems. • Bone problems can happen in some people who take STRIBILD. Bone problems include bone pain, softening or thinning (which may lead to fractures). Your healthcare provider may need to do tests to check your bones. • Changes in body fat can happen in people who take HIV-1 medicine. These changes may include increased amount of fat in the upper back and neck (“buffalo hump”), breast, and around the middle of your body (trunk). Loss of fat from the legs, arms and face may also happen. The exact cause and long-term health effects of these conditions are not known. • Changes in your immune system (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can happen when you start taking HIV-1 medicines. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that have been hidden in your body for a long time. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you start having any new symptoms after starting your HIV-1 medicine.

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The most common side effects of STRIBILD include: • Nausea • Diarrhea Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effect that bothers you or that does not go away. • These are not all the possible side effects of STRIBILD. For more information, ask your healthcare provider. • Call your healthcare provider for medical advice about side effects. You may report side effects to FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088. What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking STRIBILD? Tell your healthcare provider about all your medical conditions, including: • If you have or had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis B infection • If you are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known if STRIBILD can harm your unborn baby. Tell your healthcare provider if you become pregnant while taking STRIBILD. - There is a pregnancy registry for women who take antiviral medicines during pregnancy. The purpose of this registry is to collect information about the health of you and your baby. Talk with your healthcare provider about how you can take part in this registry. • If you are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed if you take STRIBILD. - You should not breastfeed if you have HIV-1 because of the risk of passing HIV-1 to your baby. - Two of the medicines in STRIBILD can pass to your baby in your breast milk. It is not known if the other medicines in STRIBILD can pass into your breast milk. - Talk with your healthcare provider about the best way to feed your baby. Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take, including prescription and nonprescription medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements: • STRIBILD may affect the way other medicines work, and other medicines may affect how STRIBILD works. • Be sure to tell your healthcare provider if you take any of the following medicines: - Hormone-based birth control (pills, patches, rings, shots, etc) - Antacid medicines that contain aluminum, magnesium hydroxide, or calcium carbonate. Take antacids at least 2 hours before or after you take STRIBILD - Medicines to treat depression, organ transplant rejection, or high blood pressure - amiodarone (Cordarone®, Pacerone®) - atorvastatin (Lipitor®, Caduet®) - bepridil hydrochloride (Vascor®, Bepadin®) - bosentan (Tracleer®) - buspirone - carbamazepine (Carbatrol®, Epitol®, Equetro®, Tegretol®) - clarithromycin (Biaxin®, Prevpac®) - clonazepam (Klonopin®) - clorazepate (Gen-xene®, Tranxene®) - colchicine (Colcrys®) - medicines that contain dexamethasone - diazepam (Valium®) - digoxin (Lanoxin®) - disopyramide (Norpace®) - estazolam - ethosuximide (Zarontin®)

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Gayborhood Crime Watch The following incidents in the Midtown Village and Washington Square West areas were reported to the 6th Police District between April 14-20. Information is courtesy of 6th District Capt. Brian Korn; Stacy Irving, senior director, Crime Prevention Service; Center City District; the Police Liaison Committee and Midtown Village Merchants Association. To report crime tips, visit www.phillypolice.com or call 215-686-TIPS (8477). Follow the Sixth District on Twitter @PPDBrianKorn. INCIDENTS — Between 9:20 a.m.-6:25 p.m. April 16, someone stole a secured bicycle from outside 1300 Sansom St. — Between 5:30 p.m. April 16 and 8:30

p.m. April 17, someone stole money that was hidden in a refrigerator in an apartment in the 100 block of South 13th Street. There was no forced entry.

entering the subway at Broad and Lombard streets and recovered the stolen items. The 43-year-old homeless suspect was charged with theft from motor vehicle

— Between 1-5 a.m. April 20, someone stole a secured bicycle from outside 1201 Market St. — Between noon-6 p.m. April 20, someone stole a secured bicycle from outside 1316 Walnut St.

— At 12:30 a.m. April 18, Sixth District Officer Loggia stopped a vehicle in the 300 block of South 12th Street for traffic violations and found the operator to be intoxicated. The 45-year-old suspect with a South Philadelphia address was charged with DUI.

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— At 6:15 p.m. April 15, someone smashed the window of a 2010 Lexus that was parked outside 1304 Spruce St. and stole an iPhone and iPad. A witness observed the break-in and called 911, providing a description of the suspect. Police apprehended the male

— At 11:55 p.m. April 16, Sixth District officers issued a citation for a summary offense outside 205 S. Juniper St.

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— On April 17, Sixth District officers issued citations for summary offenses at

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Australia: Indian gay student granted asylum

Paramedic arrested for killing gay men in Pakistan A 28-year-old paramedic, who wanted to eliminate the “evil” of homosexuality from the Pakistani society, has been arrested there for allegedly killing five gay men he befriended on a social-networking site. Ejaz, who used to make friendships with his potential victims on Facebook, has confessed to the murder of three men. The three victims, including two teenagers, were found with their necks broken and had been sedated. Ejaz told reporters that he wanted to eliminate the “evil” of homosexuality from society. Ejaz was married in 2011 and has two infant children. He has been sent to four-day physical remand after being arrested. Police insist Ejaz had sex with his victims first and then killed them, which Ejaz has denied. “After remaining in contact with them for some time, he called his victims at different pizza shops and sprinkled a sedative liquid on the food they ate and then took them to his place,” police said. “He strangled them after having sex with them.” Officials said the accused was traced after they examined the call logs of his victims. Sodomy is punishable by up to 10 years in jail under the Pakistan Penal Code. The

A gay Indian student whose family attempted to force him into an arranged marriage with a woman has been granted asylum in Australia. The 25-year-old, who lives with his boyfriend in New South Wales, was granted asylum last week. The commerce graduate first arrived on a student visa in March 2009. He said that when he returned to India in 2011, he was held captive by his father in his home city of Hyderabad and pressured to enter an arranged marriage. He alleged he was also threatened by his male cousins, who held a knife to his throat, and by a local Muslim cleric. He escaped with the help of a family friend, but upon reaching Australia was eventually rejected on the grounds of asylum. The immigration department found in July 2012 that while he was homosexual, the mistreatment did not amount to persecution. Granting him leave to stay last week, the Refugee Review Tribunal held that, if he returned to India, it was “reasonable to believe he would be assaulted and probably forced to marry, and if he were to refuse he would probably face more serious harm and be killed.” The judgment continued: “If the applicant were to return and try to relocate, this would result in his being disowned by his family and probably they would seek to find and harm him. I also accept that he would not be able to live openly as a homosexual in India at any location as, if he did, this would result in ostracism and probable further significant

harm.” The man and his partner had registered to marry in Australian Capital Territory, before ACT’s same-sex marriage law was struck down in December. His partner told the tribunal: “We are committed to be together for life. The law in Australia treats everyone as equal.”

Pride flag flying in Uganda A man has planted a rainbow flag at the top of Uganda’s highest mountain to protest the country’s antigay laws. Activist Neal Gottlieb made the challenging 16,753-foot climb up Mount Stanley, at the country’s Western border, to Margherita Peak. After reaching the top, he took a photo with the rainbow flag, which he posted to Facebook along with an open letter to the country’s president, inviting him to take the flag down himself. It reads: “Dear President Museveni of Uganda: Your country’s highest point is no longer its soil, its snow or a summit marker, but rather a gay Pride flag waving brilliantly, shining down from above as a sign of protest and hope [on] behalf of the many thousands of Ugandans that you seek to repress and the many more that understand the hideous nature of your repressive legislation. “If you don’t like said flag on your highest peak, I urge you to climb up and take it down. “However, you are an old man and surely the six-day climb through the steep, muddy bogs and up the mountain’s glaciers is well beyond your physical ability. Your days are more limited than most. Do you want your remaining days to be yet another blight on the history of your nation or will you find the

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strength to reverse your actions and allow all Ugandans to be free?” President Yoweri Museveni gave assent to a law in February that further criminalizes homosexuality in the country.

Japan: First Lady makes surprise appearance at Tokyo Pride parade Japan’s First Lady took part in Tokyo’s Pride parade April 27, voicing her support for LGBT people. Akie Abe, wife of the country’s conservative Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, appeared atop a float in the Rainbow Pride parade, which more than 3,000 people marched in. The First Lady later wrote on her Facebook page: “I want to help build a society where anyone can conduct happy, enriched lives without facing discrimination. I had the pleasure of spending a fun time filled with smiles. Thank you.” She added she has been invested in the issue since joining a UNAIDS and Lancet medical journal commission last year. Her husband did not join her at the event, and instead spent the day visiting victims of the 2011 tsunami. She is jokingly referred to as the “domestic opposition party” in the country due to her outspoken views, which often conflict with her husband’s policies. Japan does not allow same-sex marriage, defining marriage as “based only on the mutual consent of both sexes.” A recent poll found a majority still opposed the issue. It also does not have national nondiscrimination laws, though some cities have adopted them regionally. ■ — compiled by Larry Nichols

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country. PGN writer and “Independent Queer Cinema” author Gary Kramer said the closing marks the end of an era. Kramer first encountered the bookstore in the early 1990s after having lunch with a store employee. “It is often the case that folks circle around the block before they get up the nerve to go into a queer bookstore for the first time,” Kramer said. “I had been invited and so that made it easier.” Kramer said he instantly connected with the first book he got from Giovanni’s Room called “The Best Little Boy in the World.” “The book had some meaning to me: It was a coming-out story but, more importantly, the book symbolized this store — what folks often call a ‘safe space.’ That spoke to me and my interests, literary and otherwise.” Kramer has subsequently attended a wealth of readings and events at Giovanni’s SETTLEMENT from page 1

ment will pay for their legal expenses. “I’m very grateful for their wonderful representation during this grueling experience,” she added. Beavers expressed hope that the settlement will deter city officials from any future mistreatment of Burnett. “If they do it again, they’ll be sued again,” he said. The case was expected to go to a jury trial in September if a settlement couldn’t be reached. “We did as good as we felt we could do,” EAGLE SCOUT from page 7

Scouting. “It’s only a matter of time when that will happen,” he said. “It may be next month, or in 10 years.” Meanwhile, Tessier continues to be optimistic about his future in Scouting. When he turns 18, he intends to seek a leadership position in Scouting. If he’s ejected from Scouting at that time, he’ll move on with his life, and won’t initiate legal action, he said. But, he’ll always keep his Eagle Badge, he added. Tessier said he’s prepared to be ejected, but hopes it won’t get to that point. “I’m aware at some point I may have the

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Room and even hosted his own reading there for “Independent Queer Cinema.” “I found that seeing these authors and getting a sense of them in that cozy space was one of the best things about Giovanni’s Room,” he said. “You can’t get that intimacy in other bookstores or the Free Library. This may be what I miss most about the store closing.” Spruce Street Video owner Franny Price said the closing of a small business like Giovanni’s Room is unsettling. “I have a small business so I’m a little scared too,” she said. Hermance said the loss of the iconic store will be hard for him, as well as for the community. “It has been a wonderful life for me and it combines my best skills with my deepest interests, so it certainly is going to be a lifetime’s work. I know that thousands of people have used and cared about this store. It is very emotional for me.” ■ Beavers said. “It was an ordeal for Bobbie to have to relive all the trauma while the litigation was pending. So settling the case was the best thing for her.” Burnett said she has no regrets, and would do it all again. “I don’t regret having stood up for my rights,” she said. “I think it’s important to ensure the LGBT community has equal civil rights with everyone else.” Mark McDonald, a spokesperson for the Nutter administration, had no comment at presstime. ■

overwhelming hate come to me. I’m ready for that. I’m OK with it. I’ve been protected by such a massive support group, I’m ready for whatever comes my way.” R. Duane Perry, a local LGBT advocate, said he supports Tessier’s petition. He also expressed agreement with Tessier that a boycott of Amazon isn’t necessary. “ I t ’s h a r d t o u n d e r s t a n d h ow AmazonSmile can be happy about supporting the discrimination that the Boy Scouts still promote,” Perry said. “As Amazon becomes aware of the fact that the Boy Scouts still practice intolerance towards LGBT people, I trust they’ll live up to their commitment to equality.” ■

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Respect your elders. It’s one of the Greene into an assisted-living facility. early cornerstones of manners that we Greene’s case claimed that the county’s are taught as kids. Yet LGBT elders don’t actions were motivated by antigay bias. always automatically receive this same The evidence supported this theory respect. Our LGBT elder trailblazers and the case was settled for more than $600,000. came out under fire, grew up when being In order to avoid victimization, a siggay was considered a mental-health disorder and survived everything from intense nificant percentage of LGBT seniors bullying to living closeted the majority refuse supportive services, resulting in a restriction or loss of their of their lives to the AIDS crisis to police brutality — all so human rights. Two-thirds of all that they could be whom they LGBT seniors live alone. Their are and love whom they love. reluctance to take advantage In my opinion, they have more of available services increases their risk of isolation and selfthan earned our respect: They neglect. Seniors are forced to have earned our awe and admiration. rely on home-health aides or However, as our LGBT enter longterm-care facilities, seniors age, they become a many times causing significant severely underrepresented financial hardships. Once they demographic within the comrely on these alternatives, they munity — whom we name are subsequently faced with an “Gen-Silent,” reflecting their greater pressure to further Angela even tendency to be forced into the conceal their identities to avoid closet again later in life and Giampolo increasing or harsher neglect. their inability to fight discrimiIn a recent study, LGBT nation on their own behalf. Thankfully, seniors in longterm-care facilities complained that service providers had refused Philadelphia is showing its LGBT seniors to provide basic services, such as bathrespect and addressing one of their most ing, toileting and feeding, because they crucial and immediate needs: housing. objected to touching an LGBT individual. The John C. Anderson Apartment A number of respondents also reported LGBT-friendly building that opened in the Gayborhood in February offers afford- that these facilities attempted to discharge able housing to seniors earning between or refuse to admit patients based on their $8,000-$33,000 a year, with rent ranging sexual orientation or gender identity. from $192-$786, based on income. The This is not entirely surprising considering 50 percent of nursing-care employees building offers a wonderful sense of community to a population long marginalized surveyed say their coworkers would be on two levels: as seniors and as LGBTs. uncomfortable assisting LGBT residents. The center is certainly a great addition to Many LGBT seniors will “de-gay” their our community, but estimates suggest that homes, hiding anything that would tip the demand for this kind of housing is far off a care worker, including pictures of greater. By 2030, our country will have deceased partners, in order to ask for the more than 3 million LGBT senior citizens. help they so desperately need. We need In a case that illustrated the neglect to change the current social climate and and abuse that LGBT seniors are suscepbring the issues facing “Gen-Silent” to the tible to, Clay Greene and the estate of forefront to ensure that our golden generation gets the care and services it deserves. his longtime partner, Harold Scull, sued The Anderson Apartments will help Sonoma County, Calif., in 2010. Greene, combat some of these issues for at 76, and Scull, 86, had been committed least Philadelphia’s LGBT seniors. But partners for more than 20 years and their Pennsylvania continues to be a state with quiet, retired lives came to an abrupt halt no laws against housing discrimination in 2008 when Scull fell down the stairs of based on sexual orientation or gender their front porch. After discovering they identity. This is an issue that should be were a couple, responding medical personnel separated the men, taking Scull to concerning the entire LGBT community, a hospital and placing Greene in a facility as we wouldn’t be where we are today for individuals suffering from dementia, without our seniors paving the way with without any necessary screening. Four dignity, courage, love and pride. ■ months later, Scull died alone in a sepaAngela D. Giampolo, principal of rate facility and Greene was not even told Giampolo Law Group, maintains offices in of his partner’s death until several days Pennsylvania and New Jersey and speciallater. izes in LGBT law, business law, real-estate The couple had executed medical and law and civil rights. Her website is www. financial powers of attorney and named giampololaw.com and she maintains two each other as beneficiaries in their wills. blogs, www.phillygaylawyer.com and www. But county employees ignored their legal lifeinhouse.com. Send Angela your legal documentation, auctioned off their possessions, terminated their lease and forced questions at angela@giampololaw.com.

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Celebrating our LGBTQ elders in Older Americans Month May is Older Americans Month. In recognition and celebration of the contributions that LGBT older adults make, and have made, to our communities, PGN has assembled this special section on aging. The opening of the John C. Anderson LGBT senior-friendly apartments earlier this year

put a national spotlight on the unique needs and issues facing members of the LGBT communities as we age. In surveys, more than 80 percent of LGBT older adults express fear of discrimination in long-term care facilities. An even higher percentage of all older adults express a preference for remaining in their

own homes and neighborhoods as they age. This special section on aging discusses the issues, resources and services that are available to LGBT older adults so that they can safely and successfully “age in place.” Special thanks to the LGBT Elder Initiative for help in compiling this information.

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Not the same, old Village People By Kristin Davidson We are not talking about a group of guys in drag singing about the Y or the Navy. Now, when we talk about village people, we are talking about neighbors, in communities around the country, helping each other age in place. The Village-toVillage Movement is a network of community-based organizations that provide services that are not typically supplied by providers in the aging-services network, such as area agencies on aging, senior centers and advocacy groups. Nationally, there are 120 villages in operation and 100 in development. More than 20,000 people belong to villages. Most are supported by volunteers who deliver a variety of services and programs. Each village has a unique personality in that each sets its own goals and services based on its community’s needs and preferences. All of the villages are established to help people remain independent and age successfully in their own homes. There are “villages” operating in southeastern Pennsylvania, southern New Jersey and Delaware. In Philadelphia, there are villages in East Falls, Mount Airy and Penn’s Village in Center City. The Penn’s Village service area extends from river to river and from Washington Avenue to Spring Garden Street. More than 17,000 people over 65 live in that geographic area. Forty-seven percent are

over 75. PV’s mission is to provide social connection and to support people to maintain their independence as they age or become temporarily disabled. PV supports Center City residents so that they can stay in their own homes and in the neighborhoods with which they are familiar. In recent surveys, more than 80 percent of older adults express a preference for staying in their own homes as they age. In villages, volunteers deliver services that include transportation to medical appointments, shopping, running errands and helping with jobs around the house. They can provide companionship or make referrals to vetted resources such as electricians, roofers, plumbers and home health-care services. PV also hosts education and social programs for its members. “We fill a gap for services where larger and more structured agencies don’t fulfill all of the needs of older adults,” said Jane Eleey, executive director of Penn’s Village. “We want to be a central place for people to get these additional services.” PV is not limited to one role or a single service. Some people need support or assistance on a regular basis. The Village’s telephone support group for caregivers is one example. Other villagers have an occasional need, such as someone to water plants when they are away. The service offerings continue to expand based on comPAGE 32

Philadelphia is an LGBT-friendly city. The Human Rights Campaign gave the city a perfect score on its 2013 Municipal Equality Index, which examines the laws, policies and services available in 291 U.S. cities. Philadelphia earned top scores in every category. Philadelphia is also working to assure that it is an age-friendly city. The World Health Organization has developed a Global Network of Age-Friendly Cities. According to WHO, “What all members of the Network do have in common is the desire and commitment to create physical and social urban environments that promote healthy and active aging and a good quality of life for their older residents.” In the United States, this effort is coordinated by AARP. New York City was the first city in the country to receive the designation. In Philadelphia, the city and state governments, civic and community organizations, colleges and universities and citizens of all ages are working to make the city “age-friendly.” Philadelphia Corporation for Aging, our local area agency on aging, is involved in this community-wide effort. According to PCA, “The basic elements of an agefriendly city are accessible housing; ease of public transportation; readily available fresh foods; safe and inviting public spaces; and a vibrant workforce that is aware of issues facing older adults.” Other factors contributing to an age-friendly city are community support and health care, civic engagement, social participation and communication. In Philadelphia, assuring that older adults are not “gentrified-out” of their homes because of increases in property taxes is one step in this effort. Creating awareness in the business community about the value of hiring older workers is another. Improving physical accessibility to SEPTA, fixing cracked sidewalks and keeping neighborhood parks clean and safe are just a few more. Philadelphia’s deputy managing director for aging Lydia Hernandez Velez said that the administration has been focusing on this effort for many years.

“There are really two groups that are growing in population in Philadelphia. One is the 25-35-year-old segment, but there is also growth in the over-50 population,” Hernandez Velez said. In their efforts to address the needs of the growing population of older adults, she and her colleagues on the Mayor’s Commission on Aging and in departments throughout city government are trying to answer the question, “How do you promote a city in which people can live and be safe and have a quality of life that they deserve?” It is a large and complicated issue. Said Hernandez Velez, “Age-friendliness is not just about age; it’s about access and the ways that people think about a community and all of its different aspects.” In that mix of issues is the need to address the needs of at-risk populations. She points to people with limited English proficiency as just one example, asking “How do they connect with the services that do exist?” Hernandez Velez also addressed issues of importance to LGBT older adults as another example of the scope and complexity of creating an age-friendly environment. She voiced concerns many LGBT older adults express: “As an LGBT senior, can you go to a facility and remain out? Will you be respected for who you are?” “At some point you are going to need care, so how do you connect with services that are not going to diminish your assertion of who you are as a person? That is the challenge for everybody.” Achieving an age-friendly Philadelphia involves commitment, collaboration and cooperation across a broad spectrum of interested parties. Hernandez Velez cited her collaboration with PCA as an example. “We talk to each other constantly about challenges and issues,” she said. “They [PCA] have a fantastic research unit that has been a great partner to me in thinking through the issues.” One of the goals of Philadelphia’s agefriendly initiative is to create an environment in which “people own their own sense of who they are so that they can make choices in a very positive way,” Hernandez Velez said. It took many years and the efforts of many community members, organizations and government officials to earn the designation as an LGBT-friendly city. The work is well underway to earn PAGE 32

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Shifting into high gear at 75 The LGBT Elder Initiative is introducing a new feature to the EI blog (www.lgbtei.org). This feature offers LGBT older adults the opportunity to share their experiences of coming out and how it has affected their life stories. The following is the first installment of “Our Journeys.” I am a 75-year-old gay senior who was the director of civil rights for the United States Department of Housing and Urban Development. I have a sense of adventure more than I ever had before. I’ve gotten stronger from the deaths of my partner and my mother (my mother died in my partner’s arms and my partner died shortly afterward). I now see what is really important in life. We are on this planet to have effective relationships. I am on a spiritual path and my deceased partner is my spirit guide. The metaphysical world seems increasingly real to me. I volunteer. I have dropped secular elements such as ego, self-indulgence, fear and television. I see just about everything as an art form or some

expression of spirituality — including sex. I am self-reflective and unpredictable. I experience animals and children as my teachers. I have embraced the 12-Step Program, which was developed in large part by Karl Jung, a spiritual psychotherapist. I see the importance of acceptance — of both others and myself. I am grateful for the hard times I had as a kid; they were the context for me to grow. When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time alone. My thoughts and my restaurant servers were my friends. I was self-oppressed. I knew I was different but I did not know why. I thought that being different was bad. I came out to myself when I was a sophomore in college. I started to use female names and pronouns to describe my male dates. My first therapist told me I had to become straight and to break up with

my male partner. At that time, gayness was listed as a “mental disorder” by the American Psychiatric Association (prior to 1973). This involuntary “conversion therapy” exacerbated my low self-esteem and evoked masochism. When I got out of graduate school, I began to sublimate by becoming a workaholic. This was in the ’60s when everyone else was experiencing the sexual revolution. I did get my obsession with work to work for me. I found solutions that were five years ahead of my time. I stopped the flow of federal funds to Mayor Frank Rizzo when I found racial and gender inequities in the way he distributed those funds. In 1981, I rolled the dice and came out to my boss, who was a Ronald Reagan appointee. In doing so, I experienced a degree of personal freedom that I never

thought was possible. I know that I helped to make the gay-rights struggle easier and move faster. This whole experience got me to shift out of low gear. Marriage equality has always been important to me. Gay men have had more than their share of obsessions and addictions. I am hopeful that marriage equality will increase emotional stability within the community and that the word “commitment” will be taken more seriously — whether one chooses marriage or not. The best part is taking the attention off myself. I no longer experience myself as the leader of the universe, or the center of it. I am simply a small piece of it. I no longer need to play big conventional games like creating my own company or running for political office. I can contribute in many small ways and still make a difference. In the process, I laugh a lot more — especially at myself — my antidote to my daily trials. Getting older excites me. It’s a challenge I welcome. ■ Submit your personal story to the EI blog, Our Journeys, at info@LGBTEI. org.

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GenPhilly: The future of aging? By Kate Clark, MPA Did you know that Philadelphia has the second-highest proportion of older adults among large U.S. cities? Additionally, they are all not well-to-do boomers. A significant number of the city’s older adults are very poor — 38 percent actually live below 150 percent of the poverty line, according to the U.S. Census. That is roughly 261,000 seniors, who are very diverse in terms of age, income, ability, language proficiency and sexual orientation. Given these facts, one would think that all organizations throughout the city would have older adults as a priority target audience. The reality is that there is a real lack of knowledge about older people in most professions. This is especially alarm-

ing given that most disciplines, such as transportation planning, have a significant impact on the lives of people of all ages. If professions are not actively addressing seniors’ needs, it is unlikely that the next generation of professionals will be attuned to how an aging population impacts their work. GenPhilly aims to close that gap. GenPhilly is a nationally award-winning network of more than 400 emerging leaders in their 20s and 30s. Members act as aging ambassadors by incorporating the needs of older adults into their work. This includes a wide range of disciplines, such as urban planning, the arts, social work, government, philanthropy and more. Together, they create professional development opportunities that tap into popular culture, break down existing stereotypes, and make this topic intriguing and hip. These future leaders of Philadelphia are also thinking about the type of city in which they themselves want to age. The William Way LGBT Community Center has been very involved with the group. “I joined GenPhilly in 2010 to connect with professionals who are working with elders in various disciplines and to explore ways to better serve LGBTQ elders,” said

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Candice Thompson, William Way’s director of center services. “I was excited to share my own experiences with the group and find innovative ways to create a city where people across generations thrive and connect.” Among other events, William Way hosted GenPhilly’s Intergenerational Vintage Dance Party in 2011, which was a huge success. GenPhilly’s other event themes over the past five years have included popular issues such as community gardening, pets, urban planning, contemporary music, access to fresh food and environmental sustainability. Through social media, meetings and public events, GenPhilly shows emerging leaders from all fields that there is a competitive professional advantage that results from incorporating knowledge about older adults into their skill set. The group began in 2009 and is now a program of Philadelphia Corporation for Aging. Stay tuned for GenPhilly’s upcoming events. The last weekend in May the group will be partnering with Philadelphia Link and Technical.ly Philly to host HACK4ACCESS, a hack-a-thon on aging and disability at the Drexel University’s ExCITe Center. A hack-a-thon is an event

where code-writers, mechanical engineers and other tech-savvy people come together in teams to tackle an issue. In July, GenPhilly will host its fourth annual Pet-tastic Happy Hour to network and gather donations for homebound seniors’ furry companions. In the coming year, the group hopes to partner with the LGBT Elder Initiative, whose mission is to foster and advocate for services and resources that are competent, culturally sensitive, inclusive and responsive to the needs of LGBT older adults in the Delaware Valley. To join the GenPhilly network, and for more information about any of the events described above, go to www.genphilly.org or call 215-765-9000 ext. 5072. ■ Kate Clark, MPA, is planner for policy and program development at Philadelphia Corporation for Aging and chair of GenPhilly. She is a 201314 Atlantic Philanthropies Health and Aging Policy Fellow with the Office of the Surgeon General. You can read more about GenPhiilly in her paper titled, “GenPhilly: A Strategy for Improving the Sustainability of Aging in Community Initiatives, Journal of Aging and Social Policy.”

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Going social By Ed Bomba There have always been groups of LGBT people, getting together on a regular basis, just to connect and socialize. Many informally organized groups exist throughout the community. Social connections and support networks are key ingredients in our ability to successfully age in place. Social isolation and depression are known risk factors for LGBT older adults. Whether loosely or more formally organized, groups and gatherings can help us avoid those conditions, provide support and keep us connected. Some groups have been in existence for decades. In the late 1990s/early 2000s, a small, informal group of people started getting together every week in the living room of the William Way LGBT Community Center. The group became known as MorningsOut (MOut). Back then there were about 10-15 people. They talked, shared stories and caught up on the past week’s events. News and information about meetings spread by word of mouth. Today, with several original members still active, MOut is an established program for gay men over 50 at William Way. On some Tuesday mornings, they visit local places of interest, take themed tours, watch movies or have discussions. The group develops its own agendas.

Members of the group or guest speakers are often invited to make more formal presentations on topics that have included travel, health, sexuality, Philadelphia’s LGBT history, politics, legal issues and community services and organizations. Guest presenters are warned that the MOut group, an average of more than 30 men on any given Tuesday morning, can only be described as lively and engaged. “Q&A sessions are never dull,” said Mark Kleinwichs, a MOut member who also helps coordinate the gatherings. “You never know what will come up when you get all of those guys into a room.” Word of mouth, advertising, newsletters and emails have helped increase the MOut mailing list to more than 200 men. A “facilitator,” a member who acts in that capacity for between two and six months, keeps the conversation on track. “No matter where they start, conversations can take wonderful turns,” said Kleinwichs, who was the group’s first volunteer facilitator. “It’s all up to the group.” MOut serves as a place where older men can meet and develop friendships. It has been the source of ideas for other programs at WWCC. The 50+ Rap Group is one such group that had its beginnings at MOutT. Meeting every Thursday afternoon, this is a forum where LGBT people over 50 can discuss their experiences in a

casual and nonjudgmental environment. Tai Chi at the Center also had its beginnings in MOut. Tai Chi Chuan is an ancient Chinese system of mind-bodyspirit health. All ages and all fitness levels are welcome on Tuesday evenings. As MOut has evolved and grown, so have the number and variety of social programs for older adults at William Way. Ed Miller, senior programs coordinator at the center, said, “Our senior social programs provide opportunities to make connections with other LGBT older adults in a safe and welcoming environment. With people 50plus participating, there is always a broad range of ideas and life experiences that help inform our programming.” Silver Foxes is a fixture at the center. The monthly get together for gay men and lesbians 50 and over, includes guest speakers, films and casual discussions in a relaxed social atmosphere. Women’s Wednesdays is a monthly social and educational gathering for lesbian, bisexual and transgender women 50 and over. A program with a different slant on helping older adults age in place is Connecting Generations. This intergenerational “friendly visitor” program provides opportunities for meaningful interactions and mentoring opportunities among younger and older LGBT people. Finally, for LGBTs over 40 who are

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returning to the workplace, WWCC offers SAGEWorks. Participants receive targeted job listings through AARP WorkSearch, as well as individual career counseling, résumé building, computer training, career workshops and networking opportunities. “Through all of these programs,” Miller said, “we work to build community, and honor and support LGBT older adults.” For more information, visit www.waygay.org or call 215-732-2220. Ed Bomba is the communications chair of the LGBT Elder Initiative and a member of MorningsOut.

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Staying healthy to age in place By Elisabeth Flynn Wellness and access to health care are key ingredients to successful aging and to an age-friendly city. In recent years, there has been increased support for LGBT older adults in these key service areas — a welcome development. For Philadelphia’s LGBT communities, Mazzoni Center provides physical and mental health care, HIV and STD testing, HIV case-management services, food-bank support, legal services and more. Well over 1,000 patients ages 55 and over are seen each year through Mazzoni’s continuum-of-care services. The medical practitioners, legal staff and case managers refer clients and patients to the Open Door behavioral-health program (and vice versa) so that staff can best treat more of the overall health of those served. LGBT medical center

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Mazzoni’s six doctors, three nurse practitioners and the agency’s physician assistant all see LGBT older adults as part of the family medical practice. Caroline Cylkowski, one of the nurse practitioners, also has a certification in gerontology. Cylkowski sees a number of older patients reporting depression, some of which is related to age. Chronic pain, arthritis and diabetes are a few of the broad range of conditions reported by the almost-900 LGBT seniors in medical care. One new patient, in his late 60s and who identifies as gay, told Cylkowski, “I want an LGBTfriendly health center.” He is living with HIV and first learned of Mazzoni from a friend. Another patient, a woman in her late 50s, had been experiencing a thyroid condition for over a year. She moved to Mazzoni because she felt that her old provider did not take her health issues seriously. HIV/STD prevention Some patients do not feel they have the most up-to-date information about HIV and STD transmission. Some have been in the closet for many years and may have been married. They never felt the need to learn about sexual risk and safer sex practices. Others have incorrect information passed around since the 1980s. Mazzoni does not necessarily take a different approach to discussing these issues with older-adult clients than with others, but staff is aware that some individuals are not used to talking openly about their sex life. Mazzoni’s counselors are extra supportive in order to ensure that a safe space is created so that clients feel comfortable sharing their

sexual histories. In order to get the best care possible, clients need to share with their care providers what they are really doing. Anecdotally, many mature gay men are sexually active and need sexual-health education and testing. Erectile-dysfunction medication has made the conversations around safer sex needed, even with clients over 80. This past year, prevention staff saw a 102-year-old client. Behavioral-health services Feelings of loss are the most prevalent issue facing older adults seen by Mazzoni’s licensed therapists. Loss is broadly defined and can include grief over the loss of a person — friend, loved one or family member. Many older people, especially those living with HIV/AIDS, experience “survivor’s guilt,” loss of health, and/or loss of opportunity (life is not quite where they pictured it). Care services Many of the center’s LGBT HIV-positive clients deal with aging issues and have limited support networks. These clients face complex medical issues. Case managers coordinate care with primary-care doctors and several specialists as a result. Legal services Mazzoni Center has provided all types of legal services to older LGBT individuals and couples. Because Pennsylvania does not yet recognize marriage equality, couples need to create legal recognition of their relationships through alternate means. Staff attorneys have prepared wills and powersof-attorney and other advanced-planning documents to assist individuals and couples with medical and financial decision-making. In addition to those documents, many other benefits are tied into marital status, including health benefits, retirement benefits, estate taxes and government assistance. The legal-services team has also been involved in free community legal clinics and educational programs. They work with service providers to ensure that there is a level of cultural competency for LGBT individuals and couples in various care facilities. They will also be offering drop-in legal services at the new Anderson Apartments. Other Mazzoni departments and community organizations will be providing services there as well. A healthy lifestyle, prevention and access to quality health care contribute to the health and vitality of our communities and our city. Just such an environment supports all LGBT older adults in their efforts to age successfully, and in place. For more information about Mazzoni Center services, visit www.mazzonicenter.org or call 215-5630652. ■ Elisabeth Flynn is senior communication manager at Mazzoni Center.

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Resources and services to assist LGBT older adults age in place Health, Social Services and General Information AARP 888-687-2277 www.aarp.org

ActionAIDS 215-981-0088 www.actionaids.org Alzheimer’s Association 800-272-3900 www.alz.org

Philadelphia TransHealth Conference 215-563-0652 www.trans-health.org Transgender Health Action Coalition 215-732-1207 www.critpath.org/thac The TransLine Health Project 415-901-7120 www.project-health.org/ transline/

Mazzoni Center 215-563-0652 www.mazzonicenter.org

Trans-Health Information Project (TIP) 215-851-1822 www.galaei.org/programs/transgender-healthtip/

Philadelphia Corporation for Aging (PCA) 215-925-7333 www.pcacares.org

United Way of Greater Philadelphia and Southern New Jersey 215-665-2500 www.unitedforimpact.org

Congreso 215-763-8870 www.congreso.net

Philadelphia FIGHT 215-985-4448 www.fight.org

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ACLU Pennsylvania 877-745-2258 www.aclupa.org AIDS Law Project of PA 215-587-9377 www.aidslawpa.org Community Legal Services 215-981-3700 www.clsphila.org Lambda Legal 212-809-8585 www.lambdalegal.org/ The Law Project of Southern New Jersey 856-566-3190 www.allabouthopenj. org/law_project.html Mazzoni Center 215-563-0657 legalservices@mazzonicenter.org SeniorLAW Center 877-727-7529 www.seniorlawcenter.org

Government Services and Benefits-City of Philadelphia

Commission on Aging 215-686-8450 www.phila.gov/aging Commission on Human Relations 215-686-4670 www.phila.gov/ HumanRelations Commission on People with Disabilities 215-686-2798 www.phila.gov/mcpd District Attorney’s Elder Victim/Witness Coordinator 215-686-8000 www.phila.gov/districtattorney/victim_ ElderAbuse.html Mayor’s Director of LGBT Affairs 215-886-2194 Gloria.Casarez@phila. gov

Police Advisory Commission 215-685-0891 www.phila.gov/pac/ Pages/default.asp Police Department Liaison Deputy Commissioner Kevin Bethel 215-686-3318 Police Liaison Committee 215-760-3686 ppd.lgbt@gmail.com

Government Services and Benefits-State and Federal

Pennsylvania Department Of Aging 717-783-1550 www.aging.state.pa.us/ MEDICAID 877-267-2323 www.medicaid.gov Affordable Care Act 800-318-2596 www.healthcare.gov

MEDICARE 800-633-4227 www.medicare.gov

Community Center 215-732-2220 www.waygay.org

Social Security 800-772-1213 www.ssa.gov

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CARIE (Center for the Rights and Interests for the Elderly) 215-545-5728 www.carie.org Equality Pennsylvania 215-731-1447 www.equalitypa.org LGBT Elder Initiative 267-546-3448 www.lgbtei.org Penn’s Village 215-925-7333 www.pennsvillage.org PFLAG Philadelphia 215-572-1833 www.pflagphila.org William Way

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munity input. Recently, a program was begun with Thomas Jefferson University where students conduct home-safety checks. Another recent collaboration is with the LGBT Elder Initiative. The two groups plan to offer joint education and social programs for the communities. More collaborations with organizations and service providers are part of PV’s plan. People join PV for many reasons. Some are in immediate need, some want to give back to the community and some see it as an insurance policy for the day when they may need assistance themselves. According to Eleey, “One couple told me, ‘We read the article in the newspaper. We were sitting at the breakfast table. We looked at each other and said, ‘This is what we have been looking for. We have no children. We are getting older. We have to prepare.’ It was a fit for them. There was no pressure. It was not too expensive for them. They recognized their need and they also wanted to contribute as volunteers.” There are several levels of membership, each with an annual fee. Some limited assistance with membership fees is available based on financial need. The rise in costs and the reduction in government funding will rule out the options of nursing-home, assisted-living and continuing-care facilities for many. Other models of retirement-community living are also cost-prohibitive. And, whether facilities are available or money is not an obstacle, people still prefer to stay in their own homes and neighborhoods. As the ranks of older adults swell with baby boomers, these factors will force us to look for more creative models of community-based organizations. Penn’s Village and the Village-to-Village Movement will be one way to support all of our efforts to age successfully, in place. To learn more about Penn’s Village and the Village-to-Village Movement, visit www.pennsvillage.org, email info@pennsvillage.org or call 215-9257333. ■ Kristin Davidson is a board member of Penn’s Village and retired from the University of Pennsylvania in 2007, where she was director of administrative affairs for the College of Arts & Sciences. PHILLY from page 25

the city the designation — and the reality of “age-friendly” Philadelphia. The end result will be a positive living environment in which LGBT older adults can live and age successfully in place. For more information, call the Mayor’s Commission on Aging at 215-686-8450 or visit www.phila.gov and search “Aging.” ■ Ed Bomba is communications chair of the LGBT Elder Initiative. The LGBTEI fosters and advocates for services, resources and institutions that are competent, culturally sensitive, inclusive and responsive to the needs of LGBT elders. You can contact the Elder Initiative at info@LGBTEI.org or call 267-546-3448.

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Comedy’s ‘Love Goddess’ to descend upon New Hope By Larry Nichols larry@epgn.com Comedian, actor and self-proclaimed goddess Judy Tenuta is coming to the area this weekend so that the good people of New Hope can worship at her well-manicured feet. Tenuta burst into the comedy spotlight in the 1980s with an accordion in her hand, outrageously colorful clothes on her back and an off-

beat, in-your-face persona that commanded attention and left an indelible mark on pop culture. She quickly became a regular sight on HBO and Showtime comedy specials, toured with comedy legend George Carlin and was frequently featured in commercials for Diet Dr. Pepper and MTV. This was back when MTV played a lot of music videos and showcased at lot of comedians like Jon Stewart. We asked Tenuta if she knew back then that Stewart would evolve into the socio-political comedy juggernaut he is today as the host of “The Daily Show.” “No, but I don’t think he would have either,” she said. Fast-forward to today and Tenuta is still the outrageously funny “Love Goddess” she has always been, and she said that over the years she has had no problem living up the level of intensity that goddess status demands. “I just have high

e n e r g y,” she said. “I’m like a Roman candle. I’m burning at both ends. Naturally, I love putting energy into that.” She has her more relaxed moments.

“Of course I have days when I have to crash, relax and watch ‘The Housewives of Orange County’ or something,” she said. “No, I hate that show. That’s not entertainment. I laugh at things like ‘Modern Family’ or just look at my garden.” Speaking of sitcoms, Tenuta’s comedic star burned brightly at a time when standup comedians were getting launched to new levels of fame by getting their own sitcoms, starring in movies and playing to bigger audiences. Tenuta is no stranger to television and film, having made numerous guest appearances on live standup shows, talk shows and films. So we asked if she ever had the opportunity to launch her own TV show back in the day. “Don’t you t h i n k I wo u l d have done it beynow?” she asked. “ We ’ v e p i t c h e d things. T h e y really only want you to be some fat pig or some bitch that screams at everybody else.” Hmm ... is that a thinly veiled jab at one or more of Tenuta’s comedic peers? We had to ask. And she gracefully deflected. “I honestly don’t have the answer to that anymore,” she said. “You just have to keep going out there and doing it. The good thing is there are all these webisodes. I’m working on that. I’m working on independent films. There are so many stations.”

But she didn’t hold back when talking about reality-television stars. “I don’t throw tables at people and yell at them because they are married to someone or because of the way they set their tables,” she said. “Honey Boo Boo has a

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show and Dick [sic] Dynasty. So I guess I’m trying to get arrested so I can get my own show. You know that what’s her name, Nene on ‘Atlanta Housewives,’ that’s what they like. You’ve got to be a prostitute, you get out of that and then you prostitute yourself this way. But I need to have a show. I have to get arrested for it to happen. I’ve been on ‘Cops.’ I don’t know what else to do. I think my show would be ‘The Non-Housewives of the Valley.’” For now, Tenuta is focusing on her live show, which she is calling “Full Frontal Tenudity.” B u t d o n ’t g e t t o o excited, as she plans on staying fully clothed for her shows in New Hope. “ I ’ m going to disclose a lot of things a n d g e t

down to the nitty gritty about the different things I talk about,” she said. Tenuta has no shortage of things she likes to lend her voice to. She’s an ordained minister and converts her audiences to her signature religion, “Judyism.” She is also a strong advocate for LGBT, children and women’s issues. Tenuta said she hopes people can see how serious she is about the issues she cares about through her humor. “I do support the gay community and children’s and women’s causes,” she said. “I really hate to see people carrying around AK-47s and shooting people in movie theaters and schoolyards. I hope people know I’m serious about that. I don’t want this planet destroyed. But people are going to think what they want. I think that when I do express an opinion about that, they know I’m being serious and I mean it.” One thing Tenuta does take too seriously is the influence she has had on younger generations of comics, to whom she sometimes feels the need to apologize for sending them down such a rough path in life. “People tell me that [I’m an influence] and I go, ‘Really? That’s weird!’” she said. “I get Facebooked or I get messages. There, people that say I influenced them and I tell them I’m sorry because I think we have way too many comics. Everybody is a comedian. When people find out who I am, they are automatically thinking that they have to tell me jokes. I’ve never been a straight standup joke-teller. I think it’s more difficult now because there is more competition.” Tenuta said she has found that younger fans h av e d i s c o v e r e d h e r through old performance clips they find on YouTube and, oftentimes, those clips are just as new to her as they are to her fans. “You can Google me and I have a lot of stuff on YouTube,” she said. “The Internet has been very helpful that way. It’s not just for picking up people and buying used books and porn. You can actually have people see your work. And by the way — this is the interesting part — I don’t even post that stuff. Sometimes I go, ‘Where did this come from? I don’t even remember doing that.’ People find things and post it.” ■ Forget YouTube and see Judy Tenuta in the flesh when she performs May 2-3 at the Rrazz Room, in The Ramada New Hope, 6426 Lower York Road, New Hope. For more information or tickets, call 888-5961027 or visit www.judytenuta.com.

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They grow up so fast ... Peek-A-Boo Revue, Philadelphia’s renowned neo-burlesque ensemble, is celebrating its 16th year with a “Sweet 16 Birthday Show” May 2 at the Trocadero. Ginger Leigh, the group’s artistic director, said the show will feature performances from current and former members of the revue. “We’re going to have a big show and we’re bringing back a couple of alumni — Christa D’Agger, Tracey Todd Superstar and former longtime director Lulu Lollipop are coming back and will be part of the show,” Leigh said. “We’re doing a couple of favorites from the Peek-A-Boo archives. We’re having an after-party with a DJ and a couple more performances, craziness and debauchery.” These days, everyone and their mothers and/or fathers are doing shows featuring their own spin on burlesque, an art form whose revival wasn’t anywhere near as common when Peek-A-Boo started doing its thing 16 years ago. Leigh said that Peek-A-Boo stays at the top of its game because of how much effort the members put into their performances. “We’re really focused on what we do and try to come up with new ideas,” she said. “We don’t really say, ‘We want to be different, so we’re going to do this.’ We just keep going with our own ideas. What does distinguish us from the other shows is we have a lot of trained dancers so we do incorporate a lot of dancing into our burlesque so

it’s not just the classic striptease. We bring a little more of the technique aspect into it. Plus, we have a live band and we’re lucky because, not only are they able to arrange standards, they also write movements for us, which really distinguishes us from other burlesque shows.” Leigh added that the newer members of the group also bring fresh inspiration and ideas into the arena of burlesque. “Part of what helps keep Peek-A-Boo going is that everybody brings something to the table and it’s not always the same old thing,” she said. “At the same time, keeping the spirit of Peek-A-Boo alive is what we do, which is a good combination of the funny, the slightly inappropriate, the classic strip tease, but also bringing in trained vocalists and things like that. People bringing their own flavor is definitely good.” ■ Peek-A-Boo revue performs its “Sweet 16 Burlesque Show,” 9 p.m. May 2 at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St. For more information or tickets, call 215-922-6888 or visit www.peekaboorevue.com.

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Harry Adamson: From Dr. Anonymous to Dr. Turner, stories of early LGBT Philly In 1982, being diagnosed with HIV/ AIDS was pretty much a death sentence. Thankfully, this week’s Portrait, Harry Adamson, has defied the odds and joined me to talk about his 33 years in the City of Brotherly Love and Sisterly Affection. PGN: So are you a Philadelphia person? HA: I am now. I came here in 1981 because I had a partner who got a fellowship at Temple’s medical school. He moved back to Ohio after he finished and didn’t want me to return with him. So I stayed and I’ve made wonderful friends here. I feel like Philly is my home. It is my ancestral home because my ancestors were Quakers who had been imprisoned in Newgate Prison and came here in the 1680s. PGN: Where were you born? HA: I was born in Kansas City, Mo. All of my grandparents were born on the farm; in fact, my parents were the first generation off the farm. My dad was a cop most of his life and my mother was a court stenographer. They met at a dance at the police union, dated for a while, married, had my sister, then the war came along and my father was stationed in the South Pacific. Navy. Pretty horrible places like Okinawa and Iwo Jima. He was a pretty personable person but that’s the one subject he wouldn’t talk about. It’s funny. I’m the only one in the family who is not a cop. My father, his brother, my brother, his brother-in-law, my nephew — it’s kind of the family business.

Jesuits found a place for me to live with an elderly widow. She’d been married twice and both of her husbands were journalists who had won Pulitzer Prizes. The first husband had been President Truman’s press secretary and died at his desk in the White House. So she would have these amazing visitors from the intellectual, journalism and political worlds. PGN: Most memorable? HA: They were all pretty amazing but one of my top three would be Earl Warren. He was such a nice guy. And a natural teacher; he loved to talk to young people. PGN: What was the hardest part of losing your parents at such a young age? HA: I don’t know. When you’re that young, you don’t really think about it. You’re just trying to cope. Fortunately, I had my sister and my uncle, who filled the father role as much as he could. I think not having them around in my adulthood to talk to was harder. I have to give mention to my teachers at my Catholic high school and college who were great to me. My college mentor — a brilliant priest — became a great friend and made a big difference in my life.

PGN: How many siblings? HA: My sister, Kathleen, is 10 years older and my brother, Patrick, is three years younger.

PGN: What did you study in school? HA: My majors were philosophy and literature. I was planning on being either a lawyer or a Jesuit, but neither panned out! But I did get a master’s at La Salle University in pastoral counseling and taught high school for a while. I also worked for the Kansas City Star newspaper. My boss there was a very odd fellow who used to hire people with great promise and then when he got nervous that they would take his job, he would fire them. They used to call it the Murder of the Princes.

PGN: Was the gap because of the war? HA: Kind of. After my father got home they had a child that was stillborn and it affected my mother for the rest of her life. There was a big hole in her from then on.

PGN: I take it you were a murdered prince. HA: Yes. Then a college friend got me a job in Chicago at the Mercantile Exchange, and I worked as a trader on the cattle desk. It was a great adventure.

PGN: So you grew up in Kansas? HA: When I was about a year old, my parents moved to Southern California for a few years. My father worked for Flying Tigers Airline and I have some luscious memories of a long-gone L.A. The colors were just magnificent. Then we moved back to the Midwest. My father died of a heart attack when I was about 12 and my mother died of a stroke when I was 16. My sister was married by that time so my brother and I stayed with her. Then I went to college and my brother moved in with an uncle who lived in Florida. High school had been difficult for me because there was just so much going on in the family but college was great. I went to a Jesuit school and really blossomed there. The

PGN: I just had a vision of you on the phone yelling, “Buy, sell!” HA: [Laughs.] Yes! This was before hightech computers so we used a punchcard that was fed into the computer at the end of the night. I’m still in touch with that friend and we talk almost every day. We are like yin and yang. He’s a straight jockish guy and I was the quiet intellectual, but we met in the fraternity and just hit it off. PGN: What fraternity was it? HA: Alpha Delta Gamma. I was president in my sophomore and junior years. [Laughs.] I think they elected me because they thought I had some connections with the administration and could mitigate some of their shenanigans.

PGN: Like what? HA: Oh, one year they stole a bunch of Christmas trees and didn’t realize that when they dragged them back they left a trail in the snow leading right back to the house. When the authorities came, they tried to burn them and the whole place smelled like burnt evergreen! PGN: Any hazing? HA: We had to wear a gunnysack under our clothing and a necklace made of garlic. One time, they took us to the park and made us dig a hole and get in. They filled it with water and pissed in it and made us splash around in it, then we had to walk 5 miles back to the school covered with mud and piss. There was nothing really dangerous. We did have to make a paddle for our pledge fathers to use on us, but it was mostly play-acting.

nician; he could tell you what was wrong with you from across the room — mentally or physically! He was a professor of both psychiatry and family practice. He was a big guy — about 6-foot-4, 300 pounds with a booming voice — but he was very humble. I didn’t know that he was Dr. H. Anonymous until the last year he was alive and he received the Distinguished Service Award from the Association of Gay and Lesbian Psychiatrists.

PGN: When were you diagnosed? HA: In February of 1982. David had been in New York, and a little bit later I came down with a very strange flu. I had a big rash and I’m not the type to get rashes. Even Dr. John was stymied by it and sent me to a tropical-disease fellow. They didn’t know what to call it — they called it an echovirus [laughs], which certainly was the right word, since it continues to echo years later. In retrospect, I’m sure those PGN: When did you come out? were the first symptoms. When I went to HA: After I left Chicago I moved back to work for Philadelphia Community Health Kansas City and started working in a resAlternatives in 1985, I was part of that first group trained for HIV counseling and phlebotomy. The week before Thanksgiving, we all tested each other. I got the positive results the day before Thanksgiving. I was astounded. I thought I’d lived a pretty quiet life but both Greg and David had been much more active than I was ... before, during and after our relationships! Greg died in 1986, David died in 1995. My physician was the legendary John Turner, who pioneered AIDS care. I was in his first grouping of patients for the Salk vaccine and I tried to recruit my friends to be part of the trial but they didn’t think it had any future. The study was stopped abruptly — I think there were a lot of politics behind it — but I think the study is one of the reasons why I’m still here. I found out later that I was on a placebo but the method of Photo: Suzi Nash the delivery that they used, taurant. One time after work, a coworker an adjuvant, had immunotook me to a gay bar. I’d never really logical-positive properties that truly made done anything in the community before. After a few visits I met a young fellow and a difference. we dated for about three years. He was a PGN: People seem almost blasé about it classical and jazz pianist and we stayed in now. Describe what it was like receiving a touch until he died of AIDS in 1986. After positive diagnosis back then. Greg, I met David, a physician who was HA: It was terrifying. The protocol back in Kansas City for a meeting. In 1981, we then was to tell people that they had six moved to Philly and stayed with a friend months to two years to live and to get of his who was a professor at Temple, Dr. John Fryer. He was a brilliant man and cli- their affairs in order. PAGE 47

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Gay Games 9 executive director Thom Noble told me this week about a new gay addition to the opening ceremonies, which already include the Pointer Sisters and Philadelphia-raised Andrea McArdle. Lance Bass has signed on to be part of the ceremony Aug. 9 at the Quicken Loans Arena in Cleveland to kick off the week of athleticism and partying. I’m hoping he’ll be at the after-parties also. Nobbe also told me that registrations have topped 3,700 already, with the majority of those being individuals. Once the teams start getting organized and registered, that number will explode, he said. Just this month, I began researching housing for the games and it’s starting to fill up fast. If your budget doesn’t allow for $289-night accommodations, I strongly urge you to get online and get booking. The lowest-priced hotel rooms are already sold out, except for a few in the suburbs. If you don’t mind being on the fringe of things instead of the middle of the circus, you might be OK for a few weeks. Just remember: We’re only about 90 days out from the opening. Clock’s a’ tickin’. I also talked with Nobbe about local registrations. He and others are somewhat disappointed with the current level of involvement from our City of Brotherly Love. Part of that may be the lack of energy, direction and involvement with the once-vital Team Philadelphia, which remains conspicuously missing from the planning and excitement of this quadrennial event. Nobbe also talked about the challenge of building that excitement around Cleveland due to its proximity to the major East Coast cities. I asked him what he would say to those who look at this as, “It’s just Cleveland.” “Here’s an opportunity to be part of something really special,” said Nobbe, “to participate in the Gay Games in the United States, as the next possibility of having the games local again is at least eight years away. It’s a chance to meet new people and experience new cultures and make friends with LGBT athletes from around the world. You will walk out onto the field with your friends and teammates during the opening ceremonies, which everyone has told me is one of the most moving experiences of their lives. “It is also a chance to show support of Cleveland and the entire state of Ohio, which is struggling with LGBT rights in employment and housing,” Nobbe added. “Inclusion is what this is about. It’s not a political event, but it is a great opportunity to show others that we are a group of people who will go and support others fighting the same causes.” We are privileged in Philadelphia and in a few surrounding communities to have

elected officials who stand up for us while state officials continue to deny equal rights and protections. We should have the moral compass to go to these games, show our numbers, our strength, our support and our passion for what is right. Equal protections under the law. Indoor football celebrates equality Just one week left before we go “Out with the Soul” May 10 at the Wells Fargo Center. The American Conference Champion Philadelphia Soul is hosting a champion of equality event to raise money for the American Civil Liberties Union, and the focus is on our LGBT community. The timing for this event couldn’t be better. With the ACLU lawsuit fast-tracked to be resolved around that date, this could be the most supportive way to celebrate their expected win. Prior to the actual game, Greater Philadelphia Flag Football League will be exhibitionists — that is, playing mini games of 15 minutes each to entertain us while we get situated. Then the Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus pipes up with the National Anthem and then it’s game time. Check out the refs. They will be wearing rainbow patches for the evening and rally towels are planned to be color-coordinated to create an indoor rainbow, and players will don rainbow socks. Tickets are only $25 and after the Soul finishes off the New Orleans Voodoo, hit the parking lot for a GPFFL Gay Bowl tailgate party; philadelphiasoul.com. Bring your own pins and needles to stick in the opponents. Summer special In two weeks, I’ll be covering the special events of summer beginning with the Memorial Day weekend tournaments through the Gryphons Bingham Cup tournament in Sydney, Australia. If your organization has a tournament, challenge or local, regional, national or international competition coming up, please let me know! Short stops • Gryphons RFC plays its final home game of the spring season against Gotham 1 p.m. May 3 at Pepper Middle School. After the game will be the usual shenanigans at Westbury, and the bar crawl that evening starts from there at 9. If you’d like to help send a rugger down under to Sydney, go to philadelphiagryphons.org. ■ Countdown to Gay Games 9: 98 days. Let everyone know when you’re playing, what you’re playing and what team you play for; email scott@epgn.com.

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People were keeling over left and right all around you. I don’t know, maybe growing up Catholic gave me enough denial that I sailed through it better than most, but I had great confidence in Salk and Dr. Turner. After Turner retired, I went to Steven Hauptman, who has kept close tabs on me ever since. I have to credit good doctoring and fortune or providence for keeping me alive. I worry about the kids who are so cavalier about it now; we still don’t know the long-term implications of the medicines they’re taking and there are emotional and physical consequences. The HIV ads that you see show these buff fellows mountain climbing, strolling along the Eiffel Tower without a care, but it’s a lifetime of daily pharmaceuticals and medical involvement. You have to be very strong to be able to keep it up for a lifetime. There’s also the monetary cost, fighting with insurance companies, etc. That’s always been a big bugaboo for me, keeping ahead of the game. Hopefully with Obamacare, that won’t be quite the problem it once was. PGN: When did you first figure out you were gay? HA: Well, it was difficult back in the ’50s and ’60s and even the ’70s. There were no role models. The only gay people you saw were horrible stereotypes. In my neighborhood, there was a nationally famous bar called the Jewel Box. Little did I know, it was a bar with drag performers. There was a woman I would talk to at the soda fountain when I went after school. I remember her being beautiful and elegant, and I don’t know how but one day I realized that she was a man. It freaked me out back then. I’m glad that today kids have role models of all sorts and can see other gay/bi and trans people out there to identify with. I didn’t come out until I left town and came back. PGN: Tell me about the early days with PCHA. HA: We started out in a little house on St. James Street. It was a teeny, two-bedroom trinity and we did testing on the second floor. We did everything. I was directing the AIDS Hotline for a long time and wrote the newsletter. PGN: A memorable call you took? HA: Ha! The memorable ones were the chronic callers. There was one guy who had been downtown and received oral satisfaction from a lady of the street. Afterwards he realized she was not 100percent lady. He called us every day for a year! We tried to be patient with him because he was so freaked out, we were afraid he might harm himself. Another one was a woman from the Main Line who had gay neighbors. She called frequently because they had a cat and she was afraid that the cat would spread AIDS to the neighboring community. But my favorite was a fellow who called one day and said, “You have to send the AIDS wagon up here! We got this guy who’s got the AIDS

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and he’s going house-to-house, screwing everybody on the street!” He said, “What am I going to do?” I said, “Don’t open the door.” [Laughs.] That was great fun for us. We envisioned this big pink bus that said, “The AIDS Wagon,” blaring disco music with a big mirror ball. PGN: That’s great. So, random questions ... What book would you put into a time capsule? HA: Oh, I think it would be “Four Quartets” by T.S. Eliot. PGN: Historical moment you remember best? HA: I used to work in the Truman Library and, as I mentioned, I knew a lot of his people from the widow I lived with. When Truman died, his secretary arranged for me to stand on the porch of the library as he lay in state. I had an amazing view of all the dignitaries who came in to pay their respects. Lyndon Johnson, Hubert Humphrey (one of my favorites) and Richard Nixon, who was in full make-up and his hair was down, almost like a hippie! PGN: Best gay bar? HA: The Diamond Bar in Omaha, Neb. I think in rural places where there’s not anywhere else to go, people come from miles away to the one gay bar and it’s great because they can drop their pretenses and be themselves. Ha. I just had a flashback of a very large drag queen named Lindsay who used to terrorize me. She was well over 6 feet and had a thing for me. She was resolute in the fact that we were going to live together forever with a white-picket fence. [Laughs.] I still shudder when I remember her in her red gingham dress! PGN: So what things do you like to do now? HA: I love to read and I love volunteering at the Book Trader. The owner, Peter, is an old friend and the people there are great. I’m also a big walker; it’s good for the soul and clears the head. And crosswords, I’m a big crossword enthusiast and look forward to the Sunday Times puzzle each week. I take it down to the laundry room and it helps pass the time. PGN: And that’s in the new John Anderson building correct? HA: Yes, it’s really great. Some friends of mine talked me into going through the process and I’m glad I did. Long ago I spent my money thinking I would be dead soon. I have Social Security but my personal pension will be running out in the near future so this came along at just the right time. All the people here are just lovely and it’s been a great experience. The garden is going to be a wonderful, safe place for us to hang out this summer. ■ To suggest a community member for Family Portrait, email portraits05@aol. com.

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LAURA SINGS THE ‘BLUES‘: Against Me, the punk-rock band featuring transgender singer Laura Jane Grace, is on tour in support of its groundbreaking new album “Transgender Dysphoria Blues” and will perform 7:30 p.m. May 6 at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St. For more information or tickets, call 215922-6888.

Miss Everything The 10-week drag competition kicks off 9 p.m.-2 a.m. at Tabu, 200 S. 12th St.; 215-964-9675.

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Dirty Sexy Funny with Jenny McCarthy and Friends McCarthy joins comedians Paula Bel, Tiffany Haddish, Lynne Koplitz, Justine Marino and Tammy Pescatelli 8 p.m. at Keswick Theatre, 291 N. Keswick Ave.; 215-5727650. Think Pink Floyd The Pink Floyd tribute band performs 8 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223. Bearlesque: One-Year Anniversary The bear-oriented burlesque celebrates its first anniversary 9 p.m.-2 a.m. at Tabu, 200 S. 12th St.; 215-9649675.

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Peek-A-Birthday Peek-A-Boo revue celebrates its 16th birthday with a burlesque show 9 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-922-6888. James Blunt The singer-song-

writer performs 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000. Stimulus: Fourth Annual Party for Equality The LGBTQ dance party, 10 p.m.-2 a.m. at ICandy, 254 S. 12th St.; 267324-3500.

Sat. 05/03 H.L. Sudler The author of “Summerville” hosts a reading 1-3 p.m. at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; 215-923-2960. Elayne Boosler The comedian performs 8 p.m. at Sellersville Theatre 1894, 24 W. Temple Ave., Sellersville; 215257-5858. The Guys From “That Metal Show” Comedians Don Jamieson and Jim Florentine perform and tell stories with host Eddie Trunk 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215922-6888.

Julio Iglesias The singer performs 8 p.m. at Revel’s Ovation Hall, 500 Boardwalk; 855348-0500.

Sun. 05/04 Sophie’s Choice The Academy Award-winning film starring Meryl Streep is screened 2 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223.

Mon. 05/05 Free Quizzo and Board Game Night Roll the dice, 7 p.m. at World Cafe Live at the Queen, 500 N. Market St., Wilmington, Del.; 302-994-1400.

Lipstick Mondays A weekly drag show featuring a changing roster of queens takes the stage 9 p.m. at The Raven, 385 W. Bridge St., New Hope; 215-8622081.

Tue. 05/06 Against Me! The punk rock band featuring transgender singer Laura Jane Grace performs 7:30 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215922-6888.

Wed. 05/07 4W5 Blues Jam Local musicians

Alexis De Veaux The author of “Yabo” hosts a reading 5:30 p.m. at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; 215-923-2960. Drivin’ and Cryin’ The band performs 8 p.m. at World Cafe Live at the Queen, 500 N. Market St., Wilmington, Del.; 302-994-1400. Smiths Social The music of The Smiths is celebrated 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215922-6888. The Burlesque Show The naughty fun

begins 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000. Bob and Barbara’s Drag Show The outrageousness begins 11 p.m. at Bob and Barbara’s, 1509 South St.; 215545-4511.

Fri. 05/09 Alice in Chains The rock group performs 8 p.m. at Revel’s Ovation Hall, 500 Boardwalk; 855348-0500. VNV Nation The electro/EDM group performs 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-922-6888. Dave Attel The comedian performs 9 p.m. at the Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, N.J.; 609-317-1000.

Philly Rising Open Stage Open-mic artists perform 7 p.m. at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; 215-222-1400. El Mariachi & Desperado The action films are screened 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-922-6888. Suzanne Vega The singer-songwriter performs 8 p.m. at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; 215-222-1400.

TRANSNATIONAL TREASURE: Electronic music group VNV Nation brings its U.S. tour to Philadelphia in support of latest album “Transnational,” 8 p.m. May 9 at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St. For more information or tickets, call 215-922-6888.

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Invented Surface A new exhibition of works by Natalie Hope McDonald through May 15 at Bluestone Fine Art Gallery, 142 N. Second St.; 856979-7588. Oedipussy Curio Theatre Company presents the North American premiere of the R-rated comedic take on Greek tragedy throughMay 24 at Calvary Center for Culture and Community, 4740 Baltimore Ave.; 215-525-1350. Paul Evans: Crossing Boundaries and Crafting Modernism The James A. Michener Art Museum hosts an exhibition of works from the designer and craftsman through June 1, 138 S. Pine St., Doylestown; 215-340-9800.

AMAZINGLY GRACEFUL: The Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts presents the dance/illusionist performance company MOMIX and its latest show “Alchemia” May 8-10 at Zellerbach Theatre, 3680 Walnut St. For more information or tickets, call 215-898-3900. Photo: Max Pucciariello

Opening Eddie Izzard The British comedian performs May 3-5 at Forrest Theater, 1114 Walnut St.; 215923-1515. MOMIX The Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts presents the dance-performance company May 8-10 at Zellerbach Theatre, 3680 Walnut St.; 215-898-3900.

Continuing I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change Walnut Street Theatre presents the hilarious revue about love and relationships through June 29 at Independence Studio on 3, 825 Walnut St.; 215-574-3550.

Patrick Kelly: Runway of Love Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition highlighting the works of the famed fashion designer through Nov. 30, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100. Sunset Boulevard. Media Theatre presents the classic Andrew Lloyd Webber musical based on the 1950 film about a faded silent movie star through May 18, 104 E. State St., Media; 610-891-0100. That’s So Gay: Outing Early America The Library Company of Philadelphia presents the exhibition exploring gay culture through Oct. 17, 1314 Locust St.; 215546-3181. Treasures from Korea: Arts and Culture of the Joseon Dynasty, 1392-1910 Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition devoted to art of the celebrated Joseon dynasty through May 26, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-763-8100. Where Children Sleep The James A. Michener Art Museum hosts an exhibition of photographs by James Mollison through June 29, 138 S. Pine St., Doylestown; 215-340-9800.

Closing Don Giovanni Opera Philadelphia presents the musical adventures of Don Juan through May 4 at the Academy of Music, 250 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5800.

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Judy Tenuda: Full Frontal Tenudity The comedian performs May 2-3 at the Rrazz Room, in The Ramada New Hope, 6426 Lower York Road, New Hope; 888-596-1027.

Me and My Shadow The Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts presents the all-ages production by Patch Theater Company through May 4 at Zellerbach Theatre, 3680 Walnut St.; 215898-3900. ■

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GLBT Group of Hunterdon County Social and support groups for youth, teens and young adults, as well as parents and family members, meet at North County Branch Library, 65 Halstead St. in Clinton, N.J.; schedule at www. glbtofhunterdoncountyofnj.com, 908-300-1058.

Gay Married Men’s Association Meets 7-9 p.m. the second and fourth Wednesday of the month at William Way LGBT Community Center, 1315 Spruce St.; www. gammaphilly.com. Men of All Colors Together Meets 7:30 p.m. the third Friday of the month, September through June, at William Way; 610-2776595, www.MACTPhila.org. Men’s Coming Out Group, N.J. Meets 7:30 p.m. Wednesdays at The Pride Center of New Jersey; njwarrior@aol.com. Men of Color United A discussion/support group for gay and bisexual men of color meets 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays at 1207 Chestnut St., third ﬂoor; 215496-0330. Men of Standard A place for gay men of color 21 and older to share issues of concern meets 7-9 p.m. Thursdays at Camden AHEC, 514 Cooper St., Camden, N.J.; 856-963-2432.

Parents/Families Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays/Bucks County Meets 7:30 p.m. the first Tuesday of the month at Penns Park United Methodist Church, 2394 Second Street Pike, Penns Park, and hird Thursday at 7:30 p.m. at Warminster UCC, 785 Street Road; 215-348-9976. PFLAG/Chester County Meets 7 p.m. the first Tuesday of the month at the Unitarian Fellowship of West Chester, 501 S. High St.; 484-354-2448. PFLAG/Collingswood, N.J. Meets 6:30-9 p.m. the fourth Monday of the month at Collingswood Public Library, 771 Haddon Ave.; 609-202-4622, pflagcollingswood@yahoo.com. PFLAG/Media Meets 7 p.m. the second Tuesday of every month at the Unitarian Universal Church, 145 Rose Tree Rd.; 610-368-2021.

T-MAN People-of-color support group for transmen, FTMs, butches, studs, aggressives, bois, genderqueer and all female-born individuals with gender questions meets 7:309:30 p.m. Mondays, 1201 Locust St., second floor; 215-632-3028, tmanphilly.com. Transhealth Information Project Sponsors a weekly drop-in center from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. weekdays and and 6:30-8:30 p.m. Fridays at 1207 Chestnut St., fifth floor; 215-851-1822. Transgender Health Action Coalition Peer trans health-advocacy organization, 1201 Locust St., fourth floor; 215-732-1207. Young, Trans and Unified Support group for transgender and questioning individuals ages 13-23 meets 7:15 p.m. Thursdays at The Attic Youth Center, 255 S. 16th St.; 215-545-4331, www. atticyouthcenter.org.

Women Hanging Out With Lesbians A group in Central Pennsylvania that organizes concerts, camping, golf, picnics, hikes, plays and game nights in nonsmoking environments; http://groups. yahoo.com/group/howlofpa/. Lesbian Community of Delaware Valley Social group meets monthly for activities for gay women of all ages in Delaware, Chester and Montgomery counties; http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/LCDV/. Lesbian Couples Dining Group of Montgomery County Meets monthly; 215-542-2899. Mt. Airy Lesbian Social Club For lesbians in the Philadelphia area ages 35-plus; www.meetup. com/mtairylesbiansocial/.

PFLAG/Philadelphia Meets 2-5 p.m. the third Sunday of the month at the LGBT Center at the University of Pennsylvania, 3907 Spruce St.; 215-572-1833.

Queer Connections Social group for women in their 20s meets weekly; http:// groups.yahoo.com/group/ queerconnections/.

PFLAG/Princeton, N.J. Meets 7:30 p.m. the second Monday of the month in the George Thomas Room at Trinity Church, 33 Mercer St.; 609-6835155.

Sisters United A social/support group for transwomen of color ages 1324, with weekly social events, open discusson and monthly movie/discussions meets 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays, 1207 Chestnut St., third ﬂoor; 215-496-0330.

PFLAG/Wilmington, Del. Meets 7-9 p.m. the second Thursday of the month at Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 W. 13th St.; 302-654-2995. Philadelphia Family Pride Advocacy, support and social network for LGBT families offers play groups, monthly kids and teen talk groups, activities and outings. Planning meetings held monthly; 215-600-2864, www. phillyfamilypride.org.

Women Coming-Out Support Group Women, ages 18 and over, who consider themselves gay, lesbian, bisexual or questioning and are at any stage of the coming-out process are welcome to meet 7:30 p.m. the ﬁrst Tuesday and third Thursday of the month at the Pride Center of New Jersey; www.pridecenter.org.

HAVEN LGBT, intersex, questioning, queer and allied youth ages 14-20 meet 7-9 p.m. Wednesdays at the Unitarian Universalist Church of the Lehigh Valley, 424 Center St., Bethlehem; 610-868-2153. HiTOPS A safe-space support program for LGBT and questioning youth meets 2:30-4:30 p.m. the first and third Saturdays at 21 Wiggins St., Princeton, N.J.; 609-683-5155, hitops.org. Main Line Youth Alliance Meets from 7-9:30 p.m. Fridays at 106 W. Lancaster Ave., Wayne; 610-688-1861, info@myaonline. org. PRYSM Youth Center Youth ages 14-20 meet 6:30-8:30 p.m Wednesdays at the center, 126 East Baltimore Pike, Media; 610-357-9948. Rainbow Room: Bucks County’s LGBTQ and Allies Youth Center Youth ages 14-21 meets 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays at Salem UCC Education Building, 181 E. Court St., Doylestown; 215-957-7981 ext. 9065, rainbowroom@ppbucks.org. Social X Change Social activity group for LGBT youth of color ages 13-23 meets 6-8 p.m. Tuesdays at 1207 Chestnut St., third floor; 215-8511975. Space to be Proud, Open, and Together Open to all LGBTQ queer youth and allies, ages 14-21, the SPOT meets 6:30-8:30 p.m. Thursdays at Planned Parenthood of Chester County, 8 S. Wayne St.; 267-6876648. Young, Trans and Unified A support group for transgender and questioning youth ages 13-23 meets 7:15 p.m. Thursdays at The Attic Youth Center; 215-5454331, www.atticyouthcenter.org. You’re Not Alone Sponsored by AIDS Delaware, the group for gay, lesbian and bisexual youth meets during the school year at 100 W. 10th St., Suite 315, Wilmington, Del; 800810-6776. Youth Making a Difference A group for LGBTQ AfricanAmerican and Latino youth ages 14-24 meets 5-7 p.m. Tuesdays at Camden AHEC, 514 Cooper St.; 856-963-2432.

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Community Bulletin Board Community centers

■ The Attic Youth Center 255 S. 16th St.; 215-545-4331; atticyouthcenter.org. For LGBT and questioning youth and their friends and allies. Groups meet and activities are held 4-7 p.m. Monday-Tuesday and 48:30 p.m. Wednesday-Friday. Case management, HIV testing and smoking cessation are available MondayFriday. See the Youth section for more events.

■ Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Center at the University of Pennsylvania 3907 Spruce St., 215-898-5044; center@dolphin. upenn.edu. Regular hours: 10 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday through Thursday; 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday; noon-6 p.m. Saturday; noon-8 p.m. Sunday. Summer hours: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday-Friday.

■ ActionAIDS: 215-981-0088 ■ AIDS Law Project of Pennsylvania: 215-587-9377 ■ AIDS Law Project of Southern New Jersey: 856-933-9500 ext. 221 ■ AIDS Library: 215-985-4851 ■ ACLU of Pennsylvania: 215592-1513 ■ AIDS Treatment Fact line: 800662-6080 ■ Barbara Gittings Gay and Lesbian Collection at the Independence Branch of the Philadelphia Free Library: 215-685-1633 ■ The COLOURS Organization Inc.: 215-496-0330 ■ District Attorney LGBT Liaison: Helen “Nellie” Fitzpatrick, 215-686-

■ Rainbow Room — Bucks County’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Allies Youth Center 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays: Salem UCC Education Building, 181 E. Court St., Doylestown; 215-957-7981 ext. 9065 rainbowroom@ppbucks.org. ■ William Way Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center 1315 Spruce St.; 215-732-2220; www.waygay.org. Hours: 9 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday-Friday, 11 a.m.-7 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays. Peer counseling: 6-9 p.m. Monday through Friday Library hours: noon-9 p.m. Monday-Thursday; noon-3 p.m. and 6-9 p.m. Friday; noon-6 p.m. Saturday. Volunteers: New Orientation: First Wednesday of the month at 7:30 p.m.

Key numbers 9980, helen.fitzpatrick@phila.gov ■ Equality Pennsylvania: 215731-1447; www.equalitypa.org ■ Equality Forum: 215-732-3378 ■ LGBT Peer Counseling Services: 215-732-TALK ■ Mayor’s Director of LGBT Affairs: Gloria Casarez, 215-6862194; Gloria.Casarez@phila.gov; Fax: 215-686-2555

■ Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations: 215-686-4670 ■ Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force: 1-877-pride-2000 ■ Philadelphia Police Department liaison — Deputy Commissioner Kevin Bethel: 215-6863318 ■ Philadelphia Police Liaison Committee: 215-760-3686 (Rick Lombardo); ppd.lgbt@gmail.com ■ Philly Pride Presents: 215875-9288

■ Mazzoni Center: 215-563-0652; Legal Services: 215-563-0657, 866-LGBT-LAW; Family & Community Medicine: 215-563-0658

■ SPARC — Statewide Pennsylvania Rights Coalition: 717-9209537

■ Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (Philadelphia): 215-572-1833

■ Transgender Health Action Coalition: 215-732-1207 (staffed 3-6 p.m. Wednesdays and 6-9 p.m. Mondays, Thursdays and Saturdays)

Health

Anonymous, free, conﬁdential HIV testing Spanish/English counselors offer testing 8:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Monday-Thursday at Congreso de Latinos Unidos, 216 W. Somerset St.; 215763-8870. ActionAIDS Provides a range of programs for people affected by HIV/AIDS, including case management, prevention, testing and education services at 1216 Arch St.; 215-981-0088; www.actionaids.org. AIDS Services In Asian Communities Provides HIV-related services to Asians and Pacific Islanders at 1711 S. Broad St.; 215-629-2300; www.asiac.org. Gay and Lesbian Latino AIDS Education Initiative Free, anonymous HIV testing from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday at 1207 Chestnut St., fifth floor; noon-6 p.m. Tuesdays at the Washington West Project, 1201 Locust St.; 215-851-1822 or 866-222-3871; www.galaei. org. Spanish/English HIV treatment Free HIV/AIDS diagnosis and treatment for Philadelphia residents are available from 9 a.m.-noon Mondays (walk-in) and 5-8 p.m. Thursdays (by appoint-

■ Gay and Lesbian Lawyers of Philadelphia GALLOP holds board meetings at 6:30 p.m. the first Wednesday of the month at 100 S. Broad St., Suite 1810; GALLOP also provides a free referral service; 215-627-9090; www.galloplaw. org. ■ Greater Philadelphia Professional Network Networking group for area business professionals, selfemployed and business owners meets monthly in a different location throughout the city, invites speakers on various topics, partners with other nonprofits and maintains a website where everyone is invited to sign up for email notices for activities and

ment) at Health Center No. 2, 1720 S. Broad St.; 215-685-1821. HIV health insurance help Access to free medications and confidential HIV testing available 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Tuesdays at 13 S. MacDade Blvd., Suite 108, Collingdale; Medical Office Building, 722 Church Lane, Yeadon; and 630 S. 60th St.; 610-586-9077. Mazzoni Center Free, anonymous HIV testing; HIV/AIDS care and treatment, case management and support groups; 21 S. 12th St., eighth floor; 215-563-0652; www.mazzonicenter.org. Mazzoni Center Family & Community Medicine Comprehensive primary health care, preventive health services, gynecology, sexual-health services and chronicdisease management, including comprehensive HIV care, 809 Locust St.; 215-563-0658. Washington West Project Free, anonymous HIV testing. Walk-ins welcome 9 a.m.-9 p.m. Monday-Thursday; 9 a.m.-noon Friday; 1-5 p.m. Saturday; 1201 Locust St.; 215-985-9206.

Professional groups events; www.gppn.org; 215-9223377.

■ National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association The Philadelphia chapter of NLGJA, open to professionals and students, meets for social and networking events; www. nlgja.org/philly; philly@nlgja.org.

■ Independence Business Alliance Greater Philadelphia’s LGBT Chamber of Commerce, providing networking, business development, marketing, educational and advocacy opportunities for LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses and professionals. Visit www.IndependenceBusinessAlliance.com for information about events, programs and membership; 215-557-0190; 1717 Arch St., Suite 3370.

■ Philadelphia Gay Tourism Caucus A regional organization dedicated to promoting gay and lesbian tourism to the Greater Philadelphia region holds meetings every other month on the fourth Thursday (January, March, May, July, September and the third Thursday in November), open to the public; P.O. Box 58143, Philadelphia, PA 19102; www. philadelphiagaytourism.com; 215-840-2039.

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