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If These Walls Could Speak Laughter bellowing from every room. Songs from a Bid Day or Cookie Shine ringing through the halls. Late-night conversations in the study room or lounge. Ritual spoken by dozens of women at the start of a chapter meeting. Ring Ching and the clatter of flatware at chapter dinner. What would you hear if the walls of a Pi Beta Phi chapter facility could speak? Most likely, each member of Pi Phi would hear something different, but there would be one sound resonating through each memory: friendship. The chapter house, lodge or suite provides generations of members the space to connect and build lifelong memories and Sincere Friendships. Listening back to the sounds of a long-gone time inspires not only nostalgia for all the good times, but also a sense of longing for the past moments. The chapter facility is a place where women come to seek solace and comfort during a trying time, celebrate the big moments with sisters and feel most at ease to be themselves for just a handful of years. But for many Pi Phis, the chapter facility becomes a place to call home for life. It may sound cliché to say, “you won’t know what you have until it’s gone,” but Pi Phis know this to be true when it comes to living with your sisters in a chapter facility. The importance of having a place to call home has taken on new meaning over the last year. We’ve been told to shelter in place and stay at home to protect the health and safety of ourselves and our communities. For many women, that meant leaving their home on campus. As the COVID-19 pandemic swept across North America, campuses and chapter facilities responded quickly to minimize the risk to health and safety for students, faculty and staff. In many cases, this meant immediate closures or only a few days for students to prepare to leave. “We were on spring break when our world got turned upside down,” said Mississippi Gamma Chapter President HELENA BRANTE. “Leaving our house was sad, to say the least. We had no idea when we’d be able to see our sisters or home again.”
“I BELIEVE OUR SISTERHOOD HAS STRENGTHENED THROUGH THE CHALLENGES OF THE LAST FEW MONTHS.” While Helena could connect with her sisters over Zoom and other digital platforms, the loss of connection and feeling of isolation hit as her chapter adjusted to a new normal of doing classwork and all activities on a remote basis. Even with the obstacles they faced, Mississippi Gamma Chapter members, along with their many collegiate peers, managed to maintain the spirit of sisterhood and deepen their bonds from a distance. “I believe our sisterhood has strengthened through the challenges of the last few months,” Helena said. “We’ve seen how distance really does make the heart grow fonder. Now more than ever, we need this special bond and support of sisterhood.” That sentiment may strike a chord with alumnae thinking back on their time on campus and in the Pi Phi chapter facility. Alumnae know the challenges of sustaining a sisterhood from a distance. After graduation, inevitably sisters move away and must find ways to remain a part of each other's lives. With the value of Lifelong Commitment at heart, alumnae not only overcome these challenges but use them as opportunities to build on the foundational friendships formed while living with sisters. “I was fortunate enough to live in the Pi Phi house my senior year and it was an amazing experience because I got to know my fellow officers and members much better,” said Tennessee Beta DOROTHY SNOWDEN. “When you have Pi Phis dropping by the house between classes and on weekends, you are able to have meaningful conversations and interactions throughout the day with talented, interesting women. On our campus, only six
“LEAVING OUR HOUSE WAS SAD, TO SAY THE LEAST. WE HAD NO IDEA WHEN WE’D BE ABLE TO SEE OUR SISTERS OR HOME AGAIN.” 10
