May 2008 · Vol. X, No. 1 GUEST
LETTER
It’s all about teamwork Teamwork. This word defines the essence of the sport I have spent most of my life with — rugby. I believe teamwork is also the key for finding a cure for breast cancer. This past year has seen these two seemingly disparate subjects come together in my life. Teamwork between St. Thomas Varsity Rugby and Pink Ribbons Project has hopefully made some small difference in the ongoing battle against breast cancer. My grandmother, Berniece Hager, died as a result of breast cancer last year. She was a beautiful woman who possessed an inner light and made all around her feel loved and cared for. I was devastated by the loss of this woman who was such an important part of defining who I am. Although I grieved for my grandmother, I did so on a very personal basis and did not contemplate the larger implications of the disease which took her life. It was not until I was in England last spring on a international rugby tour that I received a metaphorical slap to action. A good friend of mine, Eamonn Hogan, told me a humorous story about making fun of a team that came out to a match dressed in pink jerseys. The world of rugby is a very masculine one and anything that deviates from our perceived masculinity is immediately subject to abuse. Apparently Eamonn went on for some time before a woman in the stands turned to him and told him off, explaining that the team was using the proceeds gained by selling their pink jerseys to help in the fight against breast cancer. According to Eamonn, it took several days to remove his foot from his mouth, but the story provided me with an epiphany. Why couldn’t we do the same thing in the U.S.?
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After returning home, I began to work on a plan to create a Rugby-for-the-Cure match and using the proceeds to help fight against breast cancer. The reason was very personal as I wanted to honor my grandmother’s life and remember how she died. However, as I began the process, I also read literature on the massive numbers of women and men who are affected by this disease every year. The project took on an additional meaning for me, as I wanted to do something — anything — no matter how small, to make a difference and help people avoid the pain my grandmother had endured. I also saw this as a perfect opportunity to allow young men to gain an understanding and empathy for those who suffer from breast cancer. None of my plans would have been possible without the partnership of Pink Ribbons Project. Through teamwork, we were able to pull off a wonderful evening of breast cancer awareness and rugby. The match was a huge event and we hope to grow it into something even bigger and better next year. A huge thank you to Pink Ribbons Project and especially to my friend Loubel Cruz for making it all possible! Through teamwork, we can find a cure, and through empathy and understanding, we can do our small part to ease the suffering of those who have breast cancer. Please join the team and help us make breast cancer history. In the fight,
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR’S
LETTER
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,/ And sorry I could not travel both…/ I took the one less traveled by/ And that has made all the difference. — ROBERT FROST (The Road Not Taken 1–2,19–20)
Did you ever wonder what you would be doing if you weren’t doing what you are doing? Every once in a while, I enjoy pondering this question and subsequently find myself drifting off into imaginary scenarios of other lives I could be leading. For just this reason, one of my favorite movies is Sliding Doors — a serendipitous movie with wonderful fantasy. The movie jacket describes the storyline like this: If Helen (Gwyneth Paltrow) makes it aboard a London subway train before the sliding doors close, she will have a different future than if she is left standing on the platform. In parallel stories, this tale follows Helen’s lives down both paths simultaneously, as two totally different futures unfold.
Life is good, but for a limited amount of time — a week or even for just a day — I would love to play out on parallel stages continues on page 7
Brett Michael Mills Assistant Rugby Coach St. Thomas High School Teams unite for Tour de Pink
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Male breast cancer is out there
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Our new Web site is up and running!
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Rugby-for-a-Cause
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A big thank-you to our Jazzercise supporters!
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Drink Pink!
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We are on the move!
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We need your help with our Wish List
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Pink Partners
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The next generation helps Pink Ribbons Project! Mobile mammography ribbon-cutting
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