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M in person and show our appreciation.” Stufflebeam, who was a group leader for the tour, is frequently asked how she happened to raise four children who have all made aliyah and enlisted in Israel’s armed forces. Three of her sons have completed their service, while one is currently in training in a commando unit. “When I was in Israel, especially the Israelis said, ‘What are you feeding them?’” said Stufflebeam, who moved to Pittsburgh from Indianapolis, Indiana in 2011. There may be no secret sauce, but she attributes her sons’ deep attachment to Israel to being raised with strong Zionist values, and to having grown up in Indianapolis among a relatively small number of Jews. “I think when you live in a small Jewish community that you feel a stronger tie to the Jewish community because you have to,” Stufflebeam explained. “It takes work to belong, and I think that is part of it.” Moreover, she believes her sons were inspired by the Israeli shlichim that spent time at their Jewish day school in Indianapolis. “I think it is a combination of being
r. Rogers would be kvelling. The Calvary Episcopal Church, a paragon of good neighborliness, will serve as host to Tree of Life*Or L’Simcha Congregation for all of its 5780 High Holiday services. Calvary is located on Shady Avenue, less than a mile from the Tree of Life synagogue building, in the heart of Mr. Rogers’ neighborhood. On Saturday, Oct. 27, the church happened to be filled with parishioners attending its annual fundraiser to help the underserved. The news of the mass shooting targeting people down the street hit them hard, said the Rev. Jonathon Jensen, rector. “So, right afterward, the next day, I preached about the shooting and what that might mean, short-term and long-term, and how does a person of faith respond,” Jensen said. “In my experience, I have found that often what happens is people will say, ‘Is there anything we can do to help you?’ and it puts the burden on the person who’s hurt,” he said. “I’ve found it is much more helpful to make specific offers of things people might actually need, so the burden is on you to do it rather than the person who is hurting to think of something for you to do.” Jensen recently had been counseling a parishioner on this topic, and “I thought this is just a bigger and more awful situation,” he said. Calvary decided to make a specific offer to TOL*OLS. In a card signed by members of the church, they offered to “share space with you for anything you need because you won’t likely have yours for a while,” Jensen said. They sent the card along with money collected over the next two weeks to TOL*OLS.
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tacie Stufflebeam and her husband Todd have five sons. Four of them moved from Pittsburgh to Israel and joined the Israel Defense Forces. “I have pride and worry in equal measure,” said Stufflebeam, who returned last week from a tour of the Jewish state with 28 other mothers of “lone soldiers,” or those who do not have immediate family in Israel. The tour was the first of its kind sponsored by Momentum (previously, the Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project), in partnership with the Ministry of Diaspora Affairs and Nefesh B’Nefesh, which established a Lone Soldiers Program with the support of the IDF. “We have tremendous admiration, not only for the courageous Lone Soldiers serving in the IDF, but for their incredibly dedicated parents as well,” said Rabbi Yehoshua Fass, co-founder and executive director of Nefesh B’Nefesh in a statement. “These young men and women are protecting our country round the clock, while their parents send support and encouragement from afar. Through this mission, we now have the opportunity to bring them together
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