Good emotional attachment, parental adjustment: Essential factors for family-nation building

By Caleb Onah

These individuals are more likely to develop strong interpersonal skills, respect diversity, ethnicity, religions differences and work towards the common good of everyone around. In addition, emotionally secure individuals are less prone to engaging in anti-social behaviors such as crime – robbery, phone snatching and violence, or substance abuse.

Nation building is a complex and multifaceted process that requires the collective efforts of its citizens. While economic and political factors in Nigeria often take center stage in discussions on nation building, the role of strong emotional attachment and effective parental adjustment cannot be overlooked as it is a core factor of rapid growth and economy sustenance, because a country that lacks good moral standard and secure attachment slow down growth and progress. These factors play a crucial role in shaping the character, values, and resilience of future generations, thereby contributing significantly to the development and stability of our country.

Emotional attachment, the bond and connection individuals develop with their guidance, parents or primary caregivers is a key factor in sustaining good democracy. It serves as the foundation for healthy emotional and social development. When Nigerian children experience a secure emotional attachment, they tend to develop a sense of trust, empathy, and self-esteem, which are vital for their overall well-being.

Such emotional stability provides them with a solid foundation to navigate the challenges they will encounter while living in Nigeria as they grow into adulthood and navigating through the difficult life and challenges of survival and reproduction living in Nigeria. In the context of nation building, Nigerians with a secure emotional attachment are more likely to possess positive traits that contribute to the overall betterment our country, and society.

They are more likely to exhibit more empathy, compassion, and respect for others and the difficult world around. These qualities foster a sense of unity and cooperation, allowing everyone to work together towards shared goals. Furthermore, when Nigerians, individual and groups are emotionally secure they are better equipped to handle stress of different forms and adversity, enabling them to contribute positively to their communities even in challenging times. In-between, when guidance, parents and social support providers are emotionally attuned to their children or wards’ needs and demonstrate consistent care and support; it fosters healthy emotional and cognitive development.

Children raised in such an environment are more likely to take calculated risks, develop a sense of responsibility, self-discipline, and moral values for themselves and others. They are better equipped to make sound decisions, engage in positive social interactions, and contribute meaningfully to their communities.

Researchers and academic have further discovered that, good emotional attachment and parental adjustment can have a profound and lasting impact on nation building. As regard to the Nigeria children, when we create an atmosphere for them to grow up in an environment where their emotional needs are ‘met’, they are more likely to become well-rounded individuals who value social harmony and contribute positively to society. They do not only criticize the government, but provide meaningful and lasting solution to challenges being encountered in their society.

These individuals are more likely to develop strong interpersonal skills, respect diversity, ethnicity, religions differences and work towards the common good of everyone around. In addition, emotionally secure individuals are less prone to engaging in anti-social behaviors such as crime –robbery, phone snatching and violence, or substance abuse.

This creates a safer and more stable society, which is vital for the Nigeria progress and development as a whole. Moreover, the positive influence of good emotional attachment and parental adjustment extends beyond individual families, but to a global scale. When we have a critical mass of emotionally secure individuals in our society and Nigeria, it creates a ripple effect, promoting collective well-being and social cohesion at a larger scale.

To foster good emotional attachment and parental adjustment, societies of every kind, Nigeria and Nigerians must invest in creating supportive structures and policies. These can include accessible healthcare, quality education, affordable childcare facilities, and social welfare programs that provide support for parents and caregivers. By recognizing the importance of emotional well-being in the early years of every Nigerian child’s life and offering the necessary resources, we can empower parents to fulfill their role effectively.

Caleb Onah is a Public Affairs Analyst.