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CONTENTS LOCALE ALABAMA...................................94 FLORIDA....................................113 LOUISIANA................................116 MISSISSIPPI............................120

PHOTOGRAPHY Photography Guide.........................90

BRIDAL GOWNS Bridal Boutique Guide....................50 Steel Magnolias................................54

IDY PLANNING GUIDE Planning Pages................................29

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COVER Sapphire Sophistication.................10

RECEPTIONS On-Site Guide................................140 Venue Guide...................................143

REGISTRY Registry Checklist...........................36

123 117 REAL WEDDINGS Brunson | Porter...........................129 Harmon | Edens..............................41

STYLED DESIGN

Harwood | Reynolds......................95

Brunchin’ Babes...............................44 Coastal Country............................100 Golden Grandeur.............................72

LaGuardia | Mitchell.....................113

GROOMS

Pearce | Bynum............................123

Boutonnières..............................66

Spalding | Sailar............................117

Parker | Francisco..........................67

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Happy New Year everyone and welcome to the

Winter 2020 edition of I Do Y’all Magazine. If you’re reading this issue, you’re either waist deep in

To get you started, we’ve decided to focus on Planning in

planning your wedding or you’re newly engaged and just

this issue by including our own I Do Y’all Planning Guide

beginning to get ideas. Maybe the sparkle on that ring

beginning on the next page. It has pages of detailed

is so new, you’re still all fluttery about your engagement

checklists you can tear out and keep in your planner to

and reeling just a little bit about the prospect of getting

help you get organized. Throughout the magazine, you’ll

started. No matter where you are in the process, we hope you are taking time to enjoy being a bride or groom and all that comes with that – the engagement parties,

find tips and infographics to help you along the way like invitation timelines, how to cut down your guest list, a photography checklist and even a honeymoon packing list.

showers, wedding shows, brunches and weekends away

Of course, the most fun part of planning is deciding the

with friends, and the planning. Yes, even the planning

design style for your big day. Have you always dreamed of

can be fun (Did someone say cake tastings?), but make no

a vintage, rustic wedding, or is your city girl heart longing

mistake, planning your wedding is a BIG job.

for a sophisticated art gallery or rooftop event? Whatever style you love, inspiration abounds, but putting those

There are so many resources available, sometimes it’s

details together takes some work. Don’t get us wrong, we

hard to know where to start. From wedding planners,

love Pinterest as much as anyone. Sometimes, all those

Pinterest, planning websites, notebook style planners and

details you’ve pinned just don’t really work together, and

guides, advice from well-meaning family and friends, and

it’s hard to define your exact wedding style. That’s why

magazines like this one, there is a lot of help out there. No

we’ve filled our pages with inspired designs created by

matter how detail oriented you are, at some point you are

our team and some of the most creative vendors across

probably going to need some extra assistance.

the gulf south and Real Weddings we love.

We hope you find some inspiration in our pages, and that you enjoy every minute of your engagement and wedding day! COMING APRIL 2020 The Spring edition of I Do Y’all Magazine

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SAVE-THE-DATES

INVITATIONS

RSVP DEADLINE

THANK YOUS

( D) 8-12 MONTHS

( D) 3-4 MONTHS

( D) 3-5 WEEKS

( D) IMMEDIATELY

( L) 6-8 MONTHS

( L) 4-8 WEEKS

( L) 2-3 WEEKS

( L) IMMEDIATELY

Save-the-dates give your guests a friendly heads-up. They are not always necessary, but are never a bad idea. Your guests may decide to turn your destination wedding into a getaway trip, so those savethe-dates can be sent up to a year in advance.

There is such a thing as too early! Send invitations so that your guests’ maximum anticipation lines up with your big day. Invitations for destination weddings should be sent far enough in advance for your guests to make their travel plans.

Your RSVP Deadline will depend on how much lead time your wedding professionals need. The first one to consider is your caterer’s meal count. Check with each vendor to determine when they need a final number, and set the RSVP return date for a week before that.

Believe it or not, you’ll start receiving gifts even before you walk down the aisle. Send their thank you cards immediately to minimize your workload after the wedding. Once you’re back from your honeymoon, kick it into high gear to get them out no later than six weeks after the wedding.

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Twelve Month Wedding Timeline Now that you’ve said “yes!” it’s time to get organized! Use our checklist as a guideline to help you through the wedding planning process.

TWELVE MONTHS

FOUR MONTHS

ONE WEEK

Choose the date & time

Choose ceremony music

Pick up your gown

Plan the budget

Order men’s formal wear

Pack for honeymoon

Reserve ceremony site

Reserve rehearsal dinner location

Confirm transportation details

Start your guest list

Notify caterer of final head count

Hire a wedding consultant

Book stylist or salon for bridal party hair, nails, & makeup

Meet with officiant to discuss premarital counseling

Discuss menu details with caterer

Review timetables & details with vendors

Order wedding bands

Put fees in wedding day envelopes

Visit reception sites & reserve one

Meet with a premarital counselor

Purchase mothers’ dresses

Choose your attendants

Shop for gown

NINE MONTHS

Address & mail invitations

Deliver gift baskets, if you have them, to hotels

Plan a trial run with hair & makeup

Host bridesmaids’ luncheon

Confirm ceremony details

Have manicure and pedicure

Arrange rehearsal dinner plans

Attend ceremony rehearsal

Complete proper documents for changing your name

Hold rehearsal dinner & hand out special gifts to wedding party

Confirm delivery date for your gown

Prepare tip envelopes & arrange for someone to distribute them

Announce engagement in your local newspaper

Order wedding dress, veil & accessories

Take engagement pictures

Select dress for bridal attendants

Decide wedding style - formal with a sit-down dinner or afternoon wedding in the garden

Interview & book photographer, videographer, caterer, & florist

ONE MONTH

Discuss honeymoon plans (get passport if needed)

Obtain marriage license

Select a band or DJ for reception

Arrange for final fittings on your gown

Send Save-the-Date cards

Buy gifts for the wedding party

Make reservations for bridesmaids’ luncheon

Purchase wedding accessories (guest book, unity candle, cake knife)

Reserve rental equipment

Choose your baker & order your wedding cake & groom’s cake

TWO WEEKS

Finalize guest list

Start reception seating chart & place cards

Confirm rehearsal dinner plans

Order invitations, stationery, & thank you cards

Contact guests who did not RSVP

Break in wedding shoes

Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guest

Write rehearsal dinner & wedding toast

Finalize honeymoon plans

Choose favors

Meet with photographer & videographer & submit a list of must-take shots

Confirm honeymoon arrangements

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DAY BEFORE

TWO MONTHS

SIX MONTHS

WEDDING DAY

Eat breakfast

Arrange to get checked in & have luggage delivered to your hotel

Get hair & makeup done

Relax! You’re getting married!!!

Wedding Day Checklist A checklist of things every bride should have on hand for her wedding day. Be prepared! Check off items as you assemble your kit.

HONEYMOON CHECKLIST

WEDDING DAY EMERGENCY KIT

Airline tickets (note flight number

& departure/arrival time) Cruise tickets (note cabin number

& departure/arrival time) Resort/Hotel phone &

confirmation number Passports/Visas Camera, SD cards & charger Credit cards Traveler’s checks Sewing kit Medicines/Prescriptions Extra contact lenses or glasses Toiletries

Phone numbers for wedding party, wedding coordinator & vendors

Sewing kit (thread, needle, safety pins & scissors)

Personal emergency kit (including Shout wipes, tampons, & a small snack)

Skin care (cleansers, moisturizers & lotion) Hair care (hair dryer, curling iron, curlers, brush, comb, hair spray, hair gel, bobby pins, hair elastics, barrettes) Nail polish, nail file & polish remover (in shade worn & clear to stop runs in nylons)

WEDDING ATTIRE for her: Gown Headpiece & veil Lingerie (bra, bustier, slip) Hosiery & garter Shoes Jewelry & accessories Wrap/jacket Gloves

for him: Coat, shirt, vest, trousers Cummerbund

Electrical plug adapters

Makeup & makeup remover

Neckwear

Hair dryer

Double stick tape

Cufflinks

Extra pair of nylons

Socks & shoes

UPDATING YOUR NAME Auto Registration

Toothbrush, toothpaste, floss & mouthwash Steamer or iron

Bank & Credit Card Accounts Car Insurance Policy

Hand mirror, tweezers & small grooming scissors

Credit Reporting Agencies

Tissues & disposable wipes

Deeds/Titles

Anti-cling spray

Driver’s License Employee Records

Deodorant, perfume & baby powder Cotton balls, cotton swabs

Investment Accounts Life Insurance Policy Medical/Dental Records Memberships Passport Post Office Records Social Security Records Stock Certificates Tax Agency Records

Headband or clips for pulling hair back while applying makeup Small hand towel Lint brush Breath mints Cash Checks

Something old, new, borrowed & blue

don’t forget Rings & marriage license Ring bearer pillow Flower girl basket Wedding programs Cake knife & server Toasting flutes Favors Guest book & pen

Voter Registration Records

Unity candle, kiddush cup

Wills/Trusts

Pay officiant & vendors Assign person to collect gifts

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Cakes Planner CAKE STYLE

CAKE ACCESSORIES

GROOM'S CAKE

ADDITIONAL DETAILS

Type of Cake:

Cake Topper:

Type of Cake:

Wedding Cake Location:

Flavor of Filling:

Cake Flowers:

Cake Theme:

Groom's Cake Location:

Flavor of Icing:

Cake Decorations:

Flavor of Filling:

Cake Table Decorations:

Date to Taste Samples:

Cake Stands:

Flavor of Icing:

Part to Save:

Cake Boxes:

Cake Decorations:

Person Responsible for Cake

Cake Knife & Server:

Description:

Top, Knife, & Server:

Description:

Cake Napkins:

Person to Save & Freeze Cake:

Catering Planner TYPE

COURSES

ENTRÉES

Breakfast/Brunch

Hors d'oeuvres

Beef

Vegetarian

Tea

Appetizer

Chicken

Kosher

Lunch

Soup

Pork

Gluten Free

Cocktails

Salad

Fish/Seafood

Other

Dinner

Entree

Lamb

Dessert

Pasta

ALCOHOL

SERVICE

RENTAL ITEMS

Full Bar

Cocktails

Tables

Beer & Wine

Passed Hors d'oeuvres

Chairs & Chair Covers

Wine with Dinner

Hors d'oeuvre Tables

Champagne Toast

Seated Meal

Specialty Cocktail

Buffet

Linens China, Glassware, Silverware

SPECIAL

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Flowers Planner DESCRIPTION OF WEDDING FLOWERS

FLOWERS BY SEASON SPRING Cherry Blossom Daffodil Dogwood Forsythia Hellebore Hyacinth Lilac Lily of the Valley Muscari Peony Quince Rose Sweet Pea Tulip Viburnum

SUMMER Anemone Astilbe Azalea Calla Lily Camellia Cosmos Daffodil Dahlia Daisy Delphinium French Tulip Hollyhock Hyacinth Hydrangea Jasmine Lady's Mantle Larkspur Lilac Lily of the Valley Marigold Mimosa Pansy Peony Primrose Ranunculus

FALL Autumn Leaves Celosia (cockscomb)

Chinese Lantern Chrysanthemum Crosnia Dahlia Hydrangea Seasonal Berries Statice Sunflower Yarrow

HELPERS

CEREMONY

Cake Cutting Attendant

Altar/Chuppah

_________________________________

Guest Book Attendant

Candles & Holders

_________________________________

Officiant

Pew/Aisle Markers

_________________________________

WINTER

Soloists & Musicians

Other

Amaryllis Anemone Casablanca Lily Evergreen Forced Bulbs Freesia Gerber Daisy Heather Narcissus Holly (ilex) Paper-white Poinsettia Rose Stephanot

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WEDDING PARTY

RECEPTION

Bride’s Bouquet _________________________________

Entryway _________________________________

Bride’s Toss Bouquet

Head Table Centerpiece

_________________________________

Bride’s Attendants’

Parents’ Table

_________________________________

Bouquets

Centerpieces

_________________________________

Flower Girl’s Headpiece or

Guest Table Centerpieces

Baskets

_________________________________

Reception Room Flowers

Groom’s Boutonnière

_________________________________

Cake & Cake Table

Groom’s Attendants’ Boutonnière

_________________________________

YEAR ‘ROUND Baby’s Breath Calla Lily Carnation Cattleman Chrysanthemum Daisy Freesia Gardenia Gerber Daisy Gladiolus Iris Lily Orchid Protea Ranunculus Rose September Aster Snapdragon Stephanotis Tuberoses

Ushers’ Boutonnière _________________________________ Ring Bearer’s Boutonnière _________________________________ Mothers’ & Grandmothers’ Corsages _________________________________ Fathers’ & Grandfathers’ Boutonnières _________________________________

Champagne/Punch Table Gift Table _________________________________ Guest Book Table _________________________________ Restroom _________________________________ Other _________________________________

Other _________________________________

BOUTONNIÈRE

| Single flower for men worn on lapel

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NOSEGAY | Single flower or small bouquet, carried

CORSAGE | Single flower for women worn on wrist

POMANDER | Round bouquet on a cord usually for flower girls

CASCADE | Blossoms & greenery in teardrop shape

SPRAY | Small bunch of gathered flowers, carried

HAND TIED | Cut flowers tied with ribbon/fabric, carried

TOSS BOUQUET | Bouquet thrown to the single ladies

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Wedding Budget CEREMONY

MUSIC

STATIONERY

$___________ Ceremony Site Fee

$___________ Ceremony

$___________Save-the-Date Cards

$___________ Officiant

$___________ Reception

$___________ Invitations & Envelopes $___________Calligrapher

$___________Marriage License $___________ Candles/Candelabra

$___________ Wedding Coordinator

$___________Thank You Notes

$___________ Attendant Accommodations

$___________ Cake Knife & Server

$___________ Bridesmaids’ Dresses &

$___________ Favors $___________ Flower Girl’s Basket $___________ Guest Book & Pen $___________ Ring Bearer’s Pillow $___________ Toasting Glasses $___________ Unity Candle, Kiddish Cup

Shoes $___________ Flower Girl’s Dress $___________ Groomsmens’ Formal Wear

$___________ Host & Hostess gift

$___________Bride’s Bouquet

$___________Photographer Fees

$___________ Reception Flowers

$___________Engagement Session $___________Proofs $___________Wedding Album(s) $___________ Disk of Images

$___________ Decorations/Balloons

RECEPTION

GIFTS

$___________Reception Site Fees

$___________ Maid/Matron of Honor $___________ Bridesmaids $___________ Best Man $___________ Groomsmen $___________ Ushers $___________ Child Attendants $___________ Bride & Groom $___________ Bride’s Parents & Grandparents $___________ Groom’s Parents & Grandparents $___________ Pre-Wedding Party Hosts $___________ Cake Cutting Attendant $___________ Soloist/Musicians $___________ Program Attendants $___________ Other

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TRANSPORTATION $___________ Wedding Party $___________ Parking

PHOTOGRAPHY

$___________ Ceremony Flowers

$___________Other

$___________ Bridesmaid Luncheon

FLOWERS

$___________ Groom’s Boutonnière

$___________Placecards

$___________ Guests

$___________ Other

& Boutonnière

$___________Ceremony Programs

$___________ Ring Bear’s Attire

$___________ Attendants Gifts

$___________ Attendants’ Bouquets

$___________Postage

FAVORS & ACCESSORIES $___________ Cake Top

OPTIONAL ITEMS

$___________Food & Service $___________Tax & Gratuity $___________Beverage/Bar Fee $___________Cake/Cake Cutting Fee $___________ Rental Items $___________Other

VIDEOGRAPHY $___________ Videographer’s Fee $___________ Wedding DVD $___________ Additional Copies $___________ Edited Highlights $___________“Love Story” Production

WEDDING ATTIRE for her: $___________Gown $___________Alterations $___________Headpiece / Veil $___________ Lingerie & Garter $___________Shoes $___________Jewelry & Accessories $___________Hair, Makeup, & Manicure $___________ Other

for him:

RINGS

$___________Formal Wear

$___________Engagement

$___________Neckwear & Cufflinks

$___________Bride’s Wedding Band $___________Groom’s Wedding Band

$___________Accessories $___________Shoes $___________Other

Sharing the Cost Willingness and ability should always be taken into account when negotiating who pays for each expense. Use these traditional guidelines for some basic guidance, but don’t be afraid to break the “rules!” Everyone should be comfortable with their share and nothing is ever set in stone.

GROOM

BRIDE

Groom’s Wedding Ring

Bride’s Engagement & Wedding Ring

Wedding Gift for Groom

Bride’s Bouquet

Gifts for Bridesmaids

Mothers' Corsages

Gift for Parents

Wedding Gift for Bride

Gowns for Bridesmaids (optional)

Gifts for Groomsmen & Ushers

Accommodations for Out-of-Town

Gift for Parents (optional) Formal wear for Groomsmen (optional)

Attendants (optional)

Accommodations for Out-of-Town

Informal Stationery

Marriage License

BRIDE’S FAMILY

Honeymoon

Engagement Party

Fee for Officiant

Bride’s Wedding Attire Bride’s Parents’ Wedding Attire

GROOM’S FAMILY

Wedding Gift for Newlyweds

Engagement Party (optional; following party

Invitations, Announcements,

Thank You Notes, Postage

Groom’s Parents’ Wedding Attire

Wedding Ceremony Programs

Wedding Gift for Newlyweds

Wedding Reception

Rehearsal Dinner

Flowers for Ceremony & Reception

Shipment of Wedding Gifts to Couple’s Home

Bridal Party Bouquets & Flowers for

by bride’s parents) Groom’s Wedding Attire

Engagement & Wedding Photographs

Attendants (optional)

Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests (optional)

Flower Girl Transportation for Wedding Party to Ceremony & Reception

WEDDING PARTY

Videographer

Bridal Shower for Bride

Musicians/Vocalists

Bachelor(ette) Party

Security & Insurance for Gifts

Accommodations for Self

Welcome Party for Out-of-Town Guests

Wedding Attire & Shoes

totals for budget Ceremony Favors & Accessories Flowers Gifts

Music Photography Reception Rings

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GADGETS

for the home

YOUR REGISTRY CHECKLIST

RISE & GRIND

sheet set duvet comforter pillows mattress pad DECORATE TOGETHER

picture frames throw blankets lamps art furniture

WAKE UP

coffee maker toaster blender french press waffle maker UTENSILS

wooden spoons ladle spatula whisk can opener strainer pizza cutter grater

FRESHEN UP

towel set bath mat shower curtain soap dispenser storage

tv soundbar security system digital camera alexa GET OUTSIDE

grill planters patio furniture lawn mower tool box

FOR FUN

board games camping gear fitness items books bikes HONEYMOON

plane tickets hotel luggage rental car beach towels

MAKE IT SPOTLESS

vacuum broom laundry basket iron mop

COOK A MEAL

saucepans cookware cutting board mixing bowls silverware PACK THE PANTRY

crock-pot stand mixer microwave food processor pizza stone

for the kitchen YOUR REGISTRY CHECKLIST

ENTERTAIN TOGETHER

cheese plate wine glasses whiskey glasses pitcher bar tools LOVELY LINENS

napkins place mats oven mitts dish towels aprons

OUT- OF -THE BOX REGISTRY IDEAS

BAKED WITH LOVE

cake pans cookie sheets measuring cups rolling pin pie pans

NARROWING YOUR GUEST LIST

IN 30 SECONDS

or less

Not sure who to invite? Use this quick guide to help you in that process!

Are they family?

yes Immediate?

yes

Friend?

yes

Are they the immediate family or the spouse of your immediate family? (aunts & uncles, grandparents, etc)

yes

Do you like them?

yes

Have you talked to them in the past 5 years?

yes

Do you spend time together outside of the office?

yes Would you be upset if they didn’t invite you to their wedding?

yes

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Have you talked in the past 5 years?

Have you talked in the past 6 months?

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Ex?

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Everyone else Can you imagine your big day without them?

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#hashtags

Photographers can’t capture everything! Your guests will be taking photos throughout your big day and hashtags are a way for you to see them all in one place. Encourage your guests to share hashtagged photos across social media platforms and turn your wedding guests into your personal paparazzi.

#WorthIt Hashtags are for more than just your big day! Use your hashtag for all engagement and wedding related memories. Relive every special moment in one place with your wedding hashtag. Go through snapshots the second your heels come off, or when you are sunning with your sweetie on your honeymoon. Guests can relive their favorite moments after your big day or see what they missed out on if they weren’t able to attend.

#SpreadTheWord (or hashtag) How do you let everyone know what hashtag to use? Announce your hashtag on social media or wedding website and ask your guests to use it. Letterboards or signs are trendy ways to convey information and can be placed in key spots around your festivities to share the world like near the guestbook, your program, and your welcome sign. Don’t forget your #selfiestation or photobooth!

#Wingman Need help making your hashtag? Use an online generator or sit down for a hash it out with your honey for #datenight. Not feeling a hashtag with your last names? Use your venue or location to create your hashtag.

This real wedding couple’s last names were Polk & Nodhturft. Have fun with your hashtag and don’t be scared to show your personality as a couple!

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What style do you specialize in? Can I see a portfolio of your past work? Are you familiar with my ceremony and reception location? What is the cost of each item: bridal bouquet, bridesmaid’s bouquet, boutonnières, centerpieces, etc? Can you provide an aisle runner, candles, candlesticks/ holders, trellises, potted plants, etc? When will the flowers be delivered? Is there a delivery fee? Will you make a tossing bouquet for me? Is there a fee for it? Can you recommend seasonal flowers to help me save money?

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DESIGNERS

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nail file

lotion

mirror

perfume

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tweezers

lint brush

earring backs

cotton balls

clear nail polish

pencil sharpener

colored nail polish

fan

3. JUST IN CASE sewing kit

superglue

double stick tape

scissors

anti-blister spray

hem tape

anti-slip-shoe pads

stain remover

safety pins

static-cling spray

boutonniere pins

phone charger

blotting paper

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candy

energy drinks

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protein snacks

alcohol

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Guests FUEL YOUR

SERVINGS GUIDE

ROUND PARTY CAKE PIECES (2X2)

WEDDING CAKE PIECES (1X2)

DELICIOUS IDEAS When planning a wedding, the right meal can set the mood and

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fuel your guests for a night of dancing. Here are six ideas that will make your food more festive and leave everyone satisfied: Healthy is in. Healthy meals can be tasty delights. Go ethnic! Food from around the world is becoming more and more popular at weddings. It’s a great way to get variety into

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your dinner. It also gives your guests the opportunity to feed their adventurous side. Beef: it IS what’s for dinner. Steak is in. Try a South American style steak seasoned with chile peppers and sofrito or

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different salsas and a side of Peruvian potatoes. Steak is also delicious tossed into a gourmet salad or thinly sliced on baguettes. Food Stations and Dessert Bars. They’re fun and flavorful, not to mention they add a whimsical touch to your reception.

SQUARE PARTY CAKE PIECES (2X2)

WEDDING CAKE PIECES (1X2)

Brides have moved way beyond the pasta stations and candy or dessert bars and have started offering special food bars as part of their entrée and side dish selections. Comfort

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foods like potato bars with a variety of toppings are popular as are junk food bars laden with sliders, mini hot dogs and tacos. Even the sweet and dessert bars have transitioned from traditional cakes, cookies and tarts to tables laden with several varieties of gourmet popcorn with add ins, s’mores stations, make your own cotton candy and milkshake bars. There is no limit to the kind of food bars that can be

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incorporated into a reception. These special serving options can be as creative as a couple’s imagination and palate allow! Add a gourmet twist to a comfort food. Who says your meal has to be boring and formal? Take a casual comfort food like

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mac & cheese and spice it up by adding a gourmet cheese or lobster and a garnish. Have smaller portions, but more courses. This more European style is gaining popularity.

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take your wedding spirits to the next level You’ve hired professional photographers, caterers, musicians, and videographers to make your wedding day an unforgettable one. Don’t overlook everyone’s favorite pro: the bartender! Not only can you count on knowledgeable, speedy drink service for your guests, but a professional bartender will handle the nitty gritty, like the bar’s inventory and shopping list. You won’t have to trouble yourself with glassware, ice, mixers, or garnishes — just sit back, relax, and enjoy your professionally-poured cocktail. But it’s more than meticulous drink mixing: Like other wedding pros, bartenders are artists. Drinks are garnished just-so, and they’re able to craft cocktails based on individual guest’s preferences. You can also work with your bartender to create one or more signature drinks for your wedding. Before hiring a professional bartender for your wedding, do your research. First, inquire with your venue and caterer. Some have restrictions on who’s allowed to serve alcohol on site. Others require that the venue or caterer provide the alcohol, as opposed to purchasing it off site. How many bartenders do you need? Check your guest count. A general rule is 75 people per bartender. When budgeting, figure two to three drinks per person during cocktail hour and one drink per person, per hour, for the rest of the night. To determine whether or not a professional bartender is the right fit for your wedding, meet with a professional near you!

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SIMPLE PLACE SETTINGS

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You’ve seen those beautifully styled reception tables with

Does your event lend itself to white garden chairs

gorgeous china, luxe table linens, and sparkling silver at

or something more elaborate? There may be a price

every seat. An elaborately designed table creates a lot of

difference, so make sure you ask before you order. A

atmosphere for your reception. Those rentals can add

simple linen and classic white china can be elegant with

up quickly. If you are serving dinner, every person at

the addition of candles or great centerpieces.

your reception needs a place to sit, a chair, place settings

Just by adding a sheer topper to each table and a

including silver and glassware, napkins, etc. You’ll need

metallic charger to place settings, you can amp up the

to be aware of cost per piece when you start talking

glamour without breaking the bank. Here are different

rentals for your tables. Remember, that extra fork may

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photography guide

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Ash captures her couples wherever their love takes them. Focusing on weddings with totally in-love couples gives Ash the opportunity to get to know her couples and really focus on what’s important to them. Ash is there for you 100%. She’s known to bustle dresses, pin boutonnieres, dance with your wedding party, and cry during speeches.

Providing classic and authentic photography, Aislinn Kate takes an editorial approach to modern photojournalism with a traditional, romantic sensibility. Two photographers are provided to capture all of your moments. Unlimited wedding day coverage means your day will never feel rushed.

Adventurous wedding & elopement photographer that is all about the loud, silly, & fun loving couples!

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Shooting since 2007, Tristan Duplichain Photography LLC has been published in several national magazines. Her experience in the commercial and portrait industry has given Tristan an editorial approach to her wedding photography that is unique and identifiable.

TIPS FOR CREATING YOUR OWN

wedding website 1 . F R E E I S TH E B E ST You can create a personalized site online for free. Search for sites that offer free website services.

2 . M A K E IT N E E D -TO K N OW + A LIT TLE E X TR A There are two reasons to make a wedding website. One is to give guests need-to-know info that may not be included on the invite. The second reason is to add more information that guests will want to know, like suggested attire.

3 . DON’T HOLD BACK WHEN DISPLAYING REGISTRY DETAILS You can add links directly to your registries.

4 . ADD PERSONAL DETAILS Let visitors to your site get to know you better by giving them a little bit of background on yourself and your soon-to-be spouse. Tell the story of how you met and include pictures of the proposal.

5 . FAR AWAY FRIENDS & FAM WILL THANK YOU Post logistical details for guests making travel plans.

6 . DO N ’ T FO R G E T TO P R OO F R E A D Double-check that all the addresses and other facts are correct. You don’t want your guests to get lost or confused.

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wedding album

details

pre-ceremony

bride getting ready

VENUE, DRESS, SHOES, FLOWERS, RINGS, INVITATIONS

HAIR & MAKEUP, CANDID, GIFT EXCHANGE

BUTTONING DRESS & PUTTING ON SHOES

groom getting ready

first look

bride & groom portraits

JACKET, TIE, CUFFLINKS, & SHOES

WHEN HE SEES YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME

KISSES, RINGS, & POSING

ceremony decor

ceremony

wedding party

FLOWERS, SET UP, & AISLES

DOWN THE AISLE, GROOM’S REACTION, & FIRST KISS

BRIDESMAIDS & GROOMSMEN

bride’s family

groom’s family

couple at sunset

MOM, DAD, & FAMILY

reception decor

reception

send off

TABLES, CENTERPIECES, CAKE, FLOWERS, MENU

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WHEN YOU NEED

songs

THE CEREMONY Preludes Processionals Recessionals Interludes/Postludes THE RECEPTION Cocktail/Social Hour (if you have one) First Dance Last Dance Father/Daughter, Mother/Son Family Dance/Wedding Party Cake Cutting Garter Toss Throwing the Bouquet

during your wedding

PLANNING YOUR

destination wedding Some of the world’s most beautiful wedding and reception venues, photo opportunities, and luxe accomodations can be found far from home, but destination weddings come with special planning challenges.

12 MONTHS BEFORE • choose date & venue • contact venue’s on-site wedding coordinator • research airfare & room rates for your destination • review legal marriage requirements

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9 MONTHS BEFORE • • • •

visit resort tour venue & guest rooms ask about group discounts send out save-the-dates & hotel info

6 MONTHS BEFORE • • • •

reserve block of rooms book travel book officiant purchase travel & wedding insurance • confirm cake, flowers, menu, & decor

3 MONTHS BEFORE • send formal invitations • create wedding day itinerary for your programs

1 MONTH BEFORE • discuss final details with wedding coordinator • finalize vows, music, & schedule • release any extra rooms from your room blocks • have programs printed & obtain additional wedding favors & ship to resort

2 WEEKS BEFORE • make sure you have proper documentation to obtain marriage license • collect all insurance related documents

1 WEEK BEFORE • create a photo shot list for your photographer • share contact info with wedding party • final check with coordinator

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Unplugged Weddings The what and why of going unplugged

BE FULLY PRESENT In the midst of all this online connectedness, we’re viewing the world through our phone screens and camera lenses and missing out on true human connections. But people are beginning to wake up and realize just how immersed we all are in our phones and tablets, and there’s a movement to change that. This movement has reached the wedding industry. Brides and grooms want to have face-to-face connections with their guests — especially during the ceremony — instead of staring out into a sea of electronics. If guests are experiencing your big day from behind a screen, are they truly experiencing it? Your wedding is comprised of some of the most important moments of your life; making it unplugged encourages guests to live in the moment with you. Simply put: It encourages your loved ones to be here now. SOCIAL MEDIA SPOILERS Imagine: You haven’t seen the groom all day. You can’t wait for that “first look.” While you’re getting ready, the Maid of Honor snaps a photo of you in your dress and veil. She has a few minutes of down time, so she posts the photo on Instagram. The groom, also with a few minutes to spare and out of habit, checks for Instagram updates and the first look is spoiled. A first

look via social media isn’t exactly the stuff of dreams! Brides and grooms are avoiding such spoilers altogether by declaring their wedding “unplugged.” LEAVE IT TO THE PROFESSIONALS There are few things that annoy a professional photographer more than an amateur trying to do their job. Overly zealous uncles who jump in the aisle and cousins who stand on church pews can, at best, be an eyesore in your professional photos and can, at worst, completely ruin once-in-a-lifetime moments. Imagine your “kiss the bride” moment blocked by an uncle who stepped into the aisle to snap a photo. The professional photographer didn’t see it coming and his or her hands are tied. Nothing can bring that moment back — it’s lost to a grainy photo on Uncle Al’s smart phone. Another issue is wandering eyes. When your professional photographer stages a group shot of your newly combined families and Uncle Al decides to take the photo too, eyes will wander, not knowing which camera to look at first. This makes the final professional photo just look silly! One way to avoid all of these problems is to have an unplugged wedding, or at least an unplugged ceremony.

In our technology-crazed world, it’s become a habit to check our phones every few minutes, to post a constant stream of status updates to Twitter and Facebook, and to document any and everything on Instagram. At an unplugged wedding, the couple kindly asks that everyone in attendance turn off cell phones, cameras, and other digital distractions during the ceremony and/or reception. IDOYALL.COM | 99

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You take care of the vows, we'll take care of your guests. Our experienced event team will guide you through the planning from guest accommodations, catering and menu selections, reception set-up and ceremony options. We are committed to helping you plan the wedding of your dreams.

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26650 Perdido Beach Blvd. Orange Beach, AL www.IslandHouseHotel.com

251-981-8241

Perfectly Just steps from the beaches of Gulf Shores, you’ll find Peninsula Golf and Racquet Club. Here picturesque views of lush, manicured fairways and lakes create a beautiful back drop for your ceremony, coastal inspired cuisine will delight your guests, and our Mediterranean clubhouse provides an elegant reception setting for any affair. Let our complimentary, on-site coordinator handle each and every detail. This is perfectly Peninsula! The perfect venue for your perfect day.

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You Didn’t Know You Needed so you can honeymoon easier

Honeyfund The perfect wedding registry app that allows guests to contribute to your dream honeymoon. They can choose between traditional gifts for your home, or more modern gifts like adding to the down payment on your house or chipping in to your flight for Hawaii!

Airbnb Looking for the perfect stay during your sweetheart getaway? Airbnb offers a wide variety of bed and breakfasts in the form of cottages, lofts, bungalows, and more to make you feel at home in the local culture. With locations all across the world, you’ll be sure to find the perfect spot to rest while you travel.

Viator A TripAdvisor Company, Viator is the one-stop-shop for all the activities you want to plan on your trip! Book your excursions and outings through Viator to get low rates and plan before you get to your final destination.

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instantly have a 2 way conversation. It also has a feature that can decode text straight from your camera to make reading signs a breeze.

Airline App (Whatever airline you’re flying) All of the major airlines have their own app now to make traveling easier. You can view your flight times, check in on your phone, and scan your ticket to board, all using your own mobile device! Lines actually go faster when you use your phone as a ticket. If there is a delay or you have to reschedule due to unforeseen circumstances, swapping your flight is no big deal when using the app.

XE Currency If you are traveling abroad, this app lets you know the live conversions of the going currency rate in real time. Using this technology, you can calculate prices on-the-go.

Uber Most everyone already knows what Uber is, but did you know most countries now use it? If you’re worried about transportation worry no more! Uber is a largely trusted mode of transport

that will safely deliver you to your destinations along the way.

PackPoint Are you a list person? Are you terrible at making lists? Either way this app can make your life easier. Based on your location, the weather of your location, number of days gone, and activities you have planned, PackPoint creates a suggested packing lists tailored just for you. Not only is it helpful, it presents the list in a visually appealing fashion to make checking off your list more fun.

Mobile Passport Partnered with the U.S. Customs and Border Protection and the Airports Council International, this app is legal to use in certain airports and cruise terminals as a passport for your convenience and travel. No more nightmares of leaving your passport behind and being stuck in an airport somewhere. Make sure your airport is on the approved list before departing!

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BRIDAL BOUTIQUE & GROOMSWEAR Bridals by Lori BRIDESMAIDSâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; BOUTIQUE Show Me Your Mumu CAKES Confections on the Coast CATERER, GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS, & VENUE Watercolor Resort FLOWERS Florals by the Sea INVITATIONS Paces Paper HAIR STYLIST Lotus Hair Artisans MAKEUP ARTIST Native Beauty Bar PHOTOGRAPHER Aislinn Kate Photography PLANNER & RENTALS Watercolor Weddings VIDEOGRAPHER Sixpence Productions

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BRIDAL GOWN DESIGNER Hayley Paige BRIDESMAIDS’ BOUTIQUE Show Me Your Mumu CAKES & DESSERTS Gambino’s Bakery CATERER & RECEPTION VENUE Broussard’s CEREMONY VENUE Hermann Grima ENTERTAINMENT Mardi Gras Indians FLOWERS Palate New Orelans GLITTER BAR Elektra Cosmetics GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS Hotel Monteleone MAKEUP ARTIST Glam on Location PHOTOGRAPHER JBW Photography PLANNER Kate David RENTALS Yur Event Rental VIDEOGRAPHER Shark Pig

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Special DAY. What better place to celebrate love and joy than the official crown jewel on the Mississippi Gulf Coast?

The Chapel at Centennial Plaza is the Gulf Coastâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s newest event space and the perfect spot for your wedding, reception, or any other special occasion. Nestled along the majestic sandy beaches of the Gulf of Mexico, this renovated century-old building features high ceilings, exposed brick, two separate dressing rooms, and is able to comfortably seat 300 guests. Our experienced staff and event coordinators provide our future brides and grooms professional guidance from small minor details to the big day for any sized wedding, big or small. We aim to create a day worthy of beautiful memories that will last a lifetime. Come celebrate love, family, and friends. Whatever the celebration may be, The Chapel at Centennial Plaza is ready to bring your vision to life.

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Nominated as Best Wedding Venue and Best Hotel by the 2019 SunHerald People's Choice, the White House Hotel has become a premier site for weddings and other special events, weaving a lush, historic setting with modern appeal. With stunning views of the Gulf of Mexico and beautiful golden sunsets, the White House Hotel offers elegance and beauty for that special day. Available spaces include our front lawn, ballroom, and outdoor terrace. Choose the White House Hotel to be the venue for your next event. Our staff is ready to help you plan the wedding of your dreams.

To book an event, visit whitehousebiloxi.com.

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A B C re n GULFPORT 228.864.5361

OCEAN SPRINGS 228.872.5577

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BAY ST. LOUIS 228.467.1081

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BRIDAL BOUTIQUE I Do Bridal & Formal CAKES Melissa’s Bakery & GB Bakery CATERER Dominos FLOWERS Forget Me Not Florist GETTING READY VENUE White House Hotel GROOMSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse HAIR & MAKEUP Peggy Anderson MUSIC Nightshift Sounds Entertainment PHOTOGRAPHER MbM Photography VENUE Biloxi Visitor’s Center

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7600 Country Club Circle Diamondhead, MS

228-255-2917 www.diamondheadms.org

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Distinctive wedding packages based on your preferences. Share your wedding dreams with us... We’re right with you, committed to making your dreams a reality!

Diamondhead... A place like no other. Where everyone is welcome!

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DELIVERY/ SET-UP STAFF

PHOTOGRAPHER/ VIDEOGRAPHER

HAIR/ MAKEUP

TRANSPO

OFFICIANT

CEREMONY MUSICIANS

BAND

RECEPTION/ CATERING STAFF

SHOULD I?

not if he/ she owns the business

for exemplary service

not if he/ she owns the business

yes

if gratituity is not included, then yes

no, but a donation is a nice gesture

optional

if gratituity is not included, then yes

HOW MUCH?

up to $500 or 15% of fee, or a gift

$5 - $10 per person

personal gift

15 - 20%

$100 - $500

$15 - $20/ musician or 15% of fee

$20 - $50/ musician

$25 - $150

15 - 20% or see below

WHEN?

after the honeymoon

upon delivery

after the honeymoon

after you are made-up

when the driver picks you up, or after the last ride

at the rehearsal or rehearsal dinner

at the ceremony

at the reception

Remember, being appreciative and a personal thank you note go a long way, too!

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catering, banquet manager: $100-$300 waiters + kitchen staff: $20-$30 each

bartenders: $20-$25 each chef: $50-$100

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DATE NIGHTS (that won’t break the wedding budget)

Volunteer Together Visit a local shelter or charity and serve someone. Not only are you having fun with your fiancé, it’s a great way to give back to your community.

Explore a Local Park Sometimes the best adventures are right outside your door!

Have a Game Night Ask your friends over and play some good, old fashioned board games. You don’t realize how competitive your friends are until Monopoly comes into the picture!

Spacious suites and contemporary elegance to make your big day perfect. Hotel Indigo© is Hattiesburg’s premiere boutique hotel, offering luxurious comfort with sophisticated style. With 100 rooms and suites, premium amenities, on-site restaurant and bar, and proximity to some of the city’s best dining and shopping, Hotel Indigo has what it takes to make your wedding party’s experience memorable and worry-free. Our professional staff will go above and beyond to make you and your guests feel welcome and well-cared for.

DIY Day You know all those pins you’ve saved on Pinterest and never tried? Now is the time to get crafty! You can probably find most of the items around your house. P.S. Check out our blog, idoyall. com, for a fun paper marbling DIY! It’s oh-so-satisfying.

Check out Open Houses Near You Who doesn’t want to be Joanna Gaines? Why yes, we’ll take the $1,000 house without walls. We can shiplap that. ( JK, please don’t do that-just get an idea of what each of you would like one day.)

Watch the Worst Movies on Netflix Ask your friends for ideas. Sometimes all you need is a good laugh with the person you love to have a great night. Don’t forget the popcorn.

Grab a Disposable Camera Walk around your city and take pictures of each other with this oldie but goodie. After you’ve used all 28 of your pics, get them devoloped at a local drugstore. The cloud may fail you, but prints last (almost) forever.

Exercise Encouraging each other to be healthy can be a fun way to stay in shape. HOTEL INDIGO® HATTIESBURG 103 South 30th Avenue, Hattiesburg, MS 39401 | 601.264.7709 | hotelindigohattiesburg.com 132

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carry on □ Flight confirmation □ Hotel Confirmation □ ID (passport and driver's license) □ Credit Cards □ Cash □ Phone

□ Camera □ Sunglasses □ Lip balm □ Gum/Snacks □ Chargers □ Headphones

for the bride □ Bra/underwear/socks □ Bathing suit □ Shorts □ Tops □ Jeans □ Nice dinner dress □ Sundress □ Lingerie □ Pajamas

□ Light jacket or cardigan □ Sandals □ Sneakers □ Heels □ Tampons/pads □ Makeup □ Skincare □ Jewelry □ Hair tools

for the groom □ Boxers/socks □ Bathing suit □ Shorts □ Tops □ Jeans □ Nice shirt for dinner

□ Suit □ Belt □ Pajamas □ Flip Flops □ Sneakers □ Dress Shoes

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□ Q-tips □ Hair ties □ Nail clippers/file □ Brush □ Deodorant □ First aid kit □ Sunscreen

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