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Q is here for all of it. This special issue offers your definitive guide to a whole season of local queer events now through Labor Day. What’s more, five decades after Stonewall, we document ever-more LGBTQ-ATLiens making queer strides, and we map roads that the equality movement still needs to travel.
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Traveling literal roads is also part of the Q summer preview. Far from the maddening stresses of home, we take you across the Southeast to some of the queer-friendliest destinations.
Figurative roads still untraveled became more apparent this month as Chickfil-A doubled down yet again on the anti-LGBTQ contributions of its charitable foundation. News from our Project Q Atlanta homesite covers the latest in a long line of the food giant again mischaracterizing its political motivations as if it’s putting lipstick on the pig of its affiliations. Another up-and-coming queer Atlantan, Royce Hall, finds himself as the latest subject to smile for the Q camera and open up in one of our personality profiles. He lets us in on his music, art and community contributions as a black trans man and performer. We also make pitstops in a bedroom of two tops who can’t get it right in our advice column, and at multiple recent events and venues for photos in Q Shots. We’ll be back in print on June 13 after a summer break, reenergized and ready to cover, shoot, unveil and detail everything you beautiful people in the LGBTQ village can muster. Until then, find us 24-7 at theQatl.com, and write me at mike@theQatl.com theQatl.com
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Trans Atlanta multi-hyphenate Royce Hall is a queer performer on the rise By Patrick Saunders ROYCE HALL WANTS TO SAVE LIVES THROUGH HIS ART, AND HE TAKES A number of avenues to do so, be it as a recording artist, actor, poet, photographer or sketch artist. The transgender Atlanta resident connected with Q to talk about internal struggles, creating safe spaces for LGBTQ artists, and his upcoming show in Jonesboro. What was it like growing up in Tallahassee, Fla? My childhood was absolutely phenomenal. My mom allowed me much freedom, within reason, to explore and express myself, to create and learn. Culture and academics were a huge deal in our household. At 3 years old, my mom placed me in a piano school. At 10 years old, I joined beginners’ band as a clarinetist. From there, I learned several other instruments while performing in a hip-hop trio. As it relates to my identity, that wasn’t the easiest to navigate. Being totally self-aware at such a young age was a source of internal struggle. I didn’t have the language, which would have given me agency and power, to convey what I felt and knew about myself. Thankfully though, I wasn’t stifled when it came to my presentation. Tell us about Southern Gent Productions. It’s the ultimate live performance art experience. Last year, SGP collaborated with Soul Productions, LovHer and Actor’s Express for two installments of QueerLit — a live performance experience that celebrates and creates a safe space for LGBTQIA poets, singers, musicians and other artists. What can people expect at a Royce Hall show? The Royce Hall Experience is all about creating a journey on stage. My musicians and I provide a fusion of funk, jazz, hip-hop, neo-soul and spoken word. I love providing an intimate, personal experience. You can expect to connect to my music sonically as well as from a human experience. What else should people understand about you? As a content creator, I feel it is my mission to uphold the reasons I’ve been blessed with so many gifts. I think about youth who are similar to me and how my art can save lives, create positive dialogue and change, evoke thought and understanding, bridge community gaps and leave a legacy that traverses the spectrum of human existence. Royce Hall & The Royce Hall Experience play SpaceCondo Live in Jonesboro on May 30. facebook.com/IAmRoyceHall. For our full interview, visit theQatl.com.
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50 Years of Stonewall Triple Feature
SATURDAY, JUNE 8
Save Me, Shelter and
Sexy Saturday: Pride Edition My Sister’s Room, 10 p.m. mysistersroom.com
Brother to Brother
Out Front Theatre, 5 p.m.
SUNDAY, JUNE 9
Neon Horror Daydrunk
PALS Bottomless Brunch Guac y Margys, 12:30 p.m. palsatlanta.org
Mary’s, 2 p.m.
TUESDAY, JUNE 11 50s Sock Hop Drag Queen Bingo Benefits PALS Atlanta Lips, 7:30 p.m. lipsatl.com
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 12 The Fifth Element
outonfilm.org
Peaches & Beaches Edition marysatlanta.com 15th Annual Evening for Equality
Loews Atlanta, 6 p.m. georgiaequality.org Naturally Tan
Tan France from Queer Eye
Friends School of Atlanta, 7 p.m.
Queers on Film Series
friendsschoolatlanta.org
outonfilm.org
Church at Ponce & Highland, 6 p.m.
Plaza Atlanta, 7 p.m.
THURSDAY, JUNE 13
Stonewall 50 Concert & Panel
atlantapride.org, atlantafreedombands.com
SouthEast LeatherFest (SELF)
Ladies of LCD Soundsystem
through June 16
The Music Room, 10 p.m.
Doubletree Hilton Atlanta,
with Deep South
setheaterfest.com
atlmusicroom.com
Holy Sh!t Comedy Night
SUNDAY, JUNE 16
sisterlouisaschurch.com
Rafiki, Pride and
Sister Louisa’s Church, 10 p.m.
50 Years of Stonewall Triple Feature
FRIDAY, JUNE 14
Saturday Church
Atlanta Braves LGBT Night SunTrust Park, 5 p.m. atlantapride.org
50 Years of Stonewall Double Feature Living with Pride: Ruth C. Ellis at 100 and The Watermelon Woman Out Front Theatre, 7 p.m. outonfilm.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Belong Summer Hike Kennesaw Mountain, 10 a.m. belong.lgbt Atlanta Pride Run Piedmont Park, 8 a.m. frontrunnersatlanta.org Rainbow Pub Crawl
Drink at Ten Bars with Wristband Steps off from MSR, 7 p.m. mysistersroom.com
Out Front Theatre, 3 p.m. outonfilm.org
Cabbage Patch
Father’s Day Drag Brunch
Georgia Beer Garden, 1 p.m. georgiabeergarden.com
MONDAY, JUNE 17 Paris is Burning
Queers on Film Series Plaza Atlanta, 7 p.m. outonfilm.org
SATURDAY, JUNE 22 I See You: 50 Years After Stonewall Gay Men’s Chorus Pride Concert
St. Luke’s Episcopal, 3 p.m. and 8 p.m. voicesofnote.org
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SATURDAY, JUNE 29
Queen’s Night at the Opera with ATL Collective Buckhead Theatre, 8 p.m. atlcollective.org
Queen Story Hour
Michelle Malone & Sarah Peacock Crimson Moon, Dahlonega, 8 p.m. Recurs June 23 and June 29 thecrimsonmoon.com
Stonewall 50: Atlanta
BrutBears Decadence Heretic, 10 p.m. hereticatlanta.com
Mercedes-Benz Stadium, 4 p.m.
SATURDAY, JUNE 22
Mayor Bottoms Drag With Terra Cotta Sugarbaker Atlanta City Hall, 10 a.m. atlantaga.gov/lgbtq
QueerStory Panel
84 12th St. NE, 5 p.m.
facebook.com/dykesonbikesatl Atlanta United Unity Night
With Swag Bags & Pre-Party fevo.com, atlantapride.org
Ultimate Queen Tribute With Bohemian Rhapsody voice Marc Martel
Brown Amphitheater,
Peachtree City, 8 p.m. amphitheater.org Grrl Crush My Sister’s Room, 10 p.m. mysistersroom.com
Michelle Malone
SUNDAY, JUNE 23
8 p.m.
LGBTQ History Tour Center for Civil & Human Rights, 1 p.m. lgbtqinstitute.org Stonewall Pool Party with Deep South Altitude Apartments Rooftop, 2 p.m. facebook.com/deepsouthatl Michelle Malone & Sarah Peacock Crimson Moon, Dahlonega, 9 p.m. Recurs on June 29 thecrimsonmoon.com OutRising Rooftop Party with DJs Anonima & Alexander Fox Theatre, 12 noon- 4 p.m. foxtheatre.org
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Crimson Moon, Dahlonega, thecrimsonmoon.com Considering Matthew Shepard
Sandy Springs Performing Arts Center, 8 p.m. citysprings.com Leslie Jordan
Westside Cultural Arts Center, 9 p.m.
westsideartscenter.com Stonewall 50: Big Rainbow Cabaret
My Sister’s Room, 9:30 p.m. mysistersroom.com
Queer History Live! Comedy Show
Relapse Theatre, 10 p.m. relapsetheatre.com
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Southern Fried Queer Pride The Bakery Atlanta, 1 p.m. southernfriedqueerpride.com
North Avenue MARTA, 12 noon
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SATURDAY, JULY 27
TUESDAY, JULY 2
Serving for Equality
Queer Classics:
Sharon E. Lester Tennis Center,
Midtown Art Cinema, 7 p.m.
hrcatlanta.org
Dog Day Afternoon plazaatlanta.com Hugh Jackman
State Farm Arena, 7 p.m. ticketmaster.com
SUNDAY, JULY 14 Nina Flowers
Xion/BJ Roosters, 3 a.m.
ABBA The Concert Cobb Energy Centre, 8 p.m.
FRIDAY, JULY 19 Joining Hearts Weekend Kickoff Heretic, 10 p.m
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Greystone at Piedmont Park, 4 p.m.
joininghearts.org JH Weekend Afterparties
Buckhead Theatre, 10 p.m. Xion with Pagano, 3 a.m. gaboyevents.com
SUNDAY, JULY 21 Sweet Spot
DJs Deanne, Pride and Brian Rojas District, 2 p.m.
gaboyevents.com Sugar w/Dan DeLeon Loca Luna, 4 p.m.
facebook.com/beyondatl JH Weekend Closing Party DJ Dan Slater
District, 7 p.m.
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hotlantavolleyball.org
WEDNESDAY, AUG. 7
centerstage-atlanta.com
Carly Rae Jepsen Tabernacle, 8 p.m.
WEDNESDAY, JULY 31
actors-express.com
Tsunami Volleyball, all weekend
SUNDAY, JULY 28
Head Over Heels
Runs through Aug. 25
Hotlanta Classic XXVI
Katya: Help Me I’m Dying
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Actor’s Express, 8 p.m.
FRIDAY, AUG. 2 – SUNDAY AUG. 4
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Shawn Mendes State Farm Arena, 7:30 p.m. ticketmaster.com
Center Stage, 8 p.m.
SATURDAY, AUG. 17 Piedmont Park Arts Festival Piedmont Park, Sunday too.
THURSDAY AUG. 22 Queen + Adam Lambert State Farm Arena, 7 p.m. ticketmaster.com
SATURDAY, AUG. 31
The Excellence Gala Trans Gentlemen of Excellence Georgia Tech Hotel, 7 p.m. transgentlemenofexcellence.org
LABOR DAY WEEKEND AUG. 29 – SEPT. 2 Black Gay Pride Atlanta atlantaprideweekend.com
Rainbow Days at Six Flags meakproductions.com
Glamorous
Peach Weekend LGBTQ Tennis Tournament atta.org
hereticatlanta.com
Dragon*Con dragoncon.org
piedmontparkartsfestival.org Heretic, 10 p.m.
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ometimes all it takes is a short drive to feel a world away, and summer is just the time to take advantage of nearby LGBTQ and destinations that won’t break the bank.
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One Magical Weekend May 31 – June 3 onemagicalweekend.com This weekend is one of the most anticipated circuit weekends on the dancing queen calendar. Prepare your inner Peter Pan for six days of dancing and amusements in Orlando. The closely associated, but not affiliated, Gay Days at Walt Disney World has moved to August 13-15 this year. Augusta Pride June 21-22 prideaugusta.org The 10th annual festival and parade just gets bigger every year, and offsite parties just keep adding to the roster of events. Asheville, N.C. romanticasheville.com/gayandlesbian Historic places in this queer-friendly burgh only begin with The Biltmore. Shopping, hikes, art and a few good gay bars are all a short drive away. Savannah/Tybee Island gaysavannah.com In the city, find legendary antebellum homes and districts, amazing parks and museums, as well as a River Walk inclusive of gay bars. Then drive out to Tybee for beach-bumming and casual eats. 28
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Charleston, S.C. charlestoncvb.com Often called Savannah’s sister with its historical, antebellum vibe, Charleston also has a Tybee sibling in Folly Beach. It’s home to a namesake pier for shopping and dining with amazing views of the Atlantic. St. Simons Island goldenisles.com One of the more popular islands just off Brunswick, Ga, this is the most low-key and peaceful. After a day at the beach, drop by one of the super-casual local gay bars. Panama City, Fla. visitpanamacitybeach.com Ground Zero for what just may be the birthplace of Spring Break, it’s even better in even warmer months. Nearly 30 miles of beach serves warm water and hot sand on the Gulf side of the state. Timberfell Lodge timberfell.com In the gorgeous hills of Greenville, Tenn., this gay-owned, men-only bed and breakfast has become a premier gay resort with swimming pool, pool house, beer bar, bath house, redwood sauna and steam room. Guys can enoy a clothing optional weekend getaway.
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THE QUEER AGENDA The Best Queer Things To Do in Atlanta This Week
Thursday, May 30 – Wednesday, June 5
SATURDAY, JUNE 1 Ladies of the League
THURSDAY, MAY 30
National Flag Football
Gender Blender
League of Atlanta puts its jocks
For All Humans puts on this
in frocks and stages them as
party with performances byJay-
its 16th season-closing
bella Banks, Miss He, Video
party @ My Sister’s
Tronic and Iv Fischer (photo)
Room, 6 p.m. nffla.com
@ My Sister’s Room, 9 p.m. mysistersroom.com
FRIDAY, MAY 31 Song to Myself
Walt Whitman turns 200, so queer
and allied writers read from his work @ First Existentialist, 7 p.m. firstexistentialist.org Morningside
Topher Payne’s latest play of Southern sass and big heart opens @ Onstage Atlanta, 8 p.m. onstageatlanta.com Betty Who
Variety Playhouse, 9 p.m. varietyplayhouse.com Flaunt It
T Rex headlines
the latest 18+ This
Free Life show @ Moxy
Midtown, 9 p.m. marriott.com/moxyatlanta The G8Yties
Joan Jett the Blackhearts
Ladies, still your hearts. Crimson, clover and loving rock and roll take the mic @ The Bowl at Sugar Hill, 8 p.m. thebowlatsugarhill.com
A dance party only lurid youth and foggy
SUNDAY, JUNE 2
hereticatlanta.com
The trolley ride with local gays of extended
memories can inspire @ Heretic, 10 p.m.
experience returns @ National Center
SATURDAY, JUNE 1 Out in the Park
LGBTQ Day on the rides and on the
causeways @ Six Flags Over Georgia,
all day. www.atlantapride.org/event/outinthepark
Boss Broad
Queer Atlanta’s own Megan Volpert
debuts her newest book with a party @ New Hope UMC, 11 a.m.
meganvolpert.com Photo by James L. Hicks
LGBTQ History Tour
for Civil & Human Rights, 1 p.m. lgbtqinstitute.org
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 5 Boys Night Out
Broadway baby Robert Ray and his talented cabaret cast return to Wednesdays with
their new show “June is Busting OUT All Over” @ Ten, 7 p.m. and 9 p.m. Encore
performances June 12. bnojune.bpt.me Find more LGBTQ events in the Queer
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THEQ?! Two Tops Don’t
MAKE A RIGHT
More love, less categorizing
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and for the first time in my life, I’m not questioning whether the love is
real. We are definitely connected on a higher level than I’ve ever experienced. There is one hitch, though: We’re both tops.
We click on so many levels except that one. I’ve bottomed a couple times, but when I bring up reciprocation, we argue. When I’m not
thinking and your activity to make the process of getting there
smoother and more fun.Anyone interested in receptive anal sex who is scared can help themselves and each other with a few suggestions.
Forget labels. “I’m not going to be the bottom in this relationship” triggers every emotional hot button on both sides, not to
mention puts negative judgment on bottoming. What if no one was a “top” or a “bottom” and everyone just wanted to have sex? Make it about desire.
Tap your sexual super powers. What turns him on about you?
Ask him and give it to him. If it’s your chest, walk around shirtless
more. The noises you make in bed? Make more. Have him do your stuff too, and everyone will feel
willing to do it, it’s like a sword
more attractive and attracted.
fight down there. I don’t want to
Emphasize reciprocity. Part-
be in this stalemate forever, and
ners don’t just do things to each
I definitely don’t want to lose
other in bed, they do things for
this relationship.
each other.
Dear Labelmaker:
Commit to consider. First, you
Confrontation breeds nothing
commit to not even try topping
but defense, so you can’t argue
him, as he openly considers the
your way into unchartered
possibility. The lack of pressure
sexual territory. Conversation
“in the moment” takes the anxi-
is a much better tack, and
ety of anticipation out of the
not-in-the-moment is a much
equation. Trust is a key issue.
better time.
Don’t violate it.
The first thing to discuss as
Simulation stimulation. Even
honestly and openly as possible
if you never get in the back
is whether what you are after is
door, you can both have a lot
even a possibility for him. There are ways to live with “no” and
maintain your relationship, but if you act like “no” means “maybe” or “with the right strategy,” you’ve got bigger issues than sex in your relationship.
If you’re in the land of “no,” learn to love the “sword fight.” Focus
on other sexual situations you both enjoy, or entertain a third who loves bottoming. That’s just just three examples. Open your minds to solutions.
Assuming he’d be willing to share bottom duty at least sometimes, there are some things you can both do. Hone your 46
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of fun in the neighborhood.
Without ever penetrating each other, discover the joys of rim-
ming and frottaging, the fancy term for your proverbial “sword fight” and its sexual friction.
Try it. After a period of the above steps and a thorough cleansing
— and based solely on his schedule — give penetration a shot. To support an environment of zero pressure, put in place caveats that false starts, time outs and rainchecks are totally OK.
The Q is for entertainment purposes and not professional counseling. Send your burning Qs to mike@theqatl.com.
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