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HOW TO SUSTAIN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

HER LIFE, HER MINISTRY & HER TESTIMONY

PASTOR VONNER G. HOGAN (HORTON)

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HOW TO STAY HOPEFUL ABOUT YOUR FUTURE

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CONTENTS

COVER FEATURE 20

FEATURES

28 4 0| A MARRIAGE THAT LASTS 4 2| DIVORCE RATE IN THE CHURCH

1 5| A MONEY MANIFESTO FOR 2015 A new financial outlook

3 1| HOW TO STAY HOPEFUL ABOUT YOUR FUTURE Start dreaming again and live the life God has already written for you.

3 4| BIRTHING FORTH YOUR PURPOSE

4 7 | ROLL CALL: PERFECT ATTENDANCE IN THE CHURCH, ABSENT IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD

On The Cover Vonner G. Hogan Horton Photography by Corey Reese.

IN EVERY ISSUE 1 1| A LETTER FROM THE EDITOR 3 8| ASK DR. INECIR MATTHIS

3 9| HOW TO SUSTAIN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP How to finally create a healthy relationship environment

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EDITOR’S LETTER | FEB/MAR 2015

EXPECT

THE GREAT It’s a New Year and many of you have decreed and declared financial freedom, a healthier life, a new level in ministry, new clients for your business, better relationships or finding out where you fit in both spiritually and physically. The New Year is the ideal moment where most find the strength to really try and break bad habits or really try to step outside of the box in certain areas of their lives. All of this is a great start; the only problem is this great start for some end before the month of March. Yes, the talk of making positive changes sounds great and some have even made preparation. But then the momentum slowly disappears and that same fear that paralyzed you last year slides in again.

Since being the Editor-in Chief at Promoting Purpose I’ve set goals and have brainstormed and prayed on ways to ensure that Promoting Purpose serves its purpose to those and within the realm this magazine was created.

This happens because as humans we fear the unknown and feel safer in what we are comfortable in doing. Although we know we need to leave point A to get to point B or C, we fear what we may have to go through as we travel to get to our destination. We allow fear, self, and others to tell us we are not good enough to receive better or we can’t be better for whatever reason or we don’t have or can’t obtain the resources needed. We then sit in a corner and wait hoping that if we can just mustard up enough faith in God. He will just reach out His hands, put us on His back and fly us to where we are trying to go. Having faith of course is awesome, but you’re going to still have to do the work, and make preparation.

We also would like to know what you think about the articles you’ve read. Are they inspiring, encouraging and empowering you? What would you like to see more of in the publication? Your feedback is what gives life to what we offer to you as our readers.

Making preparation can be a little bumpy. However, if you’re in the will of God the turbulence is only to mature you, make you stronger so that when you get to where you’re going, nothing will cause you to sway left or right. Instead, you would stand firm and truly represent God well.

Until Next Time,

Check this out; every day can be a brand new start for you even though man says January 1st is a new beginning. Every day that the Lord allows you to wake up is a clean slate, a new beginning and the opportunities and the possibilities of these new beginnings are endless.

In 2015 you will see the publication focusing more on the anointing God has on the lives of the people featured in each article. We will address Christian issues and focus on articles that will encourage readers to walk in their purpose. I hope that you’ll see the elevation God has placed on Promoting Purpose and will spread the word about our goals and endeavors this year!

My everyday resolution is to have an even better prayer life and to walk boldly in the calling God has on my life as an Evangelist. I would love to know what you’re going to do differently this year to get even better results. Feel free to write me at: promotingpurposemagazine@gmail.com

Sherrell Straker-Valdezloqui Editor- in- Chief/ Founder

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MY STORY | TESTIMONY

GOD SAVED

OUR MARRIAGE It's hard to believe that 18 years ago God performed a miracle in my marriage that increased our faith and helped me develop a greater relationship with my husband.

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My husband was serving in the United States Army in Germany, while I was living in Florida with my mother. My stay in Florida was a direct result of a failed attempt to save my marriage while we lived in Germany, and when it didn't work, I gladly welcomed our separation and pending divorce. I loved my husband, but we didn't know how to communicate properly with each other and that resulted in me and the boys returning to Florida, while Nate stayed in Germany. We both decided to move on with our lives. I worked a third shift job as a cashier, while my mother cared for my boys at night. I knew it was going to be hard, but my children and my relationship with God were my main focus. I thought about my husband, but my heart was to

serve God and get on my feet to make a better life for my boys. In Germany, my husband tried to go on with his life, but he felt like things just weren't coming together for him. One day in prayer, the Lord spoke to Nate and told him he needed to go and get his family. My husband resisted God because he wanted to live his life without me, but he knew that God told him years ago that, Everything you need in a wife is in Monica! Nate still resisted God because he wasn't sure if he wanted to get back together with me, so he said this to God, "When I go to church tomorrow, I want someone to personally tell me what you told me; to go get my family." Nate arrived at church that Sunday morning for Sunday

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GOD SAVED OUR MARRIAGE

School and the teacher told him, "God is going to bless you!" Nate told God, "No, that's not it!" That wasn't the exact words he was looking for. So he went to the church service and during the service he went up for prayer. While he was in line for prayer, Bishop John A. Neal stood up from the pulpit, walked over to Nate and told him he always had his wife with him at every duty station and the Bishop's exact words to my husband were, "You need to go get your family!" That was the exact confirmation my husband needed to get his family back. The next day, Nate called me and asked if we could give our marriage another chance. I was so wrapped up into making a life for myself and our children, that I really wasn't sure if I wanted to go back. We still had unresolved issues that we needed to discuss. I told him that I would think about it. I still had unforgiveness in my heart and trust issues to deal with. It didn't take me long to think about going back to Germany to give my marriage another try. So when he called me back I said yes. It was a matter of days and my husband was back in Florida, coming to get his family. We packed up our clothes and headed off to Dover Air Force Base to fly back to Germany. I had great faith, but my trust in my husband was short. Once we arrived at the air base, we had to wait to fly back to Germany. Since I no longer lived in Germany, we lost our command sponsorship to live in military housing. So I began asking my husband question after question. "Where are we going to live? How much money do you have? How long do we stay in this airport terminal? What about food? Where are we going when we arrive in Germany?" I had so many questions and he had little answers. We had to stay over night in the terminal because we couldn't get a flight back to Germany. We ate at Burger King, choosing inexpensive meals for me and the kids because we were low on cash. We finally got a flight out and arrived in Germany, only to check into a hotel. I really wanted to give our marriage a try, but Nate was making it hard to trust him. His only response to my questioning was, "Just trust me!" That was so hard, and to be honest, when I could not trust my husband to meet our needs, I put my complete trust in God. Nate told me that we had to leave the military hotel on Tuesday and he asked me to agree with him that God would work it out. When I didn't know how we were going to make it, I didn't wholeheartedly trust my husband, but I did trust God, so I agreed with him for things to work out for us. I had doubt and fear all the time, but I had to put that aside and trust God.

That Sunday, we all got up and got dressed to attend church. I didn't know anyone, so I was a little nervous about attending his church. When we arrived at church and walked through the doors, Bishop Neal stopped the service during praise and worship. He stood up in front of the church, pointed to my husband and said, "That man went and got his family!" The church began to praise God with dancing and shouting. People were dancing in the aisles praising God! Then Bishop Neal called our family up to the front of the church and did something I never saw coming. He asked every man that has a family to stand up. Once they stood up, he asked each man to take out their checkbooks and write us a check! In an instant, we went from not knowing where we were going to stay, with very little money, to having our needs met. Men were putting money in our hands, some throwing money at our feet, even women; some single mothers were giving us money. I was in tears! God met our needs financially that day. After the service, a soldier came up to us and offered his home to us for as long as we needed it. God met all of our needs that day and because of this my faith increased like never before! Eventually we received command sponsorship again and received our own military housing. We received counseling to resolve our past issues and our faith in God increased greatly. I learned to trust my husband again and our love grew in leaps and bounds. We happily celebrated 26 years of marriage in 2014. I posted our testimony on Facebook to share the goodness of what God can do if you trust him. To date, our testimony went viral, being sharing over two thousand times, with my inbox filled with messages from men and women who were encouraged by our story. My reply to every message is, "God is faithful to His Word!" I'm so glad I put my trust and faith in him. Monica D. Ware

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SPEAK LIFE INTO YOUR FINANCES IN 2015

A MONEY MANIFESTO FOR 2015

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FINANCE | STEWARDSHIP

A MONEY MANIFESTO FOR 2015 BY DEBORAH HIGHTOWER

When we declare an intention, a manifesto is born. When we speak, it gives the intention, or manifesto, credibility and power. As the Bible declares ‘life and death are in the power of the tongue.’ What will you speak over your finances for 2015? Life or death? Choose LIFE by getting your financial house in order. Declare and live by these words:

I know my current financial status. My

be a drag on your overall financial situation – but with a plan debt can be paid off. Small additional payments will add up over time.

accounting adds up and subtracts out – income in, bills out. Keep written records of income and expenditures. A budget is necessary to successfully navigate these figures. Take time to review the information every pay period.

I will give myself a personal allowance. A personal allowance, or ‘pocket’ money (for spouse, too, if applicable) helps a budget stay on track. This money is used for lunches, lattes, and other personal expenses.

I know my balances and payoffs. Credit card debt can

I know my financial goals. Goals such as home purchase or retirement needs are planned out. Ask and answer the pertinent questions, such as ‘how much do I need to save every month to get me to the goal?’ If a family vacation ranks on your priority list, plan and save each month for the expenditure.

I will no longer operate in ignorance. Ignorance is not bliss nor should it be used as an excuse. There are many online calculators and accounting programs to help you manage your checkbook, spending, and saving. Be informed about your company’s health and benefit programs. Utilize the resources that are offered to you.

I will stick to my plan. While there may be adjustments that are needed, sticking to the plan is of utmost importance. If you focus on the process as well as the desired outcome, it will not become overwhelming.

I will celebrate my success. Celebrating along the way fuels the process. What other statements do you need to declare over your financial life? Studies have shown money is one of the leading causes of stress. Declare for 2015 that money will no longer be a culprit. Take charge of your situation. Where there is a will, there is a way. Speak it. Manifest it.

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PRAISE & WORSHIP | LIFESTYLE

KIM MCDOWELL PERSON

PRAISE IS WHAT I DO Propelled by excellence and driven by divine purpose, Kim Person, a 4Time Apollo Award Winner and 3-time NC-Gospel Announcers Guild Female Vocalist of the Year recipient, is "setting the standard and making a difference". Regardless of the test, Kim shows her best on and off the stage. Her stylish vocals have touched the hearts of many and compelled the masses to want more.

Promoting Purpose: Describe your ministry Kim: I aspire to make a difference on and off the stage. My ministry is one of hope, inspiration and an encouragement to others to believe in themselves. My goal to is motivate others to speak life into their destiny, their God-given purpose. Promoting Purpose: How would you describe your style music ministry? concerning Kim: From the tender age of 2, my grandparents used to stand me on a cement block and let me minister in song, and it's amazing to me how that cement block has transformed into stages all across the country. From that time to the present, I knew I was destined to sing. I classify myself as a Contemporary artist who my heart and soul. My sound is one that touches the sings from heart and compels the listener to want more. I want my message to ring out, be heard and felt. It's always my goal to invoke his presence through my music.

Promoting Purpose: What do you like most about praise & worship? Kim: Praise & Worship is a lifestyle! I have no other choice but to totally commit my body, mind and spirit in it and to the Father. It's where I find refuge, peace and tranquility. It's where I understand even more about the love that Jesus Christ has for me. Regardless of the size of my audience, my desire is to sing as if I am singing for an audience of one every time. I do this because I know that a life of praise and worship fills my deepest needs and brings great joy to God.

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PRAISE IS WHAT I DO!

“I aspire to make a difference on and off stage.”

Promoting Purpose: How important is it for you to praise God despite of what you’re going through? And why is it important? Kim: We were created to praise God. Praise is an act of our will that flows out of our awe and reverence to God. Praise gives glory to God and opens us up to a deeper union with him and it turns our attention off our problems and on to the One who will give us direction and provide us with all that we need. Situations change when we learn the importance of our praise and worship to Him with a sincere heart. Praise & Worship allows us to turn out attention back to the Father.

You can’t take somebody where you haven’t been.”

Promoting Purpose: How do you set the atmosphere when preparing to minister in music? Kim: I am a believer of the following statement; “You can't take somebody where you haven't been.” It's important to me that I study the word, pray, praise and worship God before ministry. It's about the message of what He wants to deliver through me in song and that's what I want. I want His will to be demonstrated through me, therefore submitting to Him through studying scripture, or motivational readings, prayer, praise and worship all are key for daily living and before I minister on stage.

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Promoting Purpose: What other gifts do you feel God has placed on the inside of you? Kim: Currently, my husband, Talmadge, and I are Music Directors at Raleigh North Christian Center, Raleigh, North Carolina under the leadership of Dr. Jeffery Chapman and First Lady Sadi Chapman. It's been a rewarding experience to serve in this capacity. We believe our gift has made room for us and is allowing us to sow into the lives of the many we work with on a consistent basis in the areas of Praise and Worship, Choir, Band, Youth Praise & Worship Team. We have an opportunity to teach, develop others in their gifts and prepare them to be Psalmists and Minstrels; not just singers and or performers but have a greater understanding of what and why, as we are the Chosen ones and everyone needs someone to set the standard and make a difference and I believe with the help of my husband, Talmadge, we are making great strides in that regard.

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COVER STORY | VONNER G. HOGAN HORTON

HER LIFE, HER MINISTRY & HER TESTIMONY

Vonner G. Hogan Horton In all areas of her life, Pastor Vonner G. Hogan Horton wants you to know she’s all about her father’s business. BY SHERRELL STRAKER

2014 was a busy year for Pastor Vonner G. Hogan (Horton) and it doesn’t look like it’s going to slow down this year in 2015 either. When I asked the Pastor of New Oxley Hill Baptist Church what we can expect to see from her this year, she says, “Expect a woman on a mission to help others live a purposeful and fulfilling life. In 2015 I will work across the nation as a “Dream-Builder.” Expect me to be in places I’ve never gone; ministering to people I’ve never met about how to obtain spiritual success. Expect a more focused, happier, intentional, and purpose-driven Vonner. I am thankful for my past and I’ve learned valuable lessons about people that I will use in this New Year to better discern who and how to engage myself. I’ve learned that there are more takers than there are givers and therefore, I must use better wisdom in how to care for God’s people, but at the same time be a good steward over all that He blesses me with.

“Your History Does Not Determine Your Future”

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“HAVING A WONDERFUL HUSBAND TO SHARE THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH IS CERTAINLY EXCITING” Year 2014

was a journey of shifting and sifting. It has prepared me for the Hundredfold Favor of God, and in 2015, you can expect a healthier and happier Vonner who will manage ministry, family, and work; in that order.” And speaking of family, there’s a special someone in Vonner’s life whom she just recently married. His name is Andrew Hogan; they were wed in Cleveland, Ohio. When asked about the ceremony, Vonner was happy to share. “God has blessed me with a wonderful husband who loves me as Christ loves the church. Andrew and I were married in a beautiful but private ceremony in Cleveland, Ohio. He walks confidently in His Kingdom Assignment as a husband and a father. He uplifts and encourages me to fulfill my call and assignment to the kingdom and community at large; yet keeps me grounded in being a loving wife and mother whose role changes once I arrive home. After serving the people of God and His community at large, it’s great to have someone who takes care of you emotionally and makes sure that you are as physically healthy for the next day as possible.” When asked what a typical day was like for her, Vonner says, “I average only about 2.5 to 3 hours of sleep per night. Not good, but it’s the truth. I spend about 1 to 1.5 hours each morning walking and exercising. Andrew is determined that I will kick all health challenges and therefore my diet, exercise and rest schedules are being adjusted. Once I walk out my door, I begin a day of service to the people and region. My days have averaged from 10 to13-hour days and evenings where I’ve spent completing grant applications for my nonprofit, A Pathway To Independence. A lot goes on in the scope of a day and I simply flow with it and give God the Glory for Him choosing me for a time such as this.” Although the Pastor of New Oxley Hill Baptist Church doesn’t get that much sleep and she’s all about her Father’s business, she still finds time to enjoy life with her family and friends. “Now that I am married, the number one thing I love doing is spending quality time with Andrew and our families. Nothing has ever been as important to me as the happiness and wholeness of my daughter Rovonne.

She is a wonderful young lady, who has sacrificed a lot of her own happiness to care for me during some very rough seasons of my life. She is an adult now, but every chance we get to see one another and spend a day together is treasured. Having a wonderful husband to share the rest of my life with is certainly exciting. So most of my time, outside of ministry and the greater works, is devoted to spending with him and Andrew Jr., his 11-year-old son, whose mother is deceased. I am blessed at how easy the transition has been for both of our families, including our extended families. When it’s not ministry or family, you can find me at the bowling alley. I am an avid bowler. I spend as much of my free time at the lanes as possible. I am a league bowler and I am proud to say that my average has improved immensely over the last year. I bowl every Thursday night on a church league. It is great fellowship with other congregations of believers of different ethnicities and denominations. “Shout out to my Thursday night bowlers and my team, Judah Praisers!” She says.

HER MINISTRY For Pastor Vonner G. Hogan (Horton), ministry is very important to her. God has given her numerous platforms to reach His people. She is the Senior Pastor of New Oxley Hill Baptist Church (NOHBC). As one of the 1st females installed to the office of pastor in an established missionary Baptist church, she served for the last 15 years as a preacher and proclaimer of the Gospel. In September 2013, God allowed Vonner to birth On Broken Pieces Ministries. The vision of “On Broken Pieces Ministries” is to restore women to the origin intent and purpose that God designed for them. She is also the President/Executive Director of A Pathway To Independence Agency. Within this respected position, this agency provides her a platform to assist a target population of women who are slightly above to below the poverty line according to the state/federal standards; who are in need of extra guidance in order to fulfill their life’s goals.

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made a conscious decision to never give too much time and “I have energy to what others willfully choose to misunderstand about me, or the works that I do. To engage in this is to take my focus away from those who are lost, neglected and impoverished.” As one of the 1st females installed to the office of pastor in an established missionary Baptist church, she served for the last 15 years as a preacher and proclaimer of the Gospel. In September 2013, God allowed Vonner to birth On Broken Pieces Ministries. The vision of “On Broken Pieces Ministries” is to restore women to the origin intent and purpose that God designed for them. She is also the President/Executive Director of A Pathway To Independence Agency. Within this respected position, this agency provides her a platform to assist a target population of women who are slightly above to below the poverty line according to the state/federal standards; who are in need of extra guidance in order to fulfill their life’s goals. This woman of God also serves as Vice Chair of the Elizabeth City State University, Board of Trustees, on the Executive Committee of Faith Partnerships, Inc., and many of Boards across the communities, states and nation.

Even with the hard work and dedication there’s still that misconception. Vonner has made it a point not to let that stop or bother her Kingdom work. “I have made a conscious decision to never give too much time and energy to what others willfully choose to misunderstand about me, or the works that I do. To engage in this is to take my focus away from those who are lost, neglected and impoverished. I understand that persecution is a part of the cross that we must bear and so my desire is to bear it with the grace that Christ bore His Cross with. I also understand that it is extremely impossible for someone, other than those of us who are serving in these capacities, to understand our passion, perseverance and persistence. It has to be difficult for others to understand why we do the things we do and why we must remain committed to the works; even when it appears we are alone or misunderstood.

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“I want people to see a woman that through the trials of her life, she is still standing.” “I would rather die being misunderstood by all; and hated by many, than to be rejected by the One who purposed me to endure as a good soldier” she says. With that serious response I was curious to know what this woman of God wanted people to see when they saw her. “I want people to see a woman that, through the trials of life, is still standing. A woman whose life has been comprised of ups and downs; faults and failures, disappointments and despair, hurts and fears, plenty and lack; friends and friendless, yet preserved by faith and today is living under the restoration anointing of an Open Heaven. I want them to realize there is a story behind what they perceive to be much glory!!!” For a woman of God that is this serious about Kingdom business, yet knows how to enjoy life I had to ask what services was like on a Sunday at New Oxley Baptist Church during worship service. With excitement she replied “Oh my!!! We believe in PRAISE and WORSHIP. What can I say? It is always an electrifying and energizing experience. We have awesome musicians who work tirelessly to be sure our choirs are ready to exalt the Lord every week. So there is always great singing, a lot of hallelujahs and shouts, and a Rhema Word that encourages, equips and empowers us to BELIEVE.”

HER TESTIMONY Pastor Vonner G. Hogan (Horton) has so much to offer those that come across her path. From “On Broken Pieces” to being delivered from a near death experience, her testimony will not only touch your heart, but also allow you to see how important her life and mission here on earth really is. “In Feb 1997, after several years of battling Stage 4 colon cancer, I was hospitalized with pneumonia. A couple of days later, I began my journey of transitioning. My treatment completely changed, and my room lights were placed on dim. I was in and out of consciousness and my body felt as if I was lying underneath cement blocks. It became more and more difficult for me to breathe and thereby, I stopped all efforts to communicate by speaking or even opening my eyes.

On that Sunday I lost all consciousness and experienced a life changing out of body experience. Unaware that the doctors had informed my family that I had expired, I saw my body lying on a bed and everyone gathered around me. The difference in this experience shone that I was actually looking down at everyone. My Mom was crying and appeared to be screaming loudly. I tried screaming back but it was apparent that no one could hear me. I looked all around but there was nothing but complete darkness. The only time I could see pass the darkness was when I looked down to see what was going on in my hospital room and upward at a very small light about the size of a pen head. That small ray of light was so intriguing until I found myself really focused on it. I then felt myself literally begin to drift towards that light. As I moved towards it, all fear and anxiety about what I had encountered in the separation from those I loved, seemed to disappear. Frankly, I didn’t even remember any of it. The light was bright and crystal clear; simply indescribable. All I know is the closer I got to it the warmer I felt. It was as if the light was drawing me in. The closer I became, the larger the light and opening appeared until I was at the entrance of what I could not quite focus to see. It was just so bright. Before I could focus and journey completely beyond the opening, I heard a voice say, “Not now.” And I literally fell back into my body. Life once again entered by body and I sat straight up in my bed to the surprise of all that was in my room, including my doctor. The first word I spoke was, “I’m hungry.” My doctor was completely baffled and confused, really unsure of what to do or say. God had returned me back to fulfill what He purposed for my life. I realize that if He had allowed me entrance, I would have stood before Him full of all the ministry gifts, for the last 17+ years I have been operating in. I am not sure what His final report about my life would have been; I’m just glad that I had another chance to get it right and to get it done,” she says. Just to add to the list of things Vonner has done she is also the author of 50 Motivational & Inspirational Quotes to Heal the Broken Woman. And has a cosmetic line; Epiphany Cosmetics a product line for women of color.

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CONGRATULATIONS VONNER G. HOGAN HORTON

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The Woman of Purpose Story She's a powerful spiritual tool who's bold in ministry, her personal life or even business. She is the finished product of a diamond, but it wasn't always that way. Some believed in her while others didn't, yet she remained focused and humble while stepping out on faith, having patience and being obedient to God. Today many look up to her because she's a game changer, empowering others just by walking in her purpose.

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CREATED FOR THIS How God uses him and the message his ministry delivers to others The most impactful way that God is using me is through the vehicle of ministering the Word of God. Our message is simple; we believe that there is a word from God that will inspire you forward into purpose and destiny. His teaching style Thought Provoking, Encouraging, and Inspirational

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What makes him stand firm in his position as a man of God My personal testimony of how the Power of God set me free, saved me, and sent me forth to minister the word of God. How God uses him to impact, uplift and inspire others God uses me as a Bishop, Educator, Actor, and TV/Radio show personality to inspire others forward into purpose and destiny. The biggest misconception about Pastors I believe one of the biggest misconceptions about Pastors is that we are supermen/women who don’t have some of the same struggles, issues, and problems that the people we lead have. The only difference in many cases is that our call to ministry keeps us grounded and in great expectation for God to move in our lives when we deal with our struggles, issues, and personal problems. What he strongly feels God created him for I feel strongly that God created me to be an encouraging communicator. We all have gifts, talents, abilities, and strengths that add value to the lives of the people around us; and I am fully persuaded that my core gift is that of communication. What do you enjoy doing when you’re not behind the pulpit? I enjoy reading, traveling, and just about anything recreational that isn’t dangerous LOL.

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FAITH & HOPE | A BRIGHTER FUTURE

HOW TO STAY

HOPEFUL FUTURE ABOUT YOUR

BY SHERRELL VALDEZLOQUI

Feeling like you’re on a roller coaster ride with that up and down feeling concerning your future?

Let me begin by telling you that this article is not inclusive of a 1, 2, 3 –step. In fact there’s just one way to stay hopeful and everything else stems from that based off of your own personal experience and relationship with God. A few weeks ago I was preparing to minister the gospel at the church I currently attend. Before ever ministering I always seek God for the message He wants me to deliver to both the save and unsaved souls. In my spirit I felt that many were losing hope and that the enemy is trying his best to saturate people with the idea that God has forgotten about them leaving many feeling hopeless, tired and worried about what their future is going to look like. This feeling in my spirit was very familiar as I, too, used to feel as though God had forgotten about me. I can recall the Lord speaking to me and telling me some of the things He would bless me with. Confirmation would come right after that, and right behind that, due to lack of patience and human emotions, the enemy would try and convince me, that wasn’t God and that I wasn’t capable of having a successful future. As God allowed me to feel that familiar feeling, this message became very personal to me. I knew what the people were feeling and that one word God told me to repeat to them was exactly the reason I am where I am today. As I thought about the tips I could write to help you stay hopeful about your future, that same word came back to me, and that word is BELIEVE… in God. Now in order for you to truly believe in God no matter what your current situation looks like. You’re going to have to know who God is personally and that occurs when you have a relationship with Him.

Not the relationship you have with God according to what your Pastor has taught you or you grew up learning. It means truly taking that extra step of knowing Him personally for you. Your relationship with God will help you to: BELIEVE Jeremiah 29:11 NIV- For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. BELIEVE 1 John 4:4 NIV- You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world. BELIEVE Psalms 23:4-6 NIV Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely, your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. Again, knowing God and hiding God’s word in your heart even when your current situation doesn’t look the way you would like for it to look, will keep you hopeful about your future. So get excited and simply BELIEVE… FEB/MAR 2015 | PROMOTINGPURPOSE.COM

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PURPOSE | BIRTHING FORTH

Birthing Forth Your PURPOSE BY: INECIR MATTHIS

The Birthing Forth process is one of pain, challenges and disappointments...without these, there can be no Purpose. During the birth of my second child there was an oversight in my medical records, which clearly stated that I was to deliver via "C-Section." However, the medical team was intent on the normal course of delivery until it became apparent that we were both slipping away from the scene of life during this long and tedious process. Suddenly, our situation became emergent, and because the epidural proved to be life threatening, the "C-Section" was done with no pain medication! During this procedure, my bundle of joy latched on to my womb refusing to come forth, making it necessary to utilize forceps to assist in the delivery. The magnitude of pain that I felt in those moments seemed like an eternity and was beyond my scope of reality. But, the purpose of this tremendous pain was realized as I listened to the cry of my beautiful bundle of joy.

Similar to a pregnancy, the birthing forth of one's purpose takes a season of time that can only be calculated and measured by God. Although we go through the motions of planning for an expected outcome in life, there are always the straight places that are made crooked, attacks that leave us reeling with surprise, betrayals that move us to tears, and disappointments that leave us in a woeful awe of confusion that results in our inability to remain focused. In Psalm 139:16 David penned: Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them. In essence, he was saying that even though God saw his substance as being yet imperfect, there was purpose continually being formed within him although he was not yet born! There is a spiritual revelation and meaning when we take a deeper look! He was saying: “When we are filled with God’s spirit, mind and will, it is then that our appointed season is activated for the birthing forth of purpose – my authentic self is manifested and realized! When we are in the process of birthing forth our purpose, there are some key principles that we must realize that will assist us in moving forward from what appears to be stagnation: *God is always in control, seek His mind and will regarding your purpose. *God has scheduled the birthing forth of your purpose for a specific hour, day, month and/or year. *All of your trials are roads, bridges and stepping stones to your purpose. *You are closer to birthing forth your purpose when your trials feel as if they are consistent with no relief and too confusing to deal with. *Finally: Others often recognize your purpose before you, even your enemies!

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ASK DR. MATTHIS Dear Dr. Matthis, I have never been married and hope to do so one day. However, my issue is that I have been dating married men or those that are engaged to be married. In the beginning it was exciting and I felt as if I was in control. Several months ago I was invited by a friend to attend a church service. Since then, I have continued to go every Sunday simply because the people there have shown me warmth, kindness and love. My problem is that I now feel a great sense of guilt in regards to the married man that I have been dating for quite some time now. Although I have tried to break off the relationship, he keeps telling me that there is nothing wrong with us being together and that the church has brainwashed me. I know that I need to repent and move on, but I seemed to be addicted to this man who feels that cheating is okay. What should I do? Anita Dear Anita, I am sorry to hear of your current relationship crisis. However, I am happy to hear that you have found a place to worship. Dating married men happens to more women than you may realize and it is one of the most difficult scenarios to walk away from simply because Satan abhors marriage and would rather see adultery in its place to desecrate the "Marriage Covenant." In Romans 13:9, Paul begins with the commandment "You shall not commit adultery." It continues on with several more commandments. What is also important to note here is that adultery steals happiness, joy, peace, one's worship, praise and authentic relationship with God. It murders your relationship with God, your ability to adhere to or truly obey His word, and destroys the love, trust and happiness of the family that is involved as well. The end result of continued adultery is eternal damnation.

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Dr. Inecir Matthis is the Senior Pastor of Victory of Deliverance Ministries in the San Francisco/Bay Area and CEO/Founder of Visioneer Coaching & Mentoring Services. Website: www.visioneermentoring.biz, Podcast: www.DrIMatthis.buzzsprout.com

Jesus came to set the captives (you) free and the bondage of adultery is not the plan or will of God for you or anyone else. I admonish you to seek counsel, guidance and direction from your Pastor to start your journey to healing, forgiveness and restoration. It's time for you to allow God the opportunity to show you what he can do in your life by filling that void in your life. I pray that all works out for the good in your life! Dr. Matthis

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RELATIONSHIP | LETS TALK

How To Sustain a Healthy Relationship Can having a relation with someone develop into an effective relationship? The answer is "YES"! Relation is an existing connection; a significant association between people or amongst things. The term relationship can be defined in different words because there are different types of relationships. A relationship is a connection, association, or involvement. There are various connections in which individuals are brought together but that does not mean that the relation will develop into a relationship. When a relation is first established, in order for it to develop into an effective relationship there has to be some form of mutual connection or agreement. We have relations with family, friends, sisters and brothers in Christ, our pastors, employers, employees, customers, and clients on a daily basis. You may interact with these various groups of individuals on a daily basis but the question is...Have you established relationships with these people? A healthy relationship is not based on dealing with someone just because you have to. A healthy relationship consists of knowing yourself and the willingness to satisfy the needs of others. Today I am challenging my readers to take the appropriate steps to try and develop a better relationship with individuals in their daily lives.

5 Essential Tips to Develop and Maintain an Effective Relationship 1. Communication opens the door to understanding. In order to better connect with someone you would first need to understand them. Communication allows individuals to open up and express themselves to one another, which then formulates a better understanding among all parties. An effective relationship equals an effective communication. 2. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust the relationship is not valid. Lack of trust causes relationships to be ineffective. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust the relationship is not valid. Lack of trust causes relationships to be ineffective. When relationships are strongly built on trust it leaves no room for confusion, distance, insecurity, and separation. Trust brings forth hope, honesty, and loyalty.

3. Respect is the core structure of any given relationship. Respect brings value. How can someone honor a relationship if they do not respect the relationship? A relationship is more meaningful when it is respected. On another note, mutual respect goes a long way because mutual respect increases growth.

4. Love plays a major role in relationships. The love that individuals have for one another may depend on the type of relationship, but as long as genuine love is established it welcomes patience and kindness. For the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" ~1 Corinthians 13. Overall, love increases emotional health.

5. Last but most importantly, God has to be in the equation. When you are filled with the Spirit of The Lord, His Holy Spirit instructs you how to deal with and treat people. When you are filled with the Spirit of The Lord you have the right spirit to interact with individuals. People are not always going to see eyeto-eye but being spiritually connected to The Source will lead you to pray for individuals, to pray for their spirits and deliverance, and foremost to pray for better relationships with individuals. On an ending note, when you have an effective relationship with God it allows you to have fruitful relationships. Friends, there is no perfect relationship but with communication, trust, respect, love, and foremost having God in the midst...you can preserve healthy and effective relationships. By: Michelle Memnon

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LOVE & MARRIAGE | TILL DEATH DO US PART

A MARRIAGE THAT LASTS! BY: DR. INECIR MATTHIS

Recently I overheard a couple who were celebrating over 30+ years of marriage, state that their secret to longevity and happiness was simple: To always be willing to forgive one another! I pondered that statement, seeming to be so simplistic but yet so profound and a rarity for most marriages in this day and time. It was apparent that this couple was willing to weather the storms and put in the work to make their marriage last. They agreed to walk together through the good and the bad. walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.(Ephesians 4:1-3) Communication keeps the enemy from gaining a foothold in your marriage Therefore, putting away lying, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another. Be angry, and do not sin: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.” (Ephesians 4:25-27)

Many may feel that this is next to impossible, but there are some key principles to consider that can help you and your spouse get through the good and rough times during your marriage: Love and respect should be your anchor and foundation Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (Ephesians 5:33) Prayer is the key to marital unity I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to

Compliments are a boost to the marriage Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4). Make your spouse priority in your life And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? (Mark 8:36) Laughter is relaxing A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:13) Prayerfully consider adding these key principles to your life for a fulfilling and lasting marriage. FEB/MAR 2015 | PROMOTINGPURPOSE.COM

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ISSUES | DIVORCE

Divorce Rate In the

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“There are many topics that I feel that I have the right to expound on as a relationship therapist and coach. The topics of divorce and the body of Christ are two of them. I’ve been in church all my life and I, too, have experienced the pain of divorce.” BY EFREM WINDOM

At this point in my life I’ve seen

1. Focus in churches- Many

many things change amongst those who attend church. If you are over the age of 35 and have been committed to any church for a long time I am pretty sure that you’ve seen some things change as well. One of the things that have changed in the church is the longevity of relationships, particularly the marriage relationship. I am often approached with the questions of “Why is the divorce rate so high in the church?” “Why are many people who are not committed to God and church succeeding in their marriages more than those who are in church? These questions have been floating around for a while now and deserve to be answered. So, why is the divorce rate so high in the church?” I believe that there are many things that contribute to this high rate of divorce in the church. I would like to list a few things that I have discovered that’s driving this number upward.

churches today focus more on their marriage ministry than their singles ministry. I have even discovered that many churches don’t even have a singles ministry at all but do have a marriage ministry. In order to have long lasting healthy marriages we must start with the singles. This is one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high in the church. If there is no sense of urgency on developing healthy singles how can we expect marriages to be healthy? I am referring to being healthy emotionally and mentally mainly.

2. Reasons for getting marriedThrough years of counseling people and being a church member, I’ve discovered that some people in the church have been taught to marry for the wrong reasons or should I say unbalanced reasons.

I often advise people in church to never marry someone based off religious or spiritual reasons alone! Meaning, don’t marry him or her just because they attend church faithfully, sing in the choir, serve as an usher or even because they are a minister. Just because someone is in church doesn’t mean that the church is in them. In other words even people that attend church regularly and fully engaged in the church have issues too! I encourage people to make sure that they are equally yoked spiritually and are compatible naturally. However, all the things I named earlier are good. Being committed and engaged in a church is a great trait to look for in a person but it shouldn’t be everything. Two people should be compatible naturally as well, should have things in common. My question to people…

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looking to marry someone in church is “What kind of life will you have with this person outside of the church life?” The relationship must be compatible on both ends, spiritually and naturally. 3. Lack of Counsel- The bible says in the book of Proverbs 15:22 that in the multitude of counselors there is safety. I used to think that if a person served faithfully in church that they wouldn’t even think about marrying someone without getting counseling! However, through my years as “The Relationship Pastor” I’ve met so many people who are in church that didn’t get marriage counseling before the This totally shocked me; this discovery was marriage! unbelievable to me! One of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high in the church is because there is a high percentage of people in the church that don’t receive counseling. Some people in the church have resorted to prayer and a conversation with a good friend regarding the person that their dating instead of seeking sound counsel from their pastor or qualified counselor. This really made me wonder why some people aren’t requesting counseling before choosing to marry someone. One reason is that they are not willing to share personal issues they may have or ready to be in the position of being told what to do. Another reason that I’ve heard some say is because they feel that they are mature enough to make the right choices on their own.

The root of this issue is PRIDE! Pride has caused many to forego counseling. I HIGHLY recommend counseling to anyone that’s thinking of marrying someone. I even advise counseling in the dating season. Counseling is designed by God to keep us safe from the destruction of bad choices. If we are not getting wise Godly counsel about marriage, how can we expect to see a decrease in the divorce rate? This is in no way an implication that the church has totally failed. I am simply saying that the church has to wake up and confront the underlining issues that are causing the divorce rate to be high. I am committed to doing my part in helping people to develop and maintain healthy relationships. One of my mottos are “Preparing the single and preserving the married.” In order to have healthy marriages we must have healthy singles! BY: EFREM WINDOM

“The Relationship Pastor” www.relationshippastor.org www.lovetemplechurch.org Books available online are: Relationship Gems for Building and Maintaining Healthy Relationships How to have Unhindered Faith (E-Book Only) Senior Pastor: Love Temple Church

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THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS Philippians 2:9-‐11 NIV -‐Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

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Roll Call PERFECT ATTENDANCE IN THE CHURCH, ABSENT IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD BY INECIR MATTHIS

SISTER Macie had been a faithful member of her church since she was a child. She was on time and present for every service, she was a faithful Sunday school teacher, church secretary, choir member, and head usher. Sister Macie was instrumental in establishing the church feeding and clothing program for the homeless. She always helped others in need. The tragedy of this is that in all of Sister Macie's labors, she neglected to establish a "TRUE" relationship with God. She prayed when she wanted something materialistic from God or wanted her enemy to be punished. She carried her bible with her at all times but never opened it until she attended church services. Sister Macie never took time to consecrate or go on a fast because she didn't feel that it was necessary. Sister Macie never married but felt that as long as she wasn't hurting anyone by committing adultery, it was okay to live with the love of her life and encouraged the same for the women who came to her for advice. Sister Macie never forgave her sister, stating that she did some mean and hurtful things to her. She also made it known that she never liked the first lady or the choir director, stating that she could do a much better job than the both of them!

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Her favorite saying was "I will get a crown and a seat in heaven for all my works!”

True ROLL CALL equates to a true relationship with God that result in true commitment, accountability and worship. This is what brings one into the presence of God.

If you ask, most will tell you the following about their church affiliation, attendance and participation:

It is time for the Body of Christ to stop lingering in the outer courts and enter in the true presence of God - the holy of holies! Many are not familiar with what this may look or feel like because the challenge or requirement has not been presented - most are doing the same thing - just showing up!

• My family has always attended this church • My grandfather started this church • I have attended this church since I was a child

Today, you can be a Christian and still enjoy all the pleasures that the world has to offer simply because many of us feel that God is too good and merciful to send anyone to hell. He knows our hearts and as long as we have a good heart or treat others right and repent when we do wrong, we are alright. God doesn't hold us accountable for our human errors and behaviors of fornication, adultery, same sex marriages, psychic readings, gossip, lying, etc., the list is endless.

• It would hurt my family if I left the church • I don't church hop (even though I'm not happy here) • I am present and on time for every service, the Pastor can depend on me • As long as I attend church everything will be okay for me

The Apostle Paul spoke of these behaviors in 2 Timothy 3:1-7 Ask yourself the following:

• I consider myself a Christian because I attend church • I am a Christian because I treat others right and I attend church at least twice a year These are true statements from many wellmeaning individuals who equate their relationship with God and eternality with church attendance, affiliation and participation. Ironically, this is a mindset that is engrained due to habit, family traditions and collective community behaviors. But roll call is much more than perfect church attendance and participation in church ministries, auxiliaries and various functions. In all of what has been stated, there is a notable absence in the presence of God. According to Mary K. Baxter, author of Divine Revelation of Hell, there are many Christians in hell that faithfully attended church services, participated in church ministries and activities but CHOSE not to enter into the presence of God.

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When was the last time that you found yourself in the presence of God?

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When was the last time you earnestly prayed or read/studied the word of God?

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When was the last time you fasted or went on a consecration?

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Who do you need to forgive?

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Why are you in ministry - to help others, bring glory to God or make a name for yourself?

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Why are you comfortable with your current relationship of sexual intimacy without marriage?

These few things are the reasons why we are perfect in church attendance and absent from the presence of God. He will not abide or dwell in sin. LISTEN UP! Roll Call is happening now. Don't find yourself absent from the presence of God for momentary worldly pleasures!

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