Real world by Pulkit mohan Singla

REAL WORLD Pulkit mohan singla

REAL WORLD Only for adults

Pulkit mohan singla

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My book is dedicated to my mother Late Mrs. Madhu singla

Contents How can you become rich in reality?

Why children object their divorcee or widowed parent to have sex?

But why she was raped ?

Who will save India from crime?

How gay men live there married life with there straight wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s?

Why your parents should not spank and slap you?

Do same sex marriages have any future in India?

How can things be changed for common man in india?

Why political leaders work profile is different from there debate profile in India?

why everybody is of same religion when its a question of money ?

Fuck the do what you love slogan with smile

Is freedom of expression in danger?

Dealing with bedroom politics

How to solve Misunderstandings and adjustments in new marriage?

Freedom of expression in India

The life of Indian bride is always at the tip of knife if she fails to meet the rising expectations of the groom and his family.

why glamour & publicity is crucial for our lifestyle?

Why dowry is demanded by the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family?

Do bisexual men really deserve acceptance?

Why FDI is crucial for India?

When & why woman loses there virginity ?

New profession of saints in demand which can fetch billions in India

How placement agencies earn millions in India?

Is homosexuality all about getting laid in India?

How can you become rich in reality? How can you become rich in reality? Well this article is a center of attraction for everyone as there is no human in this world who hates money. Anyways letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s start this wonderful process of earning loads of money. Well I am not selling any lottery here and I am not telling you any shortcut way of tricks or games to earn money here. This process needs patience and motivation but it surely works. Money has been the most important need and want for everyone and no matter how much we deny this valuable fact, money is the only medium by which we can live our life smoothly. As money is the main priority for running our daily lives its impact is also dramatic and dangerous. The most important things we forget while earning our daily living is that every other person thinks like us. No matter how much different we are from other person we all have same desires and liking's in terms of money. The level of desires may be distinct but the intentions of spending are almost same. Everyone desires for luxury but every one's priority is responsibility and debts. No matter how much powerful or powerless we are, we all desire for a smooth trouble free life. We all wish to enjoy a life full of peace and harmony. We all want to live a trouble free life but in the phase of competition we forget the art of making our life the perfect life. Well this life is precious; you never know what happens next, so being stubborn or angry will not solve our problems. The biggest thing is we engage ourselves into the most useless competition and that is the competition with our friends, neighbors and relatives. Yes

itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the most useless, time wasting activity we do entire life in order to prove our status higher than these people which does not prove anything at the end of the day. The biggest problem is comparison, comparison for no reason. This comparison and competition provokes us to convert our want into need and this misconception creates difficulty in our normal life. We feel low, we feel less than perfect and we surely feel inferior which does not prove anything in anyway. No matter how much lavishly we spend our money, we will face everything by our own. From our troubles to our debts to our worries, we will be surely responsible for our own actions as no relative and no friend will prove helpful in our bad times. The over spending and careless spending makes us short of funds and our urge to show more does not make us realize the mistakes we are doing while dealing with money. Money is not favorable to anyone. Money is dangerous if noticed by wrong people. Some of us also have tendency to show extra large but in reality we are extra small. Well spending beyond our capacity will not only put us in trouble but will also ignite some negative elements who are surrounded by us in shape of friends or acquaintances or work mates and even servants. Money provokes everything and it has the power to turn a saint into the devil. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really important to use it wisely as money will never extinct but our one mistake may put our name is history. The right spending and careful use will defiantly prove beneficial, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a long process and you can surely try this for 6 months or may be a year and you will surely notice the difference.

Why children object their divorcee or widowed parent to have sex? Why children object their divorcee or widowed parent to have sex? Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really hard to survive with the fact that your parents are divorced or you lost one of your parents. Well in both the cases (divorce/widow) children lose there complete family and feel frustrated. They just donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to see this separation. It has been seen that things become more difficult and dramatic when the parents are divorced. The child who was used to their guardians and their day to day living and love has to adjust him/ her according to the realities of the world. He/she has to adjust to the maximum and sacrifice the whole concept of family. The parents who were so much in love and affection are now dating other person which not only creates a mental tension among children but a kind of revolt inside their little hearts. The children cannot see and accept some stranger taking the place of their mother and father. For them there parents are ideal match no matter how much they fight .Its a usual issue among families which are going through the process of divorce. Talking about widowhood , the families where children lose there one parent , it could be mother or father , they know that their one member of the family has been gone and their is no way of bringing them back but still they preserve the position of the lost member by assuming or imagining there existence and presence in their hearts. But what about the person who is left alone? Well children may feel that they are the only one who are affected at the greater level by the death of there parent but the biggest loss is suffered by the

guardian who lost his/her companion. Parents not only play the role of guardian but they had many roles with there companion. From good friends to good lovers to good emotional bonds they share everything with each other. The death is seriously something which creates suicidal feeling among the left alone partner. The father or mother whomsoever is facing widow hood cannot share every need and want with their children. As a human we have many needs and wants, we all running towards our needs and wants in our one life then how we cannot expect the needs and wants of our parents? Well most of the children and society put restrictions on the widowed parent by banning his/her sex life and social life. Well banning here does not mean like any law or something but by putting social restrictions and remarks. If the widowed parent engages himself/herself in love affair or sex encounters , things become over dramatic as his/her casual relationships and sex encounters are considered taboo. Well this restriction generally starts from children’s side first as they do not motivate their parent for dating, instead they encourage them to devote their rest of life for their welfare and upbringing which is surely the most meanest and selfish trait of today’s youth. The person who is widowed is not a criminal, he/she is already facing the pain of sacrifice and detachment but still the youth puts restrictions on their parents with the most common excuse that “we cannot allow anyone to take our mother/father place.” Sex is a pure body need and there is no shame about it. It’s a well justified need and every one has right to enjoy there life and there own personal space. Being a parent is not a punishment and being widowed or divorcee is not a curse, every person is human first and foremost and fostering self needs and wants is seriously not a sin.

The divorcee parents who don’t feel uncomfortable with there ex due to any valid reasons do have the right to start there new life with new choices. Children’s do not have any right to control the life of their divorced parents. Divorce is a critical option only taken when things do not work out in any way. It’s the mutual duty of parents to adjust there liabilities and issues smoothly , it’s a fact that the life of children is affected by this critical and most heart breaking decision of divorce but carrying the load of an unsuccessful marriage is seriously not a wise option. We get one life and no one knows what happens next after this life. Being born as a human is a blessing so gain this opportunity by enjoying love and pleasure in life don’t waste this one life in unnecessary quarrels and fight as at the end of the day you will be left alone with nothing but regret.

But why she was raped ? The recent news of gang rape of a 23yr old girl by 6 drunkards on a running bus has left a miserable impact on the psyche of families…Especially the fathers, brothers and boyfriends. May be because of what all happened to the girl… her bf was thrown out of the bus, she was raped for continuous 2 hours, beaten by iron rod and the rod even inserted into her due to which her small and large intestines are damaged. Thrown out of the bus at last she was lying hurt and nude on the road and nobody even cared to cover her up until the police arrived.

Her face was also damaged and she’s lying in coma… several operations done and doctors are still uncertain if she’ll survive or not. The incident has led to a mass protest in the country. Of course the inference of the brutal incident is that the city or I must say India is not safe for women. But worth noticing is how are families reacting to this and how such incident took place in the CAPITAL CITY of the country.

I’m a convent educated girl. My principal Mrs. Williams used to tell us a story every Friday, the baseline of which was always that “SMALL THINGS MATTER A LOT”. Thinking on the same grounds I started analyzing as to what is responsible for such a brutal act???

Is it the inefficiency of Law??

Or the Police?? Or the society??

Or the psyche of people regarding the status of women in the countryIndia??

Or is it movies?

Entertainment? Porn?? Increasing female infanticide??

Or is it the women themselves??

2,28,674(approx.) rape cases were reported in year 2011 excluding the cases of marital rape ( coz thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not even counted as rape).. From that only 58,000 cases were acted upon and 90% of the culprits are still living in jail. Moreover the punishment for the crime is just 7 yrs in prison. This is what we

talk about law??

And the police???? In a magazine survey of about 100 police stations it was revealed that police officers do not act on the reports, and the justifications they give for the matter is that 90% of the women filing such reports are either prostitutes or the ones aggressing the males themselves. Not just thisâ&#x20AC;Ś in a country where vehicles having tinted windows are not allowed; a bus with curtains and tinted windows roam almost everywhere in the city brutally raping a girl and is not stopped even by a single traffic police officer.

We blame the law and the police at the highest of our pitch but what about the society where female infanticide is increasing day by day rendering a girl child as a burden on the family???

And especially a burden due to dowry demands and mythical notions that a male child carries a familyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s existence and the funeral done by a son will confirm you salvation or a place in heaven. Or the society where girls are restricted, forced to submission, stay homely, beaten, burnt, abused, and even raped by several members of the family in which she is married???

What would the guys brought up in such families learn???

That abusing and beating a girl is normal!! coz my dad does that to my mother, my brother does that to his wife, so its cool if I do the same to my wife or gf?????

This is the situation of literate. And the illiterates????

Majority of people live below poverty line struggling for daily living, working as house maids, drivers, auto and rickshaw pullers, vegetable or fruit sellers, street vendors etc who marry the girls of 13 or similar age and by the age of 27 these ladies give birth to 13-14 kids. Some of them are sold, some given away for child labor, some opt for unfair means and some die out of some illness. How is crime not expected from such people who are so frustrated and struggling for a living????

This is not everywhere. There are families with the so called â&#x20AC;&#x153;modern beliefsâ&#x20AC;?.. They donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t restrict their girls, co-education and all are encouraged. Wearing modern dresses is also

allowed. But I also have a query regarding this uneven modernization of the society. Girls visit malls and public places wearing sexy/tight dresses intending to attract some handsome guy the filmy way. How bout the lusty beasts selling fruits or driving vehicles by the road side?? Is it a girl’s fault or is a guy’s fault?? Or is it both the ways???

Even if I skip blaming the guys and the girls here, how about the films and entertainment world??? The explicit sex scenes had been increasingly shown in movies, item songs with some bar dancers dancing in bikinis around drunken guys… God knows what sensor board does!! Or the cheap porn been shown in old theatres of not so developed cities?? And such content being easily available to cheap people???

Or the increasing adventurous twists in the porns ranging from blowjobs to gangbangs and stuffs like this??? Or Some women publicly announcing to go nude if the cricket team won the match?? Some women being forced to give similar pleasures and some are volunteering happily for the same.

Or is it us??? The people of so called “civilized society” ranging from doctors, lawyers, businessmen to officers, politicians, actors and celebrities who talk and discuss at length about such heinous crimes, whine about the mismanagement in the society, criticize law, criticize police,

say things like: “city isn’t safe. ... Such people must be hanged or given punishments publicly... Etc etc”, sympathize with the suffering victim, restrict the girls and ladies at home and having their part of duty done take nice nap on their comfortable mattress??? Aren’t we also responsible in the 0.001% way for the incident that happened with the little innocent girl????

Like expected my family has also restricted my movement because they are also scared. But what makes a difference for me is that in the morning my dad handed me a pepper spray saying: “the city is not safe and you must carry this with you. Not just this, I’m going to teach you self defense so that wherever you are, you can protect yourself. Other than that you just need to be a little alert whenever you go out.”.

And I think this is what really needs to be done in addition to implementation of strict laws… A social reform, change of psyche, teaching the girls and the weak to protect themselves and to stay alert.

Gandhi ji said: women have much more potential than men. And with this I Dr. Prerna want to appeal all the people reading this blog to please teach your kids love and respect for the girls and the weak, teach your girls to protect themselves. Because the society changes the city and cities change the

country. Small things do matter a lot. If nothing changed then the day is not far when women will protect themselves their way. This article is written by Prerna singla

Who will save India from crime? Who will save Indiafrom crime? Its high tide and things are really horrible and scary. People are scared and they are diverting there minds towards peace and almighty. The god can only make things smooth and safe as human beings are no longer trust worthy. Everything looks empty and corrupt. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really hard to step outside as the victim does not get justice easily. The atmosphere of corruption and hatred is affecting the mental abilities and psychology of humans. The money and materialistic needs is converting humans into parasitic vampires. There is no emotion or sentiments left for another human. Everything seems so lost and destroyed and people are confused where to go as expecting honesty and trust seems bookish now. The law and order and the police force looks handicapped as they cannot take desired action in case of any crime. From corruption to assault to rape, the criminals are breaking the world records in India. From intense brutality to inhuman activities crime is at its peak and criminals enjoy the privilege of leniency. There is always an atmosphere of action and alertness when the crime is already conducted. The victim is only considered victim when he /she is at its most pathetic state. No matter whom so ever we elect as our political leader, we cannot expect ultimate freedom and safety as people will never change and the administration will always fail. The importance of money and lust is brain washing people and there innocence is degrading day by day. Well things will never change as there is no magic wand which can improve the mentality and mindset of people. The criminal will always commit crime and

the victim will always cry, the public will notice and unnotice the issues, the government and leaders will always play politics on the critical issues and again people will forget everything as some new incident or crime or issue will be in limelight by the media.

How gay men live there married life with there straight wife’s? How gay men live there married life with there straight wife’s? It’s basically an unusual marriage. Its unique and the most diverse one. It’s especially not a happy marriage but a forced one. Parents usually wonder why there mature adult son says no to marriage? Why he always have excuses when it comes to marriage? And why he does not bring his girlfriend home? Well the gay guys look very innocent and genuine to there families as they are not like regular straight guys. There families do not hear and notice the complaints from neighbors for teasing there daughters , they do not get themselves carried away in guys fight , they do not do much of a wild stuff that straight guys do in there life. Well they are like cow, you can say like a well obedient daughter who takes care of the home and family. Well this does not mean that gay men are feminine or girlish but this trait of innocence and responsible behavior encourages parents and relatives to arrange a good match for there ideal son. Marriage is the dream for parents and in case of only son; things become really pushy and forceful. Well gay men often linger on the things and divert them in busy affairs but sooner or later they had to face the reality. Most of them come out and shock there family and the world but some remain silent and afraid and leave everything in gods hand. Well from the day parents look out for perfect girl for there son to the day they get married, they usually remain in constant tension with smile. They only wonder about one thing and that is sex.

Sex is the most critical issue which affects there relationship. Well they cannot change themselves and as they are created to love same sex and this creation is by nature, it’s not a man made concept, they cannot adjust themselves to there opposite sex partner. The issue of sex makes them weak from the head to toe. The wedding night is like a prison in hell for them and they just wonder what to do? The only solution they get is ignorance. The bitter reality is that they can ignore for one night but ignoring sex every night will surely raise the doubt. The woman loves to get fucked but when there is no fuck, things become really serious and dangerous for guy’s health. The out comes are horrible, the unconsummated woman often file for divorce and leave there gay husband immediately but the twist is still not disclosed here. The biggest problem is of lack of knowledge and advancement. Most woman consider there gay husbands as impotent and look out for reasons and remedies to cure the impotency of there husband. Well they waste most of there months and years in adjusting as they think that there husband is ill and he needs help and support. Things become worse when gay men put wrong allegations on there wife’s to protect there self respect and identity. They consider there wife as a corrupt slut, they criticize her and blame her for the entire situation which makes things complicated and tough in the process of divorce. The process of divorce is seriously dramatic and disastrous as there is shot of allegations by both the parties and it’s really not easy to take divorce easily. The process is lengthy and painful and the settlement on money also creates hatred. Well this procedure may affect the lives of both the parties but the woman is the only sufferer in the whole marriage game. The gay

men off course is on higher level as he gets freedom of independence from divorce but the unconsumed woman has to sacrifice and adjust her life as a second class citizen. She has to face allegations as well as sarcastic remarks from family and relatives, besides being the victim she has to live her life either alone or with any divorcee or widower.

Why your parents should not spank and slap you?

We always blame the upbringing of the people who commit crimes. We have thousands of reasons to justify there criminal tendency. There has been many cases like disturbed childhood , criminal background , molestation in childhood , poverty , lack of resources , mental and verbal torture which makes an innocent person a well qualified heartless criminal. It has also been noticed that people who choose there profession as crime have been unhappy with there lives. They are so negative in there ideology and thinking that the whole world seems like an enemy to them. They are short tempered and stubborn, they sing there own songs and they hate people. It has also been seen the more criminal and dangerous they become, the more attracted they are towards sex. Sex has always been linked with danger as danger creates intimacy. But talking about the criminals, the question which strikes my mind all the time is from where this criminal tendency evolves? Who is actually responsible for the crime? Who converts the innocent into culprit?

Well no body has the true answers as there are many things which work wonders in making a perfect criminal.

Our childhood is the only time we learn so many things, from good to bad from nice to dirty. Whatever comes our way we just grab it without noticing the pros and cons of the actions. We know as a child our parents are there to protect us from every type of problem and difficulty. We trust our guardians and we depend on them. Besides being powerless we feel powerful under our parent’s security and affection.

No matter how much good we have been brought up but some things really aren’t good and justified which are not considered bad by some parents. Most of the parents considered spanking and slap as there parental right. They do not consider there this habit as violence or any form of crime. For them it’s a good step to discipline the child. Frequent spanking and slaps do not give any guarantee of a disciplined child as these practices affects the mental stability of the child. The child lose interest and trust in there parents and this is the most dangerous thing which motivates the psychology of child towards violence and hatred. The children who are spanked and slapped on frequent times also suffer from verbal abuse and moral abuse. The verbal abuse has the power to even kill someone. The most common kind of verbal abuse is done through hatred speeches, bad and inhuman remarks and comments on someone’s identity and when parents do this to there own child, the children feel lost and trapped.

The over stressed parents clear out there work aggression on there children, they feel the sense of victory by hitting there child as they can’t express there anger by physical abuse to there boss or colleagues or friends. Children looks powerless and dependent and they actually are which motivates the parents to consider there children as stress buster equipments.

Moreover these parents also advocate the spanking and slap practices in schools which create a situation of war and revolt among children’s mind.

The child feels helpless as there is no way to go. There can be reasons when you don’t like the actions and behavior of your child but without understanding the situation taking immediate action in shape of physical abuse will not solve the problems.

The society where every one is running towards the goal of success, it’s really hard to achieve the peace inside homes and heart. We all compare our children with others , we all want to see the perfection and results but parents forget one thing are they perfect too? They should try to remember there childhood and should also realize there mistakes as humans are humans first and a machine second.

Every child is not same and every one has there own talent and qualities, pushing someone to do something which the person is not comfortable into is simply like forcing a cricketer to become a singer. This fast and complicated world prevents parents from supporting there child in his/her dream profession. They torture there children to get good marks and follow the race like other common folks. The world is changing, every thing is changing and things which were not considered existed are ruling today.

Children are influenced by there environment, society and friends. Wrong company of friends and too much work load and stress lead to a tendency to adopt short cuts. These children in order to complete there task do unethical activities, from begging to stealing to hitting, every possible act which can make there work done.

We are discovering new generation, we want soldiers not criminals, we want love not hatred, we desire intimacy not assault, and we look for humans not animals.

Do same sex marriages have any future in India? Do same sex marriages have any future in India? The concept of homosexuality is already under pressure and doubts in India. Talking about same sex marriages seems like discovering a sea horse in the jungle. Well the concept is over controversial and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really tough to imagine the concept of same sex marriages in India. Indian people are urbanized but on the same hand are very much conservative. The country where government is established on the basis of religion and caste the advocacy of same sex marriage seems very different and unusual. Indian people can digest the concept of homosexuality in fun manner mainly in the forms of jokes and entertainment but accepting the same concept in reality still seems doubtful. There is no provision and no rules and regulations made in favor of the homosexual community. The rule and law for marriage is a very big step as the whole concept demands openness and broad minded thinking. Although marriage is the equal right of every citizen and marriage gives a new out look to the life. We all wish and desire to live our life with our lover and the process which provides this facility is marriage which not only promotes a better life but also guarantees commitment. The homosexual community is not fully understood by people. Although most of the homosexuals hate this labeling concept as itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s an individual choice to choose there partner especially when every body is earning there own bread but people are judgmental and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a human tendency to judge others so the

homosexual community and its people cannot save themselves from labeling and remarks. The acceptance and understanding comes with education and India has the highest illiteracy rate which not only creates a doubtful approach but also mismanagement among people’s view point and beliefs. The country where myth rules the reality, homosexuals do not expect a bright future. Now talking more about this same sex marriage concept, the proposal is not at all wrong. Although it’s a bit fast decision as the country and its people will take time in understanding the whole concept. The same sex marriage will defiantly help the gay community as homosexuals are already controversial with there fast sex life. The marriage proposal will defiantly give them stability and time to think more about love and commitment rather than sex. The homosexual community is already blamed on high scale for spreading sexually transmitted disease as most of the gay guys have multiple partners and anal sex liking's. The marriage will defiantly bind them and will prevent there countless affairs and one night stands. It’s a non ignorable fact that gays cannot marry with Hindu rituals and customs but a legalized marriage by law on papers can exist. This concept will not be accepted easily as people cannot imagine this change in there society but it’s a beneficial step for the prevention and cure of crimes and diseases. Most of the homosexual guys are ill-treated and raped by other gay and bi guys and there is no law and order made in there favor to protect there rights.

Looking at the bigger picture, the homosexuals are tortured every second for marriage and corrective rape by there families and relatives. They cannot file a police complaint against the physical abuse and domestic violence conducted by there own family members and friends. The marriage proposal gives them the right to choose there partner without the pressure of the family. As most of the homosexuals will adopt this marriage proposal, there would be decrease in the cases of suicide rates and violence. The homosexuals are not sinners and in fact are a blessing to the over populated country as most of them do not include any plans of children in there dictionary. Again the issue is debatable as every one has there own view point. The question still lies straight as the answers lie in ones own ideology.

How can things be changed for common man in india? How can things be changed for common man?

The common man seems common but there power and there presence is not so common. The common man has limited needs and unlimited wants, he may be optimistic, he may be opportunistic and he may be self centered but a common man will remain common and unstable if he is powerless. Things donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t work out easily for common people. Life seems so unfair and demanding to us as we all go through the same phase. We notice the same difficulties which are mainly concerned with earning and lifestyle.

Our life is decided every 5 years, with every election our life changes technically as well as physically, no matter we believe it or not but the kind of life we are availing is because of the leaders we pointed to run our nation. As we all know that things are complicated and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not easy to live easily in real world but things can be changed and can be favorable if our political leaders want them to be.

There are so much diversity in the ideology and mindset of different political leaders at different times that the right decisions for the country are always disturbed and challenged for personal vote bank.

Today no one is concerned for anyone, even the relatives act plastic and selfish then how can we expect love and care from our political leaders? Well the reality is known to everyone and we all complain but at the end of the day we end up with nothing except criticism and frustration.

There are so many things the political leaders can do for us and it will change our life so dramatically that we will enjoy living. Today we are crying and passing our time with some little bit hope for the good. This hope is only attached to our personal efforts as our expectations has always challenged and broken.

The ministers are loaded with policies and rules which can transform your life within a year, it can change you from poor to rich, it can create awareness, it can remove illiteracy but are things really happening towards our welfare? Well every one has different thinking and judgment on the works of our political leaders.

Things can be changed to such an extent that every poor will get work. From manufacturing units to trading enterprises, from service

providing companies to physical labor investment, everything can be opened in less developed rural areas which will provide vacancy and independence.

Things can be changed to so much extent that we will not get maids for our house as poor peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s lifestyle will be converted into working independent community which has respect as well as money.

The policies made by the political leaders and the government create a phase where the rich is becoming richer and the poor is becoming poorer and to over come this bridge of poverty, the people choose corruption.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a known fact that the leaders have to become loyal to there profession and have to make partial decisions which will foster the interest of common people not a particular community.

Unluckily that phase will not come easily as the leaders feel bound to provide favors to specific communities and rich businessman. These favors may look small but there impacts are greater then life.

The reserved get the chance besides being incompetent and the deserving candidate is rejected on the basis of money. The leaders we get are appointed on the basis of there money and there investment at the time of elections and not on the basis of there caliber and education. There is no department which can question the working of the political leaders. It seems so unfair when some uneducated criminals rule our nation.

The demerits are endless and every page and ink of this world will be less while writing the corruption tales of our ministers. Things will not change and we can never erase corruption as its all about inner self. The day we will feel shame in looking at ourselves in front of the mirror, that day will create an urge to become good.

The life of common man will be changed if he change himself completely and work towards the path of honesty and loyalty. Everyone is common in the eyes of god, from ministers to actors to businessman to criminals to every one but we all act uncommon and political due to our different influential posts and backgrounds. We get ourselves carried away by money and thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the point which changes our life negatively.

Why political leaders work profile is different from there debate profile in India? Why political leaders work profile is different from there debate profile in India? The real debate is noticeable to some and unnoticed to many. There are different reasons of joining the politics but the most common reason which is the welfare and development of country and its people is not so common. Every person does not carry the guts to change the country for the good. Most of us are pretty active in giving favors to our self by the use of power we gain in our professional lifestyle. There are very few who utilize there authorized power for the betterment of humanity. We all get afraid by selfless activities as doing well for others will only give us applause. The lust of materialistic things and unavoidable greed prevents us from taking the right steps for the country. The political system and its working are very dramatic and slow. Things work out only when the politicians wish them to work out. You may hear tons of praises, you my hear the songs of victory, you may listen to the future development plans of the country but there honesty and reality lies no where. Every politician speaks about the welfare of the country , they say the most beautiful plans that everybody wish to hear and see in the coming future but no matter how much influential our leader is , the implementation of the plans seems doubtful every time. Its not that every political leader is corrupt , no matter how much corrupt a leader is , he is a human at the end of the day , he too see things , he too notice difficulties of its people but why does he lack

in doing something really great for his country. Well every political minister is influenced by his bosses, he/she may be appointed on any position they are deeply affected and influenced to do something really favorable to there bosses. We always say that the boss is never wrong, so no matter how much genuine and honest our political leader is, honesty and perfection is dramatically affected by the party he is representing. Every political party enjoys the power of money in there working era, they use money for there private and so personal affairs, they make big mansions, they indulge in exquisite luxuries, they enjoy foreign tours, they spend there most delightful time in there phase of ruling so itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really wrong to blame a particular political party. In short everyone travels in the same cart but things become hypocritical when the political leaders forget there nationality and do something really offensive which is not less than any anti public activity. Well the public never question there political leaders about there lifestyle and expenditure strategy. They never raise any doubtful question as the political leaders has there own private life which is separate and prevented from the common people. The political leaders are given freedom to explore there power and status for themselves but the position authorized to them demands work for the public. The power entitled to the ministers demands the welfare of the country and people. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a bitter fact that most of the political leaders invest there political carrier in pleasing there bosses and there families , the rest of the time is wasted in making money for themselves and the left over time which is given to the public is greatly disturbed by the opposition parties.

Its not that the ministers do not do anything for the country some actually contribute and work for the country but the contributing and hardworking ministers are very less in majority. The self centered group of political leaders always enjoys the media limelight and the selfless ministers are called backward and insane. The right decisions can lead to prosperity and the countryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s success depends on its own money. The right usage of money and the right schemes can convert the country into a giant powerful nation but again the point where everything becomes zero is ego and self-centered attitude which prevents the political leaders from viewing the right picture of there nation.

why everybody is of same religion when its a question of money ?

Every one is doing corruption. From small to large scale operations people enjoy corruption. The most surprising thing about corruption is that most of the people do not even realize that they are committing corruption. They label there negative corrupt activities as there business sense and profit making strategy. Although the main rule of every business is to make profit but making profit at the cost of human blood is seriously evil and inhuman. No matter how much popular or rich you are, you will be defined as evil by the victim and the society. No matter how much achievements you have gained, you cannot erase your crimes from your life.

Its not that the culprits do not realize there crime, They very well know about there activities, they know that they are lying, they know they are creating fraud, they know they are going against morals and law, they know what they are doing is unethical and inhuman but still they ignore everything and state themselves as the loyal and honest person.

The culprits get punished and the innocent is rescued, all these self satisfying lines look good in childhood tales and books. In reality there are very less cases where the culprits are punished for there

sins.

Well some people live on one rule and that is they are born to fetch money by one way or the other, they are cold and hard, they do not get affected by human sentiments and emotions, they can kill anyone, they can commit the most awful things to fetch money, they can even rape and steal the money from a dead body. No matter how much urbanized we are, the level of corruption and crime is not decreased, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s increasing and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the high tide.

The people who are crazy for the word money are the most dangerous ones, besides there awful acts, they create artificial circumstances to fetch money. They beg, borrow and steal and when they do not get satisfied with this, they play the dirtiest games for money. Yes they play with emotions, they play with human values, they give physical abuse and they donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t care about there consequences.

The law and order and police is purchased every second by money, there credibility and accountability is not impartial as there lives are also influenced by money. The lenient behavior of law and order and police for the sake of money gives courage to culprits to commit crimes as they know that there only way out from there crime is

money. Money protects them, saves them from getting punished as people worship money before god. Money is the most favorite commodity of everyone but it feels sick when humans kill other humans verbally, emotionally and physically for that one piece of paper.

Everyone says that money is a waste, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dirt of our hands but who believes it?

People say that one day we will die, then why to create violence for money? But still the rate of violence is on high scale.

No one can take money with them after dying but still people die for money.

Fuck the do what you love slogan with smile Fuck the do what you love slogan with smile We have no control on our dreams no matter how much rich or poor we are, we see different dreams and we believe them. We want to pursue them and surely want to accomplish them. We never acknowledge our circumstances and our background. We trust ourselves so much that we consider ourselves the most appropriate for the dream. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a usual and common thing humans do. Yes they dream, they dream for good, they dream for luxury, they dream for money and they dream whatever looks like a dream. Well dream is not anyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s personal custody so there is no control on our level of creativity and imagination. I can dream of being the prime minister of my country or any one can dream of being a superstar or any cricket player. Well dreams have no boundaries and no rules and regulations. But do we ever consider the existence of our dreams or any particular dream? Why I always dream of being a superstar? Why I always wanted to be an astronaut? Well our dreams are linked with our thoughts and our likings. Generally what we like, what we love stays in our mind every time. We utilize our maximum time in day dreaming and talking about our particular liking. Well when our love or like exceeds to irresistible limits, we often call it our dream job or our dream profession. Generally dreams are categorized in the column of profession and jobs. There are very less cases where you will dream of marrying your favorite actress as your mind always

tells you that it’s not at all possible. Our mind is so powerful and disciplined that it always advocates us about the right and wrong directions but sometimes we ignore the signals and follow something which is seriously not us. Well as you all know that millions are screaming that do what you love, it does not mean that you will do something really stupid which you love. Like I would defiantly love to work as a wrestler or boxer in heavy weight championship but it’s really not my cup of tea. From my body stats to my circumstances I do not advocate this profession as my dream job and still I love it. Every time I see wrestlers fighting in TV, I feel like one of them. There is a strong flow of testosterone in my body which provokes my macho nature. Well it’s seriously stupid to follow the do what you love slogan blindly as real world and reality is seriously not a lovable thing. There are millions of artists struggling for recognition and they all are excellent in there jobs and there styles of artwork and still they do not have money to pay there debts and bingo being an artist was there dream job and after accomplishing there dream what they are doing? Except struggling and criticizing they end up with nothing at the end of the day. Most of us are influenced and brain washed by the movies and TV shows which advocates our fantasy environment. We often feel that yes it’s possible and there are happy endings in every ones life as we always see happy endings in movies. Well it’s just a common strategy of directors; it’s just an attempt to make people smile at the end of the movie. Common you cannot expect living an ordinary simple life after committing any serious crime like murder.

Dreams too deserve a place and dreams do not have any particular size or shape which is surely a very bad and negative trait. Millions of young beautiful girls leave there home and switch to film industry line besides knowing the fact that they do not have any god father in film industry. They struggle, they work as junior artist, they do the most disgusting jobs, they sleep with cheap people and fool themselves every second that they would be the next big star. Dreams are always delicate and intangible. We see them and we wish to feel them. The feeling costs a lot as itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not so easy to play the role of a lion in the skin of donkey.

Is freedom of expression in danger? Is freedom of expression in danger? As we all are blessed with the right to speak and write we are also controlled by law and order. As we all express joy as well as anger on different issues, we also act out of control sometimes. As a human being we have feelings and we get affected by different decisions of our government and political leaders. From inflation to strict policies everything affects the common man in a dramatic way. Well itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a known fact that rich can never be affected by the policies but what about the common man whose majority is very high and still there future is uncertain. We all have some self respect and self esteem , we all consider our self important and necessary as we all have our own identity but considering the bigger view , Are we really considered important by our masters? Do we really exist in the eyes of our political leaders? Is there any value for our existence among our political leaders? Well the ministers are busy in making money without considering the problems and circumstances of common public. Well in every phase people complain and there complaints are countless. The political parties and the ministers are so used to these complaints that today every voice seems invisible and if some voices take courage in becoming loud and clear, they face punishment and undesirable circumstances. But the billion dollar question is what should the common man do?

Where should the common man go? How should the common man react? The government and the political leaders have to consider a fact and that is common man is a human and not a machine. Talking about social media , its is the only platform left where thousands of people express and share there interest , every one do not carry the guts of revolting on streets and no body wants to create an unhealthy environment. The social media and internet prevents unethical physical activities as people spit out there anger and frustration on internet. They share each other views and describe there heart breaking stories. When no one is listing, what should common man do? The common man cannot act deaf, main and blind. Controlling the freedom of expression by punishing people is seriously a danger to the freedom which will not be healthy in future. When there would be no way out, people will carry there frustration and anger inside them and who knows when that volcano of anger will burst?

Dealing with bedroom politics

Every husband wants to be pampered by his wife when he comes home. He is tired and he needs relaxation and the only way to relax him is through food and sex. New couples often enjoy a lot and take care of each other interests in bed as well as in house and this creates a perfect chemistry in the new honeymoon days. But as soon as things become common the interests and chemistry fades like a never existing story. Well charisma and charm is equally required in every marriage. The couples should not feel annoyed and bored with each other otherwise it will give rise to politics and the politics is surely faster than air. Things become complicated when sex becomes boring and couples look out for excuses to delay or ignore the intimate moments and foreplay. To make any relationship work foreplay is a compulsory thing to do as it is the best way to express love and affection. The woman if feels annoyed from her husband will defiantly play the best bedroom politics know one can imagine. She will give the common excuse of being tired or will delay the sex by presenting the strong fact of menstrual cycle. Well doing sex in periods is seriously not a good thing for men and they should avoid it but when woman often use this fact as excuse then things become pretty funny and disturbing as woman are unpredictable and mysterious. Most of the woman express there anger related to household at night when the husband is expecting love and romance. She will give sarcastic comments and will show disinterest by showing back to the charming hubby. He will try to avoid the situation and the

reasons of anger by avoiding the whole issue of wife’s frustration and complain but woman are smarter then men. She knows that he needs more and she has the perfect gift of targeting the weak spot of men. Most of the woman attract there husbands in bed by there colorful lingerie and nicely combed hair with tough and cold looks, she will defiantly make him obey every need and want at the crucial moment of lovemaking. Men often forget the last night promises as promises are made in hurry to enjoy the climax of intercourse. Woman are keen observers and they carry the word of promises conducted by there husbands. She might enjoy and react on the promise made by his husband last night and may use it as much as she can to make her every wish come true. But don’t you think this bedroom politics is more like black mailing? Well thousands of men are blackmailed romantically and sensually every night by there wife’s and they easily get themselves blackmailed as there is no choice left except accepting there every requirement. Men often get annoyed and disturbed when woman use the bedroom politics frequently. They are not fool and they understand where there wife is at fault. The most important twist comes when men avoid there wife’s at night by pretending to be tired and stressed. Woman can never ignore sex for long especially when they love there husband. For them intimacy and lovemaking is crucial as it gives a sense of security and support. Men can live happier without sex for sometime as they have busy office and work schedules which divert there mind to work and other tensions but woman who stays at home wait for there husband and his arms . Woman who are frequent gamers and who had succeeded in

bedroom politics are often facing the tragic procedure of divorce as not every men is smart and self disciplined. Most of the men loose patience and find there wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sexless attitude as betrayal which creates a feeling of doubt and suspect as possessiveness is the ruler of men. Well no matter how many complications your marriage is suffering with you should never hamper your sex life intentionally. Even if there are some misunderstandings and different opinionative thinking, you must not destroy and affect your sexual intimacy as sex plays a vital role in developing any relationship. Sex has the power to change the behaviors of zodiacs in favor as every need and wants looks small in front of sex desires.

How to solve Misunderstandings and adjustments in new marriage? As you all know marriage is the most important decision of our life and before marriage our life is different and after marriage it’s different. In any case we should be ready for that big change in our lifestyle as marriage is not like buying a vehicle. It’s something bigger than ever important decision of our life. We often notice that our parents advocate early marriage as they find it the most judicial in every sense. Early marriage may not be a best option for today’s youngsters but it has wide variety of benefits. From our sex need to our social need to our emotional need everything is shared beautifully with the partner we can trust. It’s really better than girlfriends and boyfriends as sharing the personal and emotional needs with a girlfriend or boyfriend may put you in great danger as the person is not bonded by any ritual or law.

Even the job oriented people who are against early marriage will be benefited with early marriage concept as the responsibilities and liabilities are mutually shared by both the partners. Although there are great variations in this as not every partner is ready for adjustments and compromise.

The biggest thing which hampers the whole concept of marriage is the so called male ego. The man always want to see there wife in the secondary position as they can never tolerate the dominance of

woman in anyway. Things become sarcastic and dramatic when woman is used with no acknowledgment and applause. Working woman is demanded by todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s metropolitan men as they do not trust there own purchasing power to run the kitchen. The unlucky part lies in the fact that these working woman have to work outside as well in household to gain the respect and favor of there in-laws. There patience and sacrifice is treated as there duty and there body is treated as working machine. No matter how much urbanized mankind has become it still does not guarantee the complete independence of woman.

The misunderstandings are created in family on the issue of dowry and money. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a fact that every person takes time in adjusting in early marriage as woman has to start a complete new life by forgetting her previous life and home and the in-laws should be supportive and caring as every girl is someoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s daughter.

Well the only way to solve the misunderstanding and problem is by analyzing yourself into the place of the culprit. If you think that your husband is at fault then analyze his situation and circumstances by analyzing yourself in his place, you will defiantly get the answers to your problems, in the same manner the husband has to analyze the position of the wife and the circumstances she is dealing with.

Nothing is impossible in this world if we are ready to change it. Well every person is human and every one has emotions and sentiments.

Freedom of expression in India Our motherland is everything for us and no matter how far we are from our motherland, we feel connected to our country emotionally as well as spiritually. We enjoy and celebrate the achievements and developments of our country with pride. Whenever we notice any positive development or urbanization, we feel proud to be the part of our country. When we have the right to celebrate the achievements of our country, we also have the right to criticize the negative development and unethical activities. As the citizen of our country we have the right to vote and elect the person who we trust for the welfare of common public and the country. Any country is represented by its people and every citizen is crucial and important as we all unite together and establish a wonderful nation. When we notice that our politicians are doing something really great for our country , we reward them by reelecting them in coming elections , we make them our favorite leader and we often spread there songs of victory to our friends and society . The political leaders are answerable to us, there accountability and there behavior depends on there actions. We people are also bound by rules and regulations, law and order should be applicable for everyone. Law and order is impartial and genuine, the culprit gets punishment and the innocent gets rewards. Well things should be under control of law and we all have to work positively for the progress of our nation. But things become artificial when the law and order favors the influential and powerful people, besides committing thousands of mistakes the powerful culprits are not punished and on the other

hand the common man is punished every single second for his one mistake. Thousands of cases of powerful businessmen and politicians are pending and files are closed with the token of money but still the common man has no right to raise his voice against corruption. The media groups and big media houses are also powerful and influential and they have the power to expose and disclose the corruption and the corrupt people but are they really doing justice to the common people? Well common man can be easily punished for a single remark or comment as the common man is powerless and the right of freedom of speech is snatched from his hands by the corrupt leaders who want to hear what there ears like. On the other hand the media cannot be punished easily as the politicians and the powerful business man are also dependent on media for fame and popularity. Most of the secret affairs and corruption scams are hidden from public, they should be disclosed but again it all depends on media and its working as media is greatly dominated and influenced by the powerful corrupt entities. The common man will remain a common man, he might get thousands of rights in the books but in reality he is born to suffer.

The life of Indian bride is always at the tip of knife if she fails to meet the rising expectations of the groom and his family. Yes the groom is confused and his family is totally demanding. This line is a very common thing to hear from a bride’s family. The process of marriage simply becomes dramatic from the day the advertisement is placed in the newspaper. The groom is obviously busy in his own personal and work affairs and the grooms family is seriously dedicated to find out the best match for there lovely male child. It’s a known fact that male child always enjoy the bread of priority in Indian families.

His actions and his behavior are always admired with the full ignorance of his weaknesses and negative actions. The search of bride is not an ordinary affair, its crucial and most top secret affair in Indian families as lots of things are involved in this. No matter how much demerits exist in the background of the groom, he and his family will demand the best bride with all the visible benefits.

From expensive car to new furniture to expensive clothes of whole family to other uncountable expenses, the bride and his family is tortured every single second for infinite gifts and expenses. The hypocrite nature of groom’s family lies in the fact that on one hand they say that they don’t take dowry and they don’t have any

demands but on other hand these above mentioned demands are considered a birth right by the groom’s families.

Things don’t end here; it becomes worse when the self respect and individuality of the bride is questioned by making her an educated well qualified servant. The groom’s families always demand a well educated bride in today’s scenario but still they expect her to do all the household work like any paid servant.

The ones who prefer a working bride also expects an all rounder super woman factors in the bride by taking household work besides her job. Well no one considers the bride as there own family member until and unless she gives birth to a male child.

The life of Indian bride is always at the tip of knife if she fails to meet the rising expectations of the groom and his family.

why glamour & publicity is crucial for our lifestyle? It’s all about publicity, its all about fame and it’s all about glamour. We really have came so far , from our basic materialistic needs we have diverted our self to a complicated need and want atmosphere were our existence and our individuality matters so much that we cannot tolerate ignorance. We are spending millions and billions for that one big episode which will highlight our presence in the whole world. We won’t care about the fee structure of our PR person and we never hesitate in paying the monthly bills of our media groups who constantly exhibit us as almighty. Well its all about ultimate publicity. But why this publicity is crucial ? We should be satisfied with our basic needs which we achieve in our course of life but still why publicity and glamour becomes so crucial for us that we cannot live without it? Why we feel less important and powerless without fame and publicity? Why we constantly want to be a topic of interests and discussion? Well everything is becoming commercial and there are wide varieties of brands. We have become so commercial that our life is not simple and like other non living things we also want to be exhibited like brands with promotions and endorsements. But again if you are satisfied with what you got then why you urge for more? Why you want to publicize your personal life? Why you enjoy washing your dirty laundry in public?

Well the answer is simple yet complicated. Today everything is all about showbiz. The people who are in limelight are treated as role models no matter how worse there identity is. Everyone follows them like a group of sheepâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s. The public has a traditional mindset and that is the one who is famous is always powerful and we all have tendency to lick the ass of the powerful. We never do it as a choice but as a need to gain something from the powerful. Well media is the only way by which you can become powerful and interesting. From dirty sex scandals to outrageous controversial tapes, everything is available and ready for sale. We watch the breaking news and aim to become the breaking news. Well humans are no more humans; we all are commodities waiting for the right purchaser. Who knows about the authenticity of the famous chap, who cares about the respect and virginity of the leading actress, who wants to feel bad for the negative controversy holder, we all enjoy drama and we all have one god and that is media as its all about entertainment, entertainment and entertainment.

Why dowry is demanded by the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family?

Marriages in Indiaare like an event, the fresh construction of every materialistic thing makes a marriage an event which is seriously very expensive and unbelievable. From big posh wedding gardens to beautiful flower arrangements, from delicious countless cuisines to unlimited sparkling lights and fireworks, everything looks like a fairy tale. The bride is obviously the diva, the most beautiful woman of the night shining with sparkling bridal dress decorated with exquisite mouthwatering ornaments and precious and semi precious jewels. Well for a brides father the preparation starts from the day the girl is born. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a fact that girl and boy are raised differently in India, there upbringing has unique differences.

The girls in Indiaare taught to sacrifice in every way, they are always considered below the male child of the family. No matter how much smart the girl is, she has to act dumb in front of her husband as the ego of the man is bigger than his love.

The double standard of Indian mentality lies in the fact that on one hand the goddess are worshipped by giving expensive donations and ornaments in temples by big entities and on other hand the girl they seek for there beloved boy has to bring loads of money and ornaments in dowry.

The bride’s father always feels helpless and insecure as you never know about the demands of the groom’s family. No matter how much rich the groom and his family is, they will demand for money as well as expensive gifts shamelessly. They never consider the hard work of the bride’s family and every preparation is considered less as the expectation level of the groom’s family is very high in general. It’s a normal affair in India.

But the biggest interesting question coming here is that dowry is illegal in Indiaand there are tough rules and regulations which imply on both the parties. Besides this fact brides family is bound to give dowry. Why? Well there is no clear answer to this question as dowry is considered a birth right by groom’s families. Most of them do not have guts to earn money and marriage is the only option they seek for fetching easy money with expensive gifts. It’s a fact that there are 90 % cases where dowry is demanded shamelessly and forcibly and the drawback lies in the fact that millions of women are killed brutally because of this dowry tradition.

Well the law and order is weak and there is no immediate action in these cases which gives chances to the groom and there family to play with the feelings of the bride and her family.

Well greed and lust are the two evil expressions which are practiced by people widely. Most of the brides live a life of servants in there husbands house just because of dowry. The worst part is that most of them torture there wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s even after taking dowry as there expectation level is very high.

This incurable lust and greed shows the impotency of Indian men who enjoy there wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s income and feel delighted by the very fact. The woman who leaves there parents and family is never acknowledged but considered a loyal servant. The woman serves her husband and his parents, she raises the children and the family but still never acknowledged as the goddess.

Do bisexual men really deserve acceptance?

Gone are those days when men used to cheat there wifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s for another woman. World is changing so are men. Well the bisexual trait is well established in men and woman but when it comes to bisexual men, the things are pretty dramatic and demanding. Well before starting this debatable article I wish to recall the definition of bisexuality in order to clear out any misunderstanding and misconceptions. Bisexuality is romantic or sexual attraction or you can say behavior towards male and female. Although this looks quite simple in terms of writing but its not, trust me. We often do not believe this as it looks like an individual choice. Besides having many scientific proofs bisexuals have failed to prove themselves as right and justified. There attraction towards opposite sex as well as same sex is considered choice and not a biological trait. This behavior is generally treated weird and people do not consider a bisexual man as bisexual if they know about his sexual interest towards men. Bisexual men often consider themselves superior

from homosexual men as they are not easily identified and labeled.

Seriously you cannot predict and label any bisexual men as bisexual until and unless he reveals it from his own damn mouth. Any happily married men with kids can be a bisexual but as I said above the chances of identification are nil.

These bisexual men are openly seen on these gay dating and hookup sites where most of them pose themselves as straight. Some do not even tolerate the label of bisexual as being married gives them the certificate of straight and the society never considers a married guy as gay or bisexual.

The reason behind this bisexual trait is not known to anyone except scientists who are working hard to find out the inside stories of human mind. Well even the bisexual men do not consider them bisexual or homosexual , for them itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a mercy they do on homosexual guys or you can say they chuck out there sexual aggression by doing sex with men.

The life of bisexuality is quite better than straight as quoted by one of the bisexual guy I was interviewing. Well for them they are never under pressure as having extra marital affair with a woman is quite risky as there can be chances of pregnancy or other type of

exploitation charges by woman off course but in case of men the things are quite easy and adjustable as homosexual guy cannot launch a complaint against bisexual guy for rape or exploitation specially in the conservative country like India. The level of acceptance for gay men in Indiais very low and the chances of support are nil. This gives tremendous opportunities to bisexual men when it comes to casual sex. The gay world is so fast in sex that things work very easily when it comes to sex, the homosexual guys are not looking for a relationship in India but sex with same sex is seriously a nice opportunity for them.

Moreover the woman cannot easily suspect there husband as gay or bisexual as he is equally satisfying her every night. Some bisexual men may be less inclined towards there wife’s but intercourse is never ignored by them.

But why bisexual men do not feel satisfied with there wife’s? Why they also need men for physical satisfaction? Is it the high sex drive? Or may be they do not feel fully satisfied with there wife’s? Or they are simply choosy and prefers different dish every night? Or may be they are born with this quality? Well these questions have different answers with every bisexual man. No matter how much advanced we have become in terms of technology and urbanization but still we do not accept the advancement of human nature.

Why FDI is crucial for India? Why FDI is crucial for India? FDI is one of the most discussed topic in 2012 in India. The current political party of 2012 considers this as the best option to cover there undesirable and uncountable scams. Although FDI was a debatable asset as different parties have different opinions and suggestions about this issue. Some considers it for the welfare of the country but some counts it as the threat to Indian population and there working. As FDI is coming in retail sector, it will not provide happiness to Indian retailers. The issue of FDI is very strong and controversial and millions of Indian retailers expressed there anger through revolt and strike but nothing was done in there favor but again the billion dollar question is why FDI is crucial for India? Well FDI may snatch the jobs of thousands of Indian retailers but it will defiantly give better alternatives and choices to Indian population. The biggest corruption in India is still not disclosed, although it has been in progress since many years. Adulteration is another form of corruption which is eating Indian population. From pesticides to harmful chemical mixtures, Indians consume everything. Most of the food items in India are harmfully adulterated and there is no decrease in there ratio or quantity. The quality and quantity of food items is degrading and the price is increasing. Although Indians have many alternatives as there are wide variety of brands available in the market but still there is no evidence and support which provides guarantee of there purity. Its a fact that most of the products have different uses and every product is differentiated by its quality and specification but still the people are helpless when it comes to purity. The brands which exhibit

themselves as pure are expensive and the brands which lack publicity and media attention are considered ordinary. The biggest problem with Indian people is that they consider a brand as a brand only if they watch it on there television. The advertising world is responsible for the misguiding ads as there main aim is to fetch customers for the brands they are working with. People are innocent and busy in there personal affair to so much extent that most of them do not even read the labels of there products. They are in such a hurry that they just buy it. Although they do read it when the price is high but Purity is not the hallmark of expensive products and inexpensive products may not be completely adulterated. Well people are not alert in India as everything is fast and mess with the slogan of cheap and good. FDI in retail sector may bring opportunity for people as people will get chance to experience new things. There can be a control on adulteration as FDI in retail sector will increase the competition to very high extent. Peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s expectations will be raised to highest level and they may get products which are pure and hygienic. Well trusting FDI completely may not be a good idea as money is the root cause of corruption. Moreover the expectation level becomes overwhelming in case of foreign investment. The FDI looks like a best development scheme and it may open lot of doors but when it comes to money and economic and social development, things might be different and dramatic.

When & why woman loses there virginity ? Woman can never be treated as sex seekers. No matter how much desperate a woman is, every woman has dreams and every woman loves the concept of love. Women are designed to take things slowly and romantically. The problem with todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s generation is that they do not understand the concept of woman. For guys itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a play toy but its not. For guys woman are not a serious issue and there importance is not acknowledged, the biggest reason behind this is frequent deaths of girl infants. This has created the atmosphere of hatred and ignorance towards woman. Although woman is whole some responsible for the progress and upbringing and without woman man cannot live and work efficiently but still the concept of woman is different and controversial in India. Young woman are not considered as sisters by young men and no one can change this thinking as opposites attract. The biggest problem arises when men do not treat woman as lover but as sex slave. For them woman is not a permanent asset of there life but a temporary rental house where they live according to there specifications. Trust me not every woman is stupid, every woman has some power or you can say some intuitions which tell them about the true intentions of men. Women choose men with the purpose, for them he is the one who will carry on the generation and will take care of her and her children. Man does not think so optimistic, they only take care of there physical need and that is sex. Unfortunately men never say no to sex and woman and for them every woman is

available. Even the committed men urge for his best friendâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s girlfriend if she is hot but women are different. Once they consider a man as there whole world they do not care about any other man, no matter how much ugly her man is. The men do not understand the dreams of woman. If you really want a woman in your life then you have to make some changes in your lifestyle and thinking. You have to consider the woman as the most important person of your life above everyone. Listen carefully, woman needs love and the power of love can even change the direction of wars. Woman wants to take a bath in the sea of love and you have to complete her with tons of love. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t mix love with lust, otherwise you will end up with tight slap. Woman will only give her virginity if she will trust you as the man of her children. If you want to have casual sex for some short time then its better to go to prostitutes rather than any regular normal woman as most of the woman fantasies there fuck buddies as lover and sooner or later that lover is considered as husband. But this does not men that you will not get woman for casual sex. Well you cannot openly describe your intentions of sex to woman as further you will end up with tight slap or police complaint. Most of the guys choose the better option and that is faking love. They enjoy this love fake game and it works in case of girls. They pretend to be the perfect lover and they also make the big promises which are powerful enough to convince any woman of the world. The most common promise is of marriage. Although the marriage bait is very common and usual but still most of the woman get convinced by this strategy. Women

never give options to men but they actually work as option for men. They do not force men for marriage first and sex later option but end up as the best alternative by losing there virginity on the promise of marriage. Well woman behave immature and they intentionally ignore the fake love of there lover, most of the woman know the background and intentions of there lover but still they allow them for everything by pretending to be innocent. Well woman are not at fault as lust is not only the ornament of men. Man or woman both the genders need sex as itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the most common need, the difference comes in the way they project there lust as woman has some boundaries and man are free from boundaries. Nature has given boundaries to woman besides society and women know them very well.

New profession of saints in demand which can fetch billions in India New profession of saints in demand which can fetch billions in India

Its 21st century and you defiantly cannot expect the true and the most dedicated saints who will take us on the path of peace and worship. We may have read in our mythological tales about so many saints who were inspirational and powerful but today this materialistic world do not guarantee sacrifice and dedication. Talking about India, India is blessed with culture and customs. We had so much development in terms of religion and its understanding. We have powerful way of worshiping our holy gods and goddesses. Indian people are blessed with so many gods and goddesses, every god and goddess has its own uniqueness and power. We may have a particular idol which we feel is powerful and dominating on our life but we do notice the importance of saints in India.

Indians have a set mindset about the position of saints. They treat them as the representative of god who will guide them in the right direction which will lead to peace and the almighty. People who teach about god and there tales are worshipped like god in India; they are treated above humans, in fact the title of super humans is given to them. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a reward by the

public which makes them so popular and noticeable.

Every year there is increasing population of saints which not only distribute the concentration of the audience but the audience also gets the variety and alternatives. Saints are in millions and every one has its own popularity and glamour.

Every year Indians contribute in the making of tents and other setups by there valuable donations. The donations received by these religious saints group are in millions and billions. Some are so much flourished in there teachings that there lifestyle is like any big multinational company owner. Well being a saint is business in India and its success lies in the fact that Indians get sacred very easily on the name of god.

There are so many ways by which Indians are cheated in the name of god. The saints of India have a beautiful setup which separates them from the entire audience. Whatever they teach is not new, most of them read and speak by the reference book always available with them but still Indians donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t feel like buying the same book and reading it as no body believes in hard work. Its not that Indians follow these morals and ethics taught by these professional corporate saints , They donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t even

know the abcd of morals and ethics as there is lot of difference in theory and reality.

Every saint has some degrees and qualifications by which they perform so well. Mind it there qualifications are not academic but paranormal. Most of them are excellent in worshipping devil and other paranormal activities. They become powerful by frequent use of black magic and worship. Most of them have opened workshops where they guarantee ultimate solutions to every problem. From love to marriage to job to acting, they give insurance for every issue. Indians enjoy the services of these saints without any usage of common sense. They frequently visit and follow these saints who are nothing but the biggest enemies of mankind.

Saints are never considered wrong or incorrect. There every word and every action is considered the gods decision. But the biggest twist which lies in this trust is still not disclosed. Indians are very emotional and sentimental when it comes to the respect and self esteem of there favorite saint.

Many saints were engaged in controversy and sex scandals, thanks to media and there alertness because they were

successful in taking the full coverage. Seeing the favorite saint trapped in sex scandal is the biggest indigestible bone. There had been revolts and undesirable inhuman violent attempts whenever any saint is questioned and objected for his/her wrong actions. The people cannot hear anything against there favorite saint even if the saint is a culprit. They just cannot think beyond reality. For them there saint is god. Any normal common men after becoming a famous saint is not considered a normal human. Indians never allow the saints to enjoy there own private life as there life becomes a public property. Indian people become possessive and they cannot see the reality of there saints as blind fold is a favorite option in India.

Many saints were caught red handed in criminal activities but still the power and trust of people breaks the guts of the constitution and police. The cops not only feel afraid but they cannot even question the saints for there strange activities. Always cropped up with body guards these saints enjoy the life of luxury and comfort as people are showering there hard-earned money for that one look and blessing. Every one joins the parade for a purpose, everyone has some wishes and desires and they urge for it, they want to see there dreams come true, they want to erase hard work from there lives and thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s why these saints flourish like sky as they know that Indians dances on the tunes of miracles and blessings which will foster there self interest.

How placement agencies earn millions in India? How placement agencies earn millions in India? I know you all are attracted to this article as the topic of this article is favorable to everyone. Well every one gets attracted by the glimpse of money; itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a common and usual thing. Anyways I will not waste your time in any twists or word games. You must be thinking that how can a placement agency fetch millions? The most common way to fetch money is through placement agency. Well opening a placement agency is a tough task especially if you are not ready for any hard work. Trust me its not a white collar job, it looks simple and easy but it is quite hectic as the service is provided through servants and other type of workers. The unlucky part of this business is that most of the servants and other workers provided by these agencies are not genuine and guaranteed. There authenticity is in question as the type of verification people do is usually shocking and limited. Most of the placement agencies are giving growth to prostitution as the lady servants are of below poverty line which are purchased by there families which is surely against the law and order . there is no verification of these placement agencies as no one is concerned about these things , people are busy in earning money and they need servants to take there responsibilities and duties. Indian people cannot work without servants and they feel handicapped when they get load of physical work and that is house keeping which requires physical efforts. The business of

placement agency can be the most amazing business and can give you loads of money if you avoid every type of corruption.

Being loyal and providing right service without any corruption and crime may seem impossible but my dear friends impossible it self says I am possible. There are very few agencies that prefer giving right employment without any misguiding baits and tricks. The game plan of these agencies is so terrible and shocking that you will feel insecure. Most of the young girls are either kidnapped or fooled by the formula of marriage and love. Most of the men from these agencies marry these innocent girls and give some money to the girls family which defiantly creates a feeling of trust and faith among the family members , after bringing them to the city they re tortured till there last breath. They are forcefully sent for work and are even sold to brothels. Many placement agency owners work as pimp with the blanket of fake profile. Sexually exploited and emotionally frustrated woman are trapped in these dangerous circles of monsters, they often commit crimes in the houses where they are employed in order to kick out there anger and frustration. There are very few people who act responsible and consider police verification before hiring. The biggest problem is that there is no strictness towards self protection. Poverty is the biggest evil which provokes the poor people to commit crime. After exploitation these poor people consider the whole world as there enemy and often becomes defensive and dangerous.

The biggest drawback is illiteracy which does not allow the development of brain and sense. Another nightmare these women go through is rape and assault. Although we live in 21st century but still today things have not changed. Today even most of the women are living as sex slave in big mansions. There life is nothing but a horrible mess, they are not allowed to meet there families, some are so much controlled that they have not even seen there family from years. Woman who willingly offer sex and service are also not less, there main intention is money making and black mailing. Big tycoons are often blackmailed after countless sex encounters. This game of placement looks simple and sophisticated and easy but it is not in reality. Moreover other placement workers like drivers, guards, labors etc are also not safe as there is no professionalism among illiterate people. Most of the agencies enjoy big commissions and high margins in these services. The salary given to these poor workers by these agencies is very less and the money charged for the services is triple from the actual salary. Less pay and more work creates a feeling of revolt and anger which is seriously not a safe affair. Every year we notice uncountable cases of robbery, rape, murder and assault conducted by these frustrated poor people. The things become worse when some agencies get involved in the crime. It does not mean that all the placement agencies are bad but we donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to trust everyone blindly. Our one careful step can prevent lot of troubles as being safe and alive is better than any thing. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s better to make our self work friendly in order to decrease the involvement of outsiders in our house.

No work is bad and we should not feel guilty in cleaning and maintaining our house as housekeeping will not fade our ego or pride. The time is coming when the servants will not be easily available as the government policies are not peoples friendly. We have to trust our self not others specially when the world outside is dangerous and unfriendly.

Is homosexuality all about getting laid in India? Is homosexuality all about getting laid in India? Some call it a foreign affair , some still don’t understand it , for some its just being insane and very few found it justified. Well the people who are connected in blood relation with a homosexual person will definitely support his loved one, although there are millions of differences in the opinion of people and it’s difficult to get acceptance especially in the country where illiteracy is bigger than any rule and regulation. Homosexuals are not open in public but in the cyber world there existence is very powerful. The gay hookup sites are the main source where you can search there huge majority exposing there body and there interests. Well the shocking side of homosexuals is there bold openness which can scare anyone. From nude pictures to adult remarks, there online profiles are full of uncensored adult content which is seriously a big thing. Some are so much bold that they intentionally pose nude erotically on internet just to fetch some more guys to get laid. There is no aim and no goal of there community, there only motive is sex rest they don’t even know the planning of there community. Seriously homosexuality is a controversial affair but still there is no worry among homosexual guys, there is no development and no seriousness towards there existence. They all are running after sex as they are sexually frustrated because of being a taboo in society. There main dedication is towards sex and that’s why they have maximum adult internet profiles.

People generally laugh on them and tease them as they do not prove there caliber. They may defend themselves as a normal human being but people will not accept there reality until and unless they contribute in the hard work. There is no evidence and no case which proves the sincerity of there existence as they have never done anything together for there own cause. Dancing in gay parades does not give them the right to live openly as narrow minded majority of straight community will never understand there caliber and intentions. For them homosexuals are just some sissy guys who donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get girls. Lack of knowledge and development contribute to misunderstandings and wrong signals which is a common thing to see in India. Homosexuality is a topic of laughter for young generation as there existence is exposed in media and films for entertainment. There are no serious debates conducted by them or by media to support them. There are obligations there are remarks there are awful comments but still homosexuals do not unite together to prove there existence and caliber instead they only unite to get laid.