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Publishers’ Letter It’s all about “Giving” in this issue and this is PVLC’s way of giving BACK to those that are continuously and effortlessly giving unto others, 365 days a year. There are lots of things we want to do and should do, yet it seems as though we never find the time to actually do them. Giving shouldn’t be one of those things. Why? Because giving much-needed help to people or charities that need it most, can open the door for others and let us learn to appreciate the everyday things we all take for granted. As you read on you will see we were told by few philanthropists that giving back can make us feel good and that it effects both, the giver and the receiver. A winwin! So, before we say we don’t have the time or energy to take on a volunteering task, read the featured “Spotlight” or flip over to page 28 to learn more about the Zitiellio Family and The JT Townsend Foundation. We’ve had the opportunity of spending countless hours interviewing breast cancer survivors, sharing smiles and tears with those residing at the Sulzbacher Center, and going behind the scenes with the people that keep many local organizations, nonprofits, and foundations alive. These stories alone are the exact reason why we should start giving back now, and if we do it right, that effort of giving can drive a massive change within our own communities and within all organizations up and down the coast. Giving is the reason for THIS issue; don’t let it be your only reason. After all,
there’s no better feeling than knowing you had a helping hand in improving someone’s life. We here at PVLC learned firsthand that giving back works wonders. Put your compassion into action by joining us at Casa Marina on October 29th for our “Giving Tree” issue release party. We never have a celebration without a cause therefore, we will be giving back to First Coast No More Homeless Pets which you can discover more about by hearing from the organization’s Development Director, Nicole Brose also found in the Spotlight section. Here’s to safe and happy Halloween, many Thanks + Giving, kisses to all breast cancer survivors and a hug to all of our Veterans. The PVLC family wish you and yours a world of compassion, peace and blessings ALWAYS. KTTS,
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CONTENTS HEALTHY DOSE
14 GIVE: Legacy of Love. The gift
of giving
SAVOR, SEE AND SOUND
86 FOODIE: U Can Change Hunger.
coast newest wellness center 22 HEALING: The Invisible Illness, part one
Feeding our community one cafe at a time 90 CARA-ABOUT-IT: Deck the Chairs. The American Red Cross lights up the Beach
THANKS + GIVING
CAMERAWORK
18 RX: Y Healthy Center. First
28 FEATURED STORY: Zitiello Family
Principles. The true meaning of giving starts with a Z 36 M-PIRE: Gifts that Give. From bouquets to bracelets, feel good gifts 38 GLOBAL: Merging Fashion and Mother Earth. Recycled arm candy that warms the soul 47 SPOTLIGHT: First Coast Humanitarians. Get to know the community’s local philanthropists
60 The people of Sulzbacher.
Faces of LIFE
COASTAL A-LIST
42 Angelwood Fashion Show 84 Release Party – Back to the
Books 92 Rounds at the Grounds
ART + CULTURE
72 INK: Brushed Bold. A beautiful
celebration of art and human spirit supporting the FINISH to Breast Cancer 78 MIXED MEDIA: Sylvi Herrick. Striving for transparency in both, material and concept 80 COLLECTION: Heather Blanton. Antagonism on canvas 82 LENS: Unaffected Vision. Viewing art in a different light through the Arc of The St. Johns
COVER + CONTENTS
Cover: Awakening
Artist: Jenny Wells Photography: Holly Gordon
Contents: Journey
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Legacy of
My daughter Nicki had smooth,
unblemished ivory skin. Her long blonde hair the color of beach sand danced in the wind as she walked along the shore. Her eyes were a soft blue like the sky on a clear day. She was a doer, a dreamer; she was an artist. As a young child Snow White, Cinderella, and The Little Mermaid were just a few of her idols. She memorized every line, and sung every song from her collection of movies that held her captive for hours at a time. Then joyfully she would perform her rendition to the delight of her family and friends. When she was ten-years old she auditioned for the Holliday production of “Little Women” at
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Players By The Sea, and jumped for joy when she was cast as “Young Amy.” At fourteen she taught dance, and acting at the Atlantic Beach Experimental Theater summer performance camp. When she was fifteen she was accepted to attend high school at Douglas Anderson School of the Arts in downtown Jacksonville, Florida. Nicki’s love for the theatre and performance gave her a dream, and goals to one day perform on Broadway. Sadly Nicki’s dreams were shattered when she was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor October 2002. The stage went dim as she underwent brain surgeries, radiation treatments and chemotherapy.
Cancer caused her to miss her whole junior year of high school but her miraculous, and fearless nature kept her motivated to never give up. She was able to accomplish new goals and managed to go back to school for her senior year, and graduate with her class. She even completed her freshman year of college before the curtain closed. She died at nineteen.
It was extremely painful to watch my teenage daughter suffer, but astonishing to witness the outpouring of love from so many caring people. The angels who helped us through our darkest period softened the pain but there came a time when Nicki knew she would not survive and said this to me…
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“You see how it is mommy. Your dad died from cancer when he was young. I never knew grandpa. Now I have cancer. You can find a way to do something to help others.” I just looked at her, and then dropped my head. Nicki didn’t want to die without leaving a legacy. She wanted to help others who were going through what she had gone through. So many people had touched her life. At first I was surprised when she asked me to do something to help on her behalf. I felt that I had my hands full, but Ponte Vedra Life
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she reminded me that she was not the only one that mattered. Others were suffering too. Nicki was my priority, and I knew that she worried about me. Perhaps she felt that I would need something to do when she was gone. Whatever her reason, I felt that she gave me an assignment. She asked me to find a way to help others and I
last forever, and not one of us knows the number of days we will be here on this earth. Every day counts. As a Life Coach I help people take action to reach their goals, and achieve their dreams. Coaches believe that you hold the answers to every question, or challenge that you have. The answers are just hidden inside. We help you find the answers and take action to discover your personal best. One universal theme I have learned from my clients is that at some point in their lives someone has reached out to help them, and that made them want to give back. Giving is a way of receiving. •
Research shows that when we take the focus off ourselves and focus on helping others we are reaping benefits. could not ignore that. One day I called her oncologist and talked to him about starting a foundation to help young adults with cancer. He replied saying, “anything for Nicki.” He thought it was a great idea. The Nicki Leach Foundation formed in 2006, one year after her passing. If my daughter had not asked me to do something, I don’t know what I would have done.
IT WAS THE GIFT OF GIVING. I’m glad she gave me this assignment because working with the foundation has also helped me. I’m happy, and have achieved better self-esteem through my service. Research shows that when we take the focus off ourselves and focus on helping others we are reaping benefits. A universal theme of giving is that when we reach out to help another we will gain happiness, and have a greater pursuit for well-being. Nicki’s gone now but not forgotten. Her legacy lives on through the Foundation and through the love and support from those who helped us. Truly something I will never forget. We are not made to
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The Nicki Leach Foundation is a 501(c) (3) non-profit corporation. We provide modest financial assistance to young adults (18-30) afflicted with cancer. We chose this particular age group, because this age group is the highest number of underinsured in the United States. Our young adults are often caught between completion of education and actual employment with insurance. Most have already exhausted their financial resources, and have significant trouble finding jobs given their diagnoses and disabilities. We are also funding an endowment at the University of North Florida for existing and incoming students who have cancer through the foundation. Our hope is that these young adults who are battling cancer will be able to go to college and achieve their dreams. The Nicki Leach Foundation 130 Corridor Road #1657 Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32004 Phone: (904) 686.1010
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The team from the Y Healthy Living Center includes (from left to right) Michael Mayotte, Megan Girard, Barbara Young-English, RN, and Julie Schafer, MPH. Other clinicians from Baptist Health will offer talks and health screenings at the Y. Check baptistgoodforyou. com for upcoming events.
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BRINGING HEALTH AND WELLNESS TO THE FIRST COAST
Y HEALTHY LIVING Center By: Kayla Sim
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iving back can happen in many forms – giving of your time, money, resources, attention - and the ones that make the biggest impact on our quality of life are not always monetary,” Julie Schafer, manager at Y Healthy Living Center says when asked about giving back to her community. The new Y Healthy Living Center is a place where community members can be engaged in health information and can connect to resources within the Baptist Health system. Located inside the Ponte Vedra YMCA, the Y Healthy Living Center stemmed from a partnership between Baptist Health and First Coast YMCA. This partnership combines both experts and resources from the First Coast YMCA and Baptist Health. “Through their partnership, the continuum of care for the health of individual patients, YMCA members, and communities as a whole is much more extensive.” The efforts of the new center create an innovative way for a hospital system to be involved in all aspects of their patient’s lives especially in preventive care and wellness. “I have worked professionally in the field of
public health for the last decade, and it is exciting to watch the landscape of health move from focusing on treatment to prevention, as well as be employed by a healthcare provider that understands the importance of preventive health in keeping our communities healthy.” The new center is not only a blessing to the PVL community but to their staff as well. “Physicians in the community are looking for ways to give back and to help their patients with wellness, but may not have the time with a busy patient load to cover exercise, nutrition, and stress habits on top of the reason the appointment was scheduled.” Schafer says that when we have a positive effect on someone else’s life then we have a purpose in our own. This easily describes the people who make the new living center possible. “The staff at the Y Healthy Living Centers connects those seeking health information and coaching with YMCA and Baptist professionals that can address specific health concerns, as well as be their guide in reaching health goals. If a community member does not have a primary care physician, staff can assist that person in Ponte Vedra Life
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finding a Baptist physician,” Schafer says. The Ponte Vedra Y includes everyone in the community from young to old. It has a built-in support system for the whole family with childcare, a teen center, aquatics programming, and a full schedule of group exercise classes for adults and seniors. A wide range of free and low cost services can be found at the Y. “The Ponte Vedra Y-HLC will provide regular high quality interactive sessions led by Baptist physicians and other healthcare providers,” says medical director, Aristides Sastre, MD. A series of “Talk with a Doc” sessions will discuss healthcare topics relative to the Ponte Vedra Beach community. Another service offered is support groups which Sastre says we can expect to see grow
and be tailored depending upon the community’s needs. “With opening each new Health Living Center we are given the opportunity to learn about the needs of the area and draw from our combined resources to try to better meet those needs.” Through this partnership the Y Healthy Living Center will provide health screenings, sports physicals, and cardiac risk assessments. Please check the sidebar to find out more information on the classes and services schedule. “The First Coast YMCA and Baptist are dedicated to the idea of healthy living. We are excited about the new community we will be able to serve. It is always a learning experience and we can expect to see centers opening in the future in Northeast Florida,” Sastre says. •
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Annual health screening includes: blood pressure, heart rate, body composition, blood lipids and glucose with a wellness coach after attending a Talk with a Doc session (Free) Coming soon services Flu shots, sports physicals
HeartWise Screening and Consultation In-depth evaluation of personal cardiovascular risk factors with a Baptist nurse or physician assistant. Includes measurements of blood pressure, heart rate, BMI, blood lipids and glucose, and an EKG. Call to schedule. ($69 due at time of scheduling) Coming soon Support Groups Cancer Support, Breastfeeding Support, Caregiver Support, Postpartum Depression Support baptistjax.com/ymca 904.202.5376
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HEALING
the invisible
illness Part One
By: Randy Taylor It’s a taboo term, mental illness. It’s often used as a term of judgment rather than one of description, one which people refuse to affiliate with or talk about because mental illness is batched with terms like insanity and craziness. Guilt by association wouldn’t be prudent for one’s career or popularity, now would it? 22 |
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Proper working order of the brain’s neurotransmitters is the key to mental health But keep in mind that all sorts of socalled positive qualities can be traits of persons living with depression. High pain threshold, strong self-motivation, strong-willed personality, history of perfectionism, calm demeanor, absence of seasonal allergies, high artistic abilities and interest — these are all characteristics which, in conjunction with specific biochemistries, are, in fact, the face of mental illnesses such as depression. On reflection of Robin Williams’ suicide I asked myself why someone I grew up watching on television and in movies who, so brilliantly, brought laughter to the souls of so many, could end his life just as quickly. What inner struggle was so bad that the favorable alternative was to end his own life? I began to research organizations devoted to the understanding of mental illnesses and my due diligence rested on the Walsh Research Institute, a non-profit organization based outside of Chicago. It is headed by William J. Walsh, PhD, an internationally recognized expert in biochemistry, who has worked with more than 30,000 patients with mental and behavioral disorders, and has a database containing more than three million chemical assays. He has extensively studied 25 serial killers, including Charles Manson and has designed nutrient therapy programs for NBA and PGA athletes. The study of psychiatry has come a long way. Aristotle’s Tabula Rasa Theory, further
developed in 1700s by John Locke, suggested that newborns came into the World with blank slates, a fresh start. It was thought that all mental disorders were results of traumatic events from childhood. Psychiatric therapies included a patient lying on a couch and a counselor who listened. In the 1970s Tabula Rasa was proven incorrect and attention shifted from life’s experiences to molecular biology, where the brain is a chemical factory and nutrients and vitamins are the fuel. Proper working order of the brain’s neurotransmitters is the key to mental health. Reuptake activity at the neurotransmitter synapses (gateways) is really at the center of the discussion of mental health. It is here where communication among brain cells takes place and, without this communication, depression and many other mental illnesses occur. Psychiatric medicines affecting neurotransmitters can provide the quickest, most efficient relief to patients in need. The dominant neurotransmitters are associated with depression (low serotonin), anxiety (high norepinephrine), and schizophrenia (elevated dopamine). And these are only three of more than 100 active neurotransmitters believed to be in the brain. Three classifications of drugs are used to treat the above conditions: SSRI’s, SNRI’s and MAOI’s. While I am hardly qualified to describe these, any expert will tell you that millions of people annually are afforded prompt relief from use of a specific drug falling Ponte Vedra Life
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under one of these three types, if the correct condition is isolated. One distinct problem is matching a patient effectively and in a timely manner to a distinct condition. And once done, most drugs provide only short term relief and cause extensive side effects, sometimes worse than the original symptoms. Perhaps Dr. William Walsh’s greatest contribution so far is his discovery of five distinct biotypes of depression:
undermethylation, overmethylation, copper overload, pyrrole disorder, and metal toxicity. Along with distinctive biochemistries, each classification exhibits specific symptoms, traits and physical characteristics. What this means is patients can now be diagnosed and treated with pinpoint accuracy. By interviewing patients thoroughly and taking blood and urine samples to isolate their biotype, Dr. Walsh has helped thousands of patients normalize their brain function through nutrient therapy and without the use of drugs. Today, advanced nutrient therapy, in many cases, can render psychiatric drug therapy unnecessary. Through the use of vitamins, minerals and amino acids in customized dosages, normalized brain chemistries are achieved with positive long term results and without the side effects often caused by the use of psychiatric drugs. How important are the blood and urine panels used in Dr. Walsh’s protocol? While two patients may exhibit similar physical symptoms, each may have distinctly different biotypes, meaning that while the first would react favorably to an SSRI drug, the other may have an equally drastic and dangerous reaction to the same drug. And yet, unsuspecting patients and their psychiatrists who don’t utilize these panels often “experiment” with a long list of drugs: Paxil, Zoloft,
Advanced nutrient therapy, in many cases, can render psychiatric drug therapy unnecessary. Pristiq, Effexor, Cymbalta, to name a few, until they believe they have found the correct medication. Patients often try several drugs over periods of several months or even years before settling on one. It’s a form of Russian Roulette along the way because an antidepressant not suited for one’s biochemistry may worsen symptoms, causing suicidal thoughts and in some cases, homicidal tendencies. A Walsh Institute-trained doctor can order a series of inexpensive laboratory tests and eliminate a long and dangerous road of experimentation by immediately isolating a distinct biotype which can be treated more efficiently and effectively. The Walsh Research Institute is dedicated to bring relief through biochemical therapy to millions of people who suffer from mental illness around the world. A campaign to educate 1,000 doctors worldwide over the next five years has been activated and nearly 150 doctors have already been trained. In the United States alone there are already more than 18 clinical practices utilizing Dr. Walsh’s nutrient therapy protocols and another 70 doctors will be trained by the end of the year. Not only are they taught the biochemical findings from 30 years of researching biochemistry, but also Dr. Walsh’s clinical system and treatment protocols which include medical history, specialized
lab testing, diagnosis of chemical imbalances and treatment aimed to normalize brain chemistry. My respect for those who battle depression and other mental illnesses has grown immensely since my research in preparation for this article. Perhaps Robin Williams would have benefitted from this type of treatment, and sadly, we will never know. What we do know is that many mental illnesses can be healed through nutrient therapy without the risky experimentation or the likely side effects caused by psychiatric drugs alone. Dr. Walsh has already accomplished a great deal, and together we can continue to help more people with anxiety and depression. • To learn more about the Walsh Research Institute, please visit walshinstitute.org. You will find information on their upcoming physician education workshop and patient outreach clinic as well as public and professional programs offered in your area. I highly recommend reading Dr. Walsh’s book Nutrient Power: Heal Your Biochemistry and Heal Your Brain.
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FEATURE
Photography by Tiger Gomez
Every so often we write a story about a person They do exceptionally good things like helping dollars, organizing fundraisers‌ and the last 28 |
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Love of
For the
Giving Local philanthropist Judith Zitiello reveals how what goes around comes around
by Tracy Margol Judith Zitiello is one of those people. Somewhat disinclined when we approached her about the story, she was happy to remain in her comfy, humble little shell. But we insisted. And we promised her somehow, in some way or another, something good* would come from it (and indeed it did, keep reading). And that’s all she needed to hear. Judith’s under-the-cover philanthropic ways began 20 years ago when she and her husband Tom moved to Ponte Vedra Beach. She quietly donated her time and resources to various organizations and one day something
happened on a football field that changed many lives forever. In 2004, J. T. Townsend, one of our heroes at PVLC, was left paralyzed after an incident during a local high school football game. Fred Funk of PGA Tour fame who happens to be a neighbor to Tom and Judith, heard the news and went to visit J. T. in the hospital. “I want you to go meet this kid,” he said to Judith over the phone after driving home from the hospital. “I want to help him.” And that’s how it all began. “My husband Tom and I visited J.T. at his aunt‘s home because his
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If everyone could see the good things that people do,
the world would be a better place.
wheelchair would not fit in his own house,” said Judith, “but we had a great conversation and on our way home, Tom and I didn’t speak. We were so moved we just cried. J.T.’s family was awesome… loving and faithful that God was going to take care of J.T. ” Later Tom and Judith called Fred and said, “we’re in, we’ll do whatever you need us to do.” So with the help of the PGA Tour and an outpouring of people and vendors, a brand new wheelchair accessible
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house was built for J.T. and his family. The outpouring was epic according to Judith. Fred met with Cordele Builders and got the project going. Fred’s wife Sharon sprang into action calling large retailers asking for donations of appliances and furnishings for the entire home. And a devoted group of Fred Funk’s golf fans called Funk’s Punks started by Judith and Tom,
morphed into a “give back to J.T.” group of punks. In an effort to help fill J.T.’s new home with necessities, Funk’s Punks began a grassroots campaign, promoting a registry at Bed Bath and Beyond and Target. As soon as they would add an item, the online registries would immediately say, “completed.” The house was quickly cleaned, decorated and ready for move-in day. “This really inspired J.T. and the Zitiello family to give back, so we prayed
about it,” explained Judith. And the answer came. As a result of J.T.’s gratitude and desire to give back, the Zitiellos and the Funks worked closely with J. T. to start the J.T. Townsend Foundation, a non-profit organization that provides adaptive equipment and comprehensive financial assistance to those with disabilities on the First Coast. Judith’s entire family is involved in giving too. Following her attitude of benevolence, her daughter Lindsay Ponte Vedra Life
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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
JT Townsend Foundation Receives Generous Donation To Continue to Help Families Living with Disabilities on the First Coast September 2014-Jacksonville, Fla.
JT Townsend Foundation is pleased to announce a receipt of a generous donation to continue work in helping families living with disabilities. The JT Townsend Foundation continues to focus its efforts to helping children and adults living with disabilities receive adaptive equipment and resources to improve their lives. As of September 2014, JT Townsend Foundation can now assist even more families on the First Coast thanks to a generous donation from Dixie Egg Company. When Dixie Egg Company learned of the need here on the First Coast, they immediately stepped up to the plate to help. Dixie Egg Company prides itself on caring for community and made a strong commitment to helping the JT Townsend Foundation to continue its great work.
works for a non-profit and sons Scott and Louis have also adopted the family example of giving. J.T. also had a penchant for paying it forward. “When we became active in 2009, the first thing J.T. did,” said Judith, “was give a piece of his own equipment to someone who had suffered a spinal cord injury in a motorcycle accident. We held fundraisers all over town to purchase equipment to fill the requests of the applicants. J.T. would deliver each piece himself with the help of his mother, two sisters and aunt.” J.T. went on to graduate from UNF, remaining active with the foundation. Unfortunately, J.T. Townsend passed away June 5th 2013 just one month after graduation. But his legacy lives on though the foundation’s tireless volunteers – Judith, Tom, Fred and his wife Sharon, J.T.’s mom Carmen and family, executive director Kelly Winer, active board members, the Funk’s Punks and a bevy of supporters from the community. “To date we’ve given to almost 175 families and about $300,000 worth of equipment,” Judith exclaimed. When asked about specific examples for the equipment that is given, Judith described how a special adaptive stroller for a child who is paralyzed, can change his life dramatically. “A regular stroller cannot be used in this instance because of the person’s size and the medical safety requirements. Most applicants have batteryoperated wheelchairs that require expensive hydraulic lifts and a
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large-sized van for transport. The special stroller is much more portable and allows the applicant to accompany the entire family practically anywhere. It enhances the entire family dynamic, yet they are often denied by insurance.” Once the foundation was established, Judith started receiving calls from people who no longer needed their equipment, so she set up a community closet where people can donate or receive medical equipment and accessories. Images are uploaded to the Facebook page, and people are matched up with needed equipment. Last year, in the midst of her perpetual giving, a pancreatic cancer diagnosis forced Judith to be on the receiving end. While she has since been fortunate to receive a cancer-free stamp from her doctor, the outpouring of love and support she received over the last year took her right out of her interminable giving comfort zone. Today Judith’s giving tree branches out even further through a group she calls “Jude’s Dudes,” a team she created to support the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network. Anyone can join, donate or participate in an upcoming event. Simply visit purplestride.kintera.org/Jacksonville. Kelly Winer, the foundation’s executive director, can attest to Judith’s benevolence. “I teasingly call her the Pied Piper,” she admits, “because of her special gift of uniting people and their causes.”
“You never know when you’ll be on the other end,” says Judith. “We had relatives friends and neighbors come to us wanting to do something to help. It was the first time we agreed to let others help us.” She goes on to explain, “Giving is so much more than a dollar bill. It’s changing bed sheets, rubbing cream on hands or feet, etc. God’s love is shown through giving – when people do things for you, you see God’s love for you. While everything around us appears terror-filled and prejudiced, don’t fall for that untruth. It seems impossible that one person could make a difference. But give in any way you’re able. If everyone could see the good things that people do, the world would be a better place. It doesn’t have to be a huge project, sometimes it’s just a smile.” * In the end, Judith’s leap of faith in agreeing to this story paid off in a very good (an unexpected) way. The connections she made with PVLC led to the J.T. Townsend Foundation receiving a substantial donation that would cover many of the applicant’s medical equipment needs – changing lives for the better. What goes around really does come around. • To donate or read more success stories, visit JTTownsendFoundation.org JTTownsendFoundation Ponte Vedra Life
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M-PIRE
gifts by Melissa Intemann Shop for a change because charitable gifts are the “new black!” These gifts go beyond the adage “gifts that keep on giving” because those mentioned below give back TWICE with all the proceeds going to worthy causes. I’ve sought out items that are as benevolent as they are practical and yes, beautiful as well!
“Bloom 2 Bloom” the name of the
company pretty much sums it up. Feel like ordering flowers for a friend, but can’t quite find the ‘oh so perfect’ arrangement? How about a more modern arrangement from Bloom 2 Bloom? Not only do they feature incredible, non-traditional options, but for every bouquet you purchase, a second bouquet is sent to a charity! From hospitals to shelters to community organizations a delivery will be made to those in need of a smile! #flowerpower Bouquet, bloom2bloom.com, $50
Good Cards are THE gift certificates of
the ‘philanthropy world.’ One stop shop for that perfect gift for those that have everything or for those who have bosses or co-workers you may be stumped on. You set the price point, and the recipient gets to pick the charity! This is also great for those that buy gifts in bulk! The charities range from those that are national to those that are statewide. These cards aren’t good…they’re GREEEAAT! #goodtogreatcards Charitynavigator.org
Chavez for Charity bracelets debuted
in 2013 and are now locally sold at Sidney Cardel’s in Jacksonville Beach! These beautiful bracelets are more than just beads, and each one is made to inspire, unite and motivate. With every color bead from Chavez, comes a bracelet that tells its story and benefits charities across the globe. Sidney Cardel’s Boutique was able to have a VERY special bracelet made just for our area. The white beaded bracelet named the “11th Bracelet Project,” (shown here) directly benefit the JT Townsend Foundation with 25% of each sale going back to the foundation. There are more than 20 amazing and VERY worthy charitable causes. Stop by Sidney’s and ‘shop for a change,’ a change to the world, which we live in. #jtgivesback 11th Bracelet Project, JT Townsend Foundation, $10 Sidney Cardel’s Boutique 412 2nd St., South, Jacksonville Beach 904-372-4000 • chavezforcharity.com
Fashion for water. The Obakki Foundation
is on a mission to make sure that all 345 million people in Africa live WITH water. Right now, they don’t. Obakki is an internationally recognized fashion brand in Vancouver and is locally sold here at Emly Benham in Jacksonville Beach. With every purchase of a garment, the brand can absorb the admin fees of the Foundation. This alone, allows the foundation to send 100% of all public donations directly to its humanitarian projects. Not a bad investment! #feelgoodpieces Obakki Dress, $355
Emly Benham Boutique 2400 3rd street South Suite 106 • Jacksonville Beach 904-246-1401 • obakkifoundation.org
ONEHOPE Wine has a sensational
varietal of wines to select from. Each bottle pairs nicely with the charity it benefits. 50% of the sale goes to your charity of choice, from pet adoption to supporting our troops, you are sure to find the perfect wine AND cause! The prices are so good that you will find yourself mixing and matching while you are giving! #WINENOT Wine, onehope.com, $18.99
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MERGING FASHION AND MOTHER EARTH By: Kayla Sim
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ne might not know the beauty in a bracelet,
but Andres Gomez does. His beauty lies beyond the latest fashion trend, and deep into the Colombian soil.
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“I want to show people that it is possible to stop using our last natural resources for certain things. There are ways we can use what has already been used.” This merge of fashion and mother earth began on a trip back home for Gomez, who was a native of Colombia and was surrounded by various types of vegetation growing up. “I remember trees and green everywhere as a young boy.” Much to his surprise, he discovered a dramatic change in the once beautiful landscape. Seeing this vast destruction led him to establish HarD TeK, a company that hand makes beautiful accessories out of recycled or reclaimed materials like wood, scrap leather, and recycled plastic and metals. “In Colombia, especially where I grew up, a high percentage of the population works in the wood business. There is a lot of waste generated. Pieces are discarded because of their size and other factors,” Gomez says. A childhood friend, Sergio, who is in charge of operations in Colombia for the company, collects these remnants to make these specially made pieces. Inspired by architecture around the globe, glimpse at the HarD TeK online shop and vibrant, colored bracelets will jump out at you. “I like edgier and more unusual structures, and I wanted to create this in wood and other recycled materials.” Gomez explains that his designs represent what he has seen around the world and that his hometown is represented with the origin of the materials. For Gomez and the creative team at HarD TeK, it not just about designing unique watches and other accessories in hopes someone will purchase them. “Additionally, for every piece purchased we
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“I get the reward of knowing that the kids and younger generations of the world are learning how to preserve the earth.”
plant a tree. Sergio and I plant the trees while teaching recycling methods to the different communities in Colombia.” HarD TeK’s mission is also to educate the locals, especially the children on conservation techniques. “It is our mission to help them become aware that the deforestation needs to come to a halt.” The countries in South America believe to be last retaining specific natural resources. “We like to be proactive in beginning to fix the problems we have now instead of waiting until it is too late,” Gomez says. The “last lung” of the planet, South America, as Gomez calls it, is being destroyed every day, therefore, he says we need to do something about it. HarD TeK tries to find other solutions to your ordinary, destructive alternatives. “In reality, Earth is a small object in our vast universe; we can accelerate its own destruction if we don’t act immediately.” He’s saving the world one beautiful design and piece of scrap metal at a time. Gomez says, “We are making efforts to protect the city’s natural reservations and bringing new industrial ideas which greatly benefit the environment and therefore the future, not only for the community and its youth, but for the world as a whole.” As for Gomez, “I get the reward of knowing that the kids and younger generations of the world are learning how to preserve the earth. I’m contributing to a process which will help extend lives, preserve nature, increase awareness, and better humanity in general. It is my goal to get people together as one group to keep this process going so we can make a great impact.” HarD TeK products resemble the world, and the world is our responsibility to take care of, Gomez says. •
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COASTAL A-LIST Angelwood’s mission is to improve the quality of life for children and adults with developmental disabilities and their families. Angelwood Inc. assists families in caring for the special needs of their loved ones across their lifespan through a variety of programs suited to each person’s individual goals. We help children and adults with developmental disabilities such as: Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Down syndrome, Intellectual Disabilities, Prader-Willi and Spina Bifida.
Fashion Show & Luncheon Often other concerns such as behavioral issues, physical limitations, and seizure disorders may accompany a developmental disability. Regardless of what specific service is offered, the agency is built upon the experience and the high quality of care that has become our hallmark. angelwoodjax.org
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Humanitarians Compiled by: Kayla Sim
From a former professional tennis player to a maître D, these (busy) philanthropists have found more than just the time to give back, it has become a part of their mold. We at PVLC would like to say “thank you” by turning the spotlight on them. Get to know the following five humanitarians, discover their charitable work and how the gift of giving truly makes them shine. We hope this section – and this issue will encourage you to make giving back apart of who you are.
MaliVai Washington Founder, MaliVai Washington Youth Foundation A two time All-American tennis player, MaliVai’s professional tennis career spanned over ten years. His love for the sport brought him to introduce tennis to youth and everything that comes with it.
Tell us about the MaliVai Washington Youth Foundation. We have been in Jacksonville for 18 years, we started out as a way just to expose young people to the sport of tennis, kids that have never been exposed to the sport before. At one point we went from a youth organization that did tennis programs to now a comprehensive program, an after-school program five days a week. We serve just over 200 students in a life skills, education, and tennis program.
How did you establish the concept behind MaliVai Washington Youth Foundation ? I was hoping youth would get
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from the sport what I was able to get from the sport. This being the value of hard work, sportsmanship, integrity, etiquette, teamwork, all these things I got form the sport of tennis.
This issue is about “giving” - how has giving back changed you? Giving back has changed me knowing that somehow I have impacted a youth’s life and put them on a slightly better path than they would have been on. Knowing that you are apart of their positive development is a great feeling.
What is the biggest challenge you face working with youth? I think the biggest challenge I face working with youth is youth being youth and teenagers being
teenagers. They don’t always see opportunities the way I see them as an adult. They don’t always see the negative influences society brings. Teenagers and young people in general are inherently inquisitive and want to experience different things.
What does the gift of giving mean to you? The gift of giving doesn’t always have to be something significant it can be
your time or money. A dollar or word of encouragement can go a long way towards impacting a child’s life. Putting that youth on a positive track can literally benefit them for decades and decades. The gift of giving impacts the giver and the receiver.
What’s in store for the future of the MaliVai Washington Youth Foundation? We are actually in the process of figuring out how we want to expand in Jacksonville and how we can serve the most number of students with the highest quality program. •
1096 W. 6th Street Jacksonville, FL 32209 (904) 359-KIDS(5437) malwashington.com info@malwashington.com LoveMWYF
Sterling Joyce If you’ve had the opportunity to attend a soiree or better yet, a charity event in Jacksonville, the odds are Sterling Joyce probably had something to do with it. Recognized as the most dapper gentleman of Jacksonville, Sterling uses his limelight to benefit those in need. Tell us about the charities you work with. Given the nature of my work, I’ve been fortunate to have made many friends throughout the First Coast, especially in the beaches communities, where I’ve worked for over 32 years that have generously supported many causes. When I setup my fundraising page, my intention was to help provide these causes with the most visibility possible. I’m grateful to have been able to support BEAM, which assists needy families with utility bills, rent, jobs and food for more than 11 years, and to Daniel’s Kids, who provides counseling services, connects kids with foster families and facilitates adoptions. 50 |
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What is most challenging when working with BEAM and other charities?
What I find most challenging is I wish I had the time to personally meet the people my charity helps. Sometimes, it’s easy to loose sight of the fact that these aren’t just causes we are helping, there are people behind this need. I wish I had the time to hear their stories and give them a hug, and tell them that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel.
What is the driving force behind Sterling Joyce?
When you spend as much time as I do, with so many members of our community, you can’t help but want to give something back. When people come up to me and tell me how BEAM has helped them when they didn’t have a roof over their head or food to eat, and how grateful they are that my charity works so closely with BEAM, nothing makes me happier. I know firsthand what these families and children are going through. I experienced a number of hardships and losses when I was young. I’ve been given a lot in my life since then, and I just want to give back in the hope that these families and children can turn their lives around in the near future.
Jacksonville during the holidays, on Wednesday, December 3rd. Those attending will need to bring a toy. My annual birthday charity party for BEAM is on Wednesday, December 10th. As always, admission is a toy, canned goods AND a book for a needy child (ages 4-14). This year’s theme is “Sterling’s Christmas Cabaret.” I couldn’t get all of this done without the help of so many people. I am also holding an appreciation party for these folks on Thursday, December 18th at the Comedy Club on Beach Blvd. This party will also be for charity. Those attending are asked to bring school supplies for the children of Bright Holidays.
Final words?
With the holidays coming up, we should all take a moment to be grateful for what we have, and whenever possible, to help those who are struggling. The last few years have been hard on so many people; when we’re good to all people, it makes us better people. •
What does the gift of giving mean to you? To me the gift of giving means doing what you can to help improve and make a difference in the lives of others.
What’s in store for the future for you and the charities you support?
This year I’m giving back to Bright Holidays, a charity that helps underprivileged students and families throughout
Please visit these websites for more information. sterlingjoycecharityfundraising.com brightholidays.org • danielkids.org jaxbeam.org Email: sterling@sterlingscharityfundraising.com Sterling Joyce
Pepper Peete
Director of Development, Youth Crisis Center
Thirteen years of coaching golf and a passion for the sport taught Pepper Peete life’s simple lessons. Implementing these lessons and passing them along to today’s youths has been her first priority. Tell us about the Youth Crisis Center. Youth Crisis Center was established in 1974 as Florida’s first runaway program. YCC quickly became one of the busiest runaway centers in the nation serving more than 1,500 children each year. Today YCC does much more than provide shelter for runaways. YCC has developed a full continuum of services for children, families, and young adults. YCC’s residential shelter functions more as Northeast Florida’s emergency room for homeless, runaways, and throwaway youth ages 10-17.
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What is the driving force behind Pepper Peete and YCC? I get to talk about the Exceptional Care that our direct care staff provides to our kids in care. I get to share stories about kids who have said their life is better because of YCC and I get to share heart-rending testimonials by grateful parents on the quality of care that their child received during their stay here at YCC. Plus, I get to meet some of the most incredible philanthropic people in the community who volunteer their time or have the heart to give of their treasure to help strengthen families and restore hope.
What is the biggest challenge you face within the center?
The biggest challenge I face within the center are working with the girls. Girls are the most vulnerable population when it comes to at-risk kids. At many times girls become victims of the system due to the lack of advocacy for them when the first signs of trouble start to show up in their life. I try to choose programs and services to volunteer for whose major focus is on girls. One thing I do know is that in order to play the game of golf, just as to play the game of life, you need to properly prepare so you will prevent a poor performance.
Final words?
The society that we all live in has changed into a very different model. The family unit and family dynamics have changed so much it can become over whelming and confusing to a lot of families. •
3015 Parental Home Road Jacksonville, FL 32216 (904) 720-0002 youthcrisiscenter.org info@ycc.org Youth Crisis Center
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Executive Director, Angelwood
Diane Tuttle labels the “gift of giving” as both, a privilege and a responsibility. She takes this pledge with Angelwood. Tell us about Angelwood. Angelwood, Inc. is a local nonprofit in Northeast FL that offers services for children and adults with developmental disabilities such as Autism, Down syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, Spina Bifida and Intellectual Disabilities. Since 1993 when the organization began, our goal has been to meet the needs of individuals with special needs in a high quality and caring way. Some of the Angelwood services include: Group Homes, Residential respite, Summer Day Camp and Career Development Services. Annually, Angelwood serves over 300 children and adults who have disabilities. Our reach goes beyond that when we consider the impact we have on the families of those individuals too.
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I was introduced to helping those with disabilities when I became a volunteer in high school at a summer day camp for children with special needs. The experience, obviously, had a strong impact which is one reason I am so passionate about involving students as volunteers, whether at our summer camp or throughout the year in our other programs. I particularly enjoy having college students who are entering this field experience first-hand how this important work is actually done.
This issue is about “giving” - how has giving back changed you? I feel as though giving back is actually just part of who I am. At Angelwood I feel as though I learn from the people we serve, probably as much as we, hopefully, share with them. I have learned to start each
day with fresh eyes and to greet people as though they are the most important person around. Life is so much more joyful when my life’s work has a positive impact on someone.
What is the biggest challenge you face within Angelwood?
The biggest challenge is that we are constantly needing to raise funds. However, we do it because it is so important, not for US but for those who are entrusted to our care. Someone once told me that when we ask someone to give we are inviting them to participate in the work WITH us.
What is the driving force behind Diane Tuttle?
I believe my faith has a lot to do with who I am and why I do what I do. I believe God has given me many talents in this life and entrusted me with many gifts. While I believe God would love for me to enjoy and appreciate those gifts, I do not believe they were meant for me to simply JUST enjoy with my family and close friends. Sharing them has simply become who I am.
What does the gift of giving mean to you? As I watch other people give, I have noticed over the years, that those who feel as though they are personally touching another life seem to have a joy in their giving, and that is a gift in itself. Maybe the donors understand that giving is both a privilege and a responsibility.
What’s in store for the future of Angelwood?
Angelwood will continue to work to be the best we can. We are always looking for ways to provide the services we offer at the highest caliber. So, that being said, we will keep refining what we do and how we do it. •
P.O. Box 24925 Jacksonville, FL 32241 904-288-7259 angelwoodjax.org info@angelwoodjax.org Angelwood, Inc.
Nicole Brose
Development Director, First Coast No More Homeless Pets
Growing up Nicole Brose always lived by the life motto “pay it forward”. She chooses to do so with her furry friends. Tell us about First Coast No More Homeless Pets. First Coast No More Homeless Pets (FCNMHP) is a national leading animal welfare organization that began in 2002. Our mission is to end the killing of dogs and cats in shelters in our community, Northeast Florida and the nation. As a nonprofit that collaborates closely with the entire community, we strive to dramatically improve the welfare of animals and promote the valuable bond between humans and their pets. Pairing homeless pets with new families is a big part of our life-saving work. We plan and implement Mega Adoption Events, which are the largest of their kind in the nation.
How did you get introduced to working with animals? From an early age my mom raised me to give back, to always think about how I can help someone else in need. I was
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always drawn to animals and grew up with horses, dogs, cats and many other critters I had ‘rescued’. There wasn’t a day gone by in which I wasn’t ‘trying’ to save an animal or helping a friend, stranger or family member. That was normal and I grew up with a strong sense of community because of my childhood. I truly feel to ‘pay it forward’ should be a motto we all live by, especially if we are blessed with health and the means to contribute.
This issue is about “giving” - how has giving back changed yoU? I can’t imagine a day in which I don’t think about how I can give my abilities to help someone else, a group or animal in need. I have worked in and out of the nonprofit sector for 20 years and I can’t ever think of a day I didn’t wake up and say, “Today great things will happen for my cause because I will work hard to ensure that is the case.” I feel to give back and to truly love what
it is you’re doing is one of the most beneficial things not only for your psyche, but to ensure a high level quality of work and to create an amazing community we can all be proud to call home!
What is the biggest challenge you face within your organization?
The challenge I face running a development department is to be able to share the story about what it is our organization does each day and why support is crucial. Animal welfare means so much to many people, however, FCNMHP is not a shelter, we don’t only focus on adopting our own dogs/ cats, but we do combat the problem at its core...to keep dogs and cats from ever entering a shelter to begin with so shelters/rescues can focus on having less animals – hence lowering euthanasia rates. To ask for monetary support from people regarding your cause can be frustrating if these same people decide not to give. I simply hope those who know the story of FCNMHP pass along our information, because we do make a difference is a huge way and have now for over a decade. Other cities know of our work, it’s now time for Northeast Florida to know all that we do as well.
lives for the betterment of others and that is the key to our own happiness. At FCNMHP giving means to help now, and hope that the community realizes all that you do and supports your efforts.
What’s in store for the future of FCNMHP?
As we at FCNMHP fight for animals in Northeast Florida, we also help other communities in the quest to save more lives by sharing the knowledge we’ve gained in Jacksonville. Our expert team works closely with animal welfare communities, analyzing data and assisting with strategic planning to improve live release rates. In the end, we ask them to “pay it forward” and help another community in need.
Final words?
Without the vital services FCNMHP provides, the Jacksonville community risks returning to the way things were before we started - when more than 23,000 plus pets were euthanized each year. We hope more do start investing in the life-saving programs of FCNMHP, so that together we can reach a day when there are truly no more homeless pets! •
What does the gift of giving mean to you?
The gift of giving means many wonderful things, such as, helping others secure their own happiness and success and saving the life of a helpless voiceless animal. It is what we all need to strive to do each day for one another or those in need of our services. It means we are living our
6817 Norwood Avenue Jacksonville, FL 32208 904.520.7900 fcnmhp.org FCNMHP
IN ONE DAY AT THE SULZBACHER CENTER:
HEALTH CARE IS PROVIDED TO OVER 200 PATIENTS.
MORE THAN 60 CHILDREN CALL THE SULZBACHER CENTER HOME.
SAFE SHELTER IS PROVIDED TO 340 MEN, WOMEN AND CHILDREN.
OVER 1,200 MEALS ARE SERVED TO THE HUNGRY.
VOLUNTEERS DONATE OVER 65 HOURS OF THEIR TIME.
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50 PEOPLE ARE TURNED AWAY BECAUSE ALL THE BEDS ARE FULL.
THEY CALL HIM POPS. Once upon a time, he was an all-star receiver for Sandalwood High School. After losing his mother to Hurricane Katrina, he traveled back to the river city and was not able to find a job due to his health. He has been homeless since. He has been a resident of Sulzbacher for four months and hopes to receive medication for his diabetes and become well again. He’s a big Jaguar’s fan as football continues to be his passion.
CANDICE AND KURT WITH THEIR FOUR CHILDREN have been on quite the path that led them to Sulzbacher. Living with friends, in hotels, and on the streets only lasted so long thanks to the center. Kurt is presently working after losing his job as a chef, he hopes to save money to rent an apartment for his family. The struggles and challenges they have encountered keep them together. His five-year-old son makes him smile every day.
After losing her job and then apartment, CHIQUITA AND BABY KHARITY moved to Sulzbacher where they now call the Center their home for over a month. Occupied by her three-month old, she is unable to work. Childcare hopes to be in the future for Chiquita so she can work and save. Looking at the bright side of things; her baby is with her 24 hours a day.
PENELOPE has an extensive career resume, as past employee at Bank of America for over ten years, she was among the 3,500 people who got laid off during the economy downfall . She stayed with family until she had to move out; now her church is her family. Her daughter is incarcerated, she speaks to her frequently giving her advice on life. Her goal is to save money to go to cosmetology school and become a cosmetologist. Her hair is always perfect.
TAKISHA, a mother of five all under the age of five, lives for her children. Once bills were not met Takisha, her husband and their children moved to Sulzbacher to keep their children safe. All living in the size of what we know as most walk-in closets, they feel very lucky to have a roof over their heads as the streets are never easy. The children feel overwhelmed and stressed due to the change. Three year old Gotti, (pictured) got dressed up for the shoot.
ANGIELEEE AND JONATHAN have four beautiful children. Angielee was a Certified Nurse’s Assistant for many years until she lost her two boys to the state that sent her in a drug induced downward spiral. After losing her job from this, they lived in an abandoned gas station until Sulzbacher was found. A new home began a new path; she is currently working, and Jonathan is looking for a job. Their children lift up their spirits every day.
CREDITS: PHOTOGRAPHY: Tiger Gomez CREATIVE DIRECTOR: Inger Williamson Special thanks to the Sulzbacher Center and the men, women and children who took the time to give us their heartwarming stories.
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Tacos for TaTas & Brush Strokes for Breast Cancer On October 6, 2014, local hot spot TacoLu converted to a gallery filled with a vivid explosion of colors representing life and became more than just a great place with good grub. Brushed Bold: A Painting and Photography Exhibit displays fourteen breast cancer survivors who bravely shared their bodies as canvases with thirteen talented artists to voice their stories of strength and hope the month before. Unveiled by The Donna Foundation and 26.2 with DONNA, Brushed Bold was a part of the annual event Tacos for TaTa’s, co-hosted by TacoLu and lululemon athletica. Artists created sensational works of art that were photographed for limited reproduction. All photos sold will support many of the local woman who are currently undergoing treatment for breast cancer.
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“All photographs will hang at a gallery for the entire month of October, Breast Cancer Awareness Month. The ones that have sold will be on loan, and the ones that haven’t will be for sale. The end project after all these sell is a 14-month calendar from January 2015 to February 2016.” Lin Pomerantz, Finance Director of 26.2 with DONNA, says. On a Personal Note Supporting the FINISH to breast cancer through personal stories can be challenging, most survivors chose to remain anonymous for battling emotions and finding the right words was difficult at times. According to the American Cancer Society, there are 2.8 million breast cancer survivors in the United States at this time, including women still being treated and those who have completed treatment. Here are two of their stories.
Kellianne Dishmon gives a new meaning to the word fighter. During a time that was supposed to be exciting and celebrating new life, Dishmon was worried about her own. “When I was 26 weeks pregnant, they said I had a blocked milk duct and because I was under the age of 35 they wouldn’t do a mammogram,” she says. Once it got to the point where she couldn’t shave under her arm, a core biopsy was taken. The American Cancer Society states that roughly 1 in every 3,000 pregnant women in the United States gets cancer. Dishmon was 28 weeks along. When Dishmon was 38 weeks pregnant, she was induced, and her baby girl was born. She started a lumpectomy two weeks later. Within weeks her life had done a 360 dealing with doctors and tests instead of taking care of a crying newborn baby. “My daughter was two Ponte Vedra Life
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“Cancer has taught me how to live each day to the fullest. No one knows what tomorrow will bring so enjoy today.” months old, and I had a one-year-old and a two-yearold at home,” she says. Cancer should have been the least of her worries. “Everybody rallied together. My parents lived only 30 minutes from me; everyone took a shift. My two-year-old son never left my side.” Dishmon was diagnosed in October of 2002 with advanced stage breast cancer with no family history and started treatment in January 2003. She completed eight treatments of chemo every two weeks and then six weeks of radiation. This makes her an 11-year survivor but, unfortunately, has never been cancer free. “You know your own body. If you think something is wrong do not hesitate to go to the doctor. Do not hesitate to find the answers,” she advises. A mother to a now 14-year-old, 13-year-old and 12-year-old, nothing will stop her. “It is an honor to help everyone who is dealing with breast cancer and create awareness even for
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the young people who have breast cancer. You don’t have to be over 40 to have breast cancer.” Kurtis Loftus was honored to be painting her. “It’s a very selfless act. I’m proud of her and I’m proud of The Foundation. I think this is going to be a beautiful thing,” he says. A connection was apparent between the two as each artist and model spent a great deal of time together leading up to the event discussing how to illustrate one’s story. For Dishmon it was a rose, “The rose was a symbol that I realized when I was going through chemo. Every time I turned around there was a rose. A rose appeared either in a picture, on the wall or in my hospital room. I was merely walking through the store before my surgery when someone handed me a rose. The rose symbol was on a cross and because I’m Catholic I talked to my priest, and he said that the blessed mother was walking with me through this path giving me the rose as strength,” she says. Since the ‘monster’ otherwise known as breast cancer was determined while she was pregnant with her third child, Kaelene Rose, her daughter’s middle name received a special connotation. “This is an experience
“If I can show another woman that you can do this and feel good about it, what more can you offer another woman than to say I did what I had to do and hope you can, too.” of how I can express the rose symbol to everyone to let them know that god is always there for you. The blessed mother is always watching over you and will help you through any crisis that you are in.” Dishmon hopes her influential rose will be viewed differently, as a sign of strength. She is the definition of strength. “Cancer has taught me how to live each day to the fullest. No one knows what tomorrow will bring so enjoy today.” Brenda Nolan was on the brink of retirement from being a nail technician when her annual mammogram gave her the results nobody ever wants to receive. “I had a mammogram which I never fail to have. They found a mass in one breast and another starting in the other breast.” Her focus was on retirement with her husband (for over 30 years); she decided to go radical. “I decided this has taken enough of my life and I can’t take anymore. I decided to take my breasts. I’m not sorry for it; I stand by my decision 100%,” she says. According to her oncologist, after having reconstructive surgery and a double mastectomy she has less than a one percent chance of ever having breast cancer again. “I’m glad I did it.” Nolan was certain of her decision just like she was certain of her advice, “Do not ever miss a mammogram. That is how mine was caught very early on. You have control over that, do it! They can catch many things early on.” While many organizations suggest starting yearly mammograms at age 50, the American Cancer Society recommends
starting them at age 40. Before diagnosed in 2011, Nolan considered herself to be a reserved person, “This is something I would have never done in my life, I’m a pretty shy person but it kind of gives you a different perspective. If I can show another woman that you can do this and feel good about it, what more can you offer another woman to say I did what I had to do and hope you can to.” Boisterous Nolan comments on the Brushed Bold event, “Oh my gosh, this is just so much fun! It is an amazing honor. I feel blessed beyond belief to be here and to do this and be a part of a great fundraiser.” Nolan is full of life in a multitude of ways. Her blank breast canvas soon turned into trees signifying growth. “I love plants and flowers. One of things that all this means to me is a new beginning; it is a rebirth. I’m grateful to be here,” she says. • The 2015 calendar will be available for purchase in November 2014 and will be available on their online store (find link below), at the race office, and in February at the Brushed Bold booth during the 2015 26.2 with DONNA Health and Fitness Expo. At this booth, you will also discover all the passionate artists and their regular work to see who they are as individual artists. 26.2 with DONNA 11762 Marco Beach Drive, Suite 6 Jacksonville, FL 32224 904-551-0732 breastcancermarathon.com 26.2 with Donna Ponte Vedra Life
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Sylvi herrick String of Pearls
Art has a kinship with all of us -and in its finest forms is a reflection of what it means to be human. For me there is no other reason to be an artist other than to be brave enough to express something honest and internal. That is a paintings only chance to make the leap to the external. Then art can be a catalyst, the ultimate connector – a place where we might experience a communal moment. Calling my group of paintings a “body” of work is perfect. This “body” of work is mathematically sized to be an extension of my own body’s scale. The canvases’ dimensions reflect my wingspan and my height in order to try to capture the physical motion my frame makes when I sweep on my paint. Color is a primary motivator for me – the power of bold and precise color. I also strive for transparency in my work, in both material and concept. Herrick resides in St. Augustine on Hospital Creek. She calls it an artists’ dream to live there. “The tides flow in and out without hesitation, birds fly to their nests nightly, the fish always return to spawn. The freedom to bear witness to all of this rhythm and wonder, inspires every single piece of art I make.” sylviherrick.com
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Competition and Composition
Heather Blanton
Heather Blanton, a ten year professional artist, began with a camera. After setting the camera down, Blanton focused on what she calls, “the daunting, blank, white canvas.” Her latest collection embodies over 50 paintings with eight sports themes: marathons, cycling races, cross country skiing, golf and rowing. “The brushstrokes revel in the heart of competition and that amazing athletic desire to work harder to become the best. The driving force that lies in competition also fuels my own desires to put into the visual, what the spirit feels in the extremely heated moment of the race.“ You can view her work locally at the Stellers Gallery in San Marco and online at heatherblanton.com
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unaffected vision The Arc of the St John’s is a national organization with a vision: One day people with intellectual and developmental disabilities will participate as full members of their communities, throughout their lives. From the culmination of a 2011 grant through the Dr. JoAnn Crisp-Ellert Visual Art Appreciation and Visual Art Education Fund, awarded by the Community foundation for Northeast Florida, Unaffected Vision: Freedom to See Beautiful, was born. Through the guidance of Mary Williamson, the Arc’s Director of Adult Education and Training, images were created by twelve of the Arc’s artists.“It may surprise and challenge you as you enjoy the beauty and objectivity of the work, and subsequently realize that the artists are untrained and have some kind of intellectual or developmental disability,” Sylvi Herrick, curator for this exhibit, says. Therefore, this exhibit is motivated purely from personal impulse and spontaneity qualities experienced artists only strive to achieve. www.arcsj.org
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By: Kayla Sim
“Where would you like to eat?”
The familiar phrase heard throughout America today but, many don’t realize the depth of concerns a simple expression can make for some. 86 |
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For children in America, one out of every five are considered to be living in a food insecure household. According to The United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) food insecurity is defined as the “consistent access to adequate food is limited by a lack of money and other resources at times during the year.” Many have difficulty putting food on the table; close to 50 million Americans are struggling in this situation. That’s one of every six adults and 16 million children depend on these adults to survive. >>> Ponte Vedra Life
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“Where would you like to eat?” The common question asked among Americans today but, for a much different reason. Many notice this tagline linked with a nationwide online social network for those who are passionate about food, FoodiesUSA. But, that is not all FoodiesUSA founder, Keith Rydh cares about. “I decided there needed to be a little something more. After launching FoodiesUSA, many charities contacted me for assistance in hosting fundraising events.” While FoodiesUSA continued to grow and help other charities, Rydh thought, “A FoodiesUSA charity was in order.” The Foodies Care charity was established one year after FoodiesUSA was founded on October 16th which just happens to also be World Food Day. “Hunger relief was our obvious direction, but I wondered how to make Foodies Care different,”
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the entrepreneur says. “I wanted something that set it apart, a social network that was truly social and beneficial to the community.“ After much research, Keith came across the Soul Kitchen in Red Bank, New Jersey that was started by rock star, Jon Bon Jovi. “The Soul Kitchen was a “Community Restaurant” where everyone was welcome to eat, whether they could afford a meal or not.” At the Soul Kitchen, an actual chef cooked up delicious, healthy meals. A direction was then discovered, and Rydh was asked to speak at an annual summit for the One World Everybody Eats foundation. “I spoke about social media and networking to help these community restaurants gain recognition, increase awareness and hold events to raise even more funds,” Rydh says. The U Can Change Hunger campaign was then initiated.
“U Can Change Hunger is a monthlong campaign to raise food, funds and awareness for hunger relief in America,” he says. The campaign began September 13th to October 16th. “The main goal for “U Can Change Hunger” is to get restaurants to participate in a “Give-Back” day
those in need, while at the same time, benefitting the local community.”
The U Can Change Hunger Campaign has raised over 3,500 pounds of food for local food banks and close to $10,000 towards opening the first Foodies Care Community Cafe. ”We’re proud of what we’ve done in The U Can Change Hunger Campaign has raised such a short period of time. We are always striving to find creative ways to increase donations. Foodies Care persistently where a percentage of the sales applies for grants, participates in for one day during the campaign crowd funding events and is continually is donated to the Foodies Care growing their “U Can Change charity.” Just some of the participating Hunger” campaign. Once we get the restaurants include Culhane’s Irish first Foodies Care Community Cafe Pub, The Red Elephant Pizza and Grill open in Jacksonville, where one is and Table 1. During this month-long unfortunately needed, we feel the campaign, food drives and other publicity and example we set will events take place all in support of increase fund raising exponentially. You hunger relief. “All food collected can make a difference, you can change stays in the community in which it hunger!” Please visit the website for a was collected through Foodies Care’s nationwide network of food banks, and schedule of events, a list of sponsors all funds go towards the Community and supporters, and on how you can Cafe project,” Foodies Care president help. • says. The mission is to raise enough funds so A Community Cafe, similar to The Soul Kitchen, can be open in a needed location each year. “The meals do not have prices, but rather a suggested donation amount. Those that can, donate. Those that cannot afford the meal, are asked to FoodiesUSA.com/hunger volunteer at the cafe or within the Foodies Care • 12620-3 Beach Blvd. local community. Community Cafes are a very dignified way to help feed Box 116 • Jacksonville FL 32246
over 3,500 pounds of food
for local food banks and close to $10,000 towards opening the first Foodies Care
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CARA-BOUT-IT
Deck the
Chairs I realize that it may be a little early to talk about the upcoming holiday season, but it’s never too early to talk about the reason for the season. While I will wholeheartedly admit that one of the things I look forward to the most this holiday is a new paddle-board I will (hopefully) be receiving (I hope you read this, Mom!), I have to say that my absolute favorite thing, without a doubt, is always that whole giving by Cara Burky part. Kurtis Loftus is a local who, I would dare to say also prefers the true reason for the season. An entrepreneur, visionary, husband, father and artist, Loftus has committed a significant amount of his life to his dream of bringing the arts back to Jacksonville Beach. Part of making this dream a reality has come in the form of an incredible showcase of lifeguard chairs and thousands upon thousands of Christmas lights. Not only has Loftus created an amazingly unique, family friendly event that celebrates the holiday season with a totally uncommon and artistic approach, but also brings forth this aforementioned reason for the season in a way that no one will forget. When asked to describe the birth of this idea, Loftus says, “In July of 2013 after one of my many early morning beach runs, I spent time photographing a lifeguard chair and became immersed in its iconic beauty. At that moment, I began envisioning how to celebrate something that has made a visual imprint on our community for more than 100 years. The idea of decorating through local business sponsorship and exhibiting to promote
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business while sharing in the holiday spirit made total sense.” Also known as The Beaches Winter Light Festival, Deck the Chairs is a display of more than forty iconic American Red Cross lifeguard chairs in Latham Plaza and the Sea Walk Pavilion in downtown Jacksonville Beach from November 28th through January 3, 2015. Sponsors decorate these chairs to create a one of a kind destination for all ages to enjoy throughout the holiday season. In its second year, the event focuses on local non-profit organizations that serve Jacksonville and the Beaches and all of the money that is put towards Deck the Chairs will go towards the American Red Cross Volunteer Life Saving Corps in Jacksonville Beach. Funds are needed for training, outreach programs and maintenance of its oceanfront facility and what better way to donate than doing it through an event that is sure to be a staple at the beach for years to come. “This year Deck the Chairs will introduce large metal sculptural displays designed and built by a team of professionals working with lead sponsors. These artistic pieces will carry a coastal theme, be designed in an interactive manner and encourage social media exchange. We also will introduce the coolest beach Christmas tree anyone has ever seen. Can’t wait!” exclaims Loftus. Deck the Chairs is most definitely an event that you will want to mark on your calendar this year and in the years following. Gather the family, bring some hot chocolate and take a walk through what Kurtis hopes will become a tradition in your family like it is in his. Take this opportunity to support and come together as a community through giving; the true reason for the season. • Ponte Vedra Life
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COASTAL A-LIST
The fifth annual Rounds at the Grounds: Baseball for Babies game returned this year, pitting local celebrities and doctors in a fierce competition. The players made “rounds” at the Baseball Grounds of Jacksonville to support healthy babies in preparation for National Infant Mortality Awareness Month. Infant mortality, the death of a baby in the first year of life, is considered a sentinel indicator of the health of a community. It is linked to poverty, education, housing, community and family violence, and access to basic health care. Florida’s infant mortality rates are among the highest in the nation, and outcomes in Jacksonville are worse than the state. The proceeds from the event will benefit the Coalition’s community-based programs, like the Magnolia and Azalea projects, the Teen Health Project, “Make a Noise! Make a Difference!” and more. Photography by Tonya Austin
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