Fop magazine
Finding Your Place Issue 3
Cover Guy
Ronnie Kroell Rebel with a Cause
Andrew Christian
The Hottest Boys of Summer
Cole Escola
Bares it All
Don’t Worry About the
Sex:
10 Ways to Make Him
Obsessed
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fop
fäp noun a man who is concerned with his clothes and appearance in an affected and excessive way; a dandy. synonyms: dandy, man about town, poseur; informalsnappy dresser, trendoid, hipster; archaiccoxcomb, popinjay “he was known as quite a fop in the old neighborhood, always dressed to the nines” Cover Images by: Lidia Karpukova Hat: Neff Jacket: Bohemian Society Jeans: Joe Jeans
Jacket: Kenneth Cole Shirt: Neff Pants: Clade Shoes: Kenneth Cole
Back Cover Jacket: Kenneth Cole Shirt: Neff Pants: Bohemian Society Shoes: Kenneth Cole
Fop magazine Editor-in-Chief Quentin Fears Editor-at-Large Gaea Honeycutt Assistant Copy Editor Charlie Reeves Health Columnist Robin Williams Entertainment Columnist Salty Brine Political Columnist Kim L. Hunt Contributoring Photographers Lidia Karpukova Brooke Mason Karen E. Evans Paola De Paola A Special Thanks Brian Sabowski Zack Hemenway
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Featured in Issue 2 Photography by: Magnus Hastings
June 27, 2015
I’m writing this letter from the editor, the day after the Supreme Court ruling that made same-sex marriage a right in all 50 states. This ruling is cause for celebration, and a real triumph for not only the LGBT community but all Americans.
In My Own Words
In this issue we employ the theme of Finding Your Place. It’s not an easy task, and it’s one that this country is still battling with. I’m not sure if it’s a journey that will ever end, but it’s a journey that must be taken. We start this issue with a new segment, Featured Fop. We learn a little more about John Calado, an adorable young man from New York City. Next up we feature comedian, YouTube sensation, and rising star Cole Escola. We sizzle the pages with the hottest boys of summer, Andrew Christian models Murray Swanby, Cory Zwierzynski, and Canadian-born Kevin Benoit. And we did not stop there! We uncovered a little more about reality star and Playgirl-model-turned-activist Ronnie Kroell. Fop continues its biting and hard-nosed columns: Kim L. Hunt brings awareness to the fight against poverty within the LGBT community and examines a few false assumptions about it. We also speak to Gil Diaz, the Manager of Marketing and Communications at the LGBT Center of Los Angeles. We find out what the center is facing and the challenges of youth homelessness in Los Angeles. We rounded out the mag with an inspiring editorial spread by photographer Paola De Paola in the spirit of the monumental marriage equality ruling. We also wanted to wet your whistle with Don’t Worry About the Sex: 10 Ways to Make Him Obsessed. Quentin A. Fears Publisher and Editor-in-Chief
Contents 8. Featured Fop 13. We Need to Declare War on LGBT Poverty 16. Queerly in Love 22. Cole Escola Bares it All 27. Don’t Worry About the Sex: 10 Ways to Make Him Obsessed 30. A Rebel with a Cause: Ronnie Kroell 38. Andrew Christian: The Hottest Boys of Summer 50. Los Angeles LGBT Center and the Homeless Youth
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Ronnie Kroell & Editor & Chief Quentin Fears
Featured
Fop
John Calado Interview by: Quentin Fears
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John Calado is our Featured Fop. An adorable, smart and an all-round nice guy living in Chelsea, NYC, we had to get to know him. Unfortunately, he is taken, but it doesn’t hurt to flirt, right? Let’s find out what Mr. Calado is all about. Where are you from originally? JC: I’m from Long Island, New York! What do you do now and what are your goals for the future? JC: For work, I restore and sell antique and vintage furniture online. Some of my goals for the future are buying a home with a lake and a lot of land somewhere in the country, fixing it up, and turning it into a bed and breakfast. I’d live there with my husband, kids and three dogs. Are you single? JC: I’m not single! I’m happily taken by the love of my life, Christopher. What do you look for in a boyfriend? JC: I’m not really a picky guy, but my guy definitely would need to have goals, a kind heart, and be independent. How do you go about flirting? JC: If I was flirting with a guy, I would give him sultry eye contact for three seconds at the most and look away. Just that always seems to do the trick for me, ha-ha! What about a guy first grabs your attention? JC: His eyes and voice! I love a guy with dark eyes and a deep voice. Describe your longest relationship? JC: I can say my longest relationship is the one I’m currently in. We have been dating for about three years now. Of course, don’t get me wrong, we have had some ups and downs and have struggled with each other, but we are both fighters. We fight for what we love, and we just love each other! We love to eat junk food, restore old houses together and take long road trips! When do you plan on getting married? JC: We do plan on getting married in a couple years once our lives are 100% set. When did you first come out? Can you tell us a little about that story? JC: I came out to my mother when I was 15 years old. Lets just say I was raised by a mom who was raised by a strict and old fashioned family.
Spotlight
“I love both. But, I’m dating a stubborn guy that’s a strict top. So I’m bottom!” It was a challenge for her to accept me. Over time, she finally stepped up and accepted her son for who he is. I love my mother to death and she’s seriously my best friend. I can say me being gay made our relationship a lot stronger. I even took her out with my boyfriend to a gay bar! That was such an amazing feeling for me to feel free in front of the most important people in my life. What are some of your favorite brands? JC: I love Diesel. How would you describe your style? JC: I don’t have set style. My closet consists of a lot of different pieces. I love vintage clothing.
Top or bottom bunk? JC: I love both. I’m dating a stubborn guy that’s a strict top. So I’m bottom! What’s your favorite thing about gay? JC: My favorite thing about being gay is that it’s challenging the world to get used to accepting people’s lives and choices. Do you have any role models? JC: My role model is my mother. If you could do anything in the world, what would you do? JC: I would like to travel the world and explore all the different foods and cultures. I love trying new foods, and everyone that knows me knows I LOVE food! A little extra . . . I love to cook and could cook almost anything, I love making sushi and lasagna! I enjoy dancing when I go out to a bar or even when I’m blasting music in my room.
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We Need To Declare War On LGBT Poverty By: Kim L. Hunt
The Movement
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hen President Lyndon B. Johnson declared a war on poverty half a century ago, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans had not yet formed a collective identity. Since then LGBT communities and allies have gained public policy wins in health care, marriage equality, family recognition, and discrimination in employment and public accommodations among other issues. The momentum of social change for LGBT communities may lead some to believe that there is a rising tide lifting all boats that fly the rainbow flag, but nothing could be farther from the truth.
In its report issued last year to commemorate
the 50th anniversary of the war on poverty, the White House Council of Economic Advisors pointed out that poverty has declined by one-third since 1967. However, those within and outside of LGBT communities, are just beginning to recognize the economic disparities faced by LGBT people.
This past March, the US House of Representa-
tives Equality Caucus hosted The Economics of Equality, a briefing where representatives from the LGBTQ Poverty Collective talked about the growing poverty in LGBT communities — especially among women and people of color. The collective was formed in 2014 as research about poverty in the community confirmed what those on the front lines of the movement already suspected. But we have this perception problem, many people assume that, given what feels like rapid social change, all people who identify as LGBT have political power and are affluent.
The focus on marriage equality has helped
perpetuate this assumption. For example, the wedding industry has been quick to take advan-
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tage of that fact and will continue to especially since same sex couples can now marry in all 50 states, thanks to the historic June 26th Supreme Court ruling. Last year, nerdwallet.com estimated the economic boon from legalization of same sex marriage throughout the nation to be worth $2.5 billion.
There is nothing wrong with marriage. But
forecasts like this and the subsequent marketing can lead people to believe that the vast majority of same sex couples have significant discretionary income to spend on lavish weddings and other goods and services. Unfortunately for some individuals, the assumptions of political power and affluence in the LGBT community also bring with them assumptions of whiteness and a cisgender male identity, rendering invisible the many people disproportionately impacted by poverty. But to eradicate poverty or any other disparity, society must face its truths.
In Paying an Unfair Price: The Financial
Penalty for Being LGBT in America (2014), the Movement Advancement Project (MAP) revealed that even though individuals in same-sex couples are more likely to be working outside of the home than those in opposite sex couples, LGBT Americans are more likely than their non-LGBT counterparts to be poor. The study also pointed out that one in five LGBT people living alone had an income of less than $12,000 compared to 17% for
those hardest hit by poverty are “LGBT people with children, LGBT people of color, LGBT older adults, and LGBT people living in states with low levels of LGBT equality.� non-LGBT people. According to MAP,
Structural issues such as racism and gender bias
are evident in MAP’s findings. A 2012 Gallup report revealed that the LGBT community is increasingly female identified and of color. The MAP report estimated that 3.4% of the US population identifies as LGBT. Surprisingly, while 4% to nearly 5% of blacks, Hispanics and Asians identified as LGBT, only 3.2% of whites identified this way. Three percent of men surveyed identified as LGBT, while nearly four percent of women did. Additionally, more than 41% of Black and Hispanic LGBT women were raising children compared to 28% of white LGBT women. With the exception of Hispanic men, the percentage of LGBT men raising children is significantly lower than women. For black and white men it was 14% and 10% respectively.
Although there is historical evidence that
President Johnson personally considered poverty an important issue, his 1964 State of the Union Address as a declaration of war on poverty without prodding from the others. According to a 2014 Washington Post article by Dylan Matthews, there were three factors that contributed to Johnson’s declaration: 1. Michael Harrington had written the groundbreaking book, The Other America, which exposed the prevalence of poverty in the US: 2. Civil rights organizations had successfully pushed for legislative reforms creating safety nets and providing access to resources that were previously out of reach for blacks and others; and 3. Good data on poverty had only recently become available.
While President Johnson did not win the war
on poverty, he was able to galvanize government resources, political will and public opinion. These efforts left us with programs like Medicaid, Medicare, expanded social security benefits, food stamps (now known as the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program or SNAP), and a host of other services that have helped reduce poverty by one-third in two generations.
The MAP study offers recommendations that
could reduce poverty in the LGBT community within our lifetimes:
1. “Updating laws to prohibit discrimination against LGBT people in areas from hiring to housing to credit: 2. Updating how laws and regulations that define family so that LGBT families have access to the protections and benefits currently available to other families; and 3. Making schools safer and more welcoming for LGBT students and the children of LGBT parents.” The LGBT community has come a long way.
Now we must rally around our brothers and sisters who are still waiting for the American dream.
Kim L. Hunt is Executive Director of Affinity Community Services, a social justice organization located on the south side of Chicago that works with Black LGBTQ communities, queer youth and allies through civic engagement, health access and leadership development. She is also co-host of OUTSpoken, a monthly event featuring LGBTQ storytellers from throughout the Midwest.
Queerly In Love
Photography: Paola De Paola
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Cole
Escola Bares it All!!!
Photography by: Karen E. Evans Interview by: Salty Brine
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ole Escola is a comedian, New Yok City downtown performer and a Youtube sensation. He started out creating YouTube videos under the name of VGL Gay Boys (Very Good Looking Gay Boys) with his bestie and partner in crime Jeffery Self. These videos lead to a show in 2009 on Logo, Jeffery & Cole Casserole. The sketches were written, directed and edited by this dynamic comedic duo. The production was very home grown, two twenty something gay boys playing around with a video camera. After the shows end Cole went onto performing at Duplex, Joe’s Pub, and landed roles on television shows like Nurse Jackie, Law & Order, and Smash. Cole on stage is often naked, sometimes in drag, but always funny. We at Fop scored an interview with this exceptionally talented little man. We learn about his crafting skills, his first kiss and what exactly he would do for moist cake.
The weather is changing here in New York.
Let’s be wistful. Could you tell us a memory from some long ago? Cole: Sure! Oh gosh, let me see. New York is so romantic! In keeping with the romance of the city, I’ll tell you the story of my first kiss. I was a sophomore in high school and a group of college guys called me a faggot in the parking lot of a Target. My friend Sarah kissed me to “prove them wrong”.
Do you collect anything and/or… What do you
nerd out about? (Ladies choice.) Cole: I’m a performer. I collect experiences, people, powerful interactions. Totally kidding. I have a Macbook from 2009 under my bed loaded with nothing but Corbin Fisher porn. It’s my hope chest. #JoshRidesTravis
You are very, very funny, and it’s always in-
teresting what funny people find funny. What makes you laugh? Cole: Well first of all, thank you for the compliment. Secondly, I laugh all the time, but it’s more of a nervous reaction than a response to something funny. It’s a bad habit I picked up from being weak.
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“I don’t have much fun as a male unless I’m sucking dick for moist cake.” I can’t even remember the last time I legitimately laughed at something funny. Maybe ‘81? What year did Love Boat go off the air?
How do you feel about the woods? Cole: A great place to leave a child.
Your website features pictures and videos of
Judy Garland, Angela Lansbury, Bette Davis, and many more extraordinary women. They are to be adored, for sure, but what is it for you about female icons? Cole: If I could articulate what drew me to these women, I wouldn’t be a hack comedian, I would be a hack queer theory author.
Any memorable field trips from elementary
school? Cole: Kind of. My third grade teacher was really cruel to me. I thought it was because I was a bad kid, but now I realize I wasn’t. I was a wussy, nerdy, goody-two-shoes! I think it was probably because I was a flamboyant little queer boy and that irked her. Anyway, I faked sick constantly to get away from her. One of the times I faked sick my Grandma took me to Mount St. Helens. I won’t bleed the sentimental details here, but that trip is one of those memories I’ll probably recall on my death bed. I’ll probably look up into that light they talk about, and utter my last words: “We made it... to the mountain... Grandma...”
Do you dessert? Talk it out.
Cole: You have no idea! I actually eat so much dessert that I decided to keep track. Can you even believe that last month I spent over $300?! Not on desserts, but on antibiotics for the infections I got from sucking dick for moist cake.
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You are infamous for your brilliant Ber-
nadette Peters… I won’t say “impression” because the word doesn’t do it justice. It’s really more of a channeling. And you are often donning a dress, a wig… sometimes some light make-up/sometimes not… and stepping in and out of an array of wickedly funny, quite unique characters. What draws you to drag? What’s the impulse? Cole: Well that’s the key word right there, “impulse.” I don’t know what it is; it’s just an impulse. I guess maybe I don’t really feel like a guy. I don’t have much fun as a male unless I’m sucking dick for moist cake.
I understand you’ve been a bit bi-coastal
lately. What’s L.A. got that New York ain’t got? Huh? HUH? (That’s me being a tough New Yorker. I’m very tough.) But also… help me fall in love with the West Coast. Cole: The best part of LA was me.
Also . . . can you sleep on a plane?
Cole: That’s actually one of my secret powers. I can sleep like a fucking drunk, dead Civil War soldier anywhere I go.
What’s coming up in the world of Cole
Escola? Got any projects cooking? Cole: I’ve got a recurring role on a new Hulu show called “Difficult People” created by uber-talent Julie Klausner. It stars Julie and gayfor-pay icon Billy Eichner, and is produced by Amy Poehler. I think it comes out mid-summer. I also do a monthly solo sketch comedy show at The Duplex in the West Village called The First Gay President. It’s dinky and kind of a mess. (Not “mess” as in the cool, modern colloquial version of the word, but mess as in there’s a bunch of actual clutter strewn about.), But, it’s a great show. It always sells out and has a solid fan base, but I’d love for more new people to come see it.
Lastly... ever felt like a Fop?
Cole: No, but I licked one on a dare.
Don’t Worry About the
Sex
10 ways to make him obsessed. By: Quentin Fears
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8. Give him space. Please, everyone on’t worry about the
sex. We are guys, and as a general rule, we’re
always ready, but sex isn’t what keeps a guy around. While it helps, ultimately, there are other things that draw people together. Just look at the numerous committed open relationships in which the partners would never leave their mate. So what’s it take to keep that guy around?
10. Be a tower of confidence.
He’s with you because he thinks you are hot and he’s attracted to you. Don’t compare yourself to his ex or the other hot guy in the room. Yes, there are always other hot men but there is only one you. Remember that he chooses to be with you and vice versa. A University of Illinois at Urbana study conducted by Amanda M. Vicary and R. Chirs Fraley concluded, “insecure individuals respond to events in their romantic relationships in ways that sometimes can be destructive.” You may not realize it, but your own insecure thoughts and behaviors could ruin your own relationship. Look within before reacting.
9. Get along with his friends. No one wants to date someone that hates his
He’s probably known his bestie much longer than you, and probably hooked up with him in high school or college. Don’t let that faze friends. It’s just tiresome.
you. There’s a reason they aren’t together today. Let all of the BS go and have fun with the group. Go out and let loose. Don’t sit in the corner.
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needs space to breathe. No guy wants another dude who is waiting by the phone for him to call. You have to have a life of your own. You retreat to your cave and let him go to his. That way you are not depending on him to entertain you or to make you happy, and you’ll both be more excited to see each other later. Find your own joy and that light will follow you into your relationship.
7. Ask about his family life.
This is a huge deal. Most people around him — boss, co-workers, friends — don’t know about his family life. Whether it’s good or bad, showing genuine interest in his family can set you apart from the other guys. Everyone has some sort of family drama to deal with, and if you are that one person he can talk to about it, you set yourself apart from everyone else. Family ties can sometimes be strained — especially in gay relationships. Even if the family doesn’t support your partner, you can. In the study Same-sex
“the majority of couples perceived that family support (or lack of support) had an effect on the quality of their couple relationship.” Understand where your partner Couple Perceptions of Family Support,
is coming from and help him through difficult situations.
6. Let him take the lead. Allow him to help you just as you want to help him. As much as guys need space, they also need to feel wanted and needed. Allow him to play that role. If you’re not good at directions, let him navigate. If you don’t know how to change the tire, let him do it. This kind of thing also makes a guy feel empowered. But don’t be afraid to show your strengths when the need arises. He will think a
competent you is just as sexy when you let him take the lead.
5. Do things together. Allow
yourself to live outside of your own comfort zone. Couples that are too comfortable get bored and tend to stray. Go and do something different! Even if you’re not excited about seeing a 90-yearold woman dancing around on stage in a Noel Coward play, go with him anyway. A relationship is not always about what you want. Sometimes it’s compromise and making your man happy. The Marriage and Family Development Laboratory and Relationship Institute at UCLA reports that having fun together can become a self-ful-
“People in happy relationships generate these activities, and as they generate these activities, it keeps their relationship strong and healthy and fresh,” says co-difilling prophecy for couples.
3. Get physical together (and I am not talking about sex). According to Psychology Today, “studies show that after jointly participating in an exciting physical challenge or activity, couples report feeling more satisfied with their relationships and more in love with their partner.” Go for a run, a bike ride
or play tennis together. It’s a great way to let out any frustration you may be having with your man and it keeps the two of you fit. Not to mention, exercise can also speed up that libido and lead to a workout at home.
2. Don’t rush it! People don’t want to
rector Thomas Bradbury. By the way, if you don’t like Angela Lansbury there is something seriously wrong with you! I mean it doesn’t get better than Murder She Wrote.
be rushed into anything — especially a relationship. Take it slow and let time take its course. If you’re truly interested, get to know him and let him get to know you. Physical chemistry doesn’t mean you’ll want to spend your free time with him for life.
4. Rock your own vibe. Have
1. Be yourself. After all of this ad-
your own sense of style and even smell. We’ve all had our fill of those guys wearing shirts two sizes too small, sporting some sort of ironic catch phrase. It’s so boring and so Sugar Ray in ‘97. And, guys are all about pheromones, so stop wearing that Abercrombie cologne that you got at the mall when you had braces. It’s over and it stinks. Your adult deodorant mixed with your natural scent is probably enough to drive him wild. More you, less chemical.
vice, the most important point is to be you. Why pretend to be something you’re not? Eventually he’ll have to get to know the real you. The illusion will eventually flame out and you’ll be left in mascara painted tears alone.
A Rebel With A Cause R o n n ie K ro e l l
Photography by: Lidia Karpukova Styling by: Quentin Fears Grooming by: Kaity Licina
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e met Ronnie Kroell nearly eight years ago on Bravo’s Make Me a Super Model. Even though he didn’t win the competition, he certainly won our hearts. Maybe it was his bromance with fellow contestant and straight model Ben DiChiara, or simply his all-American charm and good looks. At that time, being gay on a major television network and having a budding “gayish” relationship or friendship with another male was something that America hadn’t really seen. This led to Ronnie becoming an unexpected trailblazer and put a handsome, friendly face on the gay rights movement. He has gone on to grace the covers of Instinct, Next and even Playgirl Magazine, and has worked with gay rights organizations such as the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), Human Rights Campaign, American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) and Latino Commission on AIDS (LCOA). After re-watching old episodes of Make Me a Super Model we wanted to see what this model-turned-activist is up to today. It also gave us an excuse to photograph that gorgeous face.
We first met you on Bravo’s Make me a Super
Model. What made you want to audition for that show? Did you realize it was going to make such an impact in your life and career? RK: I had always dreamed of making it big in modeling, but taking the next step was scary and exciting at the same time. So, when Make Me A Supermodel came along (via a Craigslist ad), I knew it was time to take a risk and chase the dream. I had no idea just how much it would impact my life and career, but I’m grateful every day.
What was it about you on that show at the time
that made you the breakout star even when you didn’t win the modeling competition? RK: I’d like to believe that it was because I was unafraid to be myself and that I was open about everything. But, the reality is that the #BRONNIE fans were probably waiting to see if we would make out.
One of the focal points of the show was your
Bromance with straight model and competitor Ben DiChiara. Did you ever really make out with Ben? Curious minds want to know. RK: You’ll have to wait and purchase my memoirs because I certainly have some juicy stories to share.
“It’s not every day that a mainstream magazine like Playgirl offers the opportunity to be their first openly LGBT / Public Figure cover-guy and centerfold.” Two years after the show, you made a daring
move and posed for the cover of Playgirl. What prompted that move? RK: It’s not every day that a mainstream magazine like Playgirl offers the opportunity to be their first openly LGBT / Public Figure cover-guy and centerfold. So, I thought about it for about six months and, after speaking with my closest friends and family, decided to welcome the adventure! I had a blast bringing the spread to life and am not afraid of sexuality. I think we as Americans have made sex dirty, but it is one of the most basic and beautiful aspects of being human and should be celebrated.
You seem to have no problem getting naked.
Would you ever pose again? (Please say yes!) RK: I’ve learned to never say never, but I’ve been there and done that. My next goal is to bring my acting talents to the silver screen and to tell some amazing stories. I hope that all those that come to know me through my work, personally and professionally, are inspired to follow their dreams whole-heartedly and to never give up.
Around the time of the Playgirl cover, we started
to see more of your charitable nature. You donated proceeds from the sale of autographed copies of the magazine to gay charities. What is it about giving back that is important to you? RK: We are in this crazy but beautiful world together. It’s very important to give back to the community, and not just the lgbt community, but the community at large. I’m grateful to be where I am today because of the help of my family, friends, and fans that believe in me. I hope that they know, through my words and actions, that I’m here for them too.
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“I was severely bullied as a kid and called “faggot” before I even knew what the word meant.” Can you list some of the charities you’ve worked with? RK: The American Cancer Society, Children’s Miracle Network, Miracles For Kids, Trevor Project, Tyler Clementi Foundation, White Knot, Center On Halsted, Ali Forney Center, and more.
You’ve also created a company called Friend
Movement. What does being a friend mean to you? RK: Yes! If bullying is the problem, then friendship is the solution. Friend Movement is a lifestyle brand that celebrates friendship. We welcome those that want to help prevent bullying to do their part by adding “Friend” as their middle name on social media.
Why do you think it’s important to have a
movement against bullying? RK: It’s more of a movement FOR friendship than against bullying. When we are against something we give it power. Our approach is significant because we do not give bullying power, rather we are simply having an ongoing dialogue about how we can be better friends to ourselves and others.
Were you bullied as a kid?
the beginning my mom had a hard time with it, but mostly because she was afraid for me. She didn’t want to see me hurt. After a few years, Mom was the life of the party and fell in love with all of my friends. She was always happy to have them over to the house and it became tradition to go to the Pride Parade together every year to celebrate.
Is your family still supportive?
RK: I have the most supportive family in the world! I can talk to them about anything, even if they don’t have the answers, they are always there to listen. I’m grateful to have their love, friendship, and support as I navigate this crazy beautiful thing called life. Being an artist and entrepreneur can be a scary venture, but having the love and support of my family keeps me going strong towards my dreams.
I’ve been doing a little stalking of your blog and read that you’re newly single. Still true? RK: I am still single, but dating pretty regularly. Not in a rush to get married, but wanting to take some time to really know myself and figure out exactly what I want from my life and in a partner.
So, what does Ronnie Kroell look for in a boy-
friend? RK: Above all else, I look for someone that has a warm heart! No one is perfect, but I gravitate towards those with a strong vision for their future. It doesn’t hurt if he is a great conversationalist and has a passion for people. Most importantly, I appreciate honesty and someone’s ability to challenge me to be the best that I can possibly be.
RK: I was severely bullied as a kid and called “faggot” before I even knew what the word meant. My bullies used to wait for me after school in the middle of the Chicago winter, with sub-zero temperatures and snow, and play Monkey in the Middle (aka Keep Awaywith my shoes to the point that I couldn’t even feel my feet.
If someone were interested in you, how would
Since we are going back to your childhood,
Your acting debut was in Eating Out – Drama
there’s a video of you telling your coming out story on YouTube. Can you tell us more about it? RK: Sure thing! My coming out was not sunshine and butterflies, but I’m also grateful that it was not as scary as some of the stories that I have heard. In
they go about getting your attention? RK: Just be themselves. If something is meant to happen, then it will unfold organically. One thing I’ve learned is that love cannot be forced, it must evolve and start with friendship.
Camp. How was the transition from being model to being an actor. RK: I really enjoy acting, but I have found it to be more of a challenge than modeling. It takes constant work, dedication to craft, and the ability to dig deep within yourself.
“The universe is always presenting us with challenges, but those challenges are not sent to make us fail.” A lot of those guys in that movie were super So the fabulous Drew Droege was in the movie. How was it working with him? RK: Drew is one of the funniest, most genuine and humble people you could ever meet! I’m grateful to call him a friend and to watch his career continue to blossom.
RK: The universe is always presenting us with challenges, but those challenges are not sent to make us fail. Instead, they are there to teach us just how much we are capable of achieving. When we are coasting in our comfort zones, we aren’t really living, we are simply existing. Life is short, so it’s important to seize every opportunity and to live life to the fullest. 2015 holds as much or as little for me as I choose to believe, that’s the power of our thoughts and actions. I choose for it to be filled with love, friendship, family and success.
Will we see you in any more movies?
So what is you favorite thing about Fop Maga-
How are you adjusting to Hollywood since your
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hot. Were there any off screen flings? RK: I plead the 5th.
RK: From your mouth to Hollywood’s ears! I sure hope so. 2015 for me is all about finding balance and getting back to acting/modeling. It’s a dream of mine to do more mainstream projects and to really make a respectable name for myself in the industry.
move from NYC? RK: There are certainly parts of both Chicago and NYC that I miss, but I’m definitely an LA guy. I’m enjoying the nice weather year round and the ability to connect with nature. I’m grateful to have a strong network of friends, and together we are building one another up as we reach for our dreams.
Do you think being an openly gay actor is a
challenge in Hollywood? RK: Absolutely, it is! Things are slowly changing though. It is only a matter of time before hearts and minds are opened. We shouldn’t place so much emphasis on someone’s sexuality. We should be concerned if they can do a role justice or not. In a perfect world, it should be about talent.
You also seem to be a very spiritual guy. What
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zine? RK: I love the fact that Fop Magazine takes an artsy and independent approach to sharing stories, fashion and culture. It is diverse, fresh and full of positive message for all those that choose to pick it up and be inspired.
Favorite gay movie RK: Scrooge & Marley Hottest actor RK: Channing Tatum Favorite book Siddhartha
Favorite LA date place RK: Rock Sugar Pan Asian Kitchen Favorite sexual position RK: My list of favorites is too long!
Hat: Neff Jacket: Bohemian Society Jeans: Kenneth Cole
Andrew Christian The
Hottest Boys of
Summer Photography by: Brooke Mason Styling & Text by: Quentin Fears
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t was one of those picture perfect days that make you want to secretly pinch yourself all day long. Is this really happening? Is this really my life? I’m in Malibu right now on a private beach at a $10 million home. I’m shooting with an amazing photographer, Brooke Mason. The models were three of the hottest guys — Murray, Kevin and Cory from Andrew Christian’s underwear ads. How in the hell did I get here and why am I so lucky?
Well honestly, I’m not. I simply asked to shoot
them. Ask and you shall receive and I definitely received in abundance. I got not just one but three. Okay, okay. I’m really going to be honest here. I asked for five. (I know I’m greedy! But, if you are going to ask to shoot Andrew Christian models, why not ask to shoot the entire lot?)
Do you sometimes wonder about those models? What their lives are like? Always working out. Always hanging out with other hot guys in tight swimwear on the beach or on set. Being an Andrew Christian model must be similar to being in a gay frat, or at least, an Abercrombie model 10 years ago. There have to be secret affairs and a lot of wrestling around with super fit guys.
Here is the result of that hot and sexy day,
three sexy guys on the beach in Andrew Christian swimwear. We asked them what it was like being an Andrew Christian model. This is my present to you!
How old are you? Murray: 27 Kevin: 24 Cory: 26
“It kind of is like a fraternity in a sense. A gay fraternity. We all get along and hang out off set as much as we can.” Where are you originally from?
Murray: I was born in Minnesota; raised in Montana. Kevin: I was born and raised in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. Cory: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
How were you discovered by Andrew Chris-
tian? Murray: The brand manager at the time, Brad Hammer, asked me to come do a test shoot with Andrew because he loved my look and personality. And, ever since then, I’ve been focused on bettering my body and career. Kevin: I had done a lot of underwear modeling before and I spoke to Murray on Facebook and he got me a test shoot. Cory: I met Andrew at a friend’s house and he asked if I would be interested in modeling for him.
I imagine being an Andrew Christian model is almost like being in a fraternity. Do you guys hang out all the time off set? Murray: It definitely is. We have a close brother-type bond. We hang out all the time, work out together, party together. And we tend to take the new boys under our wing and show them the ropes.
Kevin: I think some of us do hang out outside of AC. I hangout with Cory and Murray most often, but I love to see all the boys and go out when they are in town. Cory: It kind of is like a fraternity in a sense. A gay fraternity. We all get along and hang out off set as much as we can.
Do you ever find yourself attracted to any
of the other models? Is there ever any flirting going on? Murray: Well, the models are definitely sexy. Many of the guys flirt with one another. I mean, I dated Pablo for a year, so clearly connections happen when you are on set so often together. Chemistry is key. Kevin: Flirting is probably going on all the time, but I don’t wanna sleep with any of the other models — not because they aren’t hot but because it would cause tension and drama and I try to live without it. Cory: There’s always flirting going on. I mean, I can’t help it. Everyone is sexy.
Are you single?
Murray: I’m single, yes. Kevin: I’m single, yes and ready to mingle. Cory: Yes, I am.
What do you look for in a boyfriend?
Murray: Personality, honesty. I like someone that pushes me to better myself. Kevin: He needs to be hot, but I need a connection. Someone who has the same values as me — friend and family wise — and who is entrepreneurial. Someone that doesn’t do s**t that isn’t good for me. Plus I’m really into blondes with blue eyes. Cory: A sexy bitch. Just kidding, but that helps. I look for someone who can make me laugh and who I can generally get along with.
What do you like most about being an Andrew Christian model? Murray: I love to travel. I love meeting new people.
Kevin: Fans ... The fans are the best and it’s always cool to see them. Their support is amazing. Cory: Being able to travel to so many exciting places.
Are you ever recognized on the street?
Murray: Yes [He Laughs]. It’s definitely humbling to be stopped on the street or in airports by people knowing your name or wanting pictures. Kevin: I’m fairly new, but yes, I do get recognized. It’s starting and that feels pretty good. Cory: Not usually. Mostly in night clubs and bars.
You have to stay in such great shape. What’s
your workout routine? Murray: I work out seven days a week, at least an hour a day. It’s tough sometimes but very rewarding. Kevin: I eat healthy all the time (I try) and I work out daily. I have a work out routine that works for me and I love it. And I try to hike two to three times a week. Cory: I try to go to the gym at least four times a week. I also try to eat healthy.
What do you most like about Andrew Chris-
tian clothing? Murray: I’ve been with the brand a while now. I like how they are always changing their styles up and trying new designs Kevin: The Fluo colors. I’ve always been a fan of those colors, so that’s what I love the most about the line.
How do you like living in Los Angeles?
Murray: Well, I moved from a tiny town in Montana, so it was a complete change moving to LA. But I love everything about LA, especially the fast pace. Kevin: LA is good, especially if you have a strong support system and aren’t easily influenced. I love LA. I miss my family and my bestie, David, but LA is really one of the best cities in the world. Cory: I love LA! The transition was a little hard, but moving from Tampa to LA is a huge transition. In the end, it was all worth it.
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Fop Five Favorite muscian
Murray: Right now I’m on a Robyn kick. Kevin: So gay — Britney. Cory: Britney Spears. (Typical, I know.)
Favorite book
Murray: Cat in the Hat (LOL) Kevin: Official Book Club Selection: A Memoir According to Kathy Griffin. Cory: I’ve never been much of a reader.
Favorte place to go out in LA
Murray: The Abbey on Thursdays. Kevin: The Abbey. Cory: Well, I love food, so basically any good restaurant.
Favorite date place
Murray: I love leaving town and spending a weekend away…hotel, room service, quality time. Kevin: Movie theater. Cory: The beach.
Favorite movie
Murray: Moulin Rouge. Kevin: I don’t have one, but it has to be a thriller. Cory: Hocus Pocus.
Photographer: Brooke Mason Photography Assistant: Charles Wheeler Stylist: Quentin Fears Grooming: Hortensia Tamay Location: Private Malibu Beach, CA Apparel: Andrew Christian
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Speak Up
Los Angeles LGBT Center & the Homeless Youth
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os Angeles is a spectacular. People across the world move to the City of Angels for many reasons. Some for the consistent 70 degree weather. Others to pursue their dreams of becoming a star. However, there is another Los Angeles — a darker, doleful part of the city. People also move here because they are running away from something.
According to the Institute for the Study o
Homelessness and Poverty at the Weingart Center, an estimated 254,000 people are homeless in Los Angeles County. These are alarming numbers, but you don’t have to conduct a study to notice the extent of homelessness in Los Angeles, especially in Downtown Los Angeles and the famed Hollywood district. Many are homeless youth, with 40% of them LGBT youth. We spoke to Gil Diaz, the Manager of Marketing and Communications at the LGBT Center of Los Angeles, to learn more about this problem and what the organization is doing about it.
Let’s start off by learning a little more about
the Los Angeles LGBT Center. How long has it be around and what are some of the services the Center provides? Gil: Since 1969 the Los Angeles LGBT Center has cared for, championed and celebrated LGBT
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“Los Angeles is one of the most popular destinations for homeless LGBT youth. Most of them end up on the streets because they’ve been kicked out of their homes due to their sexual orientation.” individuals and families in Los Angeles and beyond. Today, the Center provides services for more LGBT people than any other organization in the world. Our nearly 500 employees and 3,000 active volunteers provide services and programs that span 4 broad categories: health, social services and housing, culture and education, and leadership and advocacy.
Forty percent of homeless youth are LGBT.
Why is this number so disproportionate compared to heterosexual identified youth? Gil: The 40% statistic should not be considered disproportionate, but rather, staggering. Los Angeles is one of the most popular destinations for homeless LGBT youth. Most of them end up on the streets because they’ve been kicked out of their homes due
to their sexual orientation. Within the first seven days on the streets, many of the youth who have never tried drugs before will resort to taking crystal meth just to stay awake. In order to survive, many of these youth are having sex for meals, money or a place to stay.
The Youth Center on Highland provides break-
fast, clothing, laundry services, showers, support groups and even a dance room. How is it all funded? Gil: The Center raises money from private gifts to support the vital programs and services, which includes services for our youth, in addition to obtaining money from government grants and program fees. We have strong, dedicated donors who financially support us through private gifts and/or our major fundraising events. Some of the Center’s major fundraising events include Simply diVine, An Evening with Women, AIDS/LifeCycle, Garden Party, Rapid Quest, and the Anniversary Gala Vanguard Awards. Aside from these special events, the Center employs a team of talented staff members who continually seek and apply for government grants.
In reading the LGBT blog, I stumbled upon a
story about a homeless youth that was kicked out of his home at the age of 15. He traveled across the country alone and worked as a day laborer so that he could move into a motel. Since participating in the Center’s Youth Employment Program (YEP) he’s become a barista at Starbucks. Can you tell us more about YEP? Gil: YEP exists because homelessness, mental health issues, and substance abuse are all barriers to youth finding and maintaining employment. In addition, many of them don’t have the interpersonal skills, which includes decision-making and problem-solving, that are needed to succeed in the workplace. YEP aims to motivate them to find jobs and guides them in their job search, which includes free certification classes with Microsoft on the company’s software, and field trips to shopping malls and other places that typically have businesses hiring entry-level employees. YEP has helped more than 120 homeless youth find jobs.
If someone wanted to volunteer at the Center,
how would they go about doing so? Gil: As the world’s largest provider of programs and services for LGBT people, the Center depends on volunteers in virtually every program. The first thing to do is complete a volunteer application online at lalgbtcenter.org/volunteer so that we may know your availabilities and interests. For more information on volunteering, please send an email to volunteer@lalgbtcenter.org.
How does volunteering enrich the lives of the
volunteers/mentors? Gil: Our volunteers join the ranks of thousands of kind, compassionate, generous, hardworking individuals who have created tremendous and far-reaching change for our clients and the community. We wants our volunteers’ experiences to be enjoyable and memorable, and we strive to keep our volunteers’ roles safe, exciting, motivating, rewarding and fulfilling.
How many homeless youth have been helped by the Center’s programs? Gil: Our Youth Center on Highland is open 365 days a year and offers a place to stay from 1 to 36 nights. Last year, the Center served more than 81,400 meals to homeless youth and provided more than 23,200 bed nights. The Center also offers a 24-bed Transitional Living Program (TLP), where youth can stay for up to 18 months as they learn to get back on their feet and live independently. More than 90% of those exiting TLP have secured stable housing, jobs and/or scholarships to post-secondary institutions.
What notable events are coming up for the
Center? Gil: Our major fundraising events this year include the Garden Party (July 26); Rapid Quest (August 7-9; rapidquest.org); and Anniversary Gala Vanguard Awards (November 7; lgbtvanguardawards. org)
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