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5 New Charlotte Council members 6 News Notes: Regional Briefs 8 News Notes: U.S./World Briefs

a&e / life&style 10 Winter events and activities

Actors Theatre of Charlotte presents gaythemed play as it becomes new resident theatre company of Queens University p. 16

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NC trans woman sues Walmart and Sam’s arts. entertainment. news.Club views. for discrimination January 10 goqnotes.com/57277 Trans children’s book outrages parents January 15 goqnotes.com/57496 Charlotte teacher gets emotional when Ellen rewards her kindness January 19 goqnotes.com/57572

11 Carolina ski resorts 14 ‘Call Me By Your Name’ reaction 15 Tell Trinity 16 ATC moves, presents new play 18 Q Events Calendar 19 Health & Wellness

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Four percent gayer?

2018 sees more trans murders

Popular podcast host weighs in on CMBYN p. 14

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Flip Benham tried shouting down Charlotte Mayor Vi Lyles at local Women’s March January 21 goqnotes.com/57620

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Barber tells ‘bought off’ Trump supporter Graham to ‘stop lying’ The two pastors differ greatly in their understanding of sin; Moral Monday leader fires back on Graham’s on-air comments

by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

Rev. William Barber is having none of Franklin Graham’s framing of the nation’s “sin,” and held back not an ounce while going after him on MSNBC on Jan. 20.

Barber’s appearance followed one on the same network, and on the same day, by Graham.

Graham defended President Trump, amid the government shutdown and allegations from a former adult film actress that she had an affair with him in 2006, arguing that while the world is sinful, the president is “concerned with Christian values.”

He blamed politicians and their policies for the “sin” problem in America, and praised Trump for supporting Christians who want a license to discriminate in the form of so-called Rev. William Barber, left (photo by Nathania Johnson, via Flickr, CC 2.0 License), and Franklin Graham, right (photo by “religious freedom laws.”

Graham also said he support- Cornstalker, via Wikimedia Commons, CC 4.0 License). ed Trump’s wall on the Southern border. Barber criticized the plan, a modern day form of heresy.” should make sure the immigrant is treated like calling it racist and arguing that the Jesus he Barber, whom qnotes named the 2017 your brother or sister. None of them would be follows tore down walls.

Person of the Year, is the national co-chair of treating their brother or sister like this,” he Barber, appearing on “AM Joy,” told the Poor People’s Campaign: A National Call continued.

Graham to “stop lying” and even suggested for Moral Revival and the president and senior “We’ve seen 365 days of attacks: Attacks he might be getting “bought off” to continue lecturer of Repairers of the Breach. on voting rights, that’s sin, attacks on Muslims, supporting Trump.

“It is just wrong what he’s saying,” Barber that’s sin, attacks on healthcare, that’s sin, “I heard Franklin Graham a minute ago,” Barber said. “Ezekiel in the 22nd Chapter says, your politicians have become like wolves, when they attack the poor, when they attack ‘Stop lying, tell the truth, and stop being bought off... It is the stranger, when they attack the least of just wrong, it is just wrong’ these. And then it says, and your preachers — Rev. William Barber on Franklin Graham’s recent ‘sin’ comments are covering up for the politicians. What we see here is a mass cover-up by so-called white evangelicalism, that’s more about, as I’ve said before, cash than Christ. It’s heavily funded.” concluded. “And actually, I would say to my attacks on the LGBT community, that’s sin,” “You see Franklin Graham saying we have brother Franklin Graham, he needs to stop he said. “Attacks on living wages, giving the a sin problem. We do, but it’s not what they’re lying, tell the truth, and stop being bought off greedy and the wealthy tax breaks on the talking about. The Christian values are caring or paid, or whatever is calling him to misreprebacks of the poor and the working poor, wherfor the strangers, caring for the least of these, sent the faith like that. It is just wrong, it is just ever you look in the scripture, that’s sin. And helping the poor. The Bible actually says you wrong.” : : anyone attempting to justify that is engaging in

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Meet the new Democratic members of Charlotte City Council They sit poised and ready to make change in the Queen City

by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

fied vendors with the city. I look to increase awareness in registration and certification for these businesses with our Charlotte Business INClusion and MWSBE initiatives. I will lobby that we dedicate more focus to increasing participation in the MWSBE contractions while also increasing our subcontracting goals in our city bid process. If we can increase utilization, grow the workload and access to capital for Charlotte’s minority businesses, we can put a dent in our economic mobility issue.

The November 2017 election was historic, sweeping eight transgender candidates into office nationwide and electing a wave of Democrats. Many saw it as a response to the Trump administration, and the Republicans that are controlling the federal government.

Charlotte also saw Democratic wins, with Vi Lyles beating out Republican Kenny Smith, becoming the city’s first African American female mayor, and the Charlotte City Council maintaining a 9-2 Democratic control. qnotes caught up with the four new Democratic members of City Council to find out what drew them to office, what they plan to do with their newfound influence and their initial impressions of the job.

Larken Egleston, District 1 Age: 35 Place of birth: Winston-Salem Where were you raised: Winston-Salem How long have you been living in Charlotte?

Since late 2004. I went to Appalachian State and came to get a culinary degree at Johnson & Wales…I was part of their first class.

What do you do for a living?

I work for Republic National Distributing Company, which is an alcohol distributor.

What made you want to run for City Council?

I didn’t grow up thinking I was going to run for office one day. My parents were always very civically active and certainly kept up with politics, but neither of them were ever considering running for office and we didn’t talk a lot about politics growing up.

My political interests probably came more once I moved to Charlotte…The more civically engaged I got, the more I saw where the politics influenced a lot of the outcomes in the areas that I cared about. Whether it’s transportation, or housing or historic preservation – these things I became more interested and educated on through my civic involvement allowed me to realize that involving myself in the political side of all that could give me more of an opportunity to make an impact in those realms.

What are the main issues you wish to see addressed through Charlotte City Council?

In addition to those three issues – affordable housing, a better public transportation system, historic preservation – human rights issues, in as much as at a city government level we’re able to impact those, as well as the environment.

Part of the, I guess, curse of being in municipal government in North Carolina, is on things like the environment, human rights, and housing to some extent, there’s only so much that we get to do unilaterally, without the blessing of the folks in Raleigh, which we don’t frequently get these days.

What do you plan to do to see this happen?

The three committees I got assigned to are the Environment Committee, which I was named vice chair of, the Housing and Neighborhood Development Committee and the Transportation and Planning Committee. So

New Councilmembers (l-r) Larken Egleston, Justin Harlow, Matt Newton and Braxton Winston.

those will be the three areas where, through my committee work, I have the most ability to make an impact I think.

On things like historic preservation and human rights, and things that maybe aren’t as day-to-day topical on City Council issues, I think myself and a lot of my new colleagues will look for opportunities where those intersect with things we are charged with handling and try to bring them to the forefront.

Justin Harlow, District 2 Age: 29 Place of birth: Atlanta Where were you raised: Atlanta How long have you been living in Charlotte?

Three and a half years.

What are your initial impressions of the job?

I think, we’re five weeks in, we’re four meetings in…I think as a group we haven’t had much of a chance to be all together, and we haven’t started our committee meetings yet either. So it will be interesting to start our committee meetings in February and see how the leadership of each of those committees, what issues they’re prioritizing, how we work together in those smaller groups and as a larger group. I think that will dictate how much progress we can make in all of those areas.

But I am encouraged by the fact that, in general terms, the 11 of us and the mayor, making 12, we all get along, we all like each other. There’s a lot of congenially so far, and I think that puts as at an advantage. When you look at some other elected bodies that clearly don’t get along as well individually, I think that prohibits them from making as much progress legislatively [as they could].

What made you want to run for City Council?

Since moving here, I’ve always been an involved community stakeholder. I joined my neighborhood association, BiddlevilleSmallwood Community Organization, and eventually served two years as President of the organization. I believe our people and their experiences are our greatest assets.

However, not everyone has the same experiences in Charlotte. We have large disparities in housing, city contracting and economic development, along with unequal access to quality schools and services. As a neighborhood leader and a member of community boards like the Historic West End Advisory Committee, I was able to start forming relationships with other community leaders, elected officials and business leaders. I realized that one of the best ways to be a change agent was to help educate my community of the city services and resources and to be at the public policy decision making table.

Would you vote in favor of a complete LGBT non-discrimination ordinance like the one we had that was nullified by HB2 and later repealed in an attempt to get a compromise?

Absolutely. I’m completely in favor of equal rights for the LGBTQ community.

My hope would be that by the time that kind of moratorium on local ordinances is up [in 2020], that we, the community and the state, would have done the work to put some new folks in Raleigh who will not have such a drastic overreaction like the past administration of Gov. McCrory and the General Assembly did when Charlotte passed the ordinance the first time…I think a nondiscrimination ordinance is a no-brainer for our city, and I’d like to see that expanded statewide as well.

What do you do for a living?

General Dentist – Owner of Harlow Dental at Steele Creek.

What are the main issues you wish to see addressed through Charlotte City Council?

We must get serious about our affordable housing crisis. It is imperative we ask voters to approve an increase to our Housing Trust Fund – I like $50 million at minimum – and also earmark at least 70 percent of those approved dollars to only fund affordable housing projects ... for residents that make less than 60 percent AMI. This is our biggest need.

I’d also like to do what we can to share in the solutions-based approach to increase economic mobility in our city, especially for minorities and women. We have lots of minority-owned small business enterprises in Charlotte, but many are not registered or certi-

What do you plan to do to see this happen?

As a member of the Housing and Neighborhood Development Committee and the Economic Development Committee, I will be a fearless advocate in introducing the initiatives mentioned above. I will also work to gain community support around these initiatives to make it easier for council to be accountable to constituents.

What are your initial impressions of the job?

Literally thought, Wow, this city government is a vast organization. There was/still is so much information overload in the time between the General Election and being sworn in, especially around learning about all of our city departments and divisions.

Some of that still exists today, but with all the information and emails/calls from constituents, I’ve learned that we have some really great city staff to help us navigate all the issues we are asked to solve.

Would you vote in favor of a complete LGBT non-discrimination ordinance like the one we had that was nullified by HB2 and later repealed in an attempt to get a compromise?

Yes, I would’ve voted for the original ordinance. I simply believe that our city has to take stances for things that are right. In my opinion, only discrimination can stem from this ordinance not being on the books. Human rights, civil rights and self- expression should never be negotiable.

Matt Newton, District 5 Age: 38 Place of birth: Wilmington Where were you raised: Here in Charlotte. I am fourth generation Charlottean.

What do you do for a living?

I am an attorney with my own law firm, Newton & Arroyo, PLLC. What made you want to run for City Council?

I wanted to make a difference in my community. My district, in East Charlotte, has the lowest median incomes and property values, which are a reflection of our lack of local jobs, quality infrastructure, and transportation options. I felt like I was uniquely situated, given my background and pre-existing relationships, to address these issues and create positive growth for the eastside.

What are the main issues you wish to see ad-

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Charlotte Mayfield announces state bid

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Out Charlotte City Councilmember and Democrat LaWana Mayfield has announced her bid for North Carolina’s State Senate District 38 seat, a run Mayfield says she will continue to pursue despite a recent court ruling which redrew North Carolina legislative maps and places her home in neighboring District 37.

In her announcement she said, “I am

Officials and as board member of Smart Start of Mecklenburg County. She also serves on the Centralina Economic Development Committee and is secretary of the North Carolina Black Elected Municipal Officials.

Mayfield told qnotes on Jan. 22 that she intends to continue running for the District 38 seat, despite news on Jan. 19 that the district had been redrawn. WSOC reported on the change.

“Mecklenburg County Board of Elections Director Michael Dickerson said the decision means [Mayfield] will have to run in her new district,” WSOC reported on Jan. 19. “According to the North Carolina Constitution Mayfield would have to live in the new district 38 for a year before being eligible to run in the new district. Dickerson says it is highly unlikely this requirement would be able to be waived.” info: votelawanamayfield.com. charlottepost.com.

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here to announce that I am running for North Carolina Senate District 38 because I want to connect people in Charlotte to Raleigh and make a difference for our community.”

When discussing her reason for running, Mayfield said, “I running to increase higher paying jobs, improve education and bring about better housing. As a member of the city council, I have worked to bring jobs to Charlotte. I have worked on behalf of youth and young people and I have seen the needs of children.

I will connect and continue that fight for our children in the NCGA [North Carolina General Assembly]. I have worked on housing issues across Charlotte, and our seniors and working poor are being displaced from their homes. The fight is at the N.C. Legislature, and I am here for the fight. I ask the people of District 38 for their support and their vote.”

Mayfield has been a resident of the Queen City for over 30 years. She is taking on Democrat Joel Ford who occupies the seat currently, The Charlotte Post reported.

Although approached on previous occasions to run, she felt it was not the right time until now.

“It took me four years to come to this decision,” she said. “…There were some clear things I wanted to get done as a council representative. I am blessed and honored that God has allowed me in six and a half years to get more done for my current district that I could’ve ever imagined,” the Post added.

Mayfield is currently serving her third term on the city council and represents District 3.

In 2014, she was awarded the David Bohnett LGBT Leadership Fellowship and completed the Harvard Kennedy School of Government program. Mayfield serves on the National League of Cities REAL Race, Equity and Leadership Committee, as president of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Local

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CHARLOTTE, N.C. — On Jan. 15 the Human Rights Campaign Charlotte adopted Greenway Park Elementary School in observance of Dr. Martin Luther King Day of Service.

The organization collected school supplies for the 39-classroom school to assist educators with basic needs such as facial tissue, crayons, pencils, etc. And, 98 percent of the students at Greenway Park receive free lunches, so the need was tremendous.

At the halfway mark in the academic year, supplies begin to run low and teachers often are forced to pay for classroom items out of their own pockets, a challenge on a teacher’s salary.

The Charlotte organization sought contributions toward the initiative through an Amazon gift registry. Volunteers met on Jan. 22 to unpack boxes and created 39 classroom gift packages. info: facebook.com/HRCCharlotte.

Org works to reduce STI rate

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Planned Parenthood South Atlantic (PPSAT), which provides care and education in Mecklenburg County and beyond, is working to reduce the number of sexually transmitted infections (STI) in the area.

Charlotte, N.C. has the highest numbers of STIs in the state and Mecklenburg County’s chlamydia and gonorrhea rates are well above the national average.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that STIs are at an “unprecedented high” in the U.S. and that total combined cases of the most common diseases in 2015 reached the highest number ever. At the epicenter is the South, where five states with the highest STI rates are Louisana, North Carolina, Georgia, Mississippi and South Carolina.

PPSAT is leading conversations and discussions in a safe, non-judgmental, professional healthcare environment to help offset those statistics.

“Education about STIs is key, and the earlier the better,” said Anna Williams, PPSAT

community educator. “Often, people who are sexually active don’t know they’ve become infected, and don’t experience any symptoms or have their infection develop into a disease.”

The health center provides educational classes and distribution of no-cost/low-cost protective barrier methods such as condoms, internal condoms and dental dams. It also offers a range of services from basic gynecological and breast exams to family planning and testing/treatment for sexually transmitted infections.

“We’re working to decrease the stigma that surrounds sex and sexuality, and that includes honest talk about safe sex practices,” Williams says. “Don’t know the STI status of your partner? Ask. Protecting yourself and your health is always sexy.” info: plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-south-atlantic.

Triad ‘Rebels’ screening upcoming

WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. — OUT at the Movies Winston-Salem will screen “Rebels on Pointe” on Feb. 11, 2 p.m., at the University of North Carolina School of the Arts ACE Theatre Complex, 1533 S. Main St. Filmmaker Bobbi Jo Hart reveals the history (and current lives) of Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo — the all-male, drag ballet company founded over 40 years ago on the heels of New York’s Stonewall riots.

The screening will be immediately followed by a Q&A with members of Les Ballets Trackadero de Monte Carlo. Following the Q&A, a reception for the troupe will be held at Vintage Sofa Bar, 1001 Burke St. Tickets are $8 and are available in the lobby beginning at 1:15 p.m. or by calling Rex Welton at 336-918-0902. Cash, checks and credit/debit cards are accepted for payment.

In other news, the 2018 OUT at the Movies International LGBT Film Festival will return from Oct. 4-9 at a number of venues across the city and organizers are now accepting sponsorships. Levels begin at $100 and include festival tickets and other perks, as well as two tickets to each of the OUT at the Movies series screenings. Visit the website for more details. info: outatthemovieswinstonston.org.

Foundation announces new leader

significant work to be done to advance equality and inclusion for the LGBTIA community in our community,” Ruppe shared.

She plans to spend the next few months listening to foundation volunteers, leaders, donors and other stakeholders, followed by working on a strategic plan with the board.

“I want to re-engage inactive donors.

I want to engage a broader section of our community, to make sure we are responsive to the needs of our entire LGBTQIA community,” Ruppe said. “This is our 20th year. I think we have a great opportunity to chart the course for our future while we celebrate our successes.”

A bachelor’s and master’s graduate of the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, Ruppe has spent her professional career working for non-profits across the Triad including Big Brothers, Big Sisters of the Central Piedmont and the United Way chapters serving Forsyth County and Greater Greensboro.

Ruppe, who was brought up in Shelby, N.C., is married to Becky Hale. They have three dogs and a cat. info: guilfordgreenfoundation.org.

Scholarship apps open

GREENSBORO, N.C. — Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Greensboro has announced that its annual Carter Stroupe Memorial Scholarship season is open to applicants.

The program, which is open to LGBTQ or allied residents of Guilford, Rockingham, Randolph or Alamance Counties, provides up to $1,000 which is to be used toward educational expenses.

An application and required materials must be postmarked by March 16 to be considered.

Included in the packet should be a signed and completed scholarship application; a high school or GED transcript sent by applicant’s school and/or most recent college or university transcript; two letters of reference from individuals outside the applicant’s family; and a signed and completed release form. Parents or guardians must sign if applicant is under 18.

Visit bit.ly/2rvnowy to download materials. info: pflaggreensboro.org.

Triangle SAGE dances for Valentine’s

RALEIGH, N.C. — SAGE Raleigh will hold its annual Valentine’s Day dance on Feb. 10, GREENSBORO, N.C. — The Guilford Green 7:30 p.m., at St. John’s Metropolitan Community Foundation has announced that Jennifer Ruppe Church, 622 has been hired as its new Maywood Ave. executive director, effective Singles, couples Jan. 1. and groups will “Jennifer is the right gather for fun, food, choice for Guilford Green dancing and more.

Foundation. She has a DJ Joseph will spin diverse background in nonfavorite tunes. profit management, a proven A suggested $10 skill set and track record, contribution, payable and a passion for serving the at the door, is apLGBTQIA community, said preciated.

Board Member Evelyn Day. SAGE Raleigh “I am honored to serve will also take in a as the executive director of movie showing of Guilford Green Foundation.

“Bent” on Jan. 30, 7 The foundation has served p.m., at Cary Theatre, the LGBTQIA community 122 E. Chatham St., for 20 years and has had a Cary, N.C., and a significant influence on the live production of inclusion and acceptance New Guilford Green Foundation Executive “The Normal Heart” of the LGBTQIA community Director Jennifer Ruppe on Feb. 4, 2 p.m., at residents in Greensboro.

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Burning Coal Theatre, 224 Polk St., in Raleigh.

Contact the group for more details and to RSVP. info: lgbtcenterofraleigh.com/sage-raleigh.

Youth gear up for Fabufest

HILLSBOROUGH, N.C. — iNSIDEoUT will hold its annual overnight Fabufest retreat from Feb. 10-11 for LGBTQ and allied youth ages 1219. The theme this year is Power.

During the event, participants will engage in workshops, games and other fun activities as they learn more about the community, as well as meet other youth from the area. Discussion will center on related topics such as oppression, activism and spreading power through knowledge, organizers shared.

Registration deadline is Feb. 1. Visit insideout180.org/fabufest2018 to sign up.

In other news, the organization was able to meet its end-of-year fundraising campaign goal. In fact, not only did it meet the $2,500 target, it exceeded it. An anonymous donor matched the $2,500, bringing in over $5,000 for the organization’s spring plans, including the school visits program, Backwords zine, Fabufest, Lemur Center field trip and more. iNSIDEoUT is seeking Gold Star donors through contributions of $1,000 or more. info: insideout180.org.

South Carolina Party time is back in S.C.

COLUMBIA, S.C. — The South Carolina Equality PAC will hold their Pink Party 2018, “Time for a Whole New Do,” on Feb. 13, 5:30 p.m., at Metropolis Salon & Dry Bar, 1218 Taylor

St. to benefit the PAC and its work.

Invited speakers include Columbia Mayors Steve Benjamin and Bob Coble, and Belinda Gergel, who were all beneficiaries of past Pink Party events.

Before the establishment of the PAC by SC Equality, the Pink Party was successful in raising funds in the Midlands for fair-minded candidates, organizers shared. They also said that over a period of five years and nine events almost $50,000 was raised. Now, the Pink Party is under the umbrella of the SC Equality PAC. They are currently seeking hosts and sponsors for the event. Contributions can be made out to SC Equality PAC and mailed to P.O. Box 544, Columbia, SC 29902. Write “Pink Party Sponsor/Host” on the memo line and occupation. Sponsor levels are: Big Wig, $1,000; Bee Hive, $500; Bouffant, $250; and Bangs (hosts), $100.

Tickets are $50 and are available online. info: scequality.org.

Regional State’s LGBTQ laws rated

WASHINGTON, D.C. — The Human Rights Campaign Foundation, in partnership with the Equality Federation, released its fourth annual State Equity Index and has given North Carolina a high priority status in achieving basic equality.

The index assessed the status of state legislation affecting LGBTQ equality across America and placed states in one of four categories based on their pro- and anti-LGBTQ state laws.

“The state equality index makes it very clear how far North Carolina still has to go before being a truly inclusive and equitable place for LGBTQ people. While we are grateful for some positive legislation, we remain disheartened by the attacks of North Carolina’s leadership on hard-won rights of LGBTQ North Carolinians,” said Equality North Carolina Interim Executive Director Matt Hirschy.

“Furthermore, deeply discriminatory legislation, such as HB142, has been written into law that restricts municipalities from passing crucial non-discrimination protections for our most vulnerable communities until 2020 and permanently restricts them from protecting transgender and non-binary people in public restrooms.

As a movement, we must be cognizant of our shortcomings when it comes to protecting LGBTQ people and especially our youth here in North Carolina.”

The full State Equality Index report, including detailed scorecards for every state, a comprehensive review of 2017 state legislation and a preview of the 2018 state legislative session is available online. info: hrc.org/sei.

RUM slates meeting

RALEIGH, N.C. — Reconciling United Methodists - North Carolina will hold its Winter meeting on Feb. 11, 7 p.m., at Fairmont United Methodist Church, 2501 Clark Ave. The meeting will begin with evening worship at the church where the Women of Faith Choir will provide music and Rev. Liz Roberts will officiate. info: rum-nc.org.

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Campus Scene Center celebrates anniversary

RALEIGH, N.C. — The GLBT Center at North Carolina State University will celebrate a decade of serving the LGBTQ student population on Feb. 12, 6 p.m., in the Piedmont-Mountains Ballroom, Talley Student Union.

During the celebration the center will reflect on its past and create a vision for the next decade, The Technician reported.

A historical archive exhibit of materials from the LGBTQ community, which will be on display during the event, has been compiled over the past three years as alumni, students, staff and others gather to view it and to be part of the celebration.

In other news, Outsports reported that gay, former football player Harrison Wilkerson has found acceptance in the South and feels at home at North Carolina State University where he serves as a cheerleader.

In the self-penned piece, he shared that college sports was changing and acceptance of LGBTQ individuals is being embraced. He even commented that he has never been made to feel uncomfortable because of his sexuality.

The university had initially recruited him to play football prior to his tenure with the school. info: technicianonline.com. ncsu.edu. outsports.com.

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New ‘religious freedom’ rule places LGBTQ health, well-being at risk

QUICK HITS —————————————————————————————— Actor and activist Omar Sharif Jr. opened up in an op-ed for Hornet entitled “A Voice for the Voiceless: Amidst a Brutal Crackdown, This Gay Egyptian Looks for Hope.” The piece shared what it is like being a gay Egyptian in the public eye and the weight it carries both in the U.S. and in Egypt. info: bit.ly/2rmvQhk. Canadian MP Randy Boissonnault and Rhodes Scholar was one of three lecturers at Oxford University’s Corpus Christi College’s 500th anniversary celebrations. He came full circle from “deeply closeted student” to “proud and out” LGBTQ advocate at Oxford. info: cbc.ca.

GLAAD released research on 45 instances where Donald Trump has selectivity targeted the LGBTQ community during his first year in office, The Wisconsin Gazette reported. info: wisconsingazette.com.

Longtime anti-LGBTQ Sen. James Lankford (R-Okla.) speaks during a Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) press conferece announcing the ‘religious freedom’ rule change. Seated (l-r): Roger Severino, director of HHS Office of Civil Rights and HHS Sec. Eric Hargan.

LOS ANGELES, Calif. — The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) released a proposed rule that could strengthen protections for healthcare workers who refuse to provide health services for religious or moral reasons, including healthcare for LGBTQ patients. The HHS Office for Civil Rights (OCR) is charged with enforcing federal civil rights laws related to healthcare and will enforce this new policy.

Jocelyn Samuels, former director of HHS OCR from 2014 to the end of the Obama Administration and current executive director at the Williams Institute, reacted: “If OCR uniformly elevates the right to refuse care above the civil rights of patients, it would be a disservice to the public and the goals of the department. HHS must consider the negative impact of any religious exemption on the health of LGBT people, women, and all communities as it moves forward toward a final rule.”

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instance, The Institute of Medicine has concluded that “LGBT individuals face discrimination in the health care system that can lead to an outright denial of care or to the delivery of inadequate care.”

Fear of stigmatization or previous negative experience with the healthcare system has led LGBTQ individuals to delay seeking care.

According to the 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey (USTS), one-third (33 percent) of transgender people who saw a healthcare provider in the past year reported having at least one negative experience related to being transgender.

The Williams Institute also reported that estimates of 1,171,000 LGBTQ adults ages 18-64 years have Medicaid as their primary source of health insurance. While the majority of LGBTQ adults with Medicaid are employed, an estimated 542,000 may be at risk of losing coverage due to work or community service requirements that states may impose under guidance released by the HHS. info: williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu

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Openly gay Waleska resident Adam Wynn has announced he is running for U.S. House of Representatives in Georgia’s 11th Congressional District, The Georgia Voice reported. If elected, he would be the first openly LGBTQ individual ever elected to Congress in Georgia. info: thegavoice.com.

TIME magazine ran an op-ed from GLAAD President and CEO Sarah Kate Ellis saying that Donald Trump is “trying to erase the LGBTQ community.” info: time.com.

The Victory Fund National Champagne Brunch will be held on April 8 in Washington, D.C. at the Omni Shoreham Hotel. info: victoryfund.org.

GLAAD has announced its 29th Annual GLAAD Media Awards nominees during the Sundance Film Festival held in Park City, Utah.

Among the nominees were: Golden Globe winner “Lady Bird;” Golden Globe nominees “Call Me By Your Name,” “The Shape of Water,” “A Fantastic Woman,” “The Handmaid’s Tale,” “Will & Grace,” “Feud: Bette and Joan” and “This Is Us;” ABC’s “When We Rise,” “Modern Family,” “20/20” and “Good Morning America;” The CW’s “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend;” Netflix’s “One Day at a Time,” “Sense8,” “Easy,” “Las chicas del cable” and “Godless;” Amazon’s

“One Mississippi” and “Transparent;” Starz’s “Survivor’s Remorse”; Univision’s “La doble vida de Estela Carrillo;” HBO’s “Last Week Tonight with John Oliver” and “Room 104;” The New Yorker and “Nightline” for their coverage of the persecution of gay and bisexual men in Chechnya; Rolling Stone and VICE on HBO for its coverage of transgender youth; CNN en Español for its report on survivors, families and first responders one year after the Pulse Nightclub massacre; and Grammynominated artist Kehlani for her album “SweetSexySavage.” The full list is available online. info: glaad.org.

Former prisoner and transgender activist Chelsea Manning has put her bid into a run for the U.S. Senate. Her announcement was made on YouTube. info: gayrva.com.

According to Newsweek.com on Jan. 10, Israel lifted a ban on gay and bisexual male blood donors, after implementing a double testing system on a two-year trial basis that allows blood banks to screen donations twice. Prior to this announcement, the country had a similar policy that is currently in place within the US. and UK, which allows gay and bisexual men to donate blood only after a 12-month period of no same-gender sexual contact. info: glma.org.

The remains of Blaze Bernstein, a gay college student at the University of Pennsylvania, was found in Borrego Park in California. An arrest has been made in connection to his murder. The death in Orange County is being investigated as a possible hate crime. info: eqca.org.

Gay Games 10 will be held in Paris, France from Aug. 4-12 with participants from over 85 countries competing in 36 sports, 14 cultural events, two ceremonies and a sports conference. Interested parties should email support@ paris2018.com to inquire. info: paris2018.com.

The Human Rights Campaign issued a report detailing at least 129 anti-LGBTQ bills that were introduced across 30 states during the 2017 state legislative session. info: nbcnews.com.

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WINTER FUN

S(no)w better way to spend the winter In a season of freak snow storms and temperature fluctuations by the hour, here are a variety of activities for LGBTQ folks to enjoy, stay active and have fun

by Jerry Yelton :: qnotes contributor

Charlotte Black Gay Pride (charlotteblackgaypride.org/volunteer.html) Charlotte LGBT Chamber of Commerce (clgbtcc.org/forms/volunteer) Charlotte Pride (charlottepride.org/volunteers) Equality NC (equalitync.org/action/volunteer) LGBT Center of Raleigh (lgbtcenterofraleigh. com/get-involved/volunteering.html) LGBTQ Center of Durham (lgbtqcenterofdurham.org/how-you-can-help.html) MeckPAC (meckpac.org/volunteer) NC Pride (ncpride.org/pride/library/forms/ mailing-list.shtml) Time Out Youth (timeoutyouth.org/content/ volunteer) Transcend Charlotte (email: riseabove@transcendcharlotte.org)

Charlotte Front Runners & Walkers For those who are less inclined to stay active but don’t enjoy organized sports, Charlotte Front Runners and Walkers is here for you!

Twice a week, the Charlotte Front Runners hosts runs/walks together. On Monday, the group meets at the Dowd YMCA (400 E Morehead St) back porch at 6:30 p.m., and on Saturday, they meet at The Mayobird (1531 East Blvd) at 9 a.m.. Both groups will enjoy a run together and afterward, head out for a meal as a group. You can learn more information at charlottefrontrunners.com.

Charlotte Nude Yoga For the adventurous yogi, Charlotte Nude Yoga offers yoga classes for men in the Charlotte region who are open and accepting of all body types and sexualities. To learn more and find out the next location/date, you can subscribe to their newsletter at charlottenudeyoga.com.

Charlotte Roller Girls The Charlotte Roller Girls is the premier Queen City organization for women who want to express their physicality through skating.

Offering competitive skating, group camaraderie, and fantastic purple tank tops, this group of women is an affirming, exciting place to express yourself. Their most recent meet and greet has already passed, but you can keep up to date with upcoming events at facebook.com/ CharlotteRollerGirls.

Charlotte Royals: Rugby One of the most popular teams in Charlotte is Charlotte Royals Rugby. An LGBTQ affirming group for gay rugby players, they are an active group in the community and in their own games. Their peak season is typically fall, but you can keep up to date with activities via their Facebook at facebook.com/ CharlotteRoyalsRFC. Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte An option for those who like to exercise

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The Charlotte Roller Girls offers competitive skating, camaraderie and fantastic purple tank tops!

their vocal chords instead of playing sports is the Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte. This longstanding organization is currently accepting new members at their weekly rehearsals at St. Martin’s Episcopal Church from 7 to 9:30 p.m.

Learn more at gmccharlotte.org.

Southern Country Charlotte Southern Country Charlotte is a local group dedicated to country and western music with a supportive environment for LGBTQ folks.

Southern Country Charlotte offers opportunities to have fun, let loose, and learn a few new dances at their monthly gatherings. If you want to join them at their next dance, follow them on Facebook at facebook.com/southerncountrycharlotte.

Stonewall Charlotte Early Winter, Stonewall Charlotte’s annual seasons for Volleyball, Dodgeball, and Bowling kick off early in the new year, offering a chance for LGBTQ folks to be together and participate in physical activities and sports. This year, Bowling kicks off on Feb. 5. Dodgeball had a kick off on Jan. 21. Volleyball will begin in February or March (final date TBD). Though registration is already closed, you can find

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more information about participating in queer sports with Stonewall at stonewallcharlotte. leagueapps.com.

One World Dragon Boat A relatively newer physical activity is the One World Dragon Boat water sport. With origins from thousands of years in the past in China, the sport focuses its directive on teamwork and physical activity as a unit. Their upcoming Poolside Practices are on January 27 and February 3 at 9:00 AM with information about location available to their members on their website at oneworlddragonboat.org.

Volunteering For those of us who are less physically active or sports-inclined, a great way to be a part of the community during the cold season is to get involved with your local LGBTQ organization. Here are a few organizations that are always looking for new, engaged volunteers:

Organizations to Keep an Eye Out For (Leagues or Auditions to Open Later in the Year): Charlotte Rainbowlers (charlotterainbwlers. com/home) NC Softball League (ncsoftball.org) One Voice Chorus Charlotte (onevoicechorus. com) Queen City Tennis (qctc.org) Triangle Rainbow Bowling League (trianglerainbowbowling.org) Triangle Tennis Club (triangletennisclub.com)

Charlotte Black Gay Pride is one of several local groups on the look-out for new volunteers.

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WINTER TRAVEL

North Carolina ski resorts make for the perfect winter getaway These spots are ideal for a day trip or for longer stays on the slopes

by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

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s we move through the dead of winter, ski resorts are in full swing. Skiers, snowboarders and tubers looking to hit the slopes have several options throughout North Carolina competing for their recreation dollars.

Here is what you need to know if you’re looking to take off for a day, a weekend, or a longer getaway.

Appalachian Ski Mountain 940 Ski Mountain Rd., Blowing Rock 828-295-7828 appskimtn.com

Appalachian Ski Mountain offers skiing, snowboarding, tubing and ice skating. It featuring 12 trails, the longest run of which stretches a half mile. The mountain has a 4,000-feet peak elevation, a base elevation of 3,635 feet and a vertical drop of 365 feet. There are three terrain parks with dozens of rails and boxes.

The season runs through March 25.

Lodging is available at the mountain, as well as at a variety of offsite hotels with ski-and-stay discount rates. The lodge includes amenities such as a dining facility, a game room, a ski shop and a gift shop. There is also a nursery onsite for those needing childcare.

Those looking for a deal can ski or ride for only $10 on the first Sunday of each month, from 7:30-10 p.m.

Beech Mountain Resort 1007 Beech Mountain Pkwy, Beech Mountain 800-438-2093 beechmountainresort.com Beech Mountain Resort also offers skiing, snowboarding, tubing and ice skating. It features 14 trails, with one terrain park, for a total of 95 skiable acres. The peak elevation is 4,000 feet, with a base elevation of 4,675 feet and a vertical drop of 830 feet.

The lodge offers dining and drinking options. A nursery is available for children six months to three years of age.

The Beech Tree Bar & Grille is also available for lunch and dinner dining. The Beech Mountain Brewing Co. offers a variety of craft beers.

Cataloochee Ski Area 1080 Ski Lodge Rd, Maggie Valley 828-926-0285 cataloochee.com

Cataloochee Ski Area offers skiing, snowboarding and tubing. There are 18 trails, with an elevation of 5,400 feet and a vertical drop of 740 feet. The season runs through late March.

A rentals and accessories shop, Cataloochee Ski & Sports, is available for those who need to get supplies before hitting the slopes.

Lodging options are available nearby and can be found online.

Sapphire Valley Ski Resort 127 Cherokee Trail, Sapphire 828-743-7663 skisapphirevalley.com Sapphire Valley Ski Resort offers skiing, snowboarding, tubing and a zipline. The resort features a 1,600-foot main run with a vertical drop of 200 feet, as well as a smaller beginner’s run. A restaurant is available at the lodge.

Lodging is available onsite, and those who stay at the resort and their guests receive full amenity privileges, including access to a recreation center, pools, hot tubs, sauna, fitness center, workout room, mini-golf, massage therapy and more, as well as 25 percent off the public ski rate.

drop of 1,200 feet.

Lodging can be found near the mountain, with deals available for those visiting the resort, and can be found online. Child care is also available for those with little ones in tow.

Wolf Ridge Ski Resort 578 Valley View Cir, Mars Hill 800.817.4111 skiwolfridgenc.com Wolf Ridge Ski Resort offers skiing, snowboarding and tubing. Wolf Ridge features 15 runs, including a terrain park and an average base depth of 50 inches of snow.

Lodging is available onsite. Anyone who stays in the townhomes on offer will get discounted skiing and snowboarding rates. The resort is open through mid-March. : :

Sugar Mountain Resort 1009 Sugar Mountain Dr., Sugar Mountain 828-898-4521 skisugar.com Sugar Mountain Resort offers skiing, snowboarding, tubing, snowshoeing and ice skating. The mountain features 21 trails, with 125 acres of skiable terrain, including one terrain park. Base Elevation is 4,100 feet, with a summit elevation of 5,300 feet and a vertical

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dietary supplements is likely unknown to them. Dietary supplements are held to a different standard by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) than manufactured medications sold behind the pharmacy counter. Companies that produce supplements are not required to do any testing of their product to determine how well they work or what side effects may occur.

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New council continued from page 5 dressed through Charlotte City Council?

For my district, job creation, transportation growth and infrastructure improvement are very important. More specifically, developing Eastland and rebranding East Charlotte are top priorities.

What do you plan to do to see this happen?

Solicit and support economic development that will serve as a catalyst to job creation, transportation growth and infrastructure improvement in my area. Also, create an open dialogue and line of communication between the community, city, and developers to ensure that whatever is built at Eastland is something we will all benefit from and can be proud of; and, explore the creation of an eastside municipal service district to promote the rich cultural diversity, safe neighborhoods and entertainment options we possess in East Charlotte.

What are your initial impressions of the job?

It’s definitely more than a part-time job, but I enjoy it. I have the opportunity to help my neighbors succeed in both a micro and macro way. That is very rewarding.

Would you vote in favor of a complete LGBT non-discrimination ordinance like the one we had that was nullified by HB2 and later repealed in an attempt to get a compromise?

Absolutely. I will not condone discrimination in any way, shape or form. That is nonnegotiable. As we strive to become a world-

class city, we must be accepting and inclusive of all people. It makes sound economic sense, but is also a moral imperative.

Braxton Winston, At-Large Age: 35 Place of birth: Camp Lejeune Where were you raised: Brooklyn How long have you been living in Charlotte?

Came to Davidson College in 2001, Charlotte in 2004, moved out to L.A. and New Jersey for a couple of years, returned to Charlotte in 2011.

What do you do for a living?

I’m an entertainment production professional. I’m a professional stagehand as well as a freelance camera operator.

What made you want to run for City Council?

It has really just been walking in the path of purpose, trying to figure out how I can work towards a more equitable city. The desire to spread information and facts so people can determine their own truth, the desire to advocate for marginalized groups – and the knowledge and understanding that, not just in Charlotte but in America, we exist in a culture of laws and policy, and to affect change, in any sense, you ultimately have to do it in the halls of government. The quest to synthesize those things lead to this decision and this path.

What are the main issues you wish to see addressed through Charlotte City Council?

I think the biggest problem we have is upward economic mobility. But when you look at what that actually means, it really is an

umbrella that encompasses so much. It encompasses and speaks to so many different social conditions, and systemic social inequities.

Whether that be around providing good paying career path jobs that have benefits, so families can build wealth and be participants in family life, including children.

[These jobs should] provide equal pay for equal work, for all people, regardless of who they are, where they’re born, who they love, where they come from.

Access, as it relates to physical transportation access as well as digital access to information.

Also the interconnection of making sure that government is working on different levels towards the same or similar goals, as well as supporting folks who are doing the work in our community to address these issues already so we don’t have to reinvent the wheel.

What do you plan to do to see this happen?

My approach on the outset, and where we are right now, to how I think I can affect that through City Council, is one, learning how to be a councilmember. Learning how to run a city, and learning what questions to ask and where to go for them so that can be done in a quick and effective manner.

Secondly, I think it is really imperative to continue to include more people in the conversation. I think democracy is the way to address these issues, and democracy works much better when more people are involved.

So how can I facilitate bringing more people’s voices to the tables where these conversations and decision making is happening.

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What are your initial impressions of the job?

I think there’s a lot of energy. I think there are a lot more people paying attention to the effects and processes of municipal government. But I think we have a long way to go in terms of changing different cultures. And I look at culture as how we do what we do. So, the culture of decision making in this city, the culture of what transparency and access to one’s government means.

There are, I want to say serious challenges, that’s not necessarily a negative thing. But that we have to really look ourselves in the mirror and not only accept what we see, but changing it…You’d like to just change something, you know wake up the next day and it changes because you said it and you acknowledged it, but it takes much more work than that.

Would you vote in favor of a complete LGBT non-discrimination ordinance like the one we had that was nullified by HB2 and later repealed in an attempt to get a compromise?

Yes, I believe that at the root of all things is equal protections under the law for all people.

I think that’s imperative. One of my biggest disappoints in my municipal government was the negotiation that finds us where we’re at right now, and it was part of the fuel to my fire to continue to advocate and agitate for changes in government. : : Editor’s note: qnotes attempted to interview the lone new Republican member of Charlotte City Council, Tariq Bokhari. He did not respond by press time.

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Marc Maron is ‘4 percent gayer’ Popular podcast host says popular film ‘Call Me By Your Name’ is the cause

by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

Marc Maron revealed on his latest podcast, “WTF with Marc Maron,” that he watched the much buzzed-about “Call Me

By Your Name” and it had quite an impact.

The film has received overwhelmingly positive reviews from critics and audiences alike, and is in theaters now. It was recently screened in Charlotte as a community event promoted by Reel Out Charlotte and Charlotte Pride. In Charlotte, you can catch the film at the Regal Manor Twin on Providence Rd. or at the AMC Concord Mills 24 in Concord.

During the introduction to his interview with actor and “Drunk History” creator Derek Waters, he mentioned watching award season screeners, including “Call Me by Your Name,” of which he said: “What did I watch? Is it “Call Me by Your Name?” Is that the name of it? It’s “Call Me By Your Name?” Is that the exact title? Cause I watched that. What a beautiful, poetic movie.

Just a stunning movie. And I got to say, I think after watching it, I’m probably four percent more gay than I was before.

“I think I hovered around, you know, 11, 12 percent gay, and now I’m like 16, 17 percent gay. And it’s gonna stick, after watching that movie.

“But don’t be afraid of it. It’s an opening. It’s not something scary. You probably need to be a little more gay. There’s some dudes out there that could be a little more gay. It would be nice.

You know, sometimes you need a little balance.

“Just see what happens to you when you watch that movie, and what exactly are your feelings around the peach scene.

No spoilers, but let me know. Let me know how the peach scene works for you in “Call Me by Your Name.”

“And the acting was tremendous on all parts.” : :

‘Just see what happens to you when you watch that movie, and what exactly are your feelings around the peach scene. No spoilers, but let me know. Let me know how the peach scene works for you...’

— Marc Maron on ‘Call Me By Your Name’

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by Trinity :: qnotes contributor :: trinity@telltrinity.com

Gay men, straight women, friendships and boundaries Dear Trinity, Why do gay men form close bonds with straight women, complete with flirtations? See, I really don’t think my gay friend means to be cruel but all his snuggling and affection make me feel used. Maybe we need better boundaries?

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sex appeal would make better use of their time chatting on apps, simply because it’s easier for them than going out. Extroverts, city dwellers and folks who know how to turn on the sex appeal, Darling, should do the opposite, simply because going out guarantees you’ll meet people, live, whereas apps guarantee... nothing.

Dear Girl/Gay Boundaries, Yes, gay men do get carried away when it comes to beauty, a good pair of heels and female friendships, but with any two people forming a friendship there needs to be a definite “line” and a deep discussion about boundaries that honor everyone. Gay men make great girlfriends, but, Honey, if you’re feelin’ used, then “use” this gay man and your relationship to learn how to talk about your feelings while... always creating good boundaries!

Hey Trinity, Dating is so much work and so disappointing.

I hate being single but I also really hate dating.

What’s wrong with giving up?

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Hello Trinity, I’ve started chatting on hookup apps. Do you think apps are time better or worse spent than going out to bars to meet people?

App Chat vs. Bar Chat Phoenix, AZ Hello AC vs BC, When it comes to time better spent, introverts, suburbanites and people not so used to using

Hey Death By Dating, It’s easy to give up especially with something as tough, time consuming and unpredictable as dating. But Pumpkin, the alternative of being old, alone or bored for the rest of your life is really not easier. So, get up, get dressed and get to the front lines of dating already. Just think of all the cute soldiers you’ll get to share war stories with. (For some solid advice, see my cartoon!)

Dearest Trinity, I’m going on a first date and I want to make a great impression. Any suggestions?

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Dearest First Impressions, Just wanting to make a great first impression means you’re on the right track.

But Sweetie, besides not being all about yourself, your problems or your political/ religious beliefs, remember: Trinity’s Upbeat Tips For A Winning First Impression 1. DRESSING: Beg, borrow or steal something that says, “Wow.” And if you don’t know, ask! Bright patterns are a no-no!

2. GROOMING: Besides clean teeth, breath, hair and smell, a man’s best weapon is a clean shave or groomed beard. A woman’s is... mascara.

3. ACTING: Be willing to change a bad subject to keep the mood flowing upwards.

If you’re having a bad day, take two aspirins and shut up about it.

4. COMMUNICATING: Be aware of the speed you talk while asking and answering questions. Plus, always look like you’re interested!

5. CHARMING: It’s always right to be attentive and charming. If you have “it,” use it; if you don’t, learn how to get “it!”

6. GREETING: Start with good eye contact. Men: firm (not overbearing) handshakes. Women: extend the elbow while shaking hands.

7. OPENING LINES: “Nice to see you”, “It’s a pleasure” or “You look great” are all better than, “What’s up”, “How you doin’” or I like your hair.”

8. CONVERSING: “Life’s good”, “I’m well” and “It’s all coming together” are much smarter

phrases than, “Life sucks”, “I’m surviving” or “I’m falling apart.” Fake it if you must!

9. CONFRONTING: If you’re late or do something inappropriate say, “Forgive me. It will never happen again (period).” Never ignore your mistakes!

10. L astly, DEPARTING: Never leave abruptly or on a downbeat. Always end with, “I had a great time”, “Can’t wait to do it again” or “Let’s talk in a few... years.” info: With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama performed globally, and is now minister of sponsor, WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings, wigministries.org. Learn more at telltrinity.com.

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Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte presents gay-themed ‘The Luckiest People’ First production in new home, where ATC will be Queens University’s resident theatre company

by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

CHARLOTTE, N.C. – Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte will hold its first production in its new home at Queens University, the gay-themed “The Luckiest People.”

The family drama centers around Richard and his elderly father, Oscar. Oscar (played by Dennis Delamar) wants to leave his assisted living facility and move in with Richard (Tim

ATC artistic director Chip Decker signs the contract with Queens University.

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Ross), who is living with his partner David (Scott A. Miller). Unbeknownst to Oscar, the pair will also soon welcome an adopted son into their home.

Years of unspoken resentments bubble up to the surface, unleashing a feud that culminates in the father making a startling accusation against his son regarding Oscar’s growing suspicions over the circumstances of his wife’s death.

“The Luckiest People” is written by Meridith Friedman, and was commissioned by National New Play Network (NNPN). It will be directed by Sidney Horton.

The play premieres on Jan. 31 at 7:30 p.m.

It runs through Feb. 17. Dates and times can be found at atcharlotte.org.

All performances will be held at Queens University’s Hadley Theatre, 2211 Wellesley Ave, Charlotte.

Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte relocates to Queens Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte signed a five-year lease, with an opportunity to extend.

The company had been leading something of a nomadic existence since losing its permanent space of 12 years in 2016.

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The cast of ‘The Luckiest People,’ (l-r): Susan Stein (Laura), Dennis Delamar (Oscar), Tim Ross (Richard) and Scott A. Miller (David). Courtesy of ATC.

Two attempts at securing a new permanent space fell through, and the temporary spaces where they performed, like the Charlotte Ballet and the Mint Museum on Randolph, could not offer them what they need either.

Executive Director Chip Decker told The Charlotte Observer that Actor’s Theatre of

Charlotte was “hemorrhaging money,” paying for a building on Freedom Drive that was ultimately not a good fit due to insufficient parking.

“Things got pretty dark at times,” he said, noting that employees had to take furloughs and reduced pay, some of which is ongoing, in order to keep the company afloat.

The theater can seat between 150 to 200 depending on layout, matching its former home, but also offers higher ceilings. That opens up the types of sets that can be incorporated into performances.

“From an artistic standpoint, this space forces us to grow,” said Decker.

Speaking of growth, Queens is set to break ground this year on the $20 million Sarah Belk Gambrell Center for the Arts & Civic Engagement.

Importantly, for a company known for putting on what many call “edgy” performances, Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte will have complete creative control.

“It’s explicit in the contract that Actor’s Theatre maintains complete artistic control,” Queens’ John Sisko, dean of the College of Arts and Sciences said. “We, in no way, will ask them to tone down anything they choose to produce.” : :

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January-March 2018 Documentary Screening: ‘Whose Streets’ Varsity Theatre 123 E. Franklin St. Chapel Hill 7 p.m.

Documentary Premiere: ‘Orangeburg, 50 Years Later’ Harvey B. Gantt Center 551 S. Tryon St., Charlotte 6:30-8 p.m.

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LaGanja Estranja SEP FEB MO Chasers 3217 The Plaza, Charlotte 9 p.m.-2 a.m.

Drag queen LaGanja Estranja, she of the epic death drop and “RuPaul’s Drag Race” fame, will perform at Chasers. August Phillippe-Monet and Skylar The documentary “Orangeburg, 50 Michele-Monet will host, and Miss Years Later” will premiere at the Harvey Erica Chanel, Logan, Rose Zaye and B. Gantt Center, with filmmaker and Riley Malicious will also perform. More renowned civil rights photographer information is available online.

Cecil Williams. The film tells the story chaserscharlotte.club. of the Orangeburg massacre, in which South Carolina Highway Patrol officers ‘Eddie Izzard: Believe Me’ shot and killed protesters who were SEP FEB MO The Carolina Theatre trying to integrate a bowling alley on the 309 W. Morgan St., Durham South Carolina State University campus 8 p.m. in 1968. The event is free but an RSVP Comedian, actor and is required. RSVP at ganttcenter.org/ activist Eddie Izzard, who came out as calendar/orangeburg-50-years-later. transgender this year, performs a show The Chapel Hill-Carrboro NAACP with the same name and themes as is presents a screening of the docuStonewall Bowling Kickoff new memoir, which is his first book. In mentary “Whose Streets?” The film SEP FEB MO The Bar at 316 it, he reflects on losing his mother as a examines the police shooting death of 316 Rensselaer Ave., child, going to boarding school, a life in Michael Brown, and the aftermath that Charlotte the arts and self-discovery. Tickets start took place in the streets of Ferguson. A T7-9 p.m. at $45. More information and tickets are panel discussion will follow, moderated by James E. Williams, Jr., a former Stonewall Sports kicks off its 2018 bowl- available online. ing season with a party for players and carolinatheatre.org. public defender, and including Chris Blue, Chapel Hill Chief of Police, Angaza supporters alike. Registered players can also pick up their official shirts.

Laughinghouse, an attorney with the Moral March on Raleigh Those who are interested in future SEP FEB MO Southern Coalition for Social Justice, Wilmington/South Sts., seasons can get information. 316 will and Cristina Becker, Criminal Justice Raleigh, 8:30 a.m. be serving up drinks, while you meet Debt Fellow for ACLU of NC. This is a Thousands will gather and greet your fellow players this new free event. More information is availmarching for a progressive, season. More information is also available online. inclusive and fair North Carolina. able online. facebook.com/events/521773618183916. hkonj.com. naacpnc.com. stonewallcharlotte.leagueapps.com.

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Queen City Conversation: SEP FEB MO Know Your Rights Little Rock AME Zion Church 401 N. McDowell St., Charlotte, 6-8 p.m.

The Mecklenburg County NAACP will hold a Queen City Conversation on civil rights and criminal justice reform.

Community organizer Andrew Fede will host, journalists DaShawn Brown and Michael Graff will moderate, and Attorney Benjamin Crump and District Attorney Spencer Merriweather are the featured speakers. Record expungement counseling will be provided by The Freedman Law Group and The Corbett Law Firm. The event is free and open to the public. More information is available online. facebook.com/events/2005003119821024.

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‘Langston Hughes Project’ The Carolina Theatre 309 W. Morgan St., Durham 8 p.m.

Queen City Black Heritage Festival Carole Hoefener Center 615 E. 6th St., Charlotte 1-5 p.m.

The 2018 Queen City Black Heritage Festival, with the theme “Past, Present, & Future,” will feature over 40 blackowned companies. Food, crafts, culture, art and more will be on display and on offer, including some giveaways.

This is a free event. Those interested in being vendors can register at http:// bit.ly/2DtUJ04. More information is available online. facebook.com/events/783328995186770.

Screening: ‘Family SEP MAR MO Commitments’ Regal Ballantyne Village Theatre 14815 Ballantyne Village Way, Charlotte 7:15 p.m.

Reel Out Charlotte and Charlotte Pride A multimedia concert performance of Langston Hughes’s jazz poem suite “Ask partner with the Charlotte Jewish Film Your Mama: 12 Moods for Jazz,” featur- Festival to present the film “Family Commitments.” The film fallows two ing the Ron McCurdy Quartet. Hughes men, one Jewish and one Muslim, as scored his epic poem with influences they navigate their own relationship from many sources: blues, Dixieland, gospel, boogie woogie, bebop, progres- and that with their families. The Gay Men’s Chorus will perform. Tickets sive jazz, Latin “cha cha,” Afro-Cuban are available online at http://charlotmambo music, Jewish liturgy, West tejewishfilm.ticketmob.com/event.

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by Jack Kirven :: personal trainer, qnotes contributor

Hibernation and Fitness Recently we had a near repeat of the 2014 Arctic Vortex. January 2018 wasn’t just cold in the Carolinas, it was bone chillingly frigid for many days on end. I still managed to workout.

I know many of you are probably groaning and rolling your eyes, but I have some tips to help you stay fit when it’s too cold to do anything but sit still and eat rich, hot, comforting foods. Before I continue, let me just say how natural it is to feel disheartened about exercise when it’s cold and dark. It actually seems like the worst time of year to make fitness resolutions.

Some people experience a form of “hibernation” where the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in to dampen activity in general.

Often these are the people who also experience Seasonal Affective Disorder, which I discussed in a past column recently. But other people are susceptible to this general winter malaise as well.

The result of this reaction to winter is a slower heart rate, lower body temperature, slower metabolism, and a desire to sleep and snuggle (but not necessarily to have sex). Yet you may find yourself craving food. When you’re less active, why would you want to eat more?

Scientists in Russia believe that taken altogether, these symptoms are hibernationlike responses that conserve and store energy.

All of this would have been very helpful to our ancestors when there were food shortages for months at a time. You may find that you get softer during the winter, even if you specifically try not to. Winter is “bulking season‚“ for a reason (if you bother with that: I prefer to remain in cutting season all year). Again, if your parasympathetic system is slowing your metabolism down, it is simply harder all around to stay energized enough to burn the calories.

I have noticed first hand that I simply cannot workout at the same intensity during winter.

Neither can many of my clients. It isn’t from lack of tying, so I suspect there’s more to subtle “human hibernation,” than hard science currently confirms. If metabolism is lower, then oxygen usage is lowered as well. Without enough oxygen, you simply cannot burn enough energy to work at your peak. I also find that it becomes harder to take deep breaths while exercising in the winter, regardless of whether I’m outside or inside. I wonder if that too is part of the winding down process?

3 Tips to Maintain Your Beach Body During Hibernation Season 1. Food has to come first, because the extent of your fitness results are subject spe-

cifically to the quality of your diet. I have been binging really hard on sugar this particular holiday season and transition into the new year.

This has happened even more than usual, and I attribute it specifically to the deep, prolonged freeze.

I can no longer avoid the temptation of calorically dense foods like bread, soft cheeses, candy, and heavy sauces. My suggestion to you: Don’t even bring these items into your home. It isn’t by willpower that I have managed to keep the winter pounds off. I cannot give myself that much credit. I had to banish certain foods from my presence. Consider doing that in your space, too.

2. Sticking to food just a moment: There are many ingredients that can boost your metabolism and energy. Putting fresh squeezed lemon into your water can help you burn some extra calories. Make sure it’s fresh squeezed!

Spices that can help increase metabolism include cinnamon, ginger, dried mustard, chili powder, cayenne and hot pepper. The peppers in particular contain capsaicin, which stimulates the mitochondria in muscle cells to burn through more energy, which generates heat, and increases your daily burn.

Green tea can help you burn up to 100 extra calories per day. Obviously you don’t want to reverse that advantage by taking in extra calories with sugar. This would be an excellent way to get a double whammy by putting some of your fresh squeezed lemon into each steaming cup.

3. Have you made exercise resolutions for 2018? Awesome! Are you struggling to stay motivated, because of the weather and/ or hibernation? You don’t have to brave the elements and go to the gym. To burn as many calories as possible when you exercise at home with limited or no equipment, consider focusing on compound movements, core work, and a particular focus on the legs.

The major compound movements are chest press, back row, pullups, squats, deadlifts, and overhead presses. The muscles in your legs are big and greedy. If you can’t bring yourself to do anything else, at least do some air squats, walking lunges, jumping jacks, and other exercises that get your lower body engaged. One reason leg day is so arduous is because of all the blood, oxygen, and nutrients your legs use when you work them. : : info: Jack Kirven completed the MFA in Dance at UCLA, and earned certification as a personal trainer through NASM. His wellness philosophy is founded upon integrated lifestyles as opposed to isolated workouts. Visit him at jackkirven.com and INTEGRE8Twellness.com.

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