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HB2/HB142 Update

HRC inspired by governor’s HB2 victory Org commits $26 million to grassroots project

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

WASHINGTON, D.C. — National pro-LGBTQ non-profit the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) was inspired by its own influence in partnership with Equality North Carolina (ENC) in the 2016 gubernatorial race. The immense grassroots effort coordinated through the two organizations raised public ire for former Gov. Pat McCrory’s staunch defense of House Bill 2 (HB2), the notoriously transphobic “bathroom bill.”

HRC data revealed that 57 percent of voters on Election Day cited HB2 as the reason they voted against Gov. McCrory. Now, Gov. Roy Cooper’s victory set a standard for LGBTQ activism; the power of grassroots campaigns on election results was proven.

“Our grassroots army of over 3 million has proven that, even in the face of unprecedented challenges, we can make incredible progress and defeat the hateful politicians who’ve been emboldened by Donald Trump when we organize and mobilize,” HRC President Chad Griffin said upon announcing the HRC Rising campaign. “The power and determination of the 10 million LGBTQ voters and our allies across America will only continue to grow stronger in the face of discriminatory attacks on our rights and freedoms.”

The national organization has committed itself to continuing to fight anti-LGBTQ legislation with a similar method used against HB2. HRC

recently announced a $26 million campaign called “HRC Rising,” aimed at mobilizing local allies in LGBTQ rights battleground states.

The campaign will seek nationwide results, with particular focus in areas where anti-LGBTQ laws are most extreme, or most frequently considered. Ohio, Pennsylvania, Michigan, Wisconsin, Arizona and Nevada are all on the oranization’s focused agenda.

In these regions, the campaign will focus on supporting pro-equality candidates, as well as expanding HRC’s personnel by 20 new full-time employees. The increased staff and volunteers will work “to expand local partnerships, recruit additional volunteers, mobilize constituents, register voters and… flex political muscle in legislatures and at the ballot box,” the organization announced.

The partnership with ENC was so fruitful, HRC is now intensifying its focus on similar partnerships with local organizations.

“Staff and volunteers will work with state and local organizations and partners in coalition,” the press release announced, “to bolster efforts to advance equality, defend the LGBTQ community against attacks, and deliver wins for proequality candidates in order to lay the groundwork for future legislative victories.”

The unprecedented attack on LGBTQ rights that was HB2 continues to have influence despite its “repeal” early this year.

HB 142, a “compromise” that HRC steadfastly denounced, may be another legislative target for the campaign against inequality.

“HB142 merely repackages the discrimination of HB2 and calls it by a different name,” HRC and ENC executives wrote in a June 30 letter to Gov. Cooper. “We need the bold, decisive leadership you promised and a seat at the table when it comes to our civil rights.”

HB 142 is just one of dozens of anti-LGBTQ bills that HRC and local partner organizations have committed to battle in the coming election cycle. Despite a tenuous victory in Gov. Cooper’s election, there is plenty more work to do both in North Carolina and nationwide.

“It’s not enough to resist the hateful policies and attacks coming from the Trump-Pence regime,” Griffin said. “We’ve got to accelerate the pace of progress toward full equality and secure protections for LGBTQ people in states and communities across the country. That’s why we’re going on offense.” : :

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Kind of a Drag: Op-ED

Defining the diva Drag queen or female impersonator?

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n the drag community, impersonating a female is understood when you go out in drag, and female impersonator is a lovely term to dress it up or help someone understand what is being done/accomplished. But I say, call a spade a spade, and just use the term “drag queen.”

It is an accepted term in our community, although not every time a positive one. But when one uses other terms like female impersonator or (trans)gender illusionist, those of us who love it are accused of putting on airs. That’s why I say just keep it real and say drag queen.

You’re in Dr.A.G. anyway (dressed as girl), and when we speak highly of the trailblazers in 1969 who “cut up” outside the Stonewall Inn in New York City, we say drag queens every time, don’t we? We sure do.

Drag queens are a big part of our community, whether we like it or not, whether we’re embarrassed of it or not. As I write this, I think of the old, ever-popular quote from the very first Miss Gay America, Norma Kristie, brought to the stage by one Norman Jones of Little Rock, Ark.: “Drag is the definitive form of gay entertainment.”

He did not say female impersonation. Ahem.

As far as gender identity implications go, I’m thinking that a transgender girl who does stage work might not look favorably on the term drag

queen unless they are “old school” and have been doing it for a while; I’m not sure. Here, the term “impersonator” might go over better.

Does that mean that the drag queen term is reserved for guys who live as guys (“boy queens”) and do stage work? I don’t think so. But what I do know is, it is a quick way to keep an entertainer in check or on their feet!

I’ve seen some conniving queens run up to young gentlemen who were being pursued by the more beautiful entertainers and exclaim, “Well, you know she’s just a drag queen!” — as if it were a put-down!

Thank goodness that there are those who get even more excited to confirm that their suitors were indeed born male and still have the plumbing intact.

This brings me to whether I think the off-stage life might be different for a queen versus an impersonator. I have a feeling there would be little to distinquish one from the other. “Do it” or “live it,” everyone likes attention and appreciation for their theatrical contributions. Many have great talents that need to be displayed on a stage, and some have made lucrative careers out of it.

After all, I think all of us just want to contribute and make a living and be loved by family and friends, whether we’re a drag queen or a female impersonator. : :

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Founders’ dinner welcomes Jones GREENSBORO, N.C. — The Guilford Green Foundation will celebrate its 20th anniversary with a Founders’ Dinner on Sept. 22, 7 p.m., at Starmount Forest Country Club, 1 Sam Snead Dr., and will welcome activist Cleve Jones as its special guest speaker.

Jones was the creator of the AIDS Memorial Quilt and was one of the leading activists during the advent of the AIDS pandemic. The Quilt is considered one of the world’s largest community arts projects that honors thousands of individuals who succumbed to the disease.

He was also mentored by San Francisco, Calif.’s Councilman Harvey Milk. Jones authored “When We Rise,” a memoir about his early experiences in the Gay Rights Movement, which was published last year. This book was the basis for an ABC mini-series that aired earlier in 2017.

Cleve Jones The foundation is currently seeking sponsors for the Photo Credit: Greg Hernandez event. Email info@ggfnc.org to learn more. via Flickr. CC License.

Tickets go on sale soon.

In other news, in June, Guilford’s board added Camille Brady, John LaLonde, Talmadge Blevins, Melvy Shaw, Stacy Calfo and Jeff Sylvester to its leadership team.

And, the organization will hold its Green Queen Bingo Under the Stars on the rooftop deck on Sept. 15, 6 p.m., at The Elm Street Center, 203 E. Elm St. Enjoy cocktails with the Queens at 6 p.m., followed by bingo at 7 p.m.

Sponsors are being sought. Email Bill at bill@theeventguysnc.com for more information.

Tickets are $15/advance, $20/at the door and $12/student with government identification. info: ggfnc.org.

Charlotte Former priest leaves legacy

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Rev. Dr. Nancy Ledins, 84, died during the week of July 16 and was a member of Wedgewood Church.

Ledins began life as William Griglak and became a Roman Catholic priest in 1959 and underwent gender reassignment surgery in 1979, The Charlotte Observer reported.

At the time of her transition, she was serving as a priest and thus became the first woman to hold such a position. This did not come without issues. She was shot at, had her car bombed and received dead animals in the mail, the Observer added.

In recent years she found a renewed purpose at Wedgewood where she performed baptisms, preached, served communion and so much more.

A celebration of her life was held at Wedgewood on July 23. info: wedgewoodchurch.com. charlotteobserver.com.

Band seeks performers

CHARLOTTE, N.C.. — The Charlotte Pride Band will perform at the Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade on Aug. 26-27 and has extended an invitation to musicians to join them.

They are seeking those who play brass, woodwinds and percussion instruments, as well as guards. No audition is required.

Rehearsals will begin on Aug. 10, 7 p.m., at the John Crosland School, 5146 Parkway Plaza Blvd.

The band will also hold its fall concert, “Quiet City,” on Nov. 12, 5 p.m., in Heaton Hall, Myers Park Baptist Church, 1900 Queens Rd. The program features a selection of music composed by LGBTQ composers such as Peter Tchaikovsky, Leonard Bernstein, Cole Porter, Aaron Copland, Samuel Barber and Jennifer

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Tickets are $15 and are available from band members, online or at the door. info: charlotteprideband.org.

‘Rent’ comes to CLT

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The iconic Tony Award-winning and Pulitzer Prize recipient “Rent” will be making its Queen City run from Sept. 26-Oct. 1 at the Blumenthal Arts Belk Theatre, 130 N. Tryon St. The touring company is staging “Rent” in honor of the play’s 20th anniversary.

Performances will be held at 7:30 p.m. on Sept. 26-28, 8 p.m. on Sept. 29, 30, 2 p.m. on Sept. 30, 1:30 p.m. on Oct. 1 and 7 p.m. on Oct. 1.

Tickets are selling fast and start at $25 and are available online. info: blumenthalarts.org.

Coastal OBX Pridefest comes to the coast

NAGS HEAD, N.C. — The 7th Annual Outer Banks Pridefest will be held from Sept. 22-24.

OBX Pride, Inc. has organized the three-day event which includes activities ranging from a free festival at the downtown Manteo, N.C. waterfront, sunset cruise and various entertainment options. There will also be plenty of time for sun and fun at the beach.

“We’re thrilled that for the seventh year, the Outer Banks continues to embrace the LGBTQ community,” said David Miller, Outer Banks Pridefest organizer. “And with our move to the Manteo waterfront and the addition of the Miss Outer Banks Talent Show, we have some new surprises for everyone.”

Festivities kick off on Friday evening at 5 p.m. with a Sunset Booze Cruise sponsored by MJs

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Tavern in Norfolk, Va. Participants can enjoy a free open bar and on-board DJ dance club.

After the cruise, head over to Pamlico Jack’s. 6708 S. Croatan Hwy., in Nags Head, N.C. for a Cliff Warner concert and Pride & Joy Drag Show at 10 p.m.

The following day will be the festival which includes concerts and entertainers.

Get out of the sun and continue the fun at Pamlico Jack’s where Lady Bunny will entertain with her comedic drag cabaret show at 10 p.m.

Then on Sunday, enjoy Jennifer Warner’s Drag Brunch at Avenue Waterfront Grille, 6720 S. Virginia Dare Tr. at 11:30 p.m.

Warner is the festival’s hostess and will emcee the new Miss Outer Banks Pride Talent Show and Sunday’s Drag Brunch.

Complete details are available online, including ticket costs and more.

The three-day event is funded by a grant from the Outer Banks Visitors Bureau with major support from MJs Tavern and the Outer Banks Community Foundation.

Proceeds from OBX Pride’s fundraisers and events support local LGBTQ youth through sponsorship of two Outer Banks Gay-Straight Student Alliances and the new Allen Aldridge Memorial Scholarship Fund. info: obxpridefest.com.

Eastern Black Pride slated

FAYETTEVILLE, N.C. — Fayetteville Black Pride’s Gravity Weekend will be held from Aug. 11-14.

On Aug. 11, head out to Radium Nightclub, 984 Old McPherson Church Rd., at 9 p.m. for a “Toxic” kick-off party featuring music by Vjuan Allure. Cost is $10 before midnight and $15 afterward.

The next day, go back to Radium Nightclub at 9 p.m. for “Rise” the Main Event hosted by Case King and music by Sedrick Drayton. Cost is $15 before midnight and $20 afterward.

On Aug. 13, 2 p.m., skip over to Rowan Park, 725 W. Rowan St., for the free picnic and appreciation culmination event. Attendees can enjoy kickball and volleyball games. info: facebook.com/events/1628664997462779.

Triangle Fest hosts gala

RALEIGH, N.C. — The Crape Myrtle Festival will hold its Grand Gala on July 29, 7 p.m., at the Contemporary Art Museum, 409 W. Martin St. The annual affair’s theme this year is “A Little Party Never Killed Nobody!” and is focused on the Gatsby/flapper/1920’s era and costumes are encouraged. A cash bar will be available, as well as live music and complimentary hors d’oeuvres.

Tickets are $40 through July 28 and $50 thereafter and are available online. info: crapemyrtlefest.org.

SAGE hires coordinator

RALEIGH, N.C. — SAGE Raleigh has hired a new program director, Joseph Wheeler, for the organization.

Wheeler has a background in diversity training and strategic planning and looks forward to using his skills to help further the group’s efforts.

“It is an exciting time to move into the position of coordinator for SAGE Raleigh. We have a highly engaged group of people who are committed to planning and organizing the

varied activities and events,” he shared.

In other news, SAGE Raleigh and Triangle LGBT Couples & Friends are hosting an afternoon of “Rainbow Karaoke” on Aug. 6, 4 p.m, at the LGBT Center of Raleigh, 324 S. Harrington St. with DJ Chuck. Sing and dance while enjoying the music and camaraderie.

Snacks, soft drinks and wine will be provided. A suggested contribution of $10 per person or any amount will be graciously accepted and will benefit the SAGE Raleigh Events Fund.

SAGE Raleigh also has an increasingly popular walking group that meets on Wednesday mornings at 9:30 a.m. Check the website for scheduled outings. info: lgbtcenterofraleigh.com.

Chorus hires new director

RALEIGH, N.C.. — The Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus has hired a new artistic director, Michael J. Kroeplin to oversee musical direction of the chorus’ 23rd concert season.

Kroeplin holds a B.S. in Psychology and a Master’s in Arts Education. He has been singing and performing professionally since he was seven years old and was a member of The LaCrosse Boys’ Choir, an affiliate of the Vienna Boys’ Choir. And, Kroeplin has formal training in music and piano theory, music history, vocal technique and operatic applications. He has also created and directed musical shows and concerts.

While not engaged in the music field, he has been an active member of The Imperial Court System, as well as the Human Rights Campaign of California and various AIDS organizations. info: tgmchorus.org.

Western House concert approaches

ASHEVILLE, N.C. — The Heron House of Asheville, 171 Bull Creek Rd., will host a house concert with Beth York and Barb Easter on July 29 at 2 p.m.

The couple’s program, “Women Together in Song!” will feature the married couple’s music from over two decades of sharing their music together.

They are experienced singers, songwriters and instrumentalists who have been involved in the women’s music movement.

This is a women’s event and attendees can book accommodations at the inn at $66/night on a first-come, first-served basis.

Cost is a $20 love contribution. info: heronhouseasheville.com.

Youth org set to race

HICKORY, N.C. — OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley will launch its 1st Annual OUTRight’s Amazing Race on Aug. 19, 9 a.m., beginning at the center’s parking lots at 748 4th St. S.W. Patterned after the CBS show “The Amazing Race,” OUTright’s event combines challenges that are physical, mental and sometimes even silly which will send teams of two to four all over the Greater Hickory metro area.

OUTright will host a family-friendly community after party with music, food trucks, breweries and wineries. Admission is free and open to all.

When the teams complete the final challenge in OUTright’s Amazing Race, they will race to be the first team to step onto the Winner’s Mat and the party continues, organizers shared. Racers will compete for cash prizes and bragging rights.

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Cost to participate is $25 for teams of 2-4 players. A $400 first-place prize will be awarded.

The event is designed to appeal to young adults (Millenials and Gen Z) and brings focus to the Greater Hickory Metro Region as a “community that welcomes people from all ethnicities, faiths, disabilities, genders, sexual orientation, and socio-economic backgrounds. … That our community is a safe and welcoming place to build towards a brighter future together,” organizers added. Participants will be able to bring recognition and awareness about the organization as they race along the undisclosed race course with nothing but the clues that they win at the 12 challenge sites to guide them.

Sponsors and vendors may still be accepted. Contact race coordinator Anna G. Watson at awatson@outrightyouthcv.org to learn more. info: outrightyouthcv.org.

Pride celebration slated

HICKORY, N.C. — Catawba Valley Pride will be held on Sept. 16, 11 a.m.-3 p.m., at the SALT Block Foundation, 243 3rd Ave. N.E. Enjoy fun, food and community in this free, kid-friendly event and what the organization terms as the “world’s shortest Pride parade.”

Vendor and non-profit applications are being accepted for the event at bit.ly/2tALPJo. Vendor cost is $50 and non-profit space can be secured at $25. info: catawbavalleypride.org.

Community mourns loss

ASHEVILLE, N.C. — Noccalula “Lula” Moon, 62, died on July 13 at home.

She is survived by her mother, Jeanne M. Weaver, of Birmingham, Ala., brother, Paul Weaver, and sisters, Claudia Smalley, Phoebe Weaver Stern, Mary Croninger and Julia Bernstein.

A celebration of life will be held to honor her memory on Sept. 22 at Unity of the Blue Ridge, 2041 Old Fanning Bridge Rd., in Mills River, N.C. A drum circle will begin the memorial at 6:30 p.m. with Wild Bodema leading as guests arrive. At 7 p.m. the Celebration of Life will take place followed by refreshments at 8:30 p.m. info: bit.ly/2gXdcr7.

South Carolina Org hosts benefit

CHARLESTON, S.C. — Comedian and Emmy Award-winning Leslie Jordan will take the stage as emcee for “Musical Miscast,” a production to benefit the Alliance for Full Acceptance on Aug. 12, 6 p.m., at Dock Street Theatre, 135 Church St. Tickets are $75/general admission and $125/VIP and are available online at bit. ly/2uQiXwB. General admission ticketholders are entitled to a pre-show reception with cash bar and silent auction.

Those with VIP tickets will have access to a private pre-show reception with the cast and Jordan, including hors d’oeuvres and an open bar plus early access to the theatre to select seats. info: affa-sc.org.

Palmetto State greets Black Pride

COLUMBIA, S.C. — The 12th Annual South Carolina Black Pride, “My Pride Is…,” will be held from Aug. 14-20.

The celebration kicks off with a family night event on Aug. 16, 7 p.m.,at Anchor Lanes, 1057 Lake Murray Blvd., in Irmo, S.C. Cost is $12 per person for three hours of bowling.

On Aug. 17, 5:30 p.m., a Community Forum, “Health Disparities in the LGBT Community,” will be held at the Richland Library North

Main Branch, 5306 N. Main St. Refreshments will be served.

A Welcome Reception will be held on Aug. 18 at Wet Willie’s, 800 Gervais St., at 7 p.m. with entertainment and food provided.

On Aug. 19, a Cultural Arts & Wellness Festival will be held at Earlewood Park, 1113 Parkside Dr., at 2 p.m. Enjoy vendors, food, entertainment by nearly two dozen artists and a health and wellness fair including HIV/ AIDS testing by CareSouth Carolina and more.

Also, there will be an LGBTQ Greek Village and panel led by Gamma Chapter of Phi Nu Kappa Sorority, Inc. Admission is free.

On Aug. 30, 1 p.m., a Unity Picnic will take place at Lake Murray, 2101 N. Lake Dr. Cost is $3 per car. info: southcarolinablackpride.com.

Regional Fest showcases films

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“Pushing Dead,” “Queer Heroes,” “Russian Doll,” “Sensitivity Training,” “Signature Move,” “Something Like Summer,” “Still of the Night,” “Switching Channels,” “Until I Looked at You,” “Very Sordid Wedding,” “Wild Abandoned Side of Me,” “Whole Earth Opening Wide” and “World Is Not Enough.”

Visit the theatre’s website to get a full description of each film, as well as times and location of each.

Individual and 10-pass tickets are on sale and are available online.

A film festival family day with fun table activities for children will be held on Aug. 12, 9 a.m., including the showing of “Land Before Time” at 11 a.m. in Fletcher Hall. Free popcorn and soda will be provided to all who attend.

The theatre welcomes volunteers to assist with the festival. Become a Durham Wayfinder and then sign up for the festival. info: carolinatheatre.org/films/festivals/ncglff.

Campus Scene

DURHAM, N.C. — The NC Gay & Lesbian Film Festival will be held from Aug. 10-13 at The Carolina Theatre of Durham, 309 W. Morgan St. The festival features over 40 films in documentary and fictional format ranging from transgender, men’s and women’s shorts to full-length features. The list includes: “After Louie,” “All the Time in the World,” “Apricot Groves,” “Behind the Curtain,” “Big Kahuna,” “Cat Skin,” “Center of My World,” “Comes the Morning,” “Death and Life of Marsha,” “Diamonds Never Lie to Me,” “Dickinson Avenue,” “Fabulous Allan Carr,” “Forever Hold Your Piece,” “Gloria and Grace,” “Hear My Heart Burst Again,” “Hello Again,” “Hello Cupid: Farrah,” “Hooked,” “Kept Boy,” “Land Before Time,” “Let the Flight Begin,” “Men with the Midas Touch,” “Million Happy Nows,” “New 30,” “Nightfall,” “No, Mr. Bond, I Want You to Die!,” “Open Books,” “Painted Ocean,”

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Campus Pride’s National LGBTQ-Friendly College Fair Program will be rolling into the Queen City on Aug. 26 during Charlotte Pride.

The resource is available to LGBTQ and allied students searching for post-secondary educational opportunities in an environment that will be supportive and inclusive.

Concerns are addressed by college and university representatives, giving students peace of mind. Participants will learn about schools’ academic programs, student life and campus safety.

This event is free of charge and is open to students and their families.

School representative registration is available online. info: campuspride.org.

been an author and speaker focusing on living as an LGBTQ Christian.

In a letter to the organization, he shared that he was grateful for the support he had received and the commitment to a shared mission. “Running this organization for the last 16 years has been absolutely the most incredible experience of my life, and I will always treasure the memories and the knowledge of how we’ve changed the world together. As sad as I am to say goodbye, my hope and prayer for this organization is that it will always stay grounded in a passion for Jesus Christ and uphold an ongoing commitment to living out His light and love in all things.” He added, “As for me, I continue to feel a calling to change hearts and minds in the church for the sake of those who still don’t have that support. Even though I am no longer involved at GCN, I will still be speaking out on the issues that matter to our community and doing all I can to support those in need. I’m as passionate about this work today as I was back in 2001, when GCN was just a website I was running out of my apartment!”

He said that he would share his future plans at justinspeaks.com.

The board shared that Lee has been a pioneer in “helping LGBTQ individuals accept

the truth that God loves them, just as they are.

Through GCN, he helped those people find a spiritual home. Because of Justin’s dedicated work, countless lives have been changed.

The Board of Directors of GCN is grateful for Justin’s years of service.”

The organization has hired an interim executive director, Isaac Arculeta, a graduate of the University of Colorado and Denver Seminary.

He is a licensed professional counselor and the founder and director of the iAmClinic in Denver, Colo. which has a special focus on the needs of the LGBTQ community and their religious families. He is also the founder and co-director of the iAmProject, an initiative providing workshops, seminars, and other programs on sexuality and gender to churches, colleges and other groups, GCN said.

Archuleta’s iAmProject has also played a key role in helping influential evangelical churches become communities of faith that are fully welcoming toward the LGBTQ community, allowing people to serve at any level of church leadership.

Director of Operations Constantino Khalaf will continue to direct the GCN staff as it prepares for conference, retreats and other ongoing events. info: gaychristian.net.

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Network and founder separate Neither party will comment on the reasons behind Justin Lee the situation except to say Photo Credit: Facebook that “it was a practical business decision intended to allow for the growth of this important work.” Lee and the board both remain allies and are committed to creating “…a world in which the next generation of LGBTQ youth will grow up fully loved and embraced by their families, churches, and neighbors; and where Christians worldwide will live up to their calling as instruments of grace and defenders of the outcast.”

In addition to this change, the organization will also be adopting a new name to reflect “the diversity of the ministry and the community” it serves. This was PORTLAND, Ore. — On July 19, The Gay announced at the 2017 Conference held in Christian Network (GCN) announced that its Pittsburg, Pa. The change will be revealed at board of directors had reached an agreement the 2018 Conference in Denver, Colo. to an amicable separation with Founder and Lee started the organization in North Executive Director Justin Lee due to irreconcilCarolina 16 years ago. Over the years he has able differences. This became effective on May 4.

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Kind of a Drag

The spotlight isn’t just for the stage Drag queens who lead the fight for LGBTQ progress

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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Drag pageant systems National resource listings

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Miss Gay America Founded: 1972; Nashville, Tenn.

Owner: Mad Angel Entertainment; Frederick, Md. Titleholder: Suzy Wong Requirements: Contestants must be “men who live as men.”

Body augmentation below the neck is prohibited, as is the use of female hormones.

Competition Categories: Talent; Male Interview (contestants are interviewed in male attire, outside of their drag persona); On-Stage Question (in drag persona); Evening Wear; Pageant Presentation (costume in keeping with a theme designated each year by the reigning Miss Gay America) Affiliated Pageants: Mr. Gay America — founded 1983 as Mr. Gay All-American, which ceased operation in 2009 before being revived in 2017 as Mr. Gay America; current titleholder, Kyle Ean Miss Gay USofA Founded: 1979 as Miss Gay USA; reconstituted under new ownership 1985; Miss Gay USofA title adopted 1995 Owner: USofA Pageants LLC; Dallas, Texas Titleholder: Roxie Hart Requirements: Contestants must be “biological males” at least 21 years old by the date of the national pageant and able to provide state-issued identification.

Affiliated Pageants: Miss Gay USofA at Large — founded 1989; contestants must meet same requirements as for primary competition as well as weigh at least 200 pounds; current titleholder,

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Sasha Lauren Miss Gay USofA Classic — founded 2003; contestants 40 years of age or older; current titleholder, Dominique Sanchez Miss Gay USofA Newcomer — founded 2010; contestants must not have won any state or regional title or been a finalist in any major national pageant, and may not have appeared on any dragbased reality TV show; current titleholder, Vanity St James Mr. Gay USofA – founded 2009; current titleholder, Desi Andrews Mr Gay USofA At Large — founded 2009; current titleholder, Dakota Whitney Mr. USofA MI — founded 2008; contestants are “biological females” at least 21 years old who compete as males; current titleholder, Eddie Broadway Mr. USofA MI Classic — founded 2012; contestants 33 years of age or older; current titleholder, Ivory Onyx Miss USofA Diva — founded 2014; contestants are “biological females” 21 years old or older who compete in femme persona; current titleholder, Seduction Dickerson Miss Continental Founded: 1980; Chicago, Ill. Owner: JF Enterprises, Inc.; Chicago, Ill. Titleholder: Jazelle Barbie Royale Requirements: Miss Continental is considered the principal national pageant open to transgender as well as cisgender performers. Unlike many other major drag pageantry organizations, Miss Continental does not demand that contestants live as males outside of competition.

Affiliated Pageants: Miss Continental Plus — founded 1991; plus-size contestants; current titleholder, Keke Velasquez-Lord Miss Continental Elite — founded 2004; contestants age 40 years old or older; current titleholder, Fontasia L’Amour Mr. Continental — founded 2004; male entertainers; current titleholder, Antwaun Steele Entertainer of the Year Founded: 1991; Louisville, Ky. Owner: The SLS Pride Foundation, a non-profit organization supporting causes including the arts and education; Louisville, Ky.

Titleholder: Alexis Gabrielle Sherrington Competition Categories: Presentation (introduction in which contestants are judged on appearance, stage presence and communication); Creative Evening Wear; On-Stage Question; Talent; Creative Swimwear (applicable to Femme and Mr. EOY contests only) Affiliated Pageants: Mr. Entertainer of the Year — founded 2002; contestants are male entertainers; current titleholder, Rolly Villaverde King Entertainer of the Year — founded 2011; contestants are male impersonators; current titleholder, Preston Dickerson Entertainer of the Year Femme — founded 2015; contestants are female entertainers; current titleholder, Bella Nicole Harlow

All American Goddess Founded: 2006 Owner: All American Goddess Pageantry Titleholder: Antwanette Roberts Requirements: Contestants “must have been born male” but are not limited in gender expression outside of competition and may have undergone sex reassignment surgery and/or hormone therapy. All competitors must be at least 20 years plus one day old at the time of the pageant.

Competition Categories: Personal Interview; Creative Costume; Evening Gown; Talent; On-Stage Question (finalists only) Affiliated Pageants: All American Goddess at Large — founded 2008; contestants must weigh at least 210 pounds; current titleholder, Alexis Nicole Whitney All American Gent – founded 2012; male entertainers; current titleholder, Cielo Whitney : :

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Ambrosia Starling fights for justice and equality.

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mark on LGBTQ history. These queens became leaders through their resistance, and afterward, the work of the organization they founded together: Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries, or STAR. STAR’s mission was to aid the most vulnerable of LGBTQ people: the homeless, young people of color who were persecuted for their gender identities as well as their race. Johnson and Rivera were queens in the truest sense — strong, proud leaders who wouldn’t accept less than they and their people deserved.

In the modern day, drag queens are still standing up as leaders. In 2015, when marriage equality was granted throughout the U.S., conservative backlash prompted action from one such queen. Ambrosia Starling of Dothan, Ala., took up the mantle of opposition against her state’s chief justice, Roy Moore.

Moore tried to block access to same-sex marriage for LGBTQ couples in Alabama. Starling headed up protests against Moore and found a national spotlight. She also found her place as an activist, a new LGBTQ leader in a new time of need. After the 2016 Pulse massacre, Starling did not retire her platform or her crown.

“I try to make sure that each time I go to a public event I tell these children: ‘Standing and breathing and living here today, you have an opportunity that 49 people do not,’” Starling told Slate writer and fellow queen Miz Cracker. “Make it count — participate. If we do not use the rights we already have, they will not give us more.”

Starling’s leadership strengthens the movement for LGBTQ rights, and more leaders have risen to the community’s aid.

Bob The Drag Queen, best known as season eight winner of “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” is another leader who strives to use her spotlight for progress. Bob’s work began long before winning her title, and continues beyond the season finale.

Drag Queen Weddings was just one of Bob’s projects, launched in 2010 to demonstrate in support of marriage equality. Now, Bob has taken up another cause key to the health and happiness of the community — youth, homelessness and the organizations that address them. Trinity Place Shelter benefitted from Bob’s brand, extending its work to transition LGBTQ youth from the New York City shelter system.

Bob says that her decision to become an LGBTQ advocate was a simple moment. She realized her own power to make change on an everyday commute — this time dressed in her full, stunning style.

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“The first time I got on the train in full drag I realized that every single person — every single person — stopped dead in their tracks to look at me. I didn’t even say anything. All I did was stand on the train,” Bob told Slate. “And I thought to myself: Well, now that I have everyone’s attention, I should say something meaningful.” : :

Bob the Drag Queen is a ‘fierce’ supporter of many initiatives.

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Kind of a Drag

Honoring lost local queens Drag performers memorialized

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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s the proud, public face of the LGBTQ community, drag queens are mourned and remembered in a special way. In past decades, too many scintillating performers — and good hearts — have been lost. For this year’s Kind of a Drag issue of qnotes, we’d like to pay homage to some of the local queens who are so missed. Although we cannot include everyone, memories last much longer than words. We honor all the lost queens who have graced the local LGBTQ community with their talent and leadership.

“I want you to remember one thing about Brandy,” said friend Greg Brafford at the memorial. “That girl had balls. She wasn’t scared of a redneck in Lexington, North Carolina, when she was growing up. She wasn’t scared of the police in Florida when they locked her up. She wasn’t scared of a six-foot-five Marine with a baseball bat in Jacksonville. She wasn’t scared of a fire when they burned her house down. She wasn’t scared of a bomb when they blew her bar up and she sure as fuckin’ hell wasn’t scared of cancer.”

Arabia Knight-Addams A traveling talent who delighted audiences all over the state, Arabia Knight-Addams died in 2012 after more than a decade of performance and accolades. Winning dozens of titles over the years, this gorgeous goddess of the stage is memorialized in stunning photos with the towering crown she deserves.

Divinity A former business partner to qnotes publisher Jim Yarbrough, John Green, aka Divinity, became a transgender advocate when she was most needed. Founder of the Carolina Trans-Sensual Alliance and chair of the 1994 Southern Comfort Conference, Divinity published the newsletter All the Beautiful People before dying in 2004 of Hepatitis B complications.

“She was insistent that we all — especially queer people — treat each other with love,” said longtime friend Holly Boswell.

Aretha Scott A memorable performer who aimed for laughter as much as love, Aretha Scott, aka Franklin Freeman, was murdered in 2002, five days before she was set to testify against a CharlotteMecklenburg Police Department officer. Her case remains officially unsolved, although friends and followers have not stopped asking questions.

“She was always willing to help people,” friend Terry Burris reminisced. “She was always just a lot of fun and a good person. I think that’s how she’d want to be remembered.”

Bam Bam LaTour Curtis Johnson, 27, died in a car accident in 2004. He was a former administrative assistant at qnotes. He began drag under the tutelage of Ricky Carter, aka Boom Boom LaTour, who was shocked by the sudden tragedy.

“Curtis was one of my best friends — it was like losing a child that you had raised and nurtured,” Carter told qnotes then. “He was supposed to stay around and help me, but at least I know he’ll be up there giving me some guidance.”

Boom Boom LaTour Carter followed his protégé out of this life in July 2016 at 63 years old. Boom Boom had a long career in drag, providing a safe haven for the LGBTQ community at her performances throughout the 1970’s and beyond. A comedic performer who would have your sides split halfway through her annual rendition of “the Twelve Drunken Days of Christmas,” Boom Boom was known as “a grandmother to everyone in the drag community,” according to qnotes columnist Buff Faye.

Brandy Alexander As fierce and proud as Danny Leonard as he was performing as Brandy Alexander, this drag diva and gay activist died of cancer in May 2016 at 70 years old. Leonard moved mountains for the LGBTQ community, raising record-setting funds to support victims of the early AIDS crisis, and standing strong through outright hatred, violence and persecution, including multiple unjust arrests and an arson attack against her business, Friends Lounge in Jacksonville, N.C.

Gerri O’Neal O’Neil, legally named Tim Irby, was owner of now-defunct drag queen store Everything on East, later renamed Everything East of the Sun. Irby performed in drag in popular venues such as Oleen’s and the Scorpio, and was a former Miss Gay Charlotte America in 1983.

Grand Prix An unforgettable stage presence was lost to complications of HIV/AIDS during the epidemic’s peak. A towering, titillating diva, Grand Prix was mourned by friends and fans alike.

Imaje Devereux Falling victim to homicide in April 2009, Jimmy Ali McCollough, 34, performed colorful drag with a classic dramatic flair.

McCollough was found stabbed near Club Emeges in Fayetteville, N.C. and his death was investigated as a hate crime. The warmth of Imaje’s full-lipped, scarlet smile remains.

Toni Lenoir Upon discovering her declining health due to HIV/AIDS, Toni Lenoir committed suicide to the shock of all who loved her. A well-known local drag queen with many admirers, Lenoir has since been remembered for her signature performance style and unforgettable personality.

Tracy Morgan One of the names synonymous with the Charlotte drag scene, Tracy Morgan, aka Clay Lambert, died of heart disease backstage after performing at the Scorpio in 2007. She left behind scores of fans gathered throughout her 20-year career performing drag.

“She was so glamorous,” said former qnotes writer Miss Della. “She was an amazing entertainer. I always loved to see her dance. She was sexually provocative and she was primal and intense. There’s a reason she was known as “The Sex Kitten of the South.”: :

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by Buff Faye :: qnotes contributor :: info@bufffaye.com

North Carolina Entertainer of the Year: ‘Let me entertain you!’

Hopefully one thing we can all agree upon is that drag is entertainment. There are many forms of drag and ways to express gender through the art form known as drag. But at its core, drag continues to be entertainment.

For this months column, I interviewed the North Carolina Entertainer of the Year (EOY) Court (which includes myself) — Buff Faye, NC EOY, FI; Charlton Alicea, Mr. NC EOY; Vivi VanDank, NC EOY Femme; and Lochland Scott, NC EOY, King. I asked each a range of questions about drag entertainment and what makes the Entertainer of the Year system different. Listen up and hear from the North Carolina Entertainer of the Year titleholders.

Question: How is Entertainer of the Year different from other pageant systems?

EOY allows a space for individuals full creativity to shine through. If you conceive it, anything is possible. And EOY celebrates that. And this allows individuality to be front and center.

Charlton Alicea, Mr. NC EOY I’ve loved the EOY system ever since I knew drag pageants were a thing. It allows you to express your fullest creativity with no boundaries or rules. It gives you complete creative control of your art, whatever that may be. EOY is also one of the few systems that offers a Femme title, so naturally it means a lot to me.

Vivi VanDank, NC EOY, Femme EOY does not stifle your individuality and inspires you to go way outside the box.

Buff Faye, NC EOY, FI Question: How do you define entertainment when you perform?

I like to take the audience on a journey.

I want them to be able to tap into their own emotion while watching, whether it be joy or sadness, to laugh or cry.

Charlton Alicea, Mr. NC EOY Being an entertainer to me is like being an actor. I’m putting on a performance for you! I want to make sure everyone in the room feels some type of way when I perform — if my song made you dance, or when I sang a verse to

you — it just made your night. Or at the end of the show, I get to talk to you outside, or be a role model for anyone. That’s what I believe an entertainer is.

Lochland Scott, NC EOY King To me, entertainment is based on personal preferences and can’t really be defined. Now, categorically, I like weird things. Something different, new and creative is always fun and interesting to watch.

Vivi VanDank, NC EOY, Femme Question: Why did you want to compete for the North Carolina Entertainer of the Year title?

I wanted to compete for NC EOY because I wanted a platform to help me build up the femme drag (Left to Right) Lochland Scott, NC EOY King; Vivi VanDank, NC EOY, Femme; Buff Faye, NC EOY, FI; and Charlton scene. I’ve been working on it for Alicea, Mr. NC EOY a while now, and this title gives me Photo Credit: Cody Perry Photography the voice and exposure necessary to spread the word, engage formance is better. If it’s too long, it’s hard to the community and get everyone ported to place [they’ve] never been before. maintain the audience’s attention. You want to excited about femme drag and what’s to come.

Charlton Alicea, Mr. NC EOY be able to lift and deliver your message and Now that I have the title, I hope to spread the have [the audience] wanting more. And when message: You want to be a drag queen? Be a Entertainment is meant to evoke emotion — choosing a piece to perform, always remember drag queen! whether that be excitement, celebration, love, to pull from within. Think about all the things Vivi VanDank, NC EOY, Femme passion, sadness, reflection, etc. If it inspires you, that you have inside that are dying to come out. makes you smile or brings a memory, then I have Charlton Alicea, Mr. NC EOY This year was my third time competing for done something very special as an entertainer.

North Carolina Entertainer of the Year and the Buff Faye, NC EOY, FI Don’t care what people think; do what third time was the charm. Each year I came makes you happy. back I wanted it more. Now it is off to Nationals Question: What advice do you give to other Vivi VanDank, NC EOY, Femme where I feel the most prepared I have ever entertainers that you have learned? been to make North Carolina proud.

— Buff Faye calls the Queen City her home Buff Faye, NC EOY, FI I would tell any of my fellow entertainers, and believes entertainment is what makes “don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t do it.” the world go round (and likes to raise money Question: What do you think entertainment Whether it’s a song choice, a talent, an idea for charities). Find her at your favorite bars is — or is not? for a costume or even a new makeup style and hotspots. Plus don’t forget her weekly or hairstyle. At the end of the day this is your Saturday-night show with Patti O’Furniture, Entertainment is the ability to bring enjoyperformance, your time to shine. monthly drag brunch and regular Friday-night ment to others. For just a moment someone Lochland Scott, NC EOY King party bus. Learn more at AllBuff.com. watching can forget about everything else Follow on Twitter @BuffFaye going on and simply enjoy. They can be transSometimes short and sweet with a per-

SHOUT OUTS: Wish the entire North Carolina Entertainer of the Year Court good luck at Nationals in Louisville, Ky. the week of July 24-30!

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Pride Time

Charlotte Black Gay Pride asks LGBTQ POC to ‘Just Be’ Five-day event inspired independence and community

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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Hilton hosted and was The culminating event, the presenting sponCBGP’s annual Pride Expo, sor of Charlotte Black Gay occurred on Saturday, July 21 Pride 2017 from July 19-23. from 12-5:30 p.m. With more The theme of this year’s than 30 vendors brought in by festival was “Just Be.” The Chairperson Gwen Pearson, organization’s leadership the hours sped by with diverse intended the theme to inspire shopping opportunities and introspection, independent constant entertainment acts. thought and peace of mind.

Spoken word, comedy and “In a society where musicians all contributed to the you’re constantly bombarded memorable afternoon. with images of how to dress, Claiming the stage for the how to look, how to think and Chairperson Gwen Pearson finale, Sunshine Anderson, how to react to news and born in Winston-Salem, N.C. and a transplanted events that impact your world, we invite you to Charlottean, performed from her three studio take a moment to stop and ‘Just Be,’” reads the albums. Anderson has made a name for herself in Charlotte Black Gay Pride (CBGP) website. the R&B world, working with such names as Macy This theme carried over into the focus of Gray, Matthew Knowles and Brian McKnight. each event over the five-day festival. CBGP’s Other acts at the Pride Expo included Miss night of theatre on July 19 was called “Just Be… and Mr. Charlotte Black Gay Pride, as well as Cultured.” The Town Hall event on July 20 urged DeJuan Dre and Contay The Hero, and others. : : attendees to “Just Be… Informed.” Friday’s meet

‘Just Be’ 2017 R&B Artist Sunshine Anderson performed. >

< Singers DeJuan Dre (left) and Contay the Hero (right) from Atlanta, Ga.

Comedian Julie Osborne served as emcee.

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changing my reflection

by Lynette Matusik :: guest columnist

A tale of transition

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look down in the palm of my hand at a tiny blue pill and think with nervous anticipation of what the future holds for me.

Could taking these really make everything better? Of course, they can’t solve everything — I know better. However, in the two weeks I’ve been taking them, everything feels better than it ever has.

It was by no means the hardest thing I’ve ever endured, just some inconvenient hoops to jump through. The hard part was realizing that I want this.

That despite the sacrifices I’ll be making, this is worth it. I have the utmost confidence it will be.

I’ve felt a consistent, general unhappiness with my body for as long as I can remember. Imagine looking in the mirror and picking out something you don’t like. The shape of your chin, your hairline, your fat-to-muscle ratio. Now imagine it’s not just one thing, but everything. That’s the closest I can describe to how [being transgender] feels and it’s an absolute kick in the gut.

After moving to this city and deciding to start making healthier choices, I finally decided to start transitioning. There’s no universal way to transition from male to female, so all I can share is the way in which I’m doing this. All I can really say is, I’ll know when I’m there. For now, there are targets and ranges I want to hit and other specific goals I strive to reach.

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I recently started hormone replacement therapy (HRT). For the first time in my adult life, I now have health insurance, an essential resource for this process. I scheduled an appointment with a local clinic for day one of insurance kicking in. I brought up the desire to start HRT with my physician. They required a mental health clearance from a licensed professional before prescribing anything.

This part felt weird, but I get it. While I don’t feel the need for affirmation that I’ve [been transgender] all my life, I can’t deny there are unhealthy people out there. I want everyone who is even considering going through this to be safe.

A month or so after my first consultation with my physician, psychology evaluation complete, I was prescribed 2 mg of estrogen to take twice daily. The goal is to bring my testosterone down to normal female levels. My specific level is around 492, very average. Another goal is to bring my estrogen up to normal female levels… mine is currently at 28.** After sharing some basic insight into what I’m doing and how, I hope in the coming weeks to share my experiences and thoughts as I move through this process and become the happy, healthy person I wish to be.

No matter what thoughts, feelings or situations you’re struggling with, life is too short not to live how you want. **The Mayo Clinic notes that adult male testosterone ranges from 300-950 ng/dL, and women from 12-60 ng/dL. Adult female estrogen ranges from 17-200 pg/mL, and males 10-60pg/mL. : :

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In good form An interview with Alison Moyet

by Gregg Shapiro :: guest contributor

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ong before there was Adele, there was Alison. Moyet, that is.

A British singer in possession of powerful and expressive vocal abilities that could make Whitney and Mariah blend into the background. As one half of the early 1980s British synth-pop duo Yaz (featuring Vince Clarke of Depeche Mode and Erasure), Moyet’s distinctive voice made songs such as “Don’t Go,” “Situation,” “Only You” and “Nobody’s Diary” indelible. A solo artist for longer than she was a member of Yaz, Moyet continued to record wonderful albums, some of which yielded modest stateside hit singles. Her marvelous new disc “Other” (Modest!) brings all of her performance elements together in one place.

There are dance numbers, ballads and even a spoken-word track, all of which perfectly illustrate her versatility as singer and songwriter. I spoke with Alison during the summer of 2017.

Gregg Shapiro: Alison, you worked with Guy Sigsworth on your new album “Other,” as well as its predecessor “The Minutes.”

What makes him a good collaborator from your perspective?

Alison Moyet: That he trusts in me as an artist. He trusts my sensibilities and likes what I do. Sometimes you can work with producers and it’s just a monetary thing for them. Or they think that what you’re looking for is the one big hit to catapult you into stardom. The thing that gets me with Guy is that we speak the same language. He knows I want to approach the process from an artistic point of view, so we make no concessions to the industry. We just make the record we want to make. I just trust him.

GS: In “I Germinate,” the opening track on “Other,” you sing that you “gestate” and “germinate.” Is that what you’ve been doing in the interim since 2013’s “The Minutes?”

AM: My life has changed extraordinarily since “The Minutes.”

I used to live in the country where I didn’t know anyone. I just moved to Brighton, to a city where I live in a terrace, I’ve got no off-street parking, I’m a part of the community, I go to college full-time. I suppose I have been gestating, there’s no two ways about that.

GS: The edgy and electric “Beautiful Gun” sounds like it would fit well on a Nine Inch Nails album.

AM: [Laughs] GS: What can you tell me about that song?

AM: That’s one of the ones influenced by social media. I get very involved in Twitter. I enjoy my Twitter spats and sparring with people. One thing I’ve found quite interesting about a certain group of the Twitter population who seem to have no care for anyone else other than who they are. They’re completely without compassion for any other stars of life, and yet, you suggest they should be without their gun, and they’re apoplectic. It’s like you fitted their mother with a sharp nail. It’s just me being my usual

sardonic self with that. I’m just being derisive. I’m pretty good at doing that [laughs].

GS: The gays are going to love the dance-oriented “Happy Giddy,” which also sounds like a good description of the song itself.

AM: Talking about the LGBTQ community, “The Rarest Birds” is actually about Brighton, which is like the gay hub of England. It’s a brilliant place to be. There’s so much diversity there. “The Rarest Birds” is about the joy of seeing the trans and gay communities being completely open with as much freedom to be who they want to be. It’s about coming to this town and seeing that growth and the togetherness. In terms of “Happy Giddy,” again it’s me being utterly sardonic.

“Happy, giddy, yeah, yeah, yeah” [laughs]. It’s rare that you’ll find me doing anything that is just sheer unadulterated joy.

GS: Well, you bring joy. That’s what you do.

AM: I can find joy in darkness. This whole thing about me feeling “other,” and when you’re younger that feels like an uncomfortable place to be. I’m in this place in my life where I celebrate being other. I like the fact that I don’t fit in entirely with the mainstream. That suits me perfectly well.

GS: The spoken word track “April 10th” really stands out on the disc as something that is out of the mainstream.

AM: This is, again, talking about me and Brighton and the way that my thinking is kind of stream of consciousness. It discusses how our days, even though we’re experiencing the same day, can have a completely different hue to it. My life is feeling bright on the same day that a girlfriend of mine loses her wife. It’s how we live under the same sky, but the light depends on which particular cloud is above us.

GS: The title track is a piano and vocal ballad towards the end of the album. Why did you choose to present the song in this arrangement, without the electronic flourishes of the other songs?

AM: Because it was written that way. I don’t change things Alison Moyet Photo Credit: Steve Gullick unless they need to be changed. I like the bare, rawness of it. “Other” is a significant concept for me. That’s why it’s the a mainstream act. In England, for example, where I’ve been title of the album. I also didn’t want to dismiss it, to tuck it away the biggest-selling female for a few years in my career, it’s a somewhere, which is why it’s firmly in the middle in its otherness. big job to pull people away from your commercial material into It makes sense when you’re making an album about otherness your more thoughtful stuff. Having always been on the fringe in that you should have a song that is other.

America, that has never been a problem. Whilst my audiences have never been massive, they’ve been informed. What I love GS: As someone who doesn’t perform in the States very often, about playing in America is that my audience there is happy to Alison, what are you most looking forward to about your upcombe challenged. Consequently, I feel freer playing there in lots ing U.S. concert dates? of ways than I do in Europe. Touring is my best thing and I’m so AM: What I like about playing in America is that I’ve never been excited about this. : :

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by Trinity :: qnotes contributor :: trinity@telltrinity.com

Get up, get out and live!

Dear Trinity, It’s been two years since my last date and seven years since my last relationship. I’m not a bar or app guy. My friends say, “visit a bigger city where gay life is easier,” but I’m not comfortable going alone to big cities. Please help!

Trapped, A Small Town In, SC Dear Trapped, Close your eyes and let me cast a dating spell on you. Wish, wander and begin to say with me now, and every day, “I’m a man magnet/dating machine. I’m a man magnet/dating machine.

I’m a man magnet/dating machine.” Next, ASAP, I want you to take a vacation to P-town, Fort Lauderdale, Palm Springs or Puerto Vallarta. Once you’ve had one good week-long vacation to let the dating spell set in, all will be transformed. Lastly, honey, on this trip talk to everyone and make dates with anyone you like. Plus have lots of sex, lots of fun and lots of adventures. Live, live, live!

Dearest Trinity, My boyfriend of 18 months recently told me, “There’s no one else…but we need to take a break and sort out our problems by ourselves for a while.” I’m crushed. I know we fight a lot, but isn’t he making a mistake?”

Nothing But The Blues, Wichita, KS

Dearest Blues, It feels like he wants to work things out by taking a break from the battlefield and work on making your relationship healthy again.

Sometimes couples need romantic getaways, and sometimes they need a break away from the front lines. So, darling, be glad he wants to take a step back and work on things instead of just ending it or running away. Good luck.

Hello Trinity, The guy I’ve been dating for three months just broke up with me because I smoke. What kind of crazy excuse it that?

Smoking And Single, Peoria, IL Hello, Smoking And Single, You mean he didn’t want to smell the smoke on his clothes, in his hair and in his house or car or while walking with you? You mean he didn’t want to kiss you with tobacoo breath?

You mean he couldn’t take the 31 chemicals including formaldehyde trying to embrace his lungs with second hand smoke? What a beast.

Maybe next time, sweetie, you’ll quit smoking first. (Be a doll and check out my cartoon to see how I handle being around a “smoke cloud!”)

Hey Trinity, My Muslim boyfriend, whom I deeply loved,

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just ended our relationship. He “needs” to find a woman because being gay is so against his religion. I can’t stop crying. How can I get through the next few hours, days and weeks?

Religious Woes, Montreal, QC Hey Religious Woes, Each time a relationship ends, it’s like a death. Actually it is a death, and the first few hours and days are the toughest. That’s why, pumpkin, I wrote: Trinity’s Survival Tips For The First Few Hours After Your Relationship Ends 1. Rest, be peaceful and don’t try to think of too many things at once.

2. Do things that come naturally to you to help the time pass: clean, cook, watch TV or play happy music.

3. Eat “comfort foods” like eggs, toast, cereal or a burger. Carbohydrates are very healing.

4. D on’t answer your phone or your texts for a few hours or even the rest of the day.

5. W rite about your feelings. Call a friend. Let it out!

6. W atch comedy shows. No dramas and no National Geographic programs where the alligator sneaks up and kill its prey.

7. Slowly (and calmly) take down the pictures of your (now) ex-monster, I mean man.

8. Take nice deep breaths. Try not to go over and over the reasons why he ended it. It’s all just excuses.

9. Have a massage, a glass of wine and a good night’s sleep.

10. And, lastly, remember, ice cream has been curing broken hears for decades. So get yourself a scoop. : : info: With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama performed globally, and is now minister of sponsor, WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings, wigministries.org. Learn more at telltrinity.com.

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EVENTS July-August 2017 Drag Queen Bingo Metropolitan Community Church of Winston-Salem 4105 Patsy Dr., WinstonSalem 7 p.m.

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Hot Stuff Pop-Up Market Petra’s 1919 Commonwealth Ave., Charlotte 1-6 p.m.

The Hot Stuff Pop-Up Market offers the chance to explore the creations of local artists and vendors, who will have a variety of goods on hand to show and sell.

Food vendors will also be on hand and the bar will be open. More information is available online. petrasbar.com.

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Macaria Rage hosts Drag Queen Bingo with Devonte Jackson and special guest Bianca Lepore.

Light table snacks will be provided, and other snacks, candy and drinks will be available for a contribution. Tickets are $15 for a single ticket and $25 for a couple and can be secured by calling 336-757-0264. mccwschurch.com.

–––––––––––––––––––– Shades of Pride LGBTQ Center of Durham 114 Hunt St., Durham 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

The 8th annual Shades of Pride event will take place at the LGBTQ Center of Durham. There will be a potluck, with hot dogs and hamburgers provided, and attendees are encouraged to bring a side. Vendors will also be on hand.

There will also be a free screening of “Moonlight” at the center at 7 p.m.

More information is available online. facebook.com/shadesofpride.

Continues on Aug. 10 Movies in the Garden Louise “Scottie” Stephenson Amphitheatre 301 Pogue St., Raleigh Various dates 7 p.m.

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Contestants will hit the runway, as well as perform a talent, and reveal a bit about themselves with an onstage question. Former Miss Charlotte Pride winners from over the last decade and other special Pride pageant title holders will also be on hand. More information is OUT to the Polls: Annual available online.

SEP AUG MO LGBTQ Community charlottepride.org/pageant.

Candidate Forum Charlotte Marriot City Center LGBT & Allies Rooftop 2nd 100 W. Trade St., Charlotte SEP AUG MO Chance Prom 6-10 p.m.

The Harvey B. Gantt Center MeckPAC and Charlotte Pride present for African-American Arts the annual LGBTQ Community Candidate + Culture forum. This 551 S. Tryon St., Charlotte is a chance 7-11 p.m. to hear from A married couple who were unable Charlotte to go to their high school proms are mayoral recreating the experience and want to candidates, share it with others. The LGBTQ and and at-large ally community is invited to this second candidates for Charlotte City Council. chance prom at The Harvey B. Gantt The event will also include a pre-event Center for African-American Arts + and post-event mixer. More information Culture. Tickets vary from $35-$500. is available online. est8387.com. facebook.com/events/778466728987476.

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Charlotte Comicon SEP AUG MO Summer Show Embassy Suites by Hilton Charlotte, Concord 5400 John Q. Hammons Dr. NW, Concord 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Vendors show and sell their comic book and toy collections in a 21,000-square foot ballroom.

The area’s best comic book creators and artists will also be on hand, and there will be a costume contest for all ages. There will be a $5 admission charged at the door, with those 12 and under getting in free. More information is available online. facebook.com/events/1736683473296789.

The Gays of Sunshine SEP AUG MO Comedy Hour The Evening Muse 3227 N. Davidson St., Charlotte 7-9:30 p.m.

Celebrate Charlotte Pride Week with a night of laughs at The Evening Muse. The show features Charlotte’s Mimi Benfield, Atlanta’s Kia Comedy, and Columbia’s Jenn Snyder. Tickets are $10 and can be purchased online. eveningmuse.com.

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The festival will take place on Aug. 26 and 27, on S. Tryon St., from noon to 10 p.m. on Saturday and noon to 6 p.m. on Sunday. The parade will be held on Aug. 27, from 1-3 p.m. on N. Tryon St. More information is available online. charlottepride.org.

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Q&A with Carrie Chanel Queen of sass and stage shows that strength is sexy

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

Sparrow” to serenading the audience with Khia’s “My Neck, My Back’”while stripping down to just my panties and a smile. I think a well-rounded performer is never predictable.

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uch of the Charlotte drag scene is dominated by veteran divas. Breaking onto the stage soon after legal adulthood wasn’t entirely smooth for Carrie Chanel.

In the years since, her wit and energy have brought her far. Beginning at a Scorpio talent show in 2012, Chanel, now 24, has won four titles at drag pageants across the state. Yet she’s more than a pretty face on stage; Chanel has a strength of character that drives her to take no shit and encourage others to own their power as she does. Catch her next performance at Snug Harbor’s Le Bang on July 27 to see a gorgeous performer give it her all, or just stare lustfully at her personal Instagram, @MissCarrieChanel. For a special sense of vindication, follow her groundbreaking expose, @foreverfuckboys on Instagram or Tumblr.

How did your drag career begin, and how has it progressed?

My drag career began with a talent show at The Scorpio on Sept. 27, 2012. I showed up, gave it my all, and lost. Those are the drag stories that you don’t hear…Queens tell their stories and make it seem like this big “a star is born” moment, but that’s not how it was for me.

It made me stronger. [Drag] transitioned from something that I felt a need to do…to something that I want to do at a higher standard: better costumes, bigger hair and new concepts. I have a newfound passion for the craft.

What do you feel when you’re on stage, performing your favorite number?

Being on stage and performing is an amazing opportunity to have an experience.

I recommend that everyone try it at least one time. If you have ever been to a show (at a club, not watching “Rupaul’s Drag Race”) and been amazed and wished you could be on that stage, then you should chase that dream!

How would you describe your performance style?

My performance style is about as eclectic as a schizophrenic Alzheimer’s patient; you truly never know what you’re going to get. I can go from praising the Lord with Whitney Houston’s rendition of “His Eye Is on the

Why did you begin your #FuckboyFriday posts on social media?

I started Fuckboy Friday as a woman scorned. I met up with a guy…[The next morning] he explained that he is straight and that the night we spent together was just a mistake…he immediately asked me to keep what happened between us and said that [he and his ex-girlfriend] were in an on-again-offagain relationship and he was trying to get her back. I told him that I would not tell her anything, and I have kept my word to this day, but I was outraged…I posted screenshots of his selfish request and explained the story, keeping his name and number anonymous.

Fuckboy Friday was born! The response that I received was overwhelming.

I realized that this was a cultural epidemic.

Men used the anonymity of the Internet to be disrespectful and rude to complete strangers and never had any repercussions and that was no longer acceptable to me…I got to work with my rapier wit tipped with sarcasm and vulgarity, and I engaged in conversations with these fuckboys.

I have continued this because I want transwomen, women, bottoms and everyone else who receives any sort of unsolicited, demeaning messages to know that you don’t have to let a stranger speak to you like that just because you’re on the Internet. Sometimes the block button isn’t enough. It’s empowering to put someone in their place and demand the respect that you deserve. Talk shit, get messy, and have fun!

Who inspires you, both performers and people you know personally?

My biggest inspiration in life is my mother.

She is the strongest and most determined person I have ever met. My drag inspirations vary from celebs like J. Lo, Amber Rose, Black Chyna, Dita Von Teese, [to] Carrie Bradshaw [“Sex and the City” creator Candace Bushnell’s alter ego] and Mother Theresa.

How do you picture your ideal day off from work and responsibilities?

My ideal day off from work and responsibility is filled with good food, champagne, naps, laughter and loved ones.

When you cook, what is your favorite dish to prepare? What’s your favorite food to eat?

My favorite dish to prepare is something that presents beautifully, fills you up and sticks to your ribs…Something like an oven-roasted lemon butter chicken with citrus butter, mashed potatoes and grilled asparagus. My favorite foods to eat around Charlotte are the soul rolls from Mert’s, sushi from Pisces, brunch at Vivace, the number 19 from Don Pedro and my mother’s fried chicken. : :

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