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Gov. Roy Cooper does not support the transgender ban in the military.

N.C. Rep. Mark Meadows supports the transgender ban in the military.

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HB2/HB142 Update

Pro- and anti-HB2 state politicians on transgender military ban Rep. Meadows worked for ban; Gov. Cooper condemns it

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff The “tremendous costs” of In the early days followmedical care for transgender ing the passage of House service members, according Bill 2 (HB2), politicians to The Washington Post, is across North Carolina and $8.4 million annually at most. the nation becomes polarCompared to $41.6 million that ized in support or condemthe government pays annunation of the legislation. ally for service members to Now, two state officials fill Viagra prescriptions, the on opposite ends of the expense of medical transition HB2 spectrum clash once coverage is roughly one-fifth again — this time over the the cost of that brand, and oneban on transgender military tenth of the $84 million spent service announced in a on all erectile dysfunction series of Trump tweets. treatments.

“After consultation with Similar to the aftermath of my Generals and military HB2, North Carolina politicians experts, please be advised The yin and yang of politics: N.C. House Rep. Mark Meadows was a have butted heads over the that the United States strong supporter of HB2 and was reported to have pressed the Trump anti-LGBTQ policy. House Rep. Government will not accept administration to reverse the transgender service members in the miliMark Meadows, an HB2 supor allow Transgender inditary policy in force. On the other side is Gov. Roy Cooper who opposed porter, played an integral role in viduals to serve in any caHB2 and supports transgender service and presence in the military. pushing for the ban, according pacity in the U.S. Military,” to an online story Axios published shortly after the tweets. the three-part Twitter series stated. “Our military must be focused Meadows was quoted in The Charlotte Observer in May on decisive and overwhelming victory and cannot be burdened 2016 regarding the Obama administration’s warning to the North with the tremendous medical costs and disruption that transgender Carolina General Assembly to overturn HB2 or risk losing federal in the military would entail. Thank you.”

education funding. Despite more than $1 billion for the state’s schools at stake, Meadows urged staunch support for HB2 and intense criticism against the opposing side.

“The federal government has no business being a bully,” Meadows said. “When there are bullies among us, whether they’re in the other party or our party, the grassroots stand up and say enough is enough.”

Now the tables have turned, it seems, as Meadows is reported to have pressed the Trump administration to reverse an Obama-era policy allowing transgender service members in the military.

According to Axios, Meadows and other House conservatives “started threatening not to vote for the military appropriations bill unless the transgender issues were resolved…the security bill, which included Trump priorities like the border wall, could be derailed unless they handled this issue now.”

The issue was handled with a customary Twitter rant.

In stark contrast to Meadows, Gov. Roy Cooper loudly opposed HB2 as North Carolina attorney general, and repealed the law after being elected governor — replacing it with HB142, a problematic bill in its own right.

Gov. Cooper responded to the ban on transgender military service with a distinctly pro-LGBTQ statement, delivered through the preferred presidential medium of communication: Twitter.

“We need a strong military,” Gov. Cooper tweeted in response. “That means welcoming all qualified and ready to serve and sacrifice.” : :

Back to School

Campus Pride enters new school year with renewed ambition Org a vital resource for LGBTQ students nationwide

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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ntering a new school year is always a bit nerve-wracking, even more so when a student is just beginning their college career. For LGBTQ students, one national organization moves mountains to ensure that they pick the right school and stand up as leaders on campus for all marginalized communities.

“Campus Pride approaches everything we do in an intersectional manner to produce not just LGBTQ leaders but leaders when it comes to social justice,” Campus Pride Executive Director Shane Windmeyer told qnotes. “How to be more knowledgeable and accepting of diversity within the LGBTQ community.”

The organization achieves this goal through countless programs focused on training and nurturing LGBTQ youth growing into adulthood. Young members of the LGBTQ community are often the most vulnerable, so the resources provided through Campus Pride’s programs and projects strive to chip away at this disadvantage.

These programs include online training to form safe spaces for LGBTQ students on campus. Campus Pride also offers an 18-20 hour in-person “Stop the Hate” training to support colleges and universities that strive for an inclusive, safe community. The organization’s website features a jobs board, LGBTQ scholarships database and access to research and other resources nationwide.

Windmeyer said that none of Campus Pride’s countless projects could be done without the national organization’s network of student leaders and volunteers. From managing communications and working events to planning workshops and research reports, Windmeyer said that “without all the administrative, resourceful hard work that volunteers do, this [mission] would not be possible.”

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Windmeyer’s organization is best known for its annual Camp Pride, a six-day gathering of LGBTQ and ally student leaders from all over the country. The camp aims to build leadership skills through self-discovery, networking, shared resources and discussion of social justice issues.

One resource that Campus Pride has expanded continuously over its history is the Campus Pride Index, which rates colleges and universities on their LGBTQ policies and the inclusivity of the campus environment. Windmeyer said that the index serves both sides of the system: school and student.

“The Campus Pride index is an invaluable resource that LGBTQ high school students can easily access to find safe, inclusive colleges to attend,” he told qnotes. “Plus, the Index helps college campuses improve their safety and LGBTQ inclusive policies, programs and practices.”

Unfortunately, not all colleges and universities strive to implement policies and practices that are inclusive for LGBTQ students and staff. Some schools hold on to archaic policies, or even actively impair attempts to make their campuses more inclusive and LGBTQ-friendly.

“[Queer students] may face harassment, judgment and discrimination from professors and peers if they are out,” Windmeyer lamented. “An LGBTQ student leader on a conservative campus may be unable to get their LGBTQ organization recognized as legitimate by the university. Universities sometimes don’t list the organization online, making it difficult for queer students to find it. They may try to hold LGBTQ events and be blocked from doing so by the administration.”

Because schools like that do exist, Campus Pride implemented the opposite of the index — the Shame List. The list identifies colleges and universities with the least inclusive or most hostile campuses, so that LGBTQ young people can make informed decisions when enrolling.

As for students once they choose a school, Campus Pride’s site offers resources on dozens of potential campus issues: Greek life, religious and faith practices, transgender support, health and wellness and athletics. Most colleges and universities now have LGBTQ student organizations or resource centers.

Windmeyer also encourages off-campus outreach like local LGBTQ community centers, support groups, or queer-friendly counseling. Campus Pride works hard to remind LGBTQ and ally students and educators that there are resources out there; it all begins with a Google search.

“You can always call, email, text or message Campus Pride and we can help you too,” Windmeyer said as he smiled. : :

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Center’s dream becomes reality Time Out Youth Center finally ‘at home’ in new permanent facility, grand opening announced

by Lainey Millen :: qnotes staff

“Large streams from little fountains flow, Tall oaks from little acorns grow.” — D. Everett, The Columbian Orator, 1797

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n 1990, Tonda Taylor, along with human services professionals, educators, physicians and clergy, assembled to discuss the needs of young LGBTQ individuals who were struggling with their sexual orientation.

They knew that there was a desperate need for a place for them to turn for help and support. So on April 8, 1991, four gay and lesbian youth gathered for a discussion group under the guidance of Taylor and others for what would later become the premier organization in the Charlotte, N.C. area to address the needs of LGBTQ youth.

Fast forward to August 2017 and where that seed that was planted ‘lo those many years ago, has now arisen a multi-faceted powerhouse which moved into its permanent 7,400 sq. ft. “forever home” facility located at 3800 Monroe Rd. during July 2017 and serves youth ages 11-20.

The new building is abuzz with activity. It houses the center, as well as three tenants: offices and clothes closet for Transcend Charlotte, an organization and counseling service for the transgender community; Equality North Carolina satellite offices for regional initiatives; and a counseling office for Sarah Yum, LMFT. In the future it will also begin HIV testing and will offer community space for LGBTQ organizations to host board meetings and public forums. It is also home to Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Charlotte. The center also provides out-ofcenter support by way of two satellite groups, one in Cabarrus County and one in Gaston County, that operate much as the main facility does as far as staff support and activities. In addition to working in this mode, Time Out Youth also works with Gay-Straight Alliances, parents, youth and teachers at schools across the Carolinas.

The newly renovated and upfitted headquarters comes complete with a main multi-purpose group room, a computer lab, a smaller activity room, pantry, laundry facilities for homeless youth, shower room, kitchen, four genderneutral restrooms, conference room, and program, school outreach and administrative offices. A bus stop is located just outside the front door for those who take public transportation. The center is conveniently located to Uptown Charlotte and is accessible by car from all local counties, Time Out Youth shared.

Executive Director Rodney Tucker shared that the design and furniture selections for the main room were recommended and suggested by the youth who wanted an area with a “cool vibe” in which to thrive. Tables are made from recycled skateboards and all furniture can be easily moved and reset for any number of occasions or events.

The center, even while in the move-in process, continued to operate normally, except it did not offer drop-in space for youth until July 31 when it opened its doors for its Homecoming Week, first unveiling to the young people who attended that day one experience. Forty-two showed up to celebrate that day. On Aug. 4, the center had a youth pride dance to culminate its first week’s festivities.

A few youth share their first impressions: “So big. Happy!” — Valerie; “I love it so much! I’m excited to spend all my time here.” — Lexi; “Whoa!

So many rainbows!!” — Jermaine.

To continue the celebration, the center will host its Grand Opening Ceremony at 2 p.m. on Aug. 20 with a ribbon cutting, campaign donor recognition and showcase of a time capsule created by center youth designed to be opened at Time Out Youth’s 50th anniversary in 2041. This will be followed by an open house from 2:30-5:30 p.m. Both are open to the public. The board and staff will be on hand to provide facility tour services to those in attendance.

In Time Out Youth’s latest statistical data report for 2016, numbers showed it served 357 unique visitors (compared to 162 in 2015) and 4,683

sign-ins for drop-in times (up from 2,370 in 2015). It also had 3,419 attend discussion groups (as compared to 1,930 in 2015). Attendance rates in Gaston County vary and in Cabarrus County, they average around 20 per month. LGBTQ youth have found it a safe gathering place, especially due to the ongoing debate over HB2.

Tucker expressed that the organization has far exceeded what he had thought possible in such a short time. Thus far, they have achieved their initial strategic plan for purchasing a building, renovating it and moving in.

The center launched a $3.4 million capital campaign at the time of the building purchase in January 2017. In addition to the purchase and renovation of the building, the five-year campaign will expand programs and services (such as providing more free counseling and establish weekend hours), and will build a 10-bed transitional living shelter for LGBTQ homeless youth by 2020. As of July 25, 2017, the campaign had raised $2.25 million in gifts and pledges: $1.5 million from the Gambrell Family Foundation;$100,000 from the Howard R. Levine Foundation; $100,000 from Myers Park Baptist Church; and more than $550,000 from more than 100 donor households. Hopes are for another $2.4 million to be raised by the center’s grand opening on Aug. 20.

Contributions at any level are welcome and appreciated either as a one-time gift or multi-year pledge.

“Our LGBTQ youth are the beneficiaries of this outpouring of support,” Board Chair Michael Condel stated. “Each gift to the campaign honors their courage and tenacity to be who they are. The board and staff are honored to assist them on their journey.”

Now, they are on to their next initiative which includes the design and construction of a transitional shelter for youth ages 18-23 on the empty lot behind the building. They are partnering with the True Colors organization out of New York, N.Y. who will provide support and a model for the shelter and is assisting in Time Out Youth’s efforts (see bit.ly/2wiznvt). Time Out Youth is engaged in revamping its three-year plan which includes: year one, research best practices and other issues for achieving their goals; year two, develop the plan of action, hire an architect and start construction; and year three, complete construction and be prepared to welcome its first residents at the end of the year.

For youth who are under 18, the center makes referrals to The Relatives who are more readily equipped to handle issues as they pertain to family dynamics and legal requirements.

In addition to all of this, CenterLink Executive Director Luna Tucker will provide training for the staff so that the staff can operate at its full potential and efficiency.

One need that Time Out Youth has consistently is volunteer support, Monday-Friday, from 3-5 p.m. or after 6:30 p.m. A class will be held in October to train volunteers who are interested in getting involved with the center’s youth. Volunteers can work in one of two ways; they can deal directly with youth during drop-in space and discussion group hours or they can work with the center’s staff and board in supporting financial resource development, telephone calls and serving meals on Thursdays and Fridays.

Besides volunteerism, the center also has a wish list to help fulfill its needs. An Amazon wish list page has been established with various items that are still pending that have been requested. Visit amzn.to/2uePAol to learn more. Also, purchases made through smile.amazon.com will result in Amazon contributing 0.5 percent of the price of eligible purchases to Time Out Youth.

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Billboards stir controversy CHARLESTON, S.C. — A new billboard campaign produced and sponsored by the Alliance For Full Acceptance is stirring up a lot of controversy in the Lowcountry.

The sign designs showcase the theme “LGBT Rights are Civil Rights” and feature LGBTQ couples with rainbow and American flags wrapped around themselves. The 50 billboards span from “Moncks Corner to Awendaw to Ravenell to James Island and everywhere in between” and offer hope to the LGBTQ and allied communities. Comments of support are encouraging, like “I’d like to think a lgbtq kid living in an extremely conservative family can look up at that sign and feel hope. Hell, I’m an adult in my forties and it gave me hope.” and “Love the Billboards. Can we get more of them?”

But not everyone is happy about this. The organization has been getting a lot of flack. Some responses received include: “Please take the billboards down before God drops the hammer on us here in Charleston.” and “We’re all not on board with your message and it makes the city look bad.”

Dan Folk Photography contributed his talents to the project initiative.

Students at James Island Charter High School’s Gay-Straight Alliance held bake sales at their school to raise money for one of the boards posted on James Island.

More information is available online about the campaign. info: affa-sc.org.

Charlotte Interfaith service upcoming

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The Charlotte Pride Interfaith Service, “Celebrating the Power of Love,” will be held on Aug. 20, 4 p.m., at Temple Beth El, 5101 Providence Rd. More than 25 different faith organizations will affirm a commitment to inclusivity.

A reception will follow the service. info: msuecarter@yahoo.com.

It’s time to ‘flourish’ at Pride

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Flourish 2017: A Celebration of LGBTQ Arts + Culture will be held on Aug. 26, 1 p.m., at the Bechtler Museum of Art, 420 S. Tryon St., in conjunction with Charlotte Pride.

A festival-within-a-festival, Flourish showcases area LGBTQ artists and arts organizations. From singing to visual art to dance, every 30 minutes something different is on the stage.

“The museum’s bar will be open for business, and there will be plenty of air conditioning for escaping the heat and humidity of Charlotte’s summer,” said director John Quillin.

Slated to appear are the Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte, One Voice Chorus of Charlotte and others.

In other news, Charlotte Pride is seeking volunteers to work at the festival and parade on Aug. 26-27. A recruiting event will be held on Aug. 17, 6:30 p.m., at Birdsong Brewing Co., 1016 N. Davidson St. Attendees can enjoy complimentary beer and pizza. info: charlottepride.org.

Mass celebrates Pride

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The 21st Annual Mass of Welcome for the LGBTQ Community will be held on Aug. 23, 7 p.m., at St. Peter’s Catholic Church, 507 S. Tryon St. The liturgy will be celebrated by Fr. Jim Bowler, SJ. A reception will follow in Biss Hall.

This event is sponsored by the Diocesan Ministry for Gay and Lesbian Catholics and is open to the public. This ministry was started

by Fr. Gene McCreesh, Fr. Richard Allen and Retired Bishop Emeritus William Curlin to address the needs of its LGBTQ members throughout the diocese. The mass was established in 1996 as part of the Diocese of Charlotte’s spiritual outreach to the gay and lesbian community.

Free parking is available in The Green parking deck next to the church on the second level blue section. info: dmfglc@gmail.com.

Scholarship winner releases video

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Time Out Youth Center’s Makaila a.k.a. Soulfloetry, recipient of last year’s Tonda Taylor Scholarship, has released her music video on YouTube.

Floetic Records, LLC is asking the community to support this work by purchasing the debut album “Expectations” through iTunes and other stores.

The video is available online at bit. ly/2wkLlol. info: floeticrecords.com.

‘Storytime’ gets push back

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — South Carolina’s Brandon James, whose drag alter ego is Princess Onya, has come under attack by city council members and religious groups after a story broke about his attempts to bring Drag Queen Storytime to the Queen City as a way to educate children about issues of acceptance.

He was interviewed by WCNC-TV’s Tanya Mendis and discussed the increased presence of drag in mainstream media and his hopes to bring the story time to the Carolinas.

The next day the story had gone viral on Facebook and religious organizations KeepNCSafe.org and NC Values Coalition flooded the web with hate speech toward James.

They even posted links and phone numbers to contact for concerned citizens to express their opposition to the program.

City Councilmember Matthew Ridenhour stepped in, vowing to have it shut down and calling it “appalling.”

The Charlotte-Mecklenburg Library made a statement in which it said that they do not use volunteers for children’s story times, but use

trained library staff. James’ proposal does not meet the library’s guidelines. They did, however, invite him to apply to be part of the Presenter Showcase to be held in January 2018 and to submit his freshman book, “Auntie Bulli,” which is being released this fall, for consideration in the Local Authors Collection.

James has received death threats, he said, adding that messages have condemned him to hell, called him mentally ill, “a freak and anything else you can think of.”

He has also received messages of support, calling him a hero and a role model for LGBTQ youth. He said he is not giving up and wants to build a better future for children. info: facebook.com/OnyaMann.

Duke nets award

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Duke Energy was the recipient of the Edison Electric Institute’s Excellence Award for 2017 for its efforts to improve business diversity and inclusion.

The company developed an innovative approach to relationship building by hosting several business development events in 2016 and promoting the personal and professional development of supplier representatives. The company also sponsored various educational workshops, industry seminars and other activities presented by partner community economic development organizations. The Institute shared that Duke Energy “continues to proactively seek diverse suppliers and these efforts have made lasting positive effects on economic development locally, regionally and nationally.” info: eei.org.

Eastern Conference broadens awareness

GREENVILLE, N.C. — During the last weekend of July, East Carolina University hosted the 2017 Console-ing Passions: International Conference on Television, Video, Audio, New Media and Feminism that educated participants on the two-way relationship between the media and culture and gender identity, the Reflector reported.

Beginning in 1989, the Console-ing Passions’ founders sought to create an environment to explore issues and offer a place for scholarly presentations. They held their first conference in 1992 at the University of Iowa.

Participants use the time to discuss and expand awareness on key topics. Panel sessions this year included such themes as “Queer Representation in Music and Television” and others.

The hosts also used HB2 and its partial repeal to highlight the bills influences across the state. In fact, signage was available for restrooms that welcomed participants’ choice throughout the building and demonstrated inclusivity and acceptance.

The conference featured two lunchtime roundtables devoted to discussion of LGBTQrelated legislation in North Carolina, the Reflector shared, which supported the mission of rallying community members to engage in dialogue about gender identity and representation, civil rights and public policy. To that end, a fundraiser was held for the university’s LGBT Resource Office to support student scholarship. info: ecu.edu. console-ingpassions.org.

Triad Church sets homecoming

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its 23rd Annual Anniversary/Homecoming service on Sept. 10, 11 a.m., at 4105 Patsy Dr. In addition to the observance, it is also Pack-a-Pew Sunday and visitors are welcome to attend.

A potluck lunch follows services.

The congregation will hold its annual congregational meeting on Oct. 29. More details will be available in future issues of qnotes. info: mccwschurch.com.

Triangle Dem leader resigns

RALEIGH, N.C. — Ryan Butler has tendered his resignation as president of LGBT Democrats of North Carolina in order to join his husband, Chris Sgro, who has taken a position with the Human Rights Campaign in Washington, D.C. Taking his place at the helm is Vice President Ginger Walker.

“It has been an honor and privilege to work with so many good Democrats in North Carolina and I’m very proud of what we have accomplished over the years. Thank you for all of the support you have given to the LGBT Democrats and progressive causes,” he shared in a press release.

The organization’s President’s Council has voted to hold a convention in Charlotte, N.C. sometime in October in the meantime.

Butler said, “…I would encourage you to attend [the convention]. It is important for our caucus to continue to speak out, especially in the wake of the recent horrific anti-trans actions by Trump.” info: lgbtdemocrats.org.

Western Furnishing brand adds Jacobson to staff

TAYLORSVILLE, N.C. — Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams has announced that it has appointed three-time Emmy nominated TV Producer Samantha Jacobson as vice president of public relations and special events. She will be based out of New York, N.Y. “We are excited and feel fortunate to have Samantha joining our team. Her experience and rich background will certainly be a value to us as we continue to grow our brand’s presence and navigate the ever-evolving media landscape,” said Gold.

She will oversee all relationships with editors, influencers and prospective brand partnerships. Additionally, she will oversee planning and execution of all Signature Store grand openings and in-store events.

Jacobson has managed and produced special events, music, sports and fashion coverage at “CBS This Morning,” “Entertainment Tonight/ The Insider” and “CNN Headline News.”

“I am thrilled to be joining the Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams team and excited to be stepping into this new role. … Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams has a voice that fights for change to make the planet greener, to encourage literacy with their Library of Congress partnership, and to support equal rights for all,” Jacobson shared. info: mgbwhome.com.

South Carolina Center celebrates health week

ROCK HILL, S.C. — Affinity Health Center will hold its National Health Center Week festivities during the week of Aug. 13-19 which honors the work done by health centers across

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NEW YORK, N.Y. — Pop artist Kesha released her new album, “Rainbow,” on Aug. 11 and each new song carries a theme about life’s challenges in today’s world.

“My new album ‘Rainbow’ is dedicated to my fans,” said Kesha.

In advance of the release, she rolled out “Hymn,” a song dedicated to dreamers and out-

siders everywhere. Three others preceded “Hymn” — “Praying,” “Woman” and “Learn to Let Go.” This fourth release is intended as a way for fans to connect, many of whom have reached out to share personal stories of how her music had encouraged and helped them navigate through difficult times in their lives, promoters said. It is dedicated to “all the idealistic people around the world who refuse to turn their backs on progress, love, and equality whenever they are challenged,” Kesha shared in an essay about how she wrote about “Hymn” that appeared in Mic. “It’s dedicated to the people who went out into the streets all over the world to protest against racism, hate, and division of any kind.

It’s also dedicated to anyone who feels like they are not understood by the world or respected for exactly who they are,” she added.

The album is available for download on iTunes, Apple Music, Amazon Music, Google Play and Spotify.

Kesha will launch her “Rainbow Tour” traversing North America visiting 21 venues beginning in Alabama on Sept. 15 and ending

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with a concert in Los Angeles, Calif. She will visit Charlotte, N.C.’s The Fillmore Charlotte on Sept. 20 and Raleigh, N.C.’s The Ritz on Oct. 2.

Tickets are on sale now online through ticketing agencies as well as locales. info: keshaofficial.com.

QUICK HITS —————————————————————————————— ABC News has reported that actress Cynthia Nixon, who gained popularity from her years as part of the ensemble cast of “Sex and the City,” is considering a run for governor in New York against Gov. Andrew Cuomo. info: abcnews.go.com.

Jenny Durkan won over 20 other candidates to become the first lesbian in Seattle, Wash. history to win a mayoral primary, and positioning herself to become the first openly lesbian mayor of the city. info: victoryfund.org.

Hickory, N.C.-based Faith in America has condemned the actions of Donald Trump when he sidelined senior military leaders and declared a ban on transgender military service.

The organization shared that “when individuals legislate on anti-LGBT ‘religious freedom’ bills and bring their respective religions into the public square, the most tormented groups are LGBT children who are struggling with their sexualities and identities.” info: faithinamerica.org.

“The L Word” is being revived on Showtime with Jennifer Beals, Leisha Hailey and Kate Moennig serving as its producers. info: qsyndicate.com The Huffington Post has reported that U.S. Muslims have become more accepting of the LGBT community than white evangelicals according to a Pew Research Center survey. info: huffingtonppost.com.

Carolinas News Notes continued from page 9 the U.S. who provide high quality, cost effective and accessible healthcare to those in need.

Partnering with Northside Recreation Center, Affinity will welcome the community to a health fair on Aug. 15, 3:30 p.m., at 900 Annafrell St., which features more than 20 community partners including social service, healthcare, housing and other supportive agencies. Free health screenings and food will be available for attendees.

On Aug. 17, Healthcare for the Homeless Day, Affinity will visit St. Mary’s Catholic Church to provide breakfast for individuals experiencing homelessness and to share information about how to get healthcare services.

The following day will be the Consumer Board Member Day at Affinity’s main site, 500 Lakeshore Pkwy., from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. for a tour of the center by board members, 54 percent of whom are patients of Affinity.

Affinity Health Center has four locations throughout York County, including sites in Rock Hill, Fort Mill, Clover and York, S.C. It serves nearly 4,000 patients, 70 percent of whom live at or below the poverty level. info: affinityhealthcenter.org.

Beach town holds Pride celebration

MYRTLE BEACH, S.C. — Grand Strand Pride 2017 will be held from Aug. 24-27.

On Aug. 24, 6 p.m., Pride Night will come to Pelicans baseball with a buffet picnic. The next evening a Friday Happy Hour will take place at Mr. Fish, 6401 N. Kings Hwy., followed at 10 p.m. with a Pride after-party at Pulse, 2701 S. Kings Hwy. On Aug. 26, 4-7 p.m., at the Marina Inn at Grande Dunes ballroom, 8121 Amalfi Pl., Grand Strand Pride and the Coastal Business Guild will host a free Business Expo showcasing vendors, organizations and others to visitors.

Afterward at 7 p.m., the Gala will take place with Jim Obergefell as the keynote speaker.

The festivities end with a brunch on Aug. 27, 11 a.m., at Mr. Fish.

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other information, is available online. info: grandstrandpride.com.

achieve the objective of raising the $25,000. info: scequality.org.

Court rules in DV decision

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COLUMBIA, S.C. — The Post and Courier reported on July 26 that the state’s domestic violence law protects same-sex relationships as determined by a S.C. Supreme Court split ruling. It said that the 2015 law was unfair to LGBTQ couples.

However, the states attorney general is encouraging the court to reconsider its decision saying that it would limit the numbers of people the law protects to a smaller group.

Jeff Ayers, S.C. Equality’s executive director, has applauded the ruling.

“This proves that the Supreme Court takes the same stances as SC Equality has since marriage equality is the law of the land: same-sex couples have the same rights as heterosexual couples,” Ayers told the news organization. info: postandcourier.com.

Activists rally for community

COLUMBIA, S.C. — SC Equality has been spending time fostering friendships with legislative members in order to change hearts and minds, but the organization says that there is more that they need to do now.

To that end, SC Equality is experiencing a financial crisis, Harriet Hancock shared, and she wants the community to help shore it up. She remembers a time when the Harriet Hancock Center Foundation was on the brink of closing its doors when SC Equality dug deep into their resources to donate funds. It did not stop there.

They also helped to provide strategic planning support to help the center resolve problems.

Executive Director Jeff Ayers reported on Aug. 7 that they had exceeded their goal of reaching $25,000 by raising $25,763. Now, the organization will be able to revamp their website and online presence and will also be able to create more opportunities for community engagement. A group of donors had agreed to match tax-deductible contributions in order to

Carolinians bring home pageant wins

LOUISVILLE, Ky. — North Carolina Entertainer of the Year (NC EOY) state system celebrated historic wins and achievements after a five-day national pageant from July 2429, 2017 at the C2 Event Venue.

The current reigning NC EOY Charlton Alicea won the national title for the first time in North Carolina history. He ended up winning four of the five national categories including Creative Evening Wear, Creative Swimwear, Talent and Creative Presentation. NC EOY first alternate Cory Caleb Chanel Iman won the fifth category OnStage Question. Both North Carolina Mr. contestants swept all five categories.

“Indeed we made history. … This is unprecedented,” said Shane Windmeyer (aka Buff Faye) who also competed in the F.I. (female impersonator) division at National EOY. “Mr. NC EOY is now on the map and we are on fire.”

Also for the first time in NC EOY history, two contestants in the F.I. division made the Top 10 as finalists. The current reigning NC EOY, F.I. Buff Faye placed fourth, going into the Top 10 competing for the national title. This was her third time competing at the National Entertainer of the Year pageant and first time making Top 10. In addition, the NC EOY, FI second alternate Onyx Jade Adams made Top 10.

The current reigning NC EOY, Femme Vivi VanDank competed in the Femme division of National EOY and tied for two categories: Creative Swimwear and Onstage Question.

This was her first time competing in the national pageant and placing among Top 5 overall.

The NC EOY F.I., King and Femme promoter David Bryant was also recognized on Finals night winning the national award for EOY Promoter of the Year. Both Bryant and Phil Voila are the current promoters for NC EOY F.I., King

and Femme. Windmeyer (aka Buff Faye) is the promoter for NC EOY Mr. info: eoy.net. northcarolinaeoy.com.

Research Roundup Study analysis wrapping up

RALEIGH, N.C. — The “Gender-Inclusive Housing: Benchmarking the Policies and Practices of Peer Institution and Identifying the Needs of Transgender, Genderqueer, and Gender Non-Conforming Students in University Housing” research study is now in its final analysis stage at North Carolina State University’s GLBT Center and University Housing.

University students were studied on their perspectives and researchers are using this data to learn more about gender-inclusive housing implementation effects, or the lack thereof, as well as understanding transgender students’ experiences, the Technician reported.

The report will be released in the spring of 2018.

More information is available online.

In other news, the university’s student body president, Jackie Gonzalez, and the diversity outreach director, J Hallen, are working yearround for LGBTQ rights.

Gonzalez released a statement that addressed her goals of providing for a more positive campus climate for its LGBTQ community members. This includes encouragement of professors to use student preferred names and pronouns, addition of housing options and more.

One key change was in how packages are delivered and the policy surrounding it.

Currently, students must present their ID to pick up packages. But this does not work for transgender students who may use another name than what is displayed on their ID. A proposal of using an ID number rather than a name will help to alleviate this.

Hallen shared that the proposal would help increase comfort in acceptance and provide for respect of one’s identity. info: technicianonline.com. ncsu.edu.

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Carolina LGBTQ school support groups Resource listings compiled by Campus Pride Student Leader Network - North Carolina Appalachian State University A-SPEC orgsync.com/137040/chapter SAGA csil.orgsync.com/org/sagaappstate facebook.com/AppstateSAGA/ TransACTION orgsync.com/91063/chapter facebook.com/transactionappstate/

and Allies Club facebook.com/CatawbaValleyCommunity CollegeSAGA

Asheville-Buncombe Technical Community College Bridging the Gap GLBTQ student group facebook.com/groups/btgabtech/

Coastal Carolina Community College Coastal Alliance: LGTBQIA facebook.com/pg/CoastalAllianceLgbtqia/ about/?ref=page_internal

Barton Community College Gay Straight Alliance facebook.com/bartonGSA/

Davidson College Queers and Allies (Q&A) davidsonqanda.weebly.com/ facebook.com/DavidsonQueersandAllies/

Beaufort County Community College BCCC LGBT Club beaufortccclgbt.wordpress.com/ Blue Ridge Community College PRISM facebook.com/PRiSM.BRCC/ Rainbow Coalition sites.google.com/a/email.vccs.edu/rainbow coalitionclub/home Brevard College Diversity Pride Club my.brevard.edu/ICS/Offices/Campus_Life/Clubs_ and_Organizations/Club_List/Diversity_Pride_Club/ Welcome.jnz facebook.com/groups/1240865662696071/ Campbell University Common Ground Brooke Taxakis: taxakisb@cambell.edu Marie Berry: berrym@campbell.edu Catawba College LGBTQ Alliance catawba.edu/about/our-campus/offices/studentaffairs/student-life/clubs-organizations/lgbtqalliance/ Catawba Valley Community College CVCC Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender (LGBT)

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Central Piedmont Community College Spectrum Club cpccspectrum.weebly.com/index.html facebook.com/groups/CPCCSpectrum

Duke University Blue Devils United bluedevilsunited.com/ facebook.com/bluedevilsunited Athlete Allys facebook.com/DukeAthleteAlly?fref=ts athleteally.org/ DUSON Spectrum facebook.com/groups/498950670166671/ dukegroups.com/organization/dusonspectrum Duke Physical Therapy United dukegsa.wixsite.com/duke-health-gsa facebook.com/groups/DukeHealthSciencesGSA/ DukeOUT twitter.com/dukeout Fuqua Pride daytimemba114504.orgsync.com/org/ fuquapride116990/home facebook.com/groups/fuquapride/ OUTLAW sites.duke.edu/outlaw/ Sacred Worth sacredworth@duke.edu Duke Marine Lab Alliance facebook.com/groups/290849101312981 dukegroups.com/organization/DukeUniversity MarineLabAllianceofLGBTQIAA Duke oSTEM Chapter duke.ostem@gmail.com DukeMed Pride sites.duke.edu/dukemedpride/

Durham Technical Community College SPECTRUM Michelle Casey: caseym@durhamtech.edu Christine Dove: dovec@durhamtech.edu Scott Stauble: staubles@durhamtech.edu East Carolina University Sexuality and Gender Alliance (GLBTSU) facebook.com/ECUGLBTSU/ Elizabeth City State University LGBTQ Club ecsu.edu/current-students/student-affairs/studentengagement/clubs-organizations.html Elon University Spectrum facebook.com/groups/2201587423/ Fayetteville State University F.L.A.M.E. (Friendly Loving Multi Sexual Environment) uncfsu.campuslabs.com/engage/organization/alliance Forsyth Technical Community College P.R.I.D.E. Club (Promotion, Respect, Individuality, Diversity, Equality) facebook.com/ftpride/ Greensboro College G.S.A. Club facebook.com/Gay-Straight-Alliance-ofGreensboro-College-288891404465650/ Guilford Technical Community College Sexuality and Gender Alliance Club Chris Chafin cnchafin@gtcc.edu Johnston Community College Spectrum: Queer Straight Alliance Megan Cavanaugh mtcavanaugh@johnstoncc.edu Lenoir-Rhyne College Gay Straight Alliance facebook.com/LRUGSA/ Mars Hill University Safe Haven

sites.google.com/site/mhusafehaven/ facebook.com/SafeHavenatMHC Meredith College SPECTRUM facebook.com/Meredith-CollegeSpectrum-1777063149242135/ Mitchell Community College S.A.F.E. (Student Alliance For Equality) Michelle Money mmoney@mitchellcc.edu North Carolina A&T University P.R.O.U.D. (People Recognizing Our Underlying Differences) proudculture.wordpress.com North Carolina Central University C.O.L.O.R.S. (Creating Open Lives for Real Success) Tia Doxey tdoxey@nccu.edu North Carolina State University P.L.E.A.S.E. (Positive, Loving, Empowered Advocates for Sexual Education) facebook.com/PLEASEatNCSU ncsu.campuslabs.com/engage/organization/ PLEASE/contact GLBT CommUNITY Alliance (GLBTCA) facebook.com/groups/316059986376/ Pfeiffer University Spectrum Jill Rogers jill.rogers@pfeiffer.edu Rainbow Alliance a group of adult citizens who have come together to increase local dialogue concerning LGBTQ issues. facebook.com/Rainbow-Alliance-1466650376988402/ Randolph Community College Armadillo Equality Club Shane Bryson scbryson@randolph.edu Rowan Cabarrus Community College The Prism Club Shemeda Coats shemeda.coats@rccc.edu

goqnotes.com/to/life Salem College Open Up facebook.com/Salem-College-OpenUp-166949690035715/ Sampson Community College Safe Space Alliance facebook.com/sccsafespace/ Shaw University LGBT Youth Advisory Council lgbtyac.weebly.com/ St. Andrews University Gay-Straight Alliance sa.edu Stanly Community College Spectrum facebook.com/sccspectrum/ University of North Carolina at Asheville Alliance facebook.com/UNCAshevillealliance/ sites.google.com/site/uncaalliance/home University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill LGBTQ Center facebook.com/UNCLGBTQCenter gbtq.unc.edu/ LGBdenT lgbdent.web.unc.edu/ uncstudentorgs.campuslabs.com/engage/ organization/LGBdenT Checked Out facebook.com/CheckedOutUNC checkedout.web.unc.edu/

Sexuality and Gender Alliance facebook.com/uncsaga/ studentlife.unc.edu/organization/saga Carolina Association of Queer Journalists uncstudentorgs.campuslabs.com/engage/ organization/NLGJA Lambda Law Students Association studentorgs.law.unc.edu/llsa/ uncstudentorgs.campuslabs.com/engage/ organization/lambda-law-students-association University of North Carolina at Charlotte Spectrum orgsync.com/68937/chapter facebook.com/UNCCSPECTRUM/ Trans Specific: https://trans.uncc.edu/spectrum

Wake Forest University Spectrum orgsync.com/21745/chapter OUTLaw outlaw.law.wfu.edu/ facebook.com/WFUOutlaw Kaleidoscope (Divinity School Grad students) kaleidoscope@nulllists.wfu.edu Wake Technical Community College Full Spectrum - Gay Straight Alliance clubs.waketech.edu/fullspectrum/ Warren Wilson College Center for Gender and Relationships warren-wilson.edu/student/center-for-gender-and-

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relationships Western Carolina University S.A.G.A. (Sexuality and Gender Alliance) orgsync.com/97391/chapter facebook.com/SAGAwcu/ Western Piedmont Community College Gay Straight Alliance Terry Doyle tdoyle@wpcc.edu Wingate University Prism facebook.com/WUPrism orgsync.com/47571/chapter

University of North Carolina at Greensboro PRIDE! (Proudly Representing Individuality, Diversity, and Equality!) sites.google.com/a/uncg.edu/uncg-pride/ facebook.com/pg/UNCGPRIDE/ University of North Carolina at Pembroke SAFE ZONE studentaffairs.uncp.edu/diversity-inclusion/ affirmingadvocacy-2/safe-zone/ Spectrum facebook.com/UNCP.GSA/ University of North Carolina at Wilmington Pride facebook.com/groups/uncwpride/ appserv02.uncw.edu/studentorgs/organization. aspx?orgid=192

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Pride 2017

Beyond Pride sponsorships: marketing to the LGBTQ community Big events make big impact, but what else can companies do for inclusion?

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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ears have passed since major corporations began to take notice of the LGBTQ community’s buying power, as well as its growing prominence. Companies are still developing strategies to target the LGBTQ consumer market. One major way to reach these consumers — tried, true and effective — is through sponsoring major events, like Pride festivals and Human Rights Campaign (HRC) projects.

Locally, Children’s Theatre of Charlotte (CTC) contacted qnotes after the great success it had attending the 2016 Charlotte Pride weekend. It was the first time CTC participated in the event,

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and Media Relations Director Jared Misner felt ecstatic.

“Children’s Theatre of Charlotte was so impressed with the overwhelming amount of support it received at its first year at Charlotte Pride,” Misner wrote in an email. “I couldn’t help but think how this feeling must be widely shared among many firsttime attendees.”

Big LGBTQ events with state-wide attraction may aid the bottom line for any business committed to supporting it. But is there more that these companies could be doing to reach the LGBTQ community?

Queer consumers represent around $830 billion according to a 2013 study by Witeck Communications and MarketResearch. com. In years since, that financial influence has only grown. One corporation has held a longstanding commitment to sponsoring LGBTQ events, but recently faced criticism for not following through on its promises.

The Bank of America Charlotte Pride Parade has been a staple event in the local community since its inception in 2013, helping the festival and parade to set records with an estimated 130,000 visitors over 2016’s two-day celebration.

Yet news broke earlier this year that Bank of America (BOA), despite years of flawless scores on the HRC Corporate Equality Index, fell to a score of 75 out of 100 on the most recent index.

The score reflects a key failure of the company’s marketing to the LGBTQ community: consistency. After BOA executives mediated meetings leading to the passage of HB142, the “fake repeal” of HB2, HRC demoted BOA to make a statement about solidarity and commitment.

BOA’s misstep may have been avoided had they consulted the Commercial Closet Association (CCA), an organization promoting LGBTQ equality in advertising. CCA recommends five principles when any company considers targeting consumers who identify as LGBTQ: Go national; be consistent and confident; be inclusive and diverse; be sensitive to stereotypes; and do good market research.

“Go national” goes hand-in-hand with being consistent.

Instead of running an ad exclusively in big, liberal cities, advertisers need to take the risk that less urban consumers are able to handle LGBTQ themes. If and when criticism occurs, these companies shouldn’t compromise or withdraw the campaign, sending a message to LGBTQ people that the inclusion isn’t sincere.

As for the diversity element of inclusion, self-proclaimed ‘Professional Lesbian’ and LGBTQ marketing expert Jenn T. Grace puts it best: “The bottom line is that the LGBTQ community is not one monolithic mass of people that have the same beliefs, ideals and values,” Grace told Forbes. “Something that lands in front of me that features shirtless single gay millennial men is not going to resonate with me as a consumer when I am married to a woman and raising children.”

Including queer representation in advertising should unquestionably avoid oversimplifying LGBTQ people into comedic or threatening stereotypes. Instead of brainstorming at a table full of cisgender, heterosexual white men, seek ideas from LGBTQ people, especially those that market research reveals are a strong customer base.

For more targeted community outreach, look to local organizations or LGBTQ publications. In addition to attending big events, fund non-profits that work for marginalized neighbors — such as Time Out Youth, Campus Pride or RAIN — or speak directly to the community through queer media like qnotes and others.

More resources exist for companies seeking to market to LGBTQ people outside of major event sponsorships. Out Now Consulting, a global marketing firm with decades of experience, has broken ground with its new website, OutNow. LGBT — the first “.LGBT” domain in internet history.

“Gay and lesbian marketing is not about niche marketing,” explains OutNowConsulting.com. “It is all about integrating gay market consumers effectively into our clients’ mainstream marketing strategies and market initiatives.”

So for any company looking to reach queer consumers, the key is to do research and always remember that “LGBTQ” is not a label, but a whole world in itself, with the complexity to match. As Grace succinctly wrote on Twitter: “The LGBTQ community is truly a microcosm of every community.” : :

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Preview: Charlotte Pride Festival, Parade Organizers have big plans following a record-setting 2016

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff

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he return of Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade is upon us. A weekend-long event, the festival is set for Aug. 26-27, with the parade to be held on Sunday, Aug. 27 from 1-3 p.m. at N. Tryon St and 9th St. Organizers say that the Charlotte Pride team has worked hard to continue the event’s upward momentum, after the 2016 event drew more than an estimated 130,000 visitors over the weekend.

“We can’t see in the future and we don’t have a magic ball,” Board Member Matt Comer told qnotes. “The event has grown so rapidly because of lots of things. One of those things is that the city of Charlotte has grown.”

Though it will be a challenge to follow the year when the local LGBTQ community rallied against the notorious House Bill 2, Comer said that the rapid growth of the city will make its mark known.

“As the city grows, as the metro area continues to grow,” Comer said, “we get stronger, more vibrant, more diverse LGBQT communities, not only in the city of Charlotte, but in the surrounding metro area. That’s going to have a positive impact on the event and will likely mean that the event will continue to grow year after year.”

Of course, it isn’t just our growing population and prominence as a community that makes the Charlotte Pride board of directors hopeful. They know better than anyone that hard work and determination to improve is what makes the organization and its central event so successful.

One such improvement was made in planning VIP perks. In previous years, August heat and an outdoor setting led to some

complaints. This year, the festival promises an indoor, air-conditioned VIP lounge. For $125, VIPs will enjoy the lounge, catered hors d’oeuvres, a private bar and entertainment, on top of the regular VIP swag and exclusive access at both the main stage and the parade.

Another issue that this year’s organizers worked to address was increasing the diversity of the event. Striving to reflect the LGBTQ community’s intersectional nature, Charlotte Pride pursues diverse representation year-round as well as at the event.

“Our program with Charlotte Latin Pride has been extremely successful in getting new volunteers involved, new leaders involved. They have grown by leaps and bounds,” Comer said.

“What you’ll see at the festival is an increase of diversity on the main stage, and the community stage as well. That will give us the opportunity to showcase more diverse, more local entertainers.”

The community stage offers local artists a venue to perform before one of the biggest crowds of any public event. Over on the main stage, pop and R&B recording artist Deborah Cox will headline Saturday’s grand performance. Cox has been nominated for a Grammy Award, achieved multiple platinum records, and performed alongside Whitney Houston.

“Deborah Cox possesses one of the most powerful and versatile contemporary voices of our time,” announced Charlotte Pride on its website. “Deborah has been recognized for her longstanding commitment to various social issues. She is a recipient of the California State Senate Award and the New York State Senate’s Civil Rights Award for her efforts in the fight for human rights and equality.”

Also gracing the main stage and representing a key subculture of the LGBTQ community, independent multi-ethnic Latin pop/rap band LOS 5 takes another leap in their rise to stardom.

The band has rocketed in popularity since their television debut last year on NBC’s “The Today Show,” when they were named Elvis Duran’s Artist of the Month.

LOS 5 has performed on Univision, at Fiesta Latina Miami, and the iHeartRadio Music Festival, where they won the Macy’s Rising Star Competition — among other performances.

LOS 5 will release a Spanish-language EP called “Somos Meet Los 5” later this year. Yet, their bio says, television was just one major landmark.

“In early 2017, LOS 5 was honored to perform their aforementioned Spanish-language single ‘Acapulco’ live at the Tianguis Turistico Mexico conference for an audience that included the President of Mexico along with international delegates from 88 additional countries,” the Charlotte Pride announcement said.

Comer is equally enthusiastic about the other artists featured on the festival’s main stage. These include transgender rapper Katastrophe, YouTube rap sensation Cazwell, and Charlotte Pride classic drag performances. Emcees for the event are Patti O’Furniture, Big Momma D, Malachi and Delighted Tobehere on the main stage, with Delighted, Malachi and WLNK broadcaster Sheri Lynch at the parade.

Every year, the Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade reaches new heights, and this year will be no different. Don’t miss out on early VIP registration or free general admission on both days of the event. : :

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continued from page 5 considered part of a “gayborhood” has proven enlightening. “The Oakhurst people have been incredibly welcoming,” Tucker said. In fact, neighboring businesses have expressed to Tucker that they would be interested in hiring the center’s youth participants. He has been overwhelmed by the acceptance that the center has received over such a short time. He is encouraged that the move was worthwhile and that the selection of the site was so viable.

“We are thrilled to move into our Forever Home and are so thankful for the deep community support we have received during this process,” Tucker added.

The center is currently seeking a full-time assistant director of programs and services.

Duties include: case management, programming, volunteer management, administrative responsibilities, training and more. Deadline for application is Aug. 18 and start date is in September. Send a resume and cover letter detailing qualifications to Tucker at rtucker@ timeoutyouth.org.

On Aug. 16, Miss Gay America Suzy Wong, as the alter ego of Arnold Myint, a Nashville, Tenn.-based chef and restaurateur of Bravo’s “Top Chef” and Food Network fame will visit the center to host an interactive cooking session with about 40 youth. The following two nights, she will be on stage at the Miss Gay North Carolina America pageant at The Scorpio, 2301 Freedom Dr., where she will turn over her crown to the new winner at the culmination of the event. Cover charge is $10.

Time Out Youth will host the GSA Fall Leadership Summit on Sept. 9, 9 a.m.-5 p.m., for middle and high school students who are part of genders and sexualities alliances and gaystraight alliances clubs across the region. GSA student members, officers and advisors are welcome to attend. Those who are interested in beginning a GSA at their school are also invited.

Attendees will engage in leadership development skills and coalition building, as well as workshops and group discussions. Networking is one of the bonuses for those who chose to participate in the summit. Food will be provided and there is no cost to attend. Space is limited, so register online quickly.

For those GSA groups who are not registered with the center’s Regional GSA Network, email Rebby Kern, assistant director of school outreach at rkern@timeoutyouth.org or visit the youth GSA registration page.

For more information on Time Out Youth, visit timeoutyouth.org. : :

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Tips to keep from becoming victim to those little pests and what to do if you have For many, summertime means time outdoors. Unfortunately, insect bites are common, and anyone who spends time outdoors is at risk. These bites usually cause only a local reaction, but they can also spread diseases (including Zika, dengue, and Lyme disease), many of which cannot be prevented or treated with a vaccine or medicine. As such, it is important to be aware of the precautions that can be taken to prevent bug bites, as well as selftreatment options should they occur.

There are many steps that can be taken to prevent insect bites. If possible, avoid and/or limit outdoor activities when insects

are most active: from dusk to dawn. When outdoors, covering exposed skin as much as possible offers the most protection against insect bites; these measures may include wearing longsleeved shirts, long pants, socks, and a hat, and tucking shirts into pants and pants into socks. Use of an Environmental Protection Agency (EPA)-registered insect repellent that contains at least 20% DEET (chemical name N,N-Diethyl-m-toluamide) on exposed skin can help temporarily protect against mosquitoes, ticks, and other bugs. In general, higher percentages of DEET provide longerlasting protection, but this increase in protection time maxes out at about 50% DEET. Other types of repellents (picaridin, oil of lemon, eucalyptus, etc.) protect against mosquitoes, but may not be effective against ticks or other bugs. Regardless of what product you choose, it is important to read the label and follow the instructions, especially in terms of reapplication. In general, tips for use of insect repellent include: • Do not spray in enclosed areas • Use just enough repellent to cover exposed skin, and avoid over-application.

• Do not spray repellent on the skin under clothing.

• Do not apply over cuts, wounds, or irritated skin.

• If you are also using sunscreen, apply the sunscreen first, wait about 20 minutes, and then apply the insect repellent (use of products that contain both sunscreen and insect repellent is not recommended).

• Do not use insect repellents on babies younger than 2 months old.

• Children should not touch repellent; adults should apply it to their own hands and gently spread it over the child’s exposed skin (do not apply to hands or near eyes and mouth of young children).

• When used as directed, EPA-registered insect repellents are safe and effective for pregnant and breastfeeding women.

• After returning indoors, wash treated skin with soap and water.

If a mosquito bite does occur, self-treatment (without seeing a doctor) can be done to relieve symptoms.

• Application of an ice pack wrapped in a washcloth may provide sufficient relief of the pain and irritation of bug bites; apply the ice pack to the affected area for up to 10 minutes with at least 10 minutes between applications.

• If an ice pack is not sufficient to relieve pain and irritation, a number of external formulations are available for use. Most are applied to the bite area up to 3-4 times a day, and it is recommended to use these for no longer than 7 days.

• Analgesics such as benzocaine, benzyl alcohol, or pramoxine • Topical antihistamines such as diphenhydramine (Benadryl) • Counterirritants such as camphor or menthol • Hydrocortisone • Additionally, skin protectants such as zinc oxide, calamine, and titanium dioxide can be applied to insect bites in the form of lotions, ointments, or creams to reduce inflammation and irritation.

Hopefully this information is helpful. Any questions can be directed to your local pharmacist. Enjoy the rest of the summer!

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Legal Eagles

Packing your parenting backpack Back to school co-parenting tips for LGBTQ parents

by Amanda Brisson Cannavo and Robin M. Lalley, Sodoma Law guest contributors encourage your child to decorate and personalhe smell of freshly sharpened pencils is in ize it to make it their own special shared-folder. the air, brand new backpacks have been picked out and the sound of papers rustling Accidents happen, can be heard throughout the house. That’s right, be prepared school supply shopping is underway and that No parent wants to receive a call that things can only mean one thing: back to school! have gone awry, and their child has been hurt on The start of the school year can prompt lots the playground. But with kids, it’s bound to happen of excitement, as well as anxiety. For families with at some point. For LGBTQ couples, that call can two households, back to school might bring about be even scarier — especially if one parent ends a change in the parenting schedule, cause confuup barred from seeing their injured child. From sion with alternating holidays and vacations and the school perspective, this can be alleviated bring challenges to co-parenting in light of necesby each party agreeing or being required to fill sary school-related activities, such as organizing out the appropriate information on the school’s school pickups and after-school activities. emergency contact and other access forms to Even in the post-marriage equality era, some give both parents equal access to the child while LGBTQ parents may face unique challenges, at school. The forms should include both parents’ and understanding your rights and obligations names, contact information and relationship to as a parent is paramount. In preparation for the the child. To prevent an issue with emergency upcoming school year, here are a few things medical care or hospitals, one tool that LGBTQ LGBTQ parents might want to put in a “parenting parents may want to consider if their significant backpack”of their very own. other is not considered a legal guardian under the eyes of the law is the use of a short-term medical School calendar and power of attorney, or health care consent, that shared folder designates a person as a limited agent to provide Often times, for parents with a parenting medical consent when necessary for your child’s schedule (i.e., custody agreement or order), the care. It is also a good idea to provide these forms parenting time during the school year will differ from to your primary medical providers — pediatricians, the parenting time during the summer or holidays. dentists, etc. — so that they are aware in the At the start of the school year, take the academic event of an emergency. calendar and plan out your parenting schedule for the upcoming academic year. First, write-in Bullying and your child the “regular” parenting schedule (i.e., the default A 2008 study by the Gay, Lesbian, Straight schedule). Then, place special or holiday parenting Education Network found that many children time over the regular schedule. If you have a cusraised by LGBTQ parents either experienced or tody agreement or order in place, be sure to review witnessed some form of homophobic harassit carefully, paying attention to special and holiday ment at school. Children of LGBTQ parents often parenting time because, often times, this special report facing significantly more prejudice and time will supersede or replace the regular parenting discrimination because of societal homophobia, time, but does not reset it. Think about it like an specifically at school. However, perhaps most overhead projector — place the regular parenting commonly they reported feeling excluded or schedule on the overhead, then place the special isolated because their schools or classrooms did or holiday parenting schedule atop of it in order to not acknowledge their family makeup. compare the changes based on the special/holiday LGBTQ parents may want to reach out to time. By setting forth the parenting schedule for the their child’s teacher, or administrators, to ensure academic year, especially in light of how the school an open line of communication is maintained observes holidays and children’s time off, parents surrounding expectations or concerns you will avoid confusion and conflict. may have. Additionally, it may be a good idea After you have completed your parenting to identify a therapist, or school counselor, that calendar, think about creating a calendar with your your child has access to if the need should arise. child. Children also benefit from knowing when Whether you are an intact family unit or no and where they will be during the week. You can longer residing in the same home, it’s important printout a calendar or buy a fun wall calendar that for current and former spouses or partners to your child can help you fill in. Make it an arts-andattempt to have a united front on how to handle crafts project to alleviate the potential stress of their child being bullied or excluded, putting the putting focus on being in two separate housechild’s well-being and needs at the forefront. holds. Try using different color markers and stickers to denote the parenting schedule, holidays and Back to school can and should be an excitactivities. Your child can even add in their own play ing time for you and your children. No matter dates, birthday parties or other activities they are what your family looks like, when you’re packing excited to partake in. their new backpack with school supplies this When you are purchasing those school season, don’t forget to use these helpful tips to supplies, it may help to buy an extra folder to be ensure you face the first co-parenting test of the designated as a “shared-folder” between the school year ready to get that A+ grade. two households. Just like a take-home folder at school, a shared-folder should be used to transfer copies of important documents and — Amanda Brisson Cannavo and Robin M. Lalley information, such as school forms, signupsheets, are Family Law attorneys at Sodoma Law, P.C., progress reports or medical forms. Using a based in Charlotte, N.C. and with 5 locations across shared-folder that your child brings back forth to Mecklenburg and Union Counties, NC, as well as each of their homes is a great way to exchange York County, SC. Like Sodoma Law on Facebook, information that both parents need to be aware follow them on Twitter (@SodomaLaw) and follow of. Again, make it a fun arts and craft project — Managing Principal Nicole Sodoma (@NSodoma).

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by Jack Kirven :: personal trainer, qnotes contributor

Feast vs. Fasting: Eating six times a day or intermittent fasting?

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hours that you’re fasting. Half that time you’re ere’s a very gross oversimplification: Your going to be asleep, and the other part of the body is either feeding or fasting. There is eitime when you’re awake, you’re full, and you ther insulin in your blood or glucagon. You’re shouldn’t need to eat again. If you do, it means either storing energy or you’re accessing it. that you didn’t eat all of your calories.

When you consume calories or artificial The other format that’s commonly used is sweetener, this triggers your pancreas to called 5:2. This means that you eat normally on a release insulin. Insulin is the hormone that tells regular schedule five days of the week, but that your body to take up and store any energy that on two days you do not. Those two days cannot it doesn’t need to use immediately. Your insulin be back to back. Let’s say that you want to fast level will stay up after you’ve finished eating, on Tuesday and Friday. You still get to eat every because your body is still processing all the single day, but it works like this: If you’re going food that you just ate. Because your levels stay to do a 24-hour fast on Tuesday, you would put up after you’ve finished eating, it means you’re still in energy storage mode, even when you are no longer eating.

Until you burn through the glycogen storage in your liver and muscles and work through the glucose in your blood, you really can’t access the energy that’s been stored in body fat.

After a while your insulin level finally comes back down, and once the insulin is out of your bloodstream that’s when glucagon comes in. Glucagon serves the opposite purpose of Finding an eating plan that works best can help one utilize one’s body insulin: It tells your body chemistry for maximum health and energy. to bring energy out of Photo Credit: dimj via Adobe Stock storage. That’s when your fork down at 8 p.m. on Monday night and you finally start using body fat. then pick it up again at 8 p.m. on Tuesday. Then So if you’re eating every three hours, it on Wednesday you would go back to eating means you keep pumping your insulin levels normally again. You would eat normally on up. And once they’re up, you can’t access Thursday, put your fork down at 8 p.m., and then the stored energy in your body fat. This is a on Friday you would pick your fork up at 8 p.m.. great way to gain mass. It’s a great way to add On Saturday, Sunday and Monday you would weight, but if your goal is to lose body fat this eat normally again, but remember you do not is not going to be effective. Another caveat for put the two fasting days back to back. people who are trying to get rid of body fat is Contrary to what the supplement and that if you eat small meals throughout the day, food companies tell you, you will not go into there is the chance that you will never feel starvation or famine mode within three hours satiated. You might binge and eat more calories of not eating. Honestly, they’re just trying to that you would have otherwise. sell you more food and supplements. I mean, What’s great about fasting is that it gives think about it: If we couldn’t go more than three your body a chance to come out of insulin hours without eating, we would never have mode. And that’s important! You want your body survived as a species. to shift gears. You want it to have a rest from all So to sum it all up: that insulin, because you don’t want to develop 1. Y ou’re either feeding or fasting. insulin resistance. Over the course of time this 2. E ven after you’re done eating, your insulin can lead to problems like diabetes. It is good levels stay up, and you stay in energy storage for you to fast. It allows you to burn through all mode. the sugar in your system and to start accessing 3. Y ou cannot access body fat until insulin is out body fat. You don’t want to fast too hard or too of your system and glucagon comes in. That often, because you can lose muscle mass. takes time after you’re done eating.

Intermittent fasting is not a diet. It’s an eat4. E ating every three hours is a great way to ing schedule. The two most common types of add weight. It’s a great way to build muscle. intermittent fasting are called 8:16 and 5:2. My It’s not an effective way to burn body fat. personal preference is for 8:16. This means that 5. W hichever pattern you choose, it should be for eight hours a day I consume all the calories aligned to your goals.

I need in that narrow window.

To learn more, check out my YouTube video This is something to remember: You’re at youtu.be/rd09gq32PtQ. not restricting calories, you’re restricting the info: Jack Kirven completed the MFA in timeframe within which you eat all of them. You Dance at UCLA, and earned certification as a can set this up to fit your schedule any way personal trainer through NASM. His wellness you want. I personally like to start eating at philosophy is founded upon integrated lifestyles noon and stop eating at 8pm. This is important as opposed to isolated workouts. Visit him at to remember as well: If you’re eating all your jackkirven.com and INTEGRE8Twellness.com. calories, you won’t get hungry during the 16

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by Trinity :: qnotes contributor :: trinity@telltrinity.com

Is being single a time to develop yourself or does it just suck?

Dear Trinity, Why are some of us cursed with being forever single while everyone else gets to be in love or married? Doesn’t being single just suck?

Forever Single, St. Louis, MO Dear Forever Single, If you look really closely at people in love, you’ll notice plenty of troubled moments hidden in between public displays of bliss. Being in a relationship truly is not any easier than being without that special someone to hug and kiss and, and…forget what I just said! Single sucks!

Sucks! Sucks! Sucks! But, honey, being single does give you lots of time to develop yourself.

Remember the grass is always greener, so take this time of being single to work on your dreams and yourself because when love comes a-knockin’, the alone time you once dreaded eventually becomes your best friend!

Hello Trinity, Every time I go on a date something goes wrong. I say the wrong thing or can’t stop acting nervous. I don’t need to be perfect, but how can I be a better date?

Better Date, Orlando, FL Hello Better Date, In dating as in life, “Everything that can go

wrong will!” But eventually as we gain experience, we also learn to make “better” out of “worse.” During tough times, keep your head up high, think “outside the box,” think making fun of your mistakes, think being fabulous versus being frustrated and lastly, baby, think solution versus problem. (Check out how incredibly I make lemonade out of lemons and turn even the worst day into something fabulous when you check out my cartoon.)

Hi Trinity, Next month I’m going to do drag for the first time. I don’t know how to dress, how to do makeup and, especially, how to act like a woman. Any advice?

First Timer, Atlanta, GA Hi First Timer, Condragulations! Now, let’s start by having your face done up at MAC (average 40 bucks) or by purchasing the essential 6: lipstick, blush, shadow, liquid eyeliner, Covermark foundation and powder. Remember, Covergirl does not cover boys! For the feet, think Payless Shoes and add 1+1/2 to your size. Legs — think two layers of nylons, first opaque to cover the hair and the other tan, or buy Capezio tights.

Outfits — think long sleeves to cover those manly arms and think black. It goes everywhere

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like rhinestones! As for appearances, men appear tough, fast and dominant; women appear gentle, patient and calm. Women wave with their fingers and toss their hair back, men use their whole hand and rarely play with their hair in public. Lastly, for your drag name: first name is first dog, last name is mother’s maiden name. And, sweetie, don’t forget, a drag queen always sports false lashes, a wig, Lee press on nails and heels. Otherwise you’re just a man in a dress.

Dearest Trinity, I’m thinking of coming out to my family.

Before I do, have you got any comforting words of wisdom?

Coming Out, Sacramento, CA Dearest Coming Out, Welcome back, Dorothy! Coming out usually is a shocker at first, but years later they always say, “I never had a problem with it.” So, pumpkin, prepare yourself with: Trinity’s Comfortable Tips For Coming Out 1. Set up a support system for yourself before you say the “holy words!”

2. Leave yourself a little financial independence before you tell them, just in case.

3. Leave a few hints prior to the big surprise.

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4. B e understanding towards their new situation! Time heals everything.

5. M ake sure no one is standing near a cliff

when you tell them.

6. First, tell them you have cancer then say, “Just kidding! I’m only gay!”

7. G et them to start watching “Will and Grace” in the fall.

8. Get them to visit gay places, events or gay spiritual groups.

9. Feel pride in knowing that it only gets better…after it gets worse!

10. And, lastly, hold your ground (or go dancing)! info: With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama performed globally, and is now minister of sponsor, WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings, wigministries.org. Learn more at telltrinity.com.

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August-September 2017 Continues through Aug. 14 Fayetteville Black Pride’s Gravity Weekend Various locations & times, Fayetteville Fayetteville’s Black Pride Gravity Weekend will feature several days of fun for the community. On Aug. 11 there will be a “Toxic” kick-off party, at Radium Nightclub, 984 Old McPherson Church Rd., at 9 p.m., featuring music by Vjuan Allure. Cost is $10 before midnight and $15 afterward.

The follow day, Radium Nightclub hosts “Rise,” the Main Event hosted by Case King and music by Sedrick Drayton, at 9 p.m. Cost is $15 before midnight and $20 afterward. On Aug. 13, at 2 p.m., there will be a free picnic and closing out event, at Rowan Park, 725 W. Rowan St. More information is available online. facebook.com/events/1628664997462779.

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Continues through Aug. 20 SEP AUG MO South Carolina Black Pride Various locations & times, Columbia The 12th Annual South Carolina Black Pride, “My Pride Is…” will take place across several days and locations and includes a kick-off event of bowling, a Community Forum, “Health Disparities in the LGBT Community,” a Welcome Reception, a Cultural Arts & Wellness Festival and a Unity Picnic More information is available online. southcarolinablackpride.com.

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OUTRight’s Amazing Race SEP AUG MO OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley 748 4th St. S.W., Hickory 9 a.m.

OUTright Youth of Catawba Valley presents its first annual OUTRight’s Amazing Race. The race will send teams of two to four all over the Greater Hickory metro area. Cost to participate is $25 for teams of 2-4 players. A $400 first-place prize will be awarded.

Following the main event, OUTright will host a family-friendly community afterparty with music, food trucks, breweries and wineries. Admission is free. More information is available online. outrightyouthcv.org.

You can submit your event to our comprehensive community calendar presented by qnotes, the Charlotte LGBT Chamber of Commerce and Visit Gay Charlotte. Submit your event at goqnotes.com/eventsubmit/ and get a threefor-one entry. All Charlotte-area events will appear on each of the three calendars at qnotes (goqnotes.com), Charlotte LGBT Chamber of Commerce (clgbtcc.org) and Visit Gay Charlotte (visitgaycharlotte.com).

OUT to the Polls: Annual LGBTQ Community Candidate Forum Charlotte Marriot City Center 100 W. Trade St., Charlotte

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MeckPAC and Charlotte Pride present the annual LGBTQ Community Candidate forum. This is a chance to hear from Charlotte mayoral candidates, and at-large candidates for Charlotte City Council. The event will also include a pre-event and post-event mixer. More information is available online. facebook.com/events/778466728987476.

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Time Out Youth Grand Opening Time Out Youth Center 3800 Monroe Rd., Charlotte 2-5 p.m.

Celebrate the opening of Time Out Youth’s new home with the staff and board of directors of the organization dedicated to making life better for LGBTQ young adults. The grand opening ceremony will take place at 2 p.m., followed by an open house, with refreshments on hand, until 5 p.m. More information is available online. timeoutyouth.org.

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Community Discussion: SEP AUG MO LGBTQ Homelessness Resources in Charlotte McColl Center for Art + Innovation 721 N. Tryon St., Charlotte 6:30-8:30 p.m.

Transgender group Genderlines will partner with local organizations for a panel discussion and Q&A on LGBTQ homeless resources in Charlotte.

Those in attendance will learn what resources are available and how to access them. Those with questions or concerns are asked to email paige.dula@genderlines.org.

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Orgullo Latino Party Bar Argon 4544 South Blvd. Suite H, Charlotte 9 p.m.-2 a.m.

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Continues on Aug. 27 Charlotte Pride Uptown Charlotte Times vary Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade returns to the streets of Uptown Charlotte, with a host of vendors, activities and entertainment for all ages.

The festival will take place on Aug. 26 and 27, on S. Tryon St., from noon to 10 p.m. on Saturday and noon to 6 p.m. on Sunday. The parade will be held on Aug. 27, from 1-3 p.m. on N. Tryon St. More information is available online. charlottepride.org.

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Charlotte Latin Pride is celebrating at Bar Argon, with a night of community and revelry. Enjoy dancing, drink specials, and videos and music provided by DVJ Flakko. Proceeds benefit Charlotte Latin Pride. charlottepride.org/latin.

–––––––––––––––––––– The Gays of Sunshine Comedy Hour The Evening Muse 3227 N. Davidson St., Charlotte 7-9:30 p.m.

Celebrate Charlotte Pride Week with a night of laughs at The Evening Muse.

The show features Charlotte’s Mimi Benfield, Atlanta’s Kia Comedy, and Columbia’s Jenn Snyder. Tickets are $10 and can be purchased online. eveningmuse.com.

Catawba Valley Pride SEP SEP MO The SALT Block Foundation 243 3rd Ave. N.E., Hickory 11 a.m.-3 p.m.

Catawba Valley Pride returns. Food, fun and community will be shared in this free, kid-friendly event.

It will also feature what the organization terms the “world’s shortest Pride parade.” Vendor and non-profit applications are being accepted for the event at bit.ly/2tALPJo. Vendor cost is $50 and non-profit space can be secured at $25.

More information is available online. catawbavalleypride.org.

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Q&A with Syeem Sanders Teen leader becomes Time Out Youth board member

by Maria Dominguez :: qnotes staff most to me are Ms. Dutton, Mr. Impton, and Señor Duckery, because they have encouraged me to go beyond our school’s boundaries and create change on a higher level. They’ve helped begin the process of change in our school through our GSA and much more.

Do you have specific goals or aspirations for the future?

In the near future, I aspire to major in therapeutic recreation so I may continue and complete my goal of providing assistance for people in need of all ages, not as a career, but as a person with a heart of kindness and patience.

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eing an LGBTQ teen isn’t always easy; in fact, it usually isn’t. But for students like Syeem Sanders, 17, with the ingenuity and ambition it takes to achieve, the resources are out there for the taking. Sanders was an ordinary high school student last year, a pansexual member of Vance High School’s Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA). The Vance GSA enabled him to connect with Time Out Youth Center (TOY), a local non-profit focused on helping LGBTQ young people.

After over a year of involvement with TOY, Sanders was recently selected to sit on the organization’s Youth Board of Directors. He says he plans to use the new position “to help build a bridge between youth and adults,” enabling established advocates to better understand the trials faced by LGBTQ young people. Now a senior in high school, Sanders aspires to continue a life of service, compassion and advocacy for others.

What do you hope to contribute with your involvement in Time Out Youth?

Alongside with Time Out Youth, I hope to contribute not only a safe center for those in need, but to provide empathy to those on a personal level who may have fallen from bullying and torment.

Aside from LGBTQ issues, are there other causes or issues that are important to you?

Aside from LGBTQ+ issues, I feel that People of Color and Feminism need to become more of a vital focus point as they are becoming more attacked, and not respected as much as they truly need to be.

Picture your “happy place.” What do you see?

My definition of a Happy Place is honestly just a space where people may come to an agreement to set aside their differences and instead bring joy along with love to the table.

Who or what has been your biggest motivator or inspiration? How so?

My biggest motivator in life has been my grandfather. He’s always told me to strive above and beyond. I remember back when I was younger, I saw him in a newspaper article and always wanted to achieve the same thing as he did. Now, that dream has become a reality. : :

How would you describe the atmosphere of your school or past schools in terms of how they feel for LGBTQ youth?

Most of the schools that I have either visited or attended mainly had a negative or antipathetic atmosphere around any form/topic of the LGBTQ+ community. Though, programs such as Teach For America and Prism have helped teachers understand the situations and aid students who have been discouraged to change the school’s environment.

Of the teachers you’ve had, who stood out to you and why?

At Vance, the teachers who stood out the

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