Transgender, gender expansive and intersex youth: Know that you are valid and loved

BY KIRSTEN CARON

Dear Utah transgender, gender expansive and intersex youth,

You are valid. You are loved. You deserve so much better than what some politicians are trying to inflict upon you right now. They talk about you like you are inanimate objects. They question the validity of your existence. They are wrong. It really isn’t fair that you have to worry about whether or not you can access the medications you need or whether you will be able to participate in sports. You have been through more than enough already! Whatever feelings of fear and worry you may be experiencing right now are valid. But please remember their behavior/legislation proposals are a reflection on them-not you.

Now, I know you’re strong. Stronger than many people realize. You are definitely stronger than privileged politicians -- but you don’t have to be strong on your own. You have an army of parents, family members, friends, scientists, doctors, and psychologists here to support you. You are not alone.

There is nothing wrong with you. You know who you are-whether you are 5, 8, or 15. You don’t need to be fixed or changed. Your identity is not a disorder or a problem. You are not a problem. You are amazing! We are here to help with any gender dysphoria you may be experiencing and to educate those who are less knowledgeable or altogether misinformed. We are here to protect and support you from adults who think they know better, but don’t. We are your allies. We are your army, and we will never stop fighting for you.

We love you!KIRSTEN CARON, Cottonwood Heights