RAGMAG In The Zone | November 2014 | issue #47

MAGAZINE NOVEMBER 2014

IN THE

ZONE

WITH

DEALING WITH

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN

MAYA

NASSAR

DOS + DON’TS

LEBANON

SHOULD I STAY

OR SHOULD I GO

TEACH YOU CHILD

TO DEAL WITH

ANGER

REVIVING

HERITAGE AND

LIVELIHOODS FROM SHOOTING WAR

TO FASHION

+WITHGLAMOUR ROGER MOUKARZEL NOVEMBER 2014

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MAGAZINE

CONTRIBUTORS PUBLISHER Gina Gabriel El-Fady GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Amal Sabsaby Selected images Shutterstock

STYLIST Jony Matta PUBLIC RELATIONS COORDINATOR Lea El-Alam MARKETING LEAD Daniella Tayar

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EMPEROR’S NEW CLOTHES COPYCAT

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MAYA NASSAR

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE GUIFT GUIDE

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WHAT COLOR ARE YOU?

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GO BOLD WITH YOUR ANIMAL PRINTS

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CULTURE CLASH ROGER MOUKARZEL

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ARABIZI

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REVIVING HERITAGE AND LIVELIHOODS

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A COUNTRY-WIDE PERSONAL AFFAIR

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BEARDS ARE THE NEW BLACK

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TEACH YOUR CHILD TO DEAL WITH ANGER

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MIND, BODY + SOUL DO-IT-YOURSELF

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AYURVEDIC SPA

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HOW TO STOP FEELING INFERIOR

REAL LIFE RUNWAY

IN THE ZONE WITH RAGMAG’S FASHION SHOOT RAGMAG’S IDEAS FOR THE PERFECT GIFT

GET TO KNOW THE RIGHT SEASON FOR YOU HOW TO WEAR IT

FROM SHOOTING WAR TO FASHION GLAMOUR IS IT THE NEW ARABIC? SIGNATURE LOOKS TO SWIPE HAYDA LEBNEN

WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT IT!

PASS ON THE IMPORTANT TOOLS

FACE PEELS YOUR SKIN WILL LOVE TAKE YOUR BODY ON A TRIP TO KERALA, INDIA BOOST YOURSELF UP FROM WITHIN

100 HELP ME WITH MY RAGGED PROBLEMS ADVICE

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YOU + YOUR COUNTRY SHOULD I STAY, OR SHOULD I GO

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FINAL FRONTIER TECHNOLOGY

LEBANON’S FIRST INSTINCT IS TO FLEE

THE LATEST IN FASHION STATEMENTS

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MIRROR MIRROR MAC

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EISENBERG’S MEN SKIN CARE

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DOLCE & GABBANA

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REVLON

103 104 105

SEE, SPEAK + HEAR NO EVIL READ’EM BOOKS SOUNDCHECK MUSIC WATCH OUT FILM

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EAT, DRINK + BE MERRY EXPAND YOUR PANTRY

A NEW NOVEL ROMANCE EXCLUSIVELY AT PARIS GALLERY UAE PERFECT MONO

THE ULTIMATE BLACK, BOLD DEFINITION

RECIPES

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MOTTO

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OUT + ABOUT MADNESS IN BEIRUT

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TAKE ME WITH YOU TRAVELLING TO ARACHOVA

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MON AMOUR, MON AMI SEX + LOVE

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DOS + DONT’S

A NEW APPROACH TO DINING OUT

THINGS TO DO THIS MONTH

TRAVEL

THE ANSWER WHEN YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED DEALING WITH EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN

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PUBLISHER’S LETTER

The November issue of RAGMAG is all about being in the Zone with Maya Nassar. Following our conversation with Maya, we feel that it is never too late to get yourself back. I say ‘yourself ’ rather that ‘physique’, cause there is no definition to what makes you the perfect person - as long as you understand that it is never too late. Thank you Maya for your insights and good luck in all future ventures.

We would also like to thank photographer Carine Badr, for our month of November shoot. She has managed to keep us in the Zone this month with her out of the box ideas and amazing work.

Check out our RAGMAG’s ultimate gift guide, if it made it into our list the chances are that it’s a definite must have, and wanted. We’ve done the hard work to search for that perfect gift, all you have to do now is go and get it!

We aim to bring you the best of ourselves on a monthly basis, and we would love to hear from you. Please write to us with your thoughts. We look forward to hearing from you for your inputs. Keep writing to publisher@ragmaglive.com and talk to me on twitter@GinaGabriel1.

Gina Gabriel El-Fady | Publisher

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MAYA NASSAR IN THE ZONE Maya Nassar speaks to RAGMAG on her rewarding fitness journey from the girl next door to becoming a bikini model. With this comes the realisation of a life-long dream and the price paid to achieve it.

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IN THE ZONE WITH MAYA NASSAR

HOW AND WHY YOU GOT STARTED ON A HEALTH JOURNEY? Around 4 years ago, I gained a lot of weight and no longer fit into my jeans. I had been feeling quite insecure about my weight for several months and had a turning point when none of my old clothes fit me. I realized I am responsible for my own lifestyle and did not want to live a life where I feel insecure or self-conscious.

I started researching fitness and nutrition to see what was necessary to turn my life around. I was extremely naïve and had no clue where to start.

After extensive reading about what to eat and how to train, I started going to the gym and following a clean diet. Almost immediately I started seeing results on a weekly basis. I discovered that although it is hard, there is nothing more rewarding than health and a fit body. I lost a total of 15 kgs and 5 dress sizes.

I WAS EXTREMELY NAÏVE AND HAD NO CLUE WHERE TO START. AFTER EXTENSIVE READING ABOUT WHAT TO EAT AND HOW TO TRAIN, I STARTED GOING TO THE GYM AND FOLLOWING A CLEAN DIET

WHAT DID YOU IMAGINE THE OUTCOME WOULD BE? My goal at that point was to lose weight and fit back into my clothes.

However, I reached my goal and ended up becoming even leaner than before I had gained weight.

DID YOU THINK THAT YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN TO WHERE YOU ARE? HOW DIFFICULT HAS THE JOURNEY BEEN FOR YOU? I never would have imagined that I would have started competing in bikini fitness competitions abroad. I was too insecure to walk around on the beach without a towel, so the thought of doing it on stage in a bikini would have terrified me. It has been really difficult and required a lot of hard work and endless sacrifice, but it has been worth every second of pain.

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WHAT WAS YOUR MOTIVATION TO GO INTO BIKINI COMPETITIONS? HOW DID YOUR FAMILY TAKE TO IT? WHAT DO YOU ADVISE OUR READERS THAT WOULD LIKE TO FOLLOW IN YOUR FOOTSTEPS? Once I had reached my fitness goal of losing weight and reaching a certain size, I wanted to take things to the next level. My dream was to step on stage in a bikini and compete with top fitness models. Training for a competition requires you to push to your limits both mentally and physically with extreme discipline to get to where you want to be. It changes you as a person and teaches you discipline, making you a stronger and more confident person.

My family has been incredibly supportive towards my competitions.

They motivate me and make me feel proud about the sport I participate in. One of my greatest supporters is my husband. After my first show, I was so exhausted and said I don’t think I want to do this again. He encouraged me and said I should definitely step up on stage one more time. I took his words to heart and ended up winning first place in my second competition.

If your readers would like to follow in my footsteps, I would advise them first to be in good shape and be at their ideal weight. The next step is to decide on a specific category in a bodybuilding show as there are lots of different ones. The category I compete in is called bikini. The final step is to apply to bodybuilding shows abroad and find a good coach to set them up with a training and nutritional program. Training for a bodybuilding contest is quite different than just training to lose weight and would require professional guidance if they are not sure what to do.

YOU RECENTLY WON THE UK CHAMPIONSHIPS. WHAT STYLE OF ROUTINE DID YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW AND FOR HOW LONG? Winning first place was a real accomplishment especially that I was competing against some really beautiful women. I trained for around 3 months following a rigid diet and exercise program. I lifted heavy weights around 5 times a week and did up to an hour of cardio about 6 days a week. This period is quite challenging and requires you to follow your diet to the letter and stop drinking alcohol. Your diet starts off easy to follow but then gets more and more difficult as the months pass by and you start to get closer to the competition date.

I was especially pleased to receive an endorsement from the Minister of Youth and Sports to represent Lebanon which helped me gain media attention and raise awareness about female bodybuilders. Many people believe that women who lift weights will become bulky and look like men and my goal is to change these misconceptions.

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WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST ACCOMPLISHMENT SO FAR? Other than winning first place, I would say my greatest accomplishment is helping other people and showing them that they too can achieve their fitness goals if they put their mind to it. I’ve been really pleased to receive many positive emails from visitors to my website telling me that I’ve changed their life or helped them take on a healthier lifestyle.

Many people don’t believe in themselves and feel like it is just too difficult and I love using my story as an example to prove them wrong.

I’m just a normal person like anyone else with average genes. If I can go from insecure to competing on stage against top fitness models, then there is nothing holding anyone else back, regardless of their age, weight or current fitness level. Helping other people gives me a sense of achievement and happiness to know that I have made a difference in their lives.

WHAT IS HEALTH AND FITNESS TO YOU? Health and fitness has become something I live for. I see fitness as my passion in life and something that has changed me for the better. It has made me a happier, more confident and a stronger person. I have experienced a whole other lifestyle of being sedentary and unfit and know just how rewarding it is to take care of yourself.

Fitness and health is the one thing that must be earned and cannot be handed down to you. I always tell people if you are not going to take care of yourself for the way you look or feel, do it for your health in the long-term. I’m sure everyone wants to live until they are old and grey and watch their grandchildren grow up.

I HAVE EXPERIENCED A WHOLE OTHER LIFESTYLE OF BEING SEDENTARY AND UNFIT AND KNOW JUST HOW REWARDING IT IS TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.

TELL US ABOUT ‘START LIVING RIGHT’. WHAT WAS THE PURPOSE BEHIND IT? Start Living Right is an online website which I created to combine my passion of writing with my passion of fitness. I wanted to start something that would help others achieve their fitness goals and share my story to inspire them. My site currently receives around 8,000 visitors a month.

I realized that there are many people like my old self who do not know where to start or what to do in order to live a healthy lifestyle. I see my website as a place where anyone who doesn’t know anything about fitness can go and receive real, solid advice and educate themselves. My website is extremely honest; for example, I will never tell anyone that they can achieve their goals without putting in hard work or effort.

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YOU RECENTLY LAUNCHED THE FIRST EVER FITNESS APPLICATION IN LEBANON. TELL US MORE ABOUT IT? I just released a mobile version of my website called Start Living Right and yes, it is the first fitness app in Lebanon! It is a free application and offers many useful tools to help people achieve their fitness goals. It includes all of the articles, quizzes and blog posts from my website along with nutritional calculators and fat loss calculators. People can simply search “Start Living Right” on their smart phone store and download it instantly. I see it as a handy application to provide useful information to people on the go. My goal is to expand on this and keep on adding useful features.

PEOPLE CAN SIMPLY SEARCH “START LIVING RIGHT” ON THEIR SMART PHONE STORE AND DOWNLOAD IT INSTANTLY

DO YOU THINK THE AVERAGE LEBANESE IS AWARE OF THE IMPORTANCE OF A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE? OR IS THERE A LACK OF EDUCATION? I do believe Lebanon can be better informed about the importance of a healthy diet and regular exercise. I receive a lot of emails from people in Lebanon and the Middle East who are incredibly uninformed. There are a lot of misconceptions which still exist and it is sad to see some health professionals prescribing dangerous advice. People believe scams such as promoting low calorie diets, cutting out major food groups or even the belief that weightlifting is bad for your health. Many Lebanese people take unregulated diet pills or fat burners that can be incredibly unsafe and life threatening. My goal is to correct these misconceptions and teach people the safe and healthy way to go about losing weight.

LOOKING THROUGH YOUR APP, WE SEE THAT YOU PROMOTE A HEALTHY LIFE WITH A HEALTHIER LOOK, MUSCLE TONE AND DEFINITION RATHER THAT THE TYPICAL FRAGILE SIZE 0 LOOK. WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE LEBANON THAT STILL PROMOTES SKINNY AND AS THE WAY TO LOOK? Unfortunately there is a belief in Lebanon that “skinny” is healthy. Many young girls email me and tell me that their ultimate goal is to become thin. They tell me they have been starving themselves and can’t figure out why they haven’t lost weight yet. My response is always that being skinny does not necessarily mean you are healthy.

Instead of obsessing over becoming thin, I believe a woman’s goal should be to become healthy, fit and strong. If women obsess over becoming thin, they might become incredibly frustrated and resort to extreme measures, such as starving, to get to where they want to be.

Many women genetically will never have a “thin” look which is why they can end up feeling frustrated. Setting a goal to become healthy is far more achievable and rewarding. One of my favorite quotes is “skinny isn’t sexy, but health is.”

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WHAT DO YOU ADVISE THE READER THAT DOESN’T KNOW WHERE TO START? I believe there are four ingredients towards transforming your body. The first is motivation. This involves really believing in yourself and being mentally prepared to put in the hard work that is necessary to build the body you want. The second is nutrition. A good diet makes up around 80% of your results. People should focus on eating a combination of whole-grains, healthy fats and lean protein while paying attention to overall calorie intake. The third and fourth ingredients include weightlifting and some cardio. Weightlifting helps with fat loss and will build up your metabolism. Cardio boosts your endurance and burns fat.

Finally, the hardest thing is getting started and making your lifestyle a habit. I always tell people that fitness is a mental challenge, not a physical one. Someone just needs to work hard for approximately 3 to 4 weeks before it becomes much easier. It is all about getting started, believing in yourself and pushing forward for long enough to see results.

WHAT IS NEXT FOR MAYA NASSAR? I have a lot of future projects coming up! Along with working on my goal of opening my own fitness center, I will be making constant improvements to my website and phone application to keep on guiding other people who are struggling to achieve their fitness goals.

My next goal is to compete in another bikini fitness competition in April 2015 in the UK. I plan on pushing even harder than I did this year and presenting myself on stage in my best ever condition.

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IN THE ZONE WITH MAYA NASSAR

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE

GUIFT GUIDE There’s no need to panic when RAGMAG’s here to help you brainstorm ideas for that perfect gift. We’ve done the hard work, now all you need to do is make the choice for that special something that makes your loved one feel unique.

BOKJA DESIGN eyecandy

BOKJA DESIGN pillows

BOKJA DESIGN elephant

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE GUIFT GUIDE

TECH

COMME DES GARÇONS leather ipad case

MULBERRY

leather ipad sleeve.j

MOSCHINO

DESIGUAL

MARC BY MARC JACOBS

the gennario ipad case

snake-print iphone 5 cover

seduccio ipad case.

GIANVITO ROSSI

suede ankle boots

GIVENCHY

madonna-print iphone 5 case

FRENDS

layla leather and iridescent metal headphones

MARC BY MARC JACOBS

marc melts iridescent iphone 5 case

MOSCHINO

french fries iphone 5 case

MARC BY MARC JACOBS

cassette silicone iphone 5 case

MOSCHINO

vanity mirror iphone 5 case

MOSCHINO

drink moschino iphone 5 case

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MEN’S SHOES + BAGS ARMANI JEANS

weekend bag

LOEWE

amazona embossed leather holdall bag

TOMS

jacquard men’s classics

RAF SIMONS

pebble-grain leather derby shoes

TOMS BLACK

WANT LES ESSENTIELS DE LA VIE

synthetic leather men’s paseo-mids

O’HARE LEATHERTRIMMED CHECKED WOOL AND ORGANIC COTTON-CANVAS TOTE BAG

JUNYA WATANABE

seil marschall leathertrimmed quilted backpack

MOSCHINO sneakers

MAISON MARTIN MARGIELA

panelled leather and suede slip-on sneakers

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MASSIMO DUTTI

brown embossed leather messenger bag

MARK MCNAIRY

pebble-grain leather and tweed panelled brogues

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE GUIFT GUIDE

WOMEN’S SHOES + BAGS

BULGARI

sepenti forever bag

ZARA

ethnic shopper bag

ZARA

boot with rounded heel

ZARA

flat leather bootie with zip

ELIZABETH AND JAMES cynnie leather belt bag

LOVE MOSCHINO

large fabric bag

UGG® AUSTRALIA

classic sparkles boot.

LOVE MOSCHINO

high top sneaker

HUNTER

original tall gloss rain boot

CHARLES & KEITH

small satchel crossbody

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FINDS + F

embellished suede slip-on sneakers

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ZARA

HER

intarsia poncho cardiganiintarsia poncho cardigan

DINA KHALIFE

ADIDAS x RITA ORA

chasing the smoke scarf

sweater

ADIDAS x RITA ORA sweater

ZARA

high neck sweater

MAISON MICHEL

virginie wide-brim rabbit-felt hat

VALENTINO

gold-plated three-finger butterfly ring

THAKOON

bouclé-knit and printed silk sweater

HIM

ALEXANDER MCQUEEN

two-tone wool sweater

JEAN SHOP

BALENCIAGA

washed selvedge denim shirt

knitted wool and yak-blend sweater

BURBERRY

check embossed leather gloves

MARWOOD

zig-zag patterned wool and cottonblend scarf

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JAMES PERSE

J.CREW

loopback cotton-jersey zipped sweatshirt

slub-cotton henley t-shirt

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE GUIFT GUIDE

VICTORIA’S SECRET

GADGETS

bombshell

VICTORIA’S SECRET

VICTORIA’S SECRET

travel case

four-piece travel casea

ZARA HOME

glass and stone hourglass

OCCITANE

FOREO

candle

luna™ for sensitive/ normal skin - pink - uk 3-pin plug

VISIONAIRE

hermès limited edition travel pouch with postcards

GADGETS

THAMES & HUDSON

mid-century modern complete hardcover book

TOM DIXON

cast iron nutcracker

C.O.BIGELOW

cold and flu soak

LE LABO

santal 26 candle 2

FOUNDWELL

silver-plated engraved pin tray

ASSOULINE

the best vintages since 1900 by michel dovaz hardcover book

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JEWELERY

GUCCI

BOUCHERON

horsebit necklace with pendant

pendentif quatre ceramique

DODO

starfish

ROSANTICA

MANGO

penelope palladium and freshwater pearl headband

heart double necklace

TIFFANY & CO.

square bracelets

HOLLY DYMENT

DODO

labrador 18-karat gold, enamel and diamond necklace

give me 5 bracelet.

CHAN LUU

gold-plated pyrite earrings

MARNI

embellished leather and goldplated bracelet

GUCCI

ARME DE L’AMOUR

18k gold horsebit bracelet

rose gold-plated ear cuff

YVONNE LÉON

MICHAEL KORS

18-karat gold turquoise earring

rose gold-tone chronograph watch

STRADIVARIUS

ribbon and shell bracelet

SKAGEN

wrist watch

TIFFANY & CO. cuff links

TIFFANY & CO.

round cuff links

MICHAEL KORS wrist watch

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TIFFANY & CO.

chronograph watch

TIFFANY & CO. dome watch

ARMANI EXCHANGE wrist watch

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RAGMAG’S ULTIMATE GUIFT GUIDE

PJs + PRODUCTS OYSHO

OYSHO

heart print pajama

mr. wonderful fluffy pajama

OYSHO

SLIPPERS

OYSHO

combined structured slippers

OYSHO

OYSHO

mr wonderful slippers

mr. wonderful fluffy socks in a box

THE BODY SHOP

colour crush™ nail polish

VICTORIA’S SECRET

THE BODY SHOP

the sleepover knit pajama

holiday brush roll

THIS WORKS

deep sleep bath oil, 100ml

OCCITANE

LUSH

arlesienne

right eye mascara

LUSH

fantasy eye shadow

LUSH

emotional brilliance products

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CULTURE CLASH

FROM SHOOTING WAR TO FASHION AND GLAMOUR

BY KAYLYN HLAVATY

Sitting in Roger Moukarzel’s production studio in Karantina, one can see the diversity in his subjects and his creative approach for displaying his latest exhibit just by looking at the art, photographs and decorations that tell a visual story of his career. Born in 1962 in a conflicted country and as someone who grew up during the middle of the Lebanese war, Moukarzel used his early love of photography to document the unfolding events in his native country. “I was living in a place where there was always an ambience of war and destruction around me. I borrowed my brother’s camera and started taking photos on my own,” said Moukarzel.

He adds, “I always had an interest in photography.”

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Since the age of 15, Moukarzel hasn’t put the camera down and maintains his energy to create something new and impactful. He remembers photographing an event and being recognized by magazines for his coverage. He started working for Sygma and then became the East Beirut Bureau chief for Reuters.

As someone who was young and new to the world of photojournalism, Moukarzel said it was a struggle to capture what he saw while also keeping his emotions in check with every shot. Every day in the field was a constant game between his emotions and getting the shot that captured what he saw, heard and smelled.

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“I didn’t stop being emotional during the war.

This was my strength. On the day I wasn’t emotional; I would leave and put down my camera,” states Moukarzel. The war rids you of your senses to a certain extreme where you become a warrior and not a photographer. I was very careful not to cross this line.”

For some, transitioning from days on the battlefield to days on set surrounded with models and beauty seems like two different worlds to an outsider. By the time the 80’s rolled around, Moukarzel said he was fed up, so he quit his time on the battlefield and headed west to Paris.

“During the war, you run a lot, you see things, but you don’t have the time to stop and dig deeper under the surface. With the war, you go with the flow and you’re quick as a bullet,” said Moukarzel.

DURING THE WAR, YOU RUN A LOT, YOU SEE THINGS, BUT YOU DON’T HAVE THE TIME TO STOP AND DIG DEEPER UNDER THE SURFACE.

He says the shift was ‘a natural one’. He traded scenes of violence for scenes of glamour and fashion. He shifted from skimming the surface of his subjects to peeling away the first layer and revealing something underneath the glamour and societal labels.

Roger said he never lost spontaneity in fashion photography. Those in the industry liked his vision in photography and fashion. He interjects saying, “I was never a mellow fashion photographer.”

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HE NEVER LOST SPONTANEITY IN FASHION PHOTOGRAPHY When he was shooting the war, he would do fashion style framing and posing with his subjects like the militia or kids. He brought his strengths of shooting war into his fashion and life style work.

Although his focus is on fashion shooting, he doesn’t call himself a fashion photographer.

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CULTURE CLASH The content of Roger’s exhibition causes questions to be asked and stereotypes to be challenged. The way he display’s his photography is just as important to him as the photos.

“I don’t classify myself as a photographer anymore. I classify myself as a designer. It is a combination of filming, photographing and exhibiting. My exhibitions are not normal or simple. They’re an event.” explained Roger.

From displaying his collection, “The Voile” at Saint Joseph University to his “Turning Disability into Ability” exhibition at Place de l’Etoile in Beirut, Roger communicates his exhibitions in a creative way so that each space compliments his photography.

As a photographer who has trekked all over the world for the next best pictures and inspiration, Roger maintains Beirut as his home base and center where all creative things flourish.

“Simply, this is where I get inspired. I love Beirut,” says Roger. When asked what keeps him doing what he’s doing. He answers, “This is the way I express myself. I can’t live without doing this.”

THIS IS THE WAY I EXPRESS MYSELF. I CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT DOING THIS “I’m not a fashion victim. I’m a fashion thinker and a fashion believer.” Roger said.

While making the switch away from fashion photography, Roger never stopped from working on his photography documentaries and sharing them with the public. He found exploring society’s stereotypes through images and challenging the status quo as at the forefront of his work.

I’M NOT A FASHION VICTIM. I’M A FASHION THINKER AND A FASHION BELIEVER His personal work has been showcased in more than 15 different exhibitions worldwide.

Some of his work that is the most influential were the three dimensional looks at different aspects of Lebanon’s history and culture.

After September 11th, 2001, Roger did an exhibition that showed six veiled Lebanese women from six different religions and how the veil isn’t limited to just Muslims. It brought this symbol of world division to light. Also, another exhibition that brought a long history of rivalry to light was his photography documentary of Maronite Christians and Druze photographed in similar circumstances to show how each sect is not too different from the next when religion isn’t the focus.

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ARABIC

BY HANA ALAYAN

It is a disturbing fact that many Lebanese families have embraced foreign languages at the expense of their mother tongue. Conversations have long been sprinkled with French and English, but now Arabic is really falling behind. Many fear the new generation is losing its connection to their native language, which is becoming inferior to other languages.

Parents usually pride themselves on their children’s fluency in English or French. It became a matter of prestige and modernity. On their defense, they claim that teaching kids a foreign language is a must to secure a good education, thus, a bright future in a more globalized world, noting that all excellent schools are based on French- or Americancurriculums, where Arabic comes second, or even third.

IT IS A DISTURBING FACT THAT MANY LEBANESE FAMILIES HAVE EMBRACED FOREIGN LANGUAGES AT THE EXPENSE OF THEIR MOTHER TONGUE Children and youths in primary and secondary schools exclusively speak English or French, not only in classes but even at home. An increasing number of our youngsters are incapable of forming a sentence, reciting the Arabic alphabets, or writing correctly in Arabic. Students are entering college without the necessary tools to handle the country’s official language.

Technology has made things worse. Nowadays, it is very common to see youths, particularly when using social media and text messages, communicating in English or writing Arabic in Latin characters.

“At my school it’s cooler to speak English. Arabic is looked down upon” says Jana, “it’s not that I don’t like Arabic or I’m ashamed of it, but simply I’m not used to it. Nobody encouraged me to read or write in Arabic. It seems difficult”.

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What jana said intersects with Mrs. Lina Saad’s point of view. Saad, a preschool and day care director, explains “when a preschooler is admitted to our daycare, the parents demand we address them in English/French to enhance their dialect. We have to follow suit. They want their kids to be fluent in foreign languages so they can take advantage in school. Most private schools teach three languages now, but unfortunately, Arabic is not a priority”.

Saad admits “that is a totally wrong perception; kids will get affected later in higher education”. She herself had faced such problem.

Her daughter is an A student in all subjects, except for Arabic.

Tracing back the problem, lina Saad doesn’t deny that she should shoulder the responsibility, “I have never read to her or encouraged her to read books in Arabic when she was a child.

Every time we head to the library, we end up with a bunch of English books merely; this had a bearing on her academic performance.

SINCE, ARABS ARE NOT LIVING THEIR GOLDEN AGE, THEY TRY TO IMITATE THE MORE POWERFUL AND CULTURED NATIONS After all, we can’t blame schools for putting Arabic in the bottom of the educational pyramid”.

But, are there any solutions to make up for these mistakes? “Remedial courses in Arabic have become a renowned fixture, to my daughter and her colleagues. Clearly, they can’t write essays or elaborate on their thoughts in Arabic, that’s why it is important to persuade them gradually to read in our native language. Better late than never” she adds.

Other parents may choose an easier road: getting a foreign passport for their kids to get them dispensed from Arabic in official exams!

Dr. Eman Bikai, a novelist and a university lecturer who holds a PhD in Arabic and children’s literature, has a different approach. She considers that “since, Arabs are not living their golden age, they try to imitate the more powerful and cultured nations. Parents take pride in the fact that their children are fluent in English /French, and have lower grades in Arabic.

This encourages the child to focus on learning a foreign language in order to meet his parent’s aspirations”.

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Bikai, the author of several children’s books, also stresses the fact that “Arabic materials introduced in elementary grades have proven to be difficult and unpleasant, as a result the child will lose interest, he might find a resort in Western literature, which is presented in a much easier input by expert educators who know exactly how to attract the child to their language”.

“To face this problem, we have to open the door to more creative teaching methods. Parents must help too through introducing children’s books, stories, and Arabic magazines to their kids right from the beginning so that they grasp the language in its pure classical form and develop a love for it,” she concluded.

ONE SHOULD MASTER HIS OR HER OWN TONGUE It is to be noted that February 21 is International Mother Language Day, recognized by the United Nations as a day “to promote the preservation and protection of all languages used by peoples of the world. It is a day when all involved in multilingualism, whether personally or professionally, should stop and consider speaking only in their native language”. Everyone wants to learn English because it is the global language. However, our languages are part of our heritage and civilization. It is ideal that before a person can claim authority in another language, one should master his or her own tongue. It’s the parent’s responsibility to teach their children their native language first.

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REVIVING HERITAGE AND LIVELIHOODS

BY KAYLYN HLAVATY PHOTOS ELIE MOUSSA

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When French designer Benedicte de Vanssay de Blavous Moubarak moved with her husband Raja Moubarak and their children to the bustling metropolitan city of Beirut, Lebanon, she was immediately drawn to the charming style of traditional Levantine houses. These houses, scattered around the neighborhoods such as Ashrafieh and Gemmayze, were inspired by the former inhabitants of this city: French, Ottoman and Venetian architecture. As the years passed by with conflicts and the desire to build modern, taller buildings, these house are becoming fading memories of Beirut’s rich historical past.

“I am very sensitive to the beauty and saw the beautiful traditional Lebanese homes disappearing before my eyes. I could find in these houses a rich past, with diverse influences including that of my own country. It was seeing the heritage of the country disappear that was painful, especially when very little attention is paid to preservation efforts,” said Benedicte.

I COULD FIND IN THESE HOUSES A RICH PAST, WITH DIVERSE INFLUENCES INCLUDING THAT OF MY OWN COUNTRY It was the realization that these houses may soon become obsolete in the landscape of Beirut and greater Lebanon that motivated Benedicte decided to do something about it.

Benedicte along with her husband and friends began a hunt for the treasures. One homeowner’s or junk yard’s trash is another person’s treasure. In this case, the treasures were discarded wrought iron balustrades, railings and window frames. Benedicte shares the experience of when she went to search high and low for pieces of heritage across the country to every village, town, salvage yard and junk yard in Lebanon and Syria. In her broken Arabic, she would ask people if they had seen old pieces of architecture. It would take days, weeks and sometimes even months.

Before the war in Syria, Benedicte remembers vividly the trip she took with an American/French friend to Syria with the goal to salvage a disappearing heritage. At the end of the drive, they ended up in the middle of the country side in Aleppo. In the scorching heat, there was a forge of men working to melt down metal scraps.

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“I felt transported back hundreds of years ago as I imagined that the work methods had changed little since then. I remember the expression on their faces. They couldn’t understand who in their right mind would be interested in a piece of junk,” Benedicte explains After collecting a variety of salvaged materials, Benedicte and her husband maintained the desire to keep the architectural heritage of Lebanon alive. However, there were other issues in society that they wanted to address. One of the main concerns and one of the current missions behind their social enterprise is the lack of access to training and employment opportunities for the marginalized and disabled individuals. In 2006, Benedicte created 2b design, after Benedicte’s first name and her husband Raja’s last name. The name ‘Beyt’ means house/home in Hebrew/ Arabic.

The company’s mission is “to restore the unseen beauty of the broken”.

It goes beyond just restoring broken architectural pieces and spans to include repairing the broken livelihoods of the vulnerable and marginalized in Lebanon.

“Our model is built around the concept of beauty from brokenness. Many things have been broken in Lebanon; not just the heritage, but the environment, relationships and families. It was therefore only natural that our model be based on including people who are marginalized, disabled, broken in their dignity, body or circumstance,” explains Benedicte.

From creating a piece to putting the final touches on the products, Beyt by 2b design strives to include those who have limited employment opportunities either because of a physical or financial disability in all of the production processes. In the shop located in Jeitawi, there are two Lebanese women who are now considered the patina experts. This work includes the cleaning the iron, painting of the iron pieces and sewing lamp shades.

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CULTURE CLASH Among the patina workers at the atelier is Rania. At 32 years old, she was recruited by Benedicte to join the small team of patina workers.

Before getting married, she did a lot of odd jobs such as cashiering and being a security guard. She started to work at 2b design six years ago when her father who worked at Arc En Ciel introduced her to Benedicte. At the time, her husband had an accident and could no longer work. As the sole bread winner, Rania was left to financially take care of her family.

“I am grateful that Benedicte was kind enough to give me the opportunity to work for her. I didn’t really have any employment options. After about a year, I was capable of cleaning the iron and was able to mix and paint patinas,” said Rania. “I like the creative freedom that comes with the job.”

Across town, next to Souk Al Had, a group of skilled iron workers make the latest creations designed by Benedicte herself. 2b design partnered with the one of the largest NGO’s in Lebanon, Arc en Ciel, to create the iron designs. They produce wheelchairs and have the appropriate equipment to make such things. Arc en Ciel employs individuals with disabilities from all different socioeconomic and religious backgrounds.

Among the workers whose job is to just make the wheel chairs and walkers, is a small group of around five motivated men who are trained blacksmiths with the additional job to produce pieces for 2b design.

In the back of the shop, these men are hammering, cutting, constructing and welding various iron pieces with skilled hands and positive attitudes. From just a scratch at the surface, one can’t help but feeling the sense of camaraderie among the group.

48- year-old, Omar Fawal is the head blacksmith at Arc En Ciel. He uses his contagious energetic spirit to lift the morale of the other iron workers despite how he is feeling on a particular day. While giving a tour of the workspace, Omar shares a story of tragedy and strength. It was in 1984 during an intense battle and during a post switch that his life altered forever. Shrapnel from a bomb hit his spinal cord. He left the emergency room as a paraplegic in a wheel chair. He performed a variety of odd jobs with each a specific purpose, but it wasn’t until he came to Arc en Ciel ten years ago and started to produce pieces for Benedicte, that he felt he is in the right place.

ARC EN CIEL EMPLOYS INDIVIDUALS WITH DISABILITIES FROM ALL DIFFERENT SOCIOECONOMIC AND RELIGIOUS BACKGROUNDS “The work we are doing is meaningful because we are producing something that will improve the life of someone. When making wheelchairs, we know this is going to someone who is also in our situation. When we make 2b design products, we know that we are keeping the Lebanese heritage alive,” said Omar.

For the rest of the blacksmiths, each one brings a special skill, story, and vibe to the workplace. Michel is one of the blacksmiths who also had some bumps in the road along his journey before coming to Arc en Ciel. When he was just a couple months old, his father couldn’t wake him up, so his father threw ice cold water on him. Since then, Michel

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has had motor problems, most likely having a form of cerebral palsy.

Society labeled him as defective, but Michel wanted to earn a living like everyone else. He got a job as a goldsmith and a satellite installer, but the salary was low so he quit. It wasn’t until he found his way to the doors of Arc En Ciel that he felt at home and his skills and intelligence were valued over is appearance.

“I like Omar and the rest of the people I work with. It’s a family. We eat, drink, laugh and work together. I’m understood,” said Michel.

The business has several lines that they focus their work on: wrought iron line, wood line, tile and copper line, a cushion and lampshade line and the European line. 2b design’s sale success has been mostly from foreigners or by Lebanese who lived abroad.

Katia Boueri, who is the operations manager at the Beirut storefront, also mentions the lack of appreciation for the heritage pieces by the Lebanese.

2B DESIGN’S SALE SUCCESS HAS BEEN MOSTLY FROM FOREIGNERS OR BY LEBANESE WHO LIVED ABROAD “I think the Lebanese have other worries in their day to day life. If you tell them an 18th, 19th or 20th century house is being destroyed, they are going to respond by saying, ‘well I barely have electricity and water for my family,” explains Boueri. “So we understand.”

But beyond the financial definition of success and the small support in Lebanon, Benedicte believes there is success in providing the alternative business model of a social enterprise as a career path to the younger generation and surrounding communities.

While 2b design’s interest from the Lebanese is growing slowly, she says the 2b design is bridging the gap between communities in Lebanon and consumers abroad. Benedicte explains foreigners have misconceptions about the region and country, particularly when they learn the pieces they are admiring are from ‘war torn’ Lebanon.

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“We allow westerners, particularly Americans to appreciate the beauty of the Levant through our products and our story. Perceptions change, misconceptions evolve and prejudices start crumbling”, said Benedicte.

There is never a project or business that doesn’t come without its set of challenges. Benedicte says that that some of the challenges they face root from the nature of their business model. From the supply chain perspective, they have to visit different areas of the country in search of architectural salvage. Because of security concerns and regional tensions, some areas become inaccessible; this limits the ability to find raw materials.

Aside from the challenges of having a social enterprise business model in a country with little support from the government and initiatives to preserve the architectural heritage that encompasses the quaint streets of Beirut and villages, the impact that Beyt 2b design has made in the lives of individuals with disabilities and those from marginalized communities is where the real success lies.

“The stories of our team: Omar, Michel, Nada, Rania and others are conveyed to our customers through the work they do. Our workers are not faceless marginalized or disabled people who are perceived as being hostile that live in a far way land,” Benedicte stresses. “They’re human beings who have become world class artisans and who create unique pieces which will bring beauty to the homes of our customers.”

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PINK POWER PRIL EMPOWERS WOMEN WHILE RAISING BREAST CANCER AWARENESS Be heroic through the power of caring. Pril now gives you a very unique opportunity to do just that. When you stand by the hero behind Pril Multipower, you support a leading local cancer association in its fight to beat cancer. To promote and support the breast cancer awareness, Pril pays tribute to the superwomen dealing with breast cancer and presents them as a source of empowerment and inspiration for every women. It’s a super call to action to detect and defeat this common yet life-threatening illness.

Pril goes pink to make a difference to the lives of women with breast cancer. These women are real-life superheroes and deserve all the support they can get. To positively impact the lives of many, Pril has launched a full-on CSR initiative that sends a potent message: regular check-ups and testing (i.e. prevention) are key in fighting the battle against breast cancer. Alongside this meaningful message, Pril has also joined forces with a charity dedicated to assisting those with breast cancer. With every purchase of Pril MultiPower, members of the community will be donating much needed funds to this charity.

To be part of this ‘superpowered’ initiative, look for Pril’s pink limited edition MultiPower bottles with eye-catching comic book style superwomen on the label. Together we can change the world for the better by raising awareness, motivating women to opt for regular check-ups, and engaging everyone in raising essential financial support that can light up life with hope.

ADIDAS ORIGINALS BY NIGO Known to many as the man behind some of streetwear’s most seminal labels, few names hit as hard as NIGO. For two decades the Japanese style icon has carved out the landscape of youth culture with his unforgettable clothing and creations, and for Fall/Winter 2014 adidas Originals joins forces with the street pioneer for a special collaborative collection – adidas Originals by NIGO.

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True to his passion for classic and vintage clothing, NIGO has handpicked and re-interpreted pieces from the adidas Originals archives, blending a sportswear aesthetic with contemporary street style to create new street classics. The apparel collection features unforgettable adidas Originals pieces alongside staples of American sportswear such as coach and varsity jackets, whilst the footwear offers unique interpretations of iconic silhouettes such as the ZX 500 and Superstar 80.

With the rich and impassioned history of adidas Originals alongside NIGO’s own iconic legacy as a pioneer of clothing and culture, one thing is clear – it will be Original.

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SEX + LOVE

BY LEANNE ELAHMAD

Love is when you’re emotionally intimate with someone and Sex is when it’s just physical, right? Well that’s definitely the very basic definition of the two terms that we so often hear about. However, while the terms appear to be very different they proposes various questions such as; don’t we need to be somewhat emotionally involved with a person to be able to have sex with them? And let’s just say there is no emotional attachment before performing the act of sex, does it later create an emotional bond with that person, and eventually disguising the bond as love if the people involved continue to practice casual sex?

DON’T WE NEED TO BE SOMEWHAT EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED WITH A PERSON TO BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM? Now more than ever before we are increasingly being exposed to topics of sexual actions whether they be emotionally more intimate or just casually. Pop culture has immensely influenced this shift where sex is portrayed and discussed openly and freely, well at least in Western countries.

Think about it, you can’t watch a music video without it having some sort of sexual connotation, and these days even the lyrics are heavily based on the topic. It’s almost impossible to watch a movie without a sex scene, and some are even irrelevant to the story but it get’s people interested.

Sex tapes that have supposedly been “leaked” to the public have made people rich and famous like Kim Kardashian and many other celebrities, which has also influenced pop culture. However, all of these avenues would be limited without the encouragement and flow of such content on social media sites. And let’s not forget the rise of the dating sites, which is all about meeting people and discovering your ‘soul mate’, where people are often signing up for a casual fling.

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IF THINGS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SO CASUAL WHEN IT CAME TO SEX, THEY WERE DEFINITELY DOING IT BEHIND CLOSED DOORS Welcome to the digital age where all things are quick and accessible.

Do you sometimes think that it has always been like this, it’s just that social media has amplified everything? Well it’s one way to think of it, but people use to behave, talk, dress and eat more conservatively, so if things have always been so casual when it came to sex, they were definitely doing it behind closed doors.

In the Middle East, people are reluctant to discuss sex openly and in many Arabian countries it is still considered publically taboo, but what happens behind closed doors remains behind closed doors. In Lebanon we are seeing it more in our pop culture and people are gradually opening up to the discussion about sex. Young people and those in tuned with technology have played a huge part in this; especially since everything has gone digital and American pop culture is available to them at just the click of a button.

An article written by social researcher Zhana Vrangalova tilted ‘Strictly Casual’ states, “The heavy presence of casual sex in popular culture creates a sense of a pervasive new hookup culture unique to the current generation of young adults”.

In her article Zhana analyses the Journal of Sex Research, which suggests the possibility of a shift toward casual sex in the past 25 years.

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However it shows that people are more likely to have sex with a friend rather than an acquaintance. So more like a Friends-With-Benefits or No Strings Attached scenario.

So with the increased awareness and discussions about love and sex, comes the growing number of organisations and websites that aim to educate people further about these issues.

Iwannaknow.org is a website affiliated with the American Sexual Health Association, and it classifies love as an emotional state and sex in a more physical one. “Love is an emotion or a feeling. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event.”

While it seems natural to experience whatever it is we desire whether it be making love or having sex. Living in the Middle East does not give women the chance to explore or experience freely. Even if it is behind closed doors. While

a large proportion of people in the Middle East are usually sexually active before they get married, it is widely unaccepted which explains why women are increasingly resorting to getting a hymenoplasty for their wedding night. In an article in Middle East Online, Kaouther Larbi states that social pressures are forcing women to fake their virginity. For example in Tunisia, “Fearing rejection as “used” women in a conservative country where premarital sex is nevertheless common”, sees an influx of women get the surgery done.

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Maybe it is because it’s looked down upon to engage and even discuss sex that so many women are subject to harassment and are made to feel “used” and worthless if they choose to engage in sexual activities. Furthermore, because there is a social stigma around the issue, and a lack of exchange in dialogue between males and females, that women are seen as sexual products, where you are either a virgin or promiscuous.

In an article titled Why do they hate us? by Mona Eltahawhy she explains that the Middle East has high sexual harassment cases which have increased because of the region’s falling economies, leaving men unable to marry.

THERE SEEMS TO BE NO DEMOCRACY OR JUSTICE WHEN IT COMES TO DEALING WITH WOMEN AND THEIR ISSUES

This excuse is contradictory on many levels, especially because the falling economies have corresponded with the Arab Spring where essentially Arabs are fighting for a revolution in their respective governments to achieve democracy. However, there seems to be no democracy or justice when it comes to dealing with women and their issues.

But the Arab Spring’s got one thing right; in order to achieve reform, there needs to be change in all aspects of society, new ideologies need to be produced, women need to be included in all decision-making roles in society, and most importantly people need to be educated about social issues where no topic is subject to stigma and people are encouraged to express themselves in any way they choose too.

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NEW + NOW CARS AND FASHION, CLOSER THAN EVER THE ALL-NEW LINCOLN MKC MAKES ITS REGIONAL DEBUT AT FASHION WEEK MIDDLE EAST Lincoln is Platinum sponsor of the inaugural Fashion Week Middle East trade show All-new 2015 MKC, the first-ever compact premium utility from Lincoln, opens a new chapter in Lincoln luxury with its refined design cues and exclusive technologies that deliver personalized experiences.

Automotive luxury brand, Lincoln is showcasing its first introduction into the premium compact utility segment this week, with the all-new 2015 Lincoln MKC, which makes its regional debut at Fashion Week Middle East (FWME). The all-new Lincoln MKC, combining sleek elegance with power and poise, will support the region’s inaugural fashion trade show, boasting innovative design and unique technologies at the show taking place at the Dubai International Financial City Gate.

“Lincoln is proud to be the Platinum sponsor of the first edition of Fashion Week Middle East,” said Paul Anderson, Middle East Marketing director for Ford and Lincoln. “This partnership naturally resonates with Lincoln, especially as the brand enters its next chapter of luxury with the first Lincoln MKC premium utility, a product that was inspired inside out by the essence of bespoke and the importance of craftsmanship, both important pillars in the fashion industry.

“Cars and fashion taste are two of the most revealing elements about a person,” said Chelsea Lau, Chief Designer, Strategic Concepts Group at Ford

Motor Company, who visited Dubai to help launch the all-new Lincoln MKC. “The all-new 2015 Lincoln MKC has been designed to capture everyone’s attention with its inspired automotive design,” continued Anderson. “Spirited, stylish and smart, it truly is one of the most exciting new products from Lincoln in years, and we are excited about presenting this first-ever model to the region’s luxury vehicle customers.”

A TRIP AROUND LEBANON THROUGH THE LENS OF LG G3

LG Electronics organized an exploration trip for 10 social media influencers around Lebanon which included Lebanese bloggers covering the technology, food and lifestyle sectors. The trip was held on the 27th and 28th of September and included different stops around Lebanon full of fun and adventure.

The aim of the trip was to introduce the bloggers to the newly released Smartphone the LG G3. The hashtag used for the trip was #MeetLGG3, which bloggers used across different social media platforms (Facebook, Twitter and Instagram) to blog their experience throughout the 48-hour trip.

The bloggers were introduced to a number of unique features that the G3 Smartphone offers, from the 5.5-inch Quad HD screen to the 13MP camera equipped with the advanced OIS+ Laser Auto Focus feature which allowed them to take stunning pictures of Lebanon’s most astonishing sceneries and touristic spots.

Commenting on the trip, the Managing Director of LG Electronics Levant, Mr. Tae Hun Ryu said “We, at LG Electronics, believe in the power of social media as a tool to spread the word of mouth and increase awareness, we found in Lebanon the perfect canvas and a unique platform to shed light on the unique features that the G3 has to offer”.

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NEW + NOW ALL NEW CAYENNE ARRIVAL Porsche Centre Lebanon heralds arrival of the all-new Cayenne Beirut. Embodying more power and greater efficiency, Porsche Centre Lebanon has welcomed the arrival of the all-new Cayenne, boasting enhanced performance, a sharpened design and more exciting features as standard. The new Cayenne extends the model’s evolving, twelve-year success story as it continues to underline its position as a true sports car amongst SUVs. The new generation Cayenne will launch in three versions: Cayenne S, Cayenne Turbo and for the first time, the Cayenne S EHybrid, the first plug-in hybrid in the premium SUV segment. Adding another chapter to Porsche’s unrivalled legacy of breaking new automotive ground, this model, together with the Panamera S E-Hybrid and the 918 Spyder, makes Porsche the world’s only carmaker to offer three plug-in hybrid models. Since its inception the Cayenne has come to realise and define an ambitious dream; a luxury SUV with sports car credentials. With typical Porsche DNA the new Cayenne delivers a pioneering benchmark whether being driven through the city, in challenging off-road conditions or in the ultimate test; on the race track. All three new Cayenne models feature redeveloped engines which deliver higher torque than their predecessors, coupled with lower fuel consumption, as Porsche continues its ethos of delivering increased power without compromising efficiency.

When matched with more precise handling capabilities, the new Cayenne represents a sports SUV beyond compare.

Assaad Raphael, Chairman and General Manager of Porsche Centre Lebanon s.a.l., said: “The new Porsche Cayenne embodies the ultimate Porsche traits; class-leading performance and outstanding driveability.

No matter the road conditions the new Cayenne delivers a unique automotive experience and we expect our local customers to share in the excitement around this thrilling evolution.” In its latest version, Porsche designers have given the Cayenne an even sharper design with precise lines and purposefully placed light refracting edges. Front body, front wings, bonnet and air blades are also newly shaped.

P.F. CHANG’S BEIRUT LAUNCHES NEW SUSHI MENU P.F. Chang’s, the worldwide casual-dining restaurant leader in Asian cuisine launches today in Beirut its “Sushi à la P.F. Chang’s” menu. P.F. Chang’s guests will be able to enjoy sushi like never before through an exceptional dining experience that includes the freshest and finest ingredients, distinctive of P.F. Chang’s around the world.

“Sushi à la P.F. Chang’s” menu includes delicious Sushi Rolls (Maki) as well as Sashimi and Tempura menu selections. In addition, sushi lovers will also have an opportunity to combine different sushi rolls on one plate.

The ‘sushi a la P.F. Chang’s” is accompanied by ponzu sauce which is prepared with soy sauce, sake, and citric juices like orange, lemon and lime juice. It is served with a portion of wasabi and gari (thin sheets of pickled pink ginger).

P.F. Chang’s new proposition also includes the traditional sake; a Japanese liquor made of rice. In the menu one will be able to find six different alternatives of sake which can be served either hot or cold. In addition, many other cocktails are made from this liquor.

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CULTURE CLASH

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HAYDA LEBNEN S

A COUNTRY-WIDE

PERSONAL AFFAIR!

Lebanese people are known for having large families, mainly because our relatives circle extends way beyond our aunties and uncles and surpasses the my grandmother and your grandmother connection, we are not content until our entire village is considered family.

Having been born and raised outside of Lebanon, I always find that I am quite in tuned with the Lebanese society here, and that I can thank my parents for that. And while I can’t deny that I am obsessed with Lebanon and all of its natural beauty and lively atmosphere, hence the reason for the relocation - there is one thing I just can’t come to terms with…

Those unbearably frustrating questions that get thrust upon you, filling your body with uneasiness because you don’t want to answer, they make you extremely uncomfortable because you feel as though someone has just entered your ‘personal bubble’ and what’s worse there’s just no escaping them at family gatherings or occasions.

Lebanese people have an obsession with wanting to know every single detail about you and feel that they have every right to your personal life. Maybe because as your family or relatives they feel as they have a right to know how much you weigh? The amount of your salary? If you’re in a relationship with someone? Why you are not married yet? Why are you not having more babies? Why are you not living at home? Because they are family there should be no regard for boundaries or social etiquette.

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MASSALAN: You arrive at a family barbecue or gathering and you haven’t seen some family members in a while. First comes the greeting, then the “shta2telik” and immediately following is the “de3feni, shou 3am te3emli” or “jeyi se7tik, mabsouta mahek, fi 3ariss?” almost in a rehearsed sort of way. But wait, it gets worse! Then they usually want to ask how much you actually weigh, that’s right they want to know numbers. At this point you reconsider why you even decided to come and the thought “ya ared nsha2e we bla3eene” is what you’re hoping for.

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HAYDA LEBNEN | A COUNTRY-WIDE PERSONAL AFFAIR

SHOU? FI 3ARIS?!

This is inevitable at all occasions. Yes they all want to know if you’ve found ‘the one’, well since you’ve finished school or university and your working, it’s the next obvious step. Right?! All those plans that you have about building your professional career or travelling should just disappear because if you haven’t found the one, your aunty has found him for you. Don’t forget “mit shab byetmana 3layki”.

Just a word of caution: If you have found ‘the one’ keep it to yourself until the both of you are absolutely sure you want to go to the next step. Otherwise, those famous Lebanese assumptions of “Leh Bena Shi” or “Akeed Mesh Eben 3ayle” will make you believe “iza houweh bedo yekeh leh ba3ed ma 2ija t3araf 3a 2ahlik w talabik”.

WEL SHEGHEL KIFO? So you overcome all those hurdles and you are chatting away with a cousin, who is enthusiastically asking about your job or life in the “BIG” city, before preparing themselves with all that small talk for the question they’re actually interested in. Ta2riban 2edde ma3ashik? At this point you cringe not only because someone thought they had the right to know that sort of information, but also at the thought of actually disclosing the figures, because if you don’t they’re just going to assume it’s not enough or you’re too embarrassed to reveal it, this is usually followed by the phrase ‘el sheghel mesh 3eb’.

IF YOU HAVE FOUND ‘THE ONE’ KEEP IT TO YOURSELF UNTIL THE BOTH OF YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SURE YOU WANT TO GO TO THE NEXT STEP

LEH NESS7ANE? Yep we’ve all had the “Leh Ness7ane” or the “Leh 3emle be7alik heik” scenario. I mean common! What is this obsession that the Lebs have with weight? This is a true to goodness example that happened with one of my friends. On the beach, sunbathing, enjoying a warm summers day, she feels a hand on her stomach, she opens her eyes to find a complete stranger hovering above her face saying:”Ya nousik, 3refte shou ma3ik?”

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Most of you have probably had one or all of these happen to them at least once at a family bbq or gathering over the past summer.

And while it can throw us off a little when put on the spot and asked these personal questions, just remember your family usually means well. Your just going to have to come up with a way to say it’s none of your business without giving the impression “shou sheyfi hala”. And there’s no better time to start brainstorming … brace yourself, the festive season is just around the corner, which means more family fun. Or you can just mentally prepare yourself for the interrogation sessions, because some things will never change, and well … hayda lebnen ya 3ayneh.

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MON AMOUR, MON AMI

DEALING WITH EMOTIONALLY

UNAVAILABLE MEN

DOS AND DON’TS

BY LINDSAY WILSON

This may be an unpopular opinion, but when it comes to “emotionally unavailable” people and dating them, the bottom line is: don’t.

Here’s what you can do though if your emotional gestures are not being reciprocated, if your partner seems stunted in the EQ department or if you feel like getting affection from them is harder than getting blood from a stone.

BE REALISTIC Many women would not hesitate to cut from their lives someone who didn’t measure up in crucial ways. We all have our deal-breakers.

But somehow, not expressing affection and being emotionally immature are seen as exceptions.

Think about it: would you manage with someone who was physically unavailable? Intellectually unavailable? What about legally unavailable? While people can see what a bad idea it is to become romantically involved with someone who is in another country, very much less intelligent than they are or, to put it bluntly, married, the same is not true with emotional unavailability.

But practically speaking, being emotionally unavailable is not much different. The key word is “unavailable”. Be realistic with yourself whatever the reason, if someone is not available to you, then they are not available. Period.

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AVOID MAKING EXCUSES ON THEIR BEHALF Did you read the previous paragraph and have a knee-jerk reaction to defend your partner? Did you have an internal argument, something along the lines of, “well that’s true, but he’s different. He’s been hurt in the past. It isn’t his fault. He’s been through so much. He was raised that way. He does care about me, it’s just complicated right now... “?

You may be making excuses to explain away your partner’s negligent behaviour.

While you may see it as compassionate and understanding, what you may be doing is enabling and condoning a behaviour you don’t ultimately agree with. Unfortunately, many cultures have the image of a woman “saving” a man emotionally - how many movies show a dry, cynical hero totally falling in love with a charming and childlike women? Although he’s ambivalent, instead of moving on to a more emotionally available man, she stays to teach him how to feel, and of course, to love her back. It’s naive to think that a woman can draw an emotionally reluctant man out of his shell, that she can convince him to open up to her with love alone and sheer willpower.

If you are justifying your partner’s behaviour, ask yourself why.

Perhaps, even though you can’t stand how distant he is, you are unconsciously buying

into the role where you coax some affection out of him. Women who tolerate emotional coldness from their partners may be trying to undo that pattern from their childhoods without understanding why, they are drawn to “difficult” men and the promise that they could finally earn their love.

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TAKE AN HONEST LOOK AT THE RELATIONSHIP

attempting to do your partner’s emotional work. While they may have a legitimate issue with affection or commitment, it’s ultimately something that they need to figure out for themselves.

Is your partner also searching online for information about how to be more emotionally available to you?

When you are able to realistically appraise your relationship as well as be assertive enough in what you need to be happy in one, you may decide to move on or you may not. Ultimately, keep in mind that a healthy relationship is balanced - where feelings aren’t reciprocated, resentment will eventually build.

Do an honest appraisal of the amount of affection and openness you currently share with your partner, and how it compares to what you need. Resist “counting” affection that isn’t actually real - i.e. don’t fool yourself into thinking that love that isn’t expressed counts. If you feel like there is a well of unexpressed love and affection hidden in your partner, but he is too afraid/stressed/ confused to let it out, be careful. At the end of the day, what counts is actual behaviour.

It doesn’t matter what your partner is promising in the future, or what they say they intend but cannot actually deliver - what only matters is their actual behaviour, right now.

It may be that things will change, that you’ll win their hearts, that everything will be OK. It could also be that you lose them anyway and will have to look back and wonder how you stayed in a situation where, realistically speaking, you were doing all the legwork.

It is not only one person’s responsibility to do all the emotional work in a relationship.

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RESIST “COUNTING” AFFECTION THAT ISN’T ACTUALLY REAL What it boils down to is this: you are offering love and affection to your partner, and you shouldn’t settle for a situation where you are not given the same in return.

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YOU + YOUR COUNTRY

OR SHOULD I GO

SHOULD I STAY

BY JONATHAN DAGHER

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SHOULD I STAY, OR SHOULD I GO

There is a platitude that is difficult to avoid whenever a discussion about Lebanese emigration is evoked. Emigration is always unfortunate but sometimes necessary. This has been repeated and drained into the Lebanese psyche since the earliest days of civics textbooks and high school essays. And yet, in spite of of our educational system’s emphasis on that doctrine, every year, the one way ticket airline bookings shoot right up after college graduations. Why do so many Lebanese choose to leave home?

They leave because it is the right thing to do. A quick sweep of opinions show that many, if not most Lebanese living abroad, whether permanently, as immigrants, or temporarily, as expatriates, still believe they did the right thing by leaving. It is not difficult to see where they are coming from. In a study conducted in 2012-2013, The National Council for Scientific Research declared a 35 percent rate in youth unemployment in Lebanon. This alone should justify the decision of moving elsewhere for better employment opportunities and financial growth.

EMIGRATION IS ALWAYS UNFORTUNATE BUT SOMETIMES NECESSARY Amidst the crippled economy, there are a number of local companies and firms cutting down on employees due to a suffering business and tourism sector. The lower and middle classes find themselves terribly close to the line of fire. And while there might not be a fully-fledged war to provoke the mass emigrants of 1914, 1967 or 1973, the situation isn’t exactly sound. In fact, it might just be at its worst: From the East, a terrorist threat looms from behind the border, threatening to sweep over the nation and enforce its culture of war.

From the North, a Syrian war that had barely just left us, is slipping back through the cracks of an insecure Lebanese identity, and from the South, a familiar enemy waiting for the right moment to sneak in and reignite the horrors it is exhibiting in Palestine.

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Even within the borders, things look grim for many Lebanese: a failure to unify or communicate has plagued the country for decades, and within the streets and inside the privacy of Lebanese homes, problems of illiteracy, discrimination, and abuse flourish in the fertile environment of violence and instability. The West is the only direction that presents itself as a solution, and whether we like to admit it or not, many Lebanese look onto the Mediterranean and finds comfort in the hope that if worse comes to worst, there is always that one remaining compass

A SYRIAN WAR THAT HAD BARELY JUST LEFT US

direction we could follow to safety.

It seems like an exaggeration. There is no indication that those who remain are nobler than those who have left.

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The reason for hanging on and fighting for a country is no different than the reason of holding on and fighting for an endangered loved one. It is love that makes the stakes worth the fight. And whether we distill our reasons in romanticized Lebanese metaphors of grapevines, of trips from the mountains to shore, of family members singing Fairouz over a drunken Sunday lunch, of number one nightclubs and musicians or of plain old Beirut traffic – the principal remains the same. We stay for love.

IT IS LOVE THAT MAKES THE STAKES WORTH THE FIGHT

Many of those who have immigrated did so because they had no other choice, much like the people who stay for the same reason.

Leaving the country imposes its own set of financial, professional, and political restrictions. VISAs and job opportunities abroad are difficult to come by, and many of us are tied to family members or careers that we cannot afford to be severed from.

Staying here is a decision that we seldom control. But there are also those who choose to stay. There are the ones who have had more than one opportunity to leave and yet chose to stay in Lebanon every time.

And then there are those who come back.

These people might just be the key to understanding this delicate dynamic between leaving and staying. There is an undeniable pride that comes from wearing the scars of a painful wound we have survived. However, to settle in another host country is to be nothing but a guest. Foreign countries can and have offered a lot: solace, opportunity, and hope.

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But what keeps most of us grounded deeply in our country that seems on the verge of crumbling is something that cannot be measured in units of currency, years or GPA. Simply put, it is the privilege of being among people who share our scars, even if they had once been the ones to inflict the wound. It is the romantic flair in us that clings to notions of honor and chivalry and tradition, even when our heart throbs with modernity and freedom and exploration.

Scars could lose much of their significance in a foreign land. “The love of our country” is the cliché reason at the tip of every person’s tongue when asked why they stayed or why they would come back, but clichés are nothing more than truths we have grown tired of hearing.

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CULTURE CLASH MORE MEN ARE TRADING A CLEAN SHAVED CHIN FOR FULL BEARDS, THEY ARE SIMPLY SETTING THEMSELVES FREE FROM THE AGONY OF THE RAZORS From ISIS fighters to actors and super models, hipster beards are making a huge comeback.

In fact, the giant bushy beards are the new black; they have literally grown in popularity.

Recently, you can see them everywhere, on the streets, in the workplace, in coffee shops, on billboards, and incomparably, in war zones.

Though reasons for growing a hipster beard varies between religious beliefs and outstanding fashion trends, the truth is more men are trading a clean shaved chin for full beards, they are simply setting themselves free from the agony of the razors.

BEARDS ARE THE NEW

BLACK

BY HANA ALAYAN

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For those who embrace beards as a fashion statement, it can be either a blessing or a curse. Some assert that having a beard isn’t the lazy option, while others admit it has made their life much easier. “The longer I grew my beard, the more time and money I am taking to clean and groom it”, says Hassan Fneich, who works in a general trade and industry company. Whilst, Adel Mattar, a salesman, confirms “Having a beard freed me from the hassle and pain of daily shavings, especially that I have a sensitive skin”.

Mostafa berri, a barber for 10 years, affirms that the number of clients coming in with hipster beards has tripled in recent months.

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“Neat short beards were the dominant trend, but now a lot of clients are going to the extreme with their full long beards, just like ottoman sultans”, he adds with a smile. “Beards definitely give a more masculine look. It is a truth widely acknowledged that young men tend to grow beards in order to look older, more significant and of higher status”.

As a matter of fact, several rulers including King Henry VIII and Peter the Great, enforced a “beard tax”, making it exclusive to people of affluence and social status. Even the ancient Greeks regarded beards as a sign of virility and power.

Unfortunately, not all men are lucky enough to have complete facial hair. Hence, many are opting for beard transplants to go with the flow. Some men only need hair transplants on small patches on their faces where hair won’t grow, but others are ought to spend a fortune.

But is it worth it, and most importantly; what do women think of this new hairy trend?

UNFORTUNATELY, NOT ALL MEN ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE COMPLETE FACIAL HAIR Some women don’t mind a beard as long as it’s well kept, and actually looks good on their partner, but recent scientific studies showed that most women hate beards and preferred clean -shaven men. To them, bearded men seem to be more aggressive and less romantic. In addition to that, they think that beards are scratchy and might smell sometimes. Other significant study stated that women hate beards because it makes their men the center of attention, since guys are fond of one another’s beards.

When asked if he would shave his beard for a girl, Hassan quoted his latest tweet “He who sacrifices his beard for a woman deserves neither”.

As we told him that Walt Disney Co. banned employee beards at its theme parks, and many other companies had a similar ban, Adel laughed and said that his employer grows a beard too, and they usually share advice on how to groom them like superstars and famous models such as bin dahlhaus.

TREND ANALYSTS SAY WE ARE REACHING “PEAK BEARD” AND THIS CRAZE WILL FADE SOON NOVEMBER 2014

Celebrities who sported beards first, like George Clooney, Ryan Gosling, Daniel Craig, were the style setters. Then the list of men in the limelight who now have full beards has skyrocketed. Following on their footsteps, more men started sprouting facial hair.

Gone are the days where men used to grow long beards only when they suffer from bereavement, divorce or even a job loss. The beard is a cheap and trendy accessory, so why not embracing it. Bearded men themselves are making fun of the new trend by saying that “Movember” – the practice of growing a moustache over the month of November for charity, is replaced now by “Decembeard”!

Trend analysts say we are reaching “peak beard” and this craze will fade soon.

ALEXANDER THE GREAT BANNED THE BEARD SO THAT IT WOULD NOT BE GRABBED IN COMBAT In fact, some men were worried about being labeled terrorists, that they shaved their beards. It is noteworthy that ISIS fighters, who are willing to establish an Islamic state based on their extremist interpretation of Islam, grew beards only because the prophet Mohammad and his immediate followers wore beards.

Maybe they should know that Alexander the Great banned the beard so that it would not be grabbed in combat; in their case not to be stuck in a machine gun.

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EMPEROR’S NEW CLOTHES

WHAT COLOR

BY HANA ALAYAN

Every season has its own shades of colors, reflecting its natural beauty and glamour, but have you ever thought of finding your own season and color palette?

Figuring out your perfect colors can be a tricky task indeed, that’s why professional image consultant Dina Shemaytelli, will tell us more about color analysis steps, and further explain how finding the perfect colors that match your skin complexion, eye color, and hair can make you look healthier, younger, and glowing.

Such analysis also helps with wardrobe planning and makes it easier to shop for clothing, saving you both time and money.

In a nutshell, if you were thinking about having a makeover for this autumn but having trouble figuring out what colors suit you best, you can find some helpful tips in the following interview:

SEASONAL COLOR ANALYSIS: WHY DO WE NEED IT? The right colors can turn your wardrobe from drab to fab. Seasonal color analysis is all about finding your own color type, for colors can be magical, and will totally affect how others view you.

In brief, Color analysis is a process of knowing which colors match your personal skin tone, hair and eye color. You simply need it to get a sense of direction to the type of colors that will look fabulous on you.

It is based on four color types: Spring, summer, autumn and winter.

To narrow things down: *If you’ve got dark vivid eyes (dark brown, dark blue, cool green), dark hair, and cool skin undertone, then you are winter. *If you’ve got muted soft very light eyes, Light hair, and golden skin undertone, you are spring. *If you’ve got muted soft light eyes, light hair, and cool skin undertone, you are summer. *If you’ve got dark eyes, dark hair, and golden skin undertone, you are autumn.

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WHO AM I? COOL, OR WARM? Every male or female is born with a cool undertone (blue) or a warm undertone (yellow). A color analysis procedure is done by an image consultant using the draping technique to define whether you are cool or warm. if you want to do it at home, the simplest way is to try silver and gold drape near you face to figure out which suits you the best, gold is warm while silver is cool.

Some of the cool type colors are: blue, icy pink, deep purple black, silver etc.., whereas, some of the warm type colors are brown, yellow, olive, orange, yellow gold etc..

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THE EFFECTS OF COLORS ON US Picking the right colors, in clothing, makeup or hair dye, will definitely leave a direct impact on us. Haven’t you ever heard a nice compliment when you were simply wearing a white t-shirt, while on the contrary you haven’t received any, even if you’ve done your best to look good? That is simply because white color made you look younger, fresh and gorgeous. Whereas, a fancy dress sometimes could make you look ill simply because the color does not suit you, and u feel the urge to wear more makeup to look healthier.

The right color can even lift your face, eyes, and define your jaw line.

I’ve seen makeup artists doing the biggest mistake by applying warm colors to cool skins which will lead to tired eyes and washed out look.

YOUR PERSONAL COLORS WILL SAVE TIME AND MONEY Most women wear only 20 % of their wardrobe 80% of the time, for they buy things only because they liked it on someone else, or it is the latest trend, but it might not suit their style or colors.

How many times we heard the sales person telling us “you are blonde, red suits you” or “you are brunette this color matches your skin”, well this is totally wrong. For example, everybody can wear red, since red has different shades, ex. tomato warm red is for deep autumn, while watermelon red is for spring.

SEASON CHANGES DEPENDING ON COLORS Your season won’t change if you dye your hair, or wear colored contact lenses, but make sure not to choose the wrong colors that will make you look pale, older and tired.

SOME WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON A COLOR IF THEY LOVE IT EVEN IF IT’S NOT ON THEIR COLOR PALETTE; ARE THERE ALTERNATIVES TO WEAR A COLOR OUTSIDE THEIR OWN PALETTE? Many of my clients insisted on wearing a specific color before undergoing a color analysis, but were very surprised when they saw the bad effects it leaves on their faces (jaw line dropping, emphasized wrinkles and dark circles around their eyes), that they changed their mind. But, they can always wear colors they love even if it is not in their palette, on the B zone, which is the waist and lower. The A zone, which is the upper body part, should always be colored from within your personal palette. If you have a lovable dress which is not from your color palette, I advise you to add accessories from your palette close to your face like a statement necklace, a scarf, or a blazer. You can always wear colors not from your palette as hand bags or shoes especially if a color is a must have for this season.

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Knowing your personal palette and having it with you will make you buy the right color without even trying it and it will be amazing on you every time. Shopping will become easier and most importantly you will be having the right combination of colors in your wardrobe to mix and match without being hesitant. All the colors of the same season can be mixed and you will be gaining confidence knowing that colors you are wearing are those that flatter. Coco Chanel said “The best color in the whole world is the one that looks good on you”. I would add once you know you look good, you are ready to face the world!

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GO BOLD WITH YOUR ANIMAL PRINTS

BY BECONRAD

If you have always wanted to create a bold look in your fashion, animal pints can be an excellent choice. Big bold animal prints can bring a new look to any outfit, from a classic black dress to a stylish gown. Of course it is important to know how to wear these unique pieces of clothing. Without the proper planning those big bold prints can destroy the look you are trying to create.

No matter how bold the print or how big your fashion dreams, it is

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important to choose accessories that will be elegant and beautiful.

Try to avoid trendy flash in the pan styles – look for animal prints that will be classics for years to come. This will help you make the most of your wardrobe and allow you to reuse pieces in new and interesting ways. By choosing ani mal prints that can stand the test of time you can create a winning wardrobe no matter how limited your budget.

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MORE IS LESS With animal prints there is sometimes a temptation to be a little too revealing, but unless you are shopping for lingerie it is important to resist that temptation. When choosing your animal print outfit for the day keep in mind where you will be wearing that outfit. If you plan to dance the night away at the hottest nightclub in town you can afford to be a little daring. If you will be spending the day at the office you may want to watch how much you reveal.

A lovely cocktail dress with a zebra striped belt will look wonderful on a date without being too revealing or too risky. A classic leopard spotted dress or suit is a great choice as well, especially when paired with a pair of leopard print shoes and a leopard print purse.

When it comes to deciding what to wear it is essential to take an honest look at your own body shape and size. If you are overweight certain colors and prints can accentuate that extra weight present an unattractive appearance. Finding clothes that compliment your body style and make the most of the curves you have will make you look great.

CHOOSE YOUR ACCESSORIES CAREFULLY Your choice of accessories is always important, but it is even more critical when it comes to animal prints. Animal print clothing does best with simple and classic accessories. Teaming your zebra stripe or leopard print dress with a classic black belt and a lovely pair of black heels will complete the look and make you look your best.

It is important to avoid garish or overly large accessories when wearing animal prints. Pair your animal prints with simple pieces of jewelry, like solid color bracelets or a gold necklace. Avoid accessories that will compete with or detract from the beauty of your overall outfit.

It is a good idea to experiment with several different looks as you put your animal print outfits together. The beauty of animal prints is that you can create so many different looks with only a few simple pieces.

By trying on several different pieces and seeing how they fit together you can begin to create your own personal animal print wardrobe.

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FINAL FRONTIER

TECHNOLOGY THE LATEST IN FASHION STATEMENTS

BY JAMES FLETCHER

One of the biggest trends in technology right now is wearable technology. But many people seem confused about what wearable technology is and what it can do. Put simply, wearable technology is worn on you, as opposed to being a separate device. Examples might include smart watches which can operate simple apps or fitness trackers that can record vital health statistics.

Wearable technology can provide some big benefits over existing technology, because you frequently don’t have to manually use it - it does its job quietly in the background.

Many companies are working on wearable technology at the moment and it’s expected that the number of these types of devices is going to increase enormously. This market is likely to be very important in the future.

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One example of wearable technology that h§as been released already is the Microsoft Band. This is primarily a fitness tracker, in that it records data about you as you wear it. The band incorporates over 10 sensors covering such statistics as your heart rate, your location and even a sunlight sensor. Microsoft’s device then connects with an app which can give you advice about how to live a healthier lifestyle, based on the information it has gathered.

The band also features simple applications which can give you information about the weather, for example. Currently only available for the US, it costs $199.

THE BAND INCORPORATES OVER 10 SENSORS COVERING SUCH STATISTICS AS YOUR HEART RATE, YOUR LOCATION AND EVEN A SUNLIGHT SENSOR

Other, perhaps more specific, devices than Google Glass exist. One notable example is Cuff Smart Jewellery, which is worn like regular jewelry but offers certain special features. The device buzzes to indicate phone notifications and is able to issue a safety alert to family members by pressing a button. These devices are not yet publicly available, but are available for pre-ordering. This is typical of wearable technology because the market for it is so new.

THIS IS TYPICAL OF WEARABLE TECHNOLOGY BECAUSE THE MARKET FOR IT IS SO NEW But the Microsoft Band isn’t the only wearable technology currently available. Google Glass is another much-publicized device. This is a type of head-mounted technology, which can provide information hands-free by displaying in front of your eyes. You can communicate with the device through speech, and it offers multiple functions like taking pictures, giving directions and recording videos. Although Google has been praised for developing such an innovative product, it’s also been criticized for its privacy implications, being able to silently take pictures and record video.

Another device that hasn’t yet been released is the much-anticipated Apple Watch. This device has been developed by Apple and will be offered from $349. It is primarily a smart watch, in that it can tell the time and offers simple applications to perform tasks such as displaying text messages from your phone. Most notably, the Apple Watch is being offered in many editions, including a sports edition and a fashion edition, which features a gold-plated exterior.

All of these devices highlight the growing importance of the wearable technologies market and the advantages and also potential problems they bring. Undoubtedly, this is an important area to keep looking at, because we don’t yet know how important it will be.

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QUILTED

+ PADDED

lynn ban 14-karat gold ring

BLACK ICE

burberry brit quilted shell coat

Kenzo aw 2014-15

markus lupfer tiara crystal-embellished merino wool beanie

karl lagerfeld leather gloves

COLOR ME house of holland embroidered quilted satin jacket

lanvin crystalembellished quilted satin top

loewe quilted asymmetric cotton skirt

day birger et mikkelsen night flicker belted quilted shell gilet

genetic x liberty ross metallic midrise skinny jeans

miu miu aw 2014-15 balmain quilted leather ankle boots

SHOW SOME LEGS

miu miu quilted shell mini skirt

miu miu quilted leather belt

finds + mua mua embellished quilted leather clutch

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burberry shoes & accessories rain boots lanvin sugar quilted leather shoulder bag

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LAYER

stella mccartney wide-brim wool-felt hat

UPON LAYER WRAP UP

chloé alpacablend blanket cape

iam by ileana makri silver enamel ring

zero+mariacornejo tabi embossed printed silk-blend top

alexandre herchcovitch aw 2014-15

EL GREY zero+ mariacornejo diba layered satin maxi skirt chloé layered wrap-effect crepe dress

bottega veneta silver rings r13 layered leather-trimmed twill blazer and denim vest

marc by marc jacobs mayu plissé-tulle and silk-organza midi skirt

maria black necklace

mcq alexander mcqueen layered stretch-wool mini skirt

derek lamaw 2014-15

jonathan simkhai rue du simkhai pima cotton t-shirt

kotur espey embellished printed satin box clutch

lanvin tweed-print calf hair and leather ankle boots maiyet peyton mini leather and suede shoulder bag

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nicholas kirkwood suede ankle boots

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chan luu wrap bracelet

A WINTER’S

TALE

mango bouclé mohair-blend coat

dolce & gabbana + v&a necklace

lanvin harefelt hat

balenciaga aw 2014-15

NICE + WARM mango bouclé coat

helmut lang asymmetric knitted sweater

COZY THROW

burberry brit shearling cape

maria black wing rose earrings

A LA SHERLOCK mango lapels wool-blend coat

pierre balmain braid-paneled wool sweater

maria black frey goldplated ear cuff

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valentino leather shoulder bag

lanvin mila fringed patent-leather loafers

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bershka lace-up ankle boots

donna karan leggings

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RAGING RUNWAY TOP CATWALK CHOICES FOR MEN

BURBERRY PRORSUM AW 2014-2015

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RAGING RUNWAY TOP CATWALK CHOICES FOR WOMEN

AF VANDERVORST AW 2014-2015

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CANALI AW 2014-2015

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RAGING RUNWAY TOP CATWALK CHOICES FOR WOMEN

BIBHU MOHAPATRA AW 2014-2015

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RAGING RUNWAY TOP CATWALK CHOICES FOR MEN

ALEXANDER WANG AW 2014-2015

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RAGING RUNWAY TOP CATWALK CHOICES FOR WOMEN

STELLA MCCARTNEY AW 2014-2015

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Gap, the iconic American clothing brand, revealedits new fall campaign which celebrates the individuality and authenticity of personal style by questioning what it means to Dress Normal.

Dress Normal boldly instructs individuals to shape their own authentic, personal style – and intentionally challenges every one of us to dress for ourselves.

“Finding your own version of ‘dress normal’ is an art – my normal is different from your normal, and that’s the essence of the campaign,” said Seth Farbman, Gap Global Chief Marketing Officer. “This fall, Gap celebrates dressing for yourself and finding those perfect items – a pair of jeans, a t-shirt – that make you feel confident to be your most authentic self.”

The campaign features photography of recognizable peoplewho are known for their own art of dressing normal, starting with Anjelica Huston, The Royal Tenenbaums;Elisabeth Moss, Mad Men; Michael K. Williams, Boardwalk Empire; Jena Malone, The Hunger Games: Catching Fire; Zosia Mamet, Girls; & Luke Grimes, Brothers & Sisters, among others.

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The print ads bring unexpected moments and storytellingwith taglines that challenge people to ‘DRESS LIKE NO ONE’S WATCHING’ and ‘LET YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN YOUR CLOTHES.’ “We were inspired by the bold and honest spirit of the millennial generation; their authenticity is what makes them stand apart in today’s complex world,” said Stephen Sunnucks, Gap Global President. “Gap has always stood for individuality and being your most authentic self.

By challenging the idea of what it means to dress normal, we hope to inspire confidence in everyone’s own personal style.”

The fall campaign marks the first creative execution of Dress Normal which begins its story with a classic Gap item and one of the coming season’s biggest trends – black denim – and season after season the narrative will shift to other iconic Gap staples. The concept was developed in partnership with Wieden + Kennedy New York, known for bringing to life brands like Nike, CocaCola, and Old Spice through provocative storytelling.

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M.A.C A NEW NOVEL ROMANCE Fall in lust with A Novel Romance, a colour collection teeming with deep, luscious shades that will leave you feeling overwhelmed with desire. Passion mounts, and these hues fan the flames of your deepest emotions, as an amorous adventure begins. Seduced by a secret lover, eyes lock, shrouded in the lustful, metallic hues and cool blackened purples of our Eye Shadow quads. Get provocative in seductive plum and burgundy Lipstick. Then, play the temptress in come-hither shades of sweet lavender and soft rose gold. Finally, cheeks flush in shimmering Powder Blush, as you turn the page towards a powerful climax‌leaving you utterly breathless

NOVEMBER 2014

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SISLEY THE BLACK ROSE Black Rose Precious Face Oil is Sisley’s first skin care oil for dry or mature skin. With a high concentration of active ingredients, this silkysmooth dry oil prepares, and nourishes with an anti-aging effect.

Rich in omega 3 and 6, it prepares the skin to receive its daily skin care. This oil provides the essential elements for the skin’s vitality and youthfulness with its powerful blend of plant-based active ingredients that nourish, regenerate and protect (Padina pavonica, unsaponifiables of avocado and natural tocopherols).

Plum and camelina oils maintain the lipid balance of the epidermis.

Black Rose extract lies at the heart of the formula and lends a wonderful silky softness. It is combined with essential oils of Bulgarian rose and magnolia, which have toning and soothing properties for a delicious awakening of the senses.

Visibly smoothes wrinkles and fine lines, and revitalizes the skin for a radiant complexion.

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PHYTO-TEINT Phyto-Teint Expert fluid foundation combines a smoothing, unifying and very long-lasting effect with a natural result. Expert in make-up: it provides radiant make-up, optimal coverage and masks imperfections in the complexion (ultra-pure pigments, perfecting and soft-focus powders). Expert in holding power: “SISLEY Color Expert” technology guarantees pure color and a perfect complexion for 12 hours.

Expert in skincare: its formula rich in active ingredients of natural origin (Frangipani blossom, Cucumber, Gingko biloba) softens, moisturizes and enhances the skin day after day. Its ultra-sensory, soft and enveloping texture allows easy application and leaves the skin feeling comfortable. Oil-free, non-comedogenic formula suitable for all skin types including sensitive.

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NEW + NOW

SKINNET BODY LOTIONS Celebrate beautiful skin with our new Skinnet limited edition 24h softness body lotions available in two fragrances: Shea Butter & Grenadine. You can experience the comforting qualities of Shea Butter or indulge in the bursting fragrance of Grenadine. These limited edition body lotions are quickly absorbed & keep your skin marvelously moisturized. Paraben free.

FLAWLESS FUTURE POWERED

BY CERAMIDE CAPLET SERUM First signs of aging? Keep calm. Reclaim your flawless skin. This unique line provide a refreshing burst that initially clings to skin then dries to a smooth weightless finish. Use to help reinforce skin’s essential moisture barrier, even skin tone, retexturize, and reduce the appearance of early signs of wrinkles. Rejuvenates the look of tired skin for a more energized complexion

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EISENBERG’S MEN’S SKINCARE EXCLUSIVELY AT PARIS GALLERY UAE

It is everyone’s desire, regardless of gender or age, to have clear skin. And it’s no secret that what you put on your skin is as important as what you put in your body. Very few brands can claim to have products that genuinely benefit the skin without side effects.

Eisenberg is one such brand. Now the leading beauty and skincare brand in Europe, Eisenberg recently marked its entry into the Middle East and Africa markets through luxury retailer Paris Gallery.

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It offers a line of products that works wonders on the skin because of a revolutionary formula created by José Eisenberg, the man behind the success of the brand.

Eisenberg products are second to none. Addressing the needs of modern, dynamic men, Eisenberg has created a range of products for the face and body. This range of products is exclusively available at Paris Gallery stores in UAE.

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MIRROR, MIRROR

PERFECT MONO DOLCE&GABBANA New luscious, impeccable, perfect Mono is the first cream eye color, by Dolce & Gabbana up to 12 hours of intense velvety color “ the unique collection is available in 14 shades pearly and matte.

A collection of high-density, ultra soft eye shadows in matte and pearl shades that provide long-lasting color.

Perfect Mono is Dolce&Gabbana Make Up’s first ever cream eye color collection with both matte and pearl shades in rich, velvety finishes. Smudge-proof and water-resistant, each shade has longlasting pigments that offer up to 12 hours of intense, velvety color when applied with the eye shading brush. Its creamy texture is formulated with a high concentration of silicone and silk elastomers blended with oils, allowing for carefree and precise application. With a wide myriad of colors, this collection ensures a match with every skintone and mood.

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REVLON THE ULTIMATE BLACK, BOLD DEFINITION

BOLD LACQUER LENGTH & VOLUME MASCARA

Break free from the dull shades of grey of traditional mascaras, and go bold with new Revlon Bold Lacquer Length & Volume Mascara. Revlon Bold Lacquer is our first mascara with only high-shine black fibers to provide the ultimate black, bold definition for volume & length to the ‘nth’ degree.

This is the mascara you’ve been waiting for!

The Revlon Bold Lacque lacquer film technology combines two different polymers that anchor the mascara to the base of lashes, stretching a smooth film to the tips for incredible length and volume.

The intense color pigments deliver a buildable lustrous, deep color to lashes.

Our innovative Revlon Lash Stretch brush pulls the high-shine, lengthening fibers through lashes for the ultimate black bold look. The mascara is evenly distributed onto every lash to capture volume and length to the nth degree.

Revlon Bold Lacquer Volume & Length Mascara intensifies your lash look in 3 shades: Blackest Black, Blackest Brown, and Blackest Black Waterproof. Finally, a mascara that delivers on the promise of big, bold lashes.

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ISADORA THE GEL NAIL LACQUER, FLASHING VOLUME, MULTIBENEFIT EYE PRIMER

The Gel nail polish revolution! A reactive combination of the coloured Gel Nail Lacquer and the Gel Nail Lacquer Top Coat that safely cures to a chip-resistant glossy film and dries in any light – no UV lamp needed. It is a breakthrough formula with no irritating ingredients. Stays for a week with an amazing shine and a plumping effect, easy to remove when needed.

FLASHING VOLUME INSTANT EFFECT MASCARA With its little magic brush creates big wonder lashes. A special and innovative combination of waxes creates an extreme volume effect at first stroke. Plumps up the lashes to the fullest; optimal volume, thickness and length. Creamy texture with a flexible film guarantees an easy and even application. The mascara formula is humidity resistant and perfect for high humidity conditions.

THE MULTI-BENEFIT EYE PRIMER Is a thin, velvety and lightweight cream that adheres perfectly and evenly to the eyelid and gives a crease-free eye colour that stays true. The nude coloured Eye Primer can also be used alone for naturally smoother and even coloured eyelids. Hides blue veins and neutralizes red eyelids. It is infused with active skin caring ingredients similar to an eye cream.

The Eye Primer also has a Soft Focus Effect where the eyelids appear instantly smoother and fine lines visually disappears.

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NEW + NOW ABU DHABI VOLVO OCEAN RACE STOPOVER CALLS FOR VOLUNTEERS As preparations ramp up for Abu Dhabi’s December/January Volvo Ocean Race Stopover and the yachts battle it out for glory from Spain to the Emirates via Cape Town, more than 200 volunteers are being recruited to help deliver the UAE capital’s 23-day watersports, entertainment and cultural event.

Volunteer roles exist both on and off the water at the purpose-built Destination Village on Abu Dhabi’s Corniche Breakwater, which is expected to attract 200,000 visitors between 12th December and 3rd January. Jobs range from overseeing many of the Destination Village’s top attractions, to serving as accreditation officers and information ambassadors, or assisting with race operations. Beyond contributing to Abu Dhabi’s reputation as a year-round international visitor destination and regional water sports hub, volunteers will be able to meet new people and learn fresh skills.

Volunteers must be at least 16 years of age, speak English and/or Arabic fluently and be able to commit to at least two pre-event orientation/training sessions between 29th November and 6th December and three event days between 12th December and 3rd January. People can sign up by emailing volunteer@volvooceanraceabudhabi.ae or calling the Volunteer Coordinator, Nicole Scheffer on +971501119747.

Volunteers will undergo full pre-event training including a specialised Volvo Ocean Race mentor programme and will receive official certification of their involvement. They will be provided with specially designed Volvo Ocean Race clothing from Musto, free transportation and parking, a commemorative gift, daily meals and a chance to get up close and personal with the UAE’s own Volvo Ocean Race entrant Abu Dhabi Ocean Racing and its Volvo 65 yacht, Azzam.

For more information about Abu Dhabi’s 2014/15 VOR Stopover please go to www.volvooceanraceabudhabi.com or visit our Facebook and Twitter pages at www.facebook.com/AbuDhabiOceanRacing and @ADORlog.

CORTEFIEL Cortefiel, the Spanish fashion and accessories brand for women and men, celebrated yesterday its opening event “Dancing in style”. Live music, dancers, discounts, as well as a live bar, on the occasion of the inauguration of its new location in Beirut Souks. Cortefiel represents passion, a passion for fashion and details, passion for real people: the true inspiration. Urban people of today. Consumers who reinterpret trends, making them their own, injecting their style and distinctive perception of fashion. We are looking for chic people, with young spirit and sense of humour. People with a unique personality and identity.

Cortefiel’s collections wear women and men in every moment of their life, offering a wide range of products and desirable outfits to live the fashion during the whole day.

Cortefiel has 2 locations in Lebanon, in City Mall “Ground floor” & Beirut Souks “Ayass Street”.

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DO-IT-YOURSELF FACE PEELS YOUR SKIN WILL LOVE

A face peel or chemical peel is a common skin care treatment used primarily as a part of an anti-aging regimen. Face peels are used to treat acne, age spots, discolorations, fine lines, a dull complexion, and rough skin. For at-home, do-it-yourself (DIY) treatments, the goal is to have a brighter and smoother complexion. With continued use, skin becomes more even in tone as well. Here are four easy DIY face peels you can try at home.

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DIY FACE PEELS YOUR SKIN WILL LOVE

DIY FACIAL PEEL During the cold days of winter, skin tends to look dull and pale. This mask helps control oil and tightens the skin. Mix two egg whites, a tablespoon of lemon juice, and a quarter cup of tomato puree together in a bowl. Apply the mixture to your face leaving it on for five to 10 minutes. Last, rinse off with cool water.

Why this works: The peeling is from the lemon juice and tomato that contain alpha hydroxy acids (AHA) that naturally exfoliate skin.

The egg white temporarily tightens skin for a firmer look.

DIY ASPIRIN AND LEMON JUICE PEEL

DIY BAKING SODA AND LEMON JUICE SKIN BRIGHTENING PEEL

This popular DIY peel is for those who want deeper peel action as it acts like a chemical peel. Crush 12 non-coated aspirin with a spoon, combine aspirin with lemon juice, and allow it to form into a paste for five to 10 minutes. Smooth onto skin and let sit for 10 minutes. Dissolve a tablespoon of baking soda into a cup of water.

Soak a cotton ball into the baking soda solution and wipe the mask off.

If your skin is beginning to look a little dull this mask might be your answer. The power of lemon juice and baking soda come together to give you brighter skin. Simply mix baking soda with a tablespoon of lemon juice and a few drops of oil. Form it into a paste and apply to freshly cleansed skin. Leave on for 10 minutes and rinse off.

Why this works: The salicylic acid in aspirin is a beta hydoxy or BHA, which is used in chemical peels to help treat acne. Lemon juice is an AHA that also acts as an exfoliant. The baking soda neutralizes the acid.

Why this works: The lemon juice naturally exfoliates. The baking soda helps to neutralize the acid in the juice and helps to brighten the skin. The olive oil provides moisture so the skin does not dry out.

DIY WINTER FACIAL PEEL During the winter, skin tends to be on the dry side and this peel brightens the complexion without drying your skin out. Take a cup of plain yogurt, two tablespoons of brewed green tea, one pink grapefruit wedge, and two lime wedges and mix them together into a smooth cream.

Apply the cream to face and neck avoiding eye and lip area. Leave on for 10 to 15 minutes and rinse with cool water.

Why this works: Grapefruit and lime are high in AHA’s from the citrus acid. The yogurt is soothing to the skin and contains another AHA, lactic acid. Green tea is used to soother skin.

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These four DIY facial peels are very easy to make. Please be aware that AHA and BHAs make the skin sensitive to the sun. So do not apply these facials if you plan on going outside in the sun within the next 12 hours. Make sure you use sunscreen always to protect the skin from the sun.

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A TRIP TO KERALA, INDIA

AYURVEDIC SPA

BY KAYLYN HLAVATY PHOTOS ELIE MOUSSA

I recently took a short vacation to Kerala, India. Its home to lush greenery, an equable climate and the oldest medicine in the world: Ayurveda. It was a short, but relaxing vacation; making it the ultimate getaway escape. Chanting music, aromatic candles and the smell of herbal oil pleased every sense of my body. My trip to Kerala wasn’t a physical one, but a mental one, even though you wouldn’t know the difference. The Ayurvedic oils, techniques and the therapist and yoga instructor, Binu K.K. are directly from Kerala, India; bringing this ancient medicine to the land of Cedars. The spa is located at Vanda Hotel and Spa in Jounieh.

If you’re not familiar with Ayruveda, this medicine and way of life dates back to 5,000 years. It’s a naturalistic system that depends on your body’s humours -vata, pitta and kapha- to achieve the right balance.

The Ayurvedic massage is personalized to suit the individual dosha (body and mind type).

As a dedicated runner and recent student of mixed martial arts, my body has naturally taken a beating. Aside from the physical soreness that creeps throughout my legs and back, my mind is cloudy with deadlines, projects, commitments and day to day stresses; which most of us go through on a regular basis.

Binu recommended the stress management package which includes: a soothing massage for 25 minutes, the Sirodhara (general head massage) and the Njavarakizhi, finished by a steam bath and sauna.

If you’re looking for that mental escape, continue reading as I take you through my experience with the oldest medicine in the world. Grab some ginger tea and read along.

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A TRIP TO KERALA, INDIA | AYURVEDIC SPA

NJAVARAKIZHI A light chanting music of stringed instruments plays softly overhead while the therapist slowly drips warm therapeutic oil across my back and legs. This technique starts off with a short massage so the oil can integrate into your skin. Then, a linen cloth bundle filled with boiled rice and medicinal herbs are applied to my skin in circular motions. The sudden heat and smell from the cloth awakened my muscles and the circular motions and contact with the oil created a sedation process that took me into the most relaxing state. Since I run, my calf muscles were tight, but after the therapist applied the heated cloth bundles, my mucsles began to loosen up. I felt like I was in an ancient Ashram located in northern India. Overall, this technique is great for someone who likes thermal contact and a circular motion massage.

SIRODHARA I was on to my second massage: a head massage. My body was already very relaxed after receiving the Njavarakizhi treatment. This technique is when lukewarm oil is poured in a special rhythmic style on the forehead.

Oil is dripped from side to side on the forehead and then back through my hair. It rejuvenated the nerves and scalp which increases blood circulation of the head and brain. The motion of the oil is slow enough that every sensation on my head awoke. When I have writers block, and that is frequent, I come to get this massage because it allows me focus and quiet the noise that seems to never stop in my brain. This technique provides a better vision, better hearing and overall eases mental stress.

I don’t know anyone who doesn’t battle the stress of day to day life, so why not get a massage to ease calm down your brain.

STEAM BATH, SAUNA AND TURKISH BATH After having oil applied to my skin, it was time to unclogged the pores and sweat out any toxins I’ve accumulated from my errands of the day. I tried each one to get a feel for which ‘post massage’ cleanse I liked better. My favorites were the sauna and the steam bath. For one, the sauna gives you a full body sweat detox. I liked the steam bath for different reasons. The steam bath allows you to sweat out your toxins, but your head is out in the air. This leaves a chamber around your body which lets steam stay in a confined area. This is an effective treatment for ridding of cellulite ladies and gentlemen!

After two different massages, a steam bath and sauna, my body was thanking me for the much needed dedicated relaxation time. Aside from Indian oils, the center uses handmade oils and soaps from one of Lebanon’s oldest soap producers, Khan al Saboun in Tripoli. Ayurvedic is just more than massage; it’s a medicine that follows the makeup of your body. When you get the massage, tell Binu where your ache is and he will focus on treating the area with a certain technique. I took a mental trip to the land of peace and relaxation and now my body and mina are ready for the tasks ahead! I’m already preparing for my next trip.

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CULTURE CLASH

TEACH YOUR CHILD

TO DEAL WITH ANGER PASS ON THE IMPORTANT TOOLS

BY COLLEEN McMAHON

Anger is one of the most powerful emotions humans experience. It can make us feel helpless in its grip, or stronger than we thought possible. It can be scary to feel so out of control, filled with a desire to break things or hurt others.

But it is also a normal part of life, even for the smallest children. As parents, raising healthy children means giving them the tools to recognize their emotions and channel their feelings in a constructive way. Because it can lead to such destructive impulses, it is especially important to help our kids learn to deal with anger appropriately. The first step in teaching good anger management skills to others is to take a look at ourselves.

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TEACH YOUR CHILD TO DEAL WITH ANGER

DON’T DENY YOUR FEELINGS Because anger can be frightening, it is tempting to give in to the impulse to squash it down and deny it. As a child, your own parents may have trained you to do this, in the guise of politeness or proper upbringing. But denying and hiding emotions is not healthy. They do not go away, and trying to lock them up only means that they will leak out in other ways that can be self-destructive and dangerous. If you are an adult who has never learned to accept and channel your own angry feelings, you will need to do some inner work of your own in order to help your child learn to cope with his emotions. Recognize unhealthy emotional habits you have been taught or acquired on your own, and make a conscious decision not to pass those on to your child.

SET A GOOD EXAMPLE At the same time, you need to show your child that anger does not have to cause a loss of control. Do you have bad anger management habits of your own, such as shouting, cursing, or lashing out when you get angry? Remember that our kids learn most of all by watching us. Be conscious of the example you are setting, and work on finding healthy ways to channel your anger. Tell those around you that you are feeling angry, and let them know what you need, whether it is to talk things through, or be alone. If you have to find a physical outlet for your angry energy, take a walk or bike ride, or tackle a vigorous household chore like mowing the lawn or vacuuming the floors.

YOU NEED TO SHOW YOUR CHILD THAT ANGER DOES NOT HAVE TO CAUSE A LOSS OF CONTROL

ENCOURAGE COMMUNICATION DEAL WITH ANGER CREATIVELY When you see your child is feeling angry, ask her to talk about her feelings. Why is she angry?

How does it feel? What would make her feel better? Sometimes the reason can be something so minor or silly that just talking about it is enough to give her perspective and dissolve the intensity of her emotion. If she feels that she has a genuine reason to be angry, talking it through can help her move past the grip of the strong emotion and begin to look for a resolution to the underlying problem.

For older children, a journal where they can draw or write about their feelings can provide a vital outlet for anger as well as other strong feelings.

Encourage your child to write about the feeling itself or the causes for it. Other possibilities are drawing, making a collage, composing poems or songs or writing letters to the person or thing she is angry with. Any of these activities take the negative energy and channel it into a creative endeavor. Your child has a way to both vent feelings, and potentially work through to insights or solutions to the issue behind the emotion.

FIND ACCEPTABLE OUTLETS

TEACH OUR CHILDREN TO BE EMOTIONALLY RESILIENT

Just as you need to “let off steam” when you are angry, help your child recognize this need in himself, and to find ways to do this constructively, or at least harmlessly. If he wants to hit or throw something, offer him a pillow, Play Doh, or a squishy “stress toy” to pound on. Let him run around the house or yard for a few laps. Make up an “anger song” about angry feelings, and encourage him to sing it while marching or jumping up and down. Sometimes venting the negative energy is enough to make the angry feelings manageable, or even dissipate them.

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One of our most important jobs as parents is to teach our children to be emotionally resilient, to channel and examine their feelings rather than suppress or blindly act on them. It is tempting to discourage or even give in to expressions of anger, but for our children to grow into healthy adults, they need to have a variety of tools at hand to express and cope with emotions. It is our job to provide those tools and teach our kids how to use them.

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HOW TO STOP FEELING

INFERIOR

BY ADREANA ROSE

COUNTER THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS Being exposed to verbal abuse can lead to feelings of inferiority. If someone at work is the one dishing out the abuse, you really have no way of escaping that person besides quitting your job. Fortunately, there are many different ways to protect yourself from feeling inferior.

Follow RAGMAG’s step by step pointers to a stronger you.

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One of the most important ways to protect yourself from feeling inferior is to counter your negative thoughts with positive ones.

For instance, if you think “I am too weak to do this” stop yourself and think a more positive thought like “I am a strong person. I am certainly strong enough to do this.” Some people also like to provide a reason with the positive thought, such as “I am a strong person because in the past I healed from the heartbreak of my first love.”

You can word it in any way that feels best to you, as long as it is a positive constructive thought.

Use this same technique every time another person says something negative to you. For example, if your boss asks you why you are so stupid, then think “I am not stupid just because I made a mistake. I am a smart person who accepts people sometimes make mistakes. Because I plan on learning from these mistakes, I am a smart person.” This method is a powerful way of defending yourself against the negativity, abuse, and unfounded criticism from others.

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HOW TO STOP FEELING INFERIOR

UNDERSTAND THAT SOME PEOPLE MAY HAVE HIDDEN AGENDAS Another piece of knowledge that may make it easier for you to squash feelings of inferiority in their tracks is to understand that some people may have hidden agendas. That person at work who tends to make you feel inferior might intentionally intimidate you because he/she is after a promotion. Additionally, that type of person will also try to keep you as uninformed as possible for his/ her own benefit. By seeing his/her tactics for what they are, it will be easier for you to stop feeling inferior around him/her.

RECOGNIZE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM One thing you do want to listen to and take into consideration is constructive criticism, which will never be worded in an abusive manner. Calling people names or stupid does not count as constructive criticism. For someone who has already started to feel inferior, even constructive criticism can make them feel down.

Learn how to notice what really is constructive criticism and be accepting of it. Don’t allow it to make you think negatively about yourself. It’s only intended to help you improve, and everyone can always do something to improve. Therefore, there’s no reason to view improving as a negative thing.

IT’S ONLY INTENDED TO HELP YOU IMPROVE, AND EVERYONE CAN ALWAYS DO SOMETHING TO IMPROVE

In conclusion, it is possible to stop feeling inferior and protect yourself from feelings of inferiority, whether they stem from outside sources or not. It’s easy to feel helpless if you have someone stuck in your life who makes you feel inferior, but you can protect yourself from him/her by turning every negative thing he/she says to you into a positive encouraging thought. Additionally, being able to recognize constructive criticism and understand that some people may have hidden agendas will help you overcome feelings of inferiority.

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MIND, BODY + SOUL

HELP ME WITH MY RAGGED PROBLEMS

I’m gay and I have been in love with my straight Best friend for 5 years. He has been aware of it for a while now and in all honesty he has been very nice about it, the only thing he asked of me is not tell people of my feelings. I am now at a point where I feel miserable and depressed every time he gets a new girlfriend or sees others friends. I know this sounds pathetic to you because it has “Move On” written all over it. I am sick of feeling sad and lonely when I think about him but don’t want to lose my feelings in case miraculously he might feel the same! How do I make the feelings stop? Kevin, 25

DEAR KEVIN,

I appreciate that you’ve spent a long time tearing yourself apart, but you’re not beyond help. You can change your feelings - if you let yourself. If you do not move on, unfortunately for you; you will find yourself soon without a friend and without a way forward, which would be a pity really – since your friend obviously does not seem to want to lose you.

You deserve good love, with someone who is in 100 percent. By hanging onto your illusion, you’ve been stopping yourself finding it. The next time you find yourself diving into your mental fantasy, you have choices.

Follow it like you always have and the short-term happiness will mean long-term pain. Or do something different. Good luck.

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There is a woman at work who I am very attracted to. The problem is that she is married. We are quite flirty, but she has turned down my invitations to coffee and dinner. I understand where she is coming from, though I don’t see why she would since her husband is having an affair. Omar, 32

DEAR OMAR,

This woman sounds vulnerable and yes she might be having problems at home, but you are definitely not the one to define the reasons she should take on an affair. I do hope your common sense stops you taking things further. Affairs frequently happen because of marriage problems, and, rather than trying to sort them out, people find solace in other relationships. If you are to have an affair with her, you would be setting yourself up to being hurt. Nothing good will come out of it.

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I feel guilty all the time, even when people are trying to be nice to me and it is starting to frustrate both them and myself. I know I have to stop it, and I am not sure where it started from but I am honestly tired of this feeling. Ahmad, 30

DEAR AHMAD,

You did not mention if this is something that is new in your life or it’s been going on for a while now. Guilt is a social function. We chose ways to behave sometimes even if it is to our expense so that we are accepted and feel good about ourselves. What you have described is inappropriate guilt, and that comes from an unhealthy childhood belief where you have been made to feel unimportant, which is the ritual in our society and it is because of our upbringing. You have to start thinking of yourself differently, and start to stop these guilt feelings that you may have. Always remember “no one is perfect” therefore you don’t have to be. It is time to take ownership of your thoughts, feelings and actions. Alternatively, you can seek professional help.

IF THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME HE HAS DONE IT – WHY IS THIS TIME DIFFERENT? My husband lied to me. I have a massive issue with lying due to subsequent issues through life so I cannot tolerate it. It has caused a massive row and now I don’t think we can continue. It is not the first time he’s done it but before we ever got together he was very aware of my feelings. Jenny, 36

DEAR JENNY,

If this is not the first time he has done it – why is this time different?

Could it be that he was thinking of your best interests? Or that it would cause less stress if you didn’t know about the truth? There could be many reasons why he withheld the truths. You did not mention the gravity of the lie, so make sure that you talk it through before writing off your marriage altogether. Try seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling.

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Why is my boyfriend such a pain? He is always putting me down and embarrassing me in front of his friends when he’s drunk. I want to leave him because of these treatments, but I love him with all my heart. Katia, 23

DEAR KATIA,

It sounds very difficult for you right now, to love someone who is not showing you any love in return. You should start by sitting your boyfriend down and talking to him. Tell him about everything you are feeling. Explain to him that he is risking the relationship. You must understand that his actions have no reflections on you whatsoever; people who chose to put others down usually do this because of their negative feelings.

Relationships are all about communication, support and boosting a partner’s self-esteem, none of which he seems to be doing. So Katia, if you find that things do not change once you’ve had the talk then call it a day.

Needless to say you are still young. Never settle for second best.

I’m a 27 year old female and I think I have trouble with alcohol. I guess you can say I don’t know when to stop and very often embarrass myself. Then for days I feel guilty and ashamed. All my self-confidence is lost. I get so down about myself which leaves me feeling depressed. I’ve got myself in so many bad situations.

I’m so paranoid about what people think of me I feel like I need to hide. Sally, 27

DEAR SALLY,

Well done for recognizing that you have a problem, this is definitely a step forward. When drinking stops being a social thing and becomes a regular thing then you should be worried because you are severely damaging your health in every way and eventually it will start affecting people around you. I can see that the drinking has started to affect your mood, your self-worth and your behavior. By some definitions that counts as alcoholism. People are individuals and their bodies have the ability to process alcohol to different degrees. You need to seek professional help and if you can a support group. The sooner you act, the sooner you’ll find balance and confidence.

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READ’EM

SPEAK, SEE, HEAR NO EVIL

TO ALL THE BOYS I’VE LOVED BEFORE Jenny Han Why you should read this book

The title might take you down memory lane

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before is the story of Lara Jean, who has never openly admitted her crushes, but instead wrote each boy a letter about how she felt, sealed it, and hid it in a box under her bed. Safely tucked away from the world – or so she thought. One day Lara Jean discovers that somehow her secret box of letters has been mailed, causing all her crushes from her past to confront her about the letters: her first kiss, the boy from summer camp, even her older sister’s ex-

boyfriend, Josh.

It has all the right ingredients for being a good book that takes you back in time. I had a lot of fun in the beginning, but after a few chapters it seemed like this story was really all over the place. The characters made no sense to me whatsoever and as for the ending. I had to read the last paragraph 3 times to see if I got it right the first time around. It was that abrupt. It gave me no closure and it left me quite a bit disappointed.

THE MURDER COMPLEX Lindsay Cummings Why you should read this book

You’ll devour it and still want seconds

An action-packed, blood-soaked, futuristic debut thriller set in a world where the murder rate is higher than the birthrate. Meadow Woodson, a fifteen-yearold girl who has been trained by her father to fight, to kill, and to survive in any situation, lives with her family on a houseboat in Florida. The state is controlled by The Murder Complex, an organization that tracks the population with precision.

The plot starts to thicken when Meadow meets Zephyr James, who is—although he doesn’t know it—one of

the MC’s programmed assassins. Is their meeting a coincidence? Destiny? Or part of a terrifying strategy?

And will Zephyr keep Meadow from discovering the haunting truth about her family?

Action-packed, blood-soaked, and chilling, this is a dark and compelling debut novel by Lindsay Cummings. If you are looking for intense then this is the book for you. If this is your genre of books then you will not put it down and then go for seconds. It will keep you right on the edge. Fast paced, ruthless and interesting.

THE KISS OF DECEPTION Mary E Pearson Why you should read this book

Fantasy, Romance, Magic – All the making of an amazing book

The Kiss of Deception is not a fast-paced quest filled book, but a slow journey. Princess Lia escapes an arranged marriage and finds herself in a small village where she blends in waitressing tables. While she is there two men are on separate quests to find Lia. One is an assassin sent to kill her and the other is the prince she was meant to marry. The book was told from all three characters points of view and they were all equally beautiful narrators. Lia meets the assassin and the prince and learns their names, or rather fake names, to be Rafe and Kaden. The really interesting part of this book is that we do not know which is the

prince and which is the assassin. I loved how we got to see the men the same way Lia did, not really knowing their true identities. It added a fun/mysterious extra layer to the book that always kept me guessing and trying to figure out who was who. If I were asked to sum this book up in one word it would be “beautiful”.

If you like fantasy, romance, magic or just amazing stories then The Kiss of Deception is the book for you!

I have read a lot of fantasy books in my days and this one blew me away. I DEVOURED this book. It was full of all the elements that I love in books; fantasy, magic and romance!

SPLIT SECONDS Kasie West Why you should read this book

If you’re a Pivot Point fan, then you have to

Split Second takes off right where Pivot Point left off.

Except now, instead of alternating Para and Norm chapters, we have alternating Addie and Laila chapters.

Kasie West masters at writing two engaging and distinct perspectives, and ending them with little cliffhangers such that you never want to stop reading. But something I really love about Split Second is that, because of the dual perspectives, we really get a feel for Laila’s character

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and how truly damaged and complex she is. Moving on to other romances in Split Second, we have Addie and Trevor. What I love about their relationship is that Kasie West is essentially building it from the ground up again, yet it doesn’t feel boring or repetitive. With any other romance, written by any other author, it probably would have. But Kasie West has got this down, and she knows what she’s doing with this relationship, and she does it damn well.

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SOUNDCHECK

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Lady Antebellum 747 I’m not very familiar with Lady Antebellum beyond the album Need You Now, but I can say that this is much better produced. I mean, just listening to it, you can tell that 747 is not just a country album. It’s really very rich, like a buttercream frosting. And that’s what makes it work. It has a great blend of the country ballad, but that

guitar solo is pretty pure rock ‘n’ roll. Lady Antebellum have proved again and again that it’s capable of so much better. And this is a good thing. When you have stunning, personal lyrics and these glorious harmonies, why would you want to sing about partying down by the creek? It’s just a waste, really.

Sia 1000 FORMS OF FEAR There is no denying that Sia Furler is a masterful songwriter after wonderfully crafting pop songs such as “Diamonds” by Rihanna, “Wild Ones” by Flo Rida and “Perfume” by Britney Spears – and now she’s back. There’s pain in this album. I think that all of the stuff Sia has dealt with over the years comes through largely in this album, and in a strange way,

has influenced her to become the amazing song writer that she is. Her unique sounding voice add texture and beauty to her songs. These are all songs that she could have sold to the queens of pop but I guess they were too personal to give away. It is nice to hear a pop album that feels real. It is a must in your album collection, and you will not regret it.

Maroon 5 V Maroon 5 are nothing if not consistent. They have been able to maintain their solid track record of success, and live up to the formula of big songs. V is said to be equally big, bold and cinematic. The group ditched the emo pining for love and attached themselves to the burgeoning electronic revival that would morph into EDM movement. Their materials have

moved away from whiny love songs to arrogant love songs, maintaining a healthy level of self-indulgence led by front man Adam Levine. In my opinion V is a solid record. I liked most of the songs and couldn’t help but also be impressed

by Levine’s vocals. I think the songs have great hooks and I can honestly say I am impressed.

Calvin Harris MOTION Calvin Harris has another No1 record, as reported by Dancing Astronaut. He has been on a winning streak lately, riding the swell of Motion’s success. He took home the best electronic artist honor at the MTV EMAs, despite being unable to perform due to a heart issue. His recent artist album Motion just hit No 1 on the dance/

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electronic sales charts with 35,000 copies sold, sliding in ahead of Knife Party’s debut artist album Abandon Ship, which leaked three weeks early on ITunes. Harris’s chart domination does not stop at albums. He has also topped the Billboard hot dance/electronic songs chart with his single “Blame” alongside singer John Newman.

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WATCHOUT

SPEAK, SEE, HEAR NO EVIL

GONE GIRL

| 148 mins | Thriller Ben Affleck, Carrie Coon

What makes Gone Girl intoxicating is the way the mystery unfolds. The movie is all about: How much did Nick know about his wife? Or better yet, is it asking the audience: How much do any of us know about our partners? Fincher’s film tells the nightmare story of Nick and Amy Dunne, a fairy-tale couple whose marriage has soured into a curdled stew of resentment, hostility, and possibly murder. On the morning of their fifth anniversary, Amy disappears from their suburban Missouri home,

leaving behind upturned furniture, shattered glass, and traces of blood. Nick, a self-absorbed bar owner who’s curiously unflustered by his wife’s absence, quickly becomes the police’s prime suspect. His alibi is hardly airtight; worse, Amy’s diary paints him as unfaithful and short-tempered. Is she dead or just simply...gone? I can’t guarantee that the film’s ending will work for everyone, but if you loved Gone Girl the book you will walk out with a grin on your face.

DRACULA UNTOLD

| 92 min | Fantasy, Horror Dominic Cooper, Luke Evans, Samantha Barkes

Dracula untold starts off with a lot of potential, great cinematography and interesting to say the least – but of course Hollywood had to turn it into a clichéd. It is the “untold” story of Vlad the Impaler becoming Dracula.

Vlad is portrayed as a hero, loved by his people, with a past he was not proud of. He fights valiantly to defend his family and his people, doing whatever it takes to defeat insurmountable odds. The character was

morphed to be a lovable guy to appeal to audiences, instead of being dark and suspenseful. Putting aside the clear morphing, the movie clearly cuts some tones down to PG-13 rating. Despite Luke Evans’s dedication to the role and some intense dramatic moments, Dracula Untold is just a pop-corn flick with shaky action scenes and an uninteresting romance that takes itself too seriously.

NIGHTCRAWLER |

117 Min | Drama, Thriller Bill Paxton, Jake Gyllenhaal, Rene Russo Nightcrawler is all about the characters. Everyone delivers amazing performances with dialogue that felt real. You can sort of tell where the movie is going, but it takes a slight turn, and goes into a different direction - one that is not expected - and keeps you on the edge. Jake Gyllenhaal delivers the performance of a life time, as a creepy, unsettling character who dives into the world of news broadcasting, and goes into some dark places proves himself a very talented and promising actor once again.

He plays a sociopath bent on success, and he won’t let anything or anyone stand in his way. He brings through various personalities with tremendous ease, he goes from being utterly disturbing to hilarious to horrifying that you are kept wondering what is next.

The story is great, cinematography beautiful, the editing is crisp and fast and a stellar cast throughout this thriller. I personally think this is his best role yet.

This is a movie you have to see. Gyllenhaal should be guaranteed an Oscar Nomination.

INTERSTELLAR |

169 min | Action, Adventure Anne Hathaway, Bill Irwin, Ellen Burstyn, Matthey McConaughey, Michael Caine

With our time on Earth coming to an end, a team of explorers undertake the most important mission in human history; travelling beyond this galaxy to discover whether mankind has a future among the stars. The essential idea behind the movie is to realistically represent space travel and the space environment, which the movie succeeds in doing, if you consider the earth dying to “climate change”, aliens opening wormholes next to Saturn, surviving travel into black holes and performing time travel through 5-dimensional tesseracts to be realistic.

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The production values of the film, though, on items such as uniforms, space gear, instruments, ships and stations is really outstanding. Space buffs will love the hardware. There are also detailed representations of the nuances of docking, orbital transfers and other astronautically cool stuff.

Interstellar is simultaneously a big-budget science fiction endeavor and a very simple tale of love and sacrifice. It is by turn edgy, breathtaking, hopeful, and heartbreaking. I enjoyed Interstellar very much, though I think it is not a perfect film.

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TAKE ME WITH YOU

TRAVELLING TO

ARACHOVA

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TAKE ME WITH YOU The beautiful city of Arachova is a popular, attractive and colourful resort destination while travelling Greece. One of the oldest Greek settlements that fully retains its traditional style, with two-storied stone-hewed houses and earthen red-clay brick roofs, Arachova is sprawled on the southern side of mount Parnassus, at an altitude of 900 - 1000 meters, and provides services for one of the biggest skiing resorts in the country.

THE BEAUTIFUL CITY OF ARACHOVA IS A POPULAR, ATTRACTIVE AND COLOURFUL RESORT DESTINATION WHILE TRAVELLING GREECE Arachova’s rich history stretches back to before the Greek revolution of 1821, several monuments of which can be seen around the city itself and in the surrounding areas.

Arachova’s services include beautiful accommodations, and traditional eateries that provide the visitor with an excellent taste of traditional and modern Greek cuisine, cheese and wine. In fact, a unique regional type of cheese, called the Formaela, is made exclusively in the wider area of Arachova and the Parnassus, and is offered both for consumption and sale during specific times of the year.

Arachova is situated beautifully, not only because of its unique location on the sides of mount Parnassus, but also because of its surrounding areas. The historically-minded traveler can visit several ancient settlement remains, going back to the Paleolithic era, from around 3000 B.C. onward.

THE HISTORICALLY-MINDED TRAVELER CAN VISIT SEVERAL ANCIENT SETTLEMENT REMAINS, GOING BACK TO THE PALEOLITHIC ERA The Homeric small town of Anemoria lies to the west of Arachova, while another small town mentioned by Homer in the Iliad, Kyparissos, lies to the east. Very close by, at a distance of approximately 8 kilometers, is the location of the world famous archaeological site of Delphi. According to tradition, the Grand Oracle of Delphi was instrumental through the ages in giving advice through

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prophecy to many of the greatest ancient Greek leaders, including Pericles of the Golden Age of Athens and Phillip of Macedonia, father of Alexander the Great. The site not only covers the extended ancient grounds but is also home to a modern museum dedicated exclusively to the temples and the oracle. A short distance from the city, approximately 30 kilometers, the traveler can

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visit one of the greatest monuments of the Byzantine era, the monastery of Osios Loukas. In the neighboring city of Distomo lies the infamous site of the Nazi Victims Memorial Mausoleum.

Arachova is also an excellent starting point for the nature-loving traveler. Mount Parnassus provides ample opportunity for climbing, hiking, or simple walking along the rich Greek mountainscape. Guides can be found in the city to lend a hand, or foot in fact, for traversing the slopes of the mountain and reaching hiking milestones. The mountaineer can come across countless hidden paths, lush fields and secret waterfalls of exquisite beauty, more than 80 meters in length. The rich mountain canopies, the fresh pine-smelling air and the stunning vistas will satisfy even the most demanding tastes.

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Much of Arachova’s reputation comes from the aptly situated skiing resort. The Parnassus ski resort is a modern edifice that provides for the needs of both adults and children, at an altitude of 1.600-2.250 meters up the slopes of Mount Parnassus. The mountain itself makes sure that snow is always aplenty, making the resort the most soughtafter skiing destination in the country. It contains 19 tracks, 7 skiing routes, 10 paths and 3 mini-tracks for beginners, which span to a total length of 36 kilometers.

THE PARNASSUS SKI RESORT IS A MODERN EDIFICE THAT PROVIDES FOR THE NEEDS OF BOTH ADULTS AND CHILDREN Thrill seekers may find greater adventure on the 12 deep-snow, out-of-track routes. The resort provides medical coverage for all visitors, and it’s a national skiing favorite due to its close proximity to Athens, and the new airport.

The city of Arachova provides a well-rounded destination to the quality-minded traveler, with its beautiful natural sights, historical monuments of great significance, top-rated ski resort, traditional food and rich night life.

Only two hours outside the Greek capital of Athens, lies a wonderful world that will amaze, intrigue and entertain even the most inquisitive traveler.

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MOTTO A NEW APPROACH TO DINING OUT

BY KAYLYN HLAVATY PHOTOS MELISSA TABEEK

Off the beaten path in Mar Mikhael, there is a restaurant serving up daily authentic international cuisines from the corners of the world.

Motto’s innovative approach is different than the other pop up diners in the area. Its approach of ‘ pay what you think is fair’ is the only concept of its kind to hit Beirut’s dining scene. Each day, Monday through Friday, customers can try a variety of ethnic cuisines such as Ethiopian, Sri Lankan, Indian, Italian and Greek foods by the natives themselves.

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Investment banker turned food enthusiast and partner in Motto, Karim Ghazzi, went from selling stocks to promoting international cuisine. The founders Tony Sfeir and Mohammad Fayad share a similar story of a calling to the restaurant business. “ There is no proper Sri Lankan or Ethiopian restaurant in Lebanon, so here we want customers to try authentic cuisine at a price they think is fair. Most international cuisine here caters to the Lebanese palette, but here you get the real thing,” said Ghazi.

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I decided to start my travel of the world one plate at a time; starting with a Sri Lankan dinner cooked by chef Nimal who has been in Lebanon since 1994. The staple dishes of Sri Lankan food are rice and curry so it came as no surprise that this eclectic cuisine, with a variety of flavors, was a fiery surprise to my Lebanese acquired palette. The dinner was a banquet of contrasting flavors: spicy, salty, sweet, savory and smoky. All of which kept me looking forward to trying the next dish.

THE AMBIENCE THE RESTAURANT GIVES IS ONE THAT IS LAID BACK

THE AMBIENCE THE RESTAURANT GIVES IS ONE THAT IS LAID The ambience the restaurant gives is one that is laid back, but remains inviting from the glowing candles and the friendly faces behind the counter. It’s a hole in the wall kind of place situated in a city that is desperate for a place that feels and tastes like home.

Sitting outside with a glass of chilled local white wine and a bouquet of flowers and tea candle that decorated the table, my friend and I were given fish cutlets for the appetizer. These balls of deliciousness were crispy on the outside and a melt in your mouth feeling once you dip them in the spicy chutney sauce. It truly is an explosion of flavor in your mouth.

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Next we were on to the main courses of rice infused with bacon and shrimps, Brinjal Pahi (aubergine), Pork Curry, Orange and Date chutney, Carrot Curry and last but not least, the delectable Chocolate Cashew Nut slice.

With each dish looking more and more inviting after the next, I tried each dish that was made with the authentic ingredients and real passion. The rice infused with savory bacon and tender shrimp gave this turmeric-spiced rice a kick of smokiness without being to strong. The pork curry was tender, yet mouthwatering wholesome, especially when paired with the bed of rice.

One of my personal favorites was the orange and date chutney. It had the mix and balance of spicy and tangy notes with a chewy caramelized texture.

Coming in close second as my favorite was the carrot curry. I’m a sucker for anything curry so this was a real treat. The carrots provided a slightly sweet taste and the curry gave a counter piquant flavor. The Brinal Pahi was charbroiled into delectable savory pieces spiced with cumin, onions and curry leaves.

A meal isn’t complete with out a desert. To end my trip to Sri Lanka, I had a rich and fluffy, chocolate cashew nut slice that tasted like Christmas morning. The sweet toasted coconut and cashews provided a crunchy texture and the cinnamon and nutmeg cake was spongy and moist. Perfect with a double espresso!

Through the whole meal, the staff was very attentive, which is rarity in Beirut’s restaurant sector. The partner Karim and the chef Nimal asked everyone how their meal was and described the origins and the flavors inside each dish. When it came time to pay, the motto of ‘pay as you like’ gets to you psychologically because you start adding the estimated cost of a meal, how much you liked it and your comparison to a previous meal. Overall, this restaurant will become a frequent stop among my friends and I. The ‘slow eating’ and cozy atmosphere is perfect if you’re looking to challenge your tastes buds and travel the world one homemade dish at a time.

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EXPAND YOUR

PANTRY

BY LARA ARISS

My kitchen is my own personal playground where I venture in to cook, eat, and unwind. It’s the perfect setting for recreation and creativity, for alchemy and adventure. Allow me to share what comes out of my kitchen – fun stories, simple ideas, and of course recipes that are lovely, straightforward, and fine-tuned. As you go through my blog you will find improvised recipes that have materialized with the meals, imagined and simmered in my head before they were tested and realized, and ones that have come to me from friends, family, and cookbooks.

All I know of cooking is that it mustn’t be a drag, with complicated recipes and exotic ingredients that are impossible to find. Cooking should be accessible and frank. A meal doesn’t have to be fancy and elaborate to look and taste amazing. The simplest recipes executed in the right way make for food that is quite simply divine. I like honest recipes that don’t deceive or disappoint. Whether improvised, imagined, or shared, the recipes found here are meant to make your adventures in the kitchen more fun. Look forward to knowing your thoughts.

The menu selection, check her out on the web http://www.bylara.me @laraariss

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I N TOHPET IZMOUNM E

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COUSCOUS, DRIED FRUIT

AND OLIVES SALAD

PREPARATION TIME 45 MINUTES SERVES 4 LEVEL EASY

INGREDIENTS • 1 tablespoon honey • 175 grams couscous • 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon • Zest of one orange • Handful of dried cranberries • 5 dates, pitted and sliced • 5 dried apricots, sliced • Handful of pecans, toasted • 50 grams olives, pitted • ¼ bunch parsely, finely chopped

METHOD

• Boil about half a litre of water in a pot. Place honey in a jug over the boiling water and stir • Pour the honey into

a bowl with the couscous. Cover with cling film for about 20 minutes, until all the water has been absorbed • Fluff the couscous with a fork, cover again and leave aside for 10 minutes • Add in the cinnamon, orange zest, dried cranberries, dates, dried apricots, pecans, olives and parsely.

Toss to combine • Serve with plain yogurt

PUMPKIN SOUP

PREPARATION TIME 30 MINUTES COOKING TIME 2 HOURS SERVES 8 – 10 LEVEL MEDIUM

INGREDIENTS • 4 kg pumpkin • 2 tablespoons olive oil • 2 medium onions, peeled, finely chopped • 1 cinnamon stick • freshly grated nutmeg • salt and freshly ground black pepper • 1.7 litres vegetable stock

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METHOD

• Cut the top off the pumpkin. Scoop out the seeds and fibres from the middle and discard • Using a sharp knife and a

spoon, carefully hollow out the pumpkin, removing the flesh and setting aside. Roughly chop the scoopedout pumpkin flesh • In a large saucepot over low heat, heat the olive oil and add the onions. Cook the onions gently for 10-15 minutes, until they are softened and golden-brown • Add the pumpkin flesh, the cinnamon and nutmeg, and season, to taste, with salt and freshly ground black pepper. Increase the heat to medium and cover with the lid. Cook for 40-45 minutes, stirring occasionally to prevent the base from burning, until the pumpkin is cooked through • Add the stock and bring to the boil. Remove from the heat and allow to cool slightly. Transfer the soup to a food processor in batches and blend until smooth • Return the soup to the pan and bring to a low simmer and cook for a further half an hour • Ladle into bowls and serve warm or at room temperature

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BUTTERSCOTCH

BROWNIES PREPARATION TIME 15 MINUTES COOKING TIME 40 MINUTES MAKES 18 LEVEL MEDIUM

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INGREDIENTS • 170 grams plain flour •1 teaspoon baking powder • ½ teaspoon salt • 225 grams unsalted butter, room temperature • 200 grams light brown sugar • ½ teaspoon rosewater • 2 eggs • 130 grams walnuts, roughly chopped

METHOD

• Preheat oven to 180 C • Grease and line a 20 x 20 cm baking tin • In a bowl, sift the flour, baking powder, and salt • In a mixing

bowl, beat the butter, rosewater, and light brown sugar until light and fluffy • Beat in the eggs, one at a time • Gently fold the flour mixture into the wet ingredients • Mix in the walnuts • Pour the batter into the baking tin • Bake for 30 minutes or until the surface has hardened. Note that a cocktail stick inserted in the center will not come out clean as the brownies are meant to be chewy. Remove from oven and leave to cool • To serve, cut into small rectangles to serve • To store, place in an airtight container for up to 3 days

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MADNESS IN BEIRUT THINGS TO DO THIS NOVEMBER! THERE ARE A BUNCH OF THINGS YOU NEED TO DO THIS FALL, LIKE DRINK MULLED WINE, CARVE A PUMPKIN, BUY A NEW PAIR OF BOOTS AND PHOTOSHOP A BUNCH OF PICS TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE YOU SPENT ALL DAY SCOPING OUT THE FALL FOLIAGE. WANT TO REALLY MAKE THE MOST OF WHAT LEBANON HAS TO OFFER? THEN BE SURE TO HIT UP THESE TEN AWESOME AUTUMN EVENTS.

INDEPENDENCE DAY CELEBRATIONS There’s two new events planned for Independence Day celebrations this year. On Saturday, November 22, head down to Martyrs’ Square for an attempt to earn a Guinness World Record for the the largest human letter. It will be in the shape of a “U” to symbolize unity. Then, on Sunday, November 30, around 200,000 people are expected to gather in the effort to form a human chain starting in Tripoli and running along the coast of Lebanon all the way to Tyre.

It’s all part of the Holding Hands campaign to unite the Lebanese - literally - from coast to coast.

NOVMEBER 22 AND NOVEMBER 30 | BEIRUT/ACROSS THE COAST OF LEBANON | WWW.BEIRUTCELEBRATIONS.ORG

THE BEIRUT GROOVE COLLECTIVE PRESENTS MR. THING His name is synonymous with hip hop in the UK. First touching the tables in 1987, Mr Thing has been nonstop perfecting his art ever since and is now considered one of the world’s best. Touring the world with an understanding of records and music that is second to none, he always creates flawless and exciting sets mixing some of the rarest records with the most loved.

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 1 | YUKUNKUN

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THE IBERO-AMERICAN FILM FESTIVAL See a broad selection of 13 feature films that express the cultural identities of the Ibero-American World. This represents a huge effort by the Embassy of Spain in Lebanon and the Cervantes Institute in collaboration with the embassies of Argentina, Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Cuba, Mexico, Paraguay, Uruguay and Venezuela, plus the consulates of El Salvador, Portugal and Peru.

All films are in their original language with English subtitles, except for “Che Pykasumi,” which is in Guarani with Spanish subtitles.

October 30 to November 8 | Metropolis Empire Sofil | +9611587870 | +961 01 204 080 | 6,000 LL

MORNING YOGA AT BEIRUT WATERFRONT Rise and shine! The practice of yoga is already such a positive blessing, but picture this: it’s 10am at the Beirut Waterfront and you’re feeling the full power of Prana on your shoulders as you breathe in the salty breeze and transition into the perfect downward dog.

Practicing yoga in the morning reinvigorates the body and supercharges the mind. Get in on this waterfront yoga session with the Art of Living on November 9. I promise, it won’t disappoint. Namaste, scenesters.

NOVEMBER 9 | BEIRUT WATERFRONT | +9611281005 | WWW.BEIRUT.COM

PLEASE DON’T TOUCH EXHIBIT Station Beirut, in collaboration with Agial Art Gallery, would like to invite you to experience “Please Don’t Touch,” an exhibition by Nadine Abou Zaki.

This is an interactive performance introducing a new concept to sculpture. Nadine Abou Zaki sculpted blindfolded in the dark, focusing on the inner self, thereby substituting the sense of sight with that of touch. She invites you to touch, experience and interact in the dark with her sculptures.

NOVEMBER 20 TO DECEMBER 4 |STATION BEIRUT |

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OUT + ABOUT BEIRUT COOKING FESTIVAL Let me put it to you like this: if you consider yourself a foodie, then you absolutely will attend this annual November event. The Beirut Cooking Festival is a show packed with food demonstrations, recipes for everyday meals, easy entertaining dishes from celebrity chefs, cocktail courses and new trends in cooking, ingredients and equipment on the market. There will be food everywhere.

EVERYWHERE. You can probably bathe in it while you’re there.

NOVEMBER 6 TO NOVEMBER 8 | FROM 11:00 A.M. TO 6:00 P.M.| BIEL | TICKETS SOLD AT THE ENTRANCE FOR 10,000 LL

GUILLAME A BEYROUTH POP-UP SHOP After the huge success of this pop-up store in Beirut last year, the Guillame a Beyrouth concept is back for another round in 2014.

At the heart of the concept is the desire to offer a mix of antiques and contemporary interior design to Lebanese shoppers.

They’ve searched for antiques at auctions or at dealers in France or abroad to offer an eclectic selection from the 18th century through to the 1980s and contemporary time. Some pieces are signed (Gabriella Crespi, Jean Prouve, Fornasetti, Roger Capron, Gio ponti, and Joe Colombo), others aren’t, but all have charm.

DATE TBA IN NOVEMBER | FDOWNTOWN BEIRUT POP-UP SHOP | /GUILLAUMEBEIRUT

THE HANDMADE EXPO 2014 Lebanon’s best and brightest designers, crafters and hobbyists will gather to showcase their talents at a four-day event that’s set to become a cornerstone of the Lebanes crafting calendar.

The Handmade Expo 2014 will takes place at the end of November, so it’s the perfect time to start shopping for Christmas presents.

NOVEMBER 27 TO NOVEMBER 30 | +961 04 521 907 OR +961 04 410 608

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SWAN LAKE ON ICE See Swan Lake on Ice with the The Imperial Ice Stars in Lebanon for the first time.

Experience the breathtaking thrills of Olympic-level ice dancing on a theater stage, with dazzling costumes spectacular sets and Tchaikovsky’s glorious music. It’s a mind-blowing performance for the whole family starring Olga Sharutenko from TV’s Dancing on Ice. SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 15 | BIEL | $55

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ZODIAC FORECASTS FROM JONATHAN CAINER

November 2014 PEOPLE DON’T LEARN AND GROW UNLESS THEY ARE ENCOURAGED TO EXPLORE NEW POSSIBILITIES. FOR AS LONG AS WE THINK WE’RE FINE AS WE ARE, WITH MOST THINGS REMAINING MUCH AS THEY HAVE BEEN, WE CAN ALL CARRY ON WITH OUR OLD VICES AND BAD HABITS, IGNORING ALL WE MIGHT PREFER NOT TO SEE AND AVOIDING ALL OUR OPPORTUNITIES TO INTRODUCE CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. IN NOVEMBER, CONJUNCTIONS TO SATURN, FROM THE SUN, VENUS AND MERCURY, EFFECTIVELY INVITE US TO THINK ABOUT WHERE WE MIGHT HAVE DRAWN LINES THAT MAY NOW NEED TO BE ERASED AND REPLACED WITH BETTER BOUNDARIES.

SAGITTARIUS

EMMA STONE

November 23 - December 21 Sometimes you can sit on the same sofa, in the same room for weeks - or even years on end. Then one day, you just walk in and realise that if you move the furniture around, you can make the place totally different and a whole lot better. You don’t have to throw everything out and start all over again; you just have to give a creative shuffle to the existing components. Something like that is now happening in your broader ‘living space’. This month, you will see a new and easy solution to an old problem.

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SCORPIO October 24 - November 22

CAPRICORN

You have only just begun. In November, you can get a lot further. You can achieve a lot more. You have set an important process in motion. Already, it has begun to gain momentum. Soon, you will see a snowball effect. One thing will lead to another. Before you know it, it will be time to celebrate the arrival of a new era. Even the objective which now seems so deeply desirable, yet which appears to be so unattainable, will begin to look feasible. Don’t let yesterday’s disappointments spoil tomorrow’s hopes.

November 23 - December 21 Some days when we wake up we feel that we just can’t do anything, that we are not very good, that we don’t have what it takes, that we can’t be bothered and it is all too much.

There are other days when we feel ready for anything. ‘OK world, bring on your biggest challenge. I’ll rise to it!’ My question for you is not, ‘Which of these moods are you in now?’ But, ‘Which will you be in as the month goes by?’

Coming events may help you to notice a flaw in someone’s grand plan. Pull yourself together and you can set it right.

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AQUARIUS

PISCES

ARIES

January 21 - February 19 What’s too expensive? There is such a thing as a false economy. If you try to save too much, you could cut corners that cost more to repair. There is also the matter of what you deserve. Aren’t you entitled to the best? I’m not trying to encourage you to get into trouble. There is a point past which you must not go. But there is also, a risk that you will underestimate your own worth to others. November heralds a time to invest in your greatest and most potentially profitable asset: yourself! You have what you now need!

February 20 - March 20 Remember the dances we used to do? We went to those parties and made our cool moves. But if we were to do that now, we would look daft (unless, I suppose, we knew for sure there were no young people there)..

Are you looking at a situation now, through the eyes of someone you were long ago? November enables you to find a fresh perspective based on an understanding of who you are now, not who you used to be. All will improve as you find greater acceptance of yourself... and of all you now have to be proud of.

March 21 - April 20 In a strange way, our oldest, longest-established friends can be the biggest obstacle to our progress. If we start doing things differently, they don’t just notice, they raise eyebrows. They criticise and they may even try to dissuade us. Yet if we have the support of our colleagues, companions and loved ones there is almost no limit to what we can accomplish.

Life is inviting you to move on this month.

You’ll be pleasantly surprised in November, by how people move on with you if you invite them to.

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TAURUS

GEMINI

CANCER

April 21 - May 21 It is not that you feel some unbearably strong urge to be seen as a great expert.

You really don’t have a problem with making mistakes. You are always willing to learn and willing, too, to concede that we are none of us perfect. But what you really don’t like is to be told that you are wrong about something when you know perfectly well, that you are right! Now, having said all that, shall we discuss your outlook for November? Try to go easy, this month, on someone who cannot yet manage to see the obvious.

May 22 - June 22 Can we be sure, when we entertain an idea, that it is not somehow, causing a subtle shift in the energy of the cosmos? Simply by holding a notion in our mind we may be influencing the outcome of an event. What a responsibility. So, er... are we supposed to police our own thoughts lest we inadvertently contemplate something inappropriate? There are some things you are better off ignoring, if you can, in November. What naturally comes to your mind and won’t let you forget about it may well be what you need to heed!

June 23 - July 23 If you had known that things were going to be like this, perhaps you would not have done things quite like that. On balance, then, it is good that you did not know. You made a move.

It had a result. In retrospect, you clearly got the right outcome, even if you went through all the wrong processes! Powerful passions are now arising within you. Your heart is undoubtedly ruling your head. Should you try to plan more and feel less? In November, you must trust that what’s moving you is what you have always needed to be moved by.

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LEO

VIRGO

LIBRA

July 24 - August 23 Sometimes you don’t know what you want till you get it. We all learn to make the most of what we have. We also learn to reconcile ourselves to our disappointments. We suspect that in doing this we are ‘coping’. Actually, though, we may be thriving when we do this.

For, though this world may seem like a giant sweet store, the candies all taste much the same and the ones that really matter are those that contain hidden nutrition. In November, life shows you how blessed you have been by a situation you are half inclined to resent.

August 24 - September 23 So there you were, thinking you knew your limits. And now, here you are, having recently gone beyond several of those. If that can alter, what else can change? Where are you tending to see yourself as held back, hemmed in, beaten or bound? Why should you buy into that very ill-informed and biased idea? If someone else were being as negative towards you now, as you are tending to be towards yourself, you’d soon ignore them. Listen to your voice of greatest hope. Do what it wants you to do this month.

September 24 - October 23 They say, ‘Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.’

But you may well need to know the true state of whatever it is that you’ve been given, and it may not turn out to be quite as generous a gesture as it initially seemed. Then again, they also say that, ‘There’s no such thing as a free lunch.’ But there is. Neither be too suspicious nor too trusting in November. Be wary but don’t be paranoid. Something good is coming your way, and though there may be drawbacks attached, these are far outweighed by the potential benefits.

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JAGUAR MENA INVITES YOUNG ARTISTS TO UNLEASH CREATIVITY WITH DESIGN XE COMPETITION Hot on the heels of the spectacular Jaguar XE global reveal, the brand’s most advanced, efficient and refined luxury sports saloon, Jaguar MENA has launched a new initiative to give design students the chance to become part of the Jaguar XE story here in the region.

Design XE is a unique competition created to challenge university students to unleash their creativity by designing their own piece of art inspired by the stunning new Jaguar XE. Redefining the mid-size sports saloon, the new Jaguar XE is a true driver’s car that brings levels of innovation never before seen in the segment. Built exclusively in the UK, the Jaguar XE combines thrilling performance, class-leading design, intelligent technology features and Jaguar’s all-new aluminium architecture.

Design XE is open to art, design, illustration, photography, sculpture,

fashion, textiles and architecture students from universities in the UAE, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, Lebanon and Morocco. With minimal restrictions on their creative innovation, students are simply challenged to design a unique piece of art that takes inspiration from the new Jaguar XE sports saloon. Entrants can select any art form to express their design, including photography, digital media, painting, illustration or even 3D sculptures.

“Craftsmanship and artistry have always been at the heart of Jaguar’s brand DNA, resulting in a unique design language that has given the world such iconic cars as the E-Type, and the stunning Jaguar F-TYPE. With the new XE, our most contemporary Jaguar yet, what better way to ignite the generation of Jaguar fans than by inviting them to create their own XE-inspired artwork.”

Pre-registration for Design XE is now open at www.JaguarDesignXE. com with competition entries expected to commence by the end of September 2014. The competition is open to all students above the age of 18 studying courses in art, fashion, textiles, architecture and design in the five selected markets - UAE, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, Lebanon and Morocco - until the end of December 2014.

LABEL 5

LEADING BLENDED SCOTCH WHISKY LABEL 5 RECEIVES RAFT OF MEDALS AT INTERNATIONAL COMPETITIONS! Already awarded numerous medals, LABEL 5 Classic Black continued its winning streak with a Silver medal at the International Spirits Competition and a Bronze medal at the International Wine & Spirit Competition. After a Double Gold medal in 2013 at the San Francisco World Spirits Competition, the LABEL 5 Extra Premium 12yo was awarded this year a Gold medal at the International Wine & Spirit Competition. Launched last year at the TFWA Cannes Duty Free Exhibition, the LABEL 5 Extra Rare 18yo won a Gold medal at the Spirits Business Masters and International Spirits Competition. Moreover, it reaped a Silver Outstanding medal and Silver medal at the International Wine & Spirit Competition and San Francisco World Spirits Competition. These results confirm once again the finest quality of our products and the expertise and passion of our Master Blender.

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