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CONTENTS

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There’s great golf to be had in Portugal away from the Algarve

10 Home & Garden

From gingham prints to horsey accessories, the rural look is always in vogue

20 Fashion

Give your image a makeover with the help of these local boutiques

22 Young at heart

There are many positives to getting married later in life

24 Wedding countdown

26 Beauty

42 Glittering golf

Autumn is just around the corner... Here are our favourite fall products that will keep you looking great and feeling hydrated

Portugal has always been a favourite destination for golfers ‌ but there’s still lots of great courses to discover

28 Bride ideas

45 Looking Back

Looking for inspiration for your big day?

Rhiana Hughes knows just where to find it‌

These local weddings from the 1930s have their own place in history

32 Special memories

50 Motoring

Let these local businesses help you to create a wedding you will never forget

There are some very special anniversaries to be celebrated in this month’s round-up

PROMOTIONS: 34 PA Jewellery 47 Tankersley Park Golf Club

The seven most important parts of your big day – and how to cope with them

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50 YEARS IN BUSINESS At the Heating Installer Awards 2018 – We won the 2018 Heating Installer of the year for Yorkshire & the North East

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We are proud to support local causes. This is the Ecclesfield Red Rose JFC team that we sponsor

It was a year that changed history, 1968 was a year of seismic social and political change across the globe.

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Chris Bumford started the business, from humble beginnings in their spare bedroom in Wincobank. He installed his first boiler that same year, and never looked back.

Now run by Chris’ son Neil, the company goes from strength to strength in its fiftieth year.

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“We are incredibly proud of this milestone” says Neil. “It can be difficult to know which company to trust in your home.

I think the reason Bumfords is still here is that we value honesty and integrity, and we get the job done at a fair price.

And now with over 50 years of recommendations under our belt, people see us as a trustworthy family firm.”

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These horse bookends are sure to add country charm to any bookshelf. £49.95 for a pair from Avant Garde of Baslow, Calver Road, Baslow, DE45 1RP. Tel: 01246 583888, www.avantgardeofbaslow.com.

KEEP IT COUNTRY FROM GINGHAM PRINTS TO HORSEY ACCESSORIES, THE RURAL LOOK IS ALWAYS IN VOGUE. Available in a full range of Harris Tweed, with optional leather detailing, you’re sure to find an armchair to suit your country style. £1,499 from Anna Morgan (London), Tel. 01943 603006, www.anna-morgan.com

here are some traditional looks that never go out of style, and British country is one of them.

Whatever the time of year and whatever the latest interior trends, you’re sure to find all the country-look essentials up and down the high street.

Gingham is the perfect choice for both kitchen and living room furnishings, as well as classic floral prints. Blue and white floral designs are a popular choice for crockery and give your dining table a retro feel.

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Whether you’re a gin or whisky drinker, these glasses with a polished pewter horse design make the perfect pair. £75 from www.athomeinthecountry.co.uk Enjoy the great outdoors with this Country House Picnic Basket for four. £135 from www.sohohome.com

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No animal represents country pursuits quite like the horse, and you’ll find everything from realistic horse statuettes, to cute repeat prints to suit any home.

And finally, no quintessentially British home is complete without a sumptuous armchair and a log fire stove – just the thing for those chilly autumn evenings.

So whether you want your home to look retro and floral or contemporary and simple, you’re sure to find all the accessories you’ll need to create the perfect country retreat this autumn.

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The autumn winter 2018 collection from Dunelm combines home comfort and traditional country style. Gingham check cushion cover, £5, and cross stitch house cushion £12 from www.dunelm.com.

Laura Ashley’s In The Country Kitchen range features all your country classics including these pretty Meadow Flower kitchen accessories. Prices from £8 from www.lauraashley.com This lovely tea cosy with brilliant insulation and a horse design brings together two favourite British pass times. £14 from www.sophieallport.com.

Breathing new life into traditional blue and white porcelain, Vintage Indigo scatters dark blue roses on gingham, laced with Katie Alice’s trademark polka dots.

Prices from £12 from www.creative-tops.com.

The Firefox 8 Multifuel Stove in traditional cast iron has a controllable airwash system, which slows the flame to a lazy flicker or brings it to life at your fingertips. £475 from www.ludlowstoves.co.uk.

This Country Cottage natural oak and painted large dresser is both functional and stylish. £999 from www.oakfurnitureland.co.uk.

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IN BRIEF

MAKE YOUR HOME ENERGY SMARTER More and more homes across the region are benefitting from the security, comfort, convenience and energy efficiency offered by connected home technology.

The connected home is finally here thanks to a range of innovative products appearing on the market from a range of manufacturers including Google-owned Nest, Ring, Apple and Hive.

The connected home or ‘smart home’ connect all the devices in your life to the internet – not just your computer and smartphone, but everything. In the connected home you can control your heating, the doorbell, security cameras, lights and even the window blinds, speakers and appliances.

Below are just some of the products designed to make your home smart.

Smart Thermostats Your thermostat controls 60 per cent of your energy bill. A smart thermostat professionally installed will save you energy and money.

Smart thermostats get to know the temperature you like and will turn themselves down while you are away. With a smart thermostat you only use the energy that your home needs.

Smoke & CO Alarm Protect your home with a smart smoke and CO alarm. Because it is smart and connected to your phone, you will receive alerts and see what is wrong, even when you are away.

Smart Doorbells With a smart doorbell you can see who is there so you never miss a thing. Replace your existing doorbell with a smart product delivering HD video and images, even at night.

Camera Monitor outside and inside your home with a smart security camera. Because it is connected to your phone, you will never miss a thing.

While it is easy to purchase smart home products, a lot of home automation products require pre-purchase advice and professional installation. A few specialist installers are able to offer expert advice and installation including Bumfords Heating Limited.

Contact Bumfords to discuss making your home a smart home by calling 0114 345 2863, visiting their working showroom at 2d Shortwood Court, Hoyland, Barnsley, S74 9LH or visit www.bumfords.com.

Apartments planned for Chapeltown Baths site Architects from award-winning Sheffield multidisciplinary practice CODA Studios are drawing up plans for the redevelopment of the Chapeltown Baths site.

Working on behalf of Eyre Investments Ltd, the CODA team are working on the development of 32 one and two-bedroom apartments.

“This is a central location in the increasingly popular Chapeltown area of Sheffield and one in which there has already been a lot of interest,” said CODA associate director, Jamie Hanson.

“With its own train station, transport interchange and extremely close proximity to the M1, Chapeltown is seen as an increasingly popular residential area and one that is ideal for people working in Sheffield and in Rotherham, Barnsley and even Leeds, all of which are in easy access.

“Designed to our usual high standard, we believe this new project will make a valuable addition to Chapeltown’s housing stock.”

Zorro Lounge autumn opening at Fox Valley Work has started this month on creating a brand new casual restaurant and bar at Fox Valley shopping centre in Stocksbridge.

The popular brand, Lounges, will be opening its new Zorro Lounge in a £550,000 investment at the award-winning centre in October.

The company is currently transforming the former Central Bean coffee shop unit into a stunning, quirky and casual dining experience, bringing something completely different for visitors and shoppers.

The new café bar will cover 3,225 sq. ft. in the busy piazza area, with 25 new jobs being created.

Zorro Lounge will offer a great menu focussed on casual dining from breakfast through to dinner as well as a great cocktails and drinks menu.

To keep up to date with all the latest Fox Valley news, visit www.foxvalleysheffield.co.uk

Walk for Wentworth Woodhouse Fans of Wentworth Woodhouse are urged to put their best foot forward and join in a sponsored walk through the grounds and Fitzwilliam Estate.

The money-raiser will be held on Sunday 30 September and will cover ten miles. All ages are welcome (under 16s must be accompanied by an adult). The walk will start at the Stable Block at 10am and head into the surrounding estate.

The aim is for each walker to raise a minimum of £20 in sponsorship. The money will go to Wentworth Woodhouse Preservation Trust to help the house on its journey of restoration.

Water and snacks will be provided at the start of the course, and there’s a registration fee of £10 for each walker. Please contact WWPT on 01226 351161 for more details of the walk, and to register.

The last walkers should arrive back at Wentworth Woodhouse around 3pm, when refreshments will be provided. The person who raises the most in sponsorship will be awarded a guided tour for two.

Make Ecclesfield frack-free What is fracking and why should Ecclesfield by concerned? To find out, attend the Frack-Free Ecclesfield & Chapeltown Info Meeting on Tuesday 11 September at 7.30pm at Ecclesfield Library, High Street, S35 9UA.

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Sterling silver and blue lace agate cufflinks, handmade in Sheffield. £200 from a collection from PA Jewellery, The Old Bank, 23 Commonside, Sheffield, S10 1GD. Tel: 0114 266 9253

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The Sahara autumn winter 2018 collection is available from Chi Chi’s, Unit 16 + 17, The Forge, Dronfield, S18 1QX. Tel: 01246 417576

Magia wool, cashmere and silk coat in pink, £645. Available from Izzi of Baslow, Radcliffe House, Nether End, Baslow, DE45 1SR. Tel: 01246 582500

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It’s all about you WITH THE AVERAGE AGE AT WHICH COUPLES MARRY GETTING HIGHER, WE LOOK AT ‘OLDER’ BRIDES AND THINGS THEY NEED TO CONSIDER WHEN PLANNING THEIR BIG DAY. BY RHIANA HUGHES. hile the overall number of marriages in the UK has been steadily declining over recent years, the number of marriages at older ages is increasing, as is the age at which men and women are choosing to settle down. Research has shown that the average age for men to marry today is 37.5, while women are marrying slightly younger at 35.1. But does the age at which you decide to get married change your big day?

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What really is an ‘older bride’?

Not too long ago, you’d have been considered an older bride if you were walking down the aisle at any age over 23. And if you were over 30, forget it… you were well and truly on the shelf. While this isn’t the case anymore, what many consider to be an older bride really isn’t very old at all. Though the average age for women to marry is 35, you might find that you’re considered an older or ‘mature’ bride as soon as you’re past the age of 27. Whether you’re 27 or 77 though, you can still have your wedding on your terms, no matter why you’re choosing to marry a bit later on.

Why get married later in life?

There are plenty of reasons as to why the age at which women are marrying is increasing, and no two situations are identical. Whether you’ve chosen to wait until you’re financially secure, whether you were widowed, or whether it’s simply your second (maybe even third or fourth) marriage, your wedding day will still be one of the most special days of your life.

The cost of weddings is at an all-time high, so couples are giving themselves more time to save up for their big day, and with less pressure coming from families to get married, marriage is now the informed choice of couples who want to demonstrate their commitment to one another.

Research actually suggests that those who marry earlier in life may face greater challenges, as they could struggle with the

responsibilities of starting a family at a relatively early age and it could be harder for them to reach any educational or career goals that they’ve set for themselves. Getting married later in life means that the chances of you having already achieved these goals is much higher.

Not your first time down the aisle?

Whether it’s your first, second, third or even eighth marriage, your wedding day will still be just as important to you, and who says you’ve even got to walk down the aisle this time? There is no rule book that says you have to stick to tradition, and getting remarried might actually give you an excuse to have a wedding that caters more to your personality, rather than hosting a wedding that’s more about your guests than yourself.

Planning a wedding if it’s not your first time round could seem quite daunting; will your guests be as enthusiastic? Can you still register for gifts? How big should your bridal party be? Are you going to invite ex-partners?

What should you wear? Where should you have the ceremony? These are all questions that will come up, if not in your own head, likely asked by other people. There is no reason though, that you can’t still enjoy the process of planning your nuptials.

Try not to worry about what others will think of your big day, as it’s a day that above all else, should be enjoyed by you and your husband-to-be. If you can’t decide whether or not to invite an ex-partner, think about whether or not you’ll be comfortable with them there. If you feel uncomfortable registering for gifts, why not set up a wishing well so people can choose to contribute towards your honeymoon? Really, there shouldn’t be any problem that can’t be solved by thinking ‘what will make myself and my partner happy?’

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I married…’ as you don’t want your partner to feel that your day is being compared to your last wedding. This is especially true when it comes to your vows. If you’re choosing to write your own vows, steer clear of talking about how you used to feel before you met your significant other, instead focus on how they make you feel now. Not only will this highlight the fact that you’re still feeling this way, but it’ll avoid any awkwardness if you did choose to invite your ex!

Going to the chapel?

It can take a while to find the perfect place to hold your wedding celebrations, so before you embark on the mammoth task of sifting through magazines and endless webpages, make sure you have an idea of what you want from a venue.

If it’s a religious ceremony you were hoping for, make sure you check that this is an option for you, especially if it’s not your first marriage as some churches won’t perform religious ceremonies if you’ve been through a divorce. If it is the case that you can’t have a church wedding, consider getting married at your local registry office before heading to your church for a blessing instead.

It doesn’t have to be a white wedding…

…but it can be if you want it to be. Don’t think that because you’re not as young as you once were that you can’t wear white on your wedding day. Many young and first-time brides are wearing colour, so there’s no reason you can’t go for a classic look.

Getting married as an ‘older bride’ gives you more freedom when it comes to picking your outfit as there will likely be less of a preconceived idea of what you should wear coming from your guests. What’s important is that you feel comfortable and go for something that suits you and your individual style, be it a white gown, a blush mini dress or a champagne jumpsuit, you know best what looks good on you, so don’t let others influence your decision.

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CHECKLIST WITH SO MANY ASPECTS TO THINK ABOUT, PLANNING A WEDDING CAN BE ONE OF OUR MOST STRESSFUL LIFE EVENTS – BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE. RHIANA HUGHES TALKS YOU THROUGH THE SEVEN MOST IMPORTANT PARTS OF YOUR BIG DAY AND HOW TO TACKLE THEM.

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Venue While it used to be that churches were the only venues considered when it came to planning a wedding, this has completely changed today. You might want to stick to tradition and walk down the aisle at a beautiful chapel. But if that’s not for you there are a wealth of other venues and locations where you can tie the knot.

If you are brave enough to trust the British weather, consider an outdoor wedding incorporating natural colours and decoration into your big day. For those who don’t want to leave the success of their wedding up to Mother Nature, look into more modern venues with an industrial feel. Use copper and warm neutral tones for a gritty, earthy feel, and lighten up the space with fairy lights and light floral arrangements.

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Pampering

When choosing the cake for your big day you might feel overwhelmed by the number of flavours, sizes and designs on offer. If you’re having a small wedding, save yourself some money and opt for a one or two-tier cake with more of a personalised style, and if your wedding is going to be on the larger side, consider a bigger cake with more of a simple design.

Simple doesn’t mean boring, and there are countless bakeries that will offer beautiful cakes that can fit in with the theme of your wedding. You don’t have to stick to tradition and go for the common fruit cake either, if your favourite flavour is chocolate or funfetti – go for it. Dessert tables are proving more and more popular too, so if you don’t feel like splashing out on a big cake, pick some of your favourite sweet treats and let your guests pick at them throughout the night.

Brides, the natural look is in. Though your make up does need to last all day and photograph well, there are ways to have this done without looking completely unlike yourself, so be mindful when picking a makeup artist.

How you wear your hair for your wedding is as important as the dress. The bridal up do is slowly becoming a thing of the past, so why not consider a vamped up version of your everyday look.

Grooms, while you might be planning on just getting up and going on your big day, there are things you can do to get yourself feeling confident on what is your special day. Depending on how fast your hair grows, get yourself a haircut a week or two before the wedding so it’s not looking too overdone on the day.

Take care of any facial hair that could look messy; you don’t want to look back at photos and wish you’d had a shave. Also, there’s one thing you really should consider that might not have crossed your mind – get yourself a manicure. Your day is going to consist of a lot of hand shaking, and you probably don’t want to be reaching out to guests with long nails or dry palms.

Catering The traditional three course sit down meal is still popular, but this can make it harder to please all of your guests, especially with all the varying dietary requirements you’ll find within a friendship group these days, and even more so if you’ve invited any fussy little ones.

Instead of worrying about creating three or four separate menus, why not find a caterer who can create an assortment of small and sharing plates? Or if you’re having an outdoor wedding, look into having a food van or two.

Lots of restaurants are starting their own catering companies, so if you’re keeping your wedding local you may well be able to get your favourite dinner spot to come down and feed yourself and guests.

Flowers A bigger decision than it may first seem, choosing the flowers for your big day is an important and sometimes tricky part of wedding planning. You might have a favourite flower but will it fit in with the theme and colour scheme of your wedding? Many brides are opting for a more freeform bouquet rather than the tightly wired bunch; choosing to hold flowers that look like they might have just been plucked from a nearby garden while still looking elegant and cleverly put together.

When it comes to picking floral arrangements for the venue, think about hanging plants or table wreaths. These will still be eye-catching while allowing your guests to chat across the table without having to duck and dive behind an overbearing centrepiece.

What to wear Guest List You’d be amazed at how stressful putting together a guest list for your wedding can be.

You and your partner may not agree on who the other wishes to invite, and even if you do, the number of guests you end up with could mean the costs of your wedding have skyrocketed. While you might be scared of hurting people’s feelings by not inviting them to your nuptials, remember that the day is about you.

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Black tie is making a comeback, so grooms get your tux ready. If you’re not a fan of black or you’re planning a summer wedding and can’t face the heat in a threepiece, there are plenty of stores that can create the ideal suit to compliment the theme and your own personal style.

The main attraction of the day has always been the dress, and while you might feel that there’s a lot of pressure to look perfect on your big day, the most important thing is that you feel good in the gown you’ve chosen.

On trend at the moment are dresses that are relaxed and comfortable with a slightly bohemian feel, featuring elegant and intricate patterns. It’s not all about white anymore either, with brides opting for pastels or dresses featuring muted splashes of colour.

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BEAUTY

M&S La Maison de Senteurs Tendre Cherie Eau de Parfum £15 www.marksand spencer.com If you want something more delicate opt for the La Maison – a soft, romantic fragrance of fruits, jasmine and musk.

Debenhams Cartier La Panthere Eau de Parfum, Body Lotion and Mini £110 www.debenhams.com La Panthere is a captivating fragrance that reveals a free and passionate woman. It combines feline floral accord with velvety musky notes.

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Next Coral Blush 100ml Eau De Parfum £14 www.next.co.uk This fresh floral fragrance offers a burst of juniper berry, bergamot and Sicilian lemon and the wave of spicy aromatic black pepper and angelica seed create an air of mystery.

Bella Freud Pschoanalysis Eau De Parfum 100ml £165 www.libertylondon.com This parfum is the result of obsessive love; of your happiness being held in the hands of another; of a love that’s immediately satisfying, so what scent is more perfect for your big day?

IT’S ALL ABOUT FINDING THAT PERFECT SCENT FOR YOUR WALK DOWN THE AISLE. HERE ARE OUR TOP PICKS TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR MATCHING FRAGRANCE ON YOUR WEDDING DAY. Hermetica Megaflower £155 www.hermetic.com A bouquet of orange flower, wrapped with amber elements that add an inviting warmth. Like love at first sight, this fragrance strikes both a powerful yet delicate thunder of white florals and vetiver oil.

Sisley Limited Edition Soir d’Orient www.harrods.com Launching in August, this limited edition opulent fragrance has been created exclusively for Harrods. Drawing on the scents of Eau du Soir and presented in a stunning green and gold crocodile skin design it exudes a wild, precious and unexpected allure.

Chloe Nomade from £49 www.chloe.com A mix of softness and strength, the facets of this powerful floral chypre blow like the winds of freedom.

The intense, mineral character of the oak moss is shrouded in the voluptuous sweetness of the Mirabelle plum. From this freshness emanates a sensation of flowery luminescence carried by freesia.

New Look Mercury Fragrance 50ml £9.99 www.newlook.com It’s not all about the bride, as the groom needs to nail his perfect scent too. This is a spicy oriental fragrance bursting with rich opulent opening notes of bergamot, coriander, cardamom and Neroli.

Jo Malone Earl Grey & Cucumber £90 www.jomalone.co.uk A fragrance with a burst of bergamot, distinct to Earl Grey and the cool succulence of cucumber, counterpoised with a sweet base of beeswax, vanilla and musk – reviving and refreshing.

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John Lewis Twilly d’Hermes Eau de Parfum 50ml £70 www.johnlewis.com Ginger, tuberose and sandalwood are given a new twist. Combined they become searing spice, disconcerting attraction and a revelation of the carnal. Finished with a hand-tied silk ribbon, it’s perfect for the big day.

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BRIDE IDEAS LOOKING FOR INSPIRATION FOR YOUR BIG DAY? RHIANA HUGHES KNOWS JUST WHERE TO FIND IT… edding shows and fairs are the perfect place to gather inspiration for your big day.

Whether you’d like help organising the finer details or you need a hand pulling off a Royal Wedding-esque extravaganza, we’ve found the perfect collection of events to steer you in the right direction.

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The Big Bridal Pop Up Sale Hosted by Platinum Events Design, this one day event at Tankersley Manor Hotel is perfect for brides looking to bag themselves a bargain. Pop down to the event to browse their large selection of designer dresses, try any on that happen to catch your eye, and take away the dress of your dreams the very same day. They’ve even got a team of specialist seamstresses on hand to make any alterations you might need. It’s not all about the dresses though, make sure to check out the range of accessories on offer at the event that will complement your new frock perfectly. Tickets cost £4 for brides (including a goody bag worth over £10), and £2 for guests.

Tankersley Manor Hotel, Upper Tankersley, Barnsley, S75 3DQ Sunday 30 September 2018, 11am - 4pm Tickets on sale now from: www.fayres.moonfruit.com

Clifton Park Museum Wedding Fair Clifton Park Museum is a unique and picturesque venue located in the heart of Rotherham. Not only is it the perfect setting in which to host a wedding fair, but you might also find that it could be the perfect place to host your own special day. Made it at Last have put together the event, bringing a variety of experienced wedding exhibitors with them to help you create your own bespoke day.

Made it at Last is an offshoot of Juste Nous, a catering business which has been running since 1994, catering for weddings of all shapes and sizes. Having seen all sorts of different wedding themes, they know that no two weddings, nor two couples are alike, and this is why they ensure that their wedding fairs are representing not just one typical idea of what a wedding ‘should’ be. Clifton Park Museum will play host to a range of different exhibitors, from dress designers and jewellers, to photographers, florists, food and drink and more.

There’s no charge to attend the day, just make sure to register to get your hands on a goody bag and a glass of Pimms or fizz.

Clifton Park, Clifton Lane, Rotherham, S65 2AA Sunday 14 October, 12pm – 3pm Register by emailing: info@madeitatlast.co.uk or signing up at www.madeitatlast.co.uk

Magpie Wedding Show The first to hold a vintage wedding fair in the UK, Magpie Weddings are back with their Modern Vintage Wedding Extravaganza. Magpie Weddings want the brides and grooms that come to their event to enjoy finding new styles for their big day in a relaxed environment. Each of their shows have a range of wonderful suppliers, a craft DIY workshop or two, a fashion ‘show and tell’ parade, as well as live music, food and drink. They’ve also got an array of true vintage and antique wedding dresses and accessories for you to browse.

As well as all of this, there’s also an amazing opportunity to see the exhibitors at work at the event’s fake wedding. You can eat the cake and drink the fizz, see the photographer at work and even have a go at catching the bouquet (although you might want to leave this to any single friends you’ve brought along).

Tickets are £4 in advance or £5 on the door, or there’s the option to treat yourself and be a VIP bride for £10, securing yourself a seat at the wedding, and extras including a goody bag and a glass of prosecco on arrival.

Victoria Baths, Hathersage Road, Manchester, M13 0FE Sunday 28 October, 11am – 3pm Tickets on sale now from: www.magpiewedding.com

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The National Wedding Show

The UK Wedding Event

Described as the UK’s biggest wedding show, The National Wedding Show makes stops across the country each year, offering brides and grooms-to-be the opportunity to try and buy, book and hire, any and everything they could possibly need for their special day. The National Wedding show has hundreds of wedding specialists at each stop – bridal boutiques, florists, jewellers and even representatives from wedding venues to show you what a wide range of options you have in your local area and across the country.

Their flagship catwalk show showcases dresses from top designers to high street names, as well as showing ontrend hair, make up and accessory ideas. Men’s ‘groomswear’ makes an appearance, as well as mother of the bride outfits. The Birmingham and Manchester shows are coming up this autumn, and each of them are offering exclusive exhibitions. Birmingham offers wedding planning advice from Hitched, and Manchester’s Floral Inspiration Lab gives you the chance to join DIY workshops.

Standard tickets start from £14 or £35 for VIP tickets, which include exclusive access to VIP lounge, goody bag full of beauty products, reserved catwalk seating and more.

Hosted at Leeds United’s Elland Road, this huge West Yorkshire wedding fayre is sure to draw a large crowd of soon to be brides and grooms. The day will be run

by The UK Wedding Event, and they promise to give you access to over 100 exhibitors and two top catwalk shows. With sparkling drinks on arrival, free gift bags and live music added on top of this, it’s not one to be missed. Pre-booked tickets are selling for just 50p, but wait until the day comes round and you’ll find them at the much higher price of £7, so jump online now to grab yourself a bargain, and save your hard-earned cash for the day itself where there will be plenty on offer to pull at your purse strings.

Birmingham NEC Birmingham, North Avenue, Birmingham, B40 1NT Friday 28 – Sunday 30 September, 10am – 5pm Manchester Manchester Central, Windmill Street, Manchester, M2 3GX Saturday 27 – Sunday 28 October, 10am – 5pm

The Centenary Pavilion, Leeds United Football Club, Elland Road, Leeds, LS11 0ES Sunday 18 November, 11am – 3.30pm

Tickets on sale now from: www.nationalweddingshow.co.uk

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Whitley Hall Autumn Wedding Show With over six years of experience behind them, Wedding Fayres Yorkshire are back again, this time at Whitley Hall, a beautiful 16th century mansion house nestled in the hills of the South Yorkshire countryside. Showcasing some of the best wedding suppliers from around Yorkshire, this event will put brides-to-be in touch with contact from all areas of the wedding industry, giving them the best chance of getting what they want for their big day. You might even find that while you’re wandering around Whitley Hall, you fall in love with the place itself and decide that’s where you’d love to say I do.

There’s no admission charge, and you can grab yourself a free goody bag, some free magazines and enter yourself in their Louboutin competition, just make sure to remember to register your interest before you arrive.

Whitley Hall Hotel, Elliott Lane, Sheffield, S35 8NR Sunday 4 November, 11.30am – 3pm Register for tickets at: www.weddingfayresyorkshire.com

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Pink Boutique Pink realise that buying the mother of the bride’s outfit is just as important as buying the bride’s wedding dress, so their aim is to make mothers look and feel amazing.

They stock a fabulous selection in sizes 8 to 24, covering every budget, but on the occasion they don’t have what you want, they can order stock in. Try to visit them at least three to four months prior to the wedding. They also have hats and fascinators to hire from just £10.

Pink love to welcome customers, offering refreshments as you peruse the stock at your leisure, so it is also recommended you book an appointment. All outfits are tailored to fit perfectly with their seamstress for a small fee. Payment plans are available to help spread the cost.

Their brands include Carbotine, Zeila and Linea Raffaelli, while their new brands include Ribbons & Bows, Lexus and John Charles.

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YOU SAID YES You Said Yes is a South Yorkshire wedding planning and event company, giving local people the opportunity to have the very best wedding they possibly can – no matter what the budget.

You Said Yes appreciates that not every client has a bottomless pit of money to throw at their wedding and works with you to ensure that money is saved, using hand-picked wedding suppliers.

When YSY are not concentrating on bridal planning clients all over the UK, they host fabulous wedding fairs at local venues. Visit their fairs – not just to see the venue, but to see the number of different suppliers exhibiting under one roof.

Nobody likes paying over the odds and if there’s one thing that can get pricey, its weddings. With the amount of money You Said Yes will save you with their wedding planning services, you may be able to afford that honeymoon you never thought possible.

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Their Olaplex service is already proving popular as it conditions and strengthens hair and fixes the bonds in the centres of each strand – just the thing to get your hair smooth and silky for your big day.

If you are looking to change your shade in time for your wedding, come along and speak with their colour specialists. They offer a free consultation so you can weigh up all your options.

And don’t leave your up-do until the last minute. Get in touch to book your wedding hair today.

A warm welcome is guaranteed when you visit New Image. For over 30 years, they have been dressing ladies for important events, including one of the most important events in a mum’s calendar – the wedding of their daughter or son.

New Image specialise in mother of the bride and groom special occasionwear.

Collections have been personally selected from prestigious designers and New Image are excited at the arrival of these stunning outfits. The 2018 portfolio will include Condici, John Charles, Veni Infantino, Gina Bacconi, and Michaela Louisa, plus many others.

Appointments are advisable for Saturday as they enjoy offering a one-toone service. Two in-house seamstresses are also on hand to ensure the perfect fit.

Off-street parking is available at the rear of the store in the Park Hotel.

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Why we seal our weddings with a ring ZOE LEWIS, JEWELLER AND GEMMOLOGIST AT PA JEWELLERY, EXAMINES THE TRADITION AND LASTING APPEAL OF WEDDING RINGS. he exchanging of rings is an integral part of the wedding ceremony and one of the most important parts of the big day, but where does this tradition come from and why do we wear them?

The first evidence dates back at least 5,000 years to Ancient Egypt, where the rings were made from braided reeds, the complete circle representing eternity. The rings quickly degraded so reeds were soon replaced by more durable materials such as leather and bone. In the Roman Empire, iron was a common choice although wealthier people used gold; the ring was an important part of the marriage contract between families.

It was worn on the fourth finger of the bride’s left hand, still the traditional ring finger, because it was believed that a vein known as the ‘Vena Amoris’ ran directly from this finger to the heart. Although disproved by science, this romantic notion is still often cited as a reason for wearing the wedding ring in this position.

The tradition became absorbed into the Christian marriage ceremony during the Middle Ages. Over the centuries more precious metals were used and designs increased in complexity with valuable materials acting as a demonstration of wealth. Gemstones were added to the designs, special messages engraved and detailed scrollwork and patterns carved into the bands.

Only in the twentieth century did it become commonplace for men to wear wedding rings. During World War II, soldiers who were away fighting overseas chose to wear a ring as a comforting reminder of their loving families back home. Subsequently, jewellery for men became more fashionable and it is now so expected that when Prince William chose

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Wartime economising was also one of the reasons why plain bands became popular. Additionally, more simple designs enabled people to wear their ring all the time, and as women were increasingly receiving engagement rings, the wedding ring did not need to be so ornate. The yellow gold D-shape band became the default choice for most of the twentieth century.

Nowadays, the range of options available for wedding rings is enormous and many people are personalising their choice. Precious metals such as gold and platinum are still most common, but alternatives like titanium are increasingly popular.

A huge array of patterns and finishes are available, with or without diamonds or other gemstones. Many brides are choosing to match their engagement ring with a wedding band handmade to fit or a design that echoes the shape, profile and style of the existing ring.

We have certainly come a long way since the braided reeds of the Ancient Egyptians, but the meaning remains very much the same.

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Glittering golf on the Silver Coast PORTUGAL HAS ALWAYS BEEN A FAVOURITE DESTINATION FOR GOLFERS … BUT THERE’S STILL LOTS OF GREAT COURSES TO DISCOVER. ortugal continues to attract UK golfers in their droves particularly to the Algarve, yet a relatively new course on the block has revitalised interest in the Silver Coast, situated about one hour’s drive North of Lisbon.

Made popular for golfers 20 years ago when the Praia D’El Rey course and its upscale properties opened to wide acclaim, the area’s appeal received a major shot in the arm 12 months ago with the launch of the resort’s new course, West Cliffs Golf Links.

The first Portuguese venture by US designer Cynthia Dye has rapidly cemented its place among Portugal’s finest, indeed it is tipped to become known as one of the best in the whole of the continental Europe. It was named ‘World’s Best New Golf Course’ at the 2017 World Golf Awards.

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Resort as it is known, is Portugal’s most popular golf destination outside of the Algarve.

Business is booming with more than 33,000 rounds of golf played in the first five months this year on the two courses.

Praia D’El Rey has seen a 2018 increase of more than seven per cent on green fees booked on the corresponding period last year – with bookings up by nearly 20 per cent in May alone. And the numbers are just as impressive at West Cliffs, with more than 14,000 rounds having been played this year.

Its addition makes the Silver Coast an appealing location for golfers who like to play a few different tracks on their week away – just round the corner within easy reach are Royal Obidos Spa and Golf Resort and Bom Sucesso Golf.

There are several ways to combine golf and accommodation and there are good deals to be had.

WEST CLIFFS Praia D’El Rey Marriott Golf and Beach Resort www.praia-del-rey.com Cabell Robinson’s exceptional late-1990s layout at Praia D’El Rey has attracted visiting golfers since its inception and is famed for its challenge and variety. It opens in parkland style, but soon some great holes hugging the wild Atlantic coastline among sweeping sand dunes take you into links-style territory. It returns to a more heathland appearance, winding its way back to the clubhouse. It is no push over and indeed can be tough to play when the breeze blows off the beach. Better players will love it; the greens are true and it is an enjoyable test.

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West Cliffs Golf Links www.praia-del-rey.com West Cliffs has been created over 200 hectares of natural landscape and rolling sand dunes.

Already been tipped to become the number one golf course in Portugal surpassing the Algarve’s Monte Rei. Being relatively new, it currently looks a little scruffy in parts, particularly over the first three holes, but as it matures and blends into its wild landscape it will become a masterpiece.

Despite its youthful appearance, the fairways and greens are already in top shape, and the natural vegetation making up the rough is a pleasure on the eye, although a poor shot wide of the fairway will often lead to a lost ball.

The stretch from holes four to eight is particularly appealing, though fairly difficult. Variety is evident throughout the course, including on the huge rolling greens that present a number of challenges. One word of warning. Whatever your standard, play off the forward tees or West Cliffs will destroy you. @PulseRMC

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FACTFILE: ROYAL OBIDOS Royal Obidos Spa & Golf Resort www.royalobidos.com Opened in 2012 it was the last course designed by Seve Ballesteros, and what a tribute to the great man it really is. It is described as a parkland/heathland hybrid which makes a nice contrast to the links-like courses of Praia de Rey and West Cliffs. It differs from those in offering water hazards all over but its similarities include perfect maintenance and slick, large and undulating greens.

It features some great driving holes, notably the downhill par 5 2nd, and the well- placed water hazards will amuse – particularly the surrounding the island green on the par three 3rd, the extremely difficult 11th, and not least the spectacular finale on the 18th.

It plays pretty long, so be warned, and it’s fairly hilly with leg-sapping distances from green to tee, so a buggy is advisable.

The Silver Coast This is largely an unspoiled part of Portugal’s fabulous Atlantic coastline with big beaches and crashing waves that make it a favourite of the surfing set who converge on the fishing port of Peniche, just 30 minutes drive from the Praia D’El Rey resort.

Nearby is the old walled town of Obidos, unfortunately overrun by modern day tourism, but still worth a visit during a day off the course.

Winemaking in the area is top notch and wines are inexpensive even in the wide range of restaurants that show traditional Portuguese cuisine at its best. @PulseRMC

Getting there. Lisbon is well served by local airports and carriers include the Portuguese national airline TAP. Manchester Airport services, including parking and hotels, and be found at www.holidayextras.com The Silver Coast is easily reached by hire car from Lisbon airport via motorway.

Stay. Plenty of on-course options and great value playand-stay packages at the Marriott at Praia D’El Rey, the Evolutee Hotel at Royal Obidos, or the Bom Sucesso apartments.

Silver Coast. Information on tips on this fascinating region is well covered by Julie Dawn Fox, the excellent award winning English blogger based in Portugal. See www.juliedawnfox.com

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LOOKING BACK

Pretty as a picture THESE LOCAL WEDDINGS FROM THE 1930S HAVE THEIR OWN PLACE IN HISTORY. o celebrate Pulse’s September wedding special, we take a look back at some historical photos of local couples tying the knot.

Wedding trends may have changed over the decades, but the obligatory wedding party photo has remained a staple of any big day. Just look at these two old photographs from Around Stocksbridge: The Second Selection, compiled

by Stocksbridge and District History Society.

The first (top) shows a rather sombre looking family – although the couple on the right can’t help showing a hint of a smile – stood in a churchyard.

The accompanying text says: “The bride and groom, seen here with their wedding party, are Mr and Mrs Hubert Roberts. They were married in Langsett on 9 August 1933.

From left to right, they are: an uncle of the bride, Eva Portman, Ada Portman, Hubert Roberts, Phyllis Roberts, Percy Roberts.”

The couple in the second photo (bottom) and their wedding party look in much better spirits, though the bride’s dress is very much in

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keeping in style with the other brides as this was only a few years on in 1939.

It says: “The Hodgkinson family gathered here after the marriage of the eldest son, Charles Herbert Hodgkinson, to Hilda Cook of Deepcar. The marriage took place in Bolsterstone on 29 April 1939. Standing from left to right: Barbara, Brian, Edward, Charles, Hilda, Kenneth, Leslie and Norman. Seated are Mr Herbert Hodgkinson and Mrs Hilda Hodgkinson. Kneeling from left to right: Margaret Hilda, Alan and Jean.”

Nothing else is known about the families and their occupations, although their smartlooking suits and dresses suggest they are both of relatively high social standing – perhaps upper middle class.

If you can tell us anymore about the people in these photos, get in touch with us using the contact details below.

If you are interested in finding out more about Stocksbridge’s history and seeing more historical photos, the book Around Stocksbridge: The Second Selection is published by Tempus Publishing Limited and can be purchased online through Amazon and Ebay or ordered through your local bookstore.

If you have any other old pictures that you would like us to share, please send them, along with your name and a short description, to Phoebe Seymour, Pulse Looking Back, 6 Broadfield Court, Broadfield Business Park, Sheffield S8 0XF or email them to phoebe.seymour@ rmcmedia.co.uk. If you would like us to return your photographs, please include your address.

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TANKERSLEY PARK GOLF CLUB

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Autumn/winter offers THERE’S NEVER BEEN A BETTER TIME TO PAY A VISIT TO TANKERSLEY PARK GOLF CLUB... hether you are a golfer or a foodie, Tankersley Park Golf Club (TPGC) have something to entice the whole family this autumn and winter.

If you’ve been thinking about having a swing at golf, there’s never been a better time to become a member at TPGC. Take advantage of their latest golf offer, where you can get 16 months of golf for the price of 12. But you’ll need to act fast; this offer is only available until the end of September.

See details below to find out how you can take advantage of this offer.

Sunday lunches at the clubhouse have been very popular in the past, and after taking a hiatus, they are back for good and are better than ever. Enjoy one course for £8.95, two courses for £13.95 or three courses for £17.95. Please book in advance to avoid disappointment.

There is always a good time to enjoy some food at the clubhouse, with breakfast and lunches served throughout the week. Head chef, Anthony Mark has recently launched a new menu which now includes everything from bacon rolls, to healthy options such as the new tuna niçoise salad.

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Christmas Menu Offer: Evening Festive Menu Three courses @ £19.95 per person Lunch Festive Menu (11am-5pm) One course @ £7.95 each Twocourses @ £10.95 each What’s more, the recently refurbished clubhouse is a comfortable and contemporary place to enjoy a wide range of alcoholic and soft drinks. Regular favourites include John

Smith’s and John Smith’s Magnet Ale, as well as Sheffield’s own Farmers Blonde from Bradfield Brewery. The new Franklin and Sons soft drink range includes a delightful mix of fruity blends, while a coffee or tea is the perfect drink to warm up golfers before hitting the course this season.

And with Christmas fast approaching, it’s time to start booking your festive parties.

Come for an extra special meal from the Lunch Festive Menu, with one course (main) for £7.95 or two courses (main with a starter or dessert) for just £10.95 each, served between 11am and 5pm. Or if you’d rather make a night of it, the Evening Festive Menu includes three-course meals with all the trimmings for £19.95 per person, from 6pm onwards.

To find out more about what’s on offer at Tanksersley Park Golf Club, visit their website or email hospitality@tankersleyparkgolfclub.org.uk.

Tankersley Park Golf Club Park Lane, High Green, Sheffield, S35 4LG Tel: 0114 246 8247 www.tankersleyparkgolfclub.org.uk

GOLF OFFER: JOIN TPGC NOW AND GET 16 MONTHS MEMBERSHIP FOR THE PRICE OF 12 Yes – that’s four months of free golf!

T&C’s apply. Ring the Secretary, Mr Nigel Grice, on 0114 246 8247 (option 1 on your keypad) and quote ‘September 18’ to claim this fabulous offer. Offer ends Friday 31 September 2018.

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A very special car Bentley is celebrating its 100th year in 2019, so how do you celebrate such an occasion? By making a very special edition of your most prestigious vehicle, that’s how.

Called the Mulsanne W.O Edition by Mulliner, it’s a homage to founder W.O Bentley’s famous final 1930s design – the ‘8-litre’. What’s special about this is that each of the 100 cars built will hold a slice of crankshaft from W.O Bentley’s personal car.

This particular Mulsanne is very special because of the range of features it beholds: Onyx paintwork; Mulliner illuminated cocktail cabinet; an interior colour split made from luxurious Fireglow Heritage and Fireglow hide with Beluga hide detailing and blind stitching.

A great collectors piece for the all the 100 lucky customers.

Double decade The Audi TT is celebrating its 20th anniversary.

The TT first made its debut to the world with its groundbreaking design back in 1998, being released onto the road three years later.

To celebrate this double decade anniversary, the TT coupe and roadster have undergone enhancements to exterior design, power upgrades and an equipment uplift. The S-Line and Black edition models are further differentiated from their predecessors. The Audi virtual cockpit now has an additional sport display providing information on engine output, torque and G-forces.

The 1.8-litre TFSI engine is being replaced by a 194hp 2.0-litre engine and the 227hp 2.0-litre engine has been boosted up to 242hp.

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Performance car enthusiasts will know of the Megane R.S; its driving dynamics are the best in the hot hatch business, and the Trophy raises the bar even further.

We now have a new Megane R.S Trophy and it’s going to shake up the hot hatch segment. Based on the Cup chassis, the Trophy boasts a new 1.8-litre turbo engine producing 300hp and 310lb ft of torque. As with all Megane R.S models, power is delivered through the front wheels via either a six-speed manual or six-speed dualclutch gearbox.

Like the ordinary Megane R.S, the Trophy comes with a rearwheel steering system which aids the agility of the car to make it much more nimble.

Orders open this autumn with deliveries starting in the winter.

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Say hello to the first ever Marvel-themed car, the Hyundai Kona Iron Man Edition.

On the outside, it has a unique frontlighting signature, including a custom daytime running light form that closely resembles the facemask and eye shape of the Iron Man suit. Other Stark-like flourishes include an Iron Man mask motif on the roof, a unique V-shaped hood garnish, front bonnet Iron Man mask badging and custom 18-inch alloy wheels with Iron Man mask centre caps. The exterior colour is an exclusive Iron Man red with matte grey.

Inside, Tony Stark’s signature adorns the instrument panel alongside a unique Iron Man shift lever knob, a special head up display and centre stack featuring Iron Man visual graphics, and a custom seat design.