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in this issue DEPARTMENTS FRONT WORDS – 4 ALUM & I – 6 Mexia Class of ’99 holds garage sale fundraiser by Lindsay Liepman Spinetto

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August/September/October 2009 Volume 20 • Number 1 PUBLISHER / EDITOR IN CHIEF

Edith Wagner TRAVEL EDITOR

Jacky Runice ART DIRECTOR

Jennifer Rueth

Treasure passed at Deschner Family Reunion by Marsha Hoffmann Rising Neal Family tree chart by Carole Neal Relatively speaking by Carllene Marek American Flag of Faces™, remembering at the reunion

Marion Liston Senior Account Manager

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Reunion School Capitol Visitors Center, Jackson Automobile Co., search ideas New book: Southern Fried Reunion

Andrew Russell Bordeaux Nicole Dettmering Ksioszk

MASTERPLAN – 12 Spaulding descendants meet in DC by Deirdre W. Spaulding-Yeoman DSc A hearty homecoming by Andrew Walker Younger generation steps up by Lindsey Clark Making mountains of memories by Angeline Warren Back for our future by Delphine Steficek BBQ, Beale Street and the Branches by Diane Gentry Martin Stepping-Chicago style by Steven C. Thedford Half century of clan gatherings by Dr. Cheryl Conetsco, and David Conetsco

REUNION VENUES & FEATURES – 20 Looking for a reunion place? Getting quotes and proposals Special place for special memories by Steve Okuno The easiest family reunion ever by Deborah Hicks A tribute to the perfect location by Amanda Hamm Reasons to book an all-inclusive Plant a “Family Tree” in Ohio State Parks Arkansas, a natural reunion place by Edith Wagner Owen family has zip by Elizabeth Leis-Newman More family reunions in Arkansas: Thomas, Parker, Dixon

MILITARY REUNION NEWS – 30 The Alliance of Military Reunions: join now! The Pledge by John J. Lesjack 52nd Fighter Group, Veterans Day/Branson’s Celebration, Planners in Newport News, Virginia, Vietnam Veterans 9th Infantry Division, Gold Star Families, Sands Resorts “Hall of Heroes”

REUNION RESOURCES – 34 A directory of reunion-friendly places, services, vendors and products. ON THE COVER Hanlon Family Reunion, Elm Grove, Wisconsin. Photo credit: Karla Lavin.

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Lindsey Clark • Dr. Cheryl Conetsco David Conetsco • Kevin Donohue Amanda Hamm • Deborah Hicks Elizabeth Leis-Newman John J. Lesjack • Carllene Marek Diane Gentry Martin • Doris Dixon McCall Mary Mitchell-Davis Mona L. Muhammad • Carole Neal Steve Okuno • Marsha Hoffman Rising Sylvia Robinson • Skip Sander Ruth Schmelzer Deirdre W. Spaulding-Yeoman DSc Vincent Spaulding • Lindsay Liepman Spinetto Jeri Sprecher • Delphine Steficek Steven C. Thedford • Andrew Walker Angeline Warren REUNIONS MAGAZINE, INC. (ISSN #1046-5s235), is published 4 times per year. Send correspondence, queries, submissions, subscriptions, advertising to REUNIONS MAGAZINE, PO Box 11727, Milwaukee WI 53211-0727. Written permission from the publisher is required for reproduction of any part of this book except pages which encourage sharing. Please explain your intended use when requesting permission to reprint. Email: editor@reunionsmag.com or fax 414263-6331. Tear sheets of reviews and reprints required. REUNIONS MAGAZINE, INC., will not be liable for information presented as facts contained in any of our advertising, byline stories or materials. We reserve the right to edit and/or refuse any material submitted for publication. We solicit participation and take responsibility for submitted materials. Unless accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope (SASE), submissions and photos will not be returned. All materials sent for purposes of publication become property of REUNIONS MAGAZINE, INC. Subscriptions: US and Canada $9.99/yr, $17.99/2 yrs. Foreign orders add $36 for subscriptions. All foreign payment in US funds or drawn on a US bank. Back issues available for $3 each plus postage. Payment must accompany requests for subscriptions, back issues or other items for sale. Advertising rate information available from REUNIONS MAGAZINE, INC., PO Box 11727, Milwaukee WI 53211-0727; 414-263-4567; fax 414-2636331; e-mail editor@reunionsmag.com; reunionsmag.com. © 2009 REUNIONS MAGAZINE, INC. A U G U ST / S E P T E M B E R / O C TO B E R 20 0 9 O R E U N I O N S 3

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Be in touch! Mail to ronic on many levels is the fact that group. We salute you and hope our efforts R EUNIONS MAGAZINE this issue we’ve been struggling to help you accomplish what you set out to PO Box 11727 “get out the door” is the first of our do! We wish you continued success. EW Milwaukee WI 53211-0727 20th volume … the beginning of our NOW, SHOOTIN’ FROM THE HIP 20th year. When we started 20 years ago, For charge orders ’d also like to share how we’re there was no internet or email, production call 800-373-7933 or weathering both the economy and the was still pasted on “boards” and we visit www.reunionsmag.com uncertainty about publications in labeled and mailed every single issue by or fax it to 414-263-6331 general. First, I feel there will hand for years. Amazing changes and so continue to be a place for specialty, niche many for the better. Or best of all, e-mail publications and have high hopes for Further irony: our start-up took place in editor@reunionsmag.com Reunions magazine. That said, you’ll no an economy when everyone warned us not Become a fan at doubt notice that this is a thinner than to do it — “This is not the time.” But we facebook.com usual book (as are all the magazines you persevered and thrived in time and receive). There are many reasons but chief captured an audience that has never failed among them is that we depend upon to keep our spirits up. advertisers who are also hurting. The cost of printing and Here’s a good example. Recently Cheryl Coleman, constant creep of postage increases do not help. We are Conyers, Georgia, wrote to thank us for “all the support and eager to continue providing reunion planning information guidance” they’d found in preparation for the Pearson for you because we believe in reunions and their Swindall Family Reunion. They used Reunions Workbook, importance to the millions who enjoy them every year. website and podcasts “to make our First Reunion an overwhelming success in a down economy.” Over 180 FROSTING ON THE CAKE family members attended from 16 states and military families coming from Italy and Iraq! We have never focused much on our own milestones or even how to acknowledge this one, which did not exactly pop right out at us. We’re usually consumed, busy keeping the magazine going day-to-day, so fireworks and champagne toasts are mostly just nice ideas but probably not the way we’ll celebrate. Since we are a lean, mean, magazine-making machine, I’d like to introduce the people behind this effort. We have almost no turnover and have had the same fingers in the pie since the beginning. I (Edith Wagner) am the founder, publisher, editor and have been since day one. Karla Lavin and Marion Liston have been with the magazine since about day two and have helped it grow and The 1st prize, gold winner of the Seideman Family Reunion Kuchen (cake) Contest, prosper. Karla has emerged as our technology wizard and a blueberry tart, brought $225 in an auction that raised $840 for a total of 14 cakes. Marion’s sales prowess has supported the magazine for I was a judge and the decision was not easy! many years. Oh, yes, their kids were in kindergarten when On a very personal note, I have shared our dilemmas they came to the magazine, and even the kids worked for us with very few people and have been bolstered by an on and off, in summers and now have all finished college outpouring of consideration. My attorney is waiving some including one a PhD and medical school. fees, our art director offered to cut the fee for this issue to Rounding out our office staff, Andrew Russell Bordeaux practically nothing, a friend who designs my Power Point is our CDO (Chief Data Officer), who manages and presentations has offered to provide new ones gratis. That’s maintains lists. He is a student at the University of big savings, folks, and enormously appreciated. Wisconsin-Milwaukee, whose youth brightens our days. Methinks, we’re all in this together and I’d like to ask Our look and feel are the responsibility of Jennifer Rueth your indulgence as well. If Reunions magazine is of value who has been our art director for at least 15 years. She makes to you, we invite you to pay for a subscription but far more each issue a reality. Mary Thiele Fobian edits me in Pacific importantly, we’d like you to proselytize for us. Just Grove, California. And new to our magazine-making team is mention Reunions magazine when you’re talking about your Nicole Dettmering Ksioszk, who does machine editing. reunion to someone at a convention and visitors bureau or I am the only one who works full-time, so you can see our hotel or resort or wherever you are looking to have your tight ship sails an often blustery sea, but always with our reunion. Do they advertise? Do they want to reach more eyes focused on reunions and you, the reunion organizers reunions? Introduce the magazine to them! And thanks for who so selflessly tackle all the details and challenges that your support! EW, again. result in memorable events for your family, class or other

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Mexia Class of ’99 holds garage sale fundraiser “

he class garage sale was a huge success!” wrote Lindsay Liepman Spinetto, Mexia, Texas, High School Class of 1999 Reunion Committee President. Items for sale included furniture, baby items, clothing, cakes and much more. Classmates as far away as Missouri and Organizers of Mexia Class of 1999 garage sale, (l to r) Angela McCreight Guzman-Food Florida sent items to Chair/Organized Garage Sale, Erica York-Event Chair, Jenna Henry Mutz-Secretary. sell. The class is also accepting donations raising money, the classmates who through their website. The class raised helped run the garage sale also got to see more than $500 toward the cost of their each other after many years away. It was ten-year reunion in September. a successful event. Lindsay continued, “We know times Mexia, Texas, is a small town 90 miles are tough and we don’t want that to cause south of Dallas. There were 131 people classmates to stay home. The goal of our in the Class of 1999. The reunion theme Reunion Committee is to raise enough is “Party like it’s 1999.” They have a money so we don’t have to charge a ticket Friday night party, Saturday Open House price. Other fundraisers planned include at the school and a barbecue picnic at selling temporary tattoos of our Mascot Old Ft. Parker. Logo. We’ve already made $100 in one They hope to pump thousands of week of sales. We’re also selling t-shirts.” dollars into the local economy and Planning began in January and the provide a weekend full of events at no class garage sale was Angela McCreight individual cost to each alum. The class Guzman’s idea. She opened her home also hopes to raise enough money to make and encouraged everyone to donate items a donation to the Mexia Schools Museum. to sell. We got started bright and early at The MHS Class of 1999 Reunion will 7 AM on a Saturday. People from the be September 10-11, 2009. Visit the community came out to buy items and class website (www.mexia99.com) for support the class. Angela’s family also more information. baked cakes and goodies to sell. Besides

People look through items for sale at Class of ’99 Garage Sale.

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American Flag of Faces™

he Statue of Liberty-Ellis Island Foundation, Inc., recently launched its new American Flag of Faces™ website, FlagOfFaces.org. This interactive website invites all Americans to submit photos of their families, ancestors, even themselves to be a part of this living, ever-changing American mosaic. Each image can be clicked on and enlarged. Users can search by name to call up specific individual or family photos. The American Flag of Faces™ will be in the upcoming Peopling of America® Center, an expansion of the Ellis Island Immigration Museum, opening in 2011. It will illustrate the American immigration story across generations, and the museum will be renamed Ellis Island: The National Museum of Immigration. Visit flagoffaces.org.

Relatively Speaking

arllene Marek, in Food For Thought, A News Café, in Redding, California, says genealogical information often comes from details provided by older family members. They can fill in gaps, offer important clues and explain ancestors or relatives. Family reunions are an opportunity to solicit and collect family history data from members. Reunions are the best place to share the fruits and triumphs of your genealogical passion. Create a display to share your research findings with family members. Include books, important historical documents and papers, pictures, maps, memorabilia and artifacts. If you do create a display, plan, construct and test it ahead of time. Ask others to bring and share items of family interest such as old photos, letters and heirlooms. Display and solve the mystery of materials, papers and photos you cannot identify. Ask members to bring mystery photos. Indicate who brought each photo, and then ask everyone to look at them and see if they can identify people in the pictures. This is a perfect opportunity for some of your older members to shine, because they know the people and places, occasions and reasons for the pictures. If you have artifacts you cannot identify, bring them along, too.

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T R E AS U R E PASS E D AT

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just came back from a small family reunion that I organized in Hesston, Kansas, where my mother was born and many of the family still live. Ages one year to 94: 18 of us all together. It was fantastic. We had brunch at the Schowalter Villa, a Mennonite retirement community, where the oldest cousins live, and then all went out to the homestead that has been restored. The couple who own the homestead now were wonderful to let us tour the house and barn. Many old memories were shared. I had planned some “structured” activities just in case, but none was needed. I printed the invitations myself, with Warm hugs, vivacious a photograph of our grandmother conversation, and singing old and great-grandmother, Bertha songs entertained all. Christina Deschner, on the front. The invitation was the size of a It was time for me to pass regular for-purchase invitation. on some of my “heirlooms” and it was good to be able to do it in person. The old Seth Thomas clock was the hardest to give away, but my cousin Jan literally cried when she learned she was to have it. She wanted it when Grandma died in 1973, but I beat her to the request. I enjoyed it for over 30 years. Marsha Hoffman Rising, the author, Reported by Marsha Hoffman Rising, Springfield, Missouri and Milford Weaver are first cousins.

The Neal Family Tree chart

othing was written in the columns of the Neal Family Tree chart. The idea was for family members to write in where they fit in the family. Reunion organizer Carole Neal, Castro Valley, California, said her brother brought an enlarged copy of the chart (3' x 3') attached to a cardboard backing and displayed it at the Welcome Reception/Meet and Greet so family members could write their names in the appropriate family branch. Just a note: one of our cousins who attended the reunion passed away several months later. She was only 55. Her brother had died two months prior. While we were expecting his death (he suffered from lung cancer), hers was totally unexpected. It just underscores the importance of having family reunions because one never knows what the future holds.

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Jackson Automobile Company cars wanted for reunion Most of these events are sponsored and presented by convention and visitors bureaus and take place on Saturdays unless noted. All prefer or require advance reservation, and are free or at nominal cost. For more information, visit reunionsmag.com. ALPHARETTA, GEORGIA

Call Alpharetta CVB, toll-free 877-202-5961, Carol Gryson, carol@awesomealpharetta.com ATLANTA, GEORGIA

Contact Nina House, Atlanta CVB; 404-521-6640; nhouse@atlanta.net BRANSON, MISSOURI

Military Reunion Planners Conference hosted by the Branson/Lakes Area Chamber of Commerce and CVB. Contact Debbie Chesnokov, Leisure Group Sales Manager, 800-214-3661; dchesnokov@bransoncvb.com; ExploreBranson.com/MilitaryReunion COBB COUNTY, GEORGIA

September 19, 2009 10:00am – 1:00pm Complimentary luncheon, family reunion planning guide, tradeshow (hotels, attractions, etc.). Free to anyone planning a family reunion in Cobb County; seating limited to two guests per reunion. Contact Kathy Buske, Cobb County CVB, 678-303-2624 or kbuske@cobbcvb.com DEKALB COUNTY, GEORGIA

September 19, October 10 and 17, November 7 and November 21, 2009 Contact Carol Murray, DeKalb County CVB, 800-999-6055 DETROIT, MICHIGAN

October 17, 2009 9:00am – 1:30pm FREE Family Reunion Planning Seminar “Planning a Successful Reunion in the “D”! The Detroit Metro Convention & Visitors Bureau (DMCVB) Visit www.visitdetroit.com. Contact Nikki Donald, ndonald@visitdetroit.com

bout 20,000 cars were produced by Jackson Automobile Company between 1902 and 1923. Todd Holton has located more than 45. He is trying to bring as many as possible to Jackson, Michigan, September 18-20, 2009, for the Jackson National Automobile Event. Cars made by Fuller Buggy Co., bought out by Jackson Automobile, are also part of the event. Holton hopes to hear from anyone who knows employees who worked for the companies and he wants to find photographs or memorabilia to a display. Contact Todd Holton at 517-206-5448 or 6071 Parsons Road, Concord MI 49237. From a story by Bill Chapin in The Jackson Citizen Patriot, Jackson, Michigan.

Exhibit changes at Capitol Visitor Center

otation of documents at the US Capitol Visitor Center in Washington, DC, keeps the Center’s Exhibition Hall exhibit about Congress fresh for returning visitors. Original documents are loaned from the National Archives and Records Administration (NARA) and the Library of Congress. The 1787 Constitutional Convention printed only two drafts of the Constitution for discussion. The second draft, on display at the Visitor Center, replaced a list of states with the phrase, “We the People of the United States.” In 1862, President Lincoln signed an act emancipating slaves in the nation’s capital. Original notes for the legislation are on display. Visit www.visitthecapitol.gov.

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November 13-15, 2009 Family Reunion University YMCA of the Rockies, Estes Park Center Contact Conference Office at 800-777-9622 FAIRFAX, VIRGINIA

February 20, 2010 Meet Reunions Magazine editor, Edith Wagner Contact Dean Miller, VisitFairfax, 703-752-9509 FLINT, MICHIGAN

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A list of supplies requisitioned for the historic “Lewis and Clark” expedition by the famous explorer, Meriwether Lewis, is on display at the Capitol Visitor Center. From Records of the Office of the Quartermaster General, NARA, Washington, DC.

ndependence, Missouri, an American Original, offers its Visitors Guide and invitation to visit the Queen City of Trails. Learn about highlights such as the Truman Library and Home, beginning of the Sante Fe, Oregon and California Trails and explore the new Midwest Genealogy Center. Visit IndependenceMeetings.com.

Most of these events are sponsored and presented by convention and visitors bureaus and take place on Saturdays unless noted. All prefer or require advance reservation, and are free or at nominal cost. For more information, visit reunionsmag.com. GREENWOOD, SOUTH CAROLINA

Contact Lindsay Burns, 864-953-2464; Lindsay.burns@cityofgreenwoodsc.com

Looking for friends?

im Miller, editor of the Savvy Senior column in Richmond, Virginia’s Richmond Times Dispatch, made these suggestions to someone who wanted to reach long-lost friends from years ago. He suggests, before you start, jot down any information you remember about the person: full name, age or birth date, last known address or phone number, email address, names of family members, etc. It will help turn up clues. A good place to start is google. Type in the person’s full name in quotation marks (for example, “John Doe”). Unless your friend has a unique name, there are lots of results. Add more criteria to narrow the search: a middle initial or middle name, the city or state where they may live, or their occupation. Use the advanced search feature. Other free search sites are www.411.com (a reverse phone and address look-up), www.zabasearch.com and http://people.yahoo.com. Check your high school’s alumni web page. Classmates.com is commonly used to track down former classmates. www.alumniclass.com hosts thousands of high schools, as does reunionsmag.com in upcoming reunions. For college friends, contact the alumni association. If they’re not able to give you contact information, they may forward a message for you. For sorority or fraternity members, check out www.greekpages.com. If you’re looking for someone who served in the military, try Military.com’s Buddy Finder. If the person you’re looking for may have passed away, try www.legacy.com, which provides links to obituaries in a network of newspapers, or www.ancestry.com.

outhern Fried Reunion by John Alan Perry (Publish America, paper, 176pp, $24.95) tells the story of a young man who answers his mother’s call and returns home to Pitt County, North Carolina, from New York for his family reunion. He is feeling pretty good about himself and his life but during his visit, he learns family secrets, endures a tragedy and begins to focus on what matters in his life. Found in the Greenville Daily Reflector, Greenville, North Carolina

GWINNETT COUNTY, GEORGIA

Friday, October 9, 2009 ABCs of Planning a Family Reunion. Complimentary lunch, Family Reunion Planning Guide. Reservations only, no walk-ins. Contact Linda Busby, GCTS, Gwinnett CVB Education Specialist, 888-494-6638; lbusby@gcvb.org. KISSIMMEE, FLORIDA

Autumn 2009 Contact Sara Melendez-Davis at 800-831-1844, ext 42446; smelendez@floridakiss.com LAKE COUNTY, ILLINOIS

Three day workshop experience includes educational sessions, hotels and venues, exhibition tours and idea sharing. Meet Reunions magazine editor, Edith Wagner. Contact Kimberly Ghys, Lake County CVB, 800-Lake-Now; www.lakecountyreunions.com LOUISVILLE, KENTUCKY

November 14, 2009 Contact Keri Willard, Louisville CVB, 502-560-1487; kwillard@gotolouisville.com MINNEAPOLIS, MINNESOTA

Contact Sheila Nickelson, Meet Minneapolis, 800-445-7412; www.minneapolis.org/reunions NEWPORT NEWS, VIRGINIA

Military Reunion Planner Familiarization (FAM) Tour. Complimentary accommodations. Contact Cheryl Morales, 888-493-7386; cmorales@nngov.com SHREVEPORT-BOSSIER CITY, LOUISIANA

October 10, 2009 Contact Kevin Flowers, Shreveport-Bossier Convention & Tourist Bureau, 800-551-8682; kflowers@sbctb.org WINTER PARK, COLORADO

October 23-25, 2009 Family Reunion University YMCA of the Rockies, Snow Mountain Ranch Contact Conference Office, 800-777-9622 A U G U ST / S E P T E M B E R / O C TO B E R 20 0 9 O R E U N I O N S 11

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Spaulding descendants meet in DC he Benjamin and Edith Spaulding Descendants (BSD) 2008 Family Reunion met in Washington, DC, just two blocks from the White House. The theme for this 14th biennial family reunion was “Coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, working together is success.” Reunion attendance numbered approximately 500 cousins. The BSD 2008 Family Reunion, of convention proportion, held a golf outing, educational workshops, family business and stockholders meetings, children’s activities, business fair and networking event, silent auction and awards banquet. BSD members number in the thousands and they are among the largest organized families in the US, encompassing both for-profit and non-profit corporations (www.spauldingfamily.com). Speakers—all Spauldings—included the Honorable Sandra Spaulding Hughes, member of the North Carolina State Legislature, Maceo K. Sloan, one of Black Enterprise Magazine’s Top 50 African Americans on Wall Street, and Steadman

Graham, author of two New York Times bestseller books. Benjamin Spaulding (1773-1862 in Duplin County, North Carolina) and Edith D. Jacobs (1786-1871) had ten children. Benjamin and his children were landowners in Columbus and Bladen Counties, North Carolina, and produced descendants who have left their mark in all walks of life. Spaulding descendants have distinguished themselves in international, national and local arenas, in the fields of Law, Government Service, Public Safety, Business, Farming and Agriculture, Technology, Education and Medicine. Citations and proclamations were received from a letter of greetings from the President, Congresswoman Elinor Holmes Norton, Washington DC Mayor Adrian Fenty, and DC Councilmembers and Maryland, Virginia and North Carolina legislators. From a report prepared by Deirdre W. Spaulding-Yeoman DSc, Washington, DC, Chairperson of the 2008 Reunion

MORE ABOUT THE SPAULDINGS riting in Washington DC’s Washington Times, Kate Tsubata said the Spaulding Family Reunion is more like a convention, with hundreds of attendees and a wide variety of events. Bernardine Spaulding Evans, adjunct professor at Montgomery College and mother of three children, initiated a children’s program for the reunion. With a sister and cousins, Evans created a program that helped the children connect with one another and with their historical legacy.

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“We asked the children to find which family member was an Air Force One pilot, which was a firefighter, businessman, current award winner. ... In this way, they could connect to the family history, and learn their origins,” Evans said. The Spaulding family has long championed entrepreneurship and education. They have organized for-profit and not-for-profit entities, and sponsor scholarships, support professional networking, and model the values of education, diligence, stewardship and public service.

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A hearty homecoming by Andrew Walker oming Home ...Where The Heart Is” was the theme of the Winston Family Reunion in Shreveport, Louisiana. It began on Thursday with relatives treated to a “Taste of Home,” consisting of delectable dishes (fried catfish, mustard greens, potato salad, pound cake to name just a few) prepared by the family’s best culinary experts. Everyone signed commemorative ribbons to place on family members’ graves on Saturday. After devotion Friday morning, everyone went to Grand Bayou Resort in Coushatta, Louisiana, for our picnic. Activities included funky-style dancing, The Winston family elders comprise the “Royal Court” (left to right) Vencine W. Palmer, Corine W. Tanner, Lorene T. Winston, football, a piñata, fishing, the Winston Berle Winston, Sr, John Winston, Sr, Nettie P. Winston, Merle W. Chivis, Lacyne W. Walker-Gamble and Rev. George A. Gamble. Family Reunion Bingo Classic and segment called “We Speak Your Name,” when several relatives scrumptious food. During bingo (one dollar for each card) spoke in a heart-to-heart. One of our college students was everyone played for prizes as well as a unique cash jackpot, presented with a scholarship; she emotionally expressed her awarded during the “blackout” portion of the game. gratitude and said she would aid relatives in the future. A business meeting included discussion of fiscal affairs as well as vote on a future reunion site. An auction raised money for the scholarship fund. Our final devotion was held Sunday morning before we went to worship services at one member’s Shreveport church. The family was recognized by the pastor and congregation during the service. We truly enjoyed each heart-filled moment during our gettogether, and it’s nice to know that our family is unique in many ways. Our family reunion enables us to strengthen the “ties that bind” and, most important, acknowledge and understand the importance of coming home ... where the heart is. After all, we are family! Reported by Andrew Walker, Winston Family Reunion bingo master, Winstons were treated to a “Taste of Home” at their opening party. Chefs include (left to lives in Shreveport, Louisiana.

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right) Rev. George A. Gamble, Berle Winston, Sr., and Lacyne W. Walker-Gamble while Berle Winston, Jr. (in gold shirt) enjoys sampling.

Additionally, we played a round known as “Academic Acquisition,” played like blackout except each card costs five dollars. But here’s what makes it unique: half of the jackpot goes to the winner, while the other half goes to the scholarship fund. Later that evening several family members assembled flowers for gravesite visits Saturday morning. The trip stopped at cemeteries in Pleasant Grove, Haynesville, Mount Pleasant and Athens, in Claiborne Parish as well as several cemeteries in Shreveport. The evening banquet began with the entrance of the “Royal Court” of elderly aunts and uncles who were crowned as they were formally introduced. A candle-lighting ceremony in memory of deceased relatives followed. After a fabulous feast, family members were recognized for major accomplishments and each relative was introduced in “roll call.” Even the little ones were highlighted as “Children in the Spotlight,” during which we sang We Are Family. A symbolic tribute to each aunt and uncle was ceremoniously conducted during a unique 14 R E U N I O N S O reunionsmag.com

Winston Children In The Spotlight (12 and under) at the banquet where they and the family sing We Are Family.

Younger generation steps up o break the ice, the Clark Family Reunion enjoys a happy hour the first night. Lindsey Clark says they’re all talkers, so breaking the ice is not a big problem. The group is small enough that they habitually stay in touch still. Lindsey Clark, age 26, says that in the past her grandmother and mother had taken the lead planning the Clark Family Reunion, and now it’s her turn. “We haven’t really discussed this ‘passing of the crown’ per se, but it feels right. Passage of reunion organizing responsibility is happening naturally.” They rotate planning responsibilities between three branches of the family. In 2010, it is Lindsey’s branch of the family’s turn. So they pick the location and nominate someone to be in charge. Locations change and are determined largely by the planning committee’s locale; these have included Maine, Ohio, Connecticut and Pennsylvania. The last was at a summer camp in Hamburg Cove, Connecticut. Everyone who attends pays a set rate per person. Last time — due to the terrific summer camp find — the cost was $150 per person. It is a family tradition to be around water because you can’t not have canoe or swimming races. T-shirts are a must. And typically there is a Sunday morning worship service run by the older generation, when the family remembers folks who have come before us. Lindsey is working on the next reunion and has already sent out the first communication. She included a survey to better understand everyone’s expectations. She’s created their first website — “quickly pulled together, but exciting, nonetheless.” Everyone has responsibilities. It could be organizing the frisbee golf course, the scavenger hunt, setting tables for meals, etc. Typically, when they distribute the weekend’s agenda, they assign a cross-generational group for set-up and clean-up for each event. Every family in charge typically sets the theme or tone for their reunion. One branch includes real entertainers; their reunions always include a talent show, craft project, etc. Another branch used to run a boatyard, so their activities always include boating and competitions. “Our branch is the smallest and perhaps the most laid back; we are hoping to host a reunion that is less activity-focused, and more focused on catching up and relaxing together,” says Lindsey. They send out memory sticks containing a compilation of photos from the weekend. Lindsey’s goal is 100% attendance in 2010 (two families didn’t attend last time). And a big challenge is to find new ideas to attract the young adults to continue to participate. Reported by Lindsey Clark, Washington, DC.

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Back for our future by Delphine Steficek y grandmother, Rosebud Harris, passed away in September 1975. Just seven months later my grandfather, Willie Harris, died. The birth of the “Willie Branch” Annual Harris Family Reunions resulted from this loss. The family vowed never to come together just for sad occasions again. We would come together to celebrate life and the memory of those who created the opportunities we enjoy. The eight living children of Willie and Rosebud—my mother and her siblings—held the first Harris Family Reunion Visiting Baltimore’s Inner Harbor are (1st row, l to r) Delphine Steficek, her daughter, (HFR) in August 1976 in our home in Manokin, Maryland, just Dana and niece, Monique Parker, (2nd row, l to r) Dale and Dean Parker and down the road from my maternal grandparents’ home. My then Nita Pizarro with Byron Kearse in the back. five-year-old twin brothers sang “A Frog on a Bump on a Log.” Our 2008 reunion in Linthicum, Maryland, It was hilarious! was hosted by my cousin Edwin, who publishes a My aunts and uncles took turns hosting health and fitness magazine. His theme was reunions. Little did we know that our humble “Healthy, Wealthy and Wise.” Healthy started beginnings would take us to some of the most with a one mile early morning walk, Wealthy was exciting places across the US. a financial planning seminar, and Wise was a visit Our reunions have become more organized to the Reginald F. Lewis Museum in Baltimore. over the years. We have family officers, an We enjoyed the splendor of the Baltimore educational scholarship fund, a benevolence Harbor and met another Harris Family Reunion in fund, an investment fund and a family red t-shirts. We exchanged family information, but cemetery for descendents of Elisha and Mary could find no connection between our branches. Griffin Harris, my great-grandparents. The Saturday evening includes food, food, food and HFR Newsletter has been published at least a talent and fashion show. Over the years our twice a year since 1978. talent shows have welcomed pseudo-celebrities, We’ve participated in family-wide projects. like Ike and Tina, The Pointless Sisters, Patti For a family quilt, family members were sent LaDel, Mary, Mary and a Little More Mary, (little blank muslin fabric and asked to design, sign cousins, Unique, Bradneshia and Mikayla). The and return. The result is a wonderful family best corny jokes were told by Uncle James. Aunt heirloom. Our cookbook includes the most Harris family quilt ready to bind. Dollie’s creations graced the runway, and Aunt sought-after family recipes. We have a family Mae could still “cut a rug” as she would say. Great-aunt Mandy directory cataloged both alphabetically and geographically. A was talented with tenacity and wisdom; she never drove, but full-page newspaper article was dedicated to our “Project always miraculously appeared at every reunion, saying “I just Palatka,” which sent shoeboxes filled with school supplies for want to be in the crowd.” If anyone seemed upset, she was known Katrina victims in Palatka, Florida. Genealogy records are kept for her famous quote, “Don’t lose your charm.” by the family historian, and Stepping Stones of Our Legacy is a Sunday includes a worship service at a local or home church DVD project featuring the life and times of the “Willie and more food. Our reunions close out with a Family Meeting, Branch” Harris Family. where family concerns, celebrations, achievements and My grandfather had 18 siblings and, every 5 years the comments are recognized. Awards are given for family with most Elisha and Mary Griffin Harris Quinquennium is hosted in members in attendance, traveled farthest to attend, oldest and Georgia or Florida. The roots of the Harris Clan spring from youngest present. Our family chaplain leads us in a parting Decatur County, Georgia, and family members from these 18 prayer and song. branches come together. A few of these branches also celebrate Aunt Mandy, Uncle James, Aunt Mae, Aunt Dollie and many biennial or “as announced” reunions. The first Quinquennium, cousins have passed away. Alex Haley said, “…where today it is held in 1996, was a huge undertaking, but the payoff was over rightly said that when a griot dies, it is as if a library has burned 500 Harris descendents in attendance. to the ground.” There’s a richness of family heritage in each The “Willie Branch” Reunions are the weekend of every person’s life that will be lost if it isn’t passed on to the next second Sunday in August. The host and committee develop the generation. When we share our faith and family experiences, we reunion theme, reserve accommodations and plan our weekend bring our families together and give them a sense of identity. activities. A buffet and welcome from the host on Friday afternoon About the author begins the festive affair. Uncle John’s videos of past reunions Delphine Steficek, Vernon, New Jersey, is a 32-year or family events play in one corner and pockets of family employee of Verizon Communications whose vacations have members meet and greet in other corners of the hospitality always been planned around her family reunion, the highlight suite. Saturday morning and afternoon we enjoy plans by the of her year. She is the current president of the “Willie Branch” host — sometimes a tour of the area — with free time to Harris Family Reunion. explore, wearing t-shirts designed and printed by Cousin Byron.

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Making mountains of memories arren-Pulley Family Reunions have after blessing the food and eating, we started our program. We always start with a welcome, been in North Carolina, and once in which was given by one of our youngest South Carolina. So a reunion in Denver, cousins, Kenny Brit who did a marvelous job. Colorado, had them traveling. Shelia Gray chose to read Romans, 12th For this reunion, cousins Elizabeth and chapter, which talks about the gifts each one Scott McDonald served as perfect hosts, of us possess and that we should use them. making sure everyone felt welcome and had a Then there was a candle lighting ceremony in great time. Angeline Warren, Carrboro, North which three candles were lit: one for our Carolina, served as an advisor and reporter. ancestors, one for the present generation and Planning activities continued on one for the new generation growing up. Thursday night as we gathered to organize There was a game with prizes. As we were everything for the Meet-N-Greet on Friday: coming in, everyone was given a number for we stapled address directories, laminated prizes: Colorado t-shirts, sweatshirts, reunion articles from Reunions Magazine for display, mugs, reunion ornaments, purses and money. and pulled together photos. Goodies bags We have so many talented relatives who contained a reunion pen, Legacy Magazine, share their talent at each reunion. I an agenda of activities, an 8x10 of the prior conducted the recognitions, and began by year’s reunion photo and a Warren-Pulley Angie Moaney awaits Warren-Pulley family members with bags and t-shirts. recognizing the reunion committee with a Address Directory. certificate of appreciation, designed Scott was already cooking chicken and especially for the Warren-Pulley Reunion. We always honor pork loin on the smoker, preparing for Saturday. our Marvelous Seniors who have reached age 70+. This year, Cousin Reginald started preparing food for reunion day on we honored Charles Pulley and Odessa Pulley, both 82 years Thursday night. He made potato salad and fruit salad, and Liz old. Other recognitions were engagements and education prepared collard greens, a must no matter where we gather. achievements, including Camille Warren passing the I always enjoy the Meet-N-Greet where, this year, I met new Washington State Bar. And there was a reading by Angela relatives who were attending the family reunion for the first Tomaseli about family reunions. time, adding to our circle! We presented door prizes where Our reunion ended Sunday. We had a great time talking and winners could select from a table of gifts, or they won money. just being together. We are so blessed to have a family that This always adds to the excitement. enjoys spending time together and one another’s company. Reunion Day was celebrated at Denver’s Aurora Baptist Reported by Angeline Warren, Carrboro, North Carolina. Church Fellowship Hall. We gathered in the afternoon and,

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BBQ, Beale Street and the Branches by Diane Gentry Martin very two years, generations of Branch descendents gather collectively to remember, celebrate and honor the legacy of John and Louisa Branch. During the time together, we recall the values that richly define their character: love for family, maintaining a Christian foundation and instilling the value of education. The six-generation Branch reunions were held in cities where numerous family members lived in either the host city or the surrounding area. The 2008 reunion committee faced a new challenge when Branches decided to host the reunion in a new city where only one family member lives.

Branch cousins (l to r) Jordan (13) and Jamal (10) Holley, Sidney Martin (8) and Marquez Grays (10).

Author Diane Gentry Martin (left) and cousin Brenda Grays.

of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The second day included an Empowerment Educational Session by several accomplished, professional family members; a Memphis tour, including a stroll on the famous Beale Street and Stax Museum recording studio; and bowling and skating. The banquet is always the highlight of the reunion; however, the committee added a twist. In lieu of a speaker, tributes were made to Mary Branch Bankston and Willie Branch, Sr., the two living children of John and Louisa Branch, as well as surviving in-laws, Grace Branch, wife of Ezell, Sr., Dorothy Branch, wife of John, and Marvel Branch, wife of Willie, Sr. Biographies were read while The Wind Beneath My Wings played in the background. A special video titled, “On the Hill in Watson, Arkansas,” was shown. Interviews with the honorees were taped at St. John AME

The reunion planning committee started with a site visit in Memphis, Tennessee, then conducted monthly meetings via conference calls. Their checklist consisted of economical budget goals, attractive information packages and contingency plans to accommodate the growing list of interested attendees. Each committee member was assigned the role of Project Manager for one weekend event. Sixteen months of diligent work resulted in a jam-packed Independence Day weekend, with something for everyone. Activities incorporated the musical and historic sights and sounds for which Memphis is known. The reunion kickoff was at the National Civil Rights On the bus to visit the National Civil Rights Museum, assassination site of Museum, assassination site Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. 18 R E U N I O N S O reunionsmag.com

Church in Watson, Arkansas. The video featured biographies of John and Louisa Branch and their ten children, with an accompanying photomontage. Copies of the video were available for purchase. A memorial candle was lit to honor family members who had died since the last reunion. Plaques were presented to the five family heads as a token of love. And everyone danced the night away. The weekend activities concluded with a worship service emphasizing the reunion theme, “Passing the Torch from One Generation to the Next.” Family members conducted every part of the service. The multigenerational Branch Praise Team inspired with praise songs that expressed joy for their blessings. During the last reunion-planning meeting, the committee members debriefed and compiled a list highlighting the key successful areas. Below are a few pointers the Branch family would like to share with families coordinating a reunion of any size. COMMUNICATION IS KEY

• Various forms of communication were implemented. “Save the Date” cards were mailed a year in advance, creating excitement and anticipation. • Emails and phone calls as time drew near served as a reminder of payment deadlines and suggestions to reserve hotel rooms. • An email address was established as a contact tool between family and committee members. • Reunion packets, sent via postal service, included a newsletter highlighting everything from the weekend calendar of events to shopping centers, restaurants and hospitals surrounding the reunion hotel. A brief description of each activity plus cost per person, and tshirt and reunion fee information were included. A self-addressed envelope was included for payment and activity fees. • A family reunion website served as an information portal, including a list of activities, directions, reunion updates, contact information, etc. After the reunion, the website was used to showcase reunion activities in a photomontage.

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Charlie and Linda Branch surrounded by family on Beale Street during a Memphis tour.

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• The search for a hotel started immediately after the previous Branch Family Reunion, allowing the committee time to select a hotel that would best accommodate the family’s needs. • A 16-month timeline was prepared to keep Project Managers on track or to implement alternate plans, if necessary. A good example was that we initially reserved a banquet room for 200. However, attendance grew to 250. Because we were getting room commitments six months in advance, there was time to move to a larger banquet room. • Reunion packets were mailed nine months before the deadline. The majority of the family members live out of state so this allowed time to make travel accommodations and to submit reunion and activity fees by the deadline. OFFER COST SAVING ACTIVITIES

• Instead of hiring a local tour guide service, we chartered two buses and hired friends to serve as Memphis tour guides. The charge was $10 per person (tour guide rate was $25). Using this strategy we could offer an economical activity and customize the route to suit our family.

• We offered bowling and skating. The project manager negotiated a great package deal: $10 per person for two hours of unlimited bowling or skating with popcorn and soda. • For gift bag favors, we contacted a local magazine company and the Visitors Bureau to donate items. The magazines and maps helped attendees learn more about Memphis. INCLUDE A VARIETY OF ACTIVITIES

• Consider your audience. Plan a variety of activities for people of all ages. We offered three events on one day to give attendees choices. Attendance is greater and there are many happy relatives and friends. LAST TIP: REMEMBER, YOU ARE CREATING A LIFETIME OF LASTING MEMORIES. HAPPY REUNION PLANNING!!!

*This article is dedicated to Mary Branch Bankston who passed on March 7, 2009. The entire Branch Family cherishes her memory and honors her legacy.

About the author Diane Gentry Martin is the owner of Blessed Union of Soul Wedding Planning Services and the co-owner of Xceptional Event Planners in Memphis, Tennessee.

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Half century of clan gatherings he happiest moments in life a prayer, or lead our (paper airplane) ‘fly-by’ in tribute to are rare and precious, and no family military veterans. one ever has too many of them. The Moore Reunion is as To foster such valuable anticipated as Easter, occasions, the Moore Clan Thanksgiving and Christmas encourages others to emulate our holidays. We see the past, present close family connections. The and future in one another’s faces. Moore’s 50th annual reunion — Approximately 100 people like the 49 before it — was held faithfully attend. On cold days, in the Elyria/Lorain, Ohio, area we bundle the oldest relatives in (Michael’s Locust Park 1959loaner coats, jackets and 1991, Melody Grove Park sweaters. On hot days, we enjoy 1993-2007, Puskas Party Center getting splashed by kids’ water 2008-present). The area was balloons exploding nearby. We chosen as the ideal mid-point display a hand-painted replica of between Uniontown, the Family Crest (signifying Pennsylvania (original strength, unity and courage) and a homestead), and Detroit, photograph of Matriarch Mary Michigan (large family and Patriarch Jacob Moore. settlement location). Reunion traditions include a The first family reunion was potluck lunch, 50-50 raffle, white held in 1959. Mary Jane elephant auction, and a clan Cosgrove, keeper of reunion picture of everyone present. Each minutes until 1990, read from year we recognize the youngest, the handwritten notes, “To oldest and farthest traveled. All revere and honor the memory of Proclamation declaring Moore Family Reunion Day in Lorain, Ohio. day long there are informal Mary M. Moore and Jacob D. softball, volleyball and Moore and to corn hole games; strengthen and picture taking; displays renew bonds of love of memorabilia; eating and relationship as too much; and a symbol for the swapping tales. Adult lives they led. As games finale is a prize they loved and for the egg toss provided for us, let champions. Children’s us love and provide games run concurrent for one another.” with an Annual Clan “Their children Meeting so adults can didn’t want the only listen in peace to family gatherings to reports and interesting be funerals. Uncle family news. This year Franklin Moore wrote there were also a constitution and presentations about by-laws to establish clan genealogy and officer positions,” military service. says Clan Vice Reported by President, Dr. Cheryl Conetsco of Columbus, Indiana. Moore grandchildren, This year Ohio officials were invited to help mark the Dr. Cheryl Conetsco, milestone. Senator Sherrod Brown sent an American flag that Columbus, Indiana, had flown over the US Capitol. Tony Krasienko, Mayor of and David Conetsco, Lorain, sent a proclamation declaring the day Moore Family Falls Church, Virginia. Reunion Day. Congressional representatives Betty Sutton and Matriarch Mary and Patriarch Jacob Moore. Marcy Kaptur were invited to open our potluck luncheon with

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Stepping-Chicago style by Steven C. Thedford on’t let anyone tell you any different: there are only six steps in “Chicago Stepping” (midwest ballroom dancing). At the closing banquet of our family reunion, I was provided this information and learned the basic steps of this new dance. The Theadford-Thedford-Thetford family held its 27th annual family reunion in Schaumburg, Illinois, at the Embassy Suites Hotel, about 28 miles west of downtown Chicago. More than 100 people attended. Reunion activities included a tour of Navy Pier, Sears Tower, recreation games at the Brunswick Zone bowling alley, and a closing banquet. Many family members either came before or stayed after the reunion to enjoy other attractions, such as the Chicago White Sox, The American Girl Shop and The DuSable Museum. Chicago’s Navy Pier on the lakefront has 50 acres of parks, eateries, gardens, an amusement park and other attractions. The Theadford-Thedford-Thetford family took full advantage of the day. The family boarded the Blue Mystic boat for lunch and a sail on Lake Michigan. The excursion provided a spectacular view of downtown Chicago. Aboard the boat, dancing was allowed and Little Landyn Thedford danced her way to the heart of the DJ, who gave her a set of beads.

Landyn (3), Kennedy (9) and their mother, Yolanda Thedford rode around downtown Chicago and Lake Michigan on a four-person bike.

The Brunswick Zone bowling alley is a multi-purpose indoor recreational facility that specializes in parties and special events. It has family-friendly entertainment like bowling, billiards and bumper cars. They reserved seven lanes for Theadford-Thedford-Thetford family members, who bowled and feasted on a buffet of salad, soda, pizza, and bread sticks. After one round, many of the kids were worn out. We played video games at the arcade so they could win prizes. Some of them were almost left behind, they were having so much fun in the game room. Reported by Steven C. Thedford, Decatur, Georgia.

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Looking for a reunion place? here will your reunion be? How much space will you need? And what amenities are important to making your reunion a success? Location-location-location is as important for reunions as for anything else. Of course, the reunion can be at your house, but is it big enough? And do you want that many people staying … eating … playing? Or is your reunion going to be held someplace where you don’t have to do all the work? Answering the “Where?” question for your reunion is as important as answering “When?” But you’ve already likely learned that you can’t do one without the other. In the past, we surveyed 800 readers whose reunions we knew were coming up. An overwhelming conclusion was that by March, summer reunions had firm dates and had reserved (though not necessarily booked) their reunion space. Have you selected your reunion destination (city) or location (facility/hotel, etc.)? If not, we urge you to review the offerings in both Reunions magazine and Reunion Resources at reunionsmag.com. These advertisers are eager to host reunions. Convention and visitors bureaus (CVB) whose cities wish to host reunions have many services you may not have even thought of. For example, they can solicit bids from several facilities based upon your criteria: date, number of participants, special needs, price range. CVBs have access to many local resources to help with other reunion details (tours, attractions, caterers, photographers, speakers, DJs). Ask if they offer reunion workshops or familiarization tours to help you make a decision. Even if the reunion is in your city and you know the city well, contact your CVB and be pleasantly surprised at what they have to offer. Hotels, resorts, ranches, condos, villas/vacation homes, camps

and even cruise ships want you to choose them. They are trying to reach you through Reunions magazine and reunionsmag.com. We urge you to study what they have to offer. Many have a special small group salesperson who not only represents the hotel but can also help find other services you’ll need. Or do you want hotels bidding for your business? Reunionsmag.hotelplanner.com can get comparative price estimates for you. Just plug in information about dates, number of rooms needed and amenities desired. GETTING QUOTES AND PROPOSALS

If you want decent proposals from reunion facilities and venues, you must send out quality requests for proposals (RFP). CVBs are great at helping develop RFPs. Your proposal must contain thoughtful, accurate and comprehensive information. Treat vendors fairly by providing the same information to everyone. Ask questions that will give you information ensuring the vendors can do the job. A spreadsheet is the easiest and most accurate method to compare apples to apples. Beyond price, also consider: • Food and beverage. What is the tax and gratuity? Is the gratuity taxed? • Meeting space. What equipment/setup is included in the cost? • Transportation. Thank the companies that submit proposals. Let them know you appreciate the effort, time and money put into their proposal. Found in Meetings and Conventions Magazine

Special place for special memories by Steve Okuno here can you stage a week-long family reunion for 40 people, ages eight months to 80+ years, from five states, with a desire to experience something new and different? Organizers of the triennial Awaya Family Reunion puzzle over that dilemma

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between reunions every three years and have usually sited the gatherings at resort locations such as Breckenridge, Colorado, or Tahoe, California. For their latest reunion, they factored in lessons learned from previous gatherings to create a different reunion experience, considering environmental factors such as elevation and temperature. The reunion held high in the Colorado Rockies had a spate of headaches and sleepless nights during acclimation to the altitude. And high temperatures during another reunion held during the height of summer created discomfort for participants accustomed to cooler climes. Our reunion’s duration and cost make it the year’s major vacation for most of the families. We prefer a geographically central location to allow ourselves the option of extending the week and driving to other attractions on the journey home.

For lodging, we have found that maintaining close quarters provides the best opportunities for the serendipitous meetings and conversations that forge stronger relationships. One time, the lack of a single large facility required families to be in two buildings that were beyond walking distance from each other. We disliked the reduction in mingling, and found the experience much less fulfilling. On the other hand, we also have discovered that having everyone under one roof means that there’s almost constant activity and little opportunity for individual “quiet recovery time” or privacy. Privacy notwithstanding, the family requires a large, central gathering area to facilitate day-to-day interactions, as well as sufficient space for group activities such as arts and crafts projects and parties. Reported by Steve Okuno, Saratoga, California

The easiest family reunion ever by Deborah Hicks f you are looking for a quick and easy way to plan a family reunion, I suggest that you consider a state park such as Amicalola Falls State Park in Dawsonville, Georgia (www.gastateparks.org/info/amicalola). My family held its annual reunion at this park and everyone liked how things worked out. Just about the only thing I had to do was make a few phone calls and send a few emails. Park staff made all the arrangements once I told them when we were coming and how many were expected. The group sales department held a block of lodge rooms and a couple cottages long enough for everyone to make their own reservations. They also have campgrounds and a special inn that is accessible only by hiking. Rates were reasonable and the accommodations were comfortable. The lodge has an open veranda downstairs, with plenty of rocking chairs to sit in as you enjoy the view. The Maple Restaurant staff arranged tables so we could eat evening meals together. The dining room has full-length windows providing all tables a beautiful mountain view. On Friday night, we enjoyed a delicious seafood buffet. The Saturday night buffet featured prime rib and pork tenderloin. Prices were reasonable and made finances easy since everyone paid for their own meals. We also enjoyed the daily breakfast buffet and lunch menu. It was so convenient to have everything we needed inside the park. On Saturday we visited, played games and shared snacks at a group shelter. The small children played on the nearby playground. Just about everyone hiked to see the beautiful 729-foot waterfall, and some ventured even further on designated trails. With the cooler temperatures, it was

also would have protected us in case of rain. There are also banquet and meeting room facilities in the lodge for more formal gatherings. Our reunion was for the weekend, so there was not enough time to do many of the available activities, but there are golf courses, outlet shopping and Drew Carson, 2, loved the mountainous view from the lodge. animal conservatories nearby. It is truly a place that all ages very pleasant to be outdoors. Park can enjoy. rangers were around to guide us, and some provided educational information About the author about wildlife. Deborah Hicks, Oxford, Georgia, is a We also used the shelter after our retired English teacher. She is married evening meal to spend more time and has two sons and three stepdaughters. together. There were also covered picnic She is currently pursuing freelance shelters, but we liked having a little editing and writing jobs. She maintains more privacy with the enclosed shelter. It the Dickinson Family Reunion scrapbook.

All 41 of us on the lodge veranda at the Dickinson Reunion

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A tribute to the perfect location by Amanda Hamm driveway won’t hold all the cars, y grandmother’s house is a but the trees in the front yard beacon, calling out to are ideally spaced to family across many states and accommodate the overflow, and generations with the promise of the neighbor’s mailbox has been her chicken dumplings. The moved so it is no longer a threat. house itself is beyond modest, The family comes back year with three tiny rooms for after year and they don’t seem to gathering, no central heating or want to leave, either. There have air conditioning, and ongoing been keys locked in cars, cars plumbing issues. There is Hazel Conley, our matriach. backed into ditches, and cars always laughter in at least one of stuck in mud. the rooms and people float from We love the house so much that we get one to another of them, trying to see what together for a family reunion in the summer they are missing and hoping to catch the and again for the “fall party,” a sort of bathroom between occupants. The encore reunion, a few months later. Both events have certain traditions and expectations. I’m too young to remember the first one, and old enough to bring my own children when I attend now. The reunions have been going on long enough to have developed a life of their own. The organization primarily consists of choosing a date and letting everyone know. But that’s not quite as easy as it sounds. Our matriarch raised 12 children in this same small house, and they have since given her 30 grandchildren, many of whom have children and at least one has a grandchild. That’s a lot of phone calls. The food is always potluck, with some signature dishes, including those fabulous dumplings I’ve never had anywhere else. The kitchen table, the stove and countertops are covered with options, leaving no space for eating in that room. There is just enough room for a buffet line, starting by the door for those coming in late. Many people sit in the living room, plates on laps, on couches bowed in the middle to encourage a little extra familial closeness. The best chair is quickly given up if Granny needs a seat, and snatched just as quickly if someone less worthy is eyeing it. The small table in the front room supports the first half dozen or so through the food Matt Conley, might be going up and might be coming down.

line and hosts the obligatory comments about whose plate should have sideboards, a joke that has managed to transcend its tired status to become funny all over again.

Photo credit Caitlin Carey.

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Shade trees invite members outside.

At the fall party, there is also a bonfire for roasting marshmallows and hotdogs, one at a time on sticks (since that discussion of the rake’s previous uses). The main activity of the fall party is hay rides. This takes some actual planning, and several different tractors and wagons have been used over the years. This year we will celebrate my grandmother’s 80th birthday. I pray that she will be able to host our reunions for many years to come. Her home has sustained so many memories and no place else could ever equal it.

About the author Amanda Hamm is a writer living near Raleigh, NC. She is the author of Dear Jane Letters and Zero Station.

Plant a “Family Tree” in Ohio State Parks anterra Parks & Resorts throughout Ohio are within easy driving distance of all major metropolitan areas of the Midwest. Groups booking 15 or more lodge rooms or 15 cabins for two or more consecutive nights are eligible for the popular “Family Tree” program at all seven resorts. A tree donated by Xanterra can be planted by the family. Xanterra staff will take a digital photo of the family and email the photo with the tree’s GPS coordinates. Returning guests can use the coordinates to return to the tree and observe its progress year after year. Submit your request at atapark.com/Family-Tree-Program-7245.jhtml.

Fountain Douglas-Rainey family odyssey ince our first reunion in Cherryville, North Carolina, we have moved back and forth across the country, with different families or individuals hosting the biennial event. The core of the Fountain Douglas-Rainey Family Reunion hails from Hartsville, South Carolina. This is always one of our largest gatherings; people love to come home, to visit old home sites and to repeat the legendary stories that dwell within the family. In San Diego, California, some enjoyed the beaches while others went shopping in Mexico. In Chicago, Illinois, we toured Sears Tower, viewed Chicago’s Lakefront and sampled some great food at the African

Festival held outside the DuSable Museum. In Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, we sampled the worldrenowned Philly cheese steak and visited the Liberty Bell. In Washington, DC, we had a blast finally seeing all the sites that we normally see only on the news. In Houston, Texas we experienced some great fireworks and had a ball at Six Flags. Spring Lake, North Carolina, gave us an awesome opportunity to get some much needed relaxation and enjoy the family while overpopulating the local pools. Reported by Mona L. Muhammad, Chicago, Illinois, Fountain, DouglasRainey Reunion Secretary

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Nostalgic reunion place he Blue Ball Dairy Barn property in Wilmington, Delaware, is one that holds nostalgic appeal for just about every member of the Brandywine High School Class of 1967. We drove by it almost every day on the main thoroughfare into downtown. Over the years, this historic property fell into disuse and disrepair and it looked like it would eventually be razed and paved over by developers. Luckily, Kevin Donohue, 40th Reunion Chair, writes that, instead, Delaware Parks and Recreation purchased the property and spent millions renovating the building and developing the land. Blue Ball Dairy Barn opened to the public in time for the Brandywine 40th class reunion. We had spoken to the managers and told them we wanted to have our 40th reunion at Blue Ball. They were delighted. The Blue Ball property brought back many memories in a beautiful location that has special meaning for everyone.

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Arkansas

, a natural reunion place

Arkansas state flower, the apple blossom.

by Edith Wagner

f you’re looking for a good midway reunion point from anywhere east or anywhere west, central Arkansas is your place. The location, amenities and many delightful surprises are just made for your reunion. Little Rock, the perfect place for your headquarters, is filled with intriguing possibilities for reunion time. First on my list was the Clinton Presidential Center and Park (clintonlibrary.gov), administered by the National Archives and Records Administration. The Library is on the Arkansas River in the downtown River Market District and contains the largest collection of presidential papers and artifacts in US history. It also includes an authentic replica of the Oval Office and the Cabinet Room. Second on my list was Little Rock Central High School National Historic Site. I remember being riveted in September 1957 by the nine courageous African American teenagers, faced with angry protests as they tried to integrate Little Rock’s Central High. Broadcast around the world, Little Rock was the site of the first important test of the US Supreme Court’s historic Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka decision, striking down segregation in public schools

Little Rock Nine with President Clinton at the Clinton Library. Photo credit Chuck Haralson from Arkansas Department of Parks & Tourism

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he Peabody Little Rock is in the heart of the River Market District and, yes, the world famous Peabody Ducks (www.peabodylittlerock.com) are in residence. Mountain Harbor Resort & Spa near Mount Ida, Arkansas, offers acres of hiking, biking and play space on Lake Quachita. Accommodations can be motel-style rooms or an elegant, fully outfitted three-bedroom house (mountainharborresort.com). An adjacent Army Corps of Engineers campsite can accommodate reunion members who’d rather rough it. (nps.gov/chsc or centralhigh57.org). The Visitors Center across the street has permanent exhibits about the 1957 events and Central High School’s role in the greater civil rights movement. Nearby, the Daisy Bates House was where the Little Rock Nine were dropped off and picked up from school each day, and where they met the press. It was also the site of Will Family Reunions, according to Daisy’s niece, Melenda Hunter, Southfield, Michigan. Other special stops in Little Rock, the capital of Arkansas, include a garden tour of the Governor’s Mansion (arkansasgovernors mansion.com/garden _tour.html), or visit the Old State House Museum, the oldest surviving state capital west of the Mississippi River. It is also where President Clinton held his 1992 and 1996 electionnight celebrations (oldstatehouse.com). Historic Arkansas Museum offers fun for kids in its interactive children’s gallery (historicarkansas.org). For military reunions, the Arkansas Inland Maritime Museum (aimm.museum) features USS Razorback, the world’s longestserving submarine, as well as tugboat USS Hoga (YT-146), a Pearl Harbor survivor. The MacArthur Museum of Arkansas Military History is home to the state’s military heritage exhibitions (arkmilitaryheritage.com).

A COUPLE OF BITES FROM ARKANSAS

n Hot Springs, Embassy Suites Bistro 400 is a fine dinner venue, while Chef Paul’s is an excellent special event venue. In Little Rock you’ll not be disappointed in lunch at 42, the dining room at the Clinton Presidential Library & Museum. Or try CAPI’s in Pleasant Ridge Town Center and Juanitas near downtown. In Helena, Grannie Dees’ pipin’ hot soul food lunch is a home-cooking event!

interactive Children’s Garden is under construction and provides for climbing and There are many intriguing day trips you jumping and active play … for children only! might want to consider from Little Rock. Hot The amazing Anthony Chapel within the Springs Reservation (hotsprings.org) is the garden is breathtaking and perfect for quiet oldest and smallest National Park, reflection, weddings or rededication established in 1832 to protect 47 hot springs ceremonies. It overlooks the lake, and the flowing from the southwestern slope of Hot tree canopy is visible through the chapel’s Springs Mountain. It is anchored by glass ceiling. Bathhouse Row, a National Historic Delta Discoveries has strong roots in Landmark, built over 100 years ago. Hot Helena, one of the oldest settlements along Springs National Park Visitors Center in the the Mississippi River. Helena is best known Fordyce Bath provides an accurate portrayal of how these bathhouses appeared in their for its Arkansas Blues and Heritage Festival, heyday (nps.gov/hosp). formerly the King Biscuit Blues Festival. Pampering and relaxing are requirements Sunshine “Sonny” Payne – longtime host of at spas. In Hot Springs visit Quapaw Baths & the Peabody Award-winning “King Biscuit Spa, or Spa Botanica day spa at Embassy Suites Hot Springs. Time” radio program – is still broadcast Or enjoy some downtime with the ultimate lake spa on Lake daily on KFFA (deltaculturalcenter.com and Ouachita (WASH-i-taw) at Mountain Harbor Resort & Spa. Day kingbiscuittime.com). spas and resort spa listings can be found at Arkansas.com. At the Helena Depot building, part A stop at Garvan Woodland Gardens (garvangardens.org), of the Cultural Center, you’ll Arkansas’ premier botanical garden, will be a very pleasant discover a well documented surprise. It is on a 210-acre peninsula on Lake Hamilton. Mississippi River port town Japanese garden, water features, botanical landscapes, history. waterfalls and four miles of easily-walked trails. A wonderfully Near Perryville the Heifer Ranch (heiferfoundation.org) is a “living classroom” experience at the 1,100-acre Heifer Foundation Ranch. The foundation makes a difference in reducing world hunger by providing animals for food and work to people around the world. Huts and houses from all corners of the world compose a global village where visitors learn about living conditions and solutions to world hunger and poverty. Back in Little Rock, the foundation’s international headquarters, adjacent to the Clinton Presidential Center, is a new interactive visitor’s center and a must-see. And while on an animal theme, if you are near Greenbrier on the first Saturday of any If you’re really lucky and month, you’ll want to visit Riddle’s docent Howard Newsome Elephant and Wildlife Sanctuary. Founders is available, his stories will Scott and Heidi Riddle built a home for make Helena history come alive. needy elephants on 330 acres in the Ozark See Sonny in action! Mountain foothills. This non-profit is the only internationally recognized sanctuary that FOR MORE ARKANSAS INFORMATION accepts all elephants regardless of species, Arkansas Department of Parks and Tourism arkansas.com gender, or disposition Hot Springs CVB hotsprings.org (elephantsanctuary.org). Lodge at Mount Magazine MountMagazineStatePark.org About the author Hot Springs Village HotSpringsVillageChamber.com Edith Wagner is editor of Reunions Springdale springdale.com magazine. BRANCHING OUT

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Owen family has zip t’s not every family reunion where a record is broken. But at the Owen Family Reunion at the Ozark Conference Center in Sogachia, Arkansas, 88-yearold Jack Owen, Carrollton, Missouri, became the oldest person to successfully complete a trip down the zip-line. After younger Owen family members sailed down the line, Jack’s daughter, June Newman, 66, made it down in one piece. Still, when Jack told a staff member he wanted to go down the zip-line, she thought he was joking. But anyone who knew Jack knew he wasn’t joking. Jack placed foot after foot on the pole, and sometimes used his knees, until he reached the wobbly podium. He called out “zipping,” then dropped along the line. “I was excited I was fixin’ to break a record,” he said, puffing away on a cigar. “I knew when I got on that platform that record was broke.”

by Elizabeth Leis-Newman

Bobby and Bettye Owen, center, with their descendents.

Katie Wood, 9, broke another record as the youngest person to do the “Scream Swing,” which is similar to the zip-line, but allows you to swing back and forth at great heights. Food provided at the Ozark Conference Center included all meals, with savory items that included homemade peach cobbler, French toast and a hearty ham. Family members brought homemade sweets and enjoyed fresh peaches. THE CHOICE OF ARKANSAS

Grandpa Jack Owen on the zip-line.

For 40 years Owen Family Reunions have occurred roughly every two years. It began with Gleaves and Donnie Owen, their nine children and half sister. Many family members live in Texas, Oklahoma

and Missouri. While each branch picks the location, obviously more people can attend if the venue is within drivable distance. About half of the reunions have been in Arkansas. Between the pool, zipline, comfortable accommodations and proximity to a golf course, the Ozark Conference Center was a big hit, and the 2010 reunion will return (ozarkconference.org).

About the author Elizabeth Leis-Newman, a writer and editor, lives in Baltimore, Maryland, with her husband and three cats. She said, “One of the best parts of marrying my husband is his family’s reunions.” She is looking forward to the 2010 Owen Family Reunion in Arkansas.

The Parkers on Petite Jean he Parker Family Reunion meets every two years. The Parkers are my mom and her 12 siblings who were born and raised in Atkins, Arkansas. Our 2007 reunion was at the old Rockefeller family compound, Winrock Resort, on Petite Jean Mountain in Petite Jean, Arkansas. It was great! We were surrounded by beautiful trees on the mountain, with a private lake. We had a gym, beauty salon, basketball courts and a banquet hall. We were the only ones there over the 4th of July weekend. We had a meet and greet, a

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wonderful catered picnic, family volleyball, and fireworks by our uncles. We played a lot of family trivia games. The emphasis of our banquet was the grandchildren, who ran the banquet and gave all the speeches. It was a fantastic time. We also hiked to the waterfall, went horseback riding and visited a museum. We attended our family church in nearby Atkins, with a special prayer in the church yard cemetery for family dating back to the 1800s. Reported by Sylvia Robinson, Ypsilanti, Michigan.

Dixon Family Reunion’s family affair he Dixon Family hail from Kinston, North Carolina, where James Richard Dixon was born in the early 1800s. After his wife passed away, Richard moved his family of six to Gould, Arkansas, where his brother Oscar lived. We selected Little Rock, Arkansas, for our third Dixon Family Reunion (the second was in Pine Bluff, Arkansas). Little Rock was chosen because it is central for many family members spread throughout the US from coast to coast; meeting in Arkansas meant that many family members in the southern and central states could drive to the reunion. Four generations flew into Little Rock from the west coast a day early with Patriarch Luke Dixon, 96, James Richard Dixon’s only remaining child. My Dad, Luke, graduated from Arkansas Baptist College in Little Rock, in the late 1930s, and wanted to visit and share the campus with his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Mr. Fitz Hill, president of the college, graciously left a meeting to speak with my Dad and welcome him back as the oldest alumni “ever” to return to visit the campus. We toured The Clinton Library, which we thought was terrific! Gerald Dixon, the only male on the reunion committee, was the focal point for all things genealogy, the family tree and a genealogy souvenir book he

created that traced each of James Richard Dixon’s children and their families through four generations. The souvenir book also contained a section for family recipes. Attendees received bags that could be worn as backpacks in our reunion colors, personalized with our logo. The bags contained t-shirts, maps, the reunion agenda, directions, phone numbers, stickers and pins from the Little Rock Chamber of Commerce, nametags and lanyards for each attendee.

he Thomas Family has had reunions since 1967, starting in Arkansas. Locations rotate from state to state, wherever family members live and depending on who wants to host the reunion. We are from Arkansas, which is an excellent state for reunions because of the weather, activities, hotel and food cost, various locations available, and resources from the state and local municipalities.

On Saturday, we headed out to Alsopp Park for a picnic. The kids section had slides and swings. There was a baseball field, a huge pavilion, restrooms stocked with essentials and tons of free parking. Our picnic was catered by a local caterer who gave us a reasonable price and there was enough food for people to eat several times. All excess food and beverages were donated to a local shelter. Sunday evening was our banquet. Reported by Doris Dixon McCall, Redondo Beach, California.

Thomas reunions last three days. Attendance ranges from 125 to 200, depending on the location. Friday Meet and Greet and fish fry; Saturday a picnic and fun day; Sunday church service and banquet, including recognitions and awards. At each reunion we update the family history book and address directory. We have t-shirts and bags as souvenirs. Reported by Mary Mitchell-Davis, Little Rock, Arkansas A U G U ST / S E P T E M B E R / O C TO B E R 20 0 9 O R E U N I O N S 29

Photo credit David and Jean Taylor.

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he “boys” of the 52nd Fighter Group, 2nd, 4th and 5th Squadrons, landed triumphantly at the Appleton, Wisconsin, premier Flag Day Parade, touted as the world’s largest. The parade was a full two miles long, with shoulder-to-shoulder crowds who truly appreciated these World War II heroes with cheers, clapping and salutes. Special thanks to the Honson sisters — Ruth Schmelzer, Appleton, Wisconsin, and Jeri Sprecher, Peoria, Arizona — who welcomed staffer Andy Bordeaux, his Great-Uncle Bob Budjak, and me to their recent reunion. The sisters are among an intrepid group of second generation “children” who sustain a yearly reunion to honor their parents’ sacrifice in World War II. EW

Veterans Day for Veterans

any veterans are not given a day off from work to participate in Veterans Day activities. American Ex-Prisoners of War (AXPOW) is circulating petitions to bring awareness to this issue. They want veterans to be able to take Veterans Day off without penalty from their employer. They want all veterans to be able to

participate in recognition activities if they choose. They seek to amend Fed. Law 5 U.S.C. See 6103 and Pub. Law 9497 (Stat.479). Write Susan Vinson, VDFVA Committee, Palmetto Chapter AXPOW, 606 Old Friars Rd, Columbia SC 29210.

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amily members of US service members killed in or still missing from America’s military conflicts, and officials from organizations that serve military survivor families, met recently to discuss issues and concerns challenging current and future generations of Gold Star families. Attendees agreed to form a coalition “Gold Star Council” to unify the groups

on issues affecting Gold Star and Prisoner-of-War/Missing-in-Action (POW/MIA) family members and the organizations. Other Gold Star organizations and related veterans or military family groups interested in joining the Gold Star Council, contact Tony Cordero at tony@sdit.org; include “Gold Star Council” in the subject line.

The Pledge

One’s friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human.

by John J. Lesjack

– SANTAYANA

Jerry Banks from New York had t was the usual ship’s reunion in flown cross country to participate and Las Vegas, Nevada. While most of especially to salute the flag with his the former shipmates were greeting Navy brothers. He couldn’t walk, but one another, others were selecting he could stand … with help. He said places at the tables. Some were still he couldn’t march but he could, by in the casino playing the slots and at God, pledge his loyalty to his least one had not yet arrived. country! His wife readied Jerry’s Later, sipping my ice water, I crutches. Jerry got both feet on the considered the whole scene: Aging floor, but his back failed him. His veterans, all retired, watching wife and daughter tried to help, but young people do things veterans no were overwhelmed. Aboard the LST, longer do. family helped family and without a Eyes fixed straight ahead, the word, two of his Navy brothers stood Color guard, in dress blue uniforms, by their man. Each shipmate took marched at close intervals to the one of Jerry’s arms and, with Jerry head of the banquet room. Everyone straightening himself out, his wife faced the flag passing by. The Color shoving his crutches in place. He guard leader barked, “Unit halt.” leaned on his crutches as his eyes And then, crisply, “Right face!” met the smiling eyes of his shipmates And, finally, “Order arms!” — Buck from Oregon, Langer from Traditionally, the Color guard, except Naval Junior Reserve Officer Training Corps Color Guard, (left to right) Maine, Burkhart from West Virginia for the leader’s commands, does not Wally Arak, Isabel Fernandez, Helen Blake, Don Woll open the USS Stark — and together they honored their County LST 1134 reunion banquet. talk, so Tim Haynes, the teacher country as veterans honor the country from a local high school who brought they love, with special emphasis on cake. Larry Novotny from South Dakota four cadets to do Color guard, spoke. “indivisible.” slid his wheelchair back. His wife, Mary “Please rise for the Pledge of I pledge allegiance to the flag of the Kay, watched as Larry held the edge of his Allegiance,” the oath of loyalty created United States of America, and to the table and stood up. Then, he placed his in 1892 by Francis Bellemy, a Baptist Republic for which it stands, one nation, right hand over his heart, just as he had minister in Boston, who designed it to under God, INDIVISIBLE, with liberty been taught in grade school. last only 15 seconds and to be a show of and justice for all. While we were in high school, the national solidarity. No group had ever pledged with so words “under God” were added to the Reverend Foley from Arkansas, with much emotion. The pledge reminded Pledge by President Eisenhower. While his two daughters, rose. He would give the everyone how much love veterans have in the military, we used our open hands invocation before dinner. Ms. Pulley from for their country. Some began to cry. to salute the flag. Now, our lives had Indiana, our most recent widow, stood Mr. Haynes stood up and reassured come full circle as we all stood with our with her hand over her heart. In the the audience that even though his cadets hands over our hearts alongside our tradition of our reunion, Ms. Pulley would were here during spring break, every one shipmates, our family, our Navy brothers. later cut the USS Stark County LST 1134 of them took their duties seriously. They were all high school seniors who had been in the Naval Junior Reserve Officer Training Corps since they were freshmen. He then called the cadets forward, one at a time, and informed the audience of the quality of his students. Then one of them said “Attention! Forward march!” The Color guard left the room to respectful, courteous, appreciative applause.

About the author John J. Lesjack used his GI Bill to earn a BA from San Francisco State University. He has been published in anthologies and magazines. USS Stark County LST 1134 A U G U ST / S E P T E M B E R / O C TO B E R 20 0 9 O R E U N I O N S 31

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Join the Alliance of Military Reunions!

ecently 49 military reunion organizers met near Dulles Airport in Virginia to form The Alliance of Military Reunions. The idea was generated, conference planned and group assembled by Louis “Skip” Sander, a Vietnam-era Lieutenant, j.g. aboard USS Rankin, assisted by Dean Miller of Visit Fairfax. The Alliance of Military Reunions seeks US and international members who represent service from WWII to Iraq and Afghanistan. Introducing his idea, Sander said, “Thousands of military reunions from all branches are held regularly all over the country but, until now, there had been no organization to guide members with things like money, membership, leadership and electronic communication.” The purpose of the Alliance is to help military reunion organizers share best practices about locating and communicating with members and booking reunion accommodations, among other things. Sander said, “What we’re setting up will … create a way for future veterans to run their reunions more successfully and better enjoy the time they spend with their comrades.” Within a week of the meeting, 25 reunion groups had joined as Charter Members. Over 200 reunion groups have expressed an interest in the Alliance, including reunion groups from Ireland, the United Kingdom, and New Zealand. Sander’s goal is to have 100 reunion group members by Labor Day. Contact Skip Sander at The Alliance of Military Reunions call 412-367-1376; email MilitaryReunions@aol.com or visit www.AllMilitaryReunions.org. Membership materials are on the website. Reunions magazine is media sponsor and Special Charter Member of the Alliance. Find regular updates in military reunions at reunionsmag.com.

alter and Barbara Niemeyer of Conway, South Carolina, at the Grand Opening of the Hall of Heroes. Sands Resorts in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, introduced a “Hall of Heroes” as a permanent tribute to the men and women of the armed services, law enforcement and firefighter organizations who have protected and defended America. The centerpiece is a replica of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall. Calvin Gilmore, the keynote speaker at the opening, said, “Please use and urge others to use this Hall of Heroes to emphasize to your children – the next generation and generations to come – the sacrifice that has been made for them to have this wonderful lifestyle and freedom.” The Hall of Heroes is open to the public, free of charge.

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Vietnam Veterans host annual reunion for 9th Infantry Division

ach reunion adds new members, and the group of men who served together in Vietnam discover how important and healing their bonding is to them and their families. Sgt. Dusty Dewberry, Edgemont, Arkansas, spearheaded gatherings with the assistance of Greg Ellis, St. Clair Shores, Michigan. Their mission is to locate and “welcome home, brother” all of the soldiers who served in the 9th Infantry Division from 1968 to 1969. At their recent reunion in Sevierville, Tennessee, each day was filled with home-cooked meals, karaoke, touring the area, sharing photographs, music from the Vietnam era (1960-1970s), golf and family activities. The first reunion was only a small group, but each year, a new

brother is added and “welcomed home.” The soldiers who served with Headquarters & Headquarters Company, 3rd Brigade of the 9th Infantry Division, shared many traumatic times during their tour of duty. How these brave men survived is only one of the stories shared. Wives and friends discover a new appreciation as they realize Vietnam left emotional scars that are only beginning to heal. Laughter was the best way to cope with stressful, threatening events in life and there is much laughter at every gathering. Contact Barbie Perkins Cooper, barbiepc@bellsouth.net; Dusty Dewberry, dustypops@gmail.com; or Greg Ellis, gellis586@comcast.net.

Veterans Day/ Branson’s Celebration

Watching the parade.

ranson’s Veterans Homecoming, America’s largest special event supporting and honoring our military veterans, will take place in Branson, Missouri, from November 5-11, 2009. Branson is referred to as America’s Hometown for Veterans. Many veteranthemed events are held throughout the year in Branson, where 500 military reunions take place annually. The Branson Veterans Task Force (www.bransonveterans.com) and its volunteers help the community commemorate important dates in American history such as the signing of the Vietnam Peace Accord, the Korean War Armistice, Memorial Day, Armed Forces Day, the end of World War II, Branson Remembers 9-11 and many other tribute events. Branson is proud to carry on the mission and tradition of remembering those who have served our nation in uniform. Contact Branson Veterans Homecoming Week, 800-758-1550; www.BransonTourismCenter.com.

9th Infantry Division reunion. Photo credit: Barbie Perkins-Cooper.

Military Reunion Planners Tour Newport News, Virginia

S Navy reunion planners spent three days on a familiarization (FAM) tour of Newport News, Virginia. The city’s rich military heritage and history were showcased. Attendees were treated to an excursion at the US Army Transportation Museum at Ft. Eustis, lunch and a tour at The Mariners’ Museum, a visit to the Virginia War Museum and a final stop and viewing of the Victory Arch and

Newport News shipyard. Cheryl Morales, group marketing manager for the Newport News Tourism Development Office, said, “Newport News is steeped in military history, and offers many other attractions, exciting festivals and shopping districts, making it an ideal destination for military reunions. To receive a Military Reunion Kit, contact Cheryl Morales (toll-free), 888493-7386; emorales@nngov.com.

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Welcome to Reunion Resources! How to use REUNION RESOURCES Reunion resources is divided into sections. Reunion friendly places include destinations (convention, visitor and tourism bureaus) and locations (hotels, resorts, ranches, condominiums, bed & breakfasts, inns, dormitories, camps). They are listed alphabetically by state and city. The sections which follow list books and publishing, cruises, fundraising and mementos, invitations, photography, preserving reunions, postcards, and other products and services. Many resources include e-mail and web page addresses. Start on our web page www.reunions mag.com and in just one click, go directly to other resource pages – a wonderful way to visit, get more details and in some cases even place orders. We encourage you to tell the listings you contact that you learned about them from REUNIONS MAGAZINE. And if at any time you find any info that is inaccurate or e-mail or web links do not work, notify us immediately at reunions@execpc.com; PO Box 11727, Milwaukee WI 53211-0727. And by all means, feel free to comment and/or suggest changes and additions you’d like to see in this section. REUNIONS MAGAZINE will not be held liable for information presented as facts in these ads. We reserve the right to edit and/or refuse any material submitted for publication.

DESTINATIONS & LOCATIONS ALABAMA MOBILE BAY CONVENTION AND VISITORS BUREAU 1 South Water Street, Mobile AL 36602. Rely on us to make planning your reunion easy and affordable with these services: Direct contact with hotels to obtain rates and banquet pricing, a single proposal packet detailing military sites, attractions, dining and transportation, follow-up to answer all your special needs, sightseeing service to coordinate your leisure activities. Call 800-566-2453 ext 4 for a free Planning Guide. E-mail to ronmcconnell@mobile.org. Visit us at www.mobilebay.org.

ARIZONA RADISSON SUITES HOTEL TUCSON AIRPORT 7051 S. Tucson Blvd., Tucson, AZ 85756. We are Reunion Specialists! Our spacious suites with full amenities, lush courtyards with fountains, pool and whirlpool spa will make your group feel right at home! We have great on-site dining and beautiful banquet facilities for groups large & small. A full American breakfast buffet, evening reception & internet access are included in the rate! Call 520-225-0800 for information or email: habbott@viharas.com. www.radisson.com/tucsonaz

ARKANSAS HOT SPRINGS NATIONAL PARK, ARKANSAS America's First Resort. Planning a reunion in Hot Springs offers you one destination with a million possibilities. Enjoy art galleries, museums and architecture, our relaxing spas, theme parks, rivers and lakes, music and magic shows, thoroughbred racing, a botanical garden and more. Come indulge yourself in our hospitality. 800-922-6478. or www.hotsprings.org. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! HOT SPRINGS VILLAGE PO Box 8575, Hot Springs Village AR 71910. Contact Judy Carroll: hsvmarketing@suddenlink mail .com; 1-866-984-9963. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! THE LODGE AT MOUNT MAGAZINE STATE PARK, ARKANSAS Reconnect with family or friends at this mountain resort lodge .rooms and cabins. Conference and meeting rooms. Indoor pool, plenty of outdoor activities and nature programs. Make this reunion one to remember. Call 1-877-665-6343 for group rates or log on to MountMagazineStatePark.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

CALIFORNIA BALBOA INN "The Resort" and Banquet facility is located on the beach offering 45 rooms and ocean view suites with balconies and state of the art amenities. Located at 105 Main Street, Newport Beach CA 92661. 949-675-3412; Toll Free: 877BALBOA-9; fax 949-673-4587; www.balboainn.com; info@balboainn.com 34

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BUENA PARK CONVENTION & VISITORS OFFICE 6601 Beach Blvd. Suite 200, Buena Park CA 90621-2904. Come see why we are the ideal spot for reunions and family vacations. We are home to five major tourist attractions including Knott's Berry Farm and only ten minutes away from Disneyland. Accommodations, restaurants and shopping are all within a mile! Beaches and mountains close by. Call 800-541-3953 for a free Travel Planner, or fax 714-562-3569. tourbp@buenapark.com; www.visitbuena park.com. YOSEMITE PINES RV RESORT & FAMILY LODGING 20450 Old Highway 120, Groveland, CA 95321 (209) 962-7690 We offer some of the best lodging near Yosemite National Park with an assortment of cabins in a variety of sizes and price points. Our Luxury Cabins offer plenty of space with a large double loft and room for eight people, while our Premium Loft Cabins offer a large single loft and room for six people. Spaces to accommodate all types of RVs and group tent sites. The whole family will enjoy our pool area, our gold mine tour and our games area complete with sand volleyball court, tetherball and horseshoes. www.yosemitepinesrv.com. HOLIDAY INN SAN DIEGO BAYSIDE 4875 N Harbor Drive, San Diego CA 92106; 619-224-3621; 800-650-6660; fax 619224-1787. Host your reunion at the beautiful Holiday Inn San Diego Bayside across from San Diego Bay. Our experienced staff will assist you in creating a very special event. Complimentary hosp suite and special reunion rates. Beautiful guest rooms, heated pool, spa, shuffleboard, ping-pong and billiards, exercise room, family restaurant and cocktail lounge, free pkg, in-room movies, coffee makers, refrigerators, hair dryers; dos@holinnbay side.com; www.holinnbayside.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! NORTHSTAR-AT-TAHOE™ RESORT offers a great place to sleep, eat, play and relax in a beautiful mountain setting with a wide variety of accommodations and activities such as golf, swimming and tennis in the summer and snow sports activities in the winter. It's no wonder Northstar was voted as a top 10 reunion destination by Family Travel Forum. A personal event planner is provided to help plan your unforgettable reunion. Highway 267 & Northstar Dr., Truckee, CA 96160, 800-926-5096, northstar@boothcreek.com, www.NorthstarAtTahoe.com. VACAVILLE CONFERENCE & VISITORS BUREAU 1671 E. Monte Vista Avenue, Suite 112, Vacaville CA 95688. Discover the hidden the hidden gem of Vacaville, California. We’re only a short drive from the Golden Gates of San Francisco, the Wine Country in Napa and Sonoma, our historic Capitol in Sacramento and the spectacular Sierra mountain range in Lake Tahoe. For more information please contact us at info@vacavillenow.com or 888822-2132; visitvacaville.com.

COLORADO GOLD POINT RESORT Breckenridge CO 80424; 866-664-9793. Incredible views inspire incredible memories. Gold Point Resort provides the perfect backdrop for bringing your family together. Located above beautiful Breckenridge, Gold Point offers scenery that is second to none and residences that are as expansive as the vistas. Rafting, fishing, horseback riding, alpine slide and numerous dining options are all close by. Call today to learn how to save 40%, source code REUNN. www.goldpoint.com. ESTES PARK CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU PO Box 1200, Estes Park CO 80517. Estes Park may be the perfect setting for your reunion! Nestled in a valley surrounded by Rocky Mountain National Park, fabulous scenery and recreation await you. Enjoy shopping, trout fishing, horseback riding, river rafting, golf, go karts, barbecues, hayrides, miniature golf, tram rides, scenic drives and hiking. Let our group specialist help you find lodging, meals and fun things for the whole family to enjoy! 80044-ESTES; fax 970-577-1677; groupsales@estes.org; www.estes parkcvb.com/groups.cfm

DELAWARE GREATER WILMINGTON CVB Nestled in the heart of the MidAtlantic, along the I-95 corridor, Delaware’s Greater Wilmington and Brandywine Valley offers meeting/event planners and their attendees’, unparalleled variety to experience … tax-free! Easily accessible by I-95, Amtrak (80 trains daily) and Philadelphia International (20 minutes), Greater Wilmington offers more than 6,000 guest rooms and the ability to accommodate 1,600 attendees. To unlock all that this tax-free destination has to offer, the Greater Wilmington, DE-CVB holds the key. Please explore us at VisitWilmingtonDE.com or call 800-489-6664. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

FLORIDA EMERALD COAST CVB, INC. DESTIN-FT. WALTON BEACH FL Emerald Coast CVB, Inc. Destin-Fort Walton Beach – Okaloosa Island a reunion planner’s paradise with 24 miles of sugar white beaches and emerald green waters, 16,000 first-rate accom-

modations, 400 events & festivals, water sports, superb coastal cuisine, championship golfing, Air Force Armament Museum, Big Kahuna’s Water Park, art galleries, nature trails and the largest fishing fleet in Florida. Emerald Coast Conference Center offers 35,000 sq. ft. of flexible meeting space and gourmet catering. Let us make your reunion planning easy! Contact Sherry Rushing, CTIS, srushing@co.okaloosa.fl.us, 1-800-322-3319; www.destin-fwb.com . FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS…Stay In Hotels! There's only one choice to host your family reunion and that's to stay in a Florida Leisure Vacation Home. Hotels can be expensive particularly when you need multiple rooms to house everyone. Florida Leisure has an expansive range of 3 to 7 bedroom vacation homes available and many of them are located close together so housing large parties is no problem. Our homes all have a full kitchen, living area, laundry, multiple TV's, private swimming pool and best of all our homes are really close to Walt Disney World and the other area attractions. Call 1-866-678-6088 or email Reservations@FloridaLeisure.com or visit www.FloridaLeisure.com FLORIDAYS RESORT ORLANDO 12562 International Drive, Orlando FL 32821. Located just two miles from SeaWorld and Disney on International Drive, offers spacious two-and-three bedroom Grand Suites, with room for everyone. The free shuttle to the attractions and the I-Drive trolley makes it easy to get around town. With two heated swimming pools, game room, fitness center, and poolside bar and grille, you'll want to spend quality family time right here at the resort. 321-329-4024; fax 321-329-4001; mwinter@floridaysorlando.com; www.Floridays ResortOrlando.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! THE ORLANDO MARRIOTT DOWNTOWN is located in the center of Orlando's business and entertainment district and across from the Bob Carr Performing Arts Center, Amway Arena and minutes from major attractions, shopping, entertainment and restaurants. Choose from 290 gracious guestrooms including eight parlor suites, 2 concierge and 2 executive levels providing high-speed Internet access. The Orlando Marriott Downtown has 12,000 square feet of flexible meeting space and a high-tech business center. We invite you to call us at 1-800-574-3160, fax 407-839-6109, www.orlandomarriott.com, SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! Check out our “Reunion to remember” package. THE POINT ORLANDO RESORT 7389 Universal Blvd, Orlando FL 32819. Orlando’s newest, all-suite boutique hotel is one block from International Dr., and one mile from Universal Studios. Walk to Wet ‘n Wild or take the I-Ride Trolley to shops, restaurants and amusements. We offer an outdoor heated pool, banquet rooms and fitness center. Junior Suites sleep 4 and two-bedroom suites sleep up to 8. 407-956-2056; www.thepoint-orlando.com. WET 'N WILD – ORLANDO 6200 International Dr. Orlando, FL 32819. 407-351-1800 Toll Free: 800-992-9453; www.wetnwild orlando.com; info@wetnwildorf.com. Make your reunion a splashing success! Come join us at Wet 'n Wild to celebrate your unforgettable Family Reunion. We offer a variety of group discounts for groups of 15 or more. Various food and beverage options can be added for the complete package. With more multipassenger tube rides than any other waterpark in Orlando! Open year-round with pools heated seasonally, Wet 'n Wild is the perfect place for the entire family to relax, have fun, and soak up the warm Florida sun! QUORUM HOTEL TAMPA 700 N. Westshore Blvd. Tampa, FL 33609. Summer 09' Weekend Group rates starting from $69 with breakfast! Perfect location for Busch Gardens and pristine beaches. Restaurants and shopping within walking distance. You'll love our free massage, and complimentary drink. Ask about our reunion planning gift. Call Becca Zarcone 813-2883611 or bzarcone@quorumtampa.com. Visit our website at www. QuorumTampa.com. PALM BEACH COUNTY offers a diverse collection of reunion friendly hotels, boutique properties, legendary resorts and unique offsite venues for meetings. Qualifying groups reserving space now through September 30 may be eligible for a special master account rebate. To find out more information, call the Palm Beach County Convention and Visitors Bureau at 800.554.7256 or visit palmbeachfl.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

GEORGIA ATLANTA'S COBB COUNTY CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU Home to Six Flags Over Georgia, Six Flag's White Water and just 10 minutes northwest of downtown Atlanta, and the NEW Georgia Aquarium and World of Coke. Cobb County boasts easy interstate access, free parking, a multitude of restaurants, attractions, shopping, golf and parks. For FREE assistance with planning your reunion, contact the Cobb County CVB at 1-800-451-3480 or visit us at www.cobbcvb.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

CATALOG OF REUNION RESOURCES DOUBLETREE HOTEL ATLANTA NORTHWEST-MARIETTA 2055 South Park Place, Atlanta GA 30339. Located off I-75 north of downtown Atlanta in Marietta, close to all area attractions, shopping & restaurants. Our oversized rooms feature signature Sweet Dream bedding and Chaise lounge, Coffee Makers, Full Sized Ironing Boards and Irons, Flat Screen TV, Data Ports & Wireless Access in Rooms. Indoor and Outdoor Pools. Hotel has free parking, fitness center, restaurant & coffee bar on site. 770272-9441; fax 678-252-5907; lori@resourcehospitality.com; www.atlantamarietta.doubletree.com. JEKYLL OCEANFRONT RESORT 975 North Beachview Drive; Jekyll Island GA 31527; 912-635-2531; fax 912-635-9072: linda.amazon@jekyllinn.com; www.jekyllinn.com DOLCE ATLANTA – PEACHTREE offers 40 beautifully landscaped acres located only 25 miles South of Atlanta. With 233 guestrooms, tantalizing food and on site activities that include swimming, volleyball, tennis, horseshoes, basketball, biking and access to 90 miles of walking paths throughout the city, there are endless options for enjoyment. Nearby shopping, golf, summer concerts and easy access to downtown Atlanta ensures something for everyone. 770-487-2666; www.dolce-atlantapeachtree-hotel.com.

IDAHO Boise offers the culture and entertainment of a large urban area in a place that feels a little like everyone's hometown. Festivals, whitewater rafting, golf, riverfront bike trails, snow skiing, unique and historic attractions like the Warhawk Air Museum, a vibrant downtown, shopping, fine dining and performing arts will ensure a reunion jam-packed with memorable experiences. BOISE CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU PO Box 2106, Boise ID 83701; Lisa Edens; 800-635-5240; 208-344-7777; fax 208-3446236; ledens@boisecvb.org; www.boise.org.

ILLINOIS RECONNECT IN LAKE COUNTY halfway between Chicago and Milwaukee. Lake County's natural spaces and fun places are the perfect place for your next reunion. Our world-class attractions and more than 60 lodging properties, including three resorts, will make your next reunion a resounding success. For free Reunion Planning Assistance call or email us with your reunion planning questions to tourism@lakecounty.org; www. lakecounty.org. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! REUNITE IN REAL, ORIGINAL ROCKFORD, ILLINOIS Located just 60 miles west of Chicago’s O’Hare International Airport, the Rockford Region offers the perfect mix of big-city variety and small-town value. You’ll be sure to find something everyone will enjoy! Contact Jaki Berggren, Meeting Sales Manager, at the Rockford Area Convention & Visitors Bureau, for assistance planning your next reunion. Call 800.521.0849 or email Jaki at jberggren@gorockford.com. RACVB, 102 N. Main St., Rockford, IL 61101; www.gorockford.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

MARYLAND CHESAPEAKE BAY ESTATE 250 acre Maryland waterfront. Sleeps 52, plus up to 100 in neighboring locations. www.chesapeake retreats.com. (888) 988-5747

MICHIGAN GREEKTOWN CASINO – HOTEL is the best venue for your group. The hotel offers theme buffets, 25,000 sq. ft. of meeting space, rates based on double occupancy, and is located in the heart of Detroit's Greektown entertainment district. More than 26 restaurants within walking distance, over 100,000 sq. ft. of gaming space and great entertainment. There is also a people mover stop located in Greektown Casino. 1200 Saint Antoine, Detroit MI 48226; 877-GCH-5554; www.greektowncasino.com. GREATER LANSING CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU Greater Lansing, Michigan is a great place for a family reunion, meeting or special event of any kind. Centrally located, offering updated meeting facilities, affordable lodging and lots of fun entertainment and nightlife options – All right in the palm of your hand! For help planning your reunion call 1-866-377-1402 or visit www.lansing.org. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

MINNESOTA WORRY-FREE REUNIONS AT CRAGUN’S RESORT 11000 Craguns Dr, Brainerd MN 56401: 800-CRAGUNS (272-4867). Since 1940 Cragun’s has taken pride in creating memorable reunions...here’s why: 1) trained coordinator will help plan it all, 2) arrival “Welcome” and registration areas with planned activity agendas, 3) activities including golf outings, lake cruises, picnics, fishing contests, horse drawn trolley rides and more, 4) indoor facilities to ensure you a “weather-proof” reunion, 5) private gathering areas, 6) special celebration meals, 7) professional group photos, 8) and best of all, enjoy a safe, secure friendly environment. Come to Cragun’s for your reunion. Named “One of MN’s ideal locations to hold a Reunion.” by AAA. Call for FREE Reunion Planning Packet or visit: www.craguns.com/157.

MISSOURI THE BRANSON/LAKES AREA CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU Located in America's heartland, Branson, Missouri is the perfect destination for your next reunion because we offer so many choices of entertainment, lodging, attractions, dining and more. Remember, in Branson, our value is unrivaled, our scenery breathtaking and our time-honored Ozarks hospitality inviting. Call us toll free at 800-636-8573 or visit our website at explorebranson.com and request a Reunion Planner Sales kit. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! INDEPENDENCE, MO TOURISM DEPT., 111 E. Maple, Independence, MO 64050; 866-657-MEET. Let Independence welcome your reunion group, all at a great value and in a convenient location. Enjoy nationally recognized heritage and cultural attractions, one-of-a-kind restaurants, great shopping, outdoor activities, a variety of accommodations and more. Add in a trip to nearby Kansas City or an afternoon of professional football or baseball. We provide itinerary planning, discounts and other assistance. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! www.IndependenceMeetings.com.

NEVADA MARDI GRAS HOTEL & CASINO 3500 Paradise Rd, Las Vegas, NV. Conveniently located just off the Strip and a 3 minute walk to the Monorail. Spacious oversized guestrooms each 400 sqft w/ mini-frig. Fun, affordable restaurant/bar open 24 hours. Have your banquet in our 4000 sqft of flexible event space. Enjoy all the fun and excitement of Las Vegas without the high price tag. Create a lasting memory for all with the personal attention you will receive from our friendly staff. Call today for great group rates! 702-731-2020 x 743; www.mardigrasinn.com. DESERT ROSE RESORT 5051 Duke Ellington Way, Las Vegas NV, 89119; Phone 888-732-8099, Fax 702-597-3345. Spacious renovated condo-style suites with full kitchen, separate living room, dining room and relaxing balcony. Each room is modern and beautifully decorated; Property features continental breakfast each morning; location is just minutes from the famous Las Vegas Strip, McCarran Airport. Resort consists of 284 suites in addition to newly refurbished pool and Jacuzzi with BBQ facilities and shaded seating; Banquet space available for special events. This property makes for a perfect reunion of any kind. E-mail: SarahMarie Vergara, Sales Manager svergara@shellvacationsllc.com; www.desertroseresort.com. PLATINUM HOTEL 211 East Flamingo Road, Las Vegas, NV 89169 (877) 211-9211. At The Platinum Hotel, see what life is like on the quieter side of Las Vegas. Escape to a welcoming hideaway where each of the 255 one and two bedroom Las Vegas hotel suites ensure unmatched personal attention, gourmet kitchens, exquisite whirlpool tubs and balconies with beautiful views. This non-gaming, smoke free hotel offers the best of both worlds. Select from an assortment of great Las Vegas hotel deals, combining special rates and unique services for getaways. The Strip is there when you need it, just a block away. www.theplatinumhotel.com ATLANTIS CASINO RESORT SPA RENO 3800 S Virginia Street, Reno, NV 89502. Voted Reno's "Best Hotel" our recent $100 million dollar expansion takes northern Nevada to a whole new level. From our all-new Spa Atlantis to our eight awardwinning restaurants – Atlantis has it all! Winner of the Hospy Award for "Best Ballroom & Convention Space Design," Atlantis boasts 50,000 SF of flexible new high-tech meeting space catering to reunions from 1,500 to 15. Let our experienced team plan your next event! 800-994-5900; fax 775-825-1170, www.AtlantisCasino.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! CIRCUS CIRCUS HOTEL & CASINO RENO 500 N. Sierra St. Reno NV 89503 Whether business or pleasure brings you to us, Circus Circus Reno offers over 1,500 rooms, six sensational restaurants, a unique Midway of Fun, an expansive casino floor with all the latest gaming action, and state-of-the-art convention facilities. Free airport shuttle and parking available. Call 800894-3588 or visit circusreno.com for more information. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

NEW HAMPSHIRE NASHUA RADISSON 11 Tara Blvd, Nashua, NH 03062; 603888-9970. Have your reunion at the largest castle hotel in Boston’s north neighbor-Nashua! Attractions include Canobie Lake Park, indoor skydiving, skiing, Anheuser Busch Brewery, & tax free shopping! Newly renovated, 326 guestrooms, indoor/ outdoor pool, restaurant, free parking & health club. www. radisson.com/nashuanh. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

NORTH CAROLINA LAKE LURE & THE BLUE RIDGE FOOTHILLS Family, girlfriends, military buddies, golfing, relaxing…whatever your reason for getting together, you'll find the perfect setting here. Cruise on beautiful Lake Lure, shop, go to a spa, dine, hike, bike … do it all – or do nothing at all, and enjoy your gathering with family and

friends. Choose from sumptuous accommodations in an historic hotel, cabin on the lake or other unique accommodations. We are surrounded by major highways, have three major airports within an hour, and are only thirty minutes from Asheville NC. Please visit us at reunionsyourway.com. OCEAN RESORTS – NORTH MYRTLE BEACH and MYRTLE BEACH, SC. BEST DEALS FOR REUNIONS! For 25 years, Ocean Resorts has been providing a variety of vacation properties perfect for your reunion needs! Located in the Ocean Drive section of North Myrtle Beach and Shore Drive area of Myrtle Beach. Oceanfront and oceanview condos are available from 2 to 4 bedrooms with a variety of amenities. Call for the best group rates: 800.334.5015. StayOceanResorts.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! OHIO ATTRACTIONS NATIONAL UNDERGROUND RAILROAD FREEDOM CENTER 50 E. Freedom Way, Cincinnati OH 45202, is the nation's newest monument to freedom, spotlighting courageous acts from the Underground Railroad and beyond. Interactive and engaging, it has 5 galleries, 1 theater, a dialogue area, and research and education areas complete with a family search center to trace your heritage. Group tours and facility rental available. 877-6484838 or www.freedomcenter.org.

OREGON LOON LAKE LODGE & RV RESORT 9011 Loon Lake Road, Reedsport, OR 97467. (541)-599-2244 Reserve Cabins or the Lakefront Home with fully furnished kitchens, satellite TV and free Wi-Fi, for your next Family Reunion. Spaces to accommodate all types of RVs and group tent sites. There is plenty of open water for fishing, kayaking, WaveRunner riding, water skiing, or just relaxing on a leisurely pontoon boat ride. Restaurant and general store on property and catering available. Some of the smoothest water skiing in Oregon is right here at Loon Lake! www.loon lakerv.com.

PENNSYLVANIA WOODLOCH RESORT & MEETING FACILITY Nestled in the pristine forests of the Pocono Mountains Lake Region of Northeastern Pennsylvania, Woodloch Resort is the ideal destination for family vacations, reunions, weddings and corporate retreats! Featuring a private lake and miles of beautiful scenery, this 250 acre resort is located only two and a half hours from New York City and is the perfect combination of old world charm, gracious hospitality, and modern resort conveniences. We invite you to visit our website at: www.woodloch.com or call 1800-5726658 for further information and reservations. VALLEY FORGE CONVENTION AND VISITORS BUREAU 1000 First Avenue, Suite 101, King of Prussia PA 19406. DO WHAT WASHINGTON DID. SET UP CAMP IN HISTORIC VALLEY FORGE FOR YOUR NEXT REUNION! Quality hotels, unique offproperty meeting sites, world class shopping and fine dining. Thirty minutes from Philadelphia. Surrounded by great regional attractions. Get a free Valley Forge Meeting Planners Guide. Contact Courtney Pozo: 610-834-7971,or pozo@valleyforge.org or visit www.valleyforge.org.

SOUTH CAROLINA SEA MIST OCEANFRONT RESORT – MYRTLE BEACH SC 1200 South Ocean Blvd., 29577. REUNIONS MADE EASY! Specializing in reunions from military to family at the most affordable rates in Myrtle Beach. Sea Mist's premier oceanfront location is near shopping, theaters and golf courses. Over 600 of our 800 units have been completely remodeled, restaurants, miniature golf, 10 pools, Jacuzzis, fitness room, 17,000-sq.ft. of versatile meeting space and much more! 800-200-8687; groupsales@seamist.com; www.seamist.com. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD!

SOUTH DAKOTA RAPID CITY CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU Nestled at the base of the legendary Black Hills, Rapid City lies at the heart of the American experience, just minutes from the highest concentration of public parks, monuments and memorials in the world. Explore the South Dakota Air and Space Museum and Ellsworth Air Force Base, then cap it all off with exciting tours and fine dining before winding down in luxurious and affordable accommodations. Visit www.visitrapidcity.com or call 800.487.3223.

TEXAS KILLEEN CIVIC AND CONFERENCE CENTER AND CONVENTION AND VISITORS BUREAU 3601 South W.S. Young Drive, Killeen TX 76542; Visit Killeen and Central Texas' newest state-of-the-art Civic & Conference Center, and Regional Airport. Over 2000 hotel rooms, unique attractions and tours, of the world's largest military installation, Fort Hood. “Where Freedom Grows!” 254-501-3888 or www.killeen-cvb.com.

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CATALOG OF REUNION RESOURCES LEWISVILLE CONVENTION & VISITORS BUREAU 606 W. Main Street, Lewisville TX 75057; 800-657-9571; fax 972-2193719; pcox@cityoflewisville.com; www.visitlewisville.com Bring your reunion to Lewisville TX, a small town within an urban metropolis. Groups choose Lewisville because of our location, hotel variety, mall shopping, restaurants, golf & Lewisville Lake. Enjoy bass fishing, bird watching, catamaran sailing, water parks & historic Old Town, all conveniently located 10 minutes from DFW International Airport. BLUEBONNET EVENT CENTER Adjacent to Lake Conroe KOA. 35 fully furnished 1& 2 bedroom cottages. Great Family Reunion Package – free hospitality room with kitchen if family rents 10 or more cottages for 2 night minimum. Campfires, indoor pool/ hot tub, 6 acre fishing lake, playground, tennis court, shuffleboard, horse shoes, paddle boats for rent – 1 1/2 miles from Lake Conroe. 19785 Hwy. 105 West, Montgomery TX 77356; 936-5825100; fax 936-582-1218; bluebonnetevents@consolidated.net; www.bluebonneteventcenter.com.

The Miles of Smiles: 101 Great Car Games & Activities, by travel writer Carole Terwilliger Meyers. "May be the ultimate solution for back seat squabbling" on the way to your reunion. Keep kids entertained all the way there. $8.95 + s/h.

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Your Living Family Tree: Keeping your family together forever through print, photos, sound and video, by Gordon Burgett Communications Unlimited, 2008, 174 pp. $17.95 + s/h or $15.95 digital.

PARK CITY LODGING (formerly R&R Properties) is located in the beautiful mountains of Park City, Utah. Enjoy properties throughout Park City, Deer Valley and The Canyons resort areas. We can provide many ideal accommodations for reunions, retreats and weddings. Call 800-348-6759; www.ParkCityLodging.com. Let our knowledgeable staff assist you in creating a memorable mountain experience.

VERMONT SMUGGLERS' NOTCH RESORT At America's Reunion Resort, you'll experience Mountain Resort Living, award-winning children's programs (6wks. - 17yrs.), family activities and entertainment, swimming, skiing, hiking, dining, shopping & more. Smugglers' Notch Resort – the only resort in North America to guarantee Family Fun – Summer, Winter & Fall. For more information, call 1-800-521-0536. or visit www.smuggs. com/reunions. SEE OUR DISPLAY AD! LOUDON COUNTY FREEDOM CENTER 13951 Freedom Center Lane, Leesburg VA 20176. We have 100 beautiful wooded acres for your next reunion, birthday, anniversary or picnic. Delicious catered meals; stocked 2 acre lake; sports and hiking areas. Visit www.freedomcenter.us or call 703-777-3505 for a tour. E-mail info@freedomcenter.us or fax 703-777-5077. NEWPORT NEWS Close encounters with the ocean, ships, history and the great outdoors in one central destination. All this, plus Williamsburg and Virginia Beach. Whether getting together with old classmates, shipmates or "familymates," Newport News provides the perfect location and services to make your reunion a success! Outstanding services and support, the best value and plenty to see and do, Newport News will make your next reunion a memorable one. Call Cheryl Morales at 888-493-7386 or email her at cmorales@nngov.com to book your reunion. www. newportnews.org. THE WOODS RESORT & CONFERENCE CENTER is located in the Northern Shenandoah Valley & offers lodge rooms, cabins, villas & private rentals. 36 holes of golf, 3 pools, basketball, racquetball, tennis, softball, playground, exercise room, & the Sleepy Creek Spa. Conference & dining facilities. 1694 The Woods Rd., Hedgesville WV 25427; 800-248-2222; fax 304754-8146. Kathy@TheWoods.com; www.TheWoods.com

WISCONSIN GRAND GENEVA RESORT & SPA 7036 Grand Geneva Way, Lake Geneva WI 53147; (800) 558-3417. At Grand Geneva, find yourself surrounded by beauty. Two golf courses, newly renovated guest rooms, spa, 62,000 square feet of meeting space and indoor/outdoor waterpark located an hour from Milwaukee and 90 minutes from Chicago. Meeting planners: "Pick your free" when you book a room for $99 between October 1 and March 15, 2010 and choose from a FREE reception, FREE ski lift tickets or FREE continental breakfast. www.grandgeneva.com.

THE FAMILY REUNION SURVIVAL GUIDE: How to Avoid Problems With Your Family Without Avoiding Your Family by Laurence A. Basirico. (2003, Identity Publishing, $11.95). A book about relationships at family reunions and how to enjoy them. Based on original research. Secrets of Successful Family Reunions, by Robert W. Wolfe a.k.a. Uncle Bob A how-to-book for successful family reunions. Whether simple or elaborate it helps those who wish to pass their values to the next generation. 2008. $16.99 + s/h. Treasure and Scavenger Hunts (3rd ed.) How to Plan, Create, and Give Them, by Gordon Burgett Communications Unlimited, 2007, 134 pp. $15.95 + s/h or $12.95 digital.

The Pick A Party book set, by Patty Sachs, party-planning expert. Book #1: Pick a Party, The Big Book of Party Themes and Occasion, 100 theme party plans for holidays, milestone occasions and special events. Book #2 Pick-A-Party Cookbook, Includes menus, recipes and table decoration ideas for the 100 theme parties in Book #1. Regularly $20 for the set, only $16.00 + $2 s/h) for Reunions magazine readers.

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MUSIC THE MALONE FAMILY CHOIR: A FAMILY REUNION is an original gospel CD opening with a song you'll want to play to say Welcome to Our Family Reunion! at your family reunion. CD $15 or tape $10 + s/h.

POSTCARD ANNOUNCEMENTS Notify your reunion members to SAVE THE DATE (bright red, they'll not miss it!) and when you need reminders, send postcards that say TIME IS RUNNING OUT. Fill-in cards - $15 p/100 postcards or 20¢ each – you fill in the date and reunion name; or Custom printed cards - $45 p/100 postcards or 50¢ each. Send info to be printed: for SAVE THE DATE! (name, date, & place of reunion, contact info). For TIME IS RUNNING OUT (name & date of reunion & RSVP date) + fax number or email address to get your approval before we print.

RECIPES COOKING FOR LARGE GROUPS (CD) Over 1400 recipes. System requirements: Windows 98/NT 4.0/XP, Intel Pentium Processor or better, 32 MB RAM, 20 MB free hard disk space, CD-ROM drive, SVGA monitor, keyboard, web browser, Adobe Reader, Window-compatible pointing device. $49.95 plus $1.29 s/h.

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Family Reunion, by Mary Quattlebaum, Illustrated by Andrea Shine. Thoughtful and fun, this book gives glimpses of family togetherness and tradition through various poetic forms, including free verse, a sonnet, haiku, a ballad and more. $16 + s/h.

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