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THE PEPPER BOX RITENOUR HIGH SCHOOL
ISSUE 1 VOLUME 99
9100 ST. CHARLES ROCK ROAD, ST. LOUIS, MO 63114
NOVEMBER 2021
National case helps spotlight violence in relationships The Gabby Petito case took national headlines, but spotlighted signs of toxic relationships
K NO WING T HE SIGNS The most common red flags of a potentially abusive relationship
CONTROL A huge red flag is when your partner attempts to control who you see, where you go or what you do.
BLAME They may blame you for their behaviors or act like it is not happening at all.
INTIMIDATION Your partner may attempt to intemidate you with threats.
THREATS Your partner may threaten to leave, hurt you, themselves or others.
TO GET MORE INFORMATION ON DOMESTIC ABUSE Visit thehotline.org or visit with one of our own Ritenour counselors
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KAYLYN RIGGS Content Editor-in-Chief Gabrielle (Gabby) Petito had a real appreciation for nature; she wanted to see as much of the world as she could. She was a princess craving adventure beyond the castle. She thought her Prince Charming was right around the corner. His name was Brian Laundrie, and he was just as interested in traveling and seizing the day as she was. Together they just seemed to click - they fit like puzzle pieces and they knew they wanted to spend each adventure with each other. The couple went on a huge cross-country road trip in 2019, all the way from the East Coast, to California and Oregon. They camped, visited different cities, beaches, mountains and national parks. When they returned from that trip they continued to take shorter trips; never getting enough of seeing the world with each other. They wanted to spend the rest of their lives together traveling; they were the perfect match. But soon the world would get a terrifying look at the truth. Petito and Laundrie’s relationship was not the picture-perfect Disney adventure they portrayed on social media and it’s horrible end is opening everyone’s eyes to the uncomfortable truth: domestic violence is a lot more common than people would like to think. Even in young adults. Even in teenagers. Even if it does not appear that way publicly.
According to The Hotline, on average 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men will experience violence at the hands of an intimate partner, and 1 in 10 high school students have experienced violence in a relationship in the last year (2020) alone. While many have been publicly grieving for Petito, it is time to arm the population with the knowledge and understanding of a domestic abuse situation to better prepare readers and their loved ones for what is statistically probable. There are many red flags in what could become a toxic relationship. Number one: One of the partners is embarrassing the other or putting them down. One extremely common way for a manipulator to gain control over someone is to isolate them via embarrassment. Number two: Toxic relationships often form with one person being overly controlling. Another way manipulators commonly control their partners is by forcing them to only be with them. They may request that their significant other stays away from family members, friends, and colleagues. Number three: Insults. Abusers may use insults to isolate their partner and make them feel more alone in the world and in their life. Unfortunately, some people are able to understand all of the red flags listed and more, but that knowledge may not be enough to protect
them. One student, who wished to remain anonymous, mentioned that they saw red flags in their past relationship, but tried to work through them instead of ending it. “I noticed the red flags. I knew things were off but I chalked it up to everyone having bad parts. I used his hard past as an excuse for his behaviors towards me and others,” anonymous student 1 said. Another student who wished to remain anonymous mentioned that once people have left toxic relationships, there is still more that needs to be done to move forward. “I feel we need to understand and notice red flags while entering a relationship, but we also need to understand that there are people who are willing to help. If you are already in this type of situation knowing all of the red flags won’t help you escape; but those caring people will,” anonymous student 2 said. Ritenour’s counselors are well armed and equipped to help Ritenour students in need. They are ready to help students get to a safer space, and students who report going through violence in a relationship can be referred to a specialist in the building. As the Petito case comes to a close, those who have followed it can grieve and give peace and honor to her and her family by keeping themselves and their friends safe. Understand the red flags and know that nobody is ever alone.
New history class will focus on social justice After being proposed by the Game Changers, Global Majority Studies will start in the Spring CAIDEN GAITHER Pepper Box Staff After a long year of virtual planning, discussion, and collaboration between staff, parents, and students, a new class teaching about social justice and its related issues is coming to Ritenour. The new class, titled Global Majority Studies, aims to bring awareness and education to the student body on modern social topics such as race, orientation, and the history of oppression and identity, both in the United States and globally. “It will give students more leeway to understand that these things have happened
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in not only the US, but worldwide,” junior Jayden Bock, a student who assisted in the creation of helped create the class, explained. “Even though we do have Game Changers, I think [this class] is an even better way for those who are interested and want to learn more.” The class was brought to the attention of history teachers Michael Floyd, Brett Mueller, and Zachary Buxman by the Game Changers and Tavonda Palmer Harvey. With the support of the building’s curriculum faculty and leadership, a committee was formed to create the class. “They will go over
different social justice issues, but they will also teach vocabulary that is associated with social justice, such as oppression, microaggression, discrimination,” Palmer Harvey said. “They’ll look into identity, so that people can look into that, but it is mostly surrounded by the concept of social justice and issues that come up. It will be a connection between social justice and history, and connecting events that took place in the past versus now, like modern day slavery and mass incarceration.” Floyd, with his fellow history teachers, played a major role in creating the lesson plans.
“We have been building the curriculum from scratch. It has been an amazing, eye opening process,” Floyd said. Floyd was excited to participate in the creation of the class, and acknowledges that the subject matter will be different than other classes he has taught in the past. “I love everything about social studies, that’s what’s drawn me to social studies,“ Floyd said. “There will be some adjustments, there’s going to be some content that’s going to cause some pause for reflection. It’s going to cause some conversation. We need to make sure that we’re including everyone in our history.”
Global Majority Studies will be available to sophomores, juniors and seniors in 7th Hour during second semester. Palmer Harvey is excited that the class will be available so quickly to students, and thinks it can have a positive impact on Ritenour students. “We are very excited about the class, we are very grateful that we have district and building leadership supporting it because we think that it’s a great opportunity for all students to be able to learn more about not only themselves, but others who may not look like them within their classroom,” Palmer Harvey said.
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