Reel Him In

Reel Him In

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You’ve already found your man, but sometimes, you run out of ideas. The times spent together have become routine, and if you let this continue on, you could actually fall into a boring trap.

It’s natural to settle into the groove and have certain traditions, but there are times where you two need to do something different. Those comfortable habits may be easy, but this could actually be a potential threat to your longevity as a couple. It’s human nature to seek adventure and it would be better if you can do things together. Find things that make you feel as if you’re taking a break from the usual routine. Plan a vacation. This doesn’t mean that you have to spend a lot to book a plane and reserve a hotel room. Sometimes, it’s all in the mind. Hence, put in a little bit of effort because simple gestures could make a world of difference.

For instance, add a little zing during your dinners out together. Instead of hitting the usual bar scene and meeting up with friends, spend the whole night together with no one but each other to talk to. You can even agree to switch off your phones so that you can get into the conversation without having to think about the outside world. Plan out this night carefully so that work won’t be on either of your minds. Low-key dates have already been done, and since you’re already a couple, make an exciting night out of it without others in the mix. Concoct your own drinks to go with the exotic dinner. This instantly puts you in the mood for romance. Make sure to stay clear from serious stuff. This is all about having fun.

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If you’re both health buffs, take up an activity together. Do more than just hit the gym. Take up wall-climbing or any other activities that get your adrenaline pumping. Doing something exhilarating brings you two closer. You don’t have to wait for an out of town trip to do this.

That’s because you shouldn’t limit yourselves to what you do regularly. You can even talk about how the two of you felt after. You can even do this regularly, and to make it seem spontaneous, do different activities every time you do so. You’ll see that aside from opening doors for better communication, you’re also doing something good for your body.

You can even do something in the middle of the day. Instead of going to your usual lunch café, take the extra hour to check out restaurants outside your area. You may not always like the food on the menu, but you’ll be surprised at the many amazing discoveries you’ll have if you do this every once in a while.

Explore towns together because this will actually feel like an actual vacation. The difference is that you’ve only spent for the food. Dare each other to try what you normally don’t eat. You’ll definitely have a blast and that’s simply because you’ve both decided to step out of your comfort zone.

Reel Him In

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