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Teeing off for a good cause
The Kiwanis Club of East Meadow held its annual Steven J. Eisman Memorial Golf Outing at Eisenhower Park on August 5. The event, which honors the late Steven Eisman, a dedicated community leader and former Kiwanis president, raises nearly $25,000 each year. Proceeds support scholarships and send underprivileged children to Kamp Kiwanis. Eisman is remembered for his leadership roles in the East Meadow Chamber of Commerce and the Nassau County Bar Association. Above, Tom Murtagh and Keith Burtis celebrated a good play. Right, Leslie Kle lined up her shot down the fairway. Story, more photos, Page 8.
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E-skateboards: Learning STEM in hands-on ways
By JoSEPH D’AlESSANDRo jdalessandro@liherald.com
The electric skateboard has emerged as one the newest hands-on STEM education tools in Nassau County, according to East Meadow resident Daniel Tellerman.
Tellerman is the director of growth for Lectec, which is based in New York City, a growing small business made for the do-ityourself tinkerer, aspiring engineer and skateboard hobbyist. Lectec’s partnerships have placed electric skateboards in Mineola High School, and in schools in Pennsylvania, Georgia and California.
E verybody should have at least some sort of hands-on experience with technology.
Community residents will have an opportunity to use Lectec products hands-on, during an E-SkateBoard Middle School STEM camp at Samanea Mall in Westbury on Aug. 17. Those who attend will participate in an instructional class and get their own Lectec skateboard kit to keep. To register and learn more, visit Camp.Lectec. link.
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“We are incredibly dedicated to this vision that came out of a dusty old warehouse to change education and provide students with opportunities to be engaged that they wouldn’t have anywhere else, and we believe that skateboards are the answer to that,” Tellerman said.
More students are being introduced to hands-on activities involving STEM, which stands for science, technology, engineering and math. Using e-skateboards as an education tool makes education more fun and memorable than learning the same topics in a conventional classroom, Tellerman said.
“I can’t think of any child that wakes up one day and says they want to learn all about mechanical engineering,” Tellerman said. “But if you attribute it to an activity, a passion,
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Celtic spirit sours at Irish American Night
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
The sounds of bagpipes, fiddles, and lively Irish dance echoed through the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre at Eisenhower Park on Aug. 5, as the Irish American Society of Nassau, Suffolk, and Queens hosted its annual Irish American Night. The event, which has become a beloved tradition in the community, was a vibrant celebration of Irish culture, bringing together people of all ages to honor their heritage through music, dance, and camaraderie.
The evening included performances by the Tommy Mulvihill Band featuring Sean Quinn. The audience, many of whom proudly donned green and gold, were immersed in the sounds and spirits of familiar melodies.
The stage also came alive with the swift, intricate footwork of the Donny Golden School of Champion Irish Step Dancers. The dancers captivated the crowd, showcasing the elegance and energy of Irish dance.
Adding to the night’s authentic Irish atmosphere was the Inis Fada Pipe Band, whose powerful bagpipes and drums resonated across the park. Their performance evoked a deep sense of pride and nostalgia, transporting listeners back to the rolling hills of Ireland.
The festivities also included a set with the Clann Agus Cairde Ceilie Band, whose lively jigs and reels brought a festive energy to the event. The Inis Fada Set Dancers, with their spirited group dances, added another layer of excitement to the evening, encouraging audience members to take part in the cultural experience.
The event, chaired by Maureen O’Neill-Regan, with co-chairs Maureen Corrigan and Margaret Finucane, was not only a celebration of Irish culture but also an opportunity to honor those who have made significant contributions. This year’s honorees, Bridie Mahoney and Brendan Kerins, were recognized for their dedication and service to the Irish American Society of Nassau, Suffolk and Queens. Mahoney is a past president, who chaired the Irish American Night for 15 years, and Kerins is also a past president, who chaired the event for 25 years.
The Irish American Society of Nassau, Suffolk and Queens is based in Mineola, and is led by president James Doyle. For more on the society, visit IrishAmericanSoc.com.
As the night drew to a close, the sense of community and pride was palpable. The music and dance, the laughter and conversation, all served as a reminder of the rich tapestry that binds the Irish American community together. Irish American Night at Eisenhower Park was not just an evening of entertainment, but a heartfelt tribute to the legacy of Irish culture in America.
There’s more free concerts and cultural nights in store throughout the remainder of the summer. For more information and a full list of upcoming shows, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.
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The Donny Golden School of Champion Irish Step Dancers was one of the many groups that performed over the course of an evening packed with Irish music.
The Inis Fada Pipe Band made their way through crowds of attendees on the lawns of the theatre.
The spirit of Ireland was alive at the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre earlier this month, as troves of people came out to celebrate Irish American Night on Aug. 5.
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Up on stage, Irish culture and heritage was celebrated with lively music.
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The East Meadow Fire Department is asking that residents be vigilant for solicitations via mail, that are asking for donations be made to the Volunteer Firefighter Alliance. The charity is not affiliated with the fire department, and has a poor rating.
East Meadow Fire Dept. warns of mail solicitations
ance has a poor rating of zero stars. Commissioners advise residents that there are certain things to look out for to see if a letter asking for donations is legitimate, including the official letterhead of the fire department, an email, local phone number and local return address. Residents can also call the East Meadow Fire Department’s non-emergency number, (516) 542-0578. The fire department also accepts tax-deductible donations online at EastMeadowFD.com
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The East Meadow Fire District Commissioners are advising residents to beware of a solicitation sent through the mail requesting donations to a 2024 annual fund drive. Commissioners of the department are warning that the mailing from the Volunteer Firefighter Alliance, which has a Houston-based return address, is not from the East Meadow Fire Department. The fire department conducts its annual fund drive via mail, which includes a return envelope addressed directly to the East Meadow Fire Department, or by direct door-to-door residential contact via volunteer fire department members who carry an official EMFD identification card.
“Using the word ‘firefighter’ in an organization’s name doesn’t mean we are associated with that group,” Commissioner John Priest said. “We have no affiliation with the Volunteer Firefighter Alliance, nor have we received any funds from them.”
Commissioner William Neill added that the fire department never asks for donations via telephone.
According to Charity Navigator, a leading national charity rating organization, the Volunteer Firefighter Alli -
The East Meadow Fire Department, which covers East Meadow and parts of Levittown and Westbury is always looking for new members to join their ranks as firefighters or emergency medical personnel; no experience is necessary. The fire department provides the training required. There are numerous benefits associated with volunteering, including tax breaks, college scholarships, annual health checkups, life insurance, and a service award pension program, all at no cost. For more information on volunteering with the East Meadow Fire Department, visit the department’s website or call (516) 5424565.
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saving about $1,800 a year in energy costs with LED lighting.”*
—Guy Brogna, All Music Inc, Plainview
Meet Guy. He’s a local small business owner, rock bassist, and fan of LEDs. It didn’t hurt that he got $5,900 in rebates to replace his store’s old lighting with energy-efficient fixtures.* He says his store and his guitars look great in the new LED glow. And, with the monthly energy cost savings, he couldn’t be happier.
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HERALD SPORTS
Morning kickoffs for Nassau football
By TONY BELLISSIMO tbellissimo@liherald.com
Are you ready for some football?
Next Monday, all 53 Nassau County public high school football programs can begin preparations for the upcoming season, scheduled to open Friday, Sept. 6 with six games leading up to the first full slate the following week.
Aside from eight-time defending Nassau Conference II champion Garden City moving to Conference III, perhaps the biggest news during the offseason was the decision to add an 11 a.m. kickoff slot to Conferences II and IV for the 2024 campaign, and potentially Conferences I and III next year, due to a shortage of officials.
“At this time we don’t have enough officiating crews to cover so many games at the same time,” said Section VIII football coordinator Matt McLees. “We’re at about 16-17 crews. Moving some games to 11 a.m. and others to 3 p.m. allows us to double up certain crews on Saturdays.”
One team largely affected by the earlier start time is Sewanhaka. Not only is head coach George Kasimatis’ squad debuting the school’s new nickname, the Ravens, half of its games will begin in the morning. Fortunately, Kasimatis noted, three of the four 11 a.m. kickoffs are at home. “We travel to Roosevelt in Week 2 and it’ll be interesting,” he said.
Massapequa (Conference I), Garden City (II), South Side (III) and Seaford (IV) won county titles last season, however the landscape has changed with Trojans moving to Conference III. Carey, the new top seed in II, seeks its first county title since going back-to-back in 2013-14 and opens at home versus Glen Cove Sept. 14.
Garden City’s first taste of Conference III football is Sept. 6 at Bethpage. Seaford, which must fend off conference newcomers Wantagh and Plainedge, opens at home Sept. 13 against Island Trees.
Massapequa, which last season was awarded the Rutgers Cup, presented annually to the most outstanding team in Nassau, opens at Oceanside Sept. 6 in game originally scheduled for Thursday, Oct. 10.
Teams choosing to play a full game scrimmage can do so once 10 practices are completed, McLees said, making Aug. 30 the first potential date. Teams can hold joint practices as soon as Aug. 24 and are permitted to play 7 on 7 and also run 10 plays (11 on 11) in full gear. “It’s not a scrimmage by definition but teams can accomplish a lot with the joint practice,” he added.
Nine teams switch conferences
Along with Garden City, eight other teams have switched conferences for the
10 games to watch
Sept. 6: Massapequa at Oceanside
Sept. 14: Sewanhaka at Baldwin
Sept 20: Elmont at South Side
Sept. 21: Massapequa at Uniondale
Sept. 28: Calhoun at Mepham
Oct. 5: Oceanside at Freeport
Oct. 10: MacArthur at Carey
Oct. 10: Plainedge at Wantagh
Oct. 10: South Side at Garden City
Oct. 25: Wantagh at Seaford
upcoming season based on enrollment figures: Baldwin, Elmont, Manhasset, Herricks, Wantagh, Plainedge, Roosevelt and Glen Cove. Baldwin returns to Conference II where it spent the 2022 campaign and is seeded No. 10 this season. The Bruins, under new head coach Mike Robinson, open at home on their new turf field Sept. 14 against Sewanhaka. Elmont is the No. 3 seed in Conference III, whilst Manhasset is No. 7. Herricks is seeded eighth in Conference I. Longtime Conference III powers Wantagh and Plainedge are in Conference IV and will meet face to face Oct. 10 at Wantagh. Roosevelt, not long ago a member of IV, bounced to II and opens at New Hyde Park.
Thursday games Oct. 10
The sixth week of the season (fifth for many Conference III teams) will be played on Thursday, Oct. 10 due to Yom Kippur. Games will kick off as early as 2:15 p.m. (Elmont at Sewanhaka) and as late as 6 p.m.
Local coaching changes
Baldwin, East Meadow, Freeport, Mepham, Seaford all boast new sideline bosses.
Robinson is a Baldwin graduate who spent the past two seasons coaching the Bruins’ JV team after six years as a varsity assistant. Keith Lizzi takes over from Vin Mascia at East Meadow, the No. 6 seed in Conference I. Longtime Freeport assistant Jimmy Jones succeeds the legendary Russ Cellan at Freeport. The seventh-ranked Red Devils open at Massapequa. Tom Mazeika is the new head coach at Mepham, the No. 5 seed in Conference II, opens at home versus MacArthur. Seaford and new head coach Mike McHugh kick off defense of the Conference IV title at home against Island Trees.
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Chase Bier and Oceanside open the season at home on Sept. 6 vs. Massapequa.
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Jake Classie, right, and Mepham will be playing for a new head coach this fall as Tom Mazeika takes over the helm of the Pirates.
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Town hosts lacrosse clinic
Members of the Team Denver College meet Hempstead Town Clerk Kate Murray during Town of Hempstead Lacrosse Clinic on July. 15, 2024.
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Business celebrates its grand opening
Linda Harkavy, Medical Director of the Form and Function Aesthetics and Wellness in East Meadow met with Hempstead Town Councilman Tom Muscarella, as the Merrick Avenue business celebrates it’s grand opening on July. 9.
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A hole-in-one for community spirit at outing
Members of the Kiwanis Club of East Meadow gathered to remember longtime Kiwanian Steven Eisman at a golf outing in his honor. Golfers strapped on golfing shoes, and donned visors, before hitting the course at Eisenhower Park on Aug. 5 for the annual Steven J. Eisman Memorial Golf Outing.
The longstanding East Meadow Kiwanis Club fundraiser was renamed in Eisman’s memory to recognize his generosity and dedication to the community. The tournament, hosted by East Meadow Kiwanis and Borrelli’s Restaurant, is the club’s biggest fundraiser.
Eisman was a very prominent community member serving as past president of East Meadow Kiwanis, the East Meadow Chamber of Commerce and the Nassau County Bar Association. He took his Kiwanis positions one step further repre-
senting the club as lieutenant governor of the Long Island South Central Kiwanis division and parliamentarian for the New York District Kiwanis. He died in November 2015 after a battle with pneumonia at the age of 61.
The event raises nearly $25,000 annually and is sponsored by many community members. Proceeds go toward sending children to Kamp Kiwanis, in upstate Taberg, a summer camp for underprivileged children. The fundraiser also gives the club the means to award scholarships.
The annual memorial outing at Eisenhower Park not only celebrates the life and legacy of Eisman, but also strengthens bonds within the East Meadow community, ensuring that his spirit for giving back lives on.
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The annual Steven J. Eisman Memorial Golf Outing typically raises upwards of $20,000 for the Kiwanis Club of East Meadow’s year-long efforts. Mike Litzner and Tom Gallagher out on the course.
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The Kiwanis Club of East Meadow held its annual golf outing last week, in honor of Steven Eisman, a longtime Kiwanian. Kevin Kamper, Mike Litzner, Debbie Kirsh, Debbie Coates, Tom Gallagher and Joe Parisi, the club’s president, at the outing on Aug. 5.
Sandra Caruso and Leslie Kle looked on as Tom DeStio hit a golf ball on one of Eisenhower Park’s golf courses.
Members perfected their golf skills to support efforts including sending kids to Kamp Kiwanis in upstate Taberg, and scholarships for high school students. Dino Bencivenga watched Vinny Cafiso hit a ball out of a rough patch of grass.
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Pedestrian killed in Newbridge Road crash
A 71-year-old man was fatally struck by a vehicle while crossing Newbridge Road on Monday afternoon, according to the Nassau County Homicide Squad. The incident occurred at approximately 2:15 p.m. near Frisch Place.
The pedestrian was crossing Newbridge Road eastbound when he was hit by a Jeep Grand Cherokee driven by a 65-year-old man traveling northbound. The collision caused severe
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head trauma to the pedestrian, who was rushed to a nearby hospital but was later pronounced dead by the attending physician.
The driver of the Jeep remained at the scene following the accident. No other injuries were reported.
Police have stated that the investigation into the incident is ongoing.
–Jordan Vallone
Students inducted into technology honor
More than 100 Nassau BOCES Barry Tech students were inducted into the National Technology Honor Society on July 31. Representing 31 school districts from around Nassau County, the students were recognized for their superior scholastic achievement, dedicated community service, and enthusiastic endorsement by teachers.
Membership in the National Technology Honor Society is considered the nation’s highest honor for excellence in career and technical education. Becoming a member helps students find success in the highly competitive workforce by encouraging scholastic achievement and cultivating a desire for excellence.
In Bellmore-Merrick schools, the students recognized were Kaylee Wegener, a Medical Assisting student; Natalia Fasitta, studying Animal Care; and Joshua Trainor, studying Veterinary Science.
In East Meadow schools, the students recognized were Alyssa Persandi, studying Early Childhood Education; Sean Alday and Oliver Lazo Pena, studying Animation and Digital Media Skills; Lily Figliolia, studying
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Computer Game Design and Programming Skills; Michael Appice, a Welding student; and Joseph Howell, studying Automotive Technology.
A vital regional resource, Nassau BOCES offers state-of-the-art programs for learners of all ages and abilities as well as cost-effective services for school districts and municipalities. Nassau BOCES empowers students to achieve their maximum potential in alternative, artistic, outdoor, special education, career and technical, and virtual educational environments. The organization also offers adult education programs and various programs that are vital to improving the Long Island regional economy. Professional development programs advance teaching and learning on Long Island, and technology services form the backbone of many school districts’ infrastructure. As the county’s educational leader in implementing the state’s reform efforts, Nassau BOCES is helping to shape the future of education.
To learn more, visit NassauBOCES. org.
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My mother may soon be applying for Medicaid. How does this affect funeral arrangements?
The latest Medicaid regulations now permit individuals to set aside a portion of their assets in an irrevocable trust account in order to have funds for future funeral expenses.
When an individual approaches the time when Medicaid coverage seems likely, social workers generally advise families to look into this funeral pre-funding option.
Here’s how we can help:
• The Family will make an appointment with us to discuss just what we are to do when the death occurs.
• We discuss options and record their wishes not just about preferred funeral home services but cemetery, church, monument inscription, newspaper notices, etc. We inform the family of exactly what the funeral home and third party costs are at the present time.
• Funds to cover those expenses can then deposited in our FDIC insured PRE - PLAN Trust. The Trust pays sufficient interest to allow us to guaranty those future funeral home costs into the future.
• While the funds remain in the name of the individual going on Medicaid, eligibility to receive Medicaid coverage is not affected.
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A 71-year-old man died on Aug. 12, after he was struck by a Jeep on Newbridge Road.
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Back to class with the right stuff
Keep that gear in good shape
Families are always looking to stretch their back-to-school shopping budgets. But saving money isn’t just about how much you spend on supplies; it’s also about making school supplies and equipment last as long as possible.
Here are some tips for protecting your students’ school tools to help stretch your budget — and their gear.
Talk with children about handling tech devices. Kids will be kids, and sometimes that means they’ll be tough on their stuff. Unfortunately, their school-mandated tech devices — such as calculators, tablets and laptops — can’t always take the beating. To reduce the risk of accidental breakage, talk to kids about proper handling and storage of their devices and the potential risks for breakage when drops, spills and hard impacts occur.
Lighten the backpack load Between books and laptops, students tend to pack a lot of heavy items in their backpacks during the course of a school year. As the load increases, backpack zippers may break, and seams may tear from the daily stress. Reduce the wear and tear by ensuring your kids don’t over-pack their bags.
Not only will this reduce strain on their backpacks, it will lighten the load on students’ backs as well.
Consider a protection plan. Research shows that some school essentials —such as backpacks and laptop batteries — break or stop functioning within the first 1-2 years of use. To help keep costs down, many retailers offer reputable protection plans, which can help repair or replace the equipment for free or a fraction of what you’d normally pay on your own.
Sharing isn’t always caring. Even if your child handles his calculator or laptop with care, his friends might not. Establish guidelines with your kids at the start of the school year about what items can be shared with others at school and which cannot.
For those things that can be shared, consider encouraging your child to establish ground rules when sharing with friends. Guidelines could include when the item should be returned, tasks for which the item will be used and an understanding that items will be handled with care. Don’t forget about bikes. Kids who ride their bikes to school can be just as hard on their bikes as they are on their school supplies. A tune-up at the start of the school year can keep the bike running smoothly and help catch wear and tear, such as damaged spokes or worn tires and brake pads. Are you ready? A back-to-school checklist
Make sure your kids have what they need to succeed this year. Ensure you’ve covered all the back-to-school bases before the studying starts:
√ Ensure your child is up to date on all immunizations.
√ Schedule eye and physical exams, if needed.
√ Make sure emergency contact information is up to date.
√ Organize school supplies.
√ Review the dress code policy.
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Navigating the school bus
By Sharon Naylor
School bus safety musts to teach your child
According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, an average of 24 school-age children are killed in school transportation accidents each year. Eleven of those children are on the school bus, and 13 are pedestrians. Even one child killed or injured in a school bus accident is too many. So it’s important to teach your children the safety rules of being in or around school buses.
Since it’s back-to-school time, make it a top priority to deliver a school bus safety lesson to children who will be riding the bus for the first time and to older children who have ridden the bus for several years. They, especially, need to be reminded of how important it is to practice bus safety, because older kids can get complacent about school bus risks.
Avoid danger in the ‘Danger Zone’
The loading and unloading area is called the “Danger Zone,” and it’s “the space on all sides of the bus where children are in the most danger of not being seen by the driver (10 feet in front of the bus where the driver may be too high to see a child, 10 feet on either side of the bus where a child may be in the driver’s blind spot, and the area behind the bus).
The “Danger Zone” is particularly dangerous for young children, who are more likely to be struck because they act impulsively, dash to get on and off the bus, assume other drivers will see them and stop, and don’t always stay within the driver’s sight. Older kids experience risk when they are distracted by their friends — who also might be unaware of other motorists or their positioning in the driver’s blind spots — and by their handheld gadgets.
So Google an image of a school bus “Danger Zone” that illustrates in danger-red the areas around the bus that they are to avoid. It’s considered a common rule of thumb for children to stay at least 10 feet away from all sides of the bus and to always cross the street in front of the bus while the bus is stopped, red lights flashing, driver watching.
But kids have to be taught or reminded to look carefully for other motorists who are not stopped for the bus and to look behind the bus for any irresponsible driver who might speed to pass the bus. And they should never cross the street behind the
bus. If friends are headed that way, your child is not to follow them. Role-play to give your child a script, such as, “Let’s cross up here where the driver can see us.” With practice, they’ll feel more confident in group dynamics.
Before the bus arrives
√ Ensure backpacks are packed securely so papers and other items donít scatter as the bus approaches.
√ Create a morning routine that puts kids at the bus stop five minutes before the scheduled pickup time. This helps avoid a last-minute rush, when safety lessons are easily forgotten, and ensures kids are safely in place for boarding.
√ Walk young children to the bus stop or encourage kids to walk in groups. There is safety in numbers; groups are easier for drivers to see.
√ If kids must cross a street, driveway or alley, remind them to stop and look both ways before crossing.
√ Verify the bus stop location offers good visibility for the bus driver; if changes are needed, talk with nearby homeowners or school district officials to implement changes.
√ Remind children that the bus stop is not a playground. Balls or other toys could roll into the street and horseplay can result in someone falling into the path of oncoming traffic.
√ Instruct kids to stay at least three steps away from the road and allow the bus to come to a complete stop before approaching it.
On the bus ride
√ When boarding the bus, items can get bumped and dropped. Caution children that before picking anything up, they should talk to the driver and follow instructions to safely retrieve their possessions.
√ Teach safe riding habits: stay seated with head, hands and feet inside at all times; keep bags and books out of the aisle and remain seated until the bus stops moving.
√ Instruct children to never throw things on the bus or out the windows and to never play with or block emergency exits.
Photo: Prepare for the return to the classroom with a back to school shopping strategy that makes sense for your family — and your wallet.
Photo: School buses are safe transportation if your kids know safety rules.
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How was your day? Creating conversation with your kids
By DiAnne Crown
The easy flow of conversation and discovery between parents and their young children invariably seems to stop early in elementary school. Why? Preschoolers and kindergartners find it difficult to remember the details and summarize a day’s experiences.
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Older children may want to turn off school and think about something else, be too tired to talk or be upset about something they think will upset you. And youths are not only looking for the boundaries between what’s theirs and what’s yours; they may be even more concerned that you’ll judge, overreact or take over their concern or need. Here’s what we did to get the conversation started — and keep it going.
Start
When They’re Babies
Build trust when your children are infants. When they cry, pick them up. When they babble, answer them. When they reach for you, reach back with a loving touch. When they want to crawl into bed with you, share special rocking time. Go outside and watch an excavator for a few minutes. Read a favorite story. Or play chase. Say yes. You will build lifelong love and trust with your children.
Build A Routine
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For those fortunate enough to have it, an opportune talk time is immediately after school at pickup, when the events of the day are freshest. Start as early as preschool or kindergarten. Let your children share during the drive home. You’ll both benefit. You’ll hear news of the day, and your young ones will have regular opportunities to practice sequencing and organizing information into a short report. Active, respectful listening will develop your children’s willingness to share and include details.
Start With What You Know
For an easier time learning about the social aspect of your children’s day at school, get to know their friends through play dates. Then you can ask about specific friends and situations. “Did you and Lucy play together at recess today?” could branch into their successes or problems on the playground that day, any new students in class and so on.
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Pay attention to teacher websites, homework, backpack items, sporting events and
what other parents are talking about at school. And build on prior days’ conversations, perhaps asking, “What’s new with your group mythology project?” Starting with specific known topics is more productive than the open-ended “How was your day?”
Take An Active Role In Getting Ready For School
Make lunch together, and talk about the day ahead. Keep a communication board on the refrigerator or by the back door, and run through the checklist of homework, permission slips, gym clothes and game schedules together. This will build your children’s sense of routine and readiness and provide good topics for table talk later.
Play Together
Do what your children like, whether it’s a favorite video game, ball toss, board game or funny YouTube video. Fun experiences build memories, keep you connected, open the door for conversations on other topics and often become perennial favorites as your children grow up.
Give Your Full Attention
Listening and being present are important elements of communication. In an article by Claire Gagne on the Today’s Parent website, therapist and author Jennifer Kolari says: “When you’re really connected, your body is leaning in and your phone is down. You’ll find that if you do a really good job in those moments, they will come to you for the hard stuff.” If you ignore or brush off your children when they’re rattling on about the latest video game or a guest speaker who came into the classroom that day, Kolari says, you’re losing an opportunity to show you are a good listener.
Utilize Car Rides
Occasionally, talking side by side behind the windshield can be easier for teens than talking eye to eye. Listen to music; share stories of the day; and talk about any topics of interest or concern. Make sure these are twoway conversations, not one-way interrogations, says Gagne. This way, you’ll get much more value out of your daily commute.
Back-to-School — with a focus
Mornings over easy
Start the day on the right track
School day mornings can be hectic, since as every parent knows getting kids ready for school and out the door on time is not always easy. Working parents may find school day mornings especially difficult, as their own work schedules can make mornings feel even more rushed. This time around, change up your morning routines with strategies to free up time in the morning so everyone starts their days off in a more relaxing atmosphere.
Wake up earlier. Sleep might seem like a precious commodity, but waking up just 10 to 15 minutes earlier can remove some of the stress from weekday mornings without costing you a lot of sack time. Let kids sleep in until their normal wakeup time, using your extra 10 or 15 minutes to shower or enjoy your morning cup of coffee before the house is abuzz with activity. Tackle certain chores the night before. Delaying certain chores until you wake up makes for a hectic morning, so tackle as many morning chores as possible before you go to bed for the night. Prepare school lunches, lay clothes out for yourself and your children, and make sure kids have their backpacks packed and ready to go before they go to bed. Each of these things may only take a few minutes, but when left for the morning, they can add up to a substantial amount of time.
Encourage youngsters to pick up the pace. Some people are morning people,
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while others dread setting their alarms for early morning hours. Kids who fall into the latter group may drag their feet in the morning, but parents should offer encouragement when kids are moving slowly in the morning. Allowing your frustration to show may only make kids less fond of mornings, so remind them as nicely as possible that everyone has a schedule to stick to if they seem to be dragging their feet.
Keep the television off. If watching the television is ingrained in your morning rou-
tine, try going a few days without it to see if this makes it easier to get out the door on time. Kids might grow distracted by morning cartoons, and even adults may get caught up in morning news shows.
Eliminating television and screen time on other devices from your morning routine can save time and also may help your family grow closer, as you will have more distraction-free time to speak to one another. In addition to turning off the television. Resist that urge to look at your devices,
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etc., when getting ready in the morning. Parents know that school day mornings can be hectic. But you can certainly implement changes to your routine to make such mornings go more smoothly so everyone gets where they need to be on time.
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Photo: Get out from under the morning chaos by changing up the daily routine for a smoother start to your family’s day.
Man sentenced to 10 years for 2023 stabbing
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
A North Bellmore man was sentenced to 10 years in prison for the March 2023 stabbing of a 21-year-old stranger during a St. Patrick’s Day bar crawl, Nassau County District Attorney Anne Donnelly announced last week.
Martin Carpio, 36, was convicted by a jury on June 4 of assault in the first degree and criminal possession of a weapon in the fourth degree, following a trial before Judge Robert Schwartz. Carpio was acquitted of attempted murder and two counts of attempted assault.
The district attorney’s office had recommended a 20-year prison sentence.
“Martin Carpio instigated an argument with strangers, escalated to physical violence, and targeted his rage at a 21-year-old young man when he twice plunged a three-and-a-half-inch blade into the victim’s chest,” Donnelly said in a statement. “The extensive injuries this defendant so viciously caused nearly cost the young man his life. Instead of recognizing the magnitude of what he had done, Carpio gloated and reveled in his cruelty after the stabbing. Today’s lengthy prison sentence holds the defendant accountable for the suffering that he caused this victim and his loved ones.”
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According to prosecutors, the victim and several friends attended an event called “LepreCon,” a St. Patrick’s Day bar crawl on Main Street in Farmingdale, on March 4, 2023. The group ended their night at The Dominican Restaurant 4, where they met with more friends, including a family celebrating a birthday.
At around 1:50 a.m. on March 5, Carpio and a friend entered the restaurant. Carpio allegedly grabbed the arm of a 15-year-old girl and made advances on her, prompting an argument with the girl’s father. Carpio then punched the man in the throat.
The group of friends intervened, pushing Carpio back and trying to get
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him to leave. Carpio then punched the 21-year-old victim in the face. The group, along with restaurant security, forced Carpio out of the restaurant, and he fell to the sidewalk.
During an altercation outside, Carpio pulled out a knife. He was knocked to the ground by one of the victim’s friends but got up and pursued the victim, who was backing away with his palms up. A friend of Carpio’s then punched the victim in the back of the head, after which Carpio grabbed the victim’s shirt collar and stabbed him twice in the upper left rib cage.
As he stabbed the victim, Carpio said, “I just stabbed you, b-tch,” according to prosecutors.
The victim was taken to Nassau University Medical Center with a collapsed lung, punctured spleen and diaphragm, and a fractured rib. Immediate medical intervention was required to save his life.
Carpio was arrested on March 5, 2023, in Farmingdale by Nassau County police.
The case was prosecuted by Senior Litigation Counsel Joseph Grasso and Assistant District Attorney Alexa Mirotznik of the County Court Trial Bureau, under the supervision of Bureau Chief Ali Ajamu. The defendant was represented by attorneys James Toner and Angelo Picerno.
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Nassau County Legislature Approves Operational Lease and Start of Environmental Review in Favor of Sands with Near Unanimous Support
On August 5, 2024, the Nassau County Legislature voted overwhelmingly in favor of the Las Vegas Sands Lease for the Nassau County Veterans Memorial Coliseum. Legislators voted 19-0 to begin the environmental review (SEQRA) process, and 18-1 on the operations lease, allowing the Coliseum to continue to operate, keeping over 400 employees and management in place.
Tracey Edwards, Senior Vice President and Corporate Social Responsibility Officer at Sands New York said, "We are grateful to the Nassau County Legislature for approving the Nassau County Veterans Memorial Coliseum lease today in near unanimous votes of 19-0 and 181. With these votes, the 400+ employees and management of the Coliseum will sleep better at night knowing their jobs are safe. We are also deeply grateful to the many hundreds of supporters and community leaders that have turned out to share their voice on this project and the opportunities it holds."
Matty Aracich, President of the Building and Construction Trades Council of Nassau and Suffolk Counties said, "Today's vote secured and protected careers for over 400 people who work at the coliseum. Approving the lease for the Sands means they will be able to continue to
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provide for their families, and that the Coliseum will continue to operate."
Valerie Fitts, Head of Security for the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum said, "As a Uniondale resident and long time employee of the Coliseum, I came to support the transfer of the lease to Sands. It's unfair to me and my colleagues to ask us to live in limbo not knowing if the doors will open each day."
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Sands New York sponsors East Meadow Fire Fest
The members of East Meadow Fire Department’s Engine Company 4 and Ladder Company 2 reintroduced Fire Fest to the community this July, and Sands New York was proud to be a top event sponsor. “Sands New York was proud to support our neighbors in East Meadow for Fire Fest 2024 and we are eternally grateful to all of our selfless volunteers who provide 24/7 fire and emergency medical services to our community. It was a perfect day, and we were encouraged by the large number of attendees who expressed support for the Sands project. We look forward to participating in future Fire Fest programs and continuing to support Long Island’s brave first responder community,” said Ron Reese, Senior Vice President of Las Vegas Sands.
“The Sands was an engaged and thoughtful event sponsor, and their team members really added to the event. It was
Photo: Members of organized labor rallied on the steps of the Nassau County Legislative Building to support the Sands project and urge legislators to vote YES and move the project forward.
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Photo: The Nassau County Legislature held a vote on Aug. 5 regarding the environmental review process and operations lease between Las Vegas Sands and the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum.
East Meadow’s Fire Fest was held in June, where Sands New York was a top sponsor for the event.
Uniondale Community Center Hosts ‘Housewarming’ Event After Sands New York Sponsored Refurbishment
The John J. Byrne Community Center in Uniondale hosted a “Housewarming” for the community to debut its new decor and furnishings. This celebration followed a generous sponsorship from Sands New York, which included the provision of custom-made furniture that has significantly enhanced the Center’s programming capabilities.
David Greaves, President of the Center, expressed his gratitude, saying, "We are incredibly thankful to Sands for their generous support in furnishing our Center. Sands has set a remarkable example of how corporations can engage meaningfully with their communities. Their commitment goes far beyond expectations, truly benefiting Uniondale. Thanks to their contribution, our local families and students will have even more opportunities to use the Center before and after school, and we look forward to offering new programs and enriching events at the John J. Byrne Community Center.”
“Sands always aims to be a good neighbor, and this is an example of how we can help support real grassroots organizations and make an impact for local families,” said Ron Reese, Senior Vice President for Las Vegas Sands. “Having an opportunity to create an inviting space like this, while working with local businesses and community leaders is truly a privilege and we look forward to continuing these efforts for the residents of Nassau County, as our
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proposal moves forward.”
The furniture was designed and purchased through Waldner's Business Environments, a womenowned business headquartered in Farmingdale.
Meredith Waldner Stern, President of Waldners said, "We are thrilled to be part of this community project. The Sands team and the Center leadership put a lot of thought and consideration into what would be most useful for the families that use the space, and we were able to collaborate to outfit the Center in a truly meaningful way."
Stern continued, "This is also a great example of the opportunities that the Sands proposal represents for local businesses. That they chose to work with a local womanowned business for this project speaks volumes."
Previously, the Center’s offerings were limited due to insufficient furnishings. Thanks to the Sands New York sponsorship, the John J. Byrne Community Center is now fully equipped to provide a wide range of diverse and robust programs for the community.
The John J. Byrne Community Center is Uniondale's first and only multicultural and intergenerational community Center. They are dedicated to enhancing family and community life through diverse programs, fostering personal growth, well-being, and strong community connections, and promoting lifelong learning and development.
Sands New York Sponsored Custom-made New Furniture, Enhancing Community Programming
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East Meadow Little League Holds
‘Inaugural
Mow’ and Barbeque
Welcoming
New Mowing Equipment, Donated by Sands New York
New Equipment, Donated by Sands, Will Empower East Meadow Little League to Keep Grounds Clean, Safe and Ready to Play
East Meadow Little League hosted a barbeque to debut its brand new mowing equipment including a ride-on lawn mower, two weed whackers, a backpack blower, and a push mower all donated by Sands New York. The new mowing equipment was needed to perform routine maintenance to the league’s field complex and keep it clean, safe, and ready to play ball. Volunteers, players, parents, and board members turned out to thank Sands New York and bear witness to the fields’ fresh cut.
Steve LaSala, Commissioner of East Meadow Little League and East Meadow Baseball and Softball Association said, “We are a 100% volunteer organization and we had a critical need for new lawn maintenance equipment. Sands simply stepped up. Because of their generous donation, our fields will be in pristine condition for end-of-summer and fall play, and the families of East Meadow will be able to really enjoy the games. We are grateful to Sands New York, and we are excited to call them neighbors!” Ron Reese, Senior Vice President Las Vegas
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Sands, “The families and baseball players of East Meadow deserve to play ball on safe and well cared for fields, and Sands is proud to have
helped them achieve that. The East Meadow community has been a truly welcoming place for
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a fun day for all, and our first responders really felt the community's love, which was our primary goal,” said E.J. Brennan, Ex-Captain of Ladder Co. 2, one of the event organizers, along with Ex-Captain Ray Pellecia, also from Ladder 2, and Ex-Chief Anthony Messina, from Engine Co. 4. Brennan continued, “Thanks to the support
of the community and our wonderful event sponsors the event was a phenomenal success, raising funds in support of the volunteer fire and EMS responders of Engine Company 4 and Ladder Company 2. A portion of the proceeds also benefited the Terry Farrell Firefighter Fund, the Ray Pfeifer Foundation, the Nassau County Firefighters Burn Center Foundation, Gigi's
Playhouse of Long Island and Paws of War.” The event was held alongside the Fire Fest Craft Beer and Food Truck Festival with 25 participating brewers and many popular food trucks. Hundreds turned out to enjoy the craft beer tasting, great music, good food, axe throwing, and other fun outdoor activities. •••
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who we are:
our team, and we are glad to support their youth athletes with this new equipment.” Others in attendance included Nassau County Legislator Thomas McKevitt, State Assemblyman John Mikulin, Town of Hempstead Councilman Dennis Dunne, and former Presiding Officer for the Nassau County Legislator Norma Gonsalves. Following the barbeque, five Little
League games with an approximate total of 60 youth players took to the fields for scheduled games.
LaSala concluded, “Special thanks to our representatives who came out today, especially former Presiding Officer for Nassau County Legislator Norma Gonsalves who was instrumental in making this happen.”
The developer of a proposed multi-billion-dollar flagship hospitality and entertainment project on Long Island
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More than just a
HIGHLAND FLING
Celtic traditions shine proudly at Old Westbury Gardens
By Danielle Schwab
Old Westbury Gardens lush grounds fill once again with those unmistakable bagpipe sounds and spectacle during a revamped edition of its annual summer festival. This year the popular event’s scope has expanded to celebrate the vibrant traditions of Long Island’s thriving Celtic communities.
Besides those pipers, traditional competitions and highland dancing — along with plenty of entertainment and assorted activities for lads and lasses — there’s much end of summer revelry to enjoy. Everyone will be fully occupied all day, next Saturday, Aug. 24.
This year Old Westbury Gardens staff is hosting solo (without participation from longtime co-hosts Long Island Clan MacDuff). The result is an energized refresh.
“Rather than focusing just on the culture of Scotland, we [wanted to] expand it a little bit so that we could avail ourselves of all of the great Irish bands and step dancers and all of these those things that span both the Scottish and the Irish cultures,” says Maura Brush, Old Westbury Gardens CEO and director.
Pipe and drum bands will fill the air with stirring music transporting attendees to those rolling hills of Ireland and Scotland. An extensive diverse lineup of musical and Irish dance entertainment complements these bands that participate yearly.
Headlining the festival this year, Derek Warfield and The Young Wolfe Tones bring the classic tradition of Irish balladry into a new age. Lead singer, the famed songwriter-storyteller Derek Warfield, is a legend of the Irish music scene who enjoyed phenomenal success for some 40 years with the Wolfe Tones. He’s now gathered some of the finest Irish musicians and singers together to reinvigorate beloved Irish tunes. They bring their musical tradition forward with a reverence for Ireland’s past and the energy and optimism of a new generation.
“Their sound is what so many people probably expect to hear when they come to Old Westbury Gardens,” Brush says.
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• Saturday, Aug. 24, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m.
• $25, $22 seniors, $12 children, $12 members; advance purchase required
• 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury
• Tickets and information available at OldWestburyGardens.org or (516) 333-0048
Harper’s Ferry, a popular local Irish-American folk band also participates, with their appealing mix of traditional and modern Irish tunes combined with Americana and classic rock.
“Our band members are all native Long Islanders with a deep appreciation for local historical sites, especially Old Westbury Gardens,” says s Harper’s Ferry frontman Martin Kearn. “We see each performance as a blessing to spread our passion for Irish and Scottish heritage with the community.”
Other performers include bagpiper-percussionist Jessie Ofgang and soloist Charlie Zahm, who entices audiences with his instrumental prowess and rich baritone. Both have their own unique twist on bringing Celtic culture to melody.
“Their instruments are meant to be played outside in the green fields and we just have the perfect place,” Brush enthuses.
And, of course, it wouldn’t be a Celtic festival without some rhythmic Irish step dancing. The skilled dancers from four distinguished Irish dance academies will impress with their incredible footwork.
As is tradition, what are known as the Highland Games remain one of the festival’s main elements.The games continue to test athletes’ strength in heavyweight contests that date back
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That pitchfork requires some coordination to successfully loft the 20 lb. burlap bag stuffed with straw over
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pipers and drummers prepare to step
centuries, especially the caber toss.
The caber is a long, tapered pine pole or log. The “tosser” balances it vertically by holding the smaller end and then runs forward and tosses it so that it turns in the air with the larger end striking the ground first. Ideally, the pole strikes in a strictly vertical position, and the athletes are scored based on how closely the throw lands at a 12 o’clock position.
Think of it as throwing a telephone pole according to Brush. “It’s a giant log that gets thrown, and then the distance is measured, and whoever throws the throws it the furthest is the winner,” she says.
For the experienced competitor, these logs can be heavier than 125 pounds and longer than 20 feet long.
Tossing the Sheaf and Putting the Stone also attract attention. Tossing the Sheaf involves flinging a bale of hay over a horizontal pole with a large pitchfork. Putting The Stone, is similar to the traditional Olympicstyle shot put, but uses a large stone.
Want to get in on the competition? Visitors are encouraged to go for it.
“There are professionals that will be coming but there are opportunities for amateurs to sign up and participate as well,” Brush adds.
After all that exertion, folks are bound to work up an appetite. Take a moment and check out the food offerings, including fish and chips and Scottish shortbread.
It’s always a fun-filled family day with other unique experiences, including a Birds of Prey exhibition, British automobile showcase, and even curling hosted by the Long Island Curling Club. Kids will enjoy plenty of activities, including a version of the caber toss with lightweight “cabers” and an old-fashioned tug of war.
All involved are eager to welcome both older and newer generations, to preserve the fetival’s rich history.
“We’re not just relying on those who have always come, but also want people who are checking it out for the first time. This can become a new tradition for them,” Brush says.
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Double Vision
The 1970s and ‘80s come alive when Double Vision brings their “Foreigner Experience” to the Paramount stage. Whether you’re a lifelong Foreigner enthusiast or a newcomer eager to experience the magic, Double Vision promises a night of electrifying entertainment. The spirit of rock ‘n’ roll lives on, one unforgettable performance at a time, with this group of talented musicians and die-hard Foreigner fans. Double Vision has perfected the art of bringing to life the unforgettable hits that have defined generations. From “I Want to Know What Love Is” to “Cold as Ice,” their renditions are a harmonious blend of passion, precision, and nostalgic energy. Drawing inspiration from Foreigner’s unmistakable sound and stage presence, Double Vision delivers a performance that pays homage to the band’s legacy while infusing their own charisma and enthusiasm.
Saturday, Aug. 17, 8 p.m. $60, $40, $25, $20. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.
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Zac Brown Tribute
Enjoy an evening of foot-stomping fun with the music of the Zac Brown Tribute Band. Get ready to sing along to all your favorite Zac Brown Band hits, from “Chicken Fried” to “Toes” and everything in between. Founded in 2012, ZBTB is the premier tribute to the chart-topping Zac Brown Band. With 13 numberone singles and three Grammy wins, the Zac Brown Band is one of the hottest names in the music business; ZBTB is the first and most authentic tribute to their recorded music and live show. Not only does ZBTB capture the sound and creativity of ZBB, but they bring a similar atmosphere of family to their shows while engaging the audience in a way that is all their own. With classics like “Enter Sandman” and “Ants Marching”, as well as, modern hits like “There’s Nothing Holding Me Back” and “Little Lion Man” in the set, there’s something for everyone at a ZBTB show
Friday, Aug. 16, 7 p.m. Free admission. Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.
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The Caber Toss separates the strong from the strongest.
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proudly around the grounds of Old Westbury Gardens honoring a cherished heritage.
the bar.
Aug. 24
Disco fever Boogie along with Disco Unlimited, Saturday, Aug. 24, 7-9 p.m., at Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park. When Disco Unlimited hits the stage, you are instantly transported to a time when Saturday nights meant white suits, platform shoes and your very best dance moves. And dance you will — when you experience the magic created when the boogie begins.
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Capturing a time in music that to this day has not been matched, the exhilarating band will draw you in with their powerful vocals, tight harmonies and dance grooves all coupled with a synchronized stage and light show that creates an unforgettable concert experience — the best of disco nights. Close your eyes and you will truly believe you are listening to the original artists. Hear the best of Tavares, France Jolie, The Trammps, Harold Melvin’s Blue Notes, Yvonne Elliman, Anita Ward, Deney Terrio, George McCrae, Bonnie Pointer, Melba Moore, Maxine Nightingale, Carol Douglas, and so much more. Joe Cool, Sista Soul, Funky Sista, Strat Cat, Wild Jerry and The MacDaddy comprise this group of unique and experienced musicians who love and live this era of music. As always, bring seating. For information, visit NassauCcountyNY.gov/parks.
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BRUCE A. BLAKEMAN
NASSAU COUNTY EXECUTIVE
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‘Sunday Science’ Workshop
It’s a bug’s life at the Center for Science Teaching & Learning, Sunday, Aug. 18, 10-11:30 a.m. Kids are of all ages are invited to explore bugs at Tanglewood Preserve during the hands-on drop-off program. Kids will meet exotic invertebrates from around the world and find out what makes each one special, then search the preserve’s grounds to see what bugs live in our backyard. Registration required. 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre. Register at ctsl.org or call (516) 764-0045.
Herald Senior Health Expo
East Meadow Beth El Jewish Center hosts the Herald/ RichnerLIVE Senior Health Expo, Friday, Sept. 6, 10 a.m.12:30 p.m. Seniors and family members will benefit from informative panel discussions, with raffles, vendor tables, and more. Free lunch included. 1400 Prospect Ave. For sponsorship or additional information, contact Anna Graci at agraci@liherald. com or call (515) 569-4000 ext. 224.
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Movie Night
Enjoy a film outdoors on Eisenhower Park’s big screen, Wednesday, Aug. 21, dusk, at the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre. See last year’s summer sensation “Barbie.” Starring Margot Robbie as the title character and Ryan Gosling as Ken, the film follows them on a journey of self-discovery through Barbieland and the real world following an existential crisis. It is also a commentary regarding patriarchy and the effects of feminism. Eisenhower Park, Lakeside Theatre, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.
Summer Party 5k
Cherish the last moments of this summer with a run and afterparty at EliteFeats’ Summer Party & 5K Run at Eisenhower Park, Field #2, Thursday, Aug. 22, starting 6:30 p.m. The party will include food, drinks, and music. Check-in for the race begins at 5:30 p.m. This event costs $15 for the general public. Free for club and staff members. It is asked that all attendees meet near the Duck’s Red Shed. It is also suggested that those who are interested in staying for the after-party bring a change of clothes. For more information, visit Events.EliteFeats.com.
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 21ST | 12:00PM-2:00PM
ON THE MOBILE STAGE AT PARKING FIELD #1.
EISENHOWER PARK
FREE ADMISSION | Bring Blankets or Chairs Weather permitting, call 516-572-0200 for up-to-date information.
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Before the event, be sure to check out Nassau’s top-notch Restaurants, Golf Courses, Beaches and Shopping. Nassau is back and open for business!
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Dramatic Play
Theatre Playground returns to Long Island Children’s Museum with “Dramatic Play!,” Monday, Aug. 19, 1 p.m., taught by Lisa Rudin, Director of Theatre Playground. In this interactive, theater-inspired workshop, children will act out an original story and help choose how it unfolds. Music, props, and sound effects create a theatrical world where participants are immersed in the story.
Children express themselves as they create characters, stretch their imaginations and build self-confidence. . Costumes encouraged. $5 with museum admission. Museum Row, Garden City. (516) 2245800 or LICM.org.
Tots at Night
East Meadow Public Library will be holding it’ Tot’s at night event for children 18 months to not in kindergarten yet, Tuesday, Aug. 20, 7 p.m. Progam includes music, storytelling, singing, and making arts and crafts with your toddlers. Registration required. 1886 Front St. Register at EastMeadow.info or call (516) 794-2570.
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Seasonal Sprouts
Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for a Seasonal Sprouts session, Wednesday, Aug. 21, 11 a.m.-noon. Children (ages 4 to 6) can tour the gardens with guided activities exploring smells, sight, sound, and touch, even taste in planting a tasty veggie. $8 per child, $15 adult. Registration required. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information, visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.
Bingo at Beth-El
Get your game on at a weekly bingo game at East Meadow Beth-El Jewish Center starting at 6 p.m. Prizes, progressive games, bell jar prizes and refreshments will be provided. Proof of vaccination is required. 1400 Prospect Ave., in East Meadow. For information, contact (516) 4834205.
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Circus antics
Get in on the action with I.FLY Trapeze, Long Island’s only flying trapeze and circus arts school. Families will enjoy “Wild West Circus,” Saturday, Aug. 17, at 8 p.m., at Eisenhower Park. I.FLY Trapeze puts spectators up close to the aerialists who perform amazing feats of athleticism and agility 25 feet in the air. Performances include Chains, Silk and Lyra, with comedy and on the grounds acts with Balancing and Baton, also a Flying Trapeze Finale. Next to the Nassau County Aquatic Center off Merrick Ave., East Meadow. Free parking available in lot 1A adjacent to the trapeze. For more information, visit FlyTrapeze.com.
Eisenhower Park Farmers’ Market
Cornell Cooperative Extension of Nassau County presents their farmers’ market, showcasing farm-fresh and locally-made foods among many other goods, at Eisenhower Park, Parking Field 8, every Saturday, through Oct. 26, 9 a.m.-12 p.m. For more information, visit CCENassau.org.
Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.
On exhibit
Nassau County Museum of Art ‘s latest exhibition
“Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol,” reveals the many meanings, connotations, and associations of this powerful color in art. Evoking strong emotion, red can represent the human condition. Its myriad variations have come to signify authority as well as love, energy and beauty. Red warns us of peril and commands us to stop, but it can also indicate purity and good fortune. Red boldly represents political movements and religious identities.
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From the advent of our appreciation for this color in antiquity to its continued prominence in artistic and popular culture, this exhibition will span various world cultures through a range of media. It features more than 70 artists, both established and emerging, ranging from the classical to the contemporary. American portraitists such as Gilbert Stuart imbued red in their stately paintings of prominent individuals to conjure authority.
Robert Motherwell, Ad Reinhardt, and other major abstract painters displayed a deep fascination with red in their commanding compositions that evoke a sense of chromatic power. And, of course, Andy Warhol is known for his bold and imposing silkscreened portrait of Vladimir Lenin saturated in bright red to his signature Campbell’s Soup Cans. On view through Jan. 5. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
Art talk
Grab your lunch and join Nassau County Museum of Art Docent Riva Ettus for her popular “Brown Bag Lecture” at the museum, Thursday, Sept. 5, 1 p.m. She’ll discuss the current exhibition, “Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol.” Participants are invited to ask questions at the end of the in-depth program and also participate in a guided exhibition tour following the lecture. No registration required, but limited seating. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
League of Women Voters East Nassau General Meeting
The League of Women Voters of East Nassau invites all to its next general meeting, Wednesday, Aug. 21, 7 p.m., at Levittown Public Library. Discuss the Equals Rights Amendment with a guest speaker from New York State Civil Liberties Union. 1 Bluegrass Lane, Levittown. For more information, visit LWVEastNassau.org.
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‘Unstoppable’ women gather in Bayville
By Melissa Berman
With the theme “(WE) are UNSTOPPABLE” running through the day, RichnerLIVE’s second annual Women’s Summit, at the Crescent Beach Club in Bayville, brought together thought leaders, innovators and barrier-breaking women for conversations.
Nearly 300 people attended to hear 27 speakers on various topics — women’s leadership, impact and inclusion, financial fitness, social media — as well as a number of panels. There were 24 vendor booths and multiple raffle prizes at the Aug. 6 event.
Amy Amato, executive director of RichnerLIVE, opened the keynote lunch session with a message that set the tone for the speakers.
“When we envisioned this year’s summit, we were inspired by the resilience, determination and unwavering spirit that women across Long Island exhibit every single day,” Amato said. “Whether in the boardroom, classroom, homes or communities, women are breaking barriers and shattering glass ceilings, and proving time and time again that nothing can hold us back.”
The summit featured wellness activities in the morning before the sessions began — beach yoga, breathwork and reiki, color analysis and meditation.
Four-time Emmy award-winning reporter and anchor Antoinette Biordi, of News12, hosted the keynote lunch panel session.
“I really believe that conversations about women’s empowerment, leadership and mentorship deserve to be heard,” Biordi said. “Everyone here can do something to lift each other up, and for the next generation as well.”
Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen, founder of the Whisper Group, an exit readiness advisory practice for womenowned businesses, discussed why speaking at the summit was important for her and women in business.
“I think that the pressure that we are under as women in the workplace is causing us to lose touch with what we really want, and we are losing the ability to hear our own intuition and connect with our own intuition,” Kerpen said.
The one area, according to Kerpen, in which women need to improve is getting the appropriate value for their business when it is sold or they leave.
“My hope is to help women business owners take their lifestyle businesses and turn them into life-changing assets to build generational wealth,” she said.
Another keynote speaker, Lindsay Kaplan, co-founder of CHIEF, described how failure is a part of one’s success path.
“We have a tendency as humans to blame failure on ourselves just as much as we often attribute success to ourselves, and timing, luck, and being in the right place at the right time,” Kaplan said. “We are constantly looking at those around us, and it creates this inferiority. We need to focus on our own growth and define happiness for our own terms.”
Stuart Richner, CEO of Richner Com-
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munications, said he was impressed by the turnout, and the participants’ dedication to enhancing their business skills.
“Seeing nearly 300 accomplished, dynamic, professional women here is truly inspiring,” Richner said. “Your presence at this RichnerLIVE event demonstrates your commitment to empowering one another and making a positive impact on society.”
The event supported the Moxxie Mentoring Foundation with a portion of the net proceeds, furthering the Heralds’ and RichnerLIVE’s commitment to women’s empowerment. The principal sponsors of the event were T-Mobile for Business, AT&T, Cona Law, the Stefan’s Group, National Grid Ventures, and Nassau University Medical Center. Please visit www. richnerlive.com/2024-wesummit/to view all sponsors and photos.
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The guests at the second annual Women’s Summit during the luncheon.
The Be Worthy panel, from left, Yolanda Brook Carrington, Meg Ryan, Dr. Neva Alexander, Kamona Ayres, Subrina Oliver and moderator Terri Alessi-Miceli. Cocktail sponsor T-Mobile for Business.
Sharen Cox Phillips, far left, Stuart Richner and Magdalonie ParisCampbell.
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Alexa Anderwkavich/Herald photos Magdalonie Paris-Campbell, far left, Seema Bhansali, Arianna Savoca, Tamara Morrison and Jennifer Mock Donohue.
Workshop host Melissa Negrin-Wiener and Julie Allegretti.
Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen.
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The Looking Good Feeling Good workshop speakers, from left, moderator Mae Caime, Lori Anne De Iulio Casdia, Brenda Gonzalez, and Dr. Roxanne Carfora.
Christina Armentano, far left, Dr. Maria Conzatti, Aoifa O’Donnell, Tifphani White-King and Sharen Cox Phillips.
Keynote speaker Susan Gatti.
Antoinette Biordi, moderator of the Permission to Achieve luncheon panel.
Donna Stefans at her Financial Fitness workshop.
The crowd listened to the UNSTOPPABLE speakers.
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LET’S SING TAYLOR
Taylor Swift Experience
Relationship change over time PERSON TO PERSON
Iremember a storybook wedding at the Waldorf Astoria that I attended many years ago. The bride was radiant; the groom was beaming. She was exuberant as she spoke about her new husband as a special person who “is wonderful, caring, sensitive and makes me feel so good about myself.” He in turn, was passionate as he spoke about his new wife as a remarkable woman who “is loving, bright, beautiful and my best friend.”
It was a wondrous evening. This couple was glowing. They felt mutually appreciated, valued, esteemed, treasured, safe and loved. How superb, fantastic! We were witnessing couple heaven!!
And then, some crass woman on the reception line muttered (in much too loud a voice) “Just wait. She’ll wise up and see. Marriage is for the man’s benefit. Women get the raw end of the deal.” Her mate took the bait. “What do you mean for the man’s benefit? Women suck men dry. Marriage is a woman’s game. He’ll turn into a pansy soon enough.”
about him as “selfish, uncaring, egocentric”; he may speak about her as “controlling, manipulating, never satisfied.” Instead of gazing into each other’s eyes, now they sit in silence as they gaze at the TV.
Nagging differences may blossom into full-blown annoyances. He wants to watch the games on the weekends; she wants to go shopping with him. He can’t sleep unless the TV is on; she needs quiet to doze off. He orders from a menu without regard to cholesterol or cost; she focuses on diet and dollars. Romantic partners all right---like Michael Jordan and Mother Teresa!
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Linda Sapadin
Everyone rolled their eyes. They motioned to this couple to shut up. They were spoiling the moment. Romantic weddings appeal to the deepest instinct in all of us who still believe in fairytale love that’s magical and wondrous. Romantic love is nature’s anesthesia, a time of infinite hope, when lovers are fully conscious of their passion and devotion toward one another, unconscious of the difficulties that are yet to surface.
Why, oh why was this crass couple intruding on the moment? And yet, many people in the room knew what they were talking about. Romantic love changes. The anesthesia wears off!
As change begins, starry-eyed lovers don’t wish to acknowledge it. Despite themselves, they get annoyed about things they previously glossed over. Still, they’re patient with one another, minimizing differences and apologizing for their judgments. “He’s tired”; “She had a hard day.” Problems are emerging, but so what, they tell themselves. No relationship is perfect!
As time elapses, however, romantic love typically recedes further from consciousness. Awakening from anesthesia, both husband and wife feel less tolerant of behavior that triggers anger, hurt, and disappointment. She may speak
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If romantic love is fading from your relationship, don’t panic! Just because you’re in another stage of love does not mean all is lost. Your task, should you choose to accept it, is to see if you can love this imperfect person, for whom he or she really is, not for whom you imagined your spouse was. Instead of feeling betrayed, dwelling on the reality that “you’re not the person I thought you were,” do what you can to grow the relationship.
Remember, you were under nature’s anesthesia at the beginning of your relationship. You wanted to believe that the two of you were like one. Your life together began as a romance novel, now it feels like a case study in a marriage help book. Bummer!
Though the snags in your relationship are difficult to manage, I hope you don’t end up being like that crass cynical couple at the wedding. Sure, you’d love to magically wish away any relationship troubles, but listen up!
Your current struggle with your spouse presents a fuller picture of who you both really are. Though these struggles may be the last thing your conscious mind desires, unconsciously, it may be just what you need to heal, expand, grow and truly accept your spouse for who he/she is.
©2024
Linda Sapadin, Ph.D., psychologist, coach, and author specializes in helping people improve their relationships, enhance their lives, and overcome debilitating anxiety, procrastination, and depression. Visit her website at PsychWisdom.com.
Skateboard workshop coming to local mall
to something fun, it won’t feel like something you’re being forced to do because you know that it will inherently make you better at the thing you like.”
It’s a multifaceted solution.
Lectec’s lesson plans involve students assembling their own skateboards using component kits. Through the process, students learn about electrical and mechanical engineering, Bluetooth frequencies, and physics concepts — and their reward is taking their invention out for a ride, as long as they use protective gear, like helmets.
DanIel Tellerman
Director of growth, Lectec
The skateboards are designed to support adventurous lesson plans in safe environments, and at safe speeds — since the boards have a default speed of 8 mph and can be modified to go a maximum of 12 mph by skillful students.
The partnership between Lectec and the schools is designed to provide students with the tools that they could put to many different uses. The e-skateboards could be used as transportation for children in urban environments, Tellerman said, adding that it also serves as physical activity and an extracurricular hobby.
Riding an e-skateboard involves learning how to balance on it, and brake and accelerate to different speeds.
“That’s really what I think of when I think about the capability of the board,” Tellerman said. “It’s not just to have fun and learn — those are our biggest priorities — but it has so many applications. It’s a multifaceted solution.”
Tellerman’s friend and former classmate, Jared Ebersole, founded Lectec with his classmates from Long Island University Post in 2022. Ebersole first started tinkering with electric skateboards at the age of 15.
“I saw a video of a guy online riding in New York City, and I thought it was the coolest thing I had ever seen,” Ebersole said. “I was like, ‘I gotta buy one of those electric skateboards,’ but they were $1,600. I didn’t have that kind of money because I was in high school, so I spent the next couple of months hacking together a board of my own.”
After he posted his invention online, he was hit by a wave of requests for curated skateboard components. So, he began selling kits.
Years later, he built a skateboard for his curious young nephew — and as he explained how it worked, the education-
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Lectec, which produces electric skateboards, or e-skateboards, will be featured as part of an upcoming camp in
company, which started on Long island, focuses on introducing students to Stem learning.
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Daniel Tellerman the e-SkateBoard middle School Stem camp will be held at Samanea mall in Westbury on aug. 17.
al power of the technology was discovered.
That educational experience is now available to the public. Lectec, in partnership with Snapology, will hold events around Nassau County, such as the Aug. 17 camp, for young people to learn about electric skateboards and have fun.
Snapology is a Nassau-focused education group that hosts classes for children to learn about STEM through hands-on activities.
Snapology head manager Tom Girolamo has been a technology teacher at Baldwin Middle School for 18 years. Girolamo’s curriculum focuses heavily on teaching through experience, having students work on projects with 3-D printers and electronics.
“This is one of my passions,” Girolamo said. “I think it should be worldwide. Everybody should have at least some sort of hands-on experience with technology, even if it’s not something they want to go into, just to broaden their views.”
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NOTICE OF ADOPTION OF TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD
LOCAL LAW NO. 53-2024
PLEASE TAKE NOTICE
that, pursuant to Article 9 of the New York State Constitution, the provisions of the Town Law and the Municipal Home Rule Law of the State of New York, both as amended, a public hearing was duly called and held August 6th, 2024, by the Town Board of the Town of Hempstead on the proposed adoption of Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 53-2024, and following the close of the hearing the Town Board duly adopted Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 53-2024, amending Section 202-1 of the Code of the Town of Hempstead, to include and repeal “PARKING OR STANDING PROHIBITIONS” at various locations.
Dated: August 6, 2024 Hempstead, New York BY ORDER OF THE TOWN BOARD OF THE TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD
DONALD X. CLAVIN, JR. Supervisor
KATE MURRAY Town Clerk 148434
LEGAL NOTICE.
NOTICE OF ADOPTION OF TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD
LOCAL LAW NO. 54-2024
PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that, pursuant to Article 9 of the New York State Constitution, the provisions of the Town Law and the Municipal Home Rule Law of the State of New York, both as amended, a public hearing was duly called and held August 6th, 2024, by the Town Board of the Town of Hempstead on the
proposed adoption of Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 54-2024, and following the close of the hearing the Town Board duly adopted Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 54-2024, amending Section 197-5 of the Code of the Town of Hempstead, to include “ARTERIAL STOPS” at various locations.
Dated: August 6, 2024 Hempstead, New York BY ORDER OF THE TOWN BOARD OF THE TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD
DONALD X. CLAVIN, JR. Supervisor
KATE MURRAY Town Clerk 148435
LEGAL NOTICE STATE OF NEW YORK SUPREME COURT: COUNTY OF NASSAU U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS SUCCESSOR TRUSTEE TO WILMINGTON TRUST COMPANY, AS SUCCESSOR TRUSTEE TO BANK OF AMERICA, NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, SUCCESSOR BY MERGER TO LASALLE BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR STRUCTURED ASSET INVESTMENT LOAN TRUST, MORTGAGE PASS-THROUGH CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2005-1, Plaintiff, v. GLORIA AYALA, ET AL. Defendants. NOTICE OF SALE IN FORECLOSURE PLEASE TAKE NOTICE THAT In pursuance of a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered in the Office of the County Clerk of Nassau County on April 21, 2023, I, En-Chia Anna Lin, Esq. the Referee named in said Judgment,
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SBL No.: 11-166-114 ALL that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, situate, lying and being near Westbury (unincorporated area), Town of North Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York. The premises are sold subject to the provisions of the filed judgment, Index No. 601170/2019 in the amount of $435,137.16 plus interest and costs. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the Court System’s COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale.
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LEGAL NOTICE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK COUNTY OF NASSAU LOANCARE, LLC, -againstJOSE S. MENDEZ, ET AL. NOTICE OF SALE
NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN pursuant to a Final Judgment of Foreclosure entered in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau on January 13, 2023, wherein LOANCARE, LLC is the Plaintiff and JOSE S. MENDEZ, ET AL. are the Defendant(s). I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction RAIN OR SHINE at the NASSAU COUNTY SUPREME COURT, NORTH SIDE STEPS, 100 SUPREME COURT DRIVE, MINEOLA, NY 11501, on September 10, 2024 at 2:00PM, premises known as 1054 ADAMS STREET, UNIONDALE, NY 11553; and the following tax map identification: 36-151-502, 503 & 504. ALL THAT CERTAIN PLOT, PIECE OR PARCEL, OF LAND, SITUATE, LYING AND BEING AT UNIONDALE, UNINCORPORATED AREA, TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD, COUNTY OF NASSAU AND STATE OF NEW YORK Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index No.: 613085/2019. Mark S. Ricciardi, Esq. - Referee. Robertson, Anschutz, Schneid, Crane & Partners, PLLC 900 Merchants Concourse, Suite 310, Westbury, New York 11590, Attorneys for Plaintiff. All foreclosure sales will be conducted in accordance with Covid-19 guidelines including, but not limited to, social distancing and mask wearing. *LOCATION OF SALE SUBJECT TO CHANGE DAY OF IN ACCORDANCE WITH COURT/CLERK DIRECTIVES. 148350
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$749,000 Benton Road. Split Level. 2 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms. Partial finished basement. Eat-in kitchen with granite countertops. Formal dining room. Den/family room. Patio with overhang. Taxes: $10,662.33
Franklin Square $676,200
Anderson Avenue. Ranch. 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms. Partial finished basement. Generously sized eat-in kitchen, Formal dining room. Rear extension for den/fourth bedroom. Updates include new heating system, central air conditioning. Nice size yard with paver patio. 2 car garage. Convenient location near shopping.
Taxes: $12,471
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Freeport $845,000
Ann Drive East. Ranch. 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms. Eat-in kitchen. Open layout. Updates include vaulted ceiling. Taxes: $11,143.48
Hewlett Harbor $3,900,000
Thixton Drive. Estate. 9 bedrooms ,8.55 bathrooms. Gourmet eat-in kitchen with granite countertops and pantry. Formal dining room. Den/family room, home office, exercise room/sauna, also wet bar and guest quarters. First floor bedroom. Cathedral ceiling and skylight. Security system. Magnificent one-of-a-kind 1,2000 square foot home with stunning views of the water and adjacent to the golf course.
Taxes: $106,213.42
Long Beach $910,000
Atlantic Avenue. Colonial. 4 bedrooms, 2.5 bathrooms. Eatin kitchen with granite countertops. Open layout. Formal dining room. Den/family room and sauna/steam room. Updates include cathedral ceiling and skylight.
Taxes: $15,561.70
Malverne $845,000
Horton Street. Ranch. 3 bedrooms,1.5 bathrooms. Eat-in kitchen. Open layout. Master bedroom with walk-in closet. Taxes: $15,205
Merrick $1,200,000
Judith Drive. Splanch, 5 bedrooms, 3.5 bathrooms. Finished basement. Eat-in kitchen with granite countertops and pantry. Open layout. Formal dining room. Den/family room, home office and exercise room. Ensuite master bedroom with walkin closet. Updates include cathedral ceiling and skylight. Taxes: $21,990.26
Oceanside $469,000
Royal Avenue. Cottage. 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom. Eat-in kitchen with granite countertops. Open floor plan.
Our project is never-ending
Q. We are near the end of our building project, which included a second floor and removing walls between our kitchen and living room. Our contractor hasn’t been answering the phone, and we learned that our building permit is still “open,” and remains that way until the contractor follows through, as our contract states. We are so frustrated, because it took much longer than we were promised, we spent much more than expected staying in a cheap hotel (if you call it that) and we moved back in even though, technically, we are told it is illegal. Our electrician and plumber, we now learn, didn’t get permits signed off, either, even though they gave their names and licenses to the building department. The building inspector says the construction doesn’t match the plans, and updated plans must be submitted for us to even be considered finished. What can you tell us about how to move forward and finish this off?
A. Spoken words and contracts used to mean something. I prefer to believe they still do, but I am seeing parties ignoring their commitments and, worst of all, not even having the decency to communicate. I try to warn clients to have a contingency plan for worst-case scenarios.
Ask The Architect
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In my long career, I have seen only two projects come in on budget, one commercial and one residential. What both had in common was that they both had an experienced construction manager on the job. That cost the owner more — much more — but in the end, the plans were followed to the letter, the sign-offs were all done, the certifications were issued and the occupancy took place on the day it was scheduled to. Considering the other 4,500-plus projects I’ve done, that is a sad record.
At this point you have no choice. The plans that were not followed require re-measuring, and the plans need to reflect the changes. In many circumstances I have witnessed, this is easier said than done, because if the construction changes ignored structural load paths, hidden conditions now buried behind wall coverings or code violations, the architect or engineer of record is not obligated to just go along with the defective work. Unfortunately, this unfairly strains the relationship with the architect or engineer.
The missing-in-action construction professionals, your licensed contractor, licensed plumber and licensed electrician, have obligations, not the least of which is to communicate with you, but the authorities giving the licenses and your building authority rarely protect you, often telling you that it is a “civil matter.” So much for consumer protection, because you are stuck and will need to decide who you can hire to take over the electrical sign-off, the plumbing sign-off and finally, after those are done and the plans have been modified and reapproved, then you will need to call for the final inspection yourself. Follow-up can be time-consuming, but it may be the only way around the situation. Good luck!
© 2024 Monte Leeper
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Rethinking the embarrassing saga of Pete Rose
Taking an evening off from Donald Trump, Kamala Harris and the frenzied world of politics in general, I recently sat down with my 20-year-old grandson Jack, who is staying with us for the summer, to bingewatch the HBO Max four-part special on Pete Rose, “Charlie Hustle.”
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Every baseball fan, as well as many people who aren’t even sports fans, is aware of Pete Rose — either because of his truly outstanding 24-year major league career as a player, plus several years as a manager, or for the swirl of controversy that has surrounded him since he left baseball over three decades ago.
Rose came up to the major leagues with the Cincinnati Reds in 1963 and played there until 1978, and again from 1983 until 1986, after stints with the Philadelphia Phillies and Montreal Expos. He also managed the Reds until 1989, following two seasons as player-manager. During his playing career, he set records that should have guaranteed his permanent placement in baseball’s version of Mount Rushmore, the Hall of Fame in
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one hundred people serve in the United States Senate. They represent the entire political spectrum, from far left to far right. There are definitely zealots, such as Bernie Sanders, the Democrat from Vermont, and Tom Cotton, the Arkansas Republican, and then there are the middle-of-the-road members, such as Chuck Schumer, Democrat of New York, and Lisa Murkowski, Republican of Alaska.
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Then there is Sen. Ted Cruz, the Texas Republican.
I single out Cruz because he stands head and shoulders above all the other senators, for all the wrong reasons. Cruz is running for re-election this year, but this discussion has nothing to do with his current campaign. An article in a Long Island weekly newspaper isn’t going to sink the re-election efforts of this very strange public official.
For those who follow the action in the Senate, Cruz has the distinction of being the most disliked member of the body, on both sides of the aisle. How did
upstate Cooperstown.
Rose had more hits — 4,256 — and played in more games — 3,562 — than any player in major league history. He was selected for 17 All-Star games, won three batting titles and was named the National League’s Most Valuable Player once and the World Series MVP once. His entire list of achievements could fill this column and more.
Those achievements are virtually unmatched in the history of baseball, and dwarf those of many players in the Hall of Fame. If ever there should have been a sure thing for baseball immortality, it was Pete Rose.
Should his ban from baseball, and the Hall of Fame, continue? Opinions differ.
Probably the easiest way to describe Rose the person, however, is that as great a ballplayer as he was, he was that much of a jerk. He was a degenerate gambler. He bet not just on horses, greyhounds and at casinos, but also, despite almost two decades of denials, on baseball, which has been that sport’s cardinal sin since the 1919 World Series, when players on the Chicago White Sox — the infamous “Black Sox” — threw the World Series and were banned from baseball for life.
Generations later, after an extensive investigation, Commissioner Bart Gia-
matti concluded that Rose had gambled on baseball and banned him for life. There was no evidence, however, that Rose ever bet against his own team, which was what doomed the Black Sox. Soon after his banishment from baseball, Rose was charged by the IRS with tax evasion and sentenced to five months in federal prison. Most jarring to him was the Hall of Fame’s decision not to admit any player who had been banned for life.
In the years since, Rose has been like a man without a country. He has made good money at autograph shows, sports forums and media appearances. But he has been almost desperate for Hall of Fame membership. In his 2000 book, “My Prison Without Bars,” he finally admitted to betting on baseball, while still insisting he had never bet against his own team.
The debate has raged among baseball fans about Rose’s Hall of Fame eligibility. My son Sean, who was with me at Shea Stadium on July 25, 1978, when Rose tied the National League 37-consecutive-game hitting streak record, thinks that enough time has passed to end the lifetime ban and allow Rose into the Hall of Fame. My grandson Jack, who played a lot of good baseball in his teenage
years, agrees, as do I. The “Charlie Hustle” documentary, however, made us rethink. In it, allegations are made by a longtime associate that Rose engaged in cocaine deals to finance his gambling habit. There was an accusation by a woman claiming sexual involvement with Rose 40 years ago, when she was underage. Though corroborating evidence hasn’t been made public, there was an out-of-court settlement, and Rose became his own worst enemy when he answered a female reporter’s inquiry on the matter with a stupid sexist comment.
In most of the documentary, Rose comes across as friendly and carefree, like a Huckleberry Finn or a Little Rascal. But then there are jarring, crude comments and proof that he is a chronic and habitual liar, which takes away much of that rustic charm.
Jack now thinks Rose’s bans from baseball and the Hall of Fame should continue. Sean and I concluded that the baseball ban should continue, but he should be allowed entry into the Hall, provided that his plaque makes clear that the honor is only for his achievements on the field.
The debate continues.
Peter King is a former congressman, and a former chair of the House Committee on Homeland Security. Comments? pking@ liherald.com.
for someone to dislike? Try Ted Cruz.
he get into this unique situation? His career track is similar to many other senators. He’s a graduate of Princeton University and Harvard Law School. He was known as an excellent debater, and his criminal law professor, Alan Dershowitz, said Cruz was “off-the-charts brilliant.”
He got his first taste of politics in 1999, when he went to work on the George W. Bush presidential campaign. He practiced law, and then decided to run for the Senate in 2013. With the help of the Tea Party movement, Cruz became the first Hispanic American from Texas to be elected to the Senate. All seemed normal up to that point, but as time passed, he became more and more irritating to his fellow senators. By 2013 he had earned the distinction of being called a “wacko bird” by his colleague the late Sen. John McCain.
went so far as to publish a “Compendium of People Who Hate Ted Cruz.” His former roommate called him “a nightmare of a human being.”
H e called Trump a ‘pathological liar,’ but guess who ‘Lyin’ Ted’ supports now?
What has made Cruz so disliked? In 2013 he staged a 21-hour talking marathon on the Senate floor against the Affordable Care Act. During his talkathon, he read Dr. Seuss’s “Green Eggs and Ham,” a bedtime story that he claimed to have read to his two daughters. That event translated into a shutdown of the federal government for 16 days, costing taxpayers grief and millions of dollars.
trip to Cancun. That winter, Texas was caught in a serious winter freeze. The state’s power grid had failed, and millions of Texans were without heat or power. In the middle of the crisis, Cruz travel to Cancun with his family to get away from the state’s misery. He was caught by cameras at the airport, ready to board his flight.
He claimed he planned the vacation for his children, and he was only flying to Cancun and coming right back. His wife’s texts described their home as “FREEZING,” and it was clear that it was a trip to get away from the cold while his constituents were suffering.
The barbs weren’t just from fellow senators. The Dallas Observer wrote that Cruz “defied the odds to become the most unpopular member of the U.S. Senate, a body of people whose collective approval rating falls below approval ratings for hemorrhoids, traffic jams, root canals and Nickelback.” Rolling Stone
In 2016, Cruz decided to run for president. One of his opponents was Donald J. Trump. The contest between the two was as ugly as you could imagine. They attacked each other’s wives, citizenship and integrity. Trump called Cruz “Lyin’ Ted,” mocked his wife’s appearance and falsely suggested that his father was involved in President John F. Kennedy’s assassination. Cruz called Trump a “sniveling coward,” a “pathological liar” and “utterly amoral.” But by the end of the primaries, Cruz had endorsed Trump.
No commentary on Cruz would be complete without mentioning his 2021
As for his legislative record, it includes such things as opposing gun laws even though his state had suffered mass killings, and calling the Supreme Court’s legalization of gay marriage a form of “tyranny.”
There is so much more to say about this man and his character. But the best way to end this is to say that I bet even my fellow columnist Peter King dislikes Ted Cruz.
Jerry Kremer was an assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.
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Freshman Parenting 101: the college send-off
as summer winds down, many Long Island families face a bittersweet milestone: sending a child off to college for the first time. This transition marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, filled with excitement, anxiety and a mix of emotions for both parents and students.
For parents, the challenge lies in striking a delicate balance between supporting your child’s independence and maintaining a nurturing presence. Here is some key advice to help you navigate this new terrain:
1. Embrace the change. Remember that this transition is a natural and positive step in your child’s development. Your role in his or her life is evolving, not diminishing. Celebrate this milestone and the opportunities it brings.
2. Prepare practically, not just emotionally. Ensure that your child has the necessary life skills before she leaves. Can she do laundry, manage a budget, and cook a simple meal? These practical abilities will boost her confidence and self-reliance.
3. Discuss expectations clearly. Have open conversations about academics, finances and communication. How often will you check in? What GPA do you expect him to maintain? Establishing clear guidelines can prevent misunderstandings down the road.
4. Encourage campus involvement. Urge
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your child to take part in orientation activities and join clubs or organizations. These connections can ease homesickness and help her find her place in her new community.
5. Be a supportive listener. Your child will likely experience ups and downs. Resist the urge to immediately solve his problems. Instead, offer a sympathetic ear and guide him toward finding his own solutions.
6. Respect your child’s privacy. While it’s tempting to check in constantly, remember that she needs space to grow. Trust that you’ve prepared her well and allow her to make her own decisions — and mistakes.
7. Take care of yourself. This transition affects you, too. Connect with other parents going through the same experience, take up a new hobby, or consider volunteering. Your well-being matters.
8. Plan for visits wisely. Schedule campus visits, but be mindful of your child’s new routines and commitments. Family Weekend can be a great opportunity to reconnect, and see him in his new environment.
9. Embrace technology. Familiarize yourself with video calling platforms and texting. These tools can help maintain closeness despite the physical distance.
10. Prepare for changes at home. If you have younger children, be aware that family dynamics may change. Include
Re Peter King’s column “There’s just no predicting what will happen next” (Aug. 1-7): I live in southwest Nassau County, so never had the opportunity to have Congressman King on a ballot. It would have been unlikely for me to support him, because I’m a registered Democrat, and have moved from mid-left to further over as the years have passed. About to turn 80, I’ve got quite a rearview mirror, as does King.
I never saw him as a hack politician — he explained his positions clearly, with passion for what he believed was best for us all. He always had my respect. King’s vote against President Bill Clinton’s impeachment still stands in the forefront of my mind. His position took political guts.
In his piece, King laid out the flaws in President Biden’s bid for another term, along with numerous elements surrounding the aftermath of the June 27 debate. The dynamics of the race have changed dramatically in the days since Biden’s withdrawal. Former President Trump has sunk to new lows in gender and race bashing. Though not unpredict-
the kids in discussions, and find ways to make this transition positive for everyone.
11. Stay informed, but don’t hover: Familiarize yourself with campus resources, but encourage your child to seek help independently when needed. Knowing when to step back is crucial. 12. Expect growth and change. Your child will likely return home with new perspectives, habits, and possibly even a changed appearance. Embrace these changes as signs of her personal growth.
Remember, this transition is as much about your growth as a parent as it is about your child’s journey to adulthood. It’s an opportunity to redefine your relationship and watch with pride as he spreads his wings.
For those feeling overwhelmed, know that you’re not alone. Our communities are full of parents who have walked this path before you. Reach out to friends, family members or local support groups for advice and comfort.
As your child embarks on this new adventure, take comfort in knowing that the strong foundation you’ve provided will serve her well. The values you’ve instilled, and the love and support you’ve offered over the years will guide her as she navigates this exciting new chapter of her life.
All of us at the Herald wish you and your college-bound students a smooth transition filled with growth, learning and new beginnings.
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Closed for business? N.Y.’s small retailers need help.
“Closed” is a sign we see all too often these days, and it’s become a hyperbolic symbol for the current business climate in our state. With National Independent Retailer Month — July — behind us, it’s easy to shift our focus away from supporting small businesses until next year. But given the vital role those businesses play in our communities, especially as many face collapse, we must remain attentive.
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There is a noticeable slowdown in customer foot traffic and earnings for smaller independent retailers, compounded by challenges we as consumers are also facing, such as inflation. Many businesses are also grappling with labor challenges, along with rising gas prices and utility bills. These obstacles make it extraordinarily difficult for small, independent retailers across the state to thrive, because they are dealing with the same economic pressures as their customers.
Constantly evolving trends in the labor market pose distinct challenges for small businesses. Have you waited in long checkout lines, wondering why so
many registers are empty? Covid-19 exacerbated the problem, but we were already in a tight labor market before the pandemic. Despite New York’s economic reopening and the recovery of the labor market, a substantial portion of the workforce has exited, with many choosing early retirement or gravitating toward remote and hybrid work. This shift presents a particular challenge for retail businesses, which require on-site staff to operate effectively.
the Tax Foundation ranked the state’s business climate 49th in the country this year.
New York doesn’t have the best reputation for being business-friendly, particularly when it comes to tax policy. The nonpartisan Tax Foundation ranked the state’s business climate 49th in the country this year. In such a competitive climate, employers are racing to find creative and meaningful ways to retain employees. A good start would be lowering taxes, investing in community programs that help our children and seniors, making child care more affordable and working with the private sector to rein in out-of-control insurance costs. From a legislative point of view, one problem that would be easy to solve, which would significantly alleviate the burden on small businesses, is the cost of unemployment insurance. I have long been vocal about how that expense is a
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able for him, his behavior must be coupled with the remarkable positions brought forward by his running mate, J.D. Vance. Together it’s quite a package.
I’m interested to learn how King feels about the Trump side of the campaign, because he said little on that front. My impression is that, whereas he supported Trump in the past, it would be a difficult lever for him to pull this time, and that he just might sit this one out. I’m curious about how King feels about the direction in which Trump/Vance want to take the country. What outcome does King want for us?
Thanks to King for being a quality congressman on the other side. He served when civil discourse was the norm, when rivalries were highly respectful, such as Ronald Reagan and Tip O’Neill. The very best to King.
JOsHUA WEIss Hewlett
As King wrote, it was ‘almost as if it had been planned’
To the Editor:
While Vice President Harris calls Donald Trump a threat to democracy, it was the Democrats who subverted it by negating the votes of millions of registered Democrats who chose President Biden in the primaries. The bloodless coup, which forced the president to withdraw from the race under unusual circumstances,
major contributor to New York’s economic strife. During the pandemic, unemployment spiked, and the state had to borrow money to cover the costs. Now, small businesses are bearing the brunt of repaying this debt through high state unemployment insurance tax rates, added federal UI taxes and special assessments. This translates to an extra $400 per employee per year, costing small businesses thousands of dollars annually.
New York and California are the only two states still grappling with this debt, which they owe to the federal government’s unemployment insurance fund. Other states have long since resolved their UI issues, but because our outstanding balance has yet to be paid off in full, interest costs have risen dramatically for employers, squeezing mom-and-pop stores out of business and threatening all businesses trying to stay afloat. A recent report on how New York handled the pandemic pointed to UI as a significant area of failure.
To address this, I’ve introduced a bill that proposes using financial settlements to pay back the federal government and relieve small-business owners. These financial settlements are agreements the state attorney general negotiates with a
allowed a privileged few to choose a new candidate, who, at the time, had a low approval rating.
Any rational person knows that Biden should never have been allowed to run in the primaries for a second term. That would have led to meaningful Democratic primaries that were not a sham!
MEL YOUNg, MD Lawrence
Kremer has better memories of Biden than we will
To the Editor:
Re Jerry Kremer’s column “When Joe was born, they threw away the mold” (Aug. 1-7): glad to see that Kremer has such a high regard for our president, and that their interactions have been so positive. good for Jerry.
That said, I, and others (I’m not a MAgA, nor am I a fan of Trump) certainly have a different view from Kremer’s.
I find it hard to comprehend the idea that “no one … can match (Biden’s) talent for getting things done on a bipartisan basis” and his “history-making achievements.” From the economy, to the millions of people flooding our border with no plan in place to handle them, to the debacle in Afghanistan, to gas price and mortgage rates, and of course the lies about his mental status from Kremer’s party, not sure he can convince us of Biden’s greatness.
PAUL FACELLA Long Beach
defendant, often a corporation, to pay a sum of money to resolve allegations of legal violations. The funds from these settlements are typically used to compensate those affected, support state programs and cover legal costs. The state must allocate budget funds to pay its fair share and reduce this financial strain. Employers shouldn’t bear the burden of fiscal mishandling by state leaders.
Empty storefronts are becoming an all-too-common sight in towns on Long Island and across the state. When small businesses can’t keep their doors open, the entire community feels the impact. These businesses are vital for maintaining vibrant and thriving neighborhoods. Full storefronts mean more tax dollars for local services, more jobs and greater community engagement. They often sponsor local Little League teams and parades, creating a mutually beneficial relationship that strengthens both the business and the community.
In the upcoming legislative session, lawmakers must prioritize the needs of small businesses. By addressing unemployment insurance costs and creating a more business-friendly environment, we can help our small businesses not just survive, but thrive. The vitality of our communities depends on it.
Ed Ra represents the 19th Assembly District, and is the ranking Republican member of the Assembly Ways and Means Committee.
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