Nassau Herald 08-15-2024

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Courtesy Sara Matathias

Retired Major Sagi Dovev, left, and Officer Yonatan Ben Hamou spoke at the Israel Chesed Center, in Hewlett, on Aug. 1. They received plaques with a blessing for the safety of soldiers inscribed on them.

Helping to rehab injured soldiers IDF members share stories of resilience in Hewlett

By MELISSA BERMAN mberman@liherald.com

Two Israel Defense Forces soldiers — one retired, the other still active — recently shared their stories of resilience with an audience at the Israel Chesed Center in Hewlett.

Sara Matathias coordinated the Aug. 1 event, which featured retired Major Sagi Dovev and Officer Yonatan Ben Hamou. Ben Hamou was injured by a missile fired by Hamas last November while on a mission in Gaza, and had his left leg amputated. He was a guest of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu when Netanyahu addressed Congress last month.

Matathias, who lives in Hewlett, was volun-

teering in Israel in July, and met Dovev at Sheba Hospital, in Ramat Gan, where he works. She recognized Dovev from photos on social media.

Matathias invited Dovev to New York to share his story, and to raise money for a program he co-founded called Sorteam Workshops, in which wounded soldiers receive special training in fighting from Dovev after being hospitalized.

“Immediately when I offered to host him for this event, my first thought was to get in touch with Moshe Bodner and do it at the Chesed Center, because I have been volunteering there for many months,” Matathias said. Bodner oversees the Chesed Center.

Takeover of 5 Towns C.C. closes its camp

By MELISSA BERMAN mberman@liherald.com

In the weeks before the Five Towns Community Center’s lease with Nassau County expired last month, parents were still submitting deposits for the center’s summer camp for their children.

In July, before the county sent out a letter explaining that the camp no longer had a permit to operate at the center in Lawrence, Gwynn Campbell, president of the center’s board of directors, said that the camp would continue operations. The county assumed control of the building on July 3, when the lease expired.

POn Aug. 1, the county began sending out refunds to those who chose not to attend the county program.

“Parents did receive money back if they chose not to enroll their child in the camp the county offered,” Mallory Montalban, a parent and teacher at the community center’s Head Start program, said. “I still strongly blame our board president for this happening, and for waiting too late to actually try and even attempt to save anything.”

arents did receive money back if they chose not to enroll their child in the camp the county offered.

MALLoRy MoNtALBAN

Head Start program parent and teacher

The county issued the letter on July 16, offering children who were enrolled in the camp the option of attending the county Summer Recreation Program at Cantiague Park in Hicksville, with bus transportation between the center and the park, at no additional cost. The program ended on Aug. 8.

Both the Marion & Aaron Gural JCC, in Cedarhurst, and the Lawrence school district responded to a county request for proposals last year, submitting bids to operate the 5.7-acre community center site on Lawrence Avenue. The county has yet to make a decision on the facility’s future.

“Until a decision is made by Nassau County regarding the future use of that site, there is always a glimmer of hope,” Sta-

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Longtime Inwood resident Regina Gilbert dies at 99

Regina Margaret Cain Gilbert of Inwood died peacefully in Eden Prairie, Minnesota on June 11, 2024, at the age of 99, following after a short illness.

Regina was born April 2, 1925, in Brooklyn, to Francis and Helen (Byrnes) Cain. The surviving member of nine siblings, she grew up in Brooklyn and attended St. Brendan’s High School.

She married the love of her life Edward Arthur Gilbert in January of 1947 and they moved to Inwood in 1952 and began their family of four children. Edward died of heart failure on Sept, 30, 1957, at 31. Regina never remarried; her four children and their families were the center of her life and an ongoing source of love and pride.

The Atlantic Beach beach club communities of Silver Point and Sun and Surf became a home away from home for the Gilbert family. During that time Regina worked for many years as a valued administrative secretary at Hewlett High School in the Hewlett-Woodmere school district.

A life-long reader, she also loved to travel and enjoyed spending time at the beach.

Always a fountain of family news and comings and goings, Regina delighted in hearing about and keeping

Municipal disagreement spawns a parking lot and more trees

By MELISSA BERMAN mberman@liherald.com

It might not have been paradise, but the Village of Cedarhurst cut down what is said to be a 100-year-old oak tree on Aug. 5, and is planning to build a parking lot, bringing Joni Mitchell’s 1969 song “Big Yellow Taxi” to life in the Five Towns.

The loss of the tree is the focal point in a disagreement of what should be done with the property at 68 Washington Ave., where the tree stood. It was cut down on the same day as the monthly village board meeting.

that a parking lot diagonally across from the fire department, directly across from HAFTR Elementary School with three lanes was the best solution?”

Hatten said he has always opposed the removal of the oak tree and the development proposal. He created a change.org petition in January 2023 titled “Stop Over-Development in Cedarhurst,” which called for the rejection of the proposal, and collected more than 300 signatures. It now has 335 signatures.

track of the adventures of her children, grandkids, great grandkids and her many friends.

Spirited, stylish and classy to the end, she celebrated her 99th birthday enjoying pizza, cheesecake and Paw Patrol.

Regina was preceded in death by her husband Edward Arthur Gilbert and sons Timothy and Kevin Gilbert. She is survived by her son Edward (Gretchen), daughter Kathy Jones (Paul), and daughters-in-law Diane Gilbert (Tim) and Marianne Kielian-Gilbert (Kevin).

She cherished her seven grandchildren: Tara Wyborny (Troy), Cait Erickson (Travis); Kelly Cauley (Dan), Brendan (Monica) and Brian Gilbert; Andrew (Grace) and Caroline Gilbert—and eight great grandchildren: Archer, Evelyn, and Theodora Wyborny; Amelia and Edward Lyle Erickson; and Grace, Timothy, and Donovan Cauley.

A celebration of her life is planned for Aug. 24, at the Sun and Surf Beach Club in Atlantic Beach, where family will gather and receive friends. Regina will be buried next to the grave of her husband Edward Gilbert in the Long Island National Cemetery in Farmingdale.

— Submitted by Diane Gilbert

In November 2022, the Cedarhurst board heard a proposal from Cedarhurst businessman Samuel Nahmias to build a 17-apartment development on the 18,730-square-foot site. Nahmias, formerly the chairman of the Nassau County Bridge Authority, is currently the mayor of Lawrence.

The apartment complex elicited mixed reactions, especially from nearby residents. The Hebrew Academy of the Five Towns & Rockaway’s Lower School shares that portion of Washington Avenue with homes, the fire department and business near Central Avenue.

In February 2023, the village’s Board of Zoning Appeals unanimously denied the application for the 17-apartment development.

Acting on a recommendation from the Lawrence-Cedarhurst Fire Department, the village board decided to build a 39-space parking lot on the property. Cedarhurst plans to spend $2 million building the lot, $1.8 million of which they are borrowing.

At this month’s village meeting, Washington Avenue resident Michael Hatten aggressively discussed this mater.

“Now with the scheme to build more parking, do we need more parking in this town?” said Hatten, who is also a Lawrence Board of Education trustee. “The zoning board turned it down, and yet this board with its ‘infinite wisdom’ decided

“It’s extremely frustrating to me because they killed the tree, that’s never going to come back,” Hatten said. “You can never get back what they chopped down the other day.”

He proposed a vision to fix this situation and make it more visually appealing.

“I’d like to see the village put around the perimeter of this parking lot the best trees and fences to make this as private as possible,” Hatten said. “I would like to see them do the right thing now and make it as beautiful as it can be.”

Deputy Mayor Ari Brown explained why the tree was cut down to build a municipal parking lot.

“As our fire chief brought up, we do need more parking, we have this double parking issue,” said Brown, who also serves as the area’s assemblyman. “Washington Avenue being our smallest lot with only 39 spots is heavily impacting the area and the bottlenecks in the area.”

“The best use for that lot would be to expand the parking,” Brown said at a previous village meeting.

Cedarhurst plans on beautifying the lot and planting more trees in the area.

“It’s a shame to take down a 100-year old tree, but there were no other ways to build a parking lot in that area,” Mayor Benjamin Weinstock said. “We will be planting trees of laurel bushes all around and constantly planting new trees in the community.”

Have an opinion on this Cedarhurst issue? Send letter to jbessen@liherald.com.

Courtesy Diane Gilbert

Inwood native Regina Gilbert an avid reader and family-focused mother who loved her beach clubs, died in June at 99.

Courtesy Michael Hatten

A 100-year old oak tree at 68 Washington Ave. in Cedarhurst was cut down on Aug. 5 to build a parking lot.

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County officials met Sapir Cohen, who was taken hostage after the Oct. 7 Hamas attacks and released in November. From left were Legislators Patrick

and Mazi Pilip, Rabbi Shay Schacter, Cohen, County Executive Bruce Blakeman, Aviv Cohen and County Comptroller Elaine Philips.

Nassau County meets with released Israeli hostage

Assemblyman Ari Brown, who represents the Five Towns, was among a group of people who met with Sapir Cohen at Nassau County Executive Bruce Blakeman’s office on July 31 to discuss her recent captivity in Gaza.

Cohen, who was taken captive after the brutal Oct. 7 Hamas attacks on Kibbutz Nir Oz, shared her traumatic experience. Cohen was released on Nov. 30. Her boyfriend, Sasha Trufanov, remains a hostage.

Brown expressed great admiration for Israel’s response to the terror attack. He emphasized Israel’s effort to protect its civilian population during the conflict.

“Israel’s handling of this brutal assault has been marked by an extraordinary level of compassion and restraint,” Brown said in a news release. “No other nation has demonstrated such care in protecting noncombatants while enduring such an unprovoked and savage attack.”

Brown criticized the global response to this conflict, condemning the support for terrorist groups such as Hamas and Hezbollah.

“It is deeply troubling to see parts of the world siding with these terrorists and their Iranian backers,” Brown said in the release. He added that the support Hamas and Hezbollah have received is “a grave injustice to those who strive for peace and security.”

Sasha’s mother, Yelena Trufanova, and grandmother, Irena Tati, were released a day before Cohen. The family’s experience reflects the ongoing struggles that many families continue to face after the attacks.

Brown reaffirmed his support for efforts to secure Sasha’s release and called for a unified stance against terrorism.

“We must continue to stand with Israel and support the families impacted by this violence,” he said in the release. — Sophia Fruchter

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Volunteer coordinates inspirational event

She received approval to use the space, and contacted Rabbi Nachem Tenenboim, of Chabad House of Hewlett, to ask for his help.

“I often emphasize that every single one of us can play a role in supporting Israel — you don’t have to wait for a large organization to take action,” Tenenboim said. “When Sarah reached out, she knew she could count on me and Chabad of Hewlett for any assistance she might need.”

Tenenboim introduced Dovev and Ben Hamou at the event, and led the community in a prayer.

“It was a significant honor for me to introduce these great heroes, who inspired our entire country during their visit to Congress with their remarkable experiences, with their courage,” Tenenboim said. “It was a privilege to pray together as a community for peace in the Holy Land, and to be able to assist individuals in need. It’s about striving to do good and spread positivity.”

Bodner had previously been in touch with Ben Hamou about speaking at the Chesed Center. All of the proceeds from the event went toward Ben Hamou’s rehabilitation, and that of a couple of other soldiers Dovev works with.

“This is an event that it doesn’t matter how religious, observant you are, everybody’s in support of this effort,” Matathias said. “To bring awareness to the wounded soldiers and to help support them financially in their healing process.”

In Sorteam Workshops, Dovev

explained, “I train them, support them, help build resilience, confidence, self-belief, value, spirit, and a warrior mindset. I start by creating a friendship, eating with them, understanding their feelings, finding out their aspirations, and what frightens them.”

Dovev helps injured soldiers regain strength and incrementally builds up their skills. He helps them learn how to move and fight with prosthetic limbs. “I wanted to make them feel like warriors again,” he said.

Matathias noted how inspirational it was to hear Dovev and Ben Hamou’s stories of resilience. Ben Hamou showed videos from when he was shot and then airlifted to Sheba hospital.

“Dovev’s mission is to spread positivity and help other wounded soldiers to overcome the obstacle they’re facing as an amputee,” Matathias said. “Everybody left feeling inspired and empowered to do something.”

She met with Roberta Lang, the owner of Judaica Plus, a Jewish gift store in Cedarhurst, and Lang donated two plaques engraved with a blessing for the safety of soldiers. Judaica Plus also donated a piece of art for a silent auction at the Aug. 1 event.

“This is a powerful inspiration for others to host events, engage with their communities, and participate in acts of kindness and charity,” Tenenboim said. “It’s essential that everyone gets involved in supporting Israel and working towards creating a better world.”

Courtesy Sara Matathias

Officer Yonatan Ben Hamou, left, event organizer Sara Matathias and retired Major Sagi Dovev. Matathias organized the evening and corresponded with Dovev.

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Morning kickoffs for Nassau football

By TONY BELLISSIMO tbellissimo@liherald.com

Are you ready for some football?

Next Monday, all 53 Nassau County public high school football programs can begin preparations for the upcoming season, scheduled to open Friday, Sept. 6 with six games leading up to the first full slate the following week.

Aside from eight-time defending Nassau Conference II champion Garden City moving to Conference III, perhaps the biggest news during the offseason was the decision to add an 11 a.m. kickoff slot to Conferences II and IV for the 2024 campaign, and potentially Conferences I and III next year, due to a shortage of officials.

“At this time we don’t have enough officiating crews to cover so many games at the same time,” said Section VIII football coordinator Matt McLees. “We’re at about 16-17 crews. Moving some games to 11 a.m. and others to 3 p.m. allows us to double up certain crews on Saturdays.”

One team largely affected by the earlier start time is Sewanhaka. Not only is head coach George Kasimatis’ squad debuting the school’s new nickname, the Ravens, half of its games will begin in the morning. Fortunately, Kasimatis noted, three of the four 11 a.m. kickoffs are at home. “We travel to Roosevelt in Week 2 and it’ll be interesting,” he said.

Massapequa (Conference I), Garden City (II), South Side (III) and Seaford (IV) won county titles last season, however the landscape has changed with Trojans moving to Conference III. Carey, the new top seed in II, seeks its first county title since going back-to-back in 2013-14 and opens at home versus Glen Cove Sept. 14.

Garden City’s first taste of Conference III football is Sept. 6 at Bethpage. Seaford, which must fend off conference newcomers Wantagh and Plainedge, opens at home Sept. 13 against Island Trees.

Massapequa, which last season was awarded the Rutgers Cup, presented annually to the most outstanding team in Nassau, opens at Oceanside Sept. 6 in game originally scheduled for Thursday, Oct. 10.

Teams choosing to play a full game scrimmage can do so once 10 practices are completed, McLees said, making Aug. 30 the first potential date. Teams can hold joint practices as soon as Aug. 24 and are permitted to play 7 on 7 and also run 10 plays (11 on 11) in full gear. “It’s not a scrimmage by definition but teams can accomplish a lot with the joint practice,” he added.

Nine teams switch conferences

Along with Garden City, eight other teams have switched conferences for the

10 games to watch

Sept. 6: Massapequa at Oceanside

Sept. 14: Sewanhaka at Baldwin

Sept 20: Elmont at South Side

Sept. 21: Massapequa at Uniondale

Sept. 28: Calhoun at Mepham

Oct. 5: Oceanside at Freeport

Oct. 10: MacArthur at Carey

Oct. 10: Plainedge at Wantagh

Oct. 10: South Side at Garden City

Oct. 25: Wantagh at Seaford

upcoming season based on enrollment figures: Baldwin, Elmont, Manhasset, Herricks, Wantagh, Plainedge, Roosevelt and Glen Cove. Baldwin returns to Conference II where it spent the 2022 campaign and is seeded No. 10 this season. The Bruins, under new head coach Mike Robinson, open at home on their new turf field Sept. 14 against Sewanhaka. Elmont is the No. 3 seed in Conference III, whilst Manhasset is No. 7. Herricks is seeded eighth in Conference I. Longtime Conference III powers Wantagh and Plainedge are in Conference IV and will meet face to face Oct. 10 at Wantagh. Roosevelt, not long ago a member of IV, bounced to II and opens at New Hyde Park.

Thursday games Oct. 10

The sixth week of the season (fifth for many Conference III teams) will be played on Thursday, Oct. 10 due to Yom Kippur. Games will kick off as early as 2:15 p.m. (Elmont at Sewanhaka) and as late as 6 p.m.

Local coaching changes

Baldwin, East Meadow, Freeport, Mepham, Seaford all boast new sideline bosses.

Robinson is a Baldwin graduate who spent the past two seasons coaching the Bruins’ JV team after six years as a varsity assistant. Keith Lizzi takes over from Vin Mascia at East Meadow, the No. 6 seed in Conference I. Longtime Freeport assistant Jimmy Jones succeeds the legendary Russ Cellan at Freeport. The seventh-ranked Red Devils open at Massapequa. Tom Mazeika is the new head coach at Mepham, the No. 5 seed in Conference II, opens at home versus MacArthur. Seaford and new head coach Mike McHugh kick off defense of the Conference IV title at home against Island Trees.

Chase Bier and Oceanside open the season at home on Sept. 6 vs. Massapequa.

Michelle Ebel/Herald photos

Jake Classie, right, and Mepham will be playing for a new head coach this fall as Tom Mazeika takes over the helm of the Pirates.

School day mornings can be hectic, since as every parent knows getting kids ready for school and out the door on time is not always easy. Working parents may find school day mornings especially difficult, as their own work schedules can make mornings feel even more rushed. This time around, change up your morning routines with strategies to free up time in the morning so everyone starts their days off in a more relaxing atmosphere.

Wake up earlier. Sleep might seem like a precious commodity, but waking up just 10 to 15 minutes earlier can remove some of the stress from weekday mornings without costing you a lot of sack time. Let kids sleep in until their normal wakeup time, using your extra 10 or 15 minutes to shower or enjoy your morning cup of coffee before the house is abuzz with activity.

Tackle certain chores the night before. Delaying certain chores until you wake up makes for a hectic morning, so tackle as many morning chores as possible before you go to bed for the night. Prepare school lunches, lay clothes out for yourself and your children, and make sure kids have their backpacks packed and ready to go before they go to bed. Each of these things may only take a few minutes, but when left for the morning, they can add up to a substantial amount of time.

Encourage youngsters to pick up the pace. Some people are morning people,

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while others dread setting their alarms for early morning hours. Kids who fall into the latter group may drag their feet in the morning, but parents should offer encouragement when kids are moving slowly in the morning. Allowing your frustration to show may only make kids less fond of mornings, so remind them as nicely as possible that everyone has a schedule to stick to if they seem to be dragging their feet. Keep the television off. If watching the television is ingrained in your morning rou-

tine, try going a few days without it to see if this makes it easier to get out the door on time. Kids might grow distracted by morning cartoons, and even adults may get caught up in morning news shows. Eliminating television and screen time on other devices from your morning routine can save time and also may help your family grow closer, as you will have more distraction-free time to speak to one another. In addition to turning off the television. Resist that urge to look at your devices,

etc., when getting ready in the morning. Parents know that school day mornings can be hectic. But you can certainly implement changes to your routine to make such mornings go more smoothly so everyone gets where they need to be on time.

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County remains mute on RFP decision

cey Feldman, executive director of the Gural JCC, said, adding that she had not heard from county representatives.

“We found out that Blakeman put out an RFP for someone to come in and lease the building for another 25 years,” Campbell wrote in a July 30 letter to the community, referring to County Executive Bruce Blakeman. “To submit a bid, you need at least $5 million to do repairs.”

Campbell wrote that she had been hoping that Blakeman would “do the right thing” and choose the Gural JCC, which had previously asserted that it would be able to operate independently, and continue the services it has offered for the past half-century.

Blakeman had given the center an extension until Aug. 2 to allow its employees to leave the building, and had posted sheriffs on the property, according to the letter.

“Campbell signed a deal with the county about everyone leaving by Aug. 3, and thought she was going to be able to sit in the building despite the document she signed,” Montalban said.

“The next time you vote to elect or reelect someone to office, ask yourself what has this individual done for you lately,” Campbell wrote, referring to Blakeman.

There were no complications with the refunds for the families whose children

did not attend the county program at Cantiague Park. “We were able to get money returned — at least a little success for families in our area,” Sasha Young, a for-

mer community center employee, said. As of press time, the county had not returned calls seeking comment.

Have an opinion on what should be done with the Five Towns Community Center property? Send a letter to jbessen@liherald.com.

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The Five Towns Community Center summer camp closed because the building’s lease expired. Its owner, Nassau County, offered families the option of sending their children to a program the county offered in Hicksville’s Cantiague Park for no additional cost. Refunds were given to those who did not attend.

Honoring ‘the mayor,’ celebrating Kiwanis

Lifelong Five Towns resident David Friedman, who is known affectionately as ”the mayor of Hewlett and Woodmere was the honoree at the 51st annual Five Towns Kiwanis Bernie Schwartz Golf Outing at the Inwood Country Club on Aug. 5.

Friedman, who was the Herald Person of the Year in 2018, is president of the Hewlett-Woodmere Business Association and involved with the school district, the Hewlett-Lawrence Soccer Club, the Hewlett-Woodmere Public Schools Endowment Fund and other civic groups.

His community service includes being a huge part of coordinating the HewlettWoodmere Memorial Day Parade, placing the American flags along Broadway, The Nassau County Police Commissioners Community Council and the Saving Lives Five Towns Drug and Alcohol Coalition.

The Kiwanis is dedicated to promoting the highest social business and professionals standards, while also being involved with a number of charitable endeavors from scholarships for college students to helping hospitalized children, police officers and breast cancer survivors. This year the group celebrated 80 years. — Jeffrey Bessen

Tim Baker/Herald photos

Five Towns Kiwanis golf outing first place winners from left Sheldon Soloway, Michael Gliner, Tariq Khan, Thomas Cohen and Lyle Alper, who had the longest drive of the day.

Tom Bevilacqua, left, Jesse Bevilacqua, Thomas Cohen, George Geanacacopoulos and Sam Geanacopoulos captured second place at the Five Towns Kiwanis golf outing.

Honoree David Friedman, center, Five Towns Kiwanis members Jimmy Glass, left, and Len Brenner, and Marcia and Barry Ringelheim at the golf outing dinner.

Anthony Santino, left, who was a longtime Town of Hempstead councilman and former supervisor, with David Friedman.

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Nine decades of sisterly love

By NORA TOSCANO Intern

The three 90-plus-year-old Devaney sisters celebrated National Sisters Day on Sunday at The Bristol in North Woodmere, where they live. Mary Devaney, 95, Kathleen Devaney-Dolan, 93, and Teresa Devaney, 90, grew up together in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn.

Kathleen, who raised her family in Valley Stream, is a mother of five children and grandmother to ten grandchildren. Teresa Devaney and Mary Dev -

aney never married and lived together for years before deciding to join their sister at The Bristol.

Mary said that their mother was adamant that the three women stay close throughout their lives.

Much of their family remained in Sligo, Ireland, where their parents immigrated from, so their mother did not have the opportunity to live close to her own sister.

“Our mother was very caring about us staying together and close,” Mary said. “She never knew her older sister

because she came in the 1980s, so she said, ‘I want you girls to be close.’ And it’s worked out.”

“Being a sister is wonderful,” Kathleen said. “Having a sister is sometimes not so wonderful. But we don’t hold grudges or anything like that.”

Mary worked as a communications supervisor at Bell Atlantic where she supervised a group that consisted entirely of men. She later earned a position on the company’s Board of Directors. Teresa was a financial analyst for Western Electric, which she said treated both her and her

parents extremely well and helped pay for her parent’s medical bills. Kathleen was a stay-at-home mother. Her husband, James Dolan, was a Purple Heart World War II veteran who served at D-Day.

In Prospect Heights, the Devaneys were raised in a three-story, six-family home, where they were surrounded by family with cousins on two of the three floors. Family remains an integral part of their lives, as Kathleen’s children and grandchildren often frequent The Bristol for surprise birthday parties for all three women.

Teresa said it was nice for the three of them to be living together once again.

“We’re very happy,” she said. “... Some people are so unhappy lately. But we do a lot of laughing and joking.”

“When I was leaving Rockville Centre…I didn’t think I’d be happier in any other place,” added Mary. “This comes first.”

Throughout their lives, the three sisters traveled back to Ireland 22 times, discovering new family members each time they returned. Teresa said one of her favorite memories from their trips was visiting a house in Sligo that their father built for animals as a young man, which was still in use.

Kathleen said that the three of them were fortunate to still be so close.

“You hear of families or people that as they grow older, they haven’t seen their sister or brother in years,” Kathleen said. “We don’t have that.”

All three women have advice for younger generations, especially younger generations of sisters.

“Don’t be fussy,” Teresa said simply.

“Being happy and eating healthy and getting along with family members,” Kathleen added. “Those are three important things.”

“Take good care of yourself,” said Mary. “...Whatever you want to do, do it now because you never know what the later years are going to be like.”

Nora Toscano/Herald The three Devaney sisters, each in their 90s, celebrated National Sisters Day together at The Bristol in North Woodmere, reflecting on their enduring closeness and the joy they find in each other’s company.

Nassau County warns of potential types of scams

By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com

Following several reported scams, that have led to arrests in Nassau County, including an elder scam in East Meadow on July 31, the county is reminding residents to be vigilant and know the warning signs of potential scams.

According to a news release shared by the Nassau County Police Department and Patrick Ryder, commissioner of police, the county is urging residents, particularly seniors, to remain vigilant as numerous scams continue to circulate in the area.

Just last month, two Bronx men were arrested after attempting to scam a 73-year-old East Meadow resident. The men allegedly called the East Meadow man, and told him his bank account had been compromised. Police were called and the men were arrested without incident. A subsequent investigation revealed that they were responsible for numerous additional scams.

Fraudulent activities by scammers are designed to exploit vulnerable individuals, costing them thousands of unrecoverable dollars.

One of the more prevalent scams is the home improvement scam, where fraudulent contractors approach homeowners with unsolicited offers for home inspections or repairs. In some cases, these individuals even cause damage themselves to justify their services. Residents are

advised not to let unknown persons into their homes and to avoid paying for work that wasn’t approved or completed. To protect themselves, they should try to pay by check or credit card to ensure a record of the transaction.

Another scam that has been reported is the flat tire scam. Victims are often targeted shortly after exiting a bank or shopping center. The scam involves a staged flat tire, where a seemingly helpful person offers assistance. While the victim is distracted, an accomplice enters their vehicle and steals property.

The relative arrested scam is also a common tactic used by scammers. Victims receive a phone call informing them

that a relative has been arrested or involved in an accident. The caller demands bail money, often arranging to meet the victim in person or instructing them to pay with gift cards.

In the social security scam, scammers claim that the victim’s Social Security number has been used in fraudulent activities. They threaten financial loss unless the victim provides their bank account information or sends gift cards.

The IRS scam involves callers impersonating IRS agents, claiming that the victim is in danger of being arrested or fined due to tax discrepancies. Victims are pressured to make immediate payments, often via gift cards, which the

IRS would never request.

Other scams include the lottery scam, where victims are falsely notified that they have won a cash prize but must pay a handling fee to claim it, and the computer scam, in which victims receive a message while online stating there is a problem that requires remote access control to fix. The scammer then gains access to personal information and online banking details, stealing funds.

Additionally, the arrest warrant scam sees victims receiving a message from supposed law enforcement officers requesting gift cards to void an arrest warrant, while the PSEG Scam targets residents and small business customers, demanding immediate payment to avoid service disconnection.

The Amazon scam alerts victims to fraudulent activity on their accounts and instructs them to pay off the balance with gift cards.

Illegal scams are costing honest citizens significant amounts of money, the county says. Nassau County officials are urging residents to stay informed and share this information with family members, neighbors, and particularly the elderly, to help prevent further victimization.

Those who believe they’ve been a victim of a scam should call 911 immediately. Residents with information that could lead to the arrest of those responsible are encouraged to contact Nassau County Crime Stoppers at (800) 244-8477.

‘Unstoppable’ women gather in Bayville

By Melissa Berman

With the theme “(WE) are UNSTOPPABLE” running through the day, RichnerLIVE’s second annual Women’s Summit, at the Crescent Beach Club in Bayville, brought together thought leaders, innovators and barrier-breaking women for conversations.

Nearly 300 people attended to hear 27 speakers on various topics — women’s leadership, impact and inclusion, financial fitness, social media — as well as a number of panels. There were 24 vendor booths and multiple raffle prizes at the Aug. 6 event.

Amy Amato, executive director of RichnerLIVE, opened the keynote lunch session with a message that set the tone for the speakers.

“When we envisioned this year’s summit, we were inspired by the resilience, determination and unwavering spirit that women across Long Island exhibit every single day,” Amato said. “Whether in the boardroom, classroom, homes or communities, women are breaking barriers and shattering glass ceilings, and proving time and time again that nothing can hold us back.”

The summit featured wellness activities in the morning before the sessions began — beach yoga, breathwork and reiki, color analysis and meditation.

Four-time Emmy award-winning reporter and anchor Antoinette Biordi, of News12, hosted the keynote lunch panel session.

“I really believe that conversations about women’s empowerment, leadership and mentorship deserve to be heard,” Biordi said. “Everyone here can do something to lift each other up, and for the next generation as well.”

Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen, founder of the Whisper Group, an exit readiness advisory practice for womenowned businesses, discussed why speaking at the summit was important for her and women in business.

“I think that the pressure that we are under as women in the workplace is causing us to lose touch with what we really want, and we are losing the ability to hear our own intuition and connect with our own intuition,” Kerpen said.

The one area, according to Kerpen, in which women need to improve is getting the appropriate value for their business when it is sold or they leave.

“My hope is to help women business owners take their lifestyle businesses and turn them into life-changing assets to build generational wealth,” she said.

Another keynote speaker, Lindsay Kaplan, co-founder of CHIEF, described how failure is a part of one’s success path.

“We have a tendency as humans to blame failure on ourselves just as much as we often attribute success to ourselves, and timing, luck, and being in the right place at the right time,” Kaplan said. “We are constantly looking at those around us, and it creates this inferiority. We need to focus on our own growth and define happiness for our own terms.”

Stuart Richner, CEO of Richner Com-

munications, said he was impressed by the turnout, and the participants’ dedication to enhancing their business skills.

“Seeing nearly 300 accomplished, dynamic, professional women here is truly inspiring,” Richner said. “Your presence at this RichnerLIVE event demonstrates your commitment to empowering one another and making a positive impact on society.”

The event supported the Moxxie Mentoring Foundation with a portion of the net proceeds, furthering the Heralds’ and RichnerLIVE’s commitment to women’s empowerment. The principal sponsors of the event were T-Mobile for Business, AT&T, Cona Law, the Stefan’s Group, National Grid Ventures, and Nassau University Medical Center. Please visit www. richnerlive.com/2024-wesummit/to view all sponsors and photos.

Tim Baker/Herald photos

The guests at the second annual Women’s Summit during the luncheon.

The Be Worthy panel, from left, Yolanda Brook Carrington, Meg Ryan, Dr. Neva Alexander, Kamona Ayres, Subrina Oliver and moderator Terri Alessi-Miceli. Cocktail sponsor T-Mobile for Business.

Sharen Cox Phillips, far left, Stuart Richner and Magdalonie ParisCampbell.

Alexa Anderwkavich/Herald photos Magdalonie Paris-Campbell, far left, Seema Bhansali, Arianna Savoca, Tamara Morrison and Jennifer Mock Donohue.

Workshop host Melissa Negrin-Wiener and Julie Allegretti.

Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen.

Tim Baker/Herald photos

The Looking Good Feeling Good workshop speakers, from left, moderator Mae Caime, Lori Anne De Iulio Casdia, Brenda Gonzalez, and Dr. Roxanne Carfora.

Christina Armentano, far left, Dr. Maria Conzatti, Aoifa O’Donnell, Tifphani White-King and Sharen Cox Phillips.

Keynote speaker Susan Gatti.

Antoinette Biordi, moderator of the Permission to Achieve luncheon panel.

Donna Stefans at her Financial Fitness workshop.

The crowd listened to the UNSTOPPABLE speakers.

Annette & Daniel Kasle

STEPPING OUT

More than just a

HIGHLAND FLING

Celtic traditions shine proudly at Old Westbury Gardens

By Danielle Schwab

Old Westbury Gardens lush grounds fill once again with those unmistakable bagpipe sounds and spectacle during a revamped edition of its annual summer festival. This year the popular event’s scope has expanded to celebrate the vibrant traditions of Long Island’s thriving Celtic communities.

Besides those pipers, traditional competitions and highland dancing — along with plenty of entertainment and assorted activities for lads and lasses — there’s much end of summer revelry to enjoy. Everyone will be fully occupied all day, next Saturday, Aug. 24.

This year Old Westbury Gardens staff is hosting solo (without participation from longtime co-hosts Long Island Clan MacDuff). The result is an energized refresh.

“Rather than focusing just on the culture of Scotland, we [wanted to] expand it a little bit so that we could avail ourselves of all of the great Irish bands and step dancers and all of these those things that span both the Scottish and the Irish cultures,” says Maura Brush, Old Westbury Gardens CEO and director.

Pipe and drum bands will fill the air with stirring music transporting attendees to those rolling hills of Ireland and Scotland. An extensive diverse lineup of musical and Irish dance entertainment complements these bands that participate yearly.

Headlining the festival this year, Derek Warfield and The Young Wolfe Tones bring the classic tradition of Irish balladry into a new age. Lead singer, the famed songwriter-storyteller Derek Warfield, is a legend of the Irish music scene who enjoyed phenomenal success for some 40 years with the Wolfe Tones. He’s now gathered some of the finest Irish musicians and singers together to reinvigorate beloved Irish tunes. They bring their musical tradition forward with a reverence for Ireland’s past and the energy and optimism of a new generation.

“Their sound is what so many people probably expect to hear when they come to Old Westbury Gardens,” Brush says.

• Saturday, Aug. 24, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m.

• $25, $22 seniors, $12 children, $12 members; advance purchase required

• 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury

• Tickets and information available at OldWestburyGardens.org or (516) 333-0048

Harper’s Ferry, a popular local Irish-American folk band also participates, with their appealing mix of traditional and modern Irish tunes combined with Americana and classic rock.

“Our band members are all native Long Islanders with a deep appreciation for local historical sites, especially Old Westbury Gardens,” says s Harper’s Ferry frontman Martin Kearn. “We see each performance as a blessing to spread our passion for Irish and Scottish heritage with the community.”

Other performers include bagpiper-percussionist Jessie Ofgang and soloist Charlie Zahm, who entices audiences with his instrumental prowess and rich baritone. Both have their own unique twist on bringing Celtic culture to melody.

“Their instruments are meant to be played outside in the green fields and we just have the perfect place,” Brush enthuses.

And, of course, it wouldn’t be a Celtic festival without some rhythmic Irish step dancing. The skilled dancers from four distinguished Irish dance academies will impress with their incredible footwork.

As is tradition, what are known as the Highland Games remain one of the festival’s main elements.The games continue to test athletes’ strength in heavyweight contests that date back

That pitchfork requires some coordination to successfully loft the 20 lb. burlap bag stuffed with straw over

pipers and drummers prepare to

centuries, especially the caber toss.

The caber is a long, tapered pine pole or log. The “tosser” balances it vertically by holding the smaller end and then runs forward and tosses it so that it turns in the air with the larger end striking the ground first. Ideally, the pole strikes in a strictly vertical position, and the athletes are scored based on how closely the throw lands at a 12 o’clock position.

Think of it as throwing a telephone pole according to Brush. “It’s a giant log that gets thrown, and then the distance is measured, and whoever throws the throws it the furthest is the winner,” she says.

For the experienced competitor, these logs can be heavier than 125 pounds and longer than 20 feet long.

Tossing the Sheaf and Putting the Stone also attract attention. Tossing the Sheaf involves flinging a bale of hay over a horizontal pole with a large pitchfork. Putting The Stone, is similar to the traditional Olympicstyle shot put, but uses a large stone.

Want to get in on the competition? Visitors are encouraged to go for it.

“There are professionals that will be coming but there are opportunities for amateurs to sign up and participate as well,” Brush adds.

After all that exertion, folks are bound to work up an appetite. Take a moment and check out the food offerings, including fish and chips and Scottish shortbread.

It’s always a fun-filled family day with other unique experiences, including a Birds of Prey exhibition, British automobile showcase, and even curling hosted by the Long Island Curling Club. Kids will enjoy plenty of activities, including a version of the caber toss with lightweight “cabers” and an old-fashioned tug of war.

All involved are eager to welcome both older and newer generations, to preserve the fetival’s rich history.

“We’re not just relying on those who have always come, but also want people who are checking it out for the first time. This can become a new tradition for them,” Brush says.

Double Vision

The 1970s and ‘80s come alive when Double Vision brings their “Foreigner Experience” to the Paramount stage. Whether you’re a lifelong Foreigner enthusiast or a newcomer eager to experience the magic, Double Vision promises a night of electrifying entertainment. The spirit of rock ‘n’ roll lives on, one unforgettable performance at a time, with this group of talented musicians and die-hard Foreigner fans. Double Vision has perfected the art of bringing to life the unforgettable hits that have defined generations. From “I Want to Know What Love Is” to “Cold as Ice,” their renditions are a harmonious blend of passion, precision, and nostalgic energy. Drawing inspiration from Foreigner’s unmistakable sound and stage presence, Double Vision delivers a performance that pays homage to the band’s legacy while infusing their own charisma and enthusiasm.

Saturday, Aug. 17, 8 p.m. $60, $40, $25, $20. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.

Zac Brown Tribute

Enjoy an evening of foot-stomping fun with the music of the Zac Brown Tribute Band. Get ready to sing along to all your favorite Zac Brown Band hits, from “Chicken Fried” to “Toes” and everything in between. Founded in 2012, ZBTB is the premier tribute to the chart-topping Zac Brown Band. With 13 numberone singles and three Grammy wins, the Zac Brown Band is one of the hottest names in the music business; ZBTB is the first and most authentic tribute to their recorded music and live show. Not only does ZBTB capture the sound and creativity of ZBB, but they bring a similar atmosphere of family to their shows while engaging the audience in a way that is all their own. With classics like “Enter Sandman” and “Ants Marching”, as well as, modern hits like “There’s Nothing Holding Me Back” and “Little Lion Man” in the set, there’s something for everyone at a ZBTB show

Friday, Aug. 16, 7 p.m. Free admission. Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

Courtesy Old Westbury Gardens

The Caber Toss separates the strong from the strongest.

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step proudly around the grounds of Old Westbury Gardens honoring a cherished heritage.

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Aug. 24

Disco fever

Boogie along with Disco Unlimited, Saturday, Aug. 24, 7-9 p.m., at Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park. When Disco Unlimited hits the stage, you are instantly transported to a time when Saturday nights meant white suits, platform shoes and your very best dance moves. And dance you will — when you experience the magic created when the boogie begins.

Capturing a time in music that to this day has not been matched, the exhilarating band will draw you in with their powerful vocals, tight harmonies and dance grooves all coupled with a synchronized stage and light show that creates an unforgettable concert experience — the best of disco nights. Close your eyes and you will truly believe you are listening to the original artists. Hear the best of Tavares, France Jolie, The Trammps, Harold Melvin’s Blue Notes, Yvonne Elliman, Anita Ward, Deney Terrio, George McCrae, Bonnie Pointer, Melba Moore, Maxine Nightingale, Carol Douglas, and so much more. Joe Cool, Sista Soul, Funky Sista, Strat Cat, Wild Jerry and The MacDaddy comprise this group of unique and experienced musicians who love and live this era of music. As always, bring seating. For information, visit NassauCcountyNY.gov/parks.

‘Sunday Science’ Workshop

It’s a bug’s life at the Center for Science Teaching & Learning, Sunday, Aug. 18, 10-11:30 a.m. Kids are of all ages are invited to explore bugs at Tanglewood Preserve during the hands-on drop-off program. Kids will meet exotic invertebrates from around the world and find out what makes each one special, then search the preserve’s grounds to see what bugs live in our backyard. Registration required. 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre. Register at ctsl.org or call (516) 764-0045.

Pickling Vegetables

Join Rachel Licht to learn to pickle vegetables, at Peninsula Public Library, Wednesday, Aug. 21, 7-9 p.m. Each participant will make three jars to take home. Registration is required. There is a material fee of $20 and will be collected at the door, exact change is required. Rachel Licht will supply all kosher ingredients. Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. For more information call Roxanne Spodek at (516)967-5777.

Movie Night

Enjoy a film outdoors on Eisenhower Park’s big screen, Wednesday, Aug. 21, dusk, at the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre. See last year’s summer sensation “Barbie.” Starring Margot Robbie as the title character and Ryan Gosling as Ken, the film follows them on a journey of self-discovery through Barbieland and the real world following an existential crisis. It is also a commentary regarding patriarchy and the effects of feminism. Eisenhower Park, Lakeside Theatre, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

Lawrence Board of Education Meeting

The Lawrence Board of Education meets on Monday, Aug. 19, at 8 p.m, at Lawrence High School. 2 Reilly Road, Cedarhurst.

Friends of Rock Hall gardening workshop

Friends of Rock Hall welcomes all to Gardening: A Lesson in Life, Monday, Aug. 19, 10-11 a.m. Learn how to cultivate, seed, plant and tend a vegetable and herb garden. Tools will be provided, bring your own gloves and a water bottle. This is a free event. For more information, call (516)-239-1157. Rock Hall, 199 Broadway, Lawrence.

Seasonal Sprouts

Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for a Seasonal Sprouts session, Wednesday, Aug. 21, 11 a.m.-noon. Children (ages 4 to 6) can tour the gardens with guided activities exploring smells, sight, sound, and touch, even taste in planting a tasty veggie. $8 per child, $15 adult. Registration required. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information, visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.

Hewlett Fire Department

Breakfast Connect

Hewlett Fire Department welcomes all to the weekly breakfast connect, Wednesday, Aug. 22, 8-9 a.m. The breakfast meeting is free and open to everyone in the community. Benjamin J. Moleno Hall, 25 Franklin Ave., Hewlett. For more information and to reserve a spot, call or text Andrew Leibowitz at (516) 790-4829.

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Aug. 17

Get in on the action with I.

FLY Trapeze, Long Island’s only flying trapeze and circus arts school. Families will enjoy “Wild West Circus,” Saturday, Aug. 17, at 8 p.m., at Eisenhower Park. I.FLY Trapeze puts spectators up close to the aerialists who perform amazing feats of athleticism and agility 25 feet in the air. Performances include Chains, Silk and Lyra, with comedy and on the grounds acts with Balancing and Baton, also a Flying Trapeze Finale. Next to the Nassau County Aquatic Center off Merrick Ave., East Meadow. Free parking available in lot 1A adjacent to the trapeze. For more information, visit IFlyTrapeze.com.

Game Time

Play canasta, mah jongg or Scrabble during in-person game time, on Monday, Aug. 19, 2-4:30 p.m., in the Bentley Room of Peninsula Public Library. 280 Central Ave., Lawrence. Seating limited. First come, first seated.

Having an event?

Friends of Rock Hall Watercolor Workshop

Friends of Rock Hall hosts a watercolor workshop in the garden, Monday, Aug. 19, 10 a.m.-1 p.m. The class is taught by certified art teacher Linda Shedlock, Adult only, must bring your own supplies and pre-payment required. $90, $80 for members/ seniors. Checks are payable to Friends of Rock Hall. Space is limited. Rock Hall, 199 Broadway, Lawrence. For more information/RSVP call (516)-239-1157 or email FriendsofRockHall@gmail. com.

In concert

Hewlett Bagel Boss concert series continues, Saturday, Aug. 17, 10 p.m.-1 a.m. Hear Indie Artist Susan’s Court, a young, energetic, up and coming indie rock band from West Hempstead. Bagel Boss, 1352 Peninsula Blvd, Hewlett. For more information, call (516) 569-8600.

On exhibit

Nassau County Museum of Art ‘s latest exhibition

“Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol,” reveals the many meanings, connotations, and associations of this powerful color in art. Evoking strong emotion, red can represent the human condition. Its myriad variations have come to signify authority as well as love, energy and beauty. Red warns us of peril and commands us to stop, but it can also indicate purity and good fortune. Red boldly represents political movements and religious identities. From the advent of our appreciation for this color in antiquity to its continued prominence in artistic and popular culture, this exhibition will span various world cultures through a range of media. It features more than 70 artists, both established and emerging, ranging from the classical to the contemporary. American portraitists such as Gilbert Stuart imbued red in their stately paintings of prominent individuals to conjure authority. Robert Motherwell, Ad Reinhardt, and other major abstract painters displayed a deep fascination with red in their commanding compositions that evoke a sense of chromatic power. And, of course, Andy Warhol is known for his bold and imposing silkscreened portrait of Vladimir Lenin saturated in bright red to his signature Campbell’s Soup Cans. On view through Jan. 5. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

Art talk

Grab your lunch and join Nassau County Museum of Art Docent Riva Ettus for her popular “Brown Bag Lecture” at the museum, Thursday, Sept. 5, 1 p.m. She’ll discuss the current exhibition, “Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol.” Participants are invited to ask questions at the end of the in-depth program and also participate in a guided exhibition tour following the lecture. No registration required, but limited seating. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

Concert series

Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.

WRONGEST RUNNING COMEDY!

The Village of Cedarhurst for their 27th annual Tuesday Nite Concerts Under the Gazebo summer series continues, Tuesday, Aug. 20, for Jewish Night with Aryeh Kunstler. With kids entertainment. Andrew J. Parise Park, 235 Cedarhurst.

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PERSON TO PERSON

Relationship change over time

Iremember a storybook wedding at the Waldorf Astoria that I attended many years ago. The bride was radiant; the groom was beaming. She was exuberant as she spoke about her new husband as a special person who “is wonderful, caring, sensitive and makes me feel so good about myself.” He in turn, was passionate as he spoke about his new wife as a remarkable woman who “is loving, bright, beautiful and my best friend.”

It was a wondrous evening. This couple was glowing. They felt mutually appreciated, valued, esteemed, treasured, safe and loved. How superb, fantastic! We were witnessing couple heaven!!

pointment. She may speak about him as “selfish, uncaring, egocentric”; he may speak about her as “controlling, manipulating, never satisfied.” Instead of gazing into each other’s eyes, now they sit in silence as they gaze at the TV.

psychWisdom

And then, some crass woman on the reception line muttered (in much too loud a voice) “Just wait. She’ll wise up and see. Marriage is for the man’s benefit. Women get the raw end of the deal.” Her mate took the bait. “What do you mean for the man’s benefit? Women suck men dry. Marriage is a woman’s game. He’ll turn into a pansy soon enough.”

Everyone rolled their eyes. They motioned to this couple to shut up. They were spoiling the moment. Romantic weddings appeal to the deepest instinct in all of us who still believe in fairytale love that’s magical and wondrous. Romantic love is nature’s anesthesia, a time of infinite hope, when lovers are fully conscious of their passion and devotion toward one another, unconscious of the difficulties that are yet to surface.

Why, oh why was this crass couple intruding on the moment? And yet, many people in the room knew what they were talking about. Romantic love changes. The anesthesia wears off!

As change begins, starry-eyed lovers don’t wish to acknowledge it. Despite themselves, they get annoyed about things they previously glossed over. Still, they’re patient with one another, minimizing differences and apologizing for their judgments. “He’s tired”; “She had a hard day.” Problems are emerging, but so what, they tell themselves. No relationship is perfect!

As time elapses, however, romantic love typically recedes further from consciousness. Awakening from anesthesia, both husband and wife feel less tolerant of behavior that triggers anger, hurt, and disap-

Nagging differences may blossom into full-blown annoyances. He wants to watch the games on the weekends; she wants to go shopping with him. He can’t sleep unless the TV is on; she needs quiet to doze off. He orders from a menu without regard to cholesterol or cost; she focuses on diet and dollars. Romantic partners all right---like Michael Jordan and Mother Teresa!

If romantic love is fading from your relationship, don’t panic!

Just because you’re in another stage of love does not mean all is lost. Your task, should you choose to accept it, is to see if you can love this imperfect person, for whom he or she really is, not for whom you imagined your spouse was. Instead of feeling betrayed, dwelling on the reality that “you’re not the person I thought you were,” do what you can to grow the relationship.

Remember, you were under nature’s anesthesia at the beginning of your relationship. You wanted to believe that the two of you were like one. Your life together began as a romance novel, now it feels like a case study in a marriage help book. Bummer!

Though the snags in your relationship are difficult to manage, I hope you don’t end up being like that crass cynical couple at the wedding. Sure, you’d love to magically wish away any relationship troubles, but listen up!

Your current struggle with your spouse presents a fuller picture of who you both really are. Though these struggles may be the last thing your conscious mind desires, unconsciously, it may be just what you need to heal, expand, grow and truly accept your spouse for who he/she is.

©2024

Linda Sapadin, Ph.D., psychologist, coach, and author specializes in helping people improve their relationships, enhance their lives, and overcome debilitating anxiety, procrastination, and depression. Visit her website at PsychWisdom.com.

Linda Sapadin

Public Notices

LEGAL NOTICE

NOTICE OF SALE

SUPREME COURT

NASSAU COUNTY

U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR VELOCITY COMMERCIAL CAPITAL LOAN TRUST

2018-2, Plaintiff against ILYUSHA KHAIMOV, INDIVIDUALLY AND AS ADMINISTRATOR OF THE ESTATE OF RAKHMIN KHAIMOV, DECEASED, et al Defendant(s)

Attorney for Plaintiff(s) Stern & Eisenberg, P.C., 20 Commerce Drive, Suite 230, Cranford, NJ 07016 and 1131 Route 55, Suite 1, Lagrangeville, NY 12540.

Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered June 28, 2024, I will sell at public auction to the highest bidder at North Side Steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court at 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on September 4, 2024 at 2:00 PM. Premises known as 266 Randall Avenue, Lawrence, NY 11559-1231. Sec 40 Block 20 Lot 35 and 36. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected, situate lying and being at Lawrence, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York. Approximate Amount of Judgment is $383,964.81 plus interest, fees, and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index No 603624/2022.

During the COVID-19 health emergency, Bidders are required to comply with all governmental health requirements in effect at the time of the sale including but not limited to wearing face coverings and maintaining social distancing (at least 6-feet apart) during the auction, while tendering deposit and at any subsequent closing. Should a bidder fail to comply, the Referee may refuse to accept any bid, cancel the closing and hold the bidder in default. Bidders are also required to comply with the Foreclosure Auction Rules and COVID-19 Health Emergency Rules issued by the Supreme Court of this County in addition to the conditions set forth in the Terms of Sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the Court Appointed Referee shall cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine.”

Darice Guzman Piotrowski, Esq., Referee File # NY202300000275-1 148203

LEGAL NOTICE

REFEREE’S NOTICE OF SALE IN FORECLOSURE SUPREME COURTCOUNTY OF NASSAU

THE BANK OF NEW YORK

MELLON FKA THE BANK OF NEW YORK, AS TRUSTEE FOR THE CERTIFICATE HOLDERS OF CWMBS, INC., CHL MORTGAGE PASSTHROUGH TRUST 2005-11, MORTGAGE PASS-THROUGH CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2005-11, Plaintiffagainst - DARRYL MARCIE GREENBAUM GREEENSTEIN, et al Defendant(s).

Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered on June 6, 2024. I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction on the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court located at 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, N.Y. 11501 “Rain or Shine” on the 4th day of September, 2024 at 2:00 PM. All that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected, situate, lying and being in the Incorporated Village of Cedarhurst, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, State of New York.

Premises known as 588 Broadway, Cedarhurst, NY 11516.

(Section: 39, Block: 392, Lot: 463)

Approximate amount of lien $116,259.97 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed judgment and terms of sale.

Index No. 616924/2022.

Leslie S. Lowenstein, Esq., Referee.

McCalla Raymer Leibert Pierce, LLC

Attorney(s) for Plaintiff 420 Lexington Avenue, Suite 840 New York, NY 10170

Tel. 347/286-7409

For sale information, please visit Auction.com at www.Auction.com or call (800) 280-2832

Dated: June 25, 2024

During the COVID-19 health emergency, bidders are required to comply with all governmental health requirements in effect at the time of sale including but not limited to, wearing face coverings and maintaining social distancing (at least 6-feet apart) during the auction, while tendering deposit and at any subsequent closing. Bidders are also required to comply with the Foreclosure Auction Rules and COVID-19 Health Emergency Rules issued by the Supreme Court of this County in addition to the conditions set forth in the Terms of Sale.

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LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE

SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU

NATIONSTAR

MORTGAGE LLC, Plaintiff AGAINST JOSEPH DELUCA, PAULA DELUCA, ET AL., Defendant(s)

Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered December 6, 2019, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction at the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on September 4, 2024 at 2:00PM, premises known as 11 AVON ROAD, HEWLETT, NY 11557. All that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements erected, situate, lying and being at Hewlett, Town of Hempstead, Nassau County, New York, Section 39, Block 439, Lot 15. Approximate amount of judgment $661,525.22 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #002527/2017. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the NASSAU County COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the court appointed referee will cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine”. Dan Blumenthal, Esq., Referee Gross Polowy, LLC 1775 Wehrle Drive Williamsville, NY 14221 17-000653 81654 148179

LEGAL NOTICE INCORPORATED VILLAGE OF HEWLETT HARBOR PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that the Planning Board of the Incorporated Village of Hewlett Harbor will hold a public hearing at Village Hall on Wednesday, August 21, 2024 at 7:00PM. A ZOOM link to the meeting will be available on our website at www.hewlettharbor.gov. All interested parties will be given the opportunity to be heard on the following applications for relief:

1)Leon and Andriyana Hofman – 1200 Seawane Drive Hewlett Harbor, NY 11557 has applied to the Planning Board for design review for landscaping, light piers and gates. At said hearing, all interested parties will be given an opportunity to be heard. Copies of the proposed application will be available at the Village

Hall at least five (5) days before the public hearing and may be seen during the regular business hours.

Those persons planning to attend the meeting and who require special accommodations because of a disability are requested to notify the Village Clerk no less than 48 hours prior to the meeting.

BY ORDER OF THE PLANNING BOARD OF THE VILLAGE OF HEWLETT HARBOR

AMIR GAL- Chairman, Planning Board

TOMMY

MONTEMARANOBuilding Superintendent

Dated: Hewlett Harbor, New York August 2, 2024 148384

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NOTICE OF ADOPTION OF TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD LOCAL LAW NO. 53-2024

PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that, pursuant to Article 9 of the New York State Constitution, the provisions of the Town Law and the Municipal Home Rule Law of the State of New York, both as amended, a public hearing was duly called and held August 6th, 2024, by the Town Board of the Town of Hempstead on the proposed adoption of Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 53-2024, and following the close of the hearing the Town Board duly adopted Town of Hempstead Local Law No. 53-2024, amending Section 202-1 of the Code of the Town of Hempstead, to include and repeal “PARKING OR STANDING PROHIBITIONS” at various locations.

Dated: August 6, 2024 Hempstead, New York BY ORDER OF THE TOWN BOARD OF THE TOWN OF HEMPSTEAD

DONALD X. CLAVIN, JR. Supervisor

KATE MURRAY Town Clerk 148434

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PLEASE TAKE NOTICE that the Board of Fire Commissioners of the Woodmere Fire District in the Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, State of New York, will reschedule its regular monthly meeting for the month of September, 2024 from September 19th to September 23rd . Thus, the Board of Fire Commissioners will meet on September 23, 2024 at 7:00 p.m. The meeting will be held at the Fire District office located at 20 Irving Place Woodmere, NY 11598. All meetings of the Board of Fire Commissioners of the Woodmere Fire District are open to the public.

Chabad of the Five Towns collaborated with CTeen in 2018, to send

students to Six Flags. The Cedarhurst Chabad will host a class with CTeenU in the fall, to connect students with Israel.

Five Towns Chabad aims to empower Jewish youth

By PARKER SCHUG pschug@liherald.com

Local Jewish students have the opportunity for further education and empowerment, thanks to “Israel and Me” a CTeenU course offered by Chabad of the Five Towns in October.

“The last 8 months our hearts & prayers have been focused on Israel,” Hadassah Geisinsky of Chabad of the Five Towns wrote in a news release about the class. “It has stirred up a whirlwind of emotions & confusion in our teens. It’s more crucial than ever that our teens be educated & proud of their heritage & our Homeland!”

The Cedarhurst-based Chabad developed the “Israel and Me” course in collaboration with Yeshiva University in New York City and CTeenU, an initiative of Y.U. and the Chabad Teen Network, which educates Jewish teens worldwide.

Jewish public school students, grades 10 through 12 are eligible to take the course, for one transferable college credit. “Israel and Me,” starts on Oct. 24 with seven, 8:15 p.m. classes on Wednesdays at Chabad of the Five Towns, 74 Maple Ave.

The course will offer learning of indepth understanding, open dialogue, empowerment, strengthening identity and supportive community.

Geisinsky said that students will learn more about Israel’s global contributions, history and politics, they will take part in

open, respectful conversation with open questioning, they will form individual ideas with the help of factual information, they will understand Israel’s significance in their heritage and build a network of peers with like experiences to their own.

“By providing your teen with accurate information and tools for critical thinking, we aim to empower them to form their own opinions and engage confidently in discussions,” she said.

The goal is to create community, belonging and provide a well-rounded perspective for students, Hadassah said.

Rabbi Meir Geisinsky, of Chabad of the Five Towns, will lead the course.

“In a time when understanding Israel’s complex history and current events is more crucial than ever, this college credited course empowers our youth with knowledge and a strong connection to their heritage,” Meir wrote in a statement. “It’s inspiring to see our students engage so passionately with Israel and its significance in the world today.”

Chabad of the Five Towns has collaborated with CTeen in the past to host trips and other courses for Jewish students of the Five Towns community.

The course costs $499 but an early registrant rate of $200 for Five Towns students will run until Aug. 28.

Register at CTeen.com and contact Hadassah at (516) 458-3694 for the discount code.

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This notice is being publicized and posted in accordance with the provisions of Section 104 of the Public Officers Law of the State of New York. By order of the Board of Fire Commissioners of the Woodmere Fire District.

Dated: Woodmere, New York

August 8, 2024

DAVID HALLER

Secretary Woodmere Fire District 148418

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Q. We are near the end of our building project, which included a second floor and removing walls between our kitchen and living room. Our contractor hasn’t been answering the phone, and we learned that our building permit is still “open,” and remains that way until the contractor follows through, as our contract states. We are so frustrated, because it took much longer than we were promised, we spent much more than expected staying in a cheap hotel (if you call it that) and we moved back in even though, technically, we are told it is illegal. Our electrician and plumber, we now learn, didn’t get permits signed off, either, even though they gave their names and licenses to the building department. The building inspector says the construction doesn’t match the plans, and updated plans must be submitted for us to even be considered finished. What can you tell us about how to move forward and finish this off?

A. Spoken words and contracts used to mean something. I prefer to believe they still do, but I am seeing parties ignoring their commitments and, worst of all, not even having the decency to communicate. I try to warn clients to have a contingency plan for worst-case scenarios.

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In my long career, I have seen only two projects come in on budget, one commercial and one residential. What both had in common was that they both had an experienced construction manager on the job. That cost the owner more — much more — but in the end, the plans were followed to the letter, the sign-offs were all done, the certifications were issued and the occupancy took place on the day it was scheduled to. Considering the other 4,500-plus projects I’ve done, that is a sad record.

At this point you have no choice. The plans that were not followed require re-measuring, and the plans need to reflect the changes. In many circumstances I have witnessed, this is easier said than done, because if the construction changes ignored structural load paths, hidden conditions now buried behind wall coverings or code violations, the architect or engineer of record is not obligated to just go along with the defective work. Unfortunately, this unfairly strains the relationship with the architect or engineer.

The missing-in-action construction professionals, your licensed contractor, licensed plumber and licensed electrician, have obligations, not the least of which is to communicate with you, but the authorities giving the licenses and your building authority rarely protect you, often telling you that it is a “civil matter.” So much for consumer protection, because you are stuck and will need to decide who you can hire to take over the electrical sign-off, the plumbing sign-off and finally, after those are done and the plans have been modified and reapproved, then you will need to call for the final inspection yourself. Follow-up can be time-consuming, but it may be the only way around the situation. Good luck!

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Rethinking the embarrassing saga of Pete Rose

Taking an evening off from Donald Trump, Kamala Harris and the frenzied world of politics in general, I recently sat down with my 20-year-old grandson Jack, who is staying with us for the summer, to bingewatch the HBO Max four-part special on Pete Rose, “Charlie Hustle.”

Every baseball fan, as well as many people who aren’t even sports fans, is aware of Pete Rose — either because of his truly outstanding 24-year major league career as a player, plus several years as a manager, or for the swirl of controversy that has surrounded him since he left baseball over three decades ago.

Rose came up to the major leagues with the Cincinnati Reds in 1963 and played there until 1978, and again from 1983 until 1986, after stints with the Philadelphia Phillies and Montreal Expos. He also managed the Reds until 1989, following two seasons as player-manager. During his playing career, he set records that should have guaranteed his permanent placement in baseball’s version of Mount Rushmore, the Hall of Fame in

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one hundred people serve in the United States Senate. They represent the entire political spectrum, from far left to far right. There are definitely zealots, such as Bernie Sanders, the Democrat from Vermont, and Tom Cotton, the Arkansas Republican, and then there are the middle-of-the-road members, such as Chuck Schumer, Democrat of New York, and Lisa Murkowski, Republican of Alaska.

Then there is Sen. Ted Cruz, the Texas Republican. I single out Cruz because he stands head and shoulders above all the other senators, for all the wrong reasons. Cruz is running for re-election this year, but this discussion has nothing to do with his current campaign. An article in a Long Island weekly newspaper isn’t going to sink the re-election efforts of this very strange public official.

For those who follow the action in the Senate, Cruz has the distinction of being the most disliked member of the body, on both sides of the aisle. How did

upstate Cooperstown.

Rose had more hits — 4,256 — and played in more games — 3,562 — than any player in major league history. He was selected for 17 All-Star games, won three batting titles and was named the National League’s Most Valuable Player once and the World Series MVP once. His entire list of achievements could fill this column and more.

Those achievements are virtually unmatched in the history of baseball, and dwarf those of many players in the Hall of Fame. If ever there should have been a sure thing for baseball immortality, it was Pete Rose.

Should his ban from baseball, and the Hall of Fame, continue? Opinions differ.

Probably the easiest way to describe Rose the person, however, is that as great a ballplayer as he was, he was that much of a jerk. He was a degenerate gambler. He bet not just on horses, greyhounds and at casinos, but also, despite almost two decades of denials, on baseball, which has been that sport’s cardinal sin since the 1919 World Series, when players on the Chicago White Sox — the infamous “Black Sox” — threw the World Series and were banned from baseball for life.

Generations later, after an extensive investigation, Commissioner Bart Gia-

matti concluded that Rose had gambled on baseball and banned him for life. There was no evidence, however, that Rose ever bet against his own team, which was what doomed the Black Sox. Soon after his banishment from baseball, Rose was charged by the IRS with tax evasion and sentenced to five months in federal prison. Most jarring to him was the Hall of Fame’s decision not to admit any player who had been banned for life.

In the years since, Rose has been like a man without a country. He has made good money at autograph shows, sports forums and media appearances. But he has been almost desperate for Hall of Fame membership. In his 2000 book, “My Prison Without Bars,” he finally admitted to betting on baseball, while still insisting he had never bet against his own team.

The debate has raged among baseball fans about Rose’s Hall of Fame eligibility. My son Sean, who was with me at Shea Stadium on July 25, 1978, when Rose tied the National League 37-consecutive-game hitting streak record, thinks that enough time has passed to end the lifetime ban and allow Rose into the Hall of Fame. My grandson Jack, who played a lot of good baseball in his teenage

years, agrees, as do I. The “Charlie Hustle” documentary, however, made us rethink. In it, allegations are made by a longtime associate that Rose engaged in cocaine deals to finance his gambling habit. There was an accusation by a woman claiming sexual involvement with Rose 40 years ago, when she was underage. Though corroborating evidence hasn’t been made public, there was an out-of-court settlement, and Rose became his own worst enemy when he answered a female reporter’s inquiry on the matter with a stupid sexist comment.

In most of the documentary, Rose comes across as friendly and carefree, like a Huckleberry Finn or a Little Rascal. But then there are jarring, crude comments and proof that he is a chronic and habitual liar, which takes away much of that rustic charm.

Jack now thinks Rose’s bans from baseball and the Hall of Fame should continue. Sean and I concluded that the baseball ban should continue, but he should be allowed entry into the Hall, provided that his plaque makes clear that the honor is only for his achievements on the field.

The debate continues.

Peter King is a former congressman, and a former chair of the House Committee on Homeland Security. Comments? pking@ liherald.com.

for someone to dislike? Try Ted Cruz.

he get into this unique situation? His career track is similar to many other senators. He’s a graduate of Princeton University and Harvard Law School. He was known as an excellent debater, and his criminal law professor, Alan Dershowitz, said Cruz was “off-the-charts brilliant.”

He got his first taste of politics in 1999, when he went to work on the George W. Bush presidential campaign. He practiced law, and then decided to run for the Senate in 2013. With the help of the Tea Party movement, Cruz became the first Hispanic American from Texas to be elected to the Senate. All seemed normal up to that point, but as time passed, he became more and more irritating to his fellow senators. By 2013 he had earned the distinction of being called a “wacko bird” by his colleague the late Sen. John McCain.

went so far as to publish a “Compendium of People Who Hate Ted Cruz.” His former roommate called him “a nightmare of a human being.”

H e called Trump a ‘pathological liar,’ but guess who ‘Lyin’ Ted’ supports now?

What has made Cruz so disliked? In 2013 he staged a 21-hour talking marathon on the Senate floor against the Affordable Care Act. During his talkathon, he read Dr. Seuss’s “Green Eggs and Ham,” a bedtime story that he claimed to have read to his two daughters. That event translated into a shutdown of the federal government for 16 days, costing taxpayers grief and millions of dollars.

trip to Cancun. That winter, Texas was caught in a serious winter freeze. The state’s power grid had failed, and millions of Texans were without heat or power. In the middle of the crisis, Cruz travel to Cancun with his family to get away from the state’s misery. He was caught by cameras at the airport, ready to board his flight.

He claimed he planned the vacation for his children, and he was only flying to Cancun and coming right back. His wife’s texts described their home as “FREEZING,” and it was clear that it was a trip to get away from the cold while his constituents were suffering.

The barbs weren’t just from fellow senators. The Dallas Observer wrote that Cruz “defied the odds to become the most unpopular member of the U.S. Senate, a body of people whose collective approval rating falls below approval ratings for hemorrhoids, traffic jams, root canals and Nickelback.” Rolling Stone

In 2016, Cruz decided to run for president. One of his opponents was Donald J. Trump. The contest between the two was as ugly as you could imagine. They attacked each other’s wives, citizenship and integrity. Trump called Cruz “Lyin’ Ted,” mocked his wife’s appearance and falsely suggested that his father was involved in President John F. Kennedy’s assassination. Cruz called Trump a “sniveling coward,” a “pathological liar” and “utterly amoral.” But by the end of the primaries, Cruz had endorsed Trump. No commentary on Cruz would be complete without mentioning his 2021

As for his legislative record, it includes such things as opposing gun laws even though his state had suffered mass killings, and calling the Supreme Court’s legalization of gay marriage a form of “tyranny.”

There is so much more to say about this man and his character. But the best way to end this is to say that I bet even my fellow columnist Peter King dislikes Ted Cruz.

Jerry Kremer was an assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.

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Freshman Parenting 101: the college send-off

as summer winds down, many Long Island families face a bittersweet milestone: sending a child off to college for the first time. This transition marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, filled with excitement, anxiety and a mix of emotions for both parents and students.

For parents, the challenge lies in striking a delicate balance between supporting your child’s independence and maintaining a nurturing presence. Here is some key advice to help you navigate this new terrain:

1. Embrace the change. Remember that this transition is a natural and positive step in your child’s development. Your role in his or her life is evolving, not diminishing. Celebrate this milestone and the opportunities it brings.

2. Prepare practically, not just emotionally. Ensure that your child has the necessary life skills before she leaves. Can she do laundry, manage a budget, and cook a simple meal? These practical abilities will boost her confidence and self-reliance.

3. Discuss expectations clearly. Have open conversations about academics, finances and communication. How often will you check in? What GPA do you expect him to maintain? Establishing clear guidelines can prevent misunderstandings down the road.

4. Encourage campus involvement. Urge

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your child to take part in orientation activities and join clubs or organizations. These connections can ease homesickness and help her find her place in her new community.

5. Be a supportive listener. Your child will likely experience ups and downs. Resist the urge to immediately solve his problems. Instead, offer a sympathetic ear and guide him toward finding his own solutions.

6. Respect your child’s privacy. While it’s tempting to check in constantly, remember that she needs space to grow. Trust that you’ve prepared her well and allow her to make her own decisions — and mistakes.

7. Take care of yourself. This transition affects you, too. Connect with other parents going through the same experience, take up a new hobby, or consider volunteering. Your well-being matters.

8. Plan for visits wisely. Schedule campus visits, but be mindful of your child’s new routines and commitments. Family Weekend can be a great opportunity to reconnect, and see him in his new environment.

9. Embrace technology. Familiarize yourself with video calling platforms and texting. These tools can help maintain closeness despite the physical distance.

10. Prepare for changes at home. If you have younger children, be aware that family dynamics may change. Include

Re Peter King’s column “There’s just no predicting what will happen next” (Aug. 1-7): I live in southwest Nassau County, so never had the opportunity to have Congressman King on a ballot. It would have been unlikely for me to support him, because I’m a registered Democrat, and have moved from mid-left to further over as the years have passed. About to turn 80, I’ve got quite a rearview mirror, as does King.

I never saw him as a hack politician — he explained his positions clearly, with passion for what he believed was best for us all. He always had my respect. King’s vote against President Bill Clinton’s impeachment still stands in the forefront of my mind. His position took political guts.

In his piece, King laid out the flaws in President Biden’s bid for another term, along with numerous elements surrounding the aftermath of the June 27 debate. The dynamics of the race have changed dramatically in the days since Biden’s withdrawal. Former President Trump has sunk to new lows in

the kids in discussions, and find ways to make this transition positive for everyone.

11. Stay informed, but don’t hover: Familiarize yourself with campus resources, but encourage your child to seek help independently when needed. Knowing when to step back is crucial.

12. Expect growth and change. Your child will likely return home with new perspectives, habits, and possibly even a changed appearance. Embrace these changes as signs of her personal growth.

Remember, this transition is as much about your growth as a parent as it is about your child’s journey to adulthood. It’s an opportunity to redefine your relationship and watch with pride as he spreads his wings.

For those feeling overwhelmed, know that you’re not alone. Our communities are full of parents who have walked this path before you. Reach out to friends, family members or local support groups for advice and comfort.

As your child embarks on this new adventure, take comfort in knowing that the strong foundation you’ve provided will serve her well. The values you’ve instilled, and the love and support you’ve offered over the years will guide her as she navigates this exciting new chapter of her life.

All of us at the Herald wish you and your college-bound students a smooth transition filled with growth, learning and new beginnings.

To beat the heat on Long Island, we must fight fossil fuels

scorching, sweltering, suffocating. We’re all struggling to keep our cool these days, as a dangerous heat dome hovers over much of the country and threatens lives and livelihoods. Here in Nassau county, we’ve experienced successive weeks of extreme heat that has disrupted everything from our transit systems to our enjoyment of the outdoors.

This after last summer, when historic wildfires in canada brought barely breathable, smoky air to our state.

We can choose to stay indoors all summer, or we can be honest about how we got to this overheated moment. We know exactly what is causing this dizzying change in our climate. emissions from burning fossil fuels — oil, gas, coal — produce greenhouse gases that blanket the globe and trap the sun’s heat. and we know that global carbon emissions have been steadily increasing, warming our oceans and atmosphere.

But even in the face of damning evidence, the fossil fuel industry won’t

back down. companies continue to drill new wells, build new pipelines and sell oil, gas and coal to burn, trapping us all under heat domes that aren’t just unbearable, but lethal.

Why haven’t we moved away from burning fossil fuels?

Because fossil fuel corporations have used their resources to block necessary climate action at every turn.

the industry itself predicted global warming with uncanny accuracy.

Decades ago, the fossil fuel industry documented a sophisticated scientific understanding and predicted with uncanny accuracy how the globe would heat. Next, its leaders developed a multipronged effort to undermine the scientific data they themselves had uncovered, so they could stymie policies that would reduce the use of fossil fuels. Part of that campaign was a sustained effort to frame climate change as a matter of individual actions (like recycling or turning off the tap while brushing your teeth) instead of structural policy change.

Rather than investing in solutions, these corporations spent billions of dollars on the systems that have enabled them to continue to frack, mine, extract and, most important, pull in constant, breathtaking profits — even while the

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gender and race bashing. Though not unpredictable for him, his behavior must be coupled with the remarkable positions brought forward by his running mate, J.D. Vance. Together it’s quite a package.

I’m interested to learn how King feels about the Trump side of the campaign, because he said little on that front. My impression is that, whereas he supported Trump in the past, it would be a difficult lever for him to pull this time, and that he just might sit this one out. I’m curious about how King feels about the direction in which Trump/Vance want to take the country. What outcome does King want for us?

Thanks to King for being a quality congressman on the other side. He served when civil discourse was the norm, when rivalries were highly respectful, such as Ronald Reagan and Tip O’Neill. The very best to King.

JOsHua WeIss Hewlett

As King wrote, it was ‘almost as if it had been planned’

To the editor:

While Vice President Harris calls Donald Trump a threat to democracy, it was the Democrats who subverted it by negating the votes of millions of registered Democrats who chose President Biden in the primaries. The bloodless coup, which forced the president to withdraw from the race under unusual circumstances,

planet got hotter and hotter. This included investing in policymakers and politicians, from state houses to the halls of congress to the supreme court, as well as universities. Today, legislation that would — and should — enable us to invest in clean-energy solutions is routinely quashed because of the powerful sway of the fossil fuel industry. Its profits are valued over our very lives. so where do we go from here?

simply put, to the streets: to the state houses, to congress, to the ballot box. and we need to do it together amid a summer that is already one of the five hottest ever, we need to wield our collective power as voters, as citizens, as consumers. We need millions of people to stand up to those billions of dollars. We need to demand the kind of big, systemic changes that are our only hope to slow the pace of change and give us a chance to survive.

Because, make no mistake, we have the means to change course on this path of destruction. Just as humans created coal-powered trains and oil furnaces, we have invented clean-energy solutions such as solar-, wind- and water-powered electricity.

But we need to demand this change.

allowed a privileged few to choose a new candidate, who, at the time, had a low approval rating. any rational person knows that Biden should never have been allowed to run in the primaries for a second term. That would have led to meaningful Democratic primaries that were not a sham!

Mel YOuNg, MD Lawrence

Kremer has better memories of Biden than we will

To the editor:

Re Jerry Kremer’s column “When Joe was born, they threw away the mold” (aug. 1-7): glad to see that Kremer has such a high regard for our president, and that their interactions have been so positive. good for Jerry.

That said, I, and others (I’m not a Maga, nor am I a fan of Trump) certainly have a different view from Kremer’s.

I find it hard to comprehend the idea that “no one … can match (Biden’s) talent for getting things done on a bipartisan basis” and his “history-making achievements.” From the economy, to the millions of people flooding our border with no plan in place to handle them, to the debacle in afghanistan, to gas price and mortgage rates, and of course the lies about his mental status from Kremer’s party, not sure he can convince us of Biden’s greatness.

Paul Facella Long Beach

That’s why I’m joining other people of faith and climate activists from all over at the ongoing summer of Heat protests, which take place outside the headquarters of the major financial institutions in Manhattan. If we can persuade the executives of these institutions how much we care about this, and manage to cut off funding to the fossil fuel industry, we will be taking a huge step toward dismantling that industry.

People of all backgrounds need to show up with spiritual audacity, educating, energizing and mobilizing our communities to act. When people realize that generations to come may face ever more devastating disasters — droughts, fires, floods, famines — they need the inspiration to turn despair into action.

Bottom line? If we want to beat the heat, we need to keep fossil fuels in the ground, unburned. Which means challenging the fossil fuel industry with moves to cut off funding from banks, asset managers and financial firms.

I think of the quote from Deuteronomy: “It is not beyond us in heaven.” Indeed, humans can make a new future. We have the capacity. We have the science, the resources, the people and the power. It is in our hands and in our hearts, and we can do it. We must.

Lauren Krueger is the co-leader of the Nassau County Dayenu Circle. She lives in Merrick.

Framework by Bryan and Lori Lee

At a beach volleyball match, not long after a Parisian sunset.

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