Oceanside/Island Park Herald 08-15-2024

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A tribute to 100 years of service

Island Park was filled with pride on Aug. 11 as the Island Park Fire Department marked its 100th anniversary with a grand Second Battalion Fire District parade. Full story, more photos, page 3.

Scarfing clams for a good cause

Annual event’s proceeds go to fallen NYPD officer’s family

By RYAN DEMINO Intern

Peter’s Clam Bar, in Island Park, hosted its annual clam-eating contest last Sunday. The tradition brought participants and spectators from all over Long Island.

Beginning 10 years ago, the competition has raised money for local charitable organizations and people in need. Since its inception, and over 125,000 clams later, the event has collected nearly $500,000.

The competition was broken into two divisions, one for first responders and one for everyone else. The entry fee for the public competition was $50, but first responders took part for free.

The winning first responder took home $2,500; the second-place eater, $1,500; and the third-place finisher, $500. The winner in the public division was awarded $1,000.

This year, all of the money raised at the event went to the family of the late Jonathan Diller, the New York City police officer who was killed in the line of duty in March.

“It’s not just about the fun,” Congressman Anthony D’Esposito said of the contest. “It’s really about raising money for a good cause.”

The first-responder contest featured 20 eaters from fire departments all over Long Island — Baldwin, East Meadow, East Rockaway, Freeport, Island Park, Malverne, Massapequa, Point Look-

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I.P. Fire Department marks 100th year

Island Park was alive with pride and celebration as the Island Park Fire Department marked its 100th anniversary with the second battalion parade on Aug 11th. The streets were lined with community members who came out in full force to honor a century of bravery, dedication, and community service.

The parade, featuring fire trucks, marching bands, and representatives from neighboring fire departments, was a fitting tribute to the department’s rich history. The event brought together Island Park residents and participants from the second Battalion Fire District, which comprises the Baldwin, Freeport, Island Park, Long Beach, Oceanside, and Point Lookout-Lido fire depart -

ments, showcasing the strong bonds within the firefighting community.

Former fire chiefs, current members, and junior firefighters marched side by side, symbolizing the legacy passed down through generations. A block party on Masone Beach ensued after the parade to bring even more family fun.

The parade was a highlight of the centennial celebrations, but it also served as a reminder of the department’s ongoing dedication. As the sirens faded and the crowd dispersed, the Island Park Fire Department remained ready to answer the call—just as it has for the past 100 years.

–Kepherd Daniel

Jaci Zitman/Herald photos

It was a proud parade in Island Park as the Department was serenaded with pipes and drums.

The parade saw multiple different fire vehicles drive through Island Park.

Two-year old Sophia and fiveyear old Adelyn Pontecorvo enjoy the centennial celebration in Island Park.

Firefighters of the second Battalion Fire District marched with pride as Island Park Fire Department celebrated its 100th year in service.

OBITUARY

Robert L. Heggy (Veteran)

Robert “Bob” La Vaque Heggy, age 88, passed away on July 26th, 2024 in Gainesville, FL. He was born in Milwaukee, Wis. on May 18th, 1936, to Donald and Harriet Heggy. Mr. Heggy graduated from Iona Prep in New Rochelle, NY in 1954 and attended Providence College. He enlisted in the U.S. Navy in February 1957; voted company honor man in boot camp in Bainbridge, MD; assigned to Special Services in Washington D.C.; and later served aboard the USS Canberra (CAG-2).

Upon his discharge from active duty, Bob enrolled at New York University completing his master’s degree program. Mr. Heggy spent twenty years in the Parks and Recreation field in Pelham, NY, Oceanside, Long Island, and Miami, FL. He left his administration position with the City of Miami in 1983 and joined his wife in their retail trophy and awards business. Bob and Linda were married in 1960 and would have celebrated their 64th wedding anniversary this month. Bob is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Linda Fitzpatrick Heggy of Gainesville, two sons, two daughters, three sisters, and six grandchildren.

A Mass of Christian Buriel will be celebrated on August 23rd at 11a.m. at Queen of Peace Catholic Church, 10900 SW 24th Ave., Gainesville, FL

IRelationship change over time PERSON TO PERSON

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remember a storybook wedding at the Waldorf Astoria that I attended many years ago. The bride was radiant; the groom was beaming. She was exuberant as she spoke about her new husband as a special person who “is wonderful, caring, sensitive and makes me feel so good about myself.” He in turn, was passionate as he spoke about his new wife as a remarkable woman who “is loving, bright, beautiful and my best friend.”

It was a wondrous evening. This couple was glowing. They felt mutually appreciated, valued, esteemed, treasured, safe and loved. How superb, fantastic! We were witnessing couple heaven!!

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And then, some crass woman on the reception line muttered (in much too loud a voice) “Just wait. She’ll wise up and see. Marriage is for the man’s benefit. Women get the raw end of the deal.” Her mate took the bait. “What do you mean for the man’s benefit? Women suck men dry. Marriage is a woman’s game. He’ll turn into a pansy soon enough.”

Everyone rolled their eyes. They motioned to this couple to shut up. They were spoiling the moment. Romantic weddings appeal to the deepest instinct in all of us who still believe in fairytale love that’s magical and wondrous. Romantic love is nature’s anesthesia, a time of infinite hope, when lovers are fully conscious of their passion and devotion toward one another, unconscious of the difficulties that are yet to surface.

Why, oh why was this crass couple intruding on the moment? And yet, many people in the room knew what they were talking about. Romantic love changes. The anesthesia wears off!

As change begins, starry-eyed lovers don’t wish to acknowledge it. Despite themselves, they get annoyed about things they previously glossed over. Still, they’re patient with one another, minimizing differences and apologizing

As time elapses, however, romantic love typically recedes further from consciousness. Awakening from anesthesia, both husband and wife feel less tolerant of behavior that triggers anger, hurt, and disappointment. She may speak about him as “selfish, uncaring, egocentric”; he may speak about her as “controlling, manipulating, never satisfied.” Instead of gazing into each other’s eyes, now they sit in silence as they gaze at the TV.

Nagging differences may blossom into full-blown annoyances. He wants to watch the games on the weekends; she wants to go shopping with him. He can’t sleep unless the TV is on; she needs quiet to doze off. He orders from a menu without regard to cholesterol or cost; she focuses on diet and dollars. Romantic partners all right---like Michael Jordan and Mother Teresa!

If romantic love is fading from your relationship, don’t panic! Just because you’re in another stage of love does not mean all is lost. Your task, should you choose to accept it, is to see if you can love this imperfect person, for whom he or she really is, not for whom you imagined your spouse was. Instead of feeling betrayed, dwelling on the reality that “you’re not the person I thought you were,” do what you can to grow the relationship.

Your current struggle with your spouse presents a fuller picture of who you both really are. Though these struggles may be the last thing your conscious mind desires, unconsciously, it may be just what you need to heal, expand, grow and truly accept your spouse for who he/she is.

Linda Sapadin, Ph.D., psychologist, coach, and author specializes in helping people improve their relationships.

Barrier Brewery open mic is open to all

By REI WOLFSOHN Correspondent

On the last Friday in June, the Barrier Brewery Open Mic filled their back room with dozens of audience members who raged with all kinds of performers for three hours.

The Barrier Brewery Open Mic is the last Friday of every month. Dave Wolfsohn has taken up the torch as host from Tony Hamilton since December, 2023. Anyone can sign up between 7 p.m. and 8 p.m. for that open mic night.

“Tony [Hamilton] started that open mic and then moved to Brooklyn,” Wolfsohn said. “They had new hosts every month, so I reached out and said, ‘It’s my dream to do this, can I help you?’ And things worked out so beautifully.”

The vibe he’s going for with these open mics is peace, joy and acceptance. On June 28, when the house band wasn’t prepared to play with one 14-year-old, Joseph Giudice, he just sang a capella.

“And the whole room embraced him,” Wolfsohn said.

Overall, the crowd at the open mic included people in their teens through 50s, especially 20s and 30s. There were some families, and a lot of small groups of friends from different walks of life.

“People love it,” Wolfsohn said. “It’s a very big surprise. Because I think people really dig the vibe that I’m going for, and I think they add to it and inspire me. It’s like rallying inspiration, because the more people show up and I realize how important it is that they all have a place to go and perform, it just fills me with joy and I know I’m doing the right thing.”

But mostly the open mic just draws a wide range of audience members who are interested in performing arts.

“All types of arts are welcome: poetry, comedy, visual arts, beat makers, producers,” Wolfsohn said. “The goal is to provide a safe space for artists to network, share their craft and be inspired by other artists.”

For artists like Kelsea May Moore, the open mic offers a chance to get a start in the music world and broaden her horizons.

“I just really like how open it is,” Moore said. “I feel really comfortable here. Making new friends is awesome when you’re trying to get your footing in music.”

The artists are really grateful to have this space in which to express themselves.

“To be in a room that is supporting, with people in all phases of their artistry, I just think is awesome,” said Melanie H.D. Sirof.

Sirof is a poet, and she finds that when you’re presenting poetry at a music-focused open mic, you have to get the audience to want to listen.

“I have three nearly grown kids, and this parenting stuff is strange and interesting, and a wild ride,” Sirof said. “People react to that [with], ‘Oh yeah, me too’. Sometimes they react to it as the kid who was giving their parents the wild ride, and sometimes they react to it as the parent who is parenting through it all. To know that there’s community. To give voice to what I think is so universal.”

The open mic nights are ongoing, with no end in sight. You can catch them on the last Friday of every month at Barrier Brewery at 3001 New Street. Be there at 8 p.m. to watch, or 7 p.m. to sign up to perform.

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Olivia Catanolo and Yaffa Botier sing “Whole Lotta Love” by Led Zeppelin.

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Morning kickoffs for Nassau football

By TONY BELLISSIMO tbellissimo@liherald.com

Are you ready for some football?

Next Monday, all 53 Nassau County public high school football programs can begin preparations for the upcoming season, scheduled to open Friday, Sept. 6 with six games leading up to the first full slate the following week.

Aside from eight-time defending Nassau Conference II champion Garden City moving to Conference III, perhaps the biggest news during the offseason was the decision to add an 11 a.m. kickoff slot to Conferences II and IV for the 2024 campaign, and potentially Conferences I and III next year, due to a shortage of officials.

“At this time we don’t have enough officiating crews to cover so many games at the same time,” said Section VIII football coordinator Matt McLees. “We’re at about 16-17 crews. Moving some games to 11 a.m. and others to 3 p.m. allows us to double up certain crews on Saturdays.”

One team largely affected by the earlier start time is Sewanhaka. Not only is head coach George Kasimatis’ squad debuting the school’s new nickname, the Ravens, half of its games will begin in the morning. Fortunately, Kasimatis noted, three of the four 11 a.m. kickoffs are at home. “We travel to Roosevelt in Week 2 and it’ll be interesting,” he said.

Massapequa (Conference I), Garden City (II), South Side (III) and Seaford (IV) won county titles last season, however the landscape has changed with Trojans moving to Conference III. Carey, the new top seed in II, seeks its first county title since going back-to-back in 2013-14 and opens at home versus Glen Cove Sept. 14.

Garden City’s first taste of Conference III football is Sept. 6 at Bethpage. Seaford, which must fend off conference newcomers Wantagh and Plainedge, opens at home Sept. 13 against Island Trees.

Massapequa, which last season was awarded the Rutgers Cup, presented annually to the most outstanding team in Nassau, opens at Oceanside Sept. 6 in game originally scheduled for Thursday, Oct. 10.

Teams choosing to play a full game scrimmage can do so once 10 practices are completed, McLees said, making Aug. 30 the first potential date. Teams can hold joint practices as soon as Aug. 24 and are permitted to play 7 on 7 and also run 10 plays (11 on 11) in full gear. “It’s not a scrimmage by definition but teams can accomplish a lot with the joint practice,” he added. Nine teams switch conferences

Along with Garden City, eight other teams have switched conferences for the

10 games to watch

Sept. 6: Massapequa at Oceanside

Sept. 14: Sewanhaka at Baldwin

Sept 20: Elmont at South Side

Sept. 21: Massapequa at Uniondale

Sept. 28: Calhoun at Mepham

Oct. 5: Oceanside at Freeport

Oct. 10: MacArthur at Carey

Oct. 10: Plainedge at Wantagh

Oct. 10: South Side at Garden City

Oct. 25: Wantagh at Seaford

upcoming season based on enrollment figures: Baldwin, Elmont, Manhasset, Herricks, Wantagh, Plainedge, Roosevelt and Glen Cove. Baldwin returns to Conference II where it spent the 2022 campaign and is seeded No. 10 this season. The Bruins, under new head coach Mike Robinson, open at home on their new turf field Sept. 14 against Sewanhaka. Elmont is the No. 3 seed in Conference III, whilst Manhasset is No. 7. Herricks is seeded eighth in Conference I. Longtime Conference III powers Wantagh and Plainedge are in Conference IV and will meet face to face Oct. 10 at Wantagh. Roosevelt, not long ago a member of IV, bounced to II and opens at New Hyde Park.

Thursday games Oct. 10

The sixth week of the season (fifth for many Conference III teams) will be played on Thursday, Oct. 10 due to Yom Kippur. Games will kick off as early as 2:15 p.m. (Elmont at Sewanhaka) and as late as 6 p.m.

Local coaching changes

Baldwin, East Meadow, Freeport, Mepham, Seaford all boast new sideline bosses.

Robinson is a Baldwin graduate who spent the past two seasons coaching the Bruins’ JV team after six years as a varsity assistant. Keith Lizzi takes over from Vin Mascia at East Meadow, the No. 6 seed in Conference I. Longtime Freeport assistant Jimmy Jones succeeds the legendary Russ Cellan at Freeport. The seventh-ranked Red Devils open at Massapequa. Tom Mazeika is the new head coach at Mepham, the No. 5 seed in Conference II, opens at home versus MacArthur. Seaford and new head coach Mike McHugh kick off defense of the Conference IV title at home against Island Trees.

Chase Bier and Oceanside open the season at home on Sept. 6 vs. Massapequa.

Michelle Ebel/Herald photos

Jake Classie, right, and Mepham will be playing for a new head coach this fall as Tom Mazeika takes over the helm of the Pirates.

Trouble in paradise at Masone Beach

By KEPHERD DANIEL kdaniel@liherald.com

Masone Beach, a summer destination for many Island Park residents, has become a focus for residents this season due to reduced summer programs, increased fees, and maintenance issues that have left many residents frustrated and seeking answers from village officials.

“In terms of being a visitor to the beach, things have seemingly changed in the last two years,” shared Harbor Isle resident Maureen Fitzgerald, a local mother of two young kids, who expressed her concerns about the state of Masone Beach. “The prices have gone up quite substantially, especially for Harbor Isle residents,” she continued. “The staffing has been impacted by lifeguard shortages and a reduction in recreation staff. The kids who are there are really trying to keep the standards up, but the resources have just been diminished over the last two years.”

In response to the outcry, Island Park Mayor Michael McGinty acknowledged the challenges but assured residents that efforts are being made to address them.

“We are working on the lifeguard situation, but there’s a shortage of qualified lifeguards across the county,” Mayor McGinty explained. The countywide shortage of qualified lifeguards,

impacting other beaches as well. Harbor Isle Beach closed it’s waters to swimmers due to this shortage.

Fitzgerald also highlighted issues with maintenance, especially during the

offseason.

“There were Christmas ornaments on the beach until April,” she added. “It’s become an eyesore in the offseason, which wasn’t the case in previous

years.”

McGinty touched on the maintenance issues, specifically the problem with geese, which have been the main culprit when it comes to issues of beach cleanliness. Environmental regulations limit the actions the village can take to manage the geese population, a significant contributor to beach cleanliness problems. However, he assured residents that steps would be taken to improve maintenance and keep the beach clean.

“We will ensure better maintenance to avoid fecal matter on the beach,” McGinty promised.

The mayor emphasized the importance of community feedback and encouraged residents to contact him directly with their concerns, making his cell phone number publicly available.

“My cell phone number is on the village’s LED sign, and I want residents to know they can always reach out to me,” he stated.

As the summer progresses, residents hope for swift action to restore Masone Beach to what residents have come to enjoy.

“I paid $50 per person now to go to the beach, whereas it was less four years ago,” Fitzgerald said. “I like going to Masone because it’s the bay, it’s smaller and I have small children so Long Beach is a bit overwhelming. It’s a huge ocean but the price of (Masone) shouldn’t be competitive with Long Beach.”

Herald file photo

Concerns have been raised over the price of entry and overall maintenance at Masone Beach.

It was another money-raising day of competitive clam

Clam-eating contest benefits Diller family

out, Port Washington, South Hempstead and Stewart Manor — all showing their support for Diller’s widow, Stephanie, and their 1-year-old son, Ryan.

“My own son is a highway patrol officer,” Peter’s Clam Bar owner Butch Yamali said. “And he’s a young man with children, so I don’t even know how (the Dillers) feel. We want to do everything we can to help that family.”

Over the course of three rounds of competition, more than 1,100 clams were consumed, and nearly $10,000 was raised for the Diller family.

“People throughout this region have big hearts, and you’ve seen it right here,” Hempstead Town Supervisor Donald Clavin said. “At the end of the day, we’re having some fun, we’re having a contest, but the best part is it’s all going to a good place.”

Pete Adams, of the Island Park F.D., was the winner among the first responders, and Larry Lehr, of the East Rockaway F.D., finished second. There was a tie for third place between Joseph Sadler, of the South Hempstead department, and Ralph Raymond, of Massapequa. They competed head to head in two consecutive tie-breaker rounds, but ultimately opted to donate the $500 third-place prize to the Diller family.

Adams, who is now a four-time contest winner, said that this year’s competition was special. “I’m a retired police officer myself, and so I really want to help this family,” he said.

Stephanie Diller addressed the crowd, expressing her gratitude for all the support the community has shown her and her son. “I want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart,” she said. “I always say this: Thank you doesn’t seem like the right word. I wish there was something I could show you all, or say, so you could really understand how thankful I truly am.”

Michael Rechter/Herald photos

eating in Island Park, with Hempstead Town Supervisor Don Clavin doing the cheerleading.

Stephanie Diller addressed the crowd in Island Park. With her were, from left, Clam Bar owner Butch Yamali, Patrick Hendry, Congressman Anthony D’Esposito and State Sen. Steve Rhoads.

Clavin gave the competitors his encouragement.

Four-time winner Pete Adams, of the Island Park Fire Department, gobbled up a total of 144 clams to win a second straight contest. Town Councilwoman Lauren Ryder, D’Esposito and Yamali congratulated him.

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O’Side Boy Scout completes Eagle project

By KEPHERD DANIEL kdaniel@liherald.com

Oceanside Sophomore and Boy Scout Troop 230 member Max Greenberg, recently completed his Eagle Scout project, leaving a lasting impact on the local Oceanside seniors. The project involved building three bookshelves for a group of local seniors, which meet in the cafeteria of St.Anthony’s Church.

The project occurred in the cafeteria of St. Anthony’s Church, the regular meeting place for Troop 230. The idea was born out of a conversation with Greenberg and Father Bret Stockdale of St. Anthony’s who is also one the troop’s scout leaders, who identified the need for new bookshelves for the seniors.

“I came to Father Bret and asked him if there was something specific that the church needed, and how can I help with my project,” Max explained. “Because the elder’s group’s current bookshelf was like on his last leg, he recommended that I do that.”

Max’s path to completing the project was fraught with challenges. Greenberg’s initial contact at the church passed away at the beginning of the project. When Greenberg began fundraising efforts for the project materials, which was supported by Bonbino’s Pizza in Oceanside, renovations at St. Anthony’s further delayed the progress. In total, the project spanned a year from

inception to completion.

Greenberg led a team of volunteers including fellow scouts Dominick Saglembeni, Robert Green, Jeffrey Hess, Lucas Padin, Kilian McNichol, and Jeffrey Alton. He also received support from his dad, Mark Greenberg, and St. Anthony’s Father Bret Stockdale.

“A big part of the Eagle Scout project and its curriculum is that it’s very much leadership-oriented,” Greenberg noted. “You have to guide the scouts and

warn them about safety and you’re having them be more hands-on and you’re leading them. “

Greenberg and his team gathered to complete the bookshelf project at St. Anthony’s on June 1. This experience, Greenberg said, taught him that effective leadership involves guiding team members and providing direction rather than doing all the work and expecting others to follow suit.

“I think it taught me about how to

just make a whole group work more efficiently,” Greenberg said. “It really kind of showed me that as a leader. It’s not you doing everything and then telling people to replicate your resume. It’s more like pointing them in the direction of what they should be doing. And then having them come to you if they need any help.”

The bookshelves now stand in the cafeteria of St. Anthony’s Church, serving the elderly community. Greenberg’s journey in scouting began at the age of five in Cub Scouts. Now a sophomore in high school, he continues to value the experiences and friendships he has gained through scouting.

“Some of my closest friends are from Scouts,” he said. “We’ve done a lot together, from camping trips and whitewater rafting to various community service projects.”

As he awaits the official conferment of his Eagle Scout rank, expected by the fall or winter of next year, Greenberg remains focused on his goals and committed to making a positive difference. Looking ahead, Greenberg plans to stay active in scouting even after achieving the Eagle Scout rank.

“Our troop is known for producing a lot of Eagle Scouts,” he explained. “Many of them come back as junior assistant scoutmasters. I hope to do the same and continue contributing to the troop and the community.”

Courtesy Max Greenberg

Greenberg completed his Eagle Scout project which will benefit local seniors at St. Anthony’s Church.

Giving Birth? Look No Further than the South Shore’s Only High Performing Hospital for Maternity Care

Mothers looking for a hospital at which to give birth should consider the quality indicators used by U.S. News & World Report ® to determine institutions deemed High Performing for Maternity care.

Mount Sinai South Nassau is the only South Shore hospital to earn the rating of High Performing based on eight key measures:

• Reduced C-section delivery rates

• Low early elective delivery rates

• Low overall unexpected newborn complication rates

• Increased routine VBAC rates

• Increased exclusive human milk feeding rates

• Low episiotomy rates

• Routine birthing-friendly practices

• Transparency on racial/ethnic disparities

If you want the best birthing experience for you and for your baby, look no further than Mount Sinai South Nassau.

Learn more at southnassau.org/maternity, or call 877-SOUTH-NASSAU.

O’Side seniors earn MSSN scholarship

In recognition of their service as junior volunteers at Mount Sinai South Nassau, two Oceanside High School 2024 graduates, Alyssa Bagajo and Christian Modzelewski, along with Arunima Roy of Valley Stream North High School and Dylan Yoon of Manhasset High School, have been awarded the hospital’s annual Dorothy M. Sharer Scholarship.

The late Dorothy M. Sharer was a devoted and beloved volunteer at Mount Sinai South Nassau for more than 33 years and 30,000 hours of volunteer service. Recipients of the scholarship emulate Ms. Sharer’s trait of serving others through volunteerism while demonstrating a desire to pursue degrees in higher education that would prepare them for careers in health care. The four students have combined to volunteer 575 hours of dedicated service to Mount Sinai South Nassau.

“Alyssa, Arunima, Christian, and Dylan, through their talents, dedication, and selflessness, have embodied the spirit of the scholarship and Dorothy’s passion for the mission and vision of the hospital,” said Sharon McMackin, Mount Sinai South Nassau’s manager of volunteer services. “I have witnessed first hand all their good works, thoughtfulness, and acts of kindness and I thank them for their support of the hospital and wish them success in their academic pursuits in college.”

A volunteer since June 30, 2022, Baga-

jo has logged 100 hours of volunteer service thus far, assisting with admitting, greeting, and escorting patients and visitors to their destinations; serving in the design, development, and construction department, and training new high school volunteers. She will attend Northeastern University this fall.

Enrolled in Drexel University, Modzelewski has volunteered since June 28,

2022, logging 129 service hours. He has assisted with greeting and escorting patients and visitors to their destinations and served in the Health Information Management and Human Resources Departments.

Roy has been a volunteer since June 28, 2022, logging 239 hours of service and assisting with admitting, greeting, and escorting patients and visitors to

their destinations; serving in the health information management and laboratory departments and on the Maternity Unit, and training new high school volunteers. She will attend Penn State University to major in biology.

Yoon, a volunteer since July 6, 2023, has totaled 107 hours of service. He has served in the health information management department and the intensive care and transitional care Units. He will be going to Rice University this fall, majoring in environmental engineering with a pre med track.

With a complement of more than 150 active volunteers, volunteering at Mount Sinai South Nassau requires no experience and anyone with a little spare time and a kind heart qualifies can lend a hand.

Junior high and high school-aged young adults can volunteer after school, or during spring and summer breaks. It’s not only an excellent opportunity to help others, but also a terrific way to get a firsthand look at the healthcare field for those young students who may be considering it as a career. For more information about the junior volunteer program or volunteering at Mount Sinai South Nassau, visit the hospital’s website to fill out the application or call the volunteer Office at 516632-3928.

–Kepherd Daniel

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Christian Modzelewski and Alyssa Bagajo of Oceanside High School, Arunima Roy of Valley Stream North High School, and Dylan Yoon of Manhasset High School, recipients of the Mount Sinai South Nassau annual Dorothy M. Sharer Junior Volunteer Scholarship.

Back-to-School —

Back to class with the right stuff Navigating the school bus

Keep that gear in good shape

Families are always looking to stretch their back-to-school shopping budgets. But saving money isn’t just about how much you spend on supplies; it’s also about making school supplies and equipment last as long as possible.

Here are some tips for protecting your students’ school tools to help stretch your budget — and their gear.

Talk with children about handling tech devices. Kids will be kids, and sometimes that means they’ll be tough on their stuff. Unfortunately, their school-mandated tech devices — such as calculators, tablets and laptops — can’t always take the beating. To reduce the risk of accidental breakage, talk to kids about proper handling and storage of their devices and the potential risks for breakage when drops, spills and hard impacts occur.

Lighten the backpack load Between books and laptops, students tend to pack a lot of heavy items in their backpacks during the course of a school year. As the load increases, backpack zippers may break, and seams may tear from the daily stress. Reduce the wear and tear by ensuring your kids don’t over-pack their bags.

Not only will this reduce strain on their backpacks, it will lighten the load on students’ backs as well.

Consider a protection plan. Research shows that some school essentials —such as backpacks and laptop batteries — break or stop functioning within the first 1-2 years of use. To help keep costs down, many retailers offer reputable protection plans, which can help repair or replace the equipment for free or a fraction of what you’d normally pay on your own.

Sharing isn’t always caring. Even if your child handles his calculator or laptop with care, his friends might not. Establish guidelines with your kids at the start of the school year about what items can be shared with others at school and which cannot.

For those things that can be shared, consider encouraging your child to establish ground rules when sharing with friends. Guidelines could include when the item should be returned, tasks for which the item will be used and an understanding that items will be handled with care. Don’t forget about bikes. Kids who ride their bikes to school can be just as hard on their bikes as they are on their school supplies. A tune-up at the start of the school year can keep the bike running smoothly and help catch wear and tear, such as damaged spokes or worn tires and brake pads. Are you ready? A back-to-school checklist

Make sure your kids have what they need to succeed this year. Ensure you’ve covered all the back-to-school bases before the studying starts:

√ Ensure your child is up to date on all immunizations.

√ Schedule eye and physical exams, if needed.

√ Make sure emergency contact information is up to date.

√ Organize school supplies.

√ Review the dress code policy.

By Sharon Naylor

School bus safety musts to teach your child

According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, an average of 24 school-age children are killed in school transportation accidents each year. Eleven of those children are on the school bus, and 13 are pedestrians. Even one child killed or injured in a school bus accident is too many. So it’s important to teach your children the safety rules of being in or around school buses.

Since it’s back-to-school time, make it a top priority to deliver a school bus safety lesson to children who will be riding the bus for the first time and to older children who have ridden the bus for several years. They, especially, need to be reminded of how important it is to practice bus safety, because older kids can get complacent about school bus risks.

Avoid danger in the ‘Danger Zone’

The loading and unloading area is called the “Danger Zone,” and it’s “the space on all sides of the bus where children are in the most danger of not being seen by the driver (10 feet in front of the bus where the driver may be too high to see a child, 10 feet on either side of the bus where a child may be in the driver’s blind spot, and the area behind the bus).

The “Danger Zone” is particularly dangerous for young children, who are more likely to be struck because they act impulsively, dash to get on and off the bus, assume other drivers will see them and stop, and don’t always stay within the driver’s sight. Older kids experience risk when they are distracted by their friends — who also might be unaware of other motorists or their positioning in the driver’s blind spots — and by their handheld gadgets.

So Google an image of a school bus “Danger Zone” that illustrates in danger-red the areas around the bus that they are to avoid. It’s considered a common rule of thumb for children to stay at least 10 feet away from all sides of the bus and to always cross the street in front of the bus while the bus is stopped, red lights flashing, driver watching.

But kids have to be taught or reminded to look carefully for other motorists who are not stopped for the bus and to look behind the bus for any irresponsible driver who might speed to pass the bus. And they should never cross the street behind the

bus. If friends are headed that way, your child is not to follow them. Role-play to give your child a script, such as, “Let’s cross up here where the driver can see us.” With practice, they’ll feel more confident in group dynamics.

Before the bus arrives

√ Ensure backpacks are packed securely so papers and other items donít scatter as the bus approaches.

√ Create a morning routine that puts kids at the bus stop five minutes before the scheduled pickup time. This helps avoid a last-minute rush, when safety lessons are easily forgotten, and ensures kids are safely in place for boarding.

√ Walk young children to the bus stop or encourage kids to walk in groups. There is safety in numbers; groups are easier for drivers to see.

√ If kids must cross a street, driveway or alley, remind them to stop and look both ways before crossing.

√ Verify the bus stop location offers good visibility for the bus driver; if changes are needed, talk with nearby homeowners or school district officials to implement changes.

√ Remind children that the bus stop is not a playground. Balls or other toys could roll into the street and horseplay can result in someone falling into the path of oncoming traffic.

√ Instruct kids to stay at least three steps away from the road and allow the bus to come to a complete stop before approaching it.

On the bus ride

√ When boarding the bus, items can get bumped and dropped. Caution children that before picking anything up, they should talk to the driver and follow instructions to safely retrieve their possessions.

√ Teach safe riding habits: stay seated with head, hands and feet inside at all times; keep bags and books out of the aisle and remain seated until the bus stops moving.

√ Instruct children to never throw things on the bus or out the windows and to never play with or block emergency exits.

Photo: Prepare for the return to the classroom with a back to school shopping strategy that makes sense for your family — and your wallet.

Photo: School buses are safe transportation if your kids know safety rules.

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School day mornings can be hectic, since as every parent knows getting kids ready for school and out the door on time is not always easy. Working parents may find school day mornings especially difficult, as their own work schedules can make mornings feel even more rushed. This time around, change up your morning routines with strategies to free up time in the morning so everyone starts their days off in a more relaxing atmosphere.

Wake up earlier. Sleep might seem like a precious commodity, but waking up just 10 to 15 minutes earlier can remove some of the stress from weekday mornings without costing you a lot of sack time. Let kids sleep in until their normal wakeup time, using your extra 10 or 15 minutes to shower or enjoy your morning cup of coffee before the house is abuzz with activity.

Tackle certain chores the night before. Delaying certain chores until you wake up makes for a hectic morning, so tackle as many morning chores as possible before you go to bed for the night. Prepare school lunches, lay clothes out for yourself and your children, and make sure kids have their backpacks packed and ready to go before they go to bed. Each of these things may only take a few minutes, but when left for the morning, they can add up to a substantial amount of time.

Encourage youngsters to pick up the pace. Some people are morning people,

Mornings over easy

while others dread setting their alarms for early morning hours. Kids who fall into the latter group may drag their feet in the morning, but parents should offer encouragement when kids are moving slowly in the morning. Allowing your frustration to show may only make kids less fond of mornings, so remind them as nicely as possible that everyone has a schedule to stick to if they seem to be dragging their feet.

Keep the television off. If watching the television is ingrained in your morning rou-

tine, try going a few days without it to see if this makes it easier to get out the door on time. Kids might grow distracted by morning cartoons, and even adults may get caught up in morning news shows. Eliminating television and screen time on other devices from your morning routine can save time and also may help your family grow closer, as you will have more distraction-free time to speak to one another. In addition to turning off the television. Resist that urge to look at your devices,

etc., when getting ready in the morning. Parents know that school day mornings can be hectic. But you can certainly implement changes to your routine to make such mornings go more smoothly so everyone gets where they need to be on time.

Photo: Get out from under the morning chaos by changing up the daily routine for a smoother start to your family’s day.

News brief

Five BOCES students join honor society

More than 100 students from 31 school districts in Nassau were inducted into the National Technical Honor Society this year. Five of these honorees came from the Lynbrook and East Rockaway school districts.

Lynbrook students Yahira Nanyanzi and Omar Reyes are both medical assisting students; Amiya Farrington is studying early childhood education; Ariana Canepa, is learning retail and business Skills. East Rockaway student, Erin Lynch, is a medical assisting student.

The students have achieved this prestigious honor through exemplary scholastic performance, dedicated community service and strong support from their teachers.

Being inducted into the NTHS is a significant achievement, as it represents the pinnacle of excellence in career and technical education. The technical honor society is renowned for recognizing students who display exceptional qualities such as honesty, leadership, responsibility and good character. The students truly embody

the NTHS vision that “success favors the prepared mind,” BOCES (Board of Cooperative Educational Services) officials said in a news release.

BOCES provides shared educational programs and services to school districts.

The NTHS is widely acknowledged by business, industry, and educational institutions as the benchmark for student success and leadership in career and technical fields. Membership in the honor society not only highlights students’ achievements but also provides them with valuable benefits, including personalized letters of recommendation for employment, college admissions, and scholarships.

The students’ diplomas and training certificates are stamped with the official NTHS seal, further underscoring their accomplishments, which is a testament to the hard work and dedication of these outstanding students and their commitment to excellence.

–Justin McKenzie

A new network of allies in Oceanside

By RYAN DEMINO Intern

Long Island’s newest networking group, “Let’s Meet and Network on Long Island,” held its second meeting on July 30. The event occurred at the local IHOP just off Long Beach road, and had 35 business owners from around Long Island looking to make connections in attendance.

Oceanside resident Mark Greenberg, the organizer of the now monthly event hopes that it will rise in popularity as time goes on. “If you’re in business, we’re here to help,” Greenberg said.

The networking organization is open to all business owners across Long Island and appropriately, its slogan is “Do a good deed by helping another business owner succeed.” Based on the group’s community reception and imminent rise in popularity, Greenberg says that meetings could eventually be a twice a month event. Those interested in joining can find more information at the groups website: lmnoli.com.

Greenberg is a member of several other networking organizations and the idea to start “Let’s Meet and Network on Long Island” came from a desire to see more people get together to grow their businesses. Greenberg, a member of the Oceanside Chamber of Commerce, builds websites for local businesses and through his work meets many different kinds of people. With his connections and involvement in other networking circles, he decided to begin reaching out to his contacts and form a new organization.

“In order to grow and reach out to more people, I thought it’d be a great idea that we could put all these networking groups together,” Greenberg said. “Make an invitation to all the local networking groups and we could all just meet together.”

County Legislator Patrick Mullaney attended the most recent meeting and said that networking groups like these are a positive thing for local business own-

ers. A former business owner himself, Mullaney knows first hand how valuable connections with other businesses are.

“You lose a lot without having personal connections,” Mullaney said. “So when you sit down with somebody it becomes a lot less scripted. It makes it that much more personal. And in small business, personal relationships are critical.”

Many other networking groups are hyper-localized for specific towns or professions, but what Greenberg is hoping to achieve is an island-wide network of business owners dedicated to providing the best advice possible to their colleagues so that all of their businesses can thrive.

The attendees’ jobs include insurance, sales, law, music, website design, advertising, entertainment and many more. Each attendee brought a stack of business cards to hand out, and just days after the meet up each business card had been scanned and uploaded to the “Let’s Meet and Network on Long Island” website.

One business owner, Cynthia Bentsen, was attending as a new member and had not been to the first meeting. Bentsen is the owner of Five Star Events, which covers waitstaff, bartending, decor, catering, photography and entertainment at the gatherings they are booked for. The website for Five Star Events was put together by Mark Greenberg, who reached out to Cynthia to tell her about this new opportunity.

“I think this could really help. Just looking at the list of attendees tonight, I see people that could really help me. There’s a woman here who plays the viola, that’s a benefit for me,” Bentsen said. “The beauty of this group is not only that business owners can share advice and “the tricks of the trade, but that many of the businesses themselves offer services that can be of use to the other members.”

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County Legislator Patrick Mullaney and Oceanside resident Mark Greenberg celebrated residents networking in Oceanside.

Students got inventive with their costumes for the Lynbrook Summer Playground’s Pirate Day on July 19.

News brief

Playground’s Pirate Day is ‘arr’some

The Lynbrook Summer Playground’s Pirate Day was a success on July 19 as students came ready with eyepatches, hook hands, bandanas, and more, signaling a day of fun.

Each year, the Summer Playground welcomes all Lynbrook Public Schools students and Village of Lynbrook children entering kindergarten through eighth grade. Kicking off the festivities at Marion Street and West End elementary schools, students showed off their pirate costumes in an exciting parade. Afterward, shipmates cooled down with ices and gathered for a variety of activi-

ties of their own choosing, including baseball and soccer games, a run through the sprinklers, and fun on the schools’ playgrounds.

Since opening this summer, students at Summer Playground have also tiedyed shirts, taken regular trips to Woodmere Lanes for bowling, participated in interactive martial arts lessons, and enjoyed a game-filled carnival day. Soon, they will show their skills in a talent show and compete in the Summer Playground Olympics.

–Ben Fiebert

Curing a rare heart disorder with a short life expectancy.

Performing a life-changing brain surgery without a single incision.

Helping a new mom give birth—and receive a new liver.

At Northwell’s North Shore University Hospital, the nation’s most brilliant minds come here to conquer health care’s greatest challenges. So that whatever comes through our doors: challenge accepted.

North Shore University Hospital

Courtesy Lynbrook Public Schools

Parents help parents at local online group

By RYAN DEMINO Intern

When Brian and Dena Driscoll, and Jim and Debra Vaccaro founded the Facebook group “Oceanside Without Limits,” a support group for parents of children with special needs, they couldn’t possibly have known the impact it would have on their community.

Now having amassed over 400 members from Oceanside and the surrounding area, the group is providing a community to hundreds of parents to ask questions and share their stories.

Launched on March 19, it saw an incredibly welcoming reception and its popularity has exploded over the last three months.

Brian, a detective with the NYPD, and Jim, a retired NYPD officer and Police Benevolent Association delegate, met each other through the department’s “NYPD With Arms Wide Open” program, whose mission is “to provide a forum where cops of all ranks, and their families, can attend meetings and discuss issues surrounding being the parents/ guardians/caretakers of a child with special needs.”

After personally experiencing the benefits of having a group of people to speak with, Brian, whose eight-year-old son Liam has ATRX syndrome, and Jim, whose fifteen-year-old son Matthew has downs-syndrome, decided with their families to create a similar organization in their own neighborhood.

“There’s plenty of children and adults with special needs that don’t have someone that they can talk to. So we said, let’s start something up,” Brian Driscoll said. “You’d be surprised how many parents out there are afraid to ask a question, they’re afraid to talk about their kid with special needs. They truly do feel alone.”

can throw their question on their Facebook and boom, somebody with the same experience, they have that knowledge,” Jim Vaccaro said.

Though the group is still in its infancy, Jim and Brian have expressed desires to eventually organize family events for the members.

“That’s the goal in the future, maybe have a mom’s night, a dad’s night. I think it would be a great opportunity to get together with other fathers of children going through this stuff,” Driscoll said.

In a statement from the families, ““Oceanside Without Limits” is more than just a social media group; it represents a beacon of hope and solidarity for families navigating the challenges of raising children with special needs. Through this initiative, the Driscolls and Vaccaros hope to foster a network of empathy and understanding, making it easier for families to find the support they need.”

As the group grows larger, there are plans to reach out to the Oceanside schools and PTA. Both the Driscolls and Vaccaros cannot overstate the importance of being educated on children with special needs.

“We’ll be walking in the supermarket, and people will tilt their head and smile. What is that? Because I look at my son like he’s just like anybody else in the world,” Vaccaro said. “Of course they don’t mean any harm by it, it’s just that people don’t understand.”

And this education begins with the destigmatization of children with special needs.

By creating a space where these people can be seen and heard, “Oceanside Without Limits” aims to alleviate these feelings of isolation and open up families to the possibilities of how parenting a child with special needs can be done.

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“I want to show the public and the community that there are no limitations for my son,” Vaccaro said. Given the opportunity to succeed, he will. There shouldn’t be any head tilting. You shouldn’t generalize anybody because everyone is an individual with their own different abilities.”

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The Oceanside without limits group gathered outside the Oceanside lighthouse.

‘Unstoppable’ women gather in Bayville

By Melissa Berman

With the theme “(WE) are UNSTOPPABLE” running through the day, RichnerLIVE’s second annual Women’s Summit, at the Crescent Beach Club in Bayville, brought together thought leaders, innovators and barrier-breaking women for conversations.

Nearly 300 people attended to hear 27 speakers on various topics — women’s leadership, impact and inclusion, financial fitness, social media — as well as a number of panels. There were 24 vendor booths and multiple raffle prizes at the Aug. 6 event.

Amy Amato, executive director of RichnerLIVE, opened the keynote lunch session with a message that set the tone for the speakers.

“When we envisioned this year’s summit, we were inspired by the resilience, determination and unwavering spirit that women across Long Island exhibit every single day,” Amato said. “Whether in the boardroom, classroom, homes or communities, women are breaking barriers and shattering glass ceilings, and proving time and time again that nothing can hold us back.”

The summit featured wellness activities in the morning before the sessions began — beach yoga, breathwork and reiki, color analysis and meditation.

Four-time Emmy award-winning reporter and anchor Antoinette Biordi, of News12, hosted the keynote lunch panel session.

“I really believe that conversations about women’s empowerment, leadership and mentorship deserve to be heard,” Biordi said. “Everyone here can do something to lift each other up, and for the next generation as well.”

Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen, founder of the Whisper Group, an exit readiness advisory practice for womenowned businesses, discussed why speaking at the summit was important for her and women in business.

“I think that the pressure that we are under as women in the workplace is causing us to lose touch with what we really want, and we are losing the ability to hear our own intuition and connect with our own intuition,” Kerpen said.

The one area, according to Kerpen, in which women need to improve is getting the appropriate value for their business when it is sold or they leave.

“My hope is to help women business owners take their lifestyle businesses and turn them into life-changing assets to build generational wealth,” she said.

Another keynote speaker, Lindsay Kaplan, co-founder of CHIEF, described how failure is a part of one’s success path.

“We have a tendency as humans to blame failure on ourselves just as much as we often attribute success to ourselves, and timing, luck, and being in the right place at the right time,” Kaplan said. “We are constantly looking at those around us, and it creates this inferiority. We need to focus on our own growth and define happiness for our own terms.”

Stuart Richner, CEO of Richner Com-

munications, said he was impressed by the turnout, and the participants’ dedication to enhancing their business skills.

“Seeing nearly 300 accomplished, dynamic, professional women here is truly inspiring,” Richner said. “Your presence at this RichnerLIVE event demonstrates your commitment to empowering one another and making a positive impact on society.”

The event supported the Moxxie Mentoring Foundation with a portion of the net proceeds, furthering the Heralds’ and RichnerLIVE’s commitment to women’s empowerment. The principal sponsors of the event were T-Mobile for Business, AT&T, Cona Law, the Stefan’s Group, National Grid Ventures, and Nassau University Medical Center. Please visit www. richnerlive.com/2024-wesummit/to view all sponsors and photos.

Tim Baker/Herald photos

The guests at the second annual Women’s Summit during the luncheon.

The Be Worthy panel, from left, Yolanda Brook Carrington, Meg Ryan, Dr. Neva Alexander, Kamona Ayres, Subrina Oliver and moderator Terri Alessi-Miceli. Cocktail sponsor T-Mobile for Business.

Sharen Cox Phillips, far left, Stuart Richner and Magdalonie ParisCampbell.

Alexa Anderwkavich/Herald photos Magdalonie Paris-Campbell, far left, Seema Bhansali, Arianna Savoca, Tamara Morrison and Jennifer Mock Donohue.

Workshop host Melissa Negrin-Wiener and Julie Allegretti.

Keynote speaker Carrie Kerpen.

Tim Baker/Herald photos

The Looking Good Feeling Good workshop speakers, from left, moderator Mae Caime, Lori Anne De Iulio Casdia, Brenda Gonzalez, and Dr. Roxanne Carfora.

Christina Armentano, far left, Dr. Maria Conzatti, Aoifa O’Donnell, Tifphani White-King and Sharen Cox Phillips.

Keynote speaker Susan Gatti.

Antoinette Biordi, moderator of the Permission to Achieve luncheon panel.

Donna Stefans at her Financial Fitness workshop.

The crowd listened to the UNSTOPPABLE speakers.

LET’S SING TAYLOR

Nassau County officials are reminding residents to remain vigilant of scams and the different types of ways scammers will attempt to steal your assets.

Nassau County warns of potential types of scams

By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com

Following several reported scams, that have led to arrests in Nassau County, including an elder scam in East Meadow on July 31, the county is reminding residents to be vigilant and know the warning signs of potential scams.

According to a news release shared by the Nassau County Police Department and Patrick Ryder, commissioner of police, the county is urging residents, particularly seniors, to remain vigilant as numerous scams continue to circulate in the area.

Just last month, two Bronx men were arrested after attempting to scam a 73-year-old East Meadow resident. The men allegedly called the East Meadow man, and told him his bank account had been compromised. Police were called and the men were arrested without incident. A subsequent investigation revealed that they were responsible for numerous additional scams.

Fraudulent activities by scammers are designed to exploit vulnerable individuals, costing them thousands of unrecoverable dollars.

One of the more prevalent scams is the home improvement scam, where fraudulent contractors approach homeowners with unsolicited offers for home inspections or repairs. In some cases, these individuals even cause damage themselves to justify their services. Residents are advised not to let unknown persons into their homes and to avoid paying for work that wasn’t approved or completed. To protect themselves, they should try to pay by check or credit card to ensure a record of the transaction.

Another scam that has been reported is the flat tire scam. Victims are often targeted shortly after exiting a bank or shopping center. The scam involves a staged flat tire, where a seemingly helpful person offers assistance. While the victim is distracted, an accomplice enters their vehicle and steals property.

The relative arrested scam is also a common tactic used by scammers. Victims receive a phone call informing them

that a relative has been arrested or involved in an accident. The caller demands bail money, often arranging to meet the victim in person or instructing them to pay with gift cards.

In the social security scam, scammers claim that the victim’s Social Security number has been used in fraudulent activities. They threaten financial loss unless the victim provides their bank account information or sends gift cards.

The IRS scam involves callers impersonating IRS agents, claiming that the victim is in danger of being arrested or fined due to tax discrepancies. Victims are pressured to make immediate payments, often via gift cards, which the IRS would never request.

Other scams include the lottery scam, where victims are falsely notified that they have won a cash prize but must pay a handling fee to claim it, and the computer scam, in which victims receive a message while online stating there is a problem that requires remote access control to fix. The scammer then gains access to personal information and online banking details, stealing funds.

Additionally, the arrest warrant scam sees victims receiving a message from supposed law enforcement officers requesting gift cards to void an arrest warrant, while the PSEG Scam targets residents and small business customers, demanding immediate payment to avoid service disconnection.

The Amazon scam alerts victims to fraudulent activity on their accounts and instructs them to pay off the balance with gift cards.

Illegal scams are costing honest citizens significant amounts of money, the county says. Nassau County officials are urging residents to stay informed and share this information with family members, neighbors, and particularly the elderly, to help prevent further victimization.

Those who believe they’ve been a victim of a scam should call 911 immediately. Residents with information that could lead to the arrest of those responsible are encouraged to contact Nassau County Crime Stoppers at (800) 244-8477.

Courtesy Metro

STEPPING OUT

More than just a

HIGHLAND FLING

Celtic traditions shine proudly at Old Westbury Gardens

By Danielle Schwab

Old Westbury Gardens lush grounds fill once again with those unmistakable bagpipe sounds and spectacle during a revamped edition of its annual summer festival. This year the popular event’s scope has expanded to celebrate the vibrant traditions of Long Island’s thriving Celtic communities.

Besides those pipers, traditional competitions and highland dancing — along with plenty of entertainment and assorted activities for lads and lasses — there’s much end of summer revelry to enjoy. Everyone will be fully occupied all day, next Saturday, Aug. 24.

This year Old Westbury Gardens staff is hosting solo (without participation from longtime co-hosts Long Island Clan MacDuff). The result is an energized refresh.

“Rather than focusing just on the culture of Scotland, we [wanted to] expand it a little bit so that we could avail ourselves of all of the great Irish bands and step dancers and all of these those things that span both the Scottish and the Irish cultures,” says Maura Brush, Old Westbury Gardens CEO and director.

Pipe and drum bands will fill the air with stirring music transporting attendees to those rolling hills of Ireland and Scotland. An extensive diverse lineup of musical and Irish dance entertainment complements these bands that participate yearly.

Headlining the festival this year, Derek Warfield and The Young Wolfe Tones bring the classic tradition of Irish balladry into a new age. Lead singer, the famed songwriter-storyteller Derek Warfield, is a legend of the Irish music scene who enjoyed phenomenal success for some 40 years with the Wolfe Tones. He’s now gathered some of the finest Irish musicians and singers together to reinvigorate beloved Irish tunes. They bring their musical tradition forward with a reverence for Ireland’s past and the energy and optimism of a new generation.

“Their sound is what so many people probably expect to hear when they come to Old Westbury Gardens,” Brush says.

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Harper’s Ferry, a popular local Irish-American folk band also participates, with their appealing mix of traditional and modern Irish tunes combined with Americana and classic rock.

“Our band members are all native Long Islanders with a deep appreciation for local historical sites, especially Old Westbury Gardens,” says s Harper’s Ferry frontman Martin Kearn. “We see each performance as a blessing to spread our passion for Irish and Scottish heritage with the community.”

Other performers include bagpiper-percussionist Jessie Ofgang and soloist Charlie Zahm, who entices audiences with his instrumental prowess and rich baritone. Both have their own unique twist on bringing Celtic culture to melody.

“Their instruments are meant to be played outside in the green fields and we just have the perfect place,” Brush enthuses.

And, of course, it wouldn’t be a Celtic festival without some rhythmic Irish step dancing. The skilled dancers from four distinguished Irish dance academies will impress with their incredible footwork.

As is tradition, what are known as the Highland Games remain one of the festival’s main elements.The games continue to test athletes’ strength in heavyweight contests that date back

centuries, especially the caber toss.

The caber is a long, tapered pine pole or log. The “tosser” balances it vertically by holding the smaller end and then runs forward and tosses it so that it turns in the air with the larger end striking the ground first. Ideally, the pole strikes in a strictly vertical position, and the athletes are scored based on how closely the throw lands at a 12 o’clock position.

Think of it as throwing a telephone pole according to Brush. “It’s a giant log that gets thrown, and then the distance is measured, and whoever throws the throws it the furthest is the winner,” she says.

For the experienced competitor, these logs can be heavier than 125 pounds and longer than 20 feet long.

Tossing the Sheaf and Putting the Stone also attract attention. Tossing the Sheaf involves flinging a bale of hay over a horizontal pole with a large pitchfork. Putting The Stone, is similar to the traditional Olympicstyle shot put, but uses a large stone.

Want to get in on the competition? Visitors are encouraged to go for it.

“There are professionals that will be coming but there are opportunities for amateurs to sign up and participate as well,” Brush adds.

After all that exertion, folks are bound to work up an appetite. Take a moment and check out the food offerings, including fish and chips and Scottish shortbread.

It’s always a fun-filled family day with other unique experiences, including a Birds of Prey exhibition, British automobile showcase, and even curling hosted by the Long Island Curling Club. Kids will enjoy plenty of activities, including a version of the caber toss with lightweight “cabers” and an old-fashioned tug of war.

All involved are eager to welcome both older and newer generations, to preserve the fetival’s rich history.

“We’re not just relying on those who have always come, but also want people who are checking it out for the first time. This can become a new tradition for them,” Brush says.

Double Vision

The 1970s and ‘80s come alive when Double Vision brings their “Foreigner Experience” to the Paramount stage. Whether you’re a lifelong Foreigner enthusiast or a newcomer eager to experience the magic, Double Vision promises a night of electrifying entertainment. The spirit of rock ‘n’ roll lives on, one unforgettable performance at a time, with this group of talented musicians and die-hard Foreigner fans. Double Vision has perfected the art of bringing to life the unforgettable hits that have defined generations. From “I Want to Know What Love Is” to “Cold as Ice,” their renditions are a harmonious blend of passion, precision, and nostalgic energy. Drawing inspiration from Foreigner’s unmistakable sound and stage presence, Double Vision delivers a performance that pays homage to the band’s legacy while infusing their own charisma and enthusiasm.

Saturday, Aug. 17, 8 p.m. $60, $40, $25, $20. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at Ticketmaster.com or ParamountNY.com.

Zac Brown Tribute

Enjoy an evening of foot-stomping fun with the music of the Zac Brown Tribute Band. Get ready to sing along to all your favorite Zac Brown Band hits, from “Chicken Fried” to “Toes” and everything in between. Founded in 2012, ZBTB is the premier tribute to the chart-topping Zac Brown Band. With 13 numberone singles and three Grammy wins, the Zac Brown Band is one of the hottest names in the music business; ZBTB is the first and most authentic tribute to their recorded music and live show. Not only does ZBTB capture the sound and creativity of ZBB, but they bring a similar atmosphere of family to their shows while engaging the audience in a way that is all their own. With classics like “Enter Sandman” and “Ants Marching”, as well as, modern hits like “There’s Nothing Holding Me Back” and “Little Lion Man” in the set, there’s something for everyone at a ZBTB show

Friday, Aug. 16, 7 p.m. Free admission. Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

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Disco fever

Boogie along with Disco Unlimited, Saturday, Aug. 24, 7-9 p.m., at Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park. When Disco Unlimited hits the stage, you are instantly transported to a time when Saturday nights meant white suits, platform shoes and your very best dance moves. And dance you will — when you experience the magic created when the boogie begins.

Capturing a time in music that to this day has not been matched, the exhilarating band will draw you in with their powerful vocals, tight harmonies and dance grooves all coupled with a synchronized stage and light show that creates an unforgettable concert experience — the best of disco nights. Close your eyes and you will truly believe you are listening to the original artists. Hear the best of Tavares, France Jolie, The Trammps, Harold Melvin’s Blue Notes, Yvonne Elliman, Anita Ward, Deney Terrio, George McCrae, Bonnie Pointer, Melba Moore, Maxine Nightingale, Carol Douglas, and so much more. Joe Cool, Sista Soul, Funky Sista, Strat Cat, Wild Jerry and The MacDaddy comprise this group of unique and experienced musicians who love and live this era of music. As always, bring seating. For information, visit NassauCcountyNY.gov/parks.

‘Sunday Science’ Workshop

It’s a bug’s life at the Center for Science Teaching & Learning, Sunday, Aug. 18, 10-11:30 a.m. Kids are of all ages are invited to explore bugs at Tanglewood Preserve during the hands-on drop-off program. Kids will meet exotic invertebrates from around the world and find out what makes each one special, then search the preserve’s grounds to see what bugs live in our backyard. Registration required. 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre. Register at ctsl.org or call (516) 764-0045.

Outdoor movie Island Park Library hosts showing of the film “Wish,” Tuesday, Aug 27, 7:45 p.m., in the Library parking lot. Asha meets Star when she makes a powerful wish With Star’s help Asha must save her kingdom and prove that when the will of one courageous human connects with the magic of stars, wondrous things can happen. Movie begins at 8 p.m. sharp Bring beach chair or blanket.

Seasonal Sprouts

Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for a Seasonal Sprouts session, Wednesday, Aug. 21, 11 a.m.-noon. Children (ages 4 to 6) can tour the gardens with guided activities exploring smells, sight, sound, and touch, even taste in planting a tasty veggie. $8 per child, $15 adult. Registration required. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information, visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.

Art talk

Grab your lunch and join Nassau County Museum of Art Docent Riva Ettus for her popular “Brown Bag Lecture” at the museum, Thursday, Sept. 5, 1 p.m. She’ll discuss the current exhibition, “Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol.” Participants are invited to ask questions at the end of the in-depth program and also participate in a guided exhibition tour following the lecture. No registration required, but limited seating. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

Aug. 12

Summer Gazebo Readings

Published authors and poets read from their works at the annual Summer Gazebo Readings series, Mondays, through Aug. 26, 7 p.m., at School House Green Bring a chair and enjoy a relaxing literary evening. Foxhurst Road across from Oceanside Fire Department headquarters.

Pet Adoption Program

Adopt your “fur-ever” friend this summer. There’s no better time to adopt a new pet than during the ”summer of love” at the Town of Hempstead Animal Shelter. Now through Sept. 1, all pet adoption fees are waived and include free spaying/neutering, vaccinations and microchipping. There is a $10 license fee for dogs. Check out the friendly faces of the dogs and cats before stepping foot in the shelter online at HempsteadNY. gov/179/Animal-Shelter or on the shelter’s Facebook page at Hempstead Town Animal Shelter. For more information, contact (516) 785-5220.

Movie Night

Enjoy a film outdoors on Eisenhower Park’s big screen, Wednesday, Aug. 21, dusk, at the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre. See last year’s summer sensation “Barbie.” Starring Margot Robbie as the title character and Ryan Gosling as Ken, the film follows them on a journey of self-discovery through Barbieland and the real world following an existential crisis. It is also a commentary regarding patriarchy and the effects of feminism. Eisenhower Park, Lakeside Theatre, East Meadow. For information, visit NassauCountyNY.gov.

San Gennaro Feast

Experience the vibrant San Gennaro Feast, Thursday through Sunday, Sept. 5-8, on Long Beach Road in Island Park. The opening procession will take place at 6:45 p.m. on Thursday, with Saturday evening also highly recommended for attendance. This feast is a beloved tradition, offering food, entertainment, and a sense of community spirit.

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Circus antics

Get in on the action with I. FLY Trapeze, Long Island’s only flying trapeze and circus arts school. Families will enjoy “Wild West Circus,” Saturday, Aug. 17, at 8 p.m., at Eisenhower Park. I.FLY Trapeze puts spectators up close to the aerialists who perform amazing feats of athleticism and agility 25 feet in the air. Performances include Chains, Silk and Lyra, with comedy and on the grounds acts with Balancing and Baton, also a Flying Trapeze Finale. Next to the Nassau County Aquatic Center off Merrick Ave., East Meadow. Free parking available in lot 1A adjacent to the trapeze. For more information, visit IFlyTrapeze. com.

Senior Health Expo

East Meadow Beth El Jewish Center hosts the RichnerLIVE Senior Health Expo, Friday, Sept. 6, 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m. 1400 Prospect Ave. For sponsorship or additional info contact Anna Graci at agraci@ liherald.com or call (515) 5694000 ext. 224.

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Nassau County Museum of Art ‘s latest exhibition

“Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol,” reveals the many meanings, connotations, and associations of this powerful color in art. Evoking strong emotion, red can represent the human condition. Its myriad variations have come to signify authority as well as love, energy and beauty. Red warns us of peril and commands us to stop, but it can also indicate purity and good fortune. Red boldly represents political movements and religious identities. From the advent of our appreciation for this color in antiquity to its continued prominence in artistic and popular culture, this exhibition will span various world cultures through a range of media. It features more than 70 artists, both established and emerging, ranging from the classical to the contemporary. American portraitists such as Gilbert Stuart imbued red in their stately paintings of prominent individuals to conjure authority. Robert Motherwell, Ad Reinhardt, and other major abstract painters displayed a deep fascination with red in their commanding compositions that evoke a sense of chromatic power. And, of course, Andy Warhol is known for his bold and imposing silkscreened portrait of Vladimir Lenin saturated in bright red to his signature Campbell’s Soup Cans. On view through Jan. 5. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.

Duck the Turbines fundraiser

DOX invites all to Duck the Turbines Duck Race Fundraiser, Thursday, Aug. 29, starting at 4 p.m. The fun-filled eventhosted by Protect Our Coast - LINY, includes First prize is $1,000, with $250 each for second and third prizes, and $50 heat prizes. Purchase your ducks for $25 each, or save with special rates. A $10 donation at the event includes one drink, live music, and entry into the door prize drawing. Luxury raffle items and a 50/50 raffle will also be available. All ducks and donations are tax-deductible. Winners need not be present. 10 Broadway, Island Park. Visit pocliny.org for more information, email email POCLINY@gmail.com or follow @POCLINY.

Labor Day

Fireworks

Village of Island Park hosts Labor Day concert by Superbad, block party and Fireworks immediately after concert all on Masone Beach on Waterford Road on Aug.31. Festivities begin at 7:30 p.m. Rain Date Sept. 1 Call 515-431-0600 for more info.

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Seeing perfectly good food wasted while women in a nearby shelter struggled to find enough to eat deeply moved Linda Breitstone. This personal connection to the issue spurred her into action. Armed with determination, a station wagon, and a few coolers, the Rockville Centre resident began her mission. She discovered many food establishments were discarding excess food at the end of the day and found many people in need of it. This led to the establishment of Island Harvest Food Bank in 1992.

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Breitstone, a longtime resident of the Princeville area in Kauai, Hawaii, passed away peacefully, surrounded by friends, on July 16, 2024, died at 73, after a brief battle with cancer. Her son, JB Breitstone of Barnstable, Massachusetts, said, “My mother was very proud of the work of Island Harvest and loved watching it grow from an idea — creating a grassroots effort — to what it has become today.” Tapping into a lifelong hobby of collecting crystals, Linda was the proprietor of Crystal Woman, an enterprise trading in crystals for meditation or creativity spaces in homes, art, or music studios.

Randi Shubin Dresner, president and CEO of Island Harvest, noted that the organization, under Breitstone’s guidance, has grown to become the region’s leading hunger relief and social service organization. While food rescue is a legacy program, representing a small part of what Island Harvest does today, it is expected to distribute nearly 20 million pounds of food this year, providing supplemental food support and related services to an estimated 221,190 people on Long Island identified as food insecure, including 44,780 children.

“Linda Breitstone was a woman with a true sense of making things right,” said Shubin Dresner, who has led the food bank since 2001. “She cared deeply about Island Harvest, and even after she moved to Hawaii, she kept an eye on our progress. I am deeply honored to have worked with her and to continue her legacy.”

Known for her tenacity, upon receiving a grant for the organization’s first refrigerated truck through Ed Travaglianti, the former head of the nowdefunct European American Bank, Linda Breitstone had the “chutzpah” to ask for office space, which EAB ultimately provided in an unused space on the second floor at one of its banks on Second Street in Mineola. “If chutzpah is what it took to get help for people who were hungry, then Linda did not mind the pejorative,” said one original board member.

“Linda’s passing leaves a void that can never be filled,” said Steve Juchem,

Background on the Equal Rights Amendment

■ In New York, residents are protected from discrimination based on race, color, creed, or religion, according to the equal protection clause in the state’s constitution.

■ The Equal Rights Amendment, which will be listed on ballots as Prop 1 in November, will expand the scope of protection. If approved by voters, it will also prohibit discrimination based on ethnicity, national origin, age, disability, sex, pregnancy and pregnancy outcomes, sexual orientation, and gender identity.

board chair of Island Harvest. “Her legacy, however, will continue to inspire and guide us. Her impact on the lives of countless Long Islanders who have relied on Island Harvest over the past 32 years is immeasurable. We will always remember her with deep gratitude and respect.”

Longtime Island Harvest board member and current vice chair Jill Bernstein said, “Linda brought us all together, and she was a bright star. This organization was her heart and soul, and she made it happen because she believed in the good in everyone, no matter where they came from or their background. She understood that people needed to be fed and nourished. She was the best of all of us, and I, along with so many others, will miss her terribly.”

“I never had the privilege of meeting Linda. However, our entire community owes her a true debt of gratitude,” said Island Harvest board member Douglas M. Nadjari. “Her memory will live on and endure through our organization.”

Island Harvest created the “Linda Breitstone Spirit Award,” presented at its annual Taste of the Harvest Celebration fundraising event. In addition to honoring the founder, the award recognizes individuals who have made significant contributions to the organization in furthering its mission to end hunger and reduce food waste on Long Island.

Loretta Sehlmeyer, a longtime volunteer with Island Harvest Food Bank and a member of its advisory board, said of Linda Breitstone, “I have always loved telling her story, and I am especially proud to have received the Linda Breitstone Spirit Award in 2005 and to be recognized as someone who continues to reflect her passion to support and be a part of Island Harvest Food Bank’s mission.”

Island Harvest mourns loss of its founder

Seeing perfectly good food wasted while women in a nearby shelter struggled to find enough to eat deeply moved Linda Breitstone. This personal connection to the issue spurred her into action. Armed with determination, a station wagon, and a few coolers, the Rockville Centre resident began her mission. She discovered many food establishments were discarding excess food at the end of the day and found many people in need of it. This led to the establishment of Island Harvest Food Bank in 1992.

Breitstone, a longtime resident of the Princeville area in Kauai, Hawaii, passed away peacefully, surrounded by friends, on July 16, 2024, died at 73, after a brief battle with cancer. Her son, JB Breitstone of Barnstable, Massachusetts, said, “My mother was very proud of the work of Island Harvest and loved watching it grow from an idea — creating a grassroots effort — to what it has become today.” Tapping into a lifelong hobby of collecting crystals, Linda was the proprietor of Crystal Woman, an enterprise trading in crystals for meditation or creativity spaces in homes, art, or music studios.

Randi Shubin Dresner, president and CEO of Island Harvest, noted that the organization, under Breitstone’s guidance, has grown to become the region’s leading hunger relief and social service organization. While food rescue is a legacy program, representing a small part of what Island Harvest does today, it is expected to distribute nearly 20 million pounds of food this year, providing supplemental food support and related services to an estimated 221,190 people on Long Island identified as food insecure, including 44,780 children.

“Linda Breitstone was a woman with a true sense of making things right,” said Shubin Dresner, who has led the food bank since 2001. “She cared deeply about Island Harvest, and even after she moved to Hawaii, she kept an eye on our progress. I am deeply honored to have worked with her and to continue her legacy.”

Known for her tenacity, upon receiving a grant for the organization’s first refrigerated truck through Ed Travaglianti, the former head of the nowdefunct European American Bank, Linda Breitstone had the “chutzpah” to ask for office space, which EAB ultimately provided in an unused space on the second floor at one of its banks on Second Street in Mineola. “If chutzpah is what it took to get help for people who were hungry, then Linda did not mind the pejorative,” said one original board member.

“Linda’s passing leaves a void that can never be filled,” said Steve Juchem, board chair of Island Harvest. “Her legacy, however, will continue to inspire and guide us. Her impact on the lives of countless Long Islanders who have relied on Island Harvest over the past 32 years is immeasurable. We will always remember her with deep gratitude and respect.”

Longtime Island Harvest board

member and current vice chair Jill Bernstein said, “Linda brought us all together, and she was a bright star. This organization was her heart and soul, and she made it happen because she believed in the good in everyone, no matter where they came from or their background. She understood that people needed to be fed and nourished. She was the best of all of us, and I, along with so many others, will miss her terribly.”

“I never had the privilege of meeting Linda. However, our entire community owes her a true debt of gratitude,” said Island Harvest board member Douglas M. Nadjari. “Her memory will live on and endure through our organization.”

Island Harvest created the “Linda Breitstone Spirit Award,” presented at its annual Taste of the Harvest Celebration fundraising event. In addition to honoring the founder, the award recognizes individuals who have made significant contributions to the organization in furthering its mission to end hunger and reduce food waste on Long Island.

Loretta Sehlmeyer, a longtime volunteer with Island Harvest Food Bank and a member of its advisory board, said of Linda Breitstone, “I have always loved telling her story, and I am especially proud to have received the Linda Breitstone Spirit Award in 2005 and to be recognized as someone who continues to reflect her passion to support and be a part of Island Harvest Food Bank’s mission.”

Public Notices

LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF FORMATION OF LIMITED LIABILITY COMPANY. NAME: Accomando Design & Manufacturing LLC. Articles of Organization were filed with the Secretary of State of New York, (SSNY) on 04/07/2024. NY Office location: Nassau County. SSNY has been designated as agent of the LLC upon whom process against it may be served. SSNY shall mail a copy of the process to: 2870 Lenox Rd, Oceanside, NY 11572 Purpose: To engage in any lawful act or activity.

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LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF PUBLIC HEARING BY THE BOARD OF APPEALS

Pursuant to New York State Town Law Article 16, New York State Public Officers Law Article 7, and the Town of Hempstead Building Zone Ordinance, NOTICE is hereby given that the BOARD OF APPEALS of the Town of Hempstead will hold a public hearing

in the Old Town Hall, 350 Front Street, Room 230, Second Floor, Hempstead, New York on 08/21/2024 at 9:30 A.M. to consider the following applications and appeals: THE FOLLOWING CASES WILL BE CALLED STARTING AT 9:30 A.M. 540/24. OCEANSIDEAnne Bauer, Variances, front yards setbacks on Bellevue Ave. & Deen St., front yard encroachment on Bellevue Ave., maintain addition, 2nd story addition & stoop with stairs all attached to dwelling., S/E cor. Bellevue Ave. & Deen St., a/k/a 94 Bellevue Ave. ALL PAPERS PERTAINING TO THE ABOVE HEARING ARE AVAILABLE FOR INSPECTION AT THE BOARD OF APPEALS, TOWN HALL, 1 WASHINGTON STREET, HEMPSTEAD, NY 11550. This notice is only for new cases in Oceanside within Town of Hempstead jurisdiction. There are additional cases in different hamlets, towns and villages on the Board of Appeals calendar. The full calendar is available at https://hempsteadny.gov/ 509/Board-of-Appeals

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LEGAL NOTICE STATE OF NEW YORK SUPREME COURT: COUNTY OF NASSAU U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE, SUCCESSOR IN INTEREST TO STATE STREET BANK AND TRUST COMPANY, AS TRUSTEE FOR GSMPS MORTGAGE LOAN TRUST 2001-1, Plaintiff, v. MAXIMO A. MACARIO, ET AL, Defendants. NOTICE OF SALE IN FORECLOSURE PLEASE TAKE NOTICE THAT In pursuance of a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale entered in the Office of the County Clerk of Nassau County on May 17, 2018, I, Ronald J. Ferraro, Esq., the Referee named in said Judgment,

will sell in one parcel at public auction on September 12, 2024 at North Side Steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Ct. Dr., Mineola, NY 11501, at 02:00 PM the premises described as follows: 44 Warwick Road Island Park, NY 11558 43-31-377 ALL THAT TRACT OR PARCEL OF LAND situate in the Village of Island Park, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau, State of New York. The premises are sold subject to the provisions of the filed judgment, Index No. 015498/2013 in the amount of $319,315.95 plus interest and costs. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the Court System’s COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale.

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Linda Breitstone, the founder of food bank Island Harvest, died last week at 73. The Island Harvest community is remembering her impact and legacy. Breitstone, right, with Randi Shubin Dresner, the president and chief executive of Island Harvest.

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Our project is never-ending

Q. We are near the end of our building project, which included a second floor and removing walls between our kitchen and living room. Our contractor hasn’t been answering the phone, and we learned that our building permit is still “open,” and remains that way until the contractor follows through, as our contract states. We are so frustrated, because it took much longer than we were promised, we spent much more than expected staying in a cheap hotel (if you call it that) and we moved back in even though, technically, we are told it is illegal. Our electrician and plumber, we now learn, didn’t get permits signed off, either, even though they gave their names and licenses to the building department. The building inspector says the construction doesn’t match the plans, and updated plans must be submitted for us to even be considered finished. What can you tell us about how to move forward and finish this off?

A. Spoken words and contracts used to mean something. I prefer to believe they still do, but I am seeing parties ignoring their commitments and, worst of all, not even having the decency to communicate. I try to warn clients to have a contingency plan for worst-case scenarios.

Ask The Architect

In my long career, I have seen only two projects come in on budget, one commercial and one residential. What both had in common was that they both had an experienced construction manager on the job. That cost the owner more — much more — but in the end, the plans were followed to the letter, the sign-offs were all done, the certifications were issued and the occupancy took place on the day it was scheduled to. Considering the other 4,500-plus projects I’ve done, that is a sad record.

At this point you have no choice. The plans that were not followed require re-measuring, and the plans need to reflect the changes. In many circumstances I have witnessed, this is easier said than done, because if the construction changes ignored structural load paths, hidden conditions now buried behind wall coverings or code violations, the architect or engineer of record is not obligated to just go along with the defective work. Unfortunately, this unfairly strains the relationship with the architect or engineer.

The missing-in-action construction professionals, your licensed contractor, licensed plumber and licensed electrician, have obligations, not the least of which is to communicate with you, but the authorities giving the licenses and your building authority rarely protect you, often telling you that it is a “civil matter.” So much for consumer protection, because you are stuck and will need to decide who you can hire to take over the electrical sign-off, the plumbing sign-off and finally, after those are done and the plans have been modified and reapproved, then you will need to call for the final inspection yourself. Follow-up can be time-consuming, but it may be the only way around the situation. Good luck!

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Rethinking the embarrassing saga of Pete Rose

Taking an evening off from Donald Trump, Kamala Harris and the frenzied world of politics in general, I recently sat down with my 20-year-old grandson Jack, who is staying with us for the summer, to bingewatch the HBO Max four-part special on Pete Rose, “Charlie Hustle.”

Every baseball fan, as well as many people who aren’t even sports fans, is aware of Pete Rose — either because of his truly outstanding 24-year major league career as a player, plus several years as a manager, or for the swirl of controversy that has surrounded him since he left baseball over three decades ago.

Rose came up to the major leagues with the Cincinnati Reds in 1963 and played there until 1978, and again from 1983 until 1986, after stints with the Philadelphia Phillies and Montreal Expos. He also managed the Reds until 1989, following two seasons as player-manager. During his playing career, he set records that should have guaranteed his permanent placement in baseball’s version of Mount Rushmore, the Hall of Fame in

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one hundred people serve in the United States Senate. They represent the entire political spectrum, from far left to far right. There are definitely zealots, such as Bernie Sanders, the Democrat from Vermont, and Tom Cotton, the Arkansas Republican, and then there are the middle-of-the-road members, such as Chuck Schumer, Democrat of New York, and Lisa Murkowski, Republican of Alaska.

Then there is Sen. Ted Cruz, the Texas Republican. I single out Cruz because he stands head and shoulders above all the other senators, for all the wrong reasons. Cruz is running for re-election this year, but this discussion has nothing to do with his current campaign. An article in a Long Island weekly newspaper isn’t going to sink the re-election efforts of this very strange public official. For those who follow the action in the Senate, Cruz has the distinction of being the most disliked member of the body, on both sides of the aisle. How did

upstate Cooperstown.

Rose had more hits — 4,256 — and played in more games — 3,562 — than any player in major league history. He was selected for 17 All-Star games, won three batting titles and was named the National League’s Most Valuable Player once and the World Series MVP once. His entire list of achievements could fill this column and more.

Those achievements are virtually unmatched in the history of baseball, and dwarf those of many players in the Hall of Fame. If ever there should have been a sure thing for baseball immortality, it was Pete Rose.

Should his ban from baseball, and the Hall of Fame, continue? Opinions differ.

Probably the easiest way to describe Rose the person, however, is that as great a ballplayer as he was, he was that much of a jerk. He was a degenerate gambler. He bet not just on horses, greyhounds and at casinos, but also, despite almost two decades of denials, on baseball, which has been that sport’s cardinal sin since the 1919 World Series, when players on the Chicago White Sox — the infamous “Black Sox” — threw the World Series and were banned from baseball for life.

Generations later, after an extensive investigation, Commissioner Bart Gia-

matti concluded that Rose had gambled on baseball and banned him for life. There was no evidence, however, that Rose ever bet against his own team, which was what doomed the Black Sox. Soon after his banishment from baseball, Rose was charged by the IRS with tax evasion and sentenced to five months in federal prison. Most jarring to him was the Hall of Fame’s decision not to admit any player who had been banned for life.

In the years since, Rose has been like a man without a country. He has made good money at autograph shows, sports forums and media appearances. But he has been almost desperate for Hall of Fame membership. In his 2000 book, “My Prison Without Bars,” he finally admitted to betting on baseball, while still insisting he had never bet against his own team.

The debate has raged among baseball fans about Rose’s Hall of Fame eligibility. My son Sean, who was with me at Shea Stadium on July 25, 1978, when Rose tied the National League 37-consecutive-game hitting streak record, thinks that enough time has passed to end the lifetime ban and allow Rose into the Hall of Fame. My grandson Jack, who played a lot of good baseball in his teenage

years, agrees, as do I. The “Charlie Hustle” documentary, however, made us rethink. In it, allegations are made by a longtime associate that Rose engaged in cocaine deals to finance his gambling habit. There was an accusation by a woman claiming sexual involvement with Rose 40 years ago, when she was underage. Though corroborating evidence hasn’t been made public, there was an out-of-court settlement, and Rose became his own worst enemy when he answered a female reporter’s inquiry on the matter with a stupid sexist comment.

In most of the documentary, Rose comes across as friendly and carefree, like a Huckleberry Finn or a Little Rascal. But then there are jarring, crude comments and proof that he is a chronic and habitual liar, which takes away much of that rustic charm.

Jack now thinks Rose’s bans from baseball and the Hall of Fame should continue. Sean and I concluded that the baseball ban should continue, but he should be allowed entry into the Hall, provided that his plaque makes clear that the honor is only for his achievements on the field.

The debate continues.

Peter King is a former congressman, and a former chair of the House Committee on Homeland Security. Comments? pking@ liherald.com.

for someone to dislike? Try Ted Cruz.

he get into this unique situation? His career track is similar to many other senators. He’s a graduate of Princeton University and Harvard Law School. He was known as an excellent debater, and his criminal law professor, Alan Dershowitz, said Cruz was “off-the-charts brilliant.”

He got his first taste of politics in 1999, when he went to work on the George W. Bush presidential campaign. He practiced law, and then decided to run for the Senate in 2013. With the help of the Tea Party movement, Cruz became the first Hispanic American from Texas to be elected to the Senate. All seemed normal up to that point, but as time passed, he became more and more irritating to his fellow senators. By 2013 he had earned the distinction of being called a “wacko bird” by his colleague the late Sen. John McCain.

went so far as to publish a “Compendium of People Who Hate Ted Cruz.” His former roommate called him “a nightmare of a human being.”

H e called Trump a ‘pathological liar,’ but guess who ‘Lyin’ Ted’ supports now?

What has made Cruz so disliked? In 2013 he staged a 21-hour talking marathon on the Senate floor against the Affordable Care Act. During his talkathon, he read Dr. Seuss’s “Green Eggs and Ham,” a bedtime story that he claimed to have read to his two daughters. That event translated into a shutdown of the federal government for 16 days, costing taxpayers grief and millions of dollars.

In 2016, Cruz decided to run for president. One of his opponents was Donald J. Trump. The contest between the two was as ugly as you could imagine. They attacked each other’s wives, citizenship and integrity.

trip to Cancun. That winter, Texas was caught in a serious winter freeze. The state’s power grid had failed, and millions of Texans were without heat or power. In the middle of the crisis, Cruz travel to Cancun with his family to get away from the state’s misery. He was caught by cameras at the airport, ready to board his flight.

He claimed he planned the vacation for his children, and he was only flying to Cancun and coming right back. His wife’s texts described their home as “FREEZING,” and it was clear that it was a trip to get away from the cold while his constituents were suffering.

As for his legislative record, it includes such things as opposing gun laws even though his state had suffered mass killings, and calling the Supreme Court’s legalization of gay marriage a form of “tyranny.”

The barbs weren’t just from fellow senators. The Dallas Observer wrote that Cruz “defied the odds to become the most unpopular member of the U.S. Senate, a body of people whose collective approval rating falls below approval ratings for hemorrhoids, traffic jams, root canals and Nickelback.” Rolling Stone

Trump called Cruz “Lyin’ Ted,” mocked his wife’s appearance and falsely suggested that his father was involved in President John F. Kennedy’s assassination. Cruz called Trump a “sniveling coward,” a “pathological liar” and “utterly amoral.” But by the end of the primaries, Cruz had endorsed Trump.

No commentary on Cruz would be complete without mentioning his 2021

There is so much more to say about this man and his character. But the best way to end this is to say that I bet even my fellow columnist Peter King dislikes Ted Cruz.

Jerry Kremer was an assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.

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Freshman Parenting 101: the college send-off

as summer winds down, many Long Island families face a bittersweet milestone: sending a child off to college for the first time. This transition marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, filled with excitement, anxiety and a mix of emotions for both parents and students.

For parents, the challenge lies in striking a delicate balance between supporting your child’s independence and maintaining a nurturing presence. Here is some key advice to help you navigate this new terrain:

1. Embrace the change. Remember that this transition is a natural and positive step in your child’s development. Your role in his or her life is evolving, not diminishing. Celebrate this milestone and the opportunities it brings.

2. Prepare practically, not just emotionally. Ensure that your child has the necessary life skills before she leaves. Can she do laundry, manage a budget, and cook a simple meal? These practical abilities will boost her confidence and self-reliance.

3. Discuss expectations clearly. Have open conversations about academics, finances and communication. How often will you check in? What GPA do you expect him to maintain? Establishing clear guidelines can prevent misunderstandings down the road.

4. Encourage campus involvement. Urge

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your child to take part in orientation activities and join clubs or organizations. These connections can ease homesickness and help her find her place in her new community.

5. Be a supportive listener. Your child will likely experience ups and downs. Resist the urge to immediately solve his problems. Instead, offer a sympathetic ear and guide him toward finding his own solutions.

6. Respect your child’s privacy. While it’s tempting to check in constantly, remember that she needs space to grow. Trust that you’ve prepared her well and allow her to make her own decisions — and mistakes.

7. Take care of yourself. This transition affects you, too. Connect with other parents going through the same experience, take up a new hobby, or consider volunteering. Your well-being matters.

8. Plan for visits wisely. Schedule campus visits, but be mindful of your child’s new routines and commitments. Family Weekend can be a great opportunity to reconnect, and see him in his new environment.

9. Embrace technology. Familiarize yourself with video calling platforms and texting. These tools can help maintain closeness despite the physical distance.

10. Prepare for changes at home. If you have younger children, be aware that family dynamics may change. Include

Re Peter King’s column “There’s just no predicting what will happen next” (Aug. 1-7): I live in southwest Nassau County, so never had the opportunity to have Congressman King on a ballot. It would have been unlikely for me to support him, because I’m a registered Democrat, and have moved from mid-left to further over as the years have passed. About to turn 80, I’ve got quite a rearview mirror, as does King.

I never saw him as a hack politician — he explained his positions clearly, with passion for what he believed was best for us all. He always had my respect. King’s vote against President Bill Clinton’s impeachment still stands in the forefront of my mind. His position took political guts.

In his piece, King laid out the flaws in President Biden’s bid for another term, along with numerous elements surrounding the aftermath of the June 27 debate. The dynamics of the race have changed dramatically in the days since Biden’s withdrawal. Former President Trump has sunk to new lows in

the kids in discussions, and find ways to make this transition positive for everyone.

11. Stay informed, but don’t hover: Familiarize yourself with campus resources, but encourage your child to seek help independently when needed. Knowing when to step back is crucial.

12. Expect growth and change. Your child will likely return home with new perspectives, habits, and possibly even a changed appearance. Embrace these changes as signs of her personal growth.

Remember, this transition is as much about your growth as a parent as it is about your child’s journey to adulthood. It’s an opportunity to redefine your relationship and watch with pride as he spreads his wings.

For those feeling overwhelmed, know that you’re not alone. Our communities are full of parents who have walked this path before you. Reach out to friends, family members or local support groups for advice and comfort.

As your child embarks on this new adventure, take comfort in knowing that the strong foundation you’ve provided will serve her well. The values you’ve instilled, and the love and support you’ve offered over the years will guide her as she navigates this exciting new chapter of her life.

All of us at the Herald wish you and your college-bound students a smooth transition filled with growth, learning and new beginnings.

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Offshore wind is the answer for Long Island

amajor societal shift always brings questions. The shift we are making to renewable energy is on a scale rarely seen in history, and questions are welcome and a part of the process of understanding. What are renewable energies? Why is the energy industry trending toward these energy forms? What are the options for Long Island when it comes to renewable energy? What are the risks? What are the benefits? It is clear that there needs to be more information and education about the industry.

Renewable energy is the energy derived from natural sources that are replenished on a human time scale — sunlight, wind, rain, tides, waves, water currents and geothermal heat. They are abundant, and produce little or no emissions. The sources that have been harnessed so far by humans are solar, hydropower, geothermal, and wind, and Long Island has a unique opportunity, because of its location, to harness offshore wind. Why do we need renewable energy?

Climate change is no longer deniable, and Long Island is affected by sea level rise, flooding, stronger storms and more rain. The number one reason: fossil fuels. The largest contributor to the thickening of our atmosphere, trapping carbon dioxide, is the burning of oil, gas and coal. The fastest way to stop climate change is to stop using fossil fuels. An easy answer — not really, which is why I’m writing this — is transitioning to renewable energy to power our lives.

we have a unique opportunity, because of our location, to harness its power.

Long Island sits just north of a continental shelf called the New York Bight, with shallow seas, strong winds and a large, dense population close to the coastline. The shallow water allows for structures to be built without the complications and expense of deep diving to build them. The strong winds help turbines turn consistently, producing energy needed to power homes, charge electric vehicles and operate businesses. And with a dense population close to the coast, energy can be delivered over a shorter distance without much loss of power, and at lower costs.

You may ask, why offshore wind? Why not solar or onshore wind? Solar power is being generated on Long

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gender and race bashing. Though not unpredictable for him, his behavior must be coupled with the remarkable positions brought forward by his running mate, J.D. Vance. Together it’s quite a package.

I’m interested to learn how King feels about the Trump side of the campaign, because he said little on that front. My impression is that, whereas he supported Trump in the past, it would be a difficult lever for him to pull this time, and that he just might sit this one out. I’m curious about how King feels about the direction in which Trump/Vance want to take the country. What outcome does King want for us?

Thanks to King for being a quality congressman on the other side. He served when civil discourse was the norm, when rivalries were highly respectful, such as Ronald Reagan and Tip O’Neill. The very best to King.

JOSHuA WeISS Hewlett

As King wrote, it was ‘almost as if it had been planned’

To the editor:

While Vice President Harris calls Donald Trump a threat to democracy, it was the Democrats who subverted it by negating the votes of millions of registered Democrats who chose President Biden in the primaries. The bloodless coup, which forced the president to withdraw from the race under unusual circumstances,

Island, but not on the scale that we need to power the number of homes here. According to the Census Bureau, Long Island has just under 8.5 million housing units. That is where offshore wind comes in to meet our energy needs. There is growth in solar power through ground mounts, or on existing structures that don’t require open space, but it still doesn’t have the capacity to generate the power we need. And onshore wind requires large plots of land, which are few and far between in downstate New York. Renewable energy is the only way for our future. We are seeing more cases of asthma, warming of the oceans, rising sea levels, stronger seasonal storms, and economic volatility due to the excessive use of fossil fuels to produce power. Moving to renewable energy will clear air pollution and slow the warming of the oceans, protecting ocean life, and slow the rising sea levels that threaten coastal communities. In turn, cooler water bodies will decrease the frequency of seasonal storms that flood our streets and erode our beaches. Offshore wind provides a stable and reliable energy source without the volatility of rising fuel prices. It also cre-

allowed a privileged few to choose a new candidate, who, at the time, had a low approval rating. Any rational person knows that Biden should never have been allowed to run in the primaries for a second term. That would have led to meaningful Democratic primaries that were not a sham!

MeL YOuNg, MD Lawrence

Kremer has better memories of Biden than we will

To the editor:

Re Jerry Kremer’s column “When Joe was born, they threw away the mold” (Aug. 1-7): glad to see that Kremer has such a high regard for our president, and that their interactions have been so positive. good for Jerry.

That said, I, and others (I’m not a MAgA, nor am I a fan of Trump) certainly have a different view from Kremer’s.

I find it hard to comprehend the idea that “no one … can match (Biden’s) talent for getting things done on a bipartisan basis” and his “history-making achievements.” From the economy, to the millions of people flooding our border with no plan in place to handle them, to the debacle in Afghanistan, to gas price and mortgage rates, and of course the lies about his mental status from Kremer’s party, not sure he can convince us of Biden’s greatness.

PAuL FACeLLA Long Beach

ates thousands of good-paying jobs to build, maintain and operate its facilities. Beyond those working in the industry, utility stability is how offshore wind will benefit all of Long Island.

Most of the Island’s population now relies on fossil fuel generation to power their homes, workplaces, community centers and infrastructure. This means that electricity bills fluctuate with global geo-political events, because we are buying the fuel to run the power plants connected to our electric grid, mostly from other countries. With offshore wind, there is no need to buy “fuel.” The fuel is infinite, and not a commodity that’s for sale. The wind blows no matter what. This means that the costs of delivering electricity are fixed.

I want to see the renewable energy that we need come to Long Island. I want to ensure that we are delivering safe, reliable, responsible and clean energy to residents. Not only is this a critically needed change, but it will also improve our communities by stopping rising costs, and creating an economic engine with the added benefits of clean air, clean waters and fixed utility costs.

Melissa Parrott is the deputy executive director of Renewable Energy Long Island.

Framework by Bryan and Lori Lee

At a beach volleyball match, not long after a Parisian sunset.

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