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Volume 10 Issue 4
You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
C.S. Lewis
Thought Relationships Taste Inspiration
Humor Advice Health Community
“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”
Carl Bard
4 Christmas Lights Festival 6 Venice, Tuscany & Rome 11 Ancient Rome Exhibit 12 Publisher's Column 16 New Year’s Resolution: Join AUM OLLI 18 Early Garden Memories Henry Lucas
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19 How to Become a Master Gardener?
Features 14 The Family Caregiver’s Guide to the Holidays
26 "Experience" Gifts for your Grandchild
36 Relocating Away From Family in Retirement?
20 Get Tai Chi Fit! Peggy Myrick
48 Made in AmericusJeff Barganier
24 Dublin & Ireland's Atlantic 28 VOCES8 Performing at Auburn's Gogue Center
Departments 28 This and That Interesting Stuff
52 {12} Things For Active Boomers
50 Greg Budell “LIGHTS! ACTION! CHRISTMAS!”
31 Cloverdale-Idlewild Art Trail 32 ALABAMA DAY 200
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34 Five Strategies for Tax-Efficient Investing McDonald Hagen Wealth 38 “NOTHING WORTH FIGHTING OVER” Ask an Elder Law Attorney 40 BOOM! Cover Profile
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46 Oatmeal Eating Smart with Tracy Bhalla 47 MANE’s “Raise the Roof” Seafood Celebration
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Publisher’s Letter
Thanks for Reading BOOM! The mission of BOOM! is to serve the folks of the River Region age 50 plus with information and ideas to inspire new experiences, better quality of life and new beginnings.
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Contributing Writers Jeff Barganier Charla Baumgardner Tracy Bhalla Kimberly Blaker Greg Budell
Janeen Lewis Henry Lucas Brandt McDonald Peggy Myrick Nick Thomas Raley L. Wiggins
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Do you ever get started on a project and you don’t always know how it’s going to end up? It’s exciting but full of challenges, rewarding, but frustrating too. Here at BOOM! we just completed our ninth full year in the publishing business. Each month is a unique project and our readers have made each issue a joy to work on and proud to share. We have produced 113 consecutive monthly issues of BOOM! And if you have read one issue or all 113 issues, I want to thank you for taking the time to experience what we have produced these past nine years. We continue to explore new ways to connect with your needs by delivering information that is an enjoyable and valuable experience each month, hopefully we provide encouragement for the Art of Aging Well. Thanks for sharing your time with BOOM! and for sharing the idea of BOOM! with your friends. I appreciate you.
The River Region is rich with talented and experienced people who know how to make things happen while pursuing a dream. Our cover profile this month is such a woman. Her name is Charla Baumgardner and she is an entrepreneur who started Vivian O’Nay’s, a very special boutique store on Wetumpka Highway and she and her team know how to deliver retail therapy like nobody’s business. In fact, her customers have referred to Vivian O’Nay’s as the “Chick-Fil-A of retail”! Kind of says it all, doesn’t it? I hope you’ll take a few minutes and get to know Charla in this month’s profile, better yet, make plans to experience Vivian O’Nay for yourself…and take the husband or boyfriend because they have a man-cave just for him! We have more good reads for you to experience and they begin with a piece by our favorite travel writer, Jeff Barganier on a recent trip to Americus GA. For some reason they have a beautiful hotel there and it’s worth a visit when you’re tooling around. Leigh Anne Richards has handed off her column to Peggy Myrick who shares a piece on Tai Chi and its many benefits, worth a read to nourish your future fitness. Greg Budell is back with a classic Christmas Story that is almost universal with us Sixtysomethings and beyond, I highly recommend this little ditty down memory lane. There’s plenty more to read or scan this month, our advertisers are a valuable part of the 50+ community, they know your needs and want to help you with solutions to improve your quality of life. Reach out to them and mention the BOOM!, I appreciate it. As a reminder, you’ll see a few pages with group tours to Italy, Ireland and the Grand Canyon that may be worth a look if you’re planning a new adventure in 2020 or maybe just a simple getaway. Check it out and let me if you’re interested. Thanks for being part of the BOOM! Community. Merry Christmas!
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The Family Caregiver’s Guide to the Holidays The holidays are a special time for families and friends to come together and celebrate lifelong traditions. From decorating the house to organizing social gatherings and shopping for the perfect gifts, when you are also caring for a senior loved one, the stress can sometimes seem overwhelming. Below are a few ideas to help through the holidays. Tips for Decorating the Home How to help your senior loved one prepare for the holidays. Keep things simple. Don’t feel like you have to go above and beyond to help your senior loved one prepare. Seniors appreciate the small things and likely won’t expect extravagant decorations. Place a wreath on the door instead of opting for a large tree or choose on menorah to put in a central location as opposed to decorating the whole house.
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Ignore the DIY trend. “Doing it yourself” is trendy these days, but considering everything else going on during the holidays, don’t feel guilty if you purchase or reuse decorations–unless, of course, you enjoy DIY crafting projects! Focus on spending quality time together. One of the most significant parts of the holiday season is quality time with your loved ones. Focus on spending time with your senior friends or family members while you help them prepare for the holidays. Remember, sitting with a cup of tea and sharing a memory can be more meaningful than creating a winter wonderland in the front yard. Senior-Friendly Holiday Gatherings Ensure proper seating. Make sure your senior loved one has a comfortable place to sit at the party. It’s best for his or her seat to be in a central location so that he or she can enjoy the company of others without feeling isolated.
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Help facilitate one-on-one conversation. Although you want your loved one to be engaged with everyone at the party, make sure that you take time to talk with him or her one-on-one. Be mind of hearing impairments. Either speak slowly and loudly, or move to a quiet location. Enlist help from others. Plan in advance to have others help you care for your loved one. This way both of you will enjoy the party and you will have peace of mind knowing your loved one is in trusted hands. Plan for special attention. If the host will be serving a meal at the event, help your loved one prepare his or her plate. If he or she has food allergies, or special nutritional needs, plan in advance and bring something that he or she will be able to enjoy. Limit the event’s duration. If you are the host, make sure the party doesn’t last more than two hours. If you
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Taking Care of Yourself and Respite Care Does caring for an aging loved one make it hard for you to take care of other responsibilities, including yourself? Many family caregivers would like time over the holidays to get things done, including holiday shopping, errands, or spending some time relaxing and catching up with friends, yet feel guilty leaving their loved one alone. What many people don’t realize is that Home Care Assistance offers respite care in the form of highly skilled, compassionate caregivers. Our caregivers help provide you with a break so that you can have the “me time” that you need and deserve. Remember, taking care of yourself is just
Respite care services include light housekeeping, help with mobility, personal care, meal preparation, medication reminders, transportation to errands or appointments, and even companionship care to keep the client company. Respite care is highly beneficial to family caregivers who are burning out and need a break. This is even more important over the busy holiday months. Caregiver burnout is all too real: between 40% of 70% of family caregivers experience clinically significant symptoms of depression and anxiety due to the emotional toll of caring for an aging parent. Be mindful of your own health and be comfortable hiring a Home Care Assistance caregiver to provide respite care for your loved one this holiday season.
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2020 New Year’s Resolution: Join AUM OLLI
People make New Year’s resolutions for several reasons: to stimulate and challenge their brains, to improve their health and bodies, and to develop new skills or hobbies. One simple action will provide access to all three of these options: joining AUM OLLI for winter 2020. The schedule for AUM OLLI classes in the winter 2020 term includes different subjects to stimulate and challenge the brain: sports, literature (Pat Conroy or Harper Lee), financial planning, Italian culture, a book discussion group,
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and a lively brain bowl (similar to TV’s “Jeopardy”). To get some exercise (and perhaps learn something new at the same time), there are classes in line dancing, ballroom dancing, and Argentine Tango. The courses to develop new skills or hobbies provide options for a variety of interests: computer skills, gardening, paper engineering (pop-up books and cards), pine needle basket weaving, and jewelry making. All of these courses are currently open for registration. Unfortunately, some courses listed in the AUM OLLI 2020 Winter
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Catalog are already closed: hiking, Tai Chi for beginners, Tai Chi for pain relief, watercolor painting, zentangle, baking cookies, pickleball, and World War I. People interested in these courses can get on a wait list for priority registration when the course is offered again. Get a head start on accomplishing New Year’s resolutions for 2020: join AUM OLLI to take advantage of these opportunities. Go online at www.aum.edu/OLLI or contact Brittany Thomasson at 334-2443804.
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Master Gardener's Perspective
By Henry Lucas
Early Garden Memories Sharing my gardening with my grandchildren is a particular pleasure. They love finding earthworms and other critters in the soil, get excited when they visit to find last week’s blooms are becoming something we’ll have on the supper table, and they’ve both spent plenty of time with their grandmother, shelling fresh-picked beans and peas, listening to her reminisce about her special memories of shelling beans and peas with her mother and grandmother. I hope that one day they’ll find a corner in their yard where they can put in a garden, “just like Pop’s.”
My first memories of spending time in a garden came when I was between 4 and 5 years old. I remember long rows of corn, purple hull peas, lima beans and watermelon hills that my dad planted in our garden while he was stationed at San Diego, CA. To me it was a wonderland as big as any farm that could possibly exist. After he retired from the Navy, we moved back to his home state of Alabama and that’s when gardening became farming: instead of rows, we now had acres of corn, peas, beans, watermelons, okra and tomatoes. We could grow almost anything in the Chilton County red dirt just by adding a little cow manure to the soil. When I had my own family and enough back yard to turn around in, I decided it would be a good idea to start gardening again, for relaxation and to add fresh produce to our table. My garden isn’t nearly as big as what I grew up taking care of, but my 20’x30’ section of the backyard has allowed me to recapture some of that feeling of joy I had growing up “in the dirt.” A few years in I came to realize the long rows of veggies weren’t producing as much as I’d hoped they might, and constant cultivating of the soil to stay ahead of the weeds was becoming rather tiresome. After researching what I could do to cut down on the back-breaking work and small yields I found information on raised bed and Square Foot gardening. I found I could plant more in a square foot and have more varieties of produce, which meant more harvest and less work. I had plenty of bamboo growing in my backyard, perfect for making raised planters on a scale of 4’x7’ -- all free, natural and a renewable resource when poles needed replacing. I have
built up the soil level over the years with compost from my grass cuttings and kitchen waste, avoiding the use of commercial fertilizers as much as possible. I’m still experimenting with the right combination of companion plants used to attract bees and other beneficial insects to my garden.
After I retired late in 2018, I ran across information about the Master Gardener’s course, and I jumped at the opportunity. With this program I have learned how to properly prune trees and shrubs. I’ve enjoyed having a refresher course in plants physiology and learning what Genetically Modified Organisms (GMOs) really are. We have learned what makes up soil (not dirt) through central Alabama, why soil testing for proper pH is so important for plants to survive and what additives are necessary to correct the pH. All of the nuts and bolts are important, of course, but what I most appreciate about the Master Gardener course is the opportunity it gives me to spend time with other folks who love getting their hands dirty, and giving something back to my community through volunteer opportunities. Henry Lucas, an intern in the 2019 Master Garden Class, lives in Montgomery. For more information on becoming a master gardener, visit www. capcitymga.org or email capcitymga@ gmail.com.
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Get Tai Chi Fit! Written By Guest Columnist, Peggy Myrick
Why Get Tai Chi Fit? Although Tai Chi evolved from a fighting style Martial Art, today it is practiced as a gentle form of exercise used for stress reduction and other health concerns. Some of these other health concerns include, but are not limited to, elevated blood pressure, sleep quality, and mental focus. Tai Chi has been shown to improve all of these health concerns and many more. It is a mind/body practice which reinforces and teaches several important underlying principles such as good posture, balance, rotation, relaxation, and controlled breathing. These principles are particularly important in maintaining or improving our fitness level as we age. Tai Chi can easily be a part of your overall approach to becoming more physically fit and improving your health. Tai Chi may be the missing piece of your exercise puzzle if you wish to cross-train and soften the rough edges of your current routine or . . . if you simply want to begin a fitness routine, then this gentle exercise is a great place to start. Tai Chi also provides social enjoyment and interaction with other people that we all need to better our chances of staying mentally fit. For all these reasons and more, Tai Chi is the “perfect fit” for those of us seeking, “Fitness over Fifty.”
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What is Tai Chi? In a nutshell, Tai Chi is a Martial Art. It is a sequence of moves accompanied by slow, calm, and controlled breathing that guides your energy flow and aids in relaxation and meditation. In fact, Tai Chi
Chi is to cultivate the qi within us to flow smoothly and powerfully throughout the body. This unhindered energy flow allows the body, mind, and spirit to become balanced.
How did I become interested in Tai Chi? I am a 66-year-old grandmother, mother, and wife. I began my fitness journey about 26 years by Leigh Anne Richards ago by lifting weights at a local gym. I quickly fell in love with lifting and advanced to bodybuilding and have competed in a few amateur bodybuilding is often called “Meditation in Motion” competitions. I've also participated in or “Movement Meditation.” The term, sprint triathlons and 5Ks over the years. Form, refers to this sequence of individual However, two knee surgeries and several moves or postures that are exquisitely stress fractures later, I felt it was time to woven together in a slow, focused manner. incorporate a gentler form of exercise into To the observer, it looks like a beautifully my exercise routine. I've been a fitness choreographed martial-arts style fight instructor in the Montgomery area for with each posture flowing into the next about 7 years, and I wanted to be able to without pause, so the body is in constant continue to teach fitness classes to our motion. maturing community and better their chances, and mine, of staying active and One of the traditional aspects of Tai Chi reaping the benefits that Tai Chi has to is the concept of qi (pronounced “Chi” offer. or “Chee”). Qi is the flow of energy throughout the body, which is essential In December 2018 I became Certified to for health maintenance and longevity. teach Tai Chi. I earned my certification Through the combination of movements, through a wonderful organization called, meditation, and controlled breathing, the “Open The Door to Tai Chi,” created by practice of Tai Chi unblocks the flow of qi Dianne Bailey, CSCS. Open the Door to Tai or life energy. The ultimate purpose of Tai Chi features the Yang Style 24 Short Form,
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which is a standardized Tai Chi Form. I still lift weights regularly, but my routine is more balanced now with the addition of this mind/body practice. What are some of the benefits of practicing Tai Chi? There is a fair amount of reliable research available highlighting the many benefits of practicing Tai Chi. For example, a September 2018 article from the Mayo Clinic, “Tai Chi: A Gentle Way to Fight Stress,” lists some of the benefits of Tai Chi as: • Improved balance, agility, and flexibility • Decreased stress, anxiety, and depression • Improved Mood • Improved Aerobic Capacity • Increased energy and stamina • Improved muscle strength and definition • Enhanced quality of sleep • Enhanced immune system functioning • Reduction in blood pressure • Reduction in joint pain • Improved symptoms of congestive heart failure • Improved overall well-being • Reduction in the risk of falls in older adults In an analysis of high-quality studies published in 2017 in the Journal of the American Geriatrics Society, researchers at the University of Jaen in Spain, reported that older adults who did one hour Tai Chi sessions one to three times a week for 12 to 26 weeks were 43 percent less likely to fall and half as likely to incur a fall-related injury. In his interesting article, “Benefits of a Tai Chi Workout for Aging and Stress Resiliency,” Michael Lam, MD, states that research has shown that a Tai Chi Workout is able to increase CD34+ cells in the human body. CD34+ cells are stem cells. Stem cells are “blank cells” that are able to change into different types of cells and, thus, they have an impact on aging. When the human body is put under more and more stress, the result is an increase in stress hormones in order to counterbalance the effects. The escalating stress hormones can lead to adrenal fatigue. Adrenal fatigue may lead to anxiety, depression, chronic fatigue, feeling cold all the time, insomnia, joint pain, and other health issues. The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
Interestingly, Parkinson's disease and fibromyalgia are also related to adrenal fatigue. The adrenal glands are one of the organs in the body that constantly undergoes regeneration. Because Tai Chi actively contributes toward the production of CD34+ stem cells, practicing this age-old Chinese martial art may assist the body in combating the symptoms of adrenal fatigue as these stem cells are used in adrenal gland rejuvenation. In an article published in the February 2012 issue of the New England Journal of Medicine, Oregon Research Institute scientist, Fuzhong Li, Ph.D., reported
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that a program of twice weekly Tai Chi training that he developed resulted in improved postural stability and walking ability, and significantly fewer falls in the participants. The participants were 195 men and women with mild to moderate Parkinson's disease. They were randomly assigned to twice-weekly sessions of either Tai Chi, strength-building exercises, or stretching. After six months, those who did Tai Chi were stronger and had much better balance than those in the other two groups. In fact, their balance was about two times better than those in the resistance-training group and four times better than those in the stretching group. The benefits of Tai Chi for Parkinson's disease have been endorsed by the National Parkinson's Foundation. Tai Chi is a low impact activity and puts minimal stress on muscles and joints
making it safe for everyday people of all ages and fitness levels. It is particularly popular among the 60+ population because it has been shown to improve balance and reduce fall risk and assist with many other health issues. You can practice Tai Chi anytime, indoors or outdoors, alone or with a group, and you need no expensive equipment, machines, or mats. No special clothing is required either unless you choose to purchase a pair of inexpensive Tai Chi shoes, so you don't stick to the floor! What is the history of Tai Chi? Tai Chi is a Martial Art whose history goes back to 5th century China when a Buddhist monk taught Shaolin priests simple moves designed to strengthen their bodies that had been weakened through too much meditation and fasting. Several centuries later, these “simple moves” were transformed into a Fighting Style Martial Art by a trained military man named Chen Wangting. In the early 1800's, another man, Yang Lu-chan, learned the fighting style from the Chen family and he is credited with transforming it into the slow, movement meditation style of Tai Chi that is practiced today. The Chinese government recognized the health benefits of Tai Chi and created a short form of Tai Chi and standardized it for the Chinese “masses.” If you were to walk through the parks of China's largest cities early in the morning, you would likely see hundreds of people practicing this short form of Tai Chi. Do you have some concerns? You may be concerned about your ability to learn Tai Chi because you do not have a Martial Arts background. Neither do I! You do not need a Martial Arts background to learn Tai Chi and you do not have to study under a traditional Tai Chi master. We focus only on the physical and mental benefits that Tai Chi has to offer, not on the philosophical lifestyle. Additionally, The Open the Door to Tai Chi System that I teach breaks down the postures in a way that makes it easier for the everyday person to learn. Are you worried that you won't be able to focus? Well, my thinking pattern is rather scattered—I do not think in a straight line (just ask my husband). Even
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when lifting weights, I have to construct a mini circuit for myself in the gym, so I won't get bored sitting at one location for too long. Because of my ADD tendencies, I doubted that I would enjoy Tai Chi, but I felt I needed to give it a fair try. To my surprise, I truly enjoyed Tai Chi. When practicing the Form, my mind does not wander, it remains focused and I am relaxed. There is something “magical” about Tai Chi. Come and practice the art with me and see for yourself.
which I have.” Roger was an avid cyclist before his Parkinson's disease.
Lori, age 56, is a regular participant of one of my Tai Chi classes and has this to say about the practice. “I would have never thought that I would enjoy Tai Chi because of the slow movements, but when Peggy mentioned it during our water aerobics class, I gave it a try with hopes of improving my balance and now I'm hooked. I look forward to our classes and upon completion feel satisfied that I am improving both my Are you reluctant execution of the form to learn Tai Chi and my balance. In because your addition, I attended balance is just a class focusing terrible? Poor just on balance and balance is the very thoroughly enjoyed Tai Chi Instructor, Peggy Myrick reason you should and benefited from it learn and practice Tai Chi! Did you know and plan to attend future offerings. I have that if you don't practice your balance, recommended Tai Chi to all my friends you will lose it? Improving one's balance boasting about the benefits.” may be the most important benefit of all, because falls are the most common reason for going to the emergency room Can Tai Chi help with mental state and in the United States. Many of these brain function? falls result in a fracture, concussion, or In the process of getting your body in other serious injury. In addition, Tai Chi shape with Tai Chi, you are likely to increases a person's awareness of where improve your mental state as well. In a the body is in space and improves one's New Zealand study of college students, ability to navigate obstacles while walking. Tai Chi was shown to counter depression, It can also enhance your ability to catch anxiety, and stress. Tai Chi also enhances yourself before you fall. an important quality called self-efficacy— confidence in one's ability to perform What are some of my students saying? various activities and overcome obstacles One of my students, Linda age 61, who to doing so. has Parkinson's Disease, and is a former Ballroom Dance instructor, says this about Because many of the Tai Chi movements Tai Chi, “Since I began practicing Tai Chi I force you to cross the midline of your have noticed an improvement in my ability body, you are also forcing your brain to focus and remember as well as an to function in a different pattern by improvement in my balance.” making the left side talk with the right side. Jean Blaydes Madigan, a neuroHere is another inspiring testimonial kinesiologist states that, “Crossing the from my student, Roger, age 71, “Tai Chi midline integrates brain hemispheres to has helped me significantly improve my enable the brain to organize itself. When balance beyond my regular Rock Steady students perform cross-lateral activities, Class. It adds an extra component to my blood flow is increased in all parts of the workout. I recommend it to everyone and brain, making it more alert and energized particularly for those with Parkinson's, for stronger, more cohesive learning.
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Movements that cross the midline unify the cognitive and motor regions of the brain.” This is great news for the aging population! Just think about this quote for a moment, we are actually making our brains function better on all levels with the simple practice to Tai Chi. Are you ready to practice Tai Chi with me? Please join me in one or more of my Montgomery classes and let's Get Tai Chi Fit together! • Fitness Solutions, 2872 Zelda Road. Every Wednesday, 9 to 10 am • Bell Road YMCA, 2435 Bell Road. Every Other Thursday, 9:40 to 10:30 • East Family YMCA, 3407 Pelzer Avenue. Every Friday, 8 to 9 am • MetroFitness, 7150 Halcyon Park Drive. Every Friday. 10:30 to 11:30 • Starting January 2020, 1037 Woodley Road. Every Thursday 11:45 to 1 pm • Private lessons available by appointment. Contact Information: pmyrick1953@gmail. com and/or Facebook Page: Tai Chi Fit with Peggy References: Bailey, Dianne. Open The Door To Tai Chi, Tai Chi for the Everyday Person. Copyright 2016. LifeLong Conditioning, LLC Brody, Jane E. “Using Tai Chi to Build Strength.” 10 Sept. 2018 https://www.nytimes. com/2018/09/10/well/move/using-tai-chi-tobuild-strength.html Lam, Michael. “Benefits of a Tai Chi Workout for Aging and Stress Resiliency.” Copyright 2017 https://www.drlam.com/blog/benefits-of-a-taichi-workout-for-again-and-stress-resiliency/ Madigan, Jean Blaydes. “Building Better Brains Through Movement.” (2009) pg. 2 Action Based Learning Lab. http://abllab.com/wp-content/ themes/abl/doc/abl-handout.pdf Mayo Clinic. “Tai Chi: A Gentle Way to Fight Stress.” 28 Sept. 2018 Wayne, Peter. “Tai Chi Improves Balance and Motor Control in Parkinson's Disease.” 3 May 2013. https://www.health.harvard.edu/ blog/tai-chi-improves-balance-and-motor-controlin-parkinsons-disease
Leigh Anne Richards, MEd, Certified Personal Trainer, Group Exercise Instructor, General Manager- MetroFitness. For any questions or comments, contact Leigh Anne at LAMetrofit@aol.com
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By Janeen Lewis
Experience Gifts for your Grandchild GrandParents want their grandchildren's Christmas to be magical. Sometimes this means driving all over town or frantically searching online for trendy toys or gadgets only to find that grandchildren grow bored and banish them to the back of the closet or toy box after the holidays. This Christmas, why not give your grandchild the gift of time by picking out an activity you can do together? Try one of these experience-gift ideas and pair it with a related fun item to go under the tree. A Heart for the Arts Is your grandchild a budding van Gogh or drama queen? Here are some ideas for visual and performing arts experience gifts. Experiences: · A membership or ticket to tour an art museum · A day at a paint-your-own pottery place · Acting classes · Parent and Child Painting class · Dance Lessons Tangible Gift: · The book 13 Artists Children Should Know by Angela Wenzel · Ed Emberley's Drawing books · An easel · A table and chair that it is okay to drip paint on · Spirograph · Paint pens, gel crayons or oil pastels · Makeup kits for actors · Tap, jazz or ballet shoes · Leg warmers · A costume representing a favorite character · Microphone
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Crafty and Creative Does your grandchild like to create projects over time? Maybe you’re a maker-minded parent that wants your grandchildchild to learn practical life skills. Here are some ideas to get your hobbyist started: Experience gifts: · Knitting or crocheting classes · Home Depot free woodworking classes · Sewing classes at JoAnn Fabrics · Crafts class at Michael’s · Beginning jewelry making classes · Lessons in glasswork · Bath bomb, soap or lotion making lessons Tangible gift ideas: · Knit or crochet kit for kids · The book Woodland Crochet: 12 Precious Projects to Stitch and Snuggle by Kristen Rask · Young Woodworker's Project Kit from Lakeshore Learning (includes everything needed to build a small corner shelf, tool box and treasure chest) · Beginner Sewing Machine like the Singer Start 1304 · Calligraphy Set · Origami or Craft Paper · Beads or jewelry making kit
sport · Batting Facility Membership Tangible gifts: · Sports Equipment · Professional/college team jerseys or hats · Ticket stub diary to hold memorable sporting event stubs · Fitness tracker watch · Gymnastics or yoga mat · Over the door basketball hoop
Sports Fans Sports are not only a fun way for your grandchild to get exercise, but they also provide an opportunity for grandparents to connect to kids. Experience gifts: · Tickets to a professional sporting event · Tour a sporting stadium or Hall of Fame · Membership or admission to an ice or roller skating rink · Lessons with a private coach for a favorite
Wild About Books Experience Gifts: · Visit a storytelling venue · Attend an author visit or book signing of your child’s favorite author Tangible Gifts: · Book ends · Booklight · E-reader, like a Kindle or Nook · Magnetic clip bookmarks · Reading tent
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Future Foodies You could be raising the next Pioneer Woman or Bobby Flay. Support their love of creating dishes with these fun ideas. Experience Gift: · Cooking lessons · Dinner at a fine dining, gourmet or culturally diverse restaurants to explore different foods Tangible Gift: · MasterChef Junior Cooking Essentials Set · Personalized chef apron, jacket or hat · MindWare Playful Chef Knife Kit (it really cuts but is safe for kids) · Make Your Own Chocolate Kit · Kid Chef: The Foodie Kids Cookbook by Melina Hammer
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· Comfy bean bag chair · Personalized book stamp · Magazine subscription Fashionistas Clothes and accessories are always a hit at Christmas, especially if you have teens in the house. These ideas show your fashion lover you care about their style. Experience Gift: · Go to a fashion show · Modeling classes · Grammy and Me mani pedis Tangible Gift · My First Fashion Designer by Lakeshore Learning. This kit includes a miniature dress form, cloth swatches and buttons to create runway designs. · A mix and match fashion drawing set like Fashion Plates · A chic hat, scarf , gloves or ear muffs · Leather boots · Graphic tees · Bangles · Designer watch · Faux Fur accessories · Animal print scarf or leggings · FabKids subscription box
Nature Lovers Get outdoors and enjoy fishing, hiking, camping, canoeing or more with your child. Experience Gift: · Membership in the Wild Explorers Club · Membership at a nature center · Whitewater rafting trip · Fishing trip · Beginner SCUBA diving lessons Tangible Gift: · Fishing rod and gear · SCUBA gear · Compass
· Hiking gear · Tent · Binoculars · Canoe or kayak Janeen Lewis is a freelance journalist, teacher and mom to Andrew and Gracie. She has been published in several parenting publications across the country and in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christmas Magic.
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A Flair for Design Help your child find their inner interior designer with these gift ideas. Experience Gift: · Consult with a local interior decorator and use your child's ideas to design his or her bedroom or playroom makeover Tangible Gift: · Klutz Design Your Dream Room. This portfolio lets your child explore with patterns, color, space, and 300 punch-out pieces to design a room. · Paint for a bedroom or playroom picked out by your child · Sheets, bedspread, curtains or designer pillows Tea Time Boys and girls both enjoy quiet conversation over a warm cup of tea. Experience Gift: · Book a tea time at a tea room · Plant an indoor herb garden from which to make herbal tea (try chamomile, lavender and peppermint) Tangible Gift: · Tea pot and cup · Tea cozy · Costume necklaces, hats, gloves and purse to wear to tea time · Tea pot necklace · Scones and tea biscuits The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
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VOCES8 Performing at Auburn's Gogue Center Performing Tuesday, December 17th at Gogue Performing Arts Center at Auburn University. The award-winning vocal group VOCES8 has inspired audiences all over the world. With an impressive repertory of songs spanning early English choral pieces to modern jazz and pop tunes, the British vocal ensemble brings versatility and diverse musical expression to every one of their stirring live performances. Popular on a global level, VOCES8 has dazzled audiences at premier international venues. Both live and recorded performances of VOCES8 are regularly broadcast on Blue Yonder international television and radio. A Decca Classics artist, they have released a series of chart-topping recordings, with a new album planned for 2019. Dedicated to the advancement of music education, VOCES8 is the flagship ensemble for the influential VCM Foundation. The ensemble awards annual scholarships through the VOCES8 Scholars initiative and publishes educational material as official ambassadors for Edition Peters. Described as having voices sounding as though hand-picked for sheer vocal beauty, perfect transparency of intricate contrapuntal textures, extreme cohesion and impeccable accuracy, VOCES8 is an unparalleled live vocal experience that audiences won’t forget. For more info visit www.goguecenter.auburn.edu
Mayor to Flip the Switch on the 28th Annual Montgomery Zoo Christmas Lights Festival One of the River Region’s favorite holiday traditions will kick off at 6:00 pm on Thursday, December 5, 2019 when Mayor Steven Reed officially flips the switch at the Montgomery Zoo to turn on thousands of lights for the 28th Annual Christmas Lights Festival. So that more families and friends can enjoy the sights, sounds and smells of the holidays, the Zoo and Museum have greatly reduced the ticket price for the Christmas Lights Festival. Each admission includes entry to Lights Festival to stroll throughout the Zoo seeing thousands of lights and holiday displays, visit with Santa, and enjoy the entertainment at the Overlook Café. Regular Festival Admission: $10 (ages 3 years old and older). The Festival will continue through the holidays December 5-8 and 11-25. Gates open at 5:30 p.m. with the last admission at 9:00 p.m. Gates close promptly at 9:30 p.m. The Zoo and Museum will be closed on Christmas Day to allow our employees to spend the day with their families, but gates will open that night at 5:30 to enjoy the last night of the festival. To learn more visit www.montgomeryzoo.com
2019 Toys for Tots Volunteers
The Marine Toys for Tots Program collects new unwrapped toys and distributes those toys to less fortunate children at Christmas. Lots of volunteers are needed to sort, organize and distribute the donations. Please be a part of this wonderful effort! Participants will meet at the Toys for Tots warehouse to sort toys on November 15 and December 4 from 9 am until 3 pm. Then on December 10, 12, 17 and 19 from 9 am until 4 pm, volunteers will assist with toy distribution. Sign up at www.handsonriverregion.org or email leslie@handsonriverregion.org
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The Duane and Audrey Mara Santa and Mrs. Claus Story Duane retired in May of 1999 from civil service with the Air Force and was subsequently hired by Advance Technology Systems in Arlington, Va. That year he was asked to come to the company Christmas party in Washington, D.C to be the company’s Santa. Duane rented a suit, wore it on the flight to and back and that was the beginning of the continuing Santa sessions. In 2000 Duane began doing local charity events with groups from Maxwell AFB Gunter Annex as Santa Claus at numerous grade schools (picture is at Carver Elementary School). As seen in the picture Audrey has joined him as Mrs. Claus. The last seven years they have been the Crenshaw County Chamber of Commerce Santa and Mrs. Claus sitting with children for pictures on Main Street in Luverne, Alabama before and after the December Christmas Parade. They also get to ride on the Highland Home Volunteer Fire Department fire truck during the parade. In addition, they have been Santa and Mrs. Claus for the Montgomery Capitol City Club, Landmark Foundation Old Alabama Town, Cops for Christmas, numerous local schools, churches, nursing homes, assisted livings, neighborhood associations, civic, and business organizations. In 2018 they did some 17 charitable visits, one at Taylor Crossing Animal Hospital with 153 dogs and three cats getting pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus. And Santa did ride on the Montgomery Fire Department ladder truck in the Montgomery Christmas parade. Santa and Mrs. Claus don’t take any money for a visit as they enjoy seeing the eyes of children, both young and old light up when they visit with them. But, the fee for Santa and Mrs. Claus to visit, a charitable donation to the Montgomery Humane Society is requested. For more info email duckmara@bellsouth.net
Dr. Tyna D. Davis Selected an Honoree for Women Who Shape the State The Montgomery Botanical Gardens at Oak Park is proud to announce that their president, Dr. Tyna D. Davis has been chosen by This is Alabama and Birmingham Magazine as an Awardee and Honoree for the 2019 This is Alabama and Birmingham Magazine’s Women Who Shape the State recognition program. The program recognizes women from around the state who are contributing to their communities and setting an example with their efforts. Among her many contributions and accomplishments, Dr. Davis is being recognized for her leadership during the establishment and revitalization of the Montgomery Botanical Gardens at Oak Park. To learn more visit www.montgomerybotanicalgardens.com
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Christmas Happenings! Fun with the Grands! Photos with Santa at EastChase Ho! Ho! Ho! Santa returns to his tiny home at The Shoppes for a dose of Christmas magic this holiday season beginning on Black Friday! Santa's Whimsical Wonderland is located adjacent to Express and across from H&M. Photo packages provided by Studio Panache start at $20 and while visits with Santa are complimentary, no cell phone photography is allowed. Both families and pets are invited to visit Santa, and while appointments are not necessary, we offer the opportunity to book your spot in advance to avoid the line! BOOK ONLINE: www.theshoppesateastchase.com/event/santa-photos/ November 24 - December 15, Fridays & Saturdays: 11 – 7 pm, Sundays: 1 – 6 pm, *Open daily the week leading up to Christmas Eve, December 16 - December 23, 11 – 7 pm daily, Christmas Eve: 11 to 4 pm. For more information, call 334-279-6046 or email suzanna@crawfordsq. com. Pike Road Tree Lighting The Town of Pike Road invites you to join us at Town Hall on Friday, Dec. 6, for a free, family-friendly evening of holiday cheer. The Christmas Tree Lighting will begin at 5:30 p.m. and feature holiday tunes from the Pike Road Schools Choir & Patriot Band, a Christmas story read by Town of Pike Road Mayor Gordon Stone, hot chocolate served by volunteers from the Pike Road Lions Club, and a snowy treat! Prattville Christmas Tree Lighting December 5, 5:30 pm-The annual Christmas Tree Lighting will be held in the grassy area near the Fountain at Court and Third Streets. Festivities will begin at 5:30 pm, we will flip the switch to turn on the lights on the Christmas tree at 7 pm and Santa will arrive. This event is FREE and open to the public. For information, contact the Special Events Office at (334) 595-0850 or visit the website at www.prattvilleal.gov.
HCA Caregiver of the Month Irene is a dedicated and always willing Caregiver. Irene’s biggest strength is her ability to provide consistent, high-quality care to clients and their families. Irene’s clients can depend on her in times of need. One of her clients, whom she has worked with for many months, calls Irene every time he is needing to be transferred and Irene is always there! She is always flexible with her clients and is continually one of our most reliable caregivers. Thank you, Irene for your commitment to delivering compassionate and loving care to your clients! For more information visit www.homecareassistancemontgomery.com
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ASF Holiday Plays
Cloverdale-Idlewild 4th Annual Art Trail
In this hilarious holiday classic, a mother struggling to put on a church Christmas pageant is faced with casting the Herdman kids — probably the most mischievous and troublesome kids in history. You won't believe the mayhem — and the fun — when the Herdmans collide head-on with Christmas! On stage December 5 – 29, 2019. A delightfully rambunctious experience for the entire family.
A remarkable true story from the Western Front, Christmas, 1914. In a silence amid the combat, a German soldier steps into No Man's Land singing "Silent Night." Thus begins an extraordinary night of camaraderie shared over trench songs and Christmas carols, told in the words of the men who lived it. If only for one night, there was peace on Earth. On stage December 7 – 29, 2019. A beautiful story of a transformational moment when two sides gathered to celebrate their shared humanity. www.asf.net
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ALABAMA DAY 200 On Saturday, December 14th this year, there is only one place to be: our Capital City for the grand finale of Alabama’s three-year bicentennial anniversary commemoration. Celebrate the state’s biggest birthday party—at least the biggest in our first 200 years! The free, day-long celebration begins at 10 am with a parade of Alabama people, places and history. From Court Square Fountain, a cavalcade of marching bands, city floats, living history on wheels—such as the USS Alabama Battleship Park and US Space and Rocket Center—elected officials, cute kids, beauty queens and special Alabama Notables will travel Dexter Avenue toward the State Capitol. Mid-day ceremonies led by Gov. Kay Ivey will include the official dedication of Alabama Bicentennial Park. The magnificent installation, located at the foot of the Alabama State Capitol on Dexter Avenue, will tell the story of Alabama in 16 bronzes on Alabama granite bases. The afternoon will offer exhibitions, performances and open houses in the Capital Complex, up and down Dexter Avenue and throughout downtown Montgomery. The Alabama State Capitol and Alabama Department of Archives and History will host performances and presentations at their buildings and children’s games, traditional arts/crafts demonstrations and historic re-enactors on their grounds. Museums, galleries, restaurants and stores will host tours, exhibitions and activities. The Alabama State Council on the Arts Gallery, in partnership with Black Belt Treasures Cultural Arts Center from Camden, will feature a unique exhibit and sales of works by contemporary Alabama artists. The day will conclude with a surprise! Sponsored by the Alabama Tourism Department and the Poarch Band of Creek Indians, it will include entertainment and a never-before-seen show, details of which will be released closer to the date. Throughout the day, major bicentennial sponsors, including Coca-Cola Bottling United, Regions and Alabama Power, will be on hand with activities and giveaways. The Alabama Tourism Department, Conservation and Natural Resources, State Department of Education and other agencies will join Alabama Public Television, Alabama Cattlemen’s Association, Alabama Kiwanis and others to make sure that all ages are inspired, educated and entertained. Alabama’s bicentennial commemoration began in 2017. That year, we Discovered Our Places, and in 2018 we Honored Our People. This year, we Share Our Stories and prepare to make new ones as we launch Alabama’s Third Century in 2020. For information about ALABAMA DAY 200 and the Alabama bicentennial commemoration, visit www.ALABAMA200.org
Bobby Horton “Celebration of Alabama” Opens Bicentennial Weekend The Alabama 200th Birthday Celebration weekend will open with a special benefit concert with renowned musician and music historian Bobby Horton on Friday, December 13th, at 7:30 PM at Montgomery’s historic Capri Theatre. Horton, widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities of music from the Civil War period, will paint a musical portrait of life in Alabama from the earliest days of our statehood through the 1850s. Tickets are $12 for general seating and $10 for Capri members. www.capritheatre.org
Master Gardener Associations Presents Free Lunch & Learn Programs Capital City Master Gardener Association presents Lunch & Learn 2019 the 1st Wednesday of Every Month from 12-1 pm. They meet at the Armory Learning Arts Center, 1018 Madison Avenue, Downtown Montgomery. Mark your calendars, December 4th, A Natural Christmas, Jane McCarthy, Master Gardener and January 8th, Hay Bale Gardening, Eric Schavey, Horticulturist, ACES. Autauga County Master Gardener Association presents Lunch & Learn 2019 the 1st Thursday of Every Month from 12-1 pm. They meet at the Trinity United Methodist Church, 610 Fairview Avenue, Prattville 36066. Mark your calendars, December 5th, Backyard Water Features, Leonard Shannon, Master Gardener. Elmore County Master Gardener Association presents Lunch & Learn 2019 the 2nd Tuesday of Every Month from 12-1 pm. They meet at the Elmore County Extension Office, 340 Queen Ann Rd., Wetumpka, AL 36092. Mark your calendars, December 10th, Artistic Flower Pressing, Betty Plaster, Master Gardener. For information, please contact the Montgomery County Extension Office 334.270.4133. Also visit www.capcitymga.org.
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Fantasy In Lights – The South’s Christmas Tradition Nightly through January 4, 2020. Treat your family to a fun tradition that’s filled with holiday cheer! It’s Christmas at Callaway, featuring Fantasy In Lights, one of National Geographic’s Top 10 Light Displays in the world. Come make merry in the Christmas Village, meet holiday characters up close, and ride through the dazzling illuminated forest. Extend the celebration with an overnight stay, enjoy mouthwatering meals or cozy cups of cocoa in our beautiful accommodations, and explore 2,500 acres of stunning natural landscape. Create a season that’s magical with a getaway to remember – at Callaway Resort & Gardens. For info visist www.callawaygardens.com.
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Friends for Faulkner to host Neil Diamond Tribute Concert Neil Diamond’s music will come alive on Faulkner’s campus as the performers from Cherry Cherry give a tribute concert to support student scholarships with classics like “Sweet Caroline,” “Cherry Cherry,” and much more. Friends for Faulkner, a volunteer auxiliary group of the university, will host the group on campus on January 25 at 7 p.m. to raise money for students. Tickets are on sale now online at www.faulkner.edu/diamondtribute. Steve Kelly and Cherry Cherry Band create the award-winning Premier Neil Diamond Tribute and has performed over 600 shows in the United States and Canada. They are considered the premier Neil Diamond show as the line- up replicates the same timeless live shows Diamond performs himself. Neil Leslie Diamond, an American singer-songwriter, musician and actor, has had 38 songs in the Top 10 on the Billboard Adult Contemporary charts and has sold more than 100 million records worldwide, making him one of the best-selling musicians of all time.
Capri Classics: It’s A Wonderful Life and Sockball Fight
The Capri Theatre is getting into the spirit of giving. We've partnered with the Mid-Alabama Coalition for the Homeless (MACH) to host the Capri's second annual Sockball fight - I.e., a snowball fight, but with socks. To participate, the rules are simple: Bring clean, unused socks to It's a Wonderful Life on Saturday, December 7 at 7:30. After the pre-show talk is finished, participants will ball up the socks and try to protect their drinks as best they can. We'll do a countdown, and then everybody goes to town. It might be the closest thing to a snowball fight we get all year! George is shocked to find that as the man who saved his brother's life and helped everyone in his town stay out of debt, that the people he cares about might have been impacted by his no longer existing. Upon finding out that life really can get worse than he thought, George decides to live after all. For more info call 334.262.4858 or visit www.capritheatre.org
Joyce Cadell Holiday Pops Concert Thursday, December 19, 2019 at 7:30 pm, celebrate the music of the holiday season in extravagant style as the Montgomery Symphony Orchestra pulls out all the stops to make spirits bright. This annual Symphony tradition is sure to warm your heart and put you in a Very Merry Holiday mood. For tickets or more information, contact us at 334.240.4004 or visit www.montgomerysymphony.org
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Five Strategies for Tax-Efficient Investing After factoring in federal income and capital gains taxes, the alternative minimum tax, and possible state and local taxes, your investments' returns in any given year may be reduced by 40% or more. Here are five ways to potentially lower your tax bill.1 Consider Tax-Deferred and Tax-Free Accounts Tax-deferred accounts include employersponsored retirement accounts such as traditional 401(k)s and 403(b) plans, individual retirement accounts (IRAs), and annuities. In some cases, contributions may be made on a pretax basis or may be tax deductible. More important, investment earnings compound tax deferred until withdrawal, typically in retirement, when you may be in a lower tax bracket. Contributions to nonqualified annuities, Roth IRAs and Roth-style employer-sponsored savings plans are not deductible. Earnings that accumulate in Roth accounts may be withdrawn tax free if you have had the account for at least five years and meet the requirements for a qualified distribution. Withdrawals prior to age 59½ from a qualified retirement plan, IRA, Roth IRA or annuity may be subject to ordinary income taxes and an additional 10% federal tax. In addition, early withdrawals from annuities may be subject to additional charges by the issuing insurance company.2 Note that, in general, annual withdrawals from traditional IRAs and employersponsored retirement plans must begin by April 1 of the year after you reach age 70½. The penalty for not taking the required minimum distribution (RMD) can be steep: 50% of what you should have withdrawn. Withdrawals from Roth IRAs, however, are not required during the owner's lifetime. Consider Government and Municipal Bonds
Interest on U.S. government issues is subject to federal taxes but is exempt from state taxes. Municipal bond income is generally exempt from federal taxes, and municipal bonds issued in-state may be free of state and local taxes as well. Sold prior to maturity, government and
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municipal bonds are subject to market fluctuations and may be worth less than the original cost upon redemption. Look for Tax-Efficient Investments Tax-managed or tax-efficient investment accounts are managed in ways that can help reduce their taxable distributions. Investment managers can potentially minimize portfolio turnover, invest in stocks that do not pay dividends and selectively sell stocks at a loss to counterbalance taxable gains elsewhere in the portfolio. Put Losses to Work You may be able to use losses within your investment portfolio to help offset realized gains. If your losses exceed your gains, you can typically offset up to $3,000 per year of the difference against ordinary income. Any remainder can be carried forward to offset capital gains or income in future years. Keep Good Records Maintain records of purchases, sales, distributions, and dividend reinvestments so that you can properly calculate how much you paid for the shares you own and choose the most preferential tax treatment for shares you sell. Keeping an eye on how taxes can affect your investments is one of the easiest
ways you can enhance your returns over time.
Brandt McDonald, Managing Partner McDonald & Hagen Wealth Management LPL Branch Manager www.mcdonaldhagen.com Direct comments and questions to Jennifer.Hunt@LPL.com or 334.387.0094 Source/Disclaimer: 1 This information is general in nature and is not meant as tax advice. Always consult a qualified tax advisor for information as to how taxes may affect your particular situation. 2 Before investing, investors should consider the investment objectives, risks, charges, and expenses of an annuity and its underlying investment options. Guarantees are based on the claims-paying ability of the issuer and do not apply to a variable annuity's separate account or its underlying benefits. Because of the possibility of human or mechanical error by DST Systems, Inc. or its sources, neither DST Systems, Inc. nor its sources guarantees the accuracy, adequacy, completeness or availability of any information and is not responsible for any errors or omissions or for the results obtained from the use of such information. In no event shall DST Systems, Inc. be liable for any indirect, special or consequential damages in connection with subscriber's or others' use of the content. © 2019 DST Systems, Inc. Reproduction in whole or in part prohibited, except by permission. All rights reserved. Not responsible for any errors or omissions. This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized legal or tax advice. We suggest you discuss your specific legal or tax issues with a qualified legal or tax advisor. Securities offered through LPL Financial. Member FINRA & SIPC. Investment advice offered through McDonald & Hagen Wealth Management, a Registered Investment Advisor, and separate entity from LPL Financial.
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By Kimberly Blaker
Relocating Away From Family in
Retirement?
When you're finally able to retire, a new and exciting chapter in life begins. You no longer have to dedicate your time and energy to a job or raising kids. For many retirees, this means a return to focusing on their own wants and needs. One of the most significant changes new retirees often consider is moving to a new city or state. The idea of relocating is an exciting way to embrace your new life. But it's also a big decision you may want to consider carefully, especially if it means leaving family behind. Living where you love or someplace more affordable During earlier adulthood, people often relocate based on their jobs or the best location to raise a family. Retirement provides you the opportunity to choose where you want to live just because that's what you want, therefore, eliminating many factors to consider. There are many reasons retirees choose to relocate. Most often, they want to live in a place that offers them a better way of life. A significant factor retirees consider is choosing an area where they'd love to live. Maybe you live in a suburban area but really enjoy nature and hiking. Or perhaps you've lived and worked in a crowded city for years but would rather spend your time relaxing by the beach. After you retire, you're better able to prioritize your personal preferences when deciding where to live. Think about what things you enjoy and the type of environment that makes you feel your best to help narrow down your options. Another important factor to consider is affordability. If you're thinking about moving after retirement, you may want to consider downsizing. If all your kids are grown and gone, you probably don't need as much space. Plus, you may have
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you have more in common -Leaving an area that has a younger population and a family focus -Saving money by downsizing or living in a less expensive area Cons -Being away from familiar and special places -Having to develop new routines -Not getting to see family and friends regularly -Starting over new takes a lot of effort -Needing to make new friends and find new social outlets -Moving can be difficult and stressful different needs that are better served with a smaller home. Retirement means you likely have less income than you did before. So having a smaller mortgage or rent payments, lower property taxes and insurance, and less maintenance and repairs can save you a bundle. If you've got equity in your home or home values in your area have risen since you purchased your home, you might even make a profit from selling it. Do you currently live in an area with a high cost of living? If so, you may be able to find an area you'd enjoy with a much lower cost of living, thereby offering you multiple benefits. The pros and cons of relocating Deciding to move away from family and friends after retirement is a big decision. Creating a list of personal pros and cons is a helpful tool to help you process all the factors. Everyone has their own unique pros and cons based on various aspects. The ones below can help you get started. But don't forget to add your own. Pros -Leaving behind obligations, old drama, or bad memories -Getting a fresh start -Finding a more appropriate place for your stage of life -Finding a new community with whom
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How to manage relationships with kids and grandkids if you do move away One of the biggest hesitation’s retirees have about relocating is that it'll take them away from their kids and grandchildren. If you're used to living close to them and enjoy the benefits of living nearby and spending lots of time together, leaving family behind can be difficult. You may feel relocating is right for you, yet you're still worried about living so far away from your loved ones. Fortunately, there are many ways to keep your relationships strong, even from a distance. Moving away from family and friends is easier than ever before because of all the technology now available for keeping your relationships close through virtual connection. Gone are the days of delayed communication through limited means. You can now easily see your kids or grandchildren at the push of a button. Through social media, you can follow them to see regular updates, pictures, and videos of important things happening in their lives. It's just as easy to have direct communication at any time using text messaging and phone or video calls. Video calls can give you the feeling you're right there with your family. At the pace technology is advancing, long-distance communication will only continue to get better. The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
In some ways, living away from your family can make seeing each other even better. When you live near family, you may not put as much effort into seeing each other or the quality of your time together because everyone's lives are so busy. If you live further away, the times you get to spend together will be more focused, special, and memorable. You can travel to each other's locations or meet for vacations together for a fun change of pace. The time leading up to visits can be fun too with countdowns or sending messages to each other as the visit gets closer and your excitement builds. How to make the most of your new life if you do move away If you do decide to relocate, the best thing you can do is go into it prepared, so it's a great experience from the start. You'll want to begin by figuring out precisely what you want out of your new home, town, and life to narrow down the places that make the most sense for you to move to. Even if you already have a dream location in mind, know the reasons why you want to live there and that it'll meet your expectations for retired life.
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It's a good idea to visit any new places you're seriously considering relocating to and spend time there. You'll want to be familiar with the area you choose to relocate to. Check out the city or town, including the more mundane aspects of it, like places where you'll run errands. Talk to locals, also, particularly those at a similar stage of life, and get their perspective. Realtors and librarians are both excellent resources for getting more information about what your potential new hometown has to offer. Once you've relocated, look for ways to get involved and become a part of your new community. Leaving your old home also means losing the relationships and routines you were used to. At the same time, as a new retiree, you have a lot more time on your hands than you're accustomed to. So find healthy and fun ways to fill that time to ensure you're taking advantage of your new opportunities. Look for group classes that align with your interests or offer the opportunity to try something new. There are often
classes specifically for senior populations where you can meet other people to build new relationships and enjoy retired life together. Both the local library and city recreation department are helpful resources for finding these classes and groups. You can also go online to www.Meetup. com to find various social groups with a broad array of activities and interests. It's a great way to do the things you love and make new friends who have something in common. Retirement is a time of change that can be both wonderful and daunting. So whatever path you're considering, weigh your options carefully to find the best situation best suited for enjoying your new life.
Kimberly Blaker is a freelance lifestyle writer. She also writes content and blog posts for businesses for a wide range of industries and is an expert in onpage SEO. Find her at www.kimberlyblaker.com
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By: Raley L. Wiggins | Attorney at Law | Red Oak Legal, PC
“NOTHING WORTH FIGHTING OVER” Who is going to get what after you’re gone? I often hear clients tell me they’re not worried about who will get what after they’re dead and gone because, after all, “they haven’t got enough to be worth fighting over.” Well I’m here to tell you that there’s no such thing.
they see only what they want to see. Even if a dispute doesn’t wind up in an expensive and public court battle doesn’t mean that your family relationships haven’t been damaged. So, what can be done to prevent it? Here’s my simple two-step recommendation for avoiding these kinds of disputes. First: have a plan. Second: communicate that plan to your loved ones.
planning document. Don’t count on other family members to “take care of it” based upon your conversations with them. Over time, memories fade, and people die—you must formalize your wishes in your estate plan to ensure that they are carried out. Not to mention the fact that these kind of oral instructions or agreements are not enforceable after your death.
Certainly, the value of your earthly possessions can have some After you have a formal, impact upon whether a written plan in place, lawsuit is filed regarding your now is a good time to Estate Planning and Asset Protection Workshop communicate with your estate. But forget about lawsuits for a moment. Let’s loved ones about why Wednesday, January 22: Hosted by Red Oak Legal, PC: 1:30just talk about good ol’ family you made the choices you 3:30 pm at 322 Catoma Street downtown Montgomery. This feuds. made. Start with your educational workshop presented by local attorney Raley L. executor/agent, and then Wiggins covers wills, trusts, powers of attorney, advance The root of these disputes talk with your children or directives, living wills, probate administration, protecting assets may not be about the other closest relatives. from creditors, bankruptcy, divorce and remarriage, nursing money or the property, If there is any property homes, long-term care and Medicaid qualification. Registration is per se. Instead, it may be that is divided in a way required. Call 334-625-6774 today to reserve your seat or register a feeling that one sibling that might be perceived online at www.redoaklegalpc.com. (PLEASE NOTE THAT OUR took advantage of an ailing as less than equitable, parent’s generosity (or explain your choices to DECEMBER 18TH WORKSHOP HAS BEEN CANCELLED.) absent-mindedness) and your loved ones and give wound up with a vehicle, a them the opportunity to piece of furniture, or other heirloom that The first part is easy. Decide who you ask questions. When the time comes, was “supposed” to go to them. On the would want to manage your financial they will be less likely to read into each other hand, perhaps it is because the affairs if you are no longer able to do so. and every decision you made, because loved one’s last will and testament didn’t This person should be your agent under they will have had the chance to discuss treat everyone exactly the same, giving your Durable Power of Attorney. This it with you face-to-face. further credence to one child’s suspicion person is probably also a good choice to that their parent always loved their serve as your Executor to manage your There is no way to guarantee that brother or sister just a little bit more. assets after your death, although your your loved ones won’t fight over your executor and your agent do not need to worldly possessions once you’ve passed It doesn’t matter what the source of be the same person. Then, determine on. However, communication goes a the perceived slight may be. Once the how that person will manage your assets long way in avoiding hurt feelings and damage has been done in the mind of during your life (if the need arises) and misunderstandings. Now that we’re in the aggrieved family member, there may how they will divide your assets at death. the holiday season, take a moment to be no going back. The point is that after discuss your plans with your family while we are dead and gone, we can’t explain Next, decide how your assets should you’re all together and in good spirits. the choices we made during the estate be divided upon your death. Do you Raley L. Wiggins planning process. This often results in want any specific pieces of property to Attorney at Law, Red Oak Legal, PC loved ones “reading the tea leaves” to go to specific people? If yes, then the 334-239-3625 | info@redoaklegalpc.com 322 Catoma Street, Montgomery, AL 36104, draw their own conclusions about the only way to ensure that they get it is to www.redoaklegalpc.com meaning of every estate planning choice make a gift of those specific items of their loved one made while alive. Often, property via your will or other estate
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Charla Baumgardner, Retail Leader This month’s cover profile is an innovator in the retail business. When everyone is buying merchandise online, Charla Baumgardner has created a retail store where customers come and share life while being “spoiled with some retail therapy at Vivian O’Nay”. Charla launched her unique boutique store 2 years ago with a team of energetic and enthusiastic people who want nothing but the best shopping experience for everyone who comes through their front door. Vivian O’Nay is located on Highway 231 North in Montgomery and has been described by customers as the Chick-Fil-A of retail…makes you want to check it out, right? Charla loves her customers and sharing the fun shopping experience offered at Vivian O’Nay. She doesn’t mind sharing her faith when a moment calls for a comforting word and she also welcomes men to Vivian O’Nay while their wives and girlfriends relax and shop, so she created a “man cave” atmosphere to relax in, including cold beverages. The Vivian O’Nay team will also help men shop for their loved ones…Thank You! Charla took some time recently from her busy retail schedule to share some of her story, including her passion for Vivan O’Nay and family. We hope you enjoy getting to know her as much as we have…and don’t forget to have your man try out that “man cave”!
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long distance to Auburn to be able to get online using dial-up. We realized a local provider was needed and that is what our business provided. It became a full-fledged phone company and we had local businesses on highspeed wireless internet including Russell Hospital before DSL and cable modems.
Charla: I am originally The Vivian O'Nay Family from Montgomery but moved away in my even though I tried early twenties. My husband Earl and I as hard as I could moved back to the River Region about and always studied. 8 years ago to be closer to my family. I I quickly realized am a mother of five boys ranging in age that I was a much from 32 to 15 (Phillip, Charles, Benjamin, better worker than a Brock, and Bradley) and grandma to one student, so I decided granddaughter Adalyn, age 10. to drop out to pursue I come from humble beginnings and watched my Mom work very hard to take care of my brother, my sister, and myself. She instilled that work ethic in me, and I always tried to emulate her as I grew older. I started working part time at the age of fourteen and became the night floor manager at a local restaurant at sixteen. I always struggled with school
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We had four very busy children at the time and decided we needed a break, as the internet business is 24/7. We decided to sell the company and move to Destin, Florida. While living in Destin we purchased several condos and started a condo rental business. In 2010 we decided to move back to the Montgomery area and soon after started what became Vivian O’Nay.
work full time.
My husband and I have owned several businesses. We started an internet company in Alexander City in the mid-90s. At that time people would have to call
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of one of My mother the River got sick with Region’s cancer and I hottest decided that boutiques owning the called Vivian business was O’Nay, which too much for is located me at the on Hwy 231 time. I kept North. Would my booth you please open and we share with us had someone how you got else take over started and the bigger some of the part of the Earl and Charla enjoying a Queen concert with their challenges business. twins Benjamin and Brock of opening a After my specialty retail store like Vivian O’Nay’s? mother passed they decided not to rent What has been the greatest reward? Any the Depot building anymore and I knew lessons you can share with other aspiring the building would become vacant. entrepreneurs, especially, women? This led me to talking to some friends and my husband and to make the jump Charla: Being a boutique owner wasn't to expand Vivian O'Nay to the entire what I originally sought out to do. building. I was looking to purchase a rug for our The most rewarding part about being the house and found the Decorator Depot on owner of Vivian O’Nay is getting to offer Highway 231 in Montgomery. Somehow, what many of our customers refer to we got into a conversation and it came as "their happy place". We get to share up that the building was for sale and some of life's biggest moments with each we purchased the property. I decided other - good or bad. When our ladies are to open a vendor-based consignment having a bad day or someone in their shop called "River Region Depot". Inside family has passed, they come here to get the Depot I away. When had my own they have booth called a big job "Vivian O'Nay". interview, It started out a concert, small selection first date, or of clothing any other items and exciting accessories time we get and later grew to share into something those too! bigger because Knowing of the curvy we have a clothing I store where offered. The people feel customer at home, response was comfortable, Charla with all of her boys and Earl so positive and valued which made me realize there was a is so important to everyone who works niche that hadn't been met in our area. at Vivian O'Nay. My booth grew substantially due to the overwhelming support I received. Obviously as a business owner you learn many lessons. I have always been a The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
people pleaser and one of the hardest and most valuable lessons I have learned at Vivian O’Nay is that no matter how hard you try; you can’t please everyone. Also learning that I am not in control is something I struggle with daily. But I trust God in this journey as he has grown this business way beyond my dreams, he continues to amaze me with the people that walk-through Vivian O’Nay’s doors. I learn something new every day from customers and employees that he has blessed me with. If I were to give any
Charla's mother could scream Roll Tide louder than any man alive! Here she's enjoying an Alabama game on the sideline with grandkids
advice to other women in business or thinking of starting a business it would be to stay true to what you believe your mission is, be grateful for the people who take care of you and your investment, Give credit to others when it is due and everyone is entitled to a bad day… even you! Tomorrow is a new day chase your dreams! BOOM!: What do you mean when you and your team suggest customers come and “Spoil yourself with some retail therapy at Vivian O’Nay?” How would you describe your merchandise selection? What words do your customers use to describe their Vivian O’Nay experience? Charla: We describe our merchandise
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selection as a one stop come into our store and ask who shop! We want people “Vivian” is. The name of the boutique is to be able to come so important to me because it isn’t my into our store and own name, it’s named after childhood find everything they nicknames between my sister and I. need without having Customers always want to know where to go anywhere else. she is, but I say “Vivian” is everyone We carry women's who works hard, who cares about the clothing sizes small-3x, store, and who provides great customer shoes, accessories, service- so pick whoever you think she home, gifts, and might be!! more! Our customers have described us as BOOM!: With more than 32,000 likes/ the "Chick Fil a" and followers on Facebook, you have a big "Bass Pro" of women's presence in social media, how important clothing stores. We aim is social media to the success of your to have competitive brand? prices and offer the Childhood Best Friends Reunion after Charla moved back to Montgomery: L-R, Erin, Charla, Kim, Sandra, Catherine and Margaret Anne best customer service Charla: Social media has played a huge to treat everyone the way we want to be around. We want your part in the success of Vivian O'Nay, treated- The Golden Rule. You have the visit to Vivian O'Nay to be an experience particularly Facebook. ability to make people feel good about and leave you feeling better than when themselves by your actions and how you walked in our doors. The problem with Facebook and other they are treated when they walk in the social media platforms is that they are door, whether that be our customers or BOOM!: Most successful businesses always changing their algorithms. When coworkers. We strive to build women require a team effort; how do you we first started out our Facebook posts up, not tear them down. We also want recruit and instill the positive energy and were being seen and we could see the the store to be an open door for people enthusiasm in your team? How would impact with sales in the store. However, to come in you describe your leadership style in as Facebook and express putting together your successful “Vivian made their faith O’Nay” team? How does your Christian changes without feeling faith influence the Vivian O’Nay culture? to their uncomfortable. algorithm My prayer is Charla: At Vivian O'Nay we rarely recruit. our initial that when As stated, before I believe they were “post and people come led here. Each employee probably has they will in, they feel a story of how they ended up at Vivian come” loved and O’Nay but once here we are truly a strategy cared about team. Not only do we share workspace didn’t work and special, together we also share our lives. as well as it especially in once did. a world of To me, the best leaders are the hardest Now I have comparison, workers. This was instilled in me from an amazing social media, bosses I had at my first few jobs. They team of and pressures taught me to care about and have pride women to act or look in my job no matter what the task was who a certain way. and to care about my fellow employees. manage We feel it is so I never really set out to be anyone’s boss all Vivian Charla sharing a proud moment, important to but owning your own business obviously O’Nay’s the twins Benjamin and Brock's graduation make people requires you to fill that position. That social feel beautiful and empowered and being said, you also realize that you can’t media content. They constantly work valued because they are! When people do everything. I have been so fortunate to keep up with the latest social media walk out of our store, we hope they to find the right people at the right time trends including selling live on Facebook. leave feeling a million times better than for different roles. Social Media is a huge part of our when they walked in. business and every small business should Our faith influences so many aspects of be using it! The biggest honor to me is when people Vivian O’Nay. One way is how we desire
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BOOM!: and cold The holiday drinks to season is enjoy while the best their women time of year shop! They for retail, seem to like especially that way a great more than boutique like sitting in the yours. Can car or giving you share fashion some of advice to the your holiday ladies. promotions, like BOOM!: Grand Canyon with Charla, Earl, Adalyn and Charles “Boutique Many Shop Hop” people that BOOM! readers would be interested as they get older are experiencing a in? What about men shoppers, how do renewed sense of purpose, new goals, you welcome them? new careers, especially if they’ve experienced the empty nest syndrome Charla: We have five events we promote of their kids moving on. How would you throughout the year which span two describe this sense of renewal in your days. During these events we offer life? Any advice for the rest of us seeking promotions and fully catered food. renewal? One of our biggest is our Christmas Celebration, which is our version of a holiday open house. It's a lot of fun and customers really look forward to it to kick off their Christmas shopping. We also always run promotions for Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, and Cyber Monday. The Boutique Shop Hop is a concept where local boutiques in the River Region have teamed up together to encourage people to shop local this holiday season. We feel strongly that small locally owned businesses are the backbone of any community. We have a Facebook page- The Boutique Shop Hop (River Region) and we encourage everyone to like the page to find out more information. We hope this effort will help us raise awareness to how online shopping for things you can buy locally is taking money and tax dollars out of our area. Any man that walks in our door is always helped because we know they are probably shopping for someone special in their life. When they walk in, we want them to feel comfortable and confident that we will help him find the perfect gift. Besides that, we have a great man cave with 2 flat screen TV’s, leather couches, The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
a wonderful place. They are breaking the norms where so many people my age think of younger people as being so caught up in social media and texting. They do a great job taking care of our customers face to face and work hard for the store whether it’s in the front of the house or back. There is not enough I can say about the ladies my age and older who I see standing on their feet for hours and hours on end. Who laugh, cry and pray over our customers. Anytime I send a text asking for them to do more they always step up for me or anyone that may need them. I truly know I have so many amazing people from older to younger and I am so grateful for the blessings I get from so many of them! Knowing that there are many people who care and who will continue to pass on the way we do things with the “Vivian O’Nay Style” in the future, is a good feeling. Number 3: This might sound crazy but as a boutique owner, I hate shopping for myself, but I love going to new areas when I go to market, to find new merchandise to get excited about for our customers. I think excitement about something also helps people feel renewed and refreshed for the future. Number 4: I do not have an empty nest yet, thank goodness. I love coming home after a hard day and still seeing my family, and as I have gotten older it is difficult to watch the kids get older. I am just grateful I wake up and still have a messy house these days because that means they are still at home!
Charla: My sense of renewal comes from many aspects. Number 1: The customers that have walked into Vivian O’Nay straight from a funeral, death in the family, or any other horrible tragedy in their life. These women come in and say they just have to come to their happy place to be surrounded by people that love them. They want to be added to our prayer board and be hugged and prayed over. I think having renewal comes from feeling you have a purpose. Renewal to me If we can help comes from the brighten someone’s things that give day then that you joy and make means we have you happy whether a true purpose it be work, kids, behind what we grandkids, or are doing. Number The National Championship Game, Santa Clara CA friends…at my age- I 2: I feel renewed want to take it all when I am around in. I am surrounded daily by so many of the people, I surround myself with daily those things and for that I am grateful. that give me hope for the future, the young people. I see them give so much I did have so many goals for Vivian O’Nay of themselves to make Vivian O’Nay such
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but with God’s help and the team we have certainly surpassed all of them!
Vermont as a now I would probably be staying at home vacation spot with my youngest son and spending for my family. more time with my family. He is fifteen My husband and homeschooled. He is really active began going in sports and I would love to be able to there as a child go to all of his games and make him a BOOM!: What because his home cooked meal more often. I would are you most own mother take more trips to Arizona to see my passionate about? didn’t like to granddaughter and Salt Lake City to see fly, and she was my oldest son. I was lucky enough to Charla: Besides able to take be home with my kids when they were Vivian O’Nay and the train to younger, and I had that time with them my family, I love get there. She when they needed me. At this phase in to talk and share and I definitely my life they are probably thankful I have life lessons I have had that in the store and not home micromanaging learned. I think common everything. Ha Ha the memories we (among other Stowe Vermont, with our boys and some of the nieces have, our beliefs, things!). My I wouldn’t be able to do what I do and mistakes, and experiences should be kids are homeschooled, so we have spend the time that I need to at the passed onto others, so it may help them always been able to take long vacations boutique if it wasn’t for my husband, along the way. I want people to know it’s there and it has become kind of like a Earl. He has always been an entrepreneur okay to not always be perfect or put on second home for us. We have made but now he is able to take Bradley to a show. Just be yourself, love others, and some amazing friends there as well. It’s a every sporting event and every practice give back as much as you can. beautiful, relaxing, serene, “happy place” and be really involved with our twins. He for us. My ultimate travel goal would be takes care of everything while I’m able BOOM!: How do you like to relax and to get to make it to Israel to see the Holy to work and spend time at Vivian O’Nay. wind down from a hard day’s work? Land with my family. If I can make it on a He supports me in every way possible. flight that long! Hopefully one day. Without that support I wouldn’t be able Charla: Well, my husband says that to go to my Dream Job every day! my brain is like a web browser. I have We are so lucky in the River Region to 10,000 windows open at all times! I love live so close to the Lake and Beach. I love BOOM!: What is it about living in the to sit on the porch either at home or at to go tool around on a boat and watch River Region that you like? the store in the summer having good the sunset when conversations with my work family. In I can! I don't Charla: I was born and the winter I love going home and sitting get to travel raised here. I have been in front of the TV or binge Netflix in front as much as I able to reconnect and of a fire. To be completely honest though would like at have time with a lot of I don’t ever really unwind but those are this phase of my childhood friends the things I enjoy doing when I am not my life because through moving back to at work. I want to be an the River Region. I have active part of also met so many great BOOM!: What are some of your favorite my business people that I never travel experiences? Favorite vacation and think it's would have known spot? Any travel dreams planned? important to be had I not lived in this there as much area. With having five Charla: I just recently began traveling a as I can. boys it was important little more than I used to. My boys and for us to have some husband do mission work and travel to BOOM!: If land here, so we could the Philippines, Romania, and Africa. I you weren’t have a place where have always wanted to go with them, operating a they could do outdoor but I have a huge fear of flying. I recently unique specialty activities and anything have conquered this as best as I can and store...what kind else they want without Our boys playing paintball, have been making trips to Arizona to of work would having neighbors too enjoying the country life see my grand baby, Las Vegas to shop at you be doing? close by. We are also market for the store. Any dream jobs? not far at all from Lake Martin which we all love. My family also enjoys going We have always driven to Stowe, Charla: If I didn't own Vivian O'Nay right to the MPAC to local concerts because
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we all are passionate about music and love listening to it live. I also love that I get to enjoy my husband playing music. He has two bands that have concerts in the warehouse behind Vivian O’ Nay and we use the concerts to raise money for charities. Most importantly, I love coming to work every day and meeting the people we have in our area. I like to believe that because of our store and the people that work there we have made the River Region a little bit better because Vivian O’Nay is a part of it! BOOM!: As you’ve aged, how have your priorities changed? Charla: The hardest part about getting older is feeling like you aren’t needed as much anymore. As a young mom my whole world revolved around my kids. I cooked for them every day for most of their lives. I have three boys still at the house, but they are busy doing their own thing! I still value family time more than anything and love spending time with them. My main priority in life is to see my boys, who are all young men now, be happy and healthy and support them in any way I can so that they can live out their own dreams. My family is always number one but the store and my “Vivian O’Nay” family is a close number two! I have so much time and energy invested there I want to see it be successful. My brain is always spinning thinking about what we should be doing next! I never knew at this time of my life and at my age my priorities would be where they are right now with all of the responsibility I have. To be honest there’s many times I look at my husband and tell him I’m way too old to be doing all of this :-) BOOM!: Do you have any hobbies or other activities that grab your attention? Charla: My youngest son plays a lot of sports, so I go to a lot of football games, basketball games, and bowling tournaments. My favorite thing to do in the fall is to go to Alabama football games. We all go as a family. As a mom of five boys, if you The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
can’t beat em’ join em’! I always tell my husband that football season doesn’t seem to last long enough, but he always laughs and says that ours lasts longer than most!
just over 2 years. At this phase I feel like my responsibility is to the store and the people who depend on their jobs that work for me- thank God Earl takes care of everything else! Right now, there isn’t much of a balance but I’m working on finding it!
When Spring comes, I enjoy working in the yard planting flowers and starting a small garden. I have always loved to be outside and working in the yard is one of my absolute favorite things to do. It reminds me of growing up and being in the garden with my Grandparents and family. Some of the best memories I have are sitting under their back carport shelling peas and listening to stories of the “olden days” BOOM!: Technology is rooted in almost every aspect of our lives. What’s your relationship with technology? How do you and your team use technology to better serve your customers and operate a smart business? Charla: As I said earlier, My husband and I owned an Internet company called “WebShoppe” way before Facebook or Instagram. During the early days of the Internet we learned quickly you had to stay ahead of the curve. This has carried over to Vivian O’Nay and our use of technology.
BOOM!: Give us three words that describe you? Charla: Blessed, Giving, Determined
Staying on top of the technology helps us plan our marketing, inventory buying, and even cutting down on wait times at the register during busy days. One of the best ways we reach our customers is through our loyalty program and text messaging. Our customers can choose whether or not to opt into our program, but this allows us to send promotions directly to customers via text. BOOM!: With a busy life, how do you like to spend time with family? What is your grandparent name? Favorite activities to do with your grandchild? Charla: There is definitely a balance between work and home life which I am still working on getting right. The store is still young and new, but we are very big and busy. We have only been open
However, I do make time for things that are important to our family and our children, and to myself. On Adalyn’s breaks from school I love to go to Arizona to see her and she gets to be here with us in the Summer. She calls me grandma. This fall break she was able to get me on a rollercoaster and a water ride, which I never do. I have been trying to do things that make her happy even if it scares me to death. These are things my own children could never have gotten me to do! When we’re together we try to jam as many fun things into a short amount of time as we possibly can. After raising five boys and having a granddaughter, she can pretty much get anything she wants!
We want to thank Charla for sharing her story with us in this month's cover profile. We especially appreciate the Vivian O'Nay team for their help with coordinating the photo shoot and sharing information about the store. We encourage BOOM! readers to check out the Vivian O'Nay experience for yourself and maybe even the men in your life, they might learn to like shopping after all. To learn more visit www.vivianonay.com or call (334) 290-5268. Vivian O'Nay is located at 3500 Wetumpka Highway, Montgomery, AL. A special thanks to Alex and Dylan Photography for doing our cover shot this month, you can check them out at www.alexanddylanphoto. com. If you have questions, comments or suggestions about our cover profiles, including nominating someone, please send them to Jim Watson at jim@riverregionboom.com. Read all of the BOOM! Cover Profiles at www.riverregionboom.com/archive/
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Oatmeal Get your day off to a great start!
grated apple or a banana, or maybe a small handful of dried fruit such as raisins. You can also add different spices such as cinnamon or nutmeg or increase the fiber and healthy fat content with some ground flaxseeds or hemp seeds.
Now the days are definitely getting colder – even down in the South – a good hot breakfast is the best start you can give your body for the day ahead. Eating, or drinking, something nice and hot will warm you from the inside out (trust me, this works, they teach this in the Army when you’re out camping under the stars on a cold, frosty moor.) Of course, you can go for a “Full English” – bacon, sausage, eggs, baked beans, sautéed mushrooms, grilled tomato, which is also great, but maybe a bit much for every day. A quicker, possibly healthier, alternative is Porridge! Or oatmeal to you Porridge is an excellent start to the day because oats are a complex carbohydrate, providing slowreleasing energy throughout the morning and, as already stated, served piping hot it warms you from the inside which is just what you need on a chilly morning. Oat porridge made with water is a good mix of carbohydrates, protein and fiber and contains no salt or sugar. However, if you’re like me and cannot stand the taste of it with just water, opting to use milk will increase the fat, protein and calorie content, along with naturally occurring sugars in milk. Of course you can use skim milk (fat free) or almond milk or any other form of milk you prefer; just be aware of the additional calorie/fat/sugar content, though there are also benefits from all the choices too – extra calcium, vitamins and minerals for example. Both water-based and milk-based porridge can form the base of a balanced, filling breakfast that should keep you going till lunch. Oats contain a type of soluble fiber called
By all means get creative with your porridge toppings but remember that adding excessively sugary toppings will change the nutritional profile dramatically, so stick to sweet natural things, such as dried cranberries, fresh raspberries, slivers of dried apricots, a sprinkle of pure cocoa powder, for example. There are so many great healthy options, it really is completely unnecessary to overload with things that you know are bad for you. Finally, which oats to buy? Firstly, READ THE LABEL! Choose oats which only have oats as the single ingredient. Nothing else added. beta-glucan, which studies suggest can help lower your cholesterol level if you have 3g or more of it each day (so says the British Heart Foundation). A 40g serving of porridge oats contains 2g of beta-glucan, so a recommended serving size of half a cup of oats (around 50g) and 200ml of water or milk very nearly meets your daily quota. Oats contain magnesium, iron and zinc as well as the B vitamins. When you make porridge with milk, this vitamin and mineral content increases, as does the calcium content. The nutritional profile will further change depending on what you add to the recipe such as salt, sugars, fruits or peanut butter. This is when it all go very wrong if you start heaping on the maple syrup or sugar or chocolate chips, OR you can get closer to your 5-a-day by adding fresh fruit such as blueberries,
Rolled oats or steel cut oats have just been processed differently. Rolled oats are steamed and pressed and will cook quicker. Steel cut are cut into smaller pieces and have a chewier texture. Both are raw when bought, unlike the quickcook oats which have been partially cooked all ready. A half cup of rolled oats in 200 ml of milk will only take 1-2 minutes in the microwave to cook, so really how much time can quick cook oats save you?? I do find it best to cook for 1 minute, take it out, give it a good stir and then put back in for another minute. That way it gets evenly cooked and you can add your toppings at the end. Delicious! My favorite for the season – a quarter teaspoon of brown sugar sprinkled over the hot oats (no, you do NOT need more!) and either thinly sliced apple or a tablespoon of organic apple sauce. Cinnamon or nutmeg if you like. Yum, yum.
Tracy Bhalla, Independent Consultant with NYR Organics, website: us.nyrorganic.com/shop/tracybhalla email: nyrbhalla@gmail.com You can also visit Tracy’s blog
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MANE’s “Raise the Roof” Seafood Celebration More Fun Than EVER!
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MANE Volunteers Pat and Cyndi Crockett give special attention to their favorite equine partner.
Well over 300 River Region citizens gathered to show support for the area’s premier therapeutic riding facility known as Montgomery Area Nontraditional Equestrians or “MANE”. The 11th annual “Raise the Roof” Seafood Celebration took place in late October. MANE uses equine-related activities to serve area children and adults including veterans, who have physical, cognitive, emotional, and developmental disabilities, as well as at-risk youth. A fabulous seafood buffet, freshly prepared in MANE’s Poarch Creek Arena, was provided by Wintzell’s Oyster House. Baptist Health, MAX Credit Union, and Spire Energy sponsored the event.
Party-goers proceeded through the indoor section of the complex, which houses offices, classrooms, and The Kiwanis Korral – an indoor resource room where parents and caregivers can watch riders in the adjacent covered area. The walls of the corridor leading to the stable area were lined with “introductory boards”, designed by volunteers and featuring the many faces of MANE riders, volunteers and staff. Newly hung photos of MANE’s students Amelia Maddox and Greyson Buckelew competing in the 2019 Alabama Special Olympics Equestrian Games, held at MANE last May, were donated to the facility by Stephanie Maddox and Total Image of Montgomery.
Poundstone, James McIntre, Melissa Eubanks, Joseph Mussafer.
The 3-acre sensory trail has 10 carefully designed stations featuring activities that integrate the rider’s sensory input via sight, smell, hearing, and touch. The trail provides opportunities to enhance gravitational security, balance, grasp/ release, and proprioceptive input while riders engage in therapeutic horseback riding. For example, the giant tic-tac-toe game station was designed to challenge MANE riders’ cognitive ability to organize successful and appropriate responses to sensory input, while remaining mounted on their equine partner. The double figure eight shaped trail of crushed limestone aggregate encompasses a beautiful memorial garden, the Rotary Club covered arena, and an area filled with colorful flexible noodles suspended in air. On the way to the party, guests passed by MANE’s smaller, shaded sensory trail, which afford riders other interactive, learning experiences and was developed by Church of the Highlands volunteers.
Pat and Cyndi Crockett, Greg and Mary Jane Waller, Jerry and Kathi Claybrook, Ronald and Jennie Botterbosch, relatives contributing in memory of George F. Seier, DVM, Richard and Kay Keeshan, Anne Poundstone, Mazzi Richards, TThe FurminaTTor, Sue Bell Cobb, Spencer and Cindy Longshore, Joan Forst, Janet Treat, James Sloane, William Martin, Brent Krause, Emily Buce, Huck and Hemp Howell, Brenda Webster, Robert and Beverly Whitlock, Barbara Davis, Jim and Cathy Ridling, Savannah Mashburn, Kate Rudd, Greyson Buckelew, and Joey and Carrie Cauthen collectively sponsored all of MANE’s equine partners for the coming year. Community contributors to MANE and the MANE class scholarship program include Southeastern Wood, Guice Slawson, DiLaura Family Fund, John and Diane Henig, Bama Foundry, Holts Family, Broughton Family, Paul Hutchinson, Dr. Lauri Stewart, David Gregor, David Davenport, Amanda
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After meeting MANE’s horses, guests headed to the Poarch Creek Arena, where Wintzell’s Oyster House was preparing a fresh feast, which included an array of grilled and fried oysters, fish, chicken, and shrimp. At an ice-filled food station, Wintzell’s well-trained culinary brigade shucked raw oysters, harvested from the Gulf earlier in the day. MANE volunteers are the backbone of this program, working countless hours throughout the year and in preparation of events. Volunteers of all ages and skills are needed to assist riders, help maintain the facility, and work with horses, either on a weekly basis for classes. MANE now offers monthly community service opportunities for youth between the ages of 8 and 13 to serve at MANE in the newly formed Junior Volunteer Hour, held on the 3rd Tuesday of each month at 4 pm. Community leaders, retired citizens, and students donate many hours and immeasurable knowledge and encouragement to program participants each year. Often, volunteers are introduced to MANE by attending events such as Raise the Roof. For more information about MANE, please visit MANE’s website at www. maneweb.org. To volunteer or register for MANE’s programs, please call 334-213-0909 or email maneinfo@ maneweb.org . Donations can be sent to: MANE, 3699 Wallahatchie Road, Pike Road, AL 36064.
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Made in Americus At first glance, it’s a lazy, laid-back of other amazing 19th century structures Southern town with a population we’ve visited like Mountain View Grand of about 17,000. But if one simply Resort in New Hampshire, Jekyll Island scratches the Club Hotel in Georgia surface, Americus or even Alabama’s is actually a own Grand Hotel in vibrant city Fairhope. Like all the steeped in rich nation’s historic hotels, history, beautiful the Windsor is a unique architecture and treasure that allows the arts. In the guests to lounge, sleep midst of farm and dine in the arc of country 150 miles history. With unique south of Atlanta, architecture combining Americus was Moorish elements with once the 8th Victorian, the Windsor has largest city in played host to presidents Georgia. Today, like Jimmy Carter—he at 65th largest, lives ten miles away in it’s a shadow Plains—and Franklin D. of the bustling Roosevelt. Guest Charles Jeff by Lobby Fireplace of the Windsor Hotel railway hub it once was. Nevertheless, Americus has Lindbergh bought some amazing attractions that make his first plane and it an interesting and fun destination. made his solo flight at What really intrigues me is—like nearby Souther Field. many Southern towns—Americus is Baseball legend Ty an interesting study in demographics Cobb once graced the and not so hidden potential. What Windsor as has, more accelerated the city’s growth toward recently, American the close of the 19th century—rail Idol star Kelly Clarkson transportation—was also its demise as and many other competing forms of transport replaced notable personalities. the railroad. Management But today the showed us to railroad is back the bridal suite as a tourist where it is rumored the infamous attraction, and gangster Al Capone once slept enthusiastic under the watchful eye of body locals are eager guards. to share their town’s heritage. The lobby of the Windsor is a magnificent soaring space What initially of three stories, ending in attracted us a beautiful domed ceiling, was the city’s featuring massive brass centerpiece, chandeliers, each having three the Historic tiers of elaborate etched arms Windsor Hotel. holding twelve globes. Four It’s reminiscent different colors of Italian marble Grand Lobby of Windsor Hotel make up the mosaic floor topped
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by an oriental carpet that fills the entire space. Comfortable velvet sofas and chairs invite guests to relax and drink in the history as reflected in a ten-foot-tall gold pier mirror at the end of the room. White orchids fill large glass containers upon antique tables, adding an air of elegance. Period oak paneling covers the walls, broken on the first floor by sections of cream plaster. Balconies with oak posts and balustrades separated by white spindles fully encircle the lobby on the second floor. The third-floor features white metal ogee shaped Juliet balconies on all four sides each centered on a Moorish arch that leads to the most highly prized rooms. Our room was wellappointed with period furnishings but also modern appliances, including a small refrigerator, microwave, Keurig, TV and ceiling fan. The room’s pale blue walls reminded me of a room we were assigned at the Plaza in New York. But unlike many hotels of similar grandeur, the Windsor, The Windsor Hotel less than three hours from the River Region, is quite affordable. Across the street from the hotel’s main entrance, one may purchase fresh fruit and vegetables displayed in front of a classic barber shop that still offers haircuts after fifty years, eat a delicious lamb gyro at the Gyro City Mediterranean Grill or have a cup of coffee at the Café Campesino that partners with and supports coffee growers in Latin America, Africa and Indonesia. Café Campesino coffee is
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basically just chillin’. In my view, it’s also a big plus that the drive from the River Region to Americus and back is through pleasant farming country over uncongested backroads—no sitting on the Interstate stuck in traffic for miles and hours.
glassblowing “Dragons.”
There’s certainly much to see in and around Americus that I don’t have space for in this column. Therefore, I’ll leave those surprises for I wouldn’t characterize BOOM! readers Americus as glitzy. But to discover. I’ll it’s definitely historic, say this: upon interesting, hospitable departing, Cindy and re-yall Southern. and I regretted That’s what I loved. If that we only Rylander Theatre If you read my feature on the ancient only they would give a had twenty-four art of glassblowing in Boom’s August belt to that young fellow who stepped hours to explore as we were merely 2019 issue, you may be interested in from his orange car at the produce passing through on business. We would visiting the Americus stand with his pants hanging below his like to have had more time manufacturing facility butt … but I’ve seen him in the River to view the many gorgeous “Mobile Glassblowing Region, too. So, what can I say? Perhaps, homes, or perhaps take a Studios” located someday, if we’re lucky, the South’s train ride over to Cordele, at 505 West Lamar pants shall rise again. Meanwhile, go see Georgia—just to ride a Street. They ship Americus. train—and see the sights mobile glassblowing along the way. But within equipment all over the our limited schedule, we www.Windsor-americus.com U.S. and Canada. Phil found immense pleasure www.rylander.org Vinson, Chuck Wells leisurely rocking on the and their friendly Windsor’s 2nd floor veranda www.facebook.com/kinnebrewco staff welcome visitors overlooking Lamar Street, www.mobileglassblowingstudios.com and enjoy showing enjoying the sunset, chatting off their Made in with locals, having a splendid Americus© uniquelybreakfast in the hotel’s designed mobile ornate dining room and Jimmy Carter's Handprints A brief stroll east on West Lamar Street and one discovers more restaurants, quaint shops, famous Kinnebrew’s Clothing and the fabulous Rylander Theatre where the handprints of famous people are embedded in the sidewalk. Director Heather Stanley revels in showing and discussing the amazing attributes of this beautifully restored theatre—once known as “The Finest Playhouse South of Atlanta.” You may wish to check out its impressive calendar of events in advance of your visit and take in a show.
Jeff S. Barganier is a freelance writer and manages Cindy Barganier Interiors LLC in Pike Road, Alabama. (www.cindybarganier.com) He travels far and wide upon the slightest excuse for something interesting to write about. Contact him at Jeffbarganier@knology.net. Follow him on Instagram #jeffbarganier.
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“LIGHTS! ACTION! CHRISTMAS!” "A true story from the Greg files" everyone in the family in a text message the minute it’s finished.
“Ok BOOMer”. Have you heard? If someone younger dismisses us, our opinions or actions, we’re supposed to feel insulted when they say, “OK BOOMer”. Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn. I’ll tell you what, though. If I’d been insolent to my Dad in that manner“OK Mr. Greatest Generation”- I’d have deserved a kick in the keister. “BOOMer” is a demograhic. “Greatest Generation” was an honor earned. Most of our folks survived a depression, spent a good chunk of their youth facing death or sacrifice during World War II, then worked to secure America’s spot as the best country on the planet. You know what else the Greatest Generation did very well? Christmas! Today’s Dad can capture all the magic of Christmas morning in beautiful HD the moment his kids wake up to see what Santa delivered. Whip out the smart phone, shoot, and send the video to
My childhood Christmas mornings were captured on 8MM film. Those precious films were saved to VHS tape in the 80s, and the VHS tapes were converted to CDs 15 years ago. I haven’t been able to bring myself to watch them in many years. You probably know why. I’m a mush-bag. Too many tears. BUT- I love remembering those Christmases! Does that make sense? The holidays began when department store Christmas catalogues arrived around the end of September. My brother, sister and I would spend hours flopped down on the floor, flipping pages, making a list with more thought, caution and neatness than our homework. Overnight delivery was not an option, so when we walked our Santa letters to the mailbox we’d double-flip the lid to make sure they dropped in. When Christmas morning FINALLY arrived
the three of us would awaken around 4AM. Mom and Dad then held us in Detention Centers (upstairs bedroom) for what seemed like an eternity. Everything was ready, but Dad had to get the 8MM camera ready to capture all the excitement. He did so with the painstaking care of Steve Spielberg. Cameras weren’t simple then. Film loaded? Check. F-Stop set? Check. Tripod for the camera? Check. Bar of lights? Bar of lights? Yes. Since we generally were up several hours before daybreak, Pops had to light the room. He had a metal bar containing bulbs salvaged from WWII interrogation rooms. BRIGHT! When we were finally sprung from Christmas detention, we’d turn directly into those glaring lights, our little-kid pupils dilating, groping our way down the stairs with the handrail. Smiles were hard to come by with our faces contorted in squint from the klieg lights, but Director Dad, capturing the scene would remind us “SMILE! IT’S CHRISTMAS”. Our seared retinas would eventually correct so we could see what Santa brought. Our Christmases were great. We were so spoiled. I can’t remember being disappointed, ever- but recall one gift- make that two, that helped shape Gregory Benjamin Budell‘s future.
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One, was a MAGNAVOX reel-toreel tape recorder. I couldn’t believe it was mine! State of the art! I can’t recall my first words, but I remember the playback. That wasn’t me! Everyone says that the first time we hear our recorded voice. We don’t hear ourselves the way others do because of something to do with the auditory canal or the Eustachian tube (not sure which). I practiced with that thing every day and it served me well. I was a master with reel to reel tapes on the radio- recording calls, winners; instinctively knowing exactly how far to rewind for playback. The other formative gift was a Tom Thumb Typewriter. It was an actual typewriter (with keys that struck a ribbon pressing ink onto paper). The Tom Thumb was great for an aspiring writer. By the time I got to 7th grade I could do 50 words per minute- my way. It is still my way. Yes, I look at the keyboard, producing 50-60 mediocre words per minute,
After filming 50 feet of Christmas joy, Pops would take the small reel and mail it off to someplace in Texas. Within two weeks, it would return, developed, ready for play on our modern Kodak film projector. New film required a Sunday dinner, so my grandparents could join us to watch the new film. There’s a scene in National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation (an annual Christmas Eve tradition for the Budells) where Clark Griswold finds himself trapped in his attic. With nobody home to spring him, he kills the time watching grainy old 8MM films just like those my Dad used to make. A sentimental Ray Charles tune plays on the soundtrack, while he watches his childhood replay on the attic wall- tears streaming down his face. I totally get it. Everyone in my old films (excepting my sisters) is long gone. Remembering those days leaves less mental wreckage than re-watching them.
When my daughter was a kid, I tried to give her memorable Christmases like I enjoyed. They were taped on a modern VCR with a built-in light. She has copies of every Christmas. If there’s a lamentation here, it is the Sunday dinner with the family- the occasion created by the newly arrived film. Not that there’s anything wrong with FaceTime, instant video or any of that. It just didn’t bind us together the way 50 feet of grainy film did. Join me in having the Merriest Christmas possible this year! OK, BOOMer? If you have a comment on this column, email me at gregbudell@aol.com. It’s still fun to hear from new people!
Greg Budell lives in Montgomery with his wife, Roz, and dogs Hershey and Briscoe. He’s been in radio since 1970, and is marking 12 years in the River Region in 2017. He hosts the Newstalk 93.1FM Morning Show with Rich Thomas, Jay Scott & Emily Hayes, 6-9AM Monday-Friday. He returns weekday afternoons from 3-6PM for Happy Hour with sidekick Joey Clark. Greg can be reached at gregbudell@aol.com
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Alabama Governor’s Mansion Christmas Candlelight Tours Alabama Governor’s Mansion Mondays, December 2nd, 9th, 16, 5:50 - 7:30 pm
Holiday Candlelight Tours December 2nd, 9th & 16th from 5:30pm7:30pm. This is a FREE self-guided tour that requires a ticket to enter. Tickets are available at the Governor’s Mansion Gift Shop. Questions regarding the Holiday Candlelight Tours please contact us at: Mansion. Tours@governor.alabama.gov or call 334-834-3022. The Alabama Governor's Mansion serves as the people's house. One of the most special traditions is opening it to the public for Christmas. For more information, call 334.834.3022 or visit website: governor.alabama.gov/governor-kay-ivey/governors-mansion
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Dancing at Lughnasa Cloverdale Playhouse December 5-15, check for times This extraordinary play is the story of five unmarried sisters eking out their lives in a small village in Ireland in 1936. We meet them at the time of the Festival of Lughnasa, which celebrates the pagan god of the harvest with drunken revelry and dancing. Their spare existence is interrupted by brief, colorful bursts of music from the radio, their only link to the romance and hope of the world at large. A memory play, the story is told through the eyes of the son of one of the sisters as he remembers the five women who raised him: his mother and four maiden aunts. For tickets and more info visit www.cloverdaleplayhouse.org
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River Region Holiday Party For A Purpose CaraVita Village Thursday, December 5th, 6-8:30 pm The Alzheimer's Association is hosting River Region’s 1st Annual Holiday Party for A Purpose Event and Inaugural Ceremony for the Tree of Hope (decorate and add the color of the ornament to the tree that represents your connection to Alzheimer's/Dementia). Join Us as we mix and mingle, with cocktails, music, horderves, host a silent auction, and Kendra Scott Jewelry display (% of jewelry proceeds will be given to support River Region) click the following eventbrite link https://alzholidayparty. eventbrite.com to purchase your ticket & Ornament(s).
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Holidays on the Harriott II Fridays/Saturdays, December, 6:30-9 pm
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Come enjoy the holiday lights aboard Montgomery's Harriott II Riverboat. This holiday cruise event features a plated meal, live entertainment and cash bar, all while enjoying holiday cheer within the beautifully decorated decks of the Harriott II. Tickets are for dinner only; these cruises do not offer a patio/ride only option. Holiday Menu: 6 oz Filet of Beef, 4 Medium Grilled Shrimp, Garden Salad, Au Gratin Potatoes, French Green Beans, Dinner Roll & Turtle Cheesecake. Boarding begins at 6:30 p.m. Cruises from 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Ticket prices: Holiday dinner (adult) $48, Holiday dinner (child) $38. Call 625.2100 for more information.
BIRMINGHAM, ALABAMA Cirque Dreams Holidaze BJCC-Concert Hall, Birmingham Friday/Saturday, December 6-7
An international cast of over 30 multitalented and brilliantly costumed artists come to life and perform astonishing feats of disbelief. Experience gingerbread men flipping mid air, toy soldiers marching on thin wires, snowmen daringly balancing, icemen powerfully sculpting, penguins spinning, puppets dancing and reindeer soaring high above a landscape of holiday wonderment. An original music score and some seasonal favorites accompany hundreds of spectacular costumes and holiday dreams in a setting of gigantic gifts, colossal candy canes and 30-foot towering soldiers. The perfect way to come in from the cold, forget the holiday stresses and rediscover the magic of the season. www.ticketmaster.com
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We the People: Alabama’s Defining Documents Alabama Department of Archives, Downtown Through December 12th, 12:30-4:30 pm The public is invited to a ribbon cutting ceremony at 1:00 p.m. to celebrate the opening day of We the People: Alabama's Defining Documents, a Bicentennial Exhibition of Alabama's Six Constitutions that will run from November 5 - December 12. We the People: Alabama’s Defining Documents will feature all six of Alabama’s constitutions, along with the 1861 ordinance of secession, which declared Alabama’s separation from the Union on the eve of the Civil War. This exhibition will explore how these documents, some of the most important in state history, reflect their framers’ values, hopes, and fears. During the exhibition, the Museum of Alabama will offer extended hours on Tuesday and Thursday evenings from November The River Region’s 50+ Lifestage Magazine
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The Living Christmas Tree First Baptist Church, Montgomery Downtown Friday, December 13 , 7 pm, December 14 & 15, 4 pm and 7 pm The Living Christmas Tree is truly a Montgomery Christmas tradition. Join First Baptist on December 14th - 15th, and see the sights and sounds of Christmas come to life! Hear beautiful music from the choir of more than 150 singers with a full live orchestra and thousands of lights on the decorated tree! The Living Christmas Tree has been presented each year since 1981. The program varies from year to year, so even if someone has seen the tree in the past, there is new music and a new program to experience. A variety of styles of Christmas music are presented…from traditional Christmas favorites to new and exciting Christmas songs. For more information, call 334.241.5156 or visit website: www.montgomeryfbc.org
PRATTVILLE, ALABAMA
A Main Street Christmas Downtown Prattville Tuesday, December 17th, 5-7:30 pm Enjoy the lights and decorations, visit with Santa, and have fun while you shop Downtown Prattville for gifts for all the special people on your Christmas list. There will be caroling, children’s projects, hot chocolate, and more. Participate in the Chamber of Commerce Love What’s Local Basket for prizes when you shop downtown. Bring your family and friends and stroll through the lights of downtown and enjoy the dancing lights on the spillway and the 30’ Christmas Tree. For more information, call the Special Events Office at (334) 595-0850 or visit www.prattvilleal.gov. FREE.
at the Fitzgerald Home. Our New Year's Eve Party will feature a tent and dance floor on the lawn with heaters. Inside, music in the piano room, professional photo booth in the Scott Suite, hors d'oeuvres and drinks, and a champagne toast at midnight. Tickets Here: thefitzgeraldmuseum.networkforgood.com/ events/16416-the-fitz-new-year-s-eve-party
BIRMINGHAM, ALABAMA Cher, Here We Go Again Legacy Arena, BJCC Wednesday, March 18th, 8-10 pm For more info visit www.bjcc.org
MONTGOMERY, ALABAMA
The Color Purple Musical MPAC Friday, May 22nd, 8 pm
Based on the Alice Walker’s Pulitzer Prize-winning novel and the Warner Bros. / Amblin Entertainment motion picture, THE COLOR PURPLE is adapted for the stage by Tony- and Pulitzer-winner Marsha Norman with music and lyrics by Brenda Russell, Allee Willis and Stephen Bray. THE COLOR PURPLE went on to win two 2016 Tony Awards, including Best Revival of a Musical, two Drama Desk Awards, including Outstanding Revival of a Musical, the 2017 Grammy Award® for Best Musical Theater Album and a Daytime Emmy®. THE COLOR PURPLE played 483 performances on Broadway, closing on January 8, 2017. For ticket info visit www.mpaconline.org
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Capital City Raycom Media Camellia Bowl Christmas Parade Downtown Montgomery Friday, December 20, 6:15-8:30 pm The Capital City Raycom Media Camellia Bowl Christmas Parade, scheduled for December 20 at 6:15 pm in the annual celebration of the holiday season featuring bands, fans and players in town for the 2019 ESPN Raycom Media Camellia Bowl. “Each year, the creativity, innovation and all-out enthusiasm of the floats and marchers brings a little bit of the North Pole down to Dexter Avenue,” Montgomery Mayor Todd Strange said. “We encourage everyone to join us this year for a celebration of holiday spirit and the pageantry associated with big-time football!" The parade will begin at the steps of the state capitol and will end at Court Square Fountain.
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Roaring '20s New Year's Eve Party The Fitzgerald Museum, 919 Felder Avenue Montgomery, AL Tuesday, December 31, 9-1 am Come join us for this once in a lifetime event to ring in the new '20s
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A Lassie Christmas with Jon Provost
depicting snowing. “They would use little shreds of white plastic dropped from above that would appear like snowflakes coming Jon Provost and Lassie pose for a Christmas episode down or landing on our clothes. That was the “The crazy thing is we would be filming magic of Hollywood before computera Christmas episode during summer generated in Southern California where it was 90 images.” degrees,” said Provost from his home During the seven years Jon Provost starred as little Timmy Martin in the CBS TV series “Lassie” from 1957 to 1964, several end-ofyear Christmas episodes aired. Most still stand out in Provost’s mind for one reason.
north of San Francisco. “We were all bundled up like it was 30 degrees and just dying from the heat. But of course, you kept acting and did what had to be done for the episode.” In the 1961 episode “Yochim's Christmas” where Timmy, Lassie, and a friend rescue a man trapped under an overturned sleigh, there was plenty of ‘snow’ used for the scene.
“It was fake, of course” explained Provost. “For snow on the ground, a machine almost like a fire truck was used to spray soap suds all over the hillside. We would have to shoot scenes before the suds turned back to liquid. Knowing that, if you go back and look at the episode again, you'll notice it’s not really behaving like real snow.”
A frequent guest at autograph shows and classic film/TV events, Provost says he still gets asked the same questions about “Lassie.”
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“When I wrote my autobiography with my wife Laurie, I looked through the synopsis of all 249 half-hour episode scripts and there was no mention of Timmy ever falling into a well,” he said, adding its origin remains a mystery. “But that one will follow me forever!”
Although it’s been six decades since the series first aired in 1954, reruns of the adventures of Lassie and “People have the Timmy still perception that air in dozens we had three or of countries, Jon Provost, June Lockhart, Hugh Reilly, and Lassie pose for a four dogs on the including the Christmas photo set at the same U.S. on cable. time to do different things, but that As for the Christmas episodes, stories was not the case. Rudd Weatherwax, typically tugged on viewers’ heartstrings Lassie’s owner and trainer, such as “The Christmas Story” from 1960 would only allow one real where Timmy helped a homeless family. Lassie on the set at a time, although Lassie did have a “People tell me all the time about double that was used for growing up with ‘Lassie’ and the warm long shots like running, feeling they still have about the show,” climbing, or swimming.” says Provost. “The stories had morals
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Provost worked with three different Lassies during his time on the show and all were males rather than the females portrayed in the series.
and values attached to all the episodes which are lacking in today’s television. I think that's the reason it has retained its appeal.”
Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University at Montgomery, Ala, and has written features, columns, and interviews for over 650 newspapers and magazines.
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