your kids the gift of giving. By volunteering, as a family or individually, they learn they can have a
SCOTT TITTERINGTON Perspective
It’s all the little things
I HAVE A PENDANT that I wear most days. I tuck it under my shirt where it serves as a reminder to me to be kind and compassionate. Sometimes I truly need that reminder, too! It’s large enough so that I notice it, and the chest strap on the seat belt rubs on it, as an extra reminder.
When I put it on in the mornings, I take that moment to set my intention to be of use to others and to treat them with kindness and compassion. I likely won’t do anything that is spectacularly helpful, but a day of little kindnesses adds up and the effect ripples. When I simply smile at someone and they smile back, a whole process has happened that makes me happy and makes that other person, whom I might have never seen before, happy too. And our next interactions are more likely to be positive. The Dalai Lama talks a lot about compassion and happiness. Here he addresses how our little actions matter: “Change starts with us as individuals. If one individual becomes more compassionate it will influence others and so we will change the world.”
Yeah, that’s right, we can change the world, one small act at a time. In that quote he also points out that it’s up to us. It’s our responsibility.
Don’t we feel better when we perform even a small act of kindness? Or on the other end, when we receive graciously and appreciatively an act of kindness, it’s almost as though we gave someone the gift of being kind to us. That might sound funny, but I’ve seen it happen. Someone opens a door for me when my hands are full, and we look at each other, smile, and have a little connection.
Here’s another Dalai Lama quote (okay, I googled ‘quotes on compassion’ and these came up): “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”
Of course, there are few stories more well known than the parable told by Jesus of the good Samaritan. We even have Good Samaritan laws that are designed to encourage people to help others in need without fear of future negligence claims.
So giving and helping others is deeply rooted in our society, history and psyche. Please take a minute to look at Katie Harris’ story about volunteering. She talks about volunteering and then dives in with some solid ideas. Getting out there and engaging with others is a great way to reinforce with your kids, and maybe even yourself, the joy that we can share with others.
With an attitude of gratitude,
Scott
NOVEMBER 2024 • Volume 28, Issue 6
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Kids and body image—Role modeling a positive attitude
THE COLORADO WOMEN’S CENTER says, “Body image issues can profoundly impact a woman’s self-esteem, mental health, and overall quality of life.”
It’s hard to explain to a young person they are more than just their body. We have to have these conversations so many times and in so many ways.
Tips on talking to kids about bodies
• Start early: Have conversations about bodies and body parts during infancy.
• Be open: Be open and have relaxed conversations. They’ll be uncomfortable if you are!
• Be sensitive: Be sensitive to your child’s emotions and let them know you’re there for them.
• Be prepared: Be prepared for questions and brush up on the subject before they ask.
• Talk about consent: Remind your child that no one should make them do anything that doesn’t feel right. They are the boss of their body.
• Have multiple conversations: One conversation is not enough. Have them at different ages and stages in your child’s development.
Media/social media and body image
Our words can have a powerful impact on how teens view themselves; so can the words of others, whether those people are their friends, or online influencers they’ve never—and will never—meet. According to research published by the American Psychological Association, teens and young adults who reduced their social media use by 50 percent for just a few weeks saw significant improvement in how they felt about both their weight and their overall appearance compared with peers who maintained consistent levels of social media use. The Colorado Women’s Center agrees, “In a society that often emphasizes unrealistic standards of beauty, many women struggle with negative perceptions of their bodies.”
Social media can negatively impact a teen’s body image by driving them to compare themselves against others. With an overabundance of images of so-called “perfect” bodies, it’s easy for teenagers to understandably start comparing their own appearance with what they see on social media. Like many other things in life such as school performance, athletic ability, and more, it’s essential we teach our kids to compare themselves only to their goals, their best, and what makes them happy.
Being a positive role model
Children often mirror what they see, so model healthy behaviors and attitudes towards your own body. When we say unkind things about our own bodies, our kids will pick that up. Even further, simply not talking about bodies ever, other than explaining the parts and how they work is best. Refraining from criticizing ourselves is not enough. Some of the best ways to role model is simply by listening and refraining from judgement when kids share things that
are hard for us to hear. Even when those statements aren’t true. Listening and validating kids’ feelings and experiences might be hard, but this honest response is more helpful in the long run. If our kiddo says they feel ugly, instead of saying “NO! You’re BEAUTIFUL!” it is often more supportive to simply validate that statement as a true one from them in the moment: “Oh honey, I know what the feels like, and it’s so hard!” Of course we think our kids are more beautiful than all the others, but as parents, that statement can feel a little unbelievable to the child; but saying feeling not-sobeautiful is a hard thing to feel, is believable.
Prepare for winter fun!
Skating
Slice some ice this season at one of Northern Colorado’s go-tos for skating!
In Loveland, the fountain park located in the center of the Promenade Shops at Centerra transforms into an ice rink each winter, where families can take a break from holiday shopping to don a pair of skates. Visit www. icerinkattheshops.com/home for more information.
The Edora Pool and Ice Center (EPIC) in Fort Collins offers year round, indoor skating on its two, 200-foot by 85foot rinks. For a schedule of public skate times, visit www.fcgov.com/ recreation/epic.
In Greeley, head over to the Ice Haus during one of its Public Skate, Family Skate, or Cosmic Skate sessions on the indoor rink. More information can be found at www.greeleyrec.com/greeley-ice-haus/.
All locations offer skate rentals and skating aids (walkers). The Greeley Ice Haus and EPIC also offer skate lessons.
Sledding
One of Northern Colorado’s treasures, Hidden Valley in Rocky Mountain National Park was once a popular ski area. These days it’s a family favorite for sledding and tubing, as the only place in the national park where the sport is permitted. Sled rentals are only available outside the park. Restrooms are open daily off the parking lot, and a warming house is open most weekends. Please note that a park pass is required to visit Hidden Valley. Visit www.nps.gov/ romo/planyourvisit/winter_activities.htm to learn more.
Lovelanders know that Kroh Park is the place to go for sledding in the city of love. The hill on the east side of the park is often crowded with sledders of all ages after a snow storm. Visit https://tinyurl.com/6ru7pkxj for park details. For decades, families from all over the region have flocked to the hill at Nottingham Field on the University of Northern Colorado Campus in Greeley for some of the best sledding around. With an abundance of parking and plenty of room on the hillside, it’s easy to see why it’s a local hot spot this time of year. For a map, visit www.unco.edu/map/ ?card=athleticsamprecreation,nottingham-field.
Skiing and snowboarding
After celebrating its grand opening in January of this year, HoeDown Hill in Windsor will be back up and running for the 2024-25 season with its convenient if mild, sub-200-foot vertical slopes perfect for first timers, those in need of a refresher, and anyone wanting to enjoy some slope time minus the infamous I-70 traffic. NOCO’s newest ski and snowboard locale also offers an ever-changing terrain park, the self-proclaimed “longest tubing hill in North America”, and lessons for beginners. Check out www.hoedownhill.com/ for details.
Looking for something a bit more intense? Eldora Mountain Ski Resort is our closest bet for bigger slopes. Located 1.5 hours away in Nederland, the resort is set to open on Nov. 15th this year and will once again offer 25 miles of trails of all difficulty levels, along with rentals and lessons. Visit www. eldora.com/ for information and ticket purchases. Ready to strap on those skis but the snow’s just not cooperating yet? Get a jump start on your season with a trip to Infinity Slopes in Loveland. The indoor ski and snowboard gym offers a freestyle park, open sessions, and lessons for all ability levels, ages 3 and up, in both disciplines. All equipment is included in the cost of a pass. For details, visit www.infinityslopes.com/.
Favorite Things
Play it safe
SPORTS ARE GREAT for children. Sports can help a child’s physical coordination, fitness, and self-esteem. Sports can also teach children about teamwork and self-discipline. But children are more likely get injured when playing a sport. This is because their bodies are still growing, and their coordination is still developing. We want our kids to develop skills, but we also want them to be safe. We want them to try new things and we want them to have prepared bodies and minds.
Most childhood sports injuries occur when kids don’t know what to do to stay safe when playing a sport, so it’s up to us as caregivers to teach them, show them, or simply have rules around safety. The most common ways kids get injured during sports is when they don’t have the right equipment to play a sport (or don’t have any equipment at all) and when they aren’t in good physical shape to play the sport.
Sports Helmet
Buy from: ACE Hardware, Orchards Shopping Center, 269 E 29th Street, Loveland
A bike helmet is must-have for all kids (and adults). They can wear it biking, scootering, roller blading, and more. This Bell sports shadow toddler helmet features a classic shape and solid protection for your kid. It features six vents to keep heads cool and side squeeze buckles to make easy fit adjustments. The extended rear coverage gives additional protection, especially for kids learning and who fall a little more often than more experienced riders. It fits heads from 18.9 inches to 20.5 inches and is a must for staying safe while learning the ropes.
My Strong Muscles: A Book About Growing Big and Strong For Kids (Human Body For Kids) Buy from: Old Firehouse Books, 232 Walnut St, Fort Collins
Learning about strong bones and muscles is not only educational, but also teaches the importance of strength and how our bodies can learn to be stronger and more agile. When we help our kids understand the big picture of training our bodies to learn to do sports, they have a growth mindset—and typically a healthier approach and attitude when they struggle to learn athletic skills. In this beautifully illustrated children’s book kids learn all about their strong and amazing muscles. Featuring comical and adorable characters that explore the human body and discover how muscles work, the purpose of muscles, and how to make them grow big and strong.
Kids’ Owala 16 oz Stainless Steel Flip Water Bottle Buy from: Scheels, 4755 Ronald Reagan Blvd, Johnstown
Staying hydrated is the most overlooked or forgotten way to avoid sports injuries. Drinking water before, during, and after workouts regulates your body temperature, delivers nutrients and oxygen to your cells, and removes waste. Water cushions the joints and being dehydrated can affect your flexibility and speed endurance. Hydration is essential for proper muscle function (including the heart muscles), and it helps you avoid cramps.
Water bottles can be purchased literally anywhere. And, many of us adults already have several in the house. However, the Owala brand (pictured) is the current “cool” thing for tweens and teens.
Head down to Dallas: Soak up some history, gardens and city lights
Day 1:
As you make your way southeast, stop 3.5 hours in for a visit to the Sand Creek Massacre National Historic Site in Eads. A walk along the 1.5-mile Bluff Trail serves as more than just an opportunity to stretch your legs. Signage along the interpretive trail details the horrific events that occurred at this site in the mid-19th Century, an important while heart wrenching part of Colorado’s history. After learning about the history of the site, guests can visit the Repatriation Area to pay their respects to those who lost their lives during the massacre. Please note that this stop involves an extremely difficult topic, with great historic value, and should be visited at parents’ discretion (www.nps. gov/sand/index.htm).
Continue on four hours into the Lone Star State, where another quick stop’s in store for you at one of Amarillo’s quirkiest landmarks, Cadillac Ranch. This Route 66 roadside attraction was originally created in the 1970s by a group of hippie artists and has since been graffitied over by visitors many times a day as its popularity has only risen over the decades. See the half-buried row of Cadillacs that have become a piece of pop culture for yourself at this iconic stop (www.facebook. com/1974cadillacranch).
Afterwards, continue on, 5.5 hours into Dallas for the night.
Day 3: Day 2:
Start day three at the Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden, where 66 acres of beauty await you in one of the country’s most impressive botanical gardens. Be sure to stop by the Children’s Garden for hands-on fun as well as scheduled activities throughout the day and take a ride on the tram for a guided tour of the central gardens (www.dallasarboretum.org/).
Next, stop by Pioneer Plaza where a herd of 40 bronze-cast Longhorn steer, driven by three cowboys take up much of Dallas’s largest open space. Snap a photo with the larger-than-life cattle drive characters which commemorate Dallas’s early settlers (www. texastrees.org/pioneer-plaza/).
That evening, visit Dallas’s GeO-Deck at Reunion Tower to take in the city lights from 470 feet above the streets. Enjoy 360 degree views of all Dallas’s top landmarks from the city’s highest observation tower (www.reuniontower.com/).
This morning it’s time to start exploring one of the U.S.’s top 10 largest cities, with a trip to Old City Park. Established in 1876, Dallas’s first city park spans 22 acres chock-full of 19th Century Texan history. As you walk the park’s gardens, you’ll see an impressive collection of Victorian and pioneer homes acquired from surrounding neighborhoods over the years. The many shaded, grassy areas also make lovely picnic stops (www.dallasparks.org/Facilities/Facility/Details/City-Park-OldCity-Park-777).
Later, we recommend treating yourself to an evening at Medieval Times Dinner and Tournament, where the whole family will enjoy a four-course meal and an authentic, twohour grand tournament, complete with sword fights and jousting by knights in armor on Spanish horses (www. medievaltimes.com/).
Give back
Inspire an early passionfor
volunteerism Katie
Harris
WE ALL WANT TO INSTILL a sense of giving in our children and encouraging them to volunteer in their community is a great place to start. Not only does volunteerism help those in need, but there are also numerous benefits to the wellbeing of the volunteer as well, particularly in youth.
“It’s really good for children to see they can make an impact,” says Community Engagement Manager for Spark the Change Colorado, Emily Garrigus. “Youth were one of the most affected populations during the pandemic, and studies found that those who went out and were doing good in their community were really uplifted—it had a big impact on their mental health.”
In addition, many volunteer positions involve physical activity which can lead to better
overall health and longer life expectancy. The opportunity to learn a new skill set or improve on an existing one can also lead to a new hobby or perhaps even a possible career path down the road. Helping in the local community looks great on a resume and may be required by many high schools prior to graduation.
Garrigus, whose organization promotes and provides outreach for over 200 other nonprofits across the state, says that one of the best ways to get started in volunteering is to volunteer together, as a family.
“We really try to encourage co-generational involvement,” she says. “We find that when kids volunteer with the adults in their lives from a young age, spending quality time together and learning from each other,
Find volunteer opportunities state-wide
Spark the Change Colorado State-wide searchable volunteer opportunity database sparkthechangecolorado.org
they are much more likely to be engaged in volunteerism throughout their lives.”
While it can be tricky to pin down opportunities for youth to volunteer independently, many organizations welcome families volunteering together.
“Volunteering involves a balance of time, money, and energy,” says Garrigus. “Kids might not have money, but they have an abundance of the other two to give.”
FOR THE ANIMAL LOVER
Locally, NOCO Humane welcomes volunteers ages 10-15 with an adult guardian for positions in animal care, photography, behavior and enrichment, client services, and veterinary services. Teens 16 and up can volunteer independently. Volunteer positions require attendance at an orientation as well as a six-month commitment of at least two hours per week. To learn more or sign up visit nocohumane.org.
Those with a heart for animals might also consider donating their time at Hearts and Horses Therapeutic Riding Center in Loveland, where kids ages 8-14 can volunteer with an adult guardian as part of the barn team, including cleaning stalls, waters, and aisle ways. Youth ages 15 and up can volunteer independently and 16-yearolds can begin training to be horse leaders or handlers. All volunteers are asked to attend an orientation and hands-on training, and to commit to at least one 2.5-hour shift per week. For details and to register visit heartsandhorses.org.
ASSIST AN OLDER ADULT
A Little Help provides opportunities to help out older adults in the community. With locations across Northern Colorado, A Little Help welcomes families with kids of all ages to help with yard work, home repairs and social visits. Throughout November, Service Saturdays are a great opportunity for families and other groups to tackle projects for community members in need, such as leaf raking and weed clearing. Visit alittlehelp.org to learn more.
With locations across the region, Meals on Wheels is another option to consider if you want to help out an older adult in need. Children are
welcome to volunteer for kitchen duty along with an adult guardian. The organization requests a minimum of 12 weeks of participation per calendar year. For more information visit mealsonwheels.org.
FEED THE COMMUNITY
Local food banks welcome kids ages 10 and up along with a guardian to sign up for a shift to serve in one of its many community programs, with activities such as collecting, sorting, repacking and distributing meals. For the Food Bank for Larimer County visit foodbanklarimer.org, and for Weld County visit weldfoodbank.org.
SEASONAL OPPORTUNITIES
Giving trees provide another way to give back to the local community. Often set up at grocery stores and other big box stores, the trees contain wish list items for families in need. Store patrons can take a tag from the tree and drop off the corresponding gift in the store’s drop box. Similar in fashion, the Christmas in Berthoud program provides community members with holiday wish lists from anonymous local families who would otherwise go without. To adopt a family this season visit www.letsplanetgiving. org/christmas-in-berthoud.
Winter Warm-ups
School District News: Poudre
PSD schools celebrate milestone anniversaries in 2024-25 school year
Our schools in Poudre School District have always been places of learning and growth while serving as spaces where our community gathers, connects, and flourishes together.
As we celebrate the milestone anniversaries of schools this year, we honor the deep-rooted relationships they’ve nurtured, the countless memories they’ve shaped, and the lasting impact they’ve had on students, families, and the wider community. These schools continue to foster a true sense of belonging for all who walk through their doors.
Congratulations to these schools celebrating anniversaries in the 202425 school year—Dunn Elementary School (75 years) and Kinard Middle School (20 years).
CHOOSE PSD: REGISTRATION OPENS NOV. 4
Looking to enroll your child in PSD? It’s simple! Registration for neighborhood schools and our first-round School Choice application period for the 2025-26 school year runs Nov. 4 to Dec. 16. During this time, you can enroll online to attend your neighborhood school or submit a School Choice application to attend a school outside of your neighborhood attendance area.
With 54 schools and an incredible array of programs, we are committed to meeting the needs of all students in Northern Colorado. Whether your child thrives in a neighborhood school, a specialized program, or a choice school, PSD provides endless opportunities
for success—both in the classroom and beyond. At PSD, we understand that every student’s journey is unique. That’s why we offer a wide variety of school choices, including:
• Top-rated neighborhood schools with rigorous, standardsdriven curriculums. Neighborhood schools are the heartbeat of every community, and PSD is home to the best schools in the state.
• Concurrent enrollment programs for high school students to take tuitionfree college classes and earn an AA degree.
• Core Knowledge schools focused on knowledgebased learning.
• Dual-language immersion programs to foster bilingualism and cultural competence.
• Expeditionary Learning that features a hands-on curriculum, incorporating real-life experiences into everyday learning.
• International Baccalaureate programs to inspire global thinking.
• Leader in Me designed to empower students by applying The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People® by Stephen Covey.
• PSD Options offering campus-based enrichment classes for home school families.
• Project-based learning giving students authentic, real-world learning.
• Stem and STEAM incorporating science, technology, engineering, arts, and mathematics across the curriculum. Whether your child is just starting school, preparing for college, exploring career pathways, or working toward industry certifications, PSD is the perfect place to grow, learn, and thrive.
For those who submit a school choice application, seat offers and waitlist notifications will be sent in early January 2025. Miss the first round? Don’t worry—our second-round application period will open in January 2025 and run through May. Visit the PSD website for more information and to register today!
School District News: Thompson
Kelly Marsh, Loveland High School, class of 2019
What have you been doing since graduation and what is your proudest accomplishment?
I earned my bachelor’s degree in broadcast journalism from Metropolitan State University of Denver. In 2023, I began my career as a reporter at WSLS 10 News, an NBC affiliate in Roanoke, VA. My proudest accomplishment has been all the friendships I’ve kept and continue to make as I grow up!
What was your biggest challenge during school? Basically, everything related
to school. I was a very AVERAGE student, so the classes were the hardest part. But if it was anything related to extracurriculars, put me in Coach.
What do you know now that you wish your younger self had known?
I wish my younger self would know that at the end of the day, everything works out.
What advice would you give to students who are in school now?
To current students: Don’t stress—enjoy the moment! Those four years will pass by quickly.
Name one person who changed your life for the better during school and how they did it. So many people shaped who I was through my time in school, but to list
a few, my parents, Karen Bieser, Nicole Stek, and all my friends. They laid the groundwork for my future success.
If you could wave a magic wand and change something about your school years, what would it be?
I wouldn’t change a thing. I made lifelong friends and had an incredible time.
How did school prepare you for what you are doing now?
I was a yapper in school and now I get paid to yap on TV. School gave me the confidence to talk with people and end up telling their stories.
What do you hope to accomplish in the future?
I aim to continue in reporting and eventually host a lifestyle TV show, focusing on uplifting news.
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“Amy
School District News: Greeley-Evans D6
D6 celebrates completion of 2019 bond projects
Greeley-Evans School
District 6 Board of Education members, staff, students and community members gathered at Greeley West High School to celebrate the completion of the 2019 Bond Issue projects.
While there is still work to do on a few building projects in the final phase of the bond work, building and renovations funded from the 2019, $395 million bond issue is essentially completed, benefitting every school in District 6.
“We did everything we set out to do when we passed the bond, and more,” says Assistant Superintendent of Support Services Kent Henson, who led the bond work in the district.
Because of two favorable sales of the District 6 bonds, an additional $98 million in proceeds was available to spend on more projects, such as the construction of a new Jefferson High School and the Career and Technical Education Center, as well as additional classrooms at
Meeker, Martinez and Shawsheen elementary schools.
Other significant work from the 2019 Bond included the replacement of Greeley West High School and Madison Elementary School (now James Madison STEAM Academy PK-8), significant additions at Chappelow Arts Magnet K-8 and McAuliffe STEM Academy K-8, and the construction of the Tointon Academy of Pre-Engineering.
Every building in District 6 has received safety improvements, renovations,
new furniture and more thanks to the 2019 Bond Issue.
“As I have said many, many times, I am incredibly grateful to the voters of Greeley and Evans,” says Board President Michael Mathews. “They have given our students countless opportunities they wouldn’t have otherwise had because of these improvements to our buildings. Thank you.”
You can watch a video about the Bond Issue at this link: www.youtube.com/ watch?v=hLdulsETaeE
Opportunities to donate and contribute to the community this holiday season
SALVATION ARMY ANGEL TREES
Each year the Salvation Army Angel Tree program provides new clothing and toys to more than one million children in need. The Trees are located in your local Walmart stores. Pick a tag off the tree and shop the chosen child’s list. The Salvation Army will distribute the gifts to the children on Christmas morning. www. salvationarmyusa.org/usn/ brighten-the-holidays/
FOOD BANK OF LARIMER COUNTY’S TOUR DE TURKEY
Donate a frozen-solid turkey during Tour de Turkey, Nov. 21, 6am-6pm at Drake Center in Fort Collins or Orchards Shopping in Loveland. The first 250 donors at both the Fort Collins and Loveland Tour de Turkey locations will
receive a coupon good for a 6-pack of beer at New Belgium. There will also be several $50 New Belgium prize packages to give away. Busy on November 21st? Frozen turkeys, birds, hams, etc. can be donated ANYTIME (today!) at all three FBLC locations:
• Fort Collins Fresh Food
Share No-Cost Market, 1301 Blue Spruce Drive, Fort Collins
• Loveland Fresh Food Share No-Cost Market, 2600 N. Lincoln Avenue, Loveland
• Food Bank for Larimer County Main Warehouse, 5706 Wright Drive, Loveland
View the /foodbanklarimer. org/tdt/ for more details and FAQs.
HOLIDAY GIVING
Weld Food Bank is working
with partner agencies to provide food to those who don’t have enough this holiday season. You can help by donating financially, donating shelf-stable foods and turkeys. Visit www. weldfoodbank.org/holiday for more information.
REALITIES FOR CHILDREN NIGHTLIGHTS
Join in the annual lighting ceremony Sunday, Dec. 1, at 6pm in the First Presbyterian yard at 531 S. College Ave., Fort Collins. The event features live music, sweet treats, hot cocoa, a visit with Santa and the giveaway of a giant chocolate Santa to one lucky child in attendance. The event serves to increase awareness about the issues of child abuse and how each person can make a difference with a single
NightLight. One hundred percent of donations help to provide emergency services and healing support to children who have been abused, neglected or are at-risk. These gifts are a light in the darkness that inspires hope and lets them know they are not alone. For more about Realities for Children go to www. realitiesforchildren.com.
SUPPORT BOYS & GIRLS CLUBS FAMILIES THIS HOLIDAY SEASON
This holiday season support a Boys and Girls Clubs family. Please complete the form online. They will follow up soon with an email including a family wish list that fits your preferences, along with information on when and where to bring your donations. They will begin matching donors with families on November 19th or sooner and will follow up with you at that time with more information.
If you have any questions, please email their team at HolidayFamily@bgclarimer. org or call Tammy Chandler, Boys & Girls Clubs of Larimer County’s Chief Financial Officer, at 970372-4506.
If you would like to make a monetary donation instead of, or in addition to, adopting a family, visit www.begreatlarimer.org/ holiday-families/
REALITIES FOR CHILDREN
Community Calendar
November events
FESTIVALS & COMMUNITY EVENTS
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 2
Day of the Dead/Dia de los Muertos
Celebrate with music, food, altar building and crafts. Loveland Museum, LV. thelovelandmuseum.org
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 11
Veteran’s Day Breakfast
Celebrate those who have honorably served our country. Senior Center, FC. www.fcgov.com/recreation/ special-events
ENTERTAINMENT
THROUGH NOVEMBER 23
Street Vistas: Oaxaca’s Día de los Muertos Exhibit
Colorful papier-mâché skeletons, intricate street vignettes and traditional folk art display. Global Village Museum of Arts and Cultures, FC. globalvillagemuseum.org
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1
Gin Blossoms
American alternative rock band. Monfort Concert Hall, GR. ucstars.showare.com
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3
National Geographic Live: Wild Wolves of Yellowstone Lincoln Center Performance Hall, FC. www.lctix.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 7
Roomful of Teeth
Two-time Grammy® winning vocal band. University Center for the Arts – Griffin Concert Hall, FC. lctix.com
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8
Warren Miller “75”
Explore powder stashes and chutes around the world. University Center for the Arts – Griffin Concert Hall, FC. www.lctix.com
Skygazing
Brief, family-friendly astronomy activity followed by skygazing with telescopes from Northern Colorado Astronomical Society. Fossil Creek Natural Area, FC. www.fcgov.com/events
NOVEMBER 8 AND 9
Greeley Philharmonic Orchestra Presents 2024 Salute to Service Windsor and Greeley. www.ucstars.showare.com
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 9
The Long Run Eagles tribute band. Rialto Theater, LV. www.rialtotheatercenter.org
THROUGH NOVEMBER 10
Always…Patsy Cline Charming musical with Cline’s greatest hits. Candlelight Dinner Theatre, Johnstown. www. coloradocandlelight.com
NOVEMBER 15 THROUGH 17
Descendants the Musical NoCo Theatrix tells the tale of those imprisoned on the Isle of the Lost. Hensel Phelps Theatre, GR. www.ucstars.showare.com
The SpongeBob Musical Musical adaptation of Nickelodeon’s long-running animated children’s sitcom. Lincoln Center Performance Hall, FC. www.lctix.com
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 23
Elvis: Taking Care of Business! Step back in time with George Gray and the Elvis Experience Band, Colorado’s Top-Rated Elvis Tribute Band. Monfort Concert Hall, GR. ucstars.showare.com
ACTIVE-ITIES
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 1
Glow Swim Party
Come swim in the pool where the lights are dim and the party is bright. Chilson Recreation Center, LV. LovGov.org/swimming
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 9
Bell Ringer 4-Miler
Follows the old tradition of ringing bells through town on Veteran’s Day to honor our nation’s veteran community. North Lake Park, LV. www. sweetheartcityracing.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 28
Turkey Trot
Run or Walk this family friendly 5K, benefitting Athletes In Tandem and the Weld Food Bank. Pelican Lakes Golf Course, WS. www.runwindsorco. com/#races
Huffin for Stuffin
Two-mile fun run with music/ vendors. Mehaffey Park, LV. www.sweetheartcityracing. com
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 29
#OptOutside Black Friday Hike
Join the 8th Annual Mariana Butte Hill Climb. LV. offero. cityofloveland.org
HOLIDAY & SEASONAL EVENTS
NOVEMBER 1 THROUGH FEBRUARY 14
Fort Collins Downtown Holiday Lights
Thousands of LED lights lit at 5:30pm on Nov. 1. Old Town, FC. www.downtownfortcollins.com
NOVEMBER 15 THROUGH DECEMBER 15
Santas Quest
Family-friendly scavenger hunt. Downtown FC. www.downtownfortcollins.com
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 21
Tour de Turkey
Donate FROZEN turkeys to neighbors in need. Drake Center, FC and Orchards Shopping Center, LV. www. foodbanklarimer.org/tour-de-turkey
Holiday Blues Market
Live music, holiday shopping and a visit from Mrs. Claus! Fort Collins Nursery, FC. www.FortCollinsNursery.com
NOVEMBER 21 THROUGH JANUARY 12
Scrooge! The Musical Timeless musical adaptation of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. Candlelight Dinner Theatre, Johnstown. coloradocandlelight.com
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 22
Loveland Festival of Lights
Debut of holiday lighting plus live entertainment, holiday market, carriage rides, Santa and more. Along 4th Street, Downtown LV. downtownloveland.org/festivaloflights
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 23
Estes Park Tree Lighting Ceremony Santa, wagon rides, crafts and music. Bond Park, EP. www.visitestespark. com/events-calendar/winter-events/ tree-lighting-ceremony
Charles Dickens’ Nutcracker
Presented by High Country Conservatory of Dance. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
NOVEMBER 23 THROUGH JANUARY 1
Loveland Winter Wonderlights
Walkable lights display and musical light shows plus live events with performances, Santa, reindeer, ice sculpting, more. Chapungu Sculpture Park at Centerra, LV. www.visitlovelandco.org/ winterwonderlights
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 24
Michael Martin Murphey’s Cowboy Christmas
Captivating multi-media production. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
NOVEMBER 26 THROUGH JANUARY
Ice Rink at The Promenade Shops at Centerra
Main plaza next to Build-a-Bear at The Promenade Shops at Centerra, LV. www.thepromenadeshopsatcenterra. com/events
NOVEMBER 27 THROUGH JANUARY 26
Old Town Square Skate Rink Days/times vary. Old Town Square, FC. www.downtownfortcollins.com
THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 28
Fort Collins Thanksgiving Day Run Family 4-mile run/walk. Mountain & College Ave., FC. www.fctdayrun.com
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 29
Annual Estes Park Catch the Glow Parade & Celebration
Elkhorn Avenue, EP. www. visitestespark.com/events-calendar/ winter-events/holiday-parade
Face Vocal Band: Joy to the World
All-vocal rock. The Lincoln Center Performance Hall, FC. www.lctix.com
NOVEMBER 29 THROUGH DECEMBER 24
Santa’s Workshop Old Town Square Visit with Santa! Days/times vary. Old Town Square, FC. www. downtownfortcollins.com
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 30
Santa visits Fort Collins Nursery
Santa visits 10am-3pm. Fort Collins Nursery, FC. www.FortCollinsNursery.com
Holiday Open House
Fill out your shopping bingo card & you could win! Downtown Greeley. www. greeleydowntown.com/special-events
Light Up Lincoln in Greeley
Lighting of holiday lights downtown and at Lincoln Park, GR. www. greeleydowntown.com/special-events
Jim Brickman: Comfort and Joy Renowned songwriter and pianist. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
FoCo Café Thanksgiving Lunch Service
Celebrate their anniversary and grab a delicious Thanksgiving meal! FoCo Café, FC. www.fococafe.org
FRIDAY & SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 29 & 30
Holiday Artisan Market
Features 100+ artisans/crafters. Senior Center, FC. www.fcgov.com/ recreation/special-events
NOVEMBER 29 THROUGH DECEMBER 7
Festival of Trees
Holiday magic supporting the arts. Union Colony Civic Center, GR. www.greeleyfestivaloftrees.com
DECEMBER 1 THROUGH 31
Realties for Children NightLights
Help shine light into the darkness of child abuse. First Presbyterian Church, FC. www.giveanightlight.com
TUESDAY, DECEMBER 3
A Winter’s Eve with David Arkenstone and Friends
Multi-GRAMMY Award® Nominee
David Arkenstone. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 4
CSU Marching Band Parade of Lights
Preview Parade
University Center for the Arts and CSU Trial Gardens, FC. music. https://colostate.edu/events/2024csu-marching-band-parade-oflights-preview
Blue Violin Candlelight Christmas Intimate performance of music and dance. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
Mannheim Steamroller Christmas Program includes 15 musicians playing 20+ instruments with dazzling multimedia effects. Union Colony Civic Center, GR. www.greeleygov. com/greeley-calendar
DECEMBER 4 THROUGH 8
The Nutcracker Canyon Concert Ballet presents with Fort Collins Symphony Orchestra. Lincoln Center Performance Hall, FC. www.lctix.com
THURSDAY, DECEMBER 5
Dave Beegle and Tom Ewing’s Christmas Party!
Inspiring evening of Christmas melodies! Rialto Theater Center, LV. www. rialtotheatercenter.org/rialto-presents
DECEMBER 5 THROUGH 29 Garden of Lights
Whimsical light displays, Santa visits and live entertainment. Select days. Gardens on Spring Creek, FC. www. fcgov.com/gardens/garden-of-lights
DECEMBER 6 THROUGH 8
Breakfast with Santa Join Santa for muffins, milk, and memories! The Farm at Lee Martinez Park, FC. www.fcgov.com/recreation/ special-events
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 7
Visit Santa’s Reindeer
Bath Garden Center, FC. www. bathgardencenter.com/events
Timnath Holiday Festival
Old Town, Timnath. timnath.org/ holiday-magic-in-timnath
Poinsettia Pops
Favorite holiday classics featuring Greeley Philharmonic Orchestra, Greeley Chorale, Greeley Children’s Chorale and a local middle school student. Monfort Concert Hall, GR. www.greeleyphil.org/season
Windsor Wonderland
Santa, tree lighting and more. Boardwalk Community Park, WS. www.recreationliveshere.com
DECEMBER 7 AND 8
Homesteader’s Holiday
Historical house tours, holiday crafts, music. Centennial Village Museum, GR. greeleygov.com/greeley-calendar
DECEMBER 13 THROUGH 15
Loveland Choral Society: Let There Be Peace
Rialto Theater Center, LV. www. rialtotheatercenter.org/rialto-presents
Colorado Dance Theatre: The Nutcracker Children under three years not permitted. Monfort Concert Hall, GR. ucstars.showare.com
DECEMBER 13, 14, 15, 20, 21, 22
The Stampede Troupe: Twas The Night Before Christmas
Children under three years not permitted. Monfort Concert Hall, GR. ucstars.showare.com
DECEMBER 13 THROUGH 31
Christmas Walk in the Woods Beautiful lights and photo opps at Santa’s House, Elf Work Shop, more. Santa visits select days! The Savage Woods, LV. www. christmaswalkinthewoods.com
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 14
Visit Santa in Timnath and Scavenger Hunt Timnath Presbyterian Church. timnath.org/holiday-magic-in-timnath
Santa on The Farm
Enjoy time with Santa, s’mores, crafts, more. The Farm at Lee Martinez Park, FC. www.fcgov.com/recreation/ special-events
TUESDAY, DECEMBER 17
Face Vocal Band: Best. Christmas. Ever! All-vocal rock. Rialto Theater Center, LV. www.rialtotheatercenter.org /rialto-presents
Rocky Mountain Experience ® A John Denver Christmas America’s Top John Denver Tribute. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
THURSDAY, DECEMBER 19
A Classic Christmas with Frisson Features the best and brightest of classical music’s stars. The Lincoln Center, FC. www.lctix.com
DECEMBER 19 THROUGH 21
Greeley Philharmonic Orchestra: Christmas Brass
Resounding trumpets and triumphant horns present holiday hymns and carols. Windsor, Loveland and Greeley. www.greeleyphil.org/season
DECEMBER 22 AND 23
The Nutcracker Sweets
Canyon Concert Ballet presents a special child and sensory friendly version of this annual classic set in The Land of Sweets. Rialto Theater Center, LV. www.rialtotheatercenter. org/rialto-presents
Time out
LEA HANSON
Sick teens—Care and feeding
HAVING A SICK KID
HAS taken a very quick turn the past year or so. It’s so much easier! At least logistically. When our babies got sick, we essentially have to hold them all day; constantly taking their temperature, wondering whether we should bring them to the doctor’s office, and constantly cleaning up their gross body fluids.
With toddlers, we’re a little less worried. They can pretty much tell us what hurts, we’ve gained some mom nursing skills, but of course we still stay home from our regular daily commitments and hold them all day. In elementary school, we can start giving them some actual medicine, so things feel a little easier, too.
But, since my kiddo has become a teenager, it’s kind of no big deal when she is sick with a “regular” cold and needs to stay home. For one, I don’t also need to stay home. More impactful, teenagers’ abilities to care for themselves are pretty great. They can run to the bathroom if they need to vomit, take medicine safely, and for run-ofthe-mill illnesses, can stay home and still make themselves food and even complete the schoolwork they’re missing that day.
However, I am finding that my innate desire to caretake isn’t changing as rapidly. If I did what I wanted to do—lie in bed next to my kiddo and scratch her back—I’d get a knee to the shin.
I still worry, but about more logical and objective things. I leave her home alone with a pet to snuggle and just send her a bunch of texts. And if she’s lucky some sweet, funny Snaps with funny filters.
We want our kids to need us forever. At least most of us do. The healthiest of us realize those innate desire to help and support change over
time, but we still want to help. With a sick teen, I find myself offering to help in ways she absolutely DOESN’T need… probably just to fill my own bucket rather than hers. “Do you want me to do your laundry?” “You can order a special lunch for delivery while I’m at lunch!” “What special dinner do you want tonight?”
There isn’t a thing wrong with these examples, but I have to laugh at myself. These days, it’s as though I am more needy than she is when she’s sick. My need to take care might have been replaced by my need to feel needed. And that’s
a me problem. Of course, we all know that we parents also grow and develop as our kids do. While they are growing their minds and bodies, we are growing our emotions. At least if we’re the least bit thoughtful and selfreflective. Paying attention to how our kids’ needs change over time is a funny thing to notice. And, even though we’re often DOING less, the skills are MORE DIFFICULT. It’s easy to do and fix everything. It’s hard to learn and challenge ourselves to do LESS even though we feel MORE attached.
