RSVP Magazine December 2013 by RSVP Magazine

December 2013

Boo! Ball Art on Fire Meat Me in Memphis Sip Around the World Spirits with the Spirits MIFA “Feed the Soul” Party RISE Foundation Inaugural Gala Q&A with Nora Boswell

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From the Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 Signature Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 Musician Grace Askew invites RSVP for a festive fall photo shoot. Art on Fire . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12 The Dixon Gallery and Gardens hosted a benefit that lit up the night. The Ambassador Series . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 May the Sun Never Set… Columnist Eugene Pidgeon provides a year-end recap of his interviewees.

10 SIGNATURE MEMPHIS Grace Askew

StreetSeens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 & 24 She’s heading up a campaign that makes giving back doable for many Memphians. This jazz lover is exercising his musical chops in a new endeavor. StreetSeens highlight Ashley Harper and Sam Shoup.

52 BOO! BALL Mike and Carolyn Edwards

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Sip Around the World . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26 The wine flowed at the Memphis Botanic Garden for this National Kidney Foundation of West Tennessee fund-raiser.

RISE Foundation Inaugural Gala . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34 “An Evening of Change” it was for RISE Foundation advocates who gathered at Hilton Memphis.

Vox Popular . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42 Q&A with the Woman’s Exchange of Memphis executive director, Nora Boswell.

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Meat Me in Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .46 A foodie affair hosted by the Monogram Loves Kids Foundation delighted plenty a

26 SIP AROUND THE WORLD Bobby Evans and Kenya Tyson

palate at The Columns at One Commerce Square.

RSVP Room View . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50 This awarding-winning VESTA Home Show house boasts a to-die-for kitchen.

60 SPIRITS WITH THE SPIRITS Russell and Gina Sugarman

Boo! Ball . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .52 Pink Palace supporters put on their best costumes for a Halloween-themed affair. Onsites . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .58, 59, 64 & 65 Gatherings that have earned an honorable mention. Spirits with the Spirits . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .60 Elmwood Cemetery presented a frighteningly fun fund-raiser before Halloween. MIFA “Feed the Soul” Party . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .66 More than 1,000 MIFA supporters got their party on at the Warehouse.

RSVPhillippi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .73 Non-Survival Instinct Humor columnist Dennis Phillippi explores the reasons why he wouldn’t be able to survive an apocalypse.

MEAT ME IN MEMPHIS Carmen and Chuck Inman

66 MIFA “FEED THE SOUL” PARTY Lattie Michael and Mary Taylor

Cover Photo Clarissa and Terry Turner at Art on Fire Photo by Don Perry

Volume XIX

Number III

December 2013 PUBLISHER

Roy Haithcock EDITOR

Leah Fitzpatrick A S S O C I AT E E D I T O R

R achel Warren CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Ruth Cassin Dennis Phillippi Eugene Pidgeon Suzanne Thompson Lesley Young ART DIRECTOR

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Rachel is passionate about print media and has covered many local events in Jackson, Mississippi in the past. She received her Bachelor of Arts in English from Millsaps College, and in 2011, she moved back to her hometown of Memphis. She is delighted to be part of the RSVP team as the associate editor. She loves writing about all the amazing people and places in Memphis, enjoying a great book and chasing a good story.

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7 Having worked in print advertising for nearly eight years, Kristen Miller felt it was a natural fit to join the RSVP team as an account executive. Kristen, who lives in Arlington with her husband and four children, loves to cook, fish, watch college and Arlington Tigers football, spend time with her family and advertising, of course.

From the Editor

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e all know that excited feeling that swells up inside when you’re looking forward to seeing a friend dear to your heart, and while nothing can really replace that exact emotion that stems from human interaction, sometimes little things come close. For me, that excitement arose while putting the final touches on what is always one of my favorite issues. However, I think that the December issue is just one of those that goes by in a blur as you’re creating it because so many charity parties and advertiser open houses are pulling the RSVP staff in every direction possible, and by the time our production manager cohesively puts it all together, the issue feels like a huge accomplishment. This issue also makes me stop to reflect on all the wonderful memories that have been made throughout 2013, which could be likened to the way memories flood back when seeing a special friend. From the seven party spreads to the 16 Onsite gatherings, there are probably many readers who will find themselves in our pages this month. And if you are in the mag, I hope that each of you has a warm remembrance of the occasion on which your picture was taken by one of our photographers (Feel free to share any great times at an RSVP-covered event on our Facebook page.). These dedicated RSVP photographers often give up their weekend plans to capture Memphians in their best light, so make sure the events are fun for them, too. And not that any other reminders are needed, but I can’t end this column without urging you readers to pause and think about the warm memories you could help others make this holiday season by giving back to those in need. Whether choosing to simply buy holiday cards from a local nonprofit or volunteering at a food bank or pantry, think about the farreaching result of those kind actions. Don’t do it for me though, do it for Santa—he’s already making his list!

Leah Fitzpatrick editor@rsvpmagazine.com

Full-Time Musician/Part-Time Rambler

Hometown: Sixth-generation Memphian. Best Memphis Hangout: My rooftop. Best Dish You Cook: Stews of any kind. Who Inspires You: Joel Osteen and the road. First Car You Drove: A ’91 Toyota Land Cruiser. Place You Go to Think: My bedroom or the road. Who Would Play You in a Movie: Jennifer Connelly? One Goal You’d Still Like to Accomplish: To tour Europe. Favorite Southern Idiom: “I gotta see a man about a horse.” Your Most Annoying Habits: Worrying and falling in love too easily. Your Best Qualities: My constant thirst for self-discovery and evolution. The Highlight of Your Day: When I first wake up, I just love the feeling of a fresh start that each day brings. Your Lucky Charms: My keychain pepper spray and a custom knife from New Mexico. Both help a girl traveling alone feel a little better. Proudest Moments of Your Life: The CD release party of my third album, Until They Lay Me Down to Rest, and the night my blind audition of “The Voice” aired on NBC. Best Advice You Ever Got: “God never gives us more than he thinks we can handle.” Best Gifts You Ever Received: My love of words from God, and my first guitar from my parents. Coolest Thing About Memphis: I love that Memphis is a city with a small town feel to it. Favorite Song: I’m on a big gospel kick right now, so anything Mahalia Jackson, and Tramaine Hawkin’s version of “Goin Up Yonder” gives me chills every time. Biggest Pet Peeves: Tardiness and people who talk at you, instead of to you.

Photo by Steve Roberts

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ART ON FIRE

Benefiting the Dixon Gallery and Gardens

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t seemed everything was ablaze at the Art on Fire benefit for the Dixon Gallery and Gardens. Held on the museum’s back lawn, the event featured its signature bonfire, which burned in a caldron the size of a large dining table while fire dancers from Beyond Wings put on two shows for the captivated crowd. Eli Gold, a sculptor from Gulfport, Mississippi, mesmerized onlookers with his pyrotechnic display using a device that resembled a giant sparkler, sending a 30-foot shower of light into the clear night sky. The sounds of contemporary bluegrass band 2 Mule Plow and classic country music band Big Barton filled the air. Lights were crisscrossed over the lawn accentuating the festive scene, making it easy for guests to make their way to the tent that housed silent auction items including round-trip tickets for seven on a private jet and a painting on canvas by Daniel Taker. Around the border of the lawn, chefs manned booths and distributed fabulous fare from nearly 30 of the city’s most popular restaurants. Ben Smith of Tsunami offered cups of roasted corn chowder topped with a chipotle crostini. He said participating in the event was natural for him because his wife and his father are artists and their son is attending art school. “I’m surrounded by art,” he commented. Delicious dishes also were served by eateries including Bangkok Alley, Café Society, The Grove Grill and Wang’s Mandarin House. Frost Bake Shop was on hand with a selection of miniature cupcakes for those with a taste for sweet treats. Among the guests were Ken Hall and Jennifer McCollough, or “Chef Jenn” as she is known, who was also pictured on containers of her line of seafood dips. Cayce Pappas, and her husband, George, president of presenting sponsor Ardent Trust, also enjoyed the lovely setting and delicious food. In front of the building, a rainbow-colored hot air balloon enticed guests to bid on one of the items included in the silent auction: a hot air balloon ride for two complete with Champagne and appetizers. After the balloon lifted its last riders, interpretive dancer Laurana Wong entertained guests who preferred a more subdued environment. Jerry Feinstone, president of Ghost River Brewing, which provided beer for the event, accompanied his wife, Jeanene. Though it was their first year to attend, Jeanene said they were having a great time. “I like the way it’s spread out, and the weather is perfect!” she gushed.

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Amanda Elise and Corey White

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Charles Mullighan and Kathryn Roberts

Allison and Christopher Cook

Cecilia Walker and Ryan Carter

Ali and Brian Fowler

Christina Morris, Ale Peterman and Megan Hurdle

Chantal Johnson and Muffy Turley

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Ricky and Catherine Harris

Mary and Robert Ellis

Paul and Holly Craft

Nichole and Gary Garlington

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Lindley and Chad Jackson

Karen and Kirk Johnston

Brooke and Alan Balducci

Chantal Drake and Timothy Strickland

Lucia Heros and Virginia Sharp

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Kelly Houston, Julie Shankle and Erin Buck

Emily Capadalis and Tom Love

Caroline Cullum and Forrest Reyle

Antonico Thomas and Nathan Rodgers

Ken and Linda Vilag with Leslie and David Whitehead

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Jason and Sam Ripper

Susan Schwartz, Cayce Pappas and Philip Johnson

Marcia and Ford Bolton

Elly Deyhle and Mark Awdeh

David and Stacie Waddell

Trip and Kelcie Fountain

Denise and Stephen Choate with Jordan and Hayley Isaac

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Charlotte Bray with Matt and Cat Pentecost

Hampton and Katie Parr

Emily Peden and Andrew Crothers

David Fortnoy and Lisa Usdan

April and Victor Pearce

Jared Lisenby and Lauren Lindsey

Maggie and Trey Haire

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Mark and Donna Glover, Denise Wheeler and Tiffany Adkins

THE AMBASSADOR SERIES

The Ambassador Series By Eugene Pidgeon

MAY THE SUN NEVER SET…

Photo by Lauren Cox

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infamed alike are generating quite a stir. Indeed, there is a lot of laurel to rest on, but Ellis spends his downtime in service to others delivering Meals on Wheels…and in Los Angeles no less. Hampton Sides needs no introduction. An internationally renowned and respected author of the historical narrative, Sides was featured in two segments of the Ambassador Series. The author returned to Memphis last spring as the featured guest of the Libration Celebration to support the Memphis Public Library & Information Center. Sides is just another example of a native Memphian who gives back. Everyone in Memphis is familiar with Berl Olswanger. His daughter, Anna, is crafting quite a reputation as a literary agent specializing in children’s stories and illustrations with Liza Dawson Associates in New York City. Currently, Greenhorn, an original film project of hers based on the true stories of her grandfather, is in development. From Cinderella to CEO was the brainchild of author and native Memphian Cary Jehl Broussard. Broussard has had a sterling career divesting the status quo of its myopic assessment of the woman’s role in the workplace and the home. Her groundbreaking Women on Their Way program for Wyndham Hotels has altered entirely the way women are perceived and treated in the environments of corporate and personal travel. Finally, Cathy Cash has a special place in the legacy of the Ambassador Series. She lives in Santa Barbara, my second home. I lived in Santa Barbara for nearly 20 years myself and have experienced the “Fire on the Mountain.” Her tireless work with the Santa Barbara Firefighters Alliance has perhaps saved hundreds of lives and has helped preserve the beauty of one of the most magnificent cities in California and the entire United States. The Ambassador Series thanks all of these wonderful native Memphians for the work they do and for the stories they have shared. Each person who has been a part of the Ambassador Series this year has helped to make all of our lives a little better place to live. Thank you…and may the sun never set. Photo by Madeleine Tilin Photography

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Broadway. Her faith, which she found and he sun never sets on the British forged in Memphis, has served her well. Empire!”—this political axiom was LeKae is now the Tony Award nominated paraded as a clenched fist of words to star of the hit Broadway Musical “Moremind the rest of the world of the shadow town!” Another native Memphian who cast by the Union Jack. Great Britain’s flag found his faith in Memphis, Morgan Cox was unfurled and raised over such a vast followed it all the way to a Super Bowl global empire with territorial assets stretching from Indonesia and the South Pacific to North America and the Arctic Circle. Great Britain presided over the lands and seas of every time zone and in every corner and crevice of the known world. Thus, with it came a conceit…that was to reign for nearly 300 years. Those times have changed forever. Still, the axiom can be pressed into application and co-opted for the service of literature and public relations. As the Ambassador Series closes out its first year of publication, a step back must be taken to reflect on the native Memphians who have been the subject of the series. These are Memphians from all walks of life who are abiding elsewhere and are crafting noble Photo by Kipp Lott adventures and carving indelible signatures into the history and lore of our grand city. After a year it can be said that Memphis too casts a long shadow: a colorful and finely woven tapestry of accomplishment and pride that exists far above and beyond our physical boundaries. These are our people and our stories. Well beyond the blues, barbecue and even Dr. King and Elvis, the entire city of Memphis may take heart and stock in the knowledge of how our new breed of ambassador is influencing the interpretations of art and science worldwide. Memphis now has a contemporary and relevant presence everywhere. The sun does not set anywhere on Earth today where people of every origin do not know Championship as the first string of Memphis, Tennessee, thanks in part to long snapper with the Baltimore our ambassadors. Ravens. The last year has been a volatile Politics and law enforceand uncertain year for most. The economy, ment was the journey taken by Memphian health care and war have seized the headAnne Kirkpatrick. Working as a beat cop in lines locally with a pernicious grip. Yet, in Memphis just to get her master’s degree, the due course of lives chronicled in the Kirkpatrick would obtain her law degree in Ambassador Series we have met people Washington State, and now serves as the who have surmounted terrible hardship appointed chief deputy for the City of and impossible odds to find astonishing Seattle and King County. success on both a professional and personGene Gill was the only college gradal level. uate in his family. In order for him to Rebecca Fisher met one of the attend art school, he had to join the most violent crimes in the history of the United States Navy. He made it into art city, fearlessly and with compassion to creschool, and after a long career of teaching ate her wonderful and critical masterpiece in the Los Angeles public school system, “The Magnificence of the Disaster.” Her Gill now resides in Pasadena, where he one-woman show bravely addresses the builds intricate models of the world’s most murder of her mother and illuminates such beautiful monuments and structures. strength of character and forgiveness. Hers What can be said about native is a lesson for all of us. Memphian Chris Ellis that doesn’t already Proverbs 16:3 was all native charge from the tongues of film and theMemphian Valisia LeKae took with her ater lovers everywhere? Ellis is a fine actor when she moved to New York City to purwith an enviable resume. His panache with sue a dream of becoming an actress on pen and ink caricatures of the famed and

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Ashley Harper Promoting a Realistic Community Give-Back

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hough she’s standing in a boardroom at the Community Foundation of Greater Memphis, Ashley Harper, who is the director of grants and initiatives, knows it’s the work done outside this space that matters most. And being that 2013 is nearing a close, the nonprofit’s GiVE 365 program is just one of its initiatives that seems to have made a big impact all year long. Initiated in 2010 as a way to include more people in the Community Foundation, the program promotes the concept that anyone can be an altruist, which is in keeping with the Foundation’s mission to strengthen the community through philanthropy. Harper explains the idea behind the branding, saying, “The i is lowercase to make it stand out to mean I Give 365, which translates to ‘I can be a philanthropist.’” With many hesitant to make that first step to give back financially, an understandable concern considering that the minimum donation to start a donor advised fund at the Community Foundation is $10,000, the Foundation decided to offer an alternative option. To gather ideas, the organization turned to other Community Foundations across the country, restructuring some of their existing program models to fit with what could be done here. In the end, the model for Memphis centered on the premise that anyone can give $1 a day for a year, and members are able to join at any time. Harper says that this approach allows people who will never otherwise think about being a part of the organization, whether because they are younger or have fewer resources, feel like they can. The way GiVE 365 works is that the money members give each year gets divided between an endowment and a grants account. Members choose a theme for grant applicants, with “Home Is Where the Heart Is” selected for 2013, and relevant nonprofits are encouraged to fill out an online application at cfgm.org to be considered for a grant finalist. GiVE 365 members who want to be part of the review process are put into teams to vote on the finalists, who are revealed during a special event, held this year at the Memphis Bioworks Foundation. During the announcement, the Community Foundation films the finalists, and the videos are put online so that members can make informed decisions about where their dollars will go. From the application pool this year, 17 of the 60 applicants became finalists, and 12 were awarded grants in September. Harper adds, “Themes are quite broad so that most nonprofits can make an argument, and we try to make the application process simple so that it’s not taking a ton of time on the part of the nonprofit. The last thing we want to do is create a burden on them—we want this to be an opportunity.” Currently, GiVE 365 boasts 320 members, and to date, the program has allotted more than $225,000 in grants to 27 organizations. Meanwhile, the endowment has grown to $290,000, which is large enough now to pay out interest to the grant-making pool, and one donor is continuing to match the one-year pledge for anyone new who joins by the end of the year. Some specific causes that grants have funded include helping people attend an Advance Memphis class, which provided attendees with job skills training so that they can sustain themselves and their families, a Shelby County Books from Birth effort to increase the books provided to children in Frayser and sponsorship of Hattiloo Theatre’s park performances. Typically, the grants awarded have been between $5,000 and $10,000 each, but the Foundation will continue to ask members if they’re satisfied with that amount or if they would like to make fewer grants at a higher level. For Harper, the most rewarding aspect has been seeing what an easy sell improving Memphis is for people who live here. “People want to do more, and they’re hungry for opportunities,” she says. Story by Leah Fitzpatrick Photo by Steve Roberts

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Sam Shoup Jazzing Up the Music Scene

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am Shoup has built a name for himself as a musician, composer and arranger—the man has arranged songs for Marvin Gaye, the Memphis Symphony Orchestra and the New York Pops Orchestra and has performed and recorded with Tony Bennett, Kallen Esperian, Ringo Starr and Willie Nelson, to name a few—but he’s most recently turned his attention to a new endeavor with the Bluff City Jazz Project. Being that he’s also an adjunct professor at the University of Memphis in jazz history, theory and improvisation, becoming a part of this group seemed a fitting choice, and one he could do right here at home. Of his fondness for the genre, Shoup adds, “I watch just about every old jazz documentary, partly for my class…I find it hard to match that exuberance found in Harlem’s Savoy Ballroom and Cotton Club, and Storyville in New Orleans.” Described by its producer, David Less, as a thematic big band, the Bluff City Jazz Project took hold nearly two years ago as a result of needing an act for the Levitt Shell’s 75th anniversary celebration. Less, a Friends of Levitt Pavilion board member, figured since the Shell was founded in 1936 that a band would perform music from that era during the party, so he worked with Shoup on arrangements and getting a 13-piece band together of some of the most talented musicians in the area. That night, Shoup also led the group, which played in the style of Guy Lombardo to fit the time period, and it ended up backing the late Sid Selvidge, Kelley Hurt and Shoup’s sister, Lisa Shoup. A year passed before the group reunited, and ironically, its members, who sometimes change based on availability, played again at the Levitt Shell, but on this occasion for a concert featuring Donald Brown of the UT Knoxville jazz department, and Bill Mobley, a native Memphian who has been living in New York City as a successful trumpeter, composer and arranger since the late ’80s. The performance went well enough that some thought it wouldn’t be a bad idea to do something in a subscription series. Hence, Less and Shoup got together with saxophonist Gary Topper, and the three of them turned the proposition into a reality, with Less responsible for approaching GPAC’s Paul Chandler about the concept. Chandler bit, giving the Bluff City Jazz Project the honor of being the first local group to perform at GPAC during a paid series. It was this past October that the Bluff City Jazz Project took the GPAC stage for a concert themed around Duke Ellington, whom Shoup regards as the greatest composer ever from America. The band had 15 members and played from original Ellington charts, as well as three arrangements each from Shoup and Topper, also the show’s band leader. Though Ellington’s arrangements are difficult, Shoup says everyone in the Bluff City Jazz Project loves his music and knows how it’s supposed to sound, and to boot, sax and clarinet specialist Bill Easley is an actual alumnus of Ellington’s orchestra when Ellington’s son, Mercer, ran the group. Mulgrew Miller, who attended the then-named Memphis State with Shoup and went on to be a jazz pianist in the Duke Ellington Orchestra, was also set to join the Bluff City Jazz Project for the concert, however he unfortunately passed away beforehand. Happy with the show’s outcome and crowd, Shoup relays that GPAC wants them to come back for more performances in the future, and that he personally would like the group to do two or three concerts a year. The Project is already deciding now on what artist it wants to pay tribute to next, with talks of Miles Davis and Frank Zappa, the latter of whom Shoup says would be a nice theme if Zappa’s son, Dweezil, could guest perform. Future engagements excluded, Shoup hopes to gain a larger jazz following here. “There are lots of soul and blues clubs here, but jazz should be a part of the scene, too,” he asserts. Story by Leah Fitzpatrick Photo by Steve Roberts

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Sip Around the World

SIP AROUND THE WORLD

A Wine Tasting Benefit

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Britt Ervin and Sydney Teigland

Brian Dickerson and Mariah Venson

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thens Distributing Company teamed up with the National Kidney Foundation of West Tennessee yet again to present one of the city’s perennial favorite wine tastings: Sip Around the World. Lined up at the doors to the Memphis Botanic Garden well in advance of the seven o’clock start time, oenophiles and wine newbies alike couldn’t wait to see what varietals were in store. For 19 years running, this event has brought some of the best in wine from throughout the world to Memphians for a special taste test, with this year’s selections coming in at 300 wines. Thirty-three tasting tables set up throughout the expanse of the Botanic Garden’s indoor spaces, and some outdoor areas, boasted the drink du jour, which was poured by many generous Kidney Foundation volunteers. The 100 wineries represented this night hailed from California and Oregon in the U.S., and from Argentina, Australia, Austria, France, Germany, Italy and New Zealand, to name a few countries overseas. And there was definitely something for everyone, as sake and wine cocktails—the party’s newest addition—were also featured on the menu. Mable Barringer, the NKFWT executive director, looked on in the Water Garden Room while guests lent their taste buds to the clever concoctions made with vino and all kinds of liquors and liqueurs, asking guests, “How’s everything going?” All nodded that everything was more than fine, with many expressing their approval of the new drinks, one of which was called “Apple Juiced” (Cinnerator Cinnamon Whiskey, Coppola Diamond Chardonnay, lemon juice and apple juice). A VIP lounge also offered Champagne for those who had a preference for bubbly. Appetites increased as the festivities wore on, so to satiate one’s hunger, several area restaurants and vendors had donated bitesize edibles ideal for quick pick-up. Some donors included Brown Baguette Bakery Café, Heart & Soul Catering, Makeda’s Homemade Cookies and Whole Foods. A wine and food pairings pavilion also offered exquisite tastes, with a particularly delicious dessert in the form of chocolate cups with mousse and fresh raspberries, which came paired with Marenco’s “Pineto” dessert wine. Amongst the fare in the Hardin Hall room were plenty of silent auction goodies to snatch up, from a “Tour of Memphis” music package and artwork to restaurant gift certificates and a custom cake from Frost Bake Shop. And if anyone wanted wine to stock a wine fridge at home, they could donate $20 to participate in a wine pull in the Goldsmith Auditorium for the chance to win a bottle valued up to $100. Once the wine glasses had been put down, the NFKWT closed the books on another successful fund-raiser, which raised awareness and funds to help prevent kidney and urinary tract diseases and to improve the well-being of those individuals affected by these diseases. See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP

Annette and John Krc

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Jenny King and Ted Baker

Denise and Forrest Dunn

Nawar and Reem Mansour

Karen and Adam Hamburger

Jamie Ross King, Maggie Doty and Niki Dunavant

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Tina Taylor and Anastasia Taylor

Karen Rockett McFadden and Candice Corum

Adam and Chaderlee Shellabarger

Gary Jones and Teresa Starnes

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bout 350 people enjoyed a night filled with inspiration at the sixth annual RISE Foundation Inaugural Gala, “An Evening of Change,” held at Hilton Memphis. The festivities kicked off with a cocktail hour, and afterward, guests moved into the ballroom where green salads were at each place setting accompanied by shot glasses filled with poppy seed vinaigrette. Dinner included filet of beef and a spinach-stuffed chicken breast served with sugar snap peas with mushrooms and potato cakes. RISE (Responsibility, Initiative, Solutions, Empowerment) is an organization that helps young people gain financial literacy. Founded in 1999 with only two employees, the organization now serves more than 100 Memphis youth each year. The nonprofit uses incentives by offering what it calls Goal Cards to motivate the kids. The cards can be used to obtain popular items like iPads and other electronic devices. A different prize is associated with separate achievements, like making the honor role. The program works, with about 90 percent of the kids who participate going on to college. Jasmine Byrd is one of the many people RISE has helped and says she won every prize they offered. The program helped her prepare for her college career. “They gave me the all the tools I needed for college,” said Byrd, who attended Christian Brothers University on a full scholarship for three years. Linda Williams, president and CEO of RISE, served at one time as director of Tennessee Human Resources. She says that experience prepared her for her work at RISE because of her work with lowincome families. “The main goal is to raise awareness of the need for financial literacy and give students the tools to do that,” she said. Bruce Hopkins, president of the First Tennessee Foundation, the event’s title sponsor, presented a check for $10,000 and pledged continuing support for RISE. Hopkins introduced the keynote speaker, Charles Ewing, owner of Ewing Moving. His speech, laced with humor, carried a serious message. “God gave you both hands,” Ewing said. “Don’t think they are both for receiving. One is for receiving, and one is for giving.” Following Ewing’s speech, awards were presented to individuals with outstanding achievements. Sheila Terrell, one of the two original employees who is still working at RISE, was met with a standing ovation when she was honored. Guests then concluded the night by enjoying dancing to the music of the Trio Plus Band. See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP

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RSVP: Do you feel like most of the community today is familiar with the Woman’s Exchange?

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Boswell: We have really good potential for some more growth and reaching out more to the community to understand who we are. A lot of times people forget who we are, what we do or how it works. I worked really hard this year to get involvement from other nonprofits, or just other people, hoping that next year we can do a little community outreach. We have plans for a sewing program, and we want to use it to try and teach people what we do so we can have a life longer than what we have now.

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ora Boswell celebrated her one-year anniversary as the executive director of the Woman’s Exchange of Memphis this fall, and having been somewhat familiar with the role since she held the title of manager for five years, Boswell knew that changes were in store to help bring the volunteer-run organization up to speed. Dating back to 1855, the nonprofit, which has been in continual service since 1933, has provided a place for women (and now some men) to consign their handmade goods, however Boswell saw the potential the items had to reach a broader audience when she began a Facebook page for the Exchange. Soon enough, orders were coming in from across the country, and then she decided to do other promotions when she began planning trunk shows and the Art Gallery. While meeting with RSVP editor Leah Fitzpatrick in the popular Woman’s Exchange Tea Room, Boswell also explained that she has been working with other nonprofits to do more community projects in the future; after all, the Exchange’s motto is “helping others to help themselves.”

them—there are only five that are younger than 70. That in itself shows how the art of sewing, especially heirloom sewing, is kind of dying down, and we’re trying to keep that tradition going. I feel like the Woman’s Exchange is just a big part of history in Memphis with what it’s done and become, and it really started in a time when women weren’t really given the opportunity to go out of the home to do this sort of thing [make items and sell them]. RSVP: In addition to the seamstresses, how many consignors are there?

RSVP: What are some of the highlights of your role here? Boswell: The highlight is meeting with consignors and finding out the talent they have, and knowing that they’re not always aware of how great their talents are. Being able to see their products come in and sell and to know the reward they’ve gotten is great. There are times when a consignor’s husband has called me and said, “You don’t know how excited my wife was when she went to the mailbox and got that check.” That to me is the biggest highlight because there are a lot of people who are making it, but they really need some extra income just to do a little better. Then there are some who really just need the help continuously. There are also elderly people who I think that it adds value for them. Sometimes elderly people are a little forgotten about, and then when they are able to sell something and provide a gift for someone, it really makes them happy. That has got to be one of the most motivational things for me…to keep going and doing and explaining the mission of the Woman’s Exchange and how people are actually changing lives by buying things that people make. RSVP: And the consignors don’t have to worry about running their own store! Boswell: Right, they don’t have to worry about the taxes and this and that. We do all of that, including the marketing, for you, and then you have a storefront to back the item that’s here. And, all the Woman’s Exchange volunteers are here selling the stuff for you. It’s a big undertaking that the consignor doesn’t have to do. You know, that thing of having a handmade or handsewn item for sale is kind of lost in big box stores. The movement is kind of coming back for these items, but as I know from our seamstresses—we have 23 of

Boswell: I would say about 300. It varies too, especially during Christmas because some consignors only sell then. RSVP: What are some of the more unusual items that consignors make that you want people to know about because I think a lot of people know about the children’s clothing sold here? Boswell: We have some beautiful pieces of pottery that I don’t think people are aware of, and from potters who may not have a known name, like Genny Preston, whose first place to sell pottery was here. There are wreaths that John Mark Sharpe does, beautiful pieces of jewelry that people make, artwork, purses, handmade cards, jams and jellies. The candy has also really taken off. We have these hot chocolate sticks now, and all it took was one person to buy it and say how great it was for 50 hot chocolate sticks to sell that same day. It’s actually a stick-like thing, and at the bottom is a circular piece of chocolate, and you microwave your milk and stick the stick in it to make hot chocolate. It makes about two cups of hot chocolate, and there’s white chocolate, dark chocolate and white chocolate mint—really good flavors. We also have teas, which are really good too, especially the cinnamon twist. I forgot to mention that we have these [fabric] dolls that are from Thailand, and they’re made by the wives of rice farmers. It’s actually a way for them to make an income, and we’re the first place in the U.S. to sell the dolls they make. The dolls are really interesting and very cute, and there are clothes to go with the dolls, barrettes, hats and all types of things, and you know you’re helping those women in Thailand by buying them…I can only imagine what it’s like to live there and not really be able to work, but they can do this to make some money.

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RSVP: Do you know who is the longest-running consignor with the Woman’s Exchange? Boswell: Yes, Marian Warner has been a consignor here for more than 20 years, and she’s a jack of all trades. She makes stuffed animals, has sown the aprons we [the volunteers] wear and knits blankets, hats and scarves. Basically, if you need her to make you something, she can do it. Last year, we sold a nativity set, and one of the ones that had come in didn’t have the “Mary.” So, Marian actually made a “Mary” for it. RSVP: Do you ever allow any of the consignors to take requests? Boswell: We do. If someone comes in, they can mention it to me or any volunteer, and I think of some names of people who can produce that item; typically we can fulfill that need. We’ve got a lot of people to choose from, and a lot of consignors who you think can only do one thing will surprise you. For instance, Lacy Walt, an artist who did extremely well in our Art Gallery, does all these beautiful paintings, and come to find out that she does this really pretty pottery that she uses to make bird and cross necklaces on leather.

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RSVP: What is your approach for getting new consignors? Boswell: We have people just show up because someone told them about us, and then we’ll take a look at their work, but we actually do scout out people. What happens is people will go to different places to shop, let’s say in Marion, Arkansas, and see a handmade thing. Then, someone will give me their card, and I will call them and see if they’d be willing to be a part of the Woman’s Exchange and see what their items are. I go to some craft fairs, or someone might be wearing something that I notice would be good for the store. We are also a part of the Federation of Woman’s Exchanges, so we try to work together to get new consignors beyond our area. We have people from New York, Connecticut, Illinois and all throughout the U.S. who consign with us, and that’s because of the other Exchanges. We have a federation meeting once a year where we bring our consignor items, as much as we can, and share them with others.

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that draws in a crowd. We’re kind of a hidden place, a destination place, so the more that we can do to draw more people the better for us. One thing that’s really led to people from outside of Memphis, like people from Knoxville, Mobile, South Carolina and even New York, buying things is Facebook. I started the Facebook page for the Woman’s Exchange as kind of like a here’s what’s going on effort, but then, I happened to put up a picture or two. The next thing I knew is there was a huge response from people asking if they could get the items. The more pics we put up, the more sales we have, and our sewing room almost can’t keep up. It’s become an almost overwhelming response, and sometimes the people shopping with us don’t understand that these are individuals who can only produce so much at a time. That’s why people want these items though— they know the seamstress cares about the details. I also started a Twitter account, but it hasn’t taken off as much since there’s such a concentration on Facebook. Maybe in the future we can start a Pinterest page as well. RSVP: Have you been able to measure an increase in customer traffic through sales at all?

Boswell: I really want to do the sewing program, which would be seeking out people who can sew already but don’t necessarily have all the right instructions or tools to be an heirloom sewer. We have proposed to have a class that would be for a certain amount of time, for two hours at a time, and we would have someone trained in sewing teach it. After the people in the class learn how to do it, then hopefully they will be interested in becoming seamstresses for us. I know the seamstresses who we have are absolutely wonderful, but they won’t live forever. We really need new people learning these skills. I’m further hoping to do some more of our art parties and would like to offer those maybe four times next year [The next Art Gallery open house will be July 27, 2014]. We’d also like to do some things that aren’t the normal type of thing the Exchange would offer to draw people in to learn how to make and do things. And, this year we are actually working with a neighborhood school over on Tillman, and they’re coming November 18 to make ornaments with us. The students each get to take one home, but the others we’re going to sell here. All the proceeds will then go back to the neighborhood school. So, the kids can learn how to make something and know they earned the reward by working hard, and know that their skills don’t have to lie within books. People of all types are needed in the world to make things. RSVP: Why do you think it’s important that the Woman’s Exchange survive in Memphis for years to come? Boswell: I believe this type of organization is something unique in regards to what we do and how we do it, and the fact that it’s basically volunteer-run when it comes to who’s serving and who’s helping with the customers. But, it’s the tradition of handmade goods that’s an art I would never want to see lost. I think if we didn’t have an organization like this that it would really affect how people would think about things—they wouldn’t think about buying quality handmade goods necessarily. Also, 350 people would lose a job if we weren’t here.

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Boswell: Yes, we have. You know, my goal year after year is that we’re here for the consignors, and that we really want them to do well and their sales to go up. Anyway, so far this year our sales for our consignors are up $26,000 more than last year, and I’m very proud that we have made that leap. That’s the most we will have made since we got our computer system 11 years ago.

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MEAT ME IN MEMPHIS

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ix years after launching Memphis-based Monogram Food Solutions, the company established Monogram Loves Kids Foundation as a means to share its resources and to invest in the communities in which it operates, with the primary focus on children and families. A major fund-raising event, Meat Me in Memphis was held recently and attracted a large crowd to The Columns at One Commerce Square. Organizers worked hard to put together great silent and live auctions with donations from generous metropolitan merchants. The bidding was fast and furious as guests found a large variety of items and services to vie for. These included American Express gift cards, tickets from the Tennessee Titans, Memphis Grizzlies and The Liberty Bowl, Live at the Garden, The Orpheum and Playhouse on the Square, The Marriot and Old Navy gift certificates and a great selection of wines. The evening’s entertainment was top notch, with dancers from Watoto De Afrika (Swahili for children) and performances by youngsters from New Ballet Ensemble and Stax Music Academy. And then there was the food–delicious concoctions prepared by some of our area’s excellent chefs, each of whom represented a different children’s charity. Erling Jensen (March of Dimes) whipped up tasty Nantucket Bay scallops with sausage and cauliflower crème served on herbed crostinis. Heart and Soul’s Michael Francis (One Together, Inc.) contributed a sumptuous Cajun sausage and crawfish grit cake with Creole sauce. Ronald McDonald House® Charities of Memphis was well represented with James Gentry of Paradox Catering serving crowd-pleasing slow-smoked barbecued bologna sandwiches and Patty Davis of The Cookery Learning Center delighting guests with jerky and bacon jam on crostinis. St. Jude chefs Johnny Siv and Ernest Dickson wowed the taste buds with Cambodian tacos and Cajun seafood gumbo. Blake Johnson of Kirby Pines Retirement Community (Shelby County Books from Birth) scored a big hit with his spiced shrimp and avocado toasts. Rizzo Diner’s Michael Patrick (Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis) dished up mouthwatering red beans and rice, while Erick Waldkirch (The Caritas Community) of Maximillian’s Catering provided delectable chocolate-dipped bacon planks. Suffice it to say that no one went home hungry! Since its inception, the Foundation has raised more $150,000 for charities and nonprofits such as the Down Syndrome Association of Memphis & the Mid-South, the Boy Scouts of America, Make-AWish® Mid-South, Porter-Leath, Hope House, Youth Villages and the Exchange Club Family Center. With the resounding success of Meat Me in Memphis, it is hoped that Monogram will continue in its efforts on behalf of our community’s children.

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Interview by Lesley Young | Photos by Steve Roberts or the 30th year, the West Tennessee Home Builders Association, formerly the Memphis Area Home Builders Association, charmed building buffs, furnishings aficionados and designer enthusiasts alike during the 2013 Fall VESTA Home Show. This yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s showcase featured six homes in the St. James neighborhood of Germantown from November 9 through December 1, presenting the latest and greatest in home and interior design and technology by some of the areaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s top architects, builders and designers. RSVP recently sat down with architectural and interior designer Linda Wingo with Wingo Design & Interiors to talk about some of the features she included in the Silverton home, a 5,200-square-foot four-bedroom, four-and-a-half bath brick home carefully crafted alongside Looney Ricks Kiss Architects, David Clark Construction and Kim Loudenbeck with Warehouse 67. Wingo, a member of the American Society of Interior Design and the West Tennessee Home Builders Association, discusses the inspiration behind the eye-catching kitchen, which is part of the house that won Best Home Design, Best Interior Design, Best Master Suite and Best Special Feature (a bunk room).

F Top: As an architectural interior designer, Linda Wingo of Wingo Design & Interiors tries to bridge the gap between the architect, the builder and the homeowner by putting the architectural finishes on home interiors. In the kitchen above, she put her spin on the traditional New England and historical style by incorporating a modern twist. Above: The range hood above the cutting-edge stove was 100 percent custom designed by Metalaire Louver. Added to the backsplash, which boasts individual tiles created and installed by Triton Stone Group, the combination creates a calm yet statement-making space.

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Left: Wingo decided on Shaker-style cabinet doors matched with fumed floors, stained with a darker color to give them an aged look, to maintain the feeling of a comfortable, open, cool and clean interior. The Edison bulbs in seeded glass fixtures, made by Graham’s Lighting, complement the historic style while keeping up with a new trend in home design. Below: The apron front sink is made of hammered nickel, and is just one more example of the old world meeting the new.

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RSVP: What was the overall design concept for the Silverton kitchen? Wingo: Throughout the whole house, the concept is a very traditional one. Our goal was to achieve a very traditional look, almost an East Coast or New England type of design, using historical features with a modern twist. RSVP: How did you carry this out in the kitchen? Wingo: What I wanted to do was have very clean lines. The cabinets have Shaker-style doors. The overall feel is comfortable, open, cool and clean. It has some very historical elements with a little bit of modern flair. The backsplash has a more modern twist. It’s a new release in design and style. With the island, I wanted to bring in a darker contrasting color to [the white cabinets and backsplash] and make it look vintage, lived in and not shiny. RSVP: Talk more about the backsplash. How does it reflect the

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51 Wingo: My goal is to bridge the gap between the architect, the builder and the homeowner. I pick out all the architectural finishes. With this house, we have a great team. It was like a relay race. The architect started off holding the plans, and we worked together for a while. Then, he handed the torch to me. I handed the torch to Kim [Loudenbeck] and worked with her on the colors and to make sure it figured into the overall design. She put on the finishing touches with the furnishings and drapes and accessories. I started my business because I saw homeowners going through the building process and wasting large amounts of money because in the end they were frustrated and not happy with what they got. I get the homeowners’ wishes and desires implemented into the building process to make sure it is tasteful and expresses their personality.

traditional-yet-modern aesthetic? Wingo: I wanted to give a sense of detail in design, but have it not be too distracting, calm but make a statement. I wanted to give an interesting design concept in the tile and wanted it to be a focal point, but not be overwhelming for the room. It’s key in the overall design plan. It is made up of individual pieces as opposed to a whole piece done by Triton Stone Group out of Southaven. RSVP: What are some of the more traditional style elements you included? Wingo: The floors were fumed and stained with a color called “Pure.” It doesn’t have that bright and shiny polyurethane finish, but has a very aged look. The lights over the sink use the Edison bulbs inside seeded glass fixtures made by Graham’s Lighting. They give it a very vintage style, a historic style that is becoming more prevalent in today’s design. RSVP: The range hood is very unique. Who made it? Wingo: The hood was custom-made in Memphis by Metalaire Louver. It is 100 percent custom-made and continues the historical elements with a little bit of modern flair.

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ne of the more favored party spots on the Memphis social scene, the Pink Palace Museum rarely throws a party for itself. Last year, board members and supporters decided it was time to do something about it. They agreed what better way to celebrate the unique facility than to host a costume party inside the historic site, and the Boo! Ball was born. Held on October 25, the second annual Halloween party was nothing to sneeze at. “We can’t be more ecstatic about the turnout,” event cochair and past board president Jeff Wills said. “We have 100 more people this year than last year.” “It has doubled from last year,” said co-chair Lisa Chow Mallory. “We anticipate similar growth every year.” A flock of flappers showed up to dance to the more modern tunes presented by the band Walrus, while the Wolverine danced alongside the Phantom of the Opera, and Tonto and the Lone Ranger sipped on some witches brew, an adult beverage concoction created for the special evening. “This is as diverse a crowd as you can get,” Wills commented. Chow Mallory added, “Ages range from 21 to 70. It’s diverse on multiple levels. And people were here at 6:30. We didn’t start until 7.” While a party for the liveliest of connoisseurs, it wasn’t all fun and games. The event was held to support the museum’s various education outreach programs and its family of museums, including the fossils display at Coon Creek Science Center, Lichterman Nature Center, the Mallory-Neely House and many other programs. “A lot of people don’t realize that we are more than a palace and museum,” said Chow Mallory. “We have a whole family of museums that spans all over Shelby County. And it’s not only for kids and babies. We have a [Pink Palace] Suitcase Exhibit for Shelby County schools and private schools. We have suitcases full of different sized things that teachers take with them and keep in the classroom for two weeks. We have a great education outreach program.”

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With the leaves changing colors and autumn upon us, a big bowl of chili seemed the perfect companion. Thankfully, The Exceptional Foundation of West Tennessee had Memphians covered with its second annual Chili Cook-Off, which was held at the organization’s headquarters. Dedicated to empowering the lives of the developmentally challenged by meeting their recreational and social needs, The Exceptional Foundation served up hot bowls of everyone’s favorite comfort food to raise money for scholarships and programs. Close to 300 guests enjoyed delicious samples of chili, including Chiwawa’s chorizo, sirloin and bacon chili, and judged each one for the People’s Choice Award. Selected judges had the hard task of determining an overall winner, but unfortunately there could only be one grand winner. First place went to Bowls of Steel, with second place going to Temple Israel Brotherhood and third place awarded to Clear Channel. The People’s Choice Award went to the West Clinic, and the Spirit Award went to Chili Babes. The Spirit Runner-Up was Nahon, Saharovich & Trotz. By the end of the day $50,000 was raised for this wonderful organization.

Princesses and royalty alike were present at the Tiara Tea Society’s Grande Dame Induction Tea, held at the gorgeous Memphis Hunt & Polo Club. Hosted by the Rev. Audrey Taylor Gonzalez, this special occasion was designed in celebration of the induction of three new women into the Prestigious Circle of the Grande Dames. Inductees included the following: Nancy Williams, director of the Memphis Child Advocacy Center; Delores Kinsolving, patron of the Arts; and Gonzalez, chaplain and ambassador to the MPD and FBI as well as a reviser of the Foster Care Review System. Now in its seventh year, the Tiara Tea Society is a wonderful organization that is dedicated to helping little girls in dire need or circumstance. The newest princess, Keona Vaughn, was joined by princesses Graycen Ann Beardslee and Cenyiah Dotson. Guests enjoyed tea, sweet cakes, cookies and chocolates as the keynote speaker, Shelby County Mayor Mark Lutrell, spoke about the importance of female leaders in our communities. Renowned soprano Kallen Esperian serenaded the crowd with songs chosen for each dame’s acceptance into the Circle.

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The six colleges of the University of Tennessee Health Science Center (UTHSC) saluted their 50year “Golden Graduates” during a Homecoming Celebration October 2-4. It was the first time the colleges, including Allied Health Sciences, Dentistry, Graduate Health Sciences, Medicine, Nursing and Pharmacy, joined together to bring their Golden Graduates back to the Memphis campus at the same time. Graduates from 1963 were the honored class, but alumni from as early as 1954 came for the festivities, which included open houses and receptions at the various colleges; an interdisciplinary presentation by students showcasing 21st century health care with live simulation; dinner at Beale Street Landing; and an evening at the Pink Palace Museum. Story and Photos Submitted

“A Pink Affair” Dedicated to raising funds to support organizations that assist breast cancer patients, survivors and research, the Staci and Friends For A Cure team hosted its fourth annual “A Pink Affair” event at the Memphis Zoo on October 5. The team was created in honor of Staci Franklin, who was diagnosed and treated for triple negative breast cancer in 2009. Guests of this year’s event were treated to a special pink carpet arrival as their photos were taken wearing their favorite pink attire. Live entertainment was provided by the 4851 Jazz Band of Whitehaven High School and local artist Tim Terry of The Tim Terry Experience. DJ Stan Bell of V101.1 FM kept everyone dancing on the dance floor. Attendees also enjoyed hors d’oeuvres from Me & My Tearoom Catering. It’s Your Day! Weddings and Special Events provided event coordination services and was this year’s presenting sponsor. All ticket proceeds from the event were donated to the Memphis-Midsouth Affiliate of Susan G. Komen®. Story and Photos Submitted

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Art of Science 2013 Reception

Memphis Music Masters

Night Life for Methodist Hospice

YMCA Annual Auction

It’s that time of year again, the time when painters hang out with scientists, and sculptors with researchers, to see what kind of art can be made from science. For the third year, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital specialists teamed up with artists from the Memphis area to create the annual Art of Science exhibit, held this year at the Hyde Gallery of the Memphis College of Art Nesin Graduate Center on South Main. Close to 30 artists participated in the special exhibit, creating sculptures, paintings, drawings, installations, films and other mediums based on images from the various scientists’ research. The opening reception was held September 27, with scientists and artists on hand to discuss the work and a bustling party for all who attended.

More than providing a fine dining experience and a space for business meetings, the Crescent Club looks to serve its community. Each year the club, in conjunction with its parent company ClubCorp, holds a fund-raiser to benefit Augie’s Quest to Cure ALS, the club’s Employee Care Foundation and a beneficiary of its choice. This year, the club and board members chose the Stax Music Academy, and held a party fit for music lovers and performers that could only come from Memphis. Dubbed Memphis Music Masters, the semi-formal charity event was held in the lobby of the crescentshaped building and featured noshes of the Crescent Club expertise and performances from some of Memphis’ finest. A silent and live auction offered opportunities to walk home with Stax Museum memberships, and a patient from the Muscular Dystrophy Association spoke to the crowd for a lesson in doing good work.

Country music fans from the Mid-South were granted a special treat this October when Vince Gill gave an “up close and personal” concert at Minglewood Hall. For just $100, guests had the pleasure of listening to Gill perform, all while benefiting a good cause. Dubbed Night Life for Methodist Hospice: An Unplugged Evening with Vince Gill, Methodist Healthcare’s Hospice presented the special event, which included a VIP reception before the concert complete with barbecue by Hog Wild BBQ and an opportunity to shake hands with the country music star. The benefit was held to help patients in need of hospice care with no insurance or little funding. “This is so that people who do not have insurance or who can’t afford to have their basic needs met can have the best health care available to them at the end of their lives,” said event chair Alex Roberts. “This was the first annual Night Life event for Methodist Hospice. We wanted it to be about life.”

The YMCA of Memphis & the Mid-South serves thousands of children in the Memphis area through their before and after school programs. In order to help fund these programs, the Fogelman Downtown YMCA holds a fund-raiser every year in an effort to support these programs, inclusive of summer day camp, swim lessons and many others. This year, the event was held in the aerobic room of the Fogelman location’s gym, which was transformed into an event space with multi-color topped tables, a stage and a buffet line stretching the length of an entire wall. More than 100 items, such as video cameras, a Keurig coffee maker with all the accoutrement and Grizzlies game tickets, were up for grabs throughout the silent auction, and entertainment was provided by Deering and Down, as well as Tori Tollison and Elbert Belk.

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lmwood Cemetery held its third annual frightening fund-raiser, Spirits with the Spirits, this past October. Held on a dark, moonless Saturday night in the heart of the cemetery, the benefit attracted some 250 guests, who made their way across the dimly lit entrance bridge and then were supplied with small flashlights to illuminate the path through the dark grounds to the party tents. Among the crowd were several witches, vampires and dark fairies, all of whom were excited that costumes were more than welcome at the party. The Earnestine & Hazel’s Band was already waking the dead with some howling rock ‘n’ roll as guests delightfully partook of a variety of strong, bubbly concoctions at the bar. Helpful volunteers were on hand, creeping from the shadows to hand attendees glow sticks and direct them to the many activities. The night offered many spooky attractions, allowing guests to feel like kids again as they eagerly got into the Halloween spirit. A tarot card reader was there to look into her cards and divine one’s future. If the tarot card reader left a partygoer with questions, a palm reader was conveniently located around the corner. The auction created quite a stir with some hot items like a beautiful desk organizer made from the wood of a wild cherry tree from Elmwood that was salvaged in the aftermath of Hurricane Elvis. Another to-die-for item, also made from a salvaged tree from Elmwood, was a century-old table made of American holly. Joe’s Wines & Liquors generously donated all party libations, including two jeroboams of wine that went for an arm and a leg. The new book I’m a Memphian by Dan Conaway, communication strategist and freelance writer, was also auctioned off to the excitement of bidders. A lovely spread of heavy hors d’oeuvres that included Swedish meatballs, egg rolls and mini sandwiches filled everyone up, although the eerie black lights gave the food an uncanny glow. Guests also got into the spirit by indulging in the rum embalming fluid shots, which doubled as preparation for their frightening walk through the cemetery. And for the brave of heart, the party offered ghostly wagon rides through the cemetery. The hosts of these wagon tours were the dead themselves, historical people and Memphis legends long ago buried in Elmwood and reenacted by Elmwood tour guides. These expert guides gave wagon riders a look into some of the tragic and eventful lives of the early movers and shakers of Memphis. All proceeds from this wonderful event went straight to the historic Elmwood Cemetery, which is one of the oldest nonprofits in Tennessee and a great preserver of regional and national history.

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Spirits with the Spirits Benefiting Elmwood Cemetery

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Healthy Memphis Common Table Diamond Anniversary Celebration

Friends for Our Riverfront & Chickasaw Bluffs Conservancy Merger Celebration

Champagne flowed during the celebration of Healthy Memphis Common Table’s 10th birthday. The organization spearheads a local movement to eat healthier and lighter and to move more—a mission that fit in perfectly with the surroundings of Gameday Baseball in Cordova, which opened its doors for the Diamond Anniversary Celebration. Draper’s Catering laid out a spread for guests to nibble on, and Will Graves entertained the group with his vocal stylings. For more info on how you can get involved with HMCT, check out healthymemphis.org.

To celebrate the merger of Chickasaw Bluff Conservancy into Friends for The Riverfront, Memphians enjoyed a picnic style gathering at the National Ornamental Metal Museum on a sunny Sunday afternoon. A fantastic view of the river from the bluff was in store along with vocals and guitar stylings from Nora Burns Tucker, both of which set the stage for a spectacular fall gathering of members and guests from both organizations. Friends for Our Riverfront will continue its mission to promote revitalization of the Memphis Riverfront as green space for public enjoyment, preserving its historic, natural and aesthetic character.

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The Memphis Chapter of Hadassah held its Painting with a Purpose benefit at Painting with a Twist, host of the event. To help raise funds for Hadassah Women’s Heart and Breast Cancer Research, guests picked up paintbrushes to paint alongside a local artist in addition to enjoying appetizers and beverages provided by private donors and by local boutique On A Whim owner Layne Vogel, who also provided an array of desserts. The paintings of the evening were two from a series called “Key to my Heart.” Story and Photos Submitted

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On October 17, the Junior Achievement Awards Breakfast and Annual Meeting was held at the organization’s 307 Madison office. Students, teachers, volunteers and supporters were recognized for their participation in JA programs and partnership with the nonprofit. The meeting also served as a platform for the organization to install new board members and officers and to review its successes and fiscal information for 2013, as well as plans for 2014. Skip Betts of CubeSmart received Junior Achievement’s Volunteer of the Year award, while Deena Phillipy of St. Mary’s Episcopal School was awarded Junior Achievement’s Teacher of the Year recognition and Sam’s Club was recognized as Junior Achievement’s Company of the Year. Story and Photos Submitted

Save the Historic Church Event The Germantown Museum, in partnership with the Methodist Healthcare Foundation and Methodist Le Bonheur Germantown Hospital, remains steadfast in its pursuit to restore one of the community’s shining historical beacons, the Germantown Historic Church, or the Baptist Church of Germantown as it was known in 1841. Though the original church burned in 1862, the structure was rebuilt, and now after almost 150 years is in need of restoration. So, to raise funds toward this effort, Germantown residents gathered at the Great Hall & Conference Center for the Save the Historic Church Event. Darrell Greene of FOX13 emceed the affair, during which actors performed historical vignettes that would have taken place during the church’s heyday and several devoted proponents of the project urged guests to help toward the $1.3 million fund-raising goal (As of the event, $500,000 had been raised).

Memphis Symphony League “Diamonds are Forever” Luncheon It was a sweet sound indeed to hear that the Memphis Symphony Orchestra is celebrating its 61st season. With that milestone in mind, the ladies of the Memphis Symphony League threw a “Diamonds are Forever” Luncheon at Chickasaw Country Club. The festivities included a fall-friendly silent auction, a three-course lunch, musical selections by the MSO String Quartet (Wen-Yin Yu, Jessica Munson, Michelle Pellay-Walker and Iren Zombor) and an “Our Diamond, the MSO” speech from Gayle S. Rose, chairman of the MSO Board. Having come to town more than 30 years ago as a professional clarinetist, Rose emphasized her passion for music and touted the MSO for being one of the country’s most innovative orchestras, in addition to having no debt in a world today where the financial pressures on symphony orchestras has changed. Further catering to the theme, Lura Turner, the league’s president, rounded out the afternoon by singing an original song to the tune of “Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend” with Mary Lawrence Flinn accompanying on piano.

Project Green Fork’s Loving Local Wiseacre Brewing Company might be building its reputation as a great local craft brewery, but it also served as the perfect venue for Project Green Fork’s Loving Local benefit. Held on a beautiful October afternoon, the event drew 300 supporters of PGF, which helps restaurants adopt more sustainable practices, by offering them a sampling of fare from several PGF-certified restaurants. Central BBQ, Fuel Café, Get Fresh Memphis, Huey’s, Muddy’s Bake Shop, Rendezvous, So Fresh Mobile Juice Bar and The Dog and Slaw all donated their specialties to hungry partygoers, who additionally enjoyed Wiseacre suds, a silent and live auction, lively tunes from Dead Soldiers and a fire pit, which became a popular spot later into the night when guests wanted to roast marshmallows. For those who missed out, check out projectgreenfork.org to see a list of all restaurants in the PGF family. Story and Photos by Leah Fitzpatrick

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he Metropolitan Inter-Faith Association’s vision of “uniting the community through diversity” is self-evident when the organization pulls out all the stops and holds its annual “Feed the Soul” Party each October. For its sixth year, the event celebrated MIFA’s 45 years as a moving force in Memphis dedicated to serving the underprivileged residents of our city. A beautiful early autumn evening at the South Main Historic District’s the Warehouse proved to be the perfect setting as more than 1,000 supporters gathered to wish MIFA a very happy birthday. Guests began queuing up early to have their photos snapped on the “Green Carpet” and to register for chances to win a raffle to be held at the end of an evening that featured a large array of products and services from local merchants, including The Peabody, Dabbles Hair Salon, Evergreen Yoga Center, Germantown Aesthetics, Bangkok Alley, The Nail and Skin Bar and Jolie Mason. Available for purchase at discount prices were City Dining Cards for 50-plus area restaurants, with 50 percent of sale proceeds going to MIFA. While Latin music artist Marcela Pinilla and guitarist Joe Restivo entertained the crowd from the Soul Stage, Laurelwood Shopping Center’s freeze models showed off fall’s hot new fashions. Outside, the MIFA Cave, sponsored by Bluff City Land Rover, was a popular spot to hang out and take advantage of sipping apple martinis and enjoy tastings by Bacardi and Four Roses, in addition to checking out the Havana Mix Cigar Emporium. Lots of folks tried out nexAir’s oxygen bars, and the queue was long (but snappy!) for shots at the Fireball Cinnamon Whiskey booth. Comestibles were abundant, with such picnic favorites as barbecue, chicken and hot dogs with all the fixings, as well as a selection of after-supper sweets. Big favorites from years past were back, namely large baskets of MoonPies and red wax lips that brought smiles to many reliving a part of their childhoods. Even more entertainment was provided at the AutoZone Rhythm & Blues Pavilion by V101’s DJ Stan “The Bell Ringer” Bell, who spun hot dance tunes, and on the Soul Stage with the jazzy, funky, rhythm and blues sounds of Trio Plus. No one left empty-handed either, as everyone was given a large complimentary MIFA tote bag for party favors. SunTrust Bank once again acted as presenting sponsor for “Feed the Soul.” Other sponsors included ARAMARK, Coors Light, Brown Missionary Baptist Church and yours truly, RSVP Magazine! A fabulous time was had by all, and many are already looking forward to next year’s event.

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therefore cannot switch to a ballgame, all I’ve thought is what’s so terrific about their circumstances that they keep fighting even though they must smell god-awful? It’s not just the lack of hygiene after an apocalypse that bothers me, although it’s very high on the list. There’s also the lack of anesthesia, federallyinspected meat and ESPN. If there’s going to be a world without nightly sports highlights, I’ll just catch the next one, thanks. Seriously, if zombies start roaming around, moaning and rolling their bulging eyes, I’m offering my brains up faster than Neville Chamberlain gave up Austria. I’d be running up to the undead with a can

I’m one of those people who never skips a day of taking a shower, so the last thing I want is to be in a world where people are brushing their teeth with sticks and filleting squirrels. opener and a dotted line across my forehead. If someone were actually able to turn off all of the electricity, I’d find a way to drop a hairdryer in the bathtub somehow. I am not cut out to be a hero. True story, years ago when my wife and I were in the Caribbean, I finally talked her into skinny-dipping. Within seconds, my wife yelled that something had bitten her on the kiester. I hydroplaned out of the ocean. I have no memory of how I got to the beach, but I was there well ahead of my jellyfish-stung wife. My justification was that it wasn’t like I could fight whatever had bitten her, but the hard truth is that this boy went in full-on coward mode. It’s not a story I’m proud of, but it is illustrative of my point. Right now, there are two movies in theaters that feature one performer struggling to stay alive all by themselves in

impossible predicaments. One has Sandra Bullock fighting all odds in space while all alone, and the other features a 77-year-old Robert Redford battling the high seas in a sinking boat all alone. Boy, oh boy, are those two scrappy. It’s amazing how hard they work to not get killed. Me? I’m the first one out the airlock or over the side. Explosive decompression or shark food, either way, I’m not going sleepless, showerless and hungry for any length of time before I start looking for the other option. Whether it’s zombies, nuclear weapons, meteors or giant space aliens, society is constantly fixating on the various ways our civilization might be almost wiped out before a handful of surprisingly handsome and well-groomed misfits band together to grasp that last sliver of hope. The sun rises, and their pitiful refugee camp is shown in a helicopter shot as they face the warm glow and begin to dream again. What fun. The thing is that I like society just fine the way it is. Obviously, there are plenty of folks who would love to push the big reset button and be shed of all the current headaches, but those miseries are infinitely preferable to the ones that come with global chaos. Okay, so you don’t like politicians, lobbyists, criminals, tasteless sitcoms, paying taxes, having to figure out your health care, transfats going away, blowhards with wrong-headed opinions on television, holiday parties, office politics, pet dander, daylight-saving time, the way your kid’s room smells and a million other things. They may be a pain in the neck, but think about all the things you’d miss while you’re building your mud hut and chasing away the undead. No more cute cats on the Internet, swimsuit editions, cold beer, new books, girl celebrities flaunting their sexuality and SportsCenter. You guys have fun battling the aliens in your distressed denim jacket with the sleeves cut off and eating potted meat out of the can; I’ll be over here getting my brains eaten.

Dennis, we take it then that you turned down an audition to try out for Red Dawn, the new one and the original. Too bad, because the Wolverines are pretty epic!

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he Cold War was at its height when I was a teenager, and all my friends ever talked about was what they planned to do if “the missiles start flying.” We were told that if the Soviet Union and the United States ever had a nuclear exchange we would probably have about 20 minutes notice before everything started being vaporized. My friends constantly speculated about where would be the safest place to go to survive the initial exchange, and then begin the process of rebuilding society, which I understood would involve a lot of hoarded machine guns, bandanna headbands and digging underground shelters. My first choice was always to seek out the likeliest place nearby to be targeted and go stand there. The idea of surviving the apocalypse held about the same appeal as playing Dungeons and Dragons until dawn, the other thing my idiot friends did with their time. Somehow pretending to be a wizard with healing powers for hours on end was vital preparation for defining our new civilization. My point is that I have always been one of the ones who believes that surviving a global catastrophe is, at best, plan B. I’m one of those people who never skips a day of taking a shower, so the last thing I want is to be in a world where people are brushing their teeth with sticks and filleting squirrels. When the show “Survivor” was first announced, everyone was talking about what they would bring as their “personal item”: photos, a book or a wind-up radio. I opted for a case of soap. Now, there are all these shows on TV about the planet being plunged into the Stone Age by someone turning off the power, or dead people staggering around, or characters from fairy tales popping up at the mall. These are all stories of heroism, resiliency and courage. I don’t have those things. When I’ve been forced to endure one of these programs because I don’t have control of the remote, and

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n 2014, Memphisâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; own The Bar-Kays will celebrate 50 years in the music business. The photograph above shows the group backstage at a performance at Madison Square Garden when the members received gold records from Mercury Records. Pictured from left to right in the front row are Michael Beard, a record company executive, a record company executive, Charles Allen and Allen Jones. Standing in the back row are Harvey Henderson, Mark Bynum, Lloyd Smith, Joe Phillips, James Alexander, Sherman Guy, Larry Dodson, Frank Thompson and Winston Stewart. PHOTO COURTESY OF LARRY DODSON If you have a past photo you would like to share with RSVP readers, please contact Leah Fitzpatrick at 276-7787 ext. 105 or e-mail the photo and caption to editor@rsvpmagazine.com All photos will be returned promptly.