RSVP Memphis Magazine December 2019

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Art of Caring

Art on Fire

Power of the Purse



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CONTENTS December 2019 Features Signature Memphis • 10

Events

Jarvis Greer Sports Director, WMC Action News 5 Memphis

StreetSeen • 20

Memphis Moments • Emily Hadland and Ben Dory

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Konrad Spitzbart Executive pastry chef at The Peabody steeped in culinary traditions.

StreetSeen • 24

Art on Fire • 12 Bethany Paulus and Sara Myers

The Dixon Gallery and Gardens had the feel of fall for this year’s outdoor gathering and annual fundraiser.

Kameron Whalum With his family pedigree, musician knew early on what direction his future would take.

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Art of Caring • 28 Melissa and Kevin Donahue

Art auction benefited two community programs of the Baptist Memorial Health Care Foundation.

Uncalled For Lately I’ve been noticing more and more this whole FaceTime thing, and it’s more than a little alarming.

Cover Photo lrenee and Emily Strack at Art on Fire. Photo by Don Perry

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Power of the Purse • 40 Dena McNeal and Kendra Littlejohn

The Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis event supported their Vision 2020 Strategic Plan.

Table of Contents: Enchanted Forest: Festival of Trees is held at the Pink Palace Family of Museums. The exhibit is open from now through December 31. Photo by Krista Geyer



RSVP Staff Volume XXV • Number XII

December 2019 Publisher Roy Haithcock

Chris Pugh

Account Executive Chris has been exercising his talent in the advertising world since 1999. He joined the RSVP team in 2009 and brought with him a love for laughter and creativity. Originally from New Albany, Mississippi, Chris has settled in Memphis and enjoys being active in the fashion community.

Editor Emily Adams Keplinger Copy Editor/Accounting Ruth Cassin Contributing Writers Bill Bannister Dennis Phillippi Gaye Swan Art Director Kim Coleman Photographers Baxter Buck Don Perry Steve Roberts Account Executives Chris Pugh Carter Davis

Carter Davis

Account Executive

Carter is native Memphian and a veteran of the broadcast industry, and magazine publishing. He is also a freelance voiceover talent and can be heard on WKNO 91.1FM on Sundays. Carter is an avid animal lover and likes to work with aquariums as a hobby. He enjoys his East Memphis home with his wife and 2 dogs, and 6 cats.

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Kim oversees all visual aspects of the magazine — advertising and editorial. Her career encompasses working with both print and digital media for magazines, newspapers and e-publications. Kim and her husband are raising their two children in the Cooper-Young area where their family enjoys the artistic atmosphere and entrepreneurial spirit of Midtown.

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hristmas is more than the exchange of gifts — its true magic is found in sights and sounds that stir memories from years past and build new traditions with family and friends. Here are a few happenings to consider. Get dressed in your holiday finery and head to The Peabody to take a picture in front of the giant Christmas tree in the lobby. Time your visit to coincide with the daily 11 a.m. Duck March, then stroll over to ooh and aah over the magnificent Gingerbread Village, built by the hotel’s Executive Pastry Chef, Konrad Spitzbart, and his staff. (You can learn more about Konrad and his culinary background from his profile on page 20.) Adding to the festivities, musical entertainment by a wide range of local performers is scheduled in the lobby from 11 a.m. - noon, Monday through Friday, from Dec. 3 - Dec. 20. The selection and coordination of the different performers is an act of love by local music supporter and former music educator, Tommie Pardue, who has handled the responsibility since 1981, when The Peabody reopened. She is usually there every day to oversee things, so be sure to stop and say hello and express your gratitude. Ms. Pardue is one of the many people in our city who do exceptional things to make the holidays special for others. Other seasonal performances are taking place around town. Return to Neverland and let your imagination soar as the fantasy of “Peter Pan” takes flight at Playhouse on the Square, with performances running through Dec. 29. The curtain will go up for “A Christmas Carol” at Theatre Memphis, from Dec. 6 - 23. This somewhat frightful, but always delightful production is now in its 42 year at this beloved community theater. Ballet Memphis brings “The Nutcracker” to the grand stage of The Orpheum Theatre, Dec. 12 - 15. This much-loved story and holiday tradition is sure to put visions of sugar plums in the heads of children and adults alike. Ekundayo Bandele showcases an age-old story told through the lens of modern times with the tale of “Urban Nativity”at Hattiloo Theatre, through Dec. 15. Trans-Siberian Orchestra (TSO) brings its Winter Tour 2019 to Memphis for a performance on Dec. 19 at the FedExForum. A portion of the show’s proceeds will benefit Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital. Immerse yourself in the Magic of Memphis Holiday Spectacular as the Memphis Symphony Orchestra and MSO Chorus unite for theHoliday Pops Concert at The Cannon Center on Dec. 21 & 22. And if you want to participate in the joyous sights and sounds of the season, march yourself down to Beale Street to be part of the Memphis Holiday Parade, Dec. 14, starting at 3 p.m. From all of us at RSVP Magazine - Happy Holidays!

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Signature Memphis

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Jarvis Greer Sports Director, WMC Action News 5 Memphis Color Analyst: University of Memphis Football Memphis Sports Hall of Fame Board Member Hometown: Memphis, TN (MANE!) Favorite Song: “Notorious” by Boney James and Ric Braun (Smooth Jazz) Your Lucky Charm: Don’t really have one Your Best Quality: I like to see people have fun and, hopefully, play a part in it

A Nonliving Celebrity/Role Model You Would Invite to Dinner: Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Your Favorite Memphis “Thang”: Watching the sunset on the Mississippi River Favorite Place to Travel: Punta Cana, Dominican Republic Best Memphis Hangout: Tug’s at Harbor Town First Car You Owned: Datsun 240-Z Place You Go to Think: The “Throne Room” Favorite Southern Idiom: “I’m fixing to do something” Best Advice You Ever Got: “Interested is Interesting”. As in ‘If you’re genuinely, enthusiastically interested in something, other people will be drawn in to it as well.

Your Most Annoying Habit: I talk a lot. The Highlight of Your Day: Meeting my wife for dinner Proudest Moment of Your Life: Too many to say just one: Marrying my bride, Who Would Play You in a Movie: Somebody who likes to have fun One Goal You’d Still Like to Accomplish: Get paid for what I know, not for what I have to do

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Art on Fire

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Art on Fire

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Fundraiser for The Dixon

s a weather front ushered in cooler temperatures, the rustle of the leaves in the wooded areas surrounding The Dixon Gallery and Gardens brought the feel of fall to the outdoor gathering for this year’s Art on Fire. Adding to the autumnal feel were gorgeous decorations by designer Kim Jameson. The VIP entry, called the Hot Spot, was down a walkway adorned with pumpkins of all shapes and sizes, tucked into rustic containers filled with tall grasses and miniature “firefly” lights. The entry door was festooned with sunflowers and cornstalks that led to an interior hallway and on to the South Lawn. The general admissions entry was through a wooded pathway along the backside of the museum. An arbor covered with cornstalks served as a gateway to the party. For The Dixon’s fundraising bonfire party, booths of food and beverage purveyors formed an outer perimeter as a crowd mingled on the museum’s South Lawn where tables were set up for dining and conversation. Hay bale “sofas” offered additional conversation areas. Entertainment was dispersed throughout the crowd with fire twirlers and acrobats roving around the grounds. Additionally, aerialists performed on the newly constructed stage at the far end of the lawn. For the first half of the party the Mighty Souls Brass Band provided See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP

musical entertainment. They were followed by Grace Askew and her band for the second half of the evening. “Our 10th annual Art on Fire event lived up to the title of ‘The Hottest Night of the Year’,” said Chantal Drake, Director of Development and Communications at The Dixon. “The Dixon grounds on one of the most beautiful autumn nights in Memphis was definitely the most unique location to ‘see and be seen’ in your best fall attire this year. Our festive fall party included a roaring bonfire, fabulous food, live music, the Hot off the Wall art sale, a silent auction, and much more.” “I’m really proud to be part of this fundraiser because it support The Dixon’s art education outreach programs,” explained Sarah Lorenz, Special Events Manager at The Dixon. “People are very familiar with our art and our gardens, but less familiar with the art education we offer the community, because that is not something you can readily see. The Dixon supports educators in the Greater Memphis region and reached approximately 30,000 students last year via its school outreach program. Additionally, The Dixon offers art classes to senior groups and individuals with Alzheimer’s, along with their caregivers. And, art therapy programs are designed for at-risk youth and young people and adults with developmental challenges.”

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“OURS WAS A RESTAURANT WHICH WAS BASICALLY FARM-TO-TABLE. I LEARNED TO COOK BY WORKING SIDE-BY-SIDE WITH MY MOTHER.”

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onrad Spitzbart was born into a family that was deeply steeped in culinary traditions. He was raised in Gmunden, Austria, about 45 minutes east of Salzburg, on a farm that has been in his family for the last 300 years. The family raised cattle, pigs and geese, and also had their own butcher shop and restaurant on the farm.

“Ours was a restaurant which was basically farm-to-table,” explained Spitzbart. “I learned to cook by working side-by-side with my mother. One of my favorite childhood dishes was Nudelauflauf, a pasta and potato dish with sour cream and fresh eggs that is like a noodle casserole. And on Fridays we ate pastries, crepes with homemade jam, for lunch.” All of that fresh, homemade food not only influenced Spitzbart, but two of his sisters also now make their living in the culinary arena. Both live near where they grew up; one is a head chef at a college and the other is a pastry chef at a coffee shop. “I went to school and completed a traditional European apprenticeship for cooking in my hometown,” explained Spitzbart. “Then I went on to complete a second two-year apprenticeship as a baker. I found work in a traditional kitchen as a chef at a local ski resort. It was there that I learned from other chefs about the opportunity to go to the United States to work.” Spitzbart landed a position as a pastry chef at The Grand Hotel on Mackinac Island. The historic

property welcomed guests with old world hospitality and charm, part of which could be attributed to the European chefs, including Spitzbart, the hotel hired for its summer seasons. Spitzbart worked there for four summer seasons, returning home to Gmunden to work in ski resorts during the off-season in Michigan. During his final season at The Grand Hotel, Spitzbart met the woman who would become his wife, Angie. The couple married and decided to stay state-side. Spitzbart found his next position at the Ritz-Carleton in Dearborn, Michigan, as an assistant pastry chef. During his tenure there, he moved up to pastry chef. After three-and-a-half years, he got a call from a recruiter looking to place an executive pastry chef at the Beverly Hills Hotel in Los Angeles. Spitzbart accepted the job and worked there for six-and-a-half years before being asked by the head chef to go with him to the Beverly Hilton. Another two years went by, then Spitzbart learned of a position at a “grand hotel in Memphis.” That was 13 years ago. “I came to Memphis to accept the executive pastry chef position at The Peabody,” recalled

Spitzbart. “My culinary responsibilities involve anything that has to do with sweets — and a lot of sugar. That includes all desserts, even ice cream, made for the hotel.” Spitzbart has instigated some changes. He has streamlined desserts from the hotel’s former all-slice cakes to individual, bite-sized desserts. Also he has added another shift (afternoon) to give The Peabody almost 24-hour coverage in the pastry department and has overseen the replacement of some of the ovens. When asked what he likes about his work, Spitzbart said he enjoys the creativity and challenges of working in a fast-paced kitchen that has to meet deadlines for banquets, a deli and individual guest orders. And he is very proud of his signature “ducks,” mousse-filled chocolates in the shape of The Peabody’s famous feathered entourage. This holiday season, Spitzbart’s culinary talents will be on display (until December 26) in the form of a gingerbread village in the hotel’s lobby. The colossal creation was made by Spitzbart and his pastry department staff and took between 200 and 250 hours to make. “The village, measuring 18 feet by 7 feet, is made entirely of sugar and gingerbread,” said Spitzbart, “It even incorporates some moving parts, like rotating snowmen. I hope people will include a stop by the lobby of The Peabody as part of their holiday plans — who knows, like so many holidays treats, it may be a tradition in the making.”

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t was wild! It was wacky! And it was wonderful! The 2019 Trashion Show was all of that and more with over 45 fashion creations that showcased original designs by some of Memphis’ most creative local artists and designers. As the “green couture” took to the runway, it put a spotlight on fashion with an environmental twist. This year’s top entries took home bragging rights and cash prizes. The winners were Best of Show - $500, Andre Walker for a “Butterfly” outfit made from fabric dinner napkins; Second Place - $250, Laverne Bobo for a paper dress with floral accents made from magazines; and a two-way tie for Third Place - $125; shared by Kendrick Brown for a regal ensemble that incorporated plastic spoons and Gabriella Mendoza for dress made from atlas pages. All proceeds support the Community Improvement Grant Program of Memphis City Beautiful.

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MUSIC IS IN HIS BLOOD Story by Emily Adams Keplinger Photos by Steve Roberts

Kameron Whalum


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s the fourth generation of a family that is considered to be a musical dynasty, Kameron Whalum knew early on what direction his future would mostly likely take — and he was correct. His musical pedigree reads like a Who’s Who. His great uncle, Dr. Wendell Whalum, was the Music Chair at Morehouse College and another, H. D. Whalum, was a saxophonist, singer and pianist who played with musical greats such as Miles Davis. His grandfather, Kenneth Whalum, Sr. and his father, Kenneth Whalum, Jr. are both talented singers. Uncle Kirk Whalum is a touring jazz saxophone player and uncle Kevin is also singer. Kameron’s brothers are in the musical arena; Kenneth is a singer and plays the sax, and Kortland is a singer, actor and vocal instructor at Stax Music Academy. Influences from Kameron’s mother’s side of the family include his grandmother, Margaret White Lee, a jazz singer who performed in Memphis clubs, and his mother, Sheila Lee Whalum, who sings, too.

Kameron, 30, remembers having his first solo performance at age 4, singing in the Christmas program at Mt. Pisgah Daycare in Orange Mound. “From then on I was into music,” recalled Whalum. “I sang in the choir at Olivet Baptist Church, but I didn’t do anything musical in school until fifth grade. I was 10 years old, a student at Sea Isle Elementary, when I picked up a trombone. I continued to play in the band at Colonial Middle School and by the time I started at Overton High School, I had already made up my mind to make music my profession.” Whalum’s talent stood out at a young age. He was one of the only ninth-graders in his school’s marching band and was consistently named to AllWest and All-State. After graduating in 2007, he started college at Morehouse College in Atlanta and performed with the school’s marching band and jazz band. He started singing in the Glee Club. It was all part of the same music department his great uncle had chaired years before.

“Then I broke my jaw and couldn’t play my horn for six weeks,” said Whalum. “I decided to return to Memphis, transferring to the University of Memphis as an undeclared major. Ultimately, I joined the school’s jazz band. At the encouragement of my family, I sent an audition tape to The New School for Jazz and Contemporary Music where my oldest brother, Kenneth, had attended. I was accepted, and after a year at the U of M, I moved to New York City.” That move proved to be a pivotal one. While still a student, Whalum worked as a sessions musician and played gigs around NYC with his brother Kenneth. In March 2011, Whalum got a call to play for Jessie J on Saturday Night Live. “That SNL performance launched things into orbit,” said Whalum. “Two weeks later I got a call to go see Bruno Mars in Los Angeles for ‘American Idol.’ He needed a horn section for the show. I rehearsed with him, did that show, then went back to school. In April, Bruno asked me to join the band

— and that it is still an ongoing gig for me today.” Since joining Bruno Mars’ band, Whalum has traveled the United States and played in South America, Australia, New Zealand, Asia and the Philippines. For several years, he spent most of his time in Los Angeles and on the road. This last year has given him more time in his hometown. “This is always what I wanted to do,” said Whalum. “Performing here and taking a place on the world’s bigger musical stage. My parents and my brother Kortland still live in Memphis, so I continue to deepen my roots here. Last year I served as artist-in-residence at Stax Music Academy. Now I want to offer music clinics and master classes across the city. Also, I volunteer as the Youth Director at New Olivet Worship Center at Woodland Hills and teach the youth choir.” For the near future, Whalum says he sees his life continuing on the same path — taking part, helping out and playing with the Bruno Mars band.

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Elmwood Cemetery Soul of the City

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lowing lights and costumed characters greeted guests as they entered the enchanting grounds of Elmwood Cemetery for the annual Soul of the City party. Some of the cemetery’s most majestic monuments were spotlighted by colored lights, while pathways were illuminated with glowing orbs. “As attendees journeyed along the paths, they met men and women whose stories contributed to the tapestry that is Memphis,” explained Kim Bearden, Executive Director of Elmwood. “Volunteers dressed in costume to portray people from our past who are permanent residents of Elmwood, like Ida B. WellsBarnett, Bessie Vance Brooks, Robert Galloway, John Overton III and Grace Toof.” Additional tales from the city’s past were shared by volunteer tour guides who took groups through various parts of the cemetery. The spirited fun served as a fundraiser for Elmwood, Memphis’ oldest active cemetery.

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sold out crowd gathered in The Lord’s Chapel at Elmwood Cemetery to hear about the lives of some of the women buried there. Presented by Elmwood’s Executive Director Kim Bearden, the program told how the very first person to be interred at Elmwood was a woman. It also highlighted the lives of a Civil Rights activist, a beauty queen, suffragists, an explorer, a nurse and others whose contributions helped improve the world in which we live. This program was timed to coincide with the 100th anniversary of women’s suffrage in America. It is one of the many offerings that Elmwood has to help connect the public to some of the people who shaped Memphis’ past. To learn about Elmwood’s other programs, follow the cemetery on Facebook. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

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Cocktails, Canapés and Cats Benefiting Creative Aging

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reative Aging hosted their annual fundraiser with something extra this year, a special performance of a beloved Broadway musical. “Working with Theatre Memphis to present Cocktails, Canapés & Cats was a fabulous way to raise money to benefit Creative Aging’s arts programs for seniors — the audience simultaneously supported and enjoyed the arts,” said Executive Director Mia Henley. To kick off the delightful cocktail hour before the curtains rose on Cats, guests were greeted outside the lobby with glasses of refreshing rosé champagne. Small tables accented with tea lights were set up inside and outside the theatre lobby for guests to enjoy live piano music from Adam Levin, an open bar, and delicious hors d’oeuvres. CFY Catering provided an attractive buffet with fig and ricotta crostini, steak tostada, lemon berry tartlet, asparagus salad and more. Funds raised at the event supported Creative Aging’s mission of engaging seniors through the arts. Story and Photos by Gaye Swan Paul and Mia Henley

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Metal Museum Repair Days

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epair Days 2019 felt like a family reunion with so many people returning to the National Ornamental Metal Museum for the annual event. Not only was it the museum’s largest fundraiser of the year, but it also served as a prime educational outreach opportunity. “This year more than 100 metalsmiths from across the country came to Memphis to make repairs on metal objects brought in by the community, all to raise funds for the museum,” explained Kim Ward, Marketing Manager for the Metal Museum. “The event was all about restoring artistry, beauty, curiosity and history.” The annual Dinner and Art Auction was a sold-out component of a four-day event. In the silent and live auctions, attendees bid on some of the finest metalwork in the country. All proceeds support the museum’s annual programming such as educational initiatives, new exhibitions, and artist residency programs.

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Pamela Hauder and Eric Ormseth

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pproximately 400 people gathered at the Grand Carousel Pavilion at the Children’s Museum of Memphis for an evening of “Fun, Food and Fashion” as the Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis held its 2019 Power of the Purse Auction. The event was a fundraiser to support the five-year Vision 2020 Strategic Plan to reduce poverty by five percent in Zip Code 38126, the poorest area in the city of Memphis. This year’s cochairmen were Gina Brewer, Senior Wealth Advisor; Sherrie Hollis, Senior VP Senior Relationship Manager, Bank of America; and Dr. Bianca Sweeten, Comprehensive Medical Associates. “The Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis is an organization of women helping women break the cycle of poverty through philanthropy, leadership and collaboration,” said Shante K. Avant, Deputy Director of the Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis. “We are excited to collaborate this year with our presenting sponsor Bank of America to emphasize the importance of developing community resources, investment, and financial security for women and their families in Memphis.” With both a silent and a live auction taking place during the event, there were nearly $100,000 worth of designer purses, travel experiences, diamond jewelry, and more up for bid. See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP

In fact, purses of every shape, size and color covered tables that ringed the hallway and perimeter of the pavilion. Some were brand new, others were graciously donated and gently used. All helped boost the coffers of the cause. And to go with all those purses were dozens upon dozens of pairs of shoes. It was truly a shoppers delight! Other auction items included gifts bags, sports & entertainment offerings, trips & getaways, restaurants gift certificates, health & wellness packages, spa & beauty offerings, and artwork. “By hosting the auction at CMOM, WFGM hoped to uniquely highlight our nationally recognized two-generation approach, which focuses on creating opportunities for and addressing needs of both children and adults in the same household as a gateway out of poverty,” explained Karen Johnston, WFGM board member and Chairwoman of the Development Committee. “We believe in the potential for early childhood programs and partnerships to support children and parents together.” 2019 is the fourth year of the Vision 2020 strategic plan and so far, $4.7 million of a nearly $10 million commitment has been invested to 38126 in case management, employment training, early childhood education, youth development, and financial literacy.

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Memphis Moment

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Spaytacular A Cause for Paws

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ince shelters, rescues and pet adoption services can only deal with a fraction of the homeless animal population, Spay Memphis steps in to fulfill its mission of preventing pet overpopulation. That’s why over 100 animal lovers gathered at ANF Architects on Union Avenue to support Spaytacular, an important annual fundraiser for Spay Memphis. Guests enjoyed fine wine, beer from Meddlesome Brewing and delicious food from Bangkok Alley, Corky’s Barbecue, Ecco on Overton Park, Zaka Bowl, Libro at Laurelwood and South of Beale. Mike Divoky brought trays of mouth-watering cold cuts, cheeses, fruit and cookies. Stepherson’s Super-Lo Foods hosted a wine pull with a couple of bottles valued at over $100. Party-goers also bid on over 200 items in a silent auction as they enjoyed music from Josh and Janina Cosby. The evening concluded with a candlelight dinner on the cozy ANF back patio. Story and Photos by Bill Bannister April Potter and Alexandria Moore

George and Vickie Rutherford

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Terry and Wyndie Buckler

Monique and Jack Stepherson

Susanna Kelley and Donna McDermott

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Kent and Kay Wills

Mike Divoky and Kacky Walton

Scott and Renee Massey

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Cocktails and Cowgirls Benefiting FedExFamilyHouse

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roundup of ladies gathered for the inaugural Cocktails & Cowgirls event at one of Memphis’ newest event spots, Venue 901. Carol Duffy and Tricia Woodman were the hosts of this great girls night out, all for the benefit of FedExFamilyHouse. The western theme was carried out by Corky’s Venue 901 and Simply Delicious Catering with a menu that included a chili bar with corn cakes, black bean beef chili, white chicken chili, Fritos and other toppings. A specialty cocktail called Cactus Cooler, (tequila, pineapple, cranberry and lime juices, Italian orange soda and a sprig of mint) gave guests a tasty way to toast the evening. Various contests and door prize drawings kept things lively. Betty Hays won the “Best Cowgirl Hat” contest. Door prizes included a necklace from Sissy’s Log Cabin. a $500 gift certificate from Betty Hays Boutique, and a centerpiece of succulents from Millstone Market & Nursery. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger Katie Ferrell, Eling Gaines, Laura Sauer, Hannah Sisler, Jane Mitchell and Karen Stubbs

Tricia Woodman and Billie Pelts

Kavanaugh Casey and Betty Hays

Amy Dixon and Bryna Woodman

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Aude Bonnot, Patty Anderson and Simona Cassius

Michelle Rogers and Annette Smythe

Adrian Pomi, Janis Finan and Jenny Robertson

Kelly Frasure, Susan Graf and Rebecca Hardwick

Autumn Goerke and Melinda Pigors

Amber Oru and Betty LaVandero

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Memphis Moment

December

Hope House Celebrating 25 Years

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ore than 100 supporters and guests showed up for Unwind for Hope, an annual fundraiser that honors the hard work and dedication of not only the volunteers of this important organization, but also the clients they serve. The cozy evening began with the piano stylings of Kayla Seabrook and glasses of wine as guests made their way inside to the many tables of unique jewelry, artwork and accessories that were for sale. A scrumptious spread of culinary delights from The Beauty Shop included delicious smoked salmon with asparagus garnish and mouth-watering spring rolls with sauces. The presentation featured a personal testimonial from Tiajuana Jones and special recognition of Hope House Hero Jessica Pruitt. Director of Development Lenox Warren said, “We are 25 years old today and we are excited to be able to honor the women who give so much to Hope House.” Story and Photos by Bill Bannister Emily Lux Ellis, Allie Lindsey and Lenox Warren

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Sondra Moore and Dr. Marye Bernard

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AFTER HOURS A Photo Collage of the Latest Business Happenings Social 7th Anniversary Party

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have Skyped exactly once and it was by accident. I thought I was calling my friend Julie when suddenly her face appeared on my By Dennis Phillippi phone. Now I like Julie, and she’s a perfectly attractive person, but her unexpectedly being on my phone, and apparently able to see me as well, nearly made me run off the road. Yes, I was calling someone while driving, a terrible habit, but she was answering and looking at me while driving, which is a way more dangerous thing to do. What if I had been doing something else when I called her? Like, say, not wearing pants? Lately I’ve been noticing more and more this whole FaceTime thing, and I have to say, it’s more than a little alarming. It seemingly went overnight from people talking or texting on their phone to people staring at one another while talking. Honestly, I don’t think I’m particularly good about looking people in the face when I’m talking to them in person, I certainly don’t want to have their face in close up, inches from mine. No one would sit with their face that close in a real conversation, they’d be considered a danger to society. When we were young the idea of video phones was always being tossed around in science fiction and even back then I dismissed it as a part of the future I’d just as soon not be a part of. I’m a pretty odd-looking guy and there are plenty of times I don’t really want to be seen. I rarely even talk on the phone, I’m much more prone to text. But if I am forced to hold a conversation with you on the phone I don’t want to have to worry about what my hair looks like. That’s another factor in this whole thing. From what I understand, you see the person on the other end of the call large, and yourself in a smaller inset screen. I don’t want that. At this point I’m trying to lose my hair gracefully and the last thing I want is a constant reminder of the state of my hairline. Look, I’ve been in show business my entire life, so I am as vain as anyone you’re likely to meet. But having to actually look at my own aging mug all the time while talking to someone I don’t want to be talking to in the first place is just a drag of an idea. One of the secrets to remaining vain while aging is to stay steadfastly in denial. If I only look at my reflection under controlled circumstances, like, say, not in direct sunlight, fluorescent light, really bright lights of any kind, and certainly not on my phone’s hi-def screen, I can continue to bask in the false impression that I am

Young people, you can look up Dick Tracy on your smart phone. He was a comic strip detective who, for some reason, always wore a yellow hat and yellow trench coat. I imagine he would’ve been what is now called an “influencer,” although I can’t for the life of me figure out what these people are supposed to be influencing us to do, other than worship ourselves.

still young and relatively wrinkle-free. When you’re a middle-aged egomaniac this kind of thing is important. People do talk to one another on their smart watches and I understand that then you’re only seeing a tiny version of the person on the other end of the call, which wouldn’t be so bad. But then I’d be very aware that people are seeing me talking

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to my watch, which always looks stupid when other people are doing it. It was cool when Dick Tracy did it, but when it’s some lady in line in front of me at a fast food place, she just looks like a kook. Young people, you can look up Dick Tracy on your smart phone. He was a comic strip detective who, for some reason, always wore a yellow hat and yellow trench coat. I imagine he would’ve been what is now called an “influencer,” although I can’t for the life of me figure out what these people are supposed to be influencing us to do, other than worship ourselves. And now, and now, some companies have decided that what we need is giant versions of this technology that hang on a wall, or are on your refrigerator. That means seeing them, and me, even bigger than in real life. That is a hard pass. As odd as it sounds coming from someone who is in movies, I do not enjoy seeing giant versions of my strange hollowed-out eyes and enormous overhanging brow. I like other people seeing me in movies. I avoid doing so like I avoid loitering at the DMV or asking about other people’s health. Part of this is, of course, a by-product of our new self-obsessed culture. Once people could take a picture of themselves and see it instantly it became an addiction, especially among young people. When we were young if we felt compelled for, some reason, to take a snapshot of ourselves we would then have to wait until we’d shot out the roll, then send it off to be developed and in a few weeks we could see that we had no business taking a snapshot of ourselves in the first place. Once this new generation of self-worshiping goobers became capable of not only taking their own picture and seeing it immediately, but also able to post it online right away, it was inevitable that they would assume that the rest of the world wanted to see their picture too. Hence, social media. Sometimes I will violate the new social protocol and glance at what some young person is looking at as they scroll on their phone and a disturbing amount of the time they are looking at pictures of themselves. Our parents would have slapped us silly if they caught us just staring at photo after photo of ourselves. The Greatest Generation wouldn’t even talk about their experiences during Depressions and wartime, they sure wouldn’t have stopped walking the Dust Bowl or storming the Dardanelles to take self-portraits to look at later, or share with the world. They would have thought it, at the very least, unseemly. God help me, I find myself agreeing with my parents about something.

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