October 2011
Zoo Brew Blues Ball Brooks Avant Garde Party Phoenix Club Party at the Palace Q&A with Diana Kelly
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From the Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 Signature Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 Singer and musician Susan Marshall entertains RSVP at Itta Bena.
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14 Blues Ball Melanie and Rick Rivera
Blues Ball . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14 “An Elegant Evening Under the Bridge” was had by all who attended Pat Kerr Tigrett’s annual benefit for the Memphis Charitable Foundation.
StreetSeens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24, 26 & 28
36 Brooks Avant Garde Party Bob Laurie and Pam Moss
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She embraces those who serve MIFA. He’s spreading the word about a sport with an unusual name. This artist is showing off her talent and her leadership skills within the local art community. StreetSeens highlight Charlie Nelson, Mike Morgan and Phyllis Boger.
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Q&A with the president of the Association of Fundraising Professionals Memphis chapter, Diana Kelly.
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The Brooks Museum of Art hosted a Parisian-themed affair for its Avant Garde patrons
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StreetSeen Mike Morgan
42 Phoenix Club Party at the Palace Megan McCullough and Kate Bengal
Phoenix Club members and guests took over the Pink Palace during a party that raised funds for the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis.
Zoo Brew . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .48 Beer nerds united at the Memphis Zoo for a fund-raiser that kicked off Memorial Day weekend festivities.
Onsites . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .52, 53, 54 & 56 Gatherings that have earned an honorable mention.
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10,000 Conversations About the Same Thing Humor columnist Dennis Phillippi makes a good case about the boredom behind choosing where to dine.
StreetSeen Phyllis Boger
48 Zoo Brew Jessica and Kevin Sanders
Cover Photo George and Nayla Nassar at Blues Ball Photo by Don Perry
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Roy Haithcock EDITOR
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ou know that feeling when you just want to head out of town? Nothing in particular spurred me to have this urge, but I knew that the time had come for me to plan a little weekend getaway to rejuvenate the soul. My only requirements were that the location had to be less than three hours from Memphis since it would be a short trip and also be somewhere that I’d never visited. After racking my brain and scanning TripAdvisor.com for what felt like days on end, I remembered my husband saying he’d always wanted to go to Petit Jean State Park in Arkansas. Somewhere new? Check. Somewhere beautiful? Check. Somewhere peaceful? Check. After booking a hotel in nearby Little Rock and gathering hiking gear, we headed for our mountain adventure. Driving up the winding road to the park, I knew I was going to like this place because it would provide an out-of-the-ordinary experience and one that would hopefully make for good pictures. The park offered both of those things and had pristine grounds, as well as one of the most picturesque overlooks (at Petit Jean’s Gravesite) I’ve ever seen, to boot. One of the things I wasn’t prepared for was embarking on the most strenuous hiking trail imaginable when my husband and I chose to do Seven Hollows Trail. Only four-and-a-half miles long, I thought, “That’s nothing!” Little did I realize that that distance would take three hours to complete as we had to climb up, down and across numerous giant rocks and ascend some fairly steep paths. For a regular hiker, the trail would have probably been a breeze, but not for someone who does most of her exercise in a gym setting. Never has seeing a car parking been such a relief as it was upon completion of that hike, and apparently, I’m a glutton for punishment because my physical activity for the day didn’t stop there. Before comprehending how worn out I was, we headed straight to the boathouse at Lake Bailey and rented a kayak. Another new activity for me, kayaking seemed great at first, but not so much after 20 minutes, when I decided to call it quits. All in all, I am proud of engaging in those two challenging activities, but truth be told, heading home felt equally nice. Upon my return, I had much to look forward to as party season has gotten underway here at RSVP. Some of these affairs (Blues Ball, Zoo Brew, the Brooks Avant Garde Party and the Phoenix Club Party at the Palace) are already featured in this issue, however there’s much more to come with the MIFA “Feed the Soul” Party, Zoomelièr, Chefs’ Celebrity Gala, Merry Marketplace Gala, Art on Fire and the Architects’ Halloween Party each taking place in October. Enjoy the good times that are sure to be had at any of these charity events in Memphis…ah, home sweet home!
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Personal Hero: My mother. Favorite Memphis musician: ALL of them. Favorite album: “Blue” by Joni Mitchell...brilliant! Things you can’t live without: My husband and my piano. Ideal vacation spots: Sedona, NOLA, Pickwick and Sonoma. Movie you could watch over and over again: The Color Purple Purple.. Guilty pleasures: “Law & Order” and mint chocolate chip ice cream. Favorite author: CliffsNotes. His writing style gets to the point of the story without having to use all those pesky extra words! First concert: When I was 12, my sister took me to the "Frampton Comes Alive!” tour in Albuquerque. Where you take out-of-town guests: Stax, Sun, Civil Rights Museum, The Peabody, Beale and, of course, Itta Bena, where I “serenade” from time to time. Stress outlet: Daily choir practice with my three dogs...we like the HOWLELUJAH Chorus. One thing most people don’t know about you: With Withthe thehelp helpofof my mentor, Sara Savell, I auditioned for the Metropolitan Opera when I was only 19. I ended up in New York City working Off Broadway as a leading soprano with The Light Opera of Manhattan. Your greatest achievement: Recording and performing with amazing world-class artists and touring internationally playing in famous clubs and arenas have been dreams come true, but I’m most proud of my husband, family and friends.
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“An Elegant Evening Under the Bridge”
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lowing, beaming and luminous could all describe any Hollywood starlet’s beauty, but the night of the Blues Ball, these adjectives applied to a different kind of star—the Hernando DeSoto Bridge. Twenty-five years has passed since the bridge received a facelift with 200 lights added to its arches, so the time had come for an anniversary celebration. Fittingly, Pat Kerr Tigrett, who helped raise donations for the bridge lights, hosted “An Elegant Evening Under the Bridge” in conjunction with her annual Blues Ball this September. Around 2,000 Memphians, and even some out-of-towners, ventured to River Island (Mud Island) for the special affair and a spectacular view of the bridge and the Memphis skyline. Asked to dress in black tie with an attitude, city chic couture or river rat rags, partygoers exercised their freedom in fashion choices to the fullest, arriving in outfits ranging from satin ball gowns to ripped jeans and t-shirts. Sam Samudio, aka “Sam the Sham,” opted for an edgy ensemble by sporting a bright red tuxedo jacket, a shiny black dress shirt and a black skullcap with red roses—a look that suited the performer well when he took to the stage to sing a fan favorite, “Wolly Bully.” And Samudio’s performance was only one of many during a party that featured some of the area’s finest singers and musicians, including Andy Childs, Susan “Honey Mouth” Marshall, Wendy Moten, Di Anne Price, Preston Shannon, Jason D. Williams and Ruby Wilson. DJ Raiford topped off the lineup and didn’t disappoint when he played dance heavy tunes often heard at Paula and Raiford’s Disco. Perhaps the biggest moment of the evening came when a grandiose fireworks display joined the Hernando DeSoto Bridge in lighting up Ol’ Man River. As the night sky changed from red to white to blue, Sandi Patty could be heard singing the national anthem, with a second rendition of the song sung by The Sanctuary Choir of the New Olivet Baptist Church. During the fireworks, a regatta of Memphis Yacht Club members’ boats also took place, much the same as it did 25 years ago when the bridge was first lit. In addition to celebrating the bridge, Blues Ball served as a fund-raiser for Tigrett’s Memphis Charitable Foundation, which supports causes from the Madonna Learning Center and the Memphis Rock ‘n’ Soul Museum to NARAS/MusiCares and the Memphis Fire Department. Tigrett made a new request this year though for $1,000 donations to plant 200 Yoshino cherry trees along Riverside Drive and on River Island in memory of or in honor of benefactors’ loved ones…and to continue to make Memphians proud of their city. Of the event, Tigrett said, “This was one of my all-time favorite Blues Balls. The 25th anniversary of our iconic bridge combined with other Memphis icons...our legendary Memphis musicians…was a true Memphis celebration.”
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Ron Olson, Mayor A C Wharton, Sam Samudio, Steve Conley and Mayor Mark Luttrell
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John Pellicciotti and Beth Flanagan
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Marcus Grandberry and Jessica Little
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or Charlie Nelson, director of volunteers and fundraising events at the Metropolitan Inter-Faith Association, each day at work brings about an “aha” moment, and it’s no wonder, with the thousands of altruists she meets. Last year alone, MIFA had 1,459 volunteers donate 158,643 hours (the equivalent of 76 full-time staff positions) by helping sustain seniors’ independence, working with families in crisis and mentoring area youth. However, volunteers aren’t the only inspiring figures, as Nelson remembers a particular experience where MIFA beneficiaries changed her forever. Nelson tells, “The first time I delivered meals to those less fortunate, I realized what’s important. I made some major changes in my life after that day.” She adds that programs like Meals on Wheels (MIFA has nine programs total listed on mifa.org) make you realize that volunteering is not just about the service you’re doing, but about relationship-building, especially with shut-ins. Referred to as the eyes and ears of the organization, volunteers often provide the only social interaction MIFA clients have in a week, and they’ll also report back to MIFA with emergency situations, such as when an air conditioning unit breaks, or make useful suggestions that get implemented, like delivering dog and cat food once a month to clients who can’t afford it. Nelson even recalls one occasion when a man had been waiting for her to deliver his meal so she could call 911 since he’d broken his hip and couldn’t get to a phone. She says, “I think everyone in some small way can serve the community; don’t let age or disability keep you from giving back, as we have several volunteers with disabilities and a broad span of age groups, from children to someone in his 90s.” To figure out which service capacity best suits you, Nelson provides facility tours and a general overview of MIFA, located at 910 Vance Avenue, at 11 a.m. or 4 p.m. on Wednesdays by appointment. She offers that current volunteers are the best form of recruitment though, and encourages Memphians to come meet some of those “recruiters” on October 6 at the annual “Feed the Soul” benefit, which she helps plan at The Warehouse. MIFA’s “Something Good in Memphis” campaign provides another way for would-be volunteers to learn how others are positively changing the community. Nelson points out that many times we all hear about good deeds taking place without knowing the party responsible, so this campaign strives to make those everyday do-gooders known. Nominees don’t have to be affiliated with MIFA, and anyone can nominate someone on the MIFA Web site. Select nominees then have a picture appear along with a story in The Commercial Appeal. Looking up at the giant “Something Good in Memphis” sign hanging in MIFA’s entrance, Nelson reminisces, “I wasn’t even looking for a job when this one came open, not to mention that I didn’t even know about MIFA when I was growing up in a housing project in the city. Now, MIFA has turned out to be the longest place I’ve ever worked.” Story by Leah Fitzpatrick Photo by Steve Roberts
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Mike Morgan Pickleball Ambassador
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tanding on a court at the Owings Life Enrichment Center (part of Germantown United Methodist Church) with what appears to be a small paddle and a wiffle-type looking ball, Mike Morgan gears up for a pickup match of a sport that combines components of tennis, badminton, racquetball and ping pong. Called pickleball, the name throws some off at first, but once newbies try it, Morgan says most quickly forget any confusing food connotations the name might suggest because they’re having too much fun playing the easyto-learn, fast-paced game. Morgan says, “I like to think of the game as ping pong on steroids!” A volunteer ambassador for the US Pickleball Association in the Memphis/Shelby County area since 2006, Morgan leads demonstrations and clinics for the sport anywhere within his region where someone has interest, but he started developing his own enthusiasm for pickleball seven years ago after getting hooked on it with his wife, Alice, during a vacation in Florida. When he came home, he began playing at the Germantown United Methodist Church, then the only facility in town available to play his new pastime. Today, about 40 members of the Germantown Pickleball Group play at the church on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, with competitive players on the courts from 8-10 a.m. and others from around 10 a.m. until noon, and on Tuesday evenings from March until November from 6:30-8:30 p.m. “Anyone can show up to play with us, and court three is open for beginners, who can use our equipment to learn,” Morgan relays. More local places have since opened their doors to pickleball, which is played on outdoor courts in areas with more favorable year-round weather. Groups now play on Thursdays at the Bert Ferguson Community Center from 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. and at Balmoral Baptist Church from 6:30-8:30 p.m. The White Station Church of Christ offers open play on Fridays from 9 a.m. until noon, and the YMCAs at Schilling Farms and Olive Branch have courts as well. Picking up momentum here, pickleball dates back to 1965, when Joel Pritchard and Bill Bell invented a game for their families on Pritchard’s old badminton court in Washington state. They found a perforated plastic ball and made four wood paddles, and then began volleying the ball over a badminton net. After seeing that the ball bounced well on asphalt, they lowered the net to 36 inches—the net height at the sidelines in today’s version of the sport. The Pritchards’ cocker spaniel, Pickles, often ran away with the ball, so the game became pickleball. Morgan credits John Struthers as the grandfather of pickleball in Memphis, where the sport has a 20-year presence. Because it’s played inside in this area, Morgan says pickleball has been somewhat invisible, but that’s quickly changing with an increasing fan base and player recognition, including the 13 local players who took home 18 medals at the Tennessee Senior Olympics State Finals in July. Story by Leah Fitzpatrick Photo by Steve Roberts
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transplant from Connecticut, Phyllis Boger not only brought her free spirit when she moved to Memphis in 2003, but also her diverse artistic talent— something that’s suited her well in a city she praises for having a widespread art scene and quality galleries. A painter with the Fountain Art Gallery, Boger has been making her mark on canvases, including some creative media like plastic body forms, since childhood, and even teaches plein air (outside) painting classes in Italy. However, she’s broadened her interests through the years into monoprints, collages and the unusual art of painting on silk, a skill for which has made her stand out among local artists. “I might be the only silk painter in Memphis,” she shares. Now an instructor of silk painting classes at the Memphis Botanic Garden every 12 weeks, Boger says she became fascinated with this type of art when an aunt brought home batiks from Sri Lanka. Prominent in Asian, and sometimes African, cultures, batiks are cloths traditionally colored by using a manual waxresist dyeing technique and are used for clothing or banners. Intrigued by the technique, Boger decided she wanted to “Westernize” it by making batik more of an art form, rather than a craft. She began by applying more painterly subject matter to silk fabrics and framing them just like she would her paintings. Two years ago, she exhibited her silk paintings for the first time at Christian Brothers University. A referential artist, Boger needs a sense of place or feeling before she goes to work and makes no qualms about painting what she knows. For her silk drawings, an inspiring force has been American glass sculptor Dale Chihuly, whose influence is clearly evident through Boger’s bold use of color and swirling, almost whimsical forms. Inspiration can also arise from one of her many artist friends, of which she has many thanks to her roles as vice president of the Memphis Germantown Art League and president of Artists’ Link, a group of 95 artists that welcomed her into the local artist community shortly after she moved here. She tells, “I’d been here only 10 days and was trying to adjust when I met Jeannine Paul at Michaels. She was giving a demo and invited me to an Artists’ Link meeting.” When Boger showed up to that first meeting, she felt at home, immediately enjoying the comaraderie among the artists and the noncompetitive nature of the members, who exhibit as a group. Soon thereafter, she joined, meeting every third Monday of the month at 6:30 p.m. at Jason’s Deli on Highland with the group, comprised of everyone from a photographer of train graffiti to a professor of medieval history at the University of Memphis. Perhaps she’ll expand her repertoire with another style of art in the future, but until then, she’s happy keeping company with artists as unique as her works. Story by Leah Fitzpatrick Photo by Steve Roberts
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RSVP: How long have you been in AFP Memphis? Kelly: Almost five years. I started not long after I took this position [manager of institutional development at the Medical Education and Research Institute], and I had no fund-raising experience when I took this position. With this job, I do operations, marketing, PR, fund-raising and special events.
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Kelly: I knew a few people in the organization, and Bob Plunk at Methodist invited me to come to one of the meetings. It seemed like a good way to get indoctrinated and network with people and find mentors who could answer my questions and help me. Having no fund-raising experience, I felt like I needed to have a way to educate myself about it. AFP has a lot of conferences and educational opportunities that helped me learn more about fund-raising and development in general. The benefit of AFP is that they provide great educational opportunities not only locally, but at the national level. We just had our annual conference and had about seven or eight speakers, some from outside of Memphis. The program is comprehensive, and people can attend whatever is meaningful to them because everyone has a slightly different niche, even though they might all be fund-raising. About 117 members attended that conference, and, you know, it’s good to have something locally and not have to travel with the economy the way it is. Each month, we also have a luncheon on the Christian Brothers University campus, usually in the Thomas Center, and have a speaker come talk about various subjects. It could be ethics, special events or grant funders coming to talk about the state of grant funding in the city. The luncheons appeal to a broad audience and are open to all our members, and even if you aren’t a member, you can come to our luncheons and hear the program. Guests have to pay a little more for the luncheon than a member, but hopefully if they come and get a lot out of it, then they’ll join. Our Web site [afpmemphis.afpnet.org] will allow you to see what the subject matter is and allow you to sign up. The next luncheon will be October 6 at CBU from 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m., and the speaker will be Robert Sharpe of the Sharpe Company, who will speak on planned giving.
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s president of the Association of Fundraising Professionals Memphis chapter, Diana Kelly says she’s learned more about the field from the organization’s membership and programming than from any book on the topic, and she has a lot of those in her office. With a presence in the Memphis community for more than 25 years, AFP has not only become a beneficial resource for Kelly, but for hundreds of locals working in the nonprofit world who dedicate their lives day in and day out to making the lives of others better. RSVP editor Leah Fitzpatrick met up with Kelly at the Medical Education and Research Institute, where she works as the manager of institutional development, to gain insight about AFP’s upcoming National Philanthropy Day® Crystal Awards Luncheon and to hear why the organization is more important than ever to its members during an uncertain economic climate.
Kelly: Well, AFP is very much committed to ethical fund-raising, so in order to join, you have to agree you’ll do the right things in fund-raising, and there’s a code of ethics you have to sign. What it does is really raise the professionalism of that profession. People in fund-raising need to make sure they’re doing the right thing for their donors and for each other. AFP International is the overall governing body, with chapters all over the world, in countries such as Canada, Mexico, Egypt, China, Indonesia and Singapore. Then, AFP International has strategic alliances with fund-raisers in seven other countries, including Holland, the United Kingdom, Australia, New Zealand, Brazil, Kenya and Germany. When we have international conferences— this year, it’s in Vancouver—at least 15-20 of us from the Memphis chapter will go. We do have a couple of scholarships that the chapter awards, as well as AFP International, to people who have never been or to those from an organization that is maybe too small to afford to send someone. Last year, we also started a diversity scholarship program to pay for membership for the local chapter, and Goodwill Homes was the first recipient of that and got to send one person as a member. RSVP: How many different organizations are represented in the local AFP chapter? Kelly: We have 165 members, and there are several organizations that have several members, so I’d say at least 140-150 organizations are represented in AFP. The majority of the organizations are nonprofits, but we do have a few business members who work with nonprofits and some consultants who work with nonprofits. Again, it’s all related to that nonprofit effort. RSVP: What has been your biggest challenge as president of AFP? Kelly: Well, I think you want to increase your membership, and you want to provide quality educational opportunities. Really, I wouldn’t say it’s a challenge; it’s an opportunity. Making sure you’re giving
Kelly: I think so. I think though that sometimes the expense holds some people back if they’re in a small organization, but they can still attend the luncheons and pick and choose what they’ll benefit from, from a programming standpoint. RSVP: How does the local AFP chapter compare to others? Kelly: We are very favorably compared to other chapters. We are a nice size for our city. We have been consistently well run, and membership has been steadily increasing. We are a Ten Star chapter, which means we have satisfied all the requirements to achieve that. It’s a designation you have to work toward, and we have been a Ten Star chapter for many years. Our chapter actually celebrated its 25th anniversary last year, and the international organization, as of last year, has been in existence for 50 years.
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members what they expect from their membership is also important, and I think we’ve done that this year. We’ve had some fabulous programs and a lot of talented people in the chapter who have put together a lot of great speakers. The other thing is the networking opportunities—we have a little bit of time before every luncheon when the group can interact and meet other people in the field. Knowing what’s out there has been a huge benefit to me, as well as learning about what other people are doing and the great fund-raisers in the city. For example, the new Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital was a huge fund-raising effort, and they were able to come and present their strategies and what they did. It’s a great way for people to say, “Yeah, that could work for me,” or “That’s a great idea.” Then, since the economy got tougher, it’s become relevant to hear what the state of fundraising is from people.
Kelly: There are all kinds of resources from International AFP on the Web site. You can go in and learn everything from ethics to how to run your chapter. If you’re a board member, it gives you responsibilities to tools you might need and forms for scholarships. It’s a pretty comprehensive Web site, and you can chat with other members. There’s even a blog. Occasionally, we do a survey to see what our membership is interested in and try to develop programming around that. AFP International puts together audio conferences of different subject matter, and as a chapter, you can choose what you want to participate in and offer that. We offer about 10 of those conferences a year to our members free of charge. We have a newsletter that is emailed to the membership monthly, and we try to include upcoming events in that. Also, on our Web site, there are jobs posted in the nonprofit world.
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Kelly: It’s an annual campaign, and we do two things with that. The AFP Foundation requests donations from our membership to be able to further their cause and to provide scholarships and things like that that they would do at the international level. Then, we have the membership campaign that focuses on bringing in new members each year. What we chose to do this year was to make it ongoing and not make it a specific period of time, but each month focus on welcoming guests. RSVP: What are some best fund-raising practices you can share with our readers? Kelly: I would say to keep your promises to your donors and protect their interests. I think if you take care of your donors, then everything else kind of falls into place. Also, you need to follow ethical principles, and it’s really important to be professional. RSVP: What are some highlights of the National Philanthropy Day® Crystal Awards Luncheon coming up November 29 at the U of M Holiday Inn? Kelly: Well, we’ve got some great winners, including DuncanWilliams Investment Bankers (Outstanding Corporation); Susan Schadt with ArtsMemphis (Outstanding Executive Leader); Linda Jackson-McNeil with BRIDGES (Outstanding Fund-raising Executive); James McGehee with McGehee Realty and
RSVP: How are nominations gathered for the Crystal Awards? Kelly: Our two fund-raising executive leadership awards [Outstanding Fund-raising Executive and Outstanding Volunteer Fund-raiser] have to be nominated by a member, but all other award recipients can be nominated by the community. We get a nice group of nominations of very good quality, and we have a committee who reviews those, with some of the committee members who are AFP members and others who are not. RSVP: What do you think people would be most surprised to know about AFP Memphis? Kelly: I think how dedicated the members are and how much those professionals enable organizations to do for the community. Memphis is a very giving community.
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hez Brooks,” better known as the Memphis Brooks Museum of Art, felt more like a Parisian nightclub than a museum during its annual Avant Garde Party. Always the highlight of the summer for Brooks members and their guests, the gathering had adopted a French theme to coincide with the institution’s current exhibition, The Impressionist Revolution, and the vibe was très magnifique! As patrons walked across the museum’s veranda, they were quickly transported into Bohemian Paris thanks to a strolling accordion player and a plethora of performance artists, who painted an abstract painting while roller skating on top of a giant canvas. Inside, a replica of the Eiffel Tower set the scene in the rotunda, as did a balloon artist, a stilt walker and a mime standing atop a podium. Deeper into the museum, more entertainment options abounded with a dressup photo booth, where attendees could choose to disguise themselves in masks, tams, boas or fake mustaches; a large canvas on the terrace for guests to splatter paint; music by the Iguanas and the Magic Kids; and two tree reading stations. Though he wouldn’t reveal the finer points of his tree reading experience with the Amazin’ Grayson, Avant Garde host committee member Shannon Morgan did say, “With my tree reading, I was going with Abstract Expressionism.” Libations and hors d’oeuvres also were in keeping with the theme and packed a punch with their presentation. From ice shots named “Paris, Je T’aime” (mango vodka and peach maitilde), “Bizou” (Sprite, pineapple upside down cake liqueur and grenadine) and “Melon Fou” (lemonade and watermelon liqueur) to Absintheladen concoctions mixed up in the Absinthe Room, which cast a ghoulish glow on guests due to all the green-colored light bulbs, there wasn’t a shortage of French-inspired cocktails. The party wouldn’t have been complete though without savory French fare, such as crepes of goat cheese, ratatouille and chicken, a charcuterie and cheese display and macaroons. Partygoers toasted to the exhibition, as well as to the arts in the local community and abroad, by coming out for this affair, which continues to deliver a new, or avant garde, experience for patrons year in and year out.
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n a cooler-than-usual Memphis night under a blanket of stars, supporters of the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis had the chance to party like royalty at the palatial setting of Memphis’ most famous manor, the Pink Palace. The function, dubbed Party at the Palace, was this year’s rendition of the Phoenix Club’s summer fund-raiser, which can be added to the group’s other annual parties including its Mardi Gras celebration and others. In its second year, the Party at the Palace brought in more than 800 guests, with 700 buying their tickets in advance. “We were as happy as can be with the turnout,” said the event chair, John Collier. “This party has really grown over the past couple years and has become a signature event for the Phoenix Club. It raises a lot of money for an excellent organization–the Boys & Girls Clubs–but it is also a really fun party.” Paul and Janet Hayden drove from Olive Branch just to see ‘80s cover band U.S. play. “We came for the band,” said Janet. “It’s very pretty here. It’s the first time I’ve been [to the Pink Palace].” Paul added, “We just moved here [from Jackson, Mississippi].” Emily Simpson, who attended with her then-fiancé, Derrick Simpson, said, “It’s awesome; I’m excited,” with Derrick chiming in, “I just joined [the Phoenix Club] three months ago. They do some really good work.” Beverages were provided by 901 Tequila, the Silly Goose, Swanky’s Taco Shop, Dan McGuinness and Budweiser of Memphis, and a hot dog stand provided for late night snacking. The event raised close to $10,000 for the Boys & Girls Clubs. “That’s not bad for a flip-flop and tank top event,” said the club’s president, Nathan Walters.
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very year, the Memphis Zoo transforms itself into the city’s largest biergarten for one night of sipping, singing and eventually howling at the moon. The Zoo Brew offers something stout for whatever ales you. On a sultry night in early September, thousands braved humidity worthy of a Tennessee Williams play to wander the many paths inside the zoo where kiosks, 44 in all, handed out double shotsized cups of beers from around the globe. From Germany there was Franzikaner Hefe Weiss or Spaten’s Oktoberfest or Dunkel. Those still celebrating Memphis in May’s honored country of Belgium got a taste of Lindeman’s Strawberry Pomme, Kriek Cassis and Peche Framboise. Irish stouts were well represented with Murphy’s, Beamish and O’Hara’s. Equally as popular though were American boutique beers like Vermont’s Woodchuck Hard Ciders, Oregon’s Rogue Porter and Chateau Rogue and California’s Self-Righteous and Arrogant Bastard Ales. A party band playing Elvis to ‘80s hits welcomed guests in sun dresses, shorts and t-shirts and kept the beat alive while beergoers danced their way through beer lines. Most arrived in groups and enjoyed comparing their Taj Mahal Lagers with their Hop Wallop Pale Ales under a starlit sky. While the animals had already retired to bed, the beautifully landscaped exhibits brought the intimacy of a Shakespearian magical forest to the event as guests relaxed on benches alongside spectacular water features or in groves of shrubbery. Keeping the environment in mind, the thousands of bottles opened for the party were all recycled by the zoo’s Green Team. Burgers, hot dogs, nachos and pretzels were available for purchase, but this crowd arrived well-steeled for a night of Pilsners, ambers, lagers and even some closer-to-home selections from Memphis’ own Ghost River Brewing and Nashville’s Yazoo Brewing Company. Brew newbies were delighted as well. Said one guest between sips of the British Young’s Double Chocolate Stout, “This is something I could get used to.”
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field. Methodist Le Bonheur Healthcare was there to honor them by hosting the Living Awards Benefit. In its 30th anniversary, the awards banquet was held at The Peabody, with a reception in the Continental Ballroom and dinner in the Grand Ballroom. Honored at this event were the Rev. Jerry F. Corlew as an inspiring individual in faith and health; Drs. S. Terry Canale and Bill C. Weber as inspiring physicians in faith and health; The Church Health Center for its community role inspiring faith and health; and Dr. Bob Waller, former president and CEO of the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, for lifetime achievement in health. Before you throw out that old door, you might want to think about repurposing it for Memphis Heritage’s Adapt-A-Door Auction…a Barcelona chair, a curio cabinet and a children’s game were just some of the ideas local participants came up with. Held at the organization’s headquarters in historic Howard Hall at 2282 Madison Avenue in Midtown, this year’s event included burgers from the Slider Inn and Bardog Tavern, an open bar, a snack table and lots of artistic eye candy. All proceeds from the auctioned doors benefit Memphis Heritage, a nonprofit founded in 1975 to promote historic preservation. Much like Baptist Memorial Health Care Foundation’s programs and services, the Art of Caring has become a wonderful example of how much a community can do when it comes together for a cause. In this case, the community is that of artists, who donate pieces to an auction that raises funds for Baptist Trinity Hospice and the Kemmons Wilson Family Center. Held at the University Club, the benefit drew several hundred attendees, who bid on silent auction items from artists like Lauren Ricks, Mimi Dann, Greg Gustafson, Pam Cobb and Peggy Drinkard. Emcee Ron Childers of WMC-TV 5 also drummed up bids for the event’s first-ever live auction, which featured three splatter paint paintings created by children at Camp Good Grief. The Malco Paradiso recently hosted a private screening of one of the summer’s hottest films, The Help, for the benefit of the RISE Foundation. In attendance were special guests Millicent Bolton and Flo Roach, both of whom starred in the movie. Gale Jones Carson and TaJuan Stout Mitchell helped organize the benefit for RISE, a nonprofit born out of a need to help public housing residents become financially selfsufficient. Story by Leah Fitzpatrick and Lesley Young Photos Submitted and by Leah Fitzpatrick and Lesley Young
Dr. John Duckworth, Grace Swaney and Barbara and Dr. Gerald Billions Gale Jones Carson, Mayor A C Wharton and TaJuan Stout Mitchell (Standing); Millicent Bolton and Flo Roach (Sitting) at The Help Benefit Screening at Living Awards Benefit
Jack Leavitt and Karen Swolensky at Art of Caring
Sally and Max Shelton with Stevie Phillips at Art of Caring
Karen Smith, Lauren Ricks and Barbara Ricks at Art of Caring
Mark and Laurie Sutton at The Help Benefit Screening
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By Dennis Phillippi
ly. I say all the time I’d be perfectly happy if I could just take a pill and have eaten. It’s my culinary flying car vision of the future. Sure, I’ve really, really enjoyed eating, but for the most part, it’s just something I want to have already done, like going to the gym, or washing my car. One of those last two I never do. On the other hand, my wife loves food. It’s not unusual for us to be eating one meal and have my wife bring up the topic of what we’re having at our next
There is the one area where I do have a ravenous appetite, but refrigerator grazing after a few cocktails is a different column. meal. She thinks about food all the time, sort of like I think about sports. If both of our brains are idling, like say, waiting for a train to pass, and you ask us what we’re thinking about, those are the top of the hit parade for each of us. Try this: Next time you see my wife, ask her what she’s thinking about. I bet it’s dinner. Meanwhile, I’m wondering if the Angels can catch the Rangers in the West. It’s just how we’re wired. My beautiful, fit wife says all the time if she hadn’t married me that she’d weigh 300 pounds. Thank God she married me. The world doesn’t need a fat suit version of my wife. This doesn’t relate solely to dining out. The same conversation happens if we’re cooking at home. The only difference is that when deciding on dinner at home, we have to take an inventory of what ingredients we have to make something
that could be called a meal. This is because when we are at the grocery store, we may deliberately purchase the materials for one meal we settled on after a spirited round robin of “Well, we haven’t had taco night in a couple of weeks,” but then we buy staples that may or may not constitute another meal. “Let’s see…we have eggs, but no bacon, chicken, but it’s frozen, leftover burgers from a week ago, and…ah… let’s just go out.” This is the point where I ask the old standby, “What do you want to eat?” and get the response, “I don’t know, what do you want?” On Monday nights, I usually cook dinner for us, as well as a couple of friends, and for years, I struggled with the menu on my own. In the beginning, I was a big show-off, making complicated things like chicken cordon bleu or spaghetti and handmade meatballs. After a while, this got to be too burdensome, so I arbitrarily assigned our friend Dana to choose the menu. The problem with that is that I had gotten all of them addicted to these ridiculous meals, and that’s what she always chooses. Not once has she said, “I don’t know, how about cereal?” This is why in a lot of other areas I’ve decided to set the bar as low as possible. There is the one area where I do have a ravenous appetite, but refrigerator grazing after a few cocktails is a different column. That’s more of a “You won’t believe what I’ll eat if I’ve been into the whiskey” kind of column. I’m happy for those of you who love food. Once, years ago, for reasons that are none of your business, I had to do a round of steroids. Didn’t gain an ounce, but ate all the time. I got to feel like what normal people must feel like. I’d clean my plate at a restaurant and then, inevitably, ask if they had cake. It was really fun, but when the medicine stopped that did too. Man, was my wife mad. I think she wants me to be as juiced as Barry Bonds so she can eat like Kirstie Alley. Tough luck on that one.
Dennis, thanks for serving up a hefty dose of your wit this month…and for making the staff at RSVP hungry enough to devour scarily old leftovers in the office fridge. So, “What do we want to eat tonight?” Probably a bottle of Rolaids.
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study I recently read about in my dentist’s office waiting room found that long-term couples who dine out have an average of eight restaurants they choose from and rarely go anywhere else. Honestly, I was surprised it was that many. Me: “What do you want to eat?” My wife: “I don’t know. What do you want?” My wife and I have had that conversation at least once a day for the last 26 years. After the initial exchange, which is exactly the same, every time, we proceed to go through our list of choices: pizza, barbecue, Mexican, sandwiches, fast food or…well, actually, that’s pretty much it. All of this happens while driving aimlessly around our little section of Midtown, knowing that regardless of the current direction of the car, it can be redirected to one of those places without substantially changing the driving time. In a city with easily hundreds of barbecue places, we go to precisely two, because they’re roughly equidistant from our house, and we know the owners of both. The Mexican restaurant is maybe, maybe, a tenth of a miles farther from our house than our pizza choice, and the sandwich place is even closer. Given enough time, on a nice enough day we could easily walk to any of these choices. We don’t, but we could. The conversation doesn’t necessarily end once a decision about destination has been chosen because once faced with the menus we know by heart, we’ll each make a half-hearted effort to consider deviating in some way before we order the same thing we get every time we go to any of these. I was glad to see that study because while we knew we were lazy on this one, now we at least know everyone else is too. We hear about people who drive all the way Downtown, a five-minute drive for us, or God forbid, way out east, to eat. They go to check out every new place single people are talking about and get the thing their friends raved about. The last time we did that I ended up choking down three bites of rabbit in a place in Collierville. I still wince at the thought. Here’s the thing about food: Despite the fact that I love to cook, I don’t really care anything about eating. Serious-
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usician René Koopman, who played percussion with the Memphis Symphony Orchestra in September 1970, snapped this photo during an afternoon rehearsal at Ellis Auditorium for a Duke Ellington concert. Vincent de Frank, founder and musical director of the Memphis Symphony Orchestra from 1960 to 1984, is shown playing the cello with the famous Duke Ellington on piano. Koopman made a large print of this photograph that still hangs at the Memphis Federation of Musicians on Young Avenue. PHOTO COURTESY OF RENÉ KOOPMAN If you have a past photo you would like to share with RSVP readers, please contact Leah Fitzpatrick at 276-7787 ext. 105 or e-mail the photo and caption to editor@rsvpmagazine.com All photos will be returned promptly.
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