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Contents October 2016

Features

From the Editor • 8 Signature Memphis • 10

Ron Childers

StreetSeen • 16

Memphis native and Chief Meteorologist Ron Childers, of Sarah Brubaker WMC Action News 5, dishes Memphis jewelry company, the scoop on his favorite Ekata Design, spotlights songs, habits, and more. manager, Sarah Brubaker, who employs refugee women in Memphis.

Events

StreetSeen • 18

Maggie Russell

Artist and portraiture, Maggie Russell, showcases her unique look and thriving commission based business.

RSVPhillippi • 49

Dueling Grudges

In this month’s column, Phillippi offers his opinions on the power of sports grudges.

Nikki Schroeder and Renee Trammell

Zoo Rendezvous • 12

Laura and John Barrett

Zoo Rendezvous, which as always, was a night filled with great company, food, and drinks, raised money for The Humane Society of the Memphis Zoo. Memphis and Shelby County (HSMSC) had a ball at the Paw Prints Party.

Paw Prints Party • 22

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Memphis Moments • 30, 38, 39, 44, 45, 46, 47, 48, 49 & 50

Russ and Cindy Mire

Spirit of SRVS • 32

“Sparkling Nights,” benefiting Sarah Smith and Chad Arnold the Spirit of SRVS, featured Executive Chef Stanley The American Cancer Society Gibson and Food Network held its 20th anniversary star Aryen Moore-Alston. Imagine Ball at the newly reopened FedEx Event Center at Shelby Farms Park to raise money for the American Cancer Society and Harrah’s Hope Lodge.

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Photo by Krista Geyer

Cover Photo Anna Turney and Scarlett Lichterman at Zoo Rendezvous Photo by Don Perry

Anna Condon and Jefferds Dixon



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October 2016 Publisher Roy Haithcock Editor Ashley Dunn Contributing Writers Bill Bannister Suzanne Thompson Cozza Bailey Heldmar Emily Adams Keplinger Dennis Phillippi Art Director Krista Geyer Photographers Allison Bowen Don Perry Steve Roberts Account Executives Chris Pugh Robin Morgan Accounting Ruth Cassin RSVP Memphis is published monthly by Haithcock Communications, Inc. First class subscriptions are available for $55.00 per year. Send name and address with a check to:

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Account Executive Chris has been exercising his talent in the advertising world since 1999. He joined the RSVP team in 2009 and brought with him a love for laughter and creativity. Originally from New Albany, Mississippi, Chris has settled in Memphis and enjoys being active in the fashion community.

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Account Executive Having worked in advertising for 13 years, Robin is most passionate about magazine print. Her energy is contagious, and she counts as her hobbies running, shopping and spending time with her girlfriends. Robin’s “bright spot” is her daughter Emily Anne. Robin loves living in downtown Memphis, which affords her the opportunity to run down Riverside Drive anytime!

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From the Editor • October

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ey y’all! I would like to begin by introducing myself. I am a Memphis transplant, originating from Leesburg, Virginia by way of Oxford, Mississippi, where I attended the University of Mississippi. Memphis seems to amaze me each and every day through its people, places, and culture and I am proud to call it my home. With the departure of our great editor, Bailey Helmar, I have taken the position as the RSVP editor and I cannot express to you how thankful and blessed I am for this opportunity. Fall in the Mid-South is my favorite time of year. Events are thriving, college football is solidifying rivalries, and the weather is perfect. It amazes me how many Memphians are so generous and hardworking when it comes to non-profits here in the Mid-South and the fall exemplifies how much time y’all put into these organizations. In this issue, we had a ball at the Paw Prints Party, benefiting the Humane Society of Memphis and Shelby County (HSMSC). “Sparkling Nights,” benefiting the Spirit of SRVS dazzled us away as the VIP room was stocked with exclusive wines and spirits, and signature appetizers from Executive Chef Stanley Gibson and Food Network star Aryen Moore-Alston were delicious. The American Cancer Society (ACS) held its 20th anniversary Imagine Ball at the newly reopened FedEx Event Center at Shelby Farms Park to raise money for the American Cancer Society and Harrah’s Hope Lodge. And of course, we cannot forget the fabulous Zoo Rendezvous, which as always, was a night filled with great company, food, and drinks. We met up with Memphis native and Chief Meteorologist Ron Childers, of WMC Action News 5, for the scoop on his favorite songs, habits, and much more. Make sure to check him out on page 10. We featured artist and portraiture, Maggie Russell, who is represented by Jay Etkin and raves about their easy and supportive relationship. Make sure to check her out on page 20. We also stop by jewelry company Ekata Designs, to catch up with manager, Sarah Brubaker, who employs refugee women in Memphis. Make sure to check that out on page 18. Finally, be sure to check out RSVPast for a spooky look at WHBQ TV’s Sivad, the Monster of Ceremonies. Above all, thank you for welcoming me into the RSVP and Memphis community. Let’s see where this crazy thing called life takes us!

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Signature Memphis • October

Ron Childers Chief Meteorologist WMC Action News 5 Hometown: Memphis, TN. Favorite Song: Walkin’ In Memphis. First Car You Owned: ‘74 Pontiac Grand Prix. Favorite Place Place You Go

to

to

Travel: Anywhere with a beach.

Think: My backyard-that’s where I find my zen.

Proudest Moment daughter was born.

of

Your Life: The day my

Your Lucky Charm: I don’t have one but there are

times I wish I did.

Your Best Quality: The ability to find humor in just about any situation.

Best Advice You Ever Got: Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t. Your Most Annoying Habit: I tend to interrupt people and programming. Dream Dinner Party Guest: Elvis because he was the coolest guy to ever live. Favorite Southern Idiom: Busier than a set of jumper cables at a used car lot. Something You’ll Never Live Down: If I keep bringing it up then I’ll never live it down.

One Goal You’d Still Like

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or saxophone.

Who Would Play You

in a

a movie about me.

Accomplish: I’d love to learn to play the piano

Movie: There is absolutely no reason to ever do

Your Favorite Memphis “Thang”: The Memphis in May World Championship

BBQ Cooking Contest.

Best Memphis Hangout: Alex’s Tavern-Rocky is awesome and he makes a great burger and some really good ribs.

The Highlight

of

Your Day: Anytime someone comes up and tells me that

Photo by Steve Roberts

they enjoy watching me do the weather.

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Zoo Rendezvous • October

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Jin and Jong Ahn

Mary Mitchell and Roblin Webb

A Wild Night to Remember

he gates of the Memphis Zoo were transformed into a portal to another land as the annual Zoo Rendezvous began. Hundreds of Zoo supporters enjoyed the African rhythms of Epke and Company as they streamed past rows of shiny new Mercedes- Benzes, pausing only to sample decadent goodies from Phillip Ashley Chocolates by Chef Rix. Once inside, partygoers began to make their way to one of the eight full bars and 14 specialty bars set up for a wide array of libations before sampling mouthwatering specialties from 57 of the finest restaurants in the city. Full bars included Huey’s, Patricks, B.B. King’s Blues Club, Blind Bear Speakeasy, A Moveable Feast, and Fascinating Catering. There were cajun prime rib sliders from Patrick’s and oak grilled meatballs, and mini indulgences from Seasons 52. Heritage Tavern was serving up frisco grilled shrimp and strawberry shortcake. Simply Delicious Catering manned a BBQ Tini station under the big Bally’s tent, and Lancer was on hand with an indescribably delicious morrocan chicken tajine. Guests paced themselves before continuing on to the China Pavillion where Pearl’s Oyster House dished out their famous crawfish dip

and Lafayette’s featured their hoisin glazed pork belly with watermelon feta salad. One of the best ways to burn a few calories and refresh one’s appetite for more indulgence was to dance, and there was plenty of foot tapping, body moving, and soul shaking live music to make that happen too. Bands like The Kicks, Groove Addiction, G3: Gary Goin Group, and The Celebrity Allstar Band filled the night air with sounds for every taste and every style. The theme of this year’s Zoo Rendezvous was An Evening In Africa, and it was one big and beautiful event to behold. Zoo Rendezvous is the biggest Zoo fundraiser of the year with all proceeds going to benefit the Memphis Zoological Society. As a Memphis Restaurant Association Sanctioned event, this year’s party once again raised the bar to the next level for the hundreds of guests who came out to show support for our Memphis Zoo. Platinum partner for Zoo Rendezvous 2016 was Iberia Bank. Premium partners included Advanced Dermatology And Skin Cancer Associates, Purvisha Patel, M.D., FedEx, Suntrust Bank, Autozone, Bors-Koefoed “BK” Family, and Joseph C. Dewane M.D. Zoo Rendezvous will truly be a wild night to remember.

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Story by Bill Bannister Photos by Don Perry

Liz White and Nicole Wood

Carla Cook and Clovis Webster

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Leigh Ann and Brad Parker

Renard and Donna Rice

Jerry and Karla Boruff

Katie Hodges with Dr. Lee and Felecia Magro

Ashley and Peyton Hurley



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Andrew Kress and Brittany Correia

Carrie Howell and Mike Schween

P.J. and Jenny Koltnow

Benny and Dianne Lendennie

John Saylor and Murray Lace

Kemp and Anne Conrad

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Wendy and Darren Feathers

John and Stacey Pitman

Laurie Hall and Juni Ganguli

Heather and Jonathan Draper

Jeffrey and Lori Goldberg

Dana Dowdy and Janice Story

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Stu and Julie Bassett

Bobbi and Mark Wells

Adrian Baskin and Louise Lynn

Angela Dixon and Chris Jackson

Julie Bancroft and Marcy Tashie

Dr. Robin Stevenson, Pam Haithcock and Diane Woodall

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Robert and Vicki Moore

Dave and Stephanie Cannon

Rebecca and Dr. Michael Ugwueke

Nathan Billings and Jenny Mitchell

Goldie and A.I. Guron with Dr. Malini Gupta


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Ekata Designs Sarah Brubaker reflects on Ekata’s mission to support refugee women in Memphis Story by Bailey Heldmar Photos by Steve Roberts


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kata, the Memphis jewelry company, means “unity” in Nepali, the language of many of the jewelry company’s employees, which captures the partnership that occurs when refugees and Americans work together to create jewelry and foster cultural understanding. When Sarah Brubaker arrived in Memphis with a social work degree and an internship working with refugees, she never expected to become a business manager and owner. “It was the first time I had worked with refugees, it was the first time I had met or even heard of some of the countries,” she said. “In the midst of that internship, this business started and kept growing until it needed someone to run it if it were to continue on.” Brubaker was up to the task and has helped grow Ekata into the thriving business it has become. Brubaker explained that the idea for Ekata came from a desire to create opportunities for women refugees in Memphis. She continued, “Women have the hardest time because a lot of times women have less education than men. They don’t have the same freedoms because they might have children at home or they’re doing the cooking and cleaning.” Ekata works around their busy schedules, and the business is constantly evolving to meet its employees needs. Brubaker explained, “At the very beginning, a lot of the women said, we just want a little bit of extra money, we just want to make something, to have fun together, and to have a little bit of extra spending money. Then it moved from that to, we want to have jobs and training and hours and get paychecks.” In their efforts to work just like any other jewelry business, Ekata designs a new product

line every few months to keep up with current trends. “The design process is by far one of my favorite parts of the business,” said Brubaker. A group of fashionable volunteers serves as an “advisory board” for Ekata. They tell Brubaker and her coworkers the trends they’re predicting for the upcoming season, and the Ekata team comes up with several designs and makes a sample of each piece. “After we have a group of pieces put together, we’ll call the design team back in and they’ll give us feedback and test things by wearing them for a while” she continued. “I really love that it’s a collaborative effort, and I love that any of our pieces can have a little bit of all of us represented in them.” One of the employees, Bishnu, shared a bit of her story. Originally from Bhutan, she and her family escaped to a refugee camp in Nepal in 1992 when the Bhutanese king ordered ethnic Nepalese people living in Bhutan to leave the country. “I was in the refugee camp for 18 years. I had no documents, no job,” said Bishnu. In 1997, her husband passed away in the refugee camp. Finally in 2010, after help from UNICEF, Bishnu arrived in Memphis with her two sons and one

daughter. She recalled the day several months ago when she heard a knock at her door. It was Brubaker, coming to offer her a job at Ekata. Bishnu explained, “Before I have no job, I am nervous, I have no English, and then Sarah is like ‘come make jewelry!’” She was thrilled by the opportunity. Bishnu’s coworkers all have similar stories of long tenures in refugee camps and struggling to adapt to a new city, culture, and language. Ekata gives them the opportunity to work with fellow refugees and Americans. They learn all aspects of the business from design, to marketing, and to sales. Brubaker explained, “Long term, our dream world scenario would be for it to be all refugee run and they don’t need me anymore.” For now, however, Brubaker is thrilled to remain at the helm. “I never would have guessed that I’d run a business one day or design jewelry,” she said. “I love that piece of getting to show what else is out there. Getting to help connect people.” You can buy Ekata jewelry online from their Etsy store or from City & State, Bookmark at Second Presbyterian, The Women’s Exchange, and The Booksellers at Laurelwood.

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Modern Portraiture A visit to Maggie Russell’s Midtown studio Story by Bailey Heldmar Photos by Steve Roberts


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fter graduating from Memphis College of Art, Maggie Russell struggled to find her place. Following a series of unfulfilling jobs and some soul-searching, she found a studio and started creating. Now she has a thriving commission based business and no shortage of inspiration.

Russell has always considered herself an artist. “I have always been drawn to art, and I went to school for it for undergrad and grad school, mostly because I wasn’t really good at anything else,” she said. Charcoal became her medium of choice as she gravitated towards portraiture. “I really sucked at painting,” she explained. After graduation, Russell worked at Lowe’s Home Improvement mixing paint. “I was just trying to figure out what my next move was, but I was kind of content doing that,” she said. “Then eventually I decided I needed to get my act together, so I actively started looking for jobs with more impressive titles.” She talked herself into a job as a marketing coordinator, but soon realized that she had no idea what she was doing. With no real marketing experience, Russell found herself in over her head. She continued, “While I was at this job, I completely became overwhelmed with anxiety about everything. I moved out of my apartment, I quit the job, moved in with my parents and came to a place of serious reevaluation.” However, it was this setback that led Russell back to her art. “I ended up finding this studio and making art just as a method of healing and coping,” she remembered. “I quickly landed a show, and it just kind of snowballed from there, and I rode the wave.” These days she is represented by Jay Etkin

and raves about their easy and supportive relationship. Most recently, she participated in a show at Eclectic Eye that was a collaboration with the Jay Etkin Gallery. Russell never expected to stay in Memphis

forever until she found her studio at the Art Factory, a space on Cox behind Palladio antiques that rents small private studios to local artists. The community of artists she works with is a large part of why she enjoys being an artist in Memphis. “What’s really cool is that there’s this community of people who are

making different things and are excited about each other’s things,” she said. “It’s really neat to be a part of something where everyone has a different skill, and we’re all invested in and excited about each other’s success.” Although the majority of Russell’s work right now is commissioned, she originally found inspiration from vintage photos. Her whimsical charcoal portraits are especially popular with moms and grandmothers who want to capture their kids’ and grandkids’ personalities. “I have come to describe it as modern illustration or modern portraiture,” Russell said of her signature aesthetic. Memphians can also purchase Russell’s original work on her Etsy shop and at Falling Into Place on Broad. Both carry a selection of prints, posters, and greeting cards that are sure to bring a smile to your face. When asked what she sees for her art in the future, Russell explained, “I want to start using my work more as a platform to talk a little bit more about some of the reasons that I am attracted to portraiture. I was born with partial facial paralysis—a syndrome called Moebius syndrome, and I think as a result, I’ve always been kind of fascinated by the weird idiosyncrasies and people’s faces and celebrating our quirky flaws.”

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Paw Prints Party • October

Paw Prints Party

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Charles and Amy Powell

Benefiting the Humane Society of Memphis and Shelby County

he first thing guests saw as they entered the foyer of the Racquet Club of Memphis was a large poster, perched on an easel, that read “Welcome, Have a Ball,” and pictured a photo of a dog with a tennis ball in its mouth. It was a fitting start to the “Paw Prints Party,” benefiting the Humane Society of Memphis and Shelby County (HSMSC). The poster of the pooch was only a prelude to the leashed doggies positioned throughout the club. Owners sat next to their adopted furry family members, and many guests stopped to say hello, and give the dogs a pat on the head, before heading into the party area. Guests were given pawshaped paddles with a bidding number to use during the live auction, which featured luxury vacations, artwork, and a special “Bidders Choice” item from Mednikow. For that item, bidders vied for the opportunity to take their pick from an assortment of dazzling jewelry. A silent auction was filled with pet-related items, including

gift baskets donated by Hollywood Feed, dog and cat food, and even a pet massage given by Cathy’s Canine Complements. Gift certificates to local eateries including Ciao Bella, Huey’s, Bahama Breeze, and Sweetgrass were also up for grabs. There were no bidding sheets, however mobile bidding was used, allowing bidders to keep an eye on the status of their bids instead of making numerous trips back to the tables. Tables were swathed in sage green satin, topped with centerpieces filled with Birds of Paradise stems, and surrounded by white satin chairs, where salads awaited. Guests were served a meal of chicken breasts with rich cream sauce, along with zucchini provencal, and roasted new potatoes. Cheesecake was available for those with a sweet tooth. A video presentation featured actual animal rescues made by HSMSC, the organization that runs a no-kill shelter, taking in sick, abused and neglected animals that are normally difficult to place in homes.

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Christy Baioni and Gerald Laurain

David and Paige Wright

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Jean and Shawn McGhee

Kim and Rick Fogelman

Laurel and Eric Wiedower

Chris and Mary Clayton Garavelli with John Martin and Samantha Konstantin

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Elizabeth and Joseph Johnston

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Memphis Moment • October

Harvest Moon Party Celebrating the 87th Birthday of the Park’s Namesake and Benefiting Bobby Lanier Park Story and Photos by Bill Bannister

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riends of Germantown legend, Bobby Lanier, gathered by the hundreds at Bobby Lanier Farm Park for the Harvest Moon Party in honor of Bobby’s 87th birthday and to raise funds for the unique Germantown venue. Guests were greeted upon arrival with complimentary valet parking John and Jane Faquin before being ushered in to some of the best music, food, and drink in town. The festivities featured free-range food stations from 25 local chefs and restaurants including Jim’s Place East, which served Souflima Pork Tenderloin. Sweetgrass served up a delicious goat cheese crostini, Half Shell brought their signature Lobster Bruschetta, and Huey’s was on hand dishing out their mouth-watering sliders. Dignitaries present included former Memphis Mayor A C Wharton and Shelby County Mayor Mark Luttrell. Fox 13’s Valerie Calhoun served as emcee, and guests were treated to a dynamic performance by Jason D. Williams. All proceeds went to benefit Bobby Lanier Farms Park.

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Spirit of SRVS • October

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helby Residential & Vocational Services, Inc. (SRVS, pronounced “serves”) hosted its’ signature fundraiser at the Hilton Memphis. The 18th annual event and city’s largest auction affair and wine tasting, was rebranded as “Sparkling Nights,” and presented by the Spirit of SRVS to benefit SRVS services for people with disabilities. Presenting sponsors were Sedgwick and Wanda and John Barzizza. John and Lisa Bobango served as honorary co-chairs of the event. Dazzling lights and décor led the way to an area where VIP guests had an early opportunity to persue auction items. The VIP Room was stocked with exclusive wines and spirits, signature appetizers by Executive Chef, Stanley Gibson, of the Crescent Club and eclectic desserts from Executive Chef and Food Network Star, Aryen Moore-Alston. The gala’s fundraising efforts included a wine pull and a special table of wine glasses that had been handpainted by individuals were for sale and supported by SRVS. There were also hand-decorated sandals made by SRVS individuals for sale for the ladies who wanted to take off their high heel shoes as the evening went on. Guests were also able to make a memorable keepsake at a photo booth. The event included hundreds of silent auction items, a live auction, wine tastings from around the world, and food from some of Memphis’ favorite restaurants. Representatives from various wineries were on hand to conduct wine tastings of national and international wines. Tyler Hampton, SRVS Executive Director, and Mike Harless, SRVS

Chairman of the Board, gave the welcoming remarks. Joe Birch, Jr., Evening News Anchor at WMC-TV, was the evening’s emcee. GuessFM Radio Personality, Steve Conley, who is also the VicePresident of Sales and Marketing at Mirimichi, conducted the live auction. There was also a tribute to William “Billy” Huddleston, who passed away in 2015 and was known for his contributions to the gala’s auction in previous years. The 2016 guest artist was FM100 Radio Personality, Ron Olson, whose painting, “Love,” was auctioned as the event’s commemorative artwork. Olson incorporated the brushstrokes of Ronnie Booker, who receives services from SRVS. “Olson is a local artist whose mix of multi-media and blues motifs has become a trademark of his work and sought after by local and regional buyers interested in the Memphis culture,” said Diana Fedinec, Public Relations Manager for SRVS. Entertainment included dance performances by Company d, Memphis’ nationally acclaimed dance company of young adults with Down Syndrome, “Soul Finger,” by the Bar Kays choreographed by Darlene Winters, and “All Shook Up,” choreographed by Rafael Ferraris from Ballet Memphis. Finally, SRVS stars rocked the house with their dance performance to Martha and the Vandella’s, “Dancing in the Streets.” Additionally, Ben Halvorson, a graduate of SRVS Kids & Families Play Do Learn inclusive preschool, presented his video called “Ben’s Story.” The evening concluded with partygoers dancing the night away to tunes spun by DJ Eddie Kirvelle.

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Spirit of SRVS • October

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Lou Ann Dattilo, Barbara Parham, Barbara Benstein, Barbara Patronis and Ann Newell

Donna and Pat Hoffman

Melinda K. Ray and Cindy Debardelaben

Steve Conley with Vicki and Ron Olsen and Jeanie Gundlach

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Gwen and John Brown

Sylvia and Paul Sherman

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t was nearly impossible to see everything at the Les Passees Stock Exchange, an upscale consignment shop that club members have operated each Carol Saunders fall for 30 years. Located at the corner of Stage Road and Judy Looney and Kirby Whitten Parkway, the 56,000-square-foot space is jammed with fabulous finds for any shopper. The Preview Party, which was held the night before the shop opened to the public, is part of the tradition. Lucky ticket holders had first dibs at the treasure trove of goods, which included antique and gently used furniture, rugs, artwork, dishes, antique jewelry, kitchen items and so much more decor. The stock changes daily up until October 30 – thus the name - as things are sold and new consignment items arrive. The last two days of the Stock Exchange, prices are slashed by 50 – 75 percent. The Stock Exchange is one of the main fundraisers for Les Passees, which supports the Harwood Center that provides support to children with developmental delays, and Kids on the Block, a puppet troupe for children that emphasizes social issues they may encounter.

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Mitzi Bridges and Mary Blackwood

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he Latino Memphis Leadership Luncheon was held on the last day of its annual Congreso, a three-day program that gathers local leaders of organizations and companies to share insight on how to better serve and Betsy Spring and work with Latino Memphians. The event was, in Becky Bowers every sense, a celebration of the Latino culture. The luncheon program read, “Expect the Unexpected,” and happenings at the luncheon proved that to be true. As the 600 guests poured into the ballroom, they were greeted with tunes from a live Mariachi band, before members of the Kingsbury High School Jr. ROTC, gave the color presentation. For lunchtime entertainment, James Ortega, a professional soccer player who founded Futboleros, known as the “Harlem Globetrotters” of the soccer world, gave a freestyle soccer demonstration as a Columbian lunch was served. A special dance performance followed, which was hip-hop meets Salsa, a team effort between New Ensemble Ballet and Salsa Memphis. The Alma Latina Award was presented to Tennessee State Rep. Mark White by Mauricio Calvo, executive director of Latino Memphis.

Edgar Granada and Fabiola Cervantes

Christina Colon and David Walker

Casey Bryant and Katie Smythe

Issac Rodriguez, Kayla Graff and Jose Velazquez

Col. Mickey William and Glen Henton

Emily Hernandez, Deborah Hernandez, Carlos Cantu, Jr., and Heidi Ramirez

Mauricio Calvo, Colby Morgan, Cynthia Puljie Magallon and Dennis Lynch

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he American Cancer Society (ACS) held its 20th anniversary Imagine Ball at the FedEx Event Center at Shelby Farms Park. Hundreds of community and corporate supporters came together to raise money for the American Cancer Society and its Harrah’s Hope Lodge. The event was chaired by Rola Obaji, who has been involved with the American Cancer Society gala for many years. A known champion in oncology, she is now serving as CEO of the McDonald Murrmann Women’s Clinic. The evening began as guests mingled in the glass-walled center overlooking the newly constructed Patriot Lake for a networking happy hour. Appetizers of stuffed mushroom caps, chicken stuffed pastry puffs, and goat cheese bruschetta with bacon and fig were passed as attendees circulated between tables to bid on silent auction items. Jeremy Parks served as emcee for the event and welcomed the crowd to the gala while The Party Jammers provided musical entertainment. As the program began, attendees found their places for a seated dinner catered by Draper’s Catering. The threecourse meal featured a garden salad, roast beef Wellington and herb-crusted baked salmon, with whole green beans and oven-roasted potatoes. A dessert bar provided by Frost Bake Shop, and sponsored by First Tennessee Bank, provided a variety of sweets to cap off the meal.

During the evening’s program, two awards were announced. Mary Lawrence Allen was recognized with the St. George National Award, in honor of her service as an American Cancer Society Reach To Recovery program volunteer for more than 50 years. In 2015, Allen was the top fundraiser in the Memphis area for ACS’ Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. She has also given moral support to hundreds of women and their families as she helped them navigate through their diagnosis, treatment and recovery of breast cancer. Additionally, Annie Laura Jennings was honored in memoriam for her legacy of generosity and compassion. Jennings passed away from lung cancer in November 2015, but had been an active volunteer in the Society’s Relay for Life in Lauderdale County since the program began in 1996, helping raise over $100,000 for the cause. Jeff Morris served as the auctioneer for the event’s live auction, spurring on bidding wars for items like a Wine Cellar Dinner for eight, a chance to take 26 people to a Grizzlies Game in the First Tennessee Bank Suite, and an original mixed medium artwork by Mary Lawrence Allen, “A Hope and a Future.” The evening’s proceeds were used to support Harrah’s Hope Lodge, the ACS’ home away from home for cancer patients who travel to Memphis to undergo treatment.

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Taste of the Town Literacy Mid-South’s Fifth Annual Fundraiser Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

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he Great Hall and Conference Center of Germantown was transformed into a culinary paradise as the 16th annual Taste of the Town Benefit and Auction began. Presented by Southland Park Gaming and Racing, and Jeremiah Tucker hosted by the Germantown Area Chamber of and Alison Russ Commerce, it was a spectacular evening of food and drinks with more than 20 of the city’s finest restaurants and chefs serving up their mouth watering specialties paired with fine wines and spirits. Guests browsed items availabe for bid in the silent auction while enjoying live music from the University of Memphis Jazz Ensemble. There was a wine pull and a live auction with all proceeds going to Memphis Oral School for the Deaf. Dignitaries present included Germantown Mayor Mike Palazzolo, Memphis Mayor Jim Strickland, and Shelby County Mayor Mark Luttrell. Mike Montana, of WRVR’s Mike and Mandy Morning Show, served as emcee for the evening’s festivities.

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Christine and Anthony Richards

Stephanie Luttrell and Vickie Roberts

Alan and Robin Larrabee

Jim Baker, Brian and Joy White

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he Church Health Center, in partnership with LeBonheur Children’s Medical Center, celebrated the 10th annual Rock for Love: a festival that has become one of the biggest annual non-profit Troy Parkes and fundraisers and one of the city’s most-loved Caroline Stanfield celebrations of music. In a city known worldwide as the holy grail of music and the birthplace of Rock and Roll, Rock For Love brought out the best of the best for three straight days, at four different venues. The festival came together at Hi Tone, then moved to Loflin Yard, on to Otherlands Coffee, and finished off with a grand finale at the Levitt Shell, where nearly 2,000 people spread across the lawn. Rock for Love’s featured artists included Amy LaVere, Dead Soldiers, Julien Baker, and Papa Top’s West Coast Turnaround.

Michael Allen and Rosa Mena

Leah Gafni and Brendan O’Brien

Sarah and Neil Bell

Bill and Susan Tanner

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Jonah Dieckhaus and Amanda Wright

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Art on Tap 21 and Up for its 21st Year Story and Photos by Suzanne Thompson Cozza

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or those who enjoy ice-cold beer, Art on Tap at Dixon Gallery & Gardens was the perfect party. Only people 21 and older were admitted to the event, now in its 21st year. As people arrived, they picked up a small, signature tasting Jason and Kesha Warren glass, which they used for the brews, and took home as memorabilia. About 100 different beers were available, flavored with everything from watermelon and oatmeal to pineapple and candy bars. Eagle Distributing handed out samples of 25 kinds of beer, and local brewers Memphis Made, High Cotton, Wiseacre and Ghost River participated, too. The Bluff City Brewers, as well as the Memphis Brewer’s Assoc. offered a few brews of their own, and A.S. Barbaro was there with a lengthy list of beers that included Goldcrest 51, the first beer brewed in Memphis. Of course, where there’s that much beer, there has to be food. Blue Nile, Belle: A Southern Bistro, Bosco’s Squared and Rock ‘n’ Dough Pizza were among the food sponsors. Local artist Mary Jo Karimnia’s work was on display, and music was provided by City Mix. The beer bonanza was organized by the Young at Art members of the Dixon, which combines culture and entertainment together for a good time.

John Martin Barger, Christan Allen, Suzy Askew and Chantal Drake

Jennifer Russell, Ryan Singler and Jenna McDonald

Amie Cahill, Paul Goleb and Nicole DeJesus

Troy Hallsell and Gloria Dodds

Ashley Adams and Rob Park

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75th James Award Celebration Planned Parenthood honors Gloria Steinem Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

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Lucia Gilliland, Gloria Steinem, Trish Ring and Jim Gilliland

he Planned Parenthood Greater Memphis Region celebrated the 75th anniversary James Award Celebration at the Memphis Hilton. Guests were welcomed with a reception, including a VIP reception held with nationally acclaimed writer, lecturer, political activist Judy Horner and and feminist organizer Gloria Steinem. “I came to thank Ashley Coffield Planned Parenthood — the most trusted organization in the country, and the most necessary,” said Steinem, co-founder of the National Women’s Political Caucus, as well as Ms. Magazine. “By giving women and men the ability to control their physical selves, Planned Parenthood is giving them a chance to control their lives.” The 2016 James Award honored Representative Johnnie Turner, a retired educator and Civil Rights advocate and former longtime leader of the Memphis NAACP. “The James Award is given each year to a Mid-South community member who has shown unwavering support to the ideals of Planned Parenthood,” explained Ashley Coffield, President and Chief Executive Officer of Planned Parenthood Greater Memphis Region. Additionally, Rachel Ankney and Tamara Hendrix were recognized as the Volunteers of the Year. Ed Kaplan received the Judy Scharff Lifetime Achievement Award, while Hannah Piecuch, Ema Wagner, Nora Goodman-Bryan and Annie Vento were honored as the Young Volunteers of the Year.

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Bert and Carol Barnett

S. L. Greenberg and Natalie Greenberg

Barbara and Bruce Newman

Ed Kaplan and Rabbi Micah Greenberg

Laura Linder, Grace Weil and Judy Ringel

Beverly Marrero, Representative Johnnie Turner, Jocelyn Wurzburg and Happy Jones

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Pony up with the Junior League of Memphis Benefiting the JLM G.R.O.W. Programs Story and Photos by Ashley Dunn

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ors d’oeuvres were served, divots were stomped, and hats were big at the 2016 Junior League of Memphis Sustainer Polo Event that was held on a beautiful Sunday afternoon at the Imogene Erb Memphis Polo Club. Nearly 100 guests attended this event to raise awareness and benefit the Junior League of Memphis Giving, Readiness, Opportunites, and Wellness program (known as G.R.O.W.) at their two locations in Binghampton and Berclair. The G.R.O.W. benefiting program partners with Pre-K and Kindergarten teachers at Brewster Elementary School to choose books and crafts that work well with their curriculum as well as a one-onone learning opportunity for each student. G.R.O.W. also hosts a Thursday Supper Club, which holds a class for parents and children in a hand-on atmosphere to discuss numerous topics of education and life skills.

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Anna Condon and Jefferds Dixon Lindsay Chapman, Meredith Carrozza and Cristina Jabbour

Jane Twist and Bill Henry

Samantha and Mark Towne, Sarah Richardson and Al Owings

Caroline Kuebler, Pam Williams, Liz Schneringer and Nikki Taterose

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abitat for Humanity of Greater Memphis hosted SheetRock ‘N’ Roll at Minglewood Hall as part of the 2016 Jimmy & Rosalynn Carter Work Project. Guests were delighted to dine in the company of Shanda Wicker and Amy Paul and hear from President Carter and Mrs. Carter and Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood, who spent the week building 19 new homes. Additional speakers included Gov. Bill Haslam, Sen. Mark Norris, Habitat for Humanity International CEO, Jonathan Reckford, and Memphis Habitat CEO Dwayne Spencer. A team of award-winning chefs led by Memphis’ own Andrew Ticer and Michael Hudman of Catherine & Mary’s created the evening’s exclusive menu. Ticer and Hudman, James Beard Award finalists, were joined by James Beard semifinalist Kelly English from Restaurant Iris, along with James Beard winners – New Orleans’ Ryan Prewitt of Pêche and Stephen Stryjewski of Cochon; Chris Shepherd from Underbelly in Houston; and John Currence from City Grocery in Oxford. Phillip Ashley Chocolates created “39,” a honey-roasted peanut praline inspired by President Carter. Refreshments were provided by Wiseacre Brewing Company, Pyramid Vodka, and Stellar Cellar Wine & Spirits. To top off the night, guests enjoyed entertainment by GRAMMY Award-winning producer Boo Mitchell – the North Mississippi Allstars, William Bell featuring the Hi Rhythm Section and Gedeon Luke and Evvie McKinney.

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President Jimmy Carter and First Lady Rosalynn Carter

Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood

Sean and Jessica Hord with Dwayne Spencer, Pat Lichterman-Bates and Crystel and Jonathan Hardin

Brent and Heather Long

Steve Herrington, Lela Garlington and Mike Cody

Karie Ticer, Katie Hudman and Lindsey Brown

Bob Milewski, Rosaline Banks, Nicole Nessier and Justin Hargesheimer

John McArthur and Carson Duffy

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Zoo Brew Hundreds of Zoo supporters celebrate with a night of worldly music and beers Story and Photos by Bill Bannister

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he Memphis Zoo was transformed into a beer lover’s paradise as the gates opened to hundreds of Zoo supporters who came out to participate in the last Zoo Brew of the season. Guests started at Steven and Marianne Gage the Zoo entrance, sampling brews from all over the world at the Cat House Café, Primate Canyon, and Zambezi River Hippo Camp. Complimented with food from Lancer Catering, patrons enjoyed mouth-watering delights like cheeseburgers, jumbo hot dogs, BBQ nachos, pizza and chicken tenders. Supporters mingled and danced to the sounds of The Kathryn Stallins Band, while presenting sponsors included Eagle Distributing Company, Jaguar, Land Rover, Moonshine Lighting Inc., and A.S. Barboro. Entertainment was presented by Mahaffey Tent & Event Rentals.

Jason Rawlings and Kimberly Marsh

Christy Evans and Scott Felix

Ron Hardin and Chrissy Ross

Dani Haughey and Matthew Quinn

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Angela Girolami, Will Bradley, and Paige Jones

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s is often the case, this column springs from a conversation held in a bar while watching a ball game. There were four of us and we were all pulling for the same team, but in the course of a couple of hours we discovered that for various reasons, we all By Dennis Phillippi despised at least one player on that team. Mostly it was because we hated that player’s college program. Some of these guys had been at the pro level for well over a decade but we hated him because he played at Miami or Ohio State or whatever school that individual loathes. It is the enduring mystery of the sports grudge. ​If you’re a sports fan, and I’m not even talking about a fanatical fan, you have a sports grudge. Casual sports fans tend to have grudges that were lodged in their brain at an early age by a parent. They simply hate the Yankees, the Vols, the Cowboys, or the Lakers because their dad hated those teams. Ask a casual sports fan why he hates the Yankees and you’ll get a typical answer to the effect that “They win all the time.” It is true that the Yankees have won more World Series than any other team, but it has been seven years since they last won. That’s hardly “winning all the time.” The truth is, they hate the Yankees because they used to win all the time, when their dad was young. And by “win all the time,” they actually mean, “buy themselves championships.” It’s a fair knock: the Yankees do routinely have the highest payroll in baseball, but since when is that such a crime? If your team, say the Padres, had pockets deep enough to poach expensive talent from other teams, you wouldn’t be complaining. Everyone else on the planet would be complaining, but not you. You’d be just like smug Yankees fans. Another factor in casual sports fan’s grudges, are the fans of the teams they can’t stand. When I mentioned this idea on social media a ton of people simply said they hate Alabama football or the Pittsburgh Steelers because they hate their fans. When you’re in a bar during a NASCAR race and everyone in there is a Dale Jr. fan, you might get the impression that all Dale Jr. fans are loud, drunken louts. It’s a matter of perspective. Yes, every sports organization has its share of obnoxious followers, but it’s unfair to paint all of their fans with the same brush. Except for Miami Hurricanes fans. They’re all wretched human beings. ​Okay, that’s not fair, but we’ve moved into a different level of sports grudges: the informed sports fans grudges. Once you’ve been

following sports for a few decades, you start carrying around these inexplicable axes that need grinding. I can’t stand the Miami Hurricanes because in 1985, that’s right, 1985, they went into the final game against Tennessee saying that when they win they should be national champs. Not if they win, when they win. They lost, and badly. Here’s the messed up part: I didn’t go to

“There is, of course, the Big Grudge. The one that virtually all Memphians have, whether we attended the school or not. That grudge is John Calipari.” the University of Tennessee, my wife did. This is a thirty-plus year grudge by marriage. And not only do I despise the Miami program, but to this day, I also despise their coach at the time, Jimmy Johnson, and their starting quarterback, Vinnie Testeverde. I am not alone in disliking Jimmy Johnson: there is an entire generation of Dallas Cowboys fans who don’t like Johnson because he replaced

their legendary coach Tom Landry. These fans were so devoted to Landry they left being Dallas fans, even though Johnson promptly won them a Super Bowl, and had assembled such a strong team they won the year after he left under Gene Stallings, who couldn’t coach a powder puff team. Oh, right, I hated Stallings because of his tenure at Alabama in the early sixties, when I was a baby. See, this gets really complicated. Bob Huggins might be an okay guy, but I’ll never know because I don’t want to. Huggins was the coach of Cincinnati when they were in the same conference as the Memphis Tigers, and the Bearcats were a constant source of misery for the Tigers. It has been so long since Cincinnati made Memphis miserable: the school had a different name back then. Huggins has since gone on to coach at two other schools, neither of which were in the same conference as Memphis, but as far as I’m concerned Huggins, with his stupid tracksuits and Mafia haircut, is an enemy. And I didn’t even go to the University of Memphis. By the way, on a side note, those of you who still say, “My diploma says ‘Memphis State,’ so that’s what I’m gonna call it,” -- let it go. There is, of course, the Big Grudge. The one that virtually all Memphians have, whether we attended the school or not. That grudge is John Calipari. There was a time when the rest of the college basketball-loving nation hated us for having Calipari. He recruited the best players from all over the country, convincing them, easily enough, that if they came and played for the Tigers for a year, or even God forbid, two years, they would go on to have NBA careers. It meant a lot of statistical success for the Memphis program, and very nearly a national championship. Granted, by the time his last year rolled around most of us were starting to feel a little selfloathy over his presence. It was obvious that his interest in “student” athletes did not extend to the “student” part and that’s why the almost national championship season never happened. You can look it up. So, next time you want to bond with a Memphian don’t bother trying music or barbecue just say, “Man, I hate John Calipari” and you’ll be just fine.

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id the man not have a hauntingly large fan club? It was 43 years ago and WHBQ TV’s Sivad, the Monster of Ceremonies of the ever-popular Fantastic Features TV show, was a regular Memphis celeb among the teen and pre-teens of the day. Each Saturday his love-to-be-scared fans would tune in to see what ghoulishly good spooky movie Sivad, aka Watson Davis, had in store for them. Oh yeah, if you didn’t figure it out, Sivad was simply Davis spelled backward. All in a good night’s scare. Photo from the archives of rsvp If you have a past photo you would like to share with RSVP readers, please contact Ashley Dunn at 276-7787 ext. 105 or e-mail the photo and caption to editor@rsvpmagazine.com All photos will be returned promptly.

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