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CONTENTS February 2019 Features
Signature Memphis • 12
StreetSeen • 14
Al Kapone
Alex Castle
Songwriter, producer, rap artist, computer tech
StreetSeen • 16 Zach Nicholson
RSVPhillippi • 49
Feel Free To Sing Along
Crafting a career as a master distiller
Lucky Cat Ramen chef putting down roots on Broad
What would be the last song you want to hear before you die?
Kathryn and Max Painter
Stacy and Curt Davis
Phillip and April Stewart
Events
Rodgers and Nancy Menzies
Memphis Moments • 18, 19, 26, 27, 36, 37, 42, 43, 44 & 46
AutoZone Liberty Bowl President’s Gala • 20 More than 850 people gathered at The Peabody for the party of the season
Red Boa Ball • 30 Red Cross fundraiser supports its compassionate mission
Signature Chefs Auction • 38 Local chefs showcase their culinary skills for March of Dimes fundraiser
Cover Photo: Boo and Tanya Mitchell at AutoZone Liberty Bowl President’s Gala. Photo by Don Perry Contents Photo: Overton Park Gateway Sculpture "Rhapsody" by Yvonne Bobo. Photo by Roy Haithcock
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February 2019 Publisher Roy Haithcock
Chris Pugh
Account Executive Chris has been exercising his talent in the advertising world since 1999. He joined the RSVP team in 2009 and brought with him a love for laughter and creativity. Originally from New Albany, Mississippi, Chris has settled in Memphis and enjoys being active in the fashion community.
Editor Emily Adams Keplinger Copy Editor/Accounting Ruth Cassin Contributing Writers Bill Bannister Virginia M. Davis Dennis Phillippi Gaye Swan Art Director Kim Coleman Photographers Don Perry Steve Roberts Account Executives Chris Pugh Carter Davis
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Carter is native Memphian and a veteran of the broadcast industry, and magazine publishing. He is also a freelance voiceover talent and can be heard on WKNO 91.1FM on Sundays. Carter is an avid animal lover and likes to work with aquariums as a hobby. He enjoys his East Memphis home with his wife and 2 dogs, and 6 cats.
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Kim oversees all visual aspects of the magazine — advertising and editorial. Her career encompasses working with both print and digital media for magazines, newspapers and e-publications. Kim and her husband are raising their two children in the Cooper-Young area where their family enjoys the artistic atmosphere and entrepreneurial spirit of Midtown.
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Duncan Williams Asset Management Celebrates a Special Night for Special Students
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nce again, the Germantown Performing Arts Center sold out for the annual Christmas play put on by the students of Madonna Learning Center, Memphis’ special school for children and young adults with disabilities. Duncan Williams Asset Management and its friends were there in force to show their support, and made the 49th anniversary play one of the center’s most memorable yet. The wonderful night was a fitting close to another year of Duncan Williams Asset Management’s commitment to serving clients and improving the community.
Mayor Mike Palazolo, Lauren Volpe, Paul Volpe, Michelle Scully and Dominic Volpe
Chelsea Connor, Katie Connor and Morgan Massa
Mike Neel, John Haase, Blake Haase and David Scully
Parke Kennedy and Hudson Atkins
Kelly Atthow and Rosaland Odell
Kyle Gowen and Kevin Ferguson
Noelle Crone and Andy Crone
Mark Brown and Courtney McVean
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here’s plenty going on around town this month to keep you busy and warm your heart. On Feb. 2, the Guesthouse at Graceland will be the location for this year’s Page Robbins Winter Gala. This event is the organization’s largest fundraiser of the year and they do it up big with a dinner dance (black tie optional) that includes a gourmet dinner, a live auction, and dancing to The Soul Shockers. It’s a fancy, fun evening you won’t want to miss! For lovers of literature, the annual Literacy is Key Luncheon will take place Feb. 7 at the Holiday Inn - University of Memphis. This book and author event is a luncheon the includes presentations by three nationally acclaimed authors. Proceeds will benefit organizations like First Books and other local literary, non-profit organizations. Raise your glasses high to support the ninth annual Wine for Wishes, hosted by the Make-A-Wish Mid-South's Associate Board, on Feb. 8 at The Cadre Building. This event is a premiere young professionals wine tasting event, accompanied by live music, a wine pull, door prizes and a catered hors d'oeuvres selection. Ready to Rock and Roll — then mark your calendar for Staxtacular, to be held at the STAX Museum on Feb. 8. Hosted this year by Memphis Grizzlies player Dillon Brooks, the evening will include live music by The Bar-Kays. Works of Heart, the perennial favorite for art-lovers and art supporters, will take place Feb. 9 at the Memphis College of Art. Come view and purchase works from more than 100 leading regional artists who have donated gallery-quality, heart-themed pieces for auction. Also on Feb. 9, Rock the Ribbon will be held at the Great Hall in Germantown. Proceeds benefit the Susan G. Komen Foundation. Back across town Whisky, Wine & Chocolates will take place at Memphis Botanic Garden. Youth Villages’ Soup Sunday will celebrate its 30th anniversary on Feb. 17. Here’s your opportunity to sample delicious soups, breads, desserts and other delicacies from more than 50 of the best area restaurants and caterers. Proceeds will benefit the Youth Villages Chris Crye Mentoring Program. Feb. 23 is a busy night around town. The Mid-South Heart Ball will take place at The Peabody. The evening will include a silent auction, dinner and a live auction, with proceeds benefiting the American Heart Association. The Bodine Bash will be held at the Children’s Museum of Memphis and Les Passees Cabaret will hold court at the Memphis Botanic Garden. So show some love! Pull out your calendar and fill it with the events you want to support. To view more events that might spark your heart, please visit our Events Calendar at rsvpmagazine.com. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Emily Adams Keplinger editor@rsvpmagazine.com
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Al Kapone - Al Kapeezy, Oh Boy Songwriter, producer, rap artist, computer tech Hometown: Memphis Favorite Song: I have way too many, but one would be “Is That Enough” by Marvin Gaye
Your Lucky Charm: My personal connection with the Almighty Creator Your Best Quality: My thirst for knowledge A Nonliving Celebrity/Role Model You Would Invite to Dinner: Robert Church (he was pro Memphis at a time when Yellow Fever almost wiped out Memphis — even though he had the means to leave he stayed and played a major role in rebuilding the city).
Your Favorite Memphis “Thang”: Watching the progression of Jookin
Favorite Place to Travel: California Best Memphis Hangout: Rec Room is one of the cool hangouts First Car You Owned: Box Chevy Impala Place You Go to Think: Bedroom Favorite Southern Idiom: “It’s hot as hell” or “Get it out the mud” Best Advice You Ever Got: Treat people like you want to be treated Your Most Annoying Habit: Over thinking The Highlight of Your Day: Waking up in the morning Proudest Moment(s) of Your Life: The births of my daughter and my son play the young Al Kapone with the braids
Something You’ll Never Live Down: The times I was able to be a straight A student
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Crafting a Career as a Master Distiller
Alex Castle Story by Emily Adams Keplinger | Photos by Steve Roberts
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hen Old Dominick Distillery was founded a little more than four years ago, Alex Castle was part of the start-up crew. She signed on as Master Distiller and has been helping put Old Dominick on the proverbial map ever since. Not many women do what Castle does for a living, but she says the number is increasing. And even her own career path wasn’t exactly a straight line to the job she loves so much.
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Castle was born in Burlington, Kentucky, a small town north of Lexington that sits outside of Cincinnati, Ohio. While in high school and giving thought to her future, Castle considered marine biology, But, after taking a biology course she realized that was not her calling. “I hated it,” exclaimed Castle. “However, I fell in love with chemistry and after talking with my mother about what options I might have as a chemistry major, I learned how a degree in chemical engineering could lead to a career in brewing or distilling. I was intrigued and knew it sounded like something I wanted to do. And I’m sure living in Kentucky, not far from the famed Kentucky Bourbon Trail, was an influence.” While pursuing her degree at the University of Kentucky, Castle landed a co-op position with a company in Lexington that specialized in animal nutrition supplements —and they also had a small brewery. While Castle was working there they added a distillery to their facility and Castle was asked to run the stills. After graduation, she moved to Bowling Green to work as an engineering supervisor at a detergent factory. She was there about a year when a former co-worker reached out to her about job opening as a supervisor at Wild Turkey in Lawrenceburg.
“It was a great job and it gave me wonderful experience,” said Castle. “I was there about four years when opportunity came knocking again. The phone rang and it was a consultant who had found me on Linked-In. He was seeking candidates for the head distiller position for a new craft distillery in Memphis. That happened on Good Friday of 2015, and by May I was in Memphis interviewing for the job. My first visit to Memphis was during the Memphis in May World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest. Needless to say, I saw Memphis at its best and couldn’t wait to move here.” And move here she did, in September 2015. In the midst of construction at Old Dominick, Castle stepped in to help finalize equipment selection. She also had a hand in developing the distillery’s Memphis Toddy and its Honeybell Citrus Vodka. Since Old Dominick opened in May 2017, Castle says she has been making and storing as much whiskey as possible. Whiskey making involves milling grains, a fermentation process of combining grains with yeast, then distilling higher proof alcohol comes into play. From start to finish the process takes about six days.The final product is then put into barrels made of new American White Oak to be stored for 2 - 4 years. When asked what she would like the public to know about her trade, Castle said, “All bourbons are
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“All bourbons are whiskeys, but not all whiskeys are bourbons.” whiskeys, but not all whiskeys are bourbons. Whiskey is like the umbrella of these spirits with different categories such as Bourbon, Scotch, and Irish. To be a bourbon, the product has to meet three criteria; be made in America, be 51% corn, and be aged in new American White Oak barrels.” As for her future plans, Castle says she is working on the release of a gin, and potentially, a wheat whiskey, to add to the current offerings of three whiskeys, a vodka and their Memphis Toddy (a botanical-flavored bourbon with hints of citrus and cinnamon). “I’m proud to part of a multigenerational family business that spans more than 200 years in my industry of choice,” said Castle. “And I love Memphis so much that I now consider myself to be a Memphian.” Old Dominick Distillery is at 305 S. Front Street in Downtown Memphis.
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Zach Nicholson Putting Down Roots on Broad Story by Emily Adams Keplinger | Photos by Steve Roberts
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The crew at Lucky Cat on Broad Avenue includes Drew Kratzke (from left), Zach Nicholson, Caye Caparas, Patrick Hanthorn, Lauren Barrett, and Paul Gilliam.
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ucky Cat Ramen chef Zach Nicholson has spent years honing his craft. His earliest lessons came as a small child in St. Louis, Missouri.
“I always liked being in the kitchen and enjoyed making meals with my mother,” said Nicholson. “But, I never took cooking seriously until I was in my 20s. Our family came to Memphis when I was a teenager. After graduating from high school, I enrolled in the University of Memphis as a political science major. Before long I realized that I wanted to explore other options and decided to go to culinary school. I enrolled in L’Ecole Culinaire on Germantown Parkway.” About the same time, Nicholson got his first kitchen job working for Erling Jensen. Soon Nicholson found he was learning at a much faster rate in Jensen’s kitchen than in the classroom. Jimmy Gentry, who was an instructor at L’Ecole Culinaire at the time, was also cooking on the line in Jensen’s kitchen. With Gentry’s assurance, Nicholson opted to pursue his culinary quest via a hands-on approach and left the classroom all together. The rest of Nicholson’s education has been directly through the trade. “At Erling’s, I worked all of the various stations up to sous chef,” explained Nicholson. “It was a tremendous experience and made me hungry to go on the road to explore other places and other restaurants. I worked in Austin, Texas, then traveled to upstate New York where I met my future wife, Sarah, who was an executive pastry chef. We went back to Austin before returning to Memphis to get married. I started back with Erling and Sarah was
hired by Hollywood Feed to develop their recipes and their dog bakery on Union.” Over time, Nicholson went to work for Andy Ticer and Michael Hudman, most recently as sous chef at Hog & Hominy. “After we worked for other people, we gained enough confidence to start something of our own,” recalled Nicholson. “I had consulted for a Japanese ramen restaurant in Austin, so that concept wasn’t new to us when we started thinking about what we wanted to do in Memphis.” Nicholson and his wife wrote a business plan for a food truck and bought some cooking equipment. With the help of friends, the couple hosted their first pop-up event at City & State on Broad Avenue in December 2016. That event led them to connect with Mary Tanner, owner of The Cove. She allowed them to do their Ramen Pop-Ups on Sundays at her place. “For five or six months, the place was packed like sardines every Sunday,” said Nicholson. “We are really grateful to Mary for her support and she continues to be a very important part of our lives.” The Nicholsons hosted a number of pop-ups at Wise Acre and Memphis Made Brewery, too. Realizing they had built their following, they felt ready to take it to the next level. They found a location at Peabody and Cooper and began what they term a “permanent pop-up,” because it wasn’t a fully
functional restaurant (no bar, drinks were out of a cooler, etc.). A year and a half later, they are transitioning from pop-up to brick-and-mortar. And it’s not just the location that’s changed, the new restaurant is called “Lucky Cat,” dropping the “Ramen” from its name. Nicholson continues to lead in the kitchen while Sarah handles the administrative duties. “Our life is coming full circle as we return to Broad Avenue,” said Nicholson. “We’re opening with just dinner, Monday through Saturday, but hope to add lunch in the Spring. In our new location we are expanding space-wise, as well as diversifying our menu, We still offer many of our ramen dishes, but we wanted to do more with our cuisine. We are moving to smaller composed plates, more shareable fun appetizers, with items such as dumplings, a number of grilled Yakitori items, and a couple of raw dishes.” Lucky Cat is at 2583 Broad. Call (901) 249-6968 for more information.
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Adapt-A-Door (and more) Recycling the Past
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s guests gathered at Howard Hall, Memphis Heritage, Inc. hosted its 10th annual Adapt-A-Door (and more) fundraiser. Supporters bid on doors and windows and other repurposed items that had been “adopted” by local artists, architects, design firms and other creative minds who then “adapted” and transformed them into works of art and functional furniture. These one-of-a-kind auction items were tangible reminders of what Memphis Heritage does best, recycling the past. Will McGown took top bragging rights for “Best of Door” with his live-edged desk with a heart pine door. Aldo Dean and his team from Bardog Tavern was the food sponsor, 2 Girls and a Whip baked up cupcakes and a door-shaped cake, Wiseacre Brewing was the beer sponsor and The Tennessee Screamers provided music. Major event sponsors included Eclectic Eye, Linkous Construction Company and Orion Federal Credit Union. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger June West and Kacki Walton
Melinda and Stuart Rothenberg
Emily McEvoy and Pam Hauber with Steve West
Niel and Sara Prosser
Aidan and Rena Sawyer with Stephen Fly
Jolee Love, John Griffin, Mollie Riggs with Michael McCarthy
Frank McLallen, Jesse Davis and Keith Cooper
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embers of Ladies Love Liberty and their guests gathered at Chickasaw Country Club for their annual fashion show to celebrate the 60th AutoZone Liberty Bowl. Music by Gerry Finney, Andy Gaia and Jeff Fiornelli welcomed guests to the sold-out event, chaired by Charlotte Neal and Rosemary Ballinger. Steve Ehrhart, Executive Director of AutoZone Liberty Bowl, introduced this year’s honorees. Leigh Shockey was the recipient of the 2018 Memphis Community Service Award. Bill Kinkade was recognized for his role as the 2018 President of AutoZone Liberty Bowl and each past president in attendance was presented with a single, long-stem rose. The fashion show was moderated by Babbie Lovett and featured the latest fashions from Betty Hays Boutique. There was also a holiday bazaar with proceeds going to support Memory, Inc., a local nonprofit organization that supports other nonprofit groups fighting Alzheimer’s disease. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger
Arlene Southern, Babbie Lovett and Nancy Walker
Patti Russell, Marsha Cayce and Paula Stack
Becky Dinstuhl and Susan Dale
Steve Ehrhart, Bill Kinkade and Megan Gibson
Brooke Tweddell, Leigh Shockey and Susan Arney
Billie Jean Graham and Eula Horrell
Linda Ashmore, Andrea Weaver and Rita Garrigan
Pat Kerr Tigrett and Charlotte Neal
Patricia Cook and Hope Cook
Brenda West and Tommie Pardue
Lou McFarland, Grace Bartee and Sally Lipsey
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Party of the Season AutoZone Liberty Bowl President’s Gala
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Sidney Shields and Tabitha Carpenter
Mayor Jim and Melyne Strickland
crowd of more than 850 people gathered at The Peabody to countdown to the kickoff of the 60th AutoZone Liberty Bowl. The 2018 President’s Gala began with a cocktail reception in the Continental Ballroom. Charlotte Neal served as this year’s gala chairperson, leading a committee that included Honey Cannon, Billie Jean Graham, Babbie Lovett, Pat Massengill, Bob Neal, Courtney Neal and Gwen Smith. Gerry Finney and Andy Gaia performed while guests mingled for cocktails. The group moved to the Peabody Grand Ballroom where Andy Childs provided musical entertainment. Steve Ehrhart, Executive Director of AutoZone Liberty Bowl, welcomed attendees and called a fleet of dignitaries, including Shelby County Mayor Lee Harris, up front to be recognized. Mayor Harris spoke to the crowd, explaining the significance of the AutoZone Liberty Bowl to the overall bowl tradition. Mayor Jim Strickland provided the evening’s invocation. The seated dinner was catered by The Peabody. Ehrhart made the traditional presentation of crystal vases to Tia Odom, wife of Barry Odom, head coach of Missouri; and Kristen Gundy, wife of Mike Gundy, head coach of Oklahoma State. Next, Motown legends The Four See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP
Tops were brought to the stage as Bill Kinkade, President of the 2018 AutoZone Liberty Bowl, recognized them with the Outstanding Achievement Award. “Each year, the Outstanding Achievement Award is presented in recognition of excellence in the field of music and entertainment, as well as service to the community,” said Ehrhart. “The Four Tops have certainly made an indelible mark in the music industry. The group has one of the longest and most diverse careers in all genres of music. They were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1990. Past recipients of the Outstanding Achievement Award include Danny Thomas, Elvis Presley, B.B. King, Lou Rawls, Clint Black, Little Richard, Alabama, The Beach Boys, LeAnn Rimes, The O’Jays, KC & The Sunshine Band, The Temptations, Big & Rich, The Commodores and The Isley Brothers.” As The Four Tops performed many of their iconic songs for the crowd, like “Baby I Need Your Loving,” guests got to their feet and filled the dance floor. For their encore, The Four Tops invited the crowd to sing along to “I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch).” After the show, there was more music and dancing as Andy Childs returned to the stage. The next day, The Four Tops starred in the AutoZone Liberty Bowl’s halftime spectacular.
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Tammy and Dale Kennedy
Beth and Justin Miller
Joseph and Laura Beth Davis
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ver the years, one particular organization has stood out as a beacon of hope for the future. Facing History and Ourselves has trained over 10,000 teachers who have taught over half a million students in the US and Canada. The nonprofit organization develops educational curriculum focusing on prejudice and injustice in American and European societies, with a focus on Nazi Germany and the Holocaust. Seven hundred supporters gathered at the Memphis Hilton for the annual Facing History and Ourselves benefit dinner. Featured speakers included Executive Director of South Africa-based Shikaya, Dylan Wray, and Cape Town educator Roy Hellenberg. Dinner started with a crisp iceberg lettuce salad followed by seared salmon with orange glaze, mashed potatoes, and julienne vegetables. Dessert was a chocolate bombe and a jumbo-sized caramel cookie. Corporate sponsors of this year’s event included First Tennessee Foundation, Southeastern Asset Management Inc., AutoZone, FedEx, Kelman Lazarov, and Allstate Foundation. Story and Photos by Bill Bannister Leslie and John Daniel
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parkling wigs were the preferred head gear at this year’s Heels & Hoops, with supporters of the University of Memphis women’s basketball team sporting their finest Tiger blue from head to toe. The Holiday Inn at the University of Memphis hosted and catered the event. Guests sipped on beverages and chatted during a cocktail hour before a delicious dinner. The photo booth and wine pull were popular attractions, and attendees browsed the items for the live and silent auctions. Emcee Doc Holliday introduced a program by the team, who then kicked off the dancing by leading a conga line. “This is our ninth annual event, and over the past nine years we’ve raised almost half a million dollars, thanks to the tireless efforts of the Fastbreak Club and the event planning committee,” said head coach Melissa McFerrin. Funds raised go towards equipment and domestic and international travel.
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he Tennessee Region of The American Red Cross serves all 95 counties in Tennessee as well as Crittenden County, Arkansas and DeSoto and Tunica Counties in North Mississippi. When disaster strikes, or people are in need of life-saving help, it is most likely the American Red Cross who are the first responders. When it is factored in that 90 percent of those in the Red Cross workforce are volunteers, supporting the people who provide these crucial services is vital. One of the biggest Red Cross fundraisers is the Red Boa Ball. In its ninth year, the 2018 Red Boa Ball brought together 300 supporters who gathered at Memphis Botanic Garden (MBG) for what has become known as one of Memphis’ best parties. Attendees entered MBG and mingled to the sounds of Jamie Baker, who serenaded party-goers as they visited one of several CFY Catering bars for beer, wine or their favorite cocktail. Then it was on to the silent auction tables where treasures up for bids included a hat autographed by Alice Cooper, a Holy Stone Drone, a six-hour guided crappie fishing trip for four at Sardis Lake, a date night package featuring a $100 gift certificate to Strano
Sicilian Kitchen and Bar plus a $50 gift card to Dinstuhl’s Fine Candies. There was also a Victor Durand art glass vase valued at $3,500, as well as a University of Memphis basketball signed by coach Penny Hardaway. After an exciting round of bidding, guests made their way to the grand ballroom, where exquisitely decorated tables adorned with red boas set the mood for dinner. Lisa Coletta and her team of master chefs served a dinner of beef tenderloin with a peppercorn sauce, along with chicken breasts stuffed with spinach and baby bella mushrooms topped with a sun-dried tomato cream sauce. Creamed spinach and roasted garlic potatoes rounded out the feast, with cheesecake for dessert. The live auction included such unique items as a Heber Springs getaway, bourbon and dinner with friends from Chef Cullen at Café Society, a beachfront vacation at the private Mirabella Beachfront Resort in Pensacola, a Memphis weekend getaway with the Grizzlies and the Red Boa Stellar Cellar, featuring 12 bottles of wine including a 2009 vintage Dom Perignon champagne. After dinner, party-goers danced into the night to the sounds of Jamie Baker and the VIPs.
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Le Partie de la Symphonie A Celebration of Music
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ore than 80 supporters of the Memphis Symphony Orchestra gathered in the Grand Ballroom of the Racquet Club to celebrate the fine musical arts at the inaugural “Le Partie de la Symphonie”. Guests enjoyed drinks and hors d’oeuvres as they mingled with members of the symphony orchestra, including maestro Robert Moody, who was on hand for the festivities. A string quartet serenaded guests as they enjoyed their libations and snacked on miniature taco rolls, beef empanadas, cheese puff pastries, salmon croquettes and mini caprese salads. Live auction items up for bid included a Memphis Symphony poster autographed by Maestro Moody and a Pickwick lake home getaway. Door prizes were up for grabs for just five dollars a ticket and included a framed portrait of Mozart by Andrew Crust, a deluxe bottle of Old Forester bourbon and a membership to Theatre Memphis. The party was hosted by the Memphis Symphony League.
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The Flower House Gathering Support for Preservation
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ormally known as the Cloyes property, and named “Oaklawn Garden” by Mamie Cloyes, the c. 1870s vernacular farmhouse located next to the train tracks that run along Poplar Pike in Germantown has been empty for a number of years. However, the property had new life breathed into it as the Suburban Garden Club hosted “The Flower House” to call attention to the historical significance of the property. The event was the kickoff of a grassroots initiative to restore the public garden. Each room contained an artistic floral display created by designers, including Everbloom Design, Flower Hat of Bozeman (Montana), Garden District, Holliday Flowers, John Mark Enterprises, Le Fleur, Millstone Market, and the Suburban Garden Club. Regional flower farms Delta Sol, Whitton and Seventh Hands also participated. Additionally, there were educational programs, design classes, lectures, workshops and demonstrations, as well as pop-up floral vendors on site. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger
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he Guesthouse at Graceland was the setting for the 2018 Signature Chefs Auction. The event, chaired by Lea Carr and Sharon Posman, brought together top local chefs to showcase their culinary masterpieces as a fundraiser for the March of Dimes. Guests had the opportunity to sample fare from some of the area’s best restaurants while mingling with local chefs. Action News 5 anchor Joe Birch was the evening’s Master of Ceremonies, and Kathleen and Matt Forbush and their children; Jackson, Parker, Smith and Ruby, served as this year’s Ambassador Family. In addition to tasting a wide variety of cuisine, party-goers also sampled fine wines and blood orange-lemon cello. Guests had the chance to bid on silent auction items ranging from jewelry and a year’s supply of Gibson’s Donuts, to relaxation in salt cave sessions at Better Bodies Yoga or recreation in the form of a fishing/tackle package, and more. Auctioneer Alan Courtney kept the crowd excited about bidding in the live auction with items like a flight training session in a FedEx simulator, a fish fry for 50 people provided by Ron Wong, and a night on the town featuring a Folk’s Folly dinner gift certificate, a theater package at Playhouse on the Square, and a one-night stay at The River Inn. See all the party photos at rsvpmagazine.com Password: RSVP
Courtney frequently reminded everyone to bid high as “it was only money and it’s going to a good cause.” When the live auction portion was “all in and all done,” every attendee had a chance to fund the mission of March of Dimes with donations. The opportunity to help give babies a brighter future was a strong draw as the auctioneer called out donation levels. People responded with their raised bid cards and added to the evening’s coffers. In all, the night raised over $100,000. Participants in this year’s Signature Chefs Auction included Josh Steiner, lead chef and owner of Strano, Another Broken Egg, Asian Palace, Cafe 1912, Chicago Steakhouse, DeJaVu, Dr. Bean Coffee & Tea, Frost Bake Shop, Interim, Itta Bena/B. B. King’s, Morrison’s Healthcare, Muddy’s Bake Shop, Starbucks Coffee, Sweet Magnolia’s and The Capital Grille. “The March of Dimes organization was founded in 1938 by President Franklin D. Roosevelt to defeat polio,” explained Carr. “With that original mission accomplished, our focus now is to address some of the biggest health threats to mothers and their babies. Now we empower families as we help with four million babies born each year.”
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Polo Pop Up Benefiting the Junior League of Memphis G.R.O.W Program
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ecent rains dampened the city’s polo fields but did not dampen the spirit of the Junior League of Memphis. The annual Polo Event became a Polo Pop Up, held at the beautiful grounds and building of The Community Resource Center. The chill in the air made an outdoor fire on the terrace most welcome, and guests enjoyed roasting marshmallows. Badminton and croquet replaced the polo matches, and ladies did not miss the chance to show off their finest hats. Beverage sponsor Pyramid Wine & Spirits provided wine and cocktails, which included two signature drinks, the “Polotini” and “Polo Mule.” Indoors, the fall-themed buffet featured honey vermouth salmon, beef tenderloin, and asparagus pinwheels, catered by Me and My Tea Room. “Our Polo Pop Up benefits G.R.O.W. (Growth, Readiness, Opportunity, and Wellness), which helps families with financial wellness, healthy habits, continuing education, and so much more,” said event chair Yevette Hughes.
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welve Mid-South chefs answered the challenge posed to them by Monogram Loves Kids Foundation: They were to create recipes that included products made and distributed by Memphis-based Monogram Foods. Guests at the seventh annual Meat Me in Memphis party at The Columns enjoyed the mouthwatering results. Among the dishes served was chicken and sausage Cajun pasta prepared by trainees of the Mid-South Cultural Alliance. The non-profit organization founded by Chef Ernest Dickinson trains and develops at-risk youth and young adults in culinary arts. It is among 61 recipients of grants awarded by the foundation during 2018. Monogram Loves Kids Foundation channels donations garnered at Meat Me in Memphis to organizations that focus on community needs and issues centered on children and their families. Monogram team members in seven states choose grant recipients in the communities where they live and work. Sound Fuzion, a touring ensemble of University of Memphis students, performed. Story and Photos by Virginia M. Davis
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Fashion Show Luncheon In Support of The Gaal House
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oard members and supporters of The Gaal House recently gathered at the French chateau-inspired home of Gary Smith for a luncheon. The residence provided an elegant setting as guests mingled throughout the downstairs rooms. Everyone settled in for a lunch catered by Brenda and Mike Vernon while Smith’s player grand piano provided background music. Additionally, models floated from room to room showcasing the season’s latest fashions from Betty Hays Boutique. The event was a fundraiser and helped inform attendees about the mission of The Gaal House — to create and maintain a sober, safe and spirit-filled environment for male residents. While in transition, the men learn fiscal management, spiritual development and life skills to provide a path to life-long sobriety. As the organization’s slogan says, it’s all about “Changing Men’s Lives, One Man at a Time.” Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger Debra Powell and Sheila Whalum
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Community Leadership Breakfast Bodine School Welcomes Guests
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n a crisp fall morning, Bodine School opened its doors to government officials, business leaders, family, friends and supporters for the 22nd annual Community Leader Breakfast (CLB). Students provided tours of the school and insight into the wonderful programming available to young learners with dyslexia. The Dyslexia Simulation Lab, always a highlight, was back again this year with activities designed to replicate the experience of having dyslexia. A photo booth with props was another popular spot. A tasty breakfast included specialties from Chick-fil-A and Panera Bread, and parents supplied the homemade treats. “CLB is one of the most treasured events at Bodine,” said Gretchen Klobucar, Director of Institutional Advancement. “What makes this event so unique and so beloved is seeing the school through the eyes of the students.” Story and Photos by Gaye Swan Mark White, Joseph Russell, Mike Dunavant and Steve Conley
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ike most of these columns, this By Dennis Phillippi topic sprung from a conversation in a bar, and I’m the first to admit that it’s a little morbid. But again, it was a conversation in a bar. It’s a place where there are lots of morbid conversations. The question that started it was simple enough, “What would be the last song you want to hear before you die?” For the most part people just wanted to hear their favorite song. Classic Rock held sway because it was a conversation between a bunch of middle-aged people. You had your “Bridge Over Troubled Waters” and your “Long and Winding Road.” Not surprisingly “Stairway to Heaven” was a popular choice, what with the fact that the person in question is presumably about to set foot on it. As I often do I put it out on the social media for other people to chime in and boy did they ever, and these people being the type of people that follow me on social media, there were a lot of them using the last song as a kind of a dodge. The 18-minute version of “Freebird” and “Devil Glitch,” which is 69 minutes long, made appearances simply because they’re so long. It may be the last song you ever hear, and you might even hate it, but it does buy you an extra bit of time. Not that you would necessarily make it to the end of “Devil Glitch.” That song has driven people to the edge all by itself. “Knocking on Heaven’s Door” naturally made it in, as did “I’m Your Captain/Closer To Home,” an unexpected tribute to Grand Funk Railroad. You have to really love a song to subject those around you to GFR. They’re already having to say goodbye to you, their loved one, now they have to sit through 10 minutes of Grand Funk. One of my friends went so far as to set the stage for his final moments, suggesting everything from the lighting to camera angles, and saying that he wanted to pick “A beautiful song that at least comes close to telling my love what it’s like” and then he chose “To Love Somebody” by the Bee Gees. That’s right, the Bee Gees. I can only assume this would be an attempt to drive his love out of the room so she wouldn’t have to be there at the end. Another guy I like very much thought it through completely and said that it largely depends on how he is checking out. If it’s peaceful
For the most part people just wanted to hear their favorite song. Classic Rock held sway because it was a conversation between a bunch of middle-aged people. You had your “Bridge Over Troubled Waters” and your “Long and Winding Road.” Not surprisingly “Stairway to Heaven” was a popular choice, what with the fact that the person in question is presumably about to set foot on it.
he wants “Shining Star” by Jerry Garcia. Yes, he’s a huge hippie. If it’s the electric chair he opts for “Thunderstruck” by AC/DC. And if it’s a gunfight he wants “Cover Me” by Lucero. How my hippie friend made the leap from peaceful to gunfight or the electric chair is one of those mysteries we may never solve. He’s not the only one that took into consideration the various possible scenarios. One guy chose one song if he’s going out from natural causes and another if he’s “Going down shooting Nazis Rambo style.” This is a very peaceful cat who apparently has some very dark fantasies we might not want to know more about.
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I like that one guy wants “whatever is the number one hit in 2069.” I know his health habits. That’s a huge stretch. It may seem like this is a topic that only got responses from men, but the truth is the women who replied all had very sweet thoughts on the matter and that makes it very difficult to make fun of them. One of them chose the theme from “Peanuts” because she doesn’t want everyone bummed out. If there is one time when you should be allowed to bum everyone out it is when you’re shuffling off the mortal coil. I know tons of people who maintain that they don’t want a “depressing” funeral, but rather a celebration of life. Not me. I want people sobbing, screaming, rending their clothes and throwing themselves to the floor. Other people can have their celebration of life — I want it to be all about me. I’m just that kind of a giving friend. One woman decided she wants “Fame/I’m Gonna Live Forever.” I can only assume that it’s her idea of a final practical joke. A random sampling that just tells you the kind of friends I have; “Hold On, I’m Coming”, “I Wanna Be Sedated”, “Just Breathe”,”Reconsider Baby”, “Highway To Hell”, “You Got To Move” and “Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life.” These are my people. Naturally, these being my people eventually they came around to the idea that this isn’t the last song you actually want to hear, but rather the last song you would ever want to hear. Personally, for me that would be “Don’t Worry, Be Happy,” a song I could easily go the rest of my days without hearing. But now that I think about it, it’s a pretty funny choice either way. I’ve used social media like this many times, but this one got more responses than any previous topic. I’m sure that it’s mainly because of the people with whom I choose to associate, they’re the types that dwell on this kind of thing. But it seemed to really strike a chord with a lot of people. Maybe it’s something that we should think about and let our loved ones know our wishes. Or maybe I just have a really twisted social set. Either way, if you take nothing else from this piece, just know that if you find yourself hanging out with me and my friends at the bar, we’re probably going to be yucking it up about some pretty dark stuff. Please feel free to join the fun.
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