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Contents April 2008

From the Editor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12 Signature Memphis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14 George Klein Well-known for his friendship with the King of Rock ‘N’ Roll, this beloved Memphis DJ and TV personality’s career remains as strong as ever.

Phoenix Club Mardi Gras Party . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 This annual blowout at the University Club swelled to an all-time high with nearly 900 guests partying to raise proceeds for the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis.

16 PHOENIX CLUB MARDI GRAS PARTY Allison Ashford and Allison Black

StreetSeens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24, 34 & 48 This Memphis artist got his start in a frame shop but has since found his calling producing impressive paintings and mirrors made from unique mediums. A dressage instructor and competitor, she’s riding closer to Grand Prix level competition. He’s an author of the best kind: a storyteller with juicy tales that keep readers up at night. StreetSeens spotlight Tom Clifton, Kim Gentry, and Dwight Fryer.

66 STAXTACULAR ‘08 Kim and Greg Gardner

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Partygoers played celebrity for one night at the Memphis Botanic Garden to benefit the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Memphis.

Onsites . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36, 40, 42 & 58 Gatherings that have earned an honorable mention.

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Vox Popular . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .44 Q&A with Memphis in May International Festival, Inc. president and CEO Jim Holt.

26 OSCAR NIGHT® AMERICA Mindy and Frank Grahovac

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RSVPeople . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .50 A trek across the city’s party landscape. .

Madonna Circle Preview Gala . . . . . . . . . . . . . .60

STREETSEEN Kim Gentry

Shoppers and foodies alike flocked to Agricenter International for the Memphis Antiques, Garden & Gourmet Show, all for the sake of FirstWorks, Inc.

Staxtacular ’08 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .66 The chill outside didn’t deter the Stax Music Academy’s supporters from getting down to the funky beat inside “Soulsville USA.”

Homestyle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .69 This home’s winning features are based on architectural elements prevalent during the Deep South’s heyday.

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Happy Early Mother’s Day The notorious humor columnist weighs in on one mother’s parenting skills after she lost her cool at the carwash.

MADONNA CIRCLE PREVIEW GALA Jodi and Kirk Carter

69 HOMESTYLE Suitably Southern Rhett and Cindy Hailey

Cover Photo Cayce Ryan and Amy Gruby at Phoenix Club Mardi Gras Party Photo by Don Perry

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o you ever hear a word or slogan you just can’t get out of your head? Most of us constantly hear such catchphrases and think nothing of them. However, on rare occasion, annoying, yet innovative phraseology can actually impact us more than we think. If you want proof, think of how much common lingo you’ve adopted from another’s vocabulary.

Recently, a friend described someone he met as having a “never-ending sense of humor.” Unbeknownst to him, I immediately scribbled this phrase down in my trusty notepad hidden under the table. I kept the phrase handy and referred to it often. Why, you might ask, did these words command such attention? On the other hand, how could they not? Everyone wants to have a sense of humor about life and themselves, but to have a never-ending sense of humor…well, that’s majorly difficult in my book.

Take last night, for example. There were a million things to do, including proofing this issue of RSVP, and not enough daylight hours to do them. I wish I could have paused the clock—even for an hour—to accomplish just one more task.

As I began to feel like a failure for not being able to “do it all,” I should have pulled out the unremitting sense of humor my friend speaks of.

Talk about busy, everyone (Tom Clifton, Kim Gentry, Dwight Fryer) featured in this issue’s StreetSeens has aroundthe-clock schedules or work engagements outside of the country. However, the man who is probably losing the most sleep right now—other than Coach Calipari—is featured in this month’s Vox Popular. As president and CEO of Memphis in May International Festival, Inc., Jim Holt, who declares he’s his own worst critic, wears a lot of hats to ensure that thousands of Memphians and those from nearby areas have a memorable experience during the month-long event.

For those of you whom can’t do it all, soak in the refreshing, spring smells and colors, and create your own catchphrase for life. Don’t forget to listen closely because you just might have created the buzzword about town.

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Last book you’ve read: Me and a Guy Named Elvis.

Childhood ambition: Pro baseball player or pharmacist.

First job: Throwing Memphis Press Scimitar papers.

Stress outlet: DJ job at SIRIUS Satellite Radio (Elvis Channel 13).

One thing most people don’t know about you: I made the all-star softball team at Memphis State.

One thing you can’t live without: My wife, Dara.

Historical figure you most identify with: Dick Clark.

Your greatest achievement: Graduating from Memphis State in in three-and-a-half years, getting voted Memphis’ 1 DJ Billboard three-and-a-half years, getting voted Memphis’ No.No. 1 DJ byby Billboard Magazine in 1964, and hosting my own TV show, “Talent Party,” for 12 years on Channel 17.

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emphis’ young male professionals and their fashionably-clad dates fought their way through a sea of gold, green, and purple balloons to enter a soirée packed with high-volume entertainment.

The Phoenix Club Mardi Gras Party brought out the best of both worlds—partying and philanthropy—for yet another year at the University Club.

This much-anticipated event has never failed to pack in hundreds of guests, who were directed to begin having fun downstairs.

Harrah’s Entertainment graciously supplied new gaming tables, which tempted all to empty their purses and wallets to support the Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Memphis. Attendees tried their luck at blackjack, craps, and roulette, while those not so keen on the games looked on for support.

Bigger risk-takers anted up for the poker tournament held in the High Roller Room. Couples paid $100 for access to the special VIP area for a chance to “gamble your face off,” according to one Phoenix Club member. Perhaps the biggest draw was a chance to win an all-expense-paid trip to Las Vegas…you could almost hear Frank Sinatra’s “Luck Be a Lady” in the background.

As the crowd swelled to an all-time high, the action moved to the stage upstairs. U.S. entertained dancers with popular ‘80s cover tunes, and the beat wore on until the clock struck midnight.

Through events like these, the Phoenix Club is able to continue its generous involvement with local Boys & Girls Clubs, which the group helped establish in 1962. Party proceeds exceeded $25,000 this year, making the group well on its way toward an annual contribution of more than $100,000 for a nonprofit devoted to teaching children ages 7-17 how to make positive decisions.

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he beauty of an artist’s work is it sometimes produces the least expected, yet most rewarding forms. For Tom Clifton, surprises happen each time he applies a layer of turpentine to acrylics mixed with crushed marble and coral compounds. The outcome: multiple layers of brilliant sheen that give way to colorful, exotic shapes.

“I don’t have complete control of the compound once I apply turpentine, so my paintings then take on a life of their own,” he smiled.

Once Clifton, who is a self-taught artist, steps back from his creations, the fun begins.

He enjoys concocting titles for his pieces and says people can’t wait to hear what he comes up with next. He coined his current exhibit, on display at The Eclectic Eye in Midtown, “Spectral Compositions of Light.” Clifton says this title came easily since the exhibit’s 41 pieces seem to exude a peaceful, otherworldly quality.

He added, “When I name art, I feel a responsibility to help guide the viewers to see what I see.”

During show openings, Clifton admits he feels vulnerable, but that nagging sensation goes away once viewers begin studying pieces. When questions ensue, the artist says he knows people are truly making an effort to understand his art, which for him is the best validation of all.

Another shocker came last summer when HGTV contacted Clifton about featuring one of his folded fiberglass mirrors in a segment. He thought the e-mail was a hoax at first, but his doubts turned into reality one steamy, August day when HGTV came through Memphis and filmed the eight-step process Clifton uses to make his mirrors; the segment will air in late spring on the show “That’s Clever.” When questioned how he even came up with the idea for fiberglass mirrors, he laughs and says his whole art career has been one happy accident after another.

“Growing up in the bayous of Louisiana, we had fiberglass boats, so a friend of mine suggested I use fiberglass to patch a hole in the bottom of a big ceramic pot that I wanted to convert into a fountain,” Clifton told.

“Somehow, I decided I would try to paint over the fiberglass because it looks like frozen fabric after it’s hardened, and then I began wondering what else I could use it for.”

Clifton has several other projects on the horizon, but the most immediate goal is getting down to his show at the Best of Both Worlds Gallery in St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands…a nice escape for more ingenious inspiration.

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veryone wants a piece of Hollywood, but the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences only selects 52 cities for its annual Oscar Night® America Gala, with Memphis being one of the chosen few. For seven years, Memphians have glamorized themselves to support the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Memphis by strutting the red carpet to the Oscars® broadcast.

For an authentic celebrity experience, paparazzi snapped photos of guests, who were offered champagne once inside the Memphis Botanic Garden and the same programs as Hollywood attendees received. Camera-ready partygoers also took photos with the king of statues, Oscar®, before deciding which silent auction items to bid on. More star-power arrived when celebrity bobbleheads, including Sylvester Stallone, Marilyn Monroe, Liza Minelli, Arnold Schwarzenegger, and Jack Nicholson, mingled with the crowd.

The Hollywood diet appeared to be on hiatus due to the plethora of creatively presented hors d’oeuvres. Each restaurant interpreted a movie theme within its display, with several standout themes paying homage to Shark Tale, The Godfather, and Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Tim Vimomnimit of Bhan Thai even dressed as Superman, complete with tights and a cape, for a comical tribute to the beloved superhero. Awards were given to Magnolia Grill for “Most Creative Movie Themed Booth” as well as the “Star Dessert.” Murano’s won the “Star Cuisine” and “Food Star Chef” awards.

During the evening, attendees predicted Oscar® recipients by filling out ballots in 24 categories. The “Predict the Winners” contest was in full swing once guests took their seats in the ballroom, where several flat-screen TVs were stationed. Executive producers Jeff and Valerie Morris welcomed the audience and encouraged everyone to check their predictions against the actual winners of the Academy Awards®. Jeff also stood in as the announcer of the live auction.

Those whose feet weren’t hurting took their best stabs at imitating Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on the dance floor. With the Soul Shockers providing the groove, it wasn’t hard to forgo watching the telecast.

For a celebrity, choosing which parties to attend might be crucial, but for Memphians, feeling good about attending Oscar Night® America just got a whole lot easier thanks to a total of $74,000 raised for a home-away-from-home for families with children receiving treatment for cancer or other illnesses.

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n the outskirts of town lies a culture unspoiled by time, that of the horse lovers. Barns are abundant and so are those seeking refuge from the corporate grind. Kim Gentry, who could be found five years earlier as a marketing director at International Paper, envisioned working with horses as a full-time job, but the dressage instructor and rider never realized the trail her dream would blaze.

Just a few months ago, Gentry won the Major Anders Lindgen scholarship, which has enabled her to receive high quality instruction at the International Dressage Academy in Borken, Germany; her horse, Concerto, remains there in preparation for Grand Prix level competition—the highest. The Dressage Foundation awards this scholarship annually to one instructor who will take his or her education acquired abroad and apply it to the riding community, and having a United States Dressage Foundation (USDF) fourth level instructor certification—which Gentry does—is encouraged. An Australian native, she wanted to apply for the scholarship sooner but jokes, “I hadn’t gotten my U.S. citizenship yet!”

Excelling in any sport takes years, and dressage, which dates back to ancient Greece, is no exception. Dressage offers nine levels of competition, each with multiple tests, and showcases a horse’s natural physical and mental abilities. Some refer to the sport as “horse ballet” for its technical aspects; one skill Concerto is perfecting is a piaffe, or a “trot on the spot.”

“The saying is it takes two lifetimes to master dressage,” Gentry shared. “The second you sit back and say, ‘I’m good and I know it,’ then you’re in trouble. It’s important for me not to become a big fish in a small pond here because it’s one trap you can fall into.”

Having already traveled to the International Dressage Academy twice, Gentry relays the knowledge she’s gained overseas to her students at Southpointe Farm outside of Germantown, and several said they’ve learned much more since their instructor has returned. Passionate about giving back, she relishes being a mentor and says she’s done her job if students can be independent at competitions. Gentry is also completing her requirements to become a USDF faculty member in order to teach fellow dressage instructors across the country and will preside over an adult riding camp in Oklahoma this summer.

Though she’s been busy tending to her clients’ horses and eight acres of farmland, she can’t wait to see Concerto again. Horse and rider have a special bond as they have been working together for the past ten years. The duo will reunite this month in Germany as the zest for international acclaim increases and the idea of wearing breeches and boots to work every day grows.

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he Memphis chapter of the Public Relations Society of America (PRSA) honored Kevin K ane at the group’s Communicator of the Year Awards. Kane, president and CEO of the Memphis Convention and Visitors Bureau, became the chapter’s 33rd recipient. Several of Kane’s fans, including Patrick Neely, John Morris, and Steve Ehrhart, touted his great oratory skills and humble work ethic.

Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse hosted an evening of fine wines and fabulous hors d’oeuvres to show its appreciation for Collier ville Animal Shelter’s staff and volunteers. Wayne Jarret, operating partner of Fleming’s, emceed the event, which was well attended by the shelter’s staff and donors who have been supportive through the years. The Collierville Animal Shelter rescued and helped more than 1,600 animals in 2007.

Cold weather outside, hot soup inside! The 19th annual Youth Villages Soup Sunday warmed up appetites and giving hearts with all-you-can-eat soup, specialty items, bread, and dessert prepared by popular Memphis-area chefs. The Memphis Doctors Dance Band kept the Sunday afternoon affair “McSteamy,” and an Oreo-stacking contest for kids ages 3-12 provided some comedic relief. Soup Sunday sponsors included Gold Strike Casino, Jaco Br yant Printers, Stanford Private Wealth Management, SNAP! 94.1, and WRVR 104.5 The River.

The Le Bonheur Club brought a new spin to the oft-stodgy museum experience with its “A Night at the Museum” party. Museum chic attire was encouraged for an evening filled with dancing to the beat of Solid Gold, a scavenger hunt, “live exhibits” from cavemen to an Egyptian pharaoh, and Laurelwood Shopping Center models acting as living exhibits as well. The party raised funds for the $2,000,000 building project for the Le Bonheur Club Clubhouse and brought the Pink Palace Museum to life.

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eciding how to spend Valentine’s Day with a special someone was made easy with River Oaks Garden Club’s “A A Romantic Evening” dinner party. Held in the très chic home of Bob and Kathy Loeb, guests were entertained by classical tunes from pianist Chris Nemec and treated to a carefully selected three-course meal by Chef Scott Pierce of Chateau Country Caterers.

Long-stemmed pink tulips cascading over place settings sprinkled with rose petals created quite the atmospheric occasion.

The Hands of Hope Exchange Club Gala had more than 400 guests support the Exchange Club Family Center by attending the group’s annual fundraiser. Angie Kirkpatrick chaired this event at the Hilton Memphis, and Mayor A C and Ruby Wharton were the honorary chairs. With silent and live auction goodies up for bid and Joyce Cobb with the Cool Heat band on fire, plenty of activity abounded.

Bravo Memphis Theatre Night might have catered to the group’s female members, but that didn’t scare the men away from attending Pride and Prejudice at Theatre Memphis. Prior to the play’s premiere, theatre lovers nibbled on enticing pastries complements of Glorious Affairs and sipped on tea served the British way—with milk and honey. Bill Short, the scenic designer of Pride and Prejudice, also heightened attendees’ appreciation for the Jane Austen classic by defining British slang and giving the background for the play’s setting in the Victorian era.

The Mystic Krewe of Pegasus held its 5th annual Mardi Gras Ball at Central Station to benefit the Memphis Child Advocacy Center. A night themed “A A Journey to Enchantment” took guests bedecked with beads, masks, and feathers through two acts of popular musical interpretations. Kym Clark of WMC-TV 5 emceed the event, introducing King and Queen Pegasus IV, Larr y T yger and Shari Walker.

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oosebumps galore, participants in the 9th annual Polar Bear Plunge were “freezin’ for a reason” at Mud Island River Park. Plungers suited up for a dip in the Wolf River after raising pledges for the Special Olympics, which offers sports training and athletic competition in a variety of Olympic-type sports for those with intellectual disabilities. A costume contest, won by Brian Lurie for his Mama Mia’s pizza costume, and a chili cook-off also heated up the fun.

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Holt: Well, I moved to Memphis 29 years ago, and I worked in the entertainment industry for a company called Mid-South Concerts, and I was there for 14 years. The barbecue contest and symphony were being held at Tom Lee Park on the riverbank, so the program director at Memphis in May at the time wanted us to come and program one night of big entertainment in Tom Lee Park to augment the program they were doing in the historic district. So, we met, looked at the numbers and thought, Why don’t we shift the focus into Tom Lee Park since that’s where all of the other events are. I worked very actively while at Mid-South Concerts with Memphis in May from 1989-1993, or the end of 1994, so I had a pretty strong understanding and intimate knowledge of Memphis in May, as it related to the music portion, which is the biggest element of our operating budget.

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RSVP: What do you think the festival’s biggest accomplishment has been since you’ve been associated with it?

Holt: The organization historically really struggled, as most festivals do when there’s inclement weather, so when I arrived ten years ago, they had just come off of a $595,000 loss and were at the point where I think a lot of the sponsors and stakeholders were saying—after participating in an economic recovery in the past— How many times are we going to have to do this to bail Memphis in May out. So, the board members, city leaders, AutoZone, D. Canale Beverages, WREG-TV, both Mayor Herenton’s office, and then Mayor Rout’s office, said, We’ve got to fix this because it’s way too important to the community. We put together a recovery plan, and we went from being $595,000 in the hole to having $2.7 million worth of assets in ten years.

organization’s been around quite a while, and we’ve got a lot we can offer to the community. We have a spectacular collection of original artwork as you saw the posters when you came in. The George Hunt commemorative paintings that he does each year for the music festival, we’ve got about ten of those in the collection. We’ve got a lot of international artifacts and resources that we could make available, and that’s part of telling the story of the organization. We do a great many educational programs that don’t receive a lot of publicity that we feel have a tremendous impact on students, and that’s something that we could probably better serve if we had a more expansive space.

RSVP: So, have you checked out the weather forecast for this year?

Holt: Blue skies and sunshine [laughs]! We had great weather last year—it comes. But I think that’s something that’s a significant accomplishment, and I think throughout the scope of our programs, we’ve had tremendous successes. Just yesterday, we shipped off 15 high school students to Istanbul for an exchange program. There’s a picture there [points to photo on wall] of our 2004 exchange students with Nelson Mandela and F.W. de Klerk in South Africa.

RSVP: How long will this year’s exchange students be in Istanbul?

Holt: Twelve days…and we’ll be bringing in a number of high school students from Turkey a little later this month, the first part of April, so that gives them a chance to see our culture.

Successes…we’ve received a great deal of national attention through the International Festival and Events Association. I think we’ve been awarded 56 Pinnacle Awards in the last six years.

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RSVP: What brought you to work for Memphis in May?

RSVP: Do you ever get to visit the countries that are honored in Memphis in May?

RSVP: Do you think you’ll wait till your lease is up to find another location?

Holt: Yes, every year. In fact, I’m leaving for Turkey on Saturday. We do a site visit each year to the honored country that’s facilitated by their governments through the embassies in Washington. We go over there and meet with the various collaborating agencies and organizations that we work with when programming the festival. When we were in Turkey last October, we visited Ankara and Istanbul and met with performing arts groups; we met with the education ministry in order to set up our education exchange; performance troupes; museums, for exhibits we’ll be bringing in; and government officials. It’s a pretty extensive process.

Holt: No, we’re actively looking now. Everything’s a possibility. Our

RSVP: What’s the deciding factor when selecting a country to honor

RSVP: Is Memphis in May still looking to buy a building to house its day-to-day operations?

Holt: Yes. We’re very happy with where we’re located here [88 Union Ave.], but our lease is up in 2011. The board has made a determination that we want to have a permanent home.

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Holt: We have a global rotation that we adhere to. This year, Turkey was selected among prospective Asian countries. So, the first process is looking at a continent, and then selecting a country that we haven’t previously honored. Next, we’ll assemble a group of community volunteers, members of our board of directors, people throughout the community that are involved in areas of international business, culture, and education, and we look at a pool of countries and rank them on a number of criteria: historical significance, cultural depth and importance, and ethnic links to Memphis and the Mid-South. We usually work about two-three years in advance.

RSVP: Why do you think Turkey was chosen for this year?

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Holt: The ambassador in Washington was very enthusiastic. There’s a lot of economic potential…Turkey’s very much an emerging economic machine.

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RSVP: Is it true that the World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest still holds the record in the Guinness Book of World Records for largest pork barbecue cooking contest in the world?

Holt: [Laughs] It is the largest pork barbecue contest in the planet!

There are a lot of pigs that are sacrificed.

RSVP: What’s the most interesting way you’ve seen barbecue served at the festival?

Holt: Obviously, I don’t see all of it—we have some 250 teams—I hear stories, but some of the “Anything But” items that are barbecued— from snakes and armadillo—that can be a little…well, people barbecue anything.

RSVP: How many categories can people enter in the barbecue contest?

Holt: Each team has to select one of three competitive categories to cook in.

We have “Rib,” which is our most popular category, and then we have “Shoulder,” and then we have “Whole Hog.” From what I’ve been told from long-time barbecue technicians, the most difficult one to master would be the “Whole Hog.” RSVP: How do you think this year’s festival will stand out in comparison to those in the past?

Holt: In terms of new changes, each year we try to take upon what we have and make it more compelling and make the experience more positive for our guests. We’ve got some spectacular talent this year. At the music festival, we’ve got the biggest line-up [Sheryl Crow, Fergie, and Santana, to name a few] ever, and the biggest investment in terms of that talent. We’ve got some exciting things scheduled for the barbecue contest—“Cooker

Holt: Oh yes, definitely. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a very unique event. I think we touch so many different segments of the community. I mean if you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t like music, then thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a barbecue, and I know people who come to the Sunset Symphony, and thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the only event they come to. I was talking to a gentleman last year, and he and his family come down every year from southern Illinois for Memorial Day weekend to attend Sunset Symphony. You know, I think weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got a great city here, in terms of visitors, with various recreational tourist activities and places to visit. Our festival is a perfect starting point for a trip to Memphis, and thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s what a lot of people doâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s why we have such great diversity as far as the kind of people that come to the event. I think the last couple of years weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve had for the music festival people coming from all 50 statesâ&#x20AC;ŚI think we had 11 foreign countries last year. Probably 38 states and six or seven foreign countries were represented in the barbecue contest. We really draw a national

Holt: Reaching back years and years ago, it was actually 1990, Stevie Ray Vaughn headlined the Beale Street Music Festival for the first time that it had been moved to Tom Lee Park, and I believeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;drifting way back in memoryâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;the Beale Street Music Festival had maybe attracted 4,000-5,000 people in two days, and it had poured rain the opening night when Ray Charles was headlining, and only 2,000 people showed up. I woke up the next day, and it was pouring rain, and I thought, Ok, what have we gotten into here, and the clouds parted about 1 oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;clock, and the sun came out, and there were 17,000 people in Tom Lee Park, which then was maybe 20 percent the size it is now, so there was just a sea of people.

RSVP: If you had three adjectives to describe the festival, what would they be?

Holt: I think you would have to start with â&#x20AC;&#x153;funâ&#x20AC;? because thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s something we try to do with every program we put together. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Celebratoryâ&#x20AC;? because underneath it all, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s about celebrating our city, our heritage, our people. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Larger-than-life.â&#x20AC;? You know, virtually every community is filled with people who are all about what lifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s about: celebrations.

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efore Dwight Fryer penned his first novel, he knew more would follow, but finding time to exercise his creativity proved challenging. With the release of his second novel last month, he reflects upon the wakeup call that sent him typing.

“When my daughter, Adrienne, passed away from meningitis in 2001, I only had 50 percent of my first book written,” Fryer said. “I needed something to get my hopes up, so on nights when I couldn’t sleep, I told my story.”

He had developed the idea for his first novel during his days at Christian Brothers University, where he was assigned to write a paper inspired by a Wall Street Journal article.

The article he selected was about a drug dealer in Washington, D.C., so he set out to work on an essay titled “Incentives Matter,” which told the story of an entrepreneur—morals aside. The essay earned him a top mark and encouragement from his professor, who told Fryer, “You should be published.”

A few setbacks, including getting laid off from an oil company job and undergoing chemotherapy for colon cancer, came along the way, but Fryer never lost sight of his colorful characters. One character in particular, Son Erby—a whiskey maker during the Prohibition era, spoke to the aspiring author at all hours, prompting him to consult a modern-day whiskey maker. The result was The Legend of Quito Road, a novel that placed Fryer as one of the top five finalists in the Outstanding Work from a Debut Author category at the 2007 NAACP Image Awards.

His prequel, The Knees of Gullah Island, explores the life of Son Erby’s grandfather, Gillam Hale, as Hale attempts to find his family members, whom slave owners have dispersed throughout the South. For this novel, Fryer researched the Charleston area, where he learned about the Gullah people, a culture that developed on islands off South Carolina, Georgia, and Florida during the height of the slave trade. Such research inspires vivid settings in Fryer’s novels, which he labels as historical fiction.

The brand is beginning to build, and Fryer says readers know what to expect from his work. “Any of my novels are going to have rich stories with twists and turns; they will start with scripture; there’s going to be a sense of community; there will be decadence with a moral twist; there will be sex, but not graphic sex; and there will be a family tree included,” he explained.

The only setback now is topping his first two novels, but that shouldn’t be a hard feat for a man who has overcome greater obstacles and written about even bigger ones for his characters to conquer.

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EP’s Delta Kitchen welcomed members of the association’s Go Red For Women movement to a party that embraced the color of love: red, to help battle the nation’s leading

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Guests were encouraged to wear red, but if they didn’t, they could see any EP’s bartender, who were all in red tees, for a signature red cocktail, or purchase a Go Red For Women pin. From cosmopolitans to pomegranate martinis (brilliant!), there wasn’t a shortage of appropriately hued sips or fare, which included red snapper and

momentum throughout the restaurant.

With a VIP area, silent auction, and entertainment by Garr y Goin & G3, the fun factor reigned big. Jennifer Jaudon, co-chair with Brittany Oliver and Charlotte Noel, brought the event’s purpose back into the mix when she said, “Look around this room. This is what we’re doing the benefit for.”

Carson and Kennedy of Q107.5 helped kick off a live auction. The grand item was a night on the town with Danity K ane of MTV’s “Making the Band 4” fame.

that she stopped by with her friend, Melissa Cartwright. Other supporters in attendance included Michelle Walter, Jared Clark, Lizzie Wallace, Kim W ilkinson, Caroline Ferrari, Douglas Wood, Anna McBride, Molly Fitzpatrick, Kristy Street, K aren Conant, Christina Ramsey, and host David Nessler.

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Henry Logan Starks Scholarship Dinner Benefiting Memphis Theological Seminary The Henr y Logan Starks Scholarship Dinner drew a full house to the Grand Ballroom at the U of M Holiday Inn in late February. This yearly event raises scholarship funds for Memphis Theological

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Attendees, calm and collected up to this point, turned into eager paparazzi as many clamored to get shots of the quintet belting out “Damage” and “Show Stopper.” The winning bid garnered around $700 for the American Heart Association.

Candice Weeks, who said she just heard about the event that day, was so glad

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Among those present to celebrate the honorees’ spirit and impact were Dr. Daniel J. Earheart-Brown, Mayor A C Wharton, Beverly Robertson, Aurelia Kyles, Nadolyn Dunigan and Nykesha Cole Ella Davis, Herman Morris, Andrew and Cheri W ithers, Deanie Parker, John Calipari, Levi and Deborah Frazier, Ashley Keith Davis, Gar y Shorb, Rev. Anthony D. Henderson, Eli Morris, Cecilia Barnes, Dr. Elvernice Davis, Florence Roach, Paul Blankenship, Andy MacBeth, Aaron and Marie Webb, Nadolyn Dunigan, John Barker, Cindy and Walid Sakaan, Jon W. Sparks, Nykesha Cole, Barbara and Earl Anderson, Ellen Cooper Klyce, Cindy and Walid Sakaan Chenata Gill, and Fred and Jill Piper.

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Alzheimer’s Day Ser vices of Memphis (ADS) challenged about 200 excited gamesters to test their knowledge of the popular culture in Trivia Night ’08, “R Remembering When: Celebrating 25.” Teams from various Mid-South agencies and companies that work with the aging gathered in a ballroom at the Germantown Athletic Club to take part.

And the team spirit positively roared! Each team decorated its own table in themes ranging from ADS’ 25th anniversary to the King of Rock ‘n’ Roll. Dress was casual, except those who dressed in costumes and funny hats. Trivia fans like Janie Day, Leigh Barker, Terrie Kirksey, Vincent Clark, Lisa Piefer, Melanie Henderson, Kimberly Holst, Tony Sovian (as Elvis), Carol Edwards, Bill and Anne Rusell, Beth Tony Sovian, Carol Edwards Marezynski and Beth Marezynski enjoyed the glow of a warm, March evening.

Fare consisted mostly of party foods like pizza and beer, however an amazing array of cakes, including an absolutely sinful dark chocolate and raspberry layer cake, decked the dessert bar.

ADS development director J.J. Doughtie, event and volunteer coordinator Elizabeth Brandon, and executive director Ruthann Shelton were on hand to welcome guests and thank esteemed sponsors like WKNO, PBS, Trezevant Manor, Emergency Mobile Health Care, Four Sasons/Memor y, Inc., Carriage Court, Malco Theatres, and Wealth Strategies Group. Local legend Jim Eikner, marketing director for WKNO, emceed the evening, and longtime Trivia Night Quizmaster, Brother Ignatius Brown of Christian

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Each of the ten rounds contained ten questions covering such categories as 1983, television, 1988, animals, 1993, ad slogans, 1998, music, 2003, and sports. Door prizes were awarded throughout the night. Jim and Marty McKee, Bill Odom, June Taylor, Wes Scott, Bill and Anne Russell, Josh W inters, Charles and Ellen Auerbach, K athy Gutter y, and Susan Edwards furrowed their brows and laughed

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If there was an award for Best Spirit in a nonprofit fundraiser, ADS would have won hands down, but the best part is that proceeds will support the organization’s two facilities for those who struggle with the challenge of remembering, Grashot Center and Dorothy’s Place.

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With people like U of M president Dr. Shirley Raines and her husband, Dr. Bob Canady, and Senator Bob and Elizabeth Corker in attendance, there was no shortage of game predictions.

Other attendees who made an appearance were Bill Morris, Ben and Martha Br yant, Pat Faudree, Elaine Springer, Brian Smith, Ar w yn Bullock, John and Anne Stokes Jr., Al and Carol LaRocca, Debra, Rob, Lauren, and Bob Byrd, Jack Soden, Kerr and Melanie Tigrett, Pat Kerr Tigrett,

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With a theme revolving around everything AC/DC, a pioneer of hard rock and heavy metal, Memphis Advertising Federation (AdFed) members knew this year’s ADDY Awards Gala was going to rock. The event showcased the city’s finest and most innovative advertising contributions at the Fogelman Executive Center at U of M. Many attendees got in on the fun by going incognito underneath rock star costumes.

Sunglasses, big hair, faded denim,

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Brian Smith, Arwyn Bullock, Dr. Shirley Raines and Dr. Bob Canady

Judy and Leland Gupton, Michael and Debbie Fields Rose, and Elkan, Laurie, Mimi, and Amanda Scheidt.

Though the Tigers ultimately lost to the University of Tennessee, the sheer athleticism and amazing turnovers witnessed between the two teams were enough to bring fans to their feet time and time again. Too bad the U of M after-party ended in the parking lot!

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heavy makeup, and leather gloves prevailed. For those a little less daring, CBGB tees and leg warmers fit the bill. Richard W illiams, who took his rock star persona over the top, seemed stunned when questioned about whom he

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of course.” Williams’ wife, Wynne, chuckled at her husband’s getup.

After mingling and appetizers, the awards ceremony began with Ric Chetter and John “B Bad Dog” McCormack of Rock 103 announcing the winners.

Chairperson Susan Ewing Richard and Wynne Williams and Cherie Perez handed delighted ADDY recipients their awards. Carpenter Sullivan Sossaman (cs2) earned the most awards for two years in a row by collecting 17 gold and 20 silver Addys as well as one best of show. The firm’s team cheered for each award by holding up lighters, which made a big impact in the dimly lit auditorium.

Clever tags interspersed throughout the program kept the event humorous. Before each award, AdFed members dressed in rock gear would pop up on screen and announce the respective category.

The audience fell into a fit James Ward and Justin Dobbs of giggles when one member propositioned the crowd from on screen, “Hey, you in the back, go get me a beer…I’ll pay you!”

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the evening were Colleen Smith, Ashley Burton, Faust and Erin Reynolds, Tritia McLaughlin, Cynthia Saatkamp, David Parks, Kelley Morice, Brad Jones, Robyn Craxton, Phillip and Julia Wilson Parker, James Ward, Justin Dobbs, Beth Graber, Camille Gamble, Michael Guthrie, Dan O’Brien, Krista Wilford, Geri Holmes, Penelope Houston Baer, Jeffrey Goldberg, Virginia Davis, Samer Khuri, Amanda Dent, Greg and Amy Beth Hastings, Russ W illiams, James Atkinson, Craig and Cindy Thompson, John Hilgart, and Erica Smith.

Complementing someone else’s hat seemed to be the trend of the day. With various styles, ranging from a hat with giant, hot pink satin ribbons worn by Barbara Perkins to a chic, black one seen on Mar y Nelson,

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Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliary Fashionable Founders Day Easter Hat Luncheon Members of the Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliar y dusted off their hats or created new ones for their annual tribute to spring. The Fashionable Founders Day Easter Hat Luncheon took place this year at Stauffer Hall in Lindenwood Christian Church.

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Perhaps the most thoughtful hat was modeled by Elise Frick, who fashioned a hat with red Salvation Army bells…what a way to make an entrance!

After the auxiliary president, Dianne Champlin, read a Dr. Seuss-inspired poem called Hat Testers Test, ladies had a chance to show off their creations as they joined in a parade of “red-hot hats.” Charlotte Noel and Mar y Lawrence Flinn provided the music for the parade. Then, names were drawn for a chance to win a copy of the book, Red-Hot and Righteous, which Champlin said was the organization’s theme for ’08. Joy Weiner, Joan Moore, and Gloria Nobles were all winners. Chessie’s also sponsored a fashion show that had several audience members strutting down the aisles in the season’s most unique looks.

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The program ended with guest speaker Lt. Colonel Danny

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he Junior League of Memphis introduced the area’s newest shopping experience and helped a charity at the vineyard vines® Opening. Located by Oak Hall in the Regalia Shopping Center, the store offers a unique style of casual wear, including the shop’s signature whale logo tees. Founders and brothers Shep and Ian Murray were on hand to celebrate their Memphis opening, which featured music from The Plaintiffs and classic New England fare mixed with Southern specialties

by A Moveable Feast, Inc. Kids got in on the fun by getting their faces painted, playing a game of cornhole, and wearing whale hats. Ten percent of store proceeds from the first week, which totaled $10,000, was donated to St. Jude Children’s Hospital.

Infiniti of Memphis held a day of free seminars that shed new light on the battle against ovarian cancer. The Ovarian Cancer Awareness Foundation (OCAF), a nationally chartered nonprofit founded last year in Memphis, offered the seminars to inform women of the disease’s warning signs. When not listening in on one of the five seminars held throughout the day, attendees could ask ovarian cancer survivors and caregivers one-on-one questions. According to the foundation, more than 20,000 women will be diagnosed with ovarian cancer this year, but for 75 percent of them, the diagnosis will be too late. In addition to hosting this event, Infiniti of Memphis made a donation to OCAF for every person who test drove an EX35 Crossover SUV that day.

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oming across a rare find is actually quite common at the Madonna Circle Preview Gala, featuring the Memphis Antiques, Garden & Gourmet Show. Not only do vendors from across the country bring their best fare, but the shopping extravaganza attracts notable speakers and antique appraisers like J. Michael Flanigan of “Antiques Roadshow” to Agricenter International.

The group’s 33rd show opened with a horde of shoppers hungry for beautiful home décor and delectable gourmet specialties.

With 70 booths to peruse, options were endless. Antiquarian books, garden benches, a British pub sign, and a zebra skin screen were just a few notable offerings. Perhaps the most unique item was a faux chair that required a touch test. As one woman tapped the chair, she exclaimed, “It’s concrete, so does this mean it’s childproof?”

For the outdoorsy type, this year’s garden gave attendees some monumental ideas. Designed by William Scott Carr of Carr & Associates, the garden was themed “An Evening in Ibiza,” and was inspired by the Balearic Islands: Mallorca, Menorca, Ibiza, and Formentera. A tranquil fountain fit in perfectly with lush flora that had many wanting to recreate a Mediterranean paradise of their very own.

Foodies got their fix with samples from local eateries, such as Café Toscana, Ruth’s Chris, The Cupboard Restaurant, Outback Steakhouse, and Swanky’s Taco Shop. Next on the agenda was a martini bar, which quenched attendees’ thirst and got them ready for the sounds of The Sneakers. These samplings were just the beginning of a weekend filled with gourmet events, including tea rooms, a “Cooking with Herbs” class by Viking Cooking School, a wine tasting complements of W.J. Deutsch & Sons, Ltd., and a champagne brunch.

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he journey to Staxtacular ‘08 seemed like a pilgrimage for museum devotees and old friends, who trekked through nearly six inches of snow to reunite at the city’s hottest spot: the Stax Museum of American Soul Music. The museum’s red neon sign glowed brightly on this unusually chilly March evening and led to the signature Memphis sound within.

Grizzlies’ players Rudy Gay, Mike Conley, and Brian Cardinal, with his wife Danielle, hosted this homage to musical history and preservation presented by SunTrust. The museum’s largest fund-raiser benefits the Stax Music Academy’s mentoring and special performance opportunities along with its music programs, which the players witnessed firsthand. All three Grizzlies partook in one of the academy’s after-school programs and braved potential embarrassment when they played with foreign objects, otherwise known as instruments…fans can be forgiving.

Partygoers got their own soulful flavor from the moment they brushed off their snow-covered shoes at the door. Laurelwood Shopping Center had “live” models standing on pedestals while flaunting the season’s prints, which definitely brought back the vintage Stax vibe. As guests scanned the museum’s exhibits, cuisine options were offered at every turn. A Moveable Feast, Inc. prepared the delicious creations, which ranged from a wild risotto bar to a chocolate fountain to marinated crab claws chilled in an ice sculpture engraved with the Stax Museum logo. High Point Coffee kept the party-hearty energized with a coffee station, and Boscos even served “Shaft on Draft,” a brew influenced by classic beer recipes from the Stax era.

As attendees followed their ears to the captivating beat, they were rewarded with an authentic view of the band through the window in the control room exhibit. Stax legend J. Blackfoot and the Street Gang featuring Queen Amy Hines helped capture, in the words of a museum plaque, “what other studios couldn’t imitate: spirit.”

The frontman, decked to the nines in a baby blue suit with a white lapel, belted urban grooves like “Just Got Paid” and slow jams like “After the Tone.” Fingers were a snapping and toes were a tapping even from two rooms away!

“Soulsville USA” was as vibrant as ever and brought in more than $110,000, the most money Staxtacular has ever raised, according to the Stax Museum’s director of communications, Tim Sampson.

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Left: The spiral staircase leading to the fourth-floor belvedere provides an interesting perspective of the home's astonishing height.

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“We had admired this house from a distance,” says Cindy, “but I really never dreamed I’d live here.”

Rhett loves a water view, so when this property—with its large lake hosting white ducks and the occasional flock of traveling geese—became available, they went for a look. And the rest is history.

As for history, the design of this home is steeped in it. The exterior—with stately Doric columns soaring above a wide, brickfloored veranda extending along three sides of the home—is an exact replica of the Houmas House, which upon its completion in 1840 stood as a prime example of Greek Revival architecture in the Old South and is still famed today as both “The Sugar Palace” and the crown jewel of Louisiana’s River Road.

“It’s a big house,” says Cindy, “but we have a big family.”

Indeed, with five children, the Haileys make daily use of nearly every room in this approximately 20-year-old, now 12,000-squarefoot residence. After purchasing the originally four-bedroom home, they added two bedrooms, one bath, and an office. In addition to other changes, they also removed the wall separating the kitchen from the den (making both spaces more open and conversational), and they transformed what had been an unattached pool house

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Below: Enormous Doric columns soar above a gracious, brick-floored veranda that wraps around three sides of the home.

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ald green marble-fronted fireplace is accented by a large area rug in the same restful deep green. Transom windows over the doors and gleaming hardwood floors add to the airy plantation feel.

The master bath likewise uses green marble for the floor, counters, and Jacuzzi tub surround. A mural of a panoramic ocean view, based on a photo from a Mediterranean vacation the Haileys took to celebrate their anniversary, makes Cindy feel right at home.

For his part, Rhett is particularly fond of the four-nozzle, walk-in shower and sauna—from which he can view a television placed on a facing shelf!

A highlight of the Hailey home is the traditionally Southern formal living room. Like most formal living rooms in the modern home, this one is rarely used, but it’s a treat to sit here for an intimate chat. Sunlight flows like honey through large windows and transom French doors onto lightly faux-finished walls of warm eggshell just touched with pinkish terra cotta, slim-legged antique side furniture in the Louis XV style, and a pair of shell pink rose brocade loveseats—one of which the family dog Rusty (a miniature schnauzer-yorkie mix) summits in two leaps in order to survey the view of the lawn beyond. Above the mantle hangs a charming oil portrait of the lady of the house, clad in a loose-fitting white cotton dress and posed with her feet curled under her on the very same loveseat. The painting is not only a remarkable likeness but also transmits her easy-going personality and lit-from-within warmth. As a transplanted Californian, Cindy was not at all sure about this portrait idea when it was pitched to her but decided, in her words,

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Above: A highlight of the Hailey home is the formal living room, where a charming portrait of the lady of the house hangs above the mantle.

into a tiled sunroom by way of a windowed breezeway.

Designer Warner Moore guided the Haileys toward French Country interiors, and in the bright kitchen, muralist Elaine Pacello contributed a backsplash of hand-painted tiles depicting a rustic scene. One of the second-floor baths, however, owes its look to the handiwork of one of the Hailey’s sons: it’s collaged floor to ceiling with clippings and photos.

“This is where we’re a well lived-in home,” admits Cindy with a smile. “I don’t want this house to be a museum—I want it to be warm and real. Casual elegance, that’s what we’re going for.”

And that’s what the Haileys have achieved. In the marbletiled foyer, a grand piano is tucked beside a graceful staircase accented with Oriental runners that lead up, past the many family photos hanging on the walls, to the second and third floors. Once on the third floor, which hosts a game and fitness room, one climbs a spiral staircase to the belvedere or widow’s walk to take in a 360degree view of 11 acres. Mounting the spiral stairs is a dizzying experience, as a glance over the rail reveals the foyer many feet below.

“Did you ever see a house this tall?” asks Rhett.

The large master bedroom, with its palette of rose and ivy, has a deeply soothing effect—a kind of summery gravitas that invites relaxation. Wide crown molding, rose brocade wallpaper, a massive and stately oak mantle carved with clovers, and a single-point canopy over the king-sized bed lend an almost regal air. The emer-

Above: The stately master bedroom, with its restful palette of rose and emerald green, has a deeply soothing effect.

“What the hey! I’ll go with the flow!” So she borrowed a dress and sat for what is sure to become a treasured family heirloom.

“We consider this house a blessing,” Cindy says, and the Haileys often share their home by hosting fund-raisers and school functions. All around, this residence brings the flavor of the Old South to the heart of the Mid-South with a delightful dash of Californian livability.

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ecently, footage made its way onto the Interweb of a mother, in I’m guessing Florida since that’s where this kind of thing always originates, using the sprayer at a carwash to hose down her 2-year-old daughter. This was met with outrage, and words like “horrible,” “monstrous,” and “appalling” were thrown around. I have another word to add: innovative.

As someone who has been married for a very long time and hasn’t felt compelled to spawn, I feel perfectly qualified to criticize the parenting techniques of others. People in my age range, mid-forties, have usually already passed through the toddler rearing stage, and made their way to the “how in the hell are we going to pay for this miscreant to go to college?” state. But there was a time when my wife and I watched them stumble through the early years of parenthood, and we both remember very well their various missteps, most of which involved being bullied by their tiny tots.

Our generation was raised by real adults who had been through wars and deprivation, and treated their kids—us— accordingly. We weren’t the coddled babies that our fellow ‘60s children have subsequently raised. We were battle hardened by parents who allowed us to ride bikes without wearing helmets, get pummeled by bullies, and fall out of trees. We learned that life was filled with pitfalls and unfair opponents. We learned that life was life.

Then, those who bred, for some reason, decided to go the other way.

Possibly harboring resentment toward the way their parents went about things, they raised their children as if the moppets were made of Steuben crystal. Goodbye bike ramps and rock fights, hello rubberfloored playgrounds and sermons about treating others all “golden ruley.” Phooey.

These monsters have grown up thinking that there isn’t a danger out there that can’t be avoided by wearing some kind of protective gear. They have that much remarked upon sense of entitlement that makes the childless want to throw them out of a moving vehicle. Not to hurt them mind you, but to teach them. Also, as a side benefit, to get them away from us.

This brings us back to the mother of the year at the carwash. When asked

about the hosing, she explained she had never used the power wash setting and was only dousing her little princess to keep the kid from throwing a tantrum. That’s sound reasoning in my book.

Here’s a quick story by way of explanation. When I was about 5, my mother dragged me to the grocery store.

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Leaving little kids in the car while you get a lap dance should land you in the joint—even a really, really good lap dance. dream destination for a 5-year-old.

Apparently there had come a boiling point, and I let my displeasure be known by hurling myself to the floor and screaming like I was being set on fire. My mother, having already raised five kids before me, calmly went to the water fountain, filled a cup, and dumped it on my head. My mom loves telling this story because the other moms at the store gave her a hearty ovation and pats on the back. Needless to say, that was the end of that tantrum and probably many more that would have occurred in the future had I gotten my way and been taken out of the store and given a pony.

This was preventative discipline in its finest form. If footage of the exact same event surfaced on a Web site today, it would have everyone from CNN to Maury wringing their hands and making broad condemnations. She would have some silly nickname like “Grocery Water Mom,” and it would be climbing the YouTube rankings. For heaven’s sake, it was water, as was the spray from that carwash hose. It was water. The woman wasn’t blasting her kid with a pressure washer!

Every day there are stories about parents who leave their toddlers in the car while they go into bars, casinos, and strip clubs. A day doesn’t go by that a parent isn’t caught duct-taping their kid to something. Those things are really bad and shouldn’t be accepted by anyone, except the duct-taping thing; I’m still on the fence where that one’s concerned. Leaving little kids in the car while you get a lap dance should land you in the joint—even a really, really good lap dance. Leaving the kids in the car while you perform lap dances is even worse. And do you know why? Not because sitting in a car is such an awful experience for kids. There’s a radio. The windows were probably cracked.

No, the problem is it’s bad parenting and leads to kids who grow up to be teenagers who do drunken handstands on hotel balconies during Spring Break. It leads to kids becoming adults who, you know, leave their kids in the car while they play video poker at an Indian casino or grow up to vote for Ralph Nader. Bad parenting leads to bad people.

Sure, this will probably be met with the same kind of dismay that erupted when the lady sprayed her kid at the carwash, but she wasn’t neglecting the child.

She was parenting. This is someone who is, or in all likelihood now was, aware enough of her daughter’s behavior to see a tantrum coming and act prophylactically.

Let’s ignore what probably would have been the better prophylactic measure. She was heading off trouble at the sudsy path, and for that she shouldn’t be so pilloried.

One more thing, if this had been a boy we very well may never have heard this story. The fact that it was a little girl is what has this lady in water much hotter than she used on her daughter. If we’re supposed to teach today’s kids to turn a blind eye to gender, then let’s start with this woman. This crazy, crazy woman.

This month’s humor from Dennis Phillippi comes at the expense of exposing so-called “bad parenting” by mothers, and basically parents everywhere, in his ongoing tribute to buffoonery. We here at RSVP actually wonder if Phillippi is a culprit of bad parenting as we’ve heard rumors of the columnist hosing off his dog at the local carwash to ward off a barking frenzy.

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