Ruby for Women, April, 2012 by RUBY magazine

Ruby for Women A voice for every Christian woman April, April, 2012

Special Easter Issue!

“Her worth is far above rubies” Proverbs: 31:10

Contents April, 2012 www.rubyforwomen.ning.com

In This Issue . . . Page 4

The Truth Shall Set You Free Nina Newton, Sr. Editor

In Tune with the Voice of Jesus Amanda Johnson

Easter is a time of great celebration for Christians in every country of the world. As we focus this month on the resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, won’t you join us here in the Ruby for Women community as we uphold one another in prayer? We look forward to connecting with you as we worship the Risen Lord! www.rubyforwomen.ning.com

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It’s All in the Cross Lynn Mosher

April Book Give-Away: War of Words by Paul David Tripp

Hot Cross Buns Vintage Mama

The Woman Who Stayed Elizabeth Baker

Gethsemane Keith Wallis

Elusive Peace Gloria Doty

VIC Easter Painting Craft Vintage Image Craft

Check the Temperature Number Puzzle Beth Brubaker

“Curious Garden” by Peter Brown Book Review by Kendra Peterson

Creating Practical Pearls Shannon Mediskey

Capture the Beauty Connie Arnold

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Senior Editor Nina Newton Assistant Editor Amanda Johnson Creative Assistant Katherine Corrigan Family Fun Editor Beth Brubaker Gardening Dorothy Homer Devotions Lynn Mosher, Deborah McCarragher Poetry Keith Wallis, Lee E. Shilo Quilting Laura Brandt

Ruby for Women is an online Christian women’s magazine that offers words of hope, inspiration, and encouragement to women everywhere. Knowing that every woman has a story to tell, we seek to give a “voice to every Christian woman,” from all walks of life, of every age, from all around the world.

Feature Writers Carol Mokry, Connie Arnold, Kristin Bridgman, Amy Lignor, Sheila Watson Kraklow, Scott Henderson, Theresa Ceniccola, Ann Babcock, Gloria Doty, Yvonne Anderson, Crystal Rose Patterson, Elizabeth Baker, Maxine Young, Pauline Creeden, Yvonne Carson, Kendra Peterson, Tina Smith, Christena Hammes, Roze Collins, Ginger Kauffman, Lisa Simpkins, Marcia Settles, Shannon Mediskey

If you would like to share your story with Ruby for Women, please email our Assistant Editor, Amanda Johnson, at ajohnson@rubyforwomen.com Also, please visit our community website at www.rubyforwomen.ning.com where you can connect with other Christian women. Ruby for Women 2731 W 700 N Columbia City, IN 46725 editor@rubyforwomen.com 1

For advertising inquiries, please contact Nina Newton at editor@rubyforwomen.com

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Bessie Mae Carin LeRoy

Tissue Paper Cross Easter Egg Craft Christena Hammes

Ask Beth: How to Get Ready for Your Spring Yard Sale Beth Brubaker

April in the Prayer Garden by Thomas B. Clarke, Gardening Sponsor

Herein is Pain Keith Wallis

Springtime Fitness Tips Christena Hammes

A Short History of Hot Cross Buns Vintage Mama

God’s Calling! Word Puzzle Beth Brubaker

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A Mother’s Heart Jean Ann Williams

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Praying in Color by Sybil MacBeth Book Review by Ann Babcock

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Footprints in the Mud: The Downfalls of Home Searching Beth Brubaker

Christ’s Heartbeat Yearns for Her Crystal Rose Patterson

“Whirlwind” Quilt Block Tutorial Laura Brandt

Elegant and Beautiful Crystal Rose Patterson

My Heart in Silence Keith Wallis

Spring Brings All Kinds of Excitement! Christena Hammes

What (Exactly) to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do Shannon Mediskey

He Heard Hannah by Lynnette Kraft Book Review by Ramona of Create with Joy

Easter Sunday Keith Wallis

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Bird’s Nest Cookies Vintage Mama

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A Garden of Love Thomas B. Clarke, Gardening Sponsor

Easter’s Passion Lynn Mosher

Love from the Prayer Garden: New Journey with Christ by Thomas B. Clarke, Gardening Sponsor

Easter Carrot Cake Vintage Mama

Ribbon Easter Eggs Katherine’s Corner

What Body? Are You Sure You Saw Him? Deborah McCarragher

Take it With You through the Valley Nina Newton Your Temple Keith Wallis

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Fulfillment Keith Wallis

Choose to Accept Help Maxine Young

Make Your Own Yo-Yo Necklace Vintage Mama

Check the Temperature Number Puzzle Answer Key by Beth Brubaker

Pocket-Friendly Play Shannon Mediskey

God’s Calling! Word Puzzle Answer Key by Beth Brubaker

Meet the Ruby Writers

Credits and Copyrights

Here Chick, Chick Craft Tutorial Anjie Davison of The Pompom Emporium

The Fragrance of a Beautiful Soul Crystal Rose Patterson

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Keep America Beautiful Month

National Humor Month

International Guitar Month

Autism Awareness Month

National Frog Month

National Garden Month

April 1: Palm Sunday April 1: April Fool’s Day April 2: National Peanut Butter and Jelly Day April 2: International Children’s Book Day April 3: Find a Rainbow Day April 7: No Housework Day April 8: Easter Sunday April 10: Golfer’s Day April 12: Look up at the Sky Day April 14: National Pecan Day

April 18: International Juggler’s Day April 19: Garlic Day April 20: Look Alike Day April 21::Kindergarten Day April 22: National Jelly Bean Day April 24: National Pigs in a Blanket Day April 25:: National Zucchini Bread Day April 26: National Pretzel Day April 27: Tell a Story Day April 28: Great Poetry Reading Day April 30: National Honesty Day

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The Truth Shall Set You Free by Nina Newton, Sr. Editor

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Any concept of grace that makes us feel more comfortable sinning is not Biblical grace. Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s grace never encourages us to live in sin, on the contrary, it empowers us to say no to sin and yes to truth." ~ Randy Alcorn This seems such a difficult concept for many people . . . . there is the notion that being "free" to do any old thing that pops into our heads is the best way to live. But in reality, that is not "freedom" at all. Living our lives as if there are no boundaries, no rules, and no laws only sets us up for a life of misery in which we will eventually fall prey to the debilitating effects of sin. Consistently making choices that are contrary to the teachings of Scripture ultimately lead to a life of bondage . . . . to sin. We may think that it is great fun to be "free" to go places and do things that other people in our lives might not approve of. But that is quite irrelevant to reality. What other people think holds no power over us; but violating God's rules for living have clear and absolute consequences. Have you ever wondered about all those "other people," those who seem to "get away with murder"? What about that person who betrayed you, or lied about you, or spread gossip about you? Why do I not see the consequences in their life?

Well, that is because you either are not looking or their current "consequences" are not completely public . . . . yet. So do not think that just because someone else seems to have "gotten away with it," that your perception is reality. God's time is not our time, so be patient. And for sure do not allow that notion to turn your heart bitter and convince you that you, too, can be "free" to sin and there will be no consequences. No, true freedom comes from having the power of the Living God within you, guiding you and giving you the wisdom to live a life that is pleasing to Him. Not too long ago one of our daughters (apparently having heard something on the news that prompted this question!) asked me, "Mama, what should I do if I am in a dark alley and a stranger is following me?" Alrighty, then . . . . not the kind of thing that this Mama would prefer that her daughter be worrying about . . . . but then, we probably should discuss this kind of thing some time so how about now? "Well, Honey, what do you think you should do?" I asked, trying to understand where this type of question might be coming from since we live out in the country, by a lake, with friendly neighbors, and not a single, solitary "dark alley" anywhere around. "I should probably find an adult and ask for help?" she suggested, obviously not sure if this would work out so well. I mean, what if that particular adult is just as "bad" as the perceived "stranger in the dark alley"? 4

"That might work, if there was another adult around who might be safe," I countered, ready to hyperventilate at the very thought of my child in this situation. "But, how about this . . . . " I suggested, trying to make all of it seem a bit less menacing. "Perhaps if you just stay out of dark alleys . . . . . . " I said, leaving the conclusion up to her. So that was an open door for us to discuss life choices, whether those choices would include walking alone down a dark alley, or choosing to go down to the lake alone, or ride her bike on the road after dark, among other things. And eventually we did discuss the danger that is associated with other choices that could be made in life, such as drinking and drugs, appropriate dress and modesty, and lots of other things that our children will encounter as they grow up. I wish I could, I wish I might, protect my little girls every night . . . . for the rest of their lives. But I can't so it is my job to take these teachable moments and help them to understand that true freedom is the freedom to do what is RIGHT - freedom is not about taking unnecessary and unwise chances to do something that could eventually lead to bondage and slavery to sin.

Freedom is not about going places and doing things that could bring physical, emotional, or spiritual harm. That is not freedom! As we look at God's Word and the world around us, we do need to be careful not to be looking for excuses or openings or opportunities to sin. And we are silly indeed if we think that God's Word ever "gives permission" to sin. As the Apostle Paul exclaimed in his declaration of the incredible gift of God's grace: "What? Should we sin even more so that God's grace may abound?" Of course not, that is ridiculous! Sin does NOT equal freedom, it is that simple. Sin will always result in consequences, even though God's grace is sufficient for our complete and undeserved forgiveness. No, true freedom comes from the power that is found only in God's Word, where we discover that we have His Spirit to guide us and strengthen us along our way, that we are the ones who are truly free . . . . we have the choice to say "yes" to the truth and "no" to the bondage of sin. That is an important concept for our children to learn and hide in their hearts, so that when they are confronted with one of those choices from which we cannot forever protect them . . . . they will know that the truth, indeed, will set them free. Free to obey God, knowing that when they fall He is right there to pick them us, dust them off, forgive them and love them, and send them on their way. Because after all, He loves them so much more than we do!

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In Tune with the Voice of Jesus by Amanda Johnson, Assistant Editor

In Mark 5:21-43 we find the story of Jesus healing a woman of a plague and bringing a young girl back to life. Part of the “40 Days in the Word” study includes learning to look at scripture from the point of view of each character within the story. I thought of the agony, sorrow and helplessness Jairus, the ruler of the synagogue, must have felt when he was told his little girl was dead. I placed myself in the weary body of the woman who suffered with prolonged bleeding for twelve years. What hope she had in the belief that just touching Jesus’ clothes would restore her health. And then, I imagined what it would be like to be so sick that I might die. I realized these were not just stories, but real people facing real trials. I also understood for the first time a very important and common thread that ties each of these individuals together; they were in tune with the voice of Jesus.

When Jairus learned of his daughter’s death, he was told not to bother Jesus with his troubles. Jairus, however, did not listen to his servants, but instead heard the voice of Jesus declare “The child is not dead but asleep” (Mark 5:37). The woman with the plague was surrounded by voices reprimanding her for touching Jesus, yet she only heard the voice of the Lord telling her “Go in peace and be freed from your suffering” (Mark 5:32). And the little girl, dying in a room filled with wailing family members, entered into death only to hear Jesus tell her “’Talitha koum!’ (which means ‘Little girl, I say to you, get up!’)” (Mark 5:41). If these three had chosen to listen to the crowd they would have missed the calm, quiet, and reassuring voice of the Savior. Whose voice do we hear in the midst of trouble? What are we missing because we lack the discipline to “Be still and know” that He is God (Psalm 46:10)?

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It’s All in The Cross In the cross is set what I cannot forget It is the blood of redemption of the Christ Who came to save – To lift us above a life of sin, to keep us from an eternal grave. In the cross is... Joy Life Love Hope Faith Peace Power Family Refuge Victory Increase Patience Comfort Strength Holiness Humility Kindness Salvation Tranquility At the foot of the cross is where I’ll be. Will you meet me there on bended knee?

From His feet, Lynn

April Book Give-Away War of Words Getting to the Heart of Your Communication Struggles by Paul David Tripp Getting to the heart of your communication struggles. A biblical look at our words and our God. Few of us really think about the power, the blessing, the gift, the effect, and the dangers of our words." "Filled with searching, realistic & honest illustrations coupled with large doses of biblical truth. One thing we do daily is talk. Communication is the lifeblood of a good relationship and the deadly weapon of a bad one. If you've ever said anything you've regretted - this book and conference is for you. Few of us really think about the power, the blessing, the gift, the effect, and the dangers of our words. This book and conference is filled with searching, realistic & honest illustrations coupled with large doses of biblical truth. Learn about your words and your God. Obtain biblical insight and tools for change as you get to the heart of your communication struggles. What People are Saying: * An important and biblical book about our words and our God. Few of us really think about the power, the blessing, the gift, the effect, and the danger of our words. This book will make you think before you speak. Best of all, it will make you think of him before you speak. Read it. You'll be glad. - Steve Brown, Author, Professor at Reformed Theological Seminary, Orlando FL, President of Key Life Network, Inc. If you would like to enter the April Book Give-Away at Ruby for Women, please visit the Ruby blog and leave a comment, including your email address. You will be contacted for your mailing address if you are the winner. The drawing will take place on May 1, 2012.

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Make Traditional Hot Cross Buns for your family’s Easter celebration There are many legends and stories surrounding the history of Hot Cross Buns. One legend is from “The Oxford Companion to Food,” by Alan Davidson, and it tells of the Anglo Saxon people first making Hot Cross Buns to honor their goddess of spring, Eostre, from which the name “Easter” is derived. The Christian church adopted Hot Cross Buns during their early missionary efforts to pagan cultures. They re-interpreted the "cross" of icing which adorns the bun to signify the cross on which Jesus sacrificed His life. Some historians date the origin of Hot Cross Buns back to the 12th century, when an Anglican monk was said to have placed the sign of the cross on the buns to honor Good Friday, known at that time as the "Day of the Cross." In 1361, a monk named Father Thomas Rocliffe was recorded to have made small spiced cakes stamped with the sign of the cross, to be distributed to the poor visiting the monastery at St. Albans on Good Friday. According to the scholar Harrowven, the idea proved so popular that he made the buns every year, carefully keeping his bun recipe secret. What you need: * 2 tsp active dry yeast * ½ cup warm 2% milk (110 – 115 degrees F) * 1 Tbsp butter, softened * 1 egg * 4 tsp sugar * ¼ tsp salt * 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour * 2 Tbsp raisins * 2 Tbsp currants

* ¼ tsp ground cinnamon * ¼ tsp ground allspice * 1 egg yolk * 1 Tbsp water Icing: * ¼ cup confectioners’ sugar * 1/8 tsp vanilla extract * ¾ tsp 2% milk

Let’s make it! 1. In a small mixing bowl, dissolve yeast in milk. Stir in butter, egg, sugar, and salt. Combine ¾ cup flour, raisins, currants, cinnamon and allspice; add to the yeast mixture and mix well. Stir in enough remaining flour to form a soft dough. 2. Turn onto a floured surface; knead until smooth and elastic, about 4 – 6 minutes. Place in a greased bowl, turning once to grease top. Cover and let rise in a warm place until doubled in size, about 1 hour. 3. Punch dough down; shape into six 2” balls. Place 2” apart on a baking sheet coated with nonstick cooking spray. Using a sharp knife or kitchen scissors, cut a cross on top of each bun. Cover and let rise until doubled, about 30 minutes. 4. Beat egg yolk and water; brush over buns. Bake at 375 degrees F for 13 – 15 minutes or until golden brown. Cool on wire racks. 5. Combine icing ingredients and drizzle of the top of each bun in the shape of a cross.

The Woman Who Stayed by Elizabeth Baker There is only one person we know for certain who was present at the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus. Others came and went, but she stayed right by His side both in life and death. Her name was Mary Magdalene. Mary has been pronounced a villain, a saint, a figment of the imagination, and the wife of Jesus. Her history has been dissected, reassembled, and contorted beyond recognition. Yet, through all the distortion and hype, one thing remains true: once she found Him, she never walked away from her Lord. Mary. Her name means "sorrow" and we know almost nothing about her life before she met Jesus. She evidently lived in Magdala and that is why Magdalene is used to separate her from the many other women named Mary in the New Testament. This tiny hamlet was only three miles east of Capernaum, the headquarters of Jesus' earthly ministry. Also, we know she was financially well off and free from household responsibilities. Add to this, Magdala's reputation. It was infamous for its corruption and brothels - and it's easy to understand why many have concluded she was both a prostitute and a madam selling others into the sex trade. Whether or not Mary deserves the foul reputation history has given her is a matter of debate. Her riches could have been earned another way and her marital freedom might indicate she was a widow. But wherever her money came from, no amount could buy the one thing she needed most: freedom from the demons constantly tormenting her. Like the mystery of her financial success, the presence of demons does not necessarily indicate she was a great sinner. Children were sometimes plagued by demons. [1] There's no way we can even be sure of the nature of her torment. It could have been anything from seizures to hallucinations to insanity or the torment of nightmares and shame that refused to let her rest. All we know is she had much sorrow and there were multiple demons. Then Jesus came. With her close proximity to where Jesus often stayed, she likely heard of His reputation early and she probably sought Him out, just like so many others. Was she curious? Hopeful? Afraid of what He might say? We don't know. But, when she found Him and Jesus freed her from the demons, she followed from that moment on and soon became a part of the team known only as "the women who followed Him from Galilee." [2] As part of the team, she saw to practical needs and provided much of the financial assistance needed. 10

Everywhere Jesus went, He drew crowds of hundreds, even thousands. This was a mixed group of women and children as well as men. Can you imagine what it would have been like for hundreds of people all milling around out in the open and all of them trying to see Jesus at the same time? No restaurants, restrooms, houses or even main roads would have been available most of the time. And there were no recording systems, platforms or microphones to amplify and carry the voice of Jesus as He taught. Because the crowds were immense, only a few could push their way to the front to hear clearly and question the Lord. Many others, perhaps hundreds, stood on the fringes. Some have suggested part of the ministry of the disciples may have been to verbally pass back what they heard Jesus saying. It would be a sort of a delayed, do-it-yourself public address system. After many months, they would have known the stories and sermons by heart and could have taught His words to others who could not get close enough to hear. I wonder if Mary did a similar thing. In that society, it would have been more natural for women to talk to other women. Do you suppose she sat in a group of women and told them word for word the story of the Prodigal son? Have you ever wondered if she ever held a baby while the mother worked her way close enough to Jesus to be healed? Is it possible that she reached into her pocket and gave money to a poor family who had waited all day to see Jesus? Whatever her background and whatever her specific ministry, we know she was determined to stay by Jesus and she followed Him year after year. When most of the disciples fled the crucifixion scene, Mary and the women from Galilee stayed to the very end. When Joseph of Arimathaea took the body from the cross, wrapped it and put it in the garden tomb, Mary Magdalene sat watching so she would know where he lay. And, on resurrection morning, she was the first human to see the living Jesus. I think one of the sweetest and most tender stories in the Bible is when the newly resurrected Jesus called Mary by name. He called her and commissioned her to be the first one to spread the news that he was alive! I suppose one reason this story touches me so deeply is I know he calls me by name, too. [3] And, her good news that she raced to give the world, is my good news as well. [4] [1] Mark 9:17-27; Matthew 15:22 [2] Matthew 27:55; Luke 23:49; 23:55 [3] Matthew 10:30; Revelation 2:17 [4] Matthew 28:18-20

Mary Magdalene, in a dramatic 19th-century popular image of penitence painted by Ary Scheffer.

Mary Magdalene: Matthew 27:56, 61; 28:1; Mark 15:40,47; 16:1-19; Luke 8:2; 24:10; John 19:25; 20:1-18

Gethsemane Gone from table sufficed with meal, yet hungry for finer repast the bread of life draws us closer to You, to each other. In communion care, the stronger tie, the gentle grip of â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;love that will not let me goâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;; broken hearts held in broken hands. To be in your presence, as You plead before the Father, we too, in sleepy ignorance of tomorrow carelessly abandon today. ~ by Keith Wallis

Elusive Peace by Gloria Doty I bowed my head and received the blessing at the end of a Sunday morning service as the pastor said the very familiar words, “The Lord bless you and keep you. The Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift His countenance upon you and give you peace.” Peace…what a multi-faceted concept; one which I heartily embraced and on most days, sincerely longed for. I just didn’t seem to know exactly what it was or how I was supposed to get it. I remembered how I had hoped that when we moved from a cramped apartment into a home of our own, everything would be peaceful. That idea lasted about a week until several unexpected and non-budgeted expenses arose. Every time I thought peace or a semblance of it was within my grasp, it eluded me again. It was like being in a race, seeing the finish line and then having someone move it further away. The thought still haunted me that Sunday; as I hurried about making dinner and then shopping for a few items that I had forgotten on my weekly trip down the grocery store aisles. Before we could return home, my daughter reminded me that she needed a certain type of fabric paint for an art project on Monday involving a tie-dyed shirt. As I stood in the checkout line, I smiled as I remembered the pictures I had seen of people wearing tie-dyed everything and the many other things associated with that era, including the universal ‘V’ sign, which meant peace in every language. There it was again, that ‘peace’ thing. I couldn’t seem to escape the feeling of needing real peace. The only way to steal a few moments of peace at home seemed to be to lock myself in the bathroom; however, it was difficult to achieve the desired effect when there was a child outside the door, hopping up and down and shrieking that he had to go potty and the other bathroom was in use.

My first thought was to tell the howling banshee to go wail outside the other bathroom door, but my conscience wouldn’t let me since I knew that his sister was probably really using the bathroom, unlike his mother who was reading the Reader’s Digest while her legs fell asleep. Peace isn’t even available in the bathroom anymore, I sighed. After doing an extra load of laundry so a stinky soccer uniform would be clean (it somehow missed the laundry basket and ended up under the bed after the last meet) I found myself urging the kids to finish their homework before the next morning. At last, I thought, I can have a little time to myself and hopefully, some peace and quiet. The peace word again. It seemed to be haunting me at every turn, perhaps mocking me. As I prepared for bed, I asked God, ‘Where is the peace You promised me this morning at the end of the service? Did I miss it? Was I so busy that it sailed right past me and I didn’t grab it?’ What exactly did I expect from God about this peace thing? Did I want every day to be tranquil hours of bliss? I’m smart enough to know that won’t happen in this lifetime. Perhaps I needed to join a yoga class, or go to the library for a few books on feng shui and rearrange my furniture and plants to create a more peaceful tone in our home. Would that ensure some peace? I searched through the linen closet and found the extra bottles of body soap, toothpaste and lotion. I distinctly remembered purchasing a lavenderscented body wash because it promised to take away stress and leave me calm and peaceful. Did I want family peace so my son would stop bringing creatures into our house just for the pure unadulterated joy of making his sisters shriek or did I want a guarantee of no more arguments with my husband? Was peace something that God gives us for only a moment at a time so that we will appreciate it more? No, I didn’t think so. 13

I opened my Bible and looked for references about peace. I read John 14:27. Jesus tells His disciples: “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your heart be troubled and do not be afraid.” Obviously, God has a distinction between His peace and the world’s definition of peace. Okay, so evidently classes in yoga and feng shui and lavender baths might help with the day-to-day, worldly peace, but the kind of peace Jesus wants us to have is not of this world. It is His peace. Great, I’ve got that figured out, now how do I get that kind of peace? I prayed about it, asking Jesus to grant me peace, His peace. The alarm failed to wake me the next morning, which meant my feet hit the floor at the same time that I was yelling, “Get up, right now” at about three decibels higher than normal. As I scrambled to get the kids ready before the bus arrived, handing them a granola bar on the way out the door, I stepped on the cat’s tail as I hurried past. The loud shriek that ensued made me jump and I then realized, to my dismay that obviously, the puppy had not been taken out in time. As I sank into a chair, I mused that this wasn’t peace of any kind; neither the world’s kind nor God’s kind. Was I too busy? Yes! Was I stretching my capabilities beyond what was conceivably possible? Yes! Did I have to volunteer for everything and say ‘yes’ every time someone asked me to do something? No! I decided to make a list of the things I could change in my hectic life. There were some activities and commitments that could be scaled back and eliminated. Perhaps a little rearranging of furniture and plants would create a more restful atmosphere. That would achieve some of the day-to-day peace that I craved, but that still was not the peace that God wanted for me. The last line of the song, I’ve Got Peace Like A River is ‘I’ve got peace like a river in my soul.’ That was what I wanted, needed, longed for, peace in my soul.

That kind of peace is not a tangible thing; you can’t grab it, you can’t check it out at the library, you can’t take a bath in it. You have to truly ask God for it. That deep-down knowledge that God is with you, even when you have a horrendous day or week or year or terrible circumstances hit you or your loved ones, or your life seems totally out of control and about to fly into a million pieces. On the outside, you are frantic, but on the inside, you can be calm, because you know that God loves you and will help you through any and all trials. It sounds way too simple, but isn’t that true of everything God gives us? Salvation is simple: believe and accept Christ as your Savior. No hidden costs, no hidden agendas, no difficult requirements, just acceptance of God’s gift of His Son and then you can accept His peace, also. I taped this verse on my mirror. I read it every morning and every night. “I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble, but take heart! I have overcome the world.” John16:33. It reminds me that Jesus knows our world’s become chaotic and out of control and bad things happen, but He has overcome the world. Can there be peace in our individual worlds? Of course, there can be. We catch glimpses of it occasionally, and life is much less stressful if we can create some moments of peace in our daily lives, but the peace that God gives is with us every minute of every day. Did my daily life become wonderfully calm after I found God’s peace? Absolutely not! I still try to cram too many things into one day, the kids still tease each other, my husband and I still disagree on some things, checks still bounce occasionally, the alarm still malfunctions and the puppy still isn’t housebroken. But through it all, even though I may look or act frantic, I now know Christ has given me the gift of wisdom to distinguish between the world’s peace and God’s peace. His peace is securely anchored in my soul and the other peace I will enjoy on those occasions when it passes through my day. 14

This Charming Easter Painting on Canvas has the Vintage Look of an Old Master from Vintage Image Craft You can craft an Easter painting that could gather crowds at the Louvre. The trick is to begin with a blank artist's canvas, which you can buy at an art supply store. With a background of acrylic paint and a finish of crackle varnish, this simple decoupage craft will look like an Old Master, inspired by the Easter Bunny. Crackle varnish comes in several varieties. We used a two-step product by DecoArt called "Perfect Crackle" because it comes out, well, perfect every time. There are several one-step varnishes too, or you can use commercial varnishes as described in our craquelure recipe. The FREE vintage image we've provided is a 1910 illustration of children in their Easter finery, proudly presenting an apron-full of baby chicks. Adorable! What you need: •

Vintage images (see below).

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Matte presentation paper, 8.5" x 11" (see Tips).

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Pre-stretched, 8" x 10" artist’s canvas on a wood frame (available at art or and craft stores).

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Spray fixative for photos and artwork, or spray varnish (see Tips).

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Matte decoupage medium (like Mod Podge).

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Upholstery tacks (large round head).

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Acrylic craft paints (mossy green to coordinate with background of the vintage image, and dark brown).

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Paint brushes.

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Crackle medium (see Tips).

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Acrylic varnish (spray or brush).

Instructions: Print the vintage image on matte presentation paper. Spray the image lightly with photo fixative and let it dry. Tear the edges around the vintage image in a wavy, irregular outline, leaving a 1/2" border. Tear the paper away with a downward pull to eliminate the visible white ripped edge.

Paint canvas face and edges with acrylic paint to complement the vintage image. We used a moss green color. Let dry.

Brush decoupage medium over the canvas and on the back of the vintage image. Press it smooth onto the canvas to eliminate air pockets. Brush another coat of decoupage medium over the entire image and canvas and let it dry. Apply crackle medium to the face of the canvas. Just follow the package directions. We prefer the “two step” to the “one step” crackle medium. It’s amazing how beautifully cracks will form when the final application is dry! Thin the dark brown acrylic paint with a few drops of water and wash over the entire canvas, including the edges. It will creep into the varnish cracks and make them stand out. While the paint is wet, gently wipe off the excess paint with a damp sponge or soft cloth until it is “aged” to the degree you like. We wiped off more of the brown wash from the children’s faces so they stood out more clearly. Adolescents have enough blemish problems without giving them dark cracks. Let dry. Spray (or brush) the finished canvas with matte acrylic varnishes. Hammer the decorative upholstery tacks into the sides of the canvas frame from one to three inches apart – whatever looks good to you. Display your completed masterpiece on an easel. VOILA!!! Tips •

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Presentation paper is opaque white paper of lighter weight than photo paper. It's used for brochures and fliers, because it is light enough to fold and mail easily. It is also an excellent paper for printing images for decoupage projects, because it lays flat and bends around curves and corners well. If you can't find presentation paper at your office supply store, use a bright white, opaque printer paper. Crackle varnish comes in several varieties. We used a two-step product by DecoArt called "Perfect Crackle," and it is pretty perfect. You simply brush on one varnish, and when it is dry, you brush on a second type of varnish which cracks as it dries. You can also use one of several one-step varnishes, or you can use commercial varnishes as described in our craquelure recipe.

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Spraying the inkjet-printed image with a fixative will prevent the inks from blurring or running when moistened with the decoupage medium (Mod Podge). We used Preserve It! by Krylon, described on the label as a moisture-resistant "digital photo and paper protectant." A clear spray varnish would work as well for this project. In a pinch, use hair spray. Just spray the image lightly and let it dry.

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Kids’ Reading Corner Book Reviews by Kendra Peterson

“The Curious Garden” by Peter Brown This cute book, The Curious Garden, by Peter Brown, won a Young Hoosier Picture Book award this year for its illustrations. It is a perfect book to read in April since Earth Day on the 22nd, and Arbor Day on the 27th. Liam lives in a city where there was no greenery or trees or gardens. Most people spent their time indoors except for Liam. He liked exploring his city and was curious about the broken down tracks he walked beside. He went up an old stairwell leading to the tracks and found a little patch of color - a few wildflowers and a plant that needed a "gardener." He decided to become the caretaker of these plants even though he had no idea what to do. He actually helped them grow and spread, then over winter he read about taking care of plants and bought more seeds. In the spring his little garden grew though out the whole city. See how Liam changed the look and feel of his city, and how everyone joined in to do their part. It is amazing what the city looks like at the end of the story from the way it looked like in the beginning! This is a good chance to talk about cleaner air, the importance of trees and plants, and just doing our part to clean up and recycle. There are topiaries on the front cover, so I showed the first graders in my classes some real topiaries and what they are and how they got to be that shape. They wrote down words to describe the city before the plants and then words to describe the city after the plants all grew. They loved this book and were surprised how good everything looked at the end. This is a good book for first to third graders, who are eager to learn about recycling and how to make our cities cleaner so everyone can breathe better air. The Curious Garden by Peter Brown can be purchased from Ruby’s Reading Corner at http://astore.amazon.com/rubyforwomenreadingcorner-20

Creating Practical Pearls by Shannon Medisky I've always liked pearls. They're beautiful, and they go with absolutely everything. What I like even more about them is the story they tell: created chiefly out of hardship, pearls are the tangible outcome of an oyster's attempt to cohabitate with an irritant. It doesn't sit there and do nothing, allowing the less-than-ideal situation continue to irritate it. Whenever a grain of sand enters its shell, it doesn't even try to reject. Instead, it carefully and patiently coats it with layer upon layer of beautiful, iridescent nacre. Out of discomfort, mollusks quite literally create a thing of beauty. Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! Proverbs 6:6 NIV Throughout God's word we're reminded to be diligent, seeking to be good stewards of all the resources we've been given. The analogy of ants resonates particularly for me, a tiny creature that's constantly at work. But I think the oyster holds an important lesson for us, too. Aren't we also called to learn from hardships and embrace the opportunity to come out of less than ideal situations better than before? (Hebrews 12:11) After all, we're not supposed to be joyful and grateful some of the time, but rather all of the time. (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18) It wasn't until I heeded the wisdom of the tiny mollusk that I realized how exactly I could claim what Paul promised: "My God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:19 NIV) I've read this particular scripture time and time again in an effort to seek comfort. That's a pretty lofty claim, that God will meet not just some or a select few of our needs, but all of them. Does He really care when our budgets are stretched so tight they nearly squeak?

Can we really call on Him for help when we're facing dire financial circumstance? And what about the times when there just doesn't seem to be enough time in the day? Can He really work in our lives to positively affect our immediate circumstances? As many times as I've read this particular verse for comfort, I've also wondered if these day-today concerns were too trivial to bring before God. I knew full well and was grateful that I had more than most. I had a roof over my head and a husband who worked diligently to provide for our family. I was even fortunate enough to work from home, enabling me to bring in extra income from time to time. But like most families, there were oftenâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;okay, manyâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;times when what we had didn't quite seem to be enough. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 NIV It wasn't until I was completely honest with God that I realized that the solutions to our challenges weren't the obvious ones I was seeking. The adoption of our youngest son had spiraled at of control. What was supposed to be a simple 4 to 9 month process spun into a mess that lasted over two years, and the associated cost had more than doubled the amount we had initially been asked to pay. And our son's long awaited homecoming was tempered with the realization that he would need a multitude of surgeries and medical interventions, all which came with hefty price tags.

I began to seek ways to bring in more money in an effort to meet our new financial obligations, but I usually found myself spinning my wheels. Financially speaking, I was getting nowhere fast and exhausting myself doing so. I continued to stress over the bills that currently loomed and the unavoidable future expenses of Mark's ongoing special needs. I couldn't seem to find this money anywhere and—no offense to the apostle Paul—I wasn't expecting it to fall from the sky either. That's when I stopped. And I recalled all that our son had brought with him to our home, his new home: one backpack, one clean diaper and the clothes on his back. No toys, no clean clothing and not even a coat. Having come from an impoverished country, our 2 ½ year old son had come to us with so little. It was then that the amount of what I actually had truly sunk in. And I realized that I had been much like Jesus' apostles when they questioned the feeding of the multitude, too focused on what I thought was the only and obvious solution, that I had left little room for others. Immensely humbled, I began to look for different solutions to our current financial challenges. And the answer was a beautifully simple one: begin "making" money by saving money, become a better steward of all I already had.

...I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances...I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:11-13 Instead of viewing our financial hardships as a hurdle in my way, I needed to approach them as if they were opportunities to glorify God, a chance to fully use the creativity He gave me. I didn't have to wait for the money to fall from the sky because I immediately had the opportunity to discover new ways to divide my own "loaves and fishes" in ways that allowed God to effectively meet all of our needs. My family's bills are not all paid off. We still (unfortunately) carry debt. And there are still months when I hold my breath and hope there's enough to go around—money, time and otherwise. But now when I catch myself starting to stress out and wonder about where resources are going to come from, I reflect on the oyster. I can take any hardship—financial and otherwise—and with God's help create my own practical pearl for daily living. We all can. If only we'll remain proactive about seeking solutions and remain open to wisdom that may be outside of the obvious.

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Capture the Beauty by Connie Arnold Capture the beauty of creation Through your eyes as you look around, Inhale the scents of trees and flowers Growing out of the ground. Listen to the sounds of life On the earth and in the air, Feel the warmth of God's boundless love Surrounding you everywhere. As you look and smell, hear and feel, Taste the flavors of many good things, Give thanks for the gifts you have been given And the blessings that each day brings.

Bessie Mae by Carin LeRoy Bessie Mae lived through hard times. She was born in 1910, married at sixteen and had her first child when she was just seventeen. Her husband, Boyd, was twelve years her senior. She raised children during the Great Depression and learned to make do with what she had. Bessie could cook, sew, plant a garden, can vegetables, and make pickles. There was nothing she wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t try. Her skill at sewing was unmatched by those who knew her. If she spotted a dress she liked, she could duplicate the dress at home. She wasn't daunted by the fact that she had no pattern or that the dress was complicated, she would set to work. Soon an outfit would emerge from her cuttings of material. If she found a dress in the wrong size that she wanted while shopping, she'd buy it anyway. At home, she would rip apart the dress and alter it to fit. In fact, Bessie loved to rip clothes apart! She'd grab her favorite seam ripper and get to work. While others despised altering clothes, she loved re-sizing them and sewing them back together. She would work from her home altering clothes for others to earn extra income. When one of Bessieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s daughters got married, she sewed her wedding dress. When her granddaughters needed clothes for school, she got busy creating outfits for them. Her own closet bulged with her hand-sewn clothes. Bessie loved material of all colors and patterns. She had a large stash of cloth and knew just what she wanted to sew from each one. She desired cloth the same way others yearn for beautiful clothes or fine jewelry. She passed on her skill to her two daughters. They became wonderful at crafting hand-made clothes, and even curtains and home decorations. Many times when they were together, they would pull out the material stash and a project would start. Cutting, sewing and ripping until they created something useful! Bessie not only loved to sew, but she liked anything with a needle and thread - yarn, crochet, embroidery, hand-work of all type. She loved being busy with her hands. She sewed until her late 80s when her eyes became so dim that she could no longer see to do fine detail work. Bessie Mae Collins Morris lived to be 98 1/2. She was my grandmother. Her creative resourceful spirit still lives on in the generations of women she's left behind, including me. 23

Tissue Paper Cross Easter Egg Craft from Christena Hammes Easter eggs are fun to make and they are beautiful to display in our homes as we celebrate the arrival of spring and the resurrection of our Lord. Here’s a fun way to make colorful Easter eggs that remind us of the sacrifice of God’s Son on the Cross of Calvary. What you need: * Tissue paper - assorted colors * White Craft Glue such as Elmer's*** * Paint Brushes * Boiled Eggs*** * Empty Egg Cartons**

Let’s make it! Boil eggs in advance so that they are cool and dry when you get ready to decorate. Set them up in the egg cartons to hold them steady for decorating. ** If you don't have that many egg cartons, cut one into three parts. Cut tissue paper into small strips and then cut into portions. They do not have to be exact. Take paint brush and dip in glue and cover the portion of the egg with a small amount of glue. Kids tend to use too much of anything, try to get them to go sparingly. Take the tissue paper pieces and adhere to the egg. You may want to keep a damp paper towel handy to keep your fingers clean. ***You can also use eggs from the craft store if you don't want to boil eggs. Tissue paper will also adhere to egg with water if you don't want to use glue. You can find more fun and creative Easter crafts at www.christiancrafts.net

A Mother’s Heart by Jean Ann Williams A heart grown weary, A soul shattered by loss. How can it be, that I still live? And yet, my son does not. As mother Mary, “treasured up all these things,” I pondered in my own heart. Did Mary know her Son would die? As surely, I did not. Mary cried, For her Savior Son. And I, for mine, We bear a mother’s heart. Inspired by Luke 2:19, “But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart.” (ESV) The poem above is rough, for I’m not a poet, but it says much about how Mary’s situation kept me here on Earth after my son, Joshua, died by suicide. When all I wanted was to be with Joshua in the Hereafter, I would consider Mary. I read every scripture written about her many times. I’d nod, and say, “I believe, Mary, I know how you may have felt.” In Joshua’s journals, he mentioned more than once what a burden he had become to us with his physical disability. He wrote about how he wanted the best for his parents. I’d rather have my son be my cross to bear than these empty arms. I wish, oh, how I wish, he would have understood how I felt. Did I give mixed signals? Were the times I felt worn down from caring for him show? I thank the dear Lord that Joshua left his journals. His words banished my guilty feelings about some decisions I had made. I worried those decisions had pushed him to his death. No. They did not. Joshua even wrote, “I don’t know what will happen to me when my parents are gone.” Before his death, I pondered much in my heart as I watched Joshua deteriorate. Still, I ponder. What would life be like if Joshua had lived? I will never know. I do know God helps me through my grieving journey, with many blessings along the way. God has a plan for each one of us to increase the fruits of His kingdom. He can use us right where we are. Father, I am grateful for the twenty-five years I had with my son. Please show me how to help other mothers as they grieve for losses of their own. Jesus’ name. Amen. http://joshua-mom.blogspot.com/ http://jeanannwilliams.blogspot.com/ 25

Praying in Color Book Review by Ann Babcock What happens when you slow down and start to pray? Is it that you say “Hello, God” and then do not know what else to say? Do you start running your mouth with a grocery list of prayers? Do you start to pray and fall asleep? Do you not find the words to pray what you would like? Is prayer a chore or is prayer a burden for you that you would rather not face? If these statements are true of you perhaps you need to learn a lesson reading a book I found on prayer. The book is Praying in Color by Sybil MacBeth. Just the other day I opened an email that spoke of opening a new box of crayons; the enticing smell of new crayons and the rainbow of colors that meet your eyes. Oh it had been so long since I had colored much less with a new box of crayons. I longed for the experience again after reading the email. I was enthralled with the book Praying in Color especially the suggestions and techniques for prayer as described and taught by the author. I made a pest of myself at church buying several copies and trying to get the other women at church to read and use it. I was successful in getting a few ladies to read it. One lady I shared with read it and used it to write a prayer. The prayer was for me and today I still have the prayer all preserved in one of my Bibles. To be sure it is precious to me. Once in a while I take it out and read it again. The Lord Jesus loved little children. And you can see this in verses like Matthew 18:3, 19:13, 19:14, as well as Luke 18:16; I John 2:28, 3:7 and Galatians 14:19. He wants us to convert and become as one of these little children. What better way but to take paper, pen, pencil, crayons, colored pencils and your Bible and retreat to a private place to start doodles as you pray. It keeps you focused on prayer. It is not boring! You have something to do with your hands as you pray your heart out to God. It will do a lot in improving your relationship with Jesus; I assure you. The author has also included in what is available a journal of pages you can color and store your prayers in to become a permanent collection for you. Or you can use your own paper. There is even a children’s version of the book Praying in Color. I hope to send a few examples out of this creative way to pray. I love creativity and I love art. This book opens up these techniques to all of us. Create away in God’s blessings!

Footprints in the Mud â&#x20AC;&#x201C; The Downfalls of Home Searching by Beth Brubaker Life used to be simple. We woke up, went to work, made money, and bought stuff. Then we get married and toss kids into the mix, and in our case, rent. We've been married almost 15 years, and not once have we seriously considered buying a home. At least until the economy went down the sewers. First-time home buyers are now gifted with all kinds of financial perks, all to get you to buy a house. Any house. And almost everyone around us is pleading with the realtors to sell theirs. We thought we had it made. Until we actually went looking at houses. We knew what we wanted - a fifteen bedroom home with wall to wall money, a kitchen the size of a small state, all new fixtures including ceiling fans and a masseuse, with a yard that could qualify for an elephant refuge. For two hundred dollars a month. Luckily for us, we were a little flexible concerning what we wanted, and went looking in the papers and online for potential Shangri-Las. We found a few that looked promising, and decided to schedule them all on the same day, to save time. First mistake. It's like going Christmas shopping at several different stores - you know you saw the item in this or that store - you can see it in your mindâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s eye, perched right there on the shelf, but for some reason you can't remember what store it was in. That's what happened to us. We fell in love with one house, but burned the memory of the insides to the outside of another house we looked at, so when we went in for a second look, we blinked in astonishment someone apparently took all the stuff we hate and put it all in this house.

We either liked the insides and the outside had no room to move, no less a yard, or the house was gorgeous on the outside (with a huge yard), and the kitchen was smaller than a chickadee's tonsils. Bah. Even the houses we liked got mish-moshed in our minds, and by the time we got it all straightened out in our heads what we wanted, the house had already been sold or taken off the market. Double bah. Then the agents. Many of them made us sign their little book with our contact information, next of kin, and just how much we thought we could spend on a house. Then we would get calls from these people, actually expecting us to remember what we saw the other day. I'm lucky I remembered my own name, no less what house I saw, Buster! Relentless, they would try to get us to go to other houses that weren't even in our price range, or anywhere near where we wanted to be. Then we got smart - we called a friend who was a real estate salesman and told these guys to contact him if they wanted to talk. Silence is indeed golden! It was about this time that we decided we were just going to save up some more until we saw something we liked. That was when the money fairy decided to come visit, and she was not in a good mood. Stuff started breaking. Things needed repairing. And none of it had to do with the house we rented. Everything we owned in the house started to go. And go it did. Right out the window. Then the kids needed clothes and shoes, then it was Christmas, and then, and then . . .the car died. 27

I'm just thankful none of this happened after we bought a house, because we'd probably have to camp out in our nice, big yard for the winter, eating bologna slices on sticks held over our brand-new fire pit we had hoped to get as a house warming gift. On occasion you'll still find me online gazing at houses in the area, dreaming of what could be. I might even drive by a few (since we got the car fixed) and sigh forlornly in hopes that one day (before the kids die of old age) we might be able to get our own house. But next time I do, I'm going to look at them one at a time! You can read more of Beth’s “Footprints in the Mud” posts on her blog at www.footprintsinthemudblog.blogspot.com

Dealing with Life Problems Abba, Father; A Simple Prayer by John Poche “It’s not a matter of if we will experience problems, it’s when.” For most of us, life problems are inevitable. How do we deal with problems related to relationships, marriage, divorce, family, employment, work, finances, addiction, health or the death of a loved one? John shares his personal story of how a short prayer and simple praying helped resolve some stressful problems and change his life into happy, joyous and free. He describes the development of his simple prayer plan and numerous experiences of his twenty year prayer journey. He offers many suggestions in hope that his biblically-inspired simple prayer will help you experience the joy of knowing that God is present and working in your life. It worked for him; maybe it will work for you! http://www.amazon.com/Abba-Father-Simple-PrayerPoche/dp/145074933X/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1321980994&sr=8-1

Christâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Heartbeat Yearns for Her by Crystal Rose Patterson

Freckled-face, chocolate-skinned dark girl. Dough-faced Latino princess Mahogany lovely complexion, you are simply beautiful because you were styled in the palm of his hands. Asian beauty, African, chocolate-mocha queens, you are beautiful because you are treasured by the king. Mediterranean butter-scotch beauty, richly blended with a tan.

His fingers, embroidered your elegance, with his rich love. Indian, burned brown, silky-haired, Aboriginal queens, you inspire, God's heart beat. Light-face, butter-pecan interracial girl, vibrant melon honey; You were a delight when he made you; and you are simply brilliant because you were styled in the palm of his hands.

Whirlwind Block #7 for the Bible block wedding sampler sew-along by Laura Brandt This is one of those blocks that has many names. As well as “Whirlwind,” it’s called Windmill, Pinwheel, Turnstile, Whirligig, Whirling Windmill and Modern Envelope. We’re all familiar with the term “whirlwind romance,” but if you want to do an interesting word study, take a look at the number of times the word “whirlwind” appears in scripture! You’ll need three fabrics to make this block. My Fabric #1 is brown, Fabric #2 is orange and Fabric #3 is white. Please note: all seams are ¼”; final block is 12.5” unfinished. Step 1 – cut your fabric. If you choose to follow the rotary cutting diagram, you’ll need to cut two 6 7/8” squares from your Fabric #1 and subdivide them into triangles by cutting them in half diagonally. Cut one 7 ¼” square from each of your #2 and #3 fabrics; subdivide them into four smaller triangles by cutting both squares into four on the diagonals. In the end, you should have four patches of each colour. If you use the templates, it’s fairly straightforward as well.

Step 2 – With right sides together, sew a Fabric 2 Template B triangle to a Fabric 3 Template B triangle along the short edges, as shown. You want your Fabric #2 on the right hand side of the larger triangle unit you’re making. Be careful with how you sew these together: it’s easy to sew wrong edges, which will throw everything off!

Step 3 - Press seam. Make three more of the larger triangle units with your remaining Template B pieces for a total of four, as shown.

Step 4 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Lay out your Whirlwind square, as shown, so you can see the correct placement of all those triangles! Along the long diagonal edges, sew your larger Fabric 1 triangles to the Fabric 2/Fabric 3 triangle units you just made to create four squares.

Step 5 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Press and square up your newly formed squares. Sew them together into your block, being careful to align your seams. You are done!

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My Heart in Silence My heart in silence humbly cried the scene before - a wounded side thorny crown and crucified. No faded communion this no winey blood nor half-baked body no hiding place for self-pity nor shield for rose-tinted eyes. Thorny crown and crucified the scene before - a wounded side, my heart, in silence, humbly cried. And hears your words, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Father forgiveâ&#x20AC;?. ~ by Keith Wallis

Spring Brings All Kinds of Excitement! by Christena Hammes There’s newness in the air, a spring in our step and romance all around. The birds are singing, beautiful buds bringing forth green trees, flowers blooming and the proposal – now to plan the wedding. With the joy and excitement of planning a wedding you can lose sight of a lifetime. Marriage is for a lifetime and it will come with trials and heartaches. There will be changes as you grow up together and have children. You will begin to see things in each other you didn’t see while you were dating. What are you going to do when this happens? Will you run, forget the vows you spoke, the promises you made? Will you take the world’s way out? Or will you call upon the Lord, who blessed this marriage, and begin to work through each irritation and sin? Will you allow God to mold each of you so you can show the world that God’s ways work? Will you walk in faith and believe God’s word? I saw this post the other day and believe it sums up why marriages are falling apart, with no thought for the other person or the children – for that matter – any thought for what God’s word says about marriage and divorce. It seems easier to just walk away and try with someone else. So, whether you are planning your wedding day or have already taken that wonderful step, let’s look at part of the vows and ask yourself ‘did I just say them and move on, no thought to what they mean’ or ‘do I know and believe what I’m saying’? Am I willing to follow God and make this a lifetime commitment? For better, for worse - you will have days where you feel like you are in heaven and you will also have days where you feel you are in hell. Maybe you married your spouse because they (you fill in the blank) but now that you are married there isn’t much time for it (whatever you filled the blank in with), so you are allowing resentment and anger to build. Are you going to walk out because it’s too hard to ‘fix’ it? You don’t want to be inconvenienced and it’s not your problem anyway….I’m sure you see where this is going. For richer, for poorer – there’s a chance you will run into a financial bind or maybe you will have great success and find you have more money that you know what to do with. Either way you will have decisions to make, pride or shame can take over. Will you work together when you have riches, seeking God on where to use this money and what to buy for your home, your children OR if you are having a hard time stretching the dollar because of a bad investment or a car breaking down just to break down again – will you begin to blame each other and allow anger to grow leading to a breakup?

In sickness, in health – It’s easy to stick around when everyone is healthy but what about when sickness hits? I want to use myself as an example here. I allowed certain things in my life to build because I was ashamed to tell anyone what I was going through. This caused a strain in our marriage and when things began to happen in our family that caused me great pain, I fell into a very bad, anxiety-ridden depression where I would not leave the house. My husband, by the world’s view, would have had every right to leave me and move on to something better. But, thankfully, he took his commitment to God and his commitment to me and stayed. He loved me through it and all I have to say is PRAISE GOD, look at us now!! I want to encourage you to know what you are saying as you marry that wonderful person you have had so much compassion and love for. Take the commitment seriously. As a Christian you are representing Jesus Christ, which should account for something too. Those of you that are married, maybe it’s time to re-commit, go over those vows and remember why you married in the first place. When ‘feelings’ come in you may not think you are in love anymore, but we all know how fickle ‘feelings’ are – they can change in 5 seconds. Bring newness into your marriage this spring. Walk out of the past and renew those vows and watch the flowers begin to bloom as your love begins to grow stronger every day. Marriages can last ‘ till death do us part’ and I pray God will honor what my husband told me when we married – hand in hand to heaven. Through every hard time we’ve been through, are going through, and will still have to face – I know we will overcome because our God tells us we will. If God can forgive all we have done and He commands us to forgive others, why do we give up so easily? It is not about self anymore. God’s word says: “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” Matthew 19:3-4 A man and a wife complete each other. When you walk away from a relationship as deep and intimate as a marriage is, you can’t just abandon those areas that have been completed (one flesh). Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.1 Corinthians 13:4-7 So grab your spouse now and look into their eyes, tell them how much you love and admire them, hug them tight. If need be, ask them to forgive you and let them know you really want your marriage to work. Then hold on, it may be a wild ride but you will make it because God is right there to help you! Draw upon His strength and wisdom, you won’t regret it. 35

Bird’s Nest Cookies from the kitchen of Vintage Mama Make these sweet little bird’s nest cookies and fill them with pastel jelly bean eggs to decorate your Easter table! What you need: * 1 cup butter * 8 oz cream cheese * 2 cups sugar * 1 egg * 1 tsp vanilla * 1/4 tsp coconut extract * 1/4 tsp almond extract * 3 1/2 cups flour * 1 tsp baking powder * Flaked coconut and green food coloring * Pastel jelly bean eggs Let’s make it! Beat together butter and cream cheese until smooth. Beat in sugar. Add egg, vanilla, and extracts. Mix well. Stir in the flour and baking powder. Roll dough into 2” balls. Place on lightly greased cookie sheets. Make an indentation in each one using the back of a tablespoon. Bake at 350 for 10 -12 minutes; will not be brown. Remove from oven and use the spoon to press down the indentation again. Let cookies cool completely. Mix coconut with a couple of drops of green food coloring in a small bowl with a lid. Cover and shake till coconut is tinted green. Fill nests with coconut, and add a few egg candies.

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A Gift Book for Mom and Other Women by Thomas B. Clarke, Gardening Sponsor www.agardenoflove.com Join author and seasoned gardener Tom Clarke as he artistically describes the natural beauty of flowers and the multi-faceted dimensions of love. “I thoroughly enjoy Tom's writing. He is presenting the beauty of his Lord Jesus revealed in the well-tended flowers of his church's Gethsemane Prayer Garden. You will want to spend time in these pages and allow the love of our Lord to flow over you through the beauty of His own creation. Amazing insights!" Iris “I gave the book to my mom for Christmas. It was all she talked about.” Tom W. “I bought seven copies: one for each of my three daughters, and then four more for their girls. This book really spoke to me and I read it all the time. I wanted to pass it on to my family.” Vera “Are you overwhelmed with life? Then pick up this delightful book for a peaceful return to sanity. You will come away, as I did, encouraged to love others as Christ loved us.” Sally “Tom sold me ‘A Garden of Love’ about a year ago. Since then I’ve bought five copies, one at a time, to help different ones be able to see the beauty of love that is expressed in this book.” Donna Kathy gave a copy to a good friend. Together they went through the Bible quotations with its connections to flowers and concluded, “It is a work of art and a treasure.” “I found the artistry of this book both restful and nourishing to my spirit. I recommend this lovely book for young and old alike.” Cara “If you or someone you know is an avid gardener, then you’ll want to get a copy of A GARDEN OF LOVE for yourself or your loved one or friend.” Laura, pastor’s wife “I mailed the book to my sister’s girlfriend. She called me right away to thank me and thank me and thank me. I had a sense that this was the right message for her.” Diane “This book uses similes not unlike Scripture to describe love. I plan to make this a gift book to a dear friend that enjoys her garden in the same way that this author must enjoy his.” Val

“I bought this book for my wife as a Valentine’s Day gift. We both love it and now we sell it.” Jaime “Love truly blooms in this book, inspiring a feeling of Christ’s love within as you read.” Connie “I love this book! The description of each flower as they relate to God’s love for us has left such lasting imprints in my mind of the ways that God cares for me.” Sharon “A must read for anyone who enjoys flowers and desires to know the LORD more.” Jennifer Please visit A Garden of Love to order your copy of this beautiful and inspirational book: www.agardenoflove.com

Thomas B. Clarke, “A Garden of Love” I am the caretaker of the Gethsemane Prayer Garden in Syracuse, NY, and an author / publisher of Christian books. Both gardening and writing are part-time jobs for me, but they are my heartfelt passion: to help others experience Jesus Christ in a more personal way and to grow in love. www.agardenoflove.com

You are invited to join Katherine’s Corner Book Club At Katherine’s Corner you connect with other book lovers and share a new story every month! Every month Katie will post a new book list and you get to vote for your favorite. Then, together we will read the selected book and discuss it via the Book Club page at Katherine’s Corner blog. Once a month a new book will be chosen and you can leave comments on the Book Club page throughout the month. A new book vote will be posted on the 15th of every month. The Book Club at Katherine’s Corner is a “no obligation” book club! Just read the book with the other members of the club and share your thoughts with one another. Settle in, read along, and leave comments on the book whenever the mood strikes you. Once a month is all the commitment needed. The fun part is that you can make comments throughout the month so you don’t have to keep your thoughts on the book silent until a specific meeting date. If you would like to join the Book Club at Katherine’s Corner, simply visit Katie at www.katherinescorner.com and sign up! Then, if you wan to help promote the book club, you can grab the button code to paste into your blog sidebar. You can find the code and all of the details at Katherine’s Corner. 38

Easter’s Passion by Lynn Mosher “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds [curing their pains and their sorrows].” Psalm 147:3 Amp The Father once spoke these words to me . . . “Those offensive cords of hate that wrapped the feet and hands of My Son became cords of great love to My children. When a heart is breaking, I take those cords and tenderly wrap them around that hurting heart so as not to bruise it, and ever so gently, I tie them in an eternal knot that cannot be undone. “The cruel nail scars in His hands should daily urge My children to keep their hands empty of the things of this world and ever open to My gifts and teachings. They should use their hands to work for My kingdom and raise them in praise. “The excruciating pain My Son suffered from the pounding of the nails into His feet should remind them that their painful struggles upon this earth are meant to cause their feet to follow in His footsteps, for He walked a path that was common to all. “The crown of thorns so mockingly placed upon His head marked Him as different from the rest of the world. I make that crown of thorns into an eternal circle of love and place it upon My children as a constant reminder to be separate from the world. They should wear this crown in truest humility and love for Him. One day, it will be exchanged for a golden crown of life. “The blood that spilled from His bleeding side should draw them into a covenant relationship with Him and remind them that He willingly became the sacrifice for the forgiveness of their sins and to give them Eternal Life. “Oh, the love He bore as He hung there that day. In pain and agony, He suffered for My precious ones. His wounds should pierce into their very hearts and cause them to weep that their sins caused Him such suffering. “His chords of love should bind them in remembrance of His cross of sacrifice. His death and release from the tomb should remind them to daily aim at death to self and deliverance into newness of life. Because I love you, He died for you.” “Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13 KJV) Prayer: Oh, dear Jesus, thank You that You suffered such great agony and endured it willingly for a world of lost sinners. For this, I am eternally grateful. This Easter season, may hurting and lonely souls experience those cords of love and accept Your sacrifice for them that they may have Eternal Life in You. Amen. “I have been crucified with Christ [in Him I have shared His crucifixion].” Gal. 2:20 Amp “Jesus paid it all, All to Him I owe; Sin had left a crimson stain; He washed it white as snow.” I leave you with this video. It is really awesome. I hope you’ll listen to it: That’s My King http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzqTFNfeDnE

Easter blessings, Lynn 39

Celebrate Easter with this Delightful Carrot Cake! We love carrot cake all year long, but it is fun to include it in our springtime celebration of Easter since we are surrounded by bunnies which always remind us of carrots! Be sure to see the article on the history of Easter symbols such as bunnies, colored eggs in baskets, and candy . . . but for now, if you are thinking of a yummy dessert to add to your family’s Easter dinner menu, why not try this yummy carrot cake recipe? What you need: * 2 cups all-purpose flour * 2 tsp baking soda * ½ tsp salt * 2 tsp ground cinnamon * 3 large eggs * 2 cups sugar * ¾ cup vegetable oil * ¾ cup buttermilk * 2 tsp vanilla extract * 2 cups grated carrots * 1 (8 oz.) can crushed pineapple, drained * 1 (3 ½ oz.) can flaked coconut * 1 cup chopped pecans or walnuts

Let’s make it! Line 3 (9” round) cake pans with wax paper; lightly grease and flour wax paper. Set pans aside. Stir together first four ingredients. Beat eggs and next four ingredients at medium speed with an electric mixer until smooth. Add flour mixture, beating at low speed until blended. Fold in carrots and next three ingredients. Pour batter into prepared cake pans. Bake at 350 degrees F for 25 – 30 minutes or until a wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean. Drizzle Buttermilk Glaze evenly over layers; cool on wire racks for 15 minutes. Remove from pans, and cool completely on wire racks. Spread Cream Cheese Frosting between layers and on the top and sides of cake.

Buttermilk Glaze: * 1 cup sugar * 1 ½ tsp baking soda * ½ cup buttermilk * ½ cup butter or margarine * 1 Tbsp light corn syrup * 1 tsp vanilla extract Cream Cheese Frosting: * ¾ cup butter or margarine, softened * 1 (8 oz.) package cream cheese, softened * 3 cups sifted powdered sugar * 1 ½ tsp vanilla extract

Let’s make it! Bring first 5 ingredients to a boil in a large Dutch oven over medium-high heat. Boil, stirring often, 4 minutes. Remove from heat and stir in vanilla.

Let’s make it! Beat butter and cream cheese at medium speed with an electric mixer until creamy. Add powdered sugar and vanilla; beat until smooth. 40

“What Body? Are You Sure You Saw Him?” by Deborah McCarragher

Imagine visiting your local cemetery and suddenly you discover the grave you’re approaching is not only unearthed – but the coffin is wide open and empty! What would you think? I suppose the first thing you’d do would be to call security – and start a search for the missing body! Something strange and wonderful happened outside of Jerusalem at a small burial site in the Judean countryside over 2,000 years ago. A tomb which was sealed the previous night was now wide open – with no one taking credit for the monumental task. Let me explain… By definition, a grave is a place for the interment of the dead; a tomb, a sepulcher. In Jesus’ day it was often merely a natural cave or grotto, or an artificial tomb hewn out of rock. Many times graves were flagged with flat stones as markers to warn passers-by that they should not come in contact with the dead, thereby defiling themselves ceremonially, even if it was unwittingly done. Once the body was laid inside, the tomb was sealed with a large stone – most likely weighing hundreds of pounds, and taking at least two strong men to place it at the mouth of the cave. This was done to prevent animals from desecrating the body or thieves from removing sacred items. Unsealing the tomb without being noticed would be difficult at best. One person alone could not move the stone without help from some other source.

Resurrection morning occurred on the first day of the week and Luke 24:1-12 tells us it was “very early”. The women who had been with Joseph, a council member who had secretly become a disciple of Jesus, entered the tomb with the prepared spices for the body of Jesus. They discovered that the Lord’s body was not there – and as they stood perplexed – two men in shining garments appeared before them. The women, fearful and bowing down in reverence were told, “He is not here, but is risen! Remember how He spoke to you when He was still in Galilee, saying, ‘The Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again”. Verse 8 says, “And they remembered His words.” These women had witnessed Jesus’ body being placed inside the grave by Joseph and Nicodemus, who also came with the burial preparations, including a large amount of myrrh, aloes, spices and linen to wrap and prepare the Lord’s body, as was the custom of the Jews (John 19:38-42). We know that when Joseph of Arimathea offered to lay the body of Jesus in his own tomb carved out of the rocky hillside, he most likely considered that he would need another tomb for his own interment. Little did he know that he would again be using that very tomb for himself! Jesus would merely be borrowing the sepulcher for three days – never again to be laid to rest, but to arise victorious and defeat death once and for all. What was so special about this grave?

When the women approached the tomb, they had but one concern: how would they roll away the large stone that blocked the entrance into the cave? But as they looked up – the stone had already been moved, and upon entering the tomb, they saw a young man clothed in a long white robe sitting on the right side. And he said to them, “Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He is risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid Him.”

Once He died, our souls to save, Alleluia! Where’s thy victory, boasting grave? Alleluia! Love’s redeeming work is done, Alleluia! Fought the fight, the battle won. Alleluia! Death in vain forbids Him rise, Alleluia! Christ hath opened paradise, Alleluia!

There was no need for the stone – Christ simply stepped into heaven and left earth’s grip…

Soar we now where Christ has led, Alleluia!

Charles Wesley penned this stirring hymn which is sung in many churches on Easter morning:

Following our exalted Head, Alleluia! Made like Him, like Him we rise, Alleluia!

Christ the Lord is risen today, Alleluia!

Ours the cross, the grave, the skies, Alleluia!

Sons of men and angels say, Alleluia! Raise your joys and triumphs high, Alleluia! Sing, ye heavens, and earth reply, Alleluia! Lives again our glorious King, Alleluia! Where, O death is now thy sting? Alleluia!

Deborah is the author of a Christian non-fiction book titled “Mission Possible.” It is written for women who love the Lord Jesus, but their spouse doesn’t share their passion. It will encourage and challenge the reader to embrace God’s promises for their spouse and future together. Visit her website at: http://www.spirituallyunevenmarriage.com

Mission Possible by Deborah McCarragher Deborah began her journey of creative writing soon after coming to know Jesus Christ as her personal Savior in 1989. She uses her spiritual gifts of encouragement and teaching in her home church. She is also a small business owner of over twenty years. Her primary goal is to share her personal testimony with others while bringing hope and practical help through her book. She and her husband have one married son serving in the US Military. They reside in north Florida. Mission Possible is a unique book in the Christian marketplace. It addresses a subject that is often overlooked and misunderstood. It is a candid look at my struggles and quest to reach my husband for Christ. It applies Scripture and biblical principles to everyday struggles encountered within a spiritually mismatched marriage. Mission Possible won the 2010 Readers Favorite Gold Seal Award for best Christian Non-Fiction book, and was nominated for the Christian Small Publisher’s Assoc. Book of the Year Award in 2009. http://www.Twitter.com/debitsdeb http://www.Facebook.com/Godmissionpossible http://www.Godmissionpossible.blogspot.com 42

Fulfillment by Keith Wallis “It is finished” though not over. Breathing, pulsing, life extinguished in wicked celebration, blood, pain, tears and darkness. The false tree’s solitary leaf fallen, Winter’s early breath contaminating Spring, one Lamb at the Passover table, one Messiah at this feast. “It is finished.” “It is finished.” Beyond the curtain, in the corridor between earth and heaven, a chasm spans the walls, no floor, no doors along this passageway, no alternate route nor hiding room. Here, winter’s grabbing icy fingers reach up, a pyroclastic engulfing tide. Here is death, icy, breath-burning death, destroyer of soul, foul bin of self-full aimlessness, receptacle of hate. Satan is not ruler here but caretaker for the hurt and anger and broken heart of God, for which things heaven cannot be home. “It is finished.” The master builder looks back at His newly constructed delicate latticed bridge, smiles and beckons. Though not over, It is finished.

Make your own Sweet Springtime Yo-Yo Necklace Here’s a super-simple, quick and easy craft project for you to create to add to your spring wardrobe. Yo-yo necklaces are very popular and can be made in any color, design, or style. If you like the pastel colors of spring, you might want to make your yo-yo necklace from gingham and calico fabrics. You can have just a few yo-yos on a ribbon for a simple design, or you can create an elaborate, elegant necklace with brocades, satin, and shimmery fabrics with lots of yo-yos on a chain. You can add buttons or charms or other embellishments such as beads, but the basic design is the same: hand-crafted fabric yo-yos of various sizes gathered together in a group, stitched together by hand, attached to either ribbon or a chain. Ready to make one of your own? Let’s get started! What you need: * Variety of fabric scraps in the colors and designs of your choice * Circle template (I use a small bowl, tea cup, or drinking glass) (circles should be around 3” – 6” in diameter, some of each size) * Needle and thread * Buttons, beads, charms, or other embellishments * Ribbon or chain Let’s make it! 1. Cut out 3 or more circles, depending on how many you want on your necklace. 2. Using a needle and coordinating thread run a row of stitching all around the outside edge of one of the circles, approximately 1/8” inside the raw edge. This will leave the raw edge exposed for a slightly “tattered” look or you can cover it with a button to finish the yo-yo. 3. Gently pull the thread to gather the circle so that it comes together in the center, with the right side of the fabric on the outside. 4. Carefully press your yo-yo and add a button or bead to the center if you want. 5. Make as many yo-yos as you want for your necklace (you can stack one smaller yo-yo on top of a larger one for a more dimensional look). 6. Stitch them together carefully side-by-side in a design of your choice. You can also stitch them onto a felt (or other fabric) backing for more stability. 7. Stitch a length of ribbon or chain on each side; tie it in a bow and wear it out on the town! 44

Pocket-Friendly Play: Great Ways to Play with Your Child Anytime, Anywhere by Shannon Medisky Time stops for no one. Nor does play stop for a child, at least it shouldn't. Unfortunately, though, some times and some places are more conducive to preschool play than others. Easy to take with you and immediately fun, use the following ideas for "pocket-friendly" play and transform any time and any place into great play opportunities: Bubbles are inexpensive, portable, mesmerizing and helps a child develop in many ways. A tiny bottle of bubbles can be picked up at any party supply store (for under a buck) and tucked inside a purse. Have your child try to pop the bubbles you blow to practice their hand-eye coordination, or have them blow the bubbles themselves. Children who master blowing bubbles themselves find acquiring language skills easier than those who don't. One (washable) dry erase marker and a mini dry erase board can be a treasured escape from the monotony of paper and crayons. Whether seated inside a shopping cart or sitting in a waiting room, these travel-friendly art supplies are nothing short of miraculous. Any mistakes or frustrations wipe cleanly away with a tissue and grasping the smaller diameter of the marker (versus that of chunkier crayons) gets your child ready for pre-writing skills. A smallish piece of aluminum foil is a mess-free but fun sculpting material and sensory experience. It can be crumpled, folded, smashed and straightened out again. It reflects the light. It can be dropped over and over again without making a mess or even a sound. You see it and may think, "Leftovers." But to a preschooler, a piece of foil can be a sensory delight! Create a "Hide-n-Seek" pocket. Take a small piece of fabric and a piece of vinyl the same size (available at most craft supply stores and some hardware stores). (I like 6 inches by 6 inches.) Stitch the two pieces together on 3 of the sides, leaving one side open to fill the pocket. Fill with plastic pellets (also available at any craft supply store) and a few fun buttons in the shapes of various items. Complete the pocket by stitching it securely shut. Any preschooler will enjoy squishing the pocket around in an effort to reveal what's hiding inside. (For an even easier pocket, use a small, clear cosmetic bag and machine stitch the entire opening closed.)

Stash "sticker story" supplies inside your purse for on the go. Arm your child with a couple of sheets of stickers and a piece of paper to help ward off boredom and usher in the fun. After their masterpiece is complete, bring their artwork to life by "writing" and narrating a story about it together. Shannon Medisky is an educator turned parent turned writer and focuses on sharing ways parents and children can empower themselves and ultimately build better lives. Shannon is the author of several books including Breaking Me Whole: A Mother’s Adoption Story, Harnessing Hope: Turn Positive Thought into Practical Action and Chicken Kids: Learning from the Birds to Help Our Kids. To learn more, visit ShannonMedisky.com or SchoolSurvivor.com.

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Spiritual Trail Mix by Elizabeth Baker is the perfect companion for modern life on the go. Whether you’re looking for a moment of downtime before sleep or an interlude of laughter while waiting in line, these stories will give a fresh reason to face the day with a positive attitude. From romance to humor to drama, the variety will be refreshing and the spiritual nourishment a boost to keep you going with a smile. Like a quick call from a friend or an unexpected breeze on a summer day, these 30 stories provide a moment of refreshment without weighing you down. And, best of all, every story can be read in ten minutes or less You have enjoyed Elizabeth’s stories in Ruby for Women, now download her e-book free as a member of Amazon Prime, or purchase for $3.99 from Amazon. E-book can be purchased formatted for other readers at www.ElizabethBakerBooks.com

Here Chick, Chick, Chick! Make these adorable fabric chickens filled with lavender sachet to brighten up your house this spring . . . . . by Anjie Davison of the “Pompom Emporium” www.pompomemporium.com These sweet chickens are very easy to make, and they are simply charming! The body is similar to a juggling bean bag, made from a variety of different cheerful fabric scraps and embellished with felt scraps and simple embroidery stitches. Once you make one, you will want to make a whole row of them to display on your kitchen window sill or a shelf in your laundry room! These darling chickens are the perfect way to bring a bit of sunshine and springtime to your home. What you need: * Fabric scraps in various bright colors and designs (20 cm X 11 cm each) * Felt scraps in a variety of colors * Black embroidery thread and needle

* Small amount of polyfil stuffing * Small amount of lavender sachet * Small amount of dried split peas for ballast

Let’s make it! * Take one rectangle of fabric (20 cm X 11 cm) and fold it in half with right sides facing. * From a small amount of felt, cut out a beak, wattle, and comb. Pin them in place to stitch the seam on the two top sides (seam allowance 5 mm). * Turn chicken inside out and make two eyes using black embroidery thread; make French knots * Turn chicken right side out; fill with a small amount of stuffing, split peas for ballast, and lavender * Stitch bottom seam by hand by folding under 5mm seam allowance and top stitch.

g{x YÜtzÜtÇvx Éy t Uxtâà|yâÄ fÉâÄ A smooth gleaming surface is all that it is. Her passion for tapestry, make up, drawn on her skin. Her rose petal dresses, flown in the wind, when she strides, she’s a beautiful sculpting drawn on a grid. Her garment is beautiful, it flows nice on her curves, but she quietly sits, a queen like Esther, her beauty is loud being heard. Her eyes are like gold; they call her a jewel, her words are like honey, dripping, fountains of ooze. She tells them she holds the likeness of Christ’s beauty, Her body like flasks of weeds, wrapped in ceramic jewelry. © 2011 Crystal Rose. All Right Reserved 48

Ask Beth: How to Get Ready for Your Spring Yard Sale by Beth Brubaker

Dear Beth, I want to have a yard sale, but I don't know where to start! Do you have any ideas?

Sales in Salem Dear Sales, Before you start, you should first make a game plan: What day are you having it? Check the local 7 day forecast. You should go for a weekend that has clear days that are also clear the day before and after your sale date, just to better your chances of good weather during your sale. Spring and Fall are the best times, for it's too cold in the winter and people tend to go on vacation in the summer. Don't have it on a holiday weekend either, unless there is a special event nearby where you can buy a space to sell your stuff. Or, if your sidewalk gets a lot of foot traffic during an event, put your things out then! What time are you having it? The best time is usually starting in the morning (8:00 or 9:00 a.m.) and ending in early afternoon (12:00 or 1:00 p.m.), depending on how long you want to stay outside. Don't forget to give yourself at least an hour before that to set up your tables and items! Where are you having it? At a flea market or at your home? On the sidewalk or in your yard? Do you mind if the grass gets trampled? Is your yard big enough for your items and a crowd? Having out so much stuff that people can't move will make some shoppers walk away, so be aware of just how much space you have beforehand. Are there good weather conditions? If it's hot, is there shade available? Not only for you, but for your shoppers. Blistering heat and an un-shaded yard will deter many people, but if you have shade, people will be more inclined to shop. Also be aware of wind- a really windy day will send most of your stuff tumbling (and possibly breaking), so make sure you note the wind speeds as well in the forecast. Be prepared. Place an ad in the paper if possible. Make sure you have a rain date just in case, that way you don't have to place another ad. Make posters with big, thick lettering saying â&#x20AC;&#x153;Yard Saleâ&#x20AC;? with the location and date (and rain date). 49

Make sure you have at least two signs per intersection, so traffic going in the opposing direction can see them too. Put arrows on the bottom, pointing them in the right direction- you'll get more traffic that way! Gather all the plastic shopping bags you can, in all sizes. Put them all into one or two of the shopping bags for easy access when someone buys something. Also gather newspaper for wrapping glassware and breakables. Go to the bank the day before the sale and get change- one half roll of quarters (5.00), twenty ones (20.00) and five fives (25.00) for a total of fifty dollars in change. This should be enough change to get you started. Wear something bright (like a pocketed apron, so you can also carry your change, or a bright shirt with a fanny pack), so people can spot you easily! But what do you do the day of the sale? Here are some tips: Get your stuff out early. 'Early Birds' are common (people who try to get deals before the sale starts), and it's up to you to let them go through your things before you're finished unpacking them, but be warned, this is going to seriously delay you in getting fully ready! Ask politely for them to wait until the time of the sale (or when you think you'll be done) if you don't want them rooting around in your things. Have a set price for everything. If people are asking you, 'How much is this?' a lot, your prices are not easy enough to see. This can also be a great help if you're having friends assist you! Use signs or stickers to list the prices to make things run smoother. Watch what you put out and where you put it. Don't place glassware and kids items on the same table. Kids (and some adults) are not always careful and can knock things over. Toys and kids stuff can go on a sheet on the ground, while glassware and other items can be put on tables so the adults can reach them. Things sell better at eye-level, and you don't want to strain the backs of your shoppers not to mention you when you have to pick up the leftover stuff and put it away! Put books in boxes on a bench, with the titles horizontally- that way people don't have to tilt their heads to read the spines. Don't put candles out in the sun! Even if the weather isn't very hot, candle wax can still melt- and if you have them right next to any fabric, there goes a couple of potential sales. Don't ask me how I know this. Put out your signs as soon as you're set up. Post them in high traffic areas for more exposure, making sure all four sides of the intersections can see them. Remember to take them down after the sale is over, to prevent cluttering.

Smile and get ready to sell! Have a chair if you need to sit once in a while, but try to remain standingsitting and chatting with a friend will turn some shoppers off (especially if they have a question or want to buy something and you're ignoring them), so smile, be aware of your shoppers, and look ready to take care of them! Have your bags and newspapers ready when you make a sale, and always remember to thank them for coming. Keep safety in mind. When someone gives you a large bill (accept no bills over a twenty- the chances of counterfeit increase greatly), tuck it away in a separate pocket. Keep the smaller change in small bundles of ones, fives and a few tens, and put the rest of the tens in the same pocket as the twenties. That way, if someone tries to snatch your money, he won't get the big stuff. The best place is your front pocket under the apron, and when you go into the house for a bathroom break, empty out your pants pockets and put the cash in an envelope somewhere safe. Do not allow anyone in your house unescorted! If they ask to use the bathroom, make sure an adult family member takes them directly to the bathroom and waits by the door for them to come out - or just not allow anyone to use the facilities. When you're done, pack up like items in the same box(es) so they're easier to sort through next time. If there won't be a next time, this will also help keep things organized for donations to thrift stores or shelters. After putting everything away (or in the car for donation) take down your signs and go inside to count your cash. Deduct the fifty dollars you started with from the total, and congratulate yourself- you just finished your first yard sale!

Happy Selling! Beth

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April in the Prayer Garden by Thomas B. Clarke, Sponsor of the Ruby for Women Gardening Section The Gethsemane Prayer Garden in Syracuse, NY, is a one-acre landscaped garden for people to enjoy the beauty of God our Creator and to rest in His presence. The garden is open to the public and there is no admission fee. The hope is that people would visit this small but intimate garden, seeing it as an outdoor sanctuary and a place to experience God and His love. There are sixty perennial flower varieties and several hundred shrubs and trees, all intended to usher in Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s peace. Benches are available for a quiet time with the Lord.

An Amazing Spring Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see. Hebrews 11:1 In my forty-plus years in landscaping, I am in awe at this spring of 2012. Following our incredibly warm winter which brought transient snowfall and only a minimal amount of maple syrup in February, the birds returned from their southern retreat much earlier than previous years, and tiny leaf buds began their developing process far sooner than other years. Daffodils opened in March and that were soon followed by small flying insects that normally wait another several weeks. By my best guess, at the time of writing this article, we are at least three if not four weeks ahead of the normal spring. The male spring peepers, those tiniest of frogs that chirp incessantly in the early spring, started their mating call in the second week of March rather than waiting until early April. God seems to be doing something special, awakening and stirring us to a new level of His glory. In the Gethsemane Prayer Garden, we are treated with a marshland flower for two weeks in April along the banks of our stream. 53

Throughout Central New York, wetlands become like a field of sparkling gold as the marsh marigolds display their sunny yellow blooms. The marsh marigold is a naturally-found perennial flower that grows abundantly in the muck of swampy areas and along stream beds in cooler zones of northeastern United States. Once they are done flowering, they grow inconspicuously in their natural habitat for the balance of the growing season. Plants that grow along stream beds and other very wet locations have very different root requirements than those of the perennial garden. The leaves begin sprouting as the water becomes warmer in very early spring. After two weeks of flowering, the warming spring and then the summer heat can cause the roots to dry out as the heart-shaped leaves become almost insignificant. Once the moisture returns in the fall, the roots can spend five months completely submerged underwater. To the marsh marigold, faith is the ability to live through an extended dormant period, waiting for its short green cycle. Besides the marsh marigold, other flowers that we should be seeing this April are many of the bulbs such as grape hyacinth and the various daffodil varieties. We don’t grow tulips in the Gethsemane Prayer Garden because to the deer, a tulip is like a lollipop to a child. We have a small but vibrant collection of primroses that humbly present their array of purple, yellow, white, pink, orange, or vermillion colors in an unpretentious manner. Tom Clarke is Caretaker of the Gethsemane Prayer Garden and author of A Garden of Love www.agardenoflove.com which is a book about Christian love using photographs from this garden. You may discover more about the garden at www.prayergardeners.com/gethsemane/. At the bottom of that page is a link to the fun-filled “Adventures of Twiggey”, a daily dialog between Tom Clarke and some fictional characters that live in secrecy in this garden. Besides Twiggey, there is Daffy Dill, Froggy, Grace, Lady Wisdom and others.

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[xÜx|Ç |á ct|Ç uç ^x|à{ jtÄÄ|á Herein is pain in scourge and thorn rended skin and sweated brow. This is pain. Herein is pain in jagged nail and jarring cross seething wound and searing heart. This is pain. Herein is pain when Father turns his face and darkness voids all love. This is pain. But here is pain beyond imaginings: you ignore My communion invitation to life.

Springtime Fitness Tips by Christena Hammes We hear the word ‘spring’ and begin to think of shorts and swimsuits and…our figure. We begin to look at our eating habits, our schedules and when we try on our shorts they are a little snug. Oh my! I will use peanut butter cookies with chocolate kisses on top as an example because they are my favorite cookies. COMFORT FOOD - it seems during the winter months we are craving ‘comfort’ food. This is one of my comfort foods and I admit I can sit down and eat a dozen before I even realize it, especially if I’m reading a book! But spring is a time of new beginnings and we do begin to look for ways to get those added inches off. Here is a site that will help you see what activities burn off the most calories. And you can count every day activities too! Calories Burned Calculator (http://www.myoptumhealth.com/portal/ManageMyHealth/Calories+ Burned+Calculator) * If I cleaned house for an hour (general housecleaning) I would have burned 285 calories * General gardening for an hour, another 408 calories burned. Now remember, you’ve been doing some of these all winter long, so you want to make sure you’re burning ‘more’ calories or the weight will not come off. Don’t look and say – wow this says I burned x amount of calories so I think I’ll keep doing this. What you need to do is say, okay I’ve added up what I’ve been doing and now I need to add to my list so I will fit comfortably in my shorts this spring. You can add walking or a dance DVD to your workout. You can also start parking further away from the store’s entrance, use stairs instead of the elevator or escalator. There are a lot of things you can change in your daily life to help you burn those calories. Not only will this help you get that unwanted fat off, but it will also give you more energy and a sense of wellbeing. If you add a few other habits to exercising, like drinking 8 glasses of water a day or eating an apple a day, you will begin to see changes in your skin.

Add God’s Word to this (make Him your first priority), and you will have spiritual health, which will give you the right attitude and mindset to make these changes. We have fallen for lies and false advertising of this world and allowed ourselves to eat the wrong foods or try this diet then another diet just to give up and go back to our old habits. Feeding on God’s Word will help you make the mental changes so you can be set free from those bad habits. We have accepted the world’s words of, “As you get older . . . . “ blah, blah, blah. No, that’s not what God’s Word says! I don’t know about you, but with renewing my mind, by being in the Word of God, by making changes to the way I eat (I still eat chips but in moderation), and getting exercise in at least 3 (minimum) times a week; I have seen a big change in my life, in the activities I can do and in my outlook on life. Keeping a journal is good, too. And I highly recommend this site for ideas on cooking, exercising and keeping a journal of all you are doing. There’s lots of support here! Please join us at www.sparkpeople.com and see what a difference it will make in your life!

Did You Know? A Short History of Hot Cross Buns by Vintage Mama Hot Cross Buns were traditionally served during the Lenten Season, especially on Good Friday. Their origins, however, like the Easter holiday, are mixed with pagan traditions. To the ancient Aztecs and Incas, buns were considered the sacred food of the gods, while the Egyptians and Saxons offered them as sacrifices to their goddesses. The cross represented the four quarters of the moon to certain ancient cultures, while others believed it was a sign that held supernatural power to prevent sickness. To the Romans, the cross represented the horns of a sacred ox. The word “bun” is derived from the ancient word “boun,” used to describe this revered animal. The Christian church adopted Hot Cross Buns during their early missionary efforts to pagan cultures. They re-interpreted the “cross” of icing which adorns the bun to signify the cross on which Jesus sacrificed His life. Some historians date the origin of Hot Cross Buns back to the 12th century, when an Anglican monk was said to have placed the sign of the cross on the buns to honor Good Friday, known at that time as the “Day of the Cross.” In 1361, a monk named Father Thomas Rocliffe was recorded to have made small spiced cakes stamped with the sign of the cross, to be distributed to the poor visiting the monastery at St. Albans on Good Friday. According to the scholar Harrowven, the idea proved so popular that he made the buns every year, carefully keeping his bun recipe secret. According to tradition, Hot Cross Buns were the only food allowed to be eaten by the faithful on Good Friday. Made from dough kneaded for consecrated bread used at Mass or Holy Communion, and thus representative of Christ’s body, Hot Cross Buns were also credited for miraculous healing and for protection. Throughout the years, Hot Cross Buns baked on Good Friday were used in powdered form to treat all sorts of illnesses. In addition, many families hung the buns from their kitchen ceilings to protect their households from evil for the year to come. The tradition, however, suffered attack during the 16th century. During the reign of Queen Elizabeth I, when Roman Catholicism was banned, “backward – lookers” were reportedly tried for Popery for signing the cross on their Good Friday buns. The accused often claimed that it was necessary to mark a cross on the dough, to ensure that the buns would rise. However, the popularity of the buns prevailed, and the Queen resorted to passing a law which limited the bun’s consumption to proper religious ceremonies, such as Christmas, Easter or funerals. For more information on the traditions and legends surrounding the celebration of Easter, please visit www.foodtimeline.org/easter 58

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Family Funnies by Beth Brubaker It was Sunday, and everyone except for my son was getting ready. My daughter, husband and I were dressed especially for Easter services when my son traipsed down the steps in wrinkled sweatpants and T-shirt. “Why aren't you ready for church?” my husband asked, astounded. “It's Easter dad,” my young son replied, bewildered. “Isn't the church closed?”

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Elegant and Beautiful When people see her, they see a bride, beautiful elegant woman in the store. They are awe struck by her glimmer, her elegant nature, her good natured spirit, that is what people adore. She is buttery, her beautiful black face, shimmers, then people say that she is chic. Her inner confidence makes her radiantly beautiful, when she utterly speaks. They can’t tell why she is so elegant. It must be her clothes. It must be her, garments, the way she puts her hair in a fold. It must be her style, the way she struts it must be her pose. But it’s the presence of God, that brings and radiates the atmosphere, the way it streams and it flows. His presence is gorgeous, the way it clings to the soul. When people see her, they see a bride, beautiful elegant woman in the store. They are awe struck by her glimmer, her elegant nature’s what people adore. © 2011 Crystal Rose. All Right Reserved

The Visionary by Pamela S. Thibodeaux A visionary is someone who sees into the future. Taylor Forrestier sees into the past but only as it pertains to her work. Hailed by her peers as “a visionary with an instinct for beauty and an eye for the unique” Taylor is undoubtedly a brilliant architect and gifted designer. But she and twin brother Trevor, share more than a successful business. The two share a childhood wrought with lies and deceit and the kind of abuse that’s disturbingly prevalent in today’s society. Can the love of God and the power of His grace and mercy free the twins from their past and open their hearts to the good plan and the future He has for their lives? Find out in . . . The Visionary . . . . where the awesome power of God’s love heals the most wounded of souls. Pamela S. Thibodeaux is multi-published in fiction and non-fiction. Her writing has been tagged as “Inspirational with an Edge!” and reviewed as “Steamier and grittier than the typical Christian without decreasing the message.” She is the Co-founder and a member of the Bayou Writers Group in Lake Charles, Louisiana. As a former member of American Christian Fiction Writers (formerly ACRW), Golden Triangle Writers Guild, Coeur de Louisiane and RWA, Pam won Coeur’s 1999 “Diamond In The Rough” as well as their 2000 “Ruby” Award and received her RWA Pro Pin in 2001. A committed Christian, she firmly believes in God and His promises. God is very real to her and she feels that people today need and want to hear more of His truths wherever they can glean them. Although her writing is Inspirational, she does her best to encourage readers to develop a personal relationship with God. The deepest desire of her heart is to glorify God and to get His message of faith, trust and forgiveness to a hurting world. Her hope is that all of her stories will touch the lives of everyone who reads them and – in some way – bring them a truer knowledge of God and urge them into a closer walk with Him. Pamela has extensive experience in speaking on a wide variety of topics related to writing as well as women’s issues. To invite Pam to speak at your luncheon or event, email her at: pthib07@gmail.com http://pamelathibodeaux.com/ & http://pamswildroseblog.blogspot.com/ 61

What (Exactly) to Do When You Don't Know What to Do by Shannon Medisky Life as a mom is anything but boring. During any 24-hour period we're called upon to play the role of everything from nurse, counselor, teacher, cheerleader and advisor. But what happens when we're the ones who don't know what to do? As the adoptive mom to a child with a multitude of special needs, I often find myself in the role of uneasy and unexpected expert. Uneasy because there's far more I don't know about Mark's challenges than I do and unexpected because—like most exceptional parents—I never assumed I would be in this role. Through this process, though, I've learned a few strategies to get myself unstuck when I'm seemingly stranded by not knowing what to do: Phone a friend. Sometimes emotions and other "stuff" can clutter up our thoughts and cloud the true picture. Beyond just seeking advice from someone who may have "been there, done that," a chat with a trusted friend can often bring clarity by bringing another perspective into the mix. Ask an expert. Often not knowing what to do can be boiled down to simply not having enough information. And no one has all the answers—not even professionals—so how can we expect this of ourselves? Build an arsenal of resources to draw from: doctors you trust, access to a plethora of books on whatever the topic may be, a list of great websites to visit, etc. No matter what the challenge or decision may be, it's easier to tackle if you're at least well-informed. Let (positive) history repeat itself. If you're stuck wondering what in the world to do, look to what's worked in the past for the answer. We can learn from our mistakes, but we can learn from our triumphs, too. Take a moment to reflect on similar situations and decisions you've faced before. You might just realize you really do know what to do. Breathe new life into a broken situation. As moms, we're entitled to make mistakes, too. And sometimes just knowing this can free us up to make a decision. If something isn't working (or hasn't worked in the past) perhaps it's time to try something completely different. (Besides being able to step outside of our own comfort zone with confidence is a great lesson to teach our kiddos by example, too!) Don't let fear freeze you. Fear can be a good thing. It can make us take pause and prevent us from making decisions in haste. But it can be counterproductive, too. Too much fear of making the wrong decision can prevent us from making any decision at all. Mistakes can be recovered from and mended, but stuck and stranded will get you absolutely nowhere. 62

He Heard Hannah by Lynnette Kraft Book Review by Ramona at Create with Joy Does God use tragedy to draw us to Him? How can a person suffering devastating loss continue to praise God? When does physical death lead to new life? These are just a few of the questions two strangers find themselves grappling with in He Heard Hannah, an amazing but true story that Comfort Publishing is releasing on April 1, 2012. He Heard Hannah masterfully weaves together the inspirational testimonies of two strangers whose lives are forever changed by Anna – a little girl with a congenital heart defect. The odd-numbered chapters are written by her mom, Lynnette Kraft, who has previously grieved the loss of two sons. The even-numbered chapters tell the story of Courtney Becker, a 911 dispatcher whose life intersects with Lynnette’s the day Anna’s heart stops beating. When Courtney mistakenly hears his daughter’s name, Hannah, on the 911 call, he becomes inextricably caught up in the drama that the Kraft family is experiencing. What happens next for both Lynnette and Courtney provides us with a seldom seen glimpse of how a provident and loving God miraculously works in the lives of His people. He Heard Hannah is a beautiful story that shows how everyone’s life – no matter how brief – has meaning and purpose.

Lynnette Kraft – Author of He Heard Hannah Lynnette Kraft is a home-schooling mom of six with a passion for life and a joy that defies her circumstances. As a Christian, her faith has been tested time and time again as she has suffered the loss of not one, but two sons. In He Heard Hannah, Lynnette finds her faith stretched to new limits when she learns that a third child – Anna Gabrielle – has a heart defect and her days are numbered. Will Lynnette’s faith be deepened or crushed as she grapples with another devastating journey through the valley of death? How will she find the strength to bounce back from yet another crushing blow? How does Anna’s life – and loss – impact those around her? You’ll find the answers to these questions and more as you read Lynnette’s story in the odd-numbered chapters of He Heard Hannah. 63

Courtney Becker – He Heard Hannah Courtney Becker is a 911 dispatcher who has battled insecurities and depression all of his life. Although he loves his wife and two children, he has always had difficulty achieving intimacy with others, and find that the demands of his job have not made this task easier. As a result, he frequently withdraws from life by escaping into a fantasy world filled with rock music, computer games, and horror movies. Although he loosely considers himself Christian, God and church really aren’t a part of his life. What happens when the music stops and worldly distractions are no longer enough to cover up his emotional pain? This is the situation in which Courtney finds himself after a 911 call forever changes his life. You won’t want to miss Courtney’s compelling testimony in the even-numbered chapters of He Heard Hannah. For more information about Lynnette Kraft and He Heard Hannah, please visit her blog, Dancing Again, at www.lynettekraft.com/blog or you can visit her website, He Heard Hannah, at www.heheardhannah.com For more information or to contact Courtney Becker, please visit his Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/CourtneyBeckerHeHeardHannah Special thanks to our friend Ramona at Create with Joy. Please visit her blog, Create with Joy, at www.create-with-joy.com for her daily creative and inspirational posts and weekly blog hop parties. Create with Joy is an inspirational blog that celebrates creativity in all its facets! Inside you’ll find art and crafts to enrich you; mouth-watering recipes to entice you; books and resources to engage you, and so much more! As I share my heart and creative passions, it’s my hope you’ll be inspired to live each day to the fullest, and infuse creativity in all you do!

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Easter Sunday This is a strange compulsion: to go to that dark place of death, to reverence an empty body. We go in sense of duty, we go in the garb of tradition, we go with no expectation. There is easy access to this place: no barring stone nor guarding soldier sentry here. This is the place of death. Death is all there is to find here. We can choose to stay, to minister to nothingness with our broken hands and shallow souls, or we can seek the living in resurrected power. We can leave in disappointment or in awe. Saying, “Good morning,” to the gardener or, “Good God,” to the Lord.

~ by Keith Wallis

Love from the Prayer Garden The New Journey with Christ by Thomas B. Clarke Ruby for Women Gardening Sponsor Call me crazy, but I’m not much of an enthusiast of yellow in the garden, except in the spring. Yet to me, the bright yellow daffodils, sometimes white and occasionally with a tinge of pink, are a most gracious welcome after a long winter. The daffodils seem to proclaim what Jesus offers – the old life is gone and a new life has begun; a new person in Christ. A bed of robust yellow stars, six-pointed and full of vigor, cheerfully greets the new spring day. Boldly the daffodils bring a new message of hope, proclaiming the good news that the death of winter is finally past. The oppressive winter winds, bitterly cold nights, freezing rain, and driving snow all seem behind. Even the pristine white days after a freshly fallen snow, sparkling in sun – even those days seem a burden when compared to the refreshingly warm days of spring. The simple and joyous message of the daffodil is “a new beginning.” The new spring that is presented by the daffodils is somehow similar to the new life we have in Jesus. We remember the winter for it has been such a part of our lives. At times we make winter out to be better than it was, especially on those colder days of spring when the rain comes and everything seems damp and dreary. But the cold and rainy days of spring are still necessary for feeding the roots and growing the plants as many new flowers begin to surface. The new life in Christ means we have overcome winter. Besides the daffodils, there are many small and seemingly insignificant perennials that begin to sprout from the ground, offering only a tiny hint of their coming beauty. Often we hardly pay attention to these newly formed plants, not concentrating on their unique beauty. Instead of looking ahead, we tend to focus on the flowers that are currently in bloom and recall those from the immediate past. Regarding what has past and what we see today, Paul wrote this to the Ephesians to throw that aside: Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God – truly righteous and holy (Ephesians 4:21-24). For the person that has begun their spiritual journey with Christ, let this be an encouragement so that we don’t turn back. “Do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own. … Live a life filled with love” (Ephesians 4:30;5:2). The daffodils represent that new beginning that Christ has taken us to, not turning back, but marching forward with the love and confidence of Jesus Christ who is living within us. Copyright © 2009 Bible Discernments. Excerpt from A Garden of Love by Thomas B. Clarke, a gift book about love for anyone that enjoys flowers. Tom is also the caretaker of the Gethsemane Prayer Garden in Syracuse, NY – open to the public. A Garden of Love is available on Amazon as well as at www.agardenoflove.com.

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Ribbon Easter Eggs from Katherine’s Corner If you love to decorate your home for the holidays, these gorgeous Ribbon Easter Eggs would be beautiful piled into a white basket or a vintage bowl on your dining room table. Once you make one or two, I’ll bet you’ll just want to keep on making more and more and more . . . . so why not fill up a basket with some of these lovely Easter eggs to share with a friend or neighbor? They’ll just love these sweet Ribbon Easter Eggs! What you need: * Styrofoam eggs (3 ½” eggs from your local craft shop) * A variety of different ribbons, 2 ½ yards for each egg * Craft glue (NOT hot glue!) * Scissors * Various embellishments such as rick-rack, lace, beads, tiny embroidered flowers, etc. * Straight pin Let’s make it! Start by cutting a piece of ribbon about 3 times the length (wrapped end to end) of your egg. Put a drop of glue on the end of the egg. Place the ribbon end onto the dot of glue and secure with a straight pin. Begin wrapping your egg by drawing a line of glue and laying your ribbon onto the glue line. Continue this process as you wrap your egg laying each piece of ribbon slightly over the other. You will need to cut new strips of ribbon as you continue on. You do not need to keep adding straight pins. If you would like to add a ribbon loop for hanging, add the loop about half way through the wrapping process by extending your ribbon out past the end of the egg. Fold the hanging ribbon back on itself and add a drop of glue and secure with a straight pin. Then continue wrapping. After it’s completely wrapped, let dry. Select your embellishments; add ribbon, lace, beads, etc. to your heart’s content! 67

Take It with You through the Valley by Vintage Mama â&#x20AC;&#x153;I want people to fill their minds with passages of Scripture while they are well and strong, that they may have sure help in the day of need. I want them to be diligent in studying their Bibles, and becoming familiar with their contents, in order that the grand old Book may stand by them and talk with them when all earthly friends fail. From the bottom of my heart, I pity that person who never reads their Bible. I wonder how they expect to draw their consolation in their time of need." ~ J.C. Ryle There is a moment in every life when we must come face-to-face with the reality that at times we will be alone. All alone, even if we have been blessed with a loving spouse, gentle and forgiving children, and gracious friends and extended family. There are places that even the most devoted spouse, child, or friend cannot go with us. The book of Psalms tells us that this is a universal experience: "Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me." Psalm 23 We know in our hearts and minds that God alone will be our comforter, our constant companion, our eternal Father . . . . and yet, so often we get caught up in the day-to-day "busyness" of our earthly existence, and we don't take the time to walk with Him now. The reality is, however, that when we do take the time to read His Word, learn His ways, meditate on His promises, we have such an amazing resource available to us in times of great crisis. We can never know when those moments may come along in our lives, so we need to take THIS moment to draw close to Him, and He will give us the strength to walk through any shadow-filled valley that we encounter in this life. Our knowledge, or lack of knowledge, of God's Word does not change Who He is. Our lack of faith does not determine His presence in our lives. Our carelessness in drawing close to Him does not alter or negate His promises. But, our limited understanding does prevent us from experiencing the full depth of His gift to us. He is here, His Word is true, His promises can carry us through the darkest night of our soul . . . . but we must know Him, we must hide His Word in our heart, and we must learn all we can about His love for us so that we will experience His gifts of grace and comfort in our time of need. Yes, today is the day to discover the joy and the blessing of His Word. I hope you will take time yet today to experience it for yourself! 68

lÉâÜ gxÅÑÄx uç ^x|à{ jtÄÄ|á Your temple is a fragrant cloud, a whisper in a breeze, birdsong in an early evening, a dreaming robe of daylight. Citadel splendour, vulgar stable, high pinnacle or low valley, their walls do not contain or glorify nor wholly speak praise. The crystal jewelled golden altar of a searching soul is where communion takes place.

Choose to Accept Help by Maxine Young As I was leaving the grocery store one morning, I spotted a sister from my church. I was happy to see her because I hadn't seen her in a while. The church I grew up in is only accessible by many steep stairs! Since I have a difficult time with stairs these days, I haven't been there in a while. We exchanged pleasantries and within that two minute chat, I decided to bring up something I was certain she was curious about. I was swaying a bit and my stance was quite unsteady. "My balance is bad today," I said, "and I can’t walk that well.” Before I saw her, I'd just planned to grab a shopping cart and use it for leverage to walk over to my father's car (that's one of the little tricks I use to stay upright when my legs are on vacation). "I should probably have a cane,” I said, “But you think you're too young to have one, right?" she teased. I laughed - because, that is exactly how I feel. She grabbed my arm and we slowly walked over to the car. I was extremely grateful for her help. She chatted with my father for a bit and then my face began to burn. I am always so embarrassed when I need help to do something. Having Multiple Sclerosis, I will most likely be needing help in some form or another for quite a while. Even so, there are times I absolutely refuse help and it takes me 10 minutes to do something that would've taken me 2 minutes if only I had asked for and accepted help. During this time, I began thinking of how ridiculous it was for me to feel embarrassed about needing help to walk. I wondered - how often have I blocked God from helping me? How many times has God seen me struggling, ran over to hold me up, but I brushed Him off, saying “No, I'll handle it myself.” And off I go, just hobbling along, not wanting to feel how weak and small that I am. I think one of the reasons why it is so difficult for us to accept help, is because from the time we are very young, we have a natural inclination to do things ourselves. We are encouraged and applauded for our independence. So if we come upon something that is too difficult for us to handle on our own, many of us would rather suffer in silence instead of asking our friends, our families and even our God for help. Having been taught that asking for and accepting help is considered weak or needy, we have a difficult time doing either. There is nothing that we can do without God’s help; even our heartbeat is due to His mercy and grace. Yet instead of handing our burdens over to Him, we brush Him off, pick the burdens up and hobble on without Him. The only thing we succeed in doing is moving troubles from one place to another. 70

I've been in such a position more times that I'd care to admit, just moving troubles from one place to the other. I feel OK to tell you this because even though I struggle most with my physical limitations, I know there are so many other women who are struggling with and handling so much on their own, they are literally bent over under the weight of their cares; yet they refuse to ask for or accept help. This can lead to so many other serious issues that affect our families, our health, and ultimately our lives. We all want to be superwomen, but ladies, because we have a God who loves and cares for us, we don’t have to be superwomen. Many times, we are small and weak. If in those moments we need some help, why do we have melt downs over it? Why do we try to hide our need? God will not make us feel shame for needing or asking for His help. He wants us to ask for help, He's standing by waiting for us to call on Him for help. We must come to understand that when we ask God to help us, accepting it means we are to release our burdens to Him and leave them there. That means we no longer carry them, He does. And you know what? He doesn’t hobble with our cares. He doesn’t struggle with them, He can handle it. God can handle all of it. All we need to do is accept His help. Sometimes, God sends others to help us. Sometimes, He sends us to help others. This month our challenge is to be more accepting of genuine help offered to us, or if you feel so impressed, offer genuine help to someone else. Here are a few ideas: • •

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Cook a meal for a friend and her (or his) family. Offer to take the kids so mom and dad can enjoy a couple hours on a date, or so mom or dad can study. Give a gift card to a family so they can enjoy a family night together. Invite a family over to your home to enjoy a movie, a meal or a game night. Invite a friend over for coffee and conversation,

There are so many other things you can do and will come up with. When we look to both help and accept, we can make each other's lives a bit more as God intended until He comes again.

Maxine Young: I was born into a Christian family, attended church every week and Church schools even, but it is now as an adult that I am truly learning how to have a personal relationship with the Lord. You can read more of Maxine’s articles and posts on her blog, Hope and Writing http://hopeandwriting.blogspot.com/

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Introducing the Ruby for Women Administrative Team Over the past two years, the ministry of Ruby for Women has grown into a full-time ministry for several women here in the Ruby community. We have been blessed to be able to partner with women from all over the United States in the work of Ruby for Women, and we are currently in the process of adding four new administrators to our team. If you would be interested in joining the Ruby for Women administrative team, please email our assistant editor, Amanda Johnson, at ajohnson@rubyforwomen.com Here are the current members of the Ruby for Women Administrative team: Sr. Editor, Nina Newton Assistant Editor, Amanda Johnson Administrative Assistant, Beth Brubaker Affiliate Administrator and Pastor at Ruby for Women, Carol Mokry Creative Consultant and Graphic Designer, Katherine Corrigan

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A Friend in Need … Is there something you need, but just can't seem to find? Are you looking for a recipe, a store location, or the best places to go in a certain area? Do you have an item you would like to give to someone, but no one near you needs it? Send your requests into the magazine (bethatruby@aol.com ) with 'A Friend in Need' in the subject line and we'll publish it for you! When making a request, please include a current email address for a direct reply. Those who are answering queries are to correspond to the posted email address directly, and not to the staff of Ruby for Women. Items offered must be free (except for shipping costs, agreed to be paid by the receiving party unless otherwise agreed upon by the giver and receiver). All postal regulations must be followed. Ruby for Women can not be responsible for shipping costs or lost items.

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Introducing The Angel Chronicles by Amy Lignor

Until Next Time How does a girl choose between the one who steals her heart and the one who owns her soul? Matt and Emily were created for a specific job. Raised and trained as the ultimate angel/warrior team, they are sent down to save, defend, judge and forgive, depending on the 'life' they've been assigned. What they don't realize is that the power of human emotions, such as love, anger, passion and fear can take over even the best of souls, causing them to make mistakes and follow paths that lead to confusion and heartache. When the reason for their training is finally revealed, the angel/warrior team find themselves thrust into a world they know nothing about. Matt takes over the life of Daniel, a young man with a great deal of baggage. Emily becomes Liz, a girl living in a remote village who relies on nothing more than her own strength to survive. A violent storm erupts one night, and framed in the window of Liz's establishment is a frightening face. Let in by the soul of a Good Samaritan, the two visitors bring with them a past full of secrets that could literally change an angel's path and a warrior's plans. From murder to redemption, this angel/warrior team must find a way to keep the faith they have in each other in a world that's ripping them apart. "If you are tired of the “vampire” fiction circling among the young adult readers, then you will find “The Angel Chronicles” created by author Amy Lignor to be a refreshing walk into the light." ~Amanda Johnson, assistant editor, Ruby for Women You can purchase your copy of Until Next Time for Kindle from Amazon http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0071LLL2M/ref%3das_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=tributebo oks-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B0071LLL2M 83

Introducing Rob Hammes, Songwriter “Our praise in song, to the Righteous and Just One” FAITH HAS A VOICE Faith is imparted to me When I hear You speak Your presence closes in Fear disperses through the wind Your love has captured me There’s no place I’d rather be Your peace has covered me Now I can truly sing Chorus Faith has a voice Let us speak faith Faith has a voice Let us hear faith Faith has a voice We declare faith Faith has a voice Declare victory We are victorious We are victorious I speak with authority Knowing you are with me And when I speak it loud I hear doubt crashing down Your blood is over me You have set me free Your peace has covered me Now I can truly sing Chorus Faith has a voice Let us speak faith Faith has a voice Let us hear faith Faith has a voice Let us speak faith Faith has a voice Let us hear faith Faith has a voice We declare faith Faith has a voice Declare victory We are victorious We are victorious We are victorious

Lyrics by: Benjamin Mosier Music written and recorded by: Rob Hammes Vocals: Rob Hammes and Kathy Mosier Copyright: Has Breath Publishing LLC (2011) http://robhammessongwriter.com/ http://hasbreathpublishingllc.com/ To purchase this song please visit this website http://www.reverbnation.com/robhammes

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The Ruby for Women community is a great place to meet new friends, share prayer requests, chat about your favorite books, recipes and crafts! Easter is the perfect time to try out a few yummy new recipes! Here in the Kitchen of Ruby for Women we w Winter ill be posting new recipes weekly and we would love to have you share some of your favorite winter recipes with us, too! http://rubyforwomen.ning.com/group/fromthekitchenofruby

Springtime is a great time to support one another in pursuing our dreams and goals of building our online businesses. Please post your website or online business banner or logo in the Ruby Shopkeepers group so we can share your information with all of the members of the Ruby for Women community. http://rubyforwomen.ning.com/group/rubyshopkeepers

Do you have a blog? We would love to have you share links to your latest blog posts so that we can tell all of the members of the Ruby for Women community all about it! Please visit us in our Girls Who Blog group. http://rubyforwomen.ning.com/group/girlswhoblog

In our prayer request group, we pray for one another and uphold each other before our Heavenly Father. Please join us at We Are Praying for You and let us know how we can pray for you. http://rubyforwomen.ning.com/group/weareprayingforyou

The Assignment by Elizabeth Baker “I’m not sure when it started,” the angel Rachel began,” probably Bible College. They made a lot of noise in those years about doing ‘big’ things for God. You know, ‘Jesus has a wonderful plan for your life!’ that sort of thing.” “Is that bad?” JaKobe’s eyebrows drew slightly higher and the tilt of his head followed. “Don’t be absurd,” she defended. “But how often have you seen a human who knew what a ‘big thing’ or a ‘wonderful plan’ might look like in ordinary life?” ************* It’s been seven hundred years since the warrior, JaKobe, worked on earth but when his curiosity is piqued by Rachael’s strange request, he knows time has come to return. Follow his angelic adventure as he fills an assignment others have shunned. As you view an ordinary Sunday through angel eyes, a new world of possibilities will open. It’s a view that just might change your own ordinary Sunday’s as well! Reader Comments: “I love the whole angel interaction thing. I think you have a strong premise. . . By the way, I loved the whole intro and the way JaKobe decided to enter back into the human world.” — Jim Rubart (Author who read the script) “I enjoyed the book and found the characters to be very life-like, believable, and easy to identify with. The whole concept of angels waging spiritual warfare around us without our awareness is an exciting one and you portray it very well” — Janet Ann Collins (Author who evaluated the script) “This book is very deep and meaningful and has great potential to explain the deeper issues of our faith to those whose faith wavers and who don’t understand spiritual struggles in the church. … At times there are flashes of brilliance and understanding that took my breath away. Your writing is excellent and your characters very alive and real.” — Deborah Dunn (Author who evaluated the script) “[The book] just reaches out and pulls you in. I couldn’t put it down.” — Mike (reader) “I can’t wait to read the book again” -- Toyne (reader) “Are you planning on writing a sequel...or perhaps a series? I could have continued reading and reading....I especially enjoyed the chapter with the angels praising God. I printed that portion off and used it in my quiet time with the Lord this morning during adoration. I have written the praises in my journal for future use in prayer. ” — Penny (reader) 86

Introducing The M.O.M System Do you struggle to stay organized? Do you find yourself writing and re-writing lists day after day? Do you struggle to get your children to help around the house? Do you find yourself sounding like a “broken record” constantly repeating to your children what they need to do? Do you find that even if your husband or children offer to help it is easier to just do the work yourself than to explain it to others and coordinate them? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, then The M.O.M. System is for YOU!

“Become the Household Manager (not the Household Doer)” As the household manager, TheMOMSystem helps you organize your priorities and coordinate various needs and tasks for your family. The lists save you time and energy. Start with TheMOMSystem cards and add your own personalization with details or color coding for specific people, priorities, or tasks you have delegated. This allows you to stay more coordinated and be more efficient, leaving you more time and energy for living life well (not just surviving as you fly from crisis to crisis)! Often I found myself being the “Household Doer” instead of the “Household Manager” — I was trying to be the one doing everything, but kept being overwhelmed by my never-ending “to do” list. TheMOMSystem helps you involve your children in ways that give them clear direction, clear expectations, and clear accountability. TheMOMSystem helps you teach them to be personally responsible for the tasks you assign them and helps you hold them accountable for communicating with you about their responsibilities. TheMOMSystem is also a tool to help you coordinate and communicate with others who interact with your household. Husbands, babysitters and grandparents can become more involved when you use TheMOMSystem to communicate with them. TheMOMSystem promotes you from Household Doer to Household Manager by helping you get better organized, delegate to your family, and communicate with those who interact with your household. To learn more about The M.O.M. System, or to purchase The M.O.M System, please visit www.themomsystem.com

Nana's BIG Storybook by Sheila WatsonWatson-Kraklow A collection of three of the most popular children's stories and rhymes written by Sheila Watson Kraklow, plus a bonus new story; they are all filled with the illustrations of Sheila Watson Kraklow. 131 pages Color Illustrations Complete Bible references included Ages: 5-12 Read-to-me bedtime or read alone Visit DoveQuill Publishing to order “Nana’s BIG Storybook” http://www.dove-quill-publishing.com/Nana-s-BIGStorybook.html

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Meet the Ruby for Women Writers Aunt Dots, Master Gardener Aunt Dots has been writing for Ruby for Women since the very beginning. Her love for gardening started early in her life: “I believe I got my love for growing flowers from my mother. She had a large flower garden with annuals and dahlias. I had my first flower garden after I married and we lived in a garden apartment.” She now has perennial gardens, rose gardens, grape vines, asparagus, currants, gooseberries, walnut trees, apple trees, and hazelnut trees. In the winter months, Aunt Dots sews, making quilts that she has donated to a Mennonite Relief auction.

Scott Henderson, Vintage Image Crafts Scott is the creator of Vintage Image Crafts, a website where vintage images are the inspiration behind all of the crafts and scrapbooking projects. From the romantic to the whimsical, Victorian and turn-of-the-century illustrations can give your creativity a distinctive touch. These classic illustrations and photographs are rich in color, artistic technique and symbolism. This bygone art captures the essence of life’s highlights - holidays, celebrations and sentiments – vividly. You can find Scott at www.vintageimagecrafts.com

Beth Brubaker, Footprints in the Mud and Ask Beth Beth is the “Family Fun” editor here in the Ruby for Women community. She is a mother of two very active kids whose antics are sprinkled liberally in her columns. She has been married for 13 years to her Knight in Shining Armor, and she is delighted to share with us that they still hold hands in public! Her day job is working as a fabric artist, a homemaker, and a writer. Beth will be writing humorous articles about life in general, puzzles, and an advice column that is based on readers’ questions, as well as sharing hints and tips for everyday life that she comes across in her travels between her laundry room, living room, and kitchen. Don’t miss Beth’s columns in every issue of Ruby for Women! You can read more of Beth’s posts on her blog, “Footprints in the Mud” at www.footprintsinthemudblog.blogspot.com or email her at bethatruby@aol.com

Laura Brandt is the owner of Wentworth County Quiltworks and a child of the King whose one desire is to please the Lord. She quilts and maintains her website and her blog, as well as serving as a Moderator at Authorized Version Bible Believers Fellowship forum. She’s also edited books for up-and-coming Christian authors. Visit Laura at her new quilting website, www.wentworthcountyquiltworks.com, her blog, http://laurasthoughtsonscripture.blogspot.com, or the forum at http://avbbf.com.

Lynn Mosher, Devotions Since the year 2000, Lynn Mosher has lived with fibromyalgia and other physical conditions. During this time, the Lord placed the desire in her heart to write for Him. Now, armed with God’s purpose for her life and a new passion, she reaches out to others to encourage and comfort them through her writing, giving God all the glory. She lives with her husband in their empty nest in Kentucky. On occasion, their three offspring, who have flown the coop, come to visit, accompanied by a son-inlaw and three granddaughters. Visit Lynn at her blog, Heading Home, at www.lynnmosher.blogspot.com

Carol Mokry, Affiliate Administrator, Ruby for Women

“Jesus found me 37 years ago and we have been walking together ever since. He has been my help, hope and strength as I have walked through dark miles of trials and adversity. First and foremost I am a woman called to follow Jesus Christ. I am a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and a credentialed minister with the Assemblies of God. It is my relationship with God that has made me who I am today. In all these things I can say if God is for me who can be against me, I am more than a conqueror in Him who loves me!”

Lee E. Shilo, Poetry and Short Stories I live on Vancouver Island, in Victoria, Canada, with my loving wife Elisabeth, paranoid cat, and crazy dog. I enjoy writing Poetry, Children Stories, Fantasy/Fiction, and especially (Believe It Or Not) stories. I have been writing professionally for close to 20 years, and have numerous Published Books / eBooks in that time. At present I am retired, but used to work in the print industry producing Wide Format Displays for Conferences and stuff. As well as being my passion, writing affords me some release of daily frustrations and everyday tensions. www.shilocom.com

Katherine Corrigan, Recipes and Crafts Hello, my name is Katherine. I am an open minded and spiritual person who strives to always maintain a positive attitude and greet each new day with grace, dignity and gratitude. I’m honored to meet you and to call you friend! I am originally from England and now living in the US. I have had the privilege of living in, and visiting, several different countries throughout my lifetime. I hold a rare dual citizenship with the UK and the USA, and I am a proud citizen of both. I work very hard to create designs for my shops and to provide an entertaining and informative website and blog. I hope you’ll stop by. Hugs, Katherine www.madeitforyou.com www.katherinescorner.com www.keepsakesbykatherine.etsy.com

Marcia Settles is a stay-at-home homeschool mom of a special learner and a toddler. She has resolved in 2012 to honor God in Spirit, Mind and Body. She enjoys reading and blogging about motherhood, nutrition, special needs and our honorable calling as women. You can check out her new blog at www.lovinggodwithspiritmindandbody.blogspot.com

Theresa Ceniccola is The Christian Mompreneur, a Mentor to Moms Who are Running a Business that Supports Faith and Family. She empowers entrepreneurial moms to build profitable businesses with wisdom and grace through the Christian Mompreneur Mastermind program and her professional Marketing services, which include copywriting, marketing and strategy consulting and private coaching. www.theresaceniccola.com

Gloria Doty: I am a mother of 5 and grandmother of 13. I have owned a catering business, and a Grade A goat dairy. I have managed a restaurant, worked in retail and was Dir. of Children’s’ Ministries for a large church for 10 years. I have been writing since I was in third grade. I currently write 2 blogs about my youngest daughter, Kalisha, and our journey together through the world of mild mental retardation, autism and Aspergers. One blog is written for www.MOMS.FortWayne.com and is titled “Not Different Enough”. The other blog is www.gettingitright-occasionally.blogspot.com I write freelance articles for magazines and am a contributor to two devotional publications: Living the Gospel Life and HopeFull Living.I do not believe it is possible to make it through a day without faith and a sense of humor, even in the darkest times and I try to always reflect that in my writing.

Shannon Mediskey, an educator turned parent turned writer, Shannon Medisky enjoys sharing ways that kids can help themselves. Through entertaining and accessible presentations, stories and activities, Shannon engages and empowers kids to take the leading role in writing their own school—and ultimately life—success stories. Through a relatable tone and immediately applicable ideas, she enables parents to help their children become the very best they can be. Shannon has experience working with children ranging in age from preschool through the 8th grade, and is a parent herself to two young boys, including one with a multitude of special needs. Shannon earned a double BA in Early Childhood Education and Elementary Education from Central Washington University, but credits her children—biologically, via adoption and in the classroom—as her greatest educators. Her articles have been featured in many prominent magazines such as Exceptional Parents, Adoptive Families, Hybrid Mom, Mothering and Focus on the Family’s Thriving Family. She lives in Renton, Washington with her husband, Jason, and their two high-spirited boys, Nate and Mark.

Crystal Rose Patterson, from Toronto, is a poet and spoken word artist. She noticed her ability to write at the tender age of 9. At age 21, she began reading poetry professionally, and performed her first spoken word piece called “first love,” where she received a standing ovation for her inspirational delivery. Her content is about self love, female identity, and beauty. I'm Christena Hammes, married to my best-friend. We met at the Outside Inn so God could change us from the Inside Out!! We have two beautiful daughters (Lena and Amanda), two sons-in-law (Cameron and Justin) and one amazing granddaughter (Savannah Jo). I never knew what the Father's love was all about until I had children of my own. They really do hold your heart and forgiveness comes easy. http://beachbodycoach.com/esuite/home/BlessedandFit# 91

Maxine Young I was born into a Christian family, attended church every week and Church schools even, but it is now as an adult that I am truly learning how to have a personal relationship with the Lord. You can read more of Maxine’s articles and posts on her blog, Hope and Writing http://hopeandwriting.blogspot.com/

Kristin Bridgman

I’ve been married to a very sweet, patient, loving man for 29 years. I’ve been a mom to two sons I love with all my heart for 22 years. I’ve been a born again Christian loving the Lord for 36 years. I home schooled for 14 years. I’m just an ordinary woman who lives for an extraordinary God. http://www.ponderingsbykris.blogspot.com

Tina Smith is a pastor's wife, a mother of 8, and grandmother of two. Some of her accomplishments include studying Global Business Management at the University of Phoenix and being a recipient of the Louis D Brandeis Honor Roll Award for her work with the Brandeis University National Committee in 2000. Her greatest accomplishment by far has been not going insane with all those little blessings the Lord sent her way in the form of children. =)

Ann Babcock -

I am a 59 year old single woman living in upstate New York. Nursing was my occupation for approximately 20 years until I went on disability. I attend Wellsville Bible church, www.wellsvillebiblechurch.com and am very excited this year to be helping with the kid’s club program there. In the past I have helped with other church ministries. My hobbies are reading, swimming, art, and Bible study. I have never tried writing before, yet Praying in Color inspired me. I journal, yet journaling is a very different experience. I was glad for this experience and hope that women get excited about this creative book Praying in Color just as I have. I pray women will purchase one so as to experience the joy of creative prayer.

Sheila Watson, Kraklow, Guest Writer, DoveQuill Publishers Sheila is the author of several books, including “Nana’s Great BIG Storybook,” and “A Mission for Leedle Burro,” as well as a cookbook filled with her “sassy recipe” articles. Sheila is also the owner of DoveQuill Publishing Company. www.dove-quill-publishing.com

Deborah McCarragher, Devotional Contributor Deborah is the author of a Christian inspirational book for women titled “Mission Possible”. The book addresses living in a spiritually-uneven household. You can visit her website at www.AlabasterBoxPublishing.com for more information about her book.

Connie Arnold, Poetry lives in North Carolina, is married and has two children and three grandchildren. In coping with lupus, fibromyalgia and other difficulties, she has turned to the Lord for inspiration and offers her inspirational poetry to offer encouragement, comfort and hope to others who are suffering. She is the author of Beautiful Moments of Joy and Peace, Abiding Hope and Love, and Abundant Comfort and Grace plus a new 2012 inspirational calendar, Glimpses of Grace. She also writes for children and is the author of Animal Sound Mix-up and has two other children’s books under contract. You can visit Connie at www.conniearnold.webs.com or her blog, www.conniearnold.blogspot.com http://www.childrenbooks.webs.com http://childrensauthorconniearnold.blogspot.com

Kendra Peterson has been married to Brad for 21 years. They attend Big Lake Church of God, and they have twin daughters, Rachel and Allissa, who are age 19 and in college. Kendra is a librarian at West Noble Primary School in Ligonier, Indiana for grades K-1. She loves reading to children and helping them learn to read with great books. In her spare time, she loves to camp and ride their Gold Wing around the countryside, and she loves spending time with family.

Ginger Kauffman says she wouldn’t have checked the “autism box” when dreaming about the children she would have, but is so grateful to be the mother of Samuel and his brother, who is also on the autism spectrum. The last 21 years of her life have been an amazing journey. You can read her blog at www.threeminutestonine.com

Elizabeth Baker

is an author and retired counselor drawing on thirty-five years of experience helping individuals apply biblical principles to real-life situations. She currently lives in Pittsburg, Texas where she concentrates on her writing. A widow since her mid 30's, Elizabeth has four grown children, fifteen grandchildren, and six great-grands. You can find Elizabeth’s books at her website at www.elizabethbakerbooks.com

Keith Wallis, Poetry Keith Wallis is an English poet. He is a senior part of the leadership team of Houghton Regis Baptist church. An engineering designer by trade, he brings a eye for detail as well as faith into his poetry. As well as being ‘poet in residence’ at Ruby ezine, he is a moderator at ChristianWriters.com. His blog of ekphrasic poetry is: http://wordsculptures-keith.blogspot.com/ where you’ll also find links to his books and his other blogs. Married to Val in 1970, he has two sons and three grandsons. The eldest grandson is disabled and cannot communicate verbally. Though not an ‘academic’ (school was a disaster!) he was always fond of writing. He began submitting work for publication in the 1980’s after being encouraged by a community writer in residence.

Amanda Johnson, Assistant Editor Amanda has been writing for Ruby for Women for the past two years, and she has been a free-lance writer for several years prior to that, beginning her writing career as a young teen-ager. She also works for Love Unveiled, a ministry to women in undeveloped countries around the world. Amanda brings experience as well as a passion for ministry to the work of Ruby for Women, and she has a heart for reaching out and touching the hearts and lives of women everywhere. Amanda will be working with all of our writers on their submissions, as well as assisting in keeping the Ruby for Women blog and website up-to-date with new information daily.

Nina Newton, Sr. Editor When all of my four older children were in school, I returned to college as a “non-traditional student.” Eventually, I earned degrees in Classics and Philosophy, and a graduate degree in Medieval Studies: History of Theology. After teaching at a small community college in Michigan for seven years, my husband and I were blessed with the adoption of our two beautiful daughters, Gracie and Annie. Gracie is 11 years old and Annie is 9. They were both born in China, and we were able to travel to China two times to bring our daughters home. We live in northern Indiana in a small farming community where I work from my home office. For the past six years I have been designing and creating children’s clothing and various crafts. I began writing ebook patterns for my designs in 2007, and have several patterns available for sale on You Can Make This at www.youcanmakethis.com . I have also been a free-lance writer for many years, writing for two local newspapers when we lived in Michigan. My personal blog is at www.mamaslittletreasures.com where I frequently post tutorials and patterns for crafts and other sewing projects, as well as weekly reflections on life as a woman, wife, mother, and daughter of the King.

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