Ruby for Women, October, 2011

Ruby for Women A voice for every Christian woman October , 2011

Celebrate Autumn Issue!

Meet Charlotte Siems of “This Lovely Place” Make an Autumn Luminary from Vintage Image Craft

October Book Give-Away: “A Time to Heal” by Barbara Cameron

Caramel Candy Apple Recipes from Katherine’s Corner

Embellished Pumpkins for Autumn

“Her worth is far above rubies . . . .”

Proverbs 31:10

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Contents October, 2011 www.rubyforwomen.ning.com

October is such a delightful month! We begin to anticipate the upcoming holidays and all of the joy and festivities of family and friends. Every day of this gorgeous month we are reminded of God’s incredible handiwork as the foliage turns various shades of orange, brown, and red. At our house, we love to cuddle up beside our little fireplace on the chilly evenings of October and play games or read together. We hope you will join us here in the Ruby for Women community as we share ideas for you and your family to help you enjoy the beauty of October!

Senior Editor Nina Newton Assistant Editor Amanda Johnson Creative Assistant Katherine Corrigan Family Fun Editor Beth Brubaker Gardening Dorothy Kurchak Homer Devotions Lynn Mosher, Deborah McCarragher Poetry Keith Wallis, Lee E. Shilo Quilting Laura Brandt Feature Writers Thomas B. Clarke, Carol Mokry, Connie Arnold, Heide Louise Wright, Kristin Bridgman, Amy Lignor, Sheila Watson Kraklow, Scott Henderson, Theresa Ceniccola, Carin LeRoy, Scarlett Von Gunten, Charlotte Siems, Yvonne Anderson, Angela Blake Morris, Kausar Iqbal Ruby for Women 2731 W 700 N Columbia City, IN 46725 editor@rubyforwomen.com

In This Issue . . .

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I Can’t Remember Nina Newton, Sr. Editor

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A Time for Everything Amanda Johnson

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Caramel Candy Apples Katherine Corrigan

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Giving Praise Word Puzzle Beth Brubaker

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A Letter from a Ruby Writer Maxine Young

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Vintage Clown Autumn Ornament Vintage Image Craft

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Night of the Living Dead Deborah McCarragher

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October Book Give-Away “A Time to Heal” by Barbara Cameron

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Simple Tools to Get Beyond Stress and Overwhelm Charlotte Siems

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A Pennyworth of Contemplation Keith Wallis

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Tallent & Lowery 13 Amy Lignor

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Super Secret Zucchini Bread Katherine Corrigan

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Vintage Paper Dolls

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Ruby for Women is an online Christian women’s magazine that offers words of hope, inspiration, and encouragement to women everywhere. Knowing that every woman has a story to tell, we seek to give “voice to every Christian woman,” from all walks of life, of every age, from all around the world.

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Ask Beth Beth Brubaker

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Make Your Own Embellished Pumpkins Katherine’s Corner

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October in the Garden Aunt Dots

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Apple Danish Aunt Dots

An Easement of the Day Keith Wallis

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Book Club at Katherine’s Corner Katherine Corrigan

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Acorn Donut Treats Vintage Mama

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Bible Sampler: Jacob’s Ladder Block Laura Brandt

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Addiction Keith Wallis

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Cheddar Bacon Tomato Pie Vintage Mama

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A Gateway of Release Amanda Johnson

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Embraced in the Heart of Jesus Vintage Mama

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Caramel Apple Muffins Vintage Mama

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Love’s Drought Annette Showler

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Shabby Chic Wreath Katherine’s Corner

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Cessation of Primary Function Annette Showler

Book Review by Sarah Johnson “Loving the Little Years”

by Rachel Jankovic

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New Math Square Puzzle Answer Key

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Giving Praise Word Merge Puzzle Answer Key

New Math Square Puzzle Beth Brubaker

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Inspired Women Succeed

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Meet the Ruby Writers

A Scratch in Time Lee E. Shilo

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Why a Busy Mom of Seven Started a Business Scarlett Von Gunten

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The M.O.M. System

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Spinach Omelet Roll Katherine Corrigan

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Treasures from the East: Spice Box Kausar Iqbal

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A Change of Seasons Lynn Mosher

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Christian Mompreneur Theresa Ceniccola Make an Autumn Luminary Vintage Image Craft

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Footprints in the Mud: The House of Babble Beth Brubaker

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Abstraction Keith Wallis

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Autumn’s Abounding Love Thomas B. Clarke

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October 1: International Frugal Fun Day October 5: Do Something Nice Day October 7: World Smile Day October 10: Columbus Day October 11: Take Your Teddy Bear to Work Day October 14: National Dessert Day October 15: Sweetest Day October 17: Wear Something Gaudy Day

October 19: Evaluate Your Life Day October 21: Count Your Buttons Day October 22: National Nut Day October 23: Mother-in-Law Day October 24: National Bologna Day October 27: National Tell a Story Day October 30: National Candy Corn Day October 31: Carve a Pumpkin Day 3

I Can’t Remember

by Nina Newton

“The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

Psalm 33:17-18 I love my old Bible. I have had it for over 25 years, and I've used it for so many studies and college classes, that it has little marks and notes all over the pages. It is becoming a bit ragged around the edges now, and I'm thinking I should replace it . . . . but every time I try to find another one to replace it, well, it just isn't the same. There's just something comforting in the familiarity of that worn and tattered old book.

The other day I was reading in the book of Psalms when I came across this verse . . . . again. Now I know that I’ve read that verse many, many times over the years, but this time I noticed that I had written a date beside it. In tiny handwriting that I recognize as my own, there is this notation: "March 18, 1990." I don't remember exactly what was going on in my life on that particular day, but it must have been rather significant at the time for me to make that note. To remind me of something.

But from this distance, what is striking to me is the very fact that I really can't remember the specifics of the situation that was causing my heart to break. Oh, of course, I remember much of the general circumstances in which I survived for many years before God gave me permission to escape.

As it turns out, the particular event that brought about that reaction, well, it just doesn't really matter anymore whether it was the first time or the hundredth time that my heart had been broken - the important thing NOW is that I can't remember!

How true it is that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those of us who are crushed in spirit. So to my friends who are just now experiencing the pain of a broken relationship that I have lived through, one day God will heal your broken heart and your shattered dreams, until you no longer even remember the event.

You will live with a broken heart for the rest of your days, but your spirit will not be crushed forever, and that brokenness will be turned to gladness as He delivers you from your troubles.

That little note in my old Bible proved it in my life, and I pray that you remind yourself of this day of sadness, so that you will be able to remember that He is able to heal a broken heart and restore a crushed spirit.

To the joyous restoration of your heart, ~~ Nina 4

A Time For Everything Amanda Johnson Assistant Editor Ruby for Women Happy October! I love fall and I am so excited October is finally here! There’s nothing like waking up to the cool crisp air in the mornings or taking a walk in the refreshing evening breezes.

The humidity is letting go and giving autumn a chance to make her presence known.

Yes, even in Florida the leaves (on some of the trees) change, the pumpkin patches blossom, the scarecrows take a seat on the back porch, and the brilliant shades of orange, red, yellow, crimson gold and brown make their way across the south!

Many of us do the same in our own life. We want to hang on to the routine. We fight to maintain control over our life and sometimes the lives of others. We are so scared to let go and allow God to work that we make ourselves and everyone around us miserable.

When we finally admit that we’re lost, bored, out of control or whatever it is that we are, the Lord is only too happy to take over. Once He has the reigns, watch out, because amazing things are going to happen!

It might start out slow at first, but before long, life will be filled with the brilliant colors of freedom, change, growth, and abundant joy!

Sometimes it takes longer for fall to reach us here in Florida, mainly due to the humidity’s lack of desire to let go and let another season take a spin at the weather. The nagging presence of the humidity reminds me of the phrase “letting go and letting God.”

As we read through this October edition of Ruby for Women let us take time to remember the words of Ecclesiastes 3:1, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:”

All summer long the humidity plays in the south thickening up the air, wreaking havoc on weather patterns, and turning warm days out in the sun into days of unbearable heat and stickiness.

There is a place and time for everything including the seasons in our own life!

Although the first day of fall is at the end of September, the humidity here in the south kicks and screams refusing to give up its turn until October and sometimes even November.

Blessings,

Amanda

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Caramel Candy Apples from the kitchen of

Katherine’s Corner Try some of these yummy candy apples this autumn!

I have included three recipes, so I hope you will try all of them!

Pistachio Chocolate Apples 1/2 cups semisweet chocolate chips 1 (1-oz) square unsweetened chocolate ( coarsely chopped) 6 medium red eating apples such as (Gala, Empire, or Red Delicious) 6 flat wooden Popsicle sticks (or try using chocolate or candy-coated thick pretzel sticks) 1 bar (1.4 oz) chocolate-covered toffee candy (chopped) 3 Tbsp chopped pistachios In heavy 1-quart saucepan over low heat or microwave-safe bowl in microwave oven, melt chocolate, stirring until smooth. Set aside. Place apples on a tray or plate. Remove stems if present, and insert a stick into each through stem end. With teaspoon, spoon melted chocolate over each apple around the stick, letting excess drip down the apple. Sprinkle chocolate with toffee candy and pistachios. Refrigerate apples until chocolate is set.

Caramel Candied Apples 12 crisp apples (Gala, Empire, or Red Delicious) 1 1/3 cups dark corn syrup 1 1/3 cups granulated sugar 1 1/3 cups light brown sugar( packed) 1 1/3 cups heavy cream 1/4 tsp salt 3 Tbsp unsalted butter 3/4 tsp vanilla Line a baking sheet with lightly oiled parchment paper. Push a popsicle stick halfway through the core of each apple. Combine the syrup, sugars, heavy cream, and salt in a large saucepan over medium-high heat. Simmer until the mixture reaches 240Ëš. Remove from the heat and whisk in the butter and vanilla. Let cool for 8 to 10 minutes, until caramel thickens to a toffee like consistency. Dip the apples into the caramel and place on the prepared baking sheet. Cool completely.

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Caramel Apples 12 crisp apples (Gala, Empire, or Red Delicious) 1 1/3 cups dark corn syrup 1 1/3 cups granulated sugar 1 1/3 cups light brown sugar 1 1/3 cups heavy cream 1/4 tsp salt 3 Tbsp butter 3/4 tsp vanilla extract Line a baking pan with a generously oiled sheet of parchment paper. Push a candy apple stick into the core of each apple. Combine the syrup, sugars, heavy cream, and salt in a large saucepan over medium-high heat. Simmer until the mixture reaches 270 Ëšabout 15 minutes. Remove from heat, stir in the butter and vanilla. Let cool for 6 to 8 minutes, until caramel thickens to a toffee-like consistency. Dip and gently swirl the apples into the caramel and place on the prepared baking sheet. Let cool completely.

Enjoy! But don’t tell your dentist ;o)

Giving Praise Word Merge Puzzle

by Beth Brubaker

Answers on page 63.

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A Letter from a Ruby Writer . . . . .

As we have been building the ministry and work of Ruby for Women over the past year and a half, it has been our prayer that God will bring us the writers and contributors who have a heart for encouraging and inspiring others with words of hope. Throughout the many months that we have been praying and working, God has brought us many wonderful people to work with in this ministry.

One of the goals that we have here at Ruby for Women is to provide a place where every Christian woman can have a voice, and where her voice can be heard. So, when we received this letter from one of our new writers, it just seemed like a good idea to share it with you! Please welcome Maxine into the Ruby family of writers, and get to know her as you read her articles in upcoming issues of the Ruby for Women magazine as well as on the More from Ruby website. “Hello Amanda!

I was so happy to receive your email. It took everything for me to contain myself, because of how this article came to Ruby for Women. I don't know how politically correct it is for me to tell this story right off the bat, but I believe you should know my introduction to Ruby for Women was an answer to prayer.

For a while now, I felt that God was telling me I needed to write about Family Worship. I heard His voice, yet shuffled my feet about getting it done. It wasn't until someone that I do not know personally, mentioned off-handedly about the importance of Family Worship. It is very difficult for me to believe in coincidences, but I do believe in God tapping me on the shoulder and saying - get to it!

I set off to write the article and it took me longer than I expected, but I enjoyed writing it more than I expected, and I just knew that I was writing it for someone. After 5 rewrites, I finally sent it to the site I usually write for. It was promptly rejected. I was a little devastated, but not enough to give up on it. I felt God wanted me to write an article about worship, because there was someone out there who needed to know about it. That feeling never left my heart, and so I prayed and I asked the Lord to take this article to where it needed to be. I asked that He would take it to where it would be of the most value to Him and those who read it I wrote the request in my prayer journal, I prayed, and I left it to God. As time passed, I actually had a friend who was not happy with me for doing that, he thought I should be shopping it around, but I told him - this is God's article, not yours. He will take care.

A month or so ago, I started using Twitter (I'm very late to the party), and I would just post once a day. One day I found someone who posted about free Christian e-books, being that I liked both 'free' and 'books', I followed her and she sent me a message noting that I was a devotional writer, and told me I should check out Ruby for Women. God immediately brought the worship article back to my mind. I explored your site and read some very uplifting articles there which served as encouragement to me. I took a few days and revamped the worship article a bit, and with a prayer, I presented it to you yesterday. You accepted it. That is how I know this article is for your readers.

I couldn't be any happier than I am right now that it has gone exactly to where God wanted it to go. What a blessing! I would be thrilled to write more for Ruby. I am available and I am willing. I will do the best job I can with God's help. Thank you so much for allowing God to work through your ministry, and blessing me by encouraging my faith. Perhaps even this story can serve as encouragement to someone else!� Maxine 8

Celebrate Autumn with this Vintage Clown Ornament! from Vintage Image Craft Here is a fun craft project you can make as your family celebrates the changing of the seasons. It would be really cute to make this Autumn Tree and decorate it with vintage autumn decorations, and Vintage Image Craft is just the place to go to find beautiful images for all your crafting projects.

This vintage clown ornament illustrates the way that people in the Victorian era reveled in celebrating the autumn season. This ornament is two-sided and works just as well as a door decoration or little whimsy for your Halloween / autumn display. Visit Vintage Image Craft for more vintage images for your holiday craft projects: www.vintageimagecraft.com

Materials for Autumn Clown Ornament • • • • • • • • • •

Vintage image of clown (see below) Matte photo paper, heavyweight.

Thin (1/8") ribbon (4' each pale orange and black).

Pony beads with large holes (two orange and two black).

Copper wire, 8", medium weight.

Craft glue or glue stick.

Single-hole punch (see Tips).

Needle-nose pliers.

Scissors or craft knife. A paper cutter is useful for straight cuts.

Self-healing cutting mat, if using a craft knife.

Instructions 1. Print the vintage images on matte photo paper. Trim them, leaving a 1/8" border around the full, rectangular image. Glue the images back to back, press them flat and let dry, then trim them to the final size. Punch a hole in each corner.

2. Twist the copper wire around a pencil 4-5 times to form a loose spiral, slide out the pencil, and bend the wire into a curved hanger shape. Thread two beads onto each end of the wire.

Bend the wire, 1" from both ends. Put the ends of the wire through the two holes at the top of the ornament, pinch the ends tight against the wire, thread the beads over the ends of the wire, and bend the remaining end over the beads to secure the hanger to the card.

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3. Cut four 12" lengths of orange ribbon, and four 12" lengths of black ribbon. Bundle two orange and two black lengths and fold them in the middle. Feed the folded end through one hole at the bottom of the ornament. Bring the loop around the corner to the front of the card and feed the other ends of the ribbon through the loop, pulling tight until the ribbon is firmly knotted. You may want to put a drop of glue on the back of the knot to prevent it from loosening. Trim the ends of the ribbons at various lengths.

4. Hang your Clown Ornament on your Autumn / Halloween tree and wait for the Great Pumpkin to deliver your presents!

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We used a standard office-type hole punch that creates a 1/4" hole. You might prefer a smaller 1/8" hole punch.

This Autumn / Halloween Clown ornament makes a frolicsome door decoration, too. If you want it bigger, just enlarge the image to the size you want. Adjust the size of the beads (or you might use fluffy pom poms instead) and the width of the ribbon. You might also want to laminate the paper for durability, and add grommets to the corner holes. Welcome Autumn!

Thank you to Vintage Image Craft for sharing their beautiful seasonal craft projects with the Ruby for Women community!

Visit Vintage Image Craft for all your holiday craft projects at www.vintageimagecraft.com

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Night of the Living Dead

by Deborah McCarragher Halloween is a culturally popular holiday observed on October 31st.

It was a Celtic pagan festival, and then became the Christian holiday All Saints' Day, but today is a secular celebration. Halloween activities include trick-or-treating, wearing costumes, carving jack-o'-lanterns, apple bobbing, visiting haunted attractions, committing pranks, telling ghost stories or other frightening tales, and watching horror films.

Wikipedia, the on-line encyclopedia, has this to say about Halloween: “The word Halloween is first attested in the 16th century and represents a Scottish variant of the fuller All-Hallows-Even ("evening"), that is, the night before All Hallows Day. Although the phrase All Hallows is found in Old English (ealra hálȝena mæssedæȝ, the feast of all saints), All-Hallows-Even was not attested until 1556.”

In traditional Celtic Halloween festivals, large turnips were hollowed out, carved with faces and placed in windows to ward off evil spirits. The carving of pumpkins is associated with Halloween in North America where pumpkins are both readily available and much larger – making them easier to carve than turnips. Many families that celebrate Halloween carve a pumpkin into a frightening or comical face and place it on their doorstep after dark. The practice of dressing up in costumes and begging door to door for treats on holidays dates back to the Middle Ages. Trickor-treating resembles the late medieval practice of “souling,” originating in Ireland and Britain. Poor folk would go door to door on Hallowmas (November 1st), receiving food in return for prayers for the dead on All Souls Day (November 2nd).

The early Christian church moved a festive celebration called All Saints' Day from May to November 1 and renamed it All Hallows' Eve, from which we get the word Halloween. This was an overt attempt on the part of believers to infiltrate pagan tradition with the truth of the gospel. It was a bold evangelistic move designed to demonstrate that only the power of the resurrected Christ could protect men and women from the destructive ploys of Satan and his demons.

An article posted on ChristianityToday.com in 2009 cited a Barna Research study which had this to say: “The majority of American Christians do not believe that Satan is a real being or that the Holy Spirit is a living entity, the latest Barna Research survey found. Nearly six out of ten Christians either strongly agreed or somewhat agreed with the statement that Satan “is not a living being but is a symbol of evil,” the survey found. 40 percent strongly agreed with the statement while 19 percent of American Christians somewhat agreed. In contrast, about 35 percent of American How did thebelieve enemy Satan of our is souls suchstrongly numbers?

The answer is deception. all Satan startedisin Christians real.achieve 20 percent disagreed with the statement It that the garden.

The devil found his method so successful, that he’s never changed it. merely symbolic and about one-tenth (9 percent) somewhat disagreed. The remaining 8 percent of American Christians responded they were unsure what to believe about the existence of What can us as believers do to counter-balance a society that deems Halloween “harmless?” For Satan.” starters, we can have an open door for evangelism and education. The deception of a holiday such as Halloween, with its witches, vampires, demons, skeletons, and overall theme of evil, can 11

How did the enemy of our souls achieve such numbers? The answer is deception. It all started in the garden. The devil found his method so successful, that he’s never changed it.

What can us as believers do to counter-balance a society that deems Halloween “harmless?” For starters, we can have an open door for evangelism and education. The deception of a holiday such as Halloween, with its witches, vampires, demons, skeletons, and overall theme of evil, can become an opportunity to demonstrate the dynamic power of Christ to redeem us from death. Halloween distorts the reality of true spiritual warfare, and glorifies the dark side of the spiritual world. However, we can tell them about the One who triumphed over evil, and who came to give us a purpose, and a God-given destiny.

If you allow your children to trick-or-treat, focus on costumes that are based on Bible characters, animals, cartoon characters, historical people, and other “non-horror” themes. We need to be careful not to add to the “feeding frenzy” of horror movie characters, demons, witches, ghosts, goblins, the devil, and other evil beings. When my son was little, we would decorate our house with scary “nature things” like spiders & webs, lizards, snakes - and not “death and demon” related items most often found in Halloween-themed stores. We carved pumpkins and displayed them proudly. We handed out candy, tiny Christian toys, and witnessing tracts that were family-friendly – all using the holiday to talk about death and dying, and how Jesus loved them and died for them.

This Halloween take time to communicate to your children and your friends. Although death and the grave are very real, evil has been defeated by Jesus through His death on the cross. We are more than conquerors over the powers of darkness, demonstrated by Jesus’ resurrection (Colossians 2:15), and the Holy Spirit’s power in us as believers (Ephesians 6:11-17).

Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life – He is a picture of the Living (not so) dead – as death had no power over Him, and it will have no power over us who are in Him. “For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus… For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.” (I Thessalonians 4:14; 16)

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October Book Give-Away from Ruby for Women

A Time to Heal

by Barbara Cameron He thought he’d left his enemies behind . . . . and his secrets.

Chris Matlock, a wounded and weary ex-soldier, just wants peace in his life, and he believes he’s found it when he visits Matthew and Jenny Bontrager. He envies their happiness and simple life but doesn’t believe that that life is meant for him.

When he meets Matthew’s sister Hannah a small spark of hope flares within him. Despite the clash of cultures between the former military man and the pacifist Amish woman, Chris and Hannah fall in love. Chris settles into life in the community, helping Matthew with the farm.

Then the threats begin. At first, Chris plans to leave in order to protect Hannah. Then he discovers who his enemy is and realizes that he must stay and face his adversary, even if it means revealing a secret he hoped would remain buried forever.

If you would like to enter the October Book Give-Away at Ruby for Women, simply visit our blog at www.rubyforwomen.com and leave your comment on the Book Give-Away post. Be sure to include your email address so we can contact you if you are the winner! Be watching every month at Ruby for Women for our book give-aways. If you are an author and would like us to feature you and your books here at Ruby for Women, please contact us at editor@rubyforwomen.com and we’ll get you on the schedule.

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Simple Tools to Get Beyond Stress and Overwhelm

by Charlotte Siems The calendar is filling up. The list gets longer and longer. The first book club meeting is in two weeks. The week after that choir begins.

School starts next week. There are two exercise clinics and two classes to teach within the next month. Two trips out of state are looming on the horizon. And that doesn’t even count the laundry.

“School starts next week” sounds so simple. As we begin our twenty-fifth year of homeschooling, I know what it really means: Intense mornings of multi-level teaching, and bracing myself to provide accountability and focus for our students.

Even when I “knew” that eventually everything would be handled, I went into stress mode almost automatically. Turns out I felt most comfortable in a state of anxiety after having grown up in a home where feeling anxious was the norm. If there wasn’t enough to get stressed about, I created stress so I’d feel at home.

The good news is that I am learning to use some simple tools to get out of the stress zone and into productive mode. Here’s the short list:

I caught myself getting overwhelmed today.

Catching myself was a good thing. There was a time when I would not have recognized the symptoms until I was careening downhill into a headlong crash. Those meltdowns usually involved tears, lots of Kleenex, serious conversations with the hubby and emotional nuclear waste.

Stop. Recognize impending stress feelings so you can deal with them before they progress.

The crisis was usually blamed on hormones, fatigue, stress, or just “being overwhelmed.”

Write. Write in a journal when you feel the stress starting. Make a list on paper of what really needs to be done and when. Write things on the calendar or put them in your phone with an alarm. You don’t have to do it all today. Get it out of your head and onto paper so you can see what really IS.

I didn’t realize that the meltdowns were mostly avoidable.

The downhill slide started with thoughts.

Random thoughts, like dandelion seeds floating through the air and getting tangled in my hair.

The more thoughts that accumulated, the more crowded my brain became. The thoughts were floating around in my mind, creating an undercurrent of vague uneasiness.

It didn’t take much to tip the scales into overload when there was already an accumulation of underlying stress.

Look. Step back and distance yourself from what is happening. Analyze without emotion.

Be careful of sweeping generalizations, like “This ALWAYS happens,” or “I NEVER get to ____.” This was my normal mode of thinking.

Think. Be aware of automatic thought patterns. You do have the choice to change your thoughts. Thoughts secrete chemicals that create emotions. Thoughts add up to your attitude. You can even change the physical structure of memories in your brain by thinking differently about them when they come up in your thoughts.

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Details. Vague, floating thoughts create stress.

Back to pen and paper. Details show the reality and remove the fear of the unknown. We tend to avoid details because we want the freedom to be flexible. Freedom is actually found in the details. Writing down, planning out, scheduling in—when you have the details you see the big picture and know where you can flex.

Living in an overwhelmed state can seem natural and understandable. After all, we’re so busy we SHOULD be stressed out, right? It doesn’t have to be that way.

Give yourself a checkup by becoming aware of your stress feelings. What brought it on? What automatic thoughts did you immediately think?

The next time you feel the overwhelm rising, use these simple tools to help lower your stress level. As your calendar fills up and your list gets longer, you can smile and feel confident in your ability to handle it with the right thoughts and all the details! **************************

Charlotte Siems is a home-maker, home manager, T-Tapp Trainer, teacher, speaker and author. Her story of losing over 100 pounds with T-Tapp has encouraged thousands of people all over the world. She specializes in making home management and T-Tapp "doable" for real people and real life. She is happy to be a wife and mother of twelve children whom she has successfully taught at home for 25 years.

Visit Charlotte and read more of her blog posts at www.charlottesiems.com

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A Pennyworth of Contemplation

A pennyworth of contemplation on a bridge twixt here and there.

A moments pause or hesitation, the warmth upon face of sun clad embrace, as speed flowing race of water at pace tumbles all troubles and care.

The sounds of birds on the grasses, rustle of trees in the breeze, the touch on your cheek as it passes; the cares fall away as the moments of day begin just to play and problems well may turn into dreams and hearts ease.

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Tallent & Lowery 13

by Amy Lignor of The Write Companion

Let the adventure begin! 13 is the very first book in an exciting adventure series that has already been referred to by bestselling author, Amy Ferris, as “the DaVinci Code with heart!”

The characters of Leah Tallent and Gareth Lowery are being talked about everywhere since the release of 13 in early September.

This is a story that will take the reader from the basement of the New York Public Library to the ‘infamous’ Winchester House, located in San Jose, California.

No one knows why Sarah Winchester continued to build this odd mansion with stairways that go into the ceiling, windows that look out into other rooms, and fireplaces that never go out of the rooftops.

The mansion also has an unmistakable attention to the number 13 - the number of hooks in the closets, the number of drains in the sinks - and Leah Tallent knows exactly why 13 is such a huge part of the Winchester Mansion.

There’s something buried in that house that will, quite literally, change the world.

From there, Leah Tallent and Gareth Lowery find themselves on the streets where Jack the Ripper once roamed, and inside an old building that was condemned and torn down where this killer took his last victim.

But the floors still remain, and the attention shown to the number 13, yet again, is something the reader must know.

In fact, it has been said that Mrs. Winchester felt guilty because of her husband’s Winchester gun creations that took people‘s lives, and she thought she was haunted by the spirits of the dead.

From the streets of a madman to the streets of a religious icon, Tallent and Lowery continue their quest to collect certain items that, once together, form the ‘key’ to a mystery begun in 1902.

According to legend, she believed her life was unavoidably affected by departed souls, and the way to try and be friendly with the spirits, it seemed, was to build them a nice place to visit.

Then, it is on to Loch Ness, where a famous man once held ‘court’ with his subjects. Aleister Crowley’s old house, situated on the Loch, directly affects the legend of 13, as well as being the home base of many religious and fantastical characters that still exist today.

According to another legend, Mrs. Winchester enacted a nightly séance to help with her building plans and for protection from “bad” spirits. While she sometimes drew up simple sketches of the building ideas, there were never any blueprints! The building just kept continuing until her death.

In Glastonbury, there stands a tower - a relic of an old church that supposedly was the scene of a magnificent legend that literally came to life.

And this location will finally unveil what Tallent & Lowery have been striving to find.

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This is the first in a truly amazing series that will have readers glued to every magnificent page, and have them running to Google in order to look up the historical facts of these present locations.

Tallent & Lowery embark on a whirlwind treasure hunt that will have astrological, religious, and passionate repercussions. Gareth and Leah will quickly learn that the theory of duality is correct: For every bad there is a good and, for Heaven, there most assuredly exists …

Hell.

This is how it all begins… This is how the world of Tallent & Lowery is ‘opened up’ to readers in order to fascinate, awe, excite, and offer pure adventure and sincere fun to everyone!

The author has spent her life behind a keyboard. An author of historical romance (The Heart of a Legend); and science fiction/fantasy (Mind Made), Amy has evolved with the publishing industry as time has gone on.

Once the Editor-in-Chief of an east coast publishing house, Amy is now the owner of two businesses in the literary realm. She is the Owner/Operator of The Write Companion, offering ghostwriting, editing, reviews, and interviews, as well as being a top reviewer and interviewer for a slew of magazines and websites.

Amy is the woman behind the much-beloved blog of humor called A Yankee State of Mind, (which is featured on everything from The Write Companion to Humor Outcasts, to The Feathered Quill), and she has also just become the publisher for a brand-new company called Precious Gems Publishing.

With this new series, Leah Tallent and Gareth Lowery - starring in seven books - will be finding themselves in locations and situations that fit together like puzzle pieces, as they unveil mysteries of historical and monumental proportions.

Storm, beginning in England where the world of a “fake” Shakespeare comes into play. They will head to the tombs of Petra and the caves of Qumran overlooking the Dead Sea, leading to a little-known location that was once owned by Queen Cleopatra called Cleopatra’s Mines.

From there, the reader will become lost in The Heroes Companion, where they are taken to Greece, following an intrepid librarian who uncovers a lost treasure that will lead to a moment in time when the actual Fuhrer went to a remote island to find The Charlatan’s Crown.

The sword of the Archangel Michael will be introduced, as readers journey into the Palace of Knossos to discover what was left over to find, and solve a mystery that no one knows anything about.

Rasputin and a strange ‘egg’ comes next, as a world of intrigue and mystery is unveiled. And, finally, to a climax that will have people truly shocked, speaking to each other at water coolers and on their cell phones as they ‘fall’ across a story based on history - that they never even knew existed.

The adventures of Tallent & Lowery are about to set the fiction world on fire! And readers will be thrilled to know that the whole thing is based on a very simple fact that has been headlining Newsweek and other major magazines mysterious data that was buried years ago involving…the 13th sign!

Join Tallent & Lowery on the Adventure of a Lifetime!

Amy’s latest book, Tallent & Lowery 13 is available from Amazon, and you can read more about Amy at www.thewritecompanion.com and www.preciousgemspublishing.com You can also connect with Amy on her personal page in the Ruby for Women community: rubyforwomen.ning.com/profile/AmyLignor

After 13 has come to a close, readers will be taken on a new adventure, The Sapphire 18

Katie’s Super Secret Zucchini Bread It’s that time of year when we all have more zucchini than we can ever get our family to eat fresh from the garden.

Even if we LOVE fried zucchini, eventually we need to find a way to do something different with that wonderful autumn vegetable! And if you don’t have a gazillion zucchini in your garden, I’m pretty sure that one of your neighbors or friends from church will be negotiating with you to take a few off their hands. Here’s a yummy way to use up all those extra zucchinis that are taking over your kitchen, and create a special treat for your family at the same time!

Katie shares this with us: “We have had an abundance of zucchini in our garden this season. We have had it grilled, sautéed, raw, baked, stir-fried, and now in my super-secret zucchini bread.

That’s right, friends, I’m sharing my secret, low-sugar recipe with you! Enjoy!”

What you’ll need: 1 ½ c. all purpose flour (sifted) 2 tsp. ground cinnamon ½ tsp baking soda ½ tsp baking powder ½ tsp salt 1.2 tsp nutmeg ¼ c. sugar ¾ c. Splenda ¼ c. applesauce (low sugar) ½ c. cooking oil 1 egg ¼ c. raisins ¼ c. walnuts, chopped (optional)

1 c. zucchini, skin and seeds removed (very finely shredded, it should look like applesauce) Cooking spray Whipped topping, or freshly whipped cream (optional) Large mixing bowl Medium mixing bowl 8 x 4 x 2 loaf pan Sifter Grater / shredder Wire cooling rack

Before you start: Preheat over to 350 degrees and generously spray loaf pan (bottom and sides) with cooking spray.

Let’s make it! Put all dry ingredients in a large mixing bowl and combine using a fork. In a medium bowl combine shredded zucchini, applesauce, sugar, Splenda, cooking oil, egg, raisins and walnuts and mix well using a fork or whisk. Slowly pour into dry ingredients, mixing a little at a time until moist. (It will look lumpy, but shouldn’t look dry. If dry, add a dribble of oil).

Spoon into prepared loaf pan. Cook for approximately 50 – 70 minutes. It will get a nice, light brown color. Test for doneness with a toothpick or wooden chopstick. Cool in pan for 10 minutes.

Gently remove loaf from pan and let cool on wire rack. Cool completely.

Serving suggestions: Slice in ½ inch pieces and top with whipped topping or butter.

Katie’s Tid-Bits: If you prefer your zucchini bread a bit sweeter, skip the applesauce and Splenda and use 1 ¼ c. of sugar instead.

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Vintage Paper Dolls from the collection of Vintage Mama

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Ask Beth Top Ten Tips for Selling at Craft Shows

by Beth Brubaker Dear Beth, I like to make crafts, but have never entered a craft show before. Can you give me any tips?

~~ Crafting Newbie Dear Newbie, Proverbs 31 speaks about the biblical housewife. One of the wonderful things she can do is make crafts and sell them, which is where you come in. The question is where, and when?

That's where I come in.

1. Find a local craft show in the newspaper.

These shows are usually small and don't cost much to rent a space. Test out your wares here first so you aren't putting out a lot of money in the beginning.

2. Ask questions. Call the contact number listed and ask if you need to bring your own table, chair, and electrical outlet (if you need one) and if they can mail you a contract.

Most shows usually provide tickets for a free lunch if they are selling food, but ask how many tickets you get for lunch- some provide two for you and a partner, but others only offer lunch to the main crafter.

3. Tell them what you are selling. If you're selling food goods, let them know what you're selling right then- they might not let you sell certain items that would clash with their own sales, or they might have too many vendors selling the same type of item and not need you at that particular show.

4. Have a variety of items, in different price ranges. Have at least three types of items of a similar genre that will tie in with a theme. Don't sell signs for the garden along with Christmas ornaments, for instance.

Have higher end items (usually no more than $25.00-$50.00), mid-range items ($10.00$25.00), and low end items ($10.00 and under).

That way you have something everyone can afford.

5. Have a neat, eye-catching setup. See if you can display your items at eye-level using stands or fabric draped boxes. Not only will your display allow the customers to see things better, they can also see your items at a distance, which might bring more people over to your table.

Use plain colored tablecloths in colors that highlight your items- patterned coverings make it harder for people to see what you have.

Leave a large enough opening in the center to make your sales - you don't want to block yourself off from your customers! When you think you have the right setup, move to the front of the table (like you were a customer) to get a better perspective.

6. Be friendly! Whenever someone walks by your table, smile and say hello, even if they are just passing by. Greet anyone who comes to your table, and ask if there is anything they are interested in. 'What can I do for you today?' gets a much better reaction than 'Can I help you?' because it requires more than a yes or no answer.

If you give them a choice of yes or no in the beginning, most times the answer will be 'No, I'm just looking.'

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7. Clearly written price tags. When you hear most of your customers ask 'How much is this?', chances are you're prices are not visible enough. Make tags with bold print, placed on the item (or tagged) facing the customer.

8. Display business cards. Always have some way for the 'browsers' to get in touch with you.

Have a little card holder or a small basket to hold your business cards, usually placed somewhere at the very front of the table where they're most visible.

9. Make signs. 3 x 5 cards make excellent small signs to plant on your table. I like to give suggestions for use of my items (one sign for each type of item), then fold under the bottom inch of the card and tape it to the table for a little self-standing sign. This will also help as an eye-catcher if you don't have any standing displays.

10. Always thank the customer. Place their items gently into a bag, add one of your business cards with a receipt, and thank them for choosing to shop at your table. Smile warmly and wish them a good day (and mean it).

Ask them to fill out their name and email in a notebook you provide, so you can let them know when your next show is. You might just earn a following!

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Brighten up your Home this Autumn with these

Embellished Pumpkins from Katherine’s Corner I thought you might enjoy some “no carve” pumpkin craft and decorating ideas. Some of us either don’t want to deal with the mess or simply are looking for a little something different. A grown up version is always fun!

The gold pumpkins are great because I use them for Thanksgiving decorating too. Place them on your fireplace mantel, on your table, or on your porch.

Decorate a pumpkin with sparkles, patterns, embellishments, designs. Use a dry erase marker to draw your pattern then just paint or hot glue your way to a grown up pumpkin. Use candies, beads, ribbon, buttons, etc. and adhere them to your pumpkins. I hope you find these ideas fun, they’re all very easy to do and only require a few supplies and patience. Remember, if you are using paint to create, make sure you work in a well-ventilated area.

What You Need: Paint Spray Paint Hot glue /glue gun

Dry erase marker Candy, Sequins, beads, brick-a-brack, for decorating Clean up supplies, newspaper, cloth, sponge.

Have Fun! You can always include the kids, too!

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October in the Garden with Aunt Dots AUTUMN IN ZONE FIVE Autumn here is such a lovely and beautiful time of the year! I love living so close to the woods. The neighbor’s barn looks so pretty framed against the autumn trees. Autumn also means cleaning the gardens and getting ready for spring. Having your gardens clean now will be a big help in the spring.

In reading a garden magazine, they suggested that after cleaning the garden, sprinkle some weed inhibitor over the ground, but do not work it in as it will become a barrier to the sprouting weed seeds in the spring.

I have problems with my garden path. Flower seeds find enough dirt in the path to sprout. So, I’m spreading the weed inhibitor on the path. To make the path some years ago, I placed old roofing shingles on the path and covered them with mulch. At first I tried the plastic bags from the mulch, but the mulch slid on the plastic when I stepped on it. Whoops!! Out came the bags and in went the shingles.

I have to tell you about a nice young couple in my neighborhood, Craig and Denise. This is Craig with his dog, Buddy. Craig was laid off a few years ago and decided to go into gardening. Would you believe he planted 135 apple trees (20 varieties), tart and sweet cherries, peaches, pears, plums, and nectarines, as well as 850 blueberry bushes?

He also has bees to pollinate the fruit. So, since he has bees, he has honey. He sells his honey to local stores.

This year some of the trees produced more than they could hold.

The peaches produced well as did the nectarines. I liked the nectarines. They are like a peach without the fuzz. With so many varieties of apples, there are some for eating, cooking and juice.

Craig’s apples make delicious apple Danish, a recipe which I would like to share with you that I saved from Country Magazine some years ago.

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APPLE DANISH PASTRY 3 cups all-purpose flour 1/2 teaspoon salt 1 cup shortening FILLING

6 cups sliced apples 1/4 cup melted butter or margarine

GLAZE

1 egg white, lightly beaten 1/2 cup confectioner’s sugar

1 egg yolk 1/2 cup milk 1 1/2 cups sugar 2 tablespoons flour 1 teaspoon cinnamon 2-3 teaspoons water

In a mixing bowl, combine flour and salt; cut in shortening until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Combine egg yolk and milk, add to flour mixture. Stir just until dough clings together.

Knead a little to make smooth dough. Divide dough in half. On floured surface, roll half of dough into a 15” by 10” rectangle.

Transfer to a greased 15/10 pan (jelly roll pan).

Mix the filling ingredients and spread over the dough. Roll out the remaining dough and place over the filling. Brush with the egg white.

Bake at 375 degrees for 40 minutes or until lightly brown. Cool on a rack.

Combine the confectioner’s sugar and water and drizzle over the pastry. Yields about 20-24 squares. The dough is also very good for pies as it’s extra flakey. At family gatherings, Aunt Dots is always requested to “Bring some pies.”

Here’s a garden hint: Any time is a good time to kill dandelions. Mix 1 part salt to 3 parts vinegar. Heat until it’s warm, then cool and put in a spray bottle. It kills the dandelions but also other plants so use it carefully. And, clean your garden tools and lawn mower before you put them away.

Be ye thankful,

Aunt Dots Discovery House Publishers Feeding the the Soul with the Word of God

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A Scratch in Time

by Lee E. Shilo This wonderful, loving life with you, has been but a scratch in time, compared to eternity without you.

I set our love in timeless drift, a loop for it to never end.

The universe may now play, this loop again forever.

Each look, each touch, each word of love we ever spoke, shall now, and forever, never diminish, in all the great eternity.

And in this infinite void of space, there shall always be, a place where you and I have loved.

And loved we have, indeed we have, and memories to replay.

Against a void of black, our eternity of love shall shine.

Shine its speck of light, of you and I forever embraced, in sweet surrenders flight.

A lighthouse beacon, lit for all the lost souls of love, that seek their way back home.

Home to a love's sweet embrace and light.

And in the eternal void of infinity, it has only been but a scratch in time.

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Why a Busy Mom of Seven Started a Business My life is full and busy and I love being a wife and mom of 7 children. I homeschool and participate at my kids softball/t-ball games. I found that after homeschooling, my days were spent reading great blogs, talking on Facebook or texting. I was reading every day but only for pleasure - Ted Dekker is my favorite! I also used to nap everyday because I was always so tired. I rarely nap now. When I get tired I use some peppermint essential oil and it gives me so much energy!

I'm creative but wasn't using any of my gifts. I felt like my life was the same every day and I LOVE variety. I've been know to drive home a different way just for a change of scenery.

I was searching for something else to do. And then God brought this amazing business woman into my life - Sandi Krakowski.

She has pink hair, a ring in her nose, she has a traumatic past (that I can relate to), she home schools, is happily married, and she's a millionaire!

I started out just taking her free 7 day Wordpress class and then her Wordpress 1 class. I set up a website. I started taking more classes from her. I went to an all day class in Chicago. It was amazing! I started listening to her free Monday night calls. I went to a weekend event, took more online classes and joined her 6 month GOLD program where I listened and interacted live online with Sandi twice a week.

She encourages her clients to succeed. She shared her mentors with us Chalene Johnson, Bill Glazer, Dan Kennedy. She encourages me to read great books. I then took her free 30 day Make More Money with Your Blog course. I am learning and implementing.

I had some ideas of where I was going, but then it became more clear as to what I wanted to do. My husband revamped my website and I started a new business - iWoman Magazine.

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Connecting women entrepreneurs through social media. I want to connect, inspire, motivate and encourage! And along the way, I'll share part of my story, my traumatic past and what's happening now in my life as a wife and Mom of 7.

I have learned to use my time more wisely. I took Chalene Johnson's 30 Day Challenge to master organization and achieve my goals.

I use a daily To-Do List now. I schedule my time better. I exercise. (wasn't doing that before) I am investing into skills to build a business.

And I am loving it!! My husband is so supportive and encourages me! My children love learning alongside me. My children are already writing and making iMovies and I know that what I am learning will help them to build online business too if they decide they want to do that.

I'm a resource person. I love learning about people and their skills and telling other people who need those skills about them.

I love to connect people. I have made the most amazing friends through social media! I have friends from all over the world now! Here I am, sitting in my family room with my kids around me, interacting and connecting with people in Singapore, Australia, Taiwan, Moldova, Ireland, Switzerland, Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom and Indonesia so far. Amazing!!

I love the variety, the creativity, the interaction, the encouragement I am seeing online through social media. Some Moms love scrapbooking and quilting, I LOVE social media!

I am also learning to be ME! I love to be creative! I am finding my own style- henna in my hair, feathers & fun hats, dressing my truth, and feeling more comfortable in my own body the way God made me. There are a lot of changes going on in my life! I just wanted to share a small part with you!

I hope you keep checking in at iWomanMag.com or connect with my on my Facebook page, to see what I'm up to! It's going to be an amazing adventure!!!

Scarlett Von Gunten, CEO & Editor of iWoman Magazine. The photo above is me on vacation on Vancouver Island at Loveland Bay Provencial Park. On a blow up mattress with my iMac.

LOVE this place!!

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Introducing The M.O.M System Do you struggle to stay organized? Do you find yourself writing and re-writing lists day after day?

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Do you find that even if your husband or children offer to help it is easier to just do the work yourself than to explain it to others and coordinate them?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, then The M.O.M. System is for YOU!

“Become the Household Manager (not the Household Doer)” As the household manager, TheMOMSystem helps you organize your priorities and coordinate various needs and tasks for your family. The lists save you time and energy. Start with TheMOMSystem cards and add your own personalization with details or color coding for specific people, priorities, or tasks you have delegated. This allows you to stay more coordinated and be more efficient, leaving you more time and energy for living life well (not just surviving as you fly from crisis to crisis)!

Often I found myself being the “Household Doer” instead of the “Household Manager” — I was trying to be the one doing everything, but kept being overwhelmed by my never-ending “to do” list. TheMOMSystem helps you involve your children in ways that give them clear direction, clear expectations, and clear accountability.

TheMOMSystem helps you teach them to be personally responsible for the tasks you assign them and helps you hold them accountable for communicating with you about their responsibilities.

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TheMOMSystem promotes you from Household Doer to Household Manager by helping you get better organized, delegate to your family, and communicate with those who interact with your household.

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Spinach Omelet Roll from the Kitchen of Katherine’s Corner Perfect for a chilly autumn evening, or a Sunday night supper! Get your family’s veggies in with this meatless spinach and Swiss cheese omelet roll.

What you’ll need; 12 Eggs separated (yolks in one bowl whites in another) 1 Cup milk 2 10 oz packages frozen spinach (chopped) 1 Cup Swiss cheese (shredded) 2 Tbsp butter 2 Tbsp all purpose white flour ½ tsp Salt ½ tsp Black pepper 1 Cup salsa (your favorite) or fresh tomatoes and onions (chopped)

Non stick cooking Spray 15 ½ x 10 ½ Jelly Roll Pan Wax Paper Saucepan Whisk 1 Medium mixing bowl 1 Large mixing bowl Hand mixer Cloth towel

Before You Start: Line jelly roll pan with wax paper and spray with cooking spray. Preheat oven to 350°.

Let’s Make It! In a saucepan over medium high melt butter, and add flour, milk, salt and pepper, whisk well to avoid lumps. Cook until thickened. Reduce heat to low. In a medium mixing bowl whisk egg yolks well.

Slowly add egg yolks to saucepan mixture and increase heat to medium low, stir often and cook until thickened. Remove from heat and allow to cool for about 15 minutes. In a large bowl beat egg whites until stiff peaks form. Using a rubber spatula gently fold the cooled yolk mixture into the egg whites.

Spread into jelly roll pan. Bake for 20 minutes or until golden brown. Prepare spinach according to package directions and drain well. Place a clean cloth towel onto your counter and invert the omelet onto the towel. Peel away the wax paper. Spread spinach evenly over the omelet, sprinkle evenly with cheese, and roll up. Cut into slices and serve with salsa (or chopped tomatoes and onions) on the side.

Serves 4 – 6 Katie’s Tid-Bits: Need it quicker? Use leftover spinach. Make an omelet in your skillet as usual, spoon in leftover spinach, add cooked bacon if you don’t want it meatless, and cheese.

Fold and eat!

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Treasures from the East Spice Box or Masala ka dabbah

by Kausar Iqbal Pakistan cuisine has its distinctive flavors. The magic of Pakistani cooking is in the blending of spices. All spices have a particular function in a recipe. While some spices are for aroma, some are for flavor and some give body to your creations.

Spice blends differ by region. One factor that influences the blend of spices for each region is the climate. In cold climates there is heavy use of spices that create heat, such as fennel, saffron and ginger powder. These spices are stored in a little box made of stainless steel or copper, filled with all kinds of spices that are used to give Pakistani cuisine its distinctive flavors.

The use of spices in Pakistani cooking has developed over thousands of years. Some spices are native to the land while others were brought by Silk route travelers and have been absorbed with local crops. Mostly Pakistani cooking starts with whole spices which are used for tempering.

Powdered spices, along with onions and tomatoes, help create a base for gravies. In the process of cooking, spices need to be rapidly sprinkled onto food that’s cooking – it’s this speed factor that makes a “masala box” so handy and a must for every kitchen. The “masala box” has had a permanent place in every Pakistan kitchen for hundreds of years, and a valued possession gifted to every bride for setting up her new home.

Traditionally, the “masala box: was made of wood or brass.

Today, you’ll find lighter materials, the most favored being stainless steel, which retains flavors well and is easy to clean. Sometimes it has a clear lid; inside a round box sit seven or eight small containers. There is a close-fitting lid to cover them and another lid for the outer box. The set also includes from 1 to 7 spoons, depending on the set.

While the spices contained within the masala dabbah are a matter of personal taste, some of the most commonly used spices include Cumin seeds, turmeric powder, mustard seeds, garam masala (blend of pepper, cinnamon, cloves, nutmeg, anise, cardamom), coriander powder, fennel seeds and red chili powder.

Masala Dabbah range in size and vary greatly in quality. Common sizes are from about 7" to 12" in diameter. It’s always good to store larger quantities of spices elsewhere, but refill Masala Dabba with freshly ground or whole spices every few weeks. Use it to keep things fresh, organized and convenient. While it's fine to store your spices in small jars, it's hard to cook the Pakistani way.

When the oil is sizzling, you need to add spices fast. The small jar storage system is too difficult to manage when quick decisions need to be made for adding the spices.

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While every region of Pakistan has its own specialized cuisine, one thing common is ‘spices ’.

With minor variations, here’s what you’ll find in most masala boxes:

Turmeric: For cooking, the root of the plant is debarked, dried and powdered. Only a pinch of turmeric is used while cooking – for color (rather than flavor) and for its antiseptic, digestive qualities. Combined with other spices like cumin, black pepper and fenugreek, turmeric is a powerful bacteria and pathogen killer.

Chili: Chili is used as a spice for several reasons; its pungency stimulates the production of saliva. The enzyme amylase thus released helps break down the high starch content food. Chili is loaded with Vitamins A and C. It is also popularly associated with passion and fertility.

Coriander: Coriander is a native of the Mediterranean area, and is valued for its cooling properties. Powdered coriander cuts the sharpness of chili and adds body and taste to the dish it is added to. It helps digestion and absorption of food.

Cumin: Cumin has an aromatic nature. And mostly used as roasted and ground. It’s good for digestion.

Garam Masala: A multi-spice blend is called garam masala (garam means hot) and consists of cardamom, clove, cinnamon, bay leaf, dry ginger and peppercorns, among other ingredients. It’s especially suited to meat and chicken dishes, but equally featured in various vegetarian preparations. In the right quantity, it adds a rich aroma and flavor.

Mustard: Mustard stimulates the appetite and aids in the production of gastric juices. Mustard seeds are spluttered in hot oil; the tempering is added to several dishes: gravies, sautéed veggies, chutney, buttermilk and rice dishes.

Fennel: You’ll find fennel seeds being served after a main meal, as a digestive and mouth freshener.

Fenugreek: Fenugreek, rich in iron and other nutrients, gets included in curry powder, pastes, condiments and savory breads. It has cosmetic value as well. Fenugreek-infused oil helps darken hair. Yogurt-and-fenugreek is a natural hair conditioner.

An efficient organizer, a home remedy kit and a beauty treasure, all rolled into one, that’s the masala box in brief!

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Footprints in the Mud The House of Babble Babble

by Beth Brubaker Do you have a special family language? Words that only those living with you would understand - and can translate easily? When people come to visit, they look at you as if you spoke gobblygook?

We are one such family. People who visit us can't fathom how we can communicate clearly (which is fun most of the time), wearing blank expressions (or amused ones) as my family talks to each other.

However, there is a down side to being able to speak gibberish on a regular basis. When asked a simple request in our 'common' tongue (aka how you normally speak in public), your brain melts and you couldn't decipher a single syllable no matter how hard you try.

Especially if you're a kid. This is what happened the other day. I needed a certain item, and I'd asked my daughter, “I need that thingie next to the hoosiewhatsis.�

Cleverage (CLEV rej) - cleavage with leverage. This one is not used around the kiddies, mostly exclaimed as we change the channel after seeing some of the more risque TV ads, or driving by billboards.

Weenie-burger (WEE nee bur gur) someone who is acting excessively timid or frightened of something silly, like a piece of lint that looks like a spider.

Cridiot (CRI dee ut) Crazy idiot - usually said when driving or watching a driver do something incredibly ridiculous.

Getterclawoffdat! (GIT er claw off DAT) (said really fast in a bold, barking voice) Usually bellowed at the cats when they claw something they shouldn't, which is often.

Brah! (BRAH) This is usually when my son calls my daughter, Brianna. He managed to get all three syllables into a single utterance.

Amazing!

I think it would be fun to have several families over and ask them to speak their 'Family' languages, just to see if we could understand each other!

She went right to the object and brought it to me. But ask for something simple like a cereal bowl, it takes six repetitions of the request and five attempts at tearing the kitchen apart before I give up and go get the darn thing myself. Odd, but true!

We also have 'Familyisms' that only we use, as far as I know. Here are a few: Inspriated (IN spur ate ed) - means a fun idea.

'Inspired' (the word it originated from) means a high falluten idea. I hardly ever get inspired, but I get inspirated a lot.

Do you have any 'Familyisms' you'd like to share? Please send them to me at bethatruby@aol.com with the word 'Familyisms' in the subject line. I'd love to hear them!

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* Are you searching for a better way to share your talent and follow God’s plan for your with wisdom and grace? * Are you willing to step up – to stop “squeezing in” time for your work and really grow your business with intention and strategy? * Do you thrive on connecting with other Christian mom entrepreneurs who are balancing business and family?

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Vintage Inspired Autumn Luminary Luminary from Vintage Image Craft www.vintageimagecraft.com This vintage-inspired autumn luminary craft will light up your home as you celebrate the changing of the seasons! It is super simple and easy to make with just a few materials.

Nothing says "Happy Halloween" like a flickering candle and grinning Jack O'Lanterns. Here is a Halloween luminary craft that is sure to grace your table, mantle or window sill this year. You can make it yourself with some glass, glue, copper-foil tape, and some spooky vintage images from the early 1900's - when they really knew what Halloween was all about.

These three charming Halloween images are from a famous set of postcards illustrated by Ellen H. Clapsaddle around 1908.

The inspiration for this Halloween luminary craft came from another one of our crafts. While we were working on our Vintage Suncatcher, we kept saying the technique of applying translucent vellum paper to glass would be great for a luminary. With some trial and error, we hit on this very easy way to create a striking three-sided luminary that glows beautifully with candle light. We made ours in a couple of hours, then displayed it on a cut-glass plate filled with candy corn.

Materials 1. Vintage images, (see below) printed on translucent vellum paper (see Tips). * Enlarge to appropriate size 2. Three pieces of clear glass cut to 8" X 5".

3. Copper-foil tape, 1/2" wide (see Tips).

4. Spray glue.

5. Household glue suitable for glass, like Duco Cement.

6. Masking tape.

7. Craft knife.

8. Scissors.

9. Bone burnisher.

10. Votive candle in a clear glass votive cup.

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Instructions for Halloween Luminary Craft Lightly spray the back side of the three images with spray glue (see Tips). Carefully position each piece of glass within the printed dotted lines around the images. Press the glass down onto the back of the image. Turn it over and gently smooth out any air bubbles. When the glue is dry, cut away the excess paper around the glass with a craft knife.

Cut six pieces of copper foil tape 6" long. Adhere them to the top and bottom of each glass panel (see Tips).

When the tape is stuck on the edge of the glass and before you crimp and burnish it, cut off the excess tape flush with the corners of the glass with a craft knife.

Crimp the foil tape to the glass and burnish with a bone burnisher.

Place the three glass panels image-side down, side by side and tape them together with small pieces of masking tape at the top and bottom.

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Bring the three glass panels together into a triangle. Place rubber bands around the top and bottom to hold them in place. Glue the three edges with household glue. Let the glue dry for an hour.

Remove the rubber bands and masking tape.

Apply 9" pieces of copper foil tape to the three corner seams. Cut off the excess tape at the top and bottom, gently crimp and burnish.

Place your Halloween luminary craft over a clear glass votive candle cup. Surround it with candy corn, black glass marbles, black and orange M&Ms, or some autumnal greenery.

Tips The free images are 7.75" X 4.75" pictures with a 1/4" white border. The surrounding dotted line makes each image exactly 8" X 5". The 1/4" white border will be covered by the copper-foil tape.

If you are familiar with our craft instructions, you are familiar with our warning - spray glue can be hazardous. Work outside. Cover everything the least bit valuable. Wear safety glasses.

Once you have sprayed the glue, work quickly but carefully. It is not repositionable, so get your glass where you want it before you stick it down. If you get it crooked or the paper wrinkles, you may have to remove the paper from the glass and start over, so read the spray can and have the proper solvent nearby.

Copper-foil tape is a standard product at stained glass supply stores. It is backed with adhesive and paper, and comes in various widths. This craft requires 1/2" tape, which is one of the largest sizes.

Applying copper foil tape evenly to the edge of glass takes some dexterity and patience.

Frankly, it is hard to get it centered on the edge and keep it there while you crimp it on.

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Here's our method: Lay the tape face down on the table and pull back about 1" of the paper backing. Place the edge of your glass in the center of that 1" of foil tape and stick it on lightly.

Keep the glass centered on the tape and slowly pull back the remaining paper backing, periodically lifting the glass and sticking the tape to the edge of the glass. When you have removed all of the paper, you should have the foil tape perfectly centered and adhered to the edge of the glass. Now crimp it onto the glass with your fingers (being very careful of the sharp edges of the glass), then burnish it with a bone burnisher.

This Halloween luminary craft is actually a very versatile design. Substitute images for any holiday - a Valentine love-light? A Christmas dinner centerpiece? Candling eggs for Easter?

Thank you to Vintage Image Craft for sharing these whimsical autumn craft projects with us!

Enlarge images on your printer or visit the Vintage Image Craft website at www.vintageimagecraft.co m

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A Change of Seasons

by Lynn Mosher “And He changes the times and the seasons.”

(Dan. 2:21 NKJV) This time of year, the heat and humidity of the summer season is, hopefully, becoming a welcomed memory and cool breezes and the beauty of the reds, golds, and oranges of fall begin to emerge. Don’t we all love it when the seasons change?

But what about our lives? Do we accept the seasons of spiritual change prompted by the circumstances in our lives? Do we see any beauty emerge from the myriad trials and afflictions that assault us? If “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven” (Eccl. 3:1 NIV), how do we view the changes?

Where can the most beautiful vistas be viewed? From atop the summit of the tallest mountain, after the most strenuous climb.

Which valleys have the richest, green velvet pastures with the fullest spikes of wildflower colors?

Those that have withstood the greatest drenching rains.

What forests produce the most prolific new growth? Those that have suffered the hot, searing flames of destruction.

Which diamonds sparkle the most brilliantly? Those that have felt the cleaving of the jeweler’s sharp chisel and the friction of the polishing wheel.

An old Chinese proverb says, “The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.”

Just as all of nature suffers contrary conditions in order to be expanded, improved, or strengthened, so, too, do we.

Difficulties and trials will always be a part of our lives. We cannot separate ourselves from them. And if we ponder it closely, we realize we will not grow as Christians if trials do not come to test and enlarge us that our greater beauty might emerge.

If we try to wiggle out of these times, we force premature deliverance, frustrating God’s plan. It is like prying open a cocoon before the caterpillar has finished its metamorphosis into a butterfly. Forcing open the cocoon too soon will render the caterpillar deformed for the rest of its short lifespan.

When we manipulate the hands of the clock to align with our own agenda, we destroy the beauty that God desires to emerge from His timing. Through our own efforts to “help” God out with our deliverance, do we come out of our cocoon of circumstance too early and spiritually deformed in some way? Or do we wait for the revealed transformation by God’s hand?

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Is our cocoon of circumstance not intended, as for the butterfly, to deepen our richest colors and give us wings of flight, beautifying our character for a new season in life, all which we may not have had before the trial? While in that cocoon of circumstance, we “are being transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory.” (2 Cor. 3:18 NIV) God knows the worth, the power, and the beauty hidden deep within our hearts and only that which is contrary to our comfort releases the precious qualities within us. As Paul said, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Rom 8:18 NKJV) God will work out all our circumstances for our benefit, from one spiritual season to the next, when we fully commit them and ourselves to Him, His Word, and His timing.

After experiencing a cocoon of contrary circumstance, are you able to say as David, “My troubles turned out all for the best”? (Ps. 119:71 Msg) “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them.” (Rom. 8:28 NLT) From one season to the next…“being transformed into the same image from glory to glory.” (2 Cor. 3:18 NKJV)

From His feet, Lynn Book Review

by Sarah Johnson

Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches

by Rachel Jankovic In Loving The Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches author Rachel Jankovic shares about the dynamics of raising five children all under the age of five! Jankovic ‘s insight in keeping the peace and instilling the love of Christ in her children is both relatable and real. This book covers issues such as sibling squabbling, spending time to get to know each child as an individual with a pastoral perspective of meeting their specific needs, and avoiding the “bulk effect” of amassing all the family’s stress onto one unfortunate family member.

She also examines the real purpose of our “mommy bodies” as tools to be joyfully used and joyful maintained. One of my favorite quotes from this book is “Scars and stretch marks and muffin tops are all part of your kingdom work.” Anyone looking for a book full of great ideas and perspective, full of “OhI’ve-been-there!” moments should consider this book a must-read!

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New Math Square Puzzle

by Beth Brubaker

Answers on page 61.

Ruby Ruby Pearls October 2011

by Beth Brubaker Time to clean out your medicine cabinet! Get rid of any medications that are past their expiration date, or at least 4 months old. Check boxes of bandages to see if you need more, and make sure any gauze, tapes or any other medical supplies are still sealed and undamaged.

October 28th is Make A Difference Day! Do something special for someone in your life- big or small, it doesn't matter! God loves little blessings too!

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Love from the Prayer Garden Autumn’s Abounding Love

by Thomas B. Clarke The LORD is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.

(Psalm 145:8 ESV) The life is in the leaf. Let me clarify: “To the tree, the life is in the leaf.” After the flood, the dove returned to Noah with an olive leaf in its beak. From this, Noah knew there was life somewhere, but he could not yet see it.

When Jesus placed a curse upon the fig tree, the disciples knew the tree had died because the leaves had withered. The life was no longer in the leaf, symbolizing death.

Autumn is a season of hope and a time of faith.

There are annuals, and there are perennials.

Annuals live for a season, but perennials endure the cycle of life. Annuals depend on their seeds to reproduce themselves, for when their leaves are gone, so is the plant.

Perennials shed their leaves with the confidence that the season that they are about to endure is only temporary, for there is hope in something that is not yet seen. Either way, it is a time to say that the old is ending, but there is hope.

I invite you to step into your garden or yard, picking an abundant sample of leaves. Some large, some small; some complicated, some simple; some green, some changing color.

What do you see?

I then invite you to take a walk or drive, just looking at the leaves. Again, what do you see: the variation of colors, the bending of leaves to the breeze, the distinctions between top and bottom, or the magnificent selection of type, shape and elegance?

I am fascinated with how thin a leaf can be. A cactus is thick for it stores its water in the leaf.

But the leaves of a broadly reaching maple tree, turning yellow or orange or red in the autumn,

are really very thin. The needles of a hemlock or pine tree, though not truly leaves, can also be very thin.

How does God get the water into all the extremities of the leaf? Do you remember how your biology teacher explained the process of photosynthesis, where water is combined with sunlight and carbon dioxide to give off oxygen and carbohydrates? My biology teacher was never able to explain how God got the water into that leaf, as thin as it is, so that the miracle of photosynthesis would appear before our eyes.

As you touch the leaf, sense how it bends. God has somehow made a way for the minutest portions of water to be delivered to every part of that leaf. As thin as the leaf may be, you know there is water in there, for if the water was gone, the leaf would not gently bend.

Somehow God gets the water into the leaf, and somehow he gets Christ inside a believer. To me, this is one of his greatest miracles: putting a believer in Christ and Christ in a believer. “I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me” (John 17:23). The life is in the believer, the source of all hope.

To the tree, the life is in the leaf. To the Christian believer, the life is within and abounding in steadfast love.

Thomas B. Clarke is author of A Garden of Love, a gift book about love for anyone that enjoys flowers. Tom is also the caretaker of the Gethsemane Prayer Garden in Syracuse, NY – open to the public. A Garden of Love is available on Amazon as well as at www.agardenoflove.com.

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Abstraction

by Keith Wallis

An Easement of the Day

by Keith Wallis

Drab and dreary splatter shares its bleakness, day is filled with the cool distaste of the sky and panorama reduced to a stones throw.

Touched embracing, triggered from so far away;

Looking up is painful - each raindrop

interlaced moon pull,

hitting its eyeball target

wind push and ship shapes,

with pinpoint accuracy.

the gentle tickle of refreshment

Where is God’s wondrous landscape,

on a summer evening

His Lancia or Constable inspiration

plays symphonies

in this condensed vista ?

upon a parched soul.

Swirling mists shut down the senses

The slipping of sand

and even Turner shuns the task.

trickles thoughts away.

But here, below, in disregarded footplace, I see the artist is still at work, Jackson Pollack beneath my feet.

God does abstracts, too.

Tomorrow, a desert, more distant than the planets, has no draw on this moment.

Each returning wash a wave of goodbye an easement of the day.

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You are invited to join Katherine’s Corner Book Club At Katherine’s Corner you connect with other book lovers and share a new story every month! Every month Katie will post a new book list and you get to vote for your favorite. Then, together we will read the selected book and discuss it via the Book Club page at Katherine’s Corner blog.

Once a month a new book will be chosen and you can leave comments on the Book Club page throughout the month. A new book vote will be posted on the 15th of every month.

The Book Club at Katherine’s Corner is a “no obligation” book club! Just read the book with the other members of the club and share your thoughts with one another. Settle in, read along, and leave comments on the book whenever the mood strikes you.

Once a month is all the commitment needed. The fun part is that you can make comments throughout the month so you don’t have to keep your thoughts on the book silent until a specific meeting date.

If you would like to join the Book Club at Katherine’s Corner, simply visit Katie at www.katherinescorner.com and sign up! Then, if you wan to help promote the book club, you can grab the button code to paste into your blog sidebar. You can find the code and all of the details at Katherine’s Corner.

Autumn Acorn Donut Treats from Family Fun Make some of these super simple, adorable and sweet acorn donut treats! You can find more fun and easy family recipes and ideas at www.familyfun.com What you need: Chocolate frosting or peanut butter Plain donut holes Crumbled toffee candy Pretzel sticks Let’s make it! Frost the top third of a plain donut hole with the frosting or peanut butter. Roll the frosted part in crumbled toffee candy. Add a small piece of pretzel stick for the stem. Serve them with hot cocoa on a chilly autumn day for a delightful afternoon snack.

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Jacob’s Ladder Block #1 Bible Block Sampler Sew Along with Laura Brandt of Wentworth County Quiltworks

The Biblical mention of Jacob’s Ladder is found in Genesis 28.

Verses 10-12 read: Gen. 28:10 - And Jacob went out from Beersheba, and went toward Haran.

Gen. 28:11 - And he lighted upon a certain place, and tarried there all night, because the sun was set; and he took of the stones of that place, and put them for his pillows, and lay down in that place to sleep.

Gen. 28:12 - And he dreamed, and behold a ladder set up on the earth, and the top of it reached to heaven: and behold the angels of God ascending and descending on it.

Why did Jacob go from Beersheba toward Haran? What is the significance of the dream God gave Jacob? Read the rest of the chapter to find out! (I’ll give you a hint: it has to do with marriage and family.)

This particular version of the Jacob’s Ladder block is #1695a in Barbara Brackman’s Encyclopedia of Pieced Quilt Patterns and #147-2 in Jinny Beyer’s Quilter’s Album of Patchwork Patterns. It is also known as Road to California, The Railroad, Golden Stairs and Going to Chicago.

True Jacob’s Ladder blocks are made in only two colours: a sharply contrasting dark and a light.

When the blocks are joined together without sashing strips the effect is of ladders or pathways running across the entire quilt. Ideally, the dark colour should be used for the “ladder” and the light colour for the background. My block is a variation as I’ve reversed it with a light ladder and a dark background.

Please note: all seams are ¼”; final block is 12.5” unfinished Step 1 – Cut your fabric (see cutting diagram below) Fabric 1 = 2.5”x2.5” – cut 10 Fabric 2 = 2.5”x2.5” – cut 10 4 7/8” x 4 7/8” – cut 2 4 7/8” x 4 7/8” – cut 2

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Step 2 – Make a four patch unit. With right sides together, sew a 2.5” fabric 1 square to a 2.5” fabric 2 square. Press seam. Repeat for remaining nine pairs.

You’ll have ten two-patch units altogether.

Step 3 - With right sides together and seams aligned, sew the pairs together to make five squares. Press and trim each square to 4.5”. Your ten two-patch units have just become five four-patch units.

Step 4 – Cut the two 4 7/8” fabric 1 squares on the diagonal. Next, cut the two 4 7/8” fabric 2 squares on the diagonal. You’ll have four half-square triangles of each fabric.

Step 5 – With right sides together, sew one fabric 1 HST to one fabric 2 HST, creating a square. Press seam. Repeat for the other three pairs of HSTs. Four resulting squares should each be 4.5”.

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Step 6 – Lay out your quilt block’s nine squares and sew top, middle and bottom rows. Press seams.

Step 7 - Sew rows together and press your completed block!

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Jacob’s Ladder Block #1 Layout and Cutting Instructions

Bible Block Sampler

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Addiction

by Keith Wallis

Chasing clouds, powdered smoke on sapphire canvas.

Ever changing: abstract art, welcome shade, precipitant rant or fiery storm.

Coloured by moment’s brush, as day progresses through its amending dyes, from blushing dawn to crushing night.

This is my addiction, my joy; may I introduce you to a friend.

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Cheddar Bacon Tomato Pie based on a recipe from Family Fun

by Vintage Mama Autumn days are perfect for the classic one-dish supper! This recipe has been altered for our family, from the original one discovered at www.familyfun.com Easy-peazy quick to pop in the oven for supper tonight!

What you need: * 1 package boxed Cheddar and Bacon Potatoes * 2 Tbsp. butter * 2 c. boiling water * 2/3 c. milk * 1 pound lean ground beef * ½ c. chopped onion * 3 Tbsp. tomato ketchup * Dash of pepper * 1 medium tomato, sliced * ¾ c. shredded Cheddar cheese Let’s make it! Prepare Cheddar and Bacon Potatoes per direction on box. Bake until almost set and golden brown on top, approximately 30 – 40 minutes.

In the meantime, brown the ground beef with the chopped onion until thoroughly cooked. Stir in a dash of pepper and the tomato ketchup.

Spoon the ground beef and onion mixture on top of the baked potatoes, top with tomato slices, sprinkle shredded Cheddar cheese on top. Return to oven for an additional 5 – 10 minutes until cheese is melted.

Serves 4 – 6

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A Gateway of Release

by Amanda Johnson In his book “A Prayer Journey with the Apostle Paul,” author Michael Green refers to prayer and communion with our Heavenly Father as a “gateway of release.” What a refreshing thought. Our Father God invites us to come to Him in prayer on a routine basis “casting all of our cares” upon Him (I Peter 5:7). He wants us to literally release everything to Him whether it is our fears, anxieties or simply our over abundant joys and adventures.

With the promise of release, restoration, and communion with the Father, why is it that we often refuse to go to God in prayer? Sin. We allow the enemy to use our sin to fill our hearts and thoughts with guilt and shame. We convince ourselves that God wants nothing to do with us and our filth, but this is a lie from Satan. Yes, we are sinners, but as followers of Jesus Christ, we are forgiven and washed clean. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (I John 1:9).

Romans 8:1-2 tells us, “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.” Christ’s bloodshed on the cross gives us the freedom to run to the Father in prayer seeking His forgiveness and grace.

There is nothing to stop us from sitting before His throne in prayer.

Open up, speak up, and allow time of communion with the Father to be a time of release and restoration in Him.

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Embraced in the Heart of Jesus The Story of Hadewijch of Antwerp, 13th Century Woman of Faith “Anyone who has waded Through Love's turbulent waters, Now feeling hunger and now satiety, Is untouched by the season Of withering or blooming, For in the deepest and most dangerous waters, On the highest peaks, Love is always the same.”

Hadewijch of Antwerp, 13th Century Throughout the history of Christianity, women have often wondered where they belong. Even when we know and understand the Scriptural teachings about women in their homes, and in their relationships within their families, it isn’t always clear how we can best honour God in our day-today lives. We study the Bible and learn the admonitions about being keepers at home, and how the older women should instruct the younger women, and yet we still struggle to find our way in the midst of the demands of 21st century life.

It can be confusing to be a Christian woman sometimes. On the one hand, we are often taught that “a woman’s place is in the home.” But then we hear (usually on Mother’s Day) all about the Virtuous Woman of Proverbs 31. When we really take the time to look at all that this Virtuous Woman did, it appears that she was obligated, at least part of the time, to be out and about in her community, buying and selling, and running a business. So it is sometimes a bit tricky to find balance in our lives, especially with all of the demands of life in a modern society.

It is interesting and informative to take a step back into history and look at women from the earlier centuries of Christianity, and discover how their lives were different, and similar, to ours today. It is instructive to learn how Christian women in other centuries and different countries and cultures expressed their devotion to Christ. Of course, it can be rather difficult to find accurate information about these women, because history was not written down, for the most part, by women or about women.

In our journey to find the “missing voices” of these women of devotion, it becomes necessary to “read between the lines” of their own writings (where recorded) and engage in a bit of “historical speculation.”

Hadewijch of Antwerp is a fascinating woman from the 13th century. Her bold expressions of love for Christ, as well as her experience of His love for her, reveal a heart of devotion. In reading her poetry, one discovers a voice that would not be silenced, even by the threat of those in authority over her.

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The madness love is a blessed fate; And if we understood this We would seek no other: It brings into unity What was divided, And this is the truth: Bitterness it makes sweet, It makes the stranger a neighbor, And what was lowly it raises on high.

-Hadewijch of Antwerp Hadewijch was probably the head of a Beguine community, which was a sect of devout women in Belgium, Holland, Germany and northern France. These women did not take vows, but they lived together in communities in which they could devote themselves to lives of simplicity and service.

Many of these women were poets and writers, and sought to experience an intensely personal relationship with the Lord.

“First and foremost, Hadewijch invites her readers into an intimate love relationship with God who is Love: “O beloved, why has not Love sufficiently overwhelmed you and engulfed you in her abyss? Alas! when Love is so sweet, why do you not fall deep into her? And why do you not touch God deeply enough in the abyss of his Nature, which is so unfathomable? Sweet love, give yourself for Love’s sake fully to God in love.” (Hadewijch, 56)” Beguine Classics, Paul Mommaers The lifestyle of these women was not well-received by the church authorities of the time, particularly in light of the fact that they lived outside of the “protection” of a convent and remained active in the service of their communities. At some point, Hadewijch was criticized for her expressions of “minne” or love for Jesus, and it is believed that she was forced out of her community. It appears from her poetry and letters that some of the women in her Beguine community found her standards too high, and attempted to undermine her authority.

Aware of the dissension, Hadewijch attempted to appeal to the “better side of her charges through moral exhortation and without coercion. She was eventually turned out of her community, and despite the unwavering loyalty of a few followers, was never allowed to return.”

It was this experience of being separated from those whom she cared about and loved, it is believed, that led her to write letters back to these women to teach and encourage them to remain faithful to their calling in Christ. There is no definitive evidence of what happened to Hadewijch after leaving her Beguine community, although later legend suggests that she was imprisoned by the Inquisition and perhaps even executed. It is also possible that she lived quietly in retirement, during which time she continued writing and died as an anonymous pious woman, known by only a few. Her writings were gradually lost in the fifteenth century, and were rediscovered in 1838.

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together the two aspects of Christian life that she believed to be of utmost importance. In the words of Hadewijch, “Love is always the same.” She expresses it in one of her letters this way: “Serve nobly, wish for nothing else, and fear nothing else and let Love freely take care of herself! For Love rewards to the full, even though she often comes late. Let no doubt or disappointment ever turn you away from performing acts of virtue; let no ill success cause you to fear that you yourself will not come to conformity with God. You must not doubt this, and you must not believe in men on earth, saints, or angels, even if they work wonders (Gal. 1:8); for you were called early, and your heart feels, at least sometimes, that you are chosen, and that God has begun to sustain your soul in abandonment.” ~~ Hadewijch: The Complete Works (Classics of Western Spirituality) Translated by Mother Columba Hart

Caramel Apple Muffins Start out with your favorite apple muffin recipe (or see below), and then add a little extra-special touch for a fun and whimsical autumn treat.

What you need: 1 1/3 c. flour ½ c. sugar 2 tsp baking powder ½ tsp baking soda ½ tsp cinnamon ¼ tsp nutmeg Pinch of ground cloves

Pinch of salt 2 eggs ¼ cooking oil 1 c. sour cream 1 large, tart apple, peeled, cored, and finely chopped ½ c. finely chopped walnuts (optional) ½ c sweetened dried cranberries (optional)

Let’s make it! Heat oven to 400 degrees F. Grease bottoms only of 12 standard muffin cups. In a large bowl, whisk together flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, nutmeg, cloves, and salt. In medium bowl, whisk eggs, oil, and sour cream until well blended. Add egg mixture, apples, walnuts, and dried cranberries to the dry ingredients. Stir just until the batter is blended, then divide it among the muffin cups. Bake the muffins for 15 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the center of one comes out clean. Let the muffins cool in the pan on a wire rack for 5 to 10 minutes before removing them. Makes 12 muffins.

Caramel Topping: 8 oz softened cream cheese 2 – 3 Tbsp. maple syrup 1 tsp vanilla Orange and brown paste food coloring Chopped nuts Craft Sticks

Use electric mixer to blend all ingredients thoroughly, until smooth. Add additional food coloring for desired shade of caramel is reached. Frost each muffin and edge it with chopped nuts. Slide a craft stick into the center of each muffin. Makes 12 muffins.

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Love’s Drought

by Annette Showler

Cool and clear, the water beckoned honouring the Saviour’s need, folds of linen, were His cushion at the well of Jacob’s breed.

Overhead, the scorching noon-day caused God’s limbs to tire and ail spent with effort, He now waited for a Daughter and her pail.

All around, the Eastern stillness held its breath, as Life reposed, until, an azure blue and crimson brushed across the Saviours toes.

Silently, her bucket lowered Deep, into the Sychar hole shamefully, and without purpose Jacob’s Daughter toiled alone.

“Draw for Me a draft refreshing thirst has brought Me here to you.”

Turning, now the Daughter wrestled with her thoughts about the Jew. “Sir, your plea; it proves a puzzle for your race does not defer yet I sense (without confessing) faint you’d be, unless I pour.”

Steadfastly, Samaria’s Daughter met God’s gaze with dignity with the Master now possessing all her fears and frailty.

“Daughter, dark is your condition parched, yet soaked with guilt and shame lost without your Saviour’s blessing; let Me water everything!”

Suddenly a curtain opened laying bare a broken heart, could the Saviour’s love replenish every barren, thirsty part?

On and on the Saviour led her, out of cravings and of greed only Jesus was the answer to her pain and desperate need.

Never, was such grace afforded to a child so lost and low, but with Jesus living water flows, until His joy we know!

When the Saviour stops to meet you, trust in Love’s unfailing part for without God’s living water drought will shrivel up your heart.

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Shabby Chic Wreath Craft from Katherine’s Corner My art room is in a constant state of “Almost Done.” It is the only room in the house that isn’t a mix of modern and traditional styles. It’s shabby chic, totally girlie, pinks and pastels and flowers. It’s a pleasant, on-going project. I’m adding to it a little at a time. Just a little bit here and a little bit there. Eventually it will all come together! I use the room for more than just creating. It has a little bed in it, too. Our oldest granddaughter stays in my art room when she sleeps over. She likes pink, too. Our other grandchildren all curl up together in the queen sized bed in our guest room. They’re small, and they all fit for now!

This beautiful shabby chic wreath is a perfect addition to my art room, and it would be beautiful in your little corner of the world, too!

What you need: 1 Styrofoam wreath 12” – 14” ½ yard of cotton fabric of your choice 1 small bag of cotton batting Scissors Glue gun Ribbon Embellishments such as fabric flowers, silk flowers, buttons, rosettes, pearls, lace, etc.

Straight pin Let’s make it! Make a snip on the end of the fabric about 2” – 3” long and then tear the fabric (this will leave a frayed and uneven edge: shabby!). You will need approximately 8 strips at 3 inches wide to cover a 14” wreath.

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Pull batting from bag and begin to place it all over the front of the Styrofoam wreath. You can do the top and sides, too, if you prefer but leave the back without batting so that it will lay flat against the wall / door.

Once you have it covered with the cotton batting, take a strip of fabric, dot it with a bit of hot glue and then place it on the wreath. Add a straight pin to mark your starting point and to hold it in place while the glue dries.

Begin wrapping the fabric slowly and evenly over the batting and around the wreath, dotting the fabric with glue occasionally to keep it in place. Do not apply glue directly to the foam (it will melt). Wrap completely until you come to the pin where you started. Add a final dot of glue.

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Now it’s time for a little ribbon! Starting at the back of wreath by the straight pin, put a drop of glue on the ribbon and lay it over the fabric, and begin wrapping. Spread it out a bit as you don’t want to cover all of your wonderful shabby edges!

Now you can begin to add the “fluff”! Start making / gathering ribbon flowers, buttons, lace, pearls, or whatever you want. After you have everything you want to embellish your wreath all together, lay it all on your wreath first and position it where you want it before you glue it on. This is important, because there’s no turning back once you glue it on.

(Video tutorials are available on YouTube for learning how to make fabric flowers and rosettes) I made a couple of rosettes and added some lace and this fun heart button on mine!

Almost done. It’s time to make a bow. Use some of the same ribbon you wrapped the wreath with, or use a different, contrasting ribbon or lace to create your bow, it’s all up to you. I made a loose folding bow (shabby!).

Tie a hanging ribbon around the top of your wreath before you glue the bow on.

Shabby chic! That’s one more piece for my art room. I hung it on a lovely hook and it can be seen as you walk into the room. I would love to see pictures of your Shabby Chic Wreath! Visit me at www.katherinescorner.com for more craft ideas.

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Cessation of Primary Function

by Annette Showler I know you’re around when prickling pores pre-empt Inner shivers!

Hardly noticeable, at first (in fact, quite pleasant!) warming painful joints and cold noses!

I decide to ignore you; carry on regardless, ”calm” I’ve found, is everything!

But when unwelcome moisture claims my lower back I know this will be a tough one!

Slowly, you make your way up my body building in intensity and dare I say – inconvenience?

My heart beat trembles and my legs begin to weaken you take no captives do you?

Attractive pink quickly becomes red hot chili and I have to accept you’ve arrived!

Now pools of perspiration collect at the base of my neck not the most fashionable of spas is it?

So, I’m reaching, ever so slowly for the Chinese fan given me by a friend.

(Remind me to say a prayer for her!)

I slip off my sweater and kick off my shoes, casually piling my hair high on my head.

Please don’t irritate me just at this moment I won’t be responsible for the venom that’s bound to flow!

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“Focus on a shivering shower a frosty Antarctic even a frozen fish finger”!

Anything that will whisk me away from this hot house of horrible, humid hormones!

But I have an ace up my sleeve (as well as two dozen tissues!) so bring it on, bossy boots!

Whenever you turn my rosy cheeks, crimson you’re actually nourishing my skin!

Removing nasty impurities and plumping up those mid-life creases!

You aim to wilt and weaken cause flutter and fainting but I’m wise to your wiles!

With mineral water in hand and open window at the ready plus my trusty oriental friend… … Flaming, flushing Menopause I’ll beat you yet!

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Inspired Women Succeed Changing the Face of Success

by Jo Ann Fore Inspired Women Succeed redefines success. In this book of courage and hope, you will connect with forty brave-hearted Christian women entrepreneurs who faced unfathomable trials with heroic faith. This passionate group of women authentically shares their life-transforming stories.

Breathe in their heartfelt words and experience a rich inspiration woven throughout the book, like an intricate, delicate tapestry. Be inspired as these women discover their life’s passion. Be challenged by their words as you learn to use your own life experiences as a catalyst for success.

One common denominator runs deep through these stories: inspiration.

This book is about real women doing real life. Our goal is to be transparent, and to offer you that same permission. In some way, each of these women’s stories is a piece of our own. Maybe the circumstances of fallout are not quite the same, but the emotionally expensive lessons are quite similar.

What is an inspired woman?

An inspired woman is easy to recognize. We are passionate and seek to live life to the fullest. We can be a bit moody; at times, happy and sweet, and other times cranky and tired. We share with people who need us, too often giving our time away. We anticipate problems before they are spoken, and strive to stay strong in troubled times. Inspired women work really hard. We can do surprising, downright amazing things, when pushed.

What is success? What scoreboard determines true success? Must we be famous? Rich? Well-credentialed experts? Whether we acknowledge it or not, the way we measure success greatly impacts our lives.

As Christian women, our success is inspired from a sense of calling; measured by our loyalty to God in spite of life’s circumstances or outcome.

Inspired Women Succeed is a heart song for women; full of faithful, successful women who stepped out. Amazing things happen when women follow their inspiration.

For a free download of the first chapter, visit www.inspiredwomensucceed.com.

Jo Ann Fore (www.JoAnnFore.com) is an author, writing coach, certified Life Coach, and coauthor, alongside Diane Cunningham (www.DianeCunningham.com) of the book, Inspired Women Succeed. She is passionate about making a difference in the lives of other women. Visit Jo Ann at www.soyouwanttowrite.org.

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A River of Small Stones

by Keith Wallis

A “small stone” is a polished moment of paying proper attention to life. This book of “small stones” was written as a challenge to produce a “stone” a day for a month. www.ariverofsmallstones.blogspot.com

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A Friend in Need ‌ Is there something you need, but just can't seem to find? Are you looking for a recipe, a store location, or the best places to go in a certain area?

Do you have an item you would like to give to someone, but no one near you needs it? Send your requests into the magazine (bethatruby@aol.com) with 'A Friend in Need' in the subject line and we'll publish it for you!

Linda Jones, the artist and creator of Visual Smiles Gallery www.LindaGJ.Etsy.com

When making a request, please include a current email address for a direct reply. Those who are answering queries are to correspond to the posted email address directly, and not to the staff of Ruby for Women.

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A Garden of Love

by Thomas B. Clarke A Garden of Love is an experience that takes us deep into the heart of God's love. Using flowers to paint images of Christian love, I would like to take you on a spiritual journey that touched my heart and will hopefully touch yours, revealing the depth of God's love. Thirty flowers are featured in this book, calling us to respond in intimate relationship with the Lord and the fullness of Christian love. Sense how the flowers usher in softness, gentleness, and peace as each precious plant reveals another aspect of grace or kindness, joy or forgiveness, patience or faithfulness.

A Garden of Love can be purchased on Tom’s website at www.bible-discernments.com

A Real Change International with Sandi Krakowski Sandi Krakowski, renowned social media coach and founder of A Real Change International, has spent years developing programs that turn small businesses into multi-million dollar companies. Her personal success in the business world has made her coaching sessions, eBooks and online marketing classes extremely popular.

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Introducing ChariT’s Inspirational Creations Always a giver at heart, I have always loved to help people. Recently I have been blessed with twin babies who have given me a new outlook on life and my purpose in the world. I wanted to not just be a 'mother' (I know we sometimes get caught up in our 'roles'), but a Christian woman living my purpose and dreams in life!

Knowing that I love to inspire and uplift others, I searched for an outlet. www.tatterstotreasures.etsy.com Then one day it hit me! I love to wear unique and eye catching jewelry.

So why not make my own? And what if the jewelry made me feel beautiful and inspired me at the same time?

Voila! The idea was born . . .

ChariT's Inspirational Creations!

Creations!

Each piece is inspired by my inner desire given by God to motivate women to feel and be the beautiful creatures we are meant to be! Also a lover of the arts and nature, my creations include religious themes, going green, the arts, motherhood, cause awareness, and sorority/organizational jewelry!

Custom orders are always welcome! I seem to do my best creating with these!

You can find ChariT’s beautiful jewelry creations in her Etsy shop at www.chariT.etsy.com

The world is so full of a number of things, I'm sure we should all be as happy as kings!"

Treasures can be found everywhere you look, and here at "Tatters to Treasures" we will bring you the best of vintage for your wardrobe and home. www.tatterstotreasures.etsy.com

Abundant Comfort and Grace Inspirational Poetry by Connie Arnold

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SCENTSY for the Holidays!

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You are invited to visit Lee at his writers’ group called “The Surfing Butterfly Coffeehouse” on The NetSurf Café at www.thenetsurfcafe.com/group/ thesurfingbutterflycoffeehouse

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Meet the Ruby for Women Writers Aunt Dots, Master Gardener Aunt Dots has been writing for Ruby for Women since the very beginning. Her love for gardening started early in her life: “I believe I got my love for growing flowers from my mother. She had a large flower garden with annuals and dahlias. I had my first flower garden after I married and we lived in a garden apartment. I planted seeds in a small 4 X 6 plot in front. Then we moved to a house trailer next to my mother where I had annuals.” She now has perennial gardens, rose gardens, grape vines, asparagus, currants, gooseberries, walnut trees, apple trees, and hazelnut trees. In the winter months, Aunt Dots sews, making quilts that she has donated to a Mennonite Relief auction. She has also made hand-made paper and greeting cards with pressed flowers. In her “spare” time, Aunt Dots volunteers two afternoons a week at a nursing home, as well as serving on the mission board at her church and teaching an adult Sunday school class.

Scott Henderson, Vintage Image Crafts Scott is the creator of Vintage Image Crafts, a website where vintage images are the inspiration behind all of the crafts and scrapbooking projects. From the romantic to the whimsical, Victorian and turn-of-the-century illustrations can give your creativity a distinctive touch. These classic illustrations and photographs are rich in color, artistic technique and symbolism. This bygone art captures the essence of life’s highlights - holidays, celebrations and sentiments – vividly. You can find Scott at www.vintageimagecrafts.com

Beth Brubaker, Footprints in the Mud and Ask Beth Beth is the “Family Fun” editor here in the Ruby for Women community. She is a mother of two very active kids whose antics are sprinkled liberally in her columns. She has been married for 13 years to her Knight in Shining Armor, and she is delighted to share with us that they still hold hands in public! Her day job is working as a fabric artist, a homemaker, and a writer. Beth will be writing humorous articles about life in general, puzzles, and an advice column that is based on readers’ questions, as well as sharing hints and tips for everyday life that she comes across in her travels between her laundry room, living room, and kitchen. Don’t miss Beth’s columns in every issue of Ruby for Women! You can read more of Beth’s posts on her blog, “Footprints in the Mud” at www.footprintsinthemudblog.blogspot.com or email her at bethatruby@aol.com

Laura Brandt is the owner of Wentworth County Quiltworks and a child of the King whose one desire is to please the Lord. She quilts and she maintains two blogs, as well as serving as a Moderator at Authorized Version Bible Believers Fellowship forum. She’s also edited books for up-and-coming Christian authors.

Visit Laura at her blogs, http://wentworthcountyquiltworks.blogspot.com and http://laurasthoughtsonscripture.blogspot.com, her new quilting website, www.wentworthcountyquiltworks.com or the forum at http://www.avbbf.com 71

Lynn Mosher, Devotions Since the year 2000, Lynn Mosher has lived with fibromyalgia and other physical conditions. During this time, the Lord placed the desire in her heart to write for Him. Now, armed with God’s purpose for her life and a new passion, she reaches out to others to encourage and comfort them through her writing, giving God all the glory.

She lives with her husband in their empty nest in Kentucky. On occasion, their three offspring, who have flown the coop, come to visit, accompanied by a son-in-law and three granddaughters. Visit Lynn at her blog, Heading Home, at www.lynnmosher.blogspot.com

Sarah Johnson is happily married to Christopher and they are the proud parents of a “terribly terrific 3-year-old little lady”!

Carol Mokry, Affiliate Administrator, Ruby for Women

“Jesus found me 37 years ago and we have been walking together ever since. He has been my help, hope and strength as I have walked through dark miles of trials and adversity. First and foremost I am a woman called to follow Jesus Christ. I am a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and a credentialed minister with the Assemblies of God. It is my relationship with God that has made me who I am today. In all these things I can say if God is for me who can be against me, I am more than a conqueror in Him who loves me!”

Lee E. Shilo, Poetry and Short Stories I live on Vancouver Island, in Victoria, Canada, with my loving wife Elisabeth, paranoid cat, and crazy dog. I enjoy writing Poetry, Children Stories, Fantasy/Fiction, and especially (Believe It Or Not) stories. I have been writing professionally for close to 20 years, and have numerous Published Books / eBooks in that time. At present I am retired, but used to work in the print industry producing Wide Format Displays for Conferences and stuff. As well as being my passion, writing affords me some release of daily frustrations and everyday tensions.

Katherine Corrigan, Recipes and Crafts Hello, my name is Katherine. I am an open minded and spiritual person who strives to always maintain a positive attitude and greet each new day with grace, dignity and gratitude. I’m honored to meet you and to call you friend! I am originally from England and now living in the US. I have had the privilege of living in, and visiting, several different countries throughout my lifetime. I hold a rare dual citizenship with the UK and the USA, and I am a proud citizen of both. I work very hard to create designs for my shops and to provide an entertaining and informative website and blog. I hope you’ll stop by. Hugs, Katherine www.madeitforyou.com www.giftsbykatherine.com www.goaskkatie.com 72

Jennifer Cirka, Crochet Patterns and Recipes Jennifer Cirka, the designer behind Jaybird Designs, is never without a hook and some yarn in her hands! This Crochet Guild of America recognized Professional Crochet Designer has a book of her girls’ sweater designs with Leisure Arts and has been featured in major crochet magazines such as Crochet Today, Interweave Crochet, and Crochet World, with more publications coming out each year! www.jaybirddesigns.com www.jaybirddesigns.blogspot.com www.etsy.com/shop/JaybirdDesigns

Theresa Ceniccola

is The Christian Mompreneur, a Mentor to Moms Who are Running a Business that Supports Faith and Family. She empowers entrepreneurial moms to build profitable businesses with wisdom and grace through the Christian Mompreneur Mastermind program and her professional Marketing services, which include copywriting, marketing and strategy consulting and private coaching. The Christian Mompreneur monthly ezine offers inspiration and support for the faith-filled business journey. If you are ready to go the distance in your business while remaining true to your values, sign up for a F.R.E.E. subscription at www.theresaceniccola.com.

Kristin Bridgman I’ve been married to a very sweet, patient, loving man for 29 years. I’ve been a mom to two sons I love with all my heart for 22 years. I’ve been a born again Christian loving the Lord for 36 years. I home schooled for 14 years. I’m just an ordinary woman who lives for an extraordinary God.

Yvonne Anderson, The Doctor’s Innsite

I have been called to teach. It is one of the five-fold ministry gifts with Jesus as the Master Teacher. For a while, I had forgotten that teaching is a ministry. God allowed me to take some time of to regain my focus. I know today that teaching is my ministry and that I am called, anointed, and appointed to this field to further His Kingdom.

Connie Arnold, Poetry

Connie Arnold lives in North Carolina, is married and has two children and three grandchildren. In coping with lupus, fibromyalgia and other difficulties, she has turned to the Lord for inspiration and offers her inspirational poetry to offer encouragement, comfort and hope to others who are suffering. She is the author of Beautiful Moments of Joy and Peace, Abiding Hope and Love, and Abundant Comfort and Grace plus a new 2012 inspirational calendar, Glimpses of Grace. She also writes for children and is the author of Animal Sound Mix-up and has two other children’s books under contract. You can visit Connie at www.conniearnold.webs.com or her blog, www.conniearnold.blogspot.com 73

Sheila Watson, Kraklow, Guest Writer, DoveQuill Publishers Sheila is the author of several books, including “Nana’s Great BIG Storybook,” and “A Mission for Leedle Burro,” as well as a cookbook filled with her “sassy recipe” articles. Sheila is also the owner of DoveQuill Publishing Company. www.dove-quill-publishing.com

Deborah McCarragher, Devotional Contributor Deborah is the author of a Christian inspirational book for women titled “Mission Possible”. The book addresses living in a spiritually-uneven household. You can visit her website at www.AlabasterBoxPublishing.com for more information about her book.

Amy Lignor, The Write Companion Amy Lignor is the founder of Write Companion. Her blog touches on various subjects important to the industry like the power of social networking for authors, the world of self-publishing and how it’s starting to make the normal way of doing business obsolete, as well as subjects dealing with the art of writing, film, books, the classics, daily life, etc. that will hopefully inspire authors while adding a laugh or two to their day. www.thewritecompanion.com www.thefeatheredquill.com www.HumorOutcasts.com

Carin LeRoy, wife to Dale and mother of three grown children and one almost-grown teenager, has been a missionary with Pioneers since 1982.

Initially, she and her husband served in the jungles of Papua New Guinea doing church planting for 12 years among an unreached tribe. Now she works part-time as a missionary mobilizer helping to send young adults on short term trips overseas to experience cross-cultural ministry with an experienced Pioneers team. She also teaches piano, loves being a homemaker, and using her creative gifts. Her passions are family, missions, piano and writing to challenge others to live faithful lives for God. They also have five wonderful grandchildren.

Angela Blake Morris, Advertising Administrator, Ruby for Women I am a fairly new Christian led to Christ by a friend and my daughter’s insistence that we go to church. That began a journey for me that has been awesome and inspiring. I now have my own blog page where we seek to lift up stay-at-home moms and homeschooling families, Chronicles of Christian Moms. http://csahm.webs.com

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Charlotte Siems is a home-maker, home manager, T-Tapp Trainer, teacher, speaker and author. Her story of losing over 100 pounds with TTapp has encouraged thousands of people all over the world. She specializes in making home management and T-Tapp "doable" for real people and real life. She is happy to be a wife and mother of twelve children whom she has successfully taught at home for 25 years.

Visit Charlotte and read more of her blog posts at www.charlottesiems.com

Scarlett Von Gunten, CEO & Editor of iWoman Magazine. For more information or to contact Scarlett, please visit her at www.iwomanmag.com

Kausar Iqbal, East World Market and CD Crafts East World Market actively supports arts and crafts in Pakistan. We market creative products by underprivileged women internationally, and help them to become self-sufficient. The artisans on our team come from many small cities across the nation and are trained in a broad range of crafts. By channeling their talents, these artisans have managed to make a viable living for themselves, and have grown in their respective specializations. Now, EWM aims to showcase them actively in the American and international markets.

Thomas B. Clarke, “A Garden of Love” I am the caretaker of the Gethsemane Prayer Garden in Syracuse, NY, and an author/publisher of Christian books. Both gardening and writing are parttime jobs for me, but they are my heartfelt passion: to help others experience Jesus Christ in a more personal way and to grow in love.

Keith Wallis, Poetry Keith Wallis is an English poet. He is a senior part of the leadership team of Houghton Regis Baptist church. An engineering designer by trade, he brings a eye for detail as well as faith into his poetry. As well as being ‘poet in residence’ at Ruby ezine, he is a moderator at ChristianWriters.com. His blog of ekphrasic poetry is: http://wordsculptures-keith.blogspot.com/ where you’ll also find links to his books and his other blogs. Married to Val in 1970, he has two sons and three grandsons. The eldest grandson is disabled and cannot communicate verbally. Though not an ‘academic’ (school was a disaster) he was always fond of writing. He began submitting work for publication in the 1980’s after being encouraged by a community writer in residence.

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Amanda Johnson, Assistant Editor Amanda has been writing for Ruby for Women for the past year, and she has been a free-lance writer for several years, beginning her writing career as a young teen-ager. She also works for Love Unveiled, a ministry to women in undeveloped countries around the world. Amanda brings experience as well as a passion for ministry to the work of Ruby for Women, and she has a heart for reaching out and touching the hearts and lives of women everywhere. Amanda will be working with all of our writers on their submissions, as well as assisting in keeping the Ruby for Women blog and website up-to-date with new information daily.

Nina Newton, Sr. Editor When all of my four older children were in school, I returned to college as a “nontraditional student.” Eventually, I earned degrees in Classics and Philosophy, and a graduate degree in Medieval Studies: History of Theology. After teaching at a small community college in Michigan for seven years, my husband and I were blessed with the adoption of our two beautiful daughters, Gracie and Annie.

Gracie is 10 years old and Annie is 8. They were both born in China, and we were able to travel to China two times to bring our daughters home. We live in northern Indiana in a small farming community where I work from my home office.

For the past six years I have been designing and creating children’s clothing and various crafts. I began writing ebook patterns for my designs in 2007, and have several patterns available for sale on You Can Make This at www.youcanmakethis.com. I have also been a free-lance writer for many years, writing for two local newspapers when we lived in Michigan. My personal blog is at www.mamaslittletreasures.typepad.com where I frequently post tutorials and patterns for crafts and other sewing projects, as well as weekly reflections on life as a woman, wife, mother, and daughter of the King.

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