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The Sincerity Cloak So what happens when you dress “down”, go to places where no one knows you, and do a job that you are not “expected” to be doing? You get honest feedback, wonderful constructive criticism, and a great way to connect to others! Sounds like a reality TV show, doesn’t it?! Although completely unintended, every month, when I am out delivering magazines, I am lucky enough to find myself in the above position. Every month, I type the information I learn into my phone to add it to the next month’s issue, always hoping that the person who made a suggestion sees that their suggestion was heard, respected, and incorporated. The magazine is such a powerful tool when it engages the readers of all ages and cultures in this way.
STEPHANIE BERK, PH.D. Stephanie Berk, author of “How to Potty-Train Your Dragon Child”, is a mother of 4 boys. She has a degree in Human Development & Family Studies from Cornell University, a Ph.D. in Experimental Psychology from University of Connecticut, a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Language Acquisition from Haskins Laboratory/Yale University, and a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Neuroimaging from Washington University.
Recently, I found myself wondering whether good parenting is sort of like the magazine. What happens when you step outside your normal “adult roles” of worker, parent, boss, etc., and actually listen to what your child is telling you? What happens if you start dancing and singing in the kitchen with them to their favorite song while packing their lunches together? What happens if you try to “do it their way”, periodically? For example, one of my children told me that I needed to “update my playlist to at least the year 2000.” I thought to tell him that he was crazy and that my songs, like “Rocky theme” was much better than anything he listens to. But I decided to step outside my normal role and say, “What do you suggest?” He played a song named Fight Song by Rachel Platten. My 2 younger boys joined in. They were able to RELATE to that song in the same way I related to the song “Give Me One Moment in Time” when I was their age! They were able to EXPLAIN why they each identified with that song! Then we all danced and sang- having a great time together. As it turns out, I got honest feedback, wonderful constructive criticism, and a great way to connect with my children. It is so easy to get caught up in all of the crazy “busy-ness” of daily life that engaging in meaningful interactions often gets pushed aside. With all of the instant, electronic ways to “connect”, we have discovered a breadth of engaging others, but not necessarily a depth to each of those interactions. Our children need to learn that we genuinely and deeply care for them, and are there for them for important and seemingly trivial things. As the magazine improves each month because the readers, writers and business owners are heard and respected, our children of any age can benefit in the same way! We need to take the time to change roles and sincerely listen to those we love.
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THE VOICE OF GENERATION J OUR GENERATION OUR FUTURE
Great Expectations (and Assumptions) by Joe Rosenberg Lately, I have been thinking about the expectations I feel get put on me as a teenage boy, like how I should do in school, what activities I am or should be a part of, and so on. And, when I think about the expectations that get put on me, sometimes I think they aren't really expectations but rather assumptions. I am especially annoyed when people expect or assume things about me before they even meet me or get to know me.
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“I may not always fit someone's expectations, but I am proud of who I am and am not afraid to be myself.�
For instance, I didn't choose to be a rabbi's kid, but as one, I have often felt that I'm expected to dress differently (meaning I can't get away with being too casual at services), expected to know everything about Judaism, and sometimes it feels like I'm expected to be a perfect Jew (whatever that is). Being a rabbi's kid has sometimes been tough for me, as I felt like I was expected to breeze through my Bar Mitzvah service preparation, when I had to work to get it done. I wasn't perfect, and I think that's ok. I did what I felt I could, regardless of what others expected of me. I express my Judaism in a different way compared to the rest of my family. I feel like I don't need to be fully involved to connect with G-d. I don't need to pray to connect with G-d, but as a rabbi's kid, it is expected that I be the same Jew as my parents, but I strive to be my own person instead of following the path laid out for me already. I attend the Parkway Mosaics Academy and before entering the program, I felt that there were expectations on me about who I was expected to be at school. I am a smart kid and at times, especially in elementary school, I felt that teachers expected and assumed that I would sit quietly in class and want to learn, just because I picked up the material quickly. Although learning can be interesting, I tend to have lots of energy that I need to burn off. In middle school, it is typically expected and assumed that most Mosaics kids get out of PE for an extra study hour, but I petitioned to take PE because I knew I needed the physical activity more than the extra hour of study time. Sometimes I surprise the people I meet, and friends at school have often
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remarked that "I'm the dumbest smart kid they know," commenting on my sometimes poor decision making when I am not in class. Others who know me from camp or sports are often shocked to know that I compete in math competitions, because they don't expect athleticism to mesh with intelligence. I am Joe Rosenberg; a smart, athletic, Jewish fourteen-year-old boy. I may not always fit someone's expectations, but I am proud of who I am and am not afraid to be myself. When it comes to expectations other than my parent's, the ones I try most to focus on are the ones I put on myself. I am a very competitive person and that drives me to set lofty goals. I expect perfect grades and performances in sporting events, and yet, I recognize about myself that I don't always put in the work to achieve the goals I set. My sometimes lackluster work ethic doesn't help, and these goals cause me to get down on myself for not achieving perfection. I have not yet truly worked hard towards my goals, which might be why I don't always achieve what I want to achieve. Sometimes, great expectations and lofty goals are a major driving factor for achievement, but only when they are set fairly. Expectations are being the best of yourself, not living up to someone's idea of you. When you are expected to do something, because of a parent or older sibling, it weighs hard on you that you may not be able to live up to it. Expectations are better when set by someone who knows you, and knows your potential.
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WHAT CAN MY BABY SEE? When that little baby is in your arms, and seems to be looking up at you, does s/he really SEE you? Many mammals are born with immature vision, but in typically-developing human babies, vision develops quickly. Most parenting sources suggest that newborns can see large shapes, bright colors, and faces that are within 12 inches from their eyes. Anything further than 12 inches is blurry at best. Anything that is 6-10 inches from the baby’s face is best.
focusing on smaller items. They can now clearly see up to 24 inches away, and can see bigger, moving items that are further away. While they still respond well to clear, black and white patterns, color recognition starts to get a response.
By 3-4 months, most babies are able to tell the difference between primary colors, and are able to start
By 4-5 months, the baby’s eyes are able to work together, and depth perception develops. This is also
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about the time that babies start to hold their own heads up, and sit without much support. Before now, the eyes do not always track an object together. At this point, your baby should be able to follow a toy with both eyes as it goes across their line of vision. If you notice that your baby’s eyes seem misaligned, or drifting inwards/outwards, you should talk to your doctor about it.
By 12 months, a child’s vision is similar to that of an adult, but the child is still continuing to learn about what s/he is seeing. This is also about the time that walking independently begins. One of the most interesting points is that although the broad descriptions above seem to be the case for the majority of typically-developing children, vision researchers have gone further into trying to figure out what and when specific textures, distances, acuity, and other aspects of what we “adults” actually see, develop. Another path of study is to investigate what other milestones of child development occur at the same time as vision. For example, it makes sense that babies would not need depth perception until they can sit up, or that they would not need to see far away if they are bonding with the caregiver of whose arms they are in. Studies of exposure to certain textures, light patterns,
and more factor into the research areas of cognitive development and experience. Parents often worry, correctly so, about their children’s eyes. The pediatrician will check the baby’s eyes at each visit, and look for signs that the baby’s eyes are not working together, and other potential problems. It is also important to ask your child’s doctor if you have concerns about how your baby is focusing on an object, or if you think one eye is not doing what it is supposed to do. Here is a list of some additional things to look out for:
Redness in either eye that doesn't go away in a few days Pus or crust in either eye Eyes that are always watery Eyes that often appear overly sensitive to light Drooping eyelids
References: Newborn Intensive Care: What Every Parent Needs to Know, 3rd Edition (Copyright © 2010 American Academy of Pediatrics)
White or grayish white color in the pupil
Your Child’s Eyes (Copyright © 2011 American Academy of Pediatrics, Updated 05/2016) Huurneman, B., Boonstra, F.N. (2016). Assessment of near visual acuity in 0-13 year olds with normal and low vision: a systematic review. BMC Ophthalmology, 8:16(1), p 215.
Eyes that flutter quickly from side to side or up and down
Sayeur, M., Vannasing, P., Lefrancois, M., Tremblay, E., Lapore, F., Lassonde, M., McKerral, M., Gallaher, A. (2015). Early childhood development of visual texture segregation in full-term and preterm children, Vision Research, vol 112. P1-10.
Eye pain, itchiness, or discomfort reported by your child.
Braddick, O., Atkinson, J. (2011). Development of Human Visual Function. Vision Research, vol 51, 1588-1609.
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Scenario: You are out for a walk with your babies seated in a stroller. They are same gender, identical twins. You have them dressed the same way, although you don’t always do that. You see a small group of women walking towards you from the opposite direction. You want to: a) Hide
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or parents of twins, regardless of whether they are monozygotic (MZ)/ identical twins or dizygotic (DZ)/fraternal twins, the feeling of being a walking curiosity show gets old quickly. Parents of singleton babies get a lot of advice and comments from well-meaning strangers, and parents of multiples get even more. The advice typically is for parents of twins to/not to dress them alike, to/not to share a jar of food, to/not to put them in the same classroom, to/not to treat them the same. Parents of twins have to figure out for themselves how to respond to these strangers, most of whom are not experts in any of the twin studies that are currently used to investigate the effects of shared environment and genetics on everything from physical appearance to personality, reading ability, and even political viewpoints and gambling habits. So what should parents of multiples say to these wellintentioned, albeit annoying people? Honestly, there is not much that can be said other than, “Thank you for sharing your opinion. I will take it under consideration, and look at what the scientific studies of twins have shown.” There is a whole line of research that looks at whether twins really do have a shared environment, and the contribution of shared environment and/or genetics to many different aspects of human development. Although twins are born at the same time, are babies of the same parents at the same time, are often dressed the same way, and share other similar aspects of their lives, researchers find differences between MZ and DZ twins. They find differences between MZ and other MZ twins as well. (Same thing for DZ twins.)
With the abundance of data being collected, what do parents need to know? First, if you want to dress them alike, go for it! At some point, they will become old enough to dress themselves. There will be pairs that want to dress similarly, and others who do not. The data suggests that how the parents dress the twins as babies and small children has little effect on how the twins dress themselves as older children and teens. Typically, it is how the twins decide to respond to comments from their friends and strangers that affects the dressing similarly choice. Second, food sharing is a different situation. Many parents of twins choose to open 1 jar of food, or split one banana or yogurt cup. This is not optimal. Even with identical twins, it is not uncommon for one to be bigger than the other. It is not uncommon for one twin to eat more than the other. However, it is really important to make sure that both children are eating enough food. If they each have their own serving containers, it is easier for parents to see if one twin is not getting enough. Twins may share the identical genetic code and environment, or they may share only the similar environment, but they develop into their own individual selves.
References: Mitchell, S., Mazzeo, S., Bulik, C., Aggen, S., Kendler, K., & Neale, M. (2007). An Investigation of a Measure of Twins’ Equal Environments. Twin Res Hum Genet. 2007 Dec; 10(6): 840–847. Littvay, L. (2012). Do heritability estimates of political phenotypes suffer from an equal environment assumption violation? Evidence from an empirical study. Twin Res Hum Genet. 2012 Feb;15(1):6-14 Matheny, AP Jr., Wilson, R. & Dolan, AB. (1976). Relations between twins' similarity of appearance and behavioral similarity: testing an assumption. Behavioral Genetics, 6(3):343-51. Verhulst, B., Hatemi, P. (2013). Gene-Environment Interplay in Twin Models, Polit Anal. vol 21(3): 368–389.
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The volume of creative programming offered is dizzying, but a look at its recent and pending activities paints a fair picture of how it defines accessibility: NHBZ has dynamic KidZone Programming, Tot Shabbat and Junior Congregation, and has just hired a Young Family Engagement Coordinator whose duties include not only coordination of synagogue events aimed at young families, but serving as a personal resource for families who are looking to develop their own individualized game plan of Jewish engagement at a pace comfortable to them. NHBZ is on overdrive with dynamic and diverse educational programming such as a Hebrew Crash Course, classes on “How to Run a Passover Seder,” a Challah class, classes on “What to do in Memory of a Departed Loved One,” and a whole series of Home Study Groups on topics as wide ranging as “Enhancing your Marriage,” “the Afterlife,” and “the Battle of the Sexes.”
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NHBZ offers two opportunities for adult learners (in addition to regular services) every single Saturday. Rabbi David of Aish HaTorah runs a Learners Service from 9:30 to 10:15 am, and Rabbi Smason conducts his “Starting Points: Lessons for Daily Living” sessions from 10:15 to 11 for those, regardless of prior educational or observance level, interested in growing Jewishly. His upcoming lineup looks like this: June 3: "Jewish Americans or American Jews?" June 10: "The Most Important Things in Life Are .....?" June 17: "What is Unique About Jewish Fathers?" (A follow-up to the May 13 session “What is Unique about Jewish Mothers?”) June 24: "The Spiritual Power of Names" On June 4 and 11 NHBZ’s “Jewish Customs and Practice” series continues with a two part series entitled “Greeting the Shabbos Queen: The What, When, Where & How of Friday Night Customs” with Rabbi Gidon Nitsun of the St. Louis Kollel. June 17 is denominated “Graduation Shabbat” with “Commencement Speaker” Olivette Police Chief Richard Knox will who will be sharing insights he gathered from his recent trip to
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Israel with other law enforcement executives from St. Louis. The Second Annual Kosher BBQ Cook-Off takes place on June 25! This is not only an officially sanctioned KCBS competition, but a family oriented community wide event meant to bring people together for a fun filled afternoon. In addition to the attraction of the fierce competitors, there will be sponsor booths, tasting booths, kid’s activities (in partnership with PJ Library), a car show, live music, and more. (They have noticed that food is important. In the absence of kosher restaurants in St. Louis, NHBZ invested in commercial pizza ovens and now runs a monthly Kosher Pizza/Pasta/Salad all you can eat night for the entire community.) One of NHBZ’s signature events, Synaplex Shabbat, is slated for July 8. This bi-monthly offering normally calls for regular services to end by 11 am followed by three different breakout sessions and then lunch. This Synaplex features two forceful speakers — AIPAC’s Josh Hahn speaking on "A Look Ahead at the U.S.-Israel Relationship, and special guest Rabbi Daniel Cohen, who will be at NHBZ for the entire weekend. Rabbi Cohen is nationally known and is the author of "What Will They Say About You When You Are Gone? Creating a Life of Legacy.”
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Body odor, self-consciousness and self-esteem Who knew that the type of ear wax you have is correlated with whether you will need to use deodorant? Or that there are so many different possible scents, that you might have your own “family” scent, sort of like a fingerprint? Or that one suggested reason for why brides started getting married in June and carrying flowers was because in earlier days they bathed once a year (in May), and by June they were just starting to smell bad, so the flowers masked the smell?
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Getting rid of body odor, the smell from bacteria in your armpits and other places, has become a multi-million dollar business because in today’s age “bad-smelling” people and animals are considered offensive and undesirable. Whether the “bride, flowers, May/June” hypothesis is correct or not, is not easy to prove, but researchers ARE hard at work testing the ear wax connection to a gene, the individual odor fingerprint, and other potential correlations of body odor.
sweats a lot due to high amounts of exercise or metabolic issues.) But these same years are recognized for the intensifying of self-consciousness and acknowledging of self-esteem. For example, tweens often start to NOT want to perform in front of others. They want to know what others think of them, or how they look to others in their peer group and to “strangers.” These new awarenesses directly affect social interaction and confidence.
Body odor is a natural part of development for many people, and it often starts in the tween years. (It can start earlier if the child
Researchers report lower self-confidence in adults who were teased for having body odor as tweens and teens, and in adults whose
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When a parent/caregiver starts noticing the body odor smell, it is important to help the tween recognize it without shame- given that this is a normal, and potentially evolutionarily, biologically USEFUL mechanism that our current social construct changes. What should parents/ caregivers or tweens do? Take a small towel or washcloth, and moisten it slightly. Rub it in the armpit for 1 minute, and put it aside. Leave the room and come back 5 minutes later. If you can smell an odor on the washcloth, it is definitely time to discuss antiperspirants and deodorants.
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So what is the correlation between earwax and body odor? Researchers are finding that if you have the gene that produces a more “wet, liquid” earwax, compared to a “dry, flaky” earwax, you are more likely to have a body odor that needs to be taken care of!!
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References: Rodriguez, S., Steer, C., Farrow, A. Golding, J., & Day, I. (2013). Dependence of Deodorant Usage on ABCC11 Genotype: Scope for Personalized Genetics in Personal Hygiene. Journal of Investigative Dermatology, 133(7). P.1760-1767. Penn, D., Oberzaucher, E., Grammer, K., Fischer, G., Soini, H., Wiesler, D., Novotriy, M., Dixon, S., Xu, Y., & Brereton, R. (2007). Individual and Gender Fingerprints in Human Body Odour. Journal of Research Social Interface, 4(13). Pp. 331-340.
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Sandwiches JENNIFER BAER LOTSOFF, MSW Jennifer Baer Lotsoff works as the PJ Library Coordinator at the Jewish Federation of St. Louis and has worked in the non-profit sector for nearly twenty years. Born in Memphis, she holds a B.A. in Psychology from the University of Texas in Austin and a Master’s degree in Social Work from Washington University. Jennifer works with professionals and lay leaders to build a vibrant Jewish community by encouraging collaboration through creative, fun experiences. With programs in secular and Jewish spaces, Jennifer encourages all community organizations to use the vehicle of PJ Library books to meet families wherever they are on their Jewish journey. Jennifer is a passionate connector of ideas, people, and institutions, and she credits her kids for bringing daily doses of humor to her life and endless crumbs to her car.
Summertime and the livin' is easy. That's how the song goes, right? Summertime reminds me of picnics outside with baskets of food and delicious sandwiches. My very favorite sandwich is peanut butter and jelly, although peanut butter, honey, and banana comes in a close second. I could eat PB&J every single day, and thinking about it literally warms my heart. But not all sandwiches summon warm fuzzies. There's also the kind of sandwich, as in the sandwich generation. Sandwiched between young kids and aging parents, there are both blessings and tribulations. On one side is my mom, the strong woman of 70+ years who raised me, is always there for me, and will always tell me if she does not like what I am wearing. On the other side are my kids, who still depend on me to feed and clothe them, and maybe buy another fidget spinner. Both sides of the sandwich hold me in place, and without either side I would feel exposed and missing something integral to who I am, like a sandwich missing the top or bottom piece. But with this sandwich comes the continuous countdowns... until the end of school, until my mom's knee surgery later this month, until my kids start camp, and also the constant balancing act. I'm so grateful to have both parts of my sandwich though, and would not trade it for all of the PB&J sandwiches in the world.
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Here are some PJ Library books about families, honoring parents and grandparents:
Good Night, Laila Tov Written by Laurel Snyder Illustrated by Jui Ishida
Ages: 2 to 3 Years A family car trip turns into an exploration of the natural wonders of the seashore, woods, and fields. As the day progresses, the family adventure is marked by the recurring refrain: "good night, laila tov.”
The Language of Angels Written by Richard Michelson Illustrated by Karla Gudeon
Ages: 7 to 8 Years Eliezer Ben Yehuda had an idea: He wanted to make Hebrew a spoken language again. But that meant that somebody had to be the first person to grow up speaking it, and that someone was going to be his son, Ben Zion. This is Ben Zion’s story.
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First Rain Written by Charlotte Herman Illustrated by Kathryn Mitter
Ages: 5 to 6 Years When Abby moves with her family to Israel, she misses her grandmother and remembers the fun they had with each other.
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Summertime means lots of outdoor activities for kids, including playing on playground equipment, swimming and jumping on the trampoline. When the weather gets warm, I see at least one trampoline related injury in my clinic every day. These range from simple ankle sprains to major broken bones requiring extensive treatment.
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The American Academy of Pediatrics “strongly discourages” the use of trampolines, as does the American Academy of Orthopedic Surgeons. Both of these groups have looked into the number and types of accidents that occur on trampolines and have decided to advise against their use. But the reality is that kids love playing on trampolines—both at home and at commercial trampoline parks. My kids are no exception; they have so much fun playing on the trampoline at gymnastics or going to the trampoline park for special events. As parents, if our kids are going to use a trampoline, or if we are going to have a trampoline in our yard, is there anything that we can do to help decrease this risk?
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One jumper at a time! This is probably the most important rule of all! Only one child should be out on the trampoline mat at a time. Many injuries occur from kids running into each other or from “double bouncing” (landing at the same time so that the smaller jumper gets rocketed into the air).
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Make sure everything is padded: Always check the trampoline prior to use and be sure that all springs, bars and landing surfaces are padded adequately. Severe injuries can occur from landing on the springs or bars that are unpadded. Also, padding can slip, so be sure to check before anyone gets on to bounce. All trampoline-related equipment should be inspected often and replaced as needed.
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Nets are good, but don’t prevent injury: Nets sometimes give parents a false sense of security. The majority of injuries occur on the trampoline mat itself, so having a net around the area doesn’t always mean less injuries.
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Not advised for children under 6: This may seem like an unrealistic expectation, but both the AAP and AAOS do not recommend trampoline use for children under 6.
The important thing for all of this is to use common sense. Inspect your trampolines often (or be sure that when your kids are visiting friends that the family takes good care of their trampoline). Make sure there is an adult around to supervise. It is so tempting for more than one kid to jump at a time—so kids need adults to remind them. The important thing is for kids to have fun and to be safe!
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CHILD DEVELOPMENT
TEEN
Drinking and
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Do you remember the (now) old Public Service Announcement with the egg: This is your brain. This is your brain on drugs (cracked and splattered on the blacktop)? It was a successful campaign because it had shock value at the time, and because of how visual it was. Today … well, a cracked egg likely wouldn’t have much shock value for drugs or alcohol.
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Today’s teens are smart and information-hungry. They want to know WHY they shouldn’t drink alcohol until they are 21 years old. They want to know why it isn’t just another silly, random rule for them to follow? Thankfully, there are enough studies of the tween and teen brains- both with normal maturational changes and with those in teens who consumed alcohol at different ages to give the teens the evidence they need to consciously and explicitly make the choice to wait until their brain matures before consuming alcohol. It is first important to detail methodological concerns. Recent studies have focused on looking at the actual activation areas in the brains of teens who drink versus those who don’t, as well as adults who drank different amounts of alcohol at different ages, from 14 years and up. While these neuroimaging studies provide converging evidence for differences in activation patterns in particular regions of the brain, many can not say if the brains were different to start with, or if the alcohol caused the differences. Teasing this apart is currently a main source of study. The most uncontested results from the research studies provide clear evidence that drinking alcohol between the ages of 14- 21 years has long-lasting negative effects when compared to waiting until after the age of 21 years. It is DANGEROUS!
Results: Risk taking, exploration, novelty, sensation seeking, social interaction, reduced responses to aversive stimuli, and other complex processes are characteristics linked to maturation of brain structure that occurs in adolescence. Nutrition, alcohol exposure, and multiple other environmental factors, in addition to genetics, are known to impact frontal cortical synaptic refinement and increased myelination that happens in the teen brain. Study subjects in their early 20s were found to be more sensitive to the effects of ethanol on multiple memory tasks than those in their late 20s. The younger brain was MORE negatively affected by the alcohol than the older brain. Functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging studies find lower GABA in the frontal cortex in 18-24 year-old binge drinkers compared with light drinkers. Further, binge drinkers with blackouts additionally had lower levels of frontal cortical glutamate. GABA, a neurotransmitter that sends chemical messages through the brain and the nervous system, is important for inhibiting or reducing the activity of the neurons or nerve cells. If teens disrupt the development of inhibition, it can affect the brain’s future ability to do so correctly. If you interfere with how the brain is supposed to mature, you may do so permanently.
Large longitudinal population studies find that the younger the age of drinking onset, the greater the prevalence of lifetime alcohol dependence, and Alcoholism. Studies keep finding a relationship between cumulative alcohol use and HMGB1 and TLR gene induction in the brain, providing support for the hypothesis that alcohol-induced neuroimmune signaling results in long-term changes in brain function and neurodegeneration. Various higher order cognitive functions involving inhibitory control, such as working memory and delay discounting, as well as their mediating fronto-striatal (inhibition), fronto-parietal (working memory) and striato-limbic (reward sensitivity) neural networks, differ in those who drank alcohol at younger ages compared to those who were older. The effects of alcohol on the actual development of the teen brain, are real and potentially permanent. Waiting just 10 years keeps teens alive, capable of reaching their potential, and making safer decisions.
References: Bourque, J., Baker, R., Dagher, A., Evans, A., Garavan, H., Leyton, M., Seguin, J., Pihi, R., & Conrod, P. (2016). Effects of delaying binge drinking on adolescent brain development: a longitudinal neuroimaging study., BMC Psychiatry, 16, p. 445. Crews, F., Vetreno, R., Broadwater, M., & Robinson, D. (2016). Adolescent Alcohol Exposure Persistently Impacts Adult Neurobiology and Behavior. Pharmacol Review, 68(4), p.1074-1109. Silveri MM, Cohen-Gilbert J, Crowley DJ, Rosso IM, Jensen JE, Sneider JT. (2014) Altered anterior cingulate neurochemistry in emerging adult binge drinkers with a history of alcohol-induced blackouts. Alcohol Clin Exp Res 38:969–979. Vetreno RP, Qin L, Crews FT. (2013) Increased receptor for advanced glycation end product expression in the human alcoholic prefrontal cortex is linked to adolescent drinking. Neurobiol Dis 59:52–62.
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Wow, you have twins? Did you “have help?” “Are they natural”? Are they twins? Are they identical??? [asked while referring to the Boy/Girl twins] Looking at the twins in the stroller, both in pink with bows, “One boy, one girl?” [my response - No, they are both girls.] “Are you sure? This one looks like a boy!”
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Twins? I bet this one is smarter than that one! [pointing to one of the girls] Do twins run in your family? [ My response: “The twins in my family run very fast, thank you very much…especially when you tell them that there’s ice cream for dessert.”]
It could have been worse, you could have had triplets! [yes, twin moms make singleton moms feel better…triplet moms make twin moms feel better]
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Twins? Oh my God – I wouldn’t have wanted twins! You had another one after having twins? Are you crazy?
How do you do it? Do you put your kids on leashes?
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“How many minutes apart were they?” [I answer, 20 minutes] “wow, that must have been a really long C-Section” [it wasn’t a C-Section…it was 2 deliveries and I needed some time to recover from pushing out the first one before pushing out the second one] “Was it, like, a big surprise in the delivery room?” [for the record, modern science and sonograms made it possible to tell they were twins very early on]
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What a Rhubarb Do you think the rain will hurt the rhubarb? Rhubarb is a fun word to say. I had not even known that the red vegetable has linguistic status among actors or is an old-time term used in baseball slang. The newly discovered entertainment value that an odd vegetable has so many other meanings makes it even more fun to say!
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Actors murmur “rhubarb, rhubarb, rhubarb” as a way to create background or raucous crowd sounds. Various baseball radio announcers claim origin to coining the term, “rhubarb” in the press box. Most accounts give credit to Red Barber of the Brooklyn Dodgers for the popularity of “rhubarb” in baseball, translated to mean a heated argument between players and/or umpires. As far as it’s food origins, rhubarb is a quirky vegetable with its red color, celery stalk-like appearance, and deceivingly not sweet taste. In the 1820s, rhubarb first appeared in the United States in Maine and Massachusetts, and easily made it’s way west. As quirky vegetables go, rhubarb grows just about anywhere, and requires minimal gardening investment or attention. Rhubarb also has a bit of an identity crisis; botanically rhubarb is a vegetable, but as it is used rhubarb is considered a fruit. (The USDA classifies rhubarb as a fruit.) The big red stalk can also be pink or red speckled. Rhubarb might be an enigma in the vegetable world, but it stands tall for nutrition. The stalks of rhubarb pack in vitamin C, vitamin A, fiber, potassium, and calcium. Ironically, while rhubarb contains a high amount of calcium, it is in a form that we do not absorb well. Adding to rhubarbs quirkiness, ONLY the stalks are safe to eat. The leaves contain very high levels of oxalic acid, a level considered poisonous. So as NOT to scare you, oxalic acid is normally found in lower concentrations in variety of vegetables such as broccoli, cauliflower, asparagus, spinach, kale, and Brussels spouts, which are eaten fairly regularly without harmful effects. Remember, variety and moderation are foundations of good nutrition.
For many, the taste of rhubarb is too tart or too sour, which is why other sweet fruits and sugars are usually added during cooking. I never tasted rhubarb until I lived in the southeastern part of the United States, where rhubarb-strawberry pie is commonly available…and quite refreshing. Rhubarb has regained popularity, making its way into mainstream cooking and baking. Recently, I noticed chopped rhubarb packaged and sold in the frozen foods section of the grocery store. Rhubarb and strawberries are frequently combined to create desserts, sweet or savory sauces, muffins, jams, salads, and punch. Creative recipes for rhubarb are abundant online, as well. I added the frozen rhubarb to strawberry smoothies for a tart zing and I even found a Passover rhubarb crumble recipe. From actors to baseball, the red barbarian vegetable lurking at the edges of gardens might find a way into your kitchen….if not on your plate, then maybe, just maybe it might cause a rhubarb in your house. Better yet, it will show up in a sweet summer pie! PS. What exactly does the expression “will the rain hurt the rhubarb” mean?
References http://www.wordorigins.org/index.php/site/comments/rhubarb/ http://www.bonappetit.com/test-kitchen/ingredients/article/theetymology-of-the-word-rhubarb 1. http://extension.usu.edu/fscreate/ou-files/ezplug/uploads/ FK-VVibes-Rhubarb.pdf 2. https://extension.umaine.edu/publications/4266e/ 3. http://www.compoundchem.com/2015/04/16/rhubarb/ 4. https://www.ams.usda.gov/grades-standards/rhubarb-grades-andstandards
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Pick Your Own In St Louis, June starts the time for ripe, summer fruit. Going to the farm and picking the fruit provides a great activity to do with your family and friends! Throughout the Summer and Fall seasons, you can pick, flowers, strawberries, raspberries, blackberries, blueberries cherries, peaches, apples, pumpkins and more. Here are some local farms that offer the first of the season’s “Pick Your Own”:
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Thies Farm & Greenhouses Pick Your Own Strawberries BEGINS MAY 5, 2017 It is always best to call ahead for information and availability. www.thiesfarm.com 14101 Creve Coeur Airport Rd., St. Louis, MO 63146, and 4215 North Hanley Road, St. Louis, MO 63121 (314) 469.7559 Pick Your Own Flowers 4215 North Hanley Road, St. Louis, MO 63121 JULY 20-SEPTEMBER 15 (314) 428.9878
Lakeview Farms
Pick your own strawberries, now open Pick your own red raspberries, now open http://www.lakeview-farms.com/ 8265 Mexico Road St. Peters, MO 63376 (636) 978-8830
Thierbach Orchards
Pick Your Own Strawberries now open Pick your own tart cherries, call to check availability www.thierbachorchards.com/ 15885 Orchard Lane, Marthasville, MO 63357 636-433-2299
Windridge Farm
Pick your own blueberries, open late June-July Pick your own blackberries, open late June-mid-August http://www.windridgefarm.net/ 3511 Hwy F, New Melle, MO 63341 636- 828- 5900.
Eckert’s Belleville Location
Pick Your Own Strawberries now open Pick your own vegetables, call to check availability Pick your own blackberries, late June www.eckerts.com/belleville-farm 951 S. Green Mont Rd. Belleville, IL 62220 800-745-0513
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HOLIDAY EXPLAINED
Shabbat, Sabbath, Shabbos We are taught that the Sabbath, or Shabbos, is the day of rest. We learn that G-d created the world in 6 days and then rested, took the day off, the first weekend as it were. Thus, obviously this is the point of Shabbos, to take a day off right? Maybe not so simple.
BY SAM ZITIN Associate Director JSU St. Louis
The Torah teaches that we are to "Remember the Sabbath, and keep it Holy". The remembering part we do by “positive action”, such as making Kiddush over wine and having special meals Friday night and Saturday afternoon. The keeping it holy part, that's achieved through “negative action”, namely, abstaining from work. However this idea is a confusing one. What does work mean in this context really? Doesn't a Rabbi work pretty much every Shabbos after all? What the Torah in fact tells us is that we must abstain from "MELACHA". The Hebrew word melacha doesn't have a perfect translation and so work often slips in, but it not only loses meaning it can be very misleading. Melacha specifically refers to creative activities. G-d did the work of creation for 6 days, and then abstained from creation. When we keep the Sabbath holy, we do so not by kicking back and putting our feet up, and taking a day off. We do so by voluntarily abstaining from creative activities, as a commemoration of G-d doing so. We take time to refocus our energies, and concentrate on things that are truly important. Learning, family, and our relationship with G-d. For 25 hours every week, the entire Jewish people is blessed with one of the holiest days of the year. We have an amazing opportunity every single week to unplug from the chaos and hustle of everyday life, and to reconnect with those we hold most dear. Every week, millions of Jews around the world take those 25 hours and stop their work, turn off their tvs and their phones, sit down with their families and enjoy the glory of the day. 25 hours to connect on an uninterrupted, deeper level with their families, with G-d, and even with themselves. I encourage everyone to take some time this Shabbos, no matter how you connect to it, to take that time and try to experience the beauty of Shabbos. Try to take some time each Friday night and Saturday to remember that it's not just the weekend, it's Shabbos.
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BEGINS sunset
FRI ENDS nightfall
SAT
Capturing three generations in one powerful story.
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& ME
Spirit of the radio
BOAZ ROTH A teacher at Thomas Jefferson school
Riding Space Mountain, spitting up my first gulp of bourbon, and seeing the guy in Indiana Jones getting his heart pulled out— these were the moments from my youth that permanently terrified me. Following those events, I refused to ride another roller coaster1, I wouldn’t drink anything stronger than a wine cooler2, and I’ve kept a healthy distance from cardiologists3. Yet no matter how much those items scarred the first dozen years of my life, they paled next to the horror caused by the following four words: The Make Believe Ballroom.
for the past 23 years and counting, Boaz Roth enjoys challenging bright students and working with colleagues. He coaches the basketball team and has various other interests. Boaz and his wife have 3 daughters, ranging from age 17 to age 6 years.
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I grew up in the New York metropolitan area during the 1970s and 80s when the radio station WNEW-AM played the top 40...from the 1940s. And one ineradicable memory from my youth is my mother turning on William B. Williams as he spun the oldies in The Make Believe Ballroom. Thirty seconds into every car ride, I’d moan, complain, and try to kick out the windshield. Anything to escape Sinatra, Fitzgerald, and Goodman! I figured that I’d enter the same tug-of-war with my children, but nothing of the sort has happened. For starters, I can’t remember turning on the car radio for an extended period of time. The last time I did, I heard the following: “Coming up next hour, Led Zeppelin and Donna Summer.” Now I’m a fan of both, but forgive me—played together, these two are the musical equivalent of a banana split topped with liquid cheese. In any case, when I’m behind the wheel, we don’t listen to the radio—I play songs from my phone. And like my mother, I’m in charge of the music. But for some strange reason, my kids seem to like my music. Rarely do they roll their eyes or put on their headphones when I start pumping out my version of the oldies. Styx, Squeeze, and Harry Chapin all get solid approval from my girls.4 You’d think, then, that our drives have been harmonious (I know, sorry!), but actually the opposite has occurred. My kids’ approval is slowly destroying a cherished part of my life. Consider my six-year old. Recently she heard “Body of an American” by the Pogues and fell in love with the chorus (“I’m a free born man of the U.S.A.”). Once the song ended she had a simple request: “play it again, dad.” How could I refuse? Not only do I love her, but I love that chorus too. Twenty minutes later—after honoring her request four more times—I was ready to throw my phone out the window. And after a week of “Daddy, play ‘Body of an American,’” I memorized every lyric, every chord change, and every drum fill. The song became a piece of gum with no color or flavor left.
I’m sure many parents find it flattering that their kids walk in their steps and discover the same earthly joys they loved—even if it results in the erosion of the spell cast over them decades ago. But with this satisfaction comes a set of pernicious questions: is it good our kids tread in cultural footsteps? How hard should we push our children into embracing our interests? What is the line between gentle nudging and outright pushing? My own experience is instructive: in my youth, I recoiled against The Make Believe Ballroom, but when I later discovered swing dancing, I became grateful I knew enough to purchase CDs5 of the Cole Porter songbook. In retrospect, it was terrific—and not really a terror—that I was forced to reside each afternoon in The Make Believe Ballroom. Mom knew best (bah!). But still: how hard do we push? When we see the obvious holes in our kids’ experiences, how strenuously should we work to patch them up? Do we make them watch Pulp Fiction or simply hope the movie shows up on their Netflix cue and they find it for themselves? Can our kids really understand what it means to live fully if they never hear “America”? Seventeen years of parenting haven’t answered these questions for me. Actually, seventeen years of parenting haven’t provided many conclusive answers for me; like so many, I’m still learning on the job. Ultimately, I’m really only sure about one thing: I will never set foot on a rollercoaster no matter how badly my kids beg. Mom is the cool parent when it comes to amusement parks— and the bourbon too.
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I did once get on a quaint roller coaster called the “Vapor Trail” at Sesame Place. I thought my wife would laud my courage; when I got off, she just shook her head in disbelief. 2
For that she continually shakes her head in disbelief.
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My wife is quietly nodding her approval on this point.
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Recently, one told me Simon and Garfunkel’s “America” is “woke.” That’s good, right?
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Young readers: CDs are streaming music on a piece of plastic that you actually own and can physically touch.
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COOKING CORNER
Rhubarb-Orange Crumb Pie Pastry Ingredients:
1½C
sifted all-purpose flo ur
½t
Salt
½C
Vegetable shortenin g
4-8 T
Orange Juice
Pie Filling Ingredien ts: 3C 1-inch slices of Rhub arb stalks (approx. 5 stalks ) 1C Sugar 1/2t 3T
grated orange peel
flour
1 pinch salt Crumb topping: 1/2C
sugar
3/4C
flour
1/3C
Butter or margarine Rolled oats
1C
Dash Cinnamon
Desserts
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Buy a prepared pie sh ell, or make your ow n from scratch with this recipe. Sift togeth er the flour and salt. Cut in the shortening with two butter knive s, until the pieces loo k like small peas. Keep going until most of it looks like cornmeal , and some of it still like small peas. Spoon looks in the orange juice, one spoonful at a tim Moisten some of the e. dry mixture, and the n push that to the sid Keep going until it is e. all moistened (but NO T wet!) You should the be able to pick it up n and form it into a bal l. Roll out ball of doug h and line a 9 inch pie dish. Roll up the edg and press in with for es k (to make decorativ e edge.) Be careful no press too hard. t to Make the filling: In lar ge bowl, combine the rhubarb, sugar, orang peel, flour and salt. Let e sit for 5 minutes. Po ur into pie dough. In small bowl, mix tog ether the flour and sug ar. Cut in the butter or margarine, simila r to with the pie cru st- small peas. Stir in rolled oats and cinna the mon. Spoon crumb topping on pie. Cover the pie crust edg es only with either a pie-edge cover or foi l. Bake at 400 degrees for 40 minutes. Remove foil or cover from pie edge and con tinue baking for another 10 minutes, or until lightly brown ed.
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1 2 Friday
300 CHECKERBOARD DR, GRAY SUMMIT, MO 63039 FREE
COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden
First Fridays
6/1 9am-4pm
Join us for a full Friday evening Shabbat service for all generations. Those celebrating a birthday this month are invited on the bema for a special birthday blessing and treat! Following the blessing, children ages 7 and under and an accompanying adult leave the Sanctuary for a special program in the preschool.
Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.
Ladies' Knight 6/1 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
Shavuot 6/1
until Sundown
Festival of Weeks, commemorates the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai.
Shavuot Family Picnic 6/1 5pm-7pm Join Kol Rinah families for a fun Shavuot family picnic! Bring picnic blanket, dinner for your family and a dessert to share. We will have a fun evening of eating, schmoozing, field games, and enjoying the playground. MOONEY/JACKSON PARK FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Seniors
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and non-members. JCC FOX BUILDING
6/2 6pm
CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD CONTACT DEBBIE BRAM AT 314.692.5308 OR DBRAM@SESTL.ORG
Secular
After watching the show, enjoy Purina Farms' vistors center. See many farm animals up close and personal.
6/2 10:30am-11:30am
Contact Debbie Bram at 314.692.5308 or dbram@sestl.org.
Suson Farm Fridays 6/2 10am-1pm Looking for some fun like pony rides, hayrides, barn tours, face painting, fishing, candle making and peddle cars/bean bag toss area.
6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE, BUT REGISTER ONLINE OR CALL (314) 615-8822
Jewish
6/1 8am-6pm
Open Play at the J
St. Louis Children’s Hospital Fit Kid: Free Kid – Let's Run 6/2 4pm-7pm On the first Friday of every month, kids are invited to spend some FREE time getting fit at Fit Kid THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S KIRKWOOD RD, 63122 FREE FOR CHILDREN 12 AND UNDER WITH REQUIRED, ADVANCE REGISTRATION.
Shakespeare in the ParkThe Winter's Tale 6/2 8pm Written in approximately 1610, The Winter’s Tale is considered to be one of a group of Shakespeare’s plays defined by their tragic undertones and simultaneous use of straightforward comic situations. FOREST PARK FREE St. Louis Jewish Parents
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Norwegian Elkhound Association of America Specialty
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Thursday
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Sunday
Webster Arts Fair
Sensory Story Time
6/3-6/4 11am-9pm Webster Arts Fair was named one of the TOP 100 fine arts and crafts shows in the US --#77! Come see and purchase art, and join in other family-fun activities!
Seniors
BOMPART AND LOCKWOOD FREE
2017 Green Homes Festival
Museum of Transportation
6/3 8am-12pm
6/4 9am-4pm
Help your family live green! Join us for a hands-on, day-long festival of learning, playing, and engaging with an interest in sustainable, healthy lifestyles. Enjoy free admission to the Garden before noon if you have STL City/County residency.
Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
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Kids' Intro to Archery 6/3 9am-10:30am Kids ages 8-15 years, Join the South County Archers! All bows, arrows, and targets provided. Class size is limited. Advance registration is required. Meet at the Archery Shelter near Gregg and Hancock Roads in Jefferson Barracks Park. If inclement weather conditions exist, call Ranger Dispatch at (314) 6158911. To register call (314) 615-4386. $6 PER PERSON.
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Historic Soulard Market 6/3 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 - 13 YEARS+, $5 - CHILDREN
Free Walking Tour 6/4 2pm-3pm Laumeier tours are interactive & designed to engage participants in exploring the relationship between art & nature. Tours led by trained Laumeier Docents. Laumeier Sculpture Park is a living laboratory where artists & audiences explore the relationship between contemporary art & natural environment. 12580 ROTT RD FREE
Sunday Chess Classes 6/4
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
Sundays with Shakespeare 6/4 1pm
Schools & Synagogues
The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www.rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis Director. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2.FREE
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Kramer's Marionnettes: Marvin's Musical Revue 6/4 1pm-2pm The Jack In The Boxes, Marvin, Susie, Charlie, Betsey & our new friends Linda and Elisa, the Hedge Hog Girls with their boogie woogie, are waiting to entertain you! 4143 LACLEDE AVE, 63108 SPECIAL PRICED TICKETS! CALL 314.531.3313. RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED FOR ALL SHOWS.
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6/5 6:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Pick Your Own Strawberries 6/5 9am-6pm It's strawberry season at Eckert's! 951 S. GREENMOUNT RD. BELLEVILLE, IL $2.79 PER POUND
St Louis Zoo 6/5 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
Open Jump 6/5 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents? PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
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Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Chair Yoga
Train Your Inner Warrior
Open Jump
Open Play at the J
6/6 11am-12pm
6/7 7pm-8pm
6/8 10am-3pm
6/9 10:30am-11:30am
NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J
Fun and challenging workout. Push your mind and get the most from your body, in a supportive group of likeminded Jewish Women.
Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers. JCC FOX BUILDING
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-4423255.
CHABAD, 8124 DELMAR BLVD, 63130 DONATION
Toddler Tuesdays
Big Fish, Little Fish
6/6 9am
6/7 10am-12pm
Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.
Parent and child (ages 4-6) will learn all about fish and fishing together. This program meets at the Educational Fishing Lakes and Hatchery in Forest Park. Although fishing is permitted in the park with a license, the Forest Park Educational Fishing Lakes are not open to public fishing unless registered for a program. Bring a water bottle and dress for the weather, rain or shine!
Storytelling at the Museum
Wine Down Wednesday
FREE
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
Ladies' Knight 6/8 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
Grant's Farm! 6/8 9am-3:30pm Enjoy Grant's Farm favorites, such as, goat feeding, carousel rides, snow cones, and more.
COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Olden Days of Summer 6/9 9am-12pm Come back in time: Historic homes and barns, blacksmith demonstrations, rope making, candle-dipping, face painting, carousel rides, hayrides and more. FAUST PARK, 15185 OLIVE BLVD $10 IN ADVANCE, $15 AT THE DOOR.
Water Waddlers
6/6 10:30am-11:15am
6/7 6pm
6/9 9am-10:30am
Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5.
Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!
Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child.
MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
Tuesday Tails 6/6 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE
DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Whitaker Music Festival 6/7 7:30pm-9:30pm Pack a picnic dinner and enjoy the Garden grounds while you listen to live music, Jack Grelle. Free admission begins at 5 p.m. and last entry is at 9 p.m. MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110 FREE
1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
Healthworks! Kids Museum 6/9 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today! HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES
Des Peres Summer Concert- Contagious 6/9 7pm-9:30pm Bring your blankets, lawn chairs and coolers with your favorite snacks and beverages (alcohol is allowed). Glass bottles are not permitted for safety. Concessions will be available for purchase courtesy of Boy Scout Troop 313.
DES PERES PARK, 12325 MANCHESTER ROAD, 63131 FREE
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Seniors
Saturday
St Luke's Tour de Wellness
Sensory Story Time
6/10-6/11 8am-6pm
6/11 7am-1pm
6/12 6:30pm
During the Saturday and Sunday following the first Monday in June, any person may fish state waters without an Missouri Department of Conservation fishing permit, trout permit and prescribed area daily tag.
Recreational cycling event to celebrate healthy living and raise awareness of the increased risks of a sedentary lifestyle. Riders of all levels are welcome to enjoy beginner, intermediate and advanced routes.
Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities.
CHESTERFIELD AMPHITHEATER, 631 VETERAN’S PLACE DRIVE, CHESTERFIELD MO 63017. VARIES
ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Free Family Day at Laumeier
Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden
6/11 2pm-4pm
6/12 9am-4pm
Families can bond through observation, imagination, curiosity and creativity. We offer participants of all ages structured activities using a variety of materials to create artwork based on personal experience. Ages 4 and up to enjoy at their individual level.
Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis.
6/10 10am-4pm
Secular
Great Rivers Greenway encourages STL residents to venture outdoors, explore a more active lifestyle and enjoy the great rivers, parks and communities. Tree climbing, kayaking lessons, birdwatching, rock climbing, stand up paddle boarding, nature crafts and activities for kids, walks and bike rides throughout the day, gardening and yoga. 13725 MARINE AVENUE MARYLAND HEIGHTS, MO FREE
Keeper Talks 6/10 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE
12580 ROTT ROAD FREE
Sundays with Shakespeare 6/11 1pm
Schools & Synagogues
Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR $10 IN ADVANCE, $15 OTHERWISE.
Top Pantry Chef
CALENDAR
6/12 9:30am-3pm
Tour de Fun Everything kids love...all in one place! Kick off the summer by bringing your family to the J for rides, inflatables, vehicles, music and more. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX,
6/11 3pm-5pm Watch three chefs compete for ultimate bragging rights and the title of Top Pantry Chef using food that our client families receive at the food pantry. HARVEY KORNBLUM JEWISH FOOD PANTRY, 10601 BAUR BLVD FREE, BUT DONATIONS WELCOME
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Museum of Transportation
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
6/11 10am-1:30pm
JUNE 2017
4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.
The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www. rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2. FREE
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Life Outside Festival
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Sunday
St Louis Zoo 6/12 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education.
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Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Chair Yoga
Baby N Me
Cahokia Mounds
Open Play at the J
6/13 11am-12pm
6/14 9:30am-10:45am
6/15 9am-5pm
6/16 10:30am-11:30am
NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
The remains of the most sophisticated prehistoric native civilization north of Mexico are preserved at Cahokia Mounds State Historic Site. Within the 2,200-acre tract, lie the archaeological remnants of the central section of the ancient settlement.
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-4423255.
Storytelling at the Museum 6/13 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
Tuesday Tails 6/13 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE
Story Hour- Father's Day 6/13 10am-10:45am Father’s Day is this weekend, and we want to celebrate the special men in our kid’s lives such as dads, grandpas, uncles and brothers. Story and Craft! WHOLE FOODS MARKETTOWN AND COUNTRY FREE
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
Kids Dream Summer Film Series 6/14 10am The Secret Life of Pets
450 THF BOULEVARD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 ADMISSION WILL BE $3.00 AND CONCESSIONS SPECIALS WILL INCLUDE $2.75 POPCORNS AND $2.75 FOUNTAIN DRINKS.
30 RAMEY ST, COLLINSVILLE, IL DONATION ENCOURAGED.
What did you have for dinner, Mr. Owl 6/15 10am-11:30am Did you ever wonder what owls eat? Come and learn about the owls that live in Missouri. Then dissect an owl pellet to see what one of those magnificent birds ate for dinner! 2751 GLENCOE ROAD WILDWOOD, MO FREE
Open Jump
6/14 6pm
6/15 10am-3pm
Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!
Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Teen Open Gym 6/14 8:30pm-9:50pm Open gym is for children and adults ages 13 and up, wanting to practice gymnastics, cheer or parkour. Includes use of floors and trampolines. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.teamcentral.org.
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Historic Soulard Market 6/16 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104
FREE Public Stargazing Every Friday Night 6/16 dusk
Wine Down Wednesday
DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
Ladies' Knight 6/15 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
Discover different constellations and stars through complex telescopes. Observing starts at sunset and lasts for two hours. BROEMMELSIEK PARK, 1615 SCHWEDE RD, 63385.
NIGHT WAVES POOL PARTY for Middle School Students 6/16 8pm-10pm Enjoy music, games and fun while hanging with old friends and meeting new ones. The outdoor café will be available to purchase snacks or dinner. LODGE OF DES PERES, 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $5 PER PERSON
TEAM CENTRAL, 2675 METRO BLVD, 63043 $8 PER TEEN.
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Chickasaw Nation Dance Troupe
Kirkwood Farmers' Market
6/17-6/18 10am-4:30pm
6/19 9am-8pm
Demonstrations of traditional stomp dancing, stickball game, storytelling, games and social dancing for visitors. Inside and outside the Intrepretive Center.
Seniors
30 RAMEY ST, COLLINSVILLE, IL FREE
Keeper Talks
Father's Day Jump
6/17 9am-10am
6/18 10am-12pm
Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat.
Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE
Shakespeare in the ParkThe Winter's Tale
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6/17 8pm Written in approximately 1610, The Winter’s Tale is considered to be one of a group of Shakespeare’s plays defined by their tragic undertones and simultaneous use of straightforward comic situations. FOREST PARK FREE
Grant's Farm! 6/17 9am-3:30pm
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Enjoy Grant's Farm favorites, such as, goat feeding, carousel rides, snow cones, and more.
Miles Against Melanoma! 6/17 6:30pm
Schools & Synagogues
St. Louis 5K/1M run and health expo. A family-friendly event, open to participants and the public to make a difference in the lives of people affected by skin cancer. https://racesonline.com/events/ miles-against-melanoma
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LAKESIDE PARK, ST. PETERS, MO
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301 VARIES: $3-$9 PER PERSON
Dad's Free at The Magic House
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The market opens early in the season and is open daily. For the best selection of produce, visit the market on Saturday morning when it opens at 8 a.m. 150 E. ARGONNE, KIRKWOOD FREE.
St Louis Zoo 6/19 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
6/18 11am-5:30pm
Sensory Story Time
Children and their dads can fish in the Children's Village Pond, dig in the sand at Sandcastle Beach and much more! Children can also wish the best man in their life a very special Father's Day by creating a one-of-a-kind keepsake just for him in the Museum's Art Studio.
6/19 6:30pm
THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S KIRKWOOD RD, 63122
Sunday Chess Classes 6/18
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
Sundays with Shakespeare 6/18 1pm The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www. rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2. FREE
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Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
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Camp Potpourri
6/20 10am-11am Come to camp with your child. Themed filled weeks with circle time, art, snack and music time. for ages 18mo-3 year. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Chair Yoga 6/20 11am-12pm NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-442-3255.
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Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
Camp Potpourri
Open Play at the J
6/22 10am-11am
6/23 10:30am-11:30am
Come to camp with your child. Themed filled weeks with circle time, art, snack and music time. for ages 18mo-3 year.
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and non-members.
6/21 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required. MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Museum of Transportation 6/21 9am-4pm Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train rides, handcars. 2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
Wine Down Wednesday
Toddler Tuesdays
6/21 6pm
6/20 9am
Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!
Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.
Tuesday Tails 6/20 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals.
DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Open Gym, ages 13 and up 6/21 8:30pm-10pm Open gym is for teens and adults, wanting to practice gymnastics. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.stlouisgymcentre.com ST LOUIS GYM CENTRE, 315 W. PACIFIC AVE, 63119 $7.50- $10 PER PERSON.
1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE
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JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden 6/22 9am-4pm Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.
Science Story Time 6/22 10:15am Enjoy an interactive reading of a science themed story, followed by a related hands-on activity. ST LOUIS SCIENCE CENTER, 5050 OAKLAND AVENUE FREE
Ladies' Knight 6/22 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Shabbat Under the Stars 6/23 5:30pm-6pm ECE - Please join us at Shaare Emeth for our Early Childhood event! All of our programs are geared toward preschool-aged children. 11645 LADUE ROAD FREE
Healthworks! Kids Museum 6/23 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today!
HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES
Jungle Boogie ConcertPush the Limit 6/23 5pm-8pm All ages can enjoy Top 40, MoTown, Rock and more on the outdoor stage in the Schnuck Family Plaza in the center of the Zoo. Animal-related kids activities will focus on conservation of endangered species through the Zoo’s WildCare Institute. STL ZOO FREE
WANT TO LIST YOUR EVENT HERE? EMAIL US AT:
INFO@STLOUISJEWISHPARENTS.COM
Shakespeare in the ParkThe Winter's Tale 6/23 6:30pm Written in approximately 1610, The Winter’s Tale is considered to be one of a group of Shakespeare’s plays defined by their tragic undertones and simultaneous use of straightforward comic situations. FOREST PARK FREE
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Historic Soulard Market
6/24 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104
Seniors
Youth Fishing Derby 6/24 7:30am-10am Dust off your rod and reel and meet us for our Youth Fishing Derby! Ages 3 - 12, can enjoy the morning fishing, participate in the Biggest Fish Contest, raffles and much more! All participants must provide their own fishing pole and bait. DES PERES PARK $5 AND REGISTRATION REQUIRED
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PrideFest 6/24 12pm-9pm Jewish Community Booth open at PrideFest St. Louis. 1315 CHESTNUT ST, 63103 FREE
Sunday
Sundays with Shakespeare
Open Jump
6/25 1pm
Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www. rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2. FREE
Sunday Chess Classes 6/25
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
2nd Annual Kosher BBQ Competition 6/25 12pm-4pm It’s back for the 2nd year! Come join the best of the best BBQ masters in the 2nd Annual Kosher BBQ Competition
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NUSACH HARI B’NAI ZION, 650 NORTH PRICE VARIES
Pride Parade 6/25 12pm-3pm The Jewish Community walks together in the St. Louis Pride Parade
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Schools & Synagogues
1315 CHESTNUT ST, 63103 FREE
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6/26 10am-3pm
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
St Louis Zoo 6/26 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden 6/26 9am-4pm Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.
Kirkwood Farmers' Market 6/26 9am-8pm The market opens early in the season and is open daily. For the best selection of produce, visit the market on Saturday morning when it opens at 8 a.m. 150 E. ARGONNE, KIRKWOOD FREE.
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Camp Potpourri
Open Play at the J
6/27 10am-11am
6/28 9:30am-10:45am
6/29 10am-11am
6/30 10:30am-11:30am
Come to camp with your child. Themed filled weeks with circle time, art, snack and music time. for ages 18mo-3 year.
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
Come to camp with your child. Themed filled weeks with circle time, art, snack and music time. for ages 18mo-3 year.
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Chair Yoga 6/27 11am-12pm NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-4423255.
Toddler Tuesdays 6/27 9am Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.
Tuesday Tails 6/27 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
314-569-0048
Museum of Transportation
Whitaker Music Festival
6/29 9am-4pm
6/28 7:30pm-9:30pm Pack a picnic dinner and enjoy the Garden grounds while you listen to live music, Big Mike Aguirre and the Blu City All Stars. Free admission begins at 5 p.m. and last entry is at 9 p.m. MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110 FREE
Teen Open Gym 6/28 8:30pm-9:50pm Open gym is for children and adults ages 13 and up, wanting to practice gymnastics, cheer or parkour. Includes use of floors and trampolines. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.teamcentral.org. TEAM CENTRAL, 2675 METRO BLVD, 63043 $8 PER TEEN.
Wine Down Wednesday 6/28 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
Purina Farms 6/29 8am-5pm Dog Shows, Farm Animals, and so much more! Come learn and enjoy! 300 CHECKERBOARD DR, GRAY SUMMIT, MO 63039 FREE
Ladies' Knight 6/29 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
Water Waddlers 6/30 9am-10:30am Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
Suson Farm Fridays 6/30 10am-1pm Looking for some fun like pony rides, hayrides, barn tours, face painting, fishing, candle making and peddle cars/bean bag toss area.
6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE, BUT REGISTER ONLINE OR CALL (314) 615-8822
Jungle Boogie Concert Serites 6/30 5pm-8pm Bring the whole family for a concert in the center of the Zoo! Ticket to the Beatles (Tribute) 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
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Young start-ups help our community’s economy. Look here monthly to see what is new!
314-291-2131
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8944 St. Charles Rock Road, 3rd Floor info@northwestchamber.com http://www.northwestchamber.com/
My Jewish Journey
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CycleBar Creve Coeur
Lauren.Hussey@CycleBar.com 11625 Olive Blvd, Creve Coeur, 63141 CreveCoeur.CycleBar.com
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Offering a convenient, one-on-one tutoring service. We tutor students of all ages and all subjects. Tutoring is conducted in the student's home or at a public location of the client's choosing. The initial consultation is free, where we assess the student's situation and need, then recommend a customized tutoring program. All tutors are background checked and skill-set matched to the student's particular need. Parents receive a report after every tutoring session to ensure they are always updated on their student's progress. Money back guarantee for unused hours, and 2 free hours of tutoring offered for referrals.
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Orli's Boutique Unique, fun, fashion-forward women's clothing by top designers from New York, Chicago, and Los Angeles at awesome prices! 636-527-1121 161 Lamp & Lantern Village, Chesterfield, MO 63017
Concierge Bereavement Services When a loved one dies, managing final affairs can be a daunting task, especially while still in mourning. We are here to help you navigate through this overwhelming process by organizing and managing everything from account closures, like utilities and credit cards, to canceling lawn service and gym memberships. We focus on the process so you can celebrate your loved one's legacy.
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Snapology STL West Come learn, play and build in our discovery center, which is stocked with LEGO bricks and other building toys. We run birthday parties, classes, and camps centered around robotics and video game design. stlwest@snapology.com 314-717-1794 10028 Manchester Rd, 63122 snapology stl west
Train Your Inner Warrior A virtual and live fitness business dedicated to helping our clients reach their potential in mind, body, and spirit, through challenging workouts, individualized and integrated (Eastern and Western philosophies) nutritional balance, and behavioral change counseling (again, integrated East/West). We bring our clients to their potential in fitness and all areas of their lives.
Giving you more time to do what you want to do, not what you have to do. Services include: errand running, home organization, personal assistant, bar/bat mitzvah & wedding planning.
Erin Schneider erin@conciergebereavement.com 314-492-1118 www.conciergebereavement.com
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This Premium Indoor Cycling Studio is a rock concert on a bike! We have the best instructors in the city that motivate you to take fitness to the next level! We provide shoes, water bottles, and shower facilities so all you have to do is come for a good time!
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Tutor Doctor of West St. Louis
Robert Moellering rmoellering@tutordoctor.com 314-637-7972 www.tutordoctor.com/west-st-louis
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Creating memories one box at a time, a complete craft project with detailed instructions are delivered to your door for children ages 3-7 yrs. The intent is to have parents help children complete a Jewish related craft. Project boxes include: recipes, a book, project supplies, and detailed instructions. The My Jewish Journey series contains many items to learn about Jewish holidays, customs and other Jewish topics from the comfort of your own home.
We offer floatation therapy sessions in a reduced sensory environment, allowing you to disconnect from all of the inputs of today’s society & reconnect with yourself. Guaranteed to leave you feeling refreshed & great.
STL Lifestyle & Events
Melissa Cook, Jessica Tilson 314-561-2083 www.STLLifestyleEvents.com
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Presence Float Center
Info@presencefloatcenter.com 636-220-6327 233 Lamp & Lantern Village Town & Country, MO 63017 www.presencefloatcenter.com
Brian Goldman, President/CEO
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We are one of the fastest growing Chambers in Missouri! We are a Chamber without borders. We provide unique opportunities to do business and build relationships. If you have any questions or are interested in the Chamber, give us a call!
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NORTHWEST CHAMBER OF COMMERCE
Sherri Tons myjewishjourney@yahoo.com 314.954.4986 myjewishjourney.net
KINETIC counseling provides, individual, couples and family therapy. With the primary objective of helping clients gain forward momentum, some of the therapeutic tools employed include Cognitive behavior therapy, Cognitive processing therapy, stress reduction techniques, mindfulness strategies and Dialectical behavior therapy. Carly Cooper info@KINETICcounseling.org 314-607-8444 408 N. Euclid, STL, MO 63108 www.KINETICcounseling.org
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Front of the Beat "Connect with musicians in just one click". A directory that easily connects you to music lesson instructors, performers and musicrelated services in the St. Louis community. www.frontofthebeat.com Front of the Beat frontofthebeat frontofthebeat
Tree of Life Pediatric and Family Chiropractic
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Helping young mothers & families to empower their children who struggle to reach their potential. For the comfort of children with special needs & convenience of families, we are a house call based practice.
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Inspiration/Positive Change/Self-Empowerment. Interested in discovering unique and innovative techniques for creating a well-balanced and healthy life for both you and your children? A personalized approach that empowers children and women through teaching the self-help tool of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/ Tapping) and Empowerment Strategies. Carly Black carly@experiencerivulet Julie Eisenberg julie@experiencerivulet.com Rivulet exprivulet experiencerivulet www.experiencerivulet.com
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Many of you have visited our children’s boutique, Lu Lu Belle in Naples, FL owned by St. Louis couple Charlie and Linda Kilo. We have now opened a store in Ladue bringing the same personalized service & brands - most of them unique to St. Louis for girls & boys newborn & up. Come in for a fun-filled experience for Grandparents, Parents & kids. We look forward to meeting you! Mon-Sat 10:00am-5:00pm. Expanded hours by appointment. lulubelleofnaples@yahoo.com 314-736-5588 9727 Clayton Rd., Ladue, MO 63124 lu lu belle
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Hey, Dollcakes We specialize in the doll cake, but I am a full service bakery. Donuts, pastries, cookies, cheesecakes, cake balls, etc. 636-385-6828 connie@heydollcakes.com www.heydollcakes.com 2956 Hwy K, O’Fallon, MO 63368
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PLNK STL A total body, 50 minute workout with a focus on targeted muscular strength building and conditioning. High intensity. Low impact. The only workout to combine strength, endurance, cardio, balance, and flexibility in each and every movement. Your joints stay protected, your spinal alignment improves, your mind is engaged, and your body’s pushed to its limits. This isn't your mom's pilates. info@plnkstl.com 314-395-4366 www.plnkstl.com plnkstl
Kidzxplor is a new revolutionary web and app-based service that connects kids to local class providers. Kidzxplor opens the doors to discovery by offering a membership that syncs children to a multitude of different classes and activities including art, music, dance, fitness, mind, open plays, cooking, and many, many more- all for one flat-fee per month. Drop into the best St. Louis children’s class providers and discover your child’s passion conveniently and economically.
HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis has the distinction of being the only free-standing children’s museum in St. Louis that is dedicated solely to health education. It is completely accessible to those of all abilities and showcases a unique model of health edutainment through hands-on, interactive exhibits and live engaging presentations. Our goal: To infectiously contaminate children of all ages to learn, have fun and make great life choices. We Make Health Fun!
314) 241-7391 info@hwstl.org hwstl.org hwstl 1100 Macklind Ave, St. Louis, MO 63110
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An online platform designed to make the connection & communication process between consumers and photographers more efficient and enjoyable. The process is so simple and fun.... Select your genre, love your favorite images, then ShuttrPlace will connect you to your ideal photographers. And even better, the platform is completely free for consumers! ShutterPlace is the only place to find a photog! Try us out!
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Scott Roberts 636-244-2900 4604 South St Peters Pkwy 63304 Mid-America Gymnastics Academy
Innovative mental health and wellness center treating children, adolescents and adults using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). We offer Mindfulness and Mindful Yoga classes for the general population, as well as for those with anxiety, depression and other mental health issues. We have Mindfulness classes for children and families, as well as group therapy for children & adults with Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors, such as hair pulling & skin picking, as well as eating disorders. Dr. Laura Chackes lchackes@mindfulstl.com 314-561-9757 www.mindfulstl.com The Center for Mindfulness & CBT
Mid-America Gymnastics Academy We offer girls and boys gymnastics classes, tumbling, and Competitive team. We are open! Come check us out.
The Center for Mindfulness & CBT
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Stephanie Nicholson 314-485-9897 www.treeoflifepedandfamilychiro.com treeoflifepediatric
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New listing for June Listed in May Turning 1 year old!
Keri Simon Therapy With 15+ years experience working with adolescents, young adults and families providing therapy for social and interpersonal relationship issues and emotional regulation, anxiety and depression. Specializes in individuals and families with autism spectrum disorder and or developmental disabilities. Keri excels at creating therapeutic rapport with even the most resistant of clients. Social skills and support groups offered in evenings and after school. Keri Simon, LCSW 314-265-5791 www.kerisimontherapy.com 745 Craig Rd, Suite 308, 63141
St. Louis Jewish Parents
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Join the St. Louis TAKE STEPS for Crohn's & Colitis on 6/4/17!
Sunday, June 4th
at Creve Coeur Lake Park, near the Tremayne Pavillion Registration 1:30 and Walk begins at 2:30. Family friendly event - bounce house - Bubble Bus - snow cones and more! Vendors with IBD information, including SSM Health’s “Ask a Doc” tent where people can get answers to their IBD questions.
Register to walk and make a donation at: www.cctakesteps.org/stlouis2017
Thank you to our Platinum sponsor