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Nearly half of children who have eczema before the age of 2 will develop wheezing. Children with a parent who has had asthma are three times more likely to develop asthma than those with no parental history.
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Yum, Doughnuts When I was a child, I loved donuts. I would gorge until I felt ill. However, as I got older I found that there were desserts I liked even more. I pretty much stopped eating the munchkins and donuts; not even being the slightest bit tempted. Maybe I have eaten 4 donuts in the past 20 years. But then… My husband and I went away for 2 days to Chicago. No children, no driving, just time to go to a show, museum, and restaurants with my best friend. We loved Chicago, but one of the things I couldn’t help noticing was that there was a Dunkin Donuts shop or sign EVERYWHERE. From the airport, throughout the Metro, and on almost every street within the 4 miles, we were bombarded with their images.
STEPHANIE BERK, PH.D. Stephanie Berk, author of “How to Potty-Train Your Dragon Child”, is a mother of 4 boys. She has a degree in Human Development & Family Studies from Cornell University, a Ph.D. in Experimental Psychology from University of Connecticut, a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Language Acquisition from Haskins Laboratory/Yale University, and a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Neuroimaging from Washington University.
Yum, I really WANTED a donut from that shop! I resisted the urge when we were in Chicago, but upon returning home to St Louis, I bought a donut. (I actually bought 6, but gave 5 to my family. The children were pleasantly surprised. My husband said, “So the advertising worked!”) This experience reminded me that: 1) Advertising campaigns really do work best with frequency, and 2) Parents can probably use “advertising campaigns” in the home to promote good/desired behavior. This was wonderful news to me. Obviously, with this magazine being fully supported by advertising, I am thrilled when I see the true power of advertising. (By the way, if you know any businesses that you would like to see advertising in the magazine, please email introduce them to me!) With regards to parenting, just like with advertising, repetition and many different ways of showing the same thing, works best. As parents, we can say what the desired behavior is, for example kindness and respect for all others. We can model that behavior ourselves. We can point out the correct behavior when we see others doing it. We can even point out situations where it was not done. We can praise our children for demonstrating the behavior. If children grow up with a clear idea of what it means to be kind and respectful, they are more likely to be kind and respectful. I may not eat another donut until I visit Chicago next, or see another aggressive ad campaign, but I will think about what I say over and over again to, and in front of, my children.
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THE VOICE OF GENERATION J OUR GENERATION OUR FUTURE
Respect
Does Still Matter? by Dylan Fox
We’ve all heard the Golden Rule. We’ve heard it from our parents, teachers, nannies, and principals. Whether it took the form of “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” or “In everything, do to others as you would have them do to you,” or “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor,” its meaning in essence remained the same. It all boiled down to one fundamental concept: respect. [continued pg 10]
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o me, respect is the mother of all positive qualities; it’s the one trait that, if we had it, would allow us to have all the others. Because there are arguably numerous different types of respect, situational nuances allow us to identify them from each other. And from each type of respect springs another virtue. For example:
“…I challenge you to join me in having a different kind of respect.”
Take the respect a young boy has for his father. That respect has a sense of love, a sense of awe, and feeling of “I want to be like him.” From that type of respect comes admiration. But look at that same boy’s respect for his grandfather, who could be getting quite old. That respect probably does not have quite the same “I want to be like him” feeling or the same sense of awe. Instead, “I am proud to be his grandson” and “I will make him proud” better encapsulate that nuance of respect, which can be described as honor or pride. In this way, respect is the most important virtue a person can have. True respect, in the deepest sense of the word, provides an avenue to genuine goodness. But we are all human, and therefore far from perfect. We have conflicting emotions, non-productive disagreements, and a fuse which occasionally does go off. Sometimes, we lose respect. In an age where face-to-face interaction pales in the face of online
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communication (for us teenagers, at least), it has become easier to lose respect for others. There is a separation between what we say and ourselves, a barrier between our actions and their repercussions. It’s certainly easier to attack someone’s opinion online than to their face. So, today especially we must remember that where there is a disagreement, there is a view different from our own, something to understand and learn from, not something to squash under the torrent of our own rightness. Respect for others and for their opinions allows us to see this opportunity for growth and deal with it in a productive way. Respect is crucial in dealing with the conflicts of everyday life. But this idea does not only apply to us on a personal level, on the plane of the Golden Rule and dealing with disagreements. The concept of respect can actually be extrapolated to address problems in society; it is more than just something to keep in the back of our minds as we navigate everyday life. It is more than just another moral virtue our parents endeavor to instill in us. Rather, respect is a tool, a map, a key, a superpower we can and therefore have the obligation to use to better humanity and solve our collective problems. Look at the environmental crisis as an example: climate change increasing temperatures and sea level, deforestation destroying habitats and
causing unnecessary extinctions, man-made forest fires, plastic in the oceans, and have you seen the videos of pollution above Beijing?! Have we lost all respect for (what is currently) our only planet? The environment. Racism. Hunger. Even war. While respect might not immediately solve all these issues, applying respect to the way we view and approach them would certainly do us some good. Respect brings us back down to earth and allows us to see the whole situation, not just our own side of the story.
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So, I challenge you. I do not challenge you to live by the Golden Rule, or to think twice before snapping at a coworker or sibling. Rather, I challenge you to join me in having a different kind of respect. Let’s try to respect how we got here, the hardships those who came before us overcame, and how fortunate we are as a result. Holiday season and not, let’s feel the virtue which this type of respect brings us: gratitude.
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You just had a baby within the past 3 months, and now it is holiday time. You still don’t feel like yourself. You are nervous about taking the baby out into a group of (well-meaning) people. However, all of the family and friends want to “grab that baby.” You suggest that your spouse goes, and that you and the baby sit this one out. And then the comments from everyone else start — they think you are crazy. You ask, “Am I overreacting? Should we all go?”
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Baby’s immune system continues to develop over time. Baby is “protected” from some viruses and bacterial infections for the first 4-6 months from the mother’s and his/her own immunity. Breast milk provides an impressive array of immune-active molecules that afford protection against infections and shape mucosal immune responses throughout the period of nursing.
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his scenario is often thought to be one of the most stressful parts of being a first-time parent. However, it is equally stressful when you have baby number 2. There is so much advice from every generation that you do not know who to listen to. This is one of the most important aspects of being a parent. The best advice you can be given is to Trust Your Own Instinct. As the parent(s) of a baby, you are responsible for this new life, and you will know best how you want to raise that new human. With that said, what does the data show? What should you consider when you are making a decision on whether to take an infant into a public place?
References: Vieira Borba V, Sharif K, Shoenfeld Y. (2017). Breastfeeding and autoimmunity: Programing health from the beginning. American Journal of Reproductive Immunology. Durandy, A. (2001). Development of specific immunity in prenatal life. Arch Pediatrics, Sep: 8(9), p. 979-85.
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isciplining children can be very difficult. It involves teaching children of all ages what is considered to be correct, and what behavior is unacceptable. However, often this is done during a period of heated emotion and clashing wills, with parents finding themselves saying, “I need a parenting class that can give me tools to deal with this child!”. There are numerous parenting programs that each promote a different discipline method, including counting, time out, time in, tough love, warnings, taking things away, sticker charts, and more. They all have their positives and negatives, and not any one of them works on all children, or even one child all of the time. It is difficult to sort through which one is the best and why- even for a particular child. *As for spanking, research suggests that regardless of whether it does irreparable harm or not, there are certainly more effective ways of discipline that work through a deeper understanding of why a behavior is not okay- which then leads to a decrease in the undesired behavior.* When choosing a discipline program there are several aspects to keep in mind, including:
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Is the program clear on what to do for “reward and punishment?”
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Does the program grow with the child over the years and developmental stages?
Pediatricians should be aware of what discipline programs there are in the local area, as well as having an idea of which type of program they recommend for their patients. School principals also have strong ideas on this issue. Many families opt to learn about 2-3 programs, and use what they relate to most, from each of them. Data from studies of differing discipline techniques suggest that two of the most important components of whether a discipline program is effective is HOW a parent goes from “bad behavior” to extreme punishment. For example, if the child is scribbling on a paper when s/he is supposed to be focused on reading a book, after 3 quiet warnings that don’t work, there needs to be steps in between the warnings and “blowing up” at the child. Also important is FOLLOW-THROUGH of the stated consequences. Threatening to take away something for a week, and not doing it for more than a day is ineffective at best. The data clearly show that there are so many parent discipline programs, in large part because the problems are complex, and the solutions even more so. When parents and teachers keep learning and trying new methods, the children do better and it is a win-win for all!
References: Tidmarsh, L. (2000). If I shouldn't spank, what should I do? Behavioural techniques for disciplining children. Canadian Family Physician, 46, p. 119-1123. Adams, L.E. & Tentis, E. (2003). The Art and Science of Disciplining Children. Pediatric Clinics of North America, 50(4)., p. 817-40.
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General Information Welcome Home, our tagline, says it all. As a progressive, Reform Jewish Congregation, we are committed to: • Meeting the needs of our congregational family. • Providing a welcoming, open sanctuary of worship, encouraging individualism and diversity. • Cultivating a love of God and an understanding of our Reform Jewish heritage. • Inspiring a commitment to learning, compassion, and volunteerism. Our mission is to provide a safe and welcoming place that respects every member of a family, and allows them to be unburdened by worries about different cultural backgrounds or traditions. We strive to maintain a small and intimate congregation so that each member can have a personal relationship with our Rabbi and be an active participant in the life of the congregation. Temple Emanuel is led by Senior Rabbi Elizabeth Hersh. Along with our lay leaders, Rabbi Hersh has made Temple Emanuel home for an active, small, and diverse congregation.
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Congregational Involvement In everything we do, we strive to build and nurture community. Whether it be life-long Jewish learning, a friendly weekly game of Mah Jongg, a monthly potluck “Supper and Study,� our many mitzvah projects or our monthly book club, there are many ways to embrace the Temple Emanuel family.
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Youth Programs Religious School: We strive to make Judaism come alive for every family in ways that are meaningful to them. Our children have the opportunity to explore, create, discover and build a strong Jewish identity in a comfortable setting. We aim to teach our children to be mensches, to love Judaism, and to understand their history, theology, language, and culture. Our congregation has a rich history in Reform Judaism and we recognize the great honor and responsibility for teaching our children what they cannot Google - community, values, and practical application of what they learn. In the spirit of family, we welcome everyone home on Sunday mornings for Religious School. The curriculum we offer at Temple Emanuel is innovative and inspiring. We challenge our students spiritually, intellectually and ethically. As a smaller school, we have the flexibility to teach to the needs of each particular class. While we have specific curriculum goals for each year, our director and teachers are continually upgrading curriculum base on student interest. Each topic we cover is taught with the values of Torah (Jewish learning), Avodah (worship) and/or G'milut Chasadim (acts of loving kindness).
B’nai Mitzvah: At Temple Emanuel, B'nai Mitzvah is more than a rite of passage. It is a true celebration of a young person’s Judaism. Each Bar/Bat Mitzvah experience is completely personalized. Families meet with Rabbi Hersh several times to ensure that the Bar/Bat Mitzvah process and ceremony is meaningful to both the child and parents. During the meetings, a date will be determined as well as the type of ceremony; Shabbat morning, Havdallah, or another time. In the months leading up to the ceremony, students work with a private tutor to learn a portion of the Torah in Hebrew. In our home-like atmosphere, we embrace all family members of the B'nai Mitzvah honoree.
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Your tween eats a good breakfast, and then says s/he is still hungry. Then comes morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner, dessert, and finally a cup of milk before bed. Is this TOO much food? Can s/he really still be hungry, or just bored?!
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Below is some information specifically for Tweens as suggested by the Lancaster General Hospital’s Wellness Center:
The focus of this topic is usually on children and teens, but less often on tweens.
Preteens vary widely in their calorie needs, depending on age, gender, and physical activity level: Female needs range from 1400-1800 calories (9 year olds) to 1600-2200 calories (12 year olds). Male needs range from 1600-2000 calories (9 year olds) to 18002400 calories (12 year olds).
his topic often comes up from parents of tweens. Obviously, their brains and bodies are going through significant changes, but are they eating too much? With a great concern placed on Body Mass Index (BMI) and staying fit, what do/should tweens eat? When should they stop eating?
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Tweens should have, per day: 5 - 8 ounces of grains, preferably whole grain 1.5 - 3 Cups of vegetables, different vegetables (not 3 Cups of carrots) 1.5 - 2 Cups of fruit, NOT juice. 2 - 3 Cups of milk, or something with calcium and vitamin D. 4 - 6.5 ounces of protein: meat, fish, chicken, peanut butter, or beans. 4 - 7 teaspoons of oils
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Tips for eating the above: Create a monthly food schedule that can be put up in the kitchen that shows what can be eaten, by whom, and when for the whole month. The first time it takes some time to do before the beginning of the month, but then allows for the independence of getting the food that is on the chart, by the tween. Keep a measuring cup and scale on the counter, within reach. Tweens often enjoy weights and measurement. Both adult and tween will become more able to eyeball correct portion sizes after measuring for a while. Make it a rule that before and after a snack or meal, the tween needs to drink a glass of water.
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JENNIFER BAER LOTSOFF, MSW Jennifer Baer Lotsoff works as the PJ Library Coordinator at the Jewish Federation of St. Louis and has worked in the non-profit sector for nearly twenty years. Born in Memphis, she holds a B.A. in Psychology from the University of Texas in Austin and a Master’s degree in Social Work from Washington University. Jennifer works with professionals and lay leaders to build a vibrant Jewish community by encouraging collaboration through creative, fun experiences. With programs in secular and Jewish spaces, Jennifer encourages all community organizations to use the vehicle of PJ Library books to meet families wherever they are on their Jewish journey. Jennifer is a passionate connector of ideas, people, and institutions, and she credits her kids for bringing daily doses of humor to her life and endless crumbs to her car.
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I'm not a huge fan of the cold. If I could, I'd hibernate through winter and surface again when the weather promises not to drop below 50 degrees. I trade my water bottle in for hot chocolate or hot tea and crank the heater in my office at work. I do, however, love Thanksgiving. We always head to my Aunt Sally's house and squeeze in around her table. As the years have passed, there are some chairs that became empty, and, after more years, high chairs have given way to other, more adult chairs, although you never know when the high chairs may reappear again (no pressure of course, to my cousins). Our family likes to reminisce about funny times from past holidays... this relative stormed off or that relative had a bit too much wine. There is always the comfort of our family customs and traditions....I love that we play Rummikub and help each other find places to play the tiles, and that no matter how full we all are, we always seem to find room for dessert. This Thanksgiving, in addition to the usual fare, my cousin made a dish called Paella. What I didn't realize as I scarfed it down, was that Jews in Spain have been making Paella for centuries. This deliciousness mixed together rice, fish, artichoke hearts, peas, beans, peppers, tomatoes, and an
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array of spices. The result was incredible, with hardly any leftovers. He swears that I can replicate it and even showed me some instructional videos. I seem to be able to burn anything, but apparently the burnt part at the bottom is a delicacy, so maybe I have a chance! There is such variety in the ways someone can choose to make Paella and the ingredients that are utilized. They all come together in a complex, delectable fusion. The absence of any spice or vegetable would alter the outcome. Despite their differences and origins, they blend together to create a satisfying, well-balanced result. Wouldn't it be nice if more things worked out that way? Diversity is ever-present in life; maybe we can approach it like we're trying to make paella, combining layers of seasonings and ingredients to create something heavenly.
Enjoy a literary paella with these PJ Library books which embrace diversity and uniqueness:
The Only One Club
Written by Jane Naliboff Illustrated by Jeff Hopkins
Ages:4 to 5 Years
V KOSHER PRODUCT
As the only Jewish child in her class, a young girl not only learns that each person is unique but is able to share this understanding with her classmates.
Snow in Jerusalem
Written by Deborah da Costa Illustrated by Cornelius Van Wright & YingHwa Hu
Ages:5 to 6 Years
Two boys living in Jerusalem — one Muslim, the other Jewish — are surprised to discover they’ve been looking after the same stray cat.
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Chicken Soup, Chicken Soup Written by Pamela Mayer Illustrated by Deborah Melmon
Experienced and zealous team approach to advocating for you in all family law matters: custody, support, maintenance, property, adoptions, modifications.
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Sophie has two Grandmas from two different cultures, and they each make their own kind of chicken soup -- and each soup is delicious! The more Sophie learns about those soups, the more she realizes how similar they actually are -- on many levels.
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Emma's Poem
Amy Hoch Hogenson (314) 244-3667
Written by Linda Glaser Illustrated by Claire A. Nivola
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Ages: 7 to 8 Years
Emma Lazarus was raised in a wealthy Jewish American family in 1880’s New York City, where she was moved by the plight of immigrants. As a young woman, asked to write a poem to raise money for a pedestal for the proposed Statue of Liberty, she composed “The New Colossus” and so became the voice of the Statue of Liberty. This is the story of the difference she made in her world..
My Face Book Ages: 6 Months to Years Babies adore looking at faces -- whether they’re smiling or frowning, all expressions are captivating. This book offers up some Hebrew while also presenting a variety of fascinating baby faces. Your little one will want to “read” these faces again
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Food Allergies: Tips for Party Season BY LILA KERTZ, MSN, RN, CPNP
We’ve officially hit the colder months, when the focus of activities shifts indoors and gatherings inevitably rotate around the kitchen table. For foodies, winter can be a wonderland. For the food allergic and their parents, it can be intimidating and downright scary. If your child has food allergies, consider following these five steps to keep them safe and healthy:
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Bring your own dish
Whether you’re going to a potluck or a hosted catered party, bring something you know your child can eat – something that comes out of your allergen free kitchen and is carefully labeled with your child’s allergies in mind.
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Educate the host
It’s perfectly fine to call ahead and let the host or hostess know about your child’s food allergy and letting him or her know that you will be bringing a dish that meets their needs. However, don’t expect the host to alter the menu or kitchen to accommodate. No one knows your child and their allergies like you do, and you can’t expect someone without experience caring for a child with food allergies to fully understand the dangers of something like crosscontamination. That being said, if you are leaving your child in the care of someone else for the night, come prepared with a food allergy plan. Let the caregiver know the signs of allergic reaction and how to administer an EpiPen if necessary.
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Educate your child
Make sure your child understands exactly what foods are dangerous and which ones they should avoid. Remind them that even using a spoon that was in a dish that contained an allergen can put them at risk for reaction. Most importantly, talk to your child about the signs of their specific reaction and who can help if they start to feel sick.
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Be wary of crosscontamination
If you brought a dish to a party that will be incorporated into a buffet, check with those who brought other dishes. Consider placing your “safe” dish between two other dishes that happen to be allergen free. Use one serving utensil per dish. (And when you’re out at a bakery or an ice cream shop, tell the server about your child’s food allergy. Tongs that touch a peanut butter brownie before plucking an allergen-free treat from the case can quickly make a safe goody unsafe for a child allergic to nuts, for example.)
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Be prepared with an EpiPen and Benadryl
Make sure you or the person caring for your child has an updated EpiPen pack and Benadryl at the ready, and that everyone knows when and how to administer the medications in the event of a reaction. Check the expiration date on your EpiPen. If it has expired, contact your pediatrician for an updated prescription. Much has been made in the news recently about the skyrocketing cost of EpiPen – talk to your doctor about a coupon or other methods to make sure the medicine is as cost-effective as possible, but do not risk going without this often life-saving medication.
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CHILD DEVELOPMENT
TEEN
Sleep Texting Beep, Beep, Beep. Once upon a time that was the sound of the dreaded alarm clock used to rouse teens, so they could get ready to start their day. Now, with an average of 5 electronic devices per teen, the simple “Beep” is gone. Smart phones, iPods, iPads, laptop/desktop computers, Kindles, iWatch, and hand-held gaming systems call to the teens, regardless of whether it is day or night.
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ne of the consequences of the reflexive sensitivity to the callings of the electronics is the disruption of the sleep schedule. It is easy for anyone, child through adult, to say, “One more game.” Or “Just let me finish this level.” But then this leads to more than one game/level, before it is recognized that one to two hours has passed by. The time to go to sleep gets pushed later, and often sleep follows an agitated state. There is no down-time before sleep. Another current-day scenario involves the sound the cell phone makes when a text message comes through. Teens are so tuned in to it, that there is research being done to see who wakes up and goes to read the text, as well as how often throughout the night. Studies show that teens will wake up during the sleep cycle to look at and respond to a text message. Texting through the night until 3:00am is common in teens who are allowed to keep their phones in their bedrooms.
electronic devices in time-out for the night?” Here are some ideas to consider, but each family will arguably have to come up with their own way of dealing with this issue.
1. Have an open conversation about the
importance of sleep and how electronic devices interfere with the sleep cycle.
2. Start an electronics-use journal, noting how
much time is spent on the phone, computer, iPad, iPod, etc, and what time of day/night the device is being used.
3. Create a “charging/plug-in” station in a room of the home that is not near the bedrooms. All family members must plug-in/park their electronic devices for the night.
4. Collect all devices before bed, and lock them
up until morning, or put them into silent mode.
TVs are no longer necessary for teens who have Netflix or Amazon Prime accounts. Teens can watch movies on any of their screens. In the past, while a book might have been used as an aide for going back to sleep, now many teens opt to watch a movie. This often lengthens the time of wakefulness, compared to book reading.
5. Do not allow any devices in the bedroom, but
In combination, left to their own devices *pun intended*, long and short term consequences of electronic sleep deprivation will likely lead to decreased productivity and increased negative physical and mental health over the lifespan. Sleep is crucial, and the effects of disruptions to sleep have been studied for over a century.
Regardless of how you choose to handle the problem of sleep disruption by electronic device use, it is at least important to establish how much sleep your teen is getting and making sure that s/he gets enough continuous sleep. Allowing your teen to be a partner in regulating electronic device use might have a greater chance of success, while helping to teach how to make healthier choices.
With this said, what can parents do, given that the teens are no longer children who can be forced to “put the
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instead create an “Electronics Room”, where all devices can be used at appropriate times. (This will likely lead to “sneaking,” so may not be the best option for many families.
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My daughter was so nervous about getting on stage. I told her that she did not have to, but then she took a deep breath and performed beautifully. I was watching my 7 year old at practice today. He went over to a younger child who was having trouble opening a water bottle. He asked if the child wanted help, and then opened the bottle for her. Afterwards, I asked him about it, and he said, “She needed help. You and Daddy always help people, so why shouldn’t I?” My 8 year old asked me if she could read to the dogs again, since she completed the training and first session. She said that she didn’t want the dogs to feel lonely. My 15 year old came home saying that he was never going to get into the car with one of his friends ever again. He said that he can tell the difference between good driving and danger. Sooo proud that he recognized when to get a ride with someone and when to walk. My 13 year old said, “Mom, would you like me to walk up to the bus stop to get my sister? We can walk home together.” That time when our “Alexa” started talking on her own, and our 4 year old said, “No Alexa. It is rude to interrupt!” I was walking into school to pick up my 10 year old daughter. Another mom stopped me and said, “Are you *Jenna’s* mom? I have to tell you how impressed I am with her! She always says please and thank you. She keeps eye contact, and she even asked how I was doing!” I was playing with my 2 year old, and he brought over the Lincoln Logs. I said, “I don’t know how to build with these.” He responded with, “I can help you. I KNOW you can do it. Just try.” Finding my child who was told to go play, sitting quietly in a corner and “sneaking” a book to read! I was getting ready for a big party, and my 5 year old and 11 month old were oddly quiet. I was starting to get nervous. Then my 5 year old came into the kitchen and said, “Mommy, my brother was tired and needed a nap. I knew you were busy, so I changed his diaper and put him down for his nap. He is happy and asleep. You can keep working.”
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NUTRITION NUGGETS
The guilt of gelt – the chocolate kind
KATHY MORA, PhD
Assistant Professor - Nutrition Program at Southern Illinois University-Edwardsville.
Dedicated long distance runner, passionate proponent for physical education in children,
December- always a good time to reflect back over the year, and in my case I’m pondering a food dilemma. When did gelt actually stop being old pasty chocolate coins, and become the many varieties of good-tasting chocolate coins? Why is Nutella unquestionably served for/with breakfast? When did every other month become a holiday we celebrate with candy or baked treats? Did anyone know that in the month of December alone there is: National Pie Day, National Cookie Day, National Brownie Day, National Cocoa Day, National Chocolate-covered-anything day (REALLY?!), and the list goes on and on, round and rounder we go!
and mom of two children who happily eat vegetables!
If we can find a way to hold on until August 3rd, we can finally rejoice in National Watermelon Day, a sweet holiday worth celebrating! Do you see the food dilemma? We are supersized and super exposed to a constant barrage of excuses to celebrate every moment with less-than-healthy food. Yet, we complain about sugar added to foods and are told to reduce sugar in our diets. All the while, we do ourselves in by being sucked into having all these unhealthy foods available and accessible for every occasion. Dilemma. For the record, I’m not the food police, nor do I ever want anyone to feel guilty about eating any kind of food. I completely get the joy of eating sweets and sharing baked goods around holidays, I’ve never been one to turn down a homemade cookie! What troubles me is that it’s no longer a treat or a special occasion to enjoy these foods; it’s become the norm. These sweet treats are ever present, hard to resist, can quickly undermine healthy eating, and too often replace healthier
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food options that can better provide a pleasant satiety without the guilt. How do we find the balance, this is the dilemma. For many, baking, sharing, and gift giving of food is therapeutic and can be the ultimate gesture and expression of love. But, the receiver is left trying to decide how much to eat. Dilemma. Last year I was invited to a work holiday potluck party. I brought homemade vegetable lasagna. Truth be told, I always bring a dish I’ll eat because I’m never sure what other food will be available. While the graduate students were devouring my lasagna, I looked around at all the other food options. A separate and entire table was covered with baked and store bought dessert items. The desserts far outnumbered the other food choices. Dilemma. So, what are the solutions to all these food dilemmas? How do we find balance for ourselves, teach our children about moderation, and still enjoy the festive-ness of sweets and desserts and treats?
TIPS: DO NOT feel guilty about eating. Food is not punishment and punishing yourself about food isn’t productive. Everyone can have a healthy relationship with food. Food should be nourishing and enjoyed! If you start with that message for your children, then all food fits into a healthy diet. You can enjoy some holiday treats (maybe not every holiday the National Confectioners Association wants you to celebrate though!). Pick and choose the treats that mean the most, a family favorite or something new that looks delicious that you want to try. Make it worthwhile and make it special- these are foods for special occasions, and not in place of other foods. Spend time baking and cooking with your kids. Then, give the food to someone in need- this way, you get all the pleasure of baking and sharing food for the holidays, and you make someone else’s holiday shine. Small portions taste just as good. If you just want a bite or a taste of something sweet, then go for it. Small samples allow you to enjoy the food without feeling guilty or over-indulging. Stick to a regular meal schedule and eat complete meals that include plenty of protein (and dietary fiber if possible). The protein and fiber will provide a feeling of fullness and help reduce overeating. Maintaining a regular meal schedule also reduces the temptation of eating excess foods because of hunger, boredom, or simply eating the available treats. If you’re at a party or event, start with the protein foods, explore the cheese tray (and maybe there will be fruit with the cheese tray, bonus!), go for the guacamole or other vegetable dips, look for the bowl of nuts (sans a nut allergy, of course). Make time to exercise. Spend time taking a walk or hike or bike ride or throw the football around or shoot some hoops (for those taller than me!) or just about anything else that gets you and your family outside and active! Don’t forget your pet likes to be outside, too- explore a new or different park! Food doesn’t have to be the focus of family gatherings or holiday celebrations. As for my food dilemmas, how can we end 2017 on a healthy note? With more attention to personal, non-food gifts, less food-centric events, more active lifestyles, more time playing, more time talking to each other, laughing and smiling!
COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS… A YEAR OF NATIONAL HEALTHY FOOD HOLIDAYS! https://www.candyusa.com/life-candy/candy-holidays/ National Confectioners Association January 3rd – National Chocolate Covered Cherry Day 8th – National English Toffee Day 26th – National Peanut Brittle Day February 15th – National Gum Drop Day 19th – Chocolate Mint Day March 3rd week – American Chocolate Week 19th – National Chocolate Caramel Day 24th – National Chocolate-Covered Raisin Day April 12th – National Licorice Day 21st – National Chocolate-Covered Cashews Day 22nd – National Jelly Bean Day May 2nd – National Truffle Day 12th – National Nutty Fudge Day 15th – National Chocolate Chip Day 23rd – National Taffy Day June National Candy Month 11th – National Cotton Candy Day 16th – Fudge Day July 7th – Chocolate Day (1st of the year!) 15th – Gummi Worm Day 20th – National Lollipop Day 28th – National Milk Chocolate Day August 4th – National Chocolate Chip Cookie Day 10th – S’mores Day 30th – National Toasted Marshmallow Day September 13th – International Chocolate Day 22nd – National White Chocolate Day October National Caramel Month 28th – National Chocolate Day (2nd of the year!) 30th – National Candy Corn Day 31st – National Caramel Apple Day November 4th – National Candy Day 7th – National Bittersweet Chocolate with Almonds Day December 12th – National Cocoa Day 16th – National Chocolate-Covered Anything Day 26th – National Candy Cane Day 28th – National Chocolate Day (3rd of the year!)
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More Salt?
Q: Have you noticed that many people, especially men, over the age of 75 years tend to over-salt their food? Or that they can’t tell that they are eating burnt toast?
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f you have noticed this, and/or that seniors do not tend to enjoy their food as much as they used to, you are not alone. Research shows that 75% of people over the age of 80 years have evidence of major olfactory impairment, and that the sense of smell declines considerably after the seventh decade. A 2002 study found that 62.5% of 80 to 97 year olds had an olfactory impairment, but that this decreasing sense is less studied than decreased hearing and sight. Although “losing your senses of smell and taste” has not yet been studied as well as that of the loss of sight and hearing, the sense of smell is vitally important. Decreased sense of smell and taste have the following potential consequences:
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Not being able to smell gas leaks, smoke, or if the oven/stovetop were left on, can lead to accidental gas poisonings, explosions, and fires. Appetite suppression. This can lead to unhealthy weight loss, malnutrition, immunity issues, etc. Increased use of salt and sugar to try to make the food “tasty.” This can aggravate health conditions such as with blood pressure and diabetes, and cause weight gain. Increased anxiety because food doesn’t taste the same. Enjoyment is less. Blame is often shifted onto the chef. This has been shown to lead to an increase in depression.
What causes the sense of smell to deteriorate? As this is still an under-studied area, the following hypotheses have been proposed: The number of fibers in the olfactory bulb, as well as the olfactory receptors decrease noticeably with age. There is sensory cell loss in the olfactory mucosa, and a general deterioration in the central nervous system cognitive processing functions.
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Although mammals have the ability to replace these cells, this process degenerates with aging. Sometimes, olfactory loss may be secondary to age-related bone growth resulting in the pinching off of the olfactory fila. There is a correlation between seniors with Cognitive Impairment, Alzheimer’s, liver disease, and non-otolaryngological cancers, and a decrease in the sense of smell. What can be done about this loss of sense? Unfortunately, not too much. Once diagnosed, the goal is to prevent accidental injury and negative health issues. Most seniors know that their hair will thin, their hearing will be diminished, and they will need glasses. Having the power that knowledge brings helps deal with these parts of aging. Knowing that the senses of smell and taste are also affected allows for finding healthy flavor enhancements, and new expectations!
References Boyce, J.M. & Shone, G.R. (2006). Effects of ageing on smell and taste. Journal of Postgraduate Medicine. 82(966). P. 239-241. Doty R L, Shaman P, Applebaum S L. Giberson, R., Siksorski, L., & Rosenberg, L. (1984). Smell identification ability: changes with age. Science, 226, 1441–1443. Murphy C, Schubert M S, Cruickshanks K J., Klein, BE, Klein, R., Nondahl, DM (2002). Prevalence of olfactory impairment in older adults. JAMA vol. 288(18), 2307–2312. Stevens J C, Cain W S, Demarque A. Ruthruff, A.M. (1991). On the discrimination of missing ingredients: aging and salt flavour. Appetite, 16, 129–140.
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Chanukah! Although not a major holiday, Chanukah has some fun traditions, like playing dreidel, eating potato latkes, chocolate gelt and sufganyot, singing songs, lighting chanukkiah candles and spending time together with family and friends. Some families opt to give a small gift to the children with each candle that is lit.
Menorah/ Chanukkiah:
Brief story of Chanukah: The word Chanukah means “dedication” and refers to the rededication of the Holy Temple and its altar. The festival celebrates two main miracles: 1) The 2nd Century BCE victory of the small, illtrained and less-armed group of Jewish people, the “Maccabees”, over the large Syrian-Greek army over the Holy Land. 2) The oil that was needed to fuel the Menorah which should only have burned for 1 day, burned for 8 days and nights, until more oil supplies were found.
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For 8 nights, the menorah/chanukkiah is lit; one candle the first night, and another candle added each night. The “shamash” or “helper candle” is lit first, and used to light the others. These come in many different sizes, shapes, and themes ranging from traditional to wacky.
Song list: Some favorites: I Have a Little Dreidel Sevivon
Potato Latkes & sufganyot:
Chanukah O Chanukah
Foods fried in oil are traditional, such as potato pancakes (see Cooking Corner for recipe) served with applesauce or sour cream, and sufganyiot (fried dough filled with jelly). The oil symbolizes the little bit of oil that lasted as long as it did. The sweet of the apple sauce and jelly doughnut reflects on the desired sweetness in life.
Candle Blessings Maoz Tsur Yimei HaChanukah Banu Choshech Al Hanissim Mi Yimalel Hatikvah
Dreidel & gelt: A dreidel is a spinning top, with four sides, each marked with a different Hebrew letter: nun, gimel, hay and shin. We play dreidel to remember that during the time of the Maccabees, when Jewish children were forbidden from studying Torah, they would still study anyway. BUT when a guard would come close they would put away their books and take out spinning tops, claiming they were just playing games. The letters on the cube represent the phrase “A Great Miracle Happened There.” (In Israel, the letters are different, to represent the phrase “ A Great Miracle Happened Here.”)
Activities around St Louis: Check out the calendar events, and almost all of the synagogues have something planned! Call and rsvp!
Gelt is the Yiddish term for money. For Chanukah, chocolate coins represent the freedom that the Jewish people had to mint their own coins after the temple was reclaimed, declaring the newly-won independence.
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JEWISH
HOLIDAY EXPLAINED
New Year’s Eve on December 31st *Thanksgiving is much easier to explain than the Christian/Gregorian New Year’s Eve. This article provides only a subset of ideas and thoughts, collected from multiple articles, rabbi’s thoughts, and Jewish scholars in different countries. It is something to consider, study, debate, and learn from. This is not an article that is definitive for a group of people.* History of the December 31/January 1st new year:
Q:
How did the calendar that ends on December 31st, and begins a new year on January 1st, come to be? *Note that there are many different calendars that have been created and are still used today, e.g. the Chinese calendar, the Jewish calendar, Native American calendars, etc.
A: According to an Aish Rabbi: “In 46 BCE the Roman emperor Julius Caesar made adjustments to the Roman calendar, including beginning the new year on January 1
rather than in March. (He egocentrically decreed that the calendar should henceforth be called the "Julian" calendar.) In practical terms, all cultures celebrate the new year according to their particular calendar and the Romans were no different. When the Roman Empire became the Holy Roman Empire under Constantine, at his mother Helena's behest, the Christian world carried on the custom of celebrating the Roman new year.” http://www.aish.com/atr/Sylvester_Day.html
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Rabbi Mark Wildes of the Manhattan Jewish Experience proposes that it is the Jewish calendar that carries tremendous spiritual weight, containing many significant spiritual holidays and traditions along the way, and that the December 31st new year simply does not contain the same spiritual significance for Jewish people as does Rosh Hashanah, which marks the Jewish new year. However, he adds that the beginning of the secular calendar may present new opportunities for growth and positive change for some Jewish people too.
A: Other scholars note that New Year’s Eve has become the “Biggest Party on the planet”, and that it
is almost impossible to not note and “celebrate” it in some way. Hence, by acknowledging and discussing the differences between Rosh Hashanah and New Year’s Eve, we can better identify who we are as individuals.
A: Still other rabbis suggest that the New Year’s event can be used to focus on physical aspects of
improvement in life, such as weight loss and time management, while Rosh Hashanah remains the time for introspection and spiritual growth, as well as the normal traditions.
A: The answer most commonly found for this question was that Jewish people must each figure
out how to deal with a holiday that is not ours, but has become a world-wide, secular-type, publicized event.
References http://www.jpost.com/Diaspora/New-Years-Eve-vs-Rosh-Hashana-Can-Jews-celebrate-both-476905 https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/starting-over-at-new-years/
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Late last month, my ninth-grade daughter set a gym on fire. Hitting a range of three-point shots and making a bunch of coast-to-coast drives, she scored 28 points for her varsity basketball team. Our fans screamed out her name every time she touched the ball and mobbed her when the game was over. Following the victory, a few parents from the opposing school praised me for the hard work I’ve put in with my kid to help her find this success. One even surmised that her devotion to basketball would get her a scholarship to Stanford or Duke. Unfortunately, they couldn’t be more wrong.
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I’m sure that even if you have no interest in basketball, you will probably see the outline of your own parenting struggles mirrored in mine. For it’s one thing for our kids to tell us to buzz off (a euphemism!) or that we don’t understand their world. Fine: sometimes it’s true—we don’t get everything that matters to them (after all, what in the world is this Instachat I keep hearing the youngsters talking about?). In this particular case, however, I do have the answer. And actually, in many other standoffs I’ve had with my brood, I’m not totally clueless. I gained my understanding both from those whom I told to buzz off years ago and from a remorseless tutor who will end up instructing my kids: experience. I could save my children so much distress and heartache if they’d only listen to me!
So I’ll cheer her from the stands, and since I’m genetically incapable of keeping quiet about basketball, she’ll still get an earful of advice. And if she has a change a of heart and suddenly throws all in on basketball, I’m definitely ready to help. Of course if Stanford or Duke does have a scholarship offer with her name on it, I rescind everything I’ve just written: I’m setting the alarm for 5 a.m. every morning to take 1000 jump shots and 500 free throws.
& ME
As it turns out, my child is not one of those kids. For years I’ve implored her to attend a summer camp that specializes in basketball instruction. The mere notion of not attending her beloved sleep-away camp, however, is tantamount to betrayal in her eyes. And when I mentioned to her that if she really wanted to get great at basketball she should wake up before sunrise and hoist 1000 three-point shots and 500 foul shots daily, I received a (more-or-less) polite thank you for the advice. The one person who could benefit the most from what I’ve learned keeps my teaching at arm’s length. The cobbler’s child goes barefoot—by her own choice.
But on this score, my ninth-grader won’t, and perhaps she’s onto something here. Forcing her into giving up summer camp and coupling it with a grueling training regimen would have torn away at relationships she’s made in the world without my help and has continued to cultivate. She created these pathways, and they comprise a large part of her identity; could tossing relationships aside for the sake of a goal—whether it’s for a game like basketball or something more intrinsically ennobling— really be worth it? In our family, father may know best when it comes to basketball, but over the course of her lifetime no one will know our daughter better than she knows herself.
DADDY
Yes, I have coached high-school varsity basketball for over twenty years, and while I may be no expert, I have experienced much and have tons to share with any kid who wishes to improve on the hardwood.
BOAZ ROTH A teacher at Thomas Jefferson school for the past 23 years and counting, Boaz Roth enjoys challenging bright students and working with colleagues. He coaches the basketball team and has various other interests. Boaz and his wife have 3 daughters, ranging from age 17 to age 6 years.
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1 2 3 4 Saturday
Friday
First Fridays at FOX
CRC Rainbow
TE Tots
Join us for a new once a month special family event. Every month features a different activity, including music, art, special guests and more. JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE Emilie Brockman,
Open to the entire community, offered once a month for families with young children prior to entering Pre-K. These sessions are designed to create, and enhance, a Jewish home through music, art, stories, play, and group experiences.
Join us at Temple Emanuel. Each 45 minute Jewishly-themed session includes singing, laughing, moving and art. Join us for this early-years Jewish education with your small ones! (Children 6 months to 3 years with an adult.)
Open Play
Tot Shabbat- Train Shabbat
Where creativity and Imagination meet! You and your child can play and use your imaginations as you have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment JCC FOX BUILDING
A very special Train Tot Shabbat! All children (age 6 and under, siblings and friends are welcome!) come enjoy a fun, engaging, activity filled Shabbat program. Songs, stories, games, snacks, dancing, puppets, and much more!
Museum of Transportation
Deutsch Early Childhood Center's Book Fair
Sunday Chess Classes
Seniors
12/1 10am-11am
314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
12/1 10:30am-11:30am
Secular
COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Simchat Shabbat
A joy-filled, intergenerational, participatory service held on the first Friday evening of every month. We have assembled a new band who will lead us in high energy, contemporary music, and birthday blessings will be offered as well.
Jewish
5020 WATERMAN BLVD, 63108 FREE
12/2 10am-11:30am
12/2 10am-1pm Help support our amazing preschool by shopping our annual book fair. Join us for a special story time with school director Miss Leslie, make your own bookmark, and help our teachers fulfill their classroom wishlists. BARNES AND NOBLE LADUE
Aromatherapy at The Sheridan at Creve Coeur
CROSSING
12/1 10am Adults with memory care issues can come experience the wonderful, interactive programming that our guests regularly attend and enjoy. Come join us for a class!
Classics 4 Kids
12/2 9am-10am Radio Arts Foundation presents: Little Thieves of Bethlehem
LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
450 N. LINDBERGH, 63141. FREE, BUT RSVP TO 314-930-2632
Schools & Synagogues
12/2 10am-11:30am
NHBZ, 650 N PRICE RD, 63132 FREE
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CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD
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Sunday
Steinberg Skating Rink
12/1 10am-9pm Steinberg Skating Rink is the largest outdoor ice skating rink in the Midwest. Ice skating is available to the public every day (including holidays) through March 1st. The snowflake cafe will be open during skating sessions. All skating and concessions are cash only.
400 JEFFERSON DRIVE, ST. LOUIS MO 63110 ALL AGES AND ALL DAY SKATE ADMISSION: $7, SKATE RENTAL: $6 (WE OFFER HOCKEY AND FIGURE SKATES, SIZE TODDLER 6 THRU ADULT 15)
Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
12/2 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required. MO BOTANICAL
GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Trout Fishing & Chili Feed
12/2 6pm-9pm Fish for rainbow trout and enjoy an all-you-can-eat chili feed. Anglers must have a state fishing license and an annual trout permit is required to possess trout. Advance registration is required. Call (314) 615-4386 for more information or to register. SUSON PARK, 6073 WELLS RD, 63128 $6 PER PERSON.
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12/3 10am-10:45am
TEMPLE EMANUEL, 12166 CONWAY RD, 63141 FREE AND OPEN TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY
12/3 9am-4pm Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
12/3
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
JSU Family Torah Celebration
12/3 10am-1pm Bring the entire family to join in the celebration of JSU's Torah of Unity (donated by Gloria Feldman) which unites all youth of St. Louis. Free popcorn, cotton candy, ballon man, blow ups and more!
EMAIL FOR MORE INFO. DANFORTHISRAEL@GMAIL.COM
Holiday BouTIque
12/3 11am-3pm A one-stop shop for all of your holiday gift-giving needs! Gifts for all ages and holidays Unique local vendors Free admission - no RSVP Food for purchase Raffle items # 1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DRIVE, 63141 FREE
Monday
Together Time
12/4 9:30am-10:30am Together time is a unique opportunity for parents to learn and play alongside their little one(s). Connect with your child using music, play and touch while learning about their social and emotional development, asking parenting questions in a supportive and nurturing environment with other parents. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Open Play
12/4 11am-12pm Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
First Art
12/4 3 locations have these 30 minute classes, between 9:30-11am Join us for a toddler art program (18- 36 months). The focus is on the process of making art rather than the finished product. Dress to be messy. Adult must accompany child. Registration required.
REGISTER AT HTTPS://WWW.SLCL.ORG/ EVANCED-REGISTRATION/148369
Sensory Story Time
12/4 6:30pm-7:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Family Science Night
12/4 6:30pm-8:30pm An evening packed with scientific experiences for children and their families. Presented by Pfizer.
ST LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY- WEBER RD BRANCH
5 6 7 8 Tuesday
Chair Yoga
12/5 11am-12pm NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-442-3255.
Butterfly House: Free Admission Mornings
12/5 10am-12pm First Tuesday of every month, for STL City/County Residents, come see this butterfly zoo! (No strollers permitted.) 15193 OLIVE BLVD. 63017 FREE
Storytelling at the Museum 12/5 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
Star Party
12/5 7pm-8:30pm Don't miss this opportunity for a free training and telescope viewing session presented by the St. Louis Astronomical Society. All ages. Registration required.
ST LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY- OAK BEND BRANCH
Zumba Babies at B'nai Amoona ECC
12/5 9:15am-10:15am Zumba Babies combines music, dance, bonding, learning, and fun! Parent (adult) / Chld Class with Dina Haviv (parent, grandparent,nanny etc) For babies birth - 2 years old. BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE BUT RSVP NECESSARY, PAM@BNAIAMOONA.COM 314576-3688.
Wednesday
Thursday
Baby N Me
Open Play
Baby N Me
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. You are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under.
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
12/6 9:30am-10:45am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
Friday
12/7 11am-12pm
12/8 10am-11:30am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Water Waddlers
Lone Elk Park
12/7 7am-10pm
Open Play
Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child.
Lone Elk Park is a wildlife management area, with bison, wild turkey, waterfowl, elk and deer. Motorcycles are prohibited. Domestic animals are not allowed, even if confined in a vehicle.
Where creativity and Imagination meet! You and your child can play and use your imaginations as you have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment
12/6 10:30am-12pm
1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
Wine Down Wednesday
12/6 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Schnucks Ladue CrossingHanukkah Celebration
12/6 6pm-7pm Emceed by Rabbi Yaakov Green Headmaster of HF Epstein Hebrew Academy, features Hanukkah storytelling with master educator Mrs. Jackie Oppenheimer, and Hanukkah songs. The event will also have STEAM games and crafts and chocolate gelt. BARNES AND NOBLE, LADUE CROSSING SHOPPING CENTER FREE
Toward Inclusion Course
12/6-12/20 7:30pm-9pm You will join others in conversation about how we can give all people the dignity of being able to participate fully and equally in our communities. LAZAROFF CHABAD CENTER, 8124 DELMAR BLVD. $18 FOR 4 WEEKS AND TESTBOOK.
1 LONE ELK PARK RD, 63088 FREE
Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
12/7 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required. MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Ladies' Knight
12/7 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
Hanukkah Packaging
12/7 6:30pm Please join Women's Philanthropy for a special community service opportunity to enhance the holidays for our community members living in care facilities. Families welcome. Drinks and desserts provided; dietary laws observed. CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL BOARD ROOM
314-569-0048
12/8 10:30am-11:30am
JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Aromatherapy at The Sheridan at Creve Coeur
12/8 10am Adults with memory care issues can come experience the wonderful, interactive programming that our guests regularly attend and enjoy. Come join us for a class!
450 N. LINDBERGH, 63141. FREE, BUT RSVP TO 314-930-2632
Historic Soulard Market
12/8 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104
Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates
12/8 10am-11:30am Metro Theatre presents this timeless story. Hans and Gretel Brinker strive to provide for their family and prove their own worth by entering a local speedskating contest – first prize is a pair of gleaming silver skates! This show celebrates generosity, helping others and is an exhilarating tale of courage and determination. GRANDEL THEATRE, 3610 GRANDEL SQUARE $8 PER TICKET
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Museum of Transportation
Together Time
Radio Arts Foundation presents: The Wind in the Willows/ The Last Straw
Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
Youth Archery Training
Sunday Chess Classes
Together time is a unique opportunity for parents to learn and play alongside their little one(s). Connect with your child using music, play and touch while learning about their social and emotional development, asking parenting questions in a supportive and nurturing environment with other parents.
Seniors
LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
12/9 Beginners: 9 am10:30 am, Intermediate: 11 am- 12:30 pm
Secular
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
Winterfest at the Arch, presented by Centene
1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 VARIES
Jewish
12/10
Sensory Saturdays at the Zoo- Wild Wonder Outpost Modified with dimmer lighting, reduced sound and a sensory-break area with self-regulation tools to help with focus, attention, calming, and active listening, pillows and other accommodations. Zoo staff members are experienced in working with children with special needs and enjoy helping children get the most from the gallery’s offerings—on their own terms.
Family Chanukkah Celebration
12/9 6pm-7:30pm Families with children ages birth-12 years! Come have a whole Latke fun! Pizza, Latkes, Doughnuts, Gelt, presented by NHBZ KidsZone.
Schools & Synagogues
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
JEFFERSON BARRACKS PARK $6 PP
12/9 9:30am
12/10 2pm-9pm The Gateway Arch Park Foundation and St. Louis Blues are teaming up again to bring an ice rink to downtown St. Louis- the new Kiener Plaza, part of the historic renovations nearing completion at the Gateway Arch park and surrounding areas.
500 CHESTNUT ST., 63102 RINK ENTRY IS FREE. CAN BRING OWN SKATES. SKATE RENTAL VARIES:$7-$12
The Home Depot Chanukah Experience
12/10 10:30am-1pm *Special Ten Year Anniversary Event* Build a Menorah! Donut Wall! Candle Making! Photo Op with Homer! Holiday Music!
650 N PRICE RD, 63132 FREE. CALL FOR MORE INFO: 314-991-2100, EXT 2.
1603 S. HANLEY RD, 63144 SUPPLIES ARE LIMITED. RSVP AT SHOWMECHABAD.COM/ HOMEDEPOT
(Pre) Chanukah Couples Night Out
Chanukah: Festival of Lights
12/9 7:30pm-9pm Please join us for drinks and Chanukah dessert at St. Louis’ newest donut shop! Whether you’re married or dating, with kids or without, interfaith, new to Judaism or longtime members of the tribe, this event is designed for couples looking to connect with other couples in a relaxed and welcoming environment. DAPPER DOUGHNUT,
CALENDAR
12/10 9am-4pm
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
Join the South County Archers to learn and/or improve your archery skills and technique!
11600 OLIVE BLVD, 63141 FREE, BUT PLEASE RSVP BY 12/6 TO JZINN@SESTL.ORG
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12/10 12pm-4pm A traditional Jewish holiday celebration that includes festive Israeli music and dance, a menorahlighting ceremony and Chanukah merchandise provided by local vendors and the Garden Gate Shop.
MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110 FREE WITH GARDEN ADMISSION.
12/11 9:30am-10:30am
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Open Play
12/11 11am-12pm Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Crochet for a CauseProject Linus
12/11 10am-11:30am Calling all Crocheters! Grab your crochet hooks and join us to make granny squares for Project Linus - a charity that provides handmade blankets to children in need. Yarn and pattern provided (or use your own). Knowledge of basic stitches required. Please bring a size H hook (5.0mm). ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY
HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Discovery Time: Hibernation Station
12/11 10am-10:45am Explore animal behavior in winter through stories, songs, and hands-on experiences. Ages 3-5. Registration required. Meeting Room 1. ST LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY- GRANT'S VIEW BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
St Louis Zoo
12/11 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, & education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
12 13 14 15 Tuesday
Zumba Babies at B'nai Amoona ECC 12/12
9:15am-10:15am
Zumba Babies combines music, dance, bonding, learning, and fun! Parent (adult) / Chld Class with Dina Haviv (parent, grandparent,nanny etc) For babies birth - 2 years old. BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE BUT RSVP NECESSARY, PAM@BNAIAMOONA.COM 314-576-3688.
Healthworks! Kids Museum
12/12 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today! HEALTHWORKS
KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES
Chanukah
12/12-12/20 sunset
RAF presents a special Chanukah program
12/12 4pm-5pm Join Jonathan Miller, artistic director of Chicago a cappella and a longtime champion of Jewish choral music, for an inspiring and informative show featuring choral music set to Chanukah texts. LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
Itzhak Perlman's Chanukah Radio Party
12/12 5pm-6pm Join superstar violinist, Itzhak Perlman, as he tells the story of Chanukah, and shares his favorite recordings for the holiday – some serious, some silly, including numbers from Itzhak Perlman's radio-addicted childhood in Israel; evocative songs in Yiddish and Ladino; classical music that revolves around the Maccabees; and Chanukah gems by American folk singers. LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Baby N Me
Open Play
Baby N Me
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under.
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
12/13 9:30am-10:45am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
12/13 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required.
MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Cahokia Mounds
12/13 9am-5pm The remains of the most sophisticated prehistoric native civilization north of Mexico are preserved at Cahokia Mounds State Historic Site. Within the 2,200-acre tract, lie the archaeological remnants of the central section of the ancient settlement. 30 RAMEY ST, COLLINSVILLE, IL DONATION ENCOURAGED.
Wine Down Wednesday
12/13 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www. dimvaloo.com
Disney's Mulan Jr presented by the J's Youth Theatre Program
12/13 7pm Travel to ancient China with this non-stop fun show presented by the students of The J's youth theatre program. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR $8- $10 PER PERSON
12/14 11am-12pm
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
St Louis Science Center
12/14 9:30am-4:30pm We put the element of fun into science.
12/15 10am-11:30am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
Open Play
12/15 10:30am-11:30am
Open Jump
Where creativity and Imagination meet! You and your child can play and use your imaginations as you have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment
Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
Book Club at The Sheridan at Creve Coeur
5050 OAKLAND AVE. FREE
12/14 10am-3pm
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
Teen Ink
12/14 6pm-6:45pm Ages 12-18. This monthly workshop offers the chance to share your writing, get feedback from peers and discuss a variety of books and topics. Get ready for your words!
ST LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY- SAMUEL C. SACH'S BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Ladies' Knight
12/14 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
12/15 10am Adults with memory care issues can come experience the wonderful, interactive programming that our guests regularly attend and enjoy. Come join us for a class! 450 N. LINDBERGH, 63141. FREE, BUT RSVP TO 314-9302632
St Louis Carousel at Faust Park
12/15 10am-4pm 60 hand carved horses and four deer, located within a climate-controlled building inside beautiful Faust Park in West St. Louis County. 15189 OLIVE BLVD. CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 RIDES ARE $2/PERSON OR $5 FOR THREE RIDES. CHILDREN UNDER 1 ARE FREE WITH A PAID ADULT.
Shabbat Channukah Musical Dinner
12/15 6pm-9pm Rhythm 'n Ruach and PJ Library bring you our 2nd Shabbat/Channukah Pot Luck Dinner! Bring a dish...bring a menorah...bring your kiddos...bring a uner $5.00 gift labled for boy or girl for a "gift exchange" and prepare for a wonderful evening!! RSVP FOR LOCATION FREE
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ECE Chanukah EventNoah Aaronson
12/16 9am-10:30am Please join us at Shaare Emeth for our monthly Early Childhood events! All our programs are geared toward preschool-aged children.
Secular
Seniors
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE, MEMBERSHIP NOT REQUIRED.
Join us at Temple Emanuel. Each 45 minute Jewishly-themed session includes singing, laughing, moving and art. Join us for this early-years Jewish education with your small ones! (Children 6 months to 3 years with an adult.)
Together time is a unique opportunity for parents to learn and play alongside their little one(s). Connect with your child using music, play and touch while learning about their social and emotional development, asking parenting questions in a supportive and nurturing environment with other parents.
Keeper Talks
12/17 9am-10am
Open Play
A very special Chanukah Tot Shabbat All children (age 6 and under, siblings and friends are welcome!) come enjoy a fun, engaging, activity filled Shabbat program. Songs, stories, games, snacks, dancing, puppets, and much more!
Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE
Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under.
Sunday Chess Classes 12/17
starting from 1 pm
Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
Classics 4 Kids
Pet-acular Holiday Bazaar
Hanukkah Pincus and the Pig – A Klezmer Tale / Timmy Discovers Christmas
Come shop, celebrate and commemorate the season at our annual kid- and dog-friendly festival at the indoor Purina Event Center. Unique holiday gifts from 20+ local artisans at Vendor Village. Live musical entertainment and canine demonstrations. Fun games and activities for kids and dogs.
12/16 9am-10am
LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
Hanukkah and Havdalah Concert
12/16 5:30pm-7:30pm Join Noah Aronson and his band for a special concert CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, 63141 FREE
12/17 10am-3pm
200 CHECKERBOARD DR. GRAY SUMMIT, 63039 CALL 314-982-3232 FOR MORE INFORMATION
Free Family Day at Art Unleashed
12/17 2pm-4pm Looking for a unique gift for someone this holiday? Come by and make your own! Families can create a necklace or bracelet as well as a magnets. Artist Linda Wilmes will also be here, demonstrating her painting techniques. 13379 OLIVE BOULEVARD, 63017
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12/16 10am-11:30am
Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
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12/16 9am-4pm
Jewish
12/17 10am-10:45am
Monday
Free to members and nonmembers.
Museum of Transportation
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TE Tots
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TEMPLE EMANUEL, 12166 CONWAY RD, 63141 FREE AND OPEN TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY
NHBZ, 650 N PRICE RD, 63132 FREE
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JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
12/18 11am-12pm
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Lone Elk Park
12/18 7am-10pm Lone Elk Park is a wildlife management area, with bison, wild turkey, waterfowl, elk and deer. Motorcycles are prohibited. Domestic animals are not allowed, even if confined in a vehicle. 1 LONE ELK PARK RD, 63088 FREE
Steinberg Skating Rink
12/18 10am-9pm The largest outdoor ice skating rink in the Midwest. Ice skating is available to the public every day (including holidays) through March 1st. The snowflake cafe will be open during skating sessions. All skating and concessions are cash only. 400 JEFFERSON DRIVE, 63110 ADMISSION: $7, SKATE RENTAL: $6 (HOCKEY & FIGURE SKATES, SIZE TODDLER 6 - ADULT 15)
Sensory Story Time
12/18 6:30pm-7:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
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Zumba Babies at B'nai Amoona ECC
12/19 9:15am-10:15am Zumba Babies combines music, dance, bonding, learning, and fun! Parent (adult) / Chld Class with Dina Haviv (parent, grandparent,nanny etc) For babies birth - 2 years old. BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE BUT RSVP NECESSARY, PAM@BNAIAMOONA.COM 314576-3688.
Wednesday
Open Play
Baby N Me
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under.
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. You are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
12/20 9:30am-10:45am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
Water Waddlers
NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J
Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-4423255.
Storytelling at the Museum
12/19 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5.
12/20 9:30am-10:30am
1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
Wine Down Wednesday
12/20 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Tuesday Tails
Teen Open Gym
12/19 10:30am-11am Come for story time. No reservations are necessary, and all are welcome to attend class. Stories will be appropriate for children ages 2-5 years. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, ST. LOUIS, MO 63144 FREE
Budding Artists
12/19 1pm-2pm Join us for a preschool art program where the focus is on the process of making art rather than the finished product. Art activities will be openended and explorative in nature. Dress to be messy. Ages 3-6. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Friday
Baby N Me
Chair Yoga
12/19 11am-12pm
Thursday
12/20 8:30pm-9:50pm Open gym is for children and adults ages 13 and up, wanting to practice gymnastics, cheer or parkour. Includes use of floors and trampolines. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www. teamcentral.org. TEAM CENTRAL, 2675 METRO BLVD, 63043 $8 PER TEEN.
RAF presents a special Chanukah program
12/20 4pm-5pm Join Jonathan Miller, artistic director of Chicago a cappella and a longtime champion of Jewish choral music, for an inspiring and informative show featuring choral music set to Chanukah texts. LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
12/21 11am-12pm
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Water Waddlers
12/21 9:30am-10:30am Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
#1 in Civil Rights: The African American Freedom Struggle in St Louis 12/21 10am-5pm Examine the local civil rights movement and the city’s leading role in advancing the cause of racial justice. From ground-level activism to 4 groundbreaking Supreme Court rulings, St. Louis has been front and center in contesting racial inequities. LEE AUDITORIUM, MO HISTORY MUSEUM FREE
Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates
12/21 10am-11:30am Metro Theatre presents this timeless story. Hans and Gretel Brinker strive to provide for their family and prove their own worth by entering a local speedskating contest – first prize is a pair of gleaming silver skates! This show celebrates generosity, helping others and is an exhilarating tale of courage and determination. GRANDEL THEATRE, 3610 GRANDEL SQUARE $8 PER TICKET
Ladies' Knight
12/21 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
12/22 10am-11:30am
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
Open Play
12/22 10:30am-11:30am Where creativity and Imagination meet! You and your child can play and use your imaginations as you have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment JCC FOX BUILDING COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Farm to Table at The Sheridan at Creve Coeur
12/22 10am Adults with memory care issues can come experience the wonderful, interactive programming that our guests regularly attend and enjoy. Come join us for a class! 450 N. LINDBERGH, 63141. FREE, BUT RSVP TO 314-930-2632
Healthworks! Kids Museum
12/22 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today! HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES
Steinberg Skating Rink
12/22 10am-9pm Steinberg Skating Rink is the largest outdoor ice skating rink in the Midwest. Ice skating is available to the public every day (including holidays) through March 1st. The snowflake cafe will be open during skating sessions. All skating and concessions are cash only.
400 JEFFERSON DRIVE, ST. LOUIS MO 63110 ALL AGES AND ALL DAY SKATE ADMISSION: $7, SKATE RENTAL: $6 (WE OFFER HOCKEY AND FIGURE SKATES, SIZE TODDLER 6 THRU ADULT 15)
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Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
12/23 8am-12pm
Seniors
Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required.
MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Classics 4 Kids
12/23 9am-10am Halleluia Handel / The Wonder of Christmas
LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
Secular
#1 in Civil Rights: The African American Freedom Struggle in St Louis 12/23 10am-5pm Examine the local civil rights movement and the city’s leading role in advancing the cause of racial justice. From ground-level activism to 4 groundbreaking Supreme Court rulings, St. Louis has been front and center in contesting racial inequities.
Jewish
LEE AUDITORIUM, MO HISTORY MUSEUM FREE
Museum of Transportation
12/23 9am-4pm Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.
2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN
Schools & Synagogues
Winterfest at the Arch, presented by Centene
12/23 2pm-9pm
CALENDAR
The Gateway Arch Park Foundation and St. Louis Blues are teaming up again to bring an ice rink to downtown St. Louis- the new Kiener Plaza, part of the historic renovations nearing completion at the Gateway Arch park and surrounding areas.
500 CHESTNUT ST., 63102 RINK ENTRY IS FREE. CAN BRING OWN SKATES. SKATE RENTAL VARIES:$7-$12
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Cahokia Mounds
12/24 7am-8am Arrive at 7:00 am to hear an explanation of the discovery, form and function of this ancient post circle monument used as a calendar by the Mississippians. Meet at Woodhenge. No ceremonies will be conducted. 30 RAMEY ST, COLLINSVILLE, IL DONATION ENCOURAGED.
Keeper Talks
12/24 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE
St Louis Zoo
12/24 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
Sunday Chess Classes
12/24 starting from 1 pm Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults
WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
Monday
Open Play
12/25 11am-12pm Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Lone Elk Park
12/25 7:30am-10pm Lone Elk Park is a wildlife management area, with bison, wild turkey, waterfowl, elk and deer. Motorcycles are prohibited. Domestic animals are not allowed, even if confined in a vehicle. 1 LONE ELK PARK RD, 63088 FREE
Chase Park Plaza Cinemas
12/25 9am-5:30pm Check out what is playing! https:// www.stlouiscinemas.com/Chase/ NowPlaying.aspx 212 N. KINGSHIGHWAY, 63108 VARIES: $5-$6 PER ADULT TICKET
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Zumba Babies at B'nai Amoona ECC
Wednesday
12/26 9:15am-10:15am
Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents
Zumba Babies combines music, dance, bonding, learning, and fun! Parent (adult) / Chld Class with Dina Haviv (parent, grandparent,nanny etc) For babies birth - 2 years old.
Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required.
BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE BUT RSVP NECESSARY, PAM@BNAIAMOONA.COM 314576-3688.
Chair Yoga
12/26 11am-12pm NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR RSVP TO LAURA AT 314-4423255.
Tuesday Tails
12/26 10:30am-11am Come for story time. No reservations are necessary, and all are welcome to attend class. Stories will be appropriate for children ages 2-5 years. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, ST. LOUIS, MO 63144 FREE
Storytelling at the Museum
12/26 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
St Louis Science Center
12/26 9:30am-4:30pm We put the element of fun into science. 5050 OAKLAND AVE. FREE
12/27 8am-12pm
MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110
Water Waddlers
12/27 9:30am-10:30am Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
Ready Readers' Science Story Time
12/27 10:15am-11am Presenting an interactive reading of a science themed story, and then a related hands-on activity. Each week a different book is read. ST LOUIS SCIENCE CENTER, 5050 OAKLAND AVE. FREE
Open Jump
12/27 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?
PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301
Wine Down Wednesday
12/27 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com
Thursday
Friday
Open Play
Open Play
Where creativity and imagination meet! Open up to a world of new friends and new families where you and your child play and use your imaginations as you play and have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment, Ages 5 and under.
Where creativity and Imagination meet! You and your child can play and use your imaginations as you have fun in a relaxed, non-structured environment JCC FOX BUILDING
Water Waddlers
12/29 10am
Spend quality time splashing and playing with your little ones during this great morning activity before it gets too hot! This program is designed for children, ages 6 and under, accompanied by a parent/ guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child.
450 N. LINDBERGH, 63141. FREE, BUT RSVP TO 314-930-2632
12/28 11am-12pm
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
12/28 9:30am-10:30am
1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $0- $7
St Louis Carousel at Faust Park
12/28 10am-4pm 60 hand carved horses and four deer, located within a climatecontrolled building inside beautiful Faust Park in West St. Louis County.
15189 OLIVE BLVD. CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 RIDES ARE $2/PERSON OR $5 FOR THREE RIDES. CHILDREN UNDER 1 ARE FREE WITH A PAID ADULT.
PowerPoint for Kids
12/28 1:30pm-2:30pm This class teaches the basics of creating a PowerPoint presentation. Skills covered include creating slides, adding and editing text, adding clip art, and slide design. Ages 7-12. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY- ROCK ROAD BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300
Ladies' Knight
12/28 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova
12/29 10:30am-11:30am
COMPLEX, 16801 BAXTER RD. FREE
Book Club at The Sheridan at Creve Coeur Adults with memory care issues can come experience the wonderful, interactive programming that our guests regularly attend and enjoy. Come join us for a class!
New Year's at Noon
12/29 11:30am-12:30pm Ring in the new year a little early with crafts, games, and a countdown to noon! Families welcome. Registration for children required. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE
Steinberg Skating Rink
12/29 10am-9pm The largest outdoor ice skating rink in the Midwest. Ice skating is available to the public every day (including holidays) through March 1st. The snowflake cafe will be open during skating sessions. All skating and concessions are cash only. 400 JEFFERSON DRIVE, 63110 ADMISSION: $7, SKATE RENTAL: $6 (HOCKEY & FIGURE SKATES, SIZE TODDLER 6 - ADULT 15)
St Louis Carousel at Faust Park
12/29 10am-4pm 60 hand carved horses and four deer, located within a climatecontrolled building inside beautiful Faust Park. 15189 OLIVE BLVD.
CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 RIDES ARE $2/PERSON OR $5 FOR THREE RIDES. CHILDREN UNDER 1 ARE FREE WITH A PAID ADULT.
CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
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Historic Soulard Market
12/30 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104
Seniors
Classics 4 Kids
12/30 9am-10am Amahl and the Night Visitors
LISTEN AT 107.3 FM, 96.3 HD2, ON YOUR COMPUTER OR SMARTPHONE. RAFSTL.ORG FREE
Kwanzaa at the Saint Louis Art Museum
12/30 12pm-4pm
Secular
Enjoy an afternoon of culture, performance, and tradition during the Museum’s annual Kwanzaa celebration. 1 FINE ARTS DRIVE, 63110 FREE
Winter Getaway
12/30 10:30am-4:30pm
Jewish
This fun-filled winter break event for the entire family will include free live music, movies, toy-themed makeand-takes, scavenger hunts through the Museum’s galleries, and even a Noon Year’s Eve party. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE
St Louis Zoo
12/30 9am-5pm
Schools & Synagogues
The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education.
CALENDAR
1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE
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NYE Party at the Steinberg Skating Rink
12/31 10am Skate in the New Year! Party Favors, Noisemakers and 27,600 sq feet of FROZEN FUN 400 JEFFERSON DRIVE, ST. LOUIS MO 63110 ALL AGES AND ALL DAY SKATE ADMISSION: $7, SKATE RENTAL: $6 (WE OFFER HOCKEY AND FIGURE SKATES, SIZE TODDLER 6 THRU ADULT 15)
Noontime NYE
12/31 11am-4pm New Year’s revelers of all ages (even those with a bedtime!) are invited to join in the festivities as they make noise makers and wish wands, strike a pose in a photo booth with fun 2018 themed props and dance the day away to some rockin’ tunes. THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S. KIRKWOOD RD INCLUDED WITH ADMISSION PRICE
NYE Fireworks Display and Free Carriage Rides at Westport Plaza
12/31 6pm-9:30pm The show lasts approximately 10 minutes. Following the show will be complimentary carriage rides. The rides are on a first come, first serve basis and begin in the front of the Plaza near St. Louis Bread Co. 111 WESTPORT PLAZA DR. FREE
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Bouyant Float Spa
months
A tranquil place to relax mind & body. Float for 60 minutes in 200 gallons of water mixed with 850 pounds of medical-grade Epsom salt. Buoyant Spa’s clean pods are the only pods in the market that empty out in-between each floater.
(314) 720-8557, (636) 552-4140 9603 Manchester Road, 63119 and 703 Long Rd Crossing Dr, 63005 www.buoyantspa.com
Brian Goldman, President/CEO
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We are one of the fastest growing Chambers in Missouri! We are a Chamber without borders. We provide unique opportunities to do business and build relationships. If you have any questions or are interested in the Chamber, give us a call!
314-291-2131
We offer an amazing Taekwondo program for ages 4 to adult. Our core programs will provide life skills that will last you a lifetime! Renee Dudding risemastl@gmail.com 636-226-6599 risemastl
8944 St. Charles Rock Road, 3rd Floor info@northwestchamber.com http://www.northwestchamber.com/
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TymeMachine
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Introducing advanced techniques early to children, laying the foundation in Robotics, Cyber securities, Biometrics, 3D printing. Kids can then creatively think of better and cooler solutions and gain a competitive advantage for tomorrow. suparba@tymemachine.org 314-677-8816 14137 Clayton Road, Town and Country, MO 63017 www.tymemachine.org
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Specializing in providing social, emotional, and behavioral support for children, adolescents, and their families. Sarah Haimann, MSW, LCSW haimann.counseling@gmail.com 314-266-9828 8008 Carondelet Ave., Suite 104, Clayton 63105
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The Needlepoint Clubhouse Under new ownership, come check out what you can do! (Including talit bags and kippot.) We are your one stop needlepoint shop specializing in the best selection of threads, beads, books, classes, workshops, notions and canvas. 314-432-2555 717 N. New Ballas Rd, 63141 www.needlepointclubhouse.com The Needlepoint Clubhouse
Exclusive private and group chess lessons online and in person, by a chess International Master and certified professional chess coach. As a national champion with over 25+ years of experience, I offer innovative training methods, in a powerful program that fits all ages and levels.
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The Pet Nanny St. Louis is a concierge pet care service providing dog walking, pet sitting, drop-ins and overnights. Bonded and insured, their slogan is When You're Away, I Will Stay!
Better Office Furniture We provide affordable, high quality office furniture to small through large businesses. We even have a free, space planning service.
314-266-9083 3711 Mueller Rd, St. Charles, MO 63301 www.BetterOfficeFurniture.com Better Office Furniture
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The Pet Nanny, St Louis
iris@thepetnannystlouis.com 314.495.3017 www.ThePetNannyStLouis.com ThePetNannyStLouis
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Haimann Family Counseling
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New listing for December Listed in November Turning 1 year old!
Rise Martial Arts
Powerful Chess, LLC
Vitaly Neimer info@powerfulchess.com www.PowerfulChess.com PowerfulChess
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NORTHWEST CHAMBER OF COMMERCE
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Young start-ups help our community’s economy. Look here monthly to see what is new!
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Shock City School of Music NOW OPEN- An affiliate of the most trusted recording studio in St. Louis, Shock City Studios! Our unique and classic music school is located within Shock City Studios, which offers a one of a kind music lesson experience. We offer private guitar, piano, and voice lessons for all ages and abilities and Mommy & Me classes for children 3 months - 3 years. Shock City School of Music also offers performance training, studio training, and recording.
Genny Lobonc Billhartz, music director gen@shockcityschool.com 314-750-9395 www.shockcityschool.com shockcityschool
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Amp Up Action Park
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314-439-8008 13901 Manchester Road, 63011 www.ampupactionpark.com
Salads to Your Door
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Cruze Delivery
CycleBar Creve Coeur
Paul.Schapp@CycleBar.com 11625 Olive Blvd, Creve Coeur, 63141 CreveCoeur.CycleBar.com
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KINETIC Counseling KINETIC counseling provides, individual, couples and family therapy. With the primary objective of helping clients gain forward momentum, some of the therapeutic tools employed include Cognitive behavior therapy, Cognitive processing therapy, stress reduction techniques, mindfulness strategies and Dialectical behavior therapy.
At Cruze Delivery, we deliver food for restaurants that you wish offered delivery!
Carly Cooper info@KINETICcounseling.org 314-607-8444 408 N. Euclid, STL, MO 63108 www.KINETICcounseling.org
Tyler Kaelin facebook: cruzedelivery www.cruzedelivery.com/
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We help businesses grow through our online marketing firm. We specialize in website development, search engine optimization, social media, paid search and video production. Turn The Page is a Google premier partner, which means it provides freaky results to its clients.
Beth Hammock, Managing Director beth@turnthepage-onlinemarketing.com 314-896-1989 2 Cityplace Drive, Suite 200-64, St. Louis, MO 63141 turnthepagestlouis.com
My Jewish Journey Creating memories one box at a time, a complete craft project with detailed instructions are delivered to your door for children ages 3-7 yrs. The intent is to have parents help children complete a Jewish related craft. Project boxes include: recipes, a book, project supplies, and detailed instructions. The My Jewish Journey series contains many items to learn about Jewish holidays, customs and other Jewish topics from the comfort of your own home. Sherri Tons myjewishjourney@yahoo.com 314.954.4986 myjewishjourney.net
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We offer floatation therapy sessions in a reduced sensory environment, allowing you to disconnect from all of the inputs of today’s society & reconnect with yourself. Guaranteed to leave you feeling refreshed & great.
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Time Solvers, LLC The company you can count on to perform everyday tasks such as clerical work, grocery shopping, waiting for the cable guy, shopping for personal needs or gifts, travel plans, getting your car inspected and much more. Jill Ike jill@timesolvers.net (636) 373-4783 timesolvers.net timesolvers
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Turn The Page St. Louis
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Presence Float Center
Info@presencefloatcenter.com 636-220-6327 233 Lamp & Lantern Village Town & Country, MO 63017 www.presencefloatcenter.com
This Premium Indoor Cycling Studio is a rock concert on a bike! We have the best instructors in the city that motivate you to take fitness to the next level! We provide shoes, water bottles, and shower facilities so all you have to do is come for a good time!
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Chanala Rubenfeld chanalar@gmail.com www.salads2yourdoor.com busy and healthy moms
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No time to prepare healthy meals?! No worries! Salads to Your Door provides you with a weekly delivery of 5 "full meal gourmet salads" straight to your door. Perfect to take to eat on the go or at home and conveniently priced, each salad provides you with a healthy balance of veggies, proteins, healthy fats to help you stay healthy, feel energized and lose weight.
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EMAIL US AT: INFO@STLOUISJEWISHPARENTS.COM
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St. Louis' newest indoor entertainment venue. Join us for high-performance karting, an elevated ropes course challenge, threelevel laser tag and massive arcade gaming. Suitable for large and small groups of multiple generations. Trackside Tavern available for guests 21 and older.
Congratulations successful sprouts celebrating 1 year in business!
Tutor Doctor of West St. Louis Offering a convenient, one-on-one tutoring service. We tutor students of all ages and all subjects. Tutoring is conducted in the student's home or at a public location of the client's choosing. The initial consultation is free, where we assess the student's situation and need, then recommend a customized tutoring program. All tutors are background checked and skill-set matched to the student's particular need. Parents receive a report after every tutoring session to ensure they are always updated on their student's progress. Money back guarantee for unused hours, and 2 free hours of tutoring offered for referrals. Robert Moellering rmoellering@tutordoctor.com 314-637-7972 www.tutordoctor.com/west-st-louis
St. Louis Jewish Parents
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TEEN TZEDEK
PHILANTHROPIC FUND Through Teen Tzedek, you learn about Jewish philanthropy and agencies around the world. Participants enter the Teen Tzedek program during or near the year of their Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Teen Tzedek provides teens with the opportunity to create their own philanthropic foundations. Participants use their Foundation to give to causes they care about, helping cultivate the next generation of leaders in our community.
Be a part of a powerful way to make a change TeenTeen in the world.
Tzedek Tzedek
For more information, call 314-442-3776 or email TT@JFedSTL.org.