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Make More Mistakes By Courvaun Hill

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Respect Sometimes we find that we are taking care of not just our children, but our parents and grandparents as well. The responsibility of being “sandwiched” between 2 generations can be overwhelming — physically, emotionally, and “informationally”. I was lucky enough that my grandmother bought herself a new car for her 90th birthday, and decided to stop driving at 95. She golfed 7 holes until she was 99 years old, and still worked out at the gym until shortly before she died at almost 101. I was also lucky that my aunt found three wonderful women who helped Grandma care for herself in her own home. I understand that this is unusual, and I look at my own parents and wonder if I will have that same luck twice. I look at my friends’ situations, and realize how much I truly do NOT know what I will have to do in the future, in regards to living arrangements, care, services, and more for the generation up from mine. In fact, I do not even know what all of my options are.

STEPHANIE BERK, PH.D.

I will have to look for a set of resources, keeping the following in mind: ◆ I must always be respectful of the fact that although I am the parent to my children, I am still the child of my parents. I must show my parents and other family members in their generation the respect that they truly deserve.

Stephanie Berk, author of “How to Potty-Train Your Dragon Child”, is a mother of 4 boys. She has a degree in Human Development & Family Studies from Cornell University, a Ph.D. in Experimental Psychology from University of Connecticut, a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Language Acquisition from Haskins Laboratory/Yale University, and a Post-Doctoral Fellowship in Neuroimaging from Washington University.

◆ I must consider everything through two sets of eyes. One set is MY eyes. Would I want to “live there”, “eat that”, “be spoken to in that way”, “be treated as such”? The second set is through my knowledge of THEIR eyes. Is this what they would have wanted? Is this what they want now? ◆ I need to start educating myself. Maybe not tomorrow, because I have so much to do, but over the next year. (I will do my best to share with you the best of what I find through articles and advertising.) I also know that I need to start having difficult discussions with my parents’ generation. I don’t want to have these, because I really want to deny that the aging process is happening. I want to keep my family as is, forever frozen in a state of youth and good health — even understanding the impossibility. My own mother tells me that there is a reason why her age/age group is called “The Golden Years”. It is because you no longer have the teeth to call them the “Fakackter Years”!

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magazine Issue #26 APR 2017 PUBLISHER / EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Stephanie Berk, PhD. stephanie.berk@stlouisjewishparents.com ART DIRECTOR Judy Dante CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Boaz Roth Jennifer Baer Lotsoff, MSW Dr. Kathy Mora Sam Zitin

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THE VOICE OF GENERATION J OUR GENERATION OUR FUTURE

MAKE MORE MISTAKES by Courvaun

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I am told that the best mistake I ever made was slipping out of my mother’s womb three days late and from there it has been a wild world. I hadn’t even made my grand entrance into the world correctly. My stumbling out of my fetal world into Missouri taught me my first life lesson: Mistakes are the best way to learn! It also seems to be the most valuable lesson I have learned so far — and it’s applicable to all aspects of life. [continued pg 10]

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“…as teens, parents and/ or teachers it is imperative that we help kids understand the importance of mistakes…”

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Mention “mistakes” to any perfectionist (myself included) and the response given will be along the lines of “avoid them at all cost.” No one wants to mess up, but by doing so we (hopefully) assess what went wrong and keep it moving. When learning to walk, all babies fall down but get right back up. The amazing thing about life is that even creatures as small as one year old humans learn new things every time they mess up. I spent twelve years of my life repeating silly mistakes before anyone told me that mistakes are normal. I spent so much of my time perfecting things, that it ultimately caused problems in other places. I never realized that in life there will often be a chance, or a choice, and you have to make a mistake and then try plan B. When I gave myself room for error, I acknowledged that I’m not miraculous and nothing I do will be ten out of ten on the first try. Everyone around me knows I’m bubbly, optimistic and dramatic. However, days when I feel I make huge mistakes I become the biggest diva around. This all comes from one of the biggest mistakes I have made. In 7th grade, my best friend and I had a huge falling out (one that would have made an amazing episode of Gossip Girl.) The situation can be summed up as miscommunication, high tension, and my pride. Terrible mix, even worse outcome! Thus began my reign as the school’s notorious Blair Waldorf, I was the meanest and coldest person around. I verbally attacked people who blinked at the wrong times. I didn’t see anything wrong with what I was doing. Everyone seemed so stupid to me, and so until they “fixed their brain” I would continue to let them know. It took my

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getting suspended two times in a row to realize I was the wrong one. I made a mistake and it killed me to know that I did. I spent my summer that year looking back and writing out ways I could have handled every situation. I studied chakras and meditated. I turned my room into the Himalayas and would escape and try to find myself. That was the moment I realized I wasn’t doomed to these mistakes forever and not all mistakes were bad. Honestly mistakes can be great learning opportunities. I turned everything around and began my iconic hippie phase of bettering the world around me by spreading my new way of life. Now here I am, fifteen years young and a Taekwondo instructor; a job where there are so many possibilities for things to go awry. When I started, I would talk so much and try so hard to get every kid to look perfect. That’s a mistake that many teachers and even parents make, when we want our kids to match the image in our heads. I have seen a kid do a puzzle incorrectly and the first response was to show disappointment, rather than help him understand where he went wrong. Everyone, especially children, wants to have fun and feel accomplished. Now I have learned that as teens, parents and/or teachers it is imperative that we help kids understand the importance of mistakes, otherwise we put kids in a cycle of no improvement. Show them their mistakes and help them find solutions. It’s how we can create a generation of problem solvers like myself. *insert narcissistic hair flip*

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With so many choices that parents of newborns and young children have, the one thing that seems to be missing is information! The manufacturers of the disposable plastic diapers have marketed so extensively, that many parents believe that they should be choosing only between the different disposable diaper BRANDS, because cloth diapers are “messy, ineffective, and still have pins and plastic pants.”

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Most people in the industry know that while the disposable diapers are more convenient, todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cloth diapers are just as easy to use as the disposable ones. The cloth diapers are less expensive, better for the environment, and can be used along with disposable diapers. It does not have to be all or nothing.

fleece, terry, flannel, and unbleached hemp, wool and/or other materials. Flannel is the softest against the skin and the most absorbent. These typically, do not have chemicals or bleach. Within the cloth diaper category are sub-categories:

One thought is that babies who are in cloth diapers, have fewer rashes. This has not been supported by any of the recent clinical research. So this should not be the main factor in choosing a diaper type that will work best for a particular family.

Pocket diapers: Consist of a waterproof covering that includes a pocket where you insert a folded diaper or a disposable or washable liner. Velcro fasteners or several rows of snaps (for different fits) keep the covering closed.

So what are the different types?

Fitted/Contour Diapers: These are shaped more like the disposable ones, with a narrow crotch and wide wings that wrap around a baby's waist. Some require diaper fasteners, but others are fastened with Velcro or snaps.

Disposable diaper: An absorbent pad sandwiched between two sheets of non-woven fabric. The pad typically contains chemical crystals that absorb up to 800 times their weight in liquid and hold it in gel form. This helps to keep liquid away from a baby's skin. Cloth diaper: Usually made from absorbent fabrics, including cotton

All-in-one diapers: These are a variation on pocket diapers in which the diaper is sewn to the outer waterproof cover. You can add an extra diaper for night time.

Prefolded diapers: These are rectangular cloth, but not nearly as big as unfolded diapers, so some parents find them easier to use. They require folding once or twice to fit inside a waterproof diaper cover. But they are versatile. Depending on how they are folded, they can accommodate the different absorption needs of boys and girls, or the less-solid waste of a newborn. Choosing a type of diaper to try and/ or use should be up to each family. Each family will have their own reasons for why a particular diaper type is preferred. However, it is difficult to choose a diaper type, if the options are not known.

References: Shanon, A., Feldman, W., James W., & Dulberg, C. (1990). Diapers: What do parents choose and why? Can Fam Physicians, 36, 1705-8. Babu, MC, Tandur, B, Sharma, D, Murki, S. (2015). Disposable diapers decrease the incidence of neonatal infections compared to cloth diapers in a level II neonatal intensive care unit. Journal of Tropical Pediatrics, Aug:61(4), pp. 250-254.

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There are many different words for water coming down from the sky in English. Different expressions for rain include: It is raining cats and dogs. April showers bring May flowers. The sky is tinkling.

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Raindrops are actually NOT tear shaped, but look more like the top of a hamburger roll, i.e. flat on the bottom, and rounded on top. Rain has different scents depending on when it is raining, where it is raining, what flowers and plants are nearby, if there is thunder and/or lightening, and more.

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Humans have tried to “control the weather” and make it rain for centuries! When there is a drought, people have tried everything from rain dances to cloud seeding, in order to get it to rain. Most attempts have been ineffective.

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EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT (E.Q.) VS INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT (I.Q.) The idea that there are many types of intelligences that should be considered when determining how “smart” someone is, has been thought about for centuries. The problem was how to define the “intelligence” such that it a) reflects mental performance instead of just preferred ways of behaving, b) could have a correlation between a set of closely related abilities and the type of intelligence, and c) that it can reflect development over time, i.e. gets higher as a person ages.

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More importantly, what should be done with the information on how intelligent someone is, especially children. Intelligence alone has not proven to be an indicator of future success or happiness. Some of the most influential work on human intelligence, other than I.Q. have included Edward Thorndike, who in the 1930s, described an ability to get along with other people as a “social intelligence”. In the 1940s, David Wechsler proposed that to be successful in life, there were affective components of intelligence. In 1975, Howard Gardner proposed the idea of multiple intelligences, including one on farming. In 1985, Wayne Payne introduced the term emotional intelligence in his Ph.D. dissertation, and the term was widely attached to in the 1990s (Salovey & Mayer, 1990), and is still a “hot” research topic, both in defining and applying. What does this mean however to parents? What do both of these terms actually refer to? Several researchers hypothesize that E.Q. measures a person’s (child or adult) ability to identify, evaluate, express, and control one’s own emotions, whereas I.Q. measures the ability to use building blocks of solving problems and higher thought.

Certainly it makes sense that a child or adult who is more empathetic, will be better at certain types of jobs and tasks, e.g. teamwork and leadership. E.Q. can be enhanced in children through encouraging sharing, cooperation, paying attention to personal space, and other overt aspects of empathy. Likewise, it is understandable that a child or adult who solves problems well, will do better in school and research fields. However, to date, studies report that I.Q. accounts for 14% of job performance, and E.Q., only 1%. Motivation, hard work, life experiences, and other factors account for much more of job performance, achievement, wealth, and perceived happiness. It is fine to be curious about a child’s E.Q. and I.Q. It is not going to hurt the child to try to improve in the areas that are tested by these measures. BUT it is really important to understand that since together, E.Q. and I.Q. account for less than 20% of what matters in the future, it is crucial to put those numbers to the side and focus on helping children grow into their best selves.

References: Mayer, J.D., Caruso, D.R., Salovey, P. (2000). Emotional Intelligence Meets Traditional Standards for an Intelligence. Intelligence, 27(4), pp. 267-298. Salovey & Mayer (1990). Emotional Intelligence. Imagination, Cognition and Personality, 9, 185-211.

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What is St. Louis NORC? The vast majority of adults aged 65 and older still live in the homes in which they raised families and developed social networks. As the American population continues to age, more communities are home to growing populations of residents who have aged in place. In addition, national research shows that the majority of older adults (90%) want to remain in their own homes as long as possible. When the percentage of such older residents becomes disproportionately large in a given neighborhood, it can be defined as a Naturally Occurring Retirement Community (NORC). NORC Supportive Service programs are a natural response to this evolution. These programs make it possible for aging residents to maintain their lifestyle for as long as possible. Through wellness education, health screening, home modifications, transportation, exercise classes, socialization activities, empowerment and other efforts, NORCs generally help older adults better manage their affairs and build stronger social and caring networks resulting in healthier, more satisfying and less costly aging. The mission of St. Louis NORC supports the healthy aging of adults 65+ in their own homes by providing opportunities for meaningful community involvement and increased access to support services. Operating within a three-mile service neighborhood in the Creve Coeur area, it is a program of the Jewish Federation. By creating a community of neighbors who are engaged with each other and in the community, promoting physical and mental health, and providing opportunities for civic engagement, St. Louis NORC achieves its goals of healthy aging with a high quality of life. The program has been operating since 2004.

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History of St Louis NORC St Louis NORC, a non-sectarian program coordinated by the Jewish Federation of St. Louis, has been operating for 13 years. In 2002 Jewish Federation received a major federal grant to test this new aging in place model – the Naturally Occurring Retirement Community (NORC) Supportive Services Program. Partnering with the Freidman Center of Aging at Washington University, the current NORC activities and services grew out of research conducted by the Center to determine the needs, service gaps, and profile of the residents living within its boundaries. It is the only NORC Supportive Services Program in the mid/west county area and was the sole, officially recognized program in the state of Missouri until 2014, when a similar program was initiated in the Kansas City area.

Why Join? There are approx. 1,500 individuals receiving quarterly program communications and a paid membership of 650+ individuals. Activities (health and wellness, educational, cultural workshops, dining out opportunities, and bus outings) are open to anyone in the 65+ age group in the metropolitan area as is information and referral. The program also offers its members free volunteer minor home and computer assistance, cost-sharing for home safety adaptations, reduced fitness fees at the Staenberg Family complex, and discounts for foot and hearing care, an emergency response system, and local businesses. The benefit to residents is clear.

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Who Can Join? Age and residency are the only criteria for membership. If you are at least 65 years of age and live within approximately three miles of the Jewish Federation headquarters on Millstone Campus Drive in unincorporated St. Louis County, you may be a St. Louis NORC resident. Call to see if your address falls within program boundaries. Visit www.stlnorc.org for membership instructions.

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Examples of Activities, Bus Trips, Exercise, Volunteering Want to visit the Botanical Garden in the spring or see the newest exhibit at the Art Museum? Want to see a monthly film showing periods in American history followed by discussion? Have you wanted to explore books, your innate artistic talent through drawing classes, learn technology from smartphones to computers or yoga, protect yourself from scams, test your writing skills? St Louis NORC programming offers something for most everyone’s interest. If you live outside the service area, you are welcome to browse our calendar of activities and join us for any/all of our programs and trips. Those are open to the entire community. It’s a wonderful opportunity to meet new people, visit old and new St. Louis sites, remain physically active, and intellectually stimulated. Calendars are available on line at www.stlnorc.org. Volunteer opportunities abound as well. By offering minor home and computer assistance, St. Louis community residents play a critical role in helping members meet their needs of home/ condo maintenance. Volunteers help with changing light bulbs, replacing smoke detector batteries and furnace filters. They fix leaky faucets and flip mattresses, organize closets and assemble simple furniture. Are you handy or technologically proficient and enjoy visiting with and assisting older adults (think of your own grandparents)? Call us to volunteer.

“I’ve been a NORC volunteer for five years. I help people in their homes with computer questions and handyman stuff. This has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I get the benefit of meeting folks with a wealth of knowledge and life experiences, and I find myself staying longer than the job requires at their homes just because I want to hear more.”

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Craft Central What has the impact of the program been on its residents? The impact and sustainability of St. Louis NORC is most dramatically seen in residents’ perceptions. A 10 year evaluation found significant results such as: 71% are more aware of community resources, 56% feel part of a strong community, 54% feel the NORC helped them continue living in their own home longer, and 52% report meeting new friends.

Craft Central is a family owned and operated Fiber Art Studio! We bring the community together in a warm low-key environment to share our knowledge of the crafting world. Along with Open Studio time, we offer individual and/or group classes including: Ceramics • Sewing • Weaving • Spinning • Stained Glass Knitting/Crocheting • Needle Felting • Copper Chasing

The excerpts below underscore the impact of the NORC on its multiple constituencies.

“In my constant search to find an organization where I make new friends, have many activities to help me not only grow as a person, but where I feel I can both receive and contribute, NORC is the only organization I have found that fills all these needs.”

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I Wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Dance, and You Canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Make Me

Scenario: You and your 3 year old went to the store, and there was music playing. S/he got right up and started dancing. It was soooo cute, and everyone oohed and ahhed. Fast forward. You go to a party with your 8 year old, and there is music. Again, spontaneous dancing starts with no bashfulness or unease. Fast forward a little further. You are now with your 11 year old. This same child who danced, and sang has now become self-conscious. What happened? Where did your self-confident child go?

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ome children are naturally shy, and learn how to overcome that natural tendency over time. Others are naturally outgoing, and stay that way. But what about when your child seems to do a complete 180 degree change? For the majority of tweens, this is the period of time when social awareness, awkwardness, and selfconsciousness sets in. There are ways to help the tween deal with all of these feelings.

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2) Modeling behavior: If your tween does not fully understand what you see, and is not at a point where a class would be helpful, you can model the behavior you would like to see him doing. Discuss it afterwards, when you are alone. So, if you get a pimple on your face, and are embarrassed by it, still go out with your head held high. You can talk with him about the fact that you knew your face wasn’t “perfect” that day, but you were still you, and there was nothing that was going to interfere with your day. Even if he does not overtly thank you for that lesson, he did hear it, and will hopefully do as you did, the next time that situation comes up.

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NEWS & BOOKS

Lost

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Moving comprises a push and pull of sorts, competing on the one hand with the part of me that wants to be organized and thrusting it against the part that is overwhelmed by the sheer number of boxes that surround us. Want to build a fort? Come on over, we've got plenty of materials to use.

JENNIFER BAER LOTSOFF, MSW Jennifer Baer Lotsoff works as the PJ Library Coordinator at the Jewish Federation of St. Louis and has worked in the non-profit sector for nearly twenty years. Born in Memphis, she holds a B.A. in Psychology from the University of Texas in Austin and a Masterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s degree in Social Work from Washington University. Jennifer works with professionals and lay leaders to build a vibrant Jewish community by encouraging collaboration through creative, fun experiences. With programs in secular and Jewish spaces, Jennifer encourages all community organizations to use the vehicle of PJ Library books to meet families wherever they are on their Jewish journey. Jennifer is a passionate connector of ideas, people, and institutions, and she credits her kids for bringing daily doses of humor to her life and endless crumbs to her car.

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Inevitably, I've realized that, despite my best attempts to pack things in a way that make sense (with color-coded tape for each room!), I have temporarily misplaced several items that I imminently need. I feel I should confess that this happens to me in the course of a day, irrespective of moving or not moving. Yesterday I even dropped my keys as I bent down to scoop up my dog's you-know-what, noticed that I dropped them, consciously decided to grab them after I finished scooping, and then promptly continued walking down the path without recovering them from the grassy area that looked like about 20 million other grassy areas I had passed on my walk. It was only after I realized I couldn't let myself back inside that it hit me... keys, on grass, somewhere that-a-way. Thankfully, my fourlegged accomplice and I were able to retrace our steps, and I found my keys. Unfortunately, we're not always that lucky, and oftentimes we lose things that we can't find on our own. I'm not talking about something nebulous like lost youth (given up on finding that one awhile ago), but about very specific things, like the glue I bought for my daughter's school project that I put in a place that was supposedly memorable, my favorite pen, or the darn remote control. While I'm fairly certain the remote control is actually hiding from me somewhere inside my house, there's truly no telling what I did with my pen. I should have put one of those stickers on it that said "If you are using this, it belongs to Jen Baer Lotsoff." Since it would be incredibly obnoxious to put stickers on everything we own, we have to depend on others to return things that are found to their rightful owners. I think it's great that one of the values in the PJ Library books is returning lost objects to their owner, hashavat aveida in Hebrew. It always makes me feel better when I realize I'm not all alone in this boat and others are sailing in the Sea of Lost Items with me. Plus, it's actually a mitzvah to return an object to the owner instead of keeping it for yourself and helps teach empathy. Keeping that in mind, please be on the lookout for my pen... it's black and writes in a lovely, fine ink that doesn't smear....

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Where Birthdays Come to Life! Found Written by Salina Yoon Illustrated by Salina Yoon

Where Birthdays Come to Life! ®

Ages: 3 to 4 Years When Bear finds a stuffed bunny in the forest, he starts looking for its owner. But soon he gets to like the bunny! What will happen when the owner comes forward?

Sara Finds a Mitzva Written by Rebeka Simhaee Illustrated by Michael Weber

Ages: 4 to 5 Years When Sara finds a toy duck, she’s tempted to keep it -- but her grandmother explains that returning a lost object to its owner is a mitzvah (literally, “commandment” -- often understood to mean “good deed”). Happily for Sara, she learns that doing thing can be its own reward.

A Hen for Izzy Pippik Written by Aubrey Davis Illustrated by Marie Lafrance

Ages: 6 to 7 Years What’s a girl to do when she finds a chicken and can’t return it to its owner? How long should she wait before calling the bird (and its many offspring!) her own? Shaina seems prepared to wait forever for Izzy Pippik to return.

A Parakeet Named Dreidel Written by Isaac Signer Illustrated by Suzanne Raphael Berkson

Ages: 7 to 8 Years A parakeet shows up at David’s family’s window one snowy Hanukkah night. When they can’t track down his owners, they happily adopt him as their own pet. But many years later David meets the bird’s original owner, Zelda. How can they both keep the parakeet?

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ANTI-SEMITISM Sunday, April 30, 2017 10:00 am-12:00 pm

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This workshop is for parents interested in learning how to discuss this sensitive topic with their children. Jewish parents and people of all faiths and traditions are welcome. Free of charge.

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FROM THE

DOCTOR

Do you know when to visit the emergency room if your child is vomiting?

BY DR. KELLY L. ROSS Kelly L. Ross, MD is an assistant professor in the Department of Newborn Medicine at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis and a pediatric hospitalist at St. Louis Children’s Hospital. As a mother of premature triplets, Dr. Ross’ clinical interests include multiple births, neonatal prematurity and postpartum depression, especially as it relates to high risk pregnancies.

Call 314.454.KIDS (5437) for more information or to make an appointment.

The Emergency Department is filled with children who have abdominal pain, fever, vomiting and diarrhea, all signs and symptoms of “stomach flu.”

e know that despite the friendly decor, smiling, kid-friendly staff and parting gifts of stickers or coloring books, most parents would rather avoid a trip to the emergency room. Below are the main reasons children with symptoms of gastroenteritis come to the emergency room, and a little information to help you decide if staying home is an option.

Abdominal Pain: Could it be appendicitis? The textbook case of appendicitis is a child who, over a period of less than 24 hours (and most times less than 8 hours), goes from feeling completely normal to fever, vomiting, and severe abdominal pain which is unremitting (does not come and go) and makes the child want to sit motionless. The pain starts around the belly button and then increases in intensity and moves lower, usually to the right side of the abdomen. Appendicitis is considered an emergency. If your child has any of the above symptoms or severe abdominal pain lasting over 30

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minutes, call your pediatrician to discuss the need to go to the emergency room. In contrast, children with food poisoning or gastroenteritis, aka, stomach flu, tend to have pain that is not just in one place, is crampy, and they often also have diarrhea. Instead of wanting to hold completely still, children with gastroenteritis are generally very squirmy, finding it challenging to hold still because they can’t quite get comfortable. They will have pain-free periods between the bouts of pain. They often have family members, classmates or friends with similar symptoms.

Fever Many children with viral gastroenteritis present to the ED because of fever. When children get a fever, they generally appear much more ill. If your child is alert and interested in what is going on around her, even if she isn’t as playful as normal, and she does not have a severe neck pain or severe abdominal pain, then it is okay to give Tylenol or Motrin and wait an hour to reassess how she is doing. If you see no improvement an hour after appropriate dosing of Tylenol (acetaminophen) or Motrin (ibuprofen), call your child’s doctor.

Is she dehydrated?

Last thoughts:

Signs of dehydration are: no wet diaper or urination in over 6 hours, saliva in the mouth that is stringy or completely absent, and a child who is listless. If this is how your child appears, call the doctor. It may be time to visit us for some medication and of course, some stickers.

● If your baby is less than 3 months and develops any symptoms of an illness, call the doctor or come to the emergency room.

You can avoid dehydration. When your child begins to vomit, rest the stomach for 30 minutes by not giving her anything to drink or eat. Then begin hydrating slowly with tablespoon-sized amounts of liquids every 5-10 minutes. Avoid solid foods if your child is vomiting more than a couple of times in a few hours. Liquids are tolerated better and decrease the likelihood of vomiting. If your child has diarrhea and is not nauseated, you can allow her to drink as much as she would like.

● Stomach “flu” is not caused by the Influenza virus. So, sadly, a flu shot doesn’t prevent it. Influenza kills many people during the winter months, so get your flu shot! But if you vomit 4 months after getting the flu shot, please don’t blame that on a failed flu shot. ● Frequent handwashing – Most viruses that cause these symptoms are spread by hand-to-mouth. Don’t cut corners on the handwashing before eating, it’s the most important time to wash.

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CHILD DEVELOPMENT

TEEN

TEENS & END OF YEAR PARTIES

April starts the time when many teens start thinking about the end of school. It is the last full month for most Missouri students, and the time when Summer plans and parties become a focus. Parties at any age can be fun, but they can also become dangerous and overwhelming. Alcohol, drugs, Social Media, large numbers of teens, and late hours all lead to potential disaster, even if you have “good” kids. Here are the Top 10 tips for Teen Party safety: 1. Have the party in the afternoon, ending by dusk. Check local curfew laws to see when the party has to end by. 2. Clearly communicate with your teen what can and can not happen at the party. Remind them of the dangers of alcohol and drugs.

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3. Collect car keys, and do not return them until you know that that teen is safe to drive. (Offer a place for teens to sleep over, if need be.) Although you may not have provided alcohol, s/he could have come to your party intoxicated to start with, and still might not be okay to drive.

4. Do not serve alcohol, even to adults or anyone over 21 years. Try to keep an eye out for alcohol or drugs that might have been “sneaked” in. Lock up all alcohol, prescription medicine, and over-the-counter medicines too.

5. Serve a LOT of food and desserts. If there is much to munch on, there will be a focus on eating, and talking about the food. 6. Create an â&#x20AC;&#x153;invited guest listâ&#x20AC;? with a maximum number of possible guests, and turn away party crashers. Monitor Social Media sources to make sure that it is clear that this is not an open party invite. 7. Keep an adult to teen ratio of 1:10. Adults can work as servers, food preparers, and other active roles in the party, that are supervisory, but not intrusive. 8. Have a fun theme. Yes, even for graduation parties! Although a little silly, if the teens go along with it, the party can be more fun. Less boredom means less trouble they are likely to get into. 9. Parent networking is important. Since teens often go house to house, knowing where your teen is going, and if the parents will be there is an effective safety rule. If you do not speak with the other parents, or they were not planning on being there in a supervisory role, it is best for your teen to skip that party. 10. Make sure your teen has a safe and reliable way to get to and from parties, a cell phone that is fully charged, and some (but not too much) money.

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BY MARTY LEVISON

PROPERTY TAX

FINANCE

Along with Passover and other rights of spring, every other year we are greeted with property reassessment in St. Louis County. Since our friendly bureaucrats must analyze the values of approximately 389,000 parcels, it is understandable that they are bound to blow a few. How to appeal your real property tax assessment

In St. Louis County, go to the website: http://revenue.stlouisco.com/ias

Marty Levison, SRA owner of Levison Appraisal Company, a thirty-year old St. Louis business, with over 14,000 properties appraised and reviewed.

Locate your particular property and see your total assessed value for the year 2015. If the value seems about right for the sales in your neighborhood, then go find something else to worry about. If it doesn’t make sense, then click on the link to “Assessor’s Comparable Sales”. Check the square footage for living area and site area. Living area is calculated by including areas at the level of your front door and above. Anything below that level or even ½ flight below the front door is calculated as lower level finish and should not be included in living area or room count. This next window will show your property along with the sales that the assessor has compared to your property. Along the left column will be the amenities that are being considered in the valuation process. Again, check for inaccuracies. At this point, check the comparable sales provided and determine whether they are good alternatives to a potential

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buyer for your home. If they are not or you feel there are other sales that are more similar to your home, you may want to proceed. There is a link at the St. Louis County Assessor’s Site for “Property Value Appeal” that explains the process. Appeal forms may be filled out and filed from May 1, 2015 until July 13, 2015. This can be mailed in or completed on line. If your home is dated, in need of expensive repairs or suffers from some form of external obsolescence (i.e. fronts a busy street, etc…), these items should be documented with photos or other exhibits. The most effective way to challenge your assessment is with an appraisal from a State Certified Residential Appraiser, or better yet, an appraiser with an “SRA” designation. The appraiser may inspect your property at any time prior to the assessment appeal, but the date of valuation must be January 1, of the year in question.

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NUTRITION NUGGETS

Spring Smoothies

KATHY MORA, PhD

Doctorate in nutritional science and epidemiology from the University of Arizona, and masters degree in nutrition and fitness from Florida State University. Clinical background in diabetes, part of clinical team as pediatric diabetes educator. Former nutrition and exercise physiology instructor at St. Louis University, Pima Community College, and Florida State University. Recent project officer on public health research evaluation projects around childhood obesity prevention. Experience as media and nutrition consultant promoting and providing healthy recipes on TV. Dedicated long distance runner, passionate proponent for physical education in children, and mom of two children who happily eat vegetables!

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In St. Louis, it is not always easy to distinguish Winter from Spring, but now that it is officially Spring, all the colors beginning to bloom offer inspiration for imaginative recipes bursting with fresh flavors and nutrition. Green is definitely the color of spring, and green smoothies are a refreshing way to welcome in the warm season. Spring showers are a good time to be inside creating kitchen concoctions with kids, and smoothies are the ultimate fool-proof concoction. It's really hard to make a bad smoothie! The colorful rainbows that appear during Spring are reminders of the plentiful and colorful fresh fruits and vegetables of Spring. Smoothies are a fun way to drink a rainbow! Spring fresh fruits and vegetables add sweetness to smoothies without the need for added sweeteners- always a bonus. Spring also brings us to Passover. When we come together during Passover, we're reminded to reflect and appreciate our freedom. The Seder plate displays foods symbolizing our history while we share our story and meal with family and friends. Passover is certainly a time we appreciate food; remembering to feel gratitude for the bountiful food we have available today, unlike our ancestors before us. And...guess what....smoothies are Kosher for Passover, vegetarian friendly, and gluten-free, and a healthy way to put a spring in your step! After a nice hike outside, doing yard work, or playing at the park, a smoothie is a fun and easy way to quench your thirst. In the world of smoothies, there are highend blenders, and there are everyday blenders with less expensive price tags that work wonderfully! Don't let the equipment deter you from trying new smoothies, it's not about the equipment, it's about the

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ingredients that matter. The other important note about smoothie making is to let precision go to the wayside. Smoothies are a little of this and a little of that until it is the consistency and taste you want... so just experiment...you really can't go wrong! Alright, let's start by acknowledging that green smoothies make some people squeamish. Have no fear, you can start slowly and build your way up to a full blast of green. Pink, purple, orange, and any other color smoothie with fresh (and/or frozen) fruits and vegetables are packed with vitamins and minerals; any fresh made smoothie with fun colors is sure to be a crowdpleaser in your family. Add chia and flax seeds as desired, for added protein, omega-3 fatty acids, and fiber. If you want to be bold and go for the GREEN, here are a few green smoothie recipes that are taste-tested (by children and picky eater adults alike). L'Chaim...happy smoothie drinking to your health!

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That time when the teacher called us to say that our 4 year old decided to cut his friend’s hair on “career day.” That time when my 7 month old rolled onto her tummy, but couldn’t figure out how to roll back! That time when our college freshman texted us, asking for us to send more underwear. Apparently, he put his underwear together with his zippered jackets in the wash, and the zippers shredded the underwear. That time when the baby fed the dog all of his food, and then realized he was hungry but had no more! That time when the 16 year old took the car to the mall, and called us crying, because she forgot where she parked. That time when my 12 year old said, “I can’t figure out that puzzle, ask your 6 year old puzzle-master!” That time when I scolded my 5 year old for squeezing out all of my contact lens solution on the 2nd floor railing, and it dripped onto the foyer floor. As he was cleaning it all up with lots of scrubbing and paper towels, he shouted out, “I feel like Cinderella, and the stepsisters are making me clean!” That time when our 10 year old beat our 14 year old into the front seat of the car. The 14 year old said, “Hey, you can’t sit there!” The 10 year old said, “I meet all of the State requirements, so yes I can! You will have to be faster next time!” That time when our 4 year old came into our bed at midnight, after we were already asleep, to tell us that he decided he wanted all of us to be an owl family, and stay up all night. That time when we took our 2 year old daughter to my cousin’s wedding, and she screamed out, “Bad choice, Bad choice” to the groom because he stepped on the glass!

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FROM THE

CONCIERGE’S DESK

Bar & Bat Mitzvah Etiquette Several readers have asked about the Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Here are some frequently asked questions and answers. As with many things, there are a lot of accepted variations even within the Jewish community. All of the answers in this article were gathered from different rabbis, shuls, and professionals in field that work at these events. Q: What is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah?

Q: What is respectful or rude?

A: “Bar” refers to a boy, while “Bat” refers to a girl. The

A: There are several things that are rude/respectful:

Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremony marks the age of when fullfledged adult roles in the community can be held, such as leading the congregation in prayer, being morally responsible for their own actions, and being called to read from the Torah. This is a “coming of age” ceremony.

Q: When does it happen? A: By Jewish law, at the age of 13 years, a boy is no

longer considered a minor, and is responsible for fulfilling the Torah’s commandments and mitzvot. For girls, it is at the age of 12 or 13 years. The obligation is automatic for most Jewish teens, in that even if a person does not have a celebration or special ceremony, they are still a Bar/Bat Mitzvah.

Q: What should I expect? A: There is almost always a “Being called up to the

Torah to read” as well as other active roles. The service ranges in length from 1- 3 hours, and is often followed by a kiddush snack or luncheon for the entire congregation. Some of the service is often in English, and some in Hebrew.

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When going to a synagogue or temple for the Shabbat service, all cell phones and electronics should be turned off. It is very rude for a cell phone to be on or used. There should be no pictures taken during the service by the guests. For boys and men, they should take a kippah/ yarmulke and put it on their heads during the service. This shows tremendous respect. It can be returned afterwards. During the service, the guests should be quiet and attentive. Although the service may not all be in English, it shows wonderful respect to stand when everyone else is standing, and to remain quiet. It is important to stay at your seat, and not run back and forth in, or between, the rows. After the service, there is often a receiving line. That is the appropriate time to congratulate the Bar/Bat Mitzvah and the parents. It is considered rude to scream out during the service, unless you are asked to do so..

Mazel tov! It is considered rude, and possibly against the rules of the synagogue to give the gift at the service. If you are attending the celebration following, that is the better time to give the gift. It is respectful for the boys to wear slacks, collared shirt and tie, and for the girls to be in dresses or skirts that are at the knee or longer, with shoulders covered too. (The party attire can be different.)”

Q: Is there always a big party? A:

After the ceremony, which is cause for celebration, some families celebrate by going on a trip, while others celebrate by throwing a party that is on the same scale as a wedding. Every level of celebration can be found, depending on the family. It is just important to remember that regardless of how the occasion is celebrated, the importance of the party is secondary to that of the ceremony.

Q: What gift should I give?

90% of the gifts given are monetary, and in denominations of 18. The number 18, known as “chai”, is a “good luck” number. Hence many people will give $36, $72, etc., per person attending. There will always be a box, or person to give the card, gift, and envelope to. The other 10% is often something Judaica, or with special sentimental meaning. Typically, similar to with a wedding, invited guests figure out roughly how much the meal is, and base the gift on that (within reason). For example if a family of 4 gets invited to, and attends, a Bat Mitzvah with the dinner costing $60 per plate, they might give a gift of $200- $250. If the invitee is especially close to the Bar/Bat Mitzvah family, more can be given. This is not meant to be an exhaustive detailing of all information, but just a guide that can lead to more questions and discussion.

A: This is the question that many people feel

uncomfortable asking, but they REALLY want to know the answer. Unfortunately, it is one of the hardest answers because of differences within the Jewish communities. Here are some general guidelines:

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JEWISH

HOLIDAY EXPLAINED

PASSOVER HAGGADAH Basics: Passover

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Passover retells the story of Moses and how the Israelites went from slavery to free people in ancient Egypt. Key words: matzoh (unleavened bread), seder (commemorative meal), haggadah (means â&#x20AC;&#x153;tellingâ&#x20AC;?, it is the book that guides the conducting of the seder, and the story of what happened, as well as thought-provoking topics), plagues.

THOUGHTS FROM SAM ZITIN Associate Director JSU St. Louis

PASSOVER: PARENT LIKE YOU HAVE 4 SONS The Wise, the Wicked, the Simple, and the one who doesn't even know how to ask. We spend time every year at the Passover Seder discussing these 4 characters and receiving ancient wisdom on how we should interact with each of them. Teach the wise one even the smallest details, blunt the teeth of the wicked one, etc. (How does one safely blunt teeth anyway?) We often think in terms of absolutes, and I think it is common to think of our children as being one of these four and responding in kind. However, what if the four sons spoken of weren't really separate people at all? The deeper Jewish sources tell us that our children, in fact, all of us are really made up of ALL of the four sons. Within any given day we will have moments of wisdom, moments of wickedness, moments where we do not understand, and moments where we can't even tell there is something we

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should be understanding. LIkewise for our children, and our parenting should reflect that. There are times we should treat even young children as if they possess a wisdom greater than our own (I think we are all sometimes amazed at the insights they find). There are times we need to firmly correct their behavior and teach them that their actions aren't correct. There are times that we need to explain things very simply, and times that we need to prompt them to see the lesson we are presenting in the first place. In truth we are all the four sons, and no one approach will be right for any of us, or any of our children, all the time. Learn the lesson of the Haggadah and parent as if your children are all four. Truly effective parenting can be thought of as knowing which of the four you are talking to at any one time.

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Not long after starting the car, I pulled over and turned off the engine. I couldn’t look at my wife, so I waited until I heard her crying. Then I turned, and we both stared at the empty child seat behind us, sobs staggered from our throats and tears streamed from our eyes. For about a minute, we could make sounds but not really words. Finally composing myself, I said, “we are the two worst parents that ever lived.” Another round of tears ensued. “I will quit working,” she sputtered. “No,” I responded, “I’ll quit.” After deciding we would both stop working, we tried to laugh and almost succeeded. Holding hands in silence, we wiped the tears off our cheeks and affixed smiles to our faces. Then I started the car for jobs we would certainly not quit.

What made us believe we were total failures as parents? What led us both to doubt our competency as human beings? What could have made unemployment and poverty desirable for us? The answer is easy: it was the first day we took our child to daycare. That morning occurred almost seventeen years ago. Prior to it, I’m not sure either of us spent more than twelve hours apart from our child during the first six months of her life. Since my wife and I shared an office at work, we took turns parenting throughout the day. Before long, we both knew the arrangement needed to end, and I approached that day stoically, always pursing lips and nodding my head when reminded of the upcoming transition. Then came that morning. Our kid didn’t cry when we left: she was surrounded by toys and other children. Maybe that made the moment worse for us—she seemed to get along fine without us. As I buckled my seatbelt and glanced at the empty child seat, I thought that our baby will be different. Daycare will ruin her. No one could parent her as well as we could. This has to end: we need to quit our jobs and just be parents. Needless to say, we didn’t quit. And needless to say, daycare didn’t ruin her. True, it wasn’t long before she came home with a runny nose and scrapes on her knees and elbows. Moreover it took me ages before getting over the fact that from that day forward, someone— daycare providers and then teachers—would spend more time each day with the jewel of my life than I would. But she wasn’t ruined. She simply changed, and from that moment forward, my wife and I changed too. The memory of that day has returned to me with great frequency this year. That’s because our baby is now a senior in high school. Sometime this summer, the three of us will get in a car, but only two will return. There’ll be no empty child seat this time, and rather than hand her over to a human being, she’ll be in the care of an institution (no doubt a pricey one). I’d like to think that this time, I won’t dread any changes that occur in her. In fact, I’d be disappointed if she didn’t change in college. Still, I notice I’ve taken to pursing my lips and nodding my head when I think about her upcoming departure. So I suspect that sometime this summer, on one interstate or another, I’ll pull into a rest stop, turn to my wife, and quietly hold her hand. From daycare to college in the blink of an eye, an eye that no doubt will be filled with tears once again.

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4/1 9am-4pm

4/2 10am-11am

4/3 10:30am-11:30am

Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.

Join us at Temple Emanuel for a Jewish-themed music and movement program for children 6 months to 3 years with an adult

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.

Purina All Breed Dog show

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4/1 8am-5pm Watch a variety of breeds of dogs compete for the title of Best In Show each day! 300 CHECKERBOARD DR, GRAY SUMMIT, MO 63039 FREE Missouri Botanical

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4/1 9am-4pm Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.

TEMPLE EMANUEL, 12166 CONWAY RD, 63141 FREE AND OPEN TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY

Aish Hebrew School and Adult Sunday School 4/2 10am-12pm At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun and enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Keeper Talks 4/2 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

Schools & Synagogues

Sunday Chess Classes 4/2

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Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults

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WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

Sundays with Shakespeare 4/2 1pm The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www. rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2. FREE

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Monday

Museum of Transportation

2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN

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JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

Open Jump 4/3 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

Sensory Story Time 4/3 6:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300

Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden 4/3 9am-4pm Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.

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Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Temple Tots

Baby N Me

Pipsqueak Class

Baby N Me

4/4 10am-11am

4/5 9:15am-10:45am

4/6 9:15am-10:30am

4/7 10am-11:30am

Bring a snack and join us for a free playgroup for children up to the age of 3, accompanied by a parent, grandparent, or caregiver.

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. You are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

Bring your stroller, make some friends and have some fun. Hamorah Cheri (Parent Educator Specialist) is the facilitator. Go for a walk, have a light snack and let your little ones visit.

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD

Toddler Tuesdays 4/4 9am Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Storytelling at the Museum 4/4 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE

Tuesday Tails 4/4 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE

Harlem Renaissance: Contemporary Response 4/4 9:30am-4:30pm An exciting and diverse collection of works, all finding inspiration from the artists and the period, following WWI (1918) and through the early 1930s, as African Americans moved north, and this pivotal movement galvanized musicians, writers, and visual artists. MILLSTONE GALLERY AT COCA, 524 TRINITY AVE. FREE

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

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BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE

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Baby and Me

Open Play at the J

4/5 9:30am-11am

4/6 10:30am-11:30am

Geared toward parents/caregivers with infants and children who aren’t yet walking, classes are taught by Lisa Cohen. Each class is free and open to all families in the STL Jewish community. You are welcome to attend any or all class meetings. Special guest speakers and discussions too.

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.

CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE

Wine Down Wednesday 4/5 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!

JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

4/6 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

Teen Open Gym

Ladies' Knight

4/5 8:30pm-9:50pm

4/6 6:30pm-7:30pm

Open gym is for children and adults ages 13 and up, wanting to practice gymnastics, cheer or parkour. Includes use of floors and trampolines. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www. teamcentral.org.

Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova

TEAM CENTRAL, 2675 METRO BLVD, 63043 $8 PER TEEN.

Leather Journal Making 4/5 7pm-9pm Local artist Abby Bennet teaches how to fabricate and customize your own leather-bound journal using upcycled materials. All supplies and light refreshments provided. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR $10 PER PERSON skraft@jccstl.org

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Open Swim With Waves 4/7 4pm-8pm At the Indoor Aquatic Center at The Lodge, you can simmer in the warmth of the 104-degree whirlpool spa or drift along the gentle surf of the 84-degree wave pool, which doubles as a six-lane, 25-yard lap pool. 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 VARIES $1- $10

Suson Farm Fridays 4/7 10:30am-3pm

Open Jump

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SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

Suson Park animal farm display. Most breeds of farm animals are represented for urban dwellers to see and enjoy, from the draft horses that helped plow our soil to examples of the modern cattle breeds. 6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

Spring Fling Story Time 4/7 1pm-2pm Join us at the Butterfly House as we host a variety of activities that celebrate pollinators, native plants, and all things that make Spring so wonderful. FAUST PARK, 15193 OLIVE BLVD, 63017 VARIES

St. Louis Children’s Hospital Fit Kid: Free Kid – Tee Time 4/7 4pm-7pm On the first Friday of every month, kids are invited to spend some FREE time getting fit at Fit Kid THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S KIRKWOOD RD, 63122 FREE FOR CHILDREN 12 AND UNDER WITH REQUIRED, ADVANCE REGISTRATION.

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"Kid"dush Club

4/8 9am-10am Join us for a 30-minute Shabbat Experience complete with singing, prayer, dancing with the Torah and community. For ages 0-5 only. UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD

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MifgaShabbat at Kol Rinah 4/8 10:30am-11:45am For 1-5th grade students led by Rabbi Scott Shafrin and Sarah Beth Waxman. This learning service focuses on giving young Jews the opportunity to practice their prayer skills aand learn tefilah choreography, liturgy, tunes and more. 829 N HANLEY RD, 63130 FREE

Totally Tot Shabbat at Kol Rinah 4/8 11am-11:45am

Jewish

For 1-5th grade students led by Rabbi Scott Shafrin and Sarah Beth Waxman. This learning service focuses on giving young Jews the opportunity to practice their prayer skills aand learn tefilah choreography, liturgy, tunes and more.

Schools & Synagogues

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.

At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun and enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Pollinator Plant Sale 4/9 10am-3pm The horticulture experts at the Butterfly House will help you plan your pollinator garden. We will have a wide variety of native plants that benefit butterflies, bees, and other native pollinators. FAUST PARK, 15193 OLIVE BLVD, 63017 VARIES

Sundays with Shakespeare 4/9 1pm

Sunday Chess Classes

4/8 9:30am-10:15am

4/9

2nd Saturday monthly, children with sensory or special needs and their families will be met by trained Zoo staff when they enter from The Living World at the North Entrance. They will then go downstairs to Monsanto Education Gallery. The Galleryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s goal is to provide unique opportunities for children, age 0 to 8, and their caregivers to explore the wonders of the natural world together and discover ways to extend love of nature to their everyday lives.

Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults

730 CARROLL STREET, 63104

CALENDAR

4/9 10am-12pm

Sensory Saturdays

4/8 7am-5pm

STL ZOO $2-$3 PER PERSON

Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents 4/8 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required. MO BOTANICAL GARDENS, 4344 SHAW BLVD,63110

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The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round

Historic Soulard Market

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Monday

Aish Hebrew School and Adult Sunday School

The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www. rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2.

829 N HANLEY RD, 63130 FREE

Sunday

FREE

starting from 1 pm

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

4/10 10:30am-11:30am

JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

Open Jump 4/10 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

St Louis Zoo 4/10 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE

Sensory Story Time 4/10 6:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300

First Seder Night 4/10-4/18 6:30pm-8pm Passover Holiday

Tuesday

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Thursday

Friday

Baby N Me

Pipsqueak Class

Baby N Me

4/11 10am-11am

4/12 9:15am-10:45am

4/13 9:15am-10:30am

4/14 10am-11:30am

Bring a snack and join us for a free playgroup for children up to the age of 3, accompanied by a parent, grandparent, or caregiver.

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. Y

Bring your stroller, make some friends and have some fun. Hamorah Cheri (Parent Educator Specialist) is the facilitator. Go for a walk, have a light snack and let your little ones visit.

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

Temple Tots

UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD

Toddler Tuesdays 4/11 9am Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Storytelling at the Museum 4/11 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE

Tuesday Tails 4/11 10:30am-11am Visit the Animal Protective Association (APA) of Missouri for a free story time for preschoolers and help foster their love of animals. 1705 S. HANLEY ROAD, 63144 FREE

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048

Baby and Me 4/12 9:30am-11am Geared toward parents/caregivers with infants and children who aren’t yet walking, classes are taught by Lisa Cohen. Each class is free and open to all families in the STL Jewish community. You are welcome to attend any or all class meetings. Special guest speakers and discussions too. CONGREGATION

TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE

Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood 4/12 12pm-5:30pm Work together to solve problems, use your imaginations to transform your surroundings, and play along with Daniel’s singable strategies to better understand and navigate everyday emotions. THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S KIRKWOOD RD, 63122 FREE FOR CHILDREN 12 AND UNDER WITH REQUIRED, ADVANCE REGISTRATION.

BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

Open Play at the J

314-569-0048

4/13 10:30am-11:30am

Water Waddlers Drop-In Swim

anita@bnaiamoona.com

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

LODGE OF DES PERES, 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $5/CHILD, ADULTS ARE FREE

Spring Fling Story Time

Suson Farm Fridays

4/13 1pm-2pm

4/14 10:30am-3pm

Join us at the Butterfly House as we host a variety of activities that celebrate pollinators, native plants, and all things that make Spring so wonderful.

FAUST PARK, 15193 OLIVE BLVD, 63017 VARIES

St Louis Zoo

4/12 6pm

4/13 9am-5pm

Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!

The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education.

Healthworks! Kids Museum

more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com

4/11 9:30am-4:30pm

Open Gym, ages 13 and up

Ladies' Knight

Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today!

4/12 8:30pm-10pm

4/13 6:30pm-7:30pm

Open gym is for teens and adults, wanting to practice gymnastics. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.stlouisgymcentre.com

Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova

HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES

ST LOUIS GYM CENTRE, 315 W. PACIFIC AVE, 63119 $7.50- $10 PER PERSON.

Have some fun in the indoor tot pool with your little one! For kids up to age 6 with a caregiver. Caregiver must remain in the pool with the child. Up to 25 children will be admitted per day.

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

Wine Down Wednesday

DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124 314.824.8224. For

4/14 10:30am-12pm

1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE

6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

Historic Soulard Market 4/14 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104

CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

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Free Admission Mornings for STL City/County Residents

4/15 8am-12pm Enjoy free admission to the Garden on Wednesday and Saturday mornings before noon. Proof of residency is required.

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St Louis Science Center

Open Play at the J

4/16 10am-11am

4/17 10:30am-11:30am

Join us at Temple Emanuel for a Jewish-themed music and movement program for children 6 months to 3 years with an adult

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers.

TEMPLE EMANUEL, 12166 CONWAY RD, 63141 FREE AND OPEN TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY

Aish Hebrew School and Adult Sunday School 4/16 10am-12pm

One of the top five science centers in the US, serving 1.2 million visitors annually. The complex includes a 4-story OMNIMAX Theater and the James S. McDonnell Planetarium.

At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun and enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD.,

5050 OAKLAND AVE, 63110 FREE

CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Keeper Talks

Grant's Farm is Open!

4/15 9am-10am

4/16 9:30am-3:30pm

Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat.

Open only Saturday and Sunday (until April 25th), enjoy Grant's Farm favorites, such as, goat feeding, carousel rides, snow cones, & more.

WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

Sundays with Shakespeare

Shabbat St Louis

The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www.rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2.

“B’Yachad: Together!” the 9th annual Shabbat St. Louis community worship service during Passover. All are welcome; affiliated or not. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

4/16 1pm

FREE

Sunday Chess Classes 4/16

starting from 1 pm

Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults

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SHAKE IT UP!

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

TRY OUR WEIGHT MANAGEMENT SHAKES!

Passover Hike at Laumeier

2 shakes a day help melt the weight away.

Maxine Mirowitz, creator of Torah Trailblazers, leads a rejuvenating hike through the trails of Laumeier Sculpture Park. Explore the intersection of art and nature while considering Passover themes such as freedom and renewal.

CALL MARK DOERING 314-629-3263

4/16 10am-11:30am

12580 ROTT ROAD, 63127 FREE, BUT RESERVE AT SKRAFT@ JCCSTL.ORG

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TE Tots

4/15 9:30am-4:30pm

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JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

Open Jump 4/17 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

St Louis Zoo 4/17 9am-5pm The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE

Sensory Story Time 4/17 6:30pm Geared to families with children ages 3-9 who are on the autism spectrum or who have multi-sensory needs. The program provides a soothing environment for children to enjoy a story and other fun activities. ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY HEADQUARTERS BRANCH FREE, REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. CALL 314-994-3300

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Baby N Me

Baby and Me

Baby N Me

4/18 10am-11am

4/19 9:15am-10:45am

4/20 9:30am-11am

4/21 10am-11:30am

Bring a snack and join us for a free playgroup for children up to the age of 3, accompanied by a parent, grandparent, or caregiver.

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. You are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. You are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD

Just Ducky 4/18 9:30am-11am The state’s lakes, rivers, ponds, streams, and marshes are full of ducks to observe and enjoy. Some ducks “dabble” around near the shore, but others dive deep underwater to find food. Ages 6+. POWDER VALLEY CONSERVATION NATURE CENTER, 11715 CRAGWOLD RD, 63122 FREE

Toddler Tuesdays 4/18 9am Children ages birth to 3 yrs and their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments and socializing followed by activities focusing on creative and cognitive development.

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Storytelling at the Museum 4/18 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE

Healthworks! Kids Museum 4/18 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today! HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES

PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048

New Mom Mingle 4/19 6:30pm-8pm This group is intended for expecting moms and moms with babies under 1 year old (babies welcome). Meet, connect with and learn from other moms. Each meeting will feature QandA with an expert on timely topics for new moms sleep, nutrition, child development and more. Breastfeeding support and baby weigh-ins available each meeting. DESLOGE OUTPATIENT CENTER, 121 ST LUKE'S CENTER DR., 63017 FREE

Wine Down Wednesday 4/19 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine!

DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124 314.824.8224. For more

information call our store or visit us online www.dimvaloo.com

Teen Open Gym 4/19 8:30pm-9:50pm Open gym is for children and adults ages 13 and up, wanting to practice gymnastics, cheer or parkour. Includes use of floors and trampolines. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.teamcentral.org.

CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE

Pipsqueak Class 4/20 9:15am-10:30am Bring your stroller, make some friends and have some fun. Hamorah Cheri (Parent Educator Specialist) is the facilitator. Go for a walk, have a light snack and let your little ones visit.BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON RD, 63141 FREE

anita@bnaiamoona.com 314-434-3404

Open Play at the J 4/20 10:30am-11:30am FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 and younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members and nonmembers. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

TEAM CENTRAL, 2675 METRO BLVD, 63043 $8 PER TEEN.

Health and Wellness Fair

Open Gym, ages 13 and up

Healthcare providers and various companies will be displaying and discussing their products and services. And bake sale!

4/19 8:30pm-10pm Open gym is for teens and adults, wanting to practice gymnastics. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.stlouisgymcentre.com ST LOUIS GYM CENTRE, 315 W. PACIFIC AVE, 63119 $7.50- $10 PER PERSON.

Train Your Inner Warrior 4/19 7pm-8pm Fun and challenging workout. Push your mind and get the most from your body, in a supportive group of likeminded Jewish Women. CHABAD, 8124 DELMAR BLVD, 63130 DONATION

4/20 10:30am-12:30pm

COVENANT PLACE II, #8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DRIVE; LOWER LEVEL IN THE BOHM SOCIAL HALL. FREE ADMISSION.

Ladies' Knight 4/20 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova

CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

314-569-0048

Emerson Free Family Nights 4/21 5:30pm-9pm These special nights enable a family (up to two adults and four children) to visit the Museum at no cost. THE MAGIC HOUSE, 516 S KIRKWOOD RD, 63122 FREE

Snores 'n Smores Family Campout 4/21 6pm Enjoy hiking, stargazing, games and a campfire at Kirkwood Park! Campers should bring camping equipment; hot dogs, hot cocoa, soft drinks and s’mores fixings will be provided. KIRKWOOD PARK, 111 S GEYER RD. $8/RESIDENTS, $10/NONRESIDENTS

Plein Air Art Festival 4/21 8am-5:30pm Come experience Springtime in Augusta, Missouri and watch the rich colors burst forth in nature and on canvas. The public is invited to observe the art unfold before their eyes each day at events hosted by wineries and neighboring communities. 237 FERRY ST., AUGUSTA FREE

Cinema Series: Hop (rated PG) 4/21 7pm-9:30pm Join us for a movie in The Lodge Outdoor Pool Parking Lot. Bring a lawn chair or spread out picnic style on a blanket. Guests may bring their own food and drinks (no glass) or buy concessions at the event. Popcorn, candy and drinks will be available for purchase; cash only.

LODGE OF DES PERES, 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 MEMBERS:FREE, RESIDENTS:$5, NONRESIDENTS:$10

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Aish Hebrew School and Adult Sunday School

Open Play at the J

4/22 10am-11:30am

4/23 10am-12pm

Celebrate Earth Day with this FREE EVENT for Beautification at Cornerstone Early Childhood Center.

At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun and enthusiasm.

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314-569-0048

457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

MifgaShabbat at Kol Rinah

Sundays with Shakespeare

4/22 10:30am-11:45am

4/23 1pm

The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at www.rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2.

829 N HANLEY RD, 63130 FREE

Jewish

Totally Tot Shabbat at Kol Rinah 4/22 11am-11:45am

Schools & Synagogues

Keeper Talks 4/22 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

Historic Soulard Market 4/22 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104

FREE

Sunday Chess Classes 4/23

starting from 1 pm

Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NONMEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

Grant's Farm is Open!

ebrockman@jccstl.org

April Seniors Lunch and Program with Shaare Emeth, TI and UH 4/24 12pm-2pm Come together for lunch and a program on "Gerda's Story," Lunch includes falafel chicken, mashed potatoes, steamed vegetables, UH house salad, and dessert UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD $10 PER PERSON

Purina Poodle Club of America Nationals 4/24-4/28 8am-6pm Watch Poodles compete for the title of Best In Show each day! 300 CHECKERBOARD DR, GRAY SUMMIT, MO 63039 FREE

Open Jump 4/24 10am-3pm

Kramer's Marionnettes: Marvin's Musical Revue

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

4/23 1pm-2pm

St Louis Zoo

Special production! The Jack In The Boxes, Marvin, Susie, Charlie, Betsey and our new friends Linda and Elisa, the Hedge Hog Girls with their boogie woogie, are waiting to entertain you!

4/24 9am-5pm

4143 LACLEDE AVE, 63108 SPECIAL $5 TICKETS! CALL 314.531.3313. RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED FOR ALL SHOWS.

Yom HaShoah Community Commemoration

CONGREGATION B’NAI AMOONA 324 MASON ROAD, 63141 FREE St. Louis Jewish Parents

2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267,

Open only Saturday and Sunday (until April 25th), enjoy Grant's Farm favorites, such as, goat feeding, carousel rides, snow cones, & more.

Survivors and Witnesses in Our Community “If the echo of their voice fades, we will perish” - Paul Eluard, French poet.

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Early Childhood Engagement

3901 RUSSELL BLVD. 63110. FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

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The St Louis Zoo is recognized as a leading zoo in animal management, research, conservation, and education. 1 GOVERNMENT DR, 63110 FREE

Doris I Schnuck Children's Garden 4/24 9am-4pm Founded in 1859, the 79-acre Missouri Botanical Garden is the nation's oldest botanical garden in continuous operation and an oasis in the city of St. Louis. 4344 SHAW BLVD, 63110 FREE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 12. $8 FOR ADULTS.

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4/25 10am-11am Bring a snack and join us for a free playgroup for children up to the age of 3, accompanied by a parent, grandparent, or caregiver. UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD

Current Topics Discussion Group

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Baby N Me

Pipsqueak Class

Baby N Me

4/26 9:15am-10:45am

4/27 9:15am-10:30am

4/28 10am-11:30am

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity.You are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

Bring your stroller, make some friends and have some fun. Hamorah Cheri (Parent Educator Specialist) is the facilitator. Go for a walk, have a light snack and let your little ones visit. BNAI AMOONA, 324 S MASON

Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, and gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

RD, 63141 FREE anita@bnaiamoona.com

314-569-0048

Open Play at the J

4/25 12:30pm-1:30pm

Baby and Me

4/27 10:30am-11:30am

NORC event. Meet at The Gathering Place at the J. RSVP to Laura at 314442-3255.

4/26 9:30am-11am

JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Toddler Tuesdays 4/25 9am WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Healthworks! Kids Museum 4/25 9:30am-4:30pm Here at HealthWorks!, we believe in giving children and caregivers the tools and knowledge to shoot for the stars, and be better tomorrow than they were today! HEALTHWORKS KIDS' MUSEUM ST LOUIS, 1100 MACKLIND AVE, 63110 VARIES

Storytelling at the Museum 4/25 10:30am-11:15am Engaging our youngest visitors and their families in historic objects and museum settings by using traditional and contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. Ages 2-5. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, 5700 LINDELL BLVD, 63112 FREE

Grant's Farm is Open! 4/25 9am-3:30pm Enjoy Grant's Farm favorites, such as, goat feeding, carousel rides, snow cones, and more.

2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

Emilie Brockman,314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org

CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE

Chavurat Shira Choir – Live Concert

Wine Down Wednesday

4/27 7pm-8:30pm

4/26 6pm Join all of us every Wednesday for fabulous guest instructors and wine! DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., 63124 314.824.8224. For

more information call our store or visit us on-line www.dimvaloo.com

Open Gym, ages 13 and up 4/26 8:30pm-10pm Open gym is for teens and adults, wanting to practice gymnastics. Waiver must be signed by parent if under 18 years old. Waivers available online at www.stlouisgymcentre.com

ST LOUIS GYM CENTRE, 315 W. PACIFIC AVE, 63119 $7.50- $10 PER PERSON.

Same Difference, Understanding Jewish Diversity 4/26 6:45pm-9pm oin community rabbis as they guide us in discussions about Jewish pluralism and help us work to understand our own ideologies within the context of the broader Jewish community.

SAUL MIROWITZ JEWISH COMMUNITY SCHOOL, 348 MASON ROAD, 63141 FREE

Presenting a concert of choral and solo music, featuring favorites from Broadway, Jewish melodies, and more. The concert is presented in conjunction with the 2nd Annual Celebrating Art for Senior Engagement Festival. We are delighted to offer free transportation for those in need through the generosity of the Gershman Fund of Temple Israel. #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR., 63141 FREE, BUT TO BOOK TRANSPORTATION, OR FOR QUESTIONS, PLEASE CONTACT LISA AT LHIRSHBERG@TI-STL. ORG OR 314-432-8050.

Open Jump

SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 FREE TO MEMBERS AND NONMEMBERS.

314-569-0048

Water Waddlers Drop-In Swim 4/28 10:30am-12pm Have some fun in the indoor tot pool with your little one! For kids up to age 6 with a caregiver. Caregiver must remain in the pool with the child. Up to 25 children will be admitted per day. LODGE OF DES PERES, 1050 DES PERES RD, 63131 $5/CHILD, ADULTS ARE FREE

Suson Farm Fridays 4/28 10:30am-3pm Suson Park animal farm display. Most breeds of farm animals are represented for urban dwellers to see and enjoy, from the draft horses that helped plow our soil to examples of the modern cattle breeds. 6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

Historic Soulard Market 4/28 7am-5pm The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers and even a pet shop. The market is open year round 730 CARROLL STREET, 63104

4/27 10am-3pm Who can jump higher or find their way through the obstacle course first, the kids or the parents?

PUMP IT UP, ST CHARLES, 3691 NEW TOWN BLVD, 63301

Ladies' Knight 4/27 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn and improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar and WGM Katerina Nemcova

CHESS CLUB AND SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

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Museum of Transportation

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4/30 10am-11am

Public tours, self-guided tours, miniature train, handcars.

Join us at Temple Emanuel for a Jewish-themed music and movement program for children 6 months to 3 years with an adult TEMPLE EMANUEL, 12166 CONWAY RD, 63141

2933 BARRETT STATION 63122 $8 FOR 13 YEARS+, $5 FOR CHILDREN

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4/29 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am and join our keepers as they feed and water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, and what they all eat.

Aish Hebrew School and Adult Sunday School 4/30 10am-12pm At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun and enthusiasm.

457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

Sunday Chess Classes

Public Stargazing

Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids and adults

4/29

Starting at dusk.

The site, which is free and open to the public, features 24/7 access, with 9 paved telescope stations each with 20-amp electrical service for telescopes that can benefit from electrical power, a patio entrance area for non-powered telescopes, as well as connecting sidewalks. There is also ample paved parking, a water fountain, and accessible restrooms.

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FREE AND OPEN TO THE JEWISH COMMUNITY

1615 SCHWEDE RD, 63385 FREE

4/30 starting from 1 pm WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

Sundays with Shakespeare 4/30 1pm The Radio Arts Foundation introduces a new radio program on the air with all of the plays by Shakespeare. A complete listing is on our website at http://www.rafstl.org/shakespeare/. These are introduced by Rick Dildine, Director of Shakespeare Festival of St. Louis. Listen at 107.3 FM or 96.3 HD2. FREE

JFandCS Feed the Pantry, Feed the Soul Event

Schools & Synagogues

4/30 8am-5pm The Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry invites you out for a family friendly event. 10601 BAUR BLVD, 63146 FREE

Kol Rinah ECC 30th Birthday Bash 4/30 4pm-7pm Kol Rinah Early Childhood Center (formerly Shaare Zedek Early Childhood Center) is celebrating it's 30th birthday with a party for current families, alumni and the community! 829 NORTH HANLEY RD, 63130 FREE

Community Yom Hazikaron Ceremony 4/30 7pm-8pm

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Annual community wide ceremony to honor those that have fallen in the defense of the State of Israel. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE

How to Talk to Your Children About AntiSemitism 4/30 10am-12pm The Rubin and Gloria Feldman Family Education Institute will fund, in partnership with the Anti-Defamation League, a workshop for parents on this important topic

JEWISH FEDERATION OF ST LOUIS' KOPOLOW BUILDING, 12 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR, 63146 FREE, BUT SEATING IS LIMITED. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN ATTENDING, PLEASE CALL 314-442-3711.

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Anna Altman anna@trainyourinnerwarrior.com 917-449-7900 /trainyourinnerwarrior.com trainyourinnerwarrior

CycleBar Creve Coeur This Premium Indoor Cycling Studio is a rock concert on a bike! We have the best instructors in the city that motivate you to take fitness to the next level! We provide shoes, water bottles, and shower facilities so all you have to do is come for a good time! Free classes during Grand Opening NOW through April 16.

Offering a convenient, one-on-one tutoring service. We tutor students of all ages and all subjects. Tutoring is conducted in the student's home or at a public location of the client's choosing. The initial consultation is free, where we assess the student's situation and need, then recommend a customized tutoring program. All tutors are background checked and skill-set matched to the student's particular need. Parents receive a report after every tutoring session to ensure they are always updated on their student's progress. Money back guarantee for unused hours, and 2 free hours of tutoring offered for referrals.

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Tutor Doctor of West St. Louis

Robert Moellering rmoellering@tutordoctor.com 314-637-7972 www.tutordoctor.com/west-st-louis

8944 St. Charles Rock Road, 3rd Floor info@northwestchamber.com http://www.northwestchamber.com/

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We offer floatation therapy sessions in a reduced sensory environment, allowing you to disconnect from all of the inputs of today’s society and reconnect with yourself. Guaranteed to leave you feeling refreshed and great. Info@presencefloatcenter.com 636-220-6327 233 Lamp & Lantern Village Town & Country, MO 63017 www.presencefloatcenter.com

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Tree of Life Pediatric and Family Chiropractic Helping young mothers & families to empower their children who struggle to reach their potential. For the comfort of children with special needs & convenience of families, we are a house call based practice.

Stephanie Nicholson 314-485-9897 www.treeoflifepedandfamilychiro.com treeoflifepediatric

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Inspiration/Positive Change/SelfEmpowerment. Interested in discovering unique and innovative techniques for creating a well-balanced and healthy life for both you and your children? A personalized approach that empowers children and women through teaching the self-help tool of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT/Tapping) and Empowerment Strategies.

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Dr. Laura Chackes lchackes@mindfulstl.com 314-561-9757 www.mindfulstl.com The Center for Mindfulness & CBT

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Innovative mental health and wellness center treating children, adolescents and adults using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). We offer Mindfulness and Mindful Yoga classes for the general population, as well as for those with anxiety, depression and other mental health issues. We have Mindfulness classes for children and families, as well as group therapy for children & adults with Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors, such as hair pulling & skin picking, as well as eating disorders.

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An online platform designed to make the connection & communication process between consumers and photographers more efficient and enjoyable. The process is so simple and fun.... Select your genre, love your favorite images, then ShuttrPlace will connect you to your ideal photographers. And even better, the platform is completely free for consumers! ShutterPlace is the only place to find a photog! Try us out!

Keri Simon Therapy With 15+ years experience working with adolescents, young adults and families providing therapy for social and interpersonal relationship issues and emotional regulation, anxiety and depression. Specializes in individuals and families with autism spectrum disorder and or developmental disabilities. Keri excels at creating therapeutic rapport with even the most resistant of clients. Social skills and support groups offered in evenings and after school.

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Hey, Dollcakes We specialize in the doll cake, but I am a full service bakery. Donuts, pastries, cookies, cheesecakes, cake balls, etc. 636-385-6828 connie@heydollcakes.com www.heydollcakes.com 2956 Hwy K, O’Fallon, MO 63368

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ABC Parenting We believe that answers to concerns and the solutions to problems often lie within the families themselves. Our Child Development Specialist will coach your family while building a foundation for the child’s future. ABC supports families with children from birth through high school. Developmental screenings and bilingual sessions also available.

HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis has the distinction of being the only free-standing children’s museum in St. Louis that is dedicated solely to health education. It is completely accessible to those of all abilities and showcases a unique model of health edutainment through hands-on, interactive exhibits and live engaging presentations. Our goal: To infectiously contaminate children of all ages to learn, have fun and make great life choices. We Make Health Fun!

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The Center for Mindfulness & CBT

Kidzxplor is a new revolutionary web and app-based service that connects kids to local class providers. Kidzxplor opens the doors to discovery by offering a membership that syncs children to a multitude of different classes and activities including art, music, dance, fitness, mind, open plays, cooking, and many, many more- all for one flat-fee per month. Drop into the best St. Louis children’s class providers and discover your child’s passion conveniently and economically.

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Many of you have visited our children’s boutique, Lu Lu Belle in Naples, FL owned by St. Louis couple Charlie and Linda Kilo. We have now opened a store in Ladue bringing the same personalized service & brands - most of them unique to St. Louis for girls & boys newborn & up. Come in for a fun-filled experience for Grandparents, Parents & kids. We look forward to meeting you! Mon-Sat 10:00am-5:00pm. Expanded hours by appointment.

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ShuttrPlace

Stephanie Cotta stephanie@shuttrplace.com www.shuttrplace.com shuttrplace

Lu Lu Belle’s

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A total body, 50 minute workout with a focus on targeted muscular strength building and conditioning. High intensity. Low impact. The only workout to combine strength, endurance, cardio, balance, and flexibility in each and every movement. Your joints stay protected, your spinal alignment improves, your mind is engaged, and your body’s pushed to its limits. This isn't your mom's pilates. info@plnkstl.com 314-395-4366 www.plnkstl.com plnkstl

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Tamara Netsch (owner) 314-942-3055 www.shineboutiquestlouis.com ShineBoutique 9811 Clayton Rd, STL 63124

Heather Cushing, Owner 314-701-4100 info@abcparenting.com abcparenting, llc ABCParenting.XYZ

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A parent and family engagement program for struggling students Almost 96% of my students completed homework, an increase of 50% or so, after home visits began! Parents were invested and kids were invested. Grades went up and reading scores increased thanks to HOME WORKS! —Teacher

He went from hood up, head down, no eye contact and a very reluctant reader to setting goals, asking about his goals and achieving his goals. He is a completely different person. His reading level has gone from 3rd grade to 5th grade and he is not so defiant. HOME WORKS! has had a huge impact on this child’s life. —Rhonda Spotanski, Teacher

Partnering families and teachers for children’s success. What? HOME WORKS! trains, supports and helps pay teachers to visit the homes of their struggling students to get their parents engaged in their child’s education.

Why? Too many children enter school not ready to learn. Home visits are an effective tool to build trust between parents and teachers to increase academic achievement.

Who gets home visits? Students who are performing below grade level and/or have attendance, tardiness and/or behavior issues.

Where? Schools in Columbia, De Soto, Hazelwood, Parkway, Ritenour, St. Louis, University City, Warrenton, Wentzville, and more for the 2017-2018 school year.

Parent and family engagement is essential to student success—and to the success of our community. Find out more: 314-325-9901 • teacherhomevisit.org @homeworksvisit

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