Counselor's Notebook, December 2012

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MASCA

MASSACHUSETTS SCHOOL COUNSELORS ASSOCIATION

VOL. 49, NO. 4

DECEMBER 2012

Happy Holidays from MASCA! Those Three Little Words By JENNIFER LISK MASCA President

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f you work in the education field, you have heard these words countless times. If you are a parent, you have heard them even more. Often, these three words are used as a too quick answer or an excuse. Sometimes, though, these three words can lead to the best educational experiences a person can have. “I don’t know” when used as an excuse to not really answer a question or to be deliberately vague does not further anyone’s learning experience. All of us have had a student in our office where you draw on all of the counseling skills that you have to try to change that verbal shrug into a conversation. I would venture that all of us have also had a student who isn’t willing to try something because they might not succeed at it. This concept of embracing “I don’t know” did not come easily to me. As someone whose brain is wired to achieve

JENNIFER LISK well in many of the ways that schools expected you to, I usually did know the answer. Being introduced to the work of Carol Dweck in graduate school was eyeopening to me. Her work distinguishes between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset. Looking at students (and ourselves) through a growth mindset expects growth and improvement based on dedication and effort rather than being “smart”

or “not smart.” That dedication and effort oftentimes requires saying “I don’t know.” It is knowing when to ask for help and recognizing that it is not a sign of weakness to do so. It is knowing that you will often learn more from asking a question than staying silent. It is knowing that we all have strengths and weaknesses. I recently read an article from the local NPR station that talked about a teacher who started expectations for an AP class with this same message. While it wasn’t easy to do because many of these students had been praised continually for knowing the answers, it made a difference in her students. I encourage you to model this for your students. Encourage them to use “I don’t know” to help themselves become better students and citizens. ■

Honors for Fredrickson (Reprinted from UMass Amherst: The Magazine for Alumni and Friends, Fall 2012)

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n 1958, the year after the launch of Sputnik, the federal government decided that one way to overtake the Soviets in space was to better prepare students in math and sciences. The National Defense Education Act was created to fund college education programs and prepare school counselors to guide students into the disciplines essential for a robust space program. At the time, Ronald H. Fredrickson was a graduate student at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. In 1963 he joined the faculty of the UMass Amherst School of Education and became a leader in the

preparation of school counselors and counseling research. “I was always interested in answering the questions ‘So what? Are we doing any good? And what are the outcomes of our efforts?’ ” he says. He pursued this interest and helped build recognition for the importance of school counselors. Fredrickson, who retired in 1992, fortified his work with research. In his 29 years of teaching, Fredrickson laid the groundwork for founding the Center of School Counseling Outcome Research. The center, the nation’s only one of its kind, will bear his name after a couple,

who wish to remain anonymous, made a $100,000 gift to the center. The Ronald Fredrickson Center of School Counseling Outcome Research and Evaluation celebrated its tenth anniversary in October. John C. Carey, director of the center, says the gift will strengthen the center’s ability to disseminate its research to practitioners around the country . . . . “This gift ultimately will help improve the education of thousands of students whose counselors will have knowledge of best practices,” says Carey. ■


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