Fan the flame!

1 THESSALONIANS 5:12–24

IN three months, I will be celebrating 23 years of marriage. In those 23 years, we have lived in 8 houses, had 3 children, 7 rabbits, 6 guinea pigs and 1 dog. We have had good days and bad days, times of celebration and times of grief.

In the months leading up to us getting married, many of our friends wanted to give us advice. They wanted to help us. I must admit that some of the advice was helpful and some not.

The most memorable piece of advice came from my mother-in-law and has helped me every day since. She told me that many people say that marriage is all about give and take but, for her, that was not true. She encouraged and advised me to remember that marriage is all about giving – and nothing more. How wise she was – and still is! That piece of advice has shaped and guided me throughout my marriage.

Pause And Reflect

What’s the best piece of advice someone has ever given you?

Why?

The study passage we are considering is found towards the end of Paul’s first letter to the church in Thessalonica. In so many ways, the body of believers there was a model church. They cherished God’s word. They were people of faith and hope. They exhibited missionary zeal. However, just like us, they were human and, at times, vulnerable in their personal relationships.

Paul seems to have noticed that these followers of Jesus needed a little bit of help in this regard, so he writes to them with words of advice to guide them as they seek to serve God together. This advice is still helpful for us today.

Reading verses 12 to 14, we might assume that, at times, these Christians were tempted to be somewhat critical or, perhaps, occasionally unsupportive of their leaders. This is no way to repay those who ‘work hard among you’ and ‘care for you in the Lord’ (v12). Paul tells them that they should respect, value and live at peace with each other –including the leaders with whom they disagree.

To be honest, I am somewhat comforted that Paul needed to write these words to the Thessalonians. If you are anything like me, it’s not always easy to respect and value our spiritual leaders. Sometimes they make decisions I do not agree with, or simply do not see things as I do.

This is where my wise mother-in-law and Paul agree – relationship is all about giving. If our leaders are people who seek God, and in love give to us, then we must give back to them the qualities that Paul outlines.

Pause And Reflect

Do your leaders know that you respect, value and love them?

How might you show them this in the next week?

Paul’s advice continues in verses 16 to 18: ‘Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances.’ Does rejoicing mean that we always go around with a smile on our face and an upbeat Tigger-style bounce in our step? Does Paul really mean pray every hour God sends? Does he really mean that we need to be grateful for absolutely everything, including those things that hurt, defeat or frustrate us?

As I look at these verses, I must look back to chapter 4 in this letter to better understand what he means. In verses 13 to 18, we find him encouraging the believers to live in hope of the Resurrection. Because Christ was raised to life, those who believe in him do not have to ‘grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope’ (v13). Paul outlines a yet-to-befulfilled divine timetable, that shows that God has everything in hand. Culminating in being ‘with the Lord for ever’ (v17), a believer’s future is not bleak: it is hope-filled.

Paul knows that life is not always easy, but he is a great example of how to live in hope (see Acts 16:16–40).

Pause And Reflect

How might we find ways to rejoice always, pray continually and give thanks in all circumstances?

In your fellowship with other Christians, how do you remember God’s goodness and celebrate this together?

Finally, we turn to verses 19 to 24 of our study passage. Here, Paul calls us to love each other, to live at peace and to show this world how to live this way. We do this not in our own power, but we live in the presence and by the power of God’s Holy Spirit. We are blood and fire people.

As God’s fire burns, it brings energy and light. It transforms and fuels our vision and mission. Paul warns the Thessalonians –and each of us – not to be people who put out such fire.

Imagine a camping trip. The crackling wood fire is burning, giving the muchneeded warmth, and is ready for cooking a nourishing meal. Then someone throws a bucket of water over it and puts the fire out. Or, less dramatically, someone sits close to the fire and, slowly but continually, splashes the fire with small amounts of water. In time, the wood gets wet, the flames dwindle and the fire goes out.

Pause And Reflect

Are we holding on to what is good?

How can we enable God’s fire to keep burning?

Through our indifference and coldness, can we be guilty of quenching the fiery Spirit? In our fellowships, how might we repent of this and change so that we fan the flame (see 2 Timothy 1:6) rather than extinguish it?

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A Prayer Journey For Lent

by Captain Gary Lacey (Prayer Network)

SATURDAY 25 MARCH

‘The Lord our God said to us at Horeb, “You have stayed long enough at this mountain. Break camp and advance into the hill country of the Amorites”’ (Deuteronomy 1:6 and 7). What situation in your life have you focused on for too long? Lord, strengthen me to have the courage to ‘break camp’, to move on and to claim new ground in my life. Amen.

SUNDAY 26 MARCH

Make the words of this song your prayer: ‘I love you, Lord, and I lift my voice/ To worship you, O my soul rejoice./ Take joy, my King, in what you hear,/ May it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear’ (SASB 369).

MONDAY 27 MARCH

‘Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion’ (Isaiah 30:18). Are we offering this same compassion to others? Lord, thank you that you are a God of justice. I receive your compassion and grace, and I want to show that same grace and compassion to all those I come across. Amen.

TUESDAY 28 MARCH

‘I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions’ (Isaiah 43:25). Do you sometimes feel like your sin is greater than God’s forgiveness? Lord, I stand before you right now and declare that even though my sins are great, your forgiveness is greater! Forgive me, Lord, and blot out my sins. Amen.

WEDNESDAY 29 MARCH

‘For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence, for my hope is from him’ (Psalm 62:5 English Standard Version). Is your life so busy that you cannot seem to find any room for silence? Lord, I long to hear you. In the silence your presence intensifies. Help me, Lord, to build times of quality silence into my lifestyle. Amen.

THURSDAY 30 MARCH

‘I want to know Christ – yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead’ (Philippians 3:10 and 11). What things in your life do you feel need to die so that you may find new life and direction? Father, I want to know your vision for my life. Amen.

FRIDAY 31 MARCH

‘“Even now,” declares the Lord, “return to me with all your heart”’ (Joel 2:12). Thank you, Lord, because you are a God of second chances. ‘Even now’ I can come to you. This is the essence of the hope I have in you. Amen.

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