For Ricky, though, and for thousands of children like him – brought up in the care system because they are unable to stay with their birth parents – change isn’t something they have to deal with every now and again. It’s their default experience of life. Dr Krish Kandiah is a vocal advocate for Christians adopting and fostering, after he and his wife have done both. In episode 12 of The All Terrain Podcast he tells the story of a foster child who was so traumatised by the change in his family situation that, when he arrived to live with them, Krish could get no response from him at all. One hour of playing the video game Fifa with his sons, however, brought about a radical shift: ‘He just looked more comfortable in his own skin... He changed from being so locked in, so uncertain, so worried, so traumatised to thinking: “I’m going to be OK here. I can trust these people. They’re safe. They’re for me.”’ While this moment didn’t heal the boy’s trauma, it did help him know that others would be with him as he faced change. FACING CHANGE IN MATTHEW Matthew wrote to Messianic Jews in the city of Great Antioch in AD70, who had fled Jerusalem after the destruction of the Temple and massacre of the Jewish priesthood by the Roman guard. They believed the Messiah had already come in the person of Jesus, says Alexander John Shaia in his book Heart and Mind, but ‘their challenge lay in trying to understand what the Messiah expected
of them in the wake of the loss of the Temple, the priests and their accustomed rituals’. Matthew’s Gospel helps people experiencing such loss of familiarity, tradition or security to wrestle with the question: How do we face change? This theme can be seen in the story of Mary and Joseph. While Luke’s is the account that dominates the narrative of most Nativity plays, the second chapter of Matthew gives another perspective. In it, Joseph and Mary are already residents of Bethlehem, they are forced to flee and live as refugees in Egypt and, when they finally return to Israel, they settle in Nazareth. When Jesus comes into the lives of Mary and Joseph, everything familiar is taken away, and together they must have the courage to face change. We too must do the same. SEEING THE WORLD CHANGE Selina Stone is a tutor and lecturer in political theology at St Mellitus College. In episode 18 of the podcast, she admits that change makes her feel very uncomfortable because it means that she’s not in control. Yet she has trained herself to believe that good things happen when she’s not in control. Having worked to mobilise churches to engage politically and respond effectively to issues like youth violence, she recognises the irony that many of the changes she advocates will require her to sacrifice the comfort she craves. But her desire to follow Jesus means she is willing to face that discomfort. ‘A lot of Christians,’ she says, ‘are just not willing to admit they have more of a desire to be comfortable than to see the world change.’ Selina’s challenge prompts the question: If we resist change, prioritising our own comfort over addressing the pain and suffering that much of the world faces on a daily basis, are we truly disciples of Jesus or soldiers of The Salvation Army? WHO’S COMING WITH YOU? Guests on The All Terrain Podcast are invited to pick three people – one living, one dead, one
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fictional – to accompany them on their hypothetical hike. When life suddenly drops a bombshell, the discomfort we feel is eased for many of us by those who journey with us. Mary and Joseph had each other. So did Ricky and Hec. The people alongside us can encourage, inspire, energise and even challenge us, and we them, as we face change together. Those who are no longer with us, and even protagonists from great works of fiction, can help us figure out how to face change as we reflect on what they might have done in our situation. Are we ready to face change, even when it goes against our natural urges for comfort and familiarity? Will we be disciples of Jesus who embrace change, even if we recognise that, in doing so, suffering may be just around the corner?
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