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profile
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feature story
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women in business
Kathy Johnson has learned to
In looking for answers to help
Yuletide festivities abound in an
Four highly successful
dance in the rain and embrace life
their children, three San Antonio
historic King William home,
businesswomen have found success
to the fullest while carrying on
mothers have created amazing
where family and tradition
through believing in themselves, long
the family legacy and giving back
legacies that are reaching
rekindle holidays past.
hours of hard work, and creating
to San Antonio.
far beyond their families.
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a strong support system.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
42 Beauty Help for determining your skin care type and choosing the proper regimen.
44 Mommy Matters Family: What we need,
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122 Dining Outlaw Kitchens, a quaint, tasty and comfortable neighborhood bistro.
Health Dispelling the many misconceptions about sleep apnea.
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124-126 SA Eats
Active Living Documenting stories that can
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be passed down through the generations.
Role Model Kristi Wyatt brings a service mentality to communications.
118-121 Arts & Entertainment Local attractions,
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concerts and festivals celebrating
Guy to Know Matt Tumlinson reveals his artistic talents through unique and resourceful mediums.
107 Hill Country Woman Get to know the women behind three of New Braunfels swankiest shops.
San Antonio’s unique culture.
business 58
Spotlight on Susan Mengden, PhD,CEDS-s, on opening the Esperanza Eating Disorder Center.
lifestyle
Women on the Move
Fashion Hats, the accessory to complete
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your look this season.
Business Calendar
TRENDING
special sections 36
Holiday Gift Guide
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WINTER WREATHS
51 The Dossier Salons & Spas
66 Women in Business Directory
TRY SOMETHING NEW
Make your front door
New restaurants are
standout with a winter wreath. Try using
popping up around
natural elements
San Antonio offering
paired with crafty
delicious cuisines
accents including
from all over the
nuts, greenery, sticks
world. Perfect for a
with bows, tulle and ornaments. Wreaths
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Hill Country Eats
what we want and what we value.
stories
food
ADOPT A FURRY FRIEND
special date night or meet some friends
are a great way to
Rescuing a dog or cat is a great way to
for happy hour.
add cheer, welcoming
save a life while adding so much love to
Check out some of
everyone who comes
your own. Consider adopting from one
our favorite places in
to your door.
of San Antonio’s many animal shelters.
the SA Eats section.
CONTRIBUTORS
PAMELA V. MILLER Writer Pamela Miller is a freelance writer and mother of three navigating parenthood with a will to survive and double-shot latte in hand. In her former life, she was a banker turned military wife who’s lived all over the USA. Currently, she’s a mom trying to raise good people who lead happy lives and writes about it all at WineAndLavender.com. She has a BA in liberal arts with an emphasis in culture and media studies.
AL RENDON Photographer Al Rendon photographs San Antonio Woman’s At Home. “A room is four walls until someone moves in the first object.” My photographs use light to bring a home’s personality to life. When I raise the camera and focus on a room’s view, I am composing to express its owners’ personality in the best light.” He has had more than a dozen major solo exhibits, and his work is in such permanent collections as the National Portrait Gallery of the Smithsonian Institution and the National Museum of Mexican Art in Chicago. 10 SAWOMAN.COM
EDITOR’S LETTER
NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
Susan Thornton
SAN ANTONIO WOMAN EDITOR
San Antonio Woman magazine is celebrating 17 years! I am so proud to be one of the many people who has had a part in introducing you to some incredible women who are doing great things in our city. As the longest continually running magazine in San Antonio, we say Photography by Janet Rogers
“here’s to 17 more!” This anniversary issue has been so much fun to put together thanks to the amazing women we’re featuring. Our cover girl, Kathryn Mays Johnson (Kathy), President of the Mays Family Foundation, is an absolute ray of sunshine! Her infectious laugh and her half-full glass have been a true inspiration to me. Our feature story introduces you to three women who are sure to touch your hearts. Each of them had a child born with a disorder that sparked something in them to want to help others who had children with similar disorders. The work they have done has benefitted not only their children but has reached others far and wide. There are many other wonderful stories in this issue that I hope will inspire, encourage, and interest you. Be sure and check out our Holiday Gift Guide, maybe you'll get an idea for that hard to buy for person in your life! I encourage you to “shop local” and support those who support us. There are lots of fun places to go with your family and friends during the holiday season, check out our Entertainment section and Hill Country Happenings.
PUBLISHER J. Michael Gaffney EDITOR Susan Thornton FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR Aquila Mendez-Valdez GRAPHIC DESIGN Maria Jenicek ONLINE MEDIA Tuesday Shaw, Sophie Bauer CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Rudy Arispe, John Bloodsworth, Christie Cuthbert, Meredith Kay, Kristin Mears, Berit Mason, Pamela Miller, Jennifer O’Neill, Dawn Robinette, Tricia Schwennensen PHOTOGRAPHY Al Rendon, Jason Roberts, Janet Rogers, David Teran BUSINESS DEvELOPMENT & MARKETING Cindy Jennings, Patricia McGrath ADMINISTRATION & CUSTOMER SERvICE Nancy A. Gaffney INTERN Ana Gibbs PRINTING Shweiki Media, San Antonio, Texas EDITOR EMERITUS Beverly Purcell-Guerra
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WHAT’S NEW
PRESIDENT’S GALA ESTABLISHES ENDOWMENT IN CAREGIvING, HONORS KAREN AND RONALD HERRMANN On Saturday, September 21, UT Health San Antonio honored philanthropists Karen and Ronald Herrmann at the annual President’s Gala. Over $500,000 was raised, by the more than 1,800 guests in attendance, to establish the Karen and Ronald Herrmann Endowment for Research to Advance Excellence in Caregiving. The gala marked the 50th anniversary of the School of Nursing at UT Health San Antonio and its continued service to the South Texas community.
Clockwise from the top left: Rev. Robert Fuller stands with his wife Morgan Fuller, honorees Ronald Herrmann and Karen Herrmann, and Mary Henrich and President William L. Henrich, M.D., MACP. Ann Biggs visits with Rebecca Price. Founding School of Nursing faculty member Ruth Stewart (seated) visits with (standing) former faculty member Willie Hayek, Vicky Paparelli and John Paparelli. School of Nursing Dean Eileen T. Breslin, Ph.D., (left) visits with members of the Caring for the Caregiver program including Sheran Rivette, Sarah Masoud, Carole White, Ph.D., RN, FAAN, and Jennifer Brackett. Gala honorees Karen and Ronald Herrmann stand with Eileen T. Breslin, Ph.D., RN, FAAN, dean of the School of Nursing.
DOYLE BENTON CELEBRATES 60-YEARS AT HOLLYWOODCRAWFORD DOOR CO. With a reputation built on customer service and strengthened over decades, Doyle Benton’s legacy at HollywoodCrawford is poised. Benton began working at Hollywood-Crawford Door Company in 1959 as a garage door installer. Today, at age 83, he has spent four decades as owner of the company. He still comes in to help his son-in-law, company president Randy Oliver, and other family members working there to continue his tradition of growth and success. 14 SAWOMAN.COM
Built on the foundation that Doyle created over the years, the company has grown to employ approximately 50 dedicated team members, with revenues expected to exceed
$10,000,000 in 2019. Doyle’s hard work and vision helped Hollywood-Crawford open one of the largest garage door and garage door opener showrooms in the country in August 2018.
FRIENDS OF CHRISTUS SANTA ROSA FOUNDATION
(L-R) Barbara B. Gentry and John E. Bel with Beacon Award stained glass.
Father Gregory Boyle, S.J.
The Friends of CHRISTUS Santa Rosa Foundation (Friends Foundation) held its Ninth Annual National Speakers Luncheon where Barbara B. Gentry was honored with the Beacon Award and Father Gregory Boyle, S.J., was featured as the keynote speaker. Proceeds from the luncheon benefit programs supported by the Friends Foundation at CHRISTUS Santa Rosa Health System.
IMPACT-SA
DESIGN AMBASSADOR FOR THE SAN ANTONIO ST. JUDE DREAM HOME GIvEAWAY World-renowned interior design expert, entrepreneur and television host Michael Moloney is best known as the nine-season veteran of ABC’s Emmy award winning Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. Michael also owns two home furnishing and design stores, Le Garage in Redondo Beach, California and Maison Luxe in Manhattan Beach, California. Michael has always lent his time to philanthropic organizations, but the highlight for him has been his affiliation with St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Monday, October 28 was a magical night at the Mays Family Center! Members of Impact San Antonio exercised their important membership privilege and voted for the nonprofits receiving our five High Impact Grants. Women who care deeply about our community joined forces with 10 nonprofits that will leverage our members’ grant contributions to make a difference in the Greater San Antonio area. Congratulations to all of our grant recipients! We look forward to another year of Women Making a Difference as we remain #500Strong in 2020. The following nonprofit agencies are each recipients of $100,000 High Impact Grants from the generous membership of Impact San Antonio: Musical Bridges Around the World, Inc.- Musical Sprouts UTSA Alumni Assoc. - Fostering Success for Students with a History of Foster Care San Antonio Mennonite Church – The Peace Building Guardian House – Critical Capital Improvement to Enhance Programs House of Neighborly Service – Comida y Comunidad, Kitchen Improvements for Westside Neighbors NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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PROFILE
Kathy Mays Johnson
LEARNING LIFE LESSONS & DAnCInG In THE RAIn
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By Dawn Robinette Photography by Jason Roberts
With a focus on making the best of whatever life throws your way, Kathy Mays Johnson gives back to San Antonio with heart and passion. A woman of clear passions, Kathy Mays Johnson lives life to the fullest, laughing, loving and giving of herself to her family, friends and community. The President of the Mays Family Foundation, Johnson embraces life to the fullest, guiding the foundation to make community impact and carry on the family legacy. Johnson’s heart for community service began as a child and blossomed in college. That commitment to giving back and helping others was fostered by her parents, as well as her grandparents, who led by example. With that road map, the family stays mindful of their civic duties and need to support those in need, making the foundation part of the family legacy, helping support causes that aid, empower, enrich and educate.
“Our mission statement is to support the communities in which we live through causes that empower and educate. It’s broad, and yet it’s specific because it’s mostly about San Antonio and strengthening this community,” she explains.
President of the Mays Family Foundation, Kathryn Mays is pictured with her parents and siblings, (l to r) Mark Mays, Randall Mays, Linda Mays McCaul, Peggy Mays, Kathryn Mays Johnson and Lester Lowry Mays.
called Lynch Syndrome that predisposes her to cancer. Her mother
The foundation does not directly fund
carries the same mutation but her
medical research, instead focusing on
daughter, Paige, a junior at Texas A&M,
facilities to increase the availability of
by the grace of God, does not. “I don’t know that I’ve ever read a
started. Clinical trials are part of that.”
Johnson had her first tumor removed
treatment across San Antonio and South Texas. In spite of her personal challenge
bad proposal. In some way, shape or
at the age of 38 and she’s been battling
with the disease, Johnson looks at life
form, it’s always helping somebody or
cancer ever since. She’s in a clinical trial
sunny side up. “I have a very deep faith.
now in hopes of making strides against
I like to wake up and tell God, ‘Thanks
the thyroid cancer she’s working to
for giving me another day.’
something.” The Mays Family Foundation’s commitment to medical causes centers
manage. “It goes to show the
on cancer, a disease that continues to
importance of the funding behind all of
“Life is what you make it. I’m a big believer in learning how to dance in the
touch the family. Both of her parents
this. Five years ago, very few knew what
rain rather than trying to avoid it. In the
have had cancer. Her youngest brother
immunotherapy was, but now it’s part of
bigger picture, it’s really an important
has also had cancer. Johnson herself is
most serious cancer treatments.
skill to be able to be inspired by
living with a rare form of follicular thyroid
Science has a tendency to catch up
anything that you happen to be hit with
cancer and carries a gene mutation
and in so many ways, it’s just getting
that day.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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PROFILE In addition to her role with the Mays Family Foundation, Johnson currently serves on the Advisory Board of the SMU School of Journalism, the Board of Trustees of the United Way and the Board of Governors of the Mays Cancer Center. The list of boards and organizations she’s served in San Antonio is broad, touching every corner of the city. “I’ve had enlightening moments through my life that have led me to where I am. From being a Big Sister back in college, to volunteering with my sorority, to working for a non-profit when I got out of college, it’s all connected. I feel like God placed me there because he wanted me to learn,” she explains. Her commitment to giving back includes having served as the Chairman of the Board and President of the Charity Ball Association, as well as the Advisory Board of Texans CAN; President of the Cancer Center Council (CTRC); President of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation; President of Young Art Patrons (SAMA); the Advisory Board of the Animal Defense League; the Blue Ribbon Committee of the Girl Scouts; the Advisory Board of the Cancer Center Council; Family Service
The Johnson’s spend all of their spare time at the family ranch in Spring Branch. Pictured here are Bill, Kathy and their daughter, Paige.
Association; Task Force to Strengthen the United Way; Big Brothers Big Sisters
give where you know it can truly make a
before what ultimately became Clear
and the San Antonio Public Library.
difference. You have to weigh the grants
Channel really took off. The company
and assess the impact, ensure the
had stations that broadcasted to New
funds go where they’re needed most.
Yrok City and like everyone else,
Mays Family Foundation, I made a
There are a million different needs. It’s
wanted to help.
conscious decision to step back
funding the right need that can make
because I felt a conflict of interest. I
the most impact at the time.”
“I’ve worked with amazing organizations. But when we started the
wanted to be detached from
Nothing illustrates that concept
“We talked to the Red Cross and found out that the fire department needed boots. The rubble was hot,
organizations so that everyone was
more than a story she shares from 9-
melting the soles of their boots. They
equal. I couldn’t be involved with
11. Before the foundation was
needed more boots and they needed lots
everyone and didn’t want it to appear
established, Johnson’s career included
of them. So that’s how we helped, we
that we were only supporting groups
25 years at Clear Channel
bought them the equipment they needed.
where we had personal involvement.
Communications, the family business
“Who would have thought? In the
She and the foundation take their
that began when someone defaulted
midst of all that was happening, they
grants seriously. “It’s hard giving money
on a loan and Lowry Mays ended up
needed boots. I think it shows that you
away. You want to be fair, you want to
owning a radio station. It took years
don’t always know what someone
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needs. It’s not so simple, and yet it is,” Johnson recalls. That thread of answering a
as the Development Director for Big Brother and Sisters
community need is key to what the
before joining the
foundation does. The Mays Family
family business,
foundation has awarded more than
progressing through
$170 million in grants thus far. “It’s a
Clear Channel
real tribute to my parents and their
Communications.
belief in giving back to the community,”
“I had a career,
she notes. “Serving others is just part
for 25 years at
of the footpath of their lives. My
Clear Channel,
father’s father died when he was
working my way up.
young. At the time, someone from the
I was in the office
YMCA gave him a gold coin and said,
30 minutes before
‘You know, you’re welcome here every
anyone else and 30
Kathy has had an affinity for quilts since she began collecting them during her college years at SMU.
day of your life.’ It was a wonderful
minutes after
thing for him to have a safe place at
everyone left. Not only was I a woman, I
Every person that you meet who comes
that age that fueled him to wanting to
was the boss’s daughter. I had to do
into your path has something to teach
give other children that same
more to prove myself.
you. You may not know what it is at that
opportunity.” “And my mother is from San Antonio.
“Women, especially in the early days,
moment. You may not know for 20
had to work twice as hard to get the
years. But then the light bulb goes off
Back in those days, everyone was
same respect as men. They still do. It’s
and you realize the lesson.”
community oriented. You knew your
just the way the world is.
neighbors and you helped people. I can remember her chairing fundraisers and all of us kids rolling silverware, and playing a role in the process of the fundraiser.” For people who think of the size and scope of what became Clear Channel Communications, that may sound strange. “That first radio station sparked a passion for dad, but it took a long
who Johnson is. “It doesn’t matter where you go in life, what you do or
“But I think women have made great strides. I would tell a young woman, you’re just as strong as a young man. Every person is unique in and of themselves and you have strengths you don’t even realize that you have.”
laughing from the moment I met him
At this stage in her life, Johnson is
sees the positive in life and he’s been
time. It didn’t just happen overnight.” And even when business truly took-
Valuing people, not things, is key to
how much you have. It’s who you have beside you. It’s about people more than anything else,” she says. For Johnson, that includes a network of friends, her close knit family, her beloved daughter Paige and her husband of 34 years, Bill. “He kept me and I haven’t stopped laughing. He just
off, nothing was handed to Johnson.
inspired by a friend’s perspective. He
“My parents instilled an incredible work
told her, “I’m at a point in my life where I
ethic in me. I worked every single
am doing the things I want to do and
Johnson reflects on her grandfather’s
summer from the time I was 16. It’s how
not the things I think I need to do.”
adage, “‘Life really ought to be lived
my parents grew up and how we grew
“For all of the wonderful advice and
very good for me in that sense.” When it comes to life lessons,
backwards.’ Isn’t that great? You
guidance I’ve received over the years
would know exactly how to live it,
You don’t learn the value of a dollar until
that has really resonated with me. It
what was important, what you need
you work to earn a dollar.
helped me realize that there are things I
to spend your time on, what you
want to do now. I’ve already done most
didn’t need to waste your time on – all
of the things I need to do in this life.”
those things. I love life lessons, but
up. It’s how my daughter is growing up.
“And until you work from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m., you truly don’t know what it’s like to work. I think those are good lessons for young people.” In Johnson’s case, after college, she began her San Antonio career working
She now treasures the time she has
you have to learn them yourself. You
to connect with others. “Relationships
can be told a life lesson, and my
are so special because you’re learning
daughter can attest to that, but It
from every single person you meet.
doesn’t sink in until you live it.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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FEATURE STORY
FROM DISABILITIES TO
Possibilities By Meredith Kay Photography by Jason Roberts
Everyone has a story, and every single one of us will struggle with something in our lifetimes. Character is built by how we handle our challenging situations, and mothers have the strongest character of all when they are fighting for their children. These three incredible women have created something amazing out of their struggles, and their legacies will be built on the positive changes they have made within their own families, within their communities, and to those around the world.
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Cindy Boynton Becoming an adult is an exciting and challenging time for most individuals, as
"It is the curriculum that makes the program succeed. Our teachers are amazing, and are the key to the success of our students.”
Antonio. This poses a challenge for
that, with the support of her husband
families with loved ones who have IDD
Bryan, she began to develop a program
we mature and decide where our path
because there is often no one to care
that provides a safe and stimulating
in life is going to take us. It is full of
for them during the day when other
environment where adult students can
possibilities and opportunities, and we
family members are working. However,
continue to grow academically,
are free to venture out on our own to
one dynamic woman is striving to
physically, creatively and socially.
pursue interests and relationships that
change this situation in San Antonio
The SA Life Academy opened in
will shape the course of our lives.
with the SA Life Academy, a program
2017 at St. Andrew’s United Methodist
However, for individuals with intellectual
that offers partial day continuing
Church in Alamo Heights with 12
and developmental disabilities (IDD), the
education for individuals with IDD.
students. Today the program serves 40
options that the rest of us take for granted are often limited. According to a 2018 study funded by the Kronkosky Charitable Foundation
Cindy Boynton grew up in Houston
students throughout the week and
and has a Master’s degree in Special
employs two full-time special ed
Education from the University of
teachers and several adjunct specialists
Houston. She is a mother of three and a
that teach life-enriching skills. Classes
on behalf of Autism Lifeline Links, an
grandmother of two, but it was her son,
are kept small, and students learn
estimated 21,600 adults in Bexar
Drew, now 25, who inspired her to
various life skills like relationship
County have autism or an IDD. In
envision and create the SA Life
building, expressive creativity,
addition, only 10% of these individuals
Academy. Drew was born with Down
academics that focus on skills,
were receiving formal service
Syndrome and diagnosed with autism in
knowledge and social behaviors,
coordination through the Alamo Area
9th grade. When he aged out of the
community involvement, and health and
Council of Governments as of last year.
system, Cindy realized that his options
wellness.
Individuals with special needs age out of
for continued education as an adult
Cindy states, "It is the curriculum
the public-school system at the age of
were scarce. It was through her
that makes the program succeed. Our
22 years and the options for continuing
research into available options in San
teachers are amazing, and they are the
education are very limited in San
Antonio, and other Texas communities,
key to the success of our students.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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FEATURE STORY The mission of the SA Life Academy is to provide exceptional learning opportunities to help individuals with IDD live full and active lives. The vision
chromosome is actually affected, it
the world focused on conducting
makes some conditions extremely rare.
research relating to chromosome 18
Such is the case with conditions
abnormalities and developing treatment
resulting from Chromosome 18
and intervention options that can help
of the SA Life Academy is that they may
abnormalities which has become the
people with this condition live healthy
live meaningful and purposeful lives in
life’s work of Dr. Jannine Cody. The
and productive lives.
the community. Cindy, along with her
Chromosome 18 Clinical Research
exceptional staff, is definitely making a
Center, at the UT Health Science Center,
not typical with her second daughter,
difference in the lives of individuals with
is the only laboratory research center in
Elizabeth, from birth. She was born with
Dr. Cody realized that something was
IDD and their families. The program continues to grow and will be adding another class in January 2020. The Academy relies heavily on donations and grant funding. Thanks to the commitment of Cindy Boynton and her dedicated staff at the SA Life Academy, individuals with IDD now have options as they grow into adulthood here in San Antonio. These individuals now have a unique and safe environment where they can learn and grow and enjoy a community of other individuals just like them, and they can do life together.
Dr. Jannine Cody The human body, when correctly developed, contains 23 pairs of chromosomes in each cell. Each chromosome determines our DNA; who we are, how we look, and how we are wired. However, in nature, sometimes things aren't perfect, and some individuals are born with chromosome abnormalities that affect development and basic human function. Less than one-half of one percent of all live births are affected by chromosome abnormalities and when you break down these abnormalities by which 22 SAWOMAN.COM
The Chromosome 18 Registry & Research Society, started with Dr. Jannine Cody to provide support, information and funding for research
a cleft palate, cleft lip, and her feet curved inward. Chromosome analysis revealed that Liz had a deletion of the end of the long arm of chromosome 18, called the 18q- syndrome. She had several surgeries, and when she was two years old, it was determined that Liz was not growing correctly and ranked below 3% on the growth charts. She was diagnosed with a growth hormone deficiency and had to undergo shots to help her grow. Cody was living in Witchita Falls at the time with her husband and her older daughter, Catherine. The doctor who administered the test handed her a page copied from a medical textbook that described patients with the 18qsyndrome. It was disheartening and
Jennifer England Allen
frightening, and Jannine went into fierce
and access research about
mama bear mode to find out all she
chromosome 18 abnormalities.
could about Liz’s chromosome
Starting as a "support group," today,
special needs, there is that “aha”
abnormality. Luckily, her husband was in
there are over 4,000 individuals
moment when we realize that our child
For parents of children who have
the Air Force, and the family would soon
registered. Families who want to
is, in fact, different, and that we will
move to San Antonio, where Liz would
participate in the clinical studies must
need to make accommodations,
have access to some of the best
provide a blood sample. One aspect of
research resources and adjust our
doctors in the country at Wilford Hall
the study can involve assessments by
expectations of what we thought life
Medical Center.
numerous medical specialists in San
would be like.
It was in San Antonio that Cody
Antonio. Since 1993, the Clinical
For one San Antonio mother, that
enrolled in the Ph.D. program at the
Research Center has enrolled almost
moment came when her son, Sam,
University of Texas Health Science
700 study participants.
was nine years old. Jennifer Allen
Center. She had previously earned her
The Chromosome 18 Registry &
recalls how her younger son, Charlie,
Research Society hosts an annual
ran into the house to tell his mother
in Biology from the University of Iowa.
conference for families, researchers,
that the neighbor boys were throwing
She graduated in 1997 and is now a
and doctors to learn more about the
rocks at Sam, and that he was just
professor in the Department of
latest findings and treatments for the
standing there, allowing it to happen
Pediatrics at the UT Health Science
resulting conditions that stem from a
without trying to defend himself or run
Center. Dr. Cody’s created the
chromosome 18 abnormality. The
away. When Jennifer ran outside to get
Chromosome 18 Registry and
conference is held in various cities
Sam, she realized that something “not
B.S. in General Science and her M.S.
Research Society. After meeting the
across the U.S and is held in San
right” about Sam’s lack of response.
parent of another child who also had
Antonio every four years. Dr. Cody’s
Doctors dismissed Jennifer’s concern
18q- syndrome in 1990, she began to
tireless devotion to her research and
and told her that there was nothing
wonder how many other children also
the individuals that it affects will
wrong with Sam. But through her
had this particular abnormality, and
become a unique legacy for a mom
tenacity, Jennifer found a doctor who
she wanted to put together a group
who just wanted some answers and
labeled Sam with a diagnosis of
where families from around the world
some hope that her daughter could
autism, and Asperger Syndrome.
could come together to get information
have a better life.
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FEATURE STORY Syndrome have average to aboveaverage intelligence and do not have
“I’m honored and exhilarated that we can help change the way that people view others with autism.”
the language problems typical of those diagnosed with autism. Individuals struggling with Asperger Syndrome will usually demonstrate difficulty interacting with others socially and repeat behaviors. Currently, the diagnostic manual used by the medical community to identify and define the level of autistic neurological deficit does not recognize Asperger Syndrome as a separate diagnosis, but, it places the symptoms on the Autism Spectrum as high functioning. Jennifer, a dynamic and enthusiastic force of energy describes her history as a broadcaster, a concerned parent, and, ultimately, an activist. A graduate of Abilene Christian College, she started her career in West Texas, as a news anchor, and then as a producer. She moved to San Antonio with her husband, Herb, and gave up her career to take care of her boys full time, trying
driver who may have a condition that
where there are deficits, and we are
desperately to find information and
may be misconstrued as uncooperative
striving to change the mindset of what
resources for Sam. Unable to find
when stopped and questioned. They
people believe autism to be.”
answers, Jennifer created a resource
have also effected a change in the way
that other parents were looking for, the
that officers are trained. Peace officers
Aspergers101.org has become a goto resource for families looking for
Aspergers101 organization and website
will now undergo specialized training on
answers and looking for hope for their
in 2014. This non-profit program
how to handle a driver with a
loved ones diagnosed with Autism and
assembles the most up-to-date, daily
communication impediment, creating a
Asperger Syndrome. Jennifer's tireless
information about Asperger Syndrome
safer and less stressful situation for
work with Sam will have a positive
from autism experts and doctors
everyone involved.
committed to helping these individuals live their best lives. Jennifer and Sam have, most
At a recent press conference at the state capitol, Samuel stated, “As a person diagnosed with Autism, I have
impact on many drivers for many years to come. Mothers are the strongest individuals on the planet. We will do anything to
recently, been the leading force behind
faced challenges. These challenges
protect our children. It is our job to
legislation that went into effect in
don’t affect my driving, but they could
nurture them through childhood and
September. The Samuel Allen Law
be misinterpreted by a police officer
prepare them for a challenging world as
provides a restriction designation on all
during a traffic stop.”
adults, but we will face many
Texas drivers' licenses for individuals
When asked how it feels to be such
with a "communication impediment."
a pioneer in championing the needs of
uncertainties along the way. It is how we embrace and handle these challenges
This designation will also be visible in
people like Sam, Jennifer states, “I’m
that shape not only ourselves and the
the Texas Law Enforcement
honored and exhilarated that we can
lives of our children, but the ability to
Telecommunication System and will
help change the way that people view
effect a positive change for others who
alert officers when they encounter a
others with autism. There are gifts
may be struggling as well.
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AT HOME
By John Bloodsworth Photography by Al Rendon
A modified Greek Revival raised cottage in the King William Historic District, Maria and Fred Pfeiffer’s home, was built for Gustav Blersch, a German immigrant, importer and retail dealer in 1860. But the home has nurtured Maria’s family members for over 115 years from its original half-basement kitchen to its deep front veranda. The wide front porch steps lead to the original front door and surround with panels of wheel-cut glass that are frosted and etched with vine and floral patterns. Opening to a central hallway – with a ceiling height of thirteen feet – that extends the depth of the house, allowing breezes to cool the rooms on either side of the hall. In 1871, a two-story rear wing was added, and a bay window extended the original dining room that now is the main living room where the stately Tannenbaum radiates light adorned with vintage glass ornaments. Nestled under the tree, Maria’s diminutive rocking chair holds Ted, her toy teddy bear, with hobbyhorse Go-Go and vintage toy train adding mirth to the holiday decor. Almost all of the furnishings in their home came from the stately King William home of her great-grandparents, Hulda and Carl Groos. When asked about a particularly grand marble-topped table
Massive limestone blocks give the downstairs study an air of hill country sophistication where a deer mount and well-worn leather reading chair say Christmas – Texas-style.
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or framed portrait, Maria replies with a chuckle, "Oh, it's always been here!"
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AT HOME
The Eastlake settee, corner chairs, marbletopped side tables, and platform rocker all bear the same furniture maker's mark. "When my great-grandmother moved into the big house on King William Street, she had quite a few rooms to fill, and many of the pieces were purchased at the same time," said Maria. On the piano that was purchased by her grandparents for her mother, Elsa Watson, is a display of Christmas figures collected over generations. Maria’s father Bill was quite the performer and “would play at the drop of a hat,” she recalled.
Above: A Victorian setting brings the holiday spirit to the formal living room where a collection of vintage ornaments adorns the Christmas tree. Garlands flank the mantle as a fire warms the room for family and friends who will gather for a German holiday celebration. At left: An original gas light and electric brass chandelier featuring a bust of the philosopher Homer illuminates the dashing portrait of Maria’s grandfather Dr. Julius Buss. 28 SAWOMAN.COM
AT HOME
The formal dining room boasts a massive oak table with its original set of dining chairs, also from the King William Street home, that can seat up to fourteen guests. Maria’s mother would say, “Let’s have gracious living. Light the candles and dine at the big table.” Most of the time, the family would enjoy a delicious meal around the kitchen table.
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Top: A Victorian floor-length pier mirror centers the formal dining room set for a holiday celebration. Above left: Vintage St. Nick emerges from a forest of Christmas trees on the edge of a small German village display in the entry hall. Above right: Christmas angels are a staple when it comes to Christmas decorations in many German households. Oftentimes families don’t have just one or two, but an entire “parade” that is put up every year during the holidays.
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Resplendent with glass ornaments of every shape and color, the Christmas tree is set in the front window of the formal living room for the enjoyment of family and friends and to let those who pass by know that the holidays have begun. Vintage toys from Maria’s childhood hold special Christmas memories.
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AT HOME A small staircase added in 1871 (when the back wing was added to the home) leads downstairs to the half-basement and the original kitchen. Adapted for modern living, a built-in bookcase holds cookbooks and a display of vintage meat grinders. A granite-clad worktable is at the heart of holiday culinary activities. This is where the famous holiday Herring Salad is prepared each year with family and friends around the kitchen table. Cousins still come to town and old friends volunteer to chop ingredients and filet herring for the German delicacy. In a walk-in pantry, a legion of antique crockery bowls stand at the ready to be filled with tart chopped apples, eggs, beets, veal roast, and fresh pickled herring. “My mother would make it with all of the old German aunts and cousins,” remembers Maria. “It was a special dish that was served on Christmas Eve.” A door off of the basement kitchen leads to a stone porch that runs the length of the house, exposing the great limestone blocks that support the structure. Maria reflected, "It is an interesting view of the world from about four feet under," as she gazed across her front lawn with the grand oak trees beginning to send a cascade of autumn leaves across Washington Street. It is almost time to prepare the herring for another holiday. Schöne Feiertage! Top photo: A collection of Santas is displayed on a tabletop in the sitting room that was once Maria’s childhood bedroom. Bottom photo: A plate of Christmas cookies await the arrival of family and friends that will soon gather in the kitchen to begin preparations of the traditional Herring Salad that has been served at holiday gatherings for generations. 34 SAWOMAN.COM
Holiday G This Texas Straight Bourbon is the perfect holiday gift – available in Boot Flask-shaped bottles that fit inside a stocking.
Garrison Brothers garrisonbros.com
A gift that makes scents...home fragrances in Fortuny-wrapped bottle by Splendor Collections. Ooo-la-la!
Frosted Home 4940 Broadway, Suite 101
210-386-0014 frosted-home.business.site
Have someone on your list that’s hard to buy for? A gift card from Bygones makes a fantastic gift for any occasion.
Bygones of Castle Hills 2211 nW Military #107
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Twin Liquors Wheatley & Soda Cocktail Combo Pack $19.99. Includes Wheatley Vodka 750ml, & Q Club Soda 4 pack
Spanx: Extensive collection of faux leather leggings in black, wine, grey camo, snakeskin and more!
Scout & Molly’s Twin Liquors
280 E. Basse Rd., Ste 107
Order at: twinliquors.com
210-598-0067 scoutandmollys.com/quarry-village
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Gift Guide Aria Cascade Ring in 18k rose gold with 3.50 carats of natural diamonds.
Moretti’s Fine Jewelry 14230 San Pedro Avenue
210-493-8080 morettis.com
Vintage Cocktail Glasses, set of 8 – $225
Joanna’s Market at Signor Vineyards 362 Livesay Lane Fredericksburg, TX 78624
830-304-7446 signorvineyards.com
“Amistad Salvia” by Kim Collins, acrylic on canvas, 40” x 30”.
Art Gallery Prudencia 2518 n. Main Avenue
210-422-8681 prudenciagallery.com
The perfect stocking stuffer... an exquisite vintage platinum, emerald and diamond ring.
The perfect holiday bangle stack by Jude Frances Jewelry. Give her the gift that will never go out of style.
J. Adelman Antiques, Art & Estate Jewelry
Shetler Fine Jewelers
202 Alamo Plaza, San Antonio, TX 78205
7373 Broadway, Suite 106 San Antonio, TX 78209
210-225-5914
210-826-0660
adelmanantiques.com
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Holiday Gift Guide For your favorite little Texan- Lovingly Handcrafted all leather boots. Sizes 1-7
Angelita In Historic La Villita
418 Villita, Building #2
210-224-8362 Happy Holidays from The Twig Book Shop! Abundant books for all your gift-giving needs. Childrens, bestsellers, Texas-related titles, and gifts. Striving to create community around the written word.
The Twig Book Shop 306 Pearl Parkway, Ste. 106
210-826-6411
Urban Air Gift Card Special: $100 gift card for $50, Black Friday week only. Park North and NE San Antonio Urban Air.
Urban Air Adventure Park 8490 Fourwinds Dr., Suite 8510A
thetwig.com
210-245-4321 Park north Shopping Center 618 nW Loop 410
210-245-4320
UrbanAirtrampolinepark.com
With flavors of Citrus, Honey and Mint, Seersucker Gin makes it easy to serve the perfect Holiday cocktails.
Seersucker Gin Available at any local liquor store. Seersuckergin.com
Three year membership to Texas Dove Hunters Association, includes gun case and six issues of Texas Dove Hunters magazine.
Texas Dove Hunters Association 900 nE Loop 410, Suite D213 San Antonio, TX 78209 TexasDoveHunters.com
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FASHION
By Aquila Mendez-Valdez
The coolest looks for your cranium Hats are oftentimes a deeply personal shopping experience. Not everyone thinks they can pull them off, and it’s often a very specific style that one grows to love on their particular face and frame. While Texas can be casual enough to sport a baseball cap to school or a cowboy hat to the rodeo, there’s a chic new crop of caps that hit the runways this fall and would be the perfect fit for a fun night out or lunchtime meanderings. 40 SAWOMAN.COM
The Carmen San Diego Suede or wool fedoras dipped over one eye will be seen everywhere this season, with options like this Eugenia Kim model adding a touch of glamour with a ruched ribbon. Pair with a sleek cape jacket and faux leather leggings as the weather cools. I’d even venture to add a pair of riding boots and channel your inner English duchess. Regardless, a Panama hat or fedora is a classic look that will simply never go out of style.
The Bucket Believe it or not, the ‘90’s are back, and with them have come a slew of bucket hat styles that look retro without being outdated. Switching up the materials in favor of leather, velvet, or utilizing unexpected colors means designers are feeling freshly inspired by this silhouette. Avoid an LL Cool J moment and pair with feminine pant suits or layered sundresses with fitted t-shirts. Whereas last Fall we saw berets all over Instagram, the bucket hats seems to have knocked them off their throne this season.
The Whimsical Statement pieces don’t have to be relegated to simply jewelry or handbags; hats can also provide the extra oomph to any outfit. This Gucci beanie would be a simple knit option, but the added silk scarf brings it into 2019 and the realm of cool. Pair with a trench coat, booties, and light fabrics elsewhere to keep the style fresh and new. Logo baseball caps and unexpected finishes like rockstuds, clever embroidered phrases, and over the top fur have also been seen on the runway, meaning the rules are: there are no rules. Of course, the added bonus to hats is removing the need to do one’s hair for an event, and the essential luxury of anonymity with the addition of sunnies or a scarf. Mix in a few of these options with your fall wardrobe and you’ll be cozy while looking cool. NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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BEAUTY
Pu ZZl iNG PoR e S
What skin type am I? By Aquila Mendez-Valdez
Most women are aware there are three different types of skin: dry, oily, and combination. Most have probably heard of the “T Zone” where oil tends to percolate if you have that issue. But if a dermatologist sits you down and asks, “What type of skin do you have?” are you confident in your answer? Or are you kind of just guessing like everybody else? We did a deep dive into the ways to tell the type of skin you have, and then a few products you can try to remedy any maladies.
Dry If you’re glancing up close at your skin and can see fine lines and wrinkles, chances are your skin is thirsty for moisture. It doesn’t matter if you’re 20 or 92, moisturizing is essential to any skincare routine. Just as the oily skin types, make sure your cleanser isn’t stripping your skin, but then you absolutely must invest in a high quality night cream for maximum hydration. Colleen Rothschild’s cult favorite intense hydrating mask is an excellent option, and can be used overnight for particularly dry skin. The clean scent is delightful, and you can feel good knowing you’re supporting a Texas-based brand! 42 SAWOMAN.COM
Oily If you have oily skin, you’ll normally see a shine to your skin by lunchtime most days. You’ll notice this oil tending to gather in that dreaded “T Zone”, the area forming a “T” if you draw a horizontal line across your forehead and a vertical line from your nose to your chin. Your cheeks can also become oily at times, depending on environmental and hormonal factors. If you have oily skin, investing in a gentle cleanser is key. Contrary to popular belief, face oil or oil-based cleansers do not automatically add oil to your face in a negative way, and foaming cleansers can often be too harsh. These strip away necessary moisture from your skin and cause your pores to continue OVER-producing oil to make up the difference. Not good. Opt for a rebalancing cleanser like Tula’s Purifying cleanser that contains tons of probiotics to rehydrate and nourish stressed-out pores.
Combination It goes without saying, but combination skin is probably your type if you notice an oily chin but dry cheeks. Or if you notice acne breakouts due to hormones but still need extra moisture for fine lines and wrinkles. Combination skin can make you feel like you’re stuck in the middle, but multi-masking should be your new best friend. In other words, use one mask for the oily or troubled section of your skin, and another mask to target fine lines and wrinkles as needed. You can apply both at the same time in a sort of patchwork across your face, but you’ll notice the difference when your skin is getting what it needs, where it needs it! Try Boscia’s Charcoal Pore Pudding for areas where skin needs to detoxify, and Valmont’s Prime Renewing Pack where anti-aging and hydration is the biggest concern. Your dermatologist can also recommend specific products for your individual skin type, and it’s never guaranteed that your skin needs won’t change over time. Stress, hormones, diet, and environment all play a role in how our body’s largest organ functions, so take the time to pay attention to your skin and how you can help it look its best! NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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MOMMY MATTERS
By Pamela V. Miller
Does everyone at your child's school have a smartphone, too? Our eldest insists that she's the only 10-year-old in San Antonio that doesn't have one. While I can agree that smartphones have become central to our society and serve many practical uses, I cannot ignore that they also present several dangers. More important, I cannot accept the "everyone else has one" argument as a valid reason for getting one. Despite what society (and great marketing) tells us, we don't need to have what everyone else has, and we're not entitled to it, either. 44 SAWOMAN.COM
eaching our children the value of working hard to earn things has come hand in hand with what we
What does your family value? Experiences, Education, Time Spent Together?
value as a family and how we choose to spend our money. Things that hold real value for our family are experiences, time spent together, education, and anything that will improve the quality of life for us all. We're happy to spend our money on the things we value, but when our children approach us about the personal items that they want, we like to examine the cost vs. the reward to us as a whole.
We’ve broken it down into three categories:
WHAT WE NEED WHAT WE WANT WHAT WE VALUE Just as adults budget for what’s needed (i.e. shelter, food, utilities), what’s wanted (i.e. cable, smart devices, and other “nice to have” things) and what’s valued (time with family, experiences together, education, etc.) our children also need to recognize the
and it’s not easy for them to earn the
she wants. She’ll also need to show
value of their time and money. The
things they want since these gadgets
tremendous effort in her schoolwork to
things we invest in as a family should fall
are so expensive. It requires a lot more
reach her goal.
within at least two of these three
than just mowing the neighbor’s lawn for
categories, and if it is a personal want
a month to make those funds, so how
Over time, a combination of the two
that brings no value to our family (i.e.,
does a 10-year-old child earn that kind
might help her to reach her goal, and
gadgets), it needs to be earned. This
of money?
better yet, it will instill a sense of pride
Our family turns back to our values. We
the value of a dollar, and she'll learn to
thought process allows us to make decisions as a family, learn how to earn
and responsibility. She'll come to realize
what we want, and is an excellent tool
value effort and education, so we are
take better care of the things she has
in sidestepping a sense of entitlement.
willing to reward them for it because it
(because who wants to go through all of
improves the overall quality of our lives.
that to get another phone?). There are
Since we’ve implemented this train of
To earn such a high-priced item, our
so many valuable lessons learned in this
thought when making purchases, our
daughter will need to show personal
one transaction. It becomes a win-win
kids are learning fast that keeping up
strength and restraint. Instead of buying
on all parenting fronts.
with the Jones' in this day in age is
the small things that she likes, she’ll
almost impossible for those living on a
need to have patience and save her
By not just giving them what they
modest budget. Times have changed,
money over time for the big thing that
want, we are preparing them for life. continued on page 47 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital
St. Jude’s has a history of taking on many of the most difficult and underserved pediatric diseases for nearly 60 years. Located in Memphis, Tennessee, it is one of the
Raises
world's premier pediatric cancer research centers. Founded in 1962 by Danny Thomas, the mission of St. Jude's is to find cures for children with cancer and other catastrophic diseases through research and treatment. No child is denied treatment based on a family's ability to pay, all familys are treated with the same level of exceptional care. The
Funds
hospital still follows Thomas’ belief that "no child should die in the dawn of life." St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital developed a combination therapy for children with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL), the most common form of childhood cancer.
Through
This therapy revolutionized leukemia therapy worldwide and increased the survival rate from 4 percent in 1962 to 94 percent today. Through extensive research, doctors have had hundreds of breakthroughs helping them develop treatments that have pushed the
Dreamhouse Giveaway
overall survival rate for childhood cancer to more than 80 percent. Families never receive a bill from St. Jude’s for treatment, housing or food- because “all a family should worry about is helping their child live.” The majority of funding for the research hospital comes from individual contributions. Another innovative and successful way to raise support, thanks to hundreds of sponsors, is through their Dream Home Give-Aways. The 6th Annual San Antonio St Jude Dream Home Giveaway is on November 21. Only 1,000 tickets will be sold for a chance to win a brand-new home valued at $725,000 or many other fantastic prizes. Tickets are $100. The best part is that your $100 is going directly to help children and families. No place in the world does for children what St. Jude’s Research Hospital does. St. Jude pledges that it won’t stop until no child dies from cancer.
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MOMMY MATTERS continued from page 45
We’re helping them learn to deal with struggle and accept that nothing in this life will come easy to them without hard work. Along the way, they'll also learn patience, persistence, and they’ll get to experience the euphoria that accompanies getting something they've worked so hard to earn. It may even help them to be more grateful for the things they have. These lessons are much more valuable gifts to give than a soon-to-be outdated iPhone. In the meantime, with the money we’ve saved on overpriced gadgets or toys, we’ll get to create more memories with our children. For the same price as a new gadget, we can buy a weekend away. We'll be able to have more experiences together, and every single family member will benefit from it. One day, there might be a legitimate need for our daughter to have a phone and she may need help getting it, but until then, we’ll enjoy spending our money on time spent with her. The holidays are fast approaching, and no one loves seeing the joy of people getting a gift they've wanted more than me. But, consider that in the years to come, your children won't remember the overpriced gadgets or toys they received this holiday season. They’ll remember the moments spent together with family - which one is worth your hard-earned cash? NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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HEALTH
By Kristin Mears
Misconceptions of sleep apnea are common, with many believing it is more prevalent in men, and why many women tend to be misdiagnosed. Simply put, men and women are different. The symptoms of sleep apnea can present quite differently in women than in men. Experts Avie Grunspan, MD with Texas Pediatric Specialties and Family Sleep Center, and Ruben Avalos with Sleep Easy Dentistry, share their expertise on sleep apnea, including common symptoms and treatments geared towards women.
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leep apnea is an involuntary
Women who are pregnant are at
obstructive sleep apnea, the condition
cessation of breathing that
higher risk for developing sleep apnea
itself contributes to worsening obesity
occurs while the patient is
possibly associated with weight gain
resulting in a vicious cycle.”
asleep. The Greek word “apnea” literally
and changes in upper airway anatomy.
means “without breath”. There are
This can lead to gestational diabetes
Traditionally, testing for obstructive sleep apnea is considered onerous
three types of sleep apnea:
and high blood pressure of pregnancy,
because one would have to spend a
obstructive, central, and mixed. Of the
or preeclampsia.
night in the sleep lab attached to
three, obstructive sleep apnea, is the
multiple wires. This condition is now
most common. “Obstructive sleep
able to be diagnosed with 80-90%
apnea is a condition in which the throat partially or completely collapses causing a temporary drop in oxygen and/or sleep
“A woman’s risk for sleep apnea goes up significantly as she enters menopause.”
disruption,” says Dr. Grunspan. “It can result in waking up feeling sleepy, and can contribute to medical illnesses.
sensitivity using a home sleep apnea test which is significantly more comfortable, accessible, and affordable. Treatment is often linked to a negative
“It is unknown why but it appears that both estrogen and progesterone
connotation of using a CPAP (Continuous Positive Airway Pressure)
While this is commonly felt to be a
have some form of protective effect over
machine which is not an attractive
condition in overweight middle-aged
obstructive breathing during the night,”
therapy in bed.
men, it is often unrecognized in women
says Dr. Grunspan.
who may present different symptoms.
Obstructive sleep apnea can
“Apnea treatment is evolving, there are alternatives to CPAP machines,” says
Therefore, it is often overlooked in
contribute to several significant health
Avalos. The advantage of alternative
women.” Research shows that men are
risks; including: heart disease,
treatment is to provide a personal therapy
more likely to have obstructive sleep
uncontrolled hypertension, stroke,
with their body. While CPAP’s are very
apnea at a ratio of 4:1. “There’s a major
diabetes, depression, and actually
effective for some, they are not for
stigmatism about sleep apnea, that if I
contributes to weight gain. It can
everyone.” Newer masks and CPAP
am younger, healthier, or just an overall
increase the risk of accidents as
technology have made this much more
healthy person, it’s impossible for me to
evidenced by delayed reaction time and
comfortable and easier to use. “With
have sleep apnea,“ says Ruben Avalos.
decreased general alertness while
proper guidance from a qualified clinician
“That couldn’t be more wrong.”
operating machinery. “Recent evidence reveals that people
TYPICAL SYMPTOMS OF SLEEP APNEA INCLUDE snoring, gasping for air, choking, observable pauses in breathing by the partner, increased frequency of urination at night, waking up with a dry mouth, morning headaches, difficulty focusing, and daytime sleepiness. Women may have additional symptoms which might be overlooked, including insomnia, restless sleep, frequent awakenings, heartburn, daytime irritability, anxiety, depression, forgetfulness, lack of energy, and generalized fatigue.
with sleep apnea accumulate a higher concentration of a protein in the brain
during the first 3 months of therapy, many of the issues people encounter can easily be overcome. Oral appliances fitted by a dental
(tau) associated with the development
professional experienced with these
of Alzheimer’s,” says Dr. Grunspan.
devices, can help treat mild to moderate
“Sleep apnea may impair a woman’s
obstructive sleep apnea with reasonably
heart function more easily than in men,
good success.
putting them at higher risk for heart problems. Women with sleep apnea
Women appear to respond better to the oral appliance therapy than men.
may have more significant heart
“3D imaging can lay the foundation for
damage including greater risk for
proper therapy,” says Avalos. “3D
heart enlargement, blocked heart
imaging is critical and important. It’s
arteries, and heart failure.
important to find someone who
“Depression and anxiety is felt to be
specializes in sleep apnea and who has
more associated with sleep apnea in
expertise in digital scanning.” Sleep
women that in men. The relationship
specialists want to improve the quality
between obesity and sleep apnea is
of life for their patients and find the
complicated by the fact that while
individual treatment plan right for the
obesity is a risk factor for developing
patient and their bodies.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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DOSSIER Salons & Spas
What is your favorite beauty indulgence? Taking time for ourselves is important, but too often pushed aside. As women who do it all, we spend our days doing for othersour kids, our spouses, our parents, our jobs. This holiday season, remember that you deserve a little pampering and luxury of your own. Whether it be a new hairstyle, facial, massage, waxing, lash extensions, manicure, pedicure, etc., schedule time for some relaxing self-care. These services are about more than your physical appearance, they are proven to help with relieving stress, easing pain, sleeping soundly, and improving immunity. As you flip through the following pages, you’ll learn more about some amazing local places in San Antonio where you can pamper yourself or someone you love when it’s time for a little TLC.
THE DOSSIER
What are your most popular services? One size doesn’t fit all, which is why we have over 25 different facials. HERE ARE THE FAVORITES: • Hyaluronic Acid Boosting Facial: A customer favorite and an anti-age powerhouse treatment. • MOMease™ Pregnancy Spa Services: Ingredient safe and effective services for pregnant/lactating women. • Migraine Relief Massage: A neck/shoulder/cranial massage that combines aromatherapy, pressure point therapy along with cold/warm therapy. Why is self-care important? I often give this analogy. Our vehicles are important to us, which is why we change the oil regularly, maintain tire pressure and do everything else on that list…all because we do not want our car to break down. Are we this consistent with taking care of ourselves? If not, we should be or we will eventually break down too. What is a great self-care regimen to start now that will still work ten years from now? Wash and moisturize your face every night and start using a retinol no later than age 30. #yourewelcome What is your favorite part of your work? Treating acne - it's definitely when clients are consistent with our skincare recommendations and they get the results they want. It's the best feeling when we see them so happy!
NEVA FACE & BODY Neva Fernandez, Owner RE S U LTS O RI E NTED SKI NCA R E
601 East Dewey, San Antonio, TX 78212
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Nevadayspas.com
Hours of operation: Tues-Fri 9:30am – 6:30pm, Saturday 10am – 5pm
PURESÓLSPA Beata Hatley, Owner
What inspired you to go into your field? As a cancer survivor I continuously struggle to find a solution for the disease; for the body and the mind. Salt creates an alkaline environment; where cancer cannot grow. My salt cave in the Hill Country offers a place to hide away, relax and charge your body with minerals, microelements and negative ions; a place that cancer hates. What are some of your signature services? Our spa offers a wide range of treatments, including specialized massages, body treatments and facials, Microdermabrasion, waxing procedures for women and men, as well as custom service treatments and various monthly specials. Our most unique service is our signature massage inside the salt cave, as well as all body treatments performed in modern vichy capsule, the only one in North America! Why is self-care important? As we age, it is important that we nourish our skin. In the ongoing fight against aging, expecting a quick fix in a bottle to make wrinkles magically disappear is like expecting one day at the gym to qualify as a realistic workout routine. We need balance and discipline in this journey to aging gracefully. Why should women come to you? This is a business created by a woman who understands women and the unique needs we have, especially when dealing with health issues. I have created a space where you can recharge, relax, rejuvenate, renew, repair and restore, and have fun too.
Tapatio Springs Resort | 1 Resort Way, Boerne, TX 78006
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THE DOSSIER What is your business philosophy? Community — Always give more Caring — Emotional connection with our guests Consistency — Non-negotiable standards of our team Signature Services: • Guest care is truly our signature – We have a satisfaction guarantee policy. • Our Beard Facial (perfect for No-shave November) • Aveda Facials – Customized for your personalized skin care needs and include the AVEDA rituals What is the most common question asked by clients? Do you have online booking? We have online booking. You can also buy gift cards and home care products at www.folawns.com. You can book on our Free app – Pocket Salon, here you can see your service provider’s availability. We also have last minute deals at www.folawns.com.
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Why is self-care important? It’s like being on an airplane and the flight attendant tells you “in case of an emergency put your air mask on first.” — You must take care of yourself, so you are able take care of everyone else. What is a great self-care regimen to start now that will still work in ten years? Caring for the largest organ in your body…Your Skin. Use a good moisturizer daily, get regular facials & massages, and drink plenty of water. Why should women come to you? We want to empower women by making them look and feel their best. If they are looking for an ultimate oasis where you can be with friends and truly relax, this is your place. Is there anything you would like women to know about your industry? It’s not all created equal, do your research. Find a Salon/Spa that fits YOU and your needs.
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Ken & Terry Folawn, Owners 17851 Rogers Ranch, San Antonio, TX 78258
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Hours of operation: Mon 9am-5pm, Tues-Fri 8:30am-8pm, Saturday 9am-6pm
SALON VISAGE Maria Antonietta, Owner 2510 N. Main, San Antonio, TX 78212
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Hours of operation: Tues, Thurs 8:30 am–7 pm, Wed, Fri 8:30 am – 6 pm, Sat 8:30 am – 4:30 pm, Closed Sun/Mon
What is your business philosophy? Through continuous education and creativity we strive to provide you with the hightest quality of services to enhance your beauty, while inspiring your well-being and hapiness.
Who have been your beauty icons? My Beauty Icons have been Vidal Sassoon who has been famous for all the geometric haircuts and Beth Minardi for her innovative color techniques.
Why did you become a hair stylist? I was inspired by my obsession for Hair and Fashion and how it all goes hand in hand.
What is the question you are most frequently asked? People ask me all the time how long I have been a stylist? My response…35 years.
What are your signature services? We offer cutting edge color/ highlight techniques, precise cuts and styling. We also offer wigs, wig styling and extensions for clients with thinning hair to add length, volume or density.
Why should women choose me to be their hair stylist? My years of experience, talent and knowledge speak volumes.
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Susan C. Mengden, PhD, CED-s
Esperanza Eating Disorders Center Photography by David Teran
Doing philosophy allows patients to get hands-on experience doing recovery. Grocery shopping, cooking, planning, and plating their own meals and activities like restaurant outings are all real-life experiences that our patients practice as part of their recovery journey. People don't just hear about recovery at Esperanza, they do recovery! What populations are treated at Esperanza EDC? We have specialized programs designed for adults and adolescents (ages 13-17). Esperanza is gender-inclusive and provides treatment for all types of eating disorders (Anorexia, Bulimia, Binge Eating Disorder, Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder, and other types of disordered eating). We have separate programming for adults, adolescents and their families, and for adults with Binge Eating Disorder. How do you and your clinical team stay ahead of trends in eating disorder treatment? In addition to attending and presenting at eating disorder-specific conferences, our team of specialists collaborate with clinical and research experts across the country to provide cutting edge treatment for our South Texas patients. Why did you decide to open Esperanza Eating Disorders Center (EDC)? For more than 30 years, I have specialized in eating disorder treatment, most of those in San Antonio, so I have knowledge of and love for our city. I want to have a center focused on the unique characteristics and communities of South Texas. I also want to serve the underserved populations in the area. We will provide services for Medicaid, Medicare, and Tricare patients. Treatment is lengthy, so we will accept 58 SAWOMAN.COM
both private and government insurance. As a patient, what should I expect at Esperanza? My first objectives are to provide our patients with hope and to help them heal. Recovery IS possible. To that end, we have created a homelike, supportive, and empowering environment for our patients and their families. Esperanza EDC’s multidisciplinary team is up to date on the most recent approaches to eating disorder treatment. Our Recovery by
What is your greatest frustration as an eating disorder specialist? There is still so much misunderstanding and misdiagnosis of eating disorders. Eating disorders are not a choice; they are very real, very damaging, even deadly mental illnesses. I want to educate medical and mental health professionals in our community to recognize and recommend timely treatment for eating disorders, decreasing the suffering individuals and families go through.
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Entrepreneurs Introduction by Sophie Bauer Interviews by Tricia Schwennensen Photography by David Teran
According to a recent study1, Texas is the best state in the nation for female entrepreneurs. In San Antonio we are lucky to have a plethora of powerful women leading the way in business. These women come from all backgrounds, venturing in all directions, driven by their passions and experiences. On the next few pages, we highlight four women who continue to shape our city with their innovation while blazing a path for the next generation of businesswomen. Although all specialize in different industries, each woman found success through believing in herself, long hours of hard work, and creating a support system of family, friends, and mentors.
1 https://fitsmallbusiness.com/best-states-for-female-entrepreneurs/
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Iris Schimke CEO, EXPRESS INFORMATION SYSTEMS Thirty years ago, Iris Schimke found herself suddenly laid off from her job at Computer Craft and pregnant with her first child. To help her get through a tough time, she took on contract work for a friend implementing a new accounting system for her company. Schimke found a system through a company in North Dakota. If she signed up as a “value added reseller” her client received added benefits. Although becoming a reseller was not part of her plan, she signed on. Soon after, the North Dakota company called her with a sales lead. Schimke told them she never planned to sell. “I don’t have a laptop, I’ve never done a demo,” she confessed. “You probably want to get someone else to do this.” Under threat of losing perks for her client, Schimke agreed to the call. Then, she spent six months learning everything 62 SAWOMAN.COM
about being the new business. After a few months, her clientele had expanded so much she needed to hire someone. Cheryl Aceto quickly became Schimke’s business partner. “She runs the technical side of the business. And I run the sales and marketing side.” Today, Express Information Systems, has 17 employees serving midmarket businesses with $10 million to $500 million in revenues, offering solutions to complex financial needs such as accounting, ERP software, transactions, receivables, payables and payroll. She said it was out of necessity that she stumbled into entrepreneurship. “You find yourself in a position and you have no alternative,” she said. “You reach for things you normally wouldn’t. You’re willing to take more risks. You’ve already lost your job — you have nothing to lose.”
Mollie Calvert Massari FOUNDER AND PRESIDENT OF MCM GROUP As a marketing and communications professional, Mollie Calvert Massari has developed expertise in a niche market, luxury retail. One of her first major projects was developing La Cantera in 2005. In 2016, Massari went out on her own to found her own marketing firm. Although her clients hail from around the world, Massari bases her life out of San Antonio, “I’m here because I love the city. My family is here. My friends are here.” Her local client list includes architects, interior designers and real estate firms. Nationally, she represents luxury and destination retail shopping centers. She’s also part of Blend Marketing, a firm based in Arizona and next year she takes the reigns as President of the USA Luxury Shopping Consortium. “For me what’s working is to pull in from all over, clients from across the country,” she said, adding that marketing has changed a lot, and in today’s world it’s about creating individualized and unique experiences. “There’s no cookie cutter day, no cookie cutter experiences. I hear every day how brick-and-mortar is dead. Quite the opposite, we have to create these (specialized) experiences around brickand-mortar.” Massari wasn’t planning on launching her own business, but the opportunity arose and with the help of some mentors she’s found success and a career she loves. Mentorship and leadership are important to building a business. She said it’s important to pay it forward, to share wisdom with the next generation. Massari’s advice for entrepreneurs is organization. Time management is integral to finding time to do the work, to be creative and to run the business. The biggest lessons Massari has learned as an entrepreneur are — not to be afraid to ask for help, to find the right people for the right jobs, and to have fun.
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Christie Soileau OWNER OF BOSS BAGELS
BOSS – Bagels on Southern Soil – Bagels owner Christie Soileau and her husband, Brannon, have opened and run restaurants all over the country. “We’ve always been in the restaurant business,” Christie said. “I started out as a chef, and a pastry chef, but I found out I like to talk too much so I moved to the front of the house. I like to meet people and learn their stories.” The couple has lived and cooked in Grand Cayman, Chicago, Austin, San Francisco, Dallas, back to Chicago, Indiana, New York and San Antonio – in that order. “I’m done,” she told her husband once they left New York. “I’m done moving. I love it here. And he said, ‘Well, good, what are we going to open?’ That’s how this started.” They settled on a NYC staple, bagels, but with a Texas twist on two classic styles. They would be boiled like New York- style in agave-water, a Texas touch, then finished off in the wood-fire grill like Montreal-style bagels. 64 SAWOMAN.COM
“We’re one of six places that cooks bagels that way, and the only one in Texas that I know of,” Christie said. One challenge Christie faced early on in her career was finding balance between being an entrepreneur and a mom to her son Clay. “It was tough. There were many times when he was standing on a milk carton wearing an apron and breading chicken or catching pasta as it came out of the pasta maker. I felt guilty because other moms could volunteer for everything, and I couldn’t. I tried my best and did what I could,” she said. “I think having goals as a woman and being a mom is important. It was hard but he’s learned there are certain things he has to do for himself.” Christie advices other entrepreneurs, “You have to listen and understand what your customer wants and not just think what you want to do is best. You have to humble yourself, otherwise you can lose.”
Dy Lynne Dabney OWNER OF JOYEUX HOME FURNISHINGS Interior designer and lover of all things joyful, Dy Lynne Dabney is no stranger to running her own business. She was designing her neighbors’ homes before she graduated from college. By 1996 the former flight attendant had officially launched her interior design company, Dy Lynne Decor. “I like working for myself and even though you don’t have benefits or health care, I knew I wanted to do it,” she said. “I was driven. I had a passion and a plan.” Dabney’s husband Jack is a homebuilder and they often joined forces and worked projects together. But four years ago he “dragged” her out to look at a piece of property and its three buildings at the corner of Joy Street and McCullough Avenue. It struck her that the name Joy was significant. “I love what the word means and what it evokes,” she said. “It just felt really peaceful and I knew it was meant to be.” They bought the property, built a beautiful white washed New England-style barn on it and from there Joyeux Home Furnishings was born. “Even before I met my husband I had dreamed of a little storefront,” she said. “I had investors come to me before but it never quite felt right. Who knew I’d marry a builder who shared the same dream?” Dy Lynne travels four to six times a year in search of unique items for the store. She’s still an interior designer, specifically enjoying projects where she can get involved from conception, working with the architect, going over the plans and helping to choose the materials. Dy Lynne has 12 employees and is considering a possible pop up or a second location in the future. She said future entrepreneurs should follow their passion. “If you have God given talent you should just go for it,” she said. “Don’t let anyone tell you can’t or put you in a box. You are your own best sales person.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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Law Offices Robbie Ward Law 530 Lexington Avenue San Antonio, TX 78215 210-758-2200 210-758-8500 Robbie@RobbieWardLaw.com RobbieWardLaw.com
ROBBIE L. WARD Attorney at Law Originally from West Texas, Robbie considers San Antonio home now. She graduated from St. Mary’s School of Law in San Antonio in 2001 and immediately began working at the District Attorney’s office. Although she knew she wanted to be a criminal defense attorney, she had been told by mentor’s that the best defense attorneys were prosecutors first. After working at the Bexar County District Attorney’s office she became an Assistant United States Attorney which only helped increase her knowledge of how to effectively evaluate and try cases. Robbie left the U.S. Attorney’s office to become a criminal defense attorney and has been extremely successful in her representation of clients. She has tried many state and federal cases as both a prosecutor and as a defense attorney. As a defense attorney, her efforts and wins for her clients have earned her the nickname, “The Beast”, among many of her clients. It’s a nickname she laughs off, but has said it does make her feel proud that her clients know she will always fight hard and they appreciate the efforts she puts into each case. Robbie has successfully defended doctors, lawyers, other professionals, and people from all walks of life in both State and Federal Court, including murder, sexual assault, federal drug conspiracies and white collar crimes. Being able to do what you love and have real passion for is a key part of her success. Robbie said although the work is hard and can require lots of long hours, the ability to help people in their most trying times is worth it. As a single mom running her own practice, Robbie said it makes her proud that her daughter knows that what she is doing makes a real difference in people’s lives and her daughter is learning the same values Robbie was taught by her parents: to be anything great, you have to work hard.
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Advertising The PM Group 7550 IH-10 West Suite 510 San Antonio, TX 78229 210-490-2554 thepmgrp.com
Noisy Trumpet Digital & Public Relations 7550 IH-10 West Suite 150 San Antonio, TX 78229 210-582-0505 noisytrumpet.com
FRAN YANITY President/COO, The PM Group and President/CEO, Noisy Trumpet Fran Yanity is a marketing and advertising professional in San Antonio with over 27 years of experience delivering measurable results. Fran is the President and COO of The PM Group and President and CEO of Noisy Trumpet Digital and Public Relations. The PM Group, San Antonio’s largest advertising and marketing agency, leads in award-winning creative, results-driven media, as well as print and promotional marketing campaigns. After realizing a void in the market for specialty marketing services, Fran launched Noisy Trumpet in 2017. With deep expertise in digital, web and public relations, Noisy Trumpet is a nationally-recognized firm committed to staying abreast of the latest industry trends in order to identify innovative opportunities for clients. Noisy Trumpet has received several recognitions under her direction including the 2019 PRNEWS’ National PR Award in the category of “Activism Campaign,” along with awards and recognitions from PRSA, American Marketing Association and PR Daily. Fran’s professional background includes marketing strategy, branding, creative and media direction, account leadership as well as promotional development and execution. She has contributed to campaigns for major clients including Spurs Sports and Entertainment, Visionworks, Cotton Patch Café, CH Guenther, San Antonio Shoemakers, Stowers Furniture, HomeVestors, SWBC, San Antonio Sports, Devils River Conservancy, among others. Her industry experience includes sports marketing, multi-unit casual dining and fast food, eye care and medical, nonprofit, retail and CPG, manufacturing and more. The culmination of Fran’s career has made her an industry leader and mentor. Fran was the 2018 chairwoman for the American Heart Association’s Go Red for Women movement and currently serves as a board member of local nonprofits, SA YES and San Antonio Sports. Her successful leadership in business and the community led to her induction into the San Antonio Business Journal’s Leadership Trust and recognition as a Women’s Leadership Award honoree. NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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Spa PURESÓLSPA® Tapatio Springs Hill Country Resort 1 Resort Way Boerne, TX 78006 830-537-5010 reception@puresolspa.com puresolspa.com saltcaveprodesign.com
BEATA HATLEY Owner, PURESÓLSPA® Beata Hatley never knew that her childhood spent in salt mine would come back in a way that would help not just her own health, but the health of so many others. Being raised in a Communist country, and having been sixteen years old when Chernobyl occurred that affected the country of Poland, she watched the world around her be affected by the quiet silence that is reminiscent of environmental toxins. “I have survived five different cancers, and as many of the people exposed to the Chernobyl radiation, continue to battle,” says Beata in regard to her continuing passion to educate people about finding ways to naturally detox your body from environmental pollutions. Her father, a pioneer in the mining industry, noticed that the salt mining incurred none of the bad health effects found in coal mining. Being an environmentalist, he used his engineering experience to create an awareness of the benefits of salt exposure, especially in a closed environment like a cave. Beata carried on his beliefs and pursued a passion for helping people to find natural alternatives in this age of unnatural curatives. Fast forward to the flagship salt cave and spa, Puresólspa, found just a 20 minute drive from San Antonio and tucked into the hill country’s Tapatio Springs Resort. She combines her love of art and health in to every salt cave she builds. “My passion for creating not just a therapeutic space with an artistic aesthetic comes from my love of art and health,” Beata says while talking about her childhood dreams of becoming an artist. “In a Communist country, that was just not an option,” she laughs. Typical of any survivor, Beata laughs easily and has that determination that has brought her to the forefront of her industry. She has expanded from just salt caves and spas to also have an organically certified body care line. “There are so many aspects of this that I enjoy, I’m just grateful that I have had the opportunity to share it with others,” she says just as the phone rings again. 68 SAWOMAN.COM
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Adventure Park Urban Air Adventure Parks 618 NW Loop 410 San Antonio, TX 78216 210-245-4320 8490 Fourwinds Drive Suite 8510a San Antonio, TX 78239 210-245-4321 urbanairtrampolinepark.com
MICHELE HOSKINS Urban Air Adventure Parks I believe in controlling one’s destiny; hence, I became a business owner. I left my corporate job and began my entrepreneurial journey with McDonald’s franchise ownership. Building this business helped me gain a “master’s in small business success” and prepared me to launch and run Urban Air Adventure Parks. During this journey, I have continually worked to achieve work-life balance. I have found that prioritizing my roles as wife and mother have been critical to my success in business. Urban Air is a fun and affordable family entertainment center with activities and attractions for different ages. We have two locations in San Antonio with a third opening late fall 2020. Our focus on customer service and attention to detail sets us apart from other organizations. We are a place that fosters personal connections and the professional growth of our employees. As I look back over my career, I am proud of so many things I have done. None molded me more than being the Director of the National Institute for Leadership Development. In this role I created an impactful educational program, which influenced and shaped rising women leaders. As I moved into an entrepreneurial space, key for me was ensuring I could continue to develop the people in my companies and help them grow. I am proud that via both my McDonald’s and Urban Air franchises, I have done just that. I am grateful for the rewarding opportunity to serve on LiftFund’s governance board and look forward to working to continue LiftFund's mission of setting people and businesses up for success. I am also on the Boards for the San Antonio Children’s Choir, Urban Air Franchisee Advisory Council, and the National Adventure Park Franchisee Association. I live life by faith and this quote: “I cannot do all the good that the world needs. But the world needs all the good that I can do.” ― Jana Stanfield. I’m truly blessed to be living my dream and look forward to helping others do the same!
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Luxury Travel Specialist Departure Lounge 210-286-6771 Vscott@departurelounge.com departurelounge.com
Luxury Travel Specialist: European Caribbean Group Travel/Destination Weddings Cruises
VICKI VELESIOTIS SCOTT Luxury Travel Specialist, Departure Lounge I am First generation Greek American and traveling throughout Greece and Europe is my passion. Whether visiting a new island or dining with friends and family, I am most at peace while traveling. Through the years I have helped countless friends and family plan their Greek journey. During my time in Greece, I traveled extensively throughout the country. I was also fortunate to travel around France, Italy & many other European countries. I truly believe travel enriches the soul. Traveling to a foreign country can be intimidating, take the stress out of planning your vacation and let my experience be your guide. I believe traveling gives us important exposure to new cultures, new types of people and different ways of living. I will work with you to create a special itinerary for an unforgettable journey. Although, it is easier than ever to book travel online, the need for advice is greater than ever. Whether you desire a luxury cruise or a world class hotel I can help you plan an unforgettable experience. As group travel and destination weddings become more popular, an experienced travel advisor can add significant value to your experience. I work with Departure Lounge in San Antonio, a member of the Virtuoso travel network. We host frequent travel events in San Antonio, so let me know if you’d like to be added to our invitation list. Our events and party venue in San Antonio always gives you an opportunity to learn from an expert about a destination and/or a type of travel. For the same price or lower that you would have paid directly, I can often reserve a trip for you that includes some special perks, upgrades and/or amenities. Plus, by working with a me, you’ll have someone to watch out for you before, during and after your trip. The world is full of amazing places and adventures, let me help you plan a luxury dream vacation you will always remember.
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Commercial Realty Drake Commercial Group 4630 N Loop 1604 W Suite 510 San Antonio, TX 78249 O: 210-402-6363 drakecommercial.com womengiveback.com
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DEBORAH BAUER Founder, Drake Commercial Group Deborah Bauer is founder of Drake Commercial Group, a commercial real estate brokerage company established in 1989. Her firm is a well-respected commercial brokerage firm representing investors and developers in the purchase and sale of commercial properties for over 30 years. Her son, Travis joined the firm after graduation from college and is the president of the company. Drake Commercial Group’s longevity and experience in the industry has allowed her to build long-term relationships that are mutually beneficial-not only with buyers and sellers, but also professionals in other fields i.e.: attorneys, architects and engineers. Drake Commercial Group is consistently recognized in the yearly Top 25 Transactions list for Commercial Real Estate in the San Antonio Business Journal. Deborah has been the recipient of numerous awards and has been featured in several publications and articles including O, The Oprah Magazine, Forbes and Fortune. In 2017 Deborah received the CREW National Impact Award for Entrepreneurial Spirit, an international organization with over 10,000 members. The entrepreneurial award is given to one member that has achieved a unique career success or milestone as the result of taking a risk. She has also won the NAWBO Lifetime Achievement Award in 2019, SA Business Journal Best in Commercial Real Estate for Best Office Transaction, CREW Best Deal of the Year, SA Business Journal Best in Commercial Real Estate-Land Deal, SA Business Journal Best in Commercial Real Estate-Best Medical Facility to name a few. Deborah is one of the founders of Women Give Back (WGB), a non-profit organization with 100% of the proceeds going back to the charity. Their mission is to inspire the next generation of women leaders in both business and community. Through fundraising campaigns, WGB has reinvested thousands of dollars back into our city.
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Dentistry Timberwood Park Pediatric Dentistry 24815 US Hwy 281 N. Suite 111 San Antonio, TX 78258 210-742-7200 timberwoodparkpediatricdentistry.com
DR. REBECCA WILSON Timberwood Park Pediatric Dentistry After taking time off to spend time with her family, Dr. Rebecca Wilson has returned to pediatric dentistry with a new practice: Timberwood Park Pediatric Dentistry. While some changes have occurred since she opened her first practice in Alamo Heights many years ago, some things remain the same. Dr. Wilson maintains her love for children of all ages and her dedication to helping them achieve and maintain good oral health. Born and raised on an Iowa farm, Dr. Wilson once considered veterinary school due to her love for animals. Instead, she followed her brother’s footsteps into dentistry and graduated from the University of Iowa College of Dentistry. Texas was fortunate enough to keep her after she completed her Pediatric Dental Residency at the University of Texas Health Science Center in San Antonio. Family is important to Dr. Wilson, so it should come as no surprise that she views her patients and their families as her own. For every treatment she recommends, she first determines whether she would make that same recommendation for her own children. As she explains every procedure, she uses visuals and child-friendly words that everyone can understand. Dr. Wilson’s Timberwood Park practice immediately puts patients and their parents at ease. While the equipment is top of the line, the office still exudes a calming and nurturing environment. She and her staff work with children of all abilities from a very early age. She feels it’s important to teach parents how to properly care for their child’s oral health before turning that education toward the children. As patients grow, she wants them to learn how to take care of their own teeth and gums for the very best possible preventive care.
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Energy CPS Energy 145 Navarro San Antonio, TX 78205 cpsenergy.com
PAULA GOLD-WILLIAMS President & CEO, CPS Energy Paula Gold-Williams is a true example of what home-grown talent looks like in San Antonio. As President & CEO, she leads more than 3,000 dedicated team members at CPS Energy, the nation’s largest municipally owned electric and natural gas company. She is seen as an energy industry thought leader across the globe, and in 2019, Gold-Williams was honored as the “2019 Champion” by the Women’s Council on Energy and the Environment. In addition, she was presented the 2019 James D. Donovan Individual Achievement Award, by the American Public Power Association. She also serves as the co-chair of the Energy Pillar of Dentons Smart Cities/Communities Think Tank—a collaborative effort to formulate solutions for the integration of technology in communities. GoldWilliams is also a 2019 finalist for S&P Global Platts “Chief Trailblazer of the Year” award. Paula joined CPS Energy in 2004 after holding various positions in several San Antonio businesses, including regional controller for Time Warner Cable and vice president of finance for Luby’s, Inc. Paula is a Certified Public Accountant and a Chartered Global Management Accountant. She earned an Associate of Fine Arts degree from San Antonio College; a Bachelor of Business Administration, with a concentration in Accounting from St. Mary’s University; and a Master of Business Administration, in Finance & Accounting from Regis University. She is a San Antonio native, graduating from Sam Houston High School.
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Attorney Jean Brown Law 222 E. Main Plaza San Antonio, TX 78205 210-345-2662 jean@jeanbrownlaw.com jeanbrownlaw.com
JEAN S. BROWN Jean Brown Law Jean S. Brown graduated magna cum laude from St. Mary’s Law School in 1990. Jean founded Jean Brown Family Law in 1992. Since that time, Jean handles all aspects of family law. Her priorities are understanding her client’s specific situation, educating her client as to the law and all options, and providing excellent representation until the conclusion of the case. Jean believes that frank and continuous communication between an attorney and client is essential to the welfare of clients and the outcome of the case. Jean has been voted as one of the best family lawyers in the area by her peers for many years. Jean is very familiar with substance abuse, other addictions, and recovery which are often issues in divorce. Unlike many, family attorneys, Jean is competent to handle criminal issues that might appear in a family law case such as family violence cases. Jean is knowledgeable on both the civil and criminal aspects of these types of cases. Jean credits her success to a genuine interest in her client as well as over thirty years of experience. Strength, Confidence and Experience you can depend on!
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DR. PHALLON DOSS Doss Audiology & Hearing Centers Dr. Phallon Doss is a leader in the field of audiology. She graduated Summa Cum Laude from Texas Woman’s University, and received her Doctorate of Audiology from the University of North Texas. She has extensive experience in a wide range of audiologic procedures, including diagnostic hearing examinations, hearing aid selection and fitting, and cochlear implant programming. Dr. Doss is credited as performing the first cochlear implant activation in Schertz, Texas. She was named a San Antonio Business Journal 40 under 40 award winner in 2019 and a Healthcare Hero in 2017. Dr. Doss has also been featured in numerous publications including “O” the Oprah Magazine, Fortune Magazine, and Entrepreneur Magazine. Doss Audiology is a previous winner of the “Best Audiology Clinic in San Antonio” by Senior Resource Guide. She maintains her Clinical Certification from the American SpeechLanguage-Hearing Association, and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Audiology.
Audiology Doss Audiology & Hearing Centers 5000 Schertz Pkwy, Suite 300, San Antonio, TX 78254 210.819.5002 1605 US Hwy 181 N, Suite A, Floresville, TX 78114 830.542.8957 dossaudiology.com
LIZ PAPAGNI CEO/Branding & Marketing Strategist Marketing Initiative Worx, Inc. As a dedicated member of various local and national business organizations and non-profits, Liz Papagni understands and embraces the power of community. She’s a seasoned marketer with over twenty years of experience ranging from Fortune 500 companies to her own national agency. Her company, Marketing Initiative Worx, shares that same community focus, no matter where her clients are located. She and her team develop marketing strategies and plans that help their clients build awareness, grow relationships with their buyers, and increase sales. From social media and influencer programs, to digital advertising and traditional tactics, her team consistently delivers quantifiable results. As a board member of NAWBO and NAWBO’S High School Mentorship Program, it’s no surprise that Liz believes in giving back. She supports local food banks, Ransom Life Texas, and other national charities, and is actively involved with her sons’ local club and high school soccer programs.
Marketing Marketing Initiative Worx, Inc. 714-595-0963 email: lpapagni@marketingiw.com
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JENNIFER L. SCROGGINS Investment Advisor Representative Platinum Wealth Solutions of Texas, LLC Jennifer Scroggins, an Investment Advisor Representative, has over 25 years of experience helping small business owners and families make sound financial decisions based on trust and confidence. She helps clients identify and accomplish their financial objectives, which generally include, protecting their families and/or business, accumulating assets for retirement, and transferring wealth to loved ones. She believes in building strong client relationships that motivate people to be proactive about making those “tough” decisions Her hobbies include tennis, co-ed softball and spending time with her family. She believes in giving back to the community and serves with several organizations, such as Leukemia & Lymphoma Society and North East Education Foundation.
Securities and investment advisory services offered through Royal Alliance Associates, Inc. member FINRA/SIPC. Royal Alliance Associates, Inc. is separately owned and other entities and/or marketing names, products or services referenced here are independent of Royal Alliance Associates, Inc. 3522 Paesanos Pkwy, Suite 100, San Antonio, TX 78231, (210) 998-5000. 17687273-20191101
Financial Services Platinum Wealth Solutions of Texas, LLC 3522 Paesanos Parkway, Suite 100 San Antonio, TX 78231 C: 210-789-2003 DL: 210-998-5010 email: jscroggins@pws-texas.com
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TRACIE S. HASSLOCHER Licensed Real Estate Broker/Owner Tracie has been selling real estate in San Antonio since 2005 in Bexar, Comal, Atascosa and Medina counties. Her philosophy is to provide exceptional service, placing the needs of her clients first to achieve their desired goals by providing her professional advice based on her knowledge of the current market. Real estate changes on a day to day basis and education is an important component of Tracie’s business. She is also involved at the San Antonio Board of Realtors and currently serves on the Board of Directors.
MEMBERSHIPS: San Antonio Board of Realtors Texas Realtors National Association of Realtors
DESIGNATIONS: Master’s Degree in Residential Real Estate, Marketing and Broker Management Bachelor of Arts – NC State University Accredited Buyer Representative, Certified Residential Specialist, Certified Residential Probate Specialist, Graduate of Realtor Institute, Leadership Training Graduate
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JENNIFER WILKINSON Market President – San Antonio American Bank Jennifer Wilkinson is a career-long San Antonio banker, having moved to the community shortly after graduation from TCU in Fort Worth, Texas with a Bachelor’s degree in Finance. She leads American Bank’s entry into the San Antonio market, managing a team of highly experienced local banking professionals. Jennifer is highly regarded – and highly engaged – in the San Antonio community and exemplifies the qualities and values for which American Bank is known. She has the heart of a community banker and excels at building long-term personal relationships, which are the hallmarks of American Bank. Jennifer understands that running a business isn’t a one-person job, and she is here to help her clients succeed every single day. She’s more than a banker – she’s your partner.
Banking American Bank 755 East Mulberry Avenue, Suite 200 San Antonio, TX 78212 210-672-6767 jwilkinson@americanbank.com
DIANE SINCLAIR Owner, Great Clips Salons My husband, Les Norton, and I had professional positions in the refining industry. With so many mergers and acquisitions in the late 1990s we decided to make our own plan for our future. We found that Great Clips offered a business model that matched our own business philosophy. On November 7, 1999 we opened our first salon and celebrate our 20th anniversary in Seguin in November 2019. Today we own 25 of the 67 Great Clips salons throughout the greater San Antonio area. I am the President of Team Sailing, Inc., dba Great Clips. Franchising offers you the opportunity to run your own company supporting the brand of the franchisor. We treat our salon teams professionally, we encourage them to be involved in our communities. We are very proud to offer benefits (such as paid vacation and medical insurance) which is not the standard in our industry. I am personally involved in our community, I have been on the board of Dress for Success San Antonio for 6 years, donated salon equipment for the salon at Haven for Hope, and participate in many Chambers throughout the area.
Hair Salon Great Clips Salons Multiple locations across San Antonio 210-379-5496 dianesinclair@greatclips.net
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AMY GONZALEZ, ACS Founder, Owner & Certified Sex Educator Love Shack Boutique Amy Gonzalez wanted to create a fun, upscale and courteous atmosphere in which to shop, inquire and learn. Amy and her all female staff are passionate advocates for sensual health and wellness and believe every person deserves access to information that can enhance quality of life and relationships. Amy is a graduate of UTSA and is a Certified Sex Educator through the American College of Sexologists. Amy is active in the community and currently serves on the board at The San Antonio Women's Chamber of Commerce, is a co-founder for Women and Wine on Wednesdays, is an ambassador for the Stone Oak Ladies Business Association as well as a member of The San Antonio Hispanic Chamber of Commerce. Love Shack Boutique has won numerous awards including: UTSA Business Development Center for a Small Business Leader in the areas of job creation and business development and SA Current’s Best of San Antonio for the past seven years in a row. Love Shack Boutique was also recognized as a recycling leader in San Antonio and received Gold Certification from ReWorksSA.
Specialty Retail Love Shack Boutique 1580 Babcock Road San Antonio, TX 78229 210-767-9411 TheLoveShackBoutique.com Amy@TheLoveShackBoutique.com
Holistic Medicine
Certified Public Accountants
DR. PATRICIA LEW, DAOM, LAc
KIMBERLY C. FORD, CPA, CVA, MAFF
President, Alamo Heights Wellness
Owner and President, theKFORDgroup
Alamo Heights Wellness is a holistic clinic offering acupuncture, herbs, cupping, NAET, reflexology and premium supplements. Our office provides NAET, which is a natural treatment involving homeopathy, acupressure, and acupuncture that reprograms your body to heal. NAET is world famous for naturally helping allergies and allergy related conditions. Treatments are natural, gentle, and effective. We treat auto-immune disorders, allergies, pain, and fertility. Alamo Heights Wellness was founded by Dr. Patricia Lew, a licensed acupuncturist. Please call 210.900.2282 to request your free 15 minute consultation today.
Our team of experienced and talented professionals will work handin-hand with you to achieve your financial goals. Every client is assigned a professional team comprised of a partner, manager, and staff accountant to provide personalized service. Over the last 40 years, our firm has distinguished itself in three specialized areas: Forensic Accounting and Litigation Support, Entrepreneurial Business Advisory Services and Tax & Accounting Services. Our ability to work hand-inhand with our clients to help interpret financial data and use it as a foundation for good decisions is unmatched. theKFORDgroup’s personalized quality service is beyond comparison.
Alamo Heights Wellness
theKFORDgroup
8301 Broadway St., San Antonio, TX 78209 210-900-2282 alamoheightswellness.com
8620 N. New Braunfels, Ste. 300, San Antonio, TX 78217 210-340-8351 thekfordgroup.com
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WOMEN ON THE MOVE SABINA CARR
JANIE COOK
Sabina Carr has been selected as Chief Executive Officer of the San Antonio Botanical Garden. Sabina brings 16 years of experience as Vice President of Marketing at the Atlanta Botanical Garden. From 2014 – 2016, she served as President of the Board of the American Public Garden Association. As only the fourth female President of the Board of the American Public Garden Association, Sabina brings innovative ideas generated among this network of 600member gardens and 6,000 individual members.
Junior Achievement of South Texas welcomes Janie Cook as President. She brings over 25 years of nonprofit leadership experience to the team. Janie has a successful track record of start-up, turn around, realignment and sustaining success of programs and services. She consulted numerous non-profits, and formerly served as Executive Director of Boys Town Texas. She holds a Bachelor’s degree from the University of Texas and a Master’s degree from Boston University.
STACY DORSEY
SARAH HARTE
Stacy Dorsey has joined the Ambassador Theatre Group San Antonio as Food & Beverage Manager. She oversees all concessions for both the Majestic Theatre and Empire Theatre. She is dedicated to using her industry knowledge to elevate the food and drink options and to heighten the guest experience for those attending performances at the two historic theatres. Stacy has been employed in managerial positions by hotels, resorts and performance venues in San Antonio, Horseshoe Bay and New York City.
Sarah Harte has been appointed to the board of directors of the San Antonio Area Foundation. Harte is a former Area Foundation board member (2004-2012) and past board chair (2011-2012). She has also served on several Area Foundation supporting organization boards, including Choose to Succeed (2014-2016), and the Richmond Family Foundation (2006-2013). Harte is a graduate of Trinity University and is dedicated to serving nonprofits, including several engaged in K through 12 education initiatives.
ANNELISE V. GONZALEZ
REBECCA MCMAHON
Annelise V. Gonzalez is the Vice President of Member Engagement for the San Antonio Board of REALTORS®. As a member of the executive team, she provides strategic guidance to ensure company goals align with REALTOR® member interest. She holds a Master’s in Public Administration from UTSA and she was appointed to a six-year term on the Nueces River Authority Board by Governor Gregg Abbott in 2019. She is also a board member for iEmpower and the Latina Power Network.
Rebecca McMahon, PhD, MBA is the president of Rochal Industries, a global leader in commercializing technology innovations in polymers, antimicrobials, and biological systems. Dr. McMahon has held numerous research and development positions and completed her MBA at UTSA since joining Rochal in 2015. Before Rochal, she was a Postdoctoral Fellow at MD Anderson Cancer Center, received a PhD in Chemical Engineering from Texas A&M, and a dual BS degree from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute.
LISA MOCHEL
SARAH YATES
Lisa Mochel has joined Lone Star Capital Bank as their Vice President Treasury Management and Business Development Officer. Lisa is focused on marketing, selling and implementing commercial depository services and treasury management products to regional and small businesses, public institutions, and consumers. With over 20 years of banking experience, she’s an incredible asset to have on any team. Lisa attended Wayland Baptist University and received her BA and MBA in Business Administration and Management.
Sarah Yates has joined La Villita Historic Arts Village as General Manager. She comes from the City’s Special Events Team working on programming and planning for some of the City’s largest events. She also has history with the City’s Arts & Culture Department. Her latest assignment is an exciting opportunity and she will focus on ensuring La Villita is well known by locals and visitors as a unique and unforgettable dining & shopping experience.
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BUSINESS CALENDAR November 9 San Antonio Women’s Chamber of Commerce Constellation of Stars Awards Gala The Vista at Valero San Antonio 6:00 PM sawomenschamber.org
November 12 CREW-Commercial Real Estate Women Smart City Initiative San Antonio Country Club 11:30 AM crew-sanantonio.org
December 5 San Antonio Women’s Chamber of Commerce Mistletoe Madness Mixer St. Anthony Hotel 5:30 PM sawomenschamber.org
November 12 north SA Chamber of Commerce Power Networking Breakfast Norris Conference Centers 7:00 AM northchamber.com
November 16 Public Relations Society of America Annual Gift of Guidance Workshop Holiday Inn Market Square 9:00 AM prsanantonio.com
December 12 CREW-Commercial Real Estate Women Joint Holiday Party Quarry Golf Club 11:30 AM crew-sanantonio.org
November 12 nAWBO-national Association of Women Business Owners Coffee Connections Denny’s - 9550 W I10 7:30 AM nawbosa.org
November 21 CREW-Commercial Real Estate Women Luncheon San Antonio Country Club 11:30 AM crew-sanantonio.org
The San Antonio Woman Business Calendar lists upcoming events for women’s local business groups that are open to the public. If you would like to have your group’s meetings or events listed send them to susan@sawoman.com and include “SAW Business Calendar” in the subject line.
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GIVING BACK
Strong Families AVANCE – SAN ANTONIO By Beth Walthall, Director of Development- AVANCE
arenting is a 24/7 job that you
An equally important part of its
education certifications. This ensures
begin with no training manual -
Parent-Child Education Program
that the children are building the
only the skills you learned from
focuses on helping parents define and
foundations they need to achieve school
your parents, if you were paying
achieve their personal education and
readiness and success.
attention! In 1973, AVANCE – San
career goals. AVANCE provide parents
AVANCE – San Antonio also runs
Antonio was established when it was
whatever they need to advance and
health clinics at two of its sites in
realized that there was a noticeable lack
thrive - high school recovery, financial
conjunction with UTHSC-SA. These
of parenting knowledge and nurturing
literacy, college attainment and/or
clinics offer well-baby check-ups,
skills among the poorest populations on
technical certifications. Parents work
immunizations, lead testing, and hearing
the west and south sides of San
and vision checks, as well as screenings
Antonio. This became AVANCE’s target
for health issues.
area: parents from at-risk communities living in poverty, with little or no education, un- or under-employed, socially isolated, with children between the ages of 0-4 years. This area is 93% Hispanic and is the most economically challenged area of San Antonio. AVANCE’s Parent-Child Education
AVANCE removes barriers and breaks the cycle of inter-generational poverty through innovative, two generation education and support for families with young children.
Transportation is provided as needed for parents and their children to attend classes and the health clinics. Nutritional meals are served to both children and their parents. All of AVANCE’s services are free of charge. Serving thousands of family members per year, longitudinal studies
Program is a research-based, two-
show that these programs develop
generational model that educates at-risk
strong, stable families, healthy children
families; and intervene in the cycle of
with AVANCE’s Career Navigator to plot
who are kinder-ready and familial
poverty and abuse by strengthening
their course towards education,
economic self-sufficiency. Education is
parenting knowledge. Through its
employment and ultimate self-
the key to the future and the changes
patented curriculum, parents learn
sufficiency.
AVANCE facilitates lead to positive
about their child’s physical, emotional, social, and cognitive development, as
While parents are attending classes, their children are receiving a quality, early
generational change. AVANCE – San Antonio is funded by
well as the importance of creating a
childhood education at AVANCE’s
the City of San Antonio, United Way of
loving, nurturing and stimulating home
licensed sites. All of these teachers are
San Antonio, grants, and personal
environment for their children.
degreed and have early childhood
donations.
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Kristi Wyatt Sharing the Right Message to Make a Difference for Others By Dawn Robinette Photography by David Teran
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rom journalist to producer to
know it’s going to change someone’s
service mentality. “People come to
managing communications,
life. It may not seem like it when I’m
count on me. If I’m asked to do
Kristi Wyatt is a story teller. She
busy with menial tasks, but it’s a
something, I do it 100 percent. I do the
brings her diverse background to her role as associate vice-chancellor of
building block to something bigger.” The push to help others goes beyond
best that I can no matter what is asked, no matter what the timeline is, no
communications and engagement for
her role at Alamo Colleges. “I love the
matter what else I have going on. When
the Alamo Colleges district.
opportunity to talk to young women
people can count on and trust you to
“I love communications because it’s a
about their career paths and goals.
do a good job, they begin to rely on
Sometimes it takes someone
you. That trust opens doors and creates
public sector and been able to provide
connecting with you to inspire you to
a reputation.”
people information that can change
the next level,” notes Wyatt. “I tell
public service. I’ve always worked in the
Her skill, reputation for excellence
their life. If it’s about evacuations, it can
stories of obstacles I’ve overcome in my
and willingness to share have definitely
save lives. If it’s about access to
life and offer advice on how young
opened doors. “Do something that you
education, it can change lives. That’s
professional women can overcome their
love. Commit to it, prove yourself, make
what really gets me going.”
own challenges.”
sure people trust you and share your
A Texas native who grew up in
knowledge. Opportunities will come.”
Beaumont, Wyatt’s path to San Antonio included weathering hurricane Ike as the director of communications and intergovernmental relations for League City. Serving in the same role for San Marcos, she navigated the devastating 2015 Memorial Day flood that swept
Wyatt’s path of opportunities hit a
Sometimes, we just don’t know what we don’t know. If someone shares their story, it can inspire us to overcome the barriers in our own path.
through the city.
roadblock that she almost didn’t overcome. As a communication professional, her voice is one of her strongest tools. What she thought was laryngitis came with a letter from the doctor which said, “We don’t know how to fix you. You are going to need to start
Wyatt’s title at Alamo Colleges District
thinking about how you can adapt your
really means chief communications
She credits the women she’s worked
officer, working to share the overall
with for helping her career, including her
life to this.” Because she talked for a living, the
message of the five compuses. While
mother, a pastor in Beaumont.
diagnosis was devastating. But she
it’s her first job in higher education, “Any
“Watching her not let anyone stand in
didn’t give up. She found a specialist
good communicator can communicate,
her way, doing what she felt called to
and was ultimately diagnosed with a
no matter what the message is.”
do, and what she feels is her passion
rare neurological illness called
And for Wyatt, the message she’s delivering inspires her every day. “Our
really shaped who I am as a woman. “It’s important to have the wisdom of
spasmodic dysphonia that involves spasms of the vocal cords. The
mission is empowering diverse
women who’ve come before you. But
condition causes interruptions of
communities for success and ensuring
it’s also important to get the perspective
speech and affects voice quality. It’s a
that students have access to education
of women who are young and up-and-
lifelong condition that must be managed
to better their lives,” she explains. “That
coming. They are eager and they have
daily. “It’s part of who I am and is just
is something anyone can get behind.”
the energy to help you reach your goals.
“Our new building has a giant mural
“It’s interesting what you can do when
something I deal with. I’ve been blessed with the right doctors and advice to be
of students in caps and gowns. Every
you share. A lot of opportunities have
able to overcome it and continue to do
day as I walk up to the building, it
come about because I decided to share
what I love.”
reminds me why I’m here.” “I feel that God gives you specific
what I have learned, or posted on LinkedIn to share what we’re doing here
With her passion and commitment, there’s no doubt Kristi has a long career
talents and opens doors of opportunity.
at Alamo Colleges. These success and
ahead of her. “I can’t imagine not being
Where I am is where I’m supposed to
trial-and-error stories have helped
in communications. I plan to continue to
be and I have a job to do here. I’m
people and they remember that.”
doing it for a higher purpose, and I
Wyatt also credits her success to a
pursue my passion and help other women along the way.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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Matt tuMiNSoN Artist By Christie Cuthbert Photography by Janet Rogers
Where did you grow up? How did you become an artist? I was raised in Early, Texas, a small town of about 2,000 near Abilene. Both my parents were teachers, and the plan was for me to teach as well up until I started selling my art. I was always kind of artistic growing up, but it has evolved over the years. I later went on to Texas Tech
One hot summer day in June, Matt Tumlinson found himself doodling a sketch of a European skyline in the dirt on the tailgate of his truck. It caught the eye of so many; a local newspaper even wrote a story about it. An artist whose talent spans a wide variety of mediums, Tumlinson has always had a passion for creating. For the last seven years he has been fortunate enough to turn his life-long love into a highly buzzed about career. He's inspired by stepping outside of his bubble, and his beautiful creations grace the neighborhoods of San Antonio and the world. 104 SAWOMAN.COM
University and majored in history. You use many mediums in your art, including bullet casings. How did that come about? In college, I got a job working for my uncle on the southside of San Antonio. He had just bought a gun range. Despite growing up where I did and being around guns, I wasn't necessarily comfortable with them. When I started working at this
responsibly like they would with tools. I would explain that it's not the same here (Texas) as its portrayed in the media. But then I'd go home to my little hometown and be seen as this liberal guy. I had to be fluent in both of these opposite worlds. The best way for me to start a conversation was always with my artwork. Along with painting on bullet casings, you also work on canvas and guitars, and you paint murals. How did that come about? It’s something I’m really, excited about. laying them on top of each other, lining
I've been painting murals for three years.
them up. My first one was an oil painting
I've been doing them in Rankin in West
of a Comanche chief on the casings. The
Texas, and I've also become part of the
painting is tied to the message. I give
San Antonio Street Art Initiative which is
people both sides of the gun debate,
organized by local artists. They're doing
which is nationwide. People bring their
murals all over town, and it's really neat. I
own paths and their own experiences to
did one of George Strait on St. Mary's
this artwork. One person can see
Street and it went viral, and George
something entirely different than
commented that he liked it, so that was
someone else might see. It's a metaphor
really, cool.
for who we are as people; how we can see our own experiences in things, and gun range, my understanding of firearms
When you’re not busy painting, what
someone else could see the exact
do you like to do in your spare time?
opposite. Currently, my work is sold in
My wife Allison and I really like exploring
changed. It didn't get less complicated,
galleries in La Jolla, California, and at
San Antonio, but now having a 2-year-
but I understood more of the nuances of
Texas Treasures in Boerne, but I also
old, our son Jack, that has slowed us
guns. You'd see people who were
have a studio at Hausmann Millworks
down a bit. We try to go out and do
responsible gun owners, and then you'd
here in San Antonio.
something new every week in the city,
that's why we need stricter gun laws."
Firearms are a part of your art, but
on. I think it’s a good time to be living in San Antonio.
and there’s always something cool going
see people who make you think, "oh, The experiences there were confusing,
they’ve also worked their way into
so I used the artwork as a metaphor for
your discussions throughout your
taking something that's usually seen as a
travels. How have you gone about
Not many can say they’re truly
destructive force and turning it into
dispelling stereotypes?
passionate about what they do for a
something creative.
When I used to travel, and people would
living. How does it feel getting to
hear that I'm from Texas, they would
make a living doing what you love?
What made you think to turn the
automatically draw certain conclusions. In
Well, I’ve ruined myself on ever holding
bullet casings into art?
a way, I had to articulate why those
down a normal job. I work twice as hard,
Above the gun range was a small
stereotypes existed and be the face of
but I love what I do, so it’s all worth it. I
apartment, and I would live up there
Texas. Even though I've never been a big
don’t think I could work any other way.
during the summers while I worked. Art
gun person, I knew a lot about that
People often say, “when did you become
was my hobby, so I was always working
world. I would explain firearms as a tool,
an artist?” and I always reply, “I’ve always
on something, and one day I just started
and that those who own them should act
been one, I just get paid for it now.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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HILL COUNTRY WOMEN
By Jennifer O’Neill Photography by David Teran
The small town offers no shortage of big opportunities for unique finds. These women take great care in providing just the right products and shopping experience to all who visit their stores.
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Kat Balmos
Lot 59 and The Local These days everybody craves an experience — what you’re doing and where — and shopping is not to be left out
The Local, with its more mainstream feel, is a tourist destination in the heart of downtown and showcases Balmos’
among the list of possibilities. Storeowner Kat Balmos
more sophisticated side with its significant support of local
understands the need for an ultimate experience while
art. And that doesn’t refer to just paintings, but also the local
shopping, and that’s what she gives customers when they
artisans’ goods she features. It carries a variety of hand-made
visit her New Braunfels spots, Lot 59 and The Local. Every
items including jewelry, local apparel, gift items, and even
detail of her stores is reflected with that in mind. Her lifestyle store Lot 59 represents her hippy, bohemian,
nursery plants. The thing she has loved the most about premiering The Local is how it allows young artists who make
and eccentric side mixed with new, on-trend apparel with
something and use their creativity to put their items in front of
relevant, vintage pieces. The décor, furniture, and other
people. Being able to provide this platform has been as she
collective items she offers also highlight her appreciation for
puts it, “the real fun.” As with Lot 59, The Local introduces a
nostalgia and all things vintage. The name itself is steeped in
bit of nostalgia to visitors by displaying the iconic star from her
history with Lot 59, referring to the lot number her grandfather
grandfather’s pharmacy business in the 1800s.
(five generations ago) chose as one of the original founders of
And running two stores might seem like a lot for some, but
New Braunfels. Even the site of the store is in an old vintage
for Balmos, it's not about the volume but the fact that it is
house, and everything in it is handpicked and curated by her.
hers. She has taken her experience from a long-standing
Balmos describes herself as a picker using visits to estate
career in fashion and mixed that with her love of history to
sales or the antique hotspots of Round Top and Warrenton to
keep things new and fresh for that shopping experience
find just the right pieces she is looking to bring into the store.
unlike any other.
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Yolie Nash
Nash Bros. Stores Accepting change can be challenging for anyone, but for Yolie Nash, she knew she was taking a step in the right direction when she left her career in interior design to open her own store. She took a love for shopping and put it toward opening Nash Bros. Stores, where she provides an assortment of vintage-inspired clothing and lots of other merchandise. She explains how she could never turn off work before, but now has fun and gains fulfillment in the unique merchandise she buys for the store and in the way she plays with displays to showcase the clothing she carries. She even recalls the moment she fell in love with the restored house where Nash Bros. resides. It was originally built back in 1854, and once she saw it, she knew she had to have it and go for it. The decision for the store's name also comes from love and reverence for the once-iconic department store, Frost Bros., of her hometown San Antonio. She always loved the store's name, and having her own family of sons left Nash Bros. to fit perfectly. The store’s location in downtown New Braunfels is a prime spot for the frequent out of town visitors the store
bring back jewelry with a religious folk art feel, and she also has fun with the products she offers for men including
sees daily, and she is happiest when she sees customers
soaps, lotions, and beard oils. She’s recently been making
discover their own joy when walking through the store. She
efforts to offer more American made products and also
has built up a client base for the variety of items she offers
provides a wide range of price points to allow customers to
for men and women while also providing a selection of
buy at least one thing when stopping by.
home décor items with an antique feel. Even the women’s clothing line of Magnolia Pearl exudes a sense of older,
Every detail, decision, and item she selects is derived from love and devotion for the products and the customers.
romantic clothing, and she is particularly excited about a line
Nash feels lucky to be allowed to carry the lines that she
of coats she has brought to the store just in time for the fall
offers, and she is most grateful to be doing what she loves,
and winter season. A recent trip to Venice inspired Nash to
“Every time I walk into the store, I fall in love with it again.” NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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Brooke Watkins Lil’ Coonies Cottage Children’s Boutique
In some instances, the timing has to be just right for things to come together, and for Brooke Watkins that certainly rings true. Her store, Lil’ Coonies Cottage Children’s Boutique, was born from a combination of the right timing, experience, a love for clothes, and most importantly, a love for people. With the help of her mother, Kim Murphy, Brooke has been running the New Braunfels boutique for three years and enjoying every part of it since the day they began. The shop, located in Gruene Lake Village, is the only spot of its kind in the area, and takes pride in not only being able to provide one-ofkind styles for children but also serving them and their families. The value of family is what Lil’ Coonies Cottage runs on, with even the name playing a nod to family. Watkins shared how it's a reminder of growing up in the country with pet raccoons and a term of endearment for her own children who have grown up in the boutique
Brook’s desire to help and serve extends to the
with her. She wouldn't have it any other way, saying, "The
community of New Braunfels as well. Since their first year
only people you can trust are family," and both mother and
in business, Watkins and Murphy have always made
daughter credit the other for their joy and success as
efforts to donate unsold inventory to groups in need. Last
business owners. Watkins shared she would not be able to
year Lil' Coonies gave excess clothing inventory, valued at
run things without her mother, and Murphy explained her
over $30,000 retail, to the foster children of True Light
daughter's ever-present love for people and desire to help
Ministries. Watkins and Murphy are excited to partner with
them makes customer service their number one priority.
Simply Detailed in its Mother-Daughter Fashion Show for
Their goal is to put ease into the shopping experience for
the first time.
both children and families, believing that fashion at a young age should be fun, make them feel good, and prepare them
Watkins is so grateful and honored for the connections she has made with fellow area business owners, the
for a "dress for success" attitude. The boutique carries
community, and most of all, her customers. She does it
plenty of styles to accomplish that for both boys and girls,
because she loves the personal contact that comes with
ranging in sizes from preemie to size 16 for girls and up to
running a store, and the fun she’s having along the way is
size 12 in boys.
the reward she never imagined she would gain from it all.
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at the bar, as well as hot cocoa and s’mores by the campfire. Santa will be
commemorate and promote the
at his favorite ranch to hear holiday
German heritage of New Braunfels,
wishes through Christmas Eve. Photos
which has been an important role in it’s
with Santa are free.
cultural life since it was founded by
CHRISTKINDLMARKT BRINGS A GERMAN CHRISTMAS TO TExAS OLD WEST CHRISTMAS LIGHT FEST ADDS SPARKLE TO YOUR HOLIDAYS Enjoy holiday magic in a true Texas setting with Santa, dazzling lights, live music, food and fun during Old West Christmas Light Fest at Enchanted Springs Ranch, 242 Hwy 46 W in Boerne. Now in its sixth year, this year’s event is open from 6 to 10 pm Thanksgiving through Christmas night. Drive into the ranch filled with twinkling lights in an Old West town. Whether it’s walking through light tunnels, visiting with Santa, saying howdy to Santa’s Holly Jolly Herd or saving Christmas during a game of laser tag, Old West Christmas Light Fest makes for a memorable holiday season. Escape the holiday stress by playing in one of the Old West’s Escape Rooms, navigate your way through a light maze, go on a scavenger hunt, or learn holiday cookie decorating. You can also have fun with friends creating holiday paintings with Painting with a Twist. Live music is on tap each night with beer and wine
Germans in 1845.
Experience a Germaninspired Christmas without leaving the Lone Star State. Just head on over to New Braunfels for the annual Christkindlmarkt from 5 pm to 9 pm on Friday, Dec. 6 and 10 am to 9 pm on Saturday, Dec. 7 at Schlitterbahn where there will be plenty of food, drink, family fun and shopping galore. Hosted by the New Braunfels Heritage Foundation, the German Christmas market offers craft beer, wine and platefuls of good eats from Texas Po' Boys, B&B Funnel Cakes, Barking Bad Bakery, JD's Chili, Lisa’s Weihnachtsbrödle, Lone Star Hot Dogs and Uwe's Bakery & Deli. It’s a great chance to purchase Christmas ornaments and handcrafted artisan gifts. A rock-climbing wall, bungee trampolines, educational activities, face painting and photos with the Christkindl and Santa and Mrs. Claus will be available, along with two days of music, singing and dancing.
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The goal of the Christkindlmarkt is to
SANTA’S RANCH IN NEW BRAUNFELS LIGHTS UP THE HOLIDAYS Pack the kids into the car and be dazzled by the brilliant Christmas light displays, including lit-up gingerbread houses, depictions of the North Pole, and Nativity scenes, all happening at Santa’s Ranch from nov. 8 through Jan. 4 at 9561 IH-15 north, 78130. Santa’s Ranch has become a holiday tradition for many families and is considered to be one of the best light displays in the Lone Star State with 1.5 million lights. The location is not hard to find – just look for the 50-foot Christmas tree. Food, beverages and souvenirs are available for sale.
NEW BRAUNFELS & CIBOLO Just a few miles outside of San Antonio are two quaint towns with adorable shops, great restaurants and lots of activities and events that are fun for everyone. Every Thursay CIBOLO FARMERS MARKET
November 19 – 21 FESTIvAL OF TREES
413 North Main Street Cibolo
490 Porter Street New Braunfels
November 1 – 10 WURSTFEST
December 9 CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING
120 Landa Street New Braunfels November 2 WURST 5 MILE RUN
Landa Park 32 Gazebo Circle New Braunfels November 2 FALL FUNFEST
Fischer Park Nature Education Center 1820 McQueeney Road New Braunfels November 9 NEW BRAUNFELS HALF MARATHON
Stars & Stripes Drive-In Theatre 1178 Kroesche Lane New Braunfels November 9 NEW BRAUNFELS vETERANS DAY PARADE
Main Plaza 500 Main Plaza New Braunfels November 15 TREE LIGHTING PARTY
Downtown Social 386 West San Antonio Street, New Braunfels
Cibolo City Hall 200 South Main Street Cibolo December 13 CAROLING ON THE PLAzA
Downtown Main Plaza Gazebo 2339 Gruene Lake Drive New Braunfels December 14 27TH ANNUAL JINGLE BELL RUN
1601 Hunter Road New Braunfels December 14 BREAKFAST WITH THE GRINCH
Landa Haus 360 Aquatic Circle New Braunfels December 14 6TH ANNUAL CIBOLO HOLIDAY PARADE
Borgfeld Road & Cibolo Valley Drive, Cibolo December 19 – 22 THE NUTCRACKER
Brauntex Performing Arts Theatre 290 West San Antonio Street, New Braunfels NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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NEW BRAUNFELS & CIBOLO Some of Texas’ Best Kept Secrets – Wine, Dine and be Entertained at New Braunfels & Cibolo’s tastiest restaurants and eateries.
HICCUPS & CHURROHOLIC Asian fusion plus churros and specialty coffees. From pad thai, filet mignon pho, sriracha sizzlin’ fries to handcrafted milkshakes. 2031 Central Plaza #103, New Braunfels, 78130 hiccupsteahouse.com
FORK & SPOON PATIO CAFé & BAKERY A varied menu of timeless favorites, fresh baked goods, and served with juices, wines, and cold beer. 651 N. Business I-35 #1150, New Braunfels forkandspoonnb.com
188 SOUTH An eclectic menu offering small plates like brisket risotto and grilled edamame as well as delicious pizza. 188 S. Castell Ave., New Braunfels BOOTLEGGERS PIzzA PARLOR Order a whole handcrafted pizza, by the slice, or create your own. Pool tables and games for added fun. 197 S. Seguin Ave., New Braunfels bootleggerspizzaparlor.com
THE RIvER HOUSE TEA ROOM Home-cooked meals served with fresh, local ingredients. Enjoy afternoon tea with entrees and desserts on their shady patio. 1617 New Braunfels St., New Braunfels theriverhousetx.com
BUTTERMILK CAFé American comfort foods from buttermilk pancakes to fried okra served in a cheery atmosphere with an upscale twist. 1324 E. Common St., New Braunfels thebuttermilkcafe.com
2TARTS BAKERY Scratch baking of cakes, pastries, and cookies, plus a light café menu all served in a colorful eclectic setting. 139 N. Castell, New Braunfels 2tarts.com
ALPINE HAUS GERMAN RESTAURANT German fare served in 163-year-old landmark building. Pair your meal with ice-cold German beer. Reservations are encouraged. 251 S. Seguin Ave., New Braunfels alpinehousenb.com 114 SAWOMAN.COM
LA COSECHA MExICAN TABLE A new take on traditional Tex-Mex cuisine. Try their halibut with carrot mole, white mole or mole poblano. 505 Business I-35 N, New Braunfels lacosechatx.com
CROSSWALK COFFEEHOUSE & CAFé Quaint coffeehouse serving sandwiches, soups, salads, smoothies, breakfast, and varied coffee offerings. 471-A Main Plaza, New Braunfels crosswalkcoffee.com
HUISACHE GRILL AND WINE BAR An intimate and casual eatery known for excellent food served with fresh regional ingredients. Extensive wine list. 303 W. San Antonio St., New Braunfels huisache.com
TExAS BISTRO AT PARK vIEW Eclectic menu, from pecan-crusted brie to bistro shrimp & grits. A special menu for weekend brunch and happy hour. 1932 S. Seguin Ave., New Braunfels txbistro.com
KRAUSE’S CAFé AND BIERGARTEN Come for breakfast and stay for dinner. Offering an extensive selection of local and German beers. 148 S. Castell Ave, New Braunfels krausescafe.com
MAKO’S ON THE CREEK Located along the Cibolo Creek with a great view of the Hill Country. A wide variety of draft beers plus an extensive wine list. 169 Buffalo Pl., Cibolo makostx.com
HARMON’S BARBECUE A friendly family owned restaurant with authentic Texas barbecue. Plenty of seating available and can accommodate large parties. 100 S. Main St., Cibolo harmonsbbq.com
1908 HOUSE OF WINE & ALE Offering over 120 wines, 15 draft and 35 canned beers. Sit inside and enjoy the atmosphere or outside and take in the scenery. 207 N. Main St., Cibolo 1908houseofwine.com
KINDLING TExAS KITCHEN Locally sourced food offering Southern classics such as cornbread, heritage pork chop, and blackened red fish. 209 N. Main St., Cibolo kindlingtexaskitchen.com
EMILY’S PLACE COFFEE SHOPPE Quaint coffee shop offering specialty coffees plus frappes, baked goodies, and whole cakes. Small patio to enjoy your coffee. 100 N. Main St., Cibolo 210-267-5570 emilysplacecoffee.com NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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Our Stories AND WHY IT’S IMPORTANT TO TELL THEM By Jennifer O’Neill
Throughout our life's journey, we create stories that make up who we are, but we don't stop to think about the impact those stories might have on the ones we love. It’s important to document and save those accounts because by doing so, we can create family connections that can be carried down through generations. Every time, place, person, and event has a history. We know and learn from stories of the past through recorded accounts, whether they were written down, filmed, or audio recorded because someone thought to document what took place. What we don’t notice is that over time, all of us
Written Documentation The format of using the written word may be one of the easier and, yet, more personal of them all. It presents plentiful opportunities to record many significant memories, and truly allows your loved ones
go through our day-to-day tasks and routines without
to treat your life moments as your own personal novel. You
realizing we are living and playing out our own life stories. In
can choose to write about special times in your life to
the moment, you may share with your children and
include memories from your childhood and those with your
grandchildren stories of events, special times, and
siblings. Sharing these might help to explain where specific
adventures through conversations, but we don’t stop to
family traditions come from and why you may perform them.
think how those stories can make an impact and leave
Another option might be to keep a journal to maintain an up-
lasting memories for those loved ones. Your story and how
to-date account of your everyday activities. In my own
you tell it can become a treasured link between you and
family, this particular type of record served as a comfort after
your family, connecting them with your past to preserve your
experiencing the loss of my mother, Dolores. She lived with
family's history in the future.
the autoimmune disease Lupus for several years, and I was
With today’s technology, there are countless ways to easily document your narratives and no limits to what you
always aware of how she would keep notes on her health to update her physicians. What I hadn’t realized and didn’t
can share. You might think to yourself why and what will
learn until after she was gone was how she was an avid
your family find relevant and will they be interested in what
journal writer. I found several notebooks she kept and within
you have to say. No matter what stories you choose to tell
them a window into how she felt on a particular day, what
and how you choose to do it, whether, through writing,
she might have done, and with whom. What I discovered to
video, or audio methods, you will be giving them an
be even more special were the moments she describes of
invaluable gift.
time spent with my sister and me and what it meant to her.
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After her loss, finding these journals helped to manage the
computer and a webcam. Even your phone has recording
grief you typically feel when losing someone close to you.
capabilities, but you may be limited with data space so that
There’s a reason people say, “Put it in writing,” when it
might be worth checking before you begin.
comes to contracts. Written stories can leave an enduring impression no matter what you decide to share, and you
Audio Recording If you would rather not share your stories
can think of it as your personal contract binding you to your
through video, then audio recording is another
loved ones.
good option. This method will be the simplest of
video
the three because you can just hit the record button and Watching the act of you recounting events through video can be the more entertaining option when it comes to sharing your stories. It
allows you to bring your tales to life through your
begin talking. Again, you can think of it as your own personal novel much like the writing format, but in this case, it acts as a book on tape. Hearing your voice resonate through your tales can serve as a comfort, and it can also
appearance, mannerisms, facial expressions, and voice. The
provide an entertainment factor similar to that of video.
significance of seeing you while hearing your accounts can
Recordings can be made with an audio recorder or your
make your storytelling that much more meaningful.
phone.
Grandchildren may take the most pleasure in viewing videos
With today’s generation constantly seeking connections
because it can act as your family's documentary, especially
through social media, why not give them a front-row seat to
if you recall the time involving their parents during their
the stories that connect you with them. They will
younger days. On the other hand, some of the stories you
undoubtedly enjoy learning more about who you are, what
might discuss don’t always have to center around family. For
you did, and how it impacts them today.
example, your profession might have been one that was interesting and different, and something worth detailing if you took great pleasure in it. There are a few options available for recording your story
Story Ideas • Births of Children and Grandchildren • Family Gatherings
sessions, and you can make it as simple or more detailed as
• Friendships • Travel Endeavors • Career Highlights
you like. You can record with a camcorder or use your
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ENTERTAINMENT
The Nutcracker Presented by Ballet San Antonio
The Tobin Center for Performing Arts • november 29 through December 8 The magic and beauty of “The
Plan a fun-filled ballet day to include
Nutcracker” presented by Ballet
the Saturday matinee performance
San Antonio comes to life at the
followed by a Meet & Greet onstage
Tobin Center for the Performing
with the production’s main cast on
Arts from Nov. 29 through Dec. 8
Dec. 7 immediately following the
is certain to be cherished by children
matinee performance. Don’t miss this
and adults alike. As an added holiday
exclusive photo opportunity with the
treat, music is provided by the San
main cast to create magical memories
Antonio Symphony while local school
with your friends and family. Tickets
children are part of the cast.
required for specific events.
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FORD HOLIDAY RIVER PARADE
Featuring ZZ Top guitarist as Grand Marshall november 29 • 6 pm to 9 pm
TONY AWARD WINNING BEST MUSICAL
Dear Evan Hansen The Majestic Theatre • December 17 through 22 “Dear Evan Hansen,” which tells the story of teen Evan
Texas native and zz Top guitarist Bill Gibbons has the
Hansen, who suddenly becomes the most popular boy at
honor of serving as the parade’s grand marshall, which is
school after his journal of daily affirmations are found in the
only fitting since this year’s theme is “Texas Music Christmas.”
pocket of a boy who commits suicide, plays at the Majestic
Each float represents a Texas musician and their favorite
Theater for eight performances only Dec. 17-22.
Christmas tunes. Other Texas artists scheduled to perform
Winner of six 2017 Tony Awards, including Best Musical, was
atop their festive floats are five-time Grammy winner Flaco
declared “one of the most remarkable shows in musical
Jimenez, Little Joe, Steve Earle, Patsy Torres, Tish
theater history” by the Washington Post.
Hinojosa, Shelly Lares and Augie Meyers.
UIW LIGHT THE WAY Carries On a 30-Plus Year Tradition University of the Incarnate Word november 23 - January 6 Some 10,000 people are expected to attend the Nov. 23 opening of Light the Way on the campus of the University of the Incarnate Word, as they did last year. Held annually on the Saturday before Thanksgiving, the holiday festival, which features more than 1 million twinkling lights, includes a Holiday Shoppe, where you can do your Christmas shopping on site, as well as a Kid’s Corner (take selfies with Santa) and a Food Truck Yard. There will also be entertainment, musical performances and a fireworks display. The lights will be turned on each night until Jan. 6. NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT CALENDAR First Thursday THE PEARL’S FIRST THURSDAY NIGHT MARKET The Historic Pearl
4 – 8 PM Local vendors from the Pearl Farmers Market at the Pearl every first Thursday evening of the month. Live music, dining and shopping, offering a chance to eat, sip and explore goods while shopping local. AtPearl.com
Every Saturday MEDITATION IN THE JAPANESE GALLERY San Antonio Museum of Art
10:15 – 11 AM Serene, guided meditation in the Japanese art gallery. Cushions and stools provided. Free with admission.
November 9
You might even bump into Santa during your visit.
LUMINARIA
christmaslightfest.com
Empire Theatre
majesticempire.com
majesticempire.com
Center
November 16 WINE DOWN AT THE GARDEN
6 – 10 PM Discover new wines from the Hill Country and pair them with tasty treats.
Garden
first-friday
November 9 TRAILS FUR TAILS McAllister Park
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Antonio. Their new Speechless tour will feature new compositions, acts, and instruments.
8 PM Nick Colionne & Paul Taylor will be the star performers for an evening filled with jazz.
First Friday of every Month FIRST FRIDAY
Southtownsatx.com/
River Walk
luminariasa.org
San Antonio Botanical
San Antonio’s longest running art walk, established by local artists. Chock full of art, vendors, gallery spaces and San Antonio’s creative eats and drinks. It’s an entire neighborhood experience anchored by the Blue Star Arts Complex.
November 29 FORD HOLIDAY RIvER PARADE
7 PM – Midnight Illuminating the Hemisfair, this free festival features visual, performance, installation, dance, theatre, literary, and multimedia arts.
SAMuseum.org
Blue Star Arts Complex
Historic Market
Hemisfair
November 15 ALAMO CITY JAzz SERIES
November 21 CHAMPION WINE AUCTION Rosenburg Skyroom
6 – 10 PM Enjoy a special sampling of 14 Champion Wines as well as exclusive tastings of Double Gold & Top of Class Wines. Experience a great dinner, live musical entertainment, a silent auction, wine pull & plenty of opportunities to stock up on your holiday wine needs. sarodeo.com
November 22-24 BLUE MAN GROUP Majestic Theatre
The famous Blue trio is bringing their legendary performance to San
December 1 LA GRAN TAMALADA
November 28 TURKEY TROT Commander’s House Senior
6:30 AM Stretch your legs for this 5K walk/run before you have your delicious Thanksgiving dinner. Bring the whole family and your furry pet to the race. Every registration provides a turkey dinner to a family in need given by the San Antonio Food Bank. safoodbank.org/turkeytrot
November 28 – December 25 OLD WEST CHRISTMAS LIGHT FEST Enchanted Springs Ranch
6 – 10 PM Come see this holiday light spectacular with more than 2 million twinkling lights. Enjoy delicious treats while strolling through some of the 40 Old West buildings covered in lights.
6 – 9 PM Spend an evening celebrating the holiday season with this San Antonio tradition. This night parade will be filled with lights, floats, and music. Each float will depict a Texas musician and their Christmas music. thesanantonioriverwalk.com
November 29 H-E-B TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY 3 – 6 PM Travis Park
Square
11 AM - 7 PM A cultural tradition! Learn how to make tamales and take a few of your own home with hands-on workshops or buy your holiday tamales from dozens of vendors. Childrens activities, music, Pancho Claus and more. Free to the public. guadalupeculturalarts.org
December 5 - 22 FORD HOLIDAY BOAT CAROLING San Antonio River Walk
San Antonio has its own version of caroling, with singing on the River Walk. Sing in the holiday season on one of the boats or enjoy listening from the banks.
Watch the 35th Annual H-E-B Tree Lighting Ceremony. The 50-foot tree will be hard to miss covered with over 250,000 Christmas lights and custom-made ornaments. This free family-friendly event will have holiday activities, live entertainment, and Santa Claus will be making a special stop.
7 & 9:30 PM The very talented comedian is bringing his best material to the Alamo City.
travisparksa.com
majesticempire.com
November 30 HOLIDAY FAIR
December 7 - 8 ROCK ‘N’ ROLL MARATHON
San Antonio Museum of Art
10 – 5 PM San Antonio Museum of Art is having their 6th Annual Holiday Fair. The fair will be filled with unique finds from local artisans. samuseum.org
thesanantonioriverwalk.com
December 6 JERRY SEINFELD Majestic Theatre
Downtown San Antonio
7 AM Put your best foot forward for this two day music infused marathon series offers options for every runner: 5K, 10K, Kids Rock, 2-person half marathon, half marathon, and full marathon. runrocknroll.com
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December 13 – 15 HOLIDAY ARTISAN SHOW San Antonio River Walk
11 AM – 11 PM Shop for beautiful handmade merchandise along the River Walk. Artisans are different for each show, but usually include pottery, textiles, jewelry, woodwork, paintings, beadwork and more. thesanantonioriverwalk.com
December 12 POINSETTIA BALL
CELEBRATE SA Hemisfair
6 PM – 12:15 AM San Antonio’s official new Years Eve Celebration. This free exravaganza will have live music, carnival games and rides, festival food and an amazing fireworks show. saparksfoundation.org
Grand Hyatt
7 – 11 PM Friends of Hospice is having their 30th Poinsettia Ball to help raise funds for San Antonio’s uninsured and underinsured hospice patients and their families. Have an enjoyable evening with cocktails, a double entrée dinner, and live music by the Nash Hernandez Orchestra while raising funds for the people in need. Since 1998, the Poinsettia Ball has raised over $2 million.
December 31
December 12 – 15 MAGIK THEATRE PRESENTS: A CHARLIE BROWN CHRISTMAS Empire Theatre
Your favorite Christmas story has made its way to the stage of the Empire Theatre. Charlie Brown and the Peanuts Gang are finding the true meaning of Christmas. majesticempire.com
friendsofhospicesa.org
December 23 CIRQUE MUSICA PRESENTS HOLIDAY WISHES
December 29 – 30 THE COLOR PURPLE
The Tobin Center
Majestic Theatre
A holiday story comes to life in this theatrical cirque event for the entire family. Featuring the worldrenound cast of Cirque Musica with your favorite holiday hits performed live by a symphony orchestra. Be amazed by acrobats, aerialists, hilarious hi-jinks, and holiday cheer. Show blends spellbinding grace and daredevil athleticism.
December 30 SPURS FUNDAMENTAL BASKETBALL CAMPS
See the 2016 Tony Award® winner for best musical revival, The Color Purple. Experience the soul-raising, Grammywinning score of jazz, gospel, ragtime and blues. Don’t miss this epic story of a young woman’s journey to love and triumph in the American South.
AT&T Center
9 AM – 12 PM Train like an NBA player for a day. Boys and girls ages 7-14 can learn skills and drills on the Spurs court and receive a tour of the AT&T center and take photos with the championship trophies. spurs.com/camps
majesticempire.com
tobincenter.org
HEADS UP! Spend an evening with Captain Scott Kelly. Together with his identical twin brother Mark, they paved the way for the future of space travel and exploration as the subjects of an unprecedented NASA study on how space affects the human body. With awe-inspiring stories from space and personal reflections on leadership, teamwork and testing limits, Scott inspires others to believe that they can reach any goal, no matter how ambitious or audacious. As he looks back on the expedition that shuttled him into history books, audiences revel in the presence of a true American hero and gather unique takeaways on persistence, resilience and self-determination that transform the way they view their own journey through life.
The Sky is Not the Limit
LESSONS FROM A YEAR IN SPACE with Captain Scott Kelly The Tobin Center • H-E-B Performance Hall
January 22, 2020 • 7:30 pm
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DINING
Outlaw Kitchens A True Neighborhood Bistro By Meredith Keller
rue satisfaction when dining out
Photography by Janet Rogers
we love so much. Everything in the
planning very seriously. He states, “I put
comes when you leave a
restaurant and the residence, was
my menu together with the best that I
restaurant full, happy and you
repurposed and built by Peggy herself.
can produce on that particular day.” He
feel that your money was well spent. It
She is a dynamic lady with a warm and
keeps the restaurant and the options to
is such a tremendous feeling to know
welcoming personality. Paul and Peggy
a minimum so that he can “touch
that you were taken care of by people
bought the house on North Flores
everything” to make sure his guests
who truly care and love what they do.
Street with the intention of creating an
have the best experience.
Such is the case with one of the most
intimate restaurant where friends and
unique restaurants in San Antonio.
neighbors could gather for a tasty meal without travelling too far.
Outlaw Kitchens seats only 28 diners,
A graduate of the Culinary Institute of America (CIA) in New York, Chef Paul has had quite an impressive career.
and it is usually packed. This tiny and
Chef Paul creates the menus every
Raised in Pittsburgh, he taught at the
adorable restaurant is housed in the
Sunday with the freshest ingredients in
CIA campuses in Hyde Park, Napa and
front section of the residence of Chef
mind. The restaurant is currently open
most recently, he opened the CIA in San
Paul Sartory and his wife Peggy. It is
from Wednesday through Saturday, and
Antonio. He had the honor of working
surrounded by organic gardens and
the menu changes every two days. Paul
with Alain Ducasse in Monaco, and he
offers a beautiful patio for outdoor
creates menus based on the season
represented the US at the Bocuse D’Or,
seating on those temperate nights that
and the weather, and he takes menu
one of the most prestigious cooking
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competitions in the world. He met his
want to start your evening with their
wife Peggy in New York and they have
signature Lillet Sparkler.
been together for ten years. Her former
This restaurant is a true gem, and the warm and friendly staff welcome you like family. Outlaws does take walk-in
mother-in-law was an instructor with
One recent menu was inspired by Spain
diners, but you will want to call ahead or
Paul at the CIA — that’s how they met.
— Chef Paul created an lovely meal with
email for reservations to secure your
a tapas sampler, paella, goat cheese
seat at the table.
Menus are posted on the Outlaw
macaroni and cheese, and profiteroles
Kitchens website each week, and
for dessert. It was a delightful meal full
In a city full of chain restaurants and
reservations are highly recommended.
of flavor and cooked with love. The
high-priced culinary destinations,
The restaurant has a huge following of
menus truly reflect what is in season,
Outlaw Kitchens is truly one of kind —
regulars, with many of them dining there
with a more produce forward and
a quaint and comfortable neighborhood
twice a week to sample both weekly
Mediterranean flavor for the summer
bistro where guests are treated like
menus. Each menu consists of an
months, and a heartier fare served in
treasured friends.
appetizer, two entrées (one meat dish
the winter months.
and one vegetarian option), and your choice from three desserts. They offer a
Beginning in 2020, Outlaw Kitchens will
limited but thoughtfully curated selection
be open Thursday through Saturday,
of wine and beer, and you will definitely
with the menu changing weekly.
Photos: (opposite page): Outlaw Kitchens patio, bar and interior seating. (this page, clockwise from top left): Sampling of nightly menu, paella, Spanish tapas appetizer, goat cheese macaroni and cheese, profiteroles with ice cream and coconut, wheat-free chocolate cake with ice cream. NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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SA Loves Tacos
GARDEN TEA LOUNGE A quaint tearoom tucked in a unique antique store. Offering a large selection of teas and a delicious lunch menu with fresh salads and paninis. Check out their lunchtime tea n’ tunes with live performances while you sip on your tea. $
8522 Broadway
AJUúA! Every Sunday morning this Mexican eatery offers a Mexican breakfast brunch buffet. $$
BlumCoffeeAndTea.com
Breakfast and Brunch
11703 Huebner Rd
2375 NW Military Hwy
SABOR COCINABAR Enjoy a delicious plate of chilaquiles with a spicy michelada or pair waffle y pollo with a mimosa. $$
CraftiquesMall.com
5313 McCullough Ave
Ajuua.net
SWEET PARIS CRêPERIE & CAFé Whether you’re craving something savory or sweet, there is a perfect crepe waiting for you. $
16615 Huebner Rd
SweetParis.com
301 E Houston St 8305 Broadway St LaPanderia.com
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New & Noteworthy
13444 West Ave Suite 200 HeroRamenXSushi.com
EL JARRO DE ARTURO Vibrant eatery offering Mexican favorites, margaritas, & frequent live music on the patio. $$ 13421 San Pedro Ave ElJarro.com
TheBreakfasteria.com
15900 La Cantera Pkwy #19160
LA PANADERíA Mexican heritage is shared through the joy of eating. Handmade bread and pan dulce are the crowning glory of this family-owned pastry heaven. $$
955 S Alamo St
HERO’S RAMEN x SUSHI A new ramen and sushi spot offering a variety of delicious options. Try a new Asian beverage from their mini-market. $
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THE BREAKFASTERIA Build your own breakfast bowl with chilaquiles, carnitas, queso fresco, avocado salsa, and so much more. If you’re not in the mood for a breakfast bowl, pick one of their delicious breakfast tacos. You can also blend your own fresh juice. $$
TITO’S MExICAN RESTAURANT This light-filled Mexican spot lures locals with breakfast tacos, fajitas, enchiladas & margaritas. $
ERNESTO’S RESTAURANT Ernesto’s Restaurant serves up unique Mexican food you won’t find anywhere else in San Antonio. Featuring seafood and French flair, this family-run restaurant will not disappoint. PS. Don’t skip dessert!. $$
MAvERICK WHISKEY Spend an afternoon touring this whiskey and gin distillery and follow it with some delicious food and drinks. $$
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MAD HATTERS Offering an extensive tea selection to go perfectly with your weekend brunch. This cozy breakfast, brunch, and tea spot has a special menu for Saturday and Sunday brunch. $ 320 Beauregard St MadHattersTea.com
LA FOGATA Fresh ingredients and traditional recipes are showcased, featuring fire-roasted salsa. The lush outdoor flows into the festive indoors, bringing the fiesta throughout. $$ 2427 Vance Jackson Rd
ARTEA This all women owned and operated Asian fusion eatery has an extensive bubble teas. Their food menu offers unique Asian dishes to be enjoyed inside their modern ambiance. $
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BLUE WHALE This new Asian eatery is serving international street foods that would be commonplace in Korea, Japan, China, and the Middle East. Finish your lunch with their picturesque rainbow pudding or taiyaki. $ 136 Main Plz
Fun and Eclectic
Mediterranean BASIL MEDITERRANEAN KITCHEN This unique Mediterranean restaurant offers an array of Mediterranean dish options from Turkish to Persian. Try their twisted hummus with five different variations like Thai coconut curry hummus. $$ 9955 Frontage Rd BasilSanAntonio.com
PLAYLAND Playland uses all locally sourced ingredients, has a unique pizza menu, and a full bar. All in a setting full of character. $$ 400 E Houston St PlaylandSA.com
OUTLAW KITCHENS You’ll never get bored with Outlaw Kitchens with their everchanging unique menu. Enjoy your delicious meal on their quiet patio. $$ 2919 N Flores St OutlawKitchens.com
OCHO Located inside the Hotel Havana, this local gem is filled with natural light and a remarkable view. Unique Latin dishes and specialty cocktails. Offering breakfast, brunch, lunch, dinner, and happy hour. $$
MR. CHICKPEA A quaint and quiet eatery to enjoy some traditional Lebanese plates like tabouli and manousheh. They also have plenty of vegan options. Try their Lebanese coffee and Lebanese lemonade to compliment your meal. $ 17700 San Pedro Ave MrChickpea.com
zORBAS GREEK MEDITERRANEAN CUISINE A hidden gem serving traditional Greek food. Stay warm with their delicious lentil soup with a pot of Moroccan tea. $ 2110 NW Military Hwy ZorbasGreekMediterranean.com
Happy Hour
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HANzO A unique Asian fusion gastropub that has indoor and outdoor seating. Their happy hour menu includes specialty cocktails, beer, wine, wells, and shots. Happy Hour all day Sunday and Monday, 4 – 8 PM Tuesday through Saturday, and reverse happy hour 11 – 2 AM everyday. $$
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7701 Broadway St
1015 Navarro St HavanaSanAntonio.com
Ez’S Colorful, retro-funky counterserve chain offering pizzas, burgers, & other American faves. $$ 6498 N New Braunfels Ave
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SA EATS where you can build you own pizza and enjoy some specialty cocktails. They’re open for lunch and dinner with a weekend brunch. Great place for a late dinner in this sophisticated atmosphere. $$ 2720 McCullough Ave BarbaroSanAntonio.com
SOHILL CAFé Local eatery with European roots. Beer, wine, and sangria are the options for happy hour, and to munch on while you enjoy an ice cold drink: truffle fries, cheese pizza, Caesar salad, and a meatball burger from their food happy hour menu. Happy hour Tuesday through Saturday 4 – 6:30 PM. $$
THE ESQUIRE A unique establishment to enjoy a delicious burger, savory sandwich, and some classic cocktails. Special menu for late night dinning, happy hour, and daily specials. $$ 155 E Commerce St EsquireTavern-SA.com
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1719 Blanco Rd SoHillCafe.com
SCUzzI’S Family-friendly eatery serving Italian fare. Happy hour M-F from 4 – 7 PM. They also offer different drink special throughout the week like $5 martinis all day Thursday. $$ 24165 West IH 10 Suite 433 4035 N Loop 1604 W #102 ScuzzisItalianRestaurant.com
Late Night Eats
J.PRIME This traditional steakhouse with innovative recipes is a great place to have a family dinner to celebrate the holidays and an unforgettable dining experience. $$$ 1401 N Loop 1604 W JPrimeSteakhouse.com
BROADWAY DAILY BREAD What’s the holidays with no carbs? This bakery offers breads with no artificial ingredients or preservatives. $ LUCY COOPERS Plenty of space for activities at this restaurant bar - games inside and out. Their extensive menu has pizza, wings, shrimp and crab, burgers, and an array of snacks. $$ 16080 San Pedro Ave LucyCoopers.com
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LA LUz TORTILLA FACTORY La Luz goes beyond making tortillas and creates tasty tamales, menudo, and other Mexican classics. Get tortillas and tamales in bulk for the whole family. $ 4120 Blanco Rd
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Photography by Eyeronic Love
Mr. and Mrs. Saul Reyna (Arla Chavez) September 1, 2019
Mr. and Mrs. Brett Rogers (Lori Watkins) September 14, 2019
Virginia Ann Phtoography
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Mr. and Mrs. zachary Richardson (Morgan Smith) September 28, 2019
Mr. and Mrs. Matt Bueno (Larissa Garza) October 19, 2019 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2019
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1967 Frost Bros. department store was considered high fashion in San Antonio until it closed its Houston Street store and North Star Mall store in 1989.
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