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Have you ever heard of Yes Day, the one day a year that can compete with Christmas, where parents answer every child’s request with yes?
6. Eat Your Heart Out
Valentine’s Day school lunches and family dinners
8. Indoor Playtime
Consider these five options to get the kids out of the house—while staying inside!
10. Lodi Pediatric Dentistry
Dental Care & Education for Families
12. Get Artsy with Us
Jagged Lines of Imagination offers free art classes to students of all ages
14. Parenting is Like a Reality TV show
My husband is an avid reality TV show fan. And a few days ago, I caught a few minutes of Top Chef. When one of the contestants was asked to pack up his knives, I laughed out loud, realizing the parallels of the show and my own cooking struggles with my family.
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18. 24 Hours of Family Fun in Reno
Less than three hours from San Joaquin County’s major cities, Reno is a quick winter escape perfect for families.
22. Rub-A-Dub-Dub January is National Bath Safety Month
24. What is Super Lice?
It’s a parent’s nightmare: tiny bugs infiltrating the house through your children’s hair. What’s worse? California has been identified as a super lice state.
26. Kids on the Block
Kids on the Block, a Stockton-based organization helps kids navigate common, age-appropriate social issues, with interactive puppet skits.
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Yes
JUST SAY
BY NORA HESTON TARTE
Have you ever heard of Yes Day, the one day a year that can compete with Christmas, where parents answer every child’s request with yes? It’s a concept that was made popular by New York Times best-selling author Amy Krouse Rosenthal, who wrote the family book Yes Day! Jennifer Garner recently brought more attention to the story with her viral social media posts about her family’s own annual Yes Day celebration. So how do you celebrate Yes Day in your home? The concept is simple but these ground rules might help.
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Set rules ahead of time to keep Yes Day fun but not out-of-control. Rules can include no asking for expensive toys, eating candy all day, or doing something dangerous.
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VALENTINE’S DAY SCHOOL LUNCHES AND FAMILY DINNERS Make your most special little valentine feel loved this holiday with a surprise treat for your sweetie. Sure, you spend time together creating Valentine’s Day Cards for friends and classmates, but this year you can take it a step further with a packed lunch for school, or a special family dinner at home.
I Love You More Than Pizza
Homemade pizza is easy when you buy the raw dough pre made! Head to Artesian Market in Stockton’s Lincoln Center and have a ball! Roll it out, but instead opt for a heart shape instead of the classic circle. Toppings? Those can be heart-shaped, too.
For younger kids, consider keeping Yes Day a secret. They may never figure out why you were so agreeable that day but results will still be enjoyable.
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Let loose. Letting your kids call the shots for 24-hours can be stressful, but try to embrace the day. You may find that thing you kept saying no too wasn’t so bad after all.
A Valentine’s themed lunch will certainly make your tot feel loved! The ideas are endless… heartshaped fruit skewers, heart-shaped sandwiches, an apple with a heart carved into it… you get the idea. Start the day off right with little heart-shaped bacon poppers sure to please any breakfast (er, bacon) aficionado. Fold the raw strips into hearts, and then bake at 400 degrees until crisp.
You are Egg-strodinary
This Valentine’s Day twist on a breakfast classic will leave your little one feeling egg-tra loved! Egg-in-a-hole transforms when you shape your dippy bread cutout into a heart!
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INDOOR Playtime BY FAITH LEWIS
If Santa’s shiny new deliveries have lost some of their luster and you’re scrambling for new ideas to keep the kids entertained for the rest of the Central Valley’s rainy season, consider these five options to get the kids out of the house—while staying inside!
GINGER BUGS
With a citrus-color theme and lively children’s music to set the mood, Ginger Bugs is an inviting indoor play area for young kids. The ball pits and large play house are popular with kids, and parents love the in-house coffee bar and lounge. Also available are bouncing horses, toys, food, and a reading corner. 312 N. Ham Ln., Lodi, (209) 224-8684, GingerbugsLodi.com
SKY ZONE
This indoor trampoline park offers wall-to-wall fun with a toddler zone exclusively for Sky Zone’s youngest bouncers. Older kids will also love battling it out with a jousting match that lands the loser in a pit of foam blocks—and maybe the winner too. After all, it’s hard to resist the temptation of plunging head first into a pit of 10,000 foam cubes. Sky Zone also offers trampoline enhanced basketball, volleyball, and dodgeball. 5358 Pacific Ave., Stockton, (209) 888-0900, SkyZone.com
CENTRAL VALLEY PLAY AND GROW
Exclusively available for children ages six and under, Central Valley Play and Grow is a safe and engaging playhouse that aims at helping kids learn through play. Kids have free reign of a variety of toys and the age appropriate bounce houses, climbing structures, ball pits, and roller coasters are the perfect way to tucker the kiddos out before the ride home. 909B W. Roseburg Ave., Modesto, (209) 408-0957, CVPlayandGrow. com
GO BANANAS
An indoor jump and play center that prides itself on making exercise fun, Go Bananas is the perfect way to get kids off the couch and out of the house without having to brave the weather of the winter months. Older kids can take advantage of the many bounce houses and slides, while the younger kids find their footing in the toddler area. 17918 Murphy Pkwy., Lathrop, (209) 858-1500, GoBananasFun.net
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While this indoor sports arena plays host to all levels of inline hockey and indoor soccer leagues, it also offers open skating and sport classes for kids. Children ages 18 months to 9 years will enjoy the nationally recognized Lil Kickers soccer classes, which operate seasonally. Open skating sessions are held five days a week, with inline and quad skates available to be rented. 1043 S. Acacia Ave., Ripon, (209) 599-2479, VerberoPowerPlay.com
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problems. She is also able to provide other soft tissue procedures in-office with minimal bleeding and faster recovery than the traditional approach. Sometimes the largest hurdle is making children do what they don’t want to do. Nightly brushing can quickly turn into a scream fest for unwilling toddlers but you have to find a way to make it happen. With toddler sons of her own, Dr. Ranchhod knows the struggles related to maintaining good oral hygiene and diet for children and shares professional and personal tips to make brushing more enjoyable. “During office visits we kind of go at their pace,” Dr. Ranchhod says of building trust with her patients. “The first visit they may not lay in the chair and that’s okay. Every child is different and they all need a slightly different approach.” Instead, the first appointment may be no more than show and tell as Dr. Ranchhod and her staff introduce the instruments and answer questions for parents and kids. “It’s usually just fear of the unknown that needs to be overcome.”
Anisha Ranchhod DDS, MSD, owner of Lodi Pediatric Dentistry, is a proponent of oral health education. Whether it’s during preschool visits where she performs puppet shows or at her local dental practice, Dr. Ranchhod spreads awareness of good oral hygiene wherever she goes. Her practice is driven by her belief in community involvement. As a board member of the San Joaquin Dental Society and as Lodi’s only Board Certified Pediatric Dentist, she is involved in as many childhood health and wellness projects as possible. “I really believe in preventative dentistry and minimally invasive dentistry,” says Dr. Ranchhod, who took over the Lodi practice last year. That’s why she focuses on getting kids to visit her office at the correct time (within six months of the first tooth coming in), and educates families on proper nutrition and tooth care. It’s Dr. Ranchhod’s background in pediatric dentistry that sets her apart. Dr. Ranchhod completed a two-year intense pediatric residency at Loma Linda University, in addition to dental school, in order to hone her skills with children. She works with children with special needs and those with true dental anxieties, to include offering in-office sedation when absolutely necessary. Dr. Ranchhod stays up-to-date on the latest developments in dental and pediatric health. As a laser dentist, she provides newborn frenectomy procedures, which allow successful breastfeeding and prevent future speech and dental health
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At Dr Ranchhod’s office, appointments are individualized and always one-on-one. Kids build trust in Dr. Ranchhod and her staff because they see the same doctor and the same assistants each visit, and the small office lends itself not only to a healthy, long relationship between child and dentist, but between child and oral health. FOR MORE INFORMATION: LODI PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 1300 W. Lodi Ave., Suite M, Lodi (209) 333-0374, LodiDDS.com
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For many people, art is an outlet that presents itself early in life. When school art classes just aren’t enough to allow teen’s creativity to flourish, Jagged Lines of Imagination (JLI) offers a solution. Founded in 2006 by local artist, teacher, and father—Jon Guerzon—the goal of JLI was to ensure all children and teens had access to art classes. Nine years later, JLI joined Stockton’s Family Resource & Referral Center (FRRC)—a nonprofit organization that aims to improve the wellbeing of children and families. Operating out of FRRC’s Teen Impact Center’s art studio, and funded in part by the Stockton Arts Commission, California Arts Council, and Stockton Arts Foundation, Jagged Lines of Imagination is able to offer free art classes to students of all ages. “JLI’s Lead Artists are all professional artists who not only teach art, but can also help young artists understand the ins and outs and ups and downs of some of the many ways that artists can make a living,” says Kristen Rinaker, a JLI volunteer who assists with the studio’s administration and grant proposals. Students can participate in regularly scheduled classes Monday, Wednesday,
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and Friday afternoons or they can drop in for open studio sessions Tuesdays from 5 to 6:30 PM. Classes focus on themes that appeal to teen artists by using popular animated characters or television series as subjects. These classes typically run for 12 weeks.
While most classes focus on the techniques that go into drawing figures and overall composition, some classes move beyond this to include lessons in other mediums like sculpture, digital drawing or even acrylic or watercolor painting. “Every lesson begins with basics that are appropriate for younger or less skilled artists,” Kristen says. “With a little experience, students will find they can move ahead more rapidly, following later parts of a lesson while beginners remain focused on basics.” And it turns out that having students of all ages and skill levels working and learning side by side has some unexpected benefits. “Everyone learns from others,” says Kristen. “While one artist is enamored by the work of someone on the right, the person to their left may be salivating over that first artist’s creation. The mutual support among all artists in the studio sparks creativity and increases everyone’s appreciation of differences.” To participate in a JLI class, fill out the Teen Impact Center enrollment and contact form (parent permission is needed for students under 18) when you arrive on the first day and be ready to put pen to paper. FOR MORE INFORMATION: JAGGED LINES OF IMAGINATION 725 N. El Dorado St., Stockton jliacademy.org
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TRENDING
PARENTING is LIKE A REALITY
TV SHOW BY HEATHER ISBILL
My husband is an avid reality TV show fan. And a few days ago, I caught a few minutes of Top Chef. When one of the contestants was asked to pack up his knives, I laughed out loud, realizing the parallels of the show and my own cooking struggles with my family. We have four boys—ages 13-17— and two girls—ages 9 & 10—and every night I have my very own pint-sized panel of judges. Then it hit me—being a parent unnervingly resembles that of several different reality shows!
LET’S JUST START WITH TOP CHEF.
Before, during, and after dinner, I hear various comments as the ‘sixbunch’ (as we call them) pass in and out of the kitchen. What’s that smell? Chicken? AGAIN?! Is something
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burning? I hope that›s not broccoli…I imagine myself, at the end of the 30 minute-time frame that I have to make dinner, (on a good night) exhausted, disheveled, nerves shot, and sweaty— standing before a panel of six kids ready to tell me what I’ve done wrong with the fried chicken. It was a bit greasy and left my hands feeling oily and disgusting. KID 2: It wasn’t as crunchy as KFC’s. KID 3: It was too hard to chew. KID 5: It tasted ok, but now my stomach hurts. KID 1:
OVERALL CONSENSUS: Heather, please pack your knives, and go.
THE AMAZING RACE
Tuesday 5 PM baseball practice, basketball game, gymnastics, and karate lesson. Four different locations, same
time. Throw in two open houses at different schools at 5 PM. I rush home from work—leaving early, I might add. Get the kids ready, fly out the door, and show up too early for one, too late for another. No matter that I moved heaven and earth to pull it together, I still look like a schmuck at both places. I’m running like a madwoman against the clock. I am never going to make it! GO GO GOOOOO! Detour - Roadblock U-turn - NO ...! ARRRRRRGH!! (And you know, someone always ends up crying on the Amazing Race, but in my life, that’s me. I am the one crying.) How are we supposed to be in six places at once? MISSION - IMPOSSIBLE! I’M DOING THE BEST I CAN DAMMIT! CONSENSUS: Heather, sorry to tell you, you are the last parent to arrive, and you have been eliminated from the race.
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THE BIGGEST LOSER
Remember that vow to start eating healthier and exercising? Well, after a long week of shuffling everyone around every which way, I have not given 100% to my workouts, and I’ve made some bad food choices. When it comes time to get up on that big ole’ scale to see how I did, I can clearly hear Jillian’s loud, disapproving exhale at my number, “YOU’RE NOT DOIN’ THE WORK AND I’M TIRED OF YOUR EXCUSES!” Then, Allie’s voice in the back of my head as I step off that scale… CONSENSUS: Heather, I’m sorry to tell you, unless you count the fact that all you lost this week are your keys, your left black pump, your youngest child (for twenty minutes), your sanity, and part of your mind, you are not the Biggest Loser, and it’s time for you to go.
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THE APPRENTICE
Bake sale items needed by Friday, Pajama day on Thursday, Poster on a famous African American due Wednesday, Doctor appointment Wednesday afternoon, IEP meeting before school Friday morning… Throw in that the tooth fairy needs to make an appearance tonight, and Chapter 8 of Tom Sawyer study guide needs to be completed. The next morning comes and the sobbing from two doors down can be heard from two blocks down because the Tooth Fairy flaked. Saving the day requires some smooth moves with a fivedollar bill to cover the emotional distress, which you discover tangled up in the sheets, and excitedly wave in front of your 3rd grader, “Here it is! See, she DID come!” Phew! Then, imagine a fourth gradesized, messed up haired, mini Donald Trump coming home from school and yelling at you for forgetting it was pajammie day, and she was the only one
who showed up in regular clothes. Then, your teenage Trump gets in on the action because you snubbed the Tom Sawyer study guide. CONSENSUS: Heather, your organizational skills need work, you are a sloppy team leader, and you dropped the ball on pajama day, which is forbidden in the eyes of a nine-year-old. You had several things to remember, and you screwed them up. I have no choice but to tell you—You’re Fired.
PAWN STARS
I finally decide—and finally found the time—to take that expensive, fancy, barely-used, high chair given to me as a gift to a children’s second hand store. I walk in with confidence that my chair will bring in big money as it retails for triple digits and is in pristine shape. They offer me $10 cash on the spot. I ask for $50. They counter with $11. CONSENSUS: This thing is a piece of junk. Had you left the original seat cushion it would be worth $200. Take the $11 or get out of our shop. I sell out and walk out with my pride and $11 in my hand.
SURVIVOR: OUTWITOUTPLAYOUTLAST
Ummmm… I play this one daily. Isn’t parenting a game of outwitting, outlasting, and outplaying? I have to constantly beware of siblings forging alliances and blindsiding me at Tribal Council. They will outwit me after a long week of working, and I will end up in an arcade and I won’t even know how I got there. CONSENSUS: Heather, the tribe has spoken. We are going to John’s Incredible to play arcade games for the day. You have no say, and you need to bring me your torch. Your fire is officially out.
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Less than three hours from San Joaquin County’s major cities, Reno is a quick winter escape perfect for families. Low-cost hotels make it budget friendly while the mountain atmosphere creates a feeling like you’re a million miles away. Follow our itinerary to make the most of your quick vacation—a bonus for parents who crave a day of recovery post family trip. The secret is to pack in as much action as possible.
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A lunchtime arrival means your first stop should be grub! Reno’s Midtown has been completely redone. No longer does it echo the grittier vibes of Downtown. Today it is a go-to place for families (and couples) looking to grab lunch. Noble Pie Parlor has the perfect atmosphere for families, especially one that has been stuck in a car for a couple of hours.
Feast on East Coast-style wood fired pies, like the PB&J (pineapple, sweet basil, and jalapeno). The restaurant is dedicated to fresh, locally-sourced, organic ingredients so you can feel good about what your kids are eating, even if it is pizza.
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Head to Scheels. Just a quick jaunt from Midtown to Sparks, this oversized sports store is reminiscent of Bass Pro Shops, but on steroids. Outfitted with a full-size indoor Ferris wheel, talking, life-size historical figures, indoor games, a play structure, a miniature putting green and bowling, it’s easy to waste a few hours roaming through the two-story store. Oh, and don’t forget to shop while you’re there! Pick up sports gear from your favorite team. Say hi to the giant fish that call Scheels home while you’re there!
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Rise and shine! Hopefully your kids slept in a bit. First item on the agenda before heading back home is breakfast— and there’s only one place you should go. While the city is packed with plenty of options—Hash House A Go Go, PEGs, Two Chicks, etc.—Squeeze In provides a worthwhile experience for families. Featured on Throwdown! with Bobby Flay, the hotspot is known for omelets and traditional breakfast plates. The hot chocolate comes piled high with whip cream and sprinkles and chocolate bacon is the dessert of choice. Here, kids are invited to write on the walls, already covered with “I was here” sentiments from visitors past. Go ahead and hide the electronics at the table, too. Waitresses drop buckets of toys on the table for families with young kids. On your way out snap a shot with the restaurant’s mascot, a green alien at the front entrance. EXPERT TIP: There are two Reno locations and both are good choices.
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Also in Sparks, Wild Island is a family adventure park boasting bowling, laser mazes, go karts, miniature golf, and much, much more. During summer there’s also a water park with rides. Send your kids to the arcade with a handful of quarters while you play a round of billiards with your boo.
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You’re likely already wiped from the days adventures, but if you want to pack all the fun into 24 hours, you’ll need to keep trekking. Your kids are probably still full of energy anyway. Head to Circus, Circus in Downtown Reno to end your night. Hopefully you’ve booked a room to crash in after the day of fun (preferably in the North Tower, which has been redecorated and is more conveniently located to the action). Head to Midway (light-up directional signs will lead the way) where a full food quart will supply dinner. Kids don’t all want the same thing? Typical. Here you have choices. After grub, head downstairs to play the carnival-style games for stuffed animal prizes, partake in more arcade fun, and watch the circus show that plays on the hour with high flying tricks and professional unicyclists. Once the tokens have run out, head upstairs to crash. Your room will offer a gorgeous view where the downtown city lights and sounds will lull you to sleep. EXPERT TIP: On check-in the hotel hands out coupon books with the hotel keys. Look inside for two-for-one game play at Midway.
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After breakfast, you’re on to your last excursion of the trip. The Terry Lee Wells Nevada Discovery Museum is a science and technology haven full of interactive exhibits for kids. Find fossils within the dinosaur room’s walnut-shell pit, complete experiments with fellow young scientists in the Spark! Lab, solve brain teasers, and explore the human body. For tykes, there’s an indoor playroom dedicated to their age group where they learn about pulley and lever systems as well as Nevada history. An indoor cave, giant climbing structure, and a dinosaur named Sue (the most complete T-Rex skeleton in the world, on display until Jan. 15) round out the day’s adventures. By the time you’re done at the museum, 24 hours will be up!
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ADD THESE ACTIVITIES TO THE ITINERARY. • National Automobile Museum • Skiing at Mt. Rose • Ice skating at Greater Nevada Field • Rock climbing indoors at Whitney Peak Hotel or Rocksport Indoor Climbing Center • Movies at The Summit • Nevada State Railroad Museum in Carson City • Day trip to Virginia City
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RUB-ADUB-DUB JANUARY IS NATIONAL BATH SAFETY MONTH BY NORA HESTON TARTE
Bath tub slips are dangerous for more than just the elderly. For children under four years old, bath time has hidden risks. That’s why the American Academy of Pediatrics says that a caregiver should always be present when a child four years old or younger is in the bathtub. Accidents can happen in an instant. In 2011, 93 children under age 17 died from drowning in the tub. The most at-risk age group was zero-to-four, but even 15-17 year olds made the list with seven deaths that year. Water in general poses risks for anybody. Younger kids are more susceptible because they are not strong swimmers. They also lack coordination, which puts them at higher risk for slips and falls. There’s no need to a panic. Looking at statistics, bathtubs are relatively safe. The death rate is very, very low, and only reasonable precautions need to be taken.
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TUB TRICKS TO INCREASE SAFETY
• Buy bubbles. Build bubble castles, make crazy hairdos, or add a beard to your preschooler. Bath bombs are fun, too!
• Install a slip-resistant mat in every shower and tub in your house. Even an older child can drown if they slip, fall and are knocked unconscious in a tub full of water. • Opt for shatter-proof glass or a curtain over a glass door. A fall can cause the glass to break, which can lead to injury if proper equipment isn’t installed. • Mind the temperature. For infants, water between 90 and 100 degrees Fahrenheit is recommended. As kids get older they can properly test water on their own but to limit the risk of burns it’s smart to adjust your water heater. Check temperatures for babies and toddlers using your wrist or a bath thermometer.
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Don’t let the risks scare you into not making the most of bath time. For many kids, baths are an enjoyable, relaxing part of the day. Enhance the experience with these tips! • Bring toys to the tub. Age-appropriate toys offer kids year-round water play.
• Sing songs. Songs about water, bathtubs, and getting clean are great ways to bring whimsy to tub time. They can also help soothe a crying baby. • Wash with puppets. Hand puppets made for soap can take some of the fight out of your preschooler who doesn’t like the actual washing part of bath time.
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SUPER LICE? BY NORA HESTON TARTE
watch a favorite show or play a game while you remove lice. It keeps them from getting antsy.
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LICE MYTHBUSTERS • Dogs, cats, and other pets do not carry or spread lice • How clean hair is does not affect the possibility of lice • Head lice are NOT dangerous.
It’s a parent’s nightmare: tiny bugs infiltrating the house through your children’s hair. What’s worse? California has been identified as a super lice state. What are super lice? Super lice are a genetically mutated form of lice that resists the active ingredients in shampoos used to kill them off, making ridding your children, and your home, extra difficult.
DIAGNOSIS & TREATMENT
If you suspect your child has lice, or super lice, the treatment is the same. Check hair thoroughly. A good indication that your child may have lice include a recent breakout at their school, daycare, or around town, itching, and irritability. In the case of a breakout, check your child’s hair even if other symptoms are not present.
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“Super lice spread just like regular lice. The difference is that super lice tend to be resistant to over-the-counter treatments that have traditionally worked to get rid of them,” says Dr. Anita Heart, MD, a family medicine physician with Dignity Health Medical Group – Stockton. “Super lice may require prescription medication.” If you suspect lice, check your child’s hair with a fine-toothed comb and shine a light onto the scalp. Sesame seed-sized brown bugs or nits that look much like specks of dirt will appear to be crawling around or latched onto individual hairs. If lice are present, proceed with treatment. Gather hair clips, a towel, tissues, a sealable plastic bag, and disposable gloves to remove the lice. Then, wash with an over-the-counter solution. If lice do not resolve, seek a prescription. Your child may have super lice. Expert Tip: Grab the tablet and let your child
It’s hard to prevent lice of any kind, but good habits can help. “To prevent super lice take the same precautions you would take to prevent regular lice. Parents should encourage their kids to avoid direct head-to-head contact with other kids, and to not share combs, brushes, hair bows, or hats,” warns Dr. Anita. “Teens should also be cautioned to skip the head-to-head pose when taking selfies with their friends.”
THE FACTS • Twenty-five states have been identified as super lice states, including California • Super lice look, act, and spread the same as regular lice • Super lice are not vulnerable to many normal lice treatments • Every year six to twelve million children get head lice
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KIDS on the BLOCK BY NORA HESTON TARTE
Every skit is told with life-size puppets and trained puppeteers, many of whom have attended national trainings paid for by Kids on the Block. The organization started in 1977 with only its Cerebral Palsy skit, created in response to Public Law 94-142, championing inclusion of kids with disabilities. The skit aimed to teach children tolerance of those with disabilities. Since then, the offerings have expanded and so has the outreach. Last year 31 schools and 2,500 third graders enjoyed a Kids on the Block production. Dressed in black, the puppeteers blend into the background and the third graders who make up the audience interact with the puppets directly. At the end of each 15-minute skit, the floor is open for questions that the puppets answer. REACH OUT: ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF STOCKTON 1323 E. Harding Way, Stockton (209) 466-8386, AssistanceLeague.org/Stockton
The show opens with two young girls talking. The first girl is telling her friend how she travels back and forth between her two parents’ houses week to week. It’s a common result of divorce in many families, and one that kids may struggle to cope with. The skit follows the young girls’ conversation as they navigate the feelings associated with parental separation. Three people and two puppets put on the entire production. Divorce/Separation is just one of the shows offered by Kids on the Block, a Stockton-based organization that helps kids navigate common, age-appropriate social issues. Each show, ordered by local elementary schools, includes three skits, the separation skit as well as two pieces on bullying—Bullies and School Safety. In the past, a skit titled Cerebral Palsy was included to teach children about tolerance. Every year Bette Outlaw, the program’s coordinator, schedules performance dates with schools. At the end of each, children send letters and paintings as thank yous. “We have quite a collection of those,” Bette says. The bullying skits share one very important message. “There are ways to deal with problems but [kids] do need help, they aren’t in it alone,” explains Bette. Both shows encourage children to seek help and the young audience is asked to help brainstorm ways the puppets can handle the sticky situations they find themselves in. Assistance League of Stockton, a thrift shop that sells donated apparel, home goods, furniture, and books to benefit local charities, funds the program.
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Experience many of the Stockton Heat’s most popular themed events this January! Enjoy Rotary Night and Western Night, Football Friday, and Military Appreciation Night. United Way Night, Special Needs & Autism Awareness Night lead to the very end of the month for the Teddy Bear Toss! Stockton Arena, 248 W.
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EAGAL LAKE’S POLAR BEAR RUN & DUNK
JAN. 6
It’s time to get a little wet behind the ears this 2018! Build up some resolve and take the plunge into the icy depths of Eagal Lake’s waterways, complete with “I Dunked” T-Shirt, a 5K or 10K run to get the blood pumping, and an epic bonfire to continue warming up after the race is complete. Enjoy s’mores with the kids, and a champagne toast yourself! Eagal Lakes Resort, 12 W. Lorenzen Rd., Tracy (209) 640-4252, EagalLakes.com
STOCKTON SYMPHONY PRESENTS: CLASSICS 3 WITH KERSON LEONG
JAN. 27
Foster your love for the classical arts in a melodic performance led by Kerson Leong. A program built upon the death of a close friend, Musorgsky showcases an infinite pool of emotion through a concerto he wrote in a matter of months. Enjoy this performance beginning at 6:00 PM. Warren Atherton Auditorium at San Joaquin Delta College, 5151 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 951-0196, StocktonSymphony.org
GREG & STEVE CHILDREN’S CONCERT
GOT KIDS FOUNDATION 3RD ANNUAL CRAB FEED
JAN. 30 – FEB 2
It’s that time again! Grab the kids and head on down to UOP, where Greg & Steve are ready to let the music roll in a spectacular score fostering good will, manners, cooperation, and more! Help your little one bud into new friendships and learn about our culture and the cultures of those around us!
JAN. 13
Steaming mounds of succulent crab await your dining pleasure when you help to raise funds for GOT Kids Foundation, and in turn, help Lodi Unified School District’s young students! Enjoy a raffle, silent auction, and more. Lodi Boys’ & Girls’ Club, 1050 S. Stockton St., Lodi (209) 331-7010, GOTKids.Lodi.USD.net
Faye Spanos Concert Hall, 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 487-2559, StocktonLive.com
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JAN. 17 – FEB 4
UNIVERSITY OF THE PACIFIC WOMEN’S BASKET BALL
Follow along on this hilarious roller coaster as Grandpa Vanderhof, patriarch to three generations of the Vanderhof family, meets the family of his granddaughter’s fiancée. Staged in New York City with all three generations living under one roof, it’s a laugh riot that will leave you in stitches. Stockton
FEB. 1, 3, 15, 24
Cheer on the girls in orange at the Alex G Spanos Center for high energy college basketball games! Go Tigers! 7-10 PM. 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton, Pacific.edu
Civic Theatre, 2312 Rosemarie Lane., Stockton (209) 473-2424, SCTLiveThreatre.com
DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS FOLLOW YOUR HEART
FEB. 8-11
GOLDEN DRAGON ACROBAT
JAN. 20
This is a not to miss Disney extravaganza on ice at Stockton Arena! Just keep swimming with Dory, and Disney Pixar characters—but it doesn’t stop there! Venture to wintery Arendelle where Olaf and Kristoff help reunite royal sisters Anna and Elsa from Disney’s Frozen and learn love is the most powerful magic of all. They’re not done yet! A few Disney princesses will take to the ice to teach the kiddos a thing or two about bravery and kindness. Stockton Arena, 248 W.
World renowned for their skill and undisputed in artistic form, The Golden Dragon Acrobats are visiting Tracy to showcase a performance like no other. Enjoy acrobatic performances that date back by the centuries, hone to perfection by this athletic troupe. The show begins at 8:00 PM. Grand Theatre Center for the Arts, 715 Central Ave., Tracy (209) 8316858, AtTheGrand.org
ST. JOSEPH’S FUN RUN & WALK FOR WELLNESS
Fremont St., Stockton, StocktonLive.com
JAN. 27
RIPON ALMOND BLOSSOM FESTIVAL
Those resolutions to be a healthier, fitter you? They can all begin with that perfect walk or that lovely jog along the scenic routes of University Park. Endeavor to find your very best self while raising funds for the Emergency Room expansion, a much needed piece to improve the lives for many in San Joaquin! University Park, 612
FEB. 23-25
Always the last weekend of February, and the first festival of the season, the Ripon Chamber of Commerce presents a carnival, fun run, and well-known community parade. (209) 599-7519, RiponChamber.org
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MOTHERHOOD BY NORA HESTON TARTE
I write about my kid a lot because he’s my favorite thing that exists in this world, a sentiment I’m sure most mother’s share. He’s funny, bright, adorably clueless, and profoundly wise all at once. What I don’t write about often is how being a mother has changed me. It didn’t happen all at once. I remember the afterglow of birth, but the changes to my own personality came gradually as my love and sense of protection for my son grew, too. It was an organic growth that happens in most relationships. I began to become a better person in all facets of my life. A better wife, friend, and, of course, mother. I learned to be less selfish and have patience—qualities that expanded to every corner of my life. In this weird way I even became a better employee. Mothers are expected to flail at work postpartum as a new being h a s
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taken top spot in their hearts, pushing career down one more prong on the priorities ladder. But that didn’t happen to me. Being a mother showed me strength I never knew I had. I suddenly felt capable of accomplishing what seemed impossible. Plus, as he grew, I knew a tiny human was watching me always, looking up to me as more than a mother but as a human being, as well. I wanted to show him how to be good, how to persevere, how to have a successful career, and to prioritize education. Most importantly I think I’m showing him that women can do anything men can do, which is important for all little boys to know. In a lot of ways, becoming a mother helped me see my full potential. I take more chances; I have more fun. I’m busier—no doubt—but I make the time count. I continue to nourish the relationship I have with my husband, to show my son what a good marriage is. And when we take time away from him we ensure it is well spent and meaningful. We take time away with him too. I want to give him everything good I had and everything good that I didn’t. I learned loyalty, I learned to have faith, I learned to laugh in moments that are hard. We tend to focus on the hardships of being a mother. The way your body changes, maybe not for the best, the constant haze of sleepiness that even coffee can’t fully erase, the inevitable (yet temporary) loss of self that sneaks up on us occasionally. The truth is we don’t take enough time to look at the growth. The positive changes we’ve all made since becoming mothers. I think if each of us looked deep down inside we’d see that we are better people than we once were, and we have the small people in our life to thank for that.
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