Marriage tried and tested methods of getting pious matches

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Tried and Tested Methods of Getting Pious Matches

Dedication I dedicate this humble effort to my Sheikh, Muhiyus Sunnah Hadhrat Moulana Shah Abraarul Haqq Sahib ‍ع ا‏, whose blessings and attention have made something of this helpless servant. Muhammad Muhibbullaah Qaasimi 17/07/1415 A.H.

By Hadhrat Moulana Muhammad Muhibbullaah Qaasimi ‍دا آ‏ Lecturer in Ahadeeth at Daarul Uloom Rahmatul Lil Aalameen, Federal B Area, Karachi

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I hope that this compilation will be of benefit to people and a means of perpetual Sadaqah on my behalf. I appeal to all readers to remember me in their du’aas.

Appeal People of all walks of life have been frequenting this helpless servant for a long time for du’aas and Ta’wezaat (amulets) and most of them have been parents coming for finding suitable matches for their daughters.

Muhammad Muhibbullaah Qaasimi 27 Rajab 1415 A.H.

For the benefit of the public, I have collected all the practices and recitations for finding righteous matches that are found in the Qur'aan, the Ahadeeth, saints, my teachers and those that are found in the books of recitations and du’aas. The primary condition for benefiting completely from these du’aas and recitations is to follow the Sunnah, to be sincere and to possess Taqwa. To achieve one’s objectives, it is necessary for one not to regard these practices as the cause for making a difference, but should know that Allaah is the only One who alleviates difficulties and fulfils objectives. It is Haraam to write or to touch the verses of the Qur'aan without wudhu and when doing so, one’s intention must also be sincere. It is also necessary to avoid the whispering of Shaytaan and to turn to Allaah. There is greater hope of the practices being more successful if they are started on the first Thursday or Friday of the lunar month. When reciting any Ta’weez, writing it down or filling in a diagram, it is absolutely necessary to be in the state of wudhu. The person reciting must also fix a place for doing so because the effect of the practice will diminish by moving from place to place. The place for performing salaah must also be fixed. When the Ta’weez has been used, it is necessary to bury it in a graveyard or in any other safe place. The effect of the practices will also be greater if a person takes permission from this helpless servant before starting. There shall be no doubting the effectiveness if a person takes a vow to do something good like going for Hajj or Umrah or doing anything else according to one’s means. Remember that fulfilling the vow afterwards is Waajib (compulsory). There is fear of one’s efforts being wasted if one does not fulfil the above conditions.

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1. If a virgin does not receive any proposals and wishes to receive one very soon, the following verses of the Qur'aan should be written on the morning of the first Thursday of the lunar month and wrapped in a piece of a kurta of a man who is particular about the Shari'ah and his salaah and fasting. It must then be tied to the arm of the girl. She will Inshaa Allaah soon be married to a man of noble character. The verse of the Qur'aan is:

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‍ Ů? ŮŽ*)Ů’(ŮŽ&Ů? Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ إ‏% $ ŮŽ&Ů’'ŮŽ * ŮŒ! Ů? ŮŽ" ŮŒ Ů? ‍ Ů? ŮŽ Ů? ا Ů‘ Ů? Ů? Ů’ Ů? Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŘĄ ŮˆŮŽا Ů‘ Ů? ŮˆŮŽا‏ ŮŽ Ů’ ŮŽ Ů’ ‍ن ا‏ ‍ Ů? Ů’ Ů?ؼ‏ !Ů? Ů?,ŮŽ-Ů’ ‍ ا‏ Ů? Ů’ ŮŽ Ů’ â€ŤŮˆŮŽا Ů‘ Ů? Ř°Ů?Ůˆ ا‏ {Surah Aal Imraan, verses 73,74}1

2. A virgin will also receive a proposal very quickly if the Huroof Muqatta’aat are engraved on a silver ring and given to her to wear. These Huroof are:

‍ا ا ا ا آ Řľ Ů‚ ن‏ 3. If a person wishes his virgin daughter to receive a proposal speedily, the following verse of the Qur'aan should be written in musk and saffron at the time of sunrise on a Sunday. It should then be tied to her arm. She will Inshaa Allaah soon be married to a pious man. The verse is:

@ ŮŽ Ů? ‍> * َذ‏ Ů? Ů? ŮŽ ‍؏‏ Ů? ْ‍ ŮŽزŮˆâ€Ź98 Ů?‍ آ‏7Ů? Ů’ ŮŽ5ŮŽ6.َ‍تْ ŮŽŮˆ ŮŽŘą ŮŽ Ů’ ŮŽŮˆŘŁâ€Ź-4 ŮŽ5ْ‍َ Ů’ ŮŽ ا Ů’ ŮŽ ŘĄ اه‏0ŮŽ1 ŮŽ,Ů’ -ŮŽ .َ‍َ Ů?*Ř°ŮŽا أ‏+ ‍؜ هَ Ů? ŮŽ& ً؊‏ ŮŽ Ů’â€ŤŮŽŮˆ ŮŽ َى ا Ů’"َع‏ K ŮŽ Ů’ ‍ َع‏4 ŮŒIŮŽ Ů? J IŮŽ ŮŽ1 4 ‍ن ا‏ 4 ‍َ&Ů? ŮŒ * ŮŽŮˆŮŽŘŁâ€ŹH ‍ْ Ů?إ‏DŮŽF 98 Ů?‍ آ‏EŮŽ0ŮŽ1 Ů? 4.‍ ŮŽŮˆŮŽŘŁâ€ŹEŮŽ Ů’AŮŽ Ů’ ‍ ا‏DŮ? Ů’CŮ? Ů? 4.‍ ŮŽŮˆŮŽŘŁâ€Ź B ŮŽCŮ’ ‍ ا‏AŮŽ Ů?‍ ŮŽ ه‏40 ‍ن ا‏ 4 ŮŽ"Ů? DŮ?+ 7ŮŽ L Ů? ŮŽ Ů’6ŮŽ ŮŽ 40 ‍ن ا‏ 4 ‍Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽŮˆŮŽŘŁâ€Ź+ ‍ Ů?ع‏AŮ?6Ů?MŮ’ ‍ا‏ {Surah Hajj, verses 5-7}2

4. If the verse above is written on the musk bag of a deer on a Friday night or on the fourteenth of a lunar month, she will soon receive a

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9. If a girl is not getting married, she should recite Surah TaaHaa twenty one times every day or write it on a piece of green silk, which is to be worn around her neck. Inshaa Allaah, Allaah will marry her to a pious man and they will have pious offspring. 1 2

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Amaliyaat of Haaji Zardaar Khan ‍ Řą ا‏pg.211 Amaliyaat of Haaji Zaraad Khan ‍ Řą ا‏pg.211

good proposal if the verse is made into a Ta’weez and tied to her arm.1 If a person has a virgin daughter who has not received a proposal, he should recite the following name of Allaah a hundred times after making wudhu with the intention that she receive a suitable proposal: OŮ’ Ů?NŮŽ . Inshaa Allaah, she will then receive a proposal within the next month.2 If a person has a virgin daughter who has not received a proposal, he should recite the following name of Allaah eleven thousand times after the Isha salaah :DŮ?,Ů’PŮ? This should be done for eleven days, starting from a Thursday and ending on a Sunday. One will then see assistance from the unseen.3 If a girl is not receiving any proposals, she should strike her right hand hard on her left hand after the Fajr salaah and then recite ‍ ح‏45ŮŽ+ forty times. Her hopes will Inshaa Allaah be fulfilled within forty days.4 If a girl is not receiving any proposals, the following diagram should be drawn on a comb made of bone and given to her. She should then use the comb at least thrice every day. It must however be used at night before sleeping. The diagram is as follows:

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Amaliyaat of Haaji Zaraad Khan ‍ Řą ا‏pg.211 Sheikh Ibraheem Dehlawi pg. 29. Sheikh Ibraheem Dehlawi pg.61. Kitaabut Ta’weezaat (Vol.4 Pg.15) by Sheikh Muhammad Siddeeq Marseena

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‍ع ا‏.

10. An unmarried girl who is not receiving any proposals should use a comb made of bone that has the following diagram on it:

11. The following words should be written and worn around the neck by an unmarried woman who wishes to marry a pious man or by a woman whose husband is unfaithful or short-tempered:

In place of the words ‍ن‏R+ 7 mother should be written.1

‍ن‏R+ , the name of the girl and her

12. When a girl is not receiving any proposals, the following du’aa should be engraved on a silver plate and worn around her neck. Inshaa Allaah, she will soon be betrothed. The du’aa2 is:

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Iqbal Ahmad Nuri (Vol.1 Pg.94). Sheikh Ahmad Ali Booni ‍( Řą ا‏Vol.4 Pg.545).

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For a Girl’s Good Fortune 13. A girl will have good fortune if the following Ta’weez is written and worn about the waist. She will then be able to get married to a wonderful husband:

14. If a boy or girl’s parents are anxious for them to be married, the boy or girl should recite SŮ? ŮŽT 1111 times and the parents should ŮŽ OŮ’ Ů?NŮŽ also 1111 times every day and make du’aa to recite â€ŤŮˆŘŻŮ?ŮˆŘŻâ€Ź Allaah. Their hopes will Inshaa Allaah be fulfilled within forty days. (This has been proven to be very successful).1

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From a gathering presided by Hadhrat Shah Abraarul Haqq Sahib

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‍ع ا‏.

To Increase the Beauty of a Bride

A Proposal for a Widow

15. If the following diagram is written on a piecve of silk and worn around the bride’s neck, she will appear to be extremely beautiful:

16. If a widow wishes to remarry, she should recite the following verse of the Qur'aan 101 times daily, adding Durood 11 times before the verse and then 11 times after the verse. If this is done for 21 days, she will Inshaa Allaah be assisted from the unseen. The verse is:

‍ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ إ‏2$ Ů?-Ů? ‍ Ů?( ŮŽ ŮŽ ŘĄ ŮŽŮˆâ€Ź/ ŮŽ Ů’ Ů?(Ů’ ‍ؚ ا‏ Ů? 2Ů? 3ŮŽ ‍ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŘĄ ŮŽŮˆâ€Ź/ ŮŽ Ů’ Ů?(Ů’ ‍ ا‏0Ů? Ů’ Ů? / Ů? Ů’ Ů?(Ů’ ‍ ا‏/ ŮŽ Ů? ŮŽ ! Ů?. ‍ ا‏ Ů? Ů? * Ů? ŮŽ ‍ْ Ů?إ‏0ŮŽ< 9 Ů?‍ آ‏8 ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ" / ŮŽ 7â€ŤŮƒ ا Ů’'ŮŽ Ů’ Ů?* Ů?ؼ‏ ŮŽ Ů? ŮŽ Ů? ‍ل ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ إ‏ $ 5Ů? Ů? â€ŤŮŽŮˆâ€Ź {Surah Aal Imraan, verse 26}

17. The person who has a son or daughter who has never been married should recite the following verse a thousand times every day. Inshaa Allaah, his objective will be fulfilled within 21 days. The verse is:

‍ ŮŽ Ů? *Ů‹ا‏/ ŮŽ $ ‍ن َع‏ ŮŽ َ‍ْ*Ů‹ا ŮŽŮˆآ‏.Ů?G‍ً ŮŽŮˆâ€ŹEŮŽFŮŽ7 Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽ-ŮŽCŮŽD ‍ ا Ů’(ŮŽ ŘĄ ŮŽ ŮŽ*Ů‹ا‏ ŮŽ Ů? @ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽA ‍Ů?ي‏5 â€ŤŮŽŮˆŮ‡Ů? ŮŽ= ا‏ {Surah Furqaan, verse 54}1

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Ibraheem Dehlawi Pg.119.

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Getting Married Quickly and to a Good Person

For a Proposal to be Accepted

18. If a person wants his son or daughter to get married quickly and to a good person, he should recite the following verse 3313 times after the Isha salaah for twenty one days, adding Durood 11 times before the verse and then 11 times after the verse. Inshaa Allaah, the objective will be fulfilled very soon. The verse is:

20. A marriage proposal will Inshaa Allaah be accepted when the following verse is written on a paper and tied to the right arm:

‍ Ů? ŮŽ*)Ů’(ŮŽ&Ů? Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ إ‏% $ ŮŽ&Ů’'ŮŽ * ŮŒ! Ů? ŮŽ" ŮŒ Ů? ‍ Ů? ŮŽ Ů? ا Ů‘ Ů? Ů? Ů’ Ů? Ů? ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŘĄ ŮˆŮŽا Ů‘ Ů? ŮˆŮŽا‏ ŮŽ Ů’ ŮŽ Ů’ ‍ن ا‏ ‍ Ů? Ů’ Ů?ؼ‏ ! Ů?,ŮŽ-Ů’ ‍ ا‏ Ů? Ů’ ŮŽ Ů’ â€ŤŮˆŮŽا Ů‘ Ů? Ř°Ů?Ůˆ ا‏

Ů’!Ů?.Ů?FŮ? 7َ‍؜ ŮŽŮˆ Ů? Ů’ أ‏ Ů? ْ‍ع‏LŮŽŮ’ ‍ ا‏M Ů? Ů?E3Ů? (Ů? ŮŽ. Ů?‍؏ آ‏ ŮŽ â€ŤŘ˛Ů’ŮˆŮŽا‏LŮŽŮ’ ‍@ ا‏ ŮŽ ŮŽ ŮŽA ‍Ů?ي‏5 ‍ن ا‏ ŮŽ ŮŽIŮ’EŮ? ‍ن‏ ŮŽ =Ů?(ŮŽ Ů’-ŮŽ ŮŽ (Ů? â€ŤŮŽŮˆâ€Ź

{Surah Aal Imraan, verses 73, 74}

{Surah Yaaseen, verse 36}

19. If a person cannot get married, the following verse should be written and worn around the neck. Inshaa Allaah, a pious husband or wife will soon be found. The verse is:

!FP * Ů?EŮ? ŮŒâ€ŤŮ† ŮŽŮˆ آŮ?&ŮŽ ب‏ Ů? R*Ů?VŮ’ ‍ت ا‏ Ů? ŮŽ R / ŮŽ Ů’ Ů? * UP * Ů? Ů?EŮ?(Ů’ ‍ب ا‏ Ů? ŮŽ&Ů?TŮ’ ‍ت ا‏ Ů? ŮŽ R / ŮŽ Ů’ Ů? * !FP Ů? Ů?EŮ?(Ů’ ‍ب ا‏ Ů? ŮŽ&Ů?TŮ’ ‍ت ا‏ Ů? ŮŽ R / ŮŽ Ů’ Ů? *

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{Surah TaaHaa, verse 131}

For Men 21. If a man wants a good wife, he should fast for three consecutive days and recite the following verse 21 times every night before sleeping. He should then make du’aa to Allaah and sleep. He will Inshaa Allaah get a pious wife very soon afterwards. The verse is:

‍ن‏ ŮŽ Ů’â€ŤŮˆâ€Ź2ŮŽ Ů’CŮ? / ŮŽ Ů?ZŮŽ ْ‍ Ů?ŘĽ ŮŽ Ů‹ * Ů?ŘŁŮˆâ€Ź ŮŽ Ů?V &Ů?(Ů’ Ů? ŮŽ3Ů’ ŮŽ-Ů’X‍ ŮˆŮŽا‏ Ů? Ů? Ů’"‍َ Ů? * ŮŽŘŠ َأ‏3Ů? ‍ع‏9 ‍َ ŮŽŮˆ Ů?ذ‏3Ů?X‍َ Ů? Ů’ ŮŽأزŮ’ŮˆŮŽا‏3ŮŽ Ů’Wَ‍َ ه‏3 ‍َع‏ Ů‹ ŮŽVŮ? ‍َ*]ا ŮŽŮˆâ€ŹVŮŽ&Ů’FŮ? Ů’MŮŽ3Ů?FŮŽ) ŮŽ. Ů?D ŮŽ Ů? Ů? ŮŽA * Ů‹ ŮŽ ŮŽ ‍Ů? [Ů‹ ŮŽŮˆâ€ŹIŮŽ ŮŽ. Ů?D ‍ن‏ ŮŽ Ů’= VŮŽ Ů? ‍َ*Ů?Ůˆا ŮŽŮˆâ€ŹEŮŽG ŮŽ(Ů? ŮŽ[ŮŽDŮ’*Ů?\Ů’ ‍ا‏

25. A woman who cannot get married should have Surah TaaHaa written and then bath with the water. She should also have it written, wrapped in green silk and keep it with her.

To Get Many Proposals 26. For a girl to get many proposals, Surah Ahzaab should be written on the musk bag of a deer or on paper and then kept in a container in the house.

{Surah Furqaan, verses 74-76}

22. If a person wants a pious wife very quickly, he should write the following verse with musk and saffron after the Jumu’ah salaah. And tie it to his right arm. Inshaa Allaah, he will soon see his need fulfilled1. The verse is:

‍ى‏AŮŽ Ů’M450Ů? IŮ? ŮŽ6Ů?H ŮŽ Ů’ ‍@ ŮŽŮˆ ا‏ ŮŽ Ů?H‍َ Ů’ Ů?ز‏. 7 Ů? Ů’CŮŽ. 23. If a girl or widow wishes to get married and the situation seems hopeless to her, she should perform two Rakaahs Nafl salaah every day before sleeping and then recite the following verse 70 times. When this practice is maintained for seven weeks without missing a single day in between, her desire will materialize soon Inshaa Allaah. The verse is:

Ů? ‍ ا‏8ŮŽ ŮŽ" Ů’ ‍ ŮŽŮˆ ŮŽ ŮŽ&ŮŽ ŮŽ=آ‏W Ů? Ů?FŮŽ&Ů’IŮŽ ŮŽ ^ Ů? Ů’ ŮŽ) Ů’ Ů? Ů? Ů’ ‍ً * ŮŽŮˆ ŮŽ*Ů’ Ů?ز‏X*ŮŽ Ů’'ŮŽ Ů? ŮŽ-Ů’CŮŽ ŮŽ ‍@ ا‏ Ů? &ŮŽ ŮŽ â€ŤŮŽŮˆâ€Ź ‍ْ Ů?ŘĄ ŮŽ ْعًا‏0ŮŽ< 9 Ů?TŮ? Ů? ‍ ا‏ ŮŽ ŮŽ-ŮŽX Ů’ ŮŽ `Ů? *Ů? Ů’ ‍ن ا ŮŽ ŮŽ Ů? Ů?_ َأ‏ ‍Ů? Ů? Ů?ؼ‏EŮ’FŮŽ) =ŮŽ Ů?.ŮŽD {Surah Talaaq, verses 2-3}

24. If a man or woman cannot get married, s/he should write down the following verse and wear it around the arm or neck. Success will soon follow, Inshaa Allaah. The verse is:

ŮŽ 7$ ‍َ ŮŽ Ů?ŘŠ ا‏IŮ’ ‍Ů?!Ů’ ŮŽزهْ ŮŽ* ŮŽŘŠ ا‏.Ů’39 Ů‹X‍َ Ů? Ů? ŮŽأزŮ’ŮˆŮŽا‏3Ů’- &ŮŽ ŮŽ 8ŮŽ ‍ Ů?ؼ‏/ ŮŽ Ů’ ŮŽ3Ů’ ŮŽ" ‍ن‏ Ů?(ŮŽ ŮŽ â€ŤŮŽŮˆâ€Ź 8ŮŽVŮ’ ‍َ Ů’*ŮŒ ŮŽŮˆŮŽŘŁâ€ŹA / ŮŽ 9 ‍ق َع‏ Ů? ْ‍Ů? Ů? ŮŽŮˆ Ů?عز‏D Ů’!Ů?.ŮŽ3Ů?&Ů’ ŮŽ3Ů? 1

Removing an Obstruction to Marriage 27. When a person’s (male or female) marriage is faced with any obstruction, s/he should remain seated after the Fajr salaah, place the left hand over the right hand and recite ‍ ح‏45َ+ 41 times and then write verse 33 (see below) and wear it around the neck. S/he should then recite Surah Falaq and Surah Naas two hundred times each and blow on the body. S/he should then recite Surah Falaq and Surah Naas three times each every morning and evening and blow on the body. The obstacle will then be very speedily removed and the desire will be fulfilled. Verse 33 is as follows:

Surah Faatiha ‍ ا‏until ‍ن‏AC0U (verses 1-5 of Surah Baqarah) Aayatul Kursi until ‍ &ŮˆŮ†â€ŹV + ‍( ه‏verses 255-257 of Surah Baqarah) The last Ruku of Surah Baqara (verses 284-286) Verses 54-56 of Surah A’raaf Verses 110-111 of Surah Bani Israa'eel Verses 1-11 of Surah Saaffaat Verses 33-53 of Surah Rahmaan Verses 21-24 of Surah Hashar Verses 1-4 of Surah Jinn The four ‘Quls’ viz. Surah Kaafiroon, Surah Ikhlaas, Surah Falaq and Surah Naas

Amaliyaat of Haaji Zardaar Khan ‍ Řą ا‏pg.211

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28. The man or woman who cannot get married or whose proposal was not accepted should recite the 99 names of Allah every day after Fajr and after Isha and then make du’aa to Allaah. S/he should add Durood 11 times before and then 11 times afterwards. Inshaa Allaah, the objective will be fulfilled very soon.

Take Note: Our pious predecessors have compiled many recitations and practices and Ta’weezaat (amulets) and whoever has used them has found much success, especially girls who had lost all hope of getting married. They now have homes and fulfilled lives. Readers are free to meet me for further advice and are requested to make du’aa for me.

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