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Church reaction to amended polygamy law By ErIN cArELSE
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HILE the Church does not accept polygamous marriages, it does recognise the dignity of the first wife as a customary union which still has to be blessed sacramentally, according to the coordinator of the bishops’ Family Life Desk. Cabinet has passed a new Bill that provides the equal treatment of women in customary marriages in South Africa. The amendments to the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act will eliminate gender-based discrimination in proprietary rights for polygamous marriages entered into before the commencement of the act in 1998. Fr Sakhi Mofokeng, coordinating secretary for the Family Life Desk of the Southern African Catholics Bishops’ Conference noted that there are cases of Catholics in customary unions. There are several older Catholic women in customary unions who desire to join sodalities, Fr Mofokeng said. When they are requested to bring their marriage certificate, “you hear stories”. “Older men don’t want to have their marriages blessed, saying they can be married twice. It is only when the priest visits and discusses with the husband, that some will agree after [getting] clarity,” he explained. In South Africa, a customary marriage is understood as being entered into under the traditions and customs of indigenous African customary law. Certain requirements must be complied with to conclude a valid customary marriage. While a civil marriage is seen as a marriage concluded between two parties, and must be monogamous to be valid, customary marriages differ, as polygamy is permissible. Fr Mofokeng said he finds it difficult to understand that some cultures are continuing with polygamist marriages. “Women who are in this situation have no freedom from the onset. Some are forced [into such marriages], some continue their forefathers’ tradition, some are married for childbearing, and so on. These women have
limited rights in a male dominated situation.” Fr Mofokeng added: “In my experience, some men are not showing that they are polygamists before they marry the first wife; it is only after that they will express it.” He noted that after the lobola, “women are still regarded as minors, leaving the “protection” of their father to be under their husbands.” Political analyst Mike Pothier, senior researcher for the Catholic Parliamentary Liaison Office (CPLO), said that the amendment is a necessary and important step in an attempt to ensure that women in such marriages are not disadvantaged in terms of their right over the estate of a deceased husband. “The Church doesn’t approve polygamous marriage, but people do enter into it,” he said. “Regardless of what the Church may or may not see, the reality is Catholics are contracting second and third customary marriages,” Mr Pothier noted. The most common such situation may be “where a man and woman get married in the Church, and she might be Catholic—but then the husband goes off and takes a second or a third wife, without consulting” the first wife. Mr Pothier explained that the customary system was reformed in 1998 to protect the rights of the wives, but those who had been married before 1998 were still potentially left at a disadvantage. “This amendment is just about extending the protections to marriages from before 1998. All customary marriages will now have provisions that mean quite simply that the husband no longer has controlling right over the property belonging to marriage,” he said. “Certainly, the Church would support the notion that all the spouses concerned have an equal right to make decisions over the property aspects and everything to do with the marriage—but the stipulations that the Church has around what constitutes a valid marriage will not be affected by this legislation,” Mr Pothier said.
Archbishop Peter Wells, the papal nuncio in South Africa, with clergy and servers at the blessing of the new church of St Anne’s at Mataffin in Nelspruit. (Photo: Gugu Msiango)
Surprise visit from the pope By JuNNo Arocho EStEVES
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N elderly religious sister who worked for many years at the Domus Sanctae Marthae, the papal residence, was at her congregation’s house recovering from surgery when she received an unexpected visit—from Pope Francis. The pope arrived at Rome’s Regina Mundi House and greeted Sr Maria Mucci, a member of the Daughters of Charity of St Vincent de Paul, as well as members of her congregation. Since October, Sr Mucci has been recovering from a delicate surgical procedure. Nevertheless, the elderly nun was in good spirits, especially after the pope’s visit. “Just look! My illness has made all the sisters of the Regina Mundi House who met the pope happy,” she told L’Osservatore Romano, the Vatican newspaper. In an interview with the newspaper, Sr Stefania, a fellow Daughter of Charity, said that Sr Mucci took great pride in her work attending to the needs of the pope at the Domus Sanctae Marthae. Before her surgery, Sr Mucci “took care of the kitchen and was proud of personally
preparing vegetables for the Holy Father”, Sr Stefania said. The pope spent some moments contemplating a relic belonging to his p r e d e c e s s o r, John Paul II. The relic was the bloodstained shirt worn by St John Paul during Pope Francis blesses Sr the assassination Maria Mucci on her attempt May 13, sickbed as he paid her a 1981. Gemelli Hossurprise visit. (Photo: pital, where he Vatican News) received treatment after the assassination attempt, gifted the shirt to the Regina Mundi House for the Jubilee Year in 2000. Pope Francis also took time to greet the other members of the Daughters of Charity, as well as employees and guests staying at the congregation’s house.—CNS
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