Searcy Living - Issue 3 2013 by Searcy Living

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Issue 3 2013

f e at u r e s Blessed

Joy Of Flying

Diabetic Insights

We Are Stronger

Boston Strong

A Fierce Grace

Leap Inside Lizard Creek

Out & About Prom

Kibo Midnight Oil

Miracles Happen Every Day

d e pa r t m e n t s Publisher’s Note

Fashion Fun

Fab Do It Yourself

Living In Searcy

We The People

All American Citizen

Hope Believe

Over The Counter

Out & About

Tiny Changes

Dinner & A Magazine

Games & Puzzles

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On the Cover

Carter Blaine McCoy

Photo by

TAYLOR HOWARD PHOTOGRAPHY

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Publisher Christine Walker Art Director & Webmaster Garrett Johnson Graphic Assistant Ikey Ray Customer Service Stephanie McInturff Editorial Assistant Cherie Sewell Makeover Coordinator Christine Locke Special Project Coordinator Hannah Elliott Public Relations Associate Jennifer Jones Contributing Independent Photographers Kimberly Brackins (501)279-1515 George Dillin (501)268-9304 Cassie Jones (501)230-0539 Roxy Creative (501)593-6866 Candace Skarda (501)281-6297 Homan Photography (501)268-2844 Taylor Howard Photography (870)917-8012 Feature Writers Cecelia Wilson Cassie Jones Erica Brooks

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You know that feeling you get when your good friend gets a promotion? When your friend shares their family reunion photos with you and tells you about that special moment with their sibling? When your child brings home a project they made at school and their smile lights up the room? Ok, you get the idea... I could have a never ending list of these things. I know I am in the right business as this magazine helps accomplish one of my favorite things: learning of others’ successful ventures and helping others to succeed. As you share your inspirational stories with us, I am thrilled with the knowledge of your success, AND I get to share it with 30,000 others! Also, as we promote local businesses and charities, we get to be a part of their path to success. I used to assume that this character trait of appreciating others’ success was shared by all. But, over the years, I have discovered that there are a few out there who don’t share in that joy. Every once in a while, you may run across someone who loves to be miserable. But for the rest of us, please keep sharing, keep striving, and keep growing! Below is one of my favorite (of many) quotes. I hope it gives you motivation, brings a smile to your face, and helps you have a better day when one of the few who loves misery brings you down.

Christine

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies; succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; be honest and frank anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; be happy anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway… You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway. ~ Mother Teresa

Joy of Flying

“Every pilot I know likes to sit out on their porch and watch the thunderstorms come through...” Page 16

Blessed

“It was shocking for them to see just how little they knew and how little the world knows about the adoption process. It’s an intimate and organized course, and they found it to be warm and just what they needed.” Page 12

We Are Stronger

“I am not happy about having been through what we’ve been through, but I am thankful for what it has taught me.” Page 46

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Story by Haley Rogers Photos by Taylor Howard

“Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses, and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.” – Joseph Addison

ometimes we can’t explain why we go through the struggles that we go through, but what we can do is take a step back and look at what comes of it. Often, what is seen is an abundance of blessings, or, in the case of Nate and Mandy McCoy, one very precious blessing that goes by the name, Carter Blaine McCoy. While the McCoys were striving to overcome the pains of infertility, there was a special woman close by in the world, a woman in search of a better home for her coming child. When a mother has to make a decision for the benefit of her baby’s future, she will do it, even if it means the greatest sacrifice, and so this woman did. Over time, as the McCoys continued in their search of answers and ways to start a family, it was recommended that they look into adoption. They approached the journey with hesitant hearts, unsure if it was the way for them to go, but their worries faded with every step of the process, as they learned more and

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more about it. It was shocking for them to see just how little they knew and how little the world knows about the adoption process. It’s an intimate and organized course, and they found it to be warm and just what they needed. The process itself has changed the two in the best way. Not only have they come to appreciate each other even more as they grow closer together and strive to be good parents, but they learned so much about the adoption process and how even a certain type of language can put a negative or positive spin on it. They found that certain words are normally used when referring to placing a child for adoption. Most of the time, people will say, “giving him (or her) up for adoption,” but that is discouraged, for most parents are the ones sacrificing, and are making such a hard decision because of the deep love they have for their children. They are not simply giving their child up; they are thinking of their child’s future, hoping for the best, and

seeking to find a home that will provide for their child in the way they would like to be able to do. The correct phrasing would be, “placing him (or her) for adoption” or “making an adoption plan.” It truly makes a difference for everyone. Another phrase that is often used is “real mom,” but that is also discouraged. “Birth mother” is encouraged, because both the adoptive mother and the birth mother are real mothers. This was something that Mandy found important, and now that I know, I’m quite intent on it myself. The McCoys worked with two adoption agencies. First with one in Kansas, which didn’t seem to work out. They then decided to give it another try closer to home, one in Little Rock called Bethany Christian Services. The couple liked the idea that the adoption agency was a Christian one which gave special attention to the birth mothers, providing counseling for them if needed. The company is highly invested and concerned for all of those involved. It is important for them to make sure that the mothers are in a place that is emotionally and financially stable, so they are better able to make the right decisions which will affect the rest of their lives. Once Carter’s birth mother made the decision to place her son for adoption, she began looking through various profile books. She came across the McCoy couple’s profile and liked that they were young, and so she wanted to meet with them. The couple was not informed about the birth mother’s interest until the Monday after Mother’s Day, and, while that could have been discouraging, what really mattered was that they would soon meet the woman who would bring their son into the world. A week after finding out about the adoption opportunity, the McCoys met the birth mother at a restaurant in Beebe, along with her adoption agency worker, who was there to help mediate the meeting. The meeting went well, and by the end, she was ardent in letting the couple know that this was a decision she was committed to and that they need not worry about her changing her mind, because it had to be done. She could see his future being blissful and beautiful by making this decision. She admitted that she was unable to provide for him the way that she knew they could, and the biggest part of it was that she wanted her son to have both a mother and a father; he deserved that, and that’s exactly what she found for him. At the time of the meeting, they were unsure of the baby’s gender, but they still talked about names. The McCoys had chosen “Carter” for a boy. The birth mother liked the name, and, as a way to keep her involved in the child’s life, the couple wanted her to come up with the child’s middle name. She chose “Blaine.” Mandy loved this name. She was invited to participate in going to the sonograms, at one of which they were told that the baby was a boy, and so they named him Carter Blaine McCoy.

“The process itself has changed the two in the best way...”

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The experience is one that the McCoys will never forget. They were involved in every step of the way. Mandy attended doctor’s appointments with Carter’s birth mother, fully participating in the glorious process. Initially, the doctor told them that Carter would be born on July 10th, but after a few appointments, the doctor decided that Carter was getting quite big and that if he hadn’t come by July 6th, he’d go ahead and induce labor. So, the McCoys planned for that day; they arranged to be off work, getting ready for the big day that was coming - July the 6th. However, on the morning of July 4th, as the McCoys were getting ready to spend the holiday at the pool with some friends, Mandy McCoy thought to herself, wouldn’t it be funny if Carter just happened to come today? Though they were planning for the 6th, they still had not packed anything because they were planning on him coming in a couple of days, but God had other plans. The couple received a phone call from the birth mother at 7:30 in the morning saying that she had been having contractions since 5:30 a.m. and would be going to the doctor. She told them that she’d call them back to tell them anything important. The McCoys hurriedly packed up everything and soon received a callback at 8:15 saying that she’d be going to the hospital. Nate and Mandy met her at the hospital in Little Rock by 9:15 a.m., ready for the birth of their son. Upon arrival, they found out that the labor was progressing very quickly, so, along with one of the birth mother’s friends, Mandy was taken into the delivery room to watch the birthing of her son. She was terrified, she said, because she knew nothing about the process and didn’t know what to do, but it seemed that the friend knew, and that comforted her. Her previous fear seemed to vanish completely when she was asked to cut the umbilical cord, humbly partaking in a most intimate action that brought her one step closer to motherhood, as at 11:40 a.m. on July 4th, 2012, Carter Blaine McCoy was born. The couple’s experience that night was surreal. They were able to spend the night in the same room with Carter, which is not always the case with every hospital. Carter’s birth mother only had to stay for a short period of time and was able to go home earlier than Carter, though he was released shortly after. As a way of showing her that the couple truly cherish her and want her to be involved, they put together an album of photos of Carter, most of it left empty, serving as a promise that they will keep her in his life, as they send her photos of him in the future, all throughout his development. When working through an open adoption, there are things that must be encountered, such as boundaries or pressure on the birth parent. Nate and Mandy have been forward in letting Carter’s birth mother know how much they want her in his life. She’s part of their family now, Mandy explained, and she wants it to stay that

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way, though she certainly wishes to apply no pressure on her at all. Mandy gives high praise of Carter’s birth mother, speaking of her strength, courage, selfless and sacrificing heart, and thanks her for the gift that she gave to them, a gift that God gave them through her. Carter is now 20 months old and the happiest baby you’ll ever see. His demeanor is one of a rowdy, interesting, curious, and happy little boy. He loves the sunshine and being outside, and ardently runs and hugs his momma when she arrives home from work, and he does the same for his daddy, though Mandy is sure that he’s a “momma’s boy.” He brings joy and light to the lives of Nate and Mandy, and they are proud to be his parents. Through Carter, the McCoys have been brought closer together by God. It is easy for the two to see how He worked in their lives, so intimately weaving their lives deeper and deeper in love and compassion, in discovery of parenthood. Carter Blaine McCoy is and always will be their gift from God, their true and transcendent blessing. 

“When we lose one blessing, another is often most unexpectedly given in its place.”

– C.S. Lewis

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entle, swirling winds have swept up the imagination of some local residents, pilots who fly out of Searcy Municipal Airport to one particular destination: The sky. White County Sheriff Ricky Shourd was a patrolman with the Searcy Police Department when he received assignments from time to time that brought him to the airport, where he watched planes take off and land. “I thought how neat it would be to fly,” Shourd said. “I took a discovery flight and I loved it.” Shourd took lessons, completed his solo and cross-country flights and then got his pilot’s license in 1983; in 2010 he earned his multiengine rating and today co-owns a Piper Seneca. His wife is currently taking flying lessons. “It’s the joy of getting my wife and grandkids and loading up and going somewhere,” Shourd said. “And it’s the feeling of completing something.” That feeling of accomplishment was evident when he heard Steve Foster of Bulldog Aviation, one of Shourd’s instructors, say, “Congratulations” when he passed his flight test. “You’re always nervous not knowing if you passed or not,” Shourd said of the test that was preceded by a written test of 60 questions pulled from 600 study questions. “That little granddaughter of mine is keyed up about flying,” Shourd said. “When she was a year and half old I took her on her first flight in a helicopter. She loves airplanes.” Shourd participates, along with dozens of other volunteer pilots and plane owners, in the annual Airport Day in which the area’s fifth-graders are taken on short rides to introduce them to aviation. “Kids that may not ever get an opportunity to get in an airplane get to go,” Shourd said. Flying comes in handy doing his police work, too, Shourd said, as he uses his plane and rents private helicopters stationed at the Searcy airport to do search and rescue/recovery for about five or ten hours a year. A typical flight might be looking for a lost hunter in the Hurricane Wildlife Refuge on the White River. During flooding in the same area in 2010 which isolated Georgetown, an elderly couple whose vehicle was swept off the road were located within minutes, Shourd said. However, one particular pursuit stands out in his mind. “The Cleburne County Sheriff’s Department called and asked us to come up in a helicopter to search for an escapee,” Shourd said. “We got up there and I told the pilot, ‘Look, I see something under that tree.’ We circled, and the dogs that were chasing him followed us straight to the spot where he was pinned up.” The White County Sheriff’s Office has a helipad that is also used

by the Arkansas State Police, the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration and the Arkansas Army National Guard’s marijuana eradication assistance program. What happens to him when he’s looking through a plane’s windshield while humming along thousands of feet above the Arkansas forests and farmland is deeply emotional, Shourd said. “It’s a relaxing joy,” he said. “It’s really different to see it from the air.”

Best job ever

A number of the area’s largest employers use the airport, making it the community’s most effective economic development tool; those with regular flights in and out include Harding University, which houses its King Air in one of the hangars. “My dad said once, ‘When flying is in your blood there’s nothing you can do about it,’” said Ken McConnaughhay, Harding’s pilot. McConnaughhay, whose father bought and flew his own crop dusting plane to save money on his farm, came to the Searcy airport when he was very young and paid “a penny a pound” for a short ride. (It cost him 99 cents.) He took lessons and soloed in 1975 and went into the family crop dusting business in 1982. The experiences of flying are a good illustration of the experiences of life, McConnaughhay said.

“The obstacles I’ve dealt with in crop dusting have helped me deal with the obstacles of life,” McConnaughhay said. “If it weren’t for flying I’d have to go get a job. It’s been a good 37 years.”

A dream that came true

One barefoot boy who ran out in the yard to see a rare airplane fly over is now the retired director of the Arkansas State Police who hangs around the Searcy airport to enjoy the camaraderie of flying. “It was a dream I thought would never come true,” said J.R. Howard, who was a trooper stationed in Ft. Smith when he was bitten by the flying bug. He got his license in 1980 for his own enjoyment, knowing that he would be able to use it in his police work. “It’s just an absolute thrill when you’re up in there by yourself and you’ve got a different perspective on life,” said Howard, who told of seeing the Rocky Mountains from 140 miles away. “You can see all of God’s creation. I’m still amazed to get in a little plane in Searcy in the morning and be able to eat lunch looking at Pike’s Peak, then be back in town for supper.” Like other pilots, Howard spoke of seeing lightning from the air, “a beautiful sight.” “Now a thunderstorm, when you’re close to it, is not a beautiful sight,” Howard said,

Steve Foster of Bulldog Aviation, who has taught most of the pilots in the Searcy area, prepares for takeoff in a helicopter at Searcy Municipal Airport.

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with a smile. “You want to view those from a distance.” On a trip to Alaska, Howard rented a plane and flew over the remote wilderness near huge mountains. He plans to repeat the trip with his youngest grandson, whom he took on his first flight. “That made it worthwhile, getting to see Alaska by myself,” Howard said. “I flew over glaciers and lakes with icebergs in them.”

“Flying is my passion”

Yet another lawman who flies for fun and sometimes uses the skill in his police work is Phillip Miller, head of the Criminal Investigation Division of the White County Sheriff’s Office. “My first ever ride in a small plane was when I was on a youth mission trip in Iowa,” Miller said. “I got an opportunity to take a ride and I was hooked.” Miller is a flight instructor at Bulldog Aviation at Searcy Municipal Airport and, oddly enough, he’s afraid of falling. “I can’t get on the roof of my house and look over the edge without getting sick because I’m afraid of falling,” Miller said. “But in flying, I become one with the machine and not afraid because of where I’m at.” Flying is a pastime that will stay with him the rest of his life, Miller said. “It’s something I can always do, as long as my health will allow me,” Miller said. “I have pilots that are 80 years old, still flying and still enjoying it.” Miller began flying lessons in 1995 and says he is still learning. He has his single and multi-engine ratings, as well as his private and commercial licenses and flight instructor rating for airplanes and helicopters. With his boss, Miller has used planes and helicopters to serve the public, from searching for an Alzheimer’s patient who wandered off to looking for

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Ken McConnaughhay’s reflection can be seen in the chrome propellor cone of Harding University’s King Air during a pre-flight inspection. As the plane’s pilot, McConnaughhay is able to indulge his love of flying while earning a living. “If it weren’t for flying, I’d have to go get a job,” he said.

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‘I want to thank you for all the emergency training procedures you

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did with me.’

— Joanna Taylor, pilot and former flight instructor

a man who had threatened to commit suicide (found using the signal from his cell phone). “From liftoff at the Searcy airport, I can be in Georgetown in 13 minutes in a helicopter,” Miller said. “Flying is my passion. It’s just freedom. There’s no other expression. It’s exciting.”

A rewarding commitment

Phillip Miller, head of the Criminal Investigation Division for the White County Sheriff’s Office, puts on his headset before being towed to the tarmac for takeoff.

The intellectual challenge of flying and the fellowship of the pilot community are two things Joanna Taylor, a pilot and former flight instructor, likes about flying. “You never stop learning,” Taylor said. “It’s a commitment and it’s a rewarding commitment. It’s challenging.” Her first flight came when her dad, a pilot, took her into the air. She got her pilot’s license in 1984. “We enjoy learning about flying,” Taylor said of the scholarly stimulation flying brings. “We learn about weather. It’s a great thing for young people to get into because of the commitment and the education they get. I probably studied more for my private pilot’s license than the whole time I was in school. Math and science that I never thought I’d think about using, we use in aviation.” Teaching new students – young and old – how to fly is enjoyable, she said. “The two things I’ve enjoyed with aviation is when you see a student when their light bulb goes off and they’re getting it and understanding it,” Taylor said. “They make two or three good landings and you’re proud of them and they’re proud of themselves.” The other thing is more down-to-earth, literally. “Every pilot I know likes to sit out on their porch and watch the thunderstorms come through,” Taylor said. “Back in the ’80s a storm was coming through and I called my instructor up because it was going near his home. He said he was sitting on his storm cellar watching the same storm. Pilots do that. But when you’re in the air you think, ‘They don’t pay us enough to do this.’” When pilots get together they sense a commonness within the crowd, Taylor said. “It’s a group of people that, regardless of what you do or who you are, you all have a common bond. The fellowship pilots have regardless of your differences is a common bond and is a nice thing to have. With people all over the world, if they’re a pilot you instantly have common ground with them.” Flying is different than any other activity, she said. “It’s nice to see the world from a different perspective and it’s a great feeling to be flying,” Taylor said. “It’s an amazing, wonderful thing.” And sometimes the role of teacher allows you to change people’s lives, Taylor said. “The most rewarding thing that ever happened was with a young student, J.P. Freppon, who wanted to become a crop duster, or, as we should call them, ‘aerial applicators,’”

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Taylor said. “We did numerous emergency procedures with him, and, shortly after he started flying, his engine quit and he had to make a forced landing. He called me about an hour after he crashed and told me, ‘I want to thank you for all the emergency training procedures you did with me.’” 

“When everything seems to be going against

you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.

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— Henry Ford (American industrialist and pioneer of the assembly-line production method, 1863-1947)

Pictured (L to R)

Don Lytle, Fixed Based Operations Supervisor. Q: Favorite thing about working at the airport? A: The people. Donny Love, Airport Manager. Q: Favorite thing about working at airport? A: No traffic, no stop signs, can’t get pulled over for speeding. Dr. Bob Smith, Pilot from Searcy. Q: Favorite thing about flying? A: Building planes.

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Playroom Makeover Part 5:

When a room has a large empty wall it can become a little overwhelming. Since large art pieces are often costly, this is a perfect opportunity for a DIY project! For our playroom makeover I have created an oversized wall clock that is both fun and functional!

Spray paint paper mache numbers in the color(s) of your choice.

To hold the clock mechanism, I used the lid of a paper mache box. Spray paint the edges of the lid and mod podge scrapbook paper to the top.

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After the mod podge dries, make a hole in the center of the box lid and attach a clock mechanism. Hang the lid with the mechanism on the wall.

Using mounting putty, apply the numbers to the wall starting with numbers 12, 3, 6, and 9 leaving approximately 22 inches between the box lid and the numbers.

Fill in the remaining numbers.

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IN SEARCY

The Rowden Family Story by Haley Rogers • Photos by Hannah Elliott

In 1995, the Rowdens moved to Searcy from Paragould and built their own home in a pretty area just outside of town. Greg and Tina sought the opportunity of building to put their own touches in their home, which is evident even today, after years of living there. As you walk up to the front door, you find yourself enchanted not only by the beauty of the landscape, but also the words written over the doorway: “The Rowden Home.” Throughout the entire home, you find subtle signatures tastefully placed, mostly just different sizes and colors of the letter “R” dispersed in every room. It is Tina’s way of bringing home into a house.

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Directly to the right upon entering the home is the dining room, lightly decorated and wholesomely warm. In the corner near the table is a large framed photo of their daughter on her wedding day. Its elegance and sentimentality add to the familial atmosphere of such a familyoriented room. Holiday meals are spent sitting around their welcoming wooden dining table. Across from the dining room is what used to be Greg’s office, but the purpose shifted and became the family study. One of the nicest elements of the home is that of the staircase balcony that is visible just as you walk in. Looking up, you can see and feel that the entire home is connected by this open walkway. It certainly was useful when the couple first moved in, as their children were very young, and they wanted to be able to communicate with them easily if they were to be on a different level. Due to the balcony and its openness, they never felt that they were too far away from their children. The living room is seen straight ahead from the entry way. The room welcomes you with warm colors of browns and reds, and yet there are still many lighter colors as well. The nature of the home is characterized by the wide use of color and its clever arrangements, as well as its traditional mixtures. Not only is color a major factor in the Rowden home, but texture and pattern are as well. The living room is home to many important pieces, one of which is an antique from Tina’s grandmother’s side of the family. Its rustic flare and sentimental value give the home a certain depth that new things can’t always compensate for. A photo of the kids when they were young rests on the mantle above the fireplace. It reminds Tina of when they were little, as, to her, it is important to keep these memories where they belong: in the heart of the home.

 The Rowdens

 Directly to the right upon entering the home is the dining room, lightly decorated and wholesomely warm.

 The living room welcomes you with warm colors of browns and reds, and yet there are still many lighter colors as well.

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The kitchen is the second favorite room in the house with an openness that expands into the breakfast area and a view of the yard through large windows. This is a place that allows the couple to entertain for small group meetings and other occasions. Its shape is what is most unique about it. A curved and circular area, this kitchen provides one with much space to move about and work. Not only is it quaint with its rustic, aged, and weathered-style cabinets, but it is also functional. Upon entering the area, it is easy to see that the layout was thoroughly thought out, well-planned and executed. It’s practical and pretty. Included among the ideas that went into the kitchen’s plan was the idea to put brick as the backsplash and encase the stove and

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oven in it as well. At the time, Greg found it hard to imagine brick looking good inside a home, but Tina knew what she was doing. Once they got the brick in, it became Greg’s favorite part of the entire home and it does look fantastic. Just to add a little something extra, Tina coated a pantry door in blackboard paint, a way for her to leave messages for the family in the mornings or for others to do the same. It’s just another way that she has added to the homey atmosphere. The favorite room is what used to be the garage, but was transformed into the game room. The room is covered from floor to ceiling in razorback red and is complete with two televisions for simultaneous game-watching. The pool table was

 A curved and circular area, this kitchen provides one with much space to move about and work.

 The game room was a convenient and significant investment. even ordered to be red so as to match the razorback theme. The game room also holds special pieces such as trophies from the kids’ tournaments and choir competitions. When the house was new to them, they hadn’t realized that they would need a room for athletes, their children and their friends. The game room was a convenient and significant investment. The master bedroom is full of quiet charm, with a mixture of warm woods and light flowing in from the large windows and door to the backyard. The room includes a small sitting area, where the children slept when they were younger if they were sick or scared. Attached is the master bathroom, a simply-decorated, clean and light room that holds a Jacuzzi tub and two separate sinks across from each other. They like having the sinks across from each other; that way, they don’t have problems bumping into each other as they get ready in the mornings. The bedrooms belonging to the Rowden kids are all located on the second level. Each room has its own characteristic flare. The youngest son continued the vibrant red razorback theme throughout his own bedroom, creating the epitome of a guy’s space. The red is tastefully used, and the room itself is a decent size and perfect for

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 The master bedroom is full of quiet charm, with a mixture of warm woods and light flowing in from the large windows and door to the backyard.

“The

Rowden residence

is a place to feel relaxed, to understand what it means to be a family, to hold on to great memories, to create more, and to live in gracious harmony.”

when he comes home from college to visit. The oldest son’s room is where he and his wife sleep when they visit from Little Rock. It, too, is masculine in its own way, but still very clean and can be seen as quite neutral. Across the walkway, you’ll find their daughter’s room, a space adorned with European designs of Paris and London. The room has just enough chic and sophistication that it tells you a little bit about her. She is an artistic young lady who also keeps her high school photos and memories on display in the room, because, in her mind, they belong there, as it will always be her home. Her room is also often used for guests because of the convenience of the attached bathroom. The last room was transformed from extra attic space into a nursery. When the Rowdens became grandparents, they made it a mission to create a space for their grandchildren to sleep in when they visit. It is decorated in colors and items that could be appropriate for a girl or a boy. The Rowden residence is a place to feel relaxed, to understand what it means to be a family, to hold on to great memories, to create more, and to live in gracious harmony. They have placed special pieces around the house that encourage this way of life. They also want each visitor to feel at home, comfortable, like they belong, as that’s what home really is: a place of love and welcome. The Rowdens have accomplished just that.   The oldest son’s room is masculine and neutral.

 The youngest son continued the vibrant red razorback theme throughout his own bedroom.  The Rowden’s daughter’s room is adorned with European designs of Paris and London. 32 Your Hometown Magazine

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White County DEM receives $10,000 from BHP Billiton for new communications equipment Representatives from the White County Department of Emergency Management has accepted a $10,000 donation from BHP Billiton Petroleum to assist with the purchase of new communications equipment for volunteer fire departments in the county. “This new communications equipment will ensure that volunteer fire departments out in the county can receive emergency signals during a disaster in a timely and uninterrupted manner,” said Tamara Jenkins, White County DEM director. The Federal Communications Commission has required that volunteer fire departments, many of which serve rural areas, upgrade to narrowbanding communications equipment. Narrow-banding equipment is the change of bandwidth that channels must operate on to receive emergency signals. “We greatly respect the important responsibility that the Department of Emergency Management and Judge Michael Lincoln have in helping the residents of White County during emergencies, and we hope this will make their jobs easier in protecting our fellow Arkansans,” said Danny Games, external affairs manager at BHP Billiton.

Rick Spicer, BHP Billiton regulatory and environmental superintendent, and Tamara Jenkins, White County DEM director

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About the White County DEM The White County Department of Emergency Management is charged with supporting the national system of emergency management by providing local comprehensive disaster preparedness plans, programs and capabilities. DEM ensures that funding is located, acquired and provided to White County law enforcement and firefighters through grant funding. DEM provides the organization necessary to facilitate the rapid acquisition and delivery of resources necessary to help White County and its residents recover from major disasters. For more information, visit WhiteCountyAR.org/white_county_dem.php.

Sidney Deener Elementary School students displayed art in the White County Youth Art Exhibit. The following students attended a reception at the Black House for participants. Marian Colburn is the art teacher at Sidney Deener.

Isabella Meza-Cristobal displayed a pencil and watercolor entitled “Different Colored Stripe Zebra.”

Kindergarten student Austin Hoffpauir created “Penguin” for display in the exhibit.

Student

Trevor Shelton’s artwork is entitled “Chinese New Year 2013: Year of the Snake.”

McRae Elementary School art teacher Tracey Rogers provided student art work for display at White County Medical Center. Shown is third grade student Ty Morgan with a piece of his art that was displayed. SearcyLiving.com 35

Doctor Beth Patterson speaks to students at the “Seuss Spa” during Family Literacy Night at McRae Elementary School about taking care of their teeth.

Emma Jobe takes a closer look at rocks found in Arkansas at the “Travel Through Our History” booth at Literacy Night at McRae Elementary School.

National Day Of Service Julie Williams and Marsha Pressler with the White County Aging Program and United Way, with Mayor David Morris of Searcy and Mayor Arthur Dunn of Bradford, sign a proclamation for National Day Of Service.

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Art in Full Bloom at WCMC Budding artists Hadyn Brewer (left) and Jaelyn Belford are two of the Kindergarteners who contributed miniature masterpieces that were part of the Arts in the Hospital exhibit on display at White County Medical Center. The theme of the series of artwork is ‘Picasso’s Posies,’ which was inspired by one of Pablo Picasso’s paintings. “Picasso occasionally painted in a child-like way,” said Westside Elementary School Art Teacher Cheryl Simmons. “The students feel so proud that their work looks almost like the famous artist. My hope is that it will inspire them to continue painting for years to come!” WCMC’s Arts in the Hospital program was developed to promote the healing process of patients. The program invites patients and guests to enjoy a variety of art forms during their hospital stay. Art displays range from elementary school student drawings to professional paintings and photography, as well as musical performances from choirs and bands featuring students of all ages. For more information about Arts in the Hospital, please contact White County Medical Center Event Specialist Anna Overbay at (501) 380-1057 or via email at aoverbay@wcmc.org.

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White County Single Parent Scholarship Fund Receives Endowment

Amy Daniels, an Edward Jones financial advisor in Searcy, recently began funding an endowed scholarship for the White County Single Parent Scholarship Fund, Inc. The Lindsey Mann Endowed Scholarship is named after Danielsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; oldest daughter. Seventeen years ago, Amy and her three small children found themselves starting a new life after a divorce. At the time of her divorce, Amy had not yet finished her bachelors degree. She quickly realized that in order to achieve financial freedom, confidence, and regain her self respect, she would need to finish her education. In order for her to work during the day and attend college in the evenings, Amy needed the support and understanding of her children. Her oldest child, Lindsey, quickly assumed a role at age 10 that no child should ever have to assume. She took on the role of helping take care of her younger brother and baby sister while her mother worked and attended classes. Amy said that in many ways Lindsey gave so much of her childhood to provide support and protection for their family.

White County Single Parent Scholarship Fund, Inc. Scholarships Nine White County single parent scholars were recently awarded scholarships at the White County Single Parent Scholarship Fund, Inc.'s 2013 Spring Scholar/Donor Reception. The scholarships are awarded annually for the spring, summer, and fall semesters. This year's spring scholarships have a combined value of $7,000.00. The scholarships awarded are as follows: Chrissy Bloesch: ADHE Scholar Crystal Coker: ADHE Scholar Lisa Freeney: ADHE Scholar Shana Honse: ADHE Scholar Trisha Jennings: ADHE Scholar Heather Langley: Colton's Scholar Ardith Minneweather: Hawley Scholar Brenna Rogers: First United Methodist Women Open Circle Scholar Viki Vinson: First Electric Scholar Since its inception in 1999, the WCSPSF, Inc. has awarded 397 scholarships with a combined value of $203,726.50. Applications are currently being accepted for the summer and fall semesters. Scholarships are awarded for part time and full time students. The deadline for the summer is June 1 and the deadline for the fall is August 15. For information on how to apply, check out the WCSPSF, Inc. website at www.aspsf. org/county_white.html. You may also contact Executive Director, Dan Newsom, at 501-230-2414. Pictured making the presentation to First United Methodist Women Open Circle Scholar, Brenna Rogers, are (l-r) Pat Homard, Elena Wilson, Brenna Rogers (First United Methodist Women Open Circle Scholar), Linda Wiseman, and Cheryl Allen of the United Methodist Women Open Circle. The cake for the reception was furnished by Harp's Grocery.

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The Lindsey Mann Endowed Scholarship is Amyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s way of honoring her daughter and the sacrifices that her children made to help their mother finish her education and succeed as a single parent. This scholarship, to be awarded annually every fall, will create a perpetual gift that provides scholarships to single parents so that they may also realize their dream of providing a better life for their children. The White County Single Parent Scholarship Fund, Inc. provides scholarships to single parents of minor children who are pursuing post-secondary education with the goal of finding skilled employment. Since the organization began in 1999, the WCSPSF, Inc. has awarded 397 scholarships with a value of $203,726.50. To find out more about the WCSPSF, Inc. contact Executive Director, Dan Newsom, at 501-230-2414 or fabfour64@sbcglobal. net. You may also visit their website, www. aspsf.org/county_white.html.

First Lady Visits Westside Elementary School First Lady of Arkansas Ginger Beebe and her Flat Stanley visited Westside Elementary School second graders on Friday. Mrs. Beebe discussed Flat Stanley’s adventures and encouraged students to eat healthy, exercise, and read. Pictured are second grade teachers Belinda Anderson, Michelle Bruxvoort, Mrs. Beebe, Sandra Wesson, Jill Snow, and Beth Buterbaugh.

CAPCA Head Start For 2013-2014 Enrollment Year • • • •

Services for children who are 3 or 4 years old by August 1, 2013. Free to families who meet the income eligibility guidelines. Caring teachers, exciting and varied curriculum, and a wide range of family services come together to give your child a Head Start in life! Transportation to and from Head Start is not provided. For Additional Information please contact: Bald Knob Center 877-699-1467 Mills Center 877-699-2365 Searcy Center 877-699-2371 Beebe Center 877-699-2358 Rose Bud Center 877-699-2370

CAPCA Head Start does not discriminate on the basis of a disability. The Health/Disability Coordinator is designated to ensure compliance with Section 504/Americans with Disabilities Act.

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Regional Chemistry Olympiad Thirteen Searcy High School students participated in the Regional Chemistry Olympiad competition sponsored by the Central Arkansas Region of American Chemical Society. Senior Josh Lovitte placed second in the region, and Kaleigh Ramey tied for seventh place. Both will advance to the National Chemistry Olympiad competition on April 13. Pictured are participants Kaleigh Ramey, Jordan Ladyman, Olivia Morton, Gareth Evans, Hailey Raia, Josh Lovitte, Nichole Cook, Peyton DeShazo, Hayden Evans, Joseph Lim, and Patrick McKenzie. Not pictured are Micah Webb and Taylor Touchet.

You are my strength and salvation.

â&#x20AC;&#x153; You are the rock that I stand on. I am who I am because you made me this way. You made me meek and full of helpfulness, and a heart that goes out to people in need.â&#x20AC;? Go to searcyliving.com to read more of this poem.

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Searcy Families May Participate In Cultural Exchange

WCMC Receives United Way Spirit Award at Luncheon White County Medical Center was recently honored with the 2013 Albert R. Yarnell Spirit Award at the United Way Victory Luncheon held at the hospital. Named for Mr. Albert R. Yarnell, the Spirit Award is presented to an organization that is a strong United Way partner, exhibits leadership and has high employee participation. WCMC has been a partner of the United Way chapter since its inception; physicians and administrators from WCMC have served on the United Way Board of Directors for 34 years. The hospital has sponsored the United Way Victory Luncheon for 24 years and has hosted it at the Hubach Conference Center for the past 12 years. Mr. Yarnell is a founder of the United Way of White County, which was formed in 1979. Instead of going doorto-door asking for donations for multiple organizations, Mr. Yarnell had the idea to create one organization that would, in turn, benefit multiple organizations in the community. “It is an honor to be recognized with the Spirit Award,” said WCMC President/CEO Ray Montgomery. “We are proud that our associates have contributed to the United Way, as well as our Board of Director’s willingness to match those funds. We are thankful for the good work that the United Way does here in White County.”

Town resident, Beth Huddleston, is interviewing families in this area interested in participating in a cultural exchange experience by hosting an international high school student for the coming academic year. Ms. Huddleston serves as Community Coordinator for PAX, a non-profit foundation which provides a U.S. high school and homestay program for students from over 40 different countries in Europe, Eastern Europe, Asia and Latin America. PAX students are between the ages of 15 and 18, speak English, have full insurance coverage and their own spending money. Students from different countries look forward to living like American teens for one school year - joining sports teams, studying for exams, and participating fully in family life. PAX families are asked to provide students with meals, a place to sleep and study, and a warm, supportive environment. Private rooms are not required and single parents, young couples and retirees are welcome to apply. For information call Beth Huddleston, 501-8588783 or the PAX national office at (800) 555-6211.

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H H H H H H H H H H H H H

THE ONE & ONLY

By Haley Rogers

H H H H H H H H H

“Jeff’s hunger to spread positivism, enlightenment, wisdom, encouragement, and inspiration has been put into effect.”

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t the young age of twelve, Jeff Pledger experienced health complications. He struggled with high blood pressure, which affected various aspects of his young life. He and his mother never fully understood what was wrong until one evening, while eating dinner, Jeff suffered from high blood pressure and showed symptoms that brought worry to their waitress. The concerned waitress spoke to Jeff’s mother, explaining to her the similarities between Jeff’s symptoms and someone she knew. The person she knew was diagnosed with diabetes, and with that, Jeff’s mother quickly took Jeff to a doctor, who then told them to go straight to the hospital, advising that they do not even stop to get clothes. They found that Jeff’s blood pressure had reached a threatening level. He was hospitalized for about a week and was soon diagnosed with diabetes, a disease that has affected his life in many ways ever since. When Jeff visited his doctor about his diagnosis, he was informed that he should take care of himself, doing all he could do to live healthily, especially for the next twenty years. The doctor mentioned the scary fact that serious complications can set in, but they usually do not totally set in for twenty years or so, as all of the bad habits adopted during those twenty years will eventually catch up to you. But, naturally, to a twelve year old, twenty years is an entire lifetime away. As Jeff mentioned to me in our interview, “twenty years come quick,” and the doctor was right; it caught up to Jeff 21 years later.

At the age of 36, Jeff had been living at the Riviera in Little Rock. He expressed his deepest love for the place, being in the city, full of the “neatest” people he’d met. He lived there alongside neighboring federal Supreme Court judges, and one of the first women judges, as well. In that exciting time, things were put on hold when he experienced a serious heart attack, which triggered other complications. One evening, he’d gone to dinner with his cousin in Heber Springs. That night, he returned late, went to sleep, but at 2:30 in the morning, he fell out of his bed with a serious insulin reaction, which led to his right leg being broken. His broken leg developed a lethal infection, which then regretfully led to the loss of his right leg. From that point, it seemed that it was one thing after another. His kidneys began to flare up as well. He gives much praise to the White County Hospital at the South Campus for taking such good care of him. In such a hard time, it is important to have people you can depend on. He went through much therapy, and his strength really came into play at that time and still does, helping him to adjust. Due to other medical complications, as is common for those who have already lost one leg, Jeff later lost his other leg. His life has been drastically changed, and he still hurts from it, but the difference between then and now, is that Jeff has taken his situation, and he has molded it into something he can use. He talks to people, teaches people, moves them, helps them, heals them with his mindset, happy grin, and contagious laugh. His eyes are full of ambition. Prior to his heart attack, Jeff was living an exciting life full of travels, different cars, and various interesting occupations. On those

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H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H travels, he met some of the most fascinating people in his life, and, most interesting, was how he was mistaken countless times for Rush Limbaugh. Limbaugh’s cousin had even walked into a store where Jeff was working, showed him a picture of Limbaugh as a child, and called the man up on the spot, leaving a voicemail informing her cousin of his mysterious twin. The many wonderful traits belonging to those he knew and still knows, must have rubbed off on him, because he is one fascinating character. And speaking of character, Jeff plans on writing and publishing a book about his life. I will not spoil the name, for he has already come up with a clever one, so you’ll just have to wait until it’s on the shelf. But as soon as Jeff receives his prosthetics, as prosthetics have come a long way with technological advances, and gets out of The Crossing at Riverside (formerly Byrd Haven), he will continue to live as he did before, traveling and probably indulging in his car addiction (he has had at least 24 cars!). He will also be sure to have his memoirs published for all to read. He plans on returning to his extensive travels to Natchez, Louisiana and Palm Springs. It’s clear that his optimism is sure to shine light on an inspiring future.

Amidst health problems, Jeff lives a full life.

“In the midst of Jeff’s struggles, his friends and family have remained by his side, supporting him through it all.”

diabetic insightS Tips For Improving Blood Sugar Control by Todd & Casey McLeod Medical Center Pharmacy

Diabetes is a disease that encompasses so many parts of a person’s life. Lack of good blood sugar control can affect energy level, mood, vision, and many other body processes. It is important for diabetics to visit their physician on a regular basis and follow the medication plan provided by their health care providers, but so much of the control of this disease is in the hand of the individual. The health and wellness of a person with diabetes is directly related to his or her lifestyle choices. Following these tips will help get blood sugar under control and, in turn, decrease the complications of diabetes. • B is for balance. Diet fads are never good for blood sugar control. Low carb diets deprive the body of much needed fiber and vitamins. Be sure to include healthy carbohydrates in your diet in the appropriate portion size. A good rule of thumb is to keep portion sizes between ½ to 1 cup for most carbohydrates. • Get busy. It’s okay to start slow and build up but JUST GET STARTED! Thirty minutes of exercise daily can make a significant difference in blood sugar levels. Just remember to check blood sugar before and after exercise to monitor for blood sugar lows. 44 Your Hometown Magazine

• Chill out. High stress levels can cause high blood sugar

levels. Diabetes is often associated with depression and anxiety. Praying often, getting plenty of rest, and being active will help bring stress levels down. • Be careful little feet. Check feet for blisters or sores on a regular basis. Diabetics are more prone to infection and are at much higher risk for amputations. • Eye spy. Have eyes checked on a regular basis. Diabetics are at higher risk for visual problems and blindness. • Be a rule follower. Take medications the way they are prescribed. Your pharmacist is available to answer questions about how to take your medicine and how it works. Certain medications have special instructions. Ask your pharmacist about your medications. *For more tips check out the expanded information from Medical Center Pharmacy on our website or visit with your pharmacist.

In the midst of Jeff’s struggles, his friends and family have remained by his side, supporting him through it all. They continue to visit him, and you can usually find Jeff on the phone until 1:00 a.m., speaking to someone from back home in Little Rock or somewhere else from across this great nation. It certainly was a quick twenty years for Jeff that lead him to the difficult time he is now facing. His biggest motivation for telling his story is to give wholesome advice to fellow diabetics, to all people in general. His most significant piece of advice is that we need to take care of ourselves. As he lives in The Crossing at Riverside, he witnesses the healthy eating habits of those living into their 100’s. He has taken on those habits, now hoping to spread the word that in those passing twenty years, it is important to stay positive, eat right, and take care of your body. The crazy, fast-paced life is not more important than your health and well-being. Minimizing stress is also a good piece of advice. Jeff’s hunger to spread positivism, enlightenment, wisdom, encouragement, and inspiration has been put into effect. His story is sure to reach those who need him. God works in phenomenal ways, and he does so through those who are struggling, because they have strength to show, stories to tell, foundational courage for others to learn from. Thank you, Jeff. Now, it’s time for you to start writing that book so we can know more about what lies behind the one and only Jeff Pledger.  H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H H

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low starch types- no potatoes, very little corn, peas, winter squash, small amounts of raw tomato are acceptable, no tomato sauces). • The only fruit consumption acceptable is berries and in moderation (no fruit juices). • No sweets (use only Stevia if you need a sweetener). • Fats will not affect blood sugar (nuts are goodexcept cashews, avocadoes are great). • No reduced fat products (full fat cheese is good, full fat yogurt is ok for most). • All grains and grain products are out except small amount of sprouted grain breads (The more processing a grain goes through the higher the resulting glycemic response, no rice, no oats, etc. Pasta is out - very high glycemic index, no cereals). • Eat less (the glycemic load equals the glycemic index times the quantity consumed). • Alcohol does not raise blood sugar but what it is mixed with usually does. Testing your blood sugar is imperative! Everything stated above is subject to testing. Test when you first get up. A reading of under 100 is pretty OK, although not perfect (83 is perfect). Test before a meal and about one hour after a meal. Ideally blood sugar should not rise more than 10-20 points. After you have tested extensively you will learn what works for you and what does not. It is the carbohydrates that matter. Fat and protein have very little effect on blood sugar.

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By Melanie Sparks

hen you are newlyweds you imagine the great life you will have and the family you want to start. No one ever thinks about not making it through a fullterm pregnancy. You want to have a healthy baby and a healthy pregnancy. This is where our story begins. We found out four months after my dad had passed away that we were expecting. It was a time of joy and sadness all in the same. I was so excited about having a baby, but sad because my dad wouldn’t be here to see his first grandchild. We told both of our families, who were just as excited as we were. I have had high blood pressure for a while. We were hoping it would stay in a normal range during the pregnancy. I had all the routine check-ups, and things were going well. I went in for my check-up at 29 weeks. The nurse came in to check my blood pressure, and she told me to lie on my left side, but I wasn’t sure why. The doctor and nurse came back in together and told me my blood pressure was up and I needed to be transferred to the hospital for monitoring. I was hoping to be there for only a few hours and then go home. When my blood pressure did not come down, he told me that I would need to be transferred to a hospital in Little Rock. He said I could go buy helicopter or ambulance; I chose the ambulance, because I did not want to fly! I was then loaded into the ambulance, and I remember asking the EMT if we could stop for ice cream. I wanted to go anywhere but the hospital. I was not ready for our little girl to arrive. When we got to Little Rock the doctor told me that I had pre-eclampsia (pregnancy-induced high blood pressure), and they would monitor me with a possibility of delivering early. The next couple of days were a big blur to me. They kept me pretty well sedated. On the morning of April 17, 2003, Rachel came into this world weighing 1 lb. 15 oz. I did not get to see her right away because she had to be taken to the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit). My husband and other family members were able to go in and see her, and they took pictures and brought them to me. She was so tiny and precious! I was able to go see her the next day when my blood pressure came down. I didn’t get to hold my baby like new mothers usually do. I had to reach into her isolette and hold her hand. She was the smallest baby I had ever seen. She had no health 46 Your Hometown Magazine

issues; she just had to get bigger before we could bring her home. Rachel stayed in the NICU for 9 weeks and came home with no medications or monitors. We were so scared to have another baby after Rachel. We weren’t sure if it would be healthy for me or the baby. I was very hurt about not having any more children. I had always wanted two kids. I never thought I would have problems with my pregnancy; no one ever anticipates problems. I would watch as friends and family had normal pregnancies and deliveries, and I wondered why that couldn’t be me. That is when we found out we were pregnant with Hayden. I was excited and scared at the same time. We looked forward to having this baby, but were praying that it would go smoother this time. My check-ups were all going well. I went in for my 24-week check-up, and it felt like it started all over again. My blood pressure was up, and I was asked to lie on my left side. When it wouldn’t come down, the doctor wanted me to go to the hospital for monitoring. After I was checked in, the nurse came in to hook up the fetal monitor. She had a hard time finding the heartbeat. My nurse from the doctor’s office had come to the hospital with me; she is a good friend, and we go to church together. I remember looking up at her and saying, “He’s gone, isn’t he?” I knew in my heart that I had lost the baby. I was glad that T.W., my husband, had gotten there before the doctor did. When the doctor came in, he did an ultrasound. It confirmed what I already knew; there was no heartbeat. The look on T.W.’s face broke my heart. I couldn’t do anything to help him. My tears were uncontrollable. I wasn’t sure why this happened. Hayden was born sleeping on November 19, 2008; the cord had gotten wrapped around his neck. I had never had to deal with something like this. I didn’t know how to handle it. I didn’t know how to comfort T.W. or deal with my own hurt. I didn’t want to be around anyone; I just wanted to be alone. I knew I couldn’t do that because I wasn’t just living for myself; I have a family to live for. Just being there for them is what got me through. I know we have a lot of friends and family who prayed for us during that time, and that helped too. I had to learn how to deal with the grief on my own, and not because I didn’t have a lot of support, because we did. I needed to deal with my emotions and learn how to get through each day. I had to learn how to get through it myself so I could help my family. During this time I leaned on God, and my faith became stronger. After what we had been through with Rachel and Hayden, we

were sure that there wouldn’t be any more kids. It is times like this that God shows us he has a different plan. We were surprised when we found out that we were expecting again! How could this be? We had already been through so much with the other two pregnancies; surely this one would be different. We decided not to tell anyone for a while about this one. We wanted to wait as long as possible and pray that everything would be okay this time. We didn’t even tell Rachel she was getting a baby sister. We had waited until Thanksgiving to tell our families. I was 16 weeks. We told Rachel about five minutes before everyone else knew; she was so excited to tell everyone about it! Rachel couldn’t wait to tell everyone at church and school.

Rachel at 1 lb. 15 oz.

“When you are going through trials, it’s hard to see the blessing in it. Would I have chosen to have gone through all of this? No. Would I want someone else to go through this? No. But I can tell you that it has made my faith and marriage stronger.” I went in for my 28-week check-up, and yes, you guessed it, my blood pressure was up again! I was so mad. All I could think was “not again!” I did not want to go through this a third time. Since we had been through a preterm birth and the loss of a child, I had a million thoughts running through my mind. Our preacher, Keith Lunceford, came in to pray with us before I left to go to Baptist Hospital in Little Rock. When we got to the hospital, we found out the same doctor who delivered Rachel would be my doctor. Abby was delivered on February 19, 2010, weighing 1 lb. 14 oz. She was so pretty and had a head full of hair! For a baby to be so tiny, she looked bigger than Rachel did when she was born. Abby was born with a premature birth defect that caused her heart to allow too much blood to flow. She was transferred to Arkansas Children’s Hospital at 4 days old because of Hypoplastic Left Heart syndrome. The doctors told us that if she had not been born prematurely, she probably would not have made it in the womb. Arkansas Children’s was able to care for Abby’s needs for the next 8 weeks. She had wonderful people who took care of her. They were able to get her transferred to Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Columbus, Ohio for heart surgery. The surgeon and staff in Ohio were wonderful, too. Abby had open heart surgery and did well with recovery. She was transferred back to Arkansas for the remainder of her life. We received a call that no parent should ever have to hear. Abby had some problems, but they were able to get her stabilized. I dropped Rachel off with a family friend and headed to the hospital. When I got to the hospital, it was a scene I wish I didn’t have to see. There were more nurses and doctors with her than I had ever seen. She did not look like the happy baby I had seen the day before. She was well-sedated, but I feel like she knew I was there. I bent down to talk to her and hold her hand; she smiled and squeezed my hand back. It’s a feeling I will never forget. It was the last good moment I had with her. The doctor told T.W. and I that there was nothing more they could do for her. Abby passed away SearcyLiving.com 47

July 28, 2010. They unhooked her from the machines and placed her in my arms. She was squeezing my finger until she took her last breath. I told her goodbye and how much I loved her. We had to get Rachel down to the hospital to tell her the news; I did not want to tell her. She had already lost her brother, and now she was losing her sister. It was one of the hardest things we had to do. We held our little girl for a little while longer before leaving the hospital. Planning your child’s funeral is not an easy thing. It is something you pray you will never have to do. We had a visitation and graveside memorial for Abby. I cannot even begin to express how much it meant to see all the people who showed up for both. We have a lot of great friends and family who have supported us through all of this. Our church family, Park Avenue Baptist Church, has been there for us as well. We could not ask for anything more. Losing two children is devastating. When you are going through trials, it’s hard to see the blessing in it. Would I have chosen to have gone through all of this? No. Would I want someone else to go through this? No. But I can tell you that it has made my faith and marriage stronger. When you have a Christian spouse to lean on, it makes it easier. I could not have made it through without him. I am not happy about having been through what we’ve been through, but I am thankful for what it has taught me. We do a walk with the March of Dimes every year. Their mission is to help moms have full-term pregnancies and research the problems that threaten the health of babies. Our family raises money to help with this research. If you would like to donate or walk with us, here is the info: www.marchforbabies.org/msparks31 

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By Tia Stone

Picture of my friends and I about a block from the Boston Marathon finish line, just minutes before the bombs went off. Two of us ran in it and the other two came to cheer for us. We are all from Searcy. — Tia Stone

Dear Tia and Friends, We are so grateful that you were not injured in the Marathon. Our hearts and prayers, along with yours, go out to the families of the injured and fallen. — Searcy Living

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Monday, April 15th was a day I experienced just about every emotion that is humanly possible. When it began, I felt the way I feel most other marathon mornings, but this time it was even more special. I was about to run in the Boston Marathon and I had been dreaming of running this race for years. The day was full of potential. Sure, I was anxious and nervous, but overall I was very excited. My friend Tish (who was also running Boston) and I left our apartment in Cambridge around 6 a.m. and stopped off at Starbucks for a coffee and oatmeal to go before heading over to the Boston Commons area, where all the runners were meeting to get on buses which would take us to Hopkinton. It’s about an hour bus ride from Boston to Hopkinton, which is the start of the Boston Marathon. (Boston is a point to point marathon, meaning we start in one town and run 26.2 miles in one direction until we reach the finish.) For the next hour and a half we hung out in Athlete’s Village while we waited anxiously for our wave to be called to the start. I thought I would get bored waiting there, but it seemed that the time flew by rather quickly. Everyone was so excited to be there. Boston is not just any race. It takes a lot of work just to make it to the starting line of Boston. Qualifying times must be met, and even then it is no guarantee that you will make it in before it fills up and registration closes. I made it over to the starting line for my wave and corral with about 5 minutes to spare. I was alone and ready to focus. I’ve never been surrounded by that many other runners, yet I did not see anyone I knew. But that was okay with me. It was game time and I needed to focus for the next 3 hours. My basic pacing plan was to run just at a sub 7 minute pace so I could shoot for a sub 3:05 finish time. The start was a little slower than I would have liked but there were SO MANY runners. For the first few miles I really had to focus on finding enough room and finding my rhythm. The first time I heard a “Go Tia!” in mile one I looked over to see who was cheering for me that I knew. I quickly remembered that my name was on my tank and it made me smile. From then on I heard more people shouting “Go Tia!” than I have ever heard before in my life. Putting my name on my shirt was the best race attire decision EVER. The miles started to pass quickly. The first half of the Boston course has a lot of downhill and I felt great. There were so many spectators and fans cheering almost every step of the way. I usually don’t give high-fives while I’m racing but I couldn’t resist myself in Boston.

Right before the halfway point, we went through Wellesley and passed the famous screaming Wellesley girls. I’ve heard that many will stop to kiss or get their picture made with a Wellesley girl. I actually moved to the left so I could focus more and left the screaming Wellesley girls to all the guys. Mile 16 is the start of the Newton hills. I felt really prepared for this section of the course. I kept telling myself that if I could handle the Little Rock Marathon, then I could easily handle Boston. I found myself passing more and more runners - especially on the uphills. This was a huge confidence booster. There are three major hills in Boston and mile 21 contains “Heartbreak Hill,” which many consider the hardest part of the course. It was a climb, but nothing compared to running up Kavanaugh Blvd. during mile 15 of the Little Rock Marathon. After reaching the top of Heartbreak, I heard the loudest cheering and screaming ever. Hello Boston College!! This was my favorite mile of the entire race! It did not feel like mile 22 at all - instead I felt like I was floating on air. I continued to remind myself that I was feeling good and that I could do this. I started to believe that it might actually be possible not to hit a wall during a marathon. Typically I struggle in the last 5-10K of a marathon, but in Boston I felt strong and confident. When I saw the famous Citgo sign I knew I was almost home.

“I choose to believe that in the end love will prevail over hate. It is stronger. I know that light will outshine the darkness.”

The miles ticked by and I knew I was almost done. I had pushed myself to my potential and at this point I was hanging on by total willpower. The crowds continued to scream my name and it carried me during this final stretch. Once I made the left turn onto Boylston Street, I saw the clock in the distance and I knew that if I sprinted as hard as I could, I might make it in under 3:04. I started kicking with everything I had left. My quads were burning, but I was almost done. When I crossed the line I knew I had made it! 3:03:51. A new marathon PR by 4 minutes. The Boston Marathon was the best race I have ever run. No doubt about it! The course, the fans, the entire atmosphere was amazing. After crossing the finish line, I was rushed through a long finish chute, and it was around this time I received some water, a goody bag and my gear check bag. I quickly pulled out my phone to call John (my husband). He had been tracking me all morning from Searcy and I wanted to hear his voice before I did anything else. He was home with our four children and I missed them so much. I couldn’t wait to tell him about the race. We talked for a few short minutes and I told him I’d call him right back. Little did I know how quickly things would change within the next hour. I found my parents in the family meeting area, which is located just a few blocks from the finish line. It was so good to see them and we were all so happy. My friend Tish finished about 30 minutes after me and we were in the middle of taking pictures holding up our medals to celebrate when we heard the loud blasts. It sounded like a cannon, or thunder. We all sort of looked around at each other like “what was that?” but just carried on since we didn’t see or hear anything else. Then, I headed back towards the finish with my parents and sister to eat at a restaurant with them before they left Boston. As we were walking, we heard loud sirens and saw many ambulances and police cars pass us on the street. We still had no idea what had happened. When we got to the restaurant, the SearcyLiving.com 51

manager was closing early and he informed us that there were two bombs that had gone off at the finish line. I was shocked. What?!!! Immediately, I knew that I needed to call my husband to let him know we were all okay, but none of our phones would work. (So many phone lines were jammed, but we were told that many lines were turned off due to possible cell bombs.) We were stuck on Boylston Street and it was total pandemonium. All we knew was that all public transportation around Back Bay was shut down and at least two bombs had gone off (although there were rumors of others that had not yet been detonated.) Stores and restaurants were closing and going under lockdown, and we didn’t know where to go that was safe. We went to the Boston Commons area for a while so we could figure out what to do next. Our main goal at this point was to get away from all the chaos and back to where I was staying in Cambridge. During this time, my brotherin-law was able to get a message to my husband that we were all okay and trying to get to a safer area. It was about a six mile walk back to where we were staying near Harvard, and it took us a few hours to get there because of traffic and detours. All along the way we heard sirens and we did not feel safe. When we finally got to where we were staying, I was able to talk to John for the first time.

“Little did I know how quickly things would change within the next hour.”

After any other marathon, we would normally have been celebrating, but this time our happiness had been replaced with fear. Our main concern was getting to safety, and the race we had just run seemed insignificant. Watching the media coverage of the explosions at the finish line made me sick. I remembered running over that same exact place just earlier that day. How could this have happened? I have run in a countless number of races during my time as a runner. For many of them I have received a medal after crossing the finish line. I can tell you right now that no other finisher’s medal means more to me than the one that was given to me at the finish line of the Boston Marathon 2013. In a race that 23,336 runners were able to start, only 75% percent were able to finish. There were 5,756 runners who were unable to cross the finish line. This opportunity was ripped away from them. We saw many other runners on the plane flight back from Boston. The first question we asked each other was not “What was your time?” or even “How did it go?” The main question that everyone asked was, “Were you able to finish?” When I look at my medal, the first thing that comes to mind is not my finish time or the course. The first thing I think of is that God spared my life and I was able to live another day. Who could have predicted such an event? There are so many “what ifs” that I really just can’t even go there. I am alive. I am healthy. I am thankful. God is good. Sometimes I get overwhelmed when I think about the evil in this world. How could someone do something like this? I choose to believe that in the end, love will prevail over hate. It is stronger. I know that light will outshine the darkness. Thank you to the many who were praying on my behalf, as well as for the thousands of others who were in Boston on Monday, April 15th. Continued prayers for all those involved in this tragedy.  52 Your Hometown Magazine

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B lind t aekwondo c hampion l ives a nd c ompetes w ith G od’s p ower Story and Photos By Warren Watkins

od’s power brings faith and confidence to one young Arkansas lady who has become a martial arts champion exhibiting a fierce grace. “The Blind Ninja lives here.” The message is written above a pastel depiction of a diminutive ninja on a blackboard hung near the front door of Heidi Kottke’s apartment. Kottke, 35, an Arkansas taekwondo champion with a second degree black belt in that martial art and a first degree black belt in judo, has been blind from birth after a doctor gave her mother a prescription drug banned from use with the pregnant, she said. Challenged from the start

Born in Tyler, Texas, Kottke remembers colors and shapes from her young childhood but nothing else concerning sight. Her family moved to Clarksville when she was eight, and there encountered a lack of understanding of the blind, Kottke remembers. “The school system decided I was too stupid to learn and put me in a resource room,” she said. Her father, a carpenter, and her mother, a seamstress known for her ability to make wedding dresses from scratch, enrolled their daughter at age 10 at the Arkansas School for the Blind in Little Rock. “I was 300 miles from home and 10 years old. I cried every night for the first two weeks,” Kottke said. “I hated it for the first two years.” But then Kottke made a decision to be an overcomer, not a victim. During her years at the school, Kottke became a gym rat who only went to class to get her academic requirements out of the way, then went back to the gym as soon as possible. She was involved in softball, weightlifting, wrestling and track. And when she wasn’t on the field or court, Kottke was a cheerleader on the sidelines. In 1994, the school’s cheerleading squad was the first from a handicapped school that qualified for state-level competition against squads from sighted schools, eventually coming in third in the state. “We had two completely blind girls throwing two other completely blind girls into the air,” Kottke said. “They were cheering and jumping out of the stands.” Athletic accomplishments like that are not only a testament to each girl’s courage, Kottke said, but to a larger principle. “We had to learn to trust each other and work as a team,” she said. 54 Your Hometown Magazine

After she graduated, Kottke and her family moved to a horse ranch on Highway 110 north of Clinton, where she trained horses for five years. Kottke had a special relationship with her favorite horse, a tri-color paint named Reno who was blind in one eye. “She would see for me,” Kottke said. “I didn’t put a bridle on her, just rode her bareback. After we rode she would go back to the stable by herself.” Kottke’s father died in 2011 and her mother moved back to Texas, but her brother and sister still live nearby. Hands-on learning

Something had happened during her formative years that forged a fighting spirit in Kottke; when she had been far from home and on her own at the school for the blind, she learned how to make her way in an often-cruel world. “I was bullied a lot in high school,” Kottke said. “I wanted to get into martial arts so I could fight back. Now, I won’t let anybody push me around.” Kottke began martial arts training in 2002 and is a student at the Christian Academy of Martial Arts in Clinton, where Ricky Scott of Marshall is an instructor, along with Mike Pickle. Marshall is a nationally certified coach who teaches with the North Central Arkansas Judo Club. Her first obstacle was her timid attitude, Pickle said.

“I had been beaten up too much,” Kottke said, recalling incidents where she was taken advantage of while growing up. Her coaches worked on her confidence, but were challenged to come up with ways to show Kottke the correct stances and moves, said Pickle, eventually coming up with a hands-on approach. “They would have to literally put her body in the proper position like a posable doll,” Pickle said. Using her sense of touch, Kottke would “read” her coach’s body language. “They would stand in a position, and I would feel of the position and know what to do,” Kottke said. Sparring began at the red belt level. “Because she was blind, I taught her to hit 100 percent,” Pickle said. “After she learned that, I taught her to back off.” One “aha” moment for Kottke came when she found out why she was often off balance. Her instructors puzzled over the problem until one of them realized that, because she was blind, Kottke wasn’t turning her head to “look” where she was going. Since the stances and moves were designed for the sighted, it was assumed that participants would turn their head toward an opponent. But Kottke wasn’t doing that – there was no reason to and for her it was not natural – and her body was off balance as she extended her arms and feet as instructed. By turning her head toward an opponent to mimic those who can see, Kottke was shown, she could keep her balance. “She’s a touch and feel person and has to develop muscle memory by repetition,” said Scott, who has worked with several blind persons over the years. “An average person learns 60 percent by sight, but a visually impaired person learns about 70 percent by feel.” Fighting a blind girl

In competition, Kottke performs incredibly well, earning top honors. Sparring in a tournament was intimidating, she said. “I thought, ‘These guys are huge,’” Kottke said. “’I’m going to have more than my front teeth knocked out.’ Then I said, ‘I can hold my own.’” Kottke has fine-tuned an “inner sight,” her words for the way she knows things that others know by seeing. I can feel where someone is and see where they are with my mind,” Kottke said. “I see a shadow in my mind, and how tall they are.” The sense is extraordinary accurate within a five-or-six-foot range, she says. “The moment he touches me, I can tell where his feet are,” Kottke said, “whether they are facing right or left or straight at me.” Matches are won by points, with one point awarded for a punch that lands on the opponent, two points for a successful kick and three points for a jump kick. The first fighter to score six points

 Heidi Kottke, blind from birth, uses the martial art of tsu ryu jujitsu kenpo, also known as “judo cane,” to immobilize her instructor, Mike Pickle. The discipline uses a walking cane as a weapon. wins. “My quickest match was 17 seconds,” Kottke said. “That’s when I won the 2009 Women’s Division for the Traditional Taekwondo Association at the national tournament, with about 40 or 50 schools participating.” Scott says Kottke’s blindness is her advantage. “Visually impaired people are faster because sighted people take so much for granted,” Scott said. Kottke also earned the Women’s Division Weapons Arkansas championship, where she used numchuks to defeat four opponents – one at a time – each armed with a quarter staff. “At tournaments, some people don’t realize I am blind until after the match, when I pick up my dark glasses and cane,” Kottke said. Opponents, fellow students and coaches consistently use one word to describe Kottke’s fighting style: Aggressive. “She’s aggressive but she has sensitivity,” Scott said. “She does things gracefully and she has compassion and concentration in her technique. She holds herself back because she doesn’t know when the pain factor begins.” Gary Jones, also a student at the Christian Academy of Martial Arts, served as an ukei, what outsiders might call a crash test dummy, for Kottke as she performed for a trio of judges to earn her black belt in judo September 22. “She can’t see, but she still goes in for an attack,” Jones said. “She’ll grab you in places and push you in places you don’t expect.

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I don’t underestimate her because I don’t know what she’s capable of doing. You can’t tell. Anything can pop up. She’s a black belt because she earned a black belt. They don’t give it to her.” Scott has taught Kottke about half the time and Pickle the other half. “What I’m looking for in a black belt is some confidence in the technique,” Scott said. “Ladies should be more graceful. We look at them as the fairer sex but in reality they are the more aggressive of the species.” Internal power source The foundation of her will to survive and thrive is a deep source of Spiritual power, Kottke said. “The only reason I’ve gotten as far as I have is I’ve learned to lean on God,” said Kottke, who is an active member of Grace Community Church in Clinton. “He’s the only one that’s been there for me at all times.” Kottke’s spiritual journey began as a child while attending a small church in Clarksville, where she prayed a specific prayer as Christmas approached. “I got my Christmas wish,” Kottke said. “I wanted snow. I got three feet of snow. When I got that wish, that night when I went to sleep, I thought, ‘He does listen and he does care, and so I’m going to ask Him to keep me.’” Baptized at age 10 in the river in Kings Canyon, even that experience was unique: When her face came out of the water she just swam away from the preacher. “The pastor said, ‘Look at that, I bring them to God and they swim away,’” Kottke said. Today her Braille Bible is a huge multi-volume set of notebooks that occupies 20 feet of shelf space. “I’ve been through so many things,” Kottke said. “I can feel Him. People look at me and say, ‘Why are you smiling like that?’ and I say, ‘That’s when God was touching me at those times.” Someone asked her how she does so well being blind and alone. “I said, ‘I’m not alone. God is with me,’” Kottke said. “When I

was a kid and down and alone and not feeling well, I’d talk to God and start to feeling better. I am not alone.”

“ The only reason I’ve gotten as far as I have is I’ve learned to lean on God...” Her gift of encouragement is built on a deep empathy and the gift of discernment. “I can feel how people are feeling around me. It’s not mind reading, I can feel how someone around me is angry, hurt, sad or sick,” Kottke said. “The bad thing is that it makes me feel sick. Some of them I know I just need to touch them and it goes away.” Empowering the weak Kottke has taught a self-defense class for women, assuring her students they can be steel magnolias, ladies who take care of themselves. “You can be strong and be feminine,” Kottke said. There were two victims in one class, one of a mugging. “They were so weak,” Kottke said. “Finally, I had them taking their shoes off and breaking boards. When they left the class they had no fear. Both have self-confidence now. One of them got the nerve to move on with her life, something she had been avoiding for three years after the incident with the mugger.” Her courage was well earned, Kottke said. “I’ve been living on my own since I was 18, and I did what I had to do because it had to be done. Where there’s a will, there’s a way,” Kottke said. “There’s still a lot I can’t do, but there is a lot I can do that no one can see. I have survived.” Passing on that mettle to others

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 This horizontal elbow lock stops opponents like her instructor Mike Pickle, said taekwondo Arkansas state champion Heidi Kottke of Clinton, who has been blind from birth.

is part of her life. “They need to know you can have the courage if you just try. Just try.” Martial arts are about character, Scott said. “I teach people to have confidence in their own abilities,” Scott said. “Martial arts is not about fighting and self-defense. It’s about character development.”

 Instructors Mike Pickle, left, and Richard Scott split time coaching Heidi Kottke at the Christian Academy of Martial Arts in Clinton.

The F u ture Recently Kottke has begun instruction in tsu ryu jujitsu kenpo, also known as “judo cane,” a discipline that uses a walking cane as a weapon. Since a white cane has become symbolic of the blind, Kottke is aware of the irony. Kottke’s dream is to own her own dojo, a taekwondo school, and because of the fierce grace that is the defining part of her character, that goal may soon be reality. “I’ve always wanted to be a coach,” Kottke said, recalling her days in high school as a gym rat. “I love teaching athletes.” Kottke’s dream of opening her own dojo came a step closer October 2 when she earned her trainer’s certification at a workshop in Texas. She is now raising funds to open the school, which she has named “Next Generation Martial Arts Academy,” and can be invited to demonstrate her skills and do motivational speaking at churches or other groups by calling (501) 757-1099. 

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The Searcy Living Foster Care Boutique is simply a room we have dedicated in the Searcy Living business office. Our awesome Searcy Living readers bring in donations and DHS case workers and foster parents get what they need for foster and disadvantaged children at no cost. Our office is located at 812 S. Main Street in Searcy. We welcome gently used or new items. Thank you, Searcy, for your generosity and time spent to support the Foster Care Boutique!

We do our best to provide “shopping” bags for the foster parents and case workers so they can fill it up for every child. This used to help us keep up with how many children were being served. We were over 1,000 bags some time ago, however we have lost count over the past several months. Just know that your donations are helping A LOT of children!

As of this publication’s press date there are over 161 children in the foster care system just in White County and approximately 4,000 in the state of Arkansas. Thank you for helping!

Thank You!

Thank you to Rhea Lana’s for your donation!

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Cade and Connor Crotts donated a large amount of Easter items and Easter baskets.

Jaheim Johnson

Needed Items for the Foster Care Boutique: • Baby Shampoo • Diapers! All sizes. • Flip Flops • Volunteers to sort (no need to call for appointment, just stop by the Searcy Living office during volunteer hours between 1pm and 5pm.)

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Harding University Bisons for Christ Day Ladies of Sigma Phi Mu Social Club volunteered in the Boutique and did a great job of switching out the seasons!

Camera Shy Donors: Donation of diapers from Rachel Jordan

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Thank You! Donna Turner and Barbara Taylor

Thank You! Thank You!

To NorthStar EMS for the diaper donation.

Liberty Christian Donation for The Foster Care Boutique.

Thank You! For the emergency bags from The White County Community Foundation.

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Story by Tommy Conder Photos by John Dewey

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Susan and I have never backed down from a challenge that we thought might work, and work it has been.

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am sure you, like so many others, are wondering where we came up with the idea to build an obstacle/endurance course. It started last year when David Payne, a friend of ours who owns Payne’s Supply, a sporting goods store in Batesville, came back from Amity telling us how much fun he had going through the Warrior Dash. He convinced us it would be lots of fun having a local course. Susan and I spent many days, back and forth, discussing different ideas and plans and, as always, we leaped head first into the idea. Over the years, Susan and I have done many things together. We have custom built homes, cedar furniture, staircases, decks and so on… We’ve had a chicken farm, horse farm, cattle farm, fish farm and, according to the Federal I.R.S. Auditors, a “hobby farm.” They just don’t know how much work goes into a so-called hobby farm. Susan has been a full time nurse through most of the time that we have done all of these things. At present, we also have a construction company doing dirt work and land clearing in all of our spare time. Then, through all of this, we decided to try building an endurance course. Susan and I have never backed down from a challenge that we thought might work, and work it

has been. During all of these adventures, Susan has been through many trials and hold backs. She went through stage 3 colon cancer that was also found in her lymph nodes, 6 months of the most extreme chemo, 3 major surgeries, tick fever and now has cirrhosis of the liver from the chemo. With God’s healing, she has made it through all of these things and is now cancer free. Now, it is time to have fun… Susan enjoys every part of this adventure and thoroughly enjoys seeing people have fun on the course she helped design and build. We started out with red ribbons, laying out different routes through the woods, fields, valleys and water. Then came about 3 months of dozer work, along with trackhoes, back-hoes and tractors - along with lots of labor from local help. Thanks to a good banker and lots of doors being opened through God’s help, we were able to be ready for our first event October 20, 2012. Even though we only had a short time to advertise and do planning, we counted the event a big success. We had a small turnout, but a big positive response. We offered a survey on our website for comments after the event and the response was very good. We asked for suggestions and received some good ones. Everyone

 This is the entry for the water obstacles with a view of the Lodge in the background.

 Hay pyramid (covered in slick plastic, 4 ft jump to each level) - Tommy said his grand children have mastered this obstacle by one boosting the other up a level. The other then turns around to pull up the one from the lower level. said they had lots of fun and were looking forward to the next event. Some suggested making it a little more difficult, so we have… We’ve added more distance, from 5k to 5 miles, enlarged some obstacles, and we have even added some new ones. I have had several people ask me how I came up with the ideas that I have, and I really can’t tell them. I guess many years ago, as a kid, we lived on a small income so we didn’t get to buy many things to have fun with. As a kid, I built my own forts, go-carts, rafts, sleds, tunnels and things to climb on or over. I’m saying that, to say this. All my life I have enjoyed building things to have fun with! Maybe the kid is still in me at 59 years old. I truly believe life is what you make of it. Even through the hard times, I was taught that you can still enjoy life. With God’s help, I hope to have many more years to enjoy my family and friends. We now have 8 grandchildren, some of them being old enough that we can have lots of fun with on our course. Especially on the 60 foot waterslide! We have

enjoyed doing things over the years with our kids and now, with their help, we are still able to enjoy lots of things on the farm. Over the years, Susan and I have tried lots of things, some have worked and some haven’t. I suppose we will probably try a few more, but in our grandchildren’s eyes we probably won’t top this one. This year, we are giving back a percentage of our registration fees to the American Cancer Society Relay For Life. Through God’s guidance and the cancer research team, Susan is back to enjoying life. Lizard Creek is an Arkansas Adventure Race in Judsonia, AR. For more information go to RunLizardCreek.com. 

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QUICK FACTS Tommy, Susan and John are working on building a kids obstacle course for the future. 10% of the proceeds go to Relay for Life. The Lodge address is 102 Two Moons Lane Judsonia, AR (in the Roosevelt Community, 20 miles north of Searcy). Facebook link is on the website runlizardcreek.com. 64 Your Hometown Magazine

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Harding University Center for Drug and Health Information

HPV Vaccine - Not Just for Women Anymore

Katy Jang, Doctor of Pharmacy Candidate

Did you know that the incidence of cervical cancer in White County, Arkansas is almost double the national average? Human papillomavirus (HPV) is a sexually transmitted virus that can lead to cervical cancer and genital warts. According to the National Cancer Institute, HPV is now the most common sexually transmitted infection in the United States, frequently carried by asymptomatic men who do not know they have the virus. The good news is that there is a vaccine that protects against HPV. Originally, HPV vaccination was intended only for females. However, in 2011 the Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices, a division of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, recommended that males get vaccinated against HPV. The HPV vaccination is now approved and recommended for children and adults aged 9 to 26. Currently, there are two vaccines on the market for HPV-related disease protection including Cervarix® and Gardasil®. Females can be vaccinated with either product, but Gardasil® is the product that should be used for males. These vaccines help prevent the spread of HPV and decrease the risk of developing genital warts, cervical cancer, and other HPV related diseases. To learn more about HPV and how you can prevent HPV-related disease, talk to your pharmacist or healthcare provider and encourage your friends and loved ones to do the same. 

Brantley Underwood, Doctor of Pharmacy Candidate Hannah Suh, Doctor of Pharmacy Candidate

Rayanne Story, PharmD Harding University College of Pharmacy

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Out & About

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A f r i c a n M issi o ns a n d S u p p o r t b y C o f f e e By Haley Rogers • Photos by Kibo Group & Midnight Oil t is surprising to think that one can make a difference even by purchasing a modest cup of coffee, but it can be done, and it is through the Kibo Midnight Oil Coffeehouse here in Searcy. Midnight Oil was founded by Matt West sixteen years ago, who, after some time, sold it to another couple, who recently sold it to Kibo Group International. The coffeehouse strove to become more than just a place for students and the community to enjoy a cup of coffee; it strove to become a global impact through missions, becoming a part of an organization that not only comes up with great ideas for supporting those who need help, but also one that acts on those ideas, making them come to life. Kibo (pronounced, “kee-bo”) Group International, being the organization that eventually purchased Midnight Oil, has appropriately changed the coffeehouse’s name to Kibo Midnight Oil. The group is actually named after that of the highest point in Africa, the peak of Mt. Kilimanjaro. The organization was founded in 1998 by a group of climbers, who climbed up to Uhuru (“freedom”) peak, and since then, it has been in collaboration with other partners for the service of helping African communities to further their abilities in sustaining their villages. The Kibo Group does this with the will of God in mind, helping His children from all over. 70 Your Hometown Magazine

As said in their own words, Midnight Oil’s focus is “to promote and labor for the well-being of all people, specifically East Africans.” The profit made at Midnight Oil covers operating expenses as well as supporting and sustaining the mission effort in the Busoga region of East Africa. The organization has chosen several villages in East Africa in which to help the residents tackle the growing poverty and injustice there. The Kibo Group is currently interacting with and serving the countries of Uganda, Mozambique, Tanzania and Rwanda. Kibo Group International is operating several different projects in support of the mission effort. These projects are all for the purpose of helping the village residents adopt the abilities to sustain their environment in ways that will help them survive. Again, in their own words, “Who better to help the people of East Africa than the people themselves?” In the project process, they began what they call the Mvule Project. In this project, they start by funding the planting of Mvule Trees. A man named Abraham, who plays a large

role in the whole process, is the man that travels to the villages and asks the residents if they’d like to participate in the project of planting the tree for their community. If they agree, they take on the responsibility and it becomes a group effort, something that brings them together to be an environmental source and social source. From there, the project may progress to that of giving them goats to sell or trade. They also work hard with the help of Kibo friends to incorporate a way to assist in a project that surrounds their water source, creating ways to purify their water. Because of the help given, they have been able to start drilling and digging wells for several communities in Uganda and Mozambique. At present, 63 people have begun the Mvule Project in the Nabikooli village, as they fund the planting of 200 trees, and in May, they will begin getting the goats for this village. They have plans to soon begin the same project in the village of Kyabirwa. So, in the end, Kibo is not throwing money at a problem, but instead, actually teaching the villages how to fix their own problems, making it much more worthwhile and effective. A way that Midnight Oil is directly connected to the efforts in East Africa is by the association with another coffeehouse called the Source Café. The Source Café is located in Jinja, Uganda and is Midnight Oil’s sister café. It is successfully run by the one and only Bobby Garner, and is a well-known hangout for the people there. The Source Café is in a culture which does not need the social aspect of development as we do in the U.S. but the café holds events for conversations focused on hygiene, water purification, medical information, etc. James Easter praised Bobby Garner’s abilities in running the sister coffeehouse and mentioned

that Midnight Oil holds a lot of great merchandise, some of which is that of the Busoga Beads made by the women in Africa. Busoga Beads are just another great way to help the women in their development in the African culture. It is a part of the Women’s Empowerment focus as a creative way for the women to earn enough money to live on, earning about $900 a year. This amount of money goes far in Africa, I’m told. These beads are also sold here in Searcy at Midnight Oil, and the proceeds of the beads go straight to Kibo, allowing them to fund the effort for people even more. The East African people are creative and talented in nature by way of their hands. They not only can create intricate, beaded jewelry, but they are all skilled at carving, which could come in handy in the future for selling ebony wood carvings (a wood that is readily available in their region). Being located right on the outskirts of the Harding University campus, Midnight Oil receives much business from the students on a daily basis. Though this is a great source of income and brings in a lot of good company, the coffeehouse also knows how important support from the Searcy community is in sustaining the Kibo project. Due to its close proximity to Harding, it’s sometimes perceived by those in the community that it is only for students. James Easter, the current manager, was saddened to find out that people just down Race Street were unaware of Midnight Oil’s existence, which made him even more determined to spread the importance of their mission. They see their mission field not only being in Africa, but also extended in the community as a place for residents to come together over a good cup a coffee. In bringing about a social atmosphere for the Searcy community, the board for Midnight Oil is planning on activities each weekend

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through the summer, including music events, as well as educational events. These will continue activities done through the school year, such as the Porch Series (music events) and Stimulating Conversations including topics related to politics, religion, or life in general (much like what the Source Café does but suited for our culture). Easter has expressed that they would like to make some small physical improvements as far as the indoor arrangement and the display of more African photography. They hope to send a photographer to the regions which they are supporting through their mission to gather photographs of the actual projects taking place. The desired purpose of displaying the photos is to help Searcy connect with the mission and show how each person’s cup of coffee impacts an entire village. Midnight Oil wants to be a place where the community can enjoy being social while at the same time providing an atmosphere for a quiet and convenient getaway. The staff desires to continue developing the small-town feel of their shop by getting on a first-name basis with customers, knowing their drinks, and appealing to all types of coffee-drinkers, whether it is someone who wants a detailed order or a simple hot chocolate. They want to be there for the community. A goal of the board is to become a self-sustaining business so they can consistently give for years to these villages. This is how your cup of coffee can affect East African development projects. Its other purpose is to continue selling their well-researched and high-quality coffee, purchased from the RozArk Hills Coffee Roasterie in Rosebud, Arkansas and continue staying connected with local businesses such as Sassy Sweets, as they sell their delicious treats in the hometown coffeehouse. Each barista is passionate about coffee, the African mission, and the Searcy mission. The board hopes to make Kibo a local and passionate mission to bring everyone together, so that not

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only would we be a close-knit community, but so more people will know what motivates Midnight Oil. So come, find out about and take part in their efforts to help make the world a better place by way of delicious coffee, precious people, and most of all, by way of the Creator God. More information can be found on the Kibo website: www. kibogroup.org. You can also follow them via blog, Facebook, and Twitter. 

Blog: kibogroup.org/blog Facebook: facebook.com/kibogroup Twitter: @KiboMidnightOil Kibo Midnight Oil Facebook: www.facebook.com/kibomidnightoil Midnight Oil Website: www.midnightoilcoffeehouse.com. Kibo website: www.kibogroup.org

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Miracles

Happen Every Day By Erica Goodwin

he White County Medical Foundation has established Center – an average of 102 babies per month. Dr. Citty, along with its giving program to honor fathers, grandfathers and seven fellow OB/GYNs made those deliveries. other men who have had a strong presence in the lives of “With technology advancing more rapidly than ever before, community members. “We celebrate family through donations we need a new system to monitor our patients, as well as their to the Foundation, especially around Mother’s Day and Father’s babies,” Dr. Citty said. “A new maternal and fetal monitoring Day. Giving a tribute like this is a beautiful way to honor dads system will streamline nursing care. Our nurses strive to provide and carries a lot of meaning with it,” said Foundation Executive excellent care, and I am very proud of the job they do in caring Director Cassandra Feltrop. “The mission of the Foundation is for our patients.” to provide support for White County Medical Center through As a father of three, Dr. Citty knows first-hand the anticipation purchasing the latest equipment and special projects that allow and excitement of adding a new life to a family. His oldest child the hospital to enhance patient Kizzie, 15, was born during his care. This year, gifts given to the senior year of medical school; she Foundation for Father’s Day will was followed by sons Jimmy, 12, babies were born in the WCMC benefit the New Life Center at and Jack, 6. “Starting a family and New Life Center last year. our hospital.” having a baby is such a big part of “This is a gift that will leave a our lives,” Dr. Citty stated. “The legacy,” Feltrop said. In lieu of birth of a baby is this great event, a tie or gadget, we hope people and for many of us, it only happens consider giving a gift that will two or three times during our lives last a lifetime by giving to the – it truly is an amazing event. The Average number of babies per month: Foundation. Gifts can be made New Life Center is the place where in honor, or in loving memory, of people start their families, and we fathers, grandfathers or any other want to make it the best possible strong men. The White County experience for our patients, which Medical Foundation was established in 1997 to ensure that the is why we are raising funds to advance the capabilities available hospital will provide for the future growth and changing medical and create an even more family-friendly atmosphere than we technology. The Foundation contributes funding to purchase already have. That is why we want to encourage people to join us advanced medical equipment and special projects that enhance to be part of this terrific project, so that we can offer our patients patient care. and their families an even more incredible experience than it In its commitment to excellence in patient care and keeping already is through these improvements in technology and more of the community healthy, the Foundation continuously encourages the conveniences of home.” community members to show support for the hospital to provide patients with the highest-quality healthcare available. A Family Tradition From childhood, Dr. Citty knew he wanted to be a physician as Special Delivery he watched his dad, well known and respected Family Practice Obstetrician Kris Citty, M.D., delivers miracles every day Physician Jim Citty, M.D., practice medicine in Searcy for years. at White County Medical Center. He also serves as one of the “We – my brothers and sister and I – watched him establish Foundation’s Community Representatives to inform residents relationships with patients throughout Searcy and White County about the importance of the Foundation’s new campaign to benefit as he cared for them.” Dr. Citty said. “I didn’t understand it at the the New Life Center. time, but I grew to appreciate those special bonds as I got older With funding from the new campaign, the Foundation will help and realized I wanted to be part of that, as well.” purchase a state-of-the-art fetal monitoring system to monitor Inspired by their father, Dr. Citty’s brother Kyle Citty, M.D., expectant mothers and babies born at WCMC. Funds will also be also shared that sentiment. The brothers, both OB/GYNs, attended used for renovations to add more of the comforts and conveniences Harding University, pursued medical degrees at UAMS and now of home in each suite. work in the same medical practice at the Searcy Medical Center Having worked at five other hospitals during medical school and Women’s Center. training, Dr. Citty said WCMC has the most attractive, neatest and Dr. Kris Citty met his lovely wife Jenny at Harding before the cleanest New Life Center he’s worked in. “Our New Life Center pair married his first year of medical school. The couple lived in compares to any, which makes it better for our patients,” he said. Kansas City during his residency before returning home to Searcy “After eight years of use, it has served its purpose very well, and to live, work and raise a family. “Even though it was unspoken, now, we are looking forward to an upgrade.” we always felt a sense that we wanted to return to Searcy,” he said. 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and work on raising our family correctly, the more we appreciate the values Searcy offers. Having people around our children whom we know and trust is a blessing. That is one of the many reasons why we love and are committed to Searcy.” Commitment to Care The Foundation first announced the “Miracles Happen Every Day” campaign to benefit the New Life Center to WCMC associates and volunteers with great success as hundreds joined the PEP Club to support the project. The PEP Club is a committee of the Foundation that is comprised of both WCMC associates and Auxiliary members who donate funds to the Foundation to provide the hospital with funding for renovations, state-ofthe-art equipment and special projects to enhance patient care. “New life is cause for celebration, and we are grateful for the support from our White County Medical Center family. In addition to caring for our patients, our associates also have a vision for the future of healthcare in this region,” said Cassandra Feltrop, Executive Director of the White County Medical Foundation. “We are truly blessed to have this support to be able to continue bringing quality patient care and advancements in healthcare to our patients. Now, we are excited for the community to join us in these wonderful developments that will benefit mothers and babies, as well as their families, in our New Life Center.”

Giving from the Heart In its first campaign, the Foundation raised funds to help build the Cancer Center of Excellence, and the PEP Club also has raised funds to purchase a new transportation van for WCMC and its clinics. The White County Medical Foundation is a charitable, not-for-profit corporation that serves to provide support for WCMC. Donations to the Foundation provide WCMC with funding for renovations, state-of-the-art equipment and special projects to enhance patient care. The Foundation extends the mission of the hospital to create a healthy community through medical excellence and compassionate care. Fathers provide a solid foundation for their families and children. If you are looking for just the right gift, please contact the White County Medical Foundation at (501) 278-3191 or via e-mail at foundation@wcmc.org. 

 Dr. Citty with his children.

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"Star of the Cookout" Burger

Whether you want to be famous for your unbelievably great burgers or you just want your family to enjoy them, these are your ticket to success. Trust me....you'll think twice before making them "the old way" again. They can be made gluten free by using GF bread, too. It would be worth a trip to Freckle Face Farm to buy bacon and ground beef for these, plus seeing the new baby pigs on the farm is a bonus you'll surely get a kick out of! Email me with feedback if you try these and enjoy them. I love knowing people are benefiting from the recipes I share. Happy grilling!

8 strips of bacon 2 slices of good bread, cubed 1/4 c. milk 2 pounds ground chuck 1 tsp salt 1/2 tsp fresh ground black pepper 2 cloves garlic, minced

FRY

Fry bacon until crisp and remove from skillet; reserve fat for use and crumble bacon.

COMBINE

In a large bowl combine bread and milk until the bread is saturated and soft. To the bread mixture add 3 Tbsp of the bacon fat left from frying your bacon as well as the crumbled bacon, ground beef, salt, pepper, and garlic.

GRILL

Shape into patties (I can usually get 8 regular patties out of this) and grill over very hot coals. Serve on buns with lots of good, healthy toppings!

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Across 3. The Source Café is located in this country. 5. What is a beautiful sight from the air? 8. Jeff Pledger plans on working on a _____. 9. The mission of this organization is to help moms have full-term pregnancies. 11. A visually impaired person learns about 70% by this.

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Get the answers, play games, download wallpaper and tons more online at SearcyLiving.com!

Down 1. The key to exercise is to just get _____. 2. Who is the White County Sheriff? 4. Tia Stone was able to cross the _____ _____ safely. 6. What is the favorite room of the Rowdens? 7. _____ _____ is a cause for celebration. 9. Both the adoptive mother and the birth mother are real _____ . 10. Susan and Tommy have had chicken farms, cattle farms, fish farms, and now this “farm”.

Riddles What belongs to you but others use it more than you do? What two words, when combined, hold the most letters?

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Keep your head up. God gives His hardest battles to His strongest soldiers. Show your support for life and help raise money at the same time! Purchase an Official Choose Life Arkansas License Plate for the rear of your car. You can obtain one through direct purchase from the Department of Finance and Administration. Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s make the readership of Searcy Living the BIGGEST supporters for life in the state! SearcyLiving.com 81

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