An
Introduction into Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Ronia Fraser with
WHYAREYOUHERE
• Youaretherapist/coachandwanttohelpyourclientsbetter
• Youhaveafamilymemberorfriendwhoexperienced narcissisticabuse
• Youareasurvivorofabuseyourself
• Youarecuriousandwanttogetabetterunderstanding
INTODAYSSESSIONYOUWILLLEARN
• WhatNarcissisticAbuseisandwhatmakesitsodangerous
• Whatsymptoms/indicationstolookoutfor
• AnintroductionintomyRoadtoRecoverMe®
• Howtofacilitaterecoverystep-by-step
INTRO:RONIAFRASER
⮚ Multi-Award-Winning Trauma Recovery Coach & Clinical Hypnotherapist
⮚ Leading Expert in the field of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
⮚ Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse
⮚ Globally renowed speaker
⮚ Internationally published author
⮚ Finalist for NLP in Healthcare Award 2021 and 2022
WHATISNARCISSISTICABUSE?
Narcissistic Abuse is one of the most common but least acknowledgedformsofabusewhichwithoutfailhasadetrimental impactonthesurvivor’smentalhealthandqualityoflife.
⮚ Emotional&psychologicalabuseatthemostsophisticatedlevel
⮚ Emotionalblackmail
⮚ Tacticalerosionofidentity
⮚ Calculatedmanipulation
⮚ Systematicbrainwash
WHYISNARCISSISTIC ABUSESODANGEROUS?
▪ SevereAnxiety
WHATTOLOOKOUTFOR?
▪ Nightmares
▪ Depression
▪ Difficulttocontrolemotions (anger/sadness/shame/guilt/ emptiness)
▪ LossofSelf
▪ Flashbacks
▪ Hypervigilance
▪ ImpulsiveBehaviour
▪ Cognitive/perceptual distortion
▪ Self-destructivebehaviour
▪ Suicidalthoughts
Often times diagnosed as cPTSD or BPD
WHATTOLISTENOUTFOR?
▪ “I’mwalkingoneggshellsallthetime”
▪ „IthinkI‘mlosingmymind/goingcrazy (gaslighting)“
▪ Idon‘trecognisethepersonlookingbackatmeinthe mirror“(tactical identity erosion)
▪ „Ifeellikeanaddict/(s)heismydrug“ (love addiction)
▪ „Iknewsomethingwaswrongfromtheverybeginning“
▪ „No-oneunderstandsme “
OTHERINDICATORS
▪ SilentTreatment/Ghosting
▪ Triangulation
▪ Soulmate/TwinFlame
▪ SexualExperimentation
▪ SmearCampaigns
▪ Stalking/Hoovering
WHYISTRADITIONAL TREATMENT SOINEFFECTIVE?
HOWTOFACILITATEHEALING FROMNARCISSISTICABUSE
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1.Nocontact!
2.SenseofSafety
3.ResponsibilityforSelf
4.RegulatetheNervousSystem
5.BreaktheTraumaBond
6.UpdateFaultyProgramming
7.FutureCreation
